1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:02,800 Speaker 1: Bread and butter wines pair with the life moments you love, 2 00:00:02,920 --> 00:00:06,320 Speaker 1: offering a rich and jammy Cabernet sauvignon, a silky smooth 3 00:00:06,320 --> 00:00:08,959 Speaker 1: piano now are, and a buttery Chardonnay. Bread and butter 4 00:00:09,000 --> 00:00:11,600 Speaker 1: wines are delicious. Find a bread and butter wines in 5 00:00:11,600 --> 00:00:18,160 Speaker 1: your favorite store. Second date up to date? Do you 6 00:00:18,200 --> 00:00:21,599 Speaker 1: guys remember when meeting someone online was considered a steady 7 00:00:21,720 --> 00:00:25,360 Speaker 1: way to date? Yeah, it was that funny. Weren't we cute? 8 00:00:25,360 --> 00:00:28,880 Speaker 1: Back then? It was like, you weirdo? Why would you 9 00:00:28,880 --> 00:00:32,479 Speaker 1: do that? Looking up with a stranger off the internet? 10 00:00:32,600 --> 00:00:35,479 Speaker 1: Is just a regular Tuesday. In fact, people think you're 11 00:00:35,479 --> 00:00:37,680 Speaker 1: weird if you don't have a tender account set up. 12 00:00:37,720 --> 00:00:40,160 Speaker 1: Oh for sure, I'm married. If people think I'm weird 13 00:00:40,200 --> 00:00:42,880 Speaker 1: for not having one. Yeah, but today we have a 14 00:00:42,920 --> 00:00:45,920 Speaker 1: guy on the phone who's brand new to dating apps. 15 00:00:46,840 --> 00:00:49,720 Speaker 1: His name's Kyle. He says he needs our help today. 16 00:00:49,840 --> 00:00:53,440 Speaker 1: So what's up, Kyle? Hey? How are you? How's your 17 00:00:53,440 --> 00:00:57,600 Speaker 1: emoji game? It's okay, I guess you gotta be up 18 00:00:57,640 --> 00:01:00,600 Speaker 1: on that right now. It's okay? Yeah, yeah, I mean 19 00:01:00,640 --> 00:01:03,240 Speaker 1: I you know, I use them? Um, okay, I mean 20 00:01:03,360 --> 00:01:05,440 Speaker 1: I'm not an expert. Can I ask what prompted you 21 00:01:05,480 --> 00:01:08,920 Speaker 1: to finally give it a try online dating? My schoolfriend 22 00:01:08,920 --> 00:01:12,400 Speaker 1: and I were together for seven years and we just 23 00:01:12,440 --> 00:01:15,800 Speaker 1: broke up. Man, Yeah, that's all right. That's where it 24 00:01:15,840 --> 00:01:19,520 Speaker 1: sounds like you're ready to move on. Bro. Yeah, I 25 00:01:19,560 --> 00:01:23,000 Speaker 1: guess you could say that. Yeah, Okay, I'm sorry. You know, 26 00:01:23,040 --> 00:01:28,160 Speaker 1: let's be sad about it more. I'm ready to move on. 27 00:01:28,240 --> 00:01:30,480 Speaker 1: And my friends are like, hey, you know you should 28 00:01:30,520 --> 00:01:32,679 Speaker 1: try this, and I'd never have the need for it. 29 00:01:32,840 --> 00:01:35,720 Speaker 1: And in seven years, you know, a lot has happened 30 00:01:35,760 --> 00:01:38,720 Speaker 1: in terms of dating apps. Right, yeah, right, So what 31 00:01:38,800 --> 00:01:41,319 Speaker 1: was it like? Who did you meet? Honestly? At first, 32 00:01:41,560 --> 00:01:44,119 Speaker 1: I don't know. I wasn't too into it. It seemed weird. 33 00:01:44,160 --> 00:01:47,200 Speaker 1: I had some bad matches, I got even thought ghosted 34 00:01:47,440 --> 00:01:51,320 Speaker 1: one time, and happy it's like a rite of passage though, 35 00:01:51,400 --> 00:01:55,120 Speaker 1: it's yeah, yeah, yeah, So I almost gave up to 36 00:01:55,240 --> 00:01:58,360 Speaker 1: be honest with you. Yeah, but I am so happy 37 00:01:58,480 --> 00:02:02,560 Speaker 1: I stuck with it because I would never have met Kelly. Okay. 38 00:02:02,760 --> 00:02:08,720 Speaker 1: Kelly is beautiful. She's very kind, like you know, animals, children, 39 00:02:08,800 --> 00:02:12,679 Speaker 1: old people, everything. She checks all the box at a 40 00:02:12,800 --> 00:02:14,680 Speaker 1: lot of women out there that don't like old people. 41 00:02:14,840 --> 00:02:19,440 Speaker 1: So glad you were able to find one senior citizen. 42 00:02:19,480 --> 00:02:24,120 Speaker 1: But yeah, all right, good, I'm around a lot of 43 00:02:26,280 --> 00:02:29,680 Speaker 1: Kelly's into the olds, and you asked her out. Yeah, 44 00:02:29,760 --> 00:02:32,760 Speaker 1: and check this out. She has her own YouTube channel 45 00:02:33,000 --> 00:02:37,040 Speaker 1: for yoga. Wow, for yoga. Oh that's why you like. 46 00:02:37,520 --> 00:02:40,760 Speaker 1: Oh that's cool though. I've been doing some YouTube yoga 47 00:02:40,800 --> 00:02:43,560 Speaker 1: at home. It's nice. Yeah. I mean I wasn't a 48 00:02:43,560 --> 00:02:45,400 Speaker 1: creep or anything, but I did watch it, you know, 49 00:02:45,480 --> 00:02:47,480 Speaker 1: just to check it out. Oh, I totally would I 50 00:02:47,520 --> 00:02:49,400 Speaker 1: do the exact same thing. I think that that's normal 51 00:02:49,560 --> 00:02:51,880 Speaker 1: without doing any yoga. You just sat in front and 52 00:02:51,919 --> 00:02:55,079 Speaker 1: watched her do yoga for a while, for a while, 53 00:02:55,160 --> 00:02:57,320 Speaker 1: I mean, I just check it out, you know, two 54 00:02:57,320 --> 00:03:02,040 Speaker 1: minutes or wherever long you last. But you got my god, Jeffrey, 55 00:03:02,600 --> 00:03:04,359 Speaker 1: I don't know what he's talking about. I'm just trying 56 00:03:04,360 --> 00:03:07,679 Speaker 1: to get clarification. He's doing some research on this date. 57 00:03:07,760 --> 00:03:13,520 Speaker 1: He's going on with a chicky met online. It's totally normal. Okay, okay, great, 58 00:03:13,560 --> 00:03:15,720 Speaker 1: So now that the research was done, did you ever 59 00:03:15,840 --> 00:03:18,720 Speaker 1: take her out? So we decided to meet at the bar, 60 00:03:19,560 --> 00:03:23,960 Speaker 1: and she was just as beautiful in person as yoga 61 00:03:24,040 --> 00:03:27,400 Speaker 1: video picture. Yeah, or the yoga everything, you know, And 62 00:03:27,400 --> 00:03:29,600 Speaker 1: it wasn't like these were like twenty year old or 63 00:03:29,680 --> 00:03:32,240 Speaker 1: five year old videos. I mean, this was is She 64 00:03:32,320 --> 00:03:34,400 Speaker 1: still looked like that. Now you're kind of dwelled on 65 00:03:34,480 --> 00:03:36,640 Speaker 1: the videos, and I started to think it is creepy. 66 00:03:36,840 --> 00:03:40,240 Speaker 1: I think, right, what were drinks? Like? Did you guys connect? 67 00:03:40,680 --> 00:03:43,000 Speaker 1: We talked about the normal stuff, and I mean it 68 00:03:43,080 --> 00:03:46,400 Speaker 1: was really really nice, and she'd never had a glitter 69 00:03:46,400 --> 00:03:49,560 Speaker 1: bomb before. Well what did you say that glitter bomb? 70 00:03:49,680 --> 00:03:52,040 Speaker 1: Glitter bomb like one of those that you like mail 71 00:03:52,160 --> 00:03:54,920 Speaker 1: to someone and then you open it and it's glitter everywhere. 72 00:03:55,120 --> 00:04:02,119 Speaker 1: Oh no, the drink, the boat, the red bull. You know, yeah, 73 00:04:02,160 --> 00:04:04,800 Speaker 1: I've never heard of that. A glitter That sounds good. 74 00:04:04,880 --> 00:04:08,280 Speaker 1: I was thinking, like a bath bomb. Yeah, I was thinking, yeah, 75 00:04:08,320 --> 00:04:10,880 Speaker 1: we ordered two of those, and and uh we talked 76 00:04:10,920 --> 00:04:14,360 Speaker 1: about TV shows and get this, she'd actually never seen 77 00:04:14,800 --> 00:04:18,719 Speaker 1: Stranger Things. Oh that's a a good show. I know. 78 00:04:19,080 --> 00:04:21,560 Speaker 1: I didn't believe she hadn't seen it. Yeah, very important 79 00:04:21,560 --> 00:04:24,479 Speaker 1: to pop culture. She needs to see it. Yeah, all right, 80 00:04:24,880 --> 00:04:27,239 Speaker 1: you watch it. Yeah, it is a great opening. Jose 81 00:04:27,440 --> 00:04:29,200 Speaker 1: to like be like, well we got to watch it together. 82 00:04:29,440 --> 00:04:31,600 Speaker 1: Episode of I know, I know, you know the kids 83 00:04:31,640 --> 00:04:35,800 Speaker 1: and the whatever. No, why do you say the kids? 84 00:04:37,120 --> 00:04:42,400 Speaker 1: You know the kids? Well, you know in the show. Yeah, 85 00:04:39,800 --> 00:04:45,680 Speaker 1: I think he's accidentally creepy guys. Yeah, did you use 86 00:04:45,720 --> 00:04:49,000 Speaker 1: the window to ask her on another hangout date to 87 00:04:49,080 --> 00:04:51,520 Speaker 1: watch the show? I said, Hey, why don't you come 88 00:04:51,560 --> 00:04:54,400 Speaker 1: over to my place? You know, we can binge watch whatever. 89 00:04:54,520 --> 00:04:56,800 Speaker 1: So she came over. I couldn't believe it. Okay, cool, 90 00:04:56,880 --> 00:04:58,720 Speaker 1: So you you're able to get her back to your 91 00:04:58,760 --> 00:05:02,040 Speaker 1: place that night? Yeah? You know, Netflix and Chill, Right, 92 00:05:02,400 --> 00:05:06,440 Speaker 1: all right, okay, how did that go? Well? One thing 93 00:05:06,560 --> 00:05:09,320 Speaker 1: is when I went to the Netflix sign in, my 94 00:05:09,440 --> 00:05:13,520 Speaker 1: ex girlfriend's lodging was on the screen. Well, I fired 95 00:05:13,520 --> 00:05:17,599 Speaker 1: it up. Her name was up there. Yeah, her user name, Yeah, 96 00:05:17,640 --> 00:05:22,560 Speaker 1: her you know her name? And Kelly saw it. Yeah. 97 00:05:22,640 --> 00:05:26,400 Speaker 1: Did she say sopting? I'd say supting. She didn't say anything, 98 00:05:26,800 --> 00:05:29,520 Speaker 1: but it just seemed like there was a pardon the pun, 99 00:05:29,600 --> 00:05:31,520 Speaker 1: There was a chill in the room all of a sudden, 100 00:05:31,880 --> 00:05:36,240 Speaker 1: Netflix and Chill, I say, what he did? Yeah, you know, 101 00:05:36,279 --> 00:05:39,160 Speaker 1: we watched one episode and then she said she had 102 00:05:39,160 --> 00:05:42,320 Speaker 1: to go. And the first episode so good. I know, 103 00:05:42,400 --> 00:05:44,560 Speaker 1: how could you leave after the first episode? Even if 104 00:05:44,560 --> 00:05:47,560 Speaker 1: you don't like you. I would still say maybe if 105 00:05:47,560 --> 00:05:49,880 Speaker 1: you were talking about the kids like you were during 106 00:05:49,920 --> 00:05:52,880 Speaker 1: the whole episode, she probably got freaked out. No, I 107 00:05:52,920 --> 00:05:55,320 Speaker 1: didn't do that. Okay, well that's good. I think it's 108 00:05:55,320 --> 00:05:57,560 Speaker 1: a chick's name. I think she thinks you're in a relationship. 109 00:05:57,800 --> 00:06:01,080 Speaker 1: Yeah it does look like you are. Man. Yeah, maybe 110 00:06:01,120 --> 00:06:03,520 Speaker 1: she thinks I'm cheating on her. I don't know, but 111 00:06:03,800 --> 00:06:05,520 Speaker 1: she didn't mention it. She didn't say any game. We 112 00:06:05,560 --> 00:06:09,920 Speaker 1: didn't talk about it. So I've called her and she'll 113 00:06:09,960 --> 00:06:11,279 Speaker 1: talk to me, but it's, you know, it's sort of 114 00:06:11,320 --> 00:06:14,919 Speaker 1: really polite conversation. And I I asked her if she 115 00:06:14,960 --> 00:06:18,240 Speaker 1: wants to hang out again. She makes these excuses, and 116 00:06:18,760 --> 00:06:20,720 Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know what's happening. We had such 117 00:06:20,720 --> 00:06:23,680 Speaker 1: a wonderful time. We lead it off. Okay, all right, 118 00:06:23,720 --> 00:06:25,840 Speaker 1: well here's what we're gonna do. We're gonna play a song, 119 00:06:26,279 --> 00:06:28,640 Speaker 1: come back, call Kelly for you and try and get 120 00:06:28,640 --> 00:06:32,359 Speaker 1: you your second date update. Okay, okay, okay, cool, all right, 121 00:06:34,000 --> 00:06:35,760 Speaker 1: maybe you watch one of those yoga videos in the 122 00:06:35,760 --> 00:06:39,279 Speaker 1: meantime and just calm down. We'll get the call after this, 123 00:06:39,360 --> 00:06:41,279 Speaker 1: all right, hold on, you're just tuning in We've got 124 00:06:41,320 --> 00:06:43,240 Speaker 1: one of our listeners named Kyle on the phone for 125 00:06:43,279 --> 00:06:45,680 Speaker 1: a second date update. And there were a lot of 126 00:06:45,720 --> 00:06:49,440 Speaker 1: firsts in this whole dating situation. Okay, it was one 127 00:06:49,440 --> 00:06:53,200 Speaker 1: of Kyle's first times on a dating app. Yes, it's 128 00:06:53,240 --> 00:06:57,039 Speaker 1: the first woman he's dated with a yoga channel on YouTube. 129 00:06:57,960 --> 00:07:02,240 Speaker 1: He introduced Kelly to her first ever glitterbaumb oh wow, 130 00:07:02,480 --> 00:07:04,320 Speaker 1: I forgot I didn't know about it, which is a 131 00:07:04,640 --> 00:07:07,320 Speaker 1: shot of Goldschlager dropped into a cup of Red Bull 132 00:07:07,320 --> 00:07:10,240 Speaker 1: if you want to do one right now? Sounds very 133 00:07:10,240 --> 00:07:14,960 Speaker 1: early for that. He also showed Kelly the first episode 134 00:07:15,000 --> 00:07:18,000 Speaker 1: of Stranger Things back at his place because she's never 135 00:07:18,040 --> 00:07:21,400 Speaker 1: seen it before. And now it's the first time that 136 00:07:21,480 --> 00:07:25,120 Speaker 1: Kyle's called into a radio show to get help with 137 00:07:25,200 --> 00:07:30,600 Speaker 1: his romantic life. That's sweet. He's just growing up. Hopefully 138 00:07:30,600 --> 00:07:34,000 Speaker 1: it's the last time, though. Yeah, let's hope. That's hope. 139 00:07:34,080 --> 00:07:35,720 Speaker 1: We don't want to hear from you again, hear that. 140 00:07:36,120 --> 00:07:37,880 Speaker 1: That's super lost, bro. I don't want to talk to 141 00:07:37,880 --> 00:07:41,520 Speaker 1: you either after this. All right, we're on agreement then, Kyle, 142 00:07:41,600 --> 00:07:44,280 Speaker 1: We're gonna have this workout for you. Kyle's worried because 143 00:07:44,360 --> 00:07:47,400 Speaker 1: when he turned on his Netflix at home. His ex 144 00:07:47,440 --> 00:07:51,520 Speaker 1: girlfriend's name popped up on the account, and he thinks 145 00:07:51,600 --> 00:07:53,400 Speaker 1: maybe Kelly saw it. There was a little bit of 146 00:07:53,440 --> 00:07:56,080 Speaker 1: awkwardness there, but he's not sure if that's the reason 147 00:07:56,160 --> 00:07:58,440 Speaker 1: she's not calling him back. I mean, if she does 148 00:07:58,520 --> 00:08:01,080 Speaker 1: give you a second chance, Kyle, you ensure her that 149 00:08:01,160 --> 00:08:04,760 Speaker 1: you've removed the X from the Netflix account. I'll do whatever. 150 00:08:04,880 --> 00:08:08,000 Speaker 1: I'll put a guy's name whatever. You should have already 151 00:08:08,000 --> 00:08:12,920 Speaker 1: done it. Take her off, damn, man, just move forward. Yeah, 152 00:08:12,920 --> 00:08:17,000 Speaker 1: you're right, I should have that stupid go do it now. 153 00:08:17,480 --> 00:08:19,520 Speaker 1: We'll talk to you when we're done. You go change 154 00:08:19,520 --> 00:08:23,240 Speaker 1: that account. But right now, we're gonna give Kelly a call. 155 00:08:23,280 --> 00:08:28,720 Speaker 1: You ready, I mean, okay, no, no, I mean how 156 00:08:28,720 --> 00:08:30,400 Speaker 1: often you know you get to go out with a 157 00:08:30,440 --> 00:08:32,560 Speaker 1: girl who has her own yoga channel. I mean, let's 158 00:08:32,600 --> 00:08:34,760 Speaker 1: let's be honest again. If you keep bringing that up, 159 00:08:34,800 --> 00:08:38,400 Speaker 1: it's going to be creepy. Well not with her friends, 160 00:08:38,520 --> 00:08:43,280 Speaker 1: right Yeah. Yeah, I'm just I'm just saying, we're just saying, 161 00:08:43,280 --> 00:08:46,800 Speaker 1: maybe hold in the gloating about her YouTube and until 162 00:08:46,880 --> 00:08:49,760 Speaker 1: after she agrees to a date with you. Okay, Yeah, 163 00:08:49,800 --> 00:08:52,480 Speaker 1: let's turn down the road. Okay, all right, no, no, 164 00:08:52,720 --> 00:08:54,880 Speaker 1: maybe never. Okay, Okay, well here we go. I'm down 165 00:08:54,920 --> 00:09:06,760 Speaker 1: the number now. Okay, hello, Hi, can I speak to Kelly? Please? 166 00:09:07,920 --> 00:09:11,760 Speaker 1: Can I ask who's calling? Yeah? My name's Jeffrey from 167 00:09:11,800 --> 00:09:15,600 Speaker 1: the radio show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. This 168 00:09:15,679 --> 00:09:19,240 Speaker 1: is Kelly. All right, Hi, Kelly, Hi, how you doing? 169 00:09:20,200 --> 00:09:23,080 Speaker 1: I'm doing all right. You don't have to sound don't 170 00:09:23,120 --> 00:09:25,200 Speaker 1: sound so scared of me. I'm nice. I mean she 171 00:09:25,360 --> 00:09:28,720 Speaker 1: is answering everything and with a question. I don't know. 172 00:09:29,559 --> 00:09:32,520 Speaker 1: I've never been on a radio show. I don't Why 173 00:09:32,520 --> 00:09:35,280 Speaker 1: are you guys calling me? Hey, look at this, it's 174 00:09:35,280 --> 00:09:39,640 Speaker 1: a first for Kelly. Kelly. We're calling because we're doing 175 00:09:39,720 --> 00:09:42,400 Speaker 1: something with you called the second Date Update. That's where 176 00:09:42,440 --> 00:09:45,240 Speaker 1: if you go out with someone and afterwards, if they're 177 00:09:45,280 --> 00:09:47,400 Speaker 1: not calling you back, you can email our show and 178 00:09:47,440 --> 00:09:49,400 Speaker 1: we'll reach out to that person for you to try 179 00:09:49,440 --> 00:09:54,000 Speaker 1: and figure out the reason why. Okay, come on, don't 180 00:09:54,040 --> 00:09:58,720 Speaker 1: sound so nervous. This is a good thing. Okay, Okay, 181 00:09:59,000 --> 00:10:02,960 Speaker 1: it makes someone he likes you. Okay, somebody wanted person. 182 00:10:03,840 --> 00:10:07,600 Speaker 1: Well that's nice. Yeah. And that person that's emailed us 183 00:10:07,600 --> 00:10:12,880 Speaker 1: about you, his name is Kyle. Kyle called you. Yeah, 184 00:10:12,920 --> 00:10:15,040 Speaker 1: he said, he had a really really good time with you, 185 00:10:15,240 --> 00:10:19,480 Speaker 1: and you're not calling him back now, Oh, so can 186 00:10:19,480 --> 00:10:21,000 Speaker 1: you tell us, like, what did you think of Kyle 187 00:10:21,040 --> 00:10:24,199 Speaker 1: when you met him? He was really nice? Was he 188 00:10:24,240 --> 00:10:26,760 Speaker 1: really nervous? Because he did say he was pretty new 189 00:10:26,800 --> 00:10:30,280 Speaker 1: to like online dating. Yeah, he said he just got 190 00:10:30,320 --> 00:10:33,040 Speaker 1: out of like a long relationship, so it seems like 191 00:10:33,080 --> 00:10:36,960 Speaker 1: it was his first real date in a while. He 192 00:10:37,000 --> 00:10:39,120 Speaker 1: told us some fun stuff happened on your date. He 193 00:10:39,160 --> 00:10:42,760 Speaker 1: said that he showed you what a glitter bomb was. Yeah, 194 00:10:42,760 --> 00:10:44,600 Speaker 1: he did. What do you think of that? I'm not 195 00:10:44,640 --> 00:10:47,120 Speaker 1: sure if I order it again, to be honest, not 196 00:10:47,240 --> 00:10:50,200 Speaker 1: a big fit. But you stuck around long enough to 197 00:10:50,240 --> 00:10:53,680 Speaker 1: go back to his place and watch Stranger Things. Yeah, 198 00:10:53,720 --> 00:10:56,000 Speaker 1: you know, I've heard a lot about Stranger Things. And 199 00:10:56,080 --> 00:10:58,240 Speaker 1: he seemed really nice and it seemed like a really 200 00:10:58,280 --> 00:11:02,480 Speaker 1: genuine offer. And so what could go wrong? You say that, 201 00:11:02,559 --> 00:11:05,360 Speaker 1: and I feel like you know what went wrong? Yeah, 202 00:11:05,400 --> 00:11:07,520 Speaker 1: that's what we want to know. What did go wrong? 203 00:11:07,600 --> 00:11:09,840 Speaker 1: Because you're not calling him back and he has no 204 00:11:09,920 --> 00:11:13,440 Speaker 1: idea why. You know, he is a nice place and everything. 205 00:11:13,559 --> 00:11:16,439 Speaker 1: And so we sat down and he opened up Netflix 206 00:11:16,559 --> 00:11:19,600 Speaker 1: and there was this other woman's name. Yeah, and I 207 00:11:19,720 --> 00:11:23,319 Speaker 1: know it was probably like his ex or something and whatever, 208 00:11:23,559 --> 00:11:26,720 Speaker 1: but I just it made me nervous, and I don't know. 209 00:11:26,840 --> 00:11:31,360 Speaker 1: Instead of addressing it, he just kind of clicked away. Yeah. Yeah, 210 00:11:31,400 --> 00:11:34,400 Speaker 1: So did you feel like maybe his ex wasn't his ex, 211 00:11:34,440 --> 00:11:37,440 Speaker 1: maybe it was like his current girlfriend. Yeah, that was 212 00:11:37,520 --> 00:11:40,319 Speaker 1: my concern. I mean, why would he still have run 213 00:11:40,360 --> 00:11:46,160 Speaker 1: the network's menu, you know? Yeah? Yeah, I mean I 214 00:11:46,200 --> 00:11:49,000 Speaker 1: had my girl on Hulu for a long time, my ex. 215 00:11:49,720 --> 00:11:51,679 Speaker 1: So is that the reason you're not calling him back then? 216 00:11:51,760 --> 00:11:55,320 Speaker 1: Because that girl was on his Netflix account? No, it's 217 00:11:55,360 --> 00:11:58,080 Speaker 1: more than that. That made me nervous, But I just decided, 218 00:11:58,200 --> 00:12:01,240 Speaker 1: you know, to do a little research of my own, 219 00:12:01,280 --> 00:12:03,320 Speaker 1: and so I said I needed to make a quick call. 220 00:12:03,400 --> 00:12:05,560 Speaker 1: And so I walked down his hall and I was 221 00:12:05,600 --> 00:12:09,840 Speaker 1: pretending just to talk to my mom. Oh my god, 222 00:12:09,920 --> 00:12:12,360 Speaker 1: you were snoopy to see if there was a woman 223 00:12:12,360 --> 00:12:14,400 Speaker 1: that lives there. Oh my god. Now I'm never going 224 00:12:14,440 --> 00:12:16,240 Speaker 1: to trust another person when they say they have to 225 00:12:16,280 --> 00:12:19,400 Speaker 1: call their mom. You got to do it. Put it 226 00:12:19,440 --> 00:12:22,560 Speaker 1: on speaker. Yeah, I'm backing you on that move. I 227 00:12:22,559 --> 00:12:24,880 Speaker 1: think it's a smart move. Would you find I wasn't 228 00:12:24,880 --> 00:12:26,880 Speaker 1: poking around too much. I wasn't like going through his 229 00:12:27,000 --> 00:12:30,079 Speaker 1: drawers or anything, but I just like opened a door 230 00:12:30,240 --> 00:12:33,560 Speaker 1: or two and I poked my head in, and in 231 00:12:33,600 --> 00:12:38,120 Speaker 1: his bedroom he had all these photos of him and 232 00:12:38,240 --> 00:12:41,600 Speaker 1: another woman who I'm assuming it is probably either his 233 00:12:41,760 --> 00:12:46,000 Speaker 1: ex or his current partner, Like lots of photos, not 234 00:12:46,080 --> 00:12:48,280 Speaker 1: just one. How many photos are we talking about? It 235 00:12:48,360 --> 00:12:50,000 Speaker 1: was like there were a couple on the wall, like 236 00:12:50,040 --> 00:12:52,720 Speaker 1: a normal amount on a wall, and then he had 237 00:12:52,800 --> 00:12:56,240 Speaker 1: like a stack of polaroids of them together on his 238 00:12:56,480 --> 00:12:59,520 Speaker 1: sat like kind of spread out, and it just felt 239 00:13:00,120 --> 00:13:03,319 Speaker 1: a little shriny to me, like they're all in his bedroom. 240 00:13:03,800 --> 00:13:06,880 Speaker 1: He wakes up and goes to bed looking at her 241 00:13:06,920 --> 00:13:10,040 Speaker 1: every night, And I mean, what if he's just out 242 00:13:10,040 --> 00:13:13,000 Speaker 1: of town and he's just trying to have a quick 243 00:13:13,320 --> 00:13:16,120 Speaker 1: and get out. Yeah. Yeah. And the thing is is 244 00:13:16,120 --> 00:13:18,640 Speaker 1: like the polaroids make it feel creepy for some reason, 245 00:13:18,920 --> 00:13:22,280 Speaker 1: Like one polaroid, but like a full full stack of polaroids. 246 00:13:22,280 --> 00:13:25,080 Speaker 1: There we have digital phone. I know, there's just something 247 00:13:25,120 --> 00:13:29,120 Speaker 1: about it that feels like serial killer. Yes, yes, exactly, 248 00:13:30,120 --> 00:13:33,520 Speaker 1: yeah right, it just adds to this shrine atmosphere, right, 249 00:13:33,559 --> 00:13:38,680 Speaker 1: just add a couple of candles and it's perfect. Maybe 250 00:13:38,679 --> 00:13:41,400 Speaker 1: we need to ask Kyle if it was a shrine. Kyle, 251 00:13:41,800 --> 00:13:46,880 Speaker 1: is that a shrine to your ex girlfriend? What's going on? Oh? Yeah, Kelly, 252 00:13:46,920 --> 00:13:49,160 Speaker 1: I should have said, Kyle's been on the other line 253 00:13:49,200 --> 00:13:52,760 Speaker 1: listening this whole time. He wants to talk to you. What. 254 00:13:53,320 --> 00:13:58,600 Speaker 1: Oh no, no, yeah, how you there? Yeah, I'm here, 255 00:13:58,720 --> 00:14:01,559 Speaker 1: I'm here. Might not be bad, Kelly. Maybe he has 256 00:14:01,559 --> 00:14:06,440 Speaker 1: a reasonable explanation. Yeah, you know, the relationship has ended, 257 00:14:06,559 --> 00:14:09,080 Speaker 1: and I'm trying to sort out, you know, what pictures 258 00:14:09,080 --> 00:14:11,720 Speaker 1: to get rid of, and I mean I'm in the 259 00:14:11,760 --> 00:14:15,839 Speaker 1: process of taking everything down, and yeah, a good thing 260 00:14:15,880 --> 00:14:17,880 Speaker 1: to do would just get rid of all the pictures 261 00:14:17,880 --> 00:14:21,680 Speaker 1: with your ex girlfriend. If I can be one hundred 262 00:14:21,680 --> 00:14:24,400 Speaker 1: percent honest. I mean, I was really busy and I 263 00:14:24,480 --> 00:14:26,560 Speaker 1: was gonna sort them and get rid of them the 264 00:14:26,640 --> 00:14:29,360 Speaker 1: night before. But I don't know, I just clicked on 265 00:14:29,400 --> 00:14:31,840 Speaker 1: your YouTube channels. Was just I was just brought up 266 00:14:31,840 --> 00:14:37,280 Speaker 1: watching your yoga videos. Oh oh wow? Really? Yeah, Kelly, 267 00:14:37,280 --> 00:14:39,400 Speaker 1: So it's pretty much your fault that the pictures are 268 00:14:39,400 --> 00:14:42,160 Speaker 1: still up there. Kelly, are you okay with that? Did 269 00:14:42,200 --> 00:14:45,680 Speaker 1: he watched the YouTube videos the yoga stuff? Yeah? I 270 00:14:45,720 --> 00:14:49,120 Speaker 1: mean that's the equivalent of me opening his bedroom door. 271 00:14:49,200 --> 00:14:55,480 Speaker 1: I guess no, hold on, no, there's there's a difference. 272 00:14:55,680 --> 00:14:58,400 Speaker 1: The YouTube is public and anyone in the internet the 273 00:14:58,480 --> 00:15:01,520 Speaker 1: world can see it. Well, the door of it's cursed. 274 00:15:01,600 --> 00:15:05,840 Speaker 1: It basically opened itself. Oh and I got to say, Kyle, 275 00:15:07,320 --> 00:15:10,640 Speaker 1: like you either weren't planning on hooking up with her 276 00:15:10,840 --> 00:15:13,960 Speaker 1: or we're planning on doing it with your ex girlfriend 277 00:15:13,960 --> 00:15:17,400 Speaker 1: watching from the photos like what. No, I'm a gentleman. 278 00:15:17,520 --> 00:15:20,280 Speaker 1: I had no intentions of any of that. You know, 279 00:15:20,320 --> 00:15:22,640 Speaker 1: it's our first day and you know, I mean I 280 00:15:22,720 --> 00:15:26,440 Speaker 1: moved like a snail, I'll be honest. Well, yeah, I mean, 281 00:15:26,480 --> 00:15:28,200 Speaker 1: how long has it been since you broke up with 282 00:15:28,200 --> 00:15:32,040 Speaker 1: your ex doing about a couple of months? Okay, yeah, yeah, 283 00:15:32,120 --> 00:15:34,640 Speaker 1: we need to purge that. Okay, you need to purge 284 00:15:34,840 --> 00:15:37,960 Speaker 1: that's part of moving on. Yeah, exactly. You know it's 285 00:15:38,080 --> 00:15:41,480 Speaker 1: new and I haven't been single in seven years. But 286 00:15:41,800 --> 00:15:44,920 Speaker 1: I'm sorry that you saw the pictures. But trust me, 287 00:15:44,960 --> 00:15:49,520 Speaker 1: the relationship is over and I'm getting rid of the pictures. Okay, good, 288 00:15:49,640 --> 00:15:52,120 Speaker 1: I believe you. I'm sorry. I do feel really bad 289 00:15:52,200 --> 00:15:57,160 Speaker 1: about reaching your privacy and passing judgments without actually talking 290 00:15:57,320 --> 00:15:59,880 Speaker 1: to you about them. But oh, you guys are cute. 291 00:16:00,280 --> 00:16:02,960 Speaker 1: You got to ask him, Jeffrey, you have to go. 292 00:16:03,000 --> 00:16:05,440 Speaker 1: I'm really excited. I mean, if you guys think about 293 00:16:05,440 --> 00:16:08,120 Speaker 1: this on your next date, you guys could watch Stranger 294 00:16:08,160 --> 00:16:13,120 Speaker 1: Things and her YouTube channel at the same time. Picture 295 00:16:13,160 --> 00:16:16,360 Speaker 1: and picture you mean, yeah, yeah, And if you guys 296 00:16:16,360 --> 00:16:18,320 Speaker 1: are willing to do that, we will pay for you 297 00:16:18,360 --> 00:16:21,160 Speaker 1: to go on that second date. I'll give you a 298 00:16:21,160 --> 00:16:23,920 Speaker 1: second chance, Kyle. I think you're really cool and I'd 299 00:16:23,920 --> 00:16:31,000 Speaker 1: love to see you again. A successful second date update 300 00:16:31,120 --> 00:16:34,400 Speaker 1: they're rare them, Okay, and then but get rid of 301 00:16:34,480 --> 00:16:36,720 Speaker 1: all the pictures before she comes over, please, Yeah, in 302 00:16:36,720 --> 00:16:38,840 Speaker 1: the netlix or at least, you know, put him in 303 00:16:38,840 --> 00:16:40,800 Speaker 1: like a shoebox where she can't find him. You can 304 00:16:40,840 --> 00:16:44,760 Speaker 1: look at him later. Yeah. Ninety two point five