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<v Speaker 1>guys remember when meeting someone online was considered a steady

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<v Speaker 1>way to date? Yeah, it was that funny. Weren't we cute?

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<v Speaker 1>Back then? It was like, you weirdo? Why would you

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<v Speaker 1>do that? Looking up with a stranger off the internet?

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<v Speaker 1>Is just a regular Tuesday. In fact, people think you're

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<v Speaker 1>weird if you don't have a tender account set up.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh for sure, I'm married. If people think I'm weird

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<v Speaker 1>for not having one. Yeah, but today we have a

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<v Speaker 1>guy on the phone who's brand new to dating apps.

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<v Speaker 1>His name's Kyle. He says he needs our help today.

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<v Speaker 1>So what's up, Kyle? Hey? How are you? How's your

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<v Speaker 1>emoji game? It's okay, I guess you gotta be up

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<v Speaker 1>on that right now. It's okay? Yeah, yeah, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I you know, I use them? Um, okay, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not an expert. Can I ask what prompted you

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<v Speaker 1>to finally give it a try online dating? My schoolfriend

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<v Speaker 1>and I were together for seven years and we just

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<v Speaker 1>broke up. Man, Yeah, that's all right. That's where it

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like you're ready to move on. Bro. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>guess you could say that. Yeah, Okay, I'm sorry. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>let's be sad about it more. I'm ready to move on.

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<v Speaker 1>And my friends are like, hey, you know you should

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<v Speaker 1>try this, and I'd never have the need for it.

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<v Speaker 1>And in seven years, you know, a lot has happened

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<v Speaker 1>in terms of dating apps. Right, yeah, right, So what

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<v Speaker 1>was it like? Who did you meet? Honestly? At first,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I wasn't too into it. It seemed weird.

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<v Speaker 1>I had some bad matches, I got even thought ghosted

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<v Speaker 1>one time, and happy it's like a rite of passage though,

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<v Speaker 1>it's yeah, yeah, yeah, So I almost gave up to

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<v Speaker 1>be honest with you. Yeah, but I am so happy

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<v Speaker 1>I stuck with it because I would never have met Kelly. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Kelly is beautiful. She's very kind, like you know, animals, children,

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<v Speaker 1>old people, everything. She checks all the box at a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of women out there that don't like old people.

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<v Speaker 1>So glad you were able to find one senior citizen.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, all right, good, I'm around a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>Kelly's into the olds, and you asked her out. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and check this out. She has her own YouTube channel

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<v Speaker 1>for yoga. Wow, for yoga. Oh that's why you like.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that's cool though. I've been doing some YouTube yoga

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<v Speaker 1>at home. It's nice. Yeah. I mean I wasn't a

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<v Speaker 1>creep or anything, but I did watch it, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>just to check it out. Oh, I totally would I

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<v Speaker 1>do the exact same thing. I think that that's normal

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<v Speaker 1>without doing any yoga. You just sat in front and

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<v Speaker 1>watched her do yoga for a while, for a while,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I just check it out, you know, two

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<v Speaker 1>minutes or wherever long you last. But you got my god, Jeffrey,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what he's talking about. I'm just trying

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<v Speaker 1>to get clarification. He's doing some research on this date.

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<v Speaker 1>He's going on with a chicky met online. It's totally normal. Okay, okay, great,

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<v Speaker 1>So now that the research was done, did you ever

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<v Speaker 1>take her out? So we decided to meet at the bar,

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<v Speaker 1>and she was just as beautiful in person as yoga

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<v Speaker 1>video picture. Yeah, or the yoga everything, you know, And

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't like these were like twenty year old or

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<v Speaker 1>five year old videos. I mean, this was is She

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<v Speaker 1>still looked like that. Now you're kind of dwelled on

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<v Speaker 1>the videos, and I started to think it is creepy.

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<v Speaker 1>I think, right, what were drinks? Like? Did you guys connect?

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<v Speaker 1>We talked about the normal stuff, and I mean it

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<v Speaker 1>was really really nice, and she'd never had a glitter

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<v Speaker 1>bomb before. Well what did you say that glitter bomb?

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<v Speaker 1>Glitter bomb like one of those that you like mail

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<v Speaker 1>to someone and then you open it and it's glitter everywhere.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, the drink, the boat, the red bull. You know, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I've never heard of that. A glitter That sounds good.

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<v Speaker 1>I was thinking, like a bath bomb. Yeah, I was thinking, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we ordered two of those, and and uh we talked

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<v Speaker 1>about TV shows and get this, she'd actually never seen

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<v Speaker 1>Stranger Things. Oh that's a a good show. I know.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't believe she hadn't seen it. Yeah, very important

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<v Speaker 1>to pop culture. She needs to see it. Yeah, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>you watch it. Yeah, it is a great opening. Jose

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<v Speaker 1>to like be like, well we got to watch it together.

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<v Speaker 1>Episode of I know, I know, you know the kids

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<v Speaker 1>and the whatever. No, why do you say the kids?

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<v Speaker 1>You know the kids? Well, you know in the show. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I think he's accidentally creepy guys. Yeah, did you use

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<v Speaker 1>the window to ask her on another hangout date to

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<v Speaker 1>watch the show? I said, Hey, why don't you come

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<v Speaker 1>over to my place? You know, we can binge watch whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>So she came over. I couldn't believe it. Okay, cool,

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<v Speaker 1>So you you're able to get her back to your

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<v Speaker 1>place that night? Yeah? You know, Netflix and Chill, Right,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, okay, how did that go? Well? One thing

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<v Speaker 1>is when I went to the Netflix sign in, my

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<v Speaker 1>ex girlfriend's lodging was on the screen. Well, I fired

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<v Speaker 1>it up. Her name was up there. Yeah, her user name, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>her you know her name? And Kelly saw it. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Did she say sopting? I'd say supting. She didn't say anything,

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<v Speaker 1>but it just seemed like there was a pardon the pun,

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<v Speaker 1>There was a chill in the room all of a sudden,

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<v Speaker 1>Netflix and Chill, I say, what he did? Yeah, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we watched one episode and then she said she had

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<v Speaker 1>to go. And the first episode so good. I know,

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<v Speaker 1>how could you leave after the first episode? Even if

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<v Speaker 1>you don't like you. I would still say maybe if

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<v Speaker 1>you were talking about the kids like you were during

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<v Speaker 1>the whole episode, she probably got freaked out. No, I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't do that. Okay, well that's good. I think it's

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<v Speaker 1>a chick's name. I think she thinks you're in a relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah it does look like you are. Man. Yeah, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>she thinks I'm cheating on her. I don't know, but

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<v Speaker 1>she didn't mention it. She didn't say any game. We

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<v Speaker 1>didn't talk about it. So I've called her and she'll

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<v Speaker 1>talk to me, but it's, you know, it's sort of

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<v Speaker 1>really polite conversation. And I I asked her if she

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<v Speaker 1>wants to hang out again. She makes these excuses, and

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I don't know what's happening. We had such

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<v Speaker 1>a wonderful time. We lead it off. Okay, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>well here's what we're gonna do. We're gonna play a song,

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<v Speaker 1>come back, call Kelly for you and try and get

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<v Speaker 1>you your second date update. Okay, okay, okay, cool, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe you watch one of those yoga videos in the

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<v Speaker 1>meantime and just calm down. We'll get the call after this,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, hold on, you're just tuning in We've got

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<v Speaker 1>one of our listeners named Kyle on the phone for

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<v Speaker 1>a second date update. And there were a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>firsts in this whole dating situation. Okay, it was one

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<v Speaker 1>of Kyle's first times on a dating app. Yes, it's

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<v Speaker 1>the first woman he's dated with a yoga channel on YouTube.

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<v Speaker 1>He introduced Kelly to her first ever glitterbaumb oh wow,

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<v Speaker 1>I forgot I didn't know about it, which is a

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<v Speaker 1>shot of Goldschlager dropped into a cup of Red Bull

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<v Speaker 1>if you want to do one right now? Sounds very

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<v Speaker 1>early for that. He also showed Kelly the first episode

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<v Speaker 1>of Stranger Things back at his place because she's never

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<v Speaker 1>seen it before. And now it's the first time that

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<v Speaker 1>Kyle's called into a radio show to get help with

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<v Speaker 1>his romantic life. That's sweet. He's just growing up. Hopefully

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<v Speaker 1>it's the last time, though. Yeah, let's hope. That's hope.

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<v Speaker 1>We don't want to hear from you again, hear that.

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<v Speaker 1>That's super lost, bro. I don't want to talk to

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<v Speaker 1>you either after this. All right, we're on agreement then, Kyle,

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna have this workout for you. Kyle's worried because

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<v Speaker 1>when he turned on his Netflix at home. His ex

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<v Speaker 1>girlfriend's name popped up on the account, and he thinks

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<v Speaker 1>maybe Kelly saw it. There was a little bit of

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<v Speaker 1>awkwardness there, but he's not sure if that's the reason

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<v Speaker 1>she's not calling him back. I mean, if she does

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<v Speaker 1>give you a second chance, Kyle, you ensure her that

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<v Speaker 1>you've removed the X from the Netflix account. I'll do whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll put a guy's name whatever. You should have already

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<v Speaker 1>done it. Take her off, damn, man, just move forward. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you're right, I should have that stupid go do it now.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll talk to you when we're done. You go change

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<v Speaker 1>that account. But right now, we're gonna give Kelly a call.

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<v Speaker 1>You ready, I mean, okay, no, no, I mean how

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<v Speaker 1>often you know you get to go out with a

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<v Speaker 1>girl who has her own yoga channel. I mean, let's

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<v Speaker 1>let's be honest again. If you keep bringing that up,

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<v Speaker 1>it's going to be creepy. Well not with her friends,

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<v Speaker 1>right Yeah. Yeah, I'm just I'm just saying, we're just saying,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe hold in the gloating about her YouTube and until

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<v Speaker 1>after she agrees to a date with you. Okay, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>let's turn down the road. Okay, all right, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe never. Okay, Okay, well here we go. I'm down

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<v Speaker 1>the number now. Okay, hello, Hi, can I speak to Kelly? Please?

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<v Speaker 1>Can I ask who's calling? Yeah? My name's Jeffrey from

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<v Speaker 1>the radio show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. This

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<v Speaker 1>is Kelly. All right, Hi, Kelly, Hi, how you doing?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm doing all right. You don't have to sound don't

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<v Speaker 1>sound so scared of me. I'm nice. I mean she

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<v Speaker 1>is answering everything and with a question. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I've never been on a radio show. I don't Why

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<v Speaker 1>are you guys calling me? Hey, look at this, it's

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<v Speaker 1>a first for Kelly. Kelly. We're calling because we're doing

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<v Speaker 1>something with you called the second Date Update. That's where

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<v Speaker 1>if you go out with someone and afterwards, if they're

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<v Speaker 1>not calling you back, you can email our show and

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<v Speaker 1>we'll reach out to that person for you to try

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<v Speaker 1>and figure out the reason why. Okay, come on, don't

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<v Speaker 1>sound so nervous. This is a good thing. Okay, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>it makes someone he likes you. Okay, somebody wanted person.

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<v Speaker 1>Well that's nice. Yeah. And that person that's emailed us

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<v Speaker 1>about you, his name is Kyle. Kyle called you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he said, he had a really really good time with you,

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<v Speaker 1>and you're not calling him back now, Oh, so can

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<v Speaker 1>you tell us, like, what did you think of Kyle

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<v Speaker 1>when you met him? He was really nice? Was he

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<v Speaker 1>really nervous? Because he did say he was pretty new

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<v Speaker 1>to like online dating. Yeah, he said he just got

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<v Speaker 1>out of like a long relationship, so it seems like

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<v Speaker 1>it was his first real date in a while. He

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<v Speaker 1>told us some fun stuff happened on your date. He

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<v Speaker 1>said that he showed you what a glitter bomb was. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he did. What do you think of that? I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>sure if I order it again, to be honest, not

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<v Speaker 1>a big fit. But you stuck around long enough to

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<v Speaker 1>go back to his place and watch Stranger Things. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I've heard a lot about Stranger Things. And

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<v Speaker 1>he seemed really nice and it seemed like a really

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<v Speaker 1>genuine offer. And so what could go wrong? You say that,

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<v Speaker 1>and I feel like you know what went wrong? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what we want to know. What did go wrong?

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<v Speaker 1>Because you're not calling him back and he has no

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<v Speaker 1>idea why. You know, he is a nice place and everything.

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<v Speaker 1>And so we sat down and he opened up Netflix

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<v Speaker 1>and there was this other woman's name. Yeah, and I

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<v Speaker 1>know it was probably like his ex or something and whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>but I just it made me nervous, and I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Instead of addressing it, he just kind of clicked away. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So did you feel like maybe his ex wasn't his ex,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe it was like his current girlfriend. Yeah, that was

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<v Speaker 1>my concern. I mean, why would he still have run

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<v Speaker 1>the network's menu, you know? Yeah? Yeah, I mean I

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<v Speaker 1>had my girl on Hulu for a long time, my ex.

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<v Speaker 1>So is that the reason you're not calling him back then?

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<v Speaker 1>Because that girl was on his Netflix account? No, it's

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<v Speaker 1>more than that. That made me nervous, But I just decided,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, to do a little research of my own,

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<v Speaker 1>and so I said I needed to make a quick call.

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<v Speaker 1>And so I walked down his hall and I was

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<v Speaker 1>pretending just to talk to my mom. Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>you were snoopy to see if there was a woman

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<v Speaker 1>that lives there. Oh my god. Now I'm never going

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<v Speaker 1>to trust another person when they say they have to

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<v Speaker 1>call their mom. You got to do it. Put it

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<v Speaker 1>on speaker. Yeah, I'm backing you on that move. I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's a smart move. Would you find I wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>poking around too much. I wasn't like going through his

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<v Speaker 1>drawers or anything, but I just like opened a door

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<v Speaker 1>or two and I poked my head in, and in

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<v Speaker 1>his bedroom he had all these photos of him and

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<v Speaker 1>another woman who I'm assuming it is probably either his

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<v Speaker 1>ex or his current partner, Like lots of photos, not

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<v Speaker 1>just one. How many photos are we talking about? It

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<v Speaker 1>was like there were a couple on the wall, like

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<v Speaker 1>a normal amount on a wall, and then he had

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<v Speaker 1>like a stack of polaroids of them together on his

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<v Speaker 1>sat like kind of spread out, and it just felt

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<v Speaker 1>a little shriny to me, like they're all in his bedroom.

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<v Speaker 1>He wakes up and goes to bed looking at her

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<v Speaker 1>every night, And I mean, what if he's just out

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<v Speaker 1>of town and he's just trying to have a quick

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<v Speaker 1>and get out. Yeah. Yeah. And the thing is is

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<v Speaker 1>like the polaroids make it feel creepy for some reason,

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<v Speaker 1>Like one polaroid, but like a full full stack of polaroids.

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<v Speaker 1>There we have digital phone. I know, there's just something

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<v Speaker 1>about it that feels like serial killer. Yes, yes, exactly,

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<v Speaker 1>yeah right, it just adds to this shrine atmosphere, right,

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<v Speaker 1>just add a couple of candles and it's perfect. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>we need to ask Kyle if it was a shrine. Kyle,

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<v Speaker 1>is that a shrine to your ex girlfriend? What's going on? Oh? Yeah, Kelly,

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<v Speaker 1>I should have said, Kyle's been on the other line

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<v Speaker 1>listening this whole time. He wants to talk to you. What.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, no, yeah, how you there? Yeah, I'm here,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm here. Might not be bad, Kelly. Maybe he has

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<v Speaker 1>a reasonable explanation. Yeah, you know, the relationship has ended,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm trying to sort out, you know, what pictures

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<v Speaker 1>to get rid of, and I mean I'm in the

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<v Speaker 1>process of taking everything down, and yeah, a good thing

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<v Speaker 1>to do would just get rid of all the pictures

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<v Speaker 1>with your ex girlfriend. If I can be one hundred

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<v Speaker 1>percent honest. I mean, I was really busy and I

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<v Speaker 1>was gonna sort them and get rid of them the

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<v Speaker 1>night before. But I don't know, I just clicked on

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<v Speaker 1>your YouTube channels. Was just I was just brought up

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<v Speaker 1>watching your yoga videos. Oh oh wow? Really? Yeah, Kelly,

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<v Speaker 1>So it's pretty much your fault that the pictures are

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<v Speaker 1>still up there. Kelly, are you okay with that? Did

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<v Speaker 1>he watched the YouTube videos the yoga stuff? Yeah? I

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<v Speaker 1>mean that's the equivalent of me opening his bedroom door.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess no, hold on, no, there's there's a difference.

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<v Speaker 1>The YouTube is public and anyone in the internet the

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<v Speaker 1>world can see it. Well, the door of it's cursed.

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<v Speaker 1>It basically opened itself. Oh and I got to say, Kyle,

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<v Speaker 1>like you either weren't planning on hooking up with her

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<v Speaker 1>or we're planning on doing it with your ex girlfriend

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<v Speaker 1>watching from the photos like what. No, I'm a gentleman.

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<v Speaker 1>I had no intentions of any of that. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's our first day and you know, I mean I

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<v Speaker 1>moved like a snail, I'll be honest. Well, yeah, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>how long has it been since you broke up with

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<v Speaker 1>your ex doing about a couple of months? Okay, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we need to purge that. Okay, you need to purge

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<v Speaker 1>that's part of moving on. Yeah, exactly. You know it's

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<v Speaker 1>new and I haven't been single in seven years. But

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry that you saw the pictures. But trust me,

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<v Speaker 1>the relationship is over and I'm getting rid of the pictures. Okay, good,

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<v Speaker 1>I believe you. I'm sorry. I do feel really bad

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<v Speaker 1>about reaching your privacy and passing judgments without actually talking

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<v Speaker 1>to you about them. But oh, you guys are cute.

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<v Speaker 1>You got to ask him, Jeffrey, you have to go.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm really excited. I mean, if you guys think about

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<v Speaker 1>this on your next date, you guys could watch Stranger

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<v Speaker 1>Things and her YouTube channel at the same time. Picture

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<v Speaker 1>and picture you mean, yeah, yeah, And if you guys

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<v Speaker 1>are willing to do that, we will pay for you

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<v Speaker 1>to go on that second date. I'll give you a

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<v Speaker 1>second chance, Kyle. I think you're really cool and I'd

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<v Speaker 1>love to see you again. A successful second date update

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<v Speaker 1>they're rare them, Okay, and then but get rid of

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<v Speaker 1>all the pictures before she comes over, please, Yeah, in

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<v Speaker 1>the netlix or at least, you know, put him in

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<v Speaker 1>like a shoebox where she can't find him. You can

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<v Speaker 1>look at him later. Yeah. Ninety two point five