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Speaker 1: Welcome to Can't Flee Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio

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Speaker 1: and The Black Effect. And just like that, we back

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Speaker 1: on the air with yet another carefully reckless episode with

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Speaker 1: your girl Jess. Hilarious and I got my boots Taylor here,

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Speaker 1: so we're gonna both read the story. So I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: rewind and this she's gonna RedWine all R. We're gonna

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Speaker 1: give her a little break, but she's definitely gonna be

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Speaker 1: in on the mess with me. So here we go. Hello, Jess,

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Speaker 1: I need to hear what you think about this. So

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Speaker 1: I just got out of a long distance relationship. It

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Speaker 1: wasn't really going well for me, so that was that

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Speaker 1: I quickly started enjoying my single life and just exploring options.

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Speaker 1: Mind you, I'm very open with everyone I talked to,

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Speaker 1: so no one is confused or left in the dark.

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Speaker 1: Not saying it was a whole bunch of people, but

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Speaker 1: you know, during this process, I enjoyed talking to this

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Speaker 1: one girl. We would always have conversations and she was

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Speaker 1: just a cool vibe. We started hanging out and she

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Speaker 1: even met a few of my kh Yes, I know

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Speaker 1: what you're thinking. This sounds like it's leaning towards a relationship.

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Speaker 1: Yeah it does, but I promise you. We agreed to

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Speaker 1: take things slow and to just vibe out. Here's when

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Speaker 1: things started getting complicated. I travel for work and always

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Speaker 1: have an unpredictable schedule, which I made her aware of

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Speaker 1: ahead of time, so sometimes I wouldn't text back right away,

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Speaker 1: or my responses would be sure but only because I'm busy,

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Speaker 1: which I would let her know. She would always be

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Speaker 1: quick to ask, am I.

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Speaker 2: Doing something wrong? What are you doing?

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Speaker 1: And kind of back off, as though she's trying to

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Speaker 1: imply that I'm being sneaky. I gave her the reinsurance

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Speaker 1: that she needed, even though I don't owe it to

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Speaker 1: her because we're not in a relationship. But that's just

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Speaker 1: me moving on. I came to her one day and

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Speaker 1: told her that I like the speed that we're going.

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Speaker 1: See this is why i'd be having tailor read, because

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Speaker 1: why is this one sentence?

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Speaker 2: Shit? Girl?

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Speaker 1: I came to her one day and sold her that

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Speaker 1: I like the speed that we're going and I don't

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Speaker 1: want anything to change that, so I just want to

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Speaker 1: continue to And she took that as me saying I

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Speaker 1: don't want to talk to her anymore and I don't

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Speaker 1: like the way things are going.

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Speaker 2: But that's not what I said at all.

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Speaker 1: After that conversation, she started moving weird, texting me back less,

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Speaker 1: giving me a whole lot of nonchalant responses. I even

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Speaker 1: invited her to come on a trip, a friend's trip,

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Speaker 1: mind you, that I was going on, and she started

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Speaker 1: replying less and less about that. I asked her what

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Speaker 1: the problem was and why has she been acting weird?

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Speaker 1: And she keeps saying, oh yeah, it must be someone else.

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Speaker 1: What were you telling me something that somebody is saying

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Speaker 1: use quotations?

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Speaker 2: Damn, Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: I asked her what the problem was and why she

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Speaker 1: has been acting weird, and she keeps saying, oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: it must be someone else and that. I basically told

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Speaker 1: her I don't want to talk to her anymore in

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Speaker 1: that way. Here goes me once again, giving her the

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Speaker 1: reassurance that I really don't owe her, but I gave

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Speaker 1: it to her. She still continues to act weird after that,

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Speaker 1: so I decided to fall back. As soon as I

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Speaker 1: did that, I found out that she was back talking

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Speaker 1: to her AX, which made sense. Yeah, duh, that's where

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Speaker 1: all the accusations was coming from. Projection. I definitely confronted

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Speaker 1: her about it, and she tried to smooth it over

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Speaker 1: and say, well, we weren't really even together anyway. Oh,

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Speaker 1: so she pulled to you on you okay, and that

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Speaker 1: I told her that I didn't want to talk to

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Speaker 1: her anymore. I just let her have it, because girl,

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Speaker 1: what the fuck? Even after that, she was still trying

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Speaker 1: to talk to me, and I guess because I figured

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Speaker 1: out the truth and was over it, but she still

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Speaker 1: wanted to be cool. And then the funny thing is

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Speaker 1: she ended up backing out of the trip, which I

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Speaker 2: Wow, oh, this bitch is weird. Jess.

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Speaker 1: There is a word for this girl, but I can't

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Speaker 1: put my finger on it. Help me out laughing my

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Speaker 1: if I was wrong in this as well. Well. The

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Speaker 1: words you looking for? Yeah, where the shit? Where the shit?

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Speaker 1: I was going to say something else, but that No,

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Speaker 1: that that's weird. That stills it because the whole thing is.

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Speaker 1: But before we get to the whole thing, the trip

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Speaker 1: was crazy. You. I invite you on the trip, right,

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Speaker 1: and we fell out, so we're not going no more.

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Speaker 1: But then you still so you fell out of that right,

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Speaker 1: And I'm guessing she left her with the bill like

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Speaker 1: she it must have been like some money ship going on,

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Speaker 1: but she ended up still going, so she probably wanted

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Speaker 1: the money back from the girl, like cause I'm not

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Speaker 1: going no more, which funck shuit up. And then you

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Speaker 1: ended up still going, but bringing.

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Speaker 2: Your ex and purpose.

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Speaker 1: I feel like she did, especially because and then this

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Speaker 1: girl just seems like she's possessive, very possessive, and she, uh,

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Speaker 1: she falls very quickly.

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Speaker 2: Now, the one.

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Speaker 1: The one that the girl was talking to, the one

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Speaker 1: who wrote us the story. I felt like she's not

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Speaker 1: telling us something either, because let's let's break this whole

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Speaker 1: ship down.

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Speaker 2: You say that both of y'all were talking. It was

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Speaker 1: Both of y'all said, y'a didn't want a relationship, whatever, whatever,

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Speaker 1: and then y'all started. Then she started falling for you

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Speaker 1: and started becoming increasingly possessive, obviously because you said you

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Speaker 1: travel for work, and you would tell her, yo, I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna be busy, but she would get upset because you

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Speaker 1: wouldn't text right there.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, insecurious, So she gin's securious.

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Speaker 1: Fuck. The interesting thing is the girl who wrote us

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Speaker 1: the story, I feel like the letter on a little bit. No,

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Speaker 1: I feel like she because if something, she must have

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Speaker 2: Day or that. That's you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: But you can't do that if you know you ain't

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Speaker 1: trying to be in a relationship. That's just not what

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Speaker 1: it's gonna give, like what you think.

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Speaker 3: But that's why people will have to I don't know

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Speaker 3: how old she is, because that's why people have to

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Speaker 3: just be straightforward.

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Speaker 2: Do you wear a relationship or not? Because that whole situation.

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Speaker 3: Ship, Yeah, that's sticky because she said though she's like

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Speaker 3: I like she likes the way things are going though,

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Speaker 3: So I guess you made the girl fall back.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And people people, they think they can handle situationships

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Speaker 1: until you start to fall for that person.

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Speaker 2: I've been in one. If she's the only person you're

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Speaker 2: talking to, yeah, that's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: If you exclusively talking to somebody, that's gonna lead to

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Speaker 1: people thinking that, Okay, this might be going somewhere serious.

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Speaker 2: Like you know what I'm saying, Like she now the

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Speaker 2: girl wrote it.

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Speaker 1: She said that she was talking to other people, of course,

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Speaker 1: but I felt like she was giving this girl a

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Speaker 1: girl that she talked to, and that girl took that as, oh,

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Speaker 1: this girl won't be my girl. Even though y'all knew

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Speaker 1: from the jump, y'all had an understanding neither one of

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Speaker 1: y'all wanted a relationship. But she probably didn't expect to

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Speaker 1: fall for you that fast, and you didn't expect for

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Speaker 2: What's the point?

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Speaker 4: I don't even though the point of situationships anymore?

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Speaker 1: I don't like people are not daring to why are

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Speaker 1: you dating a relationship?

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Speaker 4: Right?

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Speaker 2: Not just to talk and fuck?

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Speaker 1: Like it's and I think I think it's because we're

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Speaker 1: older now. We are because because I used to love

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Speaker 1: a little situation at my twenty commitment.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I wasn't.

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Speaker 1: Ready for commitment in my twenties, you know, so I'm like, okay,

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Speaker 1: I'm just living free, having fun.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 1: But you hit a certain point where you're like, all right,

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Speaker 1: I'm done with the streets, like like just like men,

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Speaker 1: just like and you know, you you grow up and

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Speaker 1: of course women grow up, you know, a lot.

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Speaker 2: Quicker than the girl.

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Speaker 1: So she what's the relationship? She wants her relationship and

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Speaker 1: she went back with her ass. But she said, I

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Speaker 1: don't think she went back to the X. I think

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Speaker 1: you know what I think this is. I think that

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Speaker 1: probably somebody that she keeps going back on, like keeping that,

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Speaker 1: keeping shorty in the pocket just in case of a

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Speaker 1: ship don't work out, just like niggas do. Like people

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Speaker 1: that that's fucked up because she told her it wasn't

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Speaker 1: even like that. You she probably was talking to her

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Speaker 1: X the whole time, but just like a nigga with

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Speaker 1: a baby mama that he don't want to be with,

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Speaker 1: but he wanted to keep fucking with when he wants

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Speaker 1: to when when shit ain't gone right with other bitches

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Speaker 1: like that's that because that was my experience because Rome

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Speaker 1: used to fucking make me beat him the fuck up

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Speaker 1: because he used to do that.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, I have I.

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Speaker 4: Don't think it's like I think about my exhu.

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Speaker 3: I guess was trying to do that, but we never

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Speaker 3: did any Like, Yeah, I'm one of those people.

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Speaker 2: One time I'm done, I'm done that. Yeah, that's it.

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Speaker 2: It's not going back.

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Speaker 1: I'm not spending a block, I'm not trying to hear

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Speaker 1: you out, none of that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So, and this sounds like they're very young. Honestly, they

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Speaker 1: haven't come into like they're not mature enough yet to

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Speaker 1: like solidify real relationships and to know what they want

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Speaker 1: and know what they're not gonna accept out of relationships.

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Speaker 1: Because I wouldn't even be fucking with her, like as

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Speaker 1: crazy as she is, Like I mean, it's stalkery and insecure.

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Speaker 2: She sound.

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Speaker 4: I wouldn't seem like the other girl were playing around

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Speaker 4: on her too.

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. So, yeah, that's something like they're

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Speaker 1: all playing around and shit. So I don't even get

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Speaker 1: what the question is. She said, Do you feel like

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Speaker 1: I was wrong?

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Speaker 2: Wrong for what?

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Speaker 1: Like?

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Speaker 2: Wrong for what? Did you leave the girl alone? I

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Speaker 2: don't feel like it was a it was an actual

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Speaker 2: question here. She said.

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Speaker 3: Also, she's wrong to feel a type of way maybe

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Speaker 3: if she because you were saying that if she didn't

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Speaker 3: want a relationship, why yeah, but I mean again, feelings

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Speaker 3: are feelings, so you're gonna.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So how she started was I need to hear

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Speaker 1: what you think about this? So I just got off

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Speaker 1: a long distance relationship, all right, She just got out

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Speaker 1: of a long distance relationship. So yeah, so she really

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Speaker 1: I've never been in a situation like this, you know, le'

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Speaker 2: You know, how long were you all friends? Now? Damn

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Speaker 1: Like friendships don't come don't come by like that nowadays,

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Speaker 1: But this this person here, that that's writing us a

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Because friends need to talk

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Speaker 4: It's even more crazy.

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Speaker 3: Like, we're not Why do you think He's like, we're

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Speaker 4: No, No, I'm just saying my situation. Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: He's like, I don't think it was necessary to tell

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Speaker 1: see how they handle it. Now, how they handle it

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Speaker 1: hiding it, I'm glad that you told me.

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Speaker 2: I would look at that as all right, cool, now

443
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Speaker 2: I know what to look out for.

444
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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna not trust you because you didn't. You

445
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Speaker 1: could have withheld the defamation. Then when I find out and

446
00:20:02,880 --> 00:20:06,240
Speaker 1: you didn't tell me, that's gonna make me not trust you.

447
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Speaker 3: I don't know they are, though, because I know I

448
00:20:09,160 --> 00:20:12,720
Speaker 3: remember back in the day, like if I had.

449
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Speaker 4: A boyfriend, he's still under his ex, Like, why what

450
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Speaker 4: are we.

451
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Speaker 3: Doing more mature, like you could be cool with your Yeah, yeah,

452
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Speaker 3: boundaries absolutely, Wait, so this is an ex.

453
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Speaker 2: I thought this was a friend in general.

454
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Speaker 3: Yeah, if I was with somebody and they were friends

455
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Speaker 3: with their ex or.

456
00:20:36,520 --> 00:20:39,280
Speaker 2: Something like, it wouldn't be a big deal nowadays.

457
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Speaker 3: Yeah.

458
00:20:39,600 --> 00:20:41,680
Speaker 1: Back in the day, yeah, I was very like, oh no,

459
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Speaker 1: but see that's again that's like immaturity. Immaturity and how

460
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Speaker 1: when you grow up certain things you don't even look

461
00:20:48,240 --> 00:20:51,920
Speaker 1: at the same as you did. When you were younger. Yeah, absolutely, well,

462
00:20:52,280 --> 00:20:56,159
Speaker 1: thank you, Taylor. We come to the end of what

463
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Speaker 1: should do? Oh oh yeah, let me give the advice

464
00:21:01,600 --> 00:21:02,480
Speaker 1: what should we do?

465
00:21:03,880 --> 00:21:04,719
Speaker 2: What was the question?

466
00:21:05,440 --> 00:21:08,000
Speaker 3: What should she found out now? And they went that

467
00:21:08,080 --> 00:21:11,320
Speaker 3: should he break up his friendship or not? Oh shit,

468
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Speaker 3: I think it has a lot of talking. If you

469
00:21:17,600 --> 00:21:20,239
Speaker 3: don't want to break up a friendship, could you just

470
00:21:20,600 --> 00:21:21,960
Speaker 3: start deeming this girl? You don't know how?

471
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Speaker 2: Oh, I know why.

472
00:21:23,000 --> 00:21:24,840
Speaker 1: I ain't giving no advice because I don't feel like

473
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Speaker 1: he gave everything. I don't feel like he or she

474
00:21:27,800 --> 00:21:30,400
Speaker 1: is giving everything. I feel like him and that friend

475
00:21:30,440 --> 00:21:32,160
Speaker 1: probably did something. If we don't know what the text

476
00:21:32,200 --> 00:21:34,680
Speaker 1: said that your girlfriend texts, I mean that that she

477
00:21:34,840 --> 00:21:36,840
Speaker 1: checked when she went through your phone. I can't give

478
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Speaker 1: you no advice. I can't cause I don't know what

479
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Speaker 1: it is. All right, let me let me just do

480
00:21:41,400 --> 00:21:44,480
Speaker 1: scenario A and B. So Scenario A, say y'all was flirting,

481
00:21:44,520 --> 00:21:46,480
Speaker 1: Say y'all were flirting the shit your girlfriend caught that?

482
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Speaker 2: M you have to leave your girlfriend.

483
00:21:51,760 --> 00:21:53,919
Speaker 1: You gotta leave, you gotta break up with her and

484
00:21:53,960 --> 00:21:56,679
Speaker 1: go try to pursue your friend, because like that seems

485
00:21:56,680 --> 00:21:58,280
Speaker 1: like that's what I love is at and it's like

486
00:21:58,440 --> 00:22:00,760
Speaker 1: it's a disconnector y'all got to figure something out, like

487
00:22:00,800 --> 00:22:02,480
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. It seemed like that's where

488
00:22:02,480 --> 00:22:04,719
Speaker 1: you want to be, but something ain't connecting or something's

489
00:22:04,760 --> 00:22:05,120
Speaker 1: not right.

490
00:22:05,320 --> 00:22:06,200
Speaker 2: Go figure that out.

491
00:22:06,240 --> 00:22:08,000
Speaker 1: Don't play with nobody in the meantime, You get what

492
00:22:08,000 --> 00:22:10,879
Speaker 1: I'm saying, don't play with nobody feelings now, scenario be

493
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Speaker 1: if it wasn't that serious and y'all, I wasn't texting

494
00:22:14,520 --> 00:22:16,800
Speaker 1: like on no shit, that that means your girlfriend is

495
00:22:16,880 --> 00:22:20,000
Speaker 1: just insecure, but you got to do a better job

496
00:22:20,040 --> 00:22:22,480
Speaker 1: of reassuring her that she is the only one in

497
00:22:22,520 --> 00:22:25,960
Speaker 1: that Yo, I'm allowed to have friends, Like every friendship

498
00:22:26,000 --> 00:22:28,840
Speaker 1: where there's opposite sex don't have to be nothing intimate

499
00:22:28,920 --> 00:22:31,000
Speaker 1: or nothing going on. They can be strictly platonic like

500
00:22:31,000 --> 00:22:33,719
Speaker 1: this is my friend and that's your friend of ten years.

501
00:22:33,840 --> 00:22:35,480
Speaker 1: You should be able to break that down and tell her.

502
00:22:35,480 --> 00:22:39,320
Speaker 1: If she can't handle it, then she's madly insecure, like

503
00:22:39,359 --> 00:22:41,320
Speaker 1: you know, and not insecure in a good way.

504
00:22:41,440 --> 00:22:43,120
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, because sometimes.

505
00:22:42,760 --> 00:22:46,280
Speaker 1: They all women have insecurities, but it depends on how

506
00:22:46,760 --> 00:22:47,960
Speaker 1: like what level that shit.

507
00:22:47,880 --> 00:22:50,600
Speaker 3: Is and also how far I'm just also getting basing

508
00:22:50,680 --> 00:22:55,920
Speaker 3: this off of my situation before, like how long ago

509
00:22:55,960 --> 00:23:00,320
Speaker 3: did she or how far up did she rea text

510
00:23:00,400 --> 00:23:02,880
Speaker 3: messages where she's found out something like because if it's

511
00:23:03,000 --> 00:23:07,960
Speaker 3: like recently and it's nothing, but she found out later

512
00:23:08,320 --> 00:23:11,040
Speaker 3: on that they did mess around, or.

513
00:23:10,960 --> 00:23:13,840
Speaker 1: If she went back and they messed around before a year,

514
00:23:13,960 --> 00:23:15,240
Speaker 1: now coolt.

515
00:23:15,320 --> 00:23:16,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I would want to know that too.

516
00:23:17,480 --> 00:23:19,720
Speaker 1: That would make me leave a person because maybe you

517
00:23:19,800 --> 00:23:22,200
Speaker 1: was withholding that because oh now I get what you're

518
00:23:22,200 --> 00:23:24,359
Speaker 1: saying because you don't want to spark noth enough. But

519
00:23:24,359 --> 00:23:25,840
Speaker 1: but what if we're going to get married and shit

520
00:23:25,840 --> 00:23:27,560
Speaker 1: and you got me around this bitch, And I mean,

521
00:23:27,920 --> 00:23:29,920
Speaker 1: I just want to know, Like I want to know everything.

522
00:23:29,960 --> 00:23:31,560
Speaker 1: That's the whole point of having a partner and just

523
00:23:31,640 --> 00:23:33,440
Speaker 1: keeping that shit open, you know.

524
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Speaker 2: I don't know. Well, that's what was the advice. Fuck,

525
00:23:38,240 --> 00:23:39,440
Speaker 2: I'm all over the place today.

526
00:23:40,640 --> 00:23:43,919
Speaker 1: Scenario Oh yeah, yeah, so scenario A or B, and

527
00:23:43,960 --> 00:23:46,000
Speaker 1: make sure you update us and let us know what

528
00:23:46,040 --> 00:23:48,840
Speaker 1: the hell happened, because you you we need to know

529
00:23:48,880 --> 00:23:51,679
Speaker 1: what the sex saying. Man, all right, we've come to

530
00:23:51,760 --> 00:23:54,120
Speaker 1: yet the end of another carefully reckless episode with your girl.

531
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Speaker 1: Just hilarious and my girl, tatee. Okay, say thank you Taylor,

532
00:23:58,119 --> 00:24:02,960
Speaker 1: thank you, not you them, thank you Lord.

533
00:24:03,119 --> 00:24:05,159
Speaker 2: All right, we'll see y'all next week, Taylor.

534
00:24:05,240 --> 00:24:08,680
Speaker 1: I'm telling you next when I say thank you, it's

535
00:24:08,680 --> 00:24:09,360
Speaker 1: for them.

536
00:24:09,600 --> 00:24:12,080
Speaker 2: Oh we said thank you, Taylor.

537
00:24:12,680 --> 00:24:17,119
Speaker 3: I said say thank you Taylor like, oh, okay, got it.

538
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Speaker 1: The Trump