Speaker 1: Welcome to Can't Flee Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio
Speaker 1: and The Black Effect. And just like that, we back
Speaker 1: on the air with yet another carefully reckless episode with
Speaker 1: your girl Jess. Hilarious and I got my boots Taylor here,
Speaker 1: so we're gonna both read the story. So I'm gonna
Speaker 1: rewind and this she's gonna RedWine all R. We're gonna
Speaker 1: give her a little break, but she's definitely gonna be
Speaker 1: in on the mess with me. So here we go. Hello, Jess,
Speaker 1: I need to hear what you think about this. So
Speaker 1: I just got out of a long distance relationship. It
Speaker 1: wasn't really going well for me, so that was that
Speaker 1: I quickly started enjoying my single life and just exploring options.
Speaker 1: Mind you, I'm very open with everyone I talked to,
Speaker 1: so no one is confused or left in the dark.
Speaker 1: Not saying it was a whole bunch of people, but
Speaker 1: you know, during this process, I enjoyed talking to this
Speaker 1: one girl. We would always have conversations and she was
Speaker 1: just a cool vibe. We started hanging out and she
Speaker 1: even met a few of my kh Yes, I know
Speaker 1: what you're thinking. This sounds like it's leaning towards a relationship.
Speaker 1: Yeah it does, but I promise you. We agreed to
Speaker 1: take things slow and to just vibe out. Here's when
Speaker 1: things started getting complicated. I travel for work and always
Speaker 1: have an unpredictable schedule, which I made her aware of
Speaker 1: ahead of time, so sometimes I wouldn't text back right away,
Speaker 1: or my responses would be sure but only because I'm busy,
Speaker 1: which I would let her know. She would always be
Speaker 1: quick to ask, am I.
Speaker 2: Doing something wrong? What are you doing?
Speaker 1: And kind of back off, as though she's trying to
Speaker 1: imply that I'm being sneaky. I gave her the reinsurance
Speaker 1: that she needed, even though I don't owe it to
Speaker 1: her because we're not in a relationship. But that's just
Speaker 1: me moving on. I came to her one day and
Speaker 1: told her that I like the speed that we're going.
Speaker 1: See this is why i'd be having tailor read, because
Speaker 1: why is this one sentence?
Speaker 2: Shit? Girl?
Speaker 1: I came to her one day and sold her that
Speaker 1: I like the speed that we're going and I don't
Speaker 1: want anything to change that, so I just want to
Speaker 1: continue to And she took that as me saying I
Speaker 1: don't want to talk to her anymore and I don't
Speaker 1: like the way things are going.
Speaker 2: But that's not what I said at all.
Speaker 1: After that conversation, she started moving weird, texting me back less,
Speaker 1: giving me a whole lot of nonchalant responses. I even
Speaker 1: invited her to come on a trip, a friend's trip,
Speaker 1: mind you, that I was going on, and she started
Speaker 1: replying less and less about that. I asked her what
Speaker 1: the problem was and why has she been acting weird?
Speaker 1: And she keeps saying, oh yeah, it must be someone else.
Speaker 1: What were you telling me something that somebody is saying
Speaker 1: use quotations?
Speaker 2: Damn, Oh my god.
Speaker 1: I asked her what the problem was and why she
Speaker 1: has been acting weird, and she keeps saying, oh yeah,
Speaker 1: it must be someone else and that. I basically told
Speaker 1: her I don't want to talk to her anymore in
Speaker 1: that way. Here goes me once again, giving her the
Speaker 1: reassurance that I really don't owe her, but I gave
Speaker 1: it to her. She still continues to act weird after that,
Speaker 1: so I decided to fall back. As soon as I
Speaker 1: did that, I found out that she was back talking
Speaker 1: to her AX, which made sense. Yeah, duh, that's where
Speaker 1: all the accusations was coming from. Projection. I definitely confronted
Speaker 1: her about it, and she tried to smooth it over
Speaker 1: and say, well, we weren't really even together anyway. Oh,
Speaker 1: so she pulled to you on you okay, and that
Speaker 1: I told her that I didn't want to talk to
Speaker 1: her anymore. I just let her have it, because girl,
Speaker 1: what the fuck? Even after that, she was still trying
Speaker 1: to talk to me, and I guess because I figured
Speaker 1: out the truth and was over it, but she still
Speaker 1: wanted to be cool. And then the funny thing is
Speaker 1: she ended up backing out of the trip, which I
Speaker 1: knew was going to happen but didn't even tell me,
Speaker 1: and ended up going to the same place but with
Speaker 1: her AX at the same time.
Speaker 2: Wow, oh, this bitch is weird. Jess.
Speaker 1: There is a word for this girl, but I can't
Speaker 1: put my finger on it. Help me out laughing my
Speaker 1: ass off. Also, I want you to let me know
Speaker 1: if I was wrong in this as well. Well. The
Speaker 1: words you looking for? Yeah, where the shit? Where the shit?
Speaker 1: I was going to say something else, but that No,
Speaker 1: that that's weird. That stills it because the whole thing is.
Speaker 1: But before we get to the whole thing, the trip
Speaker 1: was crazy. You. I invite you on the trip, right,
Speaker 1: and we fell out, so we're not going no more.
Speaker 1: But then you still so you fell out of that right,
Speaker 1: And I'm guessing she left her with the bill like
Speaker 1: she it must have been like some money ship going on,
Speaker 1: but she ended up still going, so she probably wanted
Speaker 1: the money back from the girl, like cause I'm not
Speaker 1: going no more, which funck shuit up. And then you
Speaker 1: ended up still going, but bringing.
Speaker 2: Your ex and purpose.
Speaker 1: I feel like she did, especially because and then this
Speaker 1: girl just seems like she's possessive, very possessive, and she, uh,
Speaker 1: she falls very quickly.
Speaker 2: Now, the one.
Speaker 1: The one that the girl was talking to, the one
Speaker 1: who wrote us the story. I felt like she's not
Speaker 1: telling us something either, because let's let's break this whole
Speaker 1: ship down.
Speaker 2: You say that both of y'all were talking. It was
Speaker 2: a vibe.
Speaker 1: Both of y'all said, y'a didn't want a relationship, whatever, whatever,
Speaker 1: and then y'all started. Then she started falling for you
Speaker 1: and started becoming increasingly possessive, obviously because you said you
Speaker 1: travel for work, and you would tell her, yo, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna be busy, but she would get upset because you
Speaker 1: wouldn't text right there.
Speaker 2: Yeah, insecurious, So she gin's securious.
Speaker 1: Fuck. The interesting thing is the girl who wrote us
Speaker 1: the story, I feel like the letter on a little bit. No,
Speaker 1: I feel like she because if something, she must have
Speaker 1: been talking to that girl every.
Speaker 2: Day or that. That's you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: But you can't do that if you know you ain't
Speaker 1: trying to be in a relationship. That's just not what
Speaker 1: it's gonna give, like what you think.
Speaker 3: But that's why people will have to I don't know
Speaker 3: how old she is, because that's why people have to
Speaker 3: just be straightforward.
Speaker 2: Do you wear a relationship or not? Because that whole situation.
Speaker 3: Ship, Yeah, that's sticky because she said though she's like
Speaker 3: I like she likes the way things are going though,
Speaker 3: So I guess you made the girl fall back.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 1: Yeah, And people people, they think they can handle situationships
Speaker 1: until you start to fall for that person.
Speaker 2: I've been in one. If she's the only person you're
Speaker 2: talking to, yeah, that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: If you exclusively talking to somebody, that's gonna lead to
Speaker 1: people thinking that, Okay, this might be going somewhere serious.
Speaker 2: Like you know what I'm saying, Like she now the
Speaker 2: girl wrote it.
Speaker 1: She said that she was talking to other people, of course,
Speaker 1: but I felt like she was giving this girl a
Speaker 1: lot of her time. I mean, she was the main
Speaker 1: girl that she talked to, and that girl took that as, oh,
Speaker 1: this girl won't be my girl. Even though y'all knew
Speaker 1: from the jump, y'all had an understanding neither one of
Speaker 1: y'all wanted a relationship. But she probably didn't expect to
Speaker 1: fall for you that fast, and you didn't expect for
Speaker 1: her to fall for you and start acting crazy.
Speaker 2: What's the point?
Speaker 4: I don't even though the point of situationships anymore?
Speaker 1: I don't like people are not daring to why are
Speaker 1: you dating a relationship?
Speaker 4: Right?
Speaker 2: Not just to talk and fuck?
Speaker 1: Like it's and I think I think it's because we're
Speaker 1: older now. We are because because I used to love
Speaker 1: a little situation at my twenty commitment.
Speaker 2: Yes, I wasn't.
Speaker 1: Ready for commitment in my twenties, you know, so I'm like, okay,
Speaker 1: I'm just living free, having fun.
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 1: But you hit a certain point where you're like, all right,
Speaker 1: I'm done with the streets, like like just like men,
Speaker 1: just like and you know, you you grow up and
Speaker 1: of course women grow up, you know, a lot.
Speaker 2: Quicker than the girl.
Speaker 1: So she what's the relationship? She wants her relationship and
Speaker 1: she went back with her ass. But she said, I
Speaker 1: don't think she went back to the X. I think
Speaker 1: you know what I think this is. I think that
Speaker 1: the girl just got her ax on top because if
Speaker 1: she wanted to be would be our ex. That's just
Speaker 1: probably somebody that she keeps going back on, like keeping that,
Speaker 1: keeping shorty in the pocket just in case of a
Speaker 1: ship don't work out, just like niggas do. Like people
Speaker 1: do that, you know, they treat people like disposedly and
Speaker 1: that that's fucked up because she told her it wasn't
Speaker 1: even like that. You she probably was talking to her
Speaker 1: X the whole time, but just like a nigga with
Speaker 1: a baby mama that he don't want to be with,
Speaker 1: but he wanted to keep fucking with when he wants
Speaker 1: to when when shit ain't gone right with other bitches
Speaker 1: like that's that because that was my experience because Rome
Speaker 1: used to fucking make me beat him the fuck up
Speaker 1: because he used to do that.
Speaker 2: But yeah, I have I.
Speaker 4: Don't think it's like I think about my exhu.
Speaker 3: I guess was trying to do that, but we never
Speaker 3: did any Like, Yeah, I'm one of those people.
Speaker 2: One time I'm done, I'm done that. Yeah, that's it.
Speaker 2: It's not going back.
Speaker 1: I'm not spending a block, I'm not trying to hear
Speaker 1: you out, none of that.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So, and this sounds like they're very young. Honestly, they
Speaker 1: haven't come into like they're not mature enough yet to
Speaker 1: like solidify real relationships and to know what they want
Speaker 1: and know what they're not gonna accept out of relationships.
Speaker 1: Because I wouldn't even be fucking with her, like as
Speaker 1: crazy as she is, Like I mean, it's stalkery and insecure.
Speaker 2: She sound.
Speaker 4: I wouldn't seem like the other girl were playing around
Speaker 4: on her too.
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. So, yeah, that's something like they're
Speaker 1: all playing around and shit. So I don't even get
Speaker 1: what the question is. She said, Do you feel like
Speaker 1: I was wrong?
Speaker 2: Wrong for what?
Speaker 1: Like?
Speaker 2: Wrong for what? Did you leave the girl alone? I
Speaker 2: don't feel like it was a it was an actual
Speaker 2: question here. She said.
Speaker 3: Also, she's wrong to feel a type of way maybe
Speaker 3: if she because you were saying that if she didn't
Speaker 3: want a relationship, why yeah, but I mean again, feelings
Speaker 3: are feelings, so you're gonna.
Speaker 1: Okay, So how she started was I need to hear
Speaker 1: what you think about this? So I just got off
Speaker 1: a long distance relationship, all right, She just got out
Speaker 1: of a long distance relationship. So yeah, so she really
Speaker 1: wasn't trying to commit to this girl.
Speaker 2: She was just probably just.
Speaker 1: Yeah, talking and ship, yeah, enjoying my single life, oh yep,
Speaker 1: and just exploring my options mindron right open with everybody.
Speaker 1: I think the type of person that this girl is, like,
Speaker 1: she she's a charmer, Like, she's a charming person, and
Speaker 1: she a mate. She'll make somebody fall or and then
Speaker 1: she'll probably be falling for them too, but she leave
Speaker 1: motherfuckers on. You can tell, like, it's no way that
Speaker 1: girl started acting like that if you wasn't giving her
Speaker 1: at that time of day.
Speaker 2: And it may not staying big to you, but if
Speaker 2: you're just talking to somebody.
Speaker 1: But y'all on FaceTime all day, y'all talk, y'all text
Speaker 1: all day, when you switch up your pattern, yeah, that
Speaker 1: person's gonna feel a certain way, whether y'all just talking
Speaker 1: or in a relationship or not, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: Like we developed the pattern. I'm used to waking up
Speaker 1: till good morning and you calling me when you get
Speaker 1: off work and you're telling me about your day and shit,
Speaker 1: and I'm the last person you talk to at night
Speaker 1: and you're the last person I talk to. And then
Speaker 1: now that goes to like nothing, you slow texting now
Speaker 1: when you're not hitting me back, even though you said
Speaker 1: you travel, I know you travel. When you're busy, you're
Speaker 1: probably doing something out that they now have developed like
Speaker 1: this false relationship.
Speaker 2: In their mind. And now on the bitch got your
Speaker 2: cheating on her and you at work, but you ain't
Speaker 2: even with her.
Speaker 1: I've been in this situation, but I don't know what
Speaker 1: you want me to tell you about. Just grow up
Speaker 1: and grow up and enjoy your single life, like you said,
Speaker 1: like when you run in some people like this, you
Speaker 1: have to understand like everybody ain't gonna be like you.
Speaker 2: Maybe you didn't.
Speaker 1: You didn't fall for her, she didn't plan to fall
Speaker 1: for you, but she did. So just don't give too
Speaker 1: much of yourself if you already know what your objective is.
Speaker 1: The objective is just to have fun, take things slow,
Speaker 1: go steady. Then stay on that. Don't over don't overdo it.
Speaker 1: Don't overextend yourself because that's gonna make you feel like,
Speaker 1: that's gonna make a motherfucker feel like, Oh, this motherfucker
Speaker 1: want me.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're gonna be in a relationship.
Speaker 1: So just priorititize, like what you do, like prioritize telling
Speaker 1: them like no, no, give yourself like three hours a
Speaker 1: day to talk to a person.
Speaker 2: That's it. Yeah, guys, yeah.
Speaker 1: If you love me, you'll listen to this commercial and
Speaker 1: then we'll be right back moving on.
Speaker 3: Lord, Hey, what's up Jess. So over time, I date
Speaker 3: this girl who really like became one of my best friends.
Speaker 3: My friends love her, and my family love her too.
Speaker 3: But we never made it official because of different circumstances
Speaker 3: like either hours in relationship or she was. And now
Speaker 3: I think we've got too close to even really be
Speaker 3: in a relationship. I think there will always be a
Speaker 3: what if with us, but we both agreed that we
Speaker 3: will just remain friends.
Speaker 2: So here's the kicker.
Speaker 3: I am dating someone new and she went through my
Speaker 3: phone and saw that me and my friend were more
Speaker 3: than friends before. Now, yes I did lie and just
Speaker 3: say like that's just my friend, and now she wants
Speaker 3: me not to be friends with her anymore.
Speaker 1: I feel and found out that she was texting a girl. Okay,
Speaker 1: and there's another gay story. She ain't e would say
Speaker 1: she was a woman.
Speaker 2: I dated this girl, Okay, go ahead.
Speaker 3: So I'm dating something, okay, Yess a lie about me
Speaker 3: and my friends relationship to her because I feel it's
Speaker 3: none of her business to know. And I knew she
Speaker 3: would react. I mean, just like this wanted me to
Speaker 3: break up the friendship. But what's crazy is my friend
Speaker 3: is no threat. She's not a homeworker, even if she
Speaker 3: did have more for me. So my question is what
Speaker 3: should I do? I really like this girl, but me
Speaker 3: and my friend been friends, like been friends for like
Speaker 3: ten years now?
Speaker 2: Why would I just stop being friends with her? Help
Speaker 2: me out? Jess?
Speaker 3: Mmm?
Speaker 2: Like this, that's the little you have.
Speaker 1: I've never been in a situation like this, you know, le'
Speaker 1: see mine a little different. Mine is a little different
Speaker 1: because all right, I'm a share mine of real quick see,
Speaker 1: I was ded on somebody and they was intimidated by
Speaker 1: me and Rome's bond, like Rome is my beef. Other y'all,
Speaker 1: y'all know that Ashton Dad and he and y'all know
Speaker 1: how we are. We're like brother and sister, fucking siblings.
Speaker 1: Like we're not we're good together, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: Like we're cool, we're just friends like you know. But
Speaker 1: he liked my family and I talked to him almost
Speaker 1: every day, like you know, and that was an issue
Speaker 1: for god, like I don't know, like.
Speaker 2: But Rome is my friend. But it's different because he
Speaker 2: my beef father was your situation.
Speaker 3: I had a friend and and me and him like
Speaker 3: mess around before.
Speaker 2: But it's kind of someone like we had like.
Speaker 3: We just never actually made it official, but his family
Speaker 3: and everything else like that be could only with your
Speaker 3: friends first and then got into whatever. And then he
Speaker 3: h dated someone that already was jealous, like that had
Speaker 3: jealous issues already, and his dumbass was like will always
Speaker 3: talk about me though, so that was probably also sparked
Speaker 3: like of course whatever. So she found out and yeah,
Speaker 3: she didn't want him to be friend to me no more.
Speaker 3: And mind you, I didn't even know he even had
Speaker 3: a girlfriend. He didn't tell me any of that or
Speaker 3: nothing like that. It is fucked up because I told
Speaker 3: him when I got into relationships.
Speaker 4: But anyway, you liked you, yeah, I guess.
Speaker 2: But wouldn't he tell you about about his girlfriend exactly?
Speaker 1: I don't know because that was real with him. But whatever,
Speaker 1: do you ever give you signs that he did, like
Speaker 1: you don't.
Speaker 3: Ye, Like we were always friends, but he was like
Speaker 3: in the army or I'm sorry he's in the navy
Speaker 3: and I was in school, not like what it is,
Speaker 3: like that's my I was gonna have love for you.
Speaker 3: But now so he ended up Actually we didn't speak
Speaker 3: to like for a year or whatever, and like, and
Speaker 3: his mom was mad at him because he's like, yo,
Speaker 3: she's been like there for you, Like he's gonna who
Speaker 3: this girl to like.
Speaker 2: Yeah, make you yeah with your friend.
Speaker 3: Basically they ended up breaking up because she was crazy
Speaker 3: and yeah, and I tell him to this day, like
Speaker 3: he's the only guy that's like like that was able
Speaker 3: to get Like me and him are cool, but like
Speaker 3: because he had to, like really like I knew it
Speaker 3: was like he really felt bad.
Speaker 2: He had his friends calling me just talk to him like, yeah,
Speaker 2: I just want.
Speaker 1: My friend back from like you know, yeah, no, I
Speaker 1: get it because that was a friendship.
Speaker 2: You know, how long were you all friends? Now? Damn
Speaker 2: it's been like fifteen Yeah, like that.
Speaker 1: Like friendships don't come don't come by like that nowadays,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So it's always good to
Speaker 1: have those good people and keep those keep those people close.
Speaker 1: But this this person here, that that's writing us a
Speaker 1: story their friend, I feel like.
Speaker 2: They said for ten years?
Speaker 1: Yeah, but at what point do you feel like this
Speaker 1: this friendship is a little questionable when your girlfriend going
Speaker 1: your fucking phone and see and.
Speaker 2: Did they even say what they read?
Speaker 4: Now?
Speaker 1: Well, yeah, you know what I'm saying. I feel like
Speaker 1: you're leaving out parts of it, like what did they where?
Speaker 4: You?
Speaker 2: Are you guys? Flirty? A little bit too friendly?
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Because friends need to talk
Speaker 1: like friends, and you know, and y'all need to sort
Speaker 1: out what's appropriate and inappropriate in a relationship. Did your
Speaker 1: girlfriend feel like y'all was y'all weren't talking on a
Speaker 1: friendly basis, like it may have been some shit to her,
Speaker 1: like nah, that this is not y'all motherfuckers. If y'all
Speaker 1: ain't doing nothing, now y'all talking like y'all have done
Speaker 1: something before and it didn't work out, so now y'all
Speaker 1: friends like that would make me feel a little insecure
Speaker 1: in the relationship.
Speaker 2: Because y'all friends, this is your friend. Y'all got ten
Speaker 2: years of history.
Speaker 1: You feel me like, y'all could be sneaking around or
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, hot and ship from me
Speaker 1: and y'all, I don't know, So those type of situations
Speaker 1: are very touchy. Hold up, hold up, I know the
Speaker 1: ship getting good, But listen to just a couple of
Speaker 1: seconds of a commercial.
Speaker 2: If you love me, you'll listen.
Speaker 3: You know.
Speaker 4: It's even more crazy.
Speaker 3: The girl the guy was living in My friend was
Speaker 3: living in Hawaii.
Speaker 2: What the fuck?
Speaker 3: Like, we're not Why do you think He's like, we're
Speaker 3: not doing nothing?
Speaker 2: That was so crazy? Okay, so they're so they were
Speaker 2: in Hawaii.
Speaker 4: No, No, I'm just saying my situation. Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: The friend that you was talking, wow, from Philly to
Speaker 1: Hawaii and maybe y'all cheating.
Speaker 3: He's calling my phone and he lied to me too
Speaker 3: because he was just trying to be on seeking stuff
Speaker 3: because they ended up getting secretly married, and she was like,
Speaker 3: he was like, you can't like leave my husband, like
Speaker 3: just going off. I was so confused. I'm my asshole
Speaker 3: too though, because like.
Speaker 4: But just gave me going you know, because.
Speaker 2: A night. Yeah, like tall, why.
Speaker 3: But I think, well, I have a question though, do
Speaker 3: you think do you always think it's necessary like he said,
Speaker 3: He's like, I don't think it was necessary to tell
Speaker 3: her like really the past because of how most likely
Speaker 3: people are going to react though, like you have a
Speaker 3: kid involved, like they're gonna type of way.
Speaker 1: Yeah, No, I think I think it was absolutely necessary
Speaker 1: for you, especially because what do you want a relationship for?
Speaker 1: You have to what makes a relationship communication honesty, you know, loyalty,
Speaker 1: you know, love, being open and shit, just like you
Speaker 1: supposed to be able to put that type of shit
Speaker 1: on the table. But I and I feel like when
Speaker 1: people don't any hidh shit like that, like little friendships
Speaker 1: and shit like that, like they're expecting to they even
Speaker 1: even like they won't to open up about something happened
Speaker 1: in the past and down will open up about with that.
Speaker 3: Person or like you said, but even it's just a
Speaker 3: reaction of someone else.
Speaker 1: But that's what you gotta deal with, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like if that's gonna be your partner of
Speaker 1: this your girlfriend and shit like or or you know,
Speaker 1: if it's a girl going through this shit all right,
Speaker 1: if that's your boyfriend, keep that shit a buck and
Speaker 1: see how they handle it. Now, how they handle it
Speaker 1: tells you a lot about them, because if somebody can't
Speaker 1: respect your honesty, you know what I'm saying, instead of
Speaker 1: hiding it, I'm glad that you told me.
Speaker 2: I would look at that as all right, cool, now
Speaker 2: I know what to look out for.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna not trust you because you didn't. You
Speaker 1: could have withheld the defamation. Then when I find out and
Speaker 1: you didn't tell me, that's gonna make me not trust you.
Speaker 3: I don't know they are, though, because I know I
Speaker 3: remember back in the day, like if I had.
Speaker 4: A boyfriend, he's still under his ex, Like, why what
Speaker 4: are we.
Speaker 3: Doing more mature, like you could be cool with your Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 3: boundaries absolutely, Wait, so this is an ex.
Speaker 2: I thought this was a friend in general.
Speaker 3: Yeah, if I was with somebody and they were friends
Speaker 3: with their ex or.
Speaker 2: Something like, it wouldn't be a big deal nowadays.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Back in the day, yeah, I was very like, oh no,
Speaker 1: but see that's again that's like immaturity. Immaturity and how
Speaker 1: when you grow up certain things you don't even look
Speaker 1: at the same as you did. When you were younger. Yeah, absolutely, well,
Speaker 1: thank you, Taylor. We come to the end of what
Speaker 1: should do? Oh oh yeah, let me give the advice
Speaker 1: what should we do?
Speaker 2: What was the question?
Speaker 3: What should she found out now? And they went that
Speaker 3: should he break up his friendship or not? Oh shit,
Speaker 3: I think it has a lot of talking. If you
Speaker 3: don't want to break up a friendship, could you just
Speaker 3: start deeming this girl? You don't know how?
Speaker 2: Oh, I know why.
Speaker 1: I ain't giving no advice because I don't feel like
Speaker 1: he gave everything. I don't feel like he or she
Speaker 1: is giving everything. I feel like him and that friend
Speaker 1: probably did something. If we don't know what the text
Speaker 1: said that your girlfriend texts, I mean that that she
Speaker 1: checked when she went through your phone. I can't give
Speaker 1: you no advice. I can't cause I don't know what
Speaker 1: it is. All right, let me let me just do
Speaker 1: scenario A and B. So Scenario A, say y'all was flirting,
Speaker 1: Say y'all were flirting the shit your girlfriend caught that?
Speaker 2: M you have to leave your girlfriend.
Speaker 1: You gotta leave, you gotta break up with her and
Speaker 1: go try to pursue your friend, because like that seems
Speaker 1: like that's what I love is at and it's like
Speaker 1: it's a disconnector y'all got to figure something out, like
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. It seemed like that's where
Speaker 1: you want to be, but something ain't connecting or something's
Speaker 1: not right.
Speaker 2: Go figure that out.
Speaker 1: Don't play with nobody in the meantime, You get what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, don't play with nobody feelings now, scenario be
Speaker 1: if it wasn't that serious and y'all, I wasn't texting
Speaker 1: like on no shit, that that means your girlfriend is
Speaker 1: just insecure, but you got to do a better job
Speaker 1: of reassuring her that she is the only one in
Speaker 1: that Yo, I'm allowed to have friends, Like every friendship
Speaker 1: where there's opposite sex don't have to be nothing intimate
Speaker 1: or nothing going on. They can be strictly platonic like
Speaker 1: this is my friend and that's your friend of ten years.
Speaker 1: You should be able to break that down and tell her.
Speaker 1: If she can't handle it, then she's madly insecure, like
Speaker 1: you know, and not insecure in a good way.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, because sometimes.
Speaker 1: They all women have insecurities, but it depends on how
Speaker 1: like what level that shit.
Speaker 3: Is and also how far I'm just also getting basing
Speaker 3: this off of my situation before, like how long ago
Speaker 3: did she or how far up did she rea text
Speaker 3: messages where she's found out something like because if it's
Speaker 3: like recently and it's nothing, but she found out later
Speaker 3: on that they did mess around, or.
Speaker 1: If she went back and they messed around before a year,
Speaker 1: now coolt.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I would want to know that too.
Speaker 1: That would make me leave a person because maybe you
Speaker 1: was withholding that because oh now I get what you're
Speaker 1: saying because you don't want to spark noth enough. But
Speaker 1: but what if we're going to get married and shit
Speaker 1: and you got me around this bitch, And I mean,
Speaker 1: I just want to know, Like I want to know everything.
Speaker 1: That's the whole point of having a partner and just
Speaker 1: keeping that shit open, you know.
Speaker 2: I don't know. Well, that's what was the advice. Fuck,
Speaker 2: I'm all over the place today.
Speaker 1: Scenario Oh yeah, yeah, so scenario A or B, and
Speaker 1: make sure you update us and let us know what
Speaker 1: the hell happened, because you you we need to know
Speaker 1: what the sex saying. Man, all right, we've come to
Speaker 1: yet the end of another carefully reckless episode with your girl.
Speaker 1: Just hilarious and my girl, tatee. Okay, say thank you Taylor,
Speaker 1: thank you, not you them, thank you Lord.
Speaker 2: All right, we'll see y'all next week, Taylor.
Speaker 1: I'm telling you next when I say thank you, it's
Speaker 1: for them.
Speaker 2: Oh we said thank you, Taylor.
Speaker 3: I said say thank you Taylor like, oh, okay, got it.
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