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Speaker 1: Hello, Hello there.

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Speaker 2: What's your name?

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Speaker 3: Mave?

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Speaker 2: Mave? What's going on? Mave?

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Speaker 3: Okay?

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Speaker 1: So I am talking to a felon right now with

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Speaker 1: face tattoos, and I cannot decide if I like him

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Speaker 2: Where'd you meet this this young lad on tender? Okay?

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Speaker 2: What's going through your brain as you're attempting to decide

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Speaker 2: whether or not you like him?

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Speaker 4: Okay?

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Speaker 1: So the thing is he was in jail for seven years,

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Speaker 1: and that's not really my issue with him, Like that

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Speaker 1: just kind of makes it a little more interesting. Like

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Speaker 1: my problem is when we are talking, like on the phone,

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Speaker 1: he doesn't really ask me that many questions, Like he's

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Speaker 1: kind of quiet. It's usually just me talking and then

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Speaker 1: he like he just laughs because I'm funny, but he

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Speaker 2: Okay, So what so so far, you've only given me

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Speaker 2: reasons as to why you might not like him. Do

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Speaker 2: you have reasons why you do like him?

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Speaker 4: Okay?

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Speaker 1: He has a really good job. He works through like

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Speaker 1: the coast Guard, and he's really sweet, honestly, Like when

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Speaker 1: he does talk, he's really nice. He has a bunch

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Speaker 1: of tattoos and I only have three. And I was

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Speaker 1: telling him how I want more, and he said we

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Speaker 1: should go get tattoos together. I'll pay and I was like,

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Speaker 1: no way, and he was like, yeah, I would be

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Speaker 1: six hundred dollars a day, which is an insane thing

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Speaker 1: to just tell somebody how much money you make. But

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Speaker 1: that's a lot of money. And that's not like the

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Speaker 1: main reason why I like him.

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Speaker 4: It is because he's sweet. But yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if like he just needs to come

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Speaker 1: out of a shell or.

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Speaker 2: What do you what do you do? We know what?

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Speaker 2: He went to prison for.

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Speaker 1: Firearms trafficking.

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Speaker 2: How old is he?

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Speaker 1: Twenty seven? So he's six years older than me.

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Speaker 2: M How long have you been talking to him?

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Speaker 4: For about a.

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Speaker 1: Week and a half, I think, And he texts me

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Speaker 1: all the time, like, even though he's like works a lot,

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Speaker 1: he does text me a decent amount, even though like

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Speaker 1: it's a little bit dry when he does, like he

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Speaker 1: calls me sweetheart and darling and like all these really

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Speaker 1: sweet things. So I just can't decide if like the

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Speaker 1: being kind of dry is a deciding factor and whether

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Speaker 1: or not I should stop talking to him.

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Speaker 2: Uh, what's your name again? Mave? Yes, what do you want?

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Speaker 4: Mave?

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Speaker 2: What do you what are you looking for? What would

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Speaker 2: make you? What in this life? What do you want?

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Speaker 2: Are you looking for? Uh? You know, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Are you looking for like a partner to you know,

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Speaker 2: Are you looking for just you're having fun, you're young,

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Speaker 2: you're going crazy, You're meeting people, you're hanging out. What?

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Speaker 2: What do you? What do you want? Mayve?

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Speaker 1: There is a lot of things I want in life

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Speaker 1: when it comes to like relationships, I just want to

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Speaker 1: be loved like fully and wholeheartedly. I just want somebody

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Speaker 1: who loves me and cares about me and would do

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Speaker 1: anything for me.

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Speaker 2: Someone who loves you, cares about you and would do

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Speaker 2: anything for you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and he like shows me how much they love me, you.

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Speaker 2: Know, Okay, okay? Would you if he if if he

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Speaker 2: brought you a giant box that was wrapped in gift

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Speaker 2: purchased RPG, would you be flattered by that? This is

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Speaker 2: how much I love you?

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Speaker 3: Look at this.

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Speaker 1: Honestly, I probably would be kind of flattered by that

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Speaker 1: extensive You just dropped like five hundred dollars to give

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Speaker 1: me a bazooka. That's sweet, that's thoughtful, you know, yeah.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, Well this is tough, mate, because I really

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Speaker 2: I I don't really want to tell you what to

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Speaker 2: do with your life or what to value. But I

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Speaker 2: would be very careful about letting. I would be careful

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Speaker 2: about a few things. One is if this dude, if

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Speaker 2: you've known this dude for a week and he's he's

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Speaker 2: coming off, well have you have you met him in person?

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Speaker 1: No, he's in Florida and I'm in Virginia. But he's

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Speaker 1: only going to be there for a couple of weeks

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Speaker 1: because that's like his job. He works in Florida for

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Speaker 1: three weeks off.

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Speaker 2: Okay, But and here's that. I would be a little

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Speaker 2: wary of somebody who you have not met, that you've

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Speaker 2: been talking to for only a week, who's already hitting

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Speaker 2: you with the darling and my love and the you know,

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Speaker 2: it's a lot, it's a lot for you know, a

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Speaker 2: week and a half. I don't like to use pop

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Speaker 2: psychology with TikTok whatever you would call it, but are

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Speaker 2: you familiar with with love bombing?

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Speaker 1: I am, and I have definitely experienced love bombing quite

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Speaker 1: a few times. But I don't think this is it

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Speaker 1: because he's not like, oh, really praising me. He's just

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Speaker 1: saying like sweet things, which I do like, Like, I

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Speaker 1: if he didn't. Maybe that's on me. Maybe I'm used

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Speaker 1: to being loved.

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Speaker 4: What.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So you've had experiences in the past where you've

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Speaker 2: met people and they've come on very strong.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I've had a guy tell me he loved

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Speaker 1: me within like two weeks of dating, and then I

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Speaker 1: broke up with him for that because that was just

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Speaker 1: a little extreme.

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Speaker 2: Okay, how did that? I was gonna ask, how did

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Speaker 2: that end up? So you he so that? So telling

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Speaker 2: you're not. You're not finding anything wrong right now with

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Speaker 2: this guy who's uh, you know, hitting you with with

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Speaker 2: all this stuff without even knowing you. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I mean we have like talked on the phone quite

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Speaker 1: a bit, and he's told me like a little bit

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Speaker 1: about himself. I feel like it's mainly me talking, which

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Speaker 1: even really know him that well, which kind of sucks

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Speaker 1: because like, he definitely knows a lot about me.

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Speaker 2: Do you do you ask him questions about his life?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? And when I do, he only responds with like

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Speaker 2: Maybe now you said that you're talking to him. He

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Speaker 2: doesn't ask you any questions.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And though when he does, it's usually like kind

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Speaker 1: of basic stuff like what's your favorite food, what's your

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Speaker 2: So I do, I don't. I still don't. What do you?

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Speaker 2: Why do you like this guy?

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Speaker 1: Because he's sweet when he does when he does like talk,

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Speaker 1: he says a lot of sweet things and he's nice,

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Speaker 1: and it's like, I do find the face touched. He's

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Speaker 1: kind of hot, even though I don't like the He

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Speaker 1: has a monster logo on his face.

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Speaker 2: And that wait he has hold on, hold on, hold on,

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Speaker 2: hold on. He has the Monster Energy logo tattooed on

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Speaker 2: his face. Yeah, Jesus Christ math.

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Speaker 1: Exactly. Okay, that is the only tattoo of his that

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Speaker 1: I'm like, baby were on his face?

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Speaker 2: Is it like, does it look like the zoo? Wait?

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Speaker 2: Does it look like the Zuko scar?

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Speaker 2: Like he's a scar across his eyes, but it's the

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Speaker 2: Monster Energy logo.

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Speaker 1: No, it's on his cheek, directly visible, like, not even

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Speaker 1: on his forehead where it could be covered by some hair.

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Speaker 4: It is out there.

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Speaker 2: All right. Let's you want all right, you want to

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Speaker 2: get We can get more into this if you want,

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Speaker 2: because all right, you want someone that loves you. Let's

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Speaker 2: do let's let's do this. Do you are you? Do

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Speaker 2: you like yourself?

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Speaker 1: I do like I think I'm pretty and I think

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Speaker 1: I'm funny. I do have an issue with like in

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Speaker 1: my personality sometimes because I've had a very rough life

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Speaker 1: and I've been bullied a lot by my family and

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Speaker 1: things like that, and so it can be kind I'm

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Speaker 1: in real therapy too, so you don't have to worry

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Speaker 1: Like there are things that I love about myself and

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Speaker 2: Okay, well, what's your real If you were to tell

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Speaker 2: they would say or if you have.

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Speaker 1: That's a good question. I haven't talked to her about

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Speaker 1: him yet. I think she would be okay with it.

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Speaker 1: I think she would just tell me to be careful

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Speaker 1: since he was like in jail before. Yeah, yeah, but

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Speaker 1: I think she would approve. I mean, she knows that I'm, like,

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Speaker 1: I'm much more likely to stop talking to somebody than

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Speaker 2: Okay, because that's what I would say too. I'm not

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Speaker 2: do anything ever, but like, you know, do you think,

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Speaker 2: do what you're gonna do, but you know, be careful.

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Speaker 2: Don't get if this guy's you know, whisking up spells,

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Speaker 2: you know, don't don't fall into his cauldron.

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Speaker 1: Gotcha. I feel like he doesn't need witchcraft if he

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Speaker 2: That's well. Because I also I'm a little weary about

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Speaker 2: under Here's the thing with like money and dating is

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Speaker 2: like I understand money being attractive as a like symbol

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Speaker 2: so like, you know, you want somebody who can like

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Speaker 2: pay for things and just like be like it's a

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Speaker 2: sign of a competent person to like, you know, have

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Speaker 2: their financial life in order. But beyond that, when it

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Speaker 2: or or even worse, if you get into a fucking

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Speaker 2: thing where like somebody's like bankrolling your life, and then

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Speaker 2: that creates a weird dynamic between you two. You know,

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Speaker 2: that's where I think that stuff gets a little weird.

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Speaker 1: But uh, yeah, I feel like I wouldn't let that happen.

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Speaker 1: But a lot of the guys that have dated in

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Speaker 1: the past, it's been like me paying for stuff most

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Speaker 1: of the time. It kind of sucks.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I understand that. Yeah, so again, like if you're

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Speaker 2: attracted to the money as a sign of like competence

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Speaker 2: and like, oh, this guy has at least his life

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Speaker 2: and you know whatnot I understand that. But again, beyond that,

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Speaker 2: it's not like we don't want you know, you move

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Speaker 2: in with this like don't don't fuck it, don't do

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Speaker 2: stupid shit like don't move in with this guy after

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Speaker 2: don't do anything like that.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you know, why not Why wouldn't I do that?

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Speaker 2: Why I you know, I can tell you. I will

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Speaker 1: Hell yeah, the Mystery Box, of course, I know. It's

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Speaker 4: Hello, Hello, I you can give me a name, all right?

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Speaker 2: Your name is Dan. What's up Dan? How's life Dan?

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Speaker 4: It's it's going It's kind of rough right now, kind

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Speaker 2: Well, Dan, how can I get you today? What's going on?

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Speaker 4: I'm just kind of in a midlife crisis. I know,

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Speaker 2: Mm hmm, Well where are you right now? Metaphorically?

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Speaker 4: I had to move back in with my grandparents just

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Speaker 4: Two kids, two eleven and three.

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Speaker 4: Uh? They're doing good. Three year olds is a three

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Speaker 2: And what do you do for work?

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Speaker 4: I'm I'm a stay home mom, right now that's kind

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Speaker 2: To do for that. M h. What were you doing

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Speaker 4: But I basically did just the typical jobs like HOUSEKEI

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Speaker 2: Dan, let me ask you a crazy question. I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: ask you a crazy question. Okay, just why not just

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Speaker 4: Dan?

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Speaker 2: If you could do any if your life could look

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Speaker 2: of it. I'm gonna say, I'm gonna go ahead and

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Speaker 2: What what would what would it look like? What would

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Speaker 4: You know, simple life, you know, like a ranch, working

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Speaker 4: I'm going to be thirty two.

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Speaker 2: You're talking, you're talking like you're seventy six years old.

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Speaker 4: Well, when I told my grandpa, he laughed at me.

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Speaker 2: Really, I'm genuinely I'm I'm by the way I want

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Speaker 4: That's very cool, right right, That's like the one passion

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Speaker 2: Do you ever looked into it? Have you googled it?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, there's there is a college around here that has

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Speaker 4: I'm a stay at home all with the tall the

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Speaker 2: That is tough. Now the three Now these children they

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Speaker 4: Correct, not the three year old?

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Speaker 2: Not the three year old.

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Speaker 4: That's just kind of what I'm battling with you.

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Speaker 2: Have you looked into like is there is there are

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Speaker 4: So that's what I was trying to figure out how

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Speaker 3: Mm?

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Speaker 2: And you're living at your grandmother's house, right, Yeah, we

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Speaker 4: He just stays a home.

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Speaker 4: They would be willing to. I guess it is just

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Speaker 4: Goal, you know, right for sure?

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Speaker 2: I like, it's not unfathomable for you to become a construction.

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Speaker 2: But I mean, okay, so how much is it? Call?

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Speaker 2: Can you? Is it expensive to go to school?

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Speaker 4: I think I could get grants and stuff?

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Speaker 2: Did you do this ship online nowadays?

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Speaker 4: Construction?

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I would think that some of it is.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, like, I mean ninety percent of it

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Speaker 4: It and stuff. I'm a little worried about.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, have you looked at have you looked into it?

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Speaker 2: Can I can? I say? Can? I? All right, I'm

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Speaker 2: I'm not trying to make assumptions about you in your life,

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Speaker 2: but is this a path that you have avoided extensively

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Speaker 4: Yeah, a little I kind of was discouraging myself.

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Speaker 2: They'll say it's impossible before even you know, doing a

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Speaker 4: And I did look at the average Oh sorry.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you go ahead and go ahead.

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Speaker 4: I did look that the average construction manage it manager

445
00:24:31,200 --> 00:24:34,760
Speaker 4: is like forty two forty five, So there is time

446
00:24:34,840 --> 00:24:38,760
Speaker 4: to like build up experience and stuff. I would I would.

447
00:24:38,480 --> 00:24:41,640
Speaker 2: Hope, dude, you keep you are literally you talk about

448
00:24:41,680 --> 00:24:46,359
Speaker 2: yourself like you're seventy six years old. You are not

449
00:24:46,600 --> 00:24:47,800
Speaker 2: seventy six years old.

450
00:24:48,520 --> 00:24:51,280
Speaker 4: Okay, I'm not teventy six years old.

451
00:24:53,560 --> 00:24:58,119
Speaker 2: So like I guess, I I hope, I hope if

452
00:24:58,160 --> 00:25:00,680
Speaker 2: you if you get anything out from this phone call,

453
00:25:00,720 --> 00:25:07,200
Speaker 2: it's too at the very least like not like write

454
00:25:07,240 --> 00:25:12,680
Speaker 2: everything off before you know giving it a shot, you know, right,

455
00:25:12,680 --> 00:25:15,080
Speaker 2: because you might because just that there might be there

456
00:25:15,119 --> 00:25:23,480
Speaker 2: literally could exist programs for people in this situation like yours, grants, scholarships,

457
00:25:23,600 --> 00:25:27,160
Speaker 2: this thing, that thing, but you're never gonna find out

458
00:25:27,200 --> 00:25:32,760
Speaker 2: about them if you're starting position is I'm seventy six

459
00:25:32,840 --> 00:25:35,360
Speaker 2: years old, I'm too old to do this, and I'm

460
00:25:35,400 --> 00:25:40,080
Speaker 2: just gonna kind of not do anything, you know, So

461
00:25:40,160 --> 00:25:41,720
Speaker 2: you got to give you got to give yourself a

462
00:25:41,720 --> 00:25:44,240
Speaker 2: little bit of motivation to at least look into it,

463
00:25:44,280 --> 00:25:46,880
Speaker 2: because you might find, oh, this path exists, I could

464
00:25:46,920 --> 00:25:48,560
Speaker 2: I could hack it this way, I could hack it

465
00:25:48,600 --> 00:25:52,359
Speaker 2: that way, right, you know, but if you write yourself

466
00:25:52,359 --> 00:25:53,359
Speaker 2: off and then you know you're not gonna be.

467
00:25:53,359 --> 00:25:56,600
Speaker 4: Able to do any of that, right, That's that's true.

468
00:25:56,680 --> 00:25:58,399
Speaker 4: It's like I think he was thinking of it like

469
00:25:58,440 --> 00:26:01,679
Speaker 4: me lifting beans and stuff, being like a roofer. But

470
00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:06,479
Speaker 4: it doesn't have to be necessarily all of that. But

471
00:26:06,520 --> 00:26:07,520
Speaker 4: I think you're canna lift the beam.

472
00:26:08,440 --> 00:26:11,760
Speaker 2: You can lift a bean? Wait, what's a bean? What

473
00:26:11,800 --> 00:26:19,520
Speaker 2: do you mean? Like literally beams? Beams? Yeah, beam, you

474
00:26:19,560 --> 00:26:21,720
Speaker 2: can lift beams? Are still there?

475
00:26:22,800 --> 00:26:23,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm here.

476
00:26:25,280 --> 00:26:28,720
Speaker 2: All right, we we Brandon. We're probably gonna cut this part.

477
00:26:28,840 --> 00:26:30,159
Speaker 2: You know what, Brandon, you don't have to cut me

478
00:26:30,359 --> 00:26:32,440
Speaker 2: saying what I'm saying right now out of the podcast.

479
00:26:32,480 --> 00:26:37,480
Speaker 2: But literally, there was before you. I called you. I

480
00:26:37,560 --> 00:26:39,439
Speaker 2: called you back. This is how the podcast works now

481
00:26:39,480 --> 00:26:41,760
Speaker 2: is people text me stuff and I call them back

482
00:26:41,800 --> 00:26:44,639
Speaker 2: while I'm streaming. And I tried to call you back

483
00:26:46,160 --> 00:26:49,080
Speaker 2: because I thought your story was interesting, and you denied

484
00:26:49,119 --> 00:26:52,639
Speaker 2: my call because you thought I was a spam caller.

485
00:26:52,720 --> 00:26:54,040
Speaker 2: Is that correct?

486
00:26:54,600 --> 00:26:54,840
Speaker 3: Yes?

487
00:26:55,320 --> 00:27:00,640
Speaker 2: See, you got that's that is? I got no go ahead,

488
00:27:00,640 --> 00:27:01,240
Speaker 2: what we're gonna say?

489
00:27:02,400 --> 00:27:04,440
Speaker 4: No, I just I couldn't believe you called so soon.

490
00:27:05,400 --> 00:27:07,520
Speaker 2: I honestly, like, all right, I believe that even that

491
00:27:07,520 --> 00:27:12,200
Speaker 2: that's like a microcosm of this entire situation. You gotta

492
00:27:12,200 --> 00:27:15,760
Speaker 2: open yourself up to the possibility that, you know, maybe

493
00:27:15,760 --> 00:27:20,359
Speaker 2: it's not you know, someone from Social Security calling to collect.

494
00:27:20,359 --> 00:27:23,679
Speaker 2: Maybe it's a gecko, you know right, Maybe I'm not

495
00:27:23,800 --> 00:27:25,399
Speaker 2: seventy six years old. Maybe I can go be a

496
00:27:25,400 --> 00:27:28,200
Speaker 2: construction worker. Who knows. I don't know. I'm just saying shit,

497
00:27:28,280 --> 00:27:30,720
Speaker 2: I'm crazy.

498
00:27:31,800 --> 00:27:34,240
Speaker 4: No, I love it. I feel a lot better talking

499
00:27:34,280 --> 00:27:34,480
Speaker 4: to you.

500
00:27:35,119 --> 00:27:40,040
Speaker 2: Okay, good, good. Give me a shooting. Update me. If

501
00:27:40,240 --> 00:27:43,159
Speaker 2: if something that, send me an Instagram DM or whatever.

502
00:27:43,240 --> 00:27:46,399
Speaker 2: Update me. I'm curious about it. If if this, uh,

503
00:27:46,800 --> 00:27:51,000
Speaker 2: if you find something, send me an email in ten

504
00:27:51,119 --> 00:27:53,679
Speaker 2: years and be like, you know what, I'm a construction worker.

505
00:27:54,240 --> 00:27:58,040
Speaker 2: And because you know you motivated me on the phone call,

506
00:27:58,080 --> 00:28:01,480
Speaker 2: I'm gonna build you a free house. Definitely send me

507
00:28:01,520 --> 00:28:03,280
Speaker 2: that email if you want to that.

508
00:28:04,840 --> 00:28:07,320
Speaker 4: I definitely will. I'm always watching too, so.

509
00:28:07,560 --> 00:28:09,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, I love I would love to live in a

510
00:28:09,960 --> 00:28:16,120
Speaker 2: free house or or or or or you know what. Ghek,

511
00:28:16,160 --> 00:28:18,480
Speaker 2: You've motivated me on the I'm gonna build a statue

512
00:28:19,080 --> 00:28:24,879
Speaker 2: in your honor statue. Sorry I put that part in,

513
00:28:25,040 --> 00:28:31,440
Speaker 2: but I I can't undersay that I said in front

514
00:28:31,440 --> 00:28:32,920
Speaker 2: of your baby. Is that a baby?

515
00:28:34,080 --> 00:28:36,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's a taller. He can't hear you.

516
00:28:36,240 --> 00:28:44,040
Speaker 2: Okay, he doesn't know what anything is? No, Well, what's

517
00:28:44,040 --> 00:28:48,800
Speaker 2: your name, Dan? I gave you the name Dan, Dan.

518
00:28:48,880 --> 00:28:51,200
Speaker 2: Any anything else that you want to say to the

519
00:28:51,200 --> 00:28:53,320
Speaker 2: people of the computer before we go, or anything at

520
00:28:53,360 --> 00:28:55,479
Speaker 2: all about life or death? Anything?

521
00:28:59,160 --> 00:28:59,400
Speaker 3: No.

522
00:28:59,840 --> 00:29:02,760
Speaker 4: I I'm just happy you called, and I feel a

523
00:29:02,760 --> 00:29:05,120
Speaker 4: lot better. I'm going to say that to myself that

524
00:29:05,320 --> 00:29:06,920
Speaker 4: I'm not seventy six years old.

525
00:29:07,080 --> 00:29:10,680
Speaker 2: Good, good, please do please do do it. Yeah, dear God,

526
00:29:10,840 --> 00:29:13,560
Speaker 2: I mean really, I was expecting you to be like

527
00:29:13,640 --> 00:29:16,920
Speaker 2: I want to live in a magical castle and have

528
00:29:17,040 --> 00:29:19,320
Speaker 2: eighty trillion dollars.

529
00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:26,000
Speaker 4: But no, I'm pretty I'm pretty humbled. Good, I'm pretty humbled, Dan.

530
00:29:26,080 --> 00:29:27,280
Speaker 2: Is there anything else you want to say to the

531
00:29:27,280 --> 00:29:28,640
Speaker 2: people of the computer before we go?

532
00:29:30,000 --> 00:29:30,200
Speaker 3: No?

533
00:29:30,360 --> 00:29:33,360
Speaker 4: I keep listening. I love it, love your show.

534
00:29:33,760 --> 00:29:36,240
Speaker 2: Thanks man, take care, good luck, Thank you.

535
00:29:36,800 --> 00:29:39,920
Speaker 3: Thank you by.

536
00:29:44,520 --> 00:29:49,200
Speaker 2: Listen. I don't I'm not going to claim to speak baby,

537
00:29:49,200 --> 00:29:51,120
Speaker 2: but I think that he was talking shit just now.

538
00:29:51,960 --> 00:29:54,280
Speaker 2: But I'm gonna forgive it because he's a baby. He

539
00:29:54,280 --> 00:29:56,960
Speaker 2: don't know better, he doesn't understand what he's saying. He

540
00:29:56,960 --> 00:29:59,320
Speaker 2: doesn't understand he's challenging me to a fight, which I

541
00:29:59,360 --> 00:30:03,840
Speaker 2: will win because he is a child. All right, Thanks

542
00:30:03,840 --> 00:30:04,560
Speaker 2: for calling dan.

543
00:30:07,920 --> 00:30:12,400
Speaker 3: Uh say, Lyle, Yeah, who is this hey?

544
00:30:12,480 --> 00:30:12,640
Speaker 4: Man?

545
00:30:13,240 --> 00:30:17,800
Speaker 2: It's Isaac, Isaac? I sack, what's up? What's going on?

546
00:30:18,640 --> 00:30:22,680
Speaker 2: I did? What are you gonna do about it? A?

547
00:30:22,680 --> 00:30:24,800
Speaker 3: Nothing? That's actually what my brother says all the time.

548
00:30:25,560 --> 00:30:26,880
Speaker 3: They respect around and tells me.

549
00:30:26,840 --> 00:30:29,040
Speaker 2: That, what's your relationship like with your brother?

550
00:30:30,640 --> 00:30:31,600
Speaker 3: Man? We love each other?

551
00:30:33,560 --> 00:30:34,800
Speaker 2: What do you love about each other?

552
00:30:36,600 --> 00:30:38,720
Speaker 3: Well? Well, we've did for each other. We helped each

553
00:30:38,760 --> 00:30:41,640
Speaker 3: other out, you know, when he was going through a

554
00:30:41,680 --> 00:30:45,160
Speaker 3: rough time, I let him stay in my apartment. When

555
00:30:45,200 --> 00:30:47,360
Speaker 3: I was going to college, he let me stay at

556
00:30:47,400 --> 00:30:48,600
Speaker 3: his place every once in a while.

557
00:30:48,840 --> 00:30:51,080
Speaker 2: Did you do something? Because you sound even shittier on

558
00:30:51,200 --> 00:30:52,040
Speaker 2: my morning.

559
00:30:51,760 --> 00:30:55,000
Speaker 3: Walk, it's the cars backing by. So I'm gonna go

560
00:30:55,000 --> 00:30:57,600
Speaker 3: find a bench right here at the park and just

561
00:30:57,640 --> 00:30:58,600
Speaker 3: sit down and talk with you.

562
00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:02,840
Speaker 2: What's the last nice thing your brother did for you?

563
00:31:03,560 --> 00:31:07,360
Speaker 3: Oh? This this weekend, we do a birth Well, I

564
00:31:07,360 --> 00:31:09,080
Speaker 3: guess you didn't do it for me. We's a birthday

565
00:31:09,080 --> 00:31:10,080
Speaker 3: party for our other brother.

566
00:31:13,840 --> 00:31:15,960
Speaker 2: Okay, the last nice thing that your brother did for

567
00:31:16,000 --> 00:31:18,280
Speaker 2: you is throw a birthday party for someone else.

568
00:31:19,840 --> 00:31:22,480
Speaker 3: No, like me and my brother, we threw a birthday

569
00:31:22,480 --> 00:31:23,640
Speaker 3: party for our other brother.

570
00:31:26,840 --> 00:31:29,120
Speaker 2: Wait, I mean, that's nice, But what's the last nice

571
00:31:29,160 --> 00:31:31,320
Speaker 2: thing he did for you? Let's it's you and him

572
00:31:31,360 --> 00:31:33,400
Speaker 2: working together to do a nice thing for someone else.

573
00:31:35,160 --> 00:31:37,680
Speaker 3: Huh, that's a good question. I didn't think about that

574
00:31:38,480 --> 00:31:40,920
Speaker 3: because he doesn't live here with me, so I don't

575
00:31:40,920 --> 00:31:47,760
Speaker 3: pe him all the time. Huh hmm, you got me

576
00:31:47,840 --> 00:31:48,520
Speaker 3: thinking about that.

577
00:31:48,960 --> 00:31:51,120
Speaker 2: I have to say something. If you can't think of anything,

578
00:31:51,120 --> 00:31:53,200
Speaker 2: it sounds like your brother is a total asshole. No,

579
00:31:53,280 --> 00:31:56,960
Speaker 2: I'm just kidding. What how did the what's the last

580
00:31:57,000 --> 00:31:58,520
Speaker 2: nice thing that you did for your brother?

581
00:32:00,520 --> 00:32:08,840
Speaker 3: So my brother I bought his baby onesie. It was

582
00:32:08,920 --> 00:32:12,440
Speaker 3: kind of it's a dick move because he's a Raider fan.

583
00:32:12,960 --> 00:32:15,800
Speaker 3: So I got a baby a Charger onesie.

584
00:32:16,240 --> 00:32:21,000
Speaker 2: Yo, it's pretty crazy.

585
00:32:21,040 --> 00:32:22,880
Speaker 3: I know, I know, man.

586
00:32:23,160 --> 00:32:24,760
Speaker 2: I do you think he's gonna wear it?

587
00:32:26,320 --> 00:32:28,560
Speaker 3: Oh? They already put it on him.

588
00:32:28,800 --> 00:32:30,320
Speaker 2: Nice nice?

589
00:32:31,680 --> 00:32:31,800
Speaker 4: Uh?

590
00:32:32,800 --> 00:32:36,800
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, So you and your brother threw a

591
00:32:36,840 --> 00:32:39,400
Speaker 2: birthday party for your other brother. What had the birthday

592
00:32:39,440 --> 00:32:39,800
Speaker 2: party go?

593
00:32:41,760 --> 00:32:46,960
Speaker 3: D They went it went really good? We uh, well,

594
00:32:47,000 --> 00:32:49,640
Speaker 3: what of my friends? He decided to describe my brother

595
00:32:50,000 --> 00:32:51,600
Speaker 3: and got him like a keg. I don't know if

596
00:32:51,640 --> 00:32:52,440
Speaker 3: you know what a keg is.

597
00:32:52,840 --> 00:32:54,440
Speaker 2: You don't know if I know what a keg is.

598
00:32:56,360 --> 00:33:01,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, I don't want to do bro, I don't.

599
00:33:02,240 --> 00:33:03,960
Speaker 2: You're such a wholesome boy. I don't know if you

600
00:33:04,000 --> 00:33:04,840
Speaker 2: know what a keg is.

601
00:33:06,760 --> 00:33:09,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, I know what a keg is. You said that

602
00:33:10,400 --> 00:33:14,200
Speaker 3: we got a ca and yeah, we we got a keg.

603
00:33:14,280 --> 00:33:18,080
Speaker 3: We partied nice. One of my friends really drunk.

604
00:33:18,560 --> 00:33:19,000
Speaker 2: Nice.

605
00:33:19,680 --> 00:33:21,680
Speaker 3: Some one who actually got the keg ended up being

606
00:33:21,680 --> 00:33:23,160
Speaker 3: the most drunk at the end of the night.

607
00:33:24,480 --> 00:33:28,200
Speaker 2: Who who all was there? Who always at the party?

608
00:33:29,960 --> 00:33:34,720
Speaker 3: Well, my brother, his kids, which is about five of

609
00:33:34,760 --> 00:33:39,640
Speaker 3: them now. They just had another one in January, my

610
00:33:39,800 --> 00:33:44,680
Speaker 3: sister and her two kids, my cousin who's like a

611
00:33:44,800 --> 00:33:49,800
Speaker 3: brother to me because we grew up together, my other cousin,

612
00:33:51,320 --> 00:33:53,240
Speaker 3: and then we had a whole bunch of friends come

613
00:33:53,320 --> 00:33:59,720
Speaker 3: over in total, about twenty five ish people.

614
00:34:00,560 --> 00:34:03,000
Speaker 2: Isaac, does anything, Does anything ever go wrong in your

615
00:34:03,040 --> 00:34:06,320
Speaker 2: life or you? Because you seem like you're living like

616
00:34:06,360 --> 00:34:10,240
Speaker 2: a really picturesque existence, and I'm wondering if that's a charade.

617
00:34:11,960 --> 00:34:15,279
Speaker 3: No, no, man, I mean things obviously go wrong in

618
00:34:15,320 --> 00:34:19,920
Speaker 3: everybody's lives. I mean, right now, I think right now

619
00:34:19,920 --> 00:34:22,840
Speaker 3: I'm staying with my aunt because you know, housing prices

620
00:34:22,880 --> 00:34:27,880
Speaker 3: are really bad. Yeah, so yeah, and I live in California,

621
00:34:27,920 --> 00:34:30,200
Speaker 3: so you can imagine how expensive stuff is out here.

622
00:34:31,000 --> 00:34:32,120
Speaker 2: What do you do for a living?

623
00:34:34,320 --> 00:34:39,400
Speaker 3: So I work as a consultant for a special education company.

624
00:34:40,200 --> 00:34:44,160
Speaker 2: Oh my god, you're like a mister Rogers guy.

625
00:34:45,000 --> 00:34:49,279
Speaker 3: Uh not really, it kind of it's boring. I did.

626
00:34:49,360 --> 00:34:52,480
Speaker 3: I used to like my other job for because I

627
00:34:52,560 --> 00:34:55,359
Speaker 3: used to actually work with people directly, but I left

628
00:34:55,400 --> 00:34:58,840
Speaker 3: it and now I'm here. I left it because they

629
00:34:58,840 --> 00:34:59,799
Speaker 3: were paying more money.

630
00:35:00,120 --> 00:35:03,240
Speaker 2: Here. Do you work directly with the kids or you

631
00:35:03,280 --> 00:35:05,279
Speaker 2: can you tell other people how to do it?

632
00:35:07,440 --> 00:35:12,680
Speaker 3: I basically tell people how to do it, like basically

633
00:35:12,760 --> 00:35:17,719
Speaker 3: just formulate education plans. I still talk with them directly,

634
00:35:18,640 --> 00:35:21,480
Speaker 3: but most of the time it's just making game time

635
00:35:21,560 --> 00:35:21,839
Speaker 3: to them.

636
00:35:24,560 --> 00:35:26,440
Speaker 2: Okay, but at the old job, you worked with the

637
00:35:26,520 --> 00:35:27,720
Speaker 2: kids directly.

638
00:35:29,440 --> 00:35:30,080
Speaker 3: With adults.

639
00:35:30,160 --> 00:35:32,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, with adults. Well I thought it. I thought this

640
00:35:33,000 --> 00:35:36,520
Speaker 2: was a uh this is special education for adults or

641
00:35:36,520 --> 00:35:37,399
Speaker 2: for kids.

642
00:35:38,520 --> 00:35:42,759
Speaker 3: Well it's special education now because the company that I'm

643
00:35:42,800 --> 00:35:45,640
Speaker 3: working for, like it's mostly working with like i EPs

644
00:35:46,320 --> 00:35:48,000
Speaker 3: and like in the school system.

645
00:35:48,080 --> 00:35:50,440
Speaker 2: Now, I like, how you make this assumption that I

646
00:35:50,480 --> 00:35:52,120
Speaker 2: know what an I E. P Is but that I

647
00:35:52,200 --> 00:35:53,400
Speaker 2: might not know what a KEG is.

648
00:35:55,040 --> 00:35:58,279
Speaker 3: Oh sorry, I e it's like an individual it's like

649
00:35:58,280 --> 00:36:03,759
Speaker 3: an individual education plan. Okay, Yeah, basically it's required by

650
00:36:03,760 --> 00:36:08,399
Speaker 3: the state and everything. And I just help out, help

651
00:36:08,440 --> 00:36:13,880
Speaker 3: out wherever I can. And yeah, I mean in the

652
00:36:13,920 --> 00:36:16,720
Speaker 3: past they used to work directly with people. To not anymore.

653
00:36:17,239 --> 00:36:18,239
Speaker 3: I used to like that better.

654
00:36:19,600 --> 00:36:22,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're a people You're a people person. What do

655
00:36:22,360 --> 00:36:26,160
Speaker 2: you say you sit on the computer all day?

656
00:36:26,239 --> 00:36:28,799
Speaker 3: Well, the beautiful thing about this job is I don't.

657
00:36:28,840 --> 00:36:31,360
Speaker 3: I don't have to do it all day. Yeah, I

658
00:36:31,480 --> 00:36:33,040
Speaker 3: just work like three hours a day.

659
00:36:34,200 --> 00:36:35,560
Speaker 2: What do you do with your time? What do you

660
00:36:35,600 --> 00:36:36,440
Speaker 2: do when you're not working?

661
00:36:38,040 --> 00:36:41,120
Speaker 3: I pitch has, I get to the gym, I go

662
00:36:41,200 --> 00:36:42,480
Speaker 3: on walks all the time.

663
00:36:42,880 --> 00:36:44,400
Speaker 2: Yeah.

664
00:36:44,960 --> 00:36:47,960
Speaker 3: So yeah, I just you know, take it easy. It's

665
00:36:48,040 --> 00:36:52,120
Speaker 3: kind of no why I missed. It's the interaction of

666
00:36:52,280 --> 00:36:53,960
Speaker 3: talking with co workers and everything.

667
00:36:54,880 --> 00:36:58,600
Speaker 2: What do you what's your dream, Isaac? What do you

668
00:36:58,640 --> 00:37:00,759
Speaker 2: What do you want out of this life before you die?

669
00:37:04,080 --> 00:37:13,360
Speaker 3: Huh? That's a good question. What do I want? Well? Hm,

670
00:37:15,480 --> 00:37:19,799
Speaker 3: I guess I want to help my dad complete his vision, like,

671
00:37:20,080 --> 00:37:23,279
Speaker 3: because he's building a house right now in Mexico and

672
00:37:23,440 --> 00:37:25,839
Speaker 3: I eventually want to finish it for him. I guess,

673
00:37:27,160 --> 00:37:29,920
Speaker 3: like have have fun so he can finish building it

674
00:37:30,680 --> 00:37:32,720
Speaker 3: and then maybe they'll live out there myself.

675
00:37:34,320 --> 00:37:38,120
Speaker 2: This is you said in Mexico or New Mexico, Mexico.

676
00:37:39,440 --> 00:37:41,600
Speaker 2: So your dad's building a house over in Mexico. You

677
00:37:41,600 --> 00:37:43,200
Speaker 2: want to go help and finish the house and then

678
00:37:43,239 --> 00:37:44,239
Speaker 2: maybe you'll live there too.

679
00:37:46,000 --> 00:37:51,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, because he lives he lives. He lives like fifteen

680
00:37:51,160 --> 00:37:55,400
Speaker 3: minutes from the border in San Diego. So he works

681
00:37:55,400 --> 00:37:58,759
Speaker 3: in San Diego and lives in TJ and just commutes over.

682
00:37:59,520 --> 00:38:00,480
Speaker 2: Oh he lives and TJ.

683
00:38:02,440 --> 00:38:03,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, my dad lives in DJA.

684
00:38:03,920 --> 00:38:06,560
Speaker 2: What's going on over there? Last time, I no offense

685
00:38:06,640 --> 00:38:10,760
Speaker 2: to you know, Tijuana. But the last thing I heard

686
00:38:10,920 --> 00:38:14,400
Speaker 2: about Tijuana is that there was like a crazy level

687
00:38:14,680 --> 00:38:17,239
Speaker 2: four do not go there thing.

688
00:38:23,880 --> 00:38:26,440
Speaker 3: It depends on where you go. And if you go

689
00:38:26,640 --> 00:38:28,880
Speaker 3: just you know, go dick around, obviously it's gonna go

690
00:38:28,920 --> 00:38:31,480
Speaker 3: bas for you. But we don't. We don't usually go

691
00:38:31,560 --> 00:38:34,040
Speaker 3: do that. We usually just go just to go, you know.

692
00:38:34,960 --> 00:38:37,239
Speaker 3: So hang out at the house, all right.

693
00:38:37,280 --> 00:38:40,120
Speaker 2: Do I hear birds chirping around you?

694
00:38:40,840 --> 00:38:43,399
Speaker 3: Yeah? I told you I'm at a park now, I.

695
00:38:43,360 --> 00:38:45,040
Speaker 2: Know I know you're I know you're at a park,

696
00:38:45,080 --> 00:38:47,240
Speaker 2: but for some reason, I just feel like there's always

697
00:38:47,320 --> 00:38:50,439
Speaker 2: birds chirping around you wherever you go.

698
00:38:52,840 --> 00:38:53,520
Speaker 3: That'd be funny.

699
00:38:53,560 --> 00:38:58,600
Speaker 2: But do you speak any Spanish?

700
00:38:58,960 --> 00:39:01,640
Speaker 3: Yeah? I'm fluent in Spanish. Oh no, actually one of

701
00:39:01,640 --> 00:39:04,879
Speaker 3: the reasons. Yeah, I can read it right or speak it.

702
00:39:05,960 --> 00:39:08,600
Speaker 2: That's cool. Do you know anyone in you? Are you?

703
00:39:08,680 --> 00:39:10,320
Speaker 2: Are you married? You have a girlfriends?

704
00:39:12,080 --> 00:39:12,520
Speaker 3: No?

705
00:39:12,520 --> 00:39:12,719
Speaker 2: No?

706
00:39:12,719 --> 00:39:14,799
Speaker 3: No, I got out of a long term relationship about

707
00:39:14,840 --> 00:39:15,399
Speaker 3: a year ago.

708
00:39:16,000 --> 00:39:18,319
Speaker 2: Okay, how's it been since you got out?

709
00:39:19,040 --> 00:39:23,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's been. It's been good, you know, just trying

710
00:39:23,239 --> 00:39:26,640
Speaker 3: to advance professionally, trying to get my own place again,

711
00:39:26,880 --> 00:39:28,480
Speaker 3: and you know, just move forward.

712
00:39:29,480 --> 00:39:32,640
Speaker 2: Are you going to try to find a wife in Tijuana?

713
00:39:35,320 --> 00:39:36,480
Speaker 3: Hmmm? Probably not?

714
00:39:39,360 --> 00:39:42,080
Speaker 2: Probably not on the apps?

715
00:39:43,520 --> 00:39:46,960
Speaker 3: No, I really go on the apps. I prefer to

716
00:39:46,960 --> 00:39:47,920
Speaker 3: meet people in person.

717
00:39:49,320 --> 00:39:51,840
Speaker 2: Have you would you ever if you saw like somebody

718
00:39:52,320 --> 00:39:56,239
Speaker 2: that that caught your fancy at the park, would you

719
00:39:56,280 --> 00:39:59,640
Speaker 2: would you go over and start talking to them? Do

720
00:39:59,640 --> 00:40:02,360
Speaker 2: you have that? You do? I'm sure you do.

721
00:40:02,480 --> 00:40:08,200
Speaker 3: You sound look good, very okay? You know.

722
00:40:09,840 --> 00:40:13,719
Speaker 2: Has it ever led to go ahead? Go ahead?

723
00:40:14,840 --> 00:40:17,759
Speaker 3: People always say it's very cheesy to ask somebody or

724
00:40:17,800 --> 00:40:19,839
Speaker 3: tell somebody how the weather is. But it's a really

725
00:40:19,880 --> 00:40:24,239
Speaker 3: good conversation starter. And if people want to talk, Like,

726
00:40:24,640 --> 00:40:26,759
Speaker 3: if people want to talk, they'll find a way to

727
00:40:26,800 --> 00:40:29,359
Speaker 3: continue talking. If they don't want to talk, they'll find

728
00:40:29,360 --> 00:40:30,319
Speaker 3: a way to shut it down.

729
00:40:30,800 --> 00:40:38,080
Speaker 2: It's true, It's very true. What I'm very curious, Uh,

730
00:40:38,120 --> 00:40:45,400
Speaker 2: what is the longest string you've gotten from beginning a

731
00:40:45,440 --> 00:40:50,360
Speaker 2: conversation talking about the weather too, going deep enough that

732
00:40:50,400 --> 00:40:59,200
Speaker 2: you're talking about you know, feelings and relationships and legitimate things.

733
00:41:00,120 --> 00:41:01,840
Speaker 3: Longest string? What do you mean by that? Like the

734
00:41:01,880 --> 00:41:03,880
Speaker 3: longest conversation that has stemmed?

735
00:41:04,400 --> 00:41:07,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like where where is the conversation? Where to give

736
00:41:07,120 --> 00:41:09,759
Speaker 2: me somewhere that the conversation is stemmed. Give me an

737
00:41:09,760 --> 00:41:13,359
Speaker 2: example of of a deeper conversation that you may have

738
00:41:13,480 --> 00:41:15,919
Speaker 2: had that stemmed from asking about the weather.

739
00:41:17,760 --> 00:41:20,759
Speaker 3: Oh, so one it wasn't. This one didn't stem from

740
00:41:20,800 --> 00:41:23,839
Speaker 3: the weather. This one stemmed from playing chess because here

741
00:41:23,880 --> 00:41:26,400
Speaker 3: at the park there's like these little tables, yeah, to

742
00:41:26,480 --> 00:41:31,919
Speaker 3: have like the chess logos you know, talking about of course, Yeah,

743
00:41:31,960 --> 00:41:35,080
Speaker 3: And I was I was playing chess randomly to somebody,

744
00:41:35,120 --> 00:41:38,000
Speaker 3: and then somebody just came over and just said hey,

745
00:41:38,080 --> 00:41:40,239
Speaker 3: can I play a games? And we ended up playing

746
00:41:40,239 --> 00:41:44,520
Speaker 3: a game and we just ended up talking chess, and

747
00:41:44,560 --> 00:41:49,760
Speaker 3: then we ended up talking about like their life, and yeah,

748
00:41:50,239 --> 00:41:52,080
Speaker 3: we still we still talk every once in a while,

749
00:41:52,840 --> 00:41:56,239
Speaker 3: like we exchanged numbers and everything, and I still see it.

750
00:41:56,239 --> 00:41:58,640
Speaker 3: I'm walking around time of time, I say Hi, Hey,

751
00:41:58,680 --> 00:42:01,879
Speaker 3: how you doing, How how's your son? How's your dog?

752
00:42:02,000 --> 00:42:03,359
Speaker 3: You know, stuff like that.

753
00:42:05,640 --> 00:42:09,640
Speaker 2: Have any of these park interactions turned into anything long

754
00:42:09,760 --> 00:42:13,080
Speaker 2: term or meaningful? Not even romantically, but you friendship wise,

755
00:42:13,880 --> 00:42:19,120
Speaker 2: you know, I mean no, not.

756
00:42:19,000 --> 00:42:23,080
Speaker 3: Like any serious friends like that I've known growing up. Nah,

757
00:42:23,360 --> 00:42:26,640
Speaker 3: just like I would call it like exterior just people

758
00:42:26,640 --> 00:42:29,480
Speaker 3: that I know around, no little details about them here

759
00:42:29,520 --> 00:42:32,319
Speaker 3: and there, but nothing like serious like oh come over

760
00:42:32,840 --> 00:42:34,799
Speaker 3: like to my house and have a beer or two now,

761
00:42:35,080 --> 00:42:35,759
Speaker 3: nothing like that.

762
00:42:36,960 --> 00:42:37,799
Speaker 2: How old are you man?

763
00:42:39,760 --> 00:42:40,359
Speaker 3: How old am I?

764
00:42:40,719 --> 00:42:41,560
Speaker 2: Yeah?

765
00:42:42,440 --> 00:42:43,200
Speaker 3: Twenty seven?

766
00:42:43,880 --> 00:42:50,880
Speaker 2: Nice? I'm turning twenty seven at some point? Yeah, well

767
00:42:50,880 --> 00:42:52,880
Speaker 2: are you excited to go? To go ahead?

768
00:42:54,680 --> 00:42:56,719
Speaker 3: I was gonna ask you what do you like? Just

769
00:42:56,760 --> 00:42:59,359
Speaker 3: to kind of change change topics, like what are your

770
00:42:59,400 --> 00:43:02,239
Speaker 3: what are some of your hobby like outside of being

771
00:43:02,239 --> 00:43:05,640
Speaker 3: a gag and streaming all the time. Yeah, he keeps

772
00:43:05,640 --> 00:43:08,160
Speaker 3: saying that once in a while, how's that going?

773
00:43:08,960 --> 00:43:14,160
Speaker 2: It is going actually very well for two months, and

774
00:43:14,200 --> 00:43:19,239
Speaker 2: then I took a trip to Thailand and I did

775
00:43:19,239 --> 00:43:22,200
Speaker 2: not go to the gym or eat correctly at all.

776
00:43:22,320 --> 00:43:25,239
Speaker 2: There's a funny thing where, like, you know, your brain

777
00:43:25,320 --> 00:43:28,759
Speaker 2: convinced yourself like, oh, you know, you're you're in a

778
00:43:28,800 --> 00:43:32,439
Speaker 2: foreign country or you know, traveling, like you know, yeah,

779
00:43:32,840 --> 00:43:35,040
Speaker 2: you don't have to stick to a strict diet. But

780
00:43:35,200 --> 00:43:39,160
Speaker 2: like I was, I was in Thailand at seven eleven

781
00:43:39,320 --> 00:43:42,600
Speaker 2: eating kit kats. You know what I mean. That's not like,

782
00:43:43,120 --> 00:43:45,320
Speaker 2: that's not like, oh I got to sample the local

783
00:43:45,400 --> 00:43:51,240
Speaker 2: cuisine while I'm here. You know, this is unreasonable. But anyway, hobbies,

784
00:43:51,280 --> 00:43:52,640
Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know. I go to the gym,

785
00:43:52,719 --> 00:43:54,799
Speaker 2: but I don't know if that's a hobby so much.

786
00:43:55,239 --> 00:44:00,720
Speaker 2: I like to walk around. I'm really into Fecitive, Super

787
00:44:00,719 --> 00:44:04,839
Speaker 2: Smash Brothers, Melee, but unfortunately that that community only gets

788
00:44:04,880 --> 00:44:10,280
Speaker 2: smaller every every year. I like video games. I'm playing

789
00:44:10,320 --> 00:44:17,400
Speaker 2: my Switch all the time. Uh yeah, nothing crazy, you know,

790
00:44:17,640 --> 00:44:21,239
Speaker 2: I'm made. Honestly, my biggest Most of my hobbies are

791
00:44:21,280 --> 00:44:29,120
Speaker 2: like marinating and anxiety and traveling around and and doing

792
00:44:29,280 --> 00:44:30,560
Speaker 2: doing this Gecko stuff.

793
00:44:32,480 --> 00:44:35,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, I remember I got a stat with Smash Bros.

794
00:44:35,800 --> 00:44:38,400
Speaker 3: For a while. Remember when the when they came out

795
00:44:38,440 --> 00:44:39,920
Speaker 3: with those little statue.

796
00:44:39,480 --> 00:44:42,440
Speaker 2: Things, yeah, the ambos?

797
00:44:42,560 --> 00:44:45,600
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, I remember. I went like a

798
00:44:45,640 --> 00:44:49,440
Speaker 3: little a little binge for like like three months where

799
00:44:49,480 --> 00:44:51,520
Speaker 3: I bought like a whole bunch of them and I

800
00:44:51,640 --> 00:44:53,319
Speaker 3: just got them up to like a max level that

801
00:44:53,320 --> 00:44:54,440
Speaker 3: you could possibly get them up to.

802
00:44:54,960 --> 00:44:56,920
Speaker 2: You went on an ambo binge?

803
00:44:58,400 --> 00:45:02,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

804
00:45:01,840 --> 00:45:04,719
Speaker 2: That's extremely funny. What's your prize to me?

805
00:45:04,840 --> 00:45:07,520
Speaker 3: But it's a link?

806
00:45:09,320 --> 00:45:10,319
Speaker 2: So you've exeled a guy?

807
00:45:12,280 --> 00:45:16,719
Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, I like I like not Zelda like the game,

808
00:45:16,920 --> 00:45:21,200
Speaker 3: but in Smash Brows, I'm a big fan of using link.

809
00:45:22,840 --> 00:45:25,040
Speaker 3: I haven't played it in years though, ever since my

810
00:45:25,160 --> 00:45:27,520
Speaker 3: switch broke, I just didn't get another one.

811
00:45:27,680 --> 00:45:30,560
Speaker 2: So all right, Zach, we're on a podcast right now,

812
00:45:30,600 --> 00:45:34,120
Speaker 2: we're talking to some We're talking to at least one

813
00:45:34,200 --> 00:45:38,680
Speaker 2: person who's listening to us. What do you want that

814
00:45:38,800 --> 00:45:42,320
Speaker 2: one person who is listening to this conversation right now

815
00:45:42,840 --> 00:45:46,360
Speaker 2: to know? What do you want? You have open ears,

816
00:45:47,360 --> 00:45:52,480
Speaker 2: held hostage. Okay, what do you want to put in them? Oh?

817
00:45:52,680 --> 00:45:55,840
Speaker 3: I guess something that's really enjoyed me because I listened

818
00:45:55,880 --> 00:45:58,880
Speaker 3: to sports podcasts the Pat McAfee show all the time,

819
00:46:00,840 --> 00:46:04,200
Speaker 3: and they always talk shit on F one. So if

820
00:46:04,200 --> 00:46:07,279
Speaker 3: somebody can clip this and get this to him, it'd

821
00:46:07,320 --> 00:46:09,960
Speaker 3: be perfect. I know you don't like I know he

822
00:46:10,000 --> 00:46:12,319
Speaker 3: doesn't like F one, but I know he's a big

823
00:46:12,360 --> 00:46:17,280
Speaker 3: motorcycle guy and he could get into Moto GP. Moto

824
00:46:17,360 --> 00:46:18,240
Speaker 3: GP is amazing.

825
00:46:18,280 --> 00:46:21,640
Speaker 2: I don't know the way the thing that you want

826
00:46:21,680 --> 00:46:24,920
Speaker 2: to tell everyone listening to this podcast is to tell

827
00:46:25,640 --> 00:46:27,840
Speaker 2: one guy that he should get into racing.

828
00:46:29,880 --> 00:46:32,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, because they always get to me. I've been listening

829
00:46:32,360 --> 00:46:36,040
Speaker 3: to Pat mcazee for like, all right, all right, and

830
00:46:36,560 --> 00:46:40,040
Speaker 3: like he he like, they always talk about F one

831
00:46:40,680 --> 00:46:42,800
Speaker 3: F one, F one F one is boring. But the

832
00:46:42,800 --> 00:46:44,320
Speaker 3: way I don't like F one person.

833
00:46:44,320 --> 00:46:46,279
Speaker 2: You know what, I respect that. I respect that. A

834
00:46:46,280 --> 00:46:50,200
Speaker 2: lot of people they're like, oh, you know, go live

835
00:46:50,239 --> 00:46:55,120
Speaker 2: your dream or you know, uh uh, be kind to

836
00:46:55,200 --> 00:46:57,240
Speaker 2: one another. You know, they say a bunch of bullshit,

837
00:46:57,280 --> 00:47:00,400
Speaker 2: but you're like, hey, this one specific sports pod cast

838
00:47:00,480 --> 00:47:03,280
Speaker 2: or I want him specifically to know that he should

839
00:47:03,280 --> 00:47:07,600
Speaker 2: get into F one. So I respect the specificness of

840
00:47:07,640 --> 00:47:13,600
Speaker 2: your answer to that question. Anything else you want to say,

841
00:47:13,640 --> 00:47:15,759
Speaker 2: Isaac it's been nice. This is a good chit chat

842
00:47:15,920 --> 00:47:18,839
Speaker 2: sometimes this show it's about stuff, but also it's fun

843
00:47:18,880 --> 00:47:21,960
Speaker 2: to to just chit chat, you know.

844
00:47:24,719 --> 00:47:27,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I guess the one last thing I'll say

845
00:47:27,280 --> 00:47:30,759
Speaker 3: is everybody just have a great day.

846
00:47:32,120 --> 00:47:33,759
Speaker 2: Okay, you did it, you got one, you did one

847
00:47:33,760 --> 00:47:34,080
Speaker 2: of those?

848
00:47:34,719 --> 00:47:38,279
Speaker 3: Ye did? Everybody, just have a good day. And you know,

849
00:47:38,320 --> 00:47:41,080
Speaker 3: if you twelve weeks, if you drink, okay, have a drink.

850
00:47:41,120 --> 00:47:43,359
Speaker 2: There he is. Who's this guy? Where's this guy been?

851
00:47:43,480 --> 00:47:44,080
Speaker 2: This whole call?

852
00:47:46,520 --> 00:47:52,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, I was just trying to keep it cordial. All right, Well, yeah,

853
00:47:52,320 --> 00:47:55,400
Speaker 3: I get Thanks for hope you hope you have a

854
00:47:55,400 --> 00:47:57,879
Speaker 3: great day YouTube. And when are you coming back?

855
00:47:58,880 --> 00:47:59,759
Speaker 2: When am I coming away?

856
00:48:00,080 --> 00:48:01,719
Speaker 3: California? Southern California?

857
00:48:01,800 --> 00:48:04,440
Speaker 2: Oh shit, I'm doing a show in Los Angeles in

858
00:48:04,520 --> 00:48:06,680
Speaker 2: November at the Masonic Lodge.

859
00:48:08,560 --> 00:48:11,720
Speaker 3: All right, cool, I'll keep an eye out for those chickens.

860
00:48:12,400 --> 00:48:17,120
Speaker 2: Beautiful. See you there, man, Take care alright, great one.

861
00:48:18,800 --> 00:48:21,600
Speaker 2: That's Isaac. That's Isaac.

862
00:48:22,719 --> 00:48:26,200
Speaker 4: Can goes on the line taking your phone calls every night,

863
00:48:27,480 --> 00:48:30,719
Speaker 4: goes to his h's teaching you loud your life.

864
00:48:31,120 --> 00:48:33,239
Speaker 2: But he's not really an expert.