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Speaker 1: your production if I heard you.

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Speaker 2: And welcome to another edition of Happy Hour where we're

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Speaker 2: gonna watch Sex and the City. Yeah. I love these Andy,

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Speaker 2: It's just so fun to see your reaction.

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Speaker 1: They are fun. I can never anticipate you've done that.

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Speaker 2: You've done better. You've done a lot of like deciphering

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Speaker 2: of the Sex and the City code. And by the way,

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Speaker 2: Joey contributed to Joey has talked about the fact that

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Speaker 2: they have watched I think all of them at this

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Speaker 2: point because they've really gotten caught up and I love that.

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Speaker 2: So we're gonna have to have them back on to

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Speaker 2: see their review on Sex and the City and how

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Speaker 2: they like it. As a gen zer who lives in

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Speaker 2: New York, I think they feel really connected now, just kidding,

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Speaker 2: but yeah, So we are watching another Sex and the

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Speaker 2: City episode of season three. But before we begin, this

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Speaker 2: is a Happy Hour. Are you partaking of anything?

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Speaker 1: Annie, I am. I'm drinking red wine. I was going

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Speaker 1: if we had more time, I got sent a lot

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Speaker 1: of lemons, Samantha, a lot of lemons. Why first sponsorship.

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Speaker 2: To you lemons?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like an entire shelf of my refrigerator. Wow,

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Speaker 1: I was gonna make some kind of lemon drink. But

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Speaker 2: And if you have any kind of paper cuts, like

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Speaker 2: I have a little cuts on my fingers right now

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Speaker 2: because of my new hobby, that would be bad.

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Speaker 2: Well, I am drinking on sparkling water guava flavor. It

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Speaker 2: kind of just tasts like muskadye, which is odd, but anyways,

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Speaker 2: it's delicious. Nonetheless, if you are also partaking of things,

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Speaker 2: do so responsibly. We are back and we are watching

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Speaker 2: season three, episode ten. I did just get confused because

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Speaker 2: the titles got me. But just as a reminder, we

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Speaker 2: are still doing an listener watch, meaning you one of

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Speaker 2: watch of Sex and the City, you could have never

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Speaker 2: watched it. You don't have to be a fan, or

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Speaker 1: As they say.

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Speaker 2: Either way, we would love for you to join us.

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Speaker 2: So if you are interested, at the end of this

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Speaker 2: episode and you will tell you how to get your

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Speaker 2: name in all you need is some headphones and a

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Speaker 2: don't know. Oh no, no, you usually do it.

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Speaker 1: Christina is magic and makes that work. That's right, that's right.

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Speaker 2: You don't even need that, so hah, so simple. But

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Speaker 2: with that, yes, we are in season three, episode ten,

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Speaker 2: and Annie, can you kind of give us a playthrough

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Speaker 1: Oh, it's a lot of upheaval, a lot of upheaval

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Speaker 1: in this one. But you told me this was a

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Speaker 1: big season. Okay, all right. So, as always, Samantha's doing

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Speaker 1: And then Carrie is dating Aiden and she's been kind

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Speaker 1: Maybe they'll go to brunch and.

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Speaker 3: I had an amazing boyfriend who had all his hair,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and a married ex boyfriend I had slept with

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Speaker 2: It does have intrusive thoughts when you've done something like

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Speaker 5: I am trying good DVD's delivery.

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Speaker 2: I use this hot new home delivery service.

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Speaker 4: You call them anything you want, they bring you within

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Speaker 2: Last night I ordered condoms.

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Speaker 1: Please tell That's so funny because now nowadays it's like, yeah.

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Speaker 2: But you have to pay too much for like immediate delivery.

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Speaker 2: Smell, but I love the smell is always a thing.

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Speaker 1: Also, this is a nightmare that a lot of times,

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Speaker 2: I guess whose car is still not up in our house?

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Speaker 2: It's been never t some years.

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Speaker 4: this morning. Honey, I can hardly blow my nose, let

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Speaker 4: Well, I wouldn't want you to get sick either.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's fair.

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Speaker 5: There's too many.

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Speaker 2: Things going around. Can't be coming to your ls if

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Speaker 1: Thirteen hundred dollars.

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Speaker 1: It's really beautiful.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and we've also talked about how a lot of

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Speaker 1: it doesn't feel romantic, but it's it's smart and rational

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Speaker 1: It's healthy to talk about it and have your own.

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Speaker 3: We gave into our baser instincts. It happens blah blah blah.

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Speaker 1: Are you wearing glasses?

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Speaker 3: No, you sound like you're wearing glasses.

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Speaker 2: It can't happen again.

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Speaker 3: You're married.

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Speaker 1: I'm aware of that.

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Speaker 2: Why does she need to talk to him? That's this

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Speaker 1: I think it's the and she's like, I've got to

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Speaker 6: I can smell the guy on your sheets, wood chips

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Speaker 3: Meanwhile, that night, Miranda was enjoying her new flame. I

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Speaker 2: This is nothing, though, this is not nothing. I will

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Speaker 1: Is it all?

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Speaker 2: But it's definitely not nothing.

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Speaker 1: Always trying to grade meat.

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Speaker 2: Gotta keep you honest.

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Speaker 3: In the meantime, there's always the phone.

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Speaker 2: I will admit I have never ever had phone sex,

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Speaker 1: I've never done either, but it's mostly I'm just uncomfortable

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Speaker 1: I don't want any record of me being like a

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Speaker 2: I've never that's never been a thing for me. But

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Speaker 2: figure out when who's pausing when we're supposed to figure

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Speaker 2: And then I just I'm not gonna hang out in

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we're so socially competent.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, everything's fine, We're completely normal here. Oh, I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: there's nothing about this. Her second line be damp, damn it.

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Speaker 2: Hold on Hello, Trey says his mom won't negotiate. Hold on,

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Speaker 2: are you okay? I'll be right back. How would you

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Speaker 2: answer the Why would you answer? So? Now you know

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Speaker 2: This isn't a good time. I'll call you tomorrow, I answer.

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Speaker 2: This cordless phone is even better though, Yeah, that was

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Speaker 2: the coolesto. You didn't although I'm the fidgitter, so I

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Speaker 2: That's the only reason you get married. So I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: I remember one time I was struggling with like a

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Speaker 2: It's like, okay, Or you have a friend who has

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Speaker 1: Yes, I.

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Speaker 2: Haven't signed the prenup.

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Speaker 1: What are you gonna do?

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I really love him, I do, but I feel like

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Speaker 3: I thought that maybe if we could negotiate it to

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Speaker 2: What does terracay nothing?

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Speaker 1: He leaves his stuff up to his mother.

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Speaker 4: A remedy by honey, you.

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Speaker 2: Can don't if he cannot say no to the mother,

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Speaker 3: Hello, I need to see you, Miranda I'll.

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Speaker 2: Call you back.

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Speaker 3: I'm downstairs. If you don't come down, I'm coming up right,

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Speaker 3: I told Aiden I was taking Pete for a walk,

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Speaker 2: That's a no. If Peaches was involved, someone is gonna

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Speaker 2: get smacked. I do not condone violence, but at this point,

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Speaker 2: all right, I'll give you. I'll give you an a.

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Speaker 1: A for effort. I think I did pretty good.

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Speaker 2: Did you did pretty good? You did pretty good? Okay,

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Speaker 2: So the thick this is hard to come on to.

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Speaker 2: A prenup is hard to predict. But you did say

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Speaker 1: Did they go to a club? They didn't.

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Speaker 1: Now it's like a little function.

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Speaker 2: Yes it's true. But yeah, so this season is really

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Speaker 2: Like this is where I think people realized this is

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Speaker 2: not cool, but they still they still have the big

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Speaker 2: conversation about Big versus Aiden. Still, you know, like team

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Speaker 2: whoever with even that type of ploy, and it's kind

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Speaker 2: of like how did we get here? But there you go.

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Speaker 2: Do you have a prediction of what might come up?

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Speaker 1: Okay? Okay, Oh no, he's that wrong. I think I think,

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Speaker 1: based on my song.

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Speaker 2: Clues, Taylor Swift has done too much.

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Speaker 1: I think I think Carrie's gonna break up with Aiden

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Speaker 1: and I think her friends other than Samantha are gonna

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Speaker 1: find out and they're gonna be real mad. I think

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Speaker 1: Charlotte's gonna go through with this marriage. I can't The

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Speaker 1: Taylor Swift song only extends to what happens with Carrie

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Speaker 1: Charlott's gonna go through with this marriage and or break

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Speaker 1: it off at last minute. I know he's involved, but

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Speaker 1: I also know she doesn't end up with him ultimately,

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Speaker 1: so I don't know. I don't know when Steve is

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Speaker 6: Okay's gonna I think he's gonna get either found out

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna listen to the song again.

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Speaker 2: That's that's gonna breathe the Tale. Okay, I gotcha, I gotcha. Okay,

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Speaker 2: go listen to the album to get your U get

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Speaker 2: your hands. I know that not bad. I really think

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Speaker 2: like these episodes are really interesting. It does bring in

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Speaker 2: a shake And I'm very very judgmental in this whole

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Speaker 2: like cheating aspect. I will say I have a heard

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Speaker 2: take when it comes to cheating, and I know not

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Speaker 2: everyone feels that way, and I think that's like a

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Speaker 2: reason that out. Yeah, Like it just don't Maybe it's

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Speaker 1: The and trusive thoughts that we're being showcased here. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's always been my thing too, Like I don't people

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Speaker 1: person is your safety option, right, and you don't want

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Speaker 1: it's cruel because they it's time. It's time wasted that

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Speaker 2: So did me forever to figure out that's saying by

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Speaker 2: the way, I'm like, why can't I I can eat it,

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Speaker 2: I have it. I don't understand.

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Speaker 1: People like to fight about that saying.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it didn't make complete sense to me.

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Speaker 1: I I this will surprise no one. But there's a

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Speaker 1: they're like, yes, you can, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 2: Literal sometimes and I was like, what, yess A can?

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Speaker 2: That doesn't make any sense. I guess it's mine, so

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Speaker 2: obviously I can eat It's what's happening. I only that

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Speaker 2: I can share it if I want to, So screw you.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, it took me a long time to figure

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Speaker 2: because holidays are too chaotic. Yeah, so, no worries. If

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Speaker 2: by the end of this year. That's not going to happen.

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Speaker 2: But to have your name picked out, we do want

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Speaker 1: Yeah, are in the early next year so you can

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so yeah, we do already have a list. If

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