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Speaker 1: were starting to compare their alleged split to scandaval, which

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Speaker 1: I don't know that much about either, but that's ridiculous.

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Speaker 1: They have been together for decades. I was very good

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Speaker 1: friends with Kyle when we met Mauricio Mo. He's Maurice

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Speaker 1: Mauricio or Mo. But he was working in the garment

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Speaker 1: industry for in his father's business. I believe it was.

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Speaker 1: He was working in the garment industry in La. I've

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Speaker 1: met his mother. I know both their families very well.

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Speaker 1: And Kyle was raising Farah, a four year old. I

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Speaker 1: was a hostess at Lascala. It was so many lifetimes ago.

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Speaker 1: I was at her wedding. She was at my first wedding.

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Speaker 1: They have grown up together. What do you know about

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Speaker 1: life when you're twenty six years old. I mean they

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Speaker 1: are maybe twenty five years old. They have grown up together.

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Speaker 1: And he then went into real estate working for Rick,

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Speaker 1: and then went off on his own and the rest

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Speaker 1: is history. And they both built each other's careers and

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Speaker 1: support each other. Farah was a four year old, and

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Speaker 1: he was a young man who took in Pharaoh like

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Speaker 1: his own daughter. I actually most people don't know this.

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Speaker 1: Kyle set me up with her ex husband Gresh on

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Speaker 1: a date, so I met him a couple of times.

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Speaker 1: Nice guy, and Farah's father and all Mauricio's friends from

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Speaker 1: Mexico City like to kind of start just crystallizing their

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Speaker 1: relationship or potential parting of ways as headline fodder is ridiculous.

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Speaker 1: They have lived lives together, They'll have their lives together,

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Speaker 1: half of their lives together, raising four gorgeous daughters, traveling

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Speaker 1: all over the world, having a great time, being fun,

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Speaker 1: being amazing, Surviving LA, surviving the entertainment industry, not only surviving,

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Speaker 1: but thriving. Surviving and thriving the entertainment industry. LA and

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Speaker 1: Marriage and Marriage on not only a reality show, but

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Speaker 1: the housewives Like that's a relationship destroyer, and people are

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Speaker 1: showing some dumb clip from seasons ago saying that she

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Speaker 1: won't be able to fulfill him or he won't be

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Speaker 1: able to fulfill her. It's bullshit. Who lasts multiple decades?

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Speaker 1: They've been together almost thirty years. Who lasts thirty years

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Speaker 1: in a relationship. It is an accomplishment. It is something

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Speaker 1: to be celebrated, to be cherished, to be respected, to

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Speaker 1: be admired, honestly, so I was like, shit, the fuck

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Speaker 1: up with all this stupid shit? Okay, who can? By

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Speaker 1: the way, I've texted with her, and I had a

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Speaker 1: conversation with her and asked been a couple of months ago,

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Speaker 1: and I have my own feelings about their relationship and

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Speaker 1: the little breadcrumbs and clues she was leaving me when

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Speaker 1: we were talking. Likewise, I talked to her about my relationship,

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Speaker 1: my past relationships, my divorce, etc. We don't speak all

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Speaker 1: the time. I respect them both. I think they have

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Speaker 1: been an amazing, admirable couple, and whatever they both choose

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Speaker 1: to do together or apart is genuinely their business. Like

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Speaker 1: life has many different roads, many different paths, many different

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Speaker 1: branches of the tree, and they have been wonderful parents,

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Speaker 1: wonderful partners, and I just think it's something to celebrate,

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Speaker 1: and particularly in twenty twenty three, but particularly after thirty years.

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Speaker 1: One size does not fit all in relationships. Think of

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Speaker 1: the people that you know that have been together for

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Speaker 1: Think about how they are. People have their own lives,

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Speaker 1: people travel differently. You only get one go around on

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Speaker 1: this merry go round, like you want to live your

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Speaker 1: own life. So Maurice has things that he probably wants

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Speaker 1: to do in his life. That Literally, when you get

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Speaker 1: And sometimes you lose yourself in a relationship. You don't

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Speaker 1: even know who you are anymore. You don't know where

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Speaker 1: admire the other person. I live in a different state

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Speaker 1: than Paul. Okay, we have things that we do together.

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Speaker 1: I have things that I do with Brinn. We have

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Speaker 1: things that we all do together. But it's not traditional.

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Speaker 1: be realistic. It's this construct that's been invented for us.

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Speaker 1: That starts with the children's books, with the fairy tale books,

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Speaker 1: that then goes into shows like The Bachelor, where you're

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Speaker 1: that doesn't work. It's fucking not real. And people look

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Speaker 1: it's perfect. They're blending, they're both you know, uh, she's

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Speaker 1: they're merging their businesses together and it's amazing and let's

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Speaker 1: it as perfection because they present it perfection because that's

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Speaker 1: and Kim amazing, the sum is greater than its parts.

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Speaker 1: He made her more famous, she made him more famous.

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Speaker 1: It's fabus. It's amazing, she's his muse. It's a crash

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Speaker 1: success story. They've been on television for multiple decades, off

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Speaker 1: television for multiple decades, but and off television there success. So, however,

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Speaker 1: with the exception of the paparazzi. And she has a

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Speaker 1: new friend. Okay, great, live your fucking life. Live your life.

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Speaker 1: As I texted her, you're not gonna remember any of

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Speaker 1: this when you're ninety. You're not gonna remember any of

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Speaker 1: this when you're ninety. Okay. Who could just live your life,

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Speaker 1: be happy and that's it. So I'm full team Kyle

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Speaker 1: and Mauricio. However, they want to live their lives together

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Speaker 1: get one shot and then them said it best, So

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Speaker 1: Shout out to Housewives couples that have stayed together that

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Speaker 1: are still together. Okay, Tamra and Eddie, they've been together

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Speaker 1: a minute now on television, Like there's something to be

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Speaker 1: said for couples that have stayed together where both parties

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Speaker 1: and Clyde in it like in the actual sport that's

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Speaker 1: when it gets interesting, when it's like both people are characters.

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Speaker 1: Candy and her husband met and he was a producer.

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Speaker 1: He jumped right into being in front of the camera,

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Speaker 1: and they've got businesses and like that they're still together.

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Speaker 1: That's an accomplishment, I think when you've stayed together. Slade

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Speaker 1: and Gretchen. Now I know she's not still on the show,

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Speaker 1: I know that Kathy Wakuiel and her husband would still

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Speaker 1: be together if they were on television. Listen Joe, you

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Speaker 1: guys didn't even write me. Listen to Joe Mellisten. Joe

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Speaker 1: still going strong, Still the one, Shania Twain. I'm liking it.

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Speaker 1: Crappy Lake. I think I will watch it. I haven't

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Speaker 1: watched it. I don't turn on regular TV that much.

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Speaker 1: Is that crazy? Does anybody else not watch regular TV

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Speaker 1: that much? I watch streaming and I'm in Meshedon masl

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Speaker 1: and also in finishing Handmaids, and I like when things

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Speaker 1: get dragged out so I can savor them. What the hell.

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Speaker 1: Paul and I are watching something too. I've talked about

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Speaker 1: this before, like you've got so many people you're watching

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Speaker 1: shows with, But I know, I'm so happy for Sonya

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Speaker 1: good things and it's funny and it's so such perfect

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Speaker 1: timing for like silly comedy. So I think that is

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Speaker 1: great for her, and I texted her the other day,

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Speaker 1: let me know what you think and if you've seen it,