WEBVTT - Breaking Up with Corporate ft Chris Corinthian & Marc Russell

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<v Speaker 1>I am officially well, Mark, welcome to the Brown Table,

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<v Speaker 1>the Brown Table.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm very happy that I helped you to discover that

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<v Speaker 2>that working.

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<v Speaker 3>I just want I just want my money, that's all.

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<v Speaker 3>I even made a.

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<v Speaker 2>Sign I want my money, and I even had the

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<v Speaker 2>brown shirt all to remind you that.

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<v Speaker 1>I got it. And like, how much money do you

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<v Speaker 1>think that you deserve for that little nugget of wisdom?

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<v Speaker 3>We'll contact your people figure that stuff out.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I know you don't got no people. You're over

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<v Speaker 1>there just doing it all yourself. Is you ain't got

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<v Speaker 1>no people? So yeah, I think if you maybe hadn't

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<v Speaker 1>spend so much money on like custom outerwear, uh and

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<v Speaker 1>that obnoxious uh logo behind you hanging up on what

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<v Speaker 1>do we even call that?

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<v Speaker 3>Your your hoodies in the mail? By the way, is it? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I really have never been more grateful to know that

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<v Speaker 1>federal workers are being furloughed and that maybe, just maybe

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<v Speaker 1>it won't find its way here. Courier vision not career vision.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Well, if y'all have not heard of Mark Russell,

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<v Speaker 1>what's wrong with you? I think you? Have you ever

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<v Speaker 1>been on the show before?

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<v Speaker 4>Mark?

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<v Speaker 3>I have no?

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<v Speaker 2>I lied, I lied, no me and.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, I brought you on for like a yeah, a

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<v Speaker 1>bonus like Halloween episode. That's right, I was just trying

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<v Speaker 1>to probably appease you, like I don't have throw on

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<v Speaker 1>a bone, get on the Halloween episode. Well, Mark is

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<v Speaker 1>the founder of Wow, I wonder what it's called better

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<v Speaker 1>What was that again? Ah, there you go, thank you

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<v Speaker 1>Better Wallet, which tell the people about better Wallet and

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<v Speaker 1>what you do. Mark.

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<v Speaker 2>Mandy's like my older sister, so she just teases me

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<v Speaker 2>for everything that I do. But sometimes people will need

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<v Speaker 2>to be humbled. So I have a couple of people

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<v Speaker 2>like that in my life. Thank God for people like Chris.

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<v Speaker 2>But Better Well, it's all about teaching first generational investors

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<v Speaker 2>how to invest, how to make money work for them,

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<v Speaker 2>and it came from my time working in personal finance

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<v Speaker 2>financial services, working for companies like Vanguard and Blackstone, where

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<v Speaker 2>I found that our people were not represented in the

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<v Speaker 2>clientele that they were trying to go after. So over

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<v Speaker 2>some time, I wanted to take what I've learned from

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<v Speaker 2>the school of hard Knuts, in addition to everything that

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<v Speaker 2>I've learned from me getting my finances together, as well

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<v Speaker 2>as being a financial advisor and stockbroker to provide that

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<v Speaker 2>information to the people. It really started me talking about

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<v Speaker 2>on social media what any other millennial would do, and

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<v Speaker 2>it became the brand that you can see now.

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<v Speaker 4>Now.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm I'm privileged enough to work with so many people

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<v Speaker 2>and helping them build true train additional wealth for their families.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's it was a hobby that became a mission

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<v Speaker 2>and became the business that it is.

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<v Speaker 1>What year was that that you that you left Vanguard

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<v Speaker 1>and went full time.

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<v Speaker 3>Full time twenty one earlier?

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<v Speaker 2>But I couldn't wrap my head around the fact that

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<v Speaker 2>people were entrepreneurs and they didn't have to rely on,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, someone else to uh to provide a living

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<v Speaker 2>for their their family and everything.

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<v Speaker 3>So it took me some time.

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<v Speaker 2>But after a couple of conversations with people who have

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<v Speaker 2>already done it, I was like, Okay, well I'm going

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<v Speaker 2>to make the jump and went back home after a

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<v Speaker 2>conference where I was talking to people about it and

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<v Speaker 2>put in my two weeks and haven't looked back.

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<v Speaker 4>Let's go. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Was that fin Con?

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<v Speaker 4>It was? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Won in Austin and you and I met for the

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<v Speaker 1>first time at fin Con twenty twenty two, which was

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<v Speaker 1>like my return to finn Conn after many years of

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<v Speaker 1>not having been there and like you know, having been

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<v Speaker 1>completely out of the loop. Wow okay, wow right yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but we got the chance again to like sit next

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<v Speaker 1>to one another out of dinner in Atlanta at finn Con,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's when I knew, Like I'm like, oh, instant,

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<v Speaker 1>I want I want a new new brother, new brother

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<v Speaker 1>to my collection because you're just like you have such

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<v Speaker 1>great energy. But tell people, mister Chris, this is not

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<v Speaker 1>this is other Chris. Okay, so the BA fan is

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<v Speaker 1>used to Chris Browning.

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<v Speaker 4>This is Chris Corinthians popcorn finance Chris, who was an

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<v Speaker 4>awesome guy. Awesome you know, I don't know special thing

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<v Speaker 4>for Chris's but I mean Chris, yes it, I mean,

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<v Speaker 4>you give it to him. It's all love. But he

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<v Speaker 4>just miles through it. So I was like, come on, Chris,

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<v Speaker 4>you're representing for the Chris Is. When I listened to

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<v Speaker 4>him on the show, it's just funny to me, Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>You're like in that, oh Chris, Like Chris is a victim,

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<v Speaker 1>you know.

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<v Speaker 4>Chris, Chris is have to stick together that kind of thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you You're safe here?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, all right, well yeah, tell us all about you,

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<v Speaker 1>mister finlack guy. So we got to know.

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<v Speaker 4>My name is Chris Corinthian. I go by the finlack guy,

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<v Speaker 4>and I worked in higher ed for almost twenty years.

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<v Speaker 4>Most of that time was spent in the areas of

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<v Speaker 4>financial aid of financial literacy and I'm coming up on

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<v Speaker 4>a year actually doing this full time. So I was

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<v Speaker 4>working at different universities for adult educators, at vacational technical

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<v Speaker 4>schools and traditional four years. And during that time I

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<v Speaker 4>used to see students that would drop out for lack

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<v Speaker 4>of finances or you know, going to massive amounts of

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<v Speaker 4>debt and still drive out or finished, but then still

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<v Speaker 4>had this burden on them when they graduated. But there

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<v Speaker 4>were other students that I saw that would actually go

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<v Speaker 4>to school debt free. And then I just started studying

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<v Speaker 4>over the years what were the specific habits that they

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<v Speaker 4>had which allowed all of them from various backgrounds to

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<v Speaker 4>graduate debt free. And so that was my focus on

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<v Speaker 4>that along with personal finance, you know, helping students and

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<v Speaker 4>parents with the building blocks of personal finance, right just

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<v Speaker 4>basic budgeting and how's credit established and how is it built?

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<v Speaker 4>Things like that. But my focus now is just working

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<v Speaker 4>with parents of students that are going to college or

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<v Speaker 4>planning to go to college, and showing them how to

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<v Speaker 4>go to school without taking out student loans, without debt altogether.

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<v Speaker 1>Damn Okay, Like what would tell us what's the secret?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, especially at the time latest when you don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if you're going to have federal aid at all

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<v Speaker 1>for education?

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<v Speaker 4>Right, absolutely, So I'll give the broad overview strategy and

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<v Speaker 4>then if we want so, we could dig deep into it.

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<v Speaker 4>But there are certain there were several data out there

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<v Speaker 4>saying that there's hundreds of millions of dollars over one

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<v Speaker 4>hundred million dollars of unclaimed scholarships each year. So it's

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<v Speaker 4>not that people are applying for scholarships and get denied,

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<v Speaker 4>but it's just free money sitting out there for people

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<v Speaker 4>to go to college, and nobody's applying for it. And

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<v Speaker 4>so that's the main foundation. So now that we have that,

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<v Speaker 4>now what's keeping people from applying for these scholarships? And

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<v Speaker 4>most of the time is they don't know what to

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<v Speaker 4>write about when it comes to essays, They don't know

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<v Speaker 4>where to find these scholarships, right, and they don't have

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<v Speaker 4>a real strategy on how to apply for it. Because

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<v Speaker 4>some will apply for maybe five, ten, fifteen scholarships, get

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<v Speaker 4>burned out and they'll say I didn't win anything. It's

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<v Speaker 4>not going to work for me, right, or some people

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<v Speaker 4>think that I have to have little to no money

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<v Speaker 4>or be of a certain demographic in order to get scholarships.

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<v Speaker 4>But there are several types, and there are you know,

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<v Speaker 4>merit based scholarships, which is a lot of the focus

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<v Speaker 4>that we have when we work with our parents and

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<v Speaker 4>students as well as other scholarships. But we don't even

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<v Speaker 4>focus necessarily on the federal funding. So if it's here,

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<v Speaker 4>if it's not, that's just a bonus when it comes

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<v Speaker 4>to the type of money. So we look at institutional funding.

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<v Speaker 4>We look at local scholarships where your least competitive scholarships

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<v Speaker 4>will lie, so with the school district, with your school,

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<v Speaker 4>with different organizations and businesses, rooting for the hometown heroes

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<v Speaker 4>or rooting for those students that are in their local community.

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<v Speaker 4>And then when you have those specific majors that are

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<v Speaker 4>your tied to, then it just brings down that competition

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<v Speaker 4>barrier much lower and increases the chances of success. Now,

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<v Speaker 4>the other thing is it's a numbers game and a

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<v Speaker 4>law of averages game. Right. So, if you apply for

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<v Speaker 4>five scholarships and expect to go to schools that free,

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<v Speaker 4>most likely you won't get any scholarships, right, And so

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<v Speaker 4>one of the things I talk to students and parents

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<v Speaker 4>about is applying for ten times the amount you need.

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<v Speaker 4>So if you need fifty yeah, right, exactly, And when

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<v Speaker 4>you think, let's say you need fifty thousand dollars to

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<v Speaker 4>go to school, you need apply for five hundred thousand

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<v Speaker 4>dollars in order to get the odds in your favor. Right.

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<v Speaker 4>So if ninety percent of the scholarships, which most of

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<v Speaker 4>the scholarships you apply for, will reject you, you'll get

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<v Speaker 4>denied for most of the scholarships you apply for. And

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<v Speaker 4>so we shoot for ten percent success rates. So if

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<v Speaker 4>ninety percent of them say no, you're still good and

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<v Speaker 4>then apply for at least one hundred and so we

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<v Speaker 4>do this thing where we do to today and then

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<v Speaker 4>that's the focus. If you have your.

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<v Speaker 1>Essays, Chris, that sounds cherable.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I know, I know, I know the money that

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<v Speaker 4>you get back end.

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<v Speaker 1>But if you're there, so you're like there to hold

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<v Speaker 1>their hand and like, yeah, coach them through that process, right.

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<v Speaker 4>Absolutely, But the hardest thing is just having your five

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<v Speaker 4>essential essays because you usually use just the same five

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<v Speaker 4>over and over again and just tweak a little bit

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<v Speaker 4>of your story. And once you have that hardest part

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<v Speaker 4>out the way, then all you're doing is wash rents

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<v Speaker 4>and repeating. You don't have to look for scholarships because

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<v Speaker 4>you have them all there. Now you have your five

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<v Speaker 4>essential essays, so all you have to do is copy paste, tweak,

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<v Speaker 4>and so you might spend twenty thirty minutes a day

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<v Speaker 4>just click, click send. You have everything in the drive

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<v Speaker 4>for you. So now you can spend twenty to thirty

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<v Speaker 4>minutes a day and it's not overwhelming.

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<v Speaker 1>As how many of your clients are like, well, can

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<v Speaker 1>I just get chat GPT to write this week?

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<v Speaker 4>So what's interesting is that because I look, when chat

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<v Speaker 4>GPT first came out, you could just put that in

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<v Speaker 4>say hey, I'm going for the scholarship and boom boom boom.

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<v Speaker 4>But now Chat has this failsafet where if you put

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<v Speaker 4>it in there, it'll say, no, we can't respond for

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<v Speaker 4>scholarship things. So now, because what some people used to

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<v Speaker 4>do is they say, okay, here's my information, here's a

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<v Speaker 4>scholarship prompt, write me an essay so that I can

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<v Speaker 4>win this. Yeah. Right, But now most of the organizations

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<v Speaker 4>are doing their AI check to see if you're using

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<v Speaker 4>any type of AI to write your essays. So if

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<v Speaker 4>you do that, they'll catch you. And a lot of

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<v Speaker 4>professors everybody's starting to see if you use any of

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<v Speaker 4>those AI AI southward to get.

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<v Speaker 1>It ooh okay, all right, hmmm, I mean that sounds

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<v Speaker 1>incredibly useful. But like, as a business, how are you

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<v Speaker 1>making money off? Because you got to you said, you've

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<v Speaker 1>been in this for like a year. How are you

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<v Speaker 1>supporting yourself?

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<v Speaker 4>So glad you asked. So when I bring parents and

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<v Speaker 4>students in, I assigned coaches to them. So one of

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<v Speaker 4>my coaches, she went over a million dollars in scholarships,

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<v Speaker 4>and so she helps them find the scholarship. She just

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<v Speaker 4>uses a lot of the same procedures and spreadsheets and

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<v Speaker 4>everything that she does, and then she's assigned to him.

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<v Speaker 4>I have another guy, as a matter of fact, I

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<v Speaker 4>met him in Fincon two. I have another guy who

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<v Speaker 4>actually created a course specifically for writing scholarship essays. He's

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<v Speaker 4>an English teacher, and then he says, there's a difference

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<v Speaker 4>for writing an English paper than it is for telling

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<v Speaker 4>a story. And then he tucks them through the hero's

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<v Speaker 4>journey and all these other things. And then he's assigned

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<v Speaker 4>to him too, right and so, and then they have

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<v Speaker 4>these modules and everything that they go through. But if

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<v Speaker 4>they have questions, they meet with me weekly in a

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<v Speaker 4>group coaching call and then I answer any of your questions,

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<v Speaker 4>find out update statuses along with the other two coaches.

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<v Speaker 4>So that's how I get money.

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<v Speaker 1>And then they pay for the group coaches.

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<v Speaker 4>They pay for the coaching and the individual coaches. They

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<v Speaker 4>just pay for everything, and I walk them through and

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<v Speaker 4>then I give them guarantees. So I say, if they

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<v Speaker 4>don't go to school debt free and they get one

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<v Speaker 4>hundred percent of their money back, well damn yeah, because

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<v Speaker 4>that's veryous, right, because up to a certain amount. So

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<v Speaker 4>it's not like they said, okay, well my school's gonna

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<v Speaker 4>be two hundred thousand dollars a year. I'm like, okay,

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<v Speaker 4>well no.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, which is like not I mean, maybe not per year,

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<v Speaker 1>but certainly like four years, absolutely yeah, that's not unheard.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, but no per year, per year, yeah, absolutely so.

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<v Speaker 4>So so I take on all the risk, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>as long as you do what you're supposed to do,

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<v Speaker 4>and there are a number of things that they need

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<v Speaker 4>to do to me, because it's not like, Okay, I

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<v Speaker 4>don't do anything and I'm just gonna go to school

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<v Speaker 4>for free. But as long as they do the things

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<v Speaker 4>they're supposed to do, then we take on all the risks.

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<v Speaker 1>To keep your number for when I'm sending my kids

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<v Speaker 1>off the car, I got you, I got you.

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<v Speaker 2>So normally you're talking to the parents directly and then

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<v Speaker 2>they basically tell their kid, hey, do this.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>So during the coaching call, is it with the parent or.

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<v Speaker 4>The it's with the parent and then and the students

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<v Speaker 4>sometimes so sometimes a parent and the student are on,

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<v Speaker 4>but a lot of times it's the parent that's going

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<v Speaker 4>to make the student do it right because the students

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<v Speaker 4>trying to pay for coach and they're like, I ain't

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<v Speaker 4>gonna money. Yeah, they were like, I ain't really doing this,

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<v Speaker 4>or but the parent is just like, oh, no, you're

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<v Speaker 4>doing this because I ain't got the money. I don't

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<v Speaker 4>have the money to pay for all of this, and

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<v Speaker 4>you're gonna need to do it. And so far, the

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<v Speaker 4>students that have worked with us, that have done the

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<v Speaker 4>work got to get scholarship.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I mean, in Georgia, I had the Hope scholarship.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you go to school in Georgia, Chris, Yes, yes, okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so we had. I had Hope, but then my brother

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<v Speaker 1>who's five years younger than me behind me, he had

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<v Speaker 1>Hope too, but it wasn't as generous by the they

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<v Speaker 1>had like made it tougher to qualify for the full

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<v Speaker 1>benefit and like, so he graduated with like fifty K

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<v Speaker 1>of student loans and I graduated with eight.

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<v Speaker 4>So I it was only eighty percent of tuition, whereas

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<v Speaker 4>Hope paid for everything. It's like, okay, we'll cover all

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<v Speaker 4>of that for you versus eighty percent of just tuition

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<v Speaker 4>and not the fees.

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<v Speaker 1>But thank goodness, I did not have like that much debt,

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<v Speaker 1>because it really is like you're starting off your life.

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<v Speaker 1>And the way that they talk about student loans too,

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<v Speaker 1>it's almost as if well, this isn't really debt. This

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<v Speaker 1>is like it they really do, and so you almost

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<v Speaker 1>feel like, well, it's fine, it's totally fine, but no,

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's real debt.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, no, it truly is.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean I came out with about twenty five thousand

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<v Speaker 2>and student loan debt. No, I lied, No, it's my

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<v Speaker 2>car payment. It was fifty thousand. It was fifty thousand

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<v Speaker 2>all together, and then my car was about twenty five.

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<v Speaker 2>But it was it was brutal. I was living paycheck

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<v Speaker 2>to paycheck in the beginning because I had all those

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<v Speaker 2>debts payments, and if you have multiple like I had

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<v Speaker 2>one that came directly from Penn State. Then I had

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<v Speaker 2>my federal debt as well, and both of them were

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<v Speaker 2>due like around the same time. So I it was

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<v Speaker 2>crippling initially.

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<v Speaker 3>Damn yeah, I mean it really start off as a

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<v Speaker 3>young kid.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean I grew up in a very small town

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<v Speaker 2>and no one around me really had any money. I

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<v Speaker 2>didn't really get like an allowance or anything of that nage.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't want to do the things that my friends

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<v Speaker 2>were doing that they didn't have to pay taxes on, right,

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<v Speaker 2>So I did everything I possibly could wink wink. So

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<v Speaker 2>I've always had that entrepreneurial spirit, and even going off

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<v Speaker 2>to college, I had to work odd jobs in order

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<v Speaker 2>to pay for school. I was selling plasma, which I

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<v Speaker 2>don't recommend unless you're really in the donation.

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<v Speaker 3>Make sure you.

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<v Speaker 2>Consult your doctor. But I was an ra I was

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<v Speaker 2>a referee. I was handing out like flyers. So I've

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<v Speaker 2>always had that in my blood. And going to corporate

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<v Speaker 2>was the first time where someone told me, hey, you

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<v Speaker 2>only have to work nine to five, and I'm like, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>what do I do after five?

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<v Speaker 3>Like do I do I have to like I don't

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<v Speaker 3>have any kids, like what?

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<v Speaker 2>And I always remember just working so hard for van

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<v Speaker 2>Guard and all these other companies, and then I just

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<v Speaker 2>got to the point where I said, you know, like,

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<v Speaker 2>what if I could do is myself, What if I

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<v Speaker 2>could do with myself and I can work with the

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<v Speaker 2>people I truly want to work with, because as I mentioned,

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<v Speaker 2>they didn't really care for anyone that came from where

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<v Speaker 2>I came from, where they didn't know what a four

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<v Speaker 2>to one k or on ira or a broken's count was.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, over time, something that was a hobby, I

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<v Speaker 2>found ways to monetize the brand. And I mean the

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<v Speaker 2>jump came in twenty twenty one, but it took me

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<v Speaker 2>some time to actually realize that people can live off

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<v Speaker 2>the money that's coming in because for some reason, even

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<v Speaker 2>though I was making let's say I was making a

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<v Speaker 2>hundred thousand dollars at a vanguard type of company and

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<v Speaker 2>the business is bringing in one hundred thousand dollars.

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<v Speaker 3>It just felt different.

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<v Speaker 2>It felt as if that money wasn't guaranteed and the

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<v Speaker 2>money in corporate was guaranteed. And then on top of that,

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<v Speaker 2>I worked so hard to get there. You know, I

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<v Speaker 2>was one of the only black execs at the firm

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<v Speaker 2>that I end up leaving. So you take all that

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<v Speaker 2>and you say, Okay, why why me? And I learned,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, why not me? Why can't I take that jump?

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<v Speaker 2>And then I had to also redefine in my head

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<v Speaker 2>what true success is as.

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<v Speaker 3>A black male or anyone in general.

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<v Speaker 4>Right, And it.

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<v Speaker 2>Wasn't just getting that executive position or becoming a CEO.

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<v Speaker 2>Beyonce said, like pay me in equity, right, So, like,

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<v Speaker 2>I wanted to make sure that I owned whatever I

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<v Speaker 2>was working so hard on, because if I'm working, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>sixty hour sixty hour weeks, and I'm doing it for

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<v Speaker 2>a set salary, why can't I just do it for

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<v Speaker 2>my own business? So when I made the jump, it

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<v Speaker 2>took me about two weeks to realize that I was okay.

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<v Speaker 3>Like I was, I was swimming, like I was doing well.

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<v Speaker 3>And then now in this.

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<v Speaker 2>Point where I don't really have to worry about it

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<v Speaker 2>as much. But it was definitely nerve wracking in the beginning.

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<v Speaker 2>But you find out different ways, you create different systems,

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<v Speaker 2>you hire people, and that makes you feel more comfortable,

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<v Speaker 2>but you know, jumping from one company to another. Luckily

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<v Speaker 2>I was able to build up the company enough where

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<v Speaker 2>I had the record keeping, the bookkeeping. I was just

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<v Speaker 2>basically moving from one company to another, but I just

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<v Speaker 2>happened to have my name on the other one, so

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<v Speaker 2>feel way more comfortable.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean, listening to that, Chris, You're a year

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<v Speaker 1>into this full time entrepreneur journey, and I feel like Mark,

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<v Speaker 1>we actually started our businesses around the same time. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been doing brand ambition since twenty fifteen, but me

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<v Speaker 1>leaving corporate and like launching going full time solopreneur that

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<v Speaker 1>was also like summer twenty twenty one. And I experienced

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<v Speaker 1>my first like really challenging year in twenty twenty four,

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<v Speaker 1>twenty twenty three, and twenty twenty four, where sort of

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<v Speaker 1>like business challenges and personal challenges like could you know,

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<v Speaker 1>just like swirled together and then I was like, wait

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<v Speaker 1>a minute, maybe I should just go on LinkedIn and

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<v Speaker 1>get me one of them good old jobs again, just

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<v Speaker 1>because it was so overwhelming when you're really struggling. And

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<v Speaker 1>then so for Chris, I just wonder what am I

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<v Speaker 1>trying to say. I could tell you A are you scared?

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<v Speaker 1>You scared?

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<v Speaker 4>So so for one, are you sure you want to

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<v Speaker 4>do this right? Exactly? It's my biggest reason why. So

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<v Speaker 4>my oldest son, Chris Junior. He's on the severe end

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<v Speaker 4>of the autism spectrum and he's nonverbal, and so everything,

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<v Speaker 4>my whole focus, my drive, everything is centered around that

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<v Speaker 4>because I'll go to too much detail. But there are

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<v Speaker 4>times when when I was working full time, I'd have

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<v Speaker 4>that my supervisor, Hey, I know, I just asked yesterday

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<v Speaker 4>and I know it's eleven am, but they're holding Chris

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<v Speaker 4>down and he's and they're having difficulty with him. I

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<v Speaker 4>need to go get him from school, right, And they

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<v Speaker 4>were like, you just left early yesterday. Yeah, but there's

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<v Speaker 4>nothing else we could do. I have to go get

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<v Speaker 4>him right. And that's just started happening over and over again.

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<v Speaker 4>So one of the main reasons is just being able

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<v Speaker 4>to have that have a lifestyle where I can meet

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<v Speaker 4>his needs and go be there for him at any

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<v Speaker 4>moment in time as much as possible, right and just

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<v Speaker 4>working that schedule. Even though I was working in the

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<v Speaker 4>university setting and they were more understanding, it just became

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<v Speaker 4>to the point where it was just becoming too much

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<v Speaker 4>and I had to pivot. And so so I have

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<v Speaker 4>like three legs to my business, so that even when

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<v Speaker 4>it's like slow times during the coaching time, because what

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<v Speaker 4>I'm figuring out is that there are a time when

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<v Speaker 4>I'm working with like high school seniors and their parents,

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<v Speaker 4>which is pretty much my main focus group. But then

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<v Speaker 4>there's a time when there's juniors are rising seniors, and

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<v Speaker 4>then I switched to focusing on them, right because those

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<v Speaker 4>are the parents are like, Okay, we're going to our

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<v Speaker 4>senior year, we're looking to get accepted to collegees et cetera.

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<v Speaker 4>But that's one The other focus is my book. And

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<v Speaker 4>then the third leg is speaking, so people will just

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<v Speaker 4>bring me in to speak to anybody. Sometimes with the

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<v Speaker 4>school districts. Nonprofits like Habitat for Humanity asked me to speak.

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<v Speaker 4>And then like gen z So, I spoke at the

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<v Speaker 4>Taco Bell Foundation conference and I spoke to their leaders

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<v Speaker 4>and their scholars about budgeting and money management as a

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<v Speaker 4>college student and things like that, and so those are

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<v Speaker 4>the three things. So like when one area is slow,

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<v Speaker 4>the other two tend to pick up, especially when it

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<v Speaker 4>comes to like bulk orders for the book, and that's

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<v Speaker 4>usually a big surge as a financial literacy one on

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<v Speaker 4>one for college students and try and find out where

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, Mark, yeah, Mark has it. Yeah, he does

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<v Speaker 4>have a sign coffee yep, and so he matter of fact,

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<v Speaker 4>he was one of the first people to buy the books. Saw.

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<v Speaker 4>What's interesting when I came when that fin Con in Orlando,

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<v Speaker 4>I never saw the physical copy of my books because

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<v Speaker 4>I wanted to have it and bring them down there

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<v Speaker 4>to Orlando with me, but the timing was going to

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<v Speaker 4>be right, so I just had it shipped directly there.

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<v Speaker 4>So the very first time I opened the box and

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<v Speaker 4>see my physical books was at the conference. I had

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<v Speaker 4>it shipped there. Yeah, and I don't know how many

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<v Speaker 4>books I had, but it was just an outpouring of

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<v Speaker 4>love and I sold out all the books there. We

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<v Speaker 4>go right there.

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<v Speaker 1>You did like the girls, You did the girl Scout

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<v Speaker 1>cookie version of selling a book table at fin Con.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. And then there was another travel company like a

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<v Speaker 4>travel mL and Company, and they were there at the

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<v Speaker 4>same location.

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<v Speaker 1>And I remember that that was a wild They had

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<v Speaker 1>finn con right next door to the MLM cult.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and they were like, oh ye warriors, like you

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<v Speaker 4>can take it there if you want to, you know.

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<v Speaker 4>But yeah, but but but they sported me and they

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<v Speaker 4>were like, oh, we see what you're doing. And they

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<v Speaker 4>ended up purchasing the book. So so that's how it's

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<v Speaker 4>kind of been been going. And then I just what

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<v Speaker 4>I did was I just try to take as much

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<v Speaker 4>money as possible and then just put her away for

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<v Speaker 4>any day, like I had a business emergency fund, and

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<v Speaker 4>then I just put it in this account and I said,

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<v Speaker 4>all right, told my wife, all right, when my portion

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<v Speaker 4>for the monthly income comes in, you just take it

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<v Speaker 4>out of there and put it to our joint account.

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<v Speaker 4>Said I don't even want to see it, you know.

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<v Speaker 4>And so that's kind of what's been working out for

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<v Speaker 4>us right now. And then that builds a sense of

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<v Speaker 4>security and safety for her because she's like, it's a wild,

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<v Speaker 4>wild West. I don't know what you're doing. Like when, oh,

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<v Speaker 4>what does she do? She's a school counselor, so she's

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<v Speaker 4>a high high school counselor, so she's.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what we do though our entrepreneur like Mark, I

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<v Speaker 1>know that why I don't know what your situation is

0:23:48.920 --> 0:23:51.760
<v Speaker 1>because you don't be telling on nobody. But I do

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<v Speaker 1>feel like we are entrepreneurial people. We are drawn to

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<v Speaker 1>the nine to five like stable, you know, kind of vibe.

0:23:59.520 --> 0:24:01.760
<v Speaker 1>And my husband works for the government, which actually is

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<v Speaker 1>not stable at all. We have learned, but the way

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<v Speaker 1>that I'm like, yeah, babe, just give me your health

0:24:07.040 --> 0:24:09.480
<v Speaker 1>care benefits and then I'll go be I'll do whatever

0:24:09.720 --> 0:24:12.159
<v Speaker 1>you know I do out here in these entrepreneur streets,

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<v Speaker 1>and he just kind of like pokes his head down

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes and he's like, so you're making money, Like yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's great, It's fine. Bye.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that stress is like the importance of like

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<v Speaker 2>true financial management, like as you're going and you become

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<v Speaker 2>an entrepreneur, because I think a lot of times people

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<v Speaker 2>believe that being an entrepreneur is going to save them

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<v Speaker 2>from a financial standpoint, but if they don't have their

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<v Speaker 2>personal finances together, if you go and run a business

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<v Speaker 2>that's like level five, you need to worry about like

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<v Speaker 2>level number one first because your finances will be in

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<v Speaker 2>shambles if you.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't get it right on the business side of things.

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<v Speaker 2>So you know, for me, it was even though money

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<v Speaker 2>is coming in and all the things, I still manage

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<v Speaker 2>my budget off of, you know, seventy thousand dollars a

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<v Speaker 2>year and I'm trying to work with the record keeper

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<v Speaker 2>then not pay have to pay myself more because I

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<v Speaker 2>don't want to increase my lifestyle or inflate my lifestyle

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<v Speaker 2>because in worst case scenario, I have to go back

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<v Speaker 2>to corporate. I want to find a job that is

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<v Speaker 2>aligned to that as a worst case scenario. So it's

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<v Speaker 2>so incredibly important is make sure your finances are taken

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<v Speaker 2>care of before you start the entrepreneurial journey.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Man, I mean, I don't know about you, Chris,

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<v Speaker 1>but it was a lot of like smart financial decisions

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<v Speaker 1>like I was making, and like I was really good

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<v Speaker 1>at my finances, but then I don't have these kids,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was just like something I actually so tired

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<v Speaker 1>because I was up all night writing this chapter for

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<v Speaker 1>my book, which I'm working very hard on. And this

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<v Speaker 1>chapter is called I named it Resilient as a Monk,

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<v Speaker 1>and and in it, I'm talking about building like all

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<v Speaker 1>the things I did in my twenty and early thirties

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<v Speaker 1>to build financial resilience so that I could lose my job.

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<v Speaker 1>I could be fired, I could you know, be sort

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<v Speaker 1>of like corporate couldn't touch me. They could do whatever

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<v Speaker 1>they wanted. But like I was going to be okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and I did such a good job. I kept lifestyle

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<v Speaker 1>lifestyle inflation low. I was like, you, Mark, I was like, what,

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<v Speaker 1>We're not going to be able to pay this car

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<v Speaker 1>in cash? I don't want it, you know, like I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted like a modest home. I went. I did not

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<v Speaker 1>want to spend beyond my means. I wanted to keep

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<v Speaker 1>my you know, I live in New York City, and

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<v Speaker 1>I my friends are upgrading their apartments with every raise

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<v Speaker 1>or every promotion to get that in unit, washer dryer,

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<v Speaker 1>and going to all the events and the bottomless brunches

0:26:36.000 --> 0:26:38.159
<v Speaker 1>and whatever. And I was like, oh, no, no, no, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>keeping my expenses very low so that basically I have

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<v Speaker 1>freedom to fail, to have challenges and to like really

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<v Speaker 1>just spend the money in the way that I wanted to,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, spend it. But I I have these kids,

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<v Speaker 1>and now I'm in the suburbs, and like there's things

0:26:55.200 --> 0:27:01.480
<v Speaker 1>that like spending basically dropping a mortgage payment on childcare

0:27:01.560 --> 0:27:03.760
<v Speaker 1>so that I can be free to do this business

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<v Speaker 1>is so so challenging and like there, I don't know

0:27:08.000 --> 0:27:09.399
<v Speaker 1>if you feel that too, Crisp.

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<v Speaker 4>You see me not?

0:27:10.280 --> 0:27:14.520
<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, yes, yes, because like I know, I'm smart,

0:27:15.119 --> 0:27:19.920
<v Speaker 1>but like sometimes the wisdom the rules of you know,

0:27:20.200 --> 0:27:22.919
<v Speaker 1>the guidelines don't apply to.

0:27:23.960 --> 0:27:26.720
<v Speaker 4>Yes because they're like, wait a minute, where's all this

0:27:26.760 --> 0:27:28.879
<v Speaker 4>money going? And it's like, oh, yeah, these kids you

0:27:28.960 --> 0:27:31.679
<v Speaker 4>got over here, I mean, and you're like okay, and

0:27:31.720 --> 0:27:35.480
<v Speaker 4>then things come up and then with daycare in school

0:27:35.600 --> 0:27:38.960
<v Speaker 4>and oh my gosh, like I would see you said

0:27:38.960 --> 0:27:41.040
<v Speaker 4>you were up all night, but I've been up since

0:27:41.040 --> 0:27:43.359
<v Speaker 4>two fifteen. This morning, my four year old was like,

0:27:43.680 --> 0:27:45.000
<v Speaker 4>it's time to be up now, dad.

0:27:46.080 --> 0:27:49.800
<v Speaker 1>Oh god, so crisp, but why are we My five

0:27:49.880 --> 0:27:51.560
<v Speaker 1>year old came down heres at four o'clock and I

0:27:51.600 --> 0:27:54.680
<v Speaker 1>said no. I was like, let's get you the mellowton

0:27:54.720 --> 0:27:57.920
<v Speaker 1>and gummy right now, because you need to be gone

0:27:58.040 --> 0:28:01.359
<v Speaker 1>right now. Why do they do that? Yeah, I know

0:28:01.760 --> 0:28:04.359
<v Speaker 1>when to go to bed, it's like get up early

0:28:04.400 --> 0:28:06.680
<v Speaker 1>and get your get your hours in before they wake up. Well,

0:28:06.680 --> 0:28:08.480
<v Speaker 1>this is what happened that's what happens.

0:28:08.560 --> 0:28:11.399
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, they're like, wait a minute, that's trying to be productive. Okay,

0:28:11.480 --> 0:28:11.880
<v Speaker 4>I'm up.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So how do you guys manage like the day

0:28:14.920 --> 0:28:17.720
<v Speaker 2>to day expenses? So I don't I don't talk a

0:28:17.720 --> 0:28:20.040
<v Speaker 2>lot personally, but I don't have any kids, like, but

0:28:20.400 --> 0:28:23.080
<v Speaker 2>I'm kind of curious on how you guys go about

0:28:23.280 --> 0:28:26.679
<v Speaker 2>managing your day to day expenses with having you know,

0:28:26.800 --> 0:28:30.440
<v Speaker 2>kids or multiple kids, and then also preparing for the future,

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<v Speaker 2>investing for like schooling or whoever it might be.

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<v Speaker 1>Crizy, I got nothing. I'm struggling. No, I'm told ba family,

0:28:44.360 --> 0:28:46.880
<v Speaker 1>I'm very honest. You know the past and I mean,

0:28:46.880 --> 0:28:50.480
<v Speaker 1>I've just relived so much of my The challenge is

0:28:50.520 --> 0:28:53.480
<v Speaker 1>the last year and the the hardest thing for me

0:28:53.800 --> 0:28:56.440
<v Speaker 1>was my first year or two in business. I was

0:28:56.480 --> 0:28:59.560
<v Speaker 1>doing great and you know, businesses coming in, but like Mark,

0:28:59.600 --> 0:29:02.240
<v Speaker 1>you know, how many hours does it take? Like we

0:29:02.240 --> 0:29:05.120
<v Speaker 1>were like producing our courses and yeah, you can hire help,

0:29:05.160 --> 0:29:08.480
<v Speaker 1>but like you're still the engine driving the business, right

0:29:08.600 --> 0:29:11.480
<v Speaker 1>Like it's a personality leveraged business. You got to show

0:29:11.560 --> 0:29:14.400
<v Speaker 1>up on social and you know, sell to your audience

0:29:14.400 --> 0:29:16.280
<v Speaker 1>and do the webinars and all that kind of stuff,

0:29:16.760 --> 0:29:21.200
<v Speaker 1>and I had this like of situations where it was like,

0:29:21.800 --> 0:29:24.040
<v Speaker 1>I have a I mean, on the front, it's like exciting,

0:29:24.040 --> 0:29:26.360
<v Speaker 1>I have a book deal, I have my baby. I'm

0:29:26.640 --> 0:29:31.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm so like insanely happy. I love being a mom,

0:29:31.560 --> 0:29:34.200
<v Speaker 1>and I was like, baby, book deal. In business, this

0:29:34.240 --> 0:29:39.320
<v Speaker 1>is my year, y'all. And then actually doing all those things,

0:29:39.400 --> 0:29:41.520
<v Speaker 1>You're pulled in all these different directions. And what I

0:29:41.560 --> 0:29:45.120
<v Speaker 1>didn't predict was the mental health toll that it was

0:29:45.160 --> 0:29:47.520
<v Speaker 1>going to take on me to be doing all that

0:29:47.640 --> 0:29:49.760
<v Speaker 1>all at one time. And so when my mental health

0:29:49.800 --> 0:29:53.240
<v Speaker 1>started to suffer, the business directly was impacted because I

0:29:53.280 --> 0:29:55.480
<v Speaker 1>could not show up the way that I had been.

0:29:56.040 --> 0:29:59.040
<v Speaker 1>And so it didn't take much time before oh, all

0:29:59.040 --> 0:30:01.640
<v Speaker 1>of a sudden, now I'm a really tricky financial spot

0:30:01.640 --> 0:30:04.720
<v Speaker 1>because I'm not budgeting, I'm not saving for the future.

0:30:05.000 --> 0:30:08.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm just you know, I'm just like any other nine

0:30:08.120 --> 0:30:10.480
<v Speaker 1>to five worker, live in paycheck to paycheck. At that point,

0:30:10.560 --> 0:30:13.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm living, you know, I'm just doing it. I don't

0:30:13.120 --> 0:30:14.840
<v Speaker 1>even know where my paycheck is. I'm just like hoping

0:30:14.880 --> 0:30:18.000
<v Speaker 1>I get a brand deal or and I hated it.

0:30:18.640 --> 0:30:21.560
<v Speaker 1>Do not recommend zero zero out of ten. Do not

0:30:21.600 --> 0:30:26.600
<v Speaker 1>recommend and I found myself doing you know, like just

0:30:27.080 --> 0:30:29.640
<v Speaker 1>making the best of like trying to pick the best

0:30:29.640 --> 0:30:33.560
<v Speaker 1>worst the best of bad options, you know. For like

0:30:33.880 --> 0:30:35.800
<v Speaker 1>I'm not talking about like payday loans or anything like that,

0:30:35.880 --> 0:30:42.080
<v Speaker 1>but you know, like not doing the smart, uh textbook

0:30:42.160 --> 0:30:46.280
<v Speaker 1>version of managing my finances. And I've always had a

0:30:46.320 --> 0:30:48.880
<v Speaker 1>lot of empathy, even as a personal finance journalist. I

0:30:48.920 --> 0:30:53.400
<v Speaker 1>always hated advice that felt too sterile, like not really

0:30:53.560 --> 0:30:55.960
<v Speaker 1>leaving room for the human element. And I just have

0:30:56.080 --> 0:31:00.240
<v Speaker 1>even more empathy, especially for families where you're trying to

0:31:00.240 --> 0:31:05.760
<v Speaker 1>build something and those challenges come up and it, yeah,

0:31:05.800 --> 0:31:08.360
<v Speaker 1>I know what to do, but you know, you know

0:31:08.400 --> 0:31:10.720
<v Speaker 1>what I also have to do is like pay that

0:31:10.800 --> 0:31:15.480
<v Speaker 1>daycare bill and camps and school fees and all that stuff.

0:31:15.520 --> 0:31:16.760
<v Speaker 1>It's it's a lot.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, or like things pop up like okay, we need

0:31:18.680 --> 0:31:20.680
<v Speaker 4>speech now, you know, and that was in factored in.

0:31:20.800 --> 0:31:23.240
<v Speaker 4>It's like insurance only cover this amount, and then you're

0:31:23.240 --> 0:31:25.040
<v Speaker 4>gonna have to pay this arm, leg and a toe

0:31:25.440 --> 0:31:28.960
<v Speaker 4>you know for that now because that's totally unexpected. Or

0:31:29.000 --> 0:31:31.400
<v Speaker 4>things might come up with Chris Junior and you know,

0:31:31.520 --> 0:31:34.600
<v Speaker 4>so it's all of those things that you won't necessarily

0:31:34.600 --> 0:31:36.800
<v Speaker 4>factor in, especially you have when you have a child

0:31:37.040 --> 0:31:39.520
<v Speaker 4>on the spectrum or any child with disability, then there

0:31:39.520 --> 0:31:42.360
<v Speaker 4>are these other factors that just start showing up as

0:31:42.400 --> 0:31:44.760
<v Speaker 4>they as a age, right, and it's like, oh, we

0:31:44.840 --> 0:31:46.320
<v Speaker 4>didn't know that was going to be a need now,

0:31:46.360 --> 0:31:48.160
<v Speaker 4>so some things you could kind of predict in something

0:31:48.280 --> 0:31:50.360
<v Speaker 4>you don't. So now to answer your question, mark like,

0:31:50.400 --> 0:31:53.840
<v Speaker 4>I'll just start putting money away for those unforeseen things, right,

0:31:53.880 --> 0:31:57.280
<v Speaker 4>Like I don't know what's gonna come up, but whatever

0:31:57.280 --> 0:32:00.520
<v Speaker 4>it does, this will take care of that. Right. And

0:32:00.560 --> 0:32:03.840
<v Speaker 4>then even going back to just like living a simple lifestyle,

0:32:03.960 --> 0:32:06.640
<v Speaker 4>like you know, the Finland Guy or Finland University has

0:32:06.640 --> 0:32:09.120
<v Speaker 4>been around for three years going on three years now,

0:32:09.240 --> 0:32:11.560
<v Speaker 4>but it's just been a year since I totally left

0:32:11.600 --> 0:32:13.360
<v Speaker 4>the ninety five and I'm doing it on my own.

0:32:13.440 --> 0:32:15.680
<v Speaker 4>But like I was riding around in a two thousand

0:32:15.760 --> 0:32:19.840
<v Speaker 4>Mercury Grand Marquee, you know, let them know, and that

0:32:20.320 --> 0:32:22.480
<v Speaker 4>truck along, and then my closest friends were just like Chris,

0:32:22.480 --> 0:32:24.760
<v Speaker 4>like you the Finlanck guy, like what are you riding around?

0:32:25.080 --> 0:32:27.200
<v Speaker 4>I was like, mind your business, okay, But.

0:32:27.240 --> 0:32:30.320
<v Speaker 1>That's why they should trust you exactly.

0:32:31.040 --> 0:32:33.600
<v Speaker 4>Listen to that lifestyle inflation that you all talked about.

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<v Speaker 4>It's like it's like I'm like, man, like this month,

0:32:36.440 --> 0:32:37.800
<v Speaker 4>I made enough to where I could just go to

0:32:37.800 --> 0:32:39.959
<v Speaker 4>the lot to buy a car cash, right, But then

0:32:40.000 --> 0:32:43.880
<v Speaker 4>I'm like, I spend it, then the money's gone, you know, right,

0:32:43.920 --> 0:32:46.200
<v Speaker 4>which is the reality. So you know those are those

0:32:46.240 --> 0:32:48.040
<v Speaker 4>times were just like, oh, I'm glad I didn't spend

0:32:48.040 --> 0:32:48.480
<v Speaker 4>that money.

0:32:48.520 --> 0:32:50.920
<v Speaker 3>But yeah, you definitely have to manage your finances for

0:32:51.080 --> 0:32:53.160
<v Speaker 3>your era. I've had to have heart's hearts with.

0:32:53.120 --> 0:32:56.160
<v Speaker 2>Them to say, hey, Megan, like this is just an era,

0:32:56.320 --> 0:32:59.280
<v Speaker 2>like right now might not seem great, but this is

0:32:59.520 --> 0:33:02.600
<v Speaker 2>you know, it's pairing you for the future, and sometimes not.

0:33:02.520 --> 0:33:05.640
<v Speaker 1>You calling Megan out like no, I just used a

0:33:05.720 --> 0:33:12.000
<v Speaker 1>random name. Girl, It's me. I'm Megan.

0:33:12.200 --> 0:33:15.000
<v Speaker 4>I am Megan everybody, But.

0:33:15.000 --> 0:33:17.520
<v Speaker 3>Truly, I would have to have conversation. I will where

0:33:17.520 --> 0:33:17.760
<v Speaker 3>were you?

0:33:17.800 --> 0:33:20.880
<v Speaker 1>Where was my conversation? Mark? Where was my talk?

0:33:21.080 --> 0:33:23.760
<v Speaker 2>We didn't talk about this when I was We had

0:33:23.760 --> 0:33:26.280
<v Speaker 2>a hike in New York and we talked about this.

0:33:27.200 --> 0:33:30.160
<v Speaker 1>Brought my child with me. I wasn't focused, like you

0:33:30.240 --> 0:33:31.040
<v Speaker 1>know that I.

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<v Speaker 3>Flew the whole way to New York.

0:33:32.600 --> 0:33:34.600
<v Speaker 1>You did you flew all the way out for nature

0:33:34.640 --> 0:33:36.440
<v Speaker 1>walk and you flew back. That's why you're so much

0:33:36.480 --> 0:33:38.520
<v Speaker 1>like my brother. That's why I liked so much. I

0:33:38.560 --> 0:33:41.600
<v Speaker 1>was going to bring up community to y'all because, first

0:33:41.600 --> 0:33:44.000
<v Speaker 1>of all, as two men, Wow, this is the first

0:33:44.000 --> 0:33:46.680
<v Speaker 1>time I've been like a minority in my own goddamn

0:33:46.840 --> 0:33:49.280
<v Speaker 1>podcast studio. Okay, come, I don't like it.

0:33:49.400 --> 0:33:49.840
<v Speaker 4>Progress?

0:33:50.840 --> 0:33:51.920
<v Speaker 1>Yeah is it?

0:33:51.920 --> 0:33:56.080
<v Speaker 4>Though? That's family's that's a community, right, We're talking about

0:33:56.080 --> 0:33:58.120
<v Speaker 4>con as the community what they think.

0:33:59.000 --> 0:34:00.760
<v Speaker 1>Let's run it back and see how many times y'all

0:34:00.760 --> 0:34:04.080
<v Speaker 1>interrupted me. Actually, I think I'm I'm the one who

0:34:04.080 --> 0:34:08.080
<v Speaker 1>interrupts way more. You just get excited. It's not I don't, Yeah,

0:34:08.200 --> 0:34:10.640
<v Speaker 1>you get excited. You're like, you're just like anyway, my brother.

0:34:10.640 --> 0:34:15.040
<v Speaker 1>You're tired of hearing that. No, but community and supporting

0:34:15.080 --> 0:34:17.160
<v Speaker 1>one another. And I just need y'all to talk about

0:34:17.239 --> 0:34:21.200
<v Speaker 1>y'all's friendship and your relationship as like a support for

0:34:21.280 --> 0:34:25.160
<v Speaker 1>one another, because the way that I you know, I've

0:34:25.160 --> 0:34:27.719
<v Speaker 1>talked a lot very candidly about my you know, my

0:34:27.840 --> 0:34:31.399
<v Speaker 1>challenges the past year, but it is through community and

0:34:31.480 --> 0:34:34.600
<v Speaker 1>support that I have. I am on the up and up,

0:34:34.840 --> 0:34:37.759
<v Speaker 1>like I got my mojo back, make up money again.

0:34:37.840 --> 0:34:40.440
<v Speaker 1>Don't worry about me, y'all. Brown and Vision is slaying.

0:34:42.200 --> 0:34:44.640
<v Speaker 1>I had everything I needed right, I had all the

0:34:44.680 --> 0:34:47.040
<v Speaker 1>tools I needed to to make money again and to

0:34:47.160 --> 0:34:50.600
<v Speaker 1>like go back to business. But I was suffering from

0:34:50.600 --> 0:34:53.439
<v Speaker 1>that lack of self confidence because of how difficult things

0:34:53.440 --> 0:34:56.200
<v Speaker 1>had been in The antidote for me was talking about

0:34:56.239 --> 0:35:00.480
<v Speaker 1>it and opening myself up to being vulnerable. It's why

0:35:00.560 --> 0:35:02.400
<v Speaker 1>people could pour into me. And I know y'all have

0:35:02.440 --> 0:35:05.239
<v Speaker 1>a special sort of like relationship, and I want y'all

0:35:05.320 --> 0:35:09.439
<v Speaker 1>to speak on that as two dudes like just trying

0:35:09.440 --> 0:35:10.280
<v Speaker 1>to make it in the world.

0:35:10.719 --> 0:35:14.120
<v Speaker 2>No, definitely. I mean I can speak about Chris real fast.

0:35:14.360 --> 0:35:17.040
<v Speaker 2>When I find like really good people like I latch

0:35:17.080 --> 0:35:20.560
<v Speaker 2>onto them. And Chris was someone where I felt like

0:35:20.600 --> 0:35:22.319
<v Speaker 2>I've known him my entire life.

0:35:22.840 --> 0:35:24.040
<v Speaker 3>He's just down.

0:35:23.840 --> 0:35:27.680
<v Speaker 2>The earth, like, you know, straight to business like sometimes

0:35:27.719 --> 0:35:31.440
<v Speaker 2>and I just like having that balance. But you know,

0:35:31.560 --> 0:35:34.200
<v Speaker 2>Chris and I we text maybe like every other week

0:35:34.280 --> 0:35:37.520
<v Speaker 2>every month about any random topic, a little bit about me,

0:35:37.760 --> 0:35:40.200
<v Speaker 2>just personally, real fast, and then we won't dive any

0:35:40.239 --> 0:35:41.319
<v Speaker 2>further into it.

0:35:41.840 --> 0:35:43.520
<v Speaker 1>I'll be the judge of that. It is my show,

0:35:43.640 --> 0:35:47.920
<v Speaker 1>no matter what that sign behind you says, but yeah,

0:35:47.960 --> 0:35:48.360
<v Speaker 1>go ahead.

0:35:48.680 --> 0:35:52.800
<v Speaker 2>I haven't had the fortune of having very close family members,

0:35:53.400 --> 0:35:57.960
<v Speaker 2>and especially family members that understand what we do. So

0:35:58.440 --> 0:36:02.120
<v Speaker 2>my good friends like family than me. They're my brothers

0:36:02.120 --> 0:36:04.400
<v Speaker 2>and my sisters. And when I say that, I actually

0:36:04.440 --> 0:36:07.080
<v Speaker 2>mean it. Where if someone says, hey, I need you

0:36:07.120 --> 0:36:09.680
<v Speaker 2>to be in New York and we're gonna go hiking

0:36:10.239 --> 0:36:13.600
<v Speaker 2>together for whatever reason, with everyone else, I'm like, Okay, sure,

0:36:13.680 --> 0:36:18.000
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna be there, and I hold true to that

0:36:18.760 --> 0:36:22.440
<v Speaker 2>given that I don't have that family component that I

0:36:22.440 --> 0:36:23.719
<v Speaker 2>think a lot of other people have.

0:36:23.920 --> 0:36:27.240
<v Speaker 3>So I see both of you guys being my family.

0:36:27.800 --> 0:36:31.600
<v Speaker 4>I agree with everything he said. I mean, Mark has

0:36:31.960 --> 0:36:35.040
<v Speaker 4>from day one. It's just like, okay, instant brother, like

0:36:35.160 --> 0:36:38.000
<v Speaker 4>I can I can talk to him about anything. And

0:36:38.000 --> 0:36:40.200
<v Speaker 4>then here's the thing about this space, because when you're

0:36:40.200 --> 0:36:44.200
<v Speaker 4>talking about money and you're talking about personal stuff and

0:36:44.280 --> 0:36:48.560
<v Speaker 4>just general vulnerabilities, right Like, usually you don't find that

0:36:49.000 --> 0:36:51.440
<v Speaker 4>guys like, hey, let me be vulnerable with you about

0:36:51.560 --> 0:36:54.399
<v Speaker 4>some of the most things I hold her to my heart.

0:36:54.480 --> 0:36:57.000
<v Speaker 4>But no, with Mark, oh, just I can talk to

0:36:57.040 --> 0:37:00.680
<v Speaker 4>him about anything and then he'll be He'll be direct,

0:37:00.880 --> 0:37:04.120
<v Speaker 4>but supportive and encouraging all at the same time, right,

0:37:04.280 --> 0:37:06.520
<v Speaker 4>Like I know that if I say something to him,

0:37:06.600 --> 0:37:09.279
<v Speaker 4>it stays with him, right, and he's encouraging at the

0:37:09.280 --> 0:37:12.160
<v Speaker 4>same time. Like it's rare to find a human being

0:37:12.200 --> 0:37:14.200
<v Speaker 4>that Mark, this is my brother for life. And it's

0:37:14.280 --> 0:37:16.560
<v Speaker 4>like there's certain things that you could just feel and

0:37:16.600 --> 0:37:18.799
<v Speaker 4>you just know. It's hard to explain, but there's some

0:37:18.840 --> 0:37:21.160
<v Speaker 4>people you just click with and you just know. Until

0:37:21.200 --> 0:37:23.440
<v Speaker 4>over the past few years, it's just been like that.

0:37:23.480 --> 0:37:26.080
<v Speaker 4>Like when I had the screening for the show, like

0:37:26.200 --> 0:37:28.880
<v Speaker 4>Mark was there right, Like I could only invite a

0:37:29.040 --> 0:37:31.680
<v Speaker 4>handful of people, but he was definitely one of those

0:37:31.719 --> 0:37:33.920
<v Speaker 4>people that were on the list. Wait what show for

0:37:33.960 --> 0:37:36.279
<v Speaker 4>the PBS show? And so it was a show that

0:37:36.360 --> 0:37:39.400
<v Speaker 4>started out as supposed to be a one episode pilot

0:37:39.680 --> 0:37:41.600
<v Speaker 4>that was turned into four episodes and it was just

0:37:41.600 --> 0:37:46.640
<v Speaker 4>gonna be in Atlanta area for PBS for the network wave,

0:37:47.000 --> 0:37:50.799
<v Speaker 4>and then the national level for PBS said, hey, we

0:37:50.840 --> 0:37:54.720
<v Speaker 4>need this show. This is something separate. This is my mentor,

0:37:54.920 --> 0:37:58.360
<v Speaker 4>so me along with my co host, certified financial planner

0:37:58.440 --> 0:38:01.359
<v Speaker 4>Jacqueline Shaddock, two of us tag team, and we work

0:38:01.400 --> 0:38:04.719
<v Speaker 4>with real people, real situations regarding money and it's an

0:38:04.719 --> 0:38:07.880
<v Speaker 4>eight episode season, so it'll be in your on your

0:38:07.920 --> 0:38:09.520
<v Speaker 4>local PREVA stations in April.

0:38:11.120 --> 0:38:14.880
<v Speaker 1>Oh, this is exciting. I did not know that. Congratulations,

0:38:14.960 --> 0:38:15.279
<v Speaker 1>thank you.

0:38:15.360 --> 0:38:17.040
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so it's really big.

0:38:17.200 --> 0:38:19.760
<v Speaker 1>Come on here, promote something. Where's your sign?

0:38:20.120 --> 0:38:21.919
<v Speaker 4>God, I was going to wait to the end where

0:38:21.920 --> 0:38:24.080
<v Speaker 4>you do the brown you know thing.

0:38:24.640 --> 0:38:26.239
<v Speaker 1>You can't be waiting till the end. The mid roll

0:38:26.320 --> 0:38:28.160
<v Speaker 1>ads are the ones that charge them most.

0:38:28.680 --> 0:38:31.280
<v Speaker 4>You know that episode and I was like, okay, I'll.

0:38:31.120 --> 0:38:35.239
<v Speaker 1>Just the most expensive ads. No, the most expensive real

0:38:35.320 --> 0:38:37.239
<v Speaker 1>estate in a podcast is the middle of the show

0:38:37.320 --> 0:38:41.120
<v Speaker 1>because you've got people who are like listening and maybe

0:38:41.120 --> 0:38:42.840
<v Speaker 1>they're you know, not looking at their phone. They're not

0:38:42.840 --> 0:38:44.640
<v Speaker 1>going to because at the beginning of a podcast, I'm

0:38:44.680 --> 0:38:47.800
<v Speaker 1>like skip thirty, skip thirty, you know, through the pre rolls,

0:38:48.400 --> 0:38:49.360
<v Speaker 1>but the middle catches.

0:38:49.520 --> 0:38:51.919
<v Speaker 4>Okay, here we go. So yeah, So that Mark Mark

0:38:52.040 --> 0:38:53.600
<v Speaker 4>was there for the pre screening for that. It was

0:38:53.600 --> 0:38:56.800
<v Speaker 4>at Morehouse College and he was there so it was

0:38:56.960 --> 0:39:00.480
<v Speaker 4>historic and the Stork location and it was it was

0:39:00.560 --> 0:39:02.720
<v Speaker 4>and we aired the first episode, which was a student

0:39:02.760 --> 0:39:05.480
<v Speaker 4>who graduated from Morehouse. It was just amazing for him

0:39:05.480 --> 0:39:09.239
<v Speaker 4>to be there and supportive and like I said, there

0:39:09.239 --> 0:39:11.400
<v Speaker 4>are people who I've known for what twenty plus years,

0:39:11.440 --> 0:39:13.800
<v Speaker 4>But Mark is one of those people who just instantly

0:39:13.840 --> 0:39:15.520
<v Speaker 4>just kind of leap frog to one of the closest

0:39:15.520 --> 0:39:17.840
<v Speaker 4>people that I call frandom brothers.

0:39:17.840 --> 0:39:21.759
<v Speaker 5>So yeah, yeah, I appreciate that, and I think it's

0:39:21.760 --> 0:39:24.920
<v Speaker 5>just so important, like especially for black males, where I

0:39:24.960 --> 0:39:27.920
<v Speaker 5>feel like we won't open up to others, that we

0:39:28.040 --> 0:39:31.319
<v Speaker 5>continue to add people to our network and pour into

0:39:31.360 --> 0:39:34.560
<v Speaker 5>them so they can grow and develop, because.

0:39:34.320 --> 0:39:36.680
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, sometimes it can be it could be a little taboo.

0:39:37.239 --> 0:39:41.799
<v Speaker 2>But yeah, I've had very close friends that sometimes I

0:39:41.840 --> 0:39:44.200
<v Speaker 2>can't I can't have that, I can't get them to

0:39:44.239 --> 0:39:46.799
<v Speaker 2>open up. I'm like, tell me about what you're working on,

0:39:46.880 --> 0:39:49.160
<v Speaker 2>tell me about you know, there's struggles that you're having.

0:39:49.280 --> 0:39:50.880
<v Speaker 2>But the fact that Chris and I can have that

0:39:50.920 --> 0:39:52.800
<v Speaker 2>conversation at any.

0:39:52.600 --> 0:39:56.040
<v Speaker 3>Time, I mean, it really means a lot to both

0:39:56.080 --> 0:39:56.399
<v Speaker 3>of us.

0:39:56.600 --> 0:39:58.359
<v Speaker 4>And I'll give him real number, Like I'd be like, hey,

0:39:58.400 --> 0:40:00.600
<v Speaker 4>I didn't make any money this month, you know what

0:40:00.600 --> 0:40:03.719
<v Speaker 4>I mean, just put that out there. As you know,

0:40:03.760 --> 0:40:05.960
<v Speaker 4>someone who's in front of the public and you know,

0:40:06.160 --> 0:40:09.320
<v Speaker 4>content creator and stuff, like the perception is you always

0:40:09.320 --> 0:40:11.640
<v Speaker 4>have to have it together and you're just you know

0:40:12.120 --> 0:40:15.200
<v Speaker 4>in every aspect of the word, but that's not always

0:40:15.239 --> 0:40:17.279
<v Speaker 4>the case. But you need to be able to talk

0:40:17.320 --> 0:40:19.799
<v Speaker 4>to people who are also in this space and just like, hey, man,

0:40:19.880 --> 0:40:22.000
<v Speaker 4>like I'm struggling, like I don't have it together, like

0:40:22.800 --> 0:40:25.759
<v Speaker 4>I need help, you know what should I do? And

0:40:25.800 --> 0:40:27.520
<v Speaker 4>so Marcus one of those people I can lean on

0:40:27.600 --> 0:40:30.160
<v Speaker 4>in those in those good times and those times that

0:40:30.160 --> 0:40:31.200
<v Speaker 4>are not so sure.

0:40:33.320 --> 0:40:38.600
<v Speaker 2>And in times like this, you can either take it,

0:40:38.640 --> 0:40:42.279
<v Speaker 2>as you know, a time to run away from each

0:40:42.320 --> 0:40:44.520
<v Speaker 2>other and in fight each other, or it might be

0:40:44.560 --> 0:40:47.600
<v Speaker 2>an opportunity for us to come together and say, hey, well,

0:40:48.280 --> 0:40:50.920
<v Speaker 2>though the administration might not be focusing on us, or

0:40:50.960 --> 0:40:54.200
<v Speaker 2>maybe you know X might be happening, or you know,

0:40:55.719 --> 0:40:57.600
<v Speaker 2>there's a long list of things that have happened over

0:40:57.600 --> 0:41:00.760
<v Speaker 2>the last two weeks, we can always take could ask okay,

0:41:00.800 --> 0:41:02.799
<v Speaker 2>this is negative, or we can say, okay, well this

0:41:02.960 --> 0:41:06.680
<v Speaker 2>is our time to make sure that number one, it

0:41:06.719 --> 0:41:09.839
<v Speaker 2>never happens again, and then number two that we're accomplishing

0:41:09.840 --> 0:41:12.359
<v Speaker 2>what we need to accomplish together over the next four years.

0:41:12.400 --> 0:41:13.720
<v Speaker 3>So that gives me a lot of hope.

0:41:15.760 --> 0:41:18.520
<v Speaker 4>Mark knows my story. Like day after the oldest son

0:41:18.640 --> 0:41:20.920
<v Speaker 4>was born, they say congratulations, but we got to let

0:41:20.960 --> 0:41:23.479
<v Speaker 4>you go. And then two months after that, losing everything

0:41:23.520 --> 0:41:28.040
<v Speaker 4>in an apartment fire. No renders insurance, right, and so

0:41:28.880 --> 0:41:30.520
<v Speaker 4>like Red Cross said to give us a gift card

0:41:30.520 --> 0:41:32.680
<v Speaker 4>to get close from Walmart. And this is right when

0:41:32.680 --> 0:41:35.200
<v Speaker 4>I'm in my twenties, you know, creeping up to six

0:41:35.239 --> 0:41:40.200
<v Speaker 4>figures and income, right, you know, going from losing everything

0:41:40.840 --> 0:41:42.880
<v Speaker 4>hit and rock bottom is like it can only go

0:41:43.000 --> 0:41:45.399
<v Speaker 4>up from here, right, And so that's kind of how

0:41:45.440 --> 0:41:47.319
<v Speaker 4>I lived my life knowing that, Okay, I've been at

0:41:47.360 --> 0:41:51.160
<v Speaker 4>the bottom and I survived. So I always remind myself

0:41:51.200 --> 0:41:54.120
<v Speaker 4>of that saying that Jim Rohn says. He says, everybody

0:41:54.160 --> 0:41:56.680
<v Speaker 4>goes through all four seasons. You know, you have your

0:41:56.840 --> 0:41:59.080
<v Speaker 4>you have your spring, you have your summer. But guess

0:41:59.120 --> 0:42:01.879
<v Speaker 4>what's around the corner fall and winter. So either you're

0:42:02.000 --> 0:42:03.839
<v Speaker 4>in your winter, you just came out of a winter,

0:42:03.960 --> 0:42:06.120
<v Speaker 4>You're about to go into your winter. But if you

0:42:06.200 --> 0:42:08.239
<v Speaker 4>just keep holding on and keep the faith, then just

0:42:08.320 --> 0:42:11.280
<v Speaker 4>know that springtime will come again. And so I always

0:42:11.320 --> 0:42:13.600
<v Speaker 4>think that no matter what type of circumstance I'm in

0:42:13.680 --> 0:42:16.359
<v Speaker 4>at the moment, I just know that spring is right

0:42:16.400 --> 0:42:18.400
<v Speaker 4>around the corner. And so I just try to live

0:42:18.440 --> 0:42:21.400
<v Speaker 4>with that mantra daily and just try to tell people

0:42:21.440 --> 0:42:23.520
<v Speaker 4>about it, and then it gives people a different perspective

0:42:23.680 --> 0:42:27.479
<v Speaker 4>no matter what they're going through, it will eventually get better.

0:42:28.480 --> 0:42:32.680
<v Speaker 1>Yep, y, which season do you guys think you're in

0:42:32.760 --> 0:42:36.720
<v Speaker 1>right now? I'm fully in my winter thaw into spring,

0:42:37.320 --> 0:42:39.480
<v Speaker 1>you know, spring chicken, which is very exciting.

0:42:40.920 --> 0:42:45.799
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I feel like I'm definitely in my spring. There's

0:42:45.840 --> 0:42:48.200
<v Speaker 2>things that I've always dreamed of doing that I'm able

0:42:48.239 --> 0:42:51.799
<v Speaker 2>to do now. Like I grew up being around my

0:42:51.920 --> 0:42:54.680
<v Speaker 2>dad and my uncles that would just travel all over

0:42:54.680 --> 0:42:56.719
<v Speaker 2>the place because of the military. So I grew up

0:42:56.719 --> 0:43:00.000
<v Speaker 2>in a very strong military family, and I was always

0:43:00.080 --> 0:43:02.319
<v Speaker 2>want to go to places like Bali or go to

0:43:02.400 --> 0:43:07.680
<v Speaker 2>places like from Mexico to Europe. And the fact that

0:43:07.719 --> 0:43:10.640
<v Speaker 2>I have the opportunity to do that, I mean, I

0:43:10.680 --> 0:43:13.760
<v Speaker 2>take full advantage. There is a budget, but that budget

0:43:13.880 --> 0:43:16.640
<v Speaker 2>is one that is of abundance. That's when I have

0:43:16.800 --> 0:43:20.560
<v Speaker 2>my summers, when I'm here and I'm in my mode

0:43:20.600 --> 0:43:21.799
<v Speaker 2>and I'm grinding through.

0:43:22.200 --> 0:43:24.640
<v Speaker 3>I'm definitely in the spring mindset.

0:43:25.080 --> 0:43:27.719
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Okay, that's good to know. Where are we going

0:43:27.760 --> 0:43:30.000
<v Speaker 1>to see Beyonce in Paris? Then, or like, what's happening?

0:43:31.920 --> 0:43:34.520
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I saw Usher this year, so I'm really happy

0:43:34.560 --> 0:43:38.400
<v Speaker 2>about that. In New York, I don't know if I

0:43:38.440 --> 0:43:39.440
<v Speaker 2>will see Beyonce.

0:43:40.000 --> 0:43:42.000
<v Speaker 1>We'll see interesting. Interesting.

0:43:42.320 --> 0:43:43.040
<v Speaker 4>I'm still.

0:43:48.320 --> 0:43:52.560
<v Speaker 1>Long over due my Queen. She's the reason I woke up.

0:43:52.640 --> 0:43:55.239
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I wasn't even asleep ill you know this, Chris,

0:43:55.280 --> 0:43:57.160
<v Speaker 1>I fell asleep, putting my five year old down. I

0:43:57.200 --> 0:43:59.560
<v Speaker 1>took a little cat nap and a twin bet my

0:43:59.560 --> 0:44:03.440
<v Speaker 1>shoulders effed up, like why didn't we get him a

0:44:03.480 --> 0:44:06.920
<v Speaker 1>full bed for us? And then I just like I

0:44:06.960 --> 0:44:10.200
<v Speaker 1>went downstairs and I was watching clips of like Beyonce's

0:44:10.239 --> 0:44:14.160
<v Speaker 1>acceptance speech and Doci's acceptance speech, and I have never

0:44:14.239 --> 0:44:17.239
<v Speaker 1>been so tired than I was yesterday. But then it

0:44:17.320 --> 0:44:19.840
<v Speaker 1>was like I had a jolt of caffeine in my

0:44:19.960 --> 0:44:21.920
<v Speaker 1>veins and I just got up and I was like,

0:44:22.680 --> 0:44:27.640
<v Speaker 1>success is the resistance, like our creation, like creating and

0:44:28.080 --> 0:44:31.560
<v Speaker 1>making art, and I feel in some ways, you know

0:44:31.600 --> 0:44:33.920
<v Speaker 1>what we do is so creative, and you know we

0:44:33.960 --> 0:44:36.920
<v Speaker 1>are building something, and I just felt so called to

0:44:36.960 --> 0:44:40.319
<v Speaker 1>that purpose this morning. This day is just all one

0:44:40.360 --> 0:44:44.840
<v Speaker 1>big blur right now, and I'm I'm just excited to

0:44:44.920 --> 0:44:47.960
<v Speaker 1>feel that way again, and it's very it's giving very

0:44:47.960 --> 0:44:53.319
<v Speaker 1>big spring energy. Well, we didn't do Brown Boost Brown Break.

0:44:53.320 --> 0:44:58.839
<v Speaker 1>Do you guys know that segment of this? I always forget. Oh,

0:44:59.280 --> 0:44:59.640
<v Speaker 1>let's do it?

0:44:59.680 --> 0:44:59.919
<v Speaker 4>Really?

0:45:00.200 --> 0:45:02.000
<v Speaker 1>Do you know Brown Boost, Brown breakmark? Do you listen

0:45:02.040 --> 0:45:02.479
<v Speaker 1>to the show?

0:45:03.000 --> 0:45:08.839
<v Speaker 5>I have listened to a lot of man, but never

0:45:08.960 --> 0:45:12.960
<v Speaker 5>till the end, never to the end, never till the end.

0:45:14.880 --> 0:45:17.880
<v Speaker 2>So normally it's like at first, like ten to fifteen minutes,

0:45:18.400 --> 0:45:20.160
<v Speaker 2>especially if you send one my way out.

0:45:20.320 --> 0:45:20.799
<v Speaker 4>Listen to this.

0:45:22.200 --> 0:45:24.600
<v Speaker 1>I don't got time to be individually promoting my show

0:45:24.600 --> 0:45:28.680
<v Speaker 1>to you. Brown Boost is good, Brown Break is something bad, Chris.

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<v Speaker 4>Go So I guess it's one of the same, right,

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<v Speaker 4>So the brown break is that you know they're potentially

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<v Speaker 4>federal funds to pay for college could go away, right,

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<v Speaker 4>which will be a lot to make happen. But it

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<v Speaker 4>was put out there, right, so who knows what the

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<v Speaker 4>powers that be are doing behind the scenes to make

0:45:47.680 --> 0:45:50.600
<v Speaker 4>that reality. But the boost is that you don't have

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<v Speaker 4>to rely on that. There are things that you can

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<v Speaker 4>do if you plan accordingly, to put yourself in the

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<v Speaker 4>best position to still go to school without debt, without

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<v Speaker 4>student loans, and even if you don't get those federal grants,

0:46:01.280 --> 0:46:04.600
<v Speaker 4>you could get stuff otherwise. So that's my brown boost

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<v Speaker 4>brown break.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so you're boosting yourself because we need to put

0:46:09.520 --> 0:46:14.040
<v Speaker 1>the link to your book and to your program because

0:46:14.360 --> 0:46:17.360
<v Speaker 1>you actually and there's not like a one size fits

0:46:17.400 --> 0:46:19.839
<v Speaker 1>all approach to like getting scholarships. It depends on like

0:46:20.440 --> 0:46:24.320
<v Speaker 1>all your persons, like your personality, your focus, your education, whatever,

0:46:24.360 --> 0:46:26.719
<v Speaker 1>whatever you're looking for where you live. So we got

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<v Speaker 1>to get people into your coaching coort so they can

0:46:31.160 --> 0:46:32.880
<v Speaker 1>get that help. So they cannot.

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<v Speaker 4>Absolutely if you go to your debt free degree dot com,

0:46:36.960 --> 0:46:39.520
<v Speaker 4>it'll you can just it's a free video that walks

0:46:39.560 --> 0:46:42.000
<v Speaker 4>you through all of the stuff in detail. I give

0:46:42.120 --> 0:46:47.279
<v Speaker 4>this speech at Economy conference and there's information from that

0:46:47.400 --> 0:46:50.960
<v Speaker 4>in there, and if you want to pdf then I

0:46:51.000 --> 0:46:52.799
<v Speaker 4>can send that to you. So there's a link to

0:46:52.800 --> 0:46:54.960
<v Speaker 4>get on a free call with me and we'll actually

0:46:54.960 --> 0:46:56.600
<v Speaker 4>walk through a strategy. A lot of people just call

0:46:56.680 --> 0:46:59.080
<v Speaker 4>for that individualized strategy, you know, even if they don't

0:46:59.080 --> 0:47:01.080
<v Speaker 4>necessarily want to go to the next step and work

0:47:01.120 --> 0:47:03.279
<v Speaker 4>with me. Like it's a free call, so there's there's

0:47:03.320 --> 0:47:05.200
<v Speaker 4>no loss to them. It's a free call. I walking

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<v Speaker 4>through how to do what they want to do on

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<v Speaker 4>their own if they want help and they want support.

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<v Speaker 4>Like I said, I have a team of people that

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<v Speaker 4>will focus on your child if they're preparing to go

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<v Speaker 4>to college. And that's what we do.

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<v Speaker 1>Amazing. All right, Mark, what you got two.

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<v Speaker 3>Things I'm really excited about.

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<v Speaker 2>The one that's top of mind for me is Philadelphia

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<v Speaker 2>Eagles go into Super Bowls? Yo?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you one of those fans? You don't seem like

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<v Speaker 1>you're an obnoxious Eagles fan, but.

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<v Speaker 4>You, well I do.

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<v Speaker 3>It's only really when I'm watching it on TV. But

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not. I'm not. You hear the horror stories of

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<v Speaker 3>Eagles fans. I'm not that bad.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't climb a pole and die.

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<v Speaker 4>But I do.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, that's why they grease the polls anytime that Philly

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<v Speaker 2>has a they win anything.

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<v Speaker 1>They didn't increase that one? Good enough?

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<v Speaker 4>They did?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but yeah, I mean, I'm really excited about that.

0:48:06.160 --> 0:48:09.080
<v Speaker 2>I am a passionate fan where I expect the best

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<v Speaker 2>from the players, but I'm not the type to do

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<v Speaker 2>crazy things to people because they are from the opposing team.

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<v Speaker 3>But I'm excited for that.

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<v Speaker 2>Going back home, back to Phillying, get to see my

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<v Speaker 2>parentals biological parentals, So that's going to be happening. And

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<v Speaker 2>the other thing I'm really excited about is that there

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<v Speaker 2>are a lot of people this year that are looking

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<v Speaker 2>again to invest and get their finance together. A lot

0:48:36.719 --> 0:48:39.200
<v Speaker 2>of people are saying twenty twenty five is their year,

0:48:39.680 --> 0:48:42.840
<v Speaker 2>and they are actually not only talking about it, but

0:48:42.840 --> 0:48:46.400
<v Speaker 2>they're actually going and putting pen to paper and putting

0:48:46.440 --> 0:48:49.560
<v Speaker 2>things into action. So we've seen the boost and a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of people signing up for my free investing class,

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<v Speaker 2>which has been great, and have the opportunity to teach

0:48:56.239 --> 0:48:58.319
<v Speaker 2>people how to invest the right way so they can

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<v Speaker 2>invest from themselves or their family members and then make

0:49:01.840 --> 0:49:03.879
<v Speaker 2>sure that they don't have to get out the mud

0:49:03.920 --> 0:49:06.440
<v Speaker 2>like we had to. And maybe you know, when your

0:49:06.520 --> 0:49:08.759
<v Speaker 2>kid turns eighteen or twenty one, whatever it might be,

0:49:08.800 --> 0:49:11.200
<v Speaker 2>they have some money put away so they don't have

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<v Speaker 2>to struggle.

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<v Speaker 3>So I'm really excited for that.

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<v Speaker 1>In congrats to the Eagles, I'm excited for you all.

0:49:16.640 --> 0:49:19.439
<v Speaker 1>I think everyone's rooting for the Eagles because we can't

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<v Speaker 1>root for the Chiefs right, no one likes them, they

0:49:21.360 --> 0:49:22.040
<v Speaker 1>win too much.

0:49:22.320 --> 0:49:24.840
<v Speaker 2>As a true Philadelphia fan, what we would say is

0:49:24.880 --> 0:49:26.239
<v Speaker 2>that we haven't won anything yet.

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<v Speaker 1>My Brown Boost is gonna be beyonce One Album of

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<v Speaker 1>the Year. The Grammys are back and relevant and finally giving,

0:49:35.400 --> 0:49:38.760
<v Speaker 1>Like listen, I think that like if you're a black creative,

0:49:38.920 --> 0:49:40.919
<v Speaker 1>black and brown creative, like you kind of give you've

0:49:40.920 --> 0:49:44.160
<v Speaker 1>gave up on like expecting the Grammys to acknowledge your

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<v Speaker 1>contribution and like really give you that gold. But it

0:49:47.239 --> 0:49:51.319
<v Speaker 1>was so sweet to see Beyonce peerre like shocked her

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<v Speaker 1>shock at winning Best Country Album and the way that

0:49:54.520 --> 0:49:56.960
<v Speaker 1>she and Jay were the only two who was shocked

0:49:57.200 --> 0:50:00.759
<v Speaker 1>because Blue Blue was like, Mama, why are you still

0:50:00.760 --> 0:50:01.239
<v Speaker 1>sitting here?

0:50:01.239 --> 0:50:04.759
<v Speaker 3>Like in her Julia is too right, Like he was

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<v Speaker 3>pretty much like, yeah, of course.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. She was like go, like this is the part

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<v Speaker 1>where you walk on stage, like do you need help?

0:50:13.360 --> 0:50:16.720
<v Speaker 1>And seeing Baby Blue mouthing the words to not like us,

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<v Speaker 1>first of all, I was like, that's a bit grown

0:50:18.520 --> 0:50:23.399
<v Speaker 1>for you, Blue Blue Ivy, But I love just I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just so happy for her and as big as Beyonce is,

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<v Speaker 1>every time she speaks, I feel like I'm hearing from

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<v Speaker 1>a sister. I feel like I'm hearing from a friend.

0:50:31.239 --> 0:50:35.200
<v Speaker 1>She's just so down to earth and she really is

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<v Speaker 1>like doing it for us specifically, and the fact that

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<v Speaker 1>she's winning awards and having you know, all this success

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<v Speaker 1>and launching all these different companies, I feel like at

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<v Speaker 1>her core, she is still just showing up for us.

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<v Speaker 3>And it really just like the power of persistence. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I think there's so many things that people want to

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<v Speaker 2>accomplish in life and they give up on the first

0:50:56.440 --> 0:50:59.560
<v Speaker 2>try or they hear that first no. But Beyonce truly

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<v Speaker 2>took that and say, Okay, how can I define, like

0:51:02.840 --> 0:51:05.360
<v Speaker 2>redefine what I'm doing? How can I go into a

0:51:05.360 --> 0:51:09.839
<v Speaker 2>different genre. She mentioned that genre shouldn't define us and

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<v Speaker 2>to be able to go and uh, you know when

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<v Speaker 2>in a space where I feel like we haven't won before,

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<v Speaker 2>even though we're the ones that created that genre, is

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<v Speaker 2>truly powerful. So for me, my takeaway was that time

0:51:24.719 --> 0:51:27.160
<v Speaker 2>that you her, know, like, just keep going after it.

0:51:27.239 --> 0:51:29.759
<v Speaker 2>If you continue to knock at that door, someone's going

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<v Speaker 2>open up. And I'm happy to open up for her

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<v Speaker 2>with her daughter right there, Like that is powerful.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I see what you're saying about the interrupting. So

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<v Speaker 1>back to my boost.

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<v Speaker 3>As I did it, as I interrupt you again, as

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<v Speaker 3>I did it, I was like.

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<v Speaker 1>I could just like, can I have that mic back?

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<v Speaker 3>There you go.

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<v Speaker 4>It's just exciting.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, tell me, tell me more about how I

0:51:53.880 --> 0:51:56.520
<v Speaker 1>don't I had to give mic shit.

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<v Speaker 4>I just have to.

0:51:57.920 --> 0:52:01.359
<v Speaker 1>But yeah, the Grammys and Dochy Doc Doci my swamp Princess.

0:52:01.600 --> 0:52:05.960
<v Speaker 1>I feel like Dochi the audacity of her spirit and

0:52:06.160 --> 0:52:10.520
<v Speaker 1>the undeniability of her talent, and her like she's younger,

0:52:10.600 --> 0:52:13.160
<v Speaker 1>she's like what mid late twenties, and I just feel

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<v Speaker 1>like she is the new generation of like young black

0:52:15.800 --> 0:52:17.759
<v Speaker 1>women who are just they don't have to deal with

0:52:17.760 --> 0:52:20.680
<v Speaker 1>imposter syndrome. They're skipping all that shit that like, you know,

0:52:20.880 --> 0:52:24.440
<v Speaker 1>my generation, you know, my age age group had to

0:52:24.520 --> 0:52:27.160
<v Speaker 1>kind of overcome and they're just like they're just winning.

0:52:27.200 --> 0:52:29.880
<v Speaker 1>They're not waiting for anyone's permission. They are just creating.

0:52:30.239 --> 0:52:33.440
<v Speaker 1>They're putting themselves out there. They're being really brave, and

0:52:33.480 --> 0:52:35.879
<v Speaker 1>they are lifting one another up. And that just gives

0:52:35.880 --> 0:52:38.400
<v Speaker 1>me so much hope so to I feel like to

0:52:38.440 --> 0:52:40.400
<v Speaker 1>the answer of like how do you cope with the

0:52:40.440 --> 0:52:43.279
<v Speaker 1>anxiety of everything happening, I'm just continuing to find so

0:52:43.400 --> 0:52:46.840
<v Speaker 1>much inspiration in us and I have never been more

0:52:47.719 --> 0:52:51.879
<v Speaker 1>just excited about the art and the tools and the

0:52:51.920 --> 0:52:54.040
<v Speaker 1>companies and the businesses that are going to be built

0:52:55.239 --> 0:52:57.839
<v Speaker 1>from this really dark time that we're going through right now.

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<v Speaker 1>I think we're gonna have so many six stories, and

0:53:00.880 --> 0:53:03.719
<v Speaker 1>including myself in that, like I have been, I have

0:53:03.880 --> 0:53:06.360
<v Speaker 1>so much more. I have so many more bigger plans

0:53:06.360 --> 0:53:10.919
<v Speaker 1>than Brown Ambition for Brown Ambition rather And this feels like,

0:53:10.920 --> 0:53:12.799
<v Speaker 1>like you said, Mark, like twenty twenty five feels like

0:53:12.800 --> 0:53:17.360
<v Speaker 1>the origin story of what I hope will become a blip.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like, yeah, and during that time, look what we created,

0:53:20.239 --> 0:53:23.920
<v Speaker 1>and look how we we thrived in spite of so

0:53:24.040 --> 0:53:30.759
<v Speaker 1>many forces working against us. And yeah, Beyonce doci those examples.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, honestly you two as well being an inspiration

0:53:33.719 --> 0:53:37.360
<v Speaker 1>of like that persistence. To bring it back to Mark's point,

0:53:38.400 --> 0:53:44.439
<v Speaker 1>the persistence, and yeah, just what happens when you don't

0:53:44.480 --> 0:53:47.320
<v Speaker 1>give up and you expect the failure and you welcome

0:53:47.360 --> 0:53:50.399
<v Speaker 1>the failure because you know it's not forever and it's

0:53:50.480 --> 0:53:53.759
<v Speaker 1>part of the journey. So I'm very happy to be

0:53:53.800 --> 0:53:58.040
<v Speaker 1>in my springtime and to have y'all here, and thank

0:53:58.120 --> 0:54:00.439
<v Speaker 1>y'all again for just like sharing your light with a show.

0:54:00.480 --> 0:54:02.640
<v Speaker 1>And you know, let me tease you a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>Appreciate it.

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<v Speaker 4>We're honored, We are definitely honored to be a part

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<v Speaker 4>of this moment with you, and I know I am

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<v Speaker 4>so thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you Chris, thank you Mark. All Right, BA fan,

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<v Speaker 1>we will see you Friday for the b a QA