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Speaker 1: guys remember when meeting someone online was considered a steady
Speaker 1: way to date? Yeah, it was that funny. Weren't we cute?
Speaker 1: Back then? It was like, you weirdo? Why would you
Speaker 1: do that? Looking up with a stranger off the internet?
Speaker 1: Is just a regular Tuesday. In fact, people think you're
Speaker 1: weird if you don't have a tender account set up.
Speaker 1: Oh for sure, I'm married. If people think I'm weird
Speaker 1: for not having one. Yeah, but today we have a
Speaker 1: guy on the phone who's brand new to dating apps.
Speaker 1: His name's Kyle. He says he needs our help today.
Speaker 1: So what's up, Kyle? Hey? How are you? How's your
Speaker 1: emoji game? It's okay, I guess you gotta be up
Speaker 1: on that right now. It's okay? Yeah, yeah, I mean
Speaker 1: I you know, I use them? Um, okay, I mean
Speaker 1: I'm not an expert. Can I ask what prompted you
Speaker 1: to finally give it a try online dating? My schoolfriend
Speaker 1: and I were together for seven years and we just
Speaker 1: broke up. Man, Yeah, that's all right. That's where it
Speaker 1: sounds like you're ready to move on. Bro. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: guess you could say that. Yeah, Okay, I'm sorry. You know,
Speaker 1: let's be sad about it more. I'm ready to move on.
Speaker 1: And my friends are like, hey, you know you should
Speaker 1: try this, and I'd never have the need for it.
Speaker 1: And in seven years, you know, a lot has happened
Speaker 1: in terms of dating apps. Right, yeah, right, So what
Speaker 1: was it like? Who did you meet? Honestly? At first,
Speaker 1: I don't know. I wasn't too into it. It seemed weird.
Speaker 1: I had some bad matches, I got even thought ghosted
Speaker 1: one time, and happy it's like a rite of passage though,
Speaker 1: it's yeah, yeah, yeah, So I almost gave up to
Speaker 1: be honest with you. Yeah, but I am so happy
Speaker 1: I stuck with it because I would never have met Kelly. Okay.
Speaker 1: Kelly is beautiful. She's very kind, like you know, animals, children,
Speaker 1: old people, everything. She checks all the box at a
Speaker 1: lot of women out there that don't like old people.
Speaker 1: So glad you were able to find one senior citizen.
Speaker 1: But yeah, all right, good, I'm around a lot of
Speaker 1: Kelly's into the olds, and you asked her out. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and check this out. She has her own YouTube channel
Speaker 1: for yoga. Wow, for yoga. Oh that's why you like.
Speaker 1: Oh that's cool though. I've been doing some YouTube yoga
Speaker 1: at home. It's nice. Yeah. I mean I wasn't a
Speaker 1: creep or anything, but I did watch it, you know,
Speaker 1: just to check it out. Oh, I totally would I
Speaker 1: do the exact same thing. I think that that's normal
Speaker 1: without doing any yoga. You just sat in front and
Speaker 1: watched her do yoga for a while, for a while,
Speaker 1: I mean, I just check it out, you know, two
Speaker 1: minutes or wherever long you last. But you got my god, Jeffrey,
Speaker 1: I don't know what he's talking about. I'm just trying
Speaker 1: to get clarification. He's doing some research on this date.
Speaker 1: He's going on with a chicky met online. It's totally normal. Okay, okay, great,
Speaker 1: So now that the research was done, did you ever
Speaker 1: take her out? So we decided to meet at the bar,
Speaker 1: and she was just as beautiful in person as yoga
Speaker 1: video picture. Yeah, or the yoga everything, you know, And
Speaker 1: it wasn't like these were like twenty year old or
Speaker 1: five year old videos. I mean, this was is She
Speaker 1: still looked like that. Now you're kind of dwelled on
Speaker 1: the videos, and I started to think it is creepy.
Speaker 1: I think, right, what were drinks? Like? Did you guys connect?
Speaker 1: We talked about the normal stuff, and I mean it
Speaker 1: was really really nice, and she'd never had a glitter
Speaker 1: bomb before. Well what did you say that glitter bomb?
Speaker 1: Glitter bomb like one of those that you like mail
Speaker 1: to someone and then you open it and it's glitter everywhere.
Speaker 1: Oh no, the drink, the boat, the red bull. You know, yeah,
Speaker 1: I've never heard of that. A glitter That sounds good.
Speaker 1: I was thinking, like a bath bomb. Yeah, I was thinking, yeah,
Speaker 1: we ordered two of those, and and uh we talked
Speaker 1: about TV shows and get this, she'd actually never seen
Speaker 1: Stranger Things. Oh that's a a good show. I know.
Speaker 1: I didn't believe she hadn't seen it. Yeah, very important
Speaker 1: to pop culture. She needs to see it. Yeah, all right,
Speaker 1: you watch it. Yeah, it is a great opening. Jose
Speaker 1: to like be like, well we got to watch it together.
Speaker 1: Episode of I know, I know, you know the kids
Speaker 1: and the whatever. No, why do you say the kids?
Speaker 1: You know the kids? Well, you know in the show. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I think he's accidentally creepy guys. Yeah, did you use
Speaker 1: the window to ask her on another hangout date to
Speaker 1: watch the show? I said, Hey, why don't you come
Speaker 1: over to my place? You know, we can binge watch whatever.
Speaker 1: So she came over. I couldn't believe it. Okay, cool,
Speaker 1: So you you're able to get her back to your
Speaker 1: place that night? Yeah? You know, Netflix and Chill, Right,
Speaker 1: all right, okay, how did that go? Well? One thing
Speaker 1: is when I went to the Netflix sign in, my
Speaker 1: ex girlfriend's lodging was on the screen. Well, I fired
Speaker 1: it up. Her name was up there. Yeah, her user name, Yeah,
Speaker 1: her you know her name? And Kelly saw it. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Did she say sopting? I'd say supting. She didn't say anything,
Speaker 1: but it just seemed like there was a pardon the pun,
Speaker 1: There was a chill in the room all of a sudden,
Speaker 1: Netflix and Chill, I say, what he did? Yeah, you know,
Speaker 1: we watched one episode and then she said she had
Speaker 1: to go. And the first episode so good. I know,
Speaker 1: how could you leave after the first episode? Even if
Speaker 1: you don't like you. I would still say maybe if
Speaker 1: you were talking about the kids like you were during
Speaker 1: the whole episode, she probably got freaked out. No, I
Speaker 1: didn't do that. Okay, well that's good. I think it's
Speaker 1: a chick's name. I think she thinks you're in a relationship.
Speaker 1: Yeah it does look like you are. Man. Yeah, maybe
Speaker 1: she thinks I'm cheating on her. I don't know, but
Speaker 1: she didn't mention it. She didn't say any game. We
Speaker 1: didn't talk about it. So I've called her and she'll
Speaker 1: talk to me, but it's, you know, it's sort of
Speaker 1: really polite conversation. And I I asked her if she
Speaker 1: wants to hang out again. She makes these excuses, and
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know what's happening. We had such
Speaker 1: a wonderful time. We lead it off. Okay, all right,
Speaker 1: well here's what we're gonna do. We're gonna play a song,
Speaker 1: come back, call Kelly for you and try and get
Speaker 1: you your second date update. Okay, okay, okay, cool, all right,
Speaker 1: maybe you watch one of those yoga videos in the
Speaker 1: meantime and just calm down. We'll get the call after this,
Speaker 1: all right, hold on, you're just tuning in We've got
Speaker 1: one of our listeners named Kyle on the phone for
Speaker 1: a second date update. And there were a lot of
Speaker 1: firsts in this whole dating situation. Okay, it was one
Speaker 1: of Kyle's first times on a dating app. Yes, it's
Speaker 1: the first woman he's dated with a yoga channel on YouTube.
Speaker 1: He introduced Kelly to her first ever glitterbaumb oh wow,
Speaker 1: I forgot I didn't know about it, which is a
Speaker 1: shot of Goldschlager dropped into a cup of Red Bull
Speaker 1: if you want to do one right now? Sounds very
Speaker 1: early for that. He also showed Kelly the first episode
Speaker 1: of Stranger Things back at his place because she's never
Speaker 1: seen it before. And now it's the first time that
Speaker 1: Kyle's called into a radio show to get help with
Speaker 1: his romantic life. That's sweet. He's just growing up. Hopefully
Speaker 1: it's the last time, though. Yeah, let's hope. That's hope.
Speaker 1: We don't want to hear from you again, hear that.
Speaker 1: That's super lost, bro. I don't want to talk to
Speaker 1: you either after this. All right, we're on agreement then, Kyle,
Speaker 1: We're gonna have this workout for you. Kyle's worried because
Speaker 1: when he turned on his Netflix at home. His ex
Speaker 1: girlfriend's name popped up on the account, and he thinks
Speaker 1: maybe Kelly saw it. There was a little bit of
Speaker 1: awkwardness there, but he's not sure if that's the reason
Speaker 1: she's not calling him back. I mean, if she does
Speaker 1: give you a second chance, Kyle, you ensure her that
Speaker 1: you've removed the X from the Netflix account. I'll do whatever.
Speaker 1: I'll put a guy's name whatever. You should have already
Speaker 1: done it. Take her off, damn, man, just move forward. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you're right, I should have that stupid go do it now.
Speaker 1: We'll talk to you when we're done. You go change
Speaker 1: that account. But right now, we're gonna give Kelly a call.
Speaker 1: You ready, I mean, okay, no, no, I mean how
Speaker 1: often you know you get to go out with a
Speaker 1: girl who has her own yoga channel. I mean, let's
Speaker 1: let's be honest again. If you keep bringing that up,
Speaker 1: it's going to be creepy. Well not with her friends,
Speaker 1: right Yeah. Yeah, I'm just I'm just saying, we're just saying,
Speaker 1: maybe hold in the gloating about her YouTube and until
Speaker 1: after she agrees to a date with you. Okay, Yeah,
Speaker 1: let's turn down the road. Okay, all right, no, no,
Speaker 1: maybe never. Okay, Okay, well here we go. I'm down
Speaker 1: the number now. Okay, hello, Hi, can I speak to Kelly? Please?
Speaker 1: Can I ask who's calling? Yeah? My name's Jeffrey from
Speaker 1: the radio show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. This
Speaker 1: is Kelly. All right, Hi, Kelly, Hi, how you doing?
Speaker 1: I'm doing all right. You don't have to sound don't
Speaker 1: sound so scared of me. I'm nice. I mean she
Speaker 1: is answering everything and with a question. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I've never been on a radio show. I don't Why
Speaker 1: are you guys calling me? Hey, look at this, it's
Speaker 1: a first for Kelly. Kelly. We're calling because we're doing
Speaker 1: something with you called the second Date Update. That's where
Speaker 1: if you go out with someone and afterwards, if they're
Speaker 1: not calling you back, you can email our show and
Speaker 1: we'll reach out to that person for you to try
Speaker 1: and figure out the reason why. Okay, come on, don't
Speaker 1: sound so nervous. This is a good thing. Okay, Okay,
Speaker 1: it makes someone he likes you. Okay, somebody wanted person.
Speaker 1: Well that's nice. Yeah. And that person that's emailed us
Speaker 1: about you, his name is Kyle. Kyle called you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he said, he had a really really good time with you,
Speaker 1: and you're not calling him back now, Oh, so can
Speaker 1: you tell us, like, what did you think of Kyle
Speaker 1: when you met him? He was really nice? Was he
Speaker 1: really nervous? Because he did say he was pretty new
Speaker 1: to like online dating. Yeah, he said he just got
Speaker 1: out of like a long relationship, so it seems like
Speaker 1: it was his first real date in a while. He
Speaker 1: told us some fun stuff happened on your date. He
Speaker 1: said that he showed you what a glitter bomb was. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he did. What do you think of that? I'm not
Speaker 1: sure if I order it again, to be honest, not
Speaker 1: a big fit. But you stuck around long enough to
Speaker 1: go back to his place and watch Stranger Things. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, I've heard a lot about Stranger Things. And
Speaker 1: he seemed really nice and it seemed like a really
Speaker 1: genuine offer. And so what could go wrong? You say that,
Speaker 1: and I feel like you know what went wrong? Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's what we want to know. What did go wrong?
Speaker 1: Because you're not calling him back and he has no
Speaker 1: idea why. You know, he is a nice place and everything.
Speaker 1: And so we sat down and he opened up Netflix
Speaker 1: and there was this other woman's name. Yeah, and I
Speaker 1: know it was probably like his ex or something and whatever,
Speaker 1: but I just it made me nervous, and I don't know.
Speaker 1: Instead of addressing it, he just kind of clicked away. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So did you feel like maybe his ex wasn't his ex,
Speaker 1: maybe it was like his current girlfriend. Yeah, that was
Speaker 1: my concern. I mean, why would he still have run
Speaker 1: the network's menu, you know? Yeah? Yeah, I mean I
Speaker 1: had my girl on Hulu for a long time, my ex.
Speaker 1: So is that the reason you're not calling him back then?
Speaker 1: Because that girl was on his Netflix account? No, it's
Speaker 1: more than that. That made me nervous, But I just decided,
Speaker 1: you know, to do a little research of my own,
Speaker 1: and so I said I needed to make a quick call.
Speaker 1: And so I walked down his hall and I was
Speaker 1: pretending just to talk to my mom. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: you were snoopy to see if there was a woman
Speaker 1: that lives there. Oh my god. Now I'm never going
Speaker 1: to trust another person when they say they have to
Speaker 1: call their mom. You got to do it. Put it
Speaker 1: on speaker. Yeah, I'm backing you on that move. I
Speaker 1: think it's a smart move. Would you find I wasn't
Speaker 1: poking around too much. I wasn't like going through his
Speaker 1: drawers or anything, but I just like opened a door
Speaker 1: or two and I poked my head in, and in
Speaker 1: his bedroom he had all these photos of him and
Speaker 1: another woman who I'm assuming it is probably either his
Speaker 1: ex or his current partner, Like lots of photos, not
Speaker 1: just one. How many photos are we talking about? It
Speaker 1: was like there were a couple on the wall, like
Speaker 1: a normal amount on a wall, and then he had
Speaker 1: like a stack of polaroids of them together on his
Speaker 1: sat like kind of spread out, and it just felt
Speaker 1: a little shriny to me, like they're all in his bedroom.
Speaker 1: He wakes up and goes to bed looking at her
Speaker 1: every night, And I mean, what if he's just out
Speaker 1: of town and he's just trying to have a quick
Speaker 1: and get out. Yeah. Yeah. And the thing is is
Speaker 1: like the polaroids make it feel creepy for some reason,
Speaker 1: Like one polaroid, but like a full full stack of polaroids.
Speaker 1: There we have digital phone. I know, there's just something
Speaker 1: about it that feels like serial killer. Yes, yes, exactly,
Speaker 1: yeah right, it just adds to this shrine atmosphere, right,
Speaker 1: just add a couple of candles and it's perfect. Maybe
Speaker 1: we need to ask Kyle if it was a shrine. Kyle,
Speaker 1: is that a shrine to your ex girlfriend? What's going on? Oh? Yeah, Kelly,
Speaker 1: I should have said, Kyle's been on the other line
Speaker 1: listening this whole time. He wants to talk to you. What.
Speaker 1: Oh no, no, yeah, how you there? Yeah, I'm here,
Speaker 1: I'm here. Might not be bad, Kelly. Maybe he has
Speaker 1: a reasonable explanation. Yeah, you know, the relationship has ended,
Speaker 1: and I'm trying to sort out, you know, what pictures
Speaker 1: to get rid of, and I mean I'm in the
Speaker 1: process of taking everything down, and yeah, a good thing
Speaker 1: to do would just get rid of all the pictures
Speaker 1: with your ex girlfriend. If I can be one hundred
Speaker 1: percent honest. I mean, I was really busy and I
Speaker 1: was gonna sort them and get rid of them the
Speaker 1: night before. But I don't know, I just clicked on
Speaker 1: your YouTube channels. Was just I was just brought up
Speaker 1: watching your yoga videos. Oh oh wow? Really? Yeah, Kelly,
Speaker 1: So it's pretty much your fault that the pictures are
Speaker 1: still up there. Kelly, are you okay with that? Did
Speaker 1: he watched the YouTube videos the yoga stuff? Yeah? I
Speaker 1: mean that's the equivalent of me opening his bedroom door.
Speaker 1: I guess no, hold on, no, there's there's a difference.
Speaker 1: The YouTube is public and anyone in the internet the
Speaker 1: world can see it. Well, the door of it's cursed.
Speaker 1: It basically opened itself. Oh and I got to say, Kyle,
Speaker 1: like you either weren't planning on hooking up with her
Speaker 1: or we're planning on doing it with your ex girlfriend
Speaker 1: watching from the photos like what. No, I'm a gentleman.
Speaker 1: I had no intentions of any of that. You know,
Speaker 1: it's our first day and you know, I mean I
Speaker 1: moved like a snail, I'll be honest. Well, yeah, I mean,
Speaker 1: how long has it been since you broke up with
Speaker 1: your ex doing about a couple of months? Okay, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: we need to purge that. Okay, you need to purge
Speaker 1: that's part of moving on. Yeah, exactly. You know it's
Speaker 1: new and I haven't been single in seven years. But
Speaker 1: I'm sorry that you saw the pictures. But trust me,
Speaker 1: the relationship is over and I'm getting rid of the pictures. Okay, good,
Speaker 1: I believe you. I'm sorry. I do feel really bad
Speaker 1: about reaching your privacy and passing judgments without actually talking
Speaker 1: to you about them. But oh, you guys are cute.
Speaker 1: You got to ask him, Jeffrey, you have to go.
Speaker 1: I'm really excited. I mean, if you guys think about
Speaker 1: this on your next date, you guys could watch Stranger
Speaker 1: Things and her YouTube channel at the same time. Picture
Speaker 1: and picture you mean, yeah, yeah, And if you guys
Speaker 1: are willing to do that, we will pay for you
Speaker 1: to go on that second date. I'll give you a
Speaker 1: second chance, Kyle. I think you're really cool and I'd
Speaker 1: love to see you again. A successful second date update
Speaker 1: they're rare them, Okay, and then but get rid of
Speaker 1: all the pictures before she comes over, please, Yeah, in
Speaker 1: the netlix or at least, you know, put him in
Speaker 1: like a shoebox where she can't find him. You can
Speaker 1: look at him later. Yeah. Ninety two point five