Speaker 1: From Hollywood to you, thank you for listening to us.
Speaker 2: Ryan Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 3: So this is TikTok story, Sysney's got here. A TikToker
Speaker 3: named Ava Stanley went viral posting my hoff and she
Speaker 3: calls her mom.
Speaker 1: It's an interesting question.
Speaker 2: Yeah, listen to this.
Speaker 4: I saw a video of a girl saying that she
Speaker 4: calls her mom like once or twice a week. I
Speaker 4: called my mom or she called me eleven times yesterday
Speaker 4: and I never really have anything to say either. And
Speaker 4: like if she misses my call and she calls me back.
Speaker 2: She's like, hey, what's up, Like what's what'd you call?
Speaker 4: And I'll be like, I don't remember. I just wanted
Speaker 4: to chit chat.
Speaker 3: Yeah, uh okay, So you start thinking about that as
Speaker 3: an adult, if you don't live with your mom, how
Speaker 3: many times do you call your mom?
Speaker 1: Sisany I was.
Speaker 5: Looking at my call log to really see, but I
Speaker 5: think an I average about two times a week, maybe
Speaker 5: three times if it's a busy week, I.
Speaker 1: Do more than that.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 5: I was curious about you, Ryan, because you have such
Speaker 5: a close relationship with your mom, and so as a
Speaker 5: poster boy like mama boy, I wanted to know how
Speaker 5: how many times do you talk to me?
Speaker 3: I mean, she's on this show once a week, so
Speaker 3: that's one that's true. I would say probably twice a day,
Speaker 3: maybe a day, probably twice a day, but it's very quick,
Speaker 3: like yo, I just like, yo, what's up?
Speaker 2: What do you guys talk about?
Speaker 1: Your socks?
Speaker 3: Are like, no, we don't talk. I actually don't call
Speaker 3: to talk. I just talked. You just called to say
Speaker 3: what's up? Like, Yo, you good?
Speaker 6: And I say that's cute. Like my mom wants to
Speaker 6: like park down for an hour.
Speaker 1: I can't. Yeah, I don't like to talk for oh yeah.
Speaker 5: My mom goes through all the gossip in like the neighborhood.
Speaker 5: And then once you know it's going on my life,
Speaker 5: it's like a whole thing.
Speaker 3: I lost my I put my phone somewhere the other day, right,
Speaker 3: and I couldn't find my phone and my mom and
Speaker 3: I called my mom on another phone.
Speaker 6: Where's my phone?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I said, mom or anything, I put my phone
Speaker 3: like you know me, And she's like in the fridge
Speaker 3: and was in the fridge on the shelf when I
Speaker 3: got on the milk out.
Speaker 1: Wasn't in there for long. But I was like you know.
Speaker 1: That's what moms can do. Yeah, they have that superpower.
Speaker 1: How many times you call your mom, Tanya, I probably
Speaker 1: talked to.
Speaker 6: Her once or twice a week, but we text a lot.
Speaker 3: Okay, and let's go to the back room. This could
Speaker 3: be interesting. Your mom lives in the Midwest, right.
Speaker 6: She lives on the East coast over there, so.
Speaker 2: Rhode Island like the furthest.
Speaker 3: I knew she lives over there where they had the accent.
Speaker 3: All right, So how often you call your mom in
Speaker 3: the great state of Rhode Island?
Speaker 6: I feel like we talk at least three times a day.
Speaker 1: Oh my more than me? More than me? Uh aggressive,
Speaker 1: call that, MICHAELA who's there? Call that? How many times
Speaker 1: do you call your mom a day or week?
Speaker 2: I have to go by month.
Speaker 6: I think I only talked to her three times a month.
Speaker 1: Like, legit, are you guys cool?
Speaker 2: Yes, guys, we're good. We're good.
Speaker 6: I talked to my siblings.
Speaker 1: I call my siblings every week.
Speaker 3: If I talk to my mom three times a month,
Speaker 3: she would call y'all.
Speaker 7: Also, like do you I always panic because I can't
Speaker 7: favor my mom over my dad, Like I have to
Speaker 7: call I have to FaceTime my dad, or I FaceTime
Speaker 7: them together in a group chat, because I don't want
Speaker 7: one to build a bad situation.
Speaker 3: My mom's better at phone. Well, call your mom today
Speaker 3: and tell you LOVERR exactly and call it. Call your
Speaker 3: mom this month and do the same.
Speaker 2: I know I need to talk to her more.
Speaker 1: Well, you've got plenty of month, you all right.
Speaker 3: We are in a world of wanting to create the
Speaker 3: most efficiencies as possible many times. I mean, it's a
Speaker 3: multitasking culture right right. Their exercise is that we can
Speaker 3: do while we're on the air, and you could do
Speaker 3: them at your desk. I remember when I brought in
Speaker 3: the dumbbells and in the commercial breaks, and I should
Speaker 3: do it again. We should the commercial breaks. I would
Speaker 3: do curls just to get a few extra reps in
Speaker 3: right and be efficient with our time, Tonny. Have you
Speaker 3: ever brought in any exercise equipment, any bands or anything
Speaker 3: like that while we're on the air.
Speaker 6: No, I have not, because I could sit.
Speaker 3: Like this with a band and across my knees and
Speaker 3: press out and that would work my glutes while we're
Speaker 3: on the air.
Speaker 2: I used to have bands when I did mid days,
Speaker 2: the ten to three shift.
Speaker 5: I would have like a band in the studio that
Speaker 5: I would stretch, you would, yes, and I would do
Speaker 5: push ups twenty push ups every top of the hour.
Speaker 1: And where would you do this? On the floor, on
Speaker 1: the floor. Yeah, you never a ball or anything like that.
Speaker 2: No ball push ups?
Speaker 1: Yeah. So you know the big ball.
Speaker 3: You put your toes on the the bigger one, that's
Speaker 3: the half on the ball that you do push up
Speaker 3: from there to keep your course straight o.
Speaker 1: That's the next challenger. Yeah. Well, guess who's opening a gym?
Speaker 2: Well, guess who's working out right now as we speak.
Speaker 1: You are, yeah, on your elliptical. Can you not tell?
Speaker 1: I cannot tell he's opening a gym? Under the counter
Speaker 1: you're cycling yet, see.
Speaker 2: It very heavy? But yes, I'm pedaling right now. I
Speaker 2: guess we can.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, there is here.
Speaker 2: Let me actually I'll stop right now.
Speaker 1: So you have a peddler under the chair air she
Speaker 1: is with the peddler.
Speaker 6: Yeah, it's like an elliptical slash bike.
Speaker 1: Wow, isn't that's great?
Speaker 3: It's it looks like one of those things you put
Speaker 3: your feet in for a massage, like the tub.
Speaker 6: No, it looks like an elliptical.
Speaker 5: Many elliptical, well just the bottom part, the feet part, right, Yeah.
Speaker 1: So what's the deal. You just do cardio while you're
Speaker 1: sitting here on the air.
Speaker 5: I brought it in for show and tell kind of today,
Speaker 5: just to show you. But I have it at my
Speaker 5: desk because after this, I go and I take a
Speaker 5: bunch of meetings and I'm here until like four or
Speaker 5: five o'clock some nights. And you can get if I
Speaker 5: like consistently am pedaling throughout the day.
Speaker 2: It has a tracker.
Speaker 5: It'll show me like the calories that I'm bringing, the
Speaker 5: amount of strides, like four hundred calories on average.
Speaker 1: That's what you want and you're not and you're just
Speaker 1: sitting there anyway, right.
Speaker 5: Exactly exactly sweat so you can if I'm wearing like
Speaker 5: a sweater. I've noticed like when I'm very warm, warmly dressed,
Speaker 5: I start sweating a little bit.
Speaker 3: That's the only issue I have with working out here
Speaker 3: or doing anything extra here is when we sweat because
Speaker 3: there's no shower.
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's kind of like a sweat from the gym.
Speaker 5: It's just like a little like I'm get a little warm.
Speaker 3: But I listen. I advocate if you can do something
Speaker 3: at your desk or do something in between the songs.
Speaker 1: Year why not?
Speaker 2: It's honestly the talk of the office.
Speaker 5: Everyone that walks by, they are they're like wow, They're like,
Speaker 5: what is that?
Speaker 1: And they're all, that's the first one I've ever seen.
Speaker 1: What is it actually called?
Speaker 5: This one's called the Desk Cycle ellipse I got on Amazon,
Speaker 5: so check it out.
Speaker 1: That's what it is.
Speaker 2: Not an ad for it either.
Speaker 1: That's what's under her desk. It's on you anything under yours.
Speaker 7: Literally nothing. I I don't know why. I've never thought
Speaker 7: to work out when I'm at work, Like.
Speaker 1: But she has these meetings all day, she's in that.
Speaker 7: But it's not even that. I don't think I can't
Speaker 7: focus on on task.
Speaker 1: I can't.
Speaker 6: I can't do it at the same time.
Speaker 7: Like I just I know myself, if I was peddling
Speaker 7: right now, I would not be able to focus on YouTube.
Speaker 1: Well, we don't.
Speaker 3: We want to focus and we and we appreciate your focus.
Speaker 6: It's hard for me. I can't do it if.
Speaker 3: I like I'm kind of with Tanya, like I do
Speaker 3: need to either focus on what I'm doing and if
Speaker 3: it's working out and you focus on working out.
Speaker 2: Yeah, This isn't like substitute, This isn't like take. You know,
Speaker 2: it's not all I do.
Speaker 3: Basically, are you doing right now? I'm trying to like
Speaker 3: gage your breath.
Speaker 6: No right now?
Speaker 2: No, I wasn't doing now now.
Speaker 5: I did my whole podcast last week pedaling, and there
Speaker 5: was moments where I was out of breath.
Speaker 3: I don't think my feet could reach it from the chair.
Speaker 3: Can you adjust it?
Speaker 1: These?
Speaker 2: Yeah, just your thing.
Speaker 5: I actually had a take to get new wheels from
Speaker 5: my chair in my office because I would would scoop
Speaker 5: me back like this when I was pedaling.
Speaker 2: So I got wheels that I can lock. It's like
Speaker 2: a whole operation over there.
Speaker 1: It's got the club on it.
Speaker 6: I imagine if if I were like doing squats right now,
Speaker 6: I could not, I'd be like goodbye.
Speaker 3: Well squats are like yeah, we'll maybe we'll pass it
Speaker 3: around the elliptical here, Yeah, give it a try.
Speaker 1: Here's a Rachel, Good morning, Rachel. How are you doing?
Speaker 8: I'm good saying how are you great?
Speaker 3: So you're calling about a friend of yours who got
Speaker 3: cheated on?
Speaker 1: Yes, what happened? And how can we help?
Speaker 8: So my friend recently proposed to his boyfriend but my
Speaker 8: friends and I are having a hard time feeling excited
Speaker 8: or happy for him because last year's boyfriend teated on
Speaker 8: him and it.
Speaker 9: Was devastating from my friend because they've been dating for
Speaker 9: years and years, and after he found out about the cheating,
Speaker 9: he was heartbroken. My friend ended up mending things with
Speaker 9: his boyfriend and they've been together ever since.
Speaker 8: And now my friend.
Speaker 10: Proposed, So it was kind of shocking, and he didn't
Speaker 10: tell anyone he was going to do it, and he
Speaker 10: only sent us pictures after the proposal. In our group chats,
Speaker 10: they're just trying to get us to celebrate, and we
Speaker 10: want to support our friend and be happy for him.
Speaker 10: But now that we know that fiance cheated or to
Speaker 10: be happy or support, it's a wait.
Speaker 3: So does he yeah, exactly, he knows that he was
Speaker 3: cheated on by the person he just proposed to. Yes, okay,
Speaker 3: so your friend, friend, your your pal. He went through
Speaker 3: it or gave his partner at the time, right, and
Speaker 3: they moved on and now he's proposed.
Speaker 1: I mean, look at you can't really be in their shoes.
Speaker 3: And if everybody knows about it and they made the
Speaker 3: choice to move past it, then that's their prerogative, and
Speaker 3: it looks like they're trying to move on and celebrate
Speaker 3: hopefully a new chapter.
Speaker 9: Yeah, it's hard of a friend to view your own
Speaker 9: their relationships differently, be.
Speaker 11: Harder what happened.
Speaker 3: It'd be harder if you knew that his partner cheated,
Speaker 3: but he didn't know and he proposed. That would be
Speaker 3: a real twist. This one is their choice. They're in it,
Speaker 3: their relationship. They decided to move past it. What can
Speaker 3: we do.
Speaker 5: I know a couple that went through this and then
Speaker 5: ended up getting engaged and married and all that, and
Speaker 5: they seem very happy.
Speaker 2: But like if I was sitting in here dwelling on it,
Speaker 2: or that's going to take years off your life.
Speaker 1: Rachel, and you can't get troll it.
Speaker 3: They made a decision, so I think it embraced their happiness.
Speaker 3: If they're happy now.
Speaker 2: I agree.
Speaker 8: Okay, I guess that's there.
Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you very much. It would be trickier.
Speaker 3: We've had calls like that where the partner didn't know
Speaker 3: and there was a proposal saying, hey, I have some information.
Speaker 1: Do I tell that? Horrible? You just never know what
Speaker 1: anybody's going through.
Speaker 3: And if they decide that they can make it work,
Speaker 3: and they want to try again. Start over there. Yeah,
Speaker 3: that's their decision. So did you grab a cucumber? If
Speaker 3: you didn't grab a cucumber, go to your fridge, if
Speaker 3: you're still home, open up the crisper and pull out
Speaker 3: that cucumber.
Speaker 1: Look at it.
Speaker 3: Just think about that cucumber. How many different things that
Speaker 3: cucumber can become and be?
Speaker 1: And do?
Speaker 3: You can slice it, you can chop it. You can
Speaker 3: put some dill and addressing in it. Oh, you can
Speaker 3: pickle it.
Speaker 6: You can put some lemon and salt on.
Speaker 2: I do like a cucumber salad.
Speaker 3: So later this morning, when we all have stale breath
Speaker 3: and we do, I think, who in the studio, Mark, Tanya, myself, Tubs,
Speaker 3: Sysney is most likely to have stale breath?
Speaker 5: Later I don't know because I don't get close enough
Speaker 5: to them to really sniff them out.
Speaker 6: You know, I'll admit it. Sometimes a breath can be
Speaker 6: a little stee.
Speaker 2: Great, you're great. So here's the Trick's admit it.
Speaker 6: But like, yeah, after coffee and then we're talking, it's.
Speaker 5: Like, yeah, it's dad can drink coffee every day.
Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, here's the trick. If you think you
Speaker 3: have bad breath, or you want to tell somebody they do.
Speaker 3: Here's the secret the cucumber. That cucumber is not just
Speaker 3: to make a salad out of. Simply place a slice
Speaker 3: of cucumber on the roof of your mouth, right up
Speaker 3: top for thirty seconds. Let it sit there, let it
Speaker 3: dissolve a little bit. Then lower it to your tongue
Speaker 3: and chew it and swallow it. It is sucked out
Speaker 3: all of the holatosis.
Speaker 2: That is so cool. I want to try it.
Speaker 1: It is so cool.
Speaker 3: I've never heard of it, but I'm definitely going to
Speaker 3: try it too because it's so easy. Yeah, SI fight
Speaker 3: bad Brad. All right, Today's quote we do a quote
Speaker 3: every day, and today's quote is there is no trophy
Speaker 3: that says they pretended to be okay.
Speaker 1: When they weren't.
Speaker 4: That right?
Speaker 1: Okay, good. I was waiting for a little reaction.
Speaker 2: Yeah I didn't really get it, but okay, I get it.
Speaker 1: I get you get it right as one of us
Speaker 1: gets it? Yeah, right, exactly.
Speaker 3: I mean I'm just playing for one person, even one
Speaker 3: audience person out there.
Speaker 1: Let's get the headlines this what do you have? Put
Speaker 1: this FM headlines with siciny?
Speaker 5: Well two magnitude two point eight earthquakes were reported just
Speaker 5: after ten am yesterday in the South Pasadena and Monterey
Speaker 5: Park areas. TikTok has asked the Supreme Court to block
Speaker 5: it federal law that would ban the app in the
Speaker 5: US unless it is sold to an approved buyer. The
Speaker 5: law would go into effect on January nineteenth, just over
Speaker 5: a month from now. Disneyland has agreed to settle a
Speaker 5: class action lawsuit for two hundred and thirty three million.
Speaker 5: The suit alleged that cast members didn't benefit from an
Speaker 5: Anaheim minimum wage law, and Wicked Part two.
Speaker 2: Has changed its title.
Speaker 5: The second Wicked movie will now be titled Wicked for
Speaker 5: Good and we'll open in theaters on November twenty first,
Speaker 5: the friday before Thanksgiving.
Speaker 3: So exciting to do this. This is Kiss Misgiving number five.
Speaker 3: Let me get right into it. Because they think someone
Speaker 3: has a meeting. This morning, we got an email from
Speaker 3: Monique Gonzales of Monique Good Morning.
Speaker 1: Good morning.
Speaker 3: So you nominated Lisa Solse of alcohol in.
Speaker 1: And tell me how you know her?
Speaker 12: Uh, she's my sister.
Speaker 1: Ah, well that makes a lot of sense. I want
Speaker 1: to get her on the phone.
Speaker 3: We're dialing her right now because we are doing Kiss
Speaker 3: misgiving calls, celebrating the good stuff in life. And you
Speaker 3: know that's what matters, the relationships you have with your family,
Speaker 3: with your friends. That's what you're going to remember when
Speaker 3: you know times are tough, when times are good, and
Speaker 3: that's what we're celebrating.
Speaker 1: So calling Lisa, Soalise, Now, Hello, Hi is Lisa there?
Speaker 11: This is Lisa.
Speaker 3: Hi Lisa, It's Ryan Seacrest calling on Kiss FM.
Speaker 11: Seriously.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's where I worked there every day.
Speaker 11: Oh my gosh, Hi, not the call I was expecting.
Speaker 1: Hi, Who were you expecting?
Speaker 11: Insurance?
Speaker 13: The calls I mostly get was unknown numbers right now?
Speaker 3: Oh right, right, right, Well, I'm happy to talk insurance
Speaker 3: in a minute.
Speaker 1: But let me tell you why I'm calling. I've got
Speaker 1: your sister Monique on the line.
Speaker 3: Oh and she sent me this email going to read
Speaker 3: to you right now, She says, my selfless sister recently
Speaker 3: crashed her car. It's come at the worst time, and
Speaker 3: she's already struggling with rent and other rising costs. She
Speaker 3: wasn't even able to help my niece, her daughter, pay
Speaker 3: for her wedding dress. She also has to pay for
Speaker 3: my other niece's high school sports, and she feels like
Speaker 3: she's drowning. Her kid's dad is not financially helping at all.
Speaker 3: I try to help her out when I can, but
Speaker 3: I have my own expenses as well.
Speaker 1: Please help my sister.
Speaker 3: I wanted to have a nice holiday season with her
Speaker 3: family without stress.
Speaker 8: Oh my gosh, that's exactly how. But yeah, so.
Speaker 1: I got to thinking.
Speaker 3: I was at home last night watching myself on Wheel
Speaker 3: of Fortune.
Speaker 2: Making your salmon, Yeah, and.
Speaker 3: In the commercial breaks, I was just trying to put
Speaker 3: this all together, and I was just touched by the email,
Speaker 3: especially the part about not being able to to pay
Speaker 3: for your daughter's own wedding dress.
Speaker 1: That was something that, you know, struck me.
Speaker 11: And if it's not something I really wanted to do.
Speaker 3: If it's not too late, I would send fifteen hundred
Speaker 3: dollars to try and help out with that for you.
Speaker 5: Thank you so much.
Speaker 11: Absolutely, Oh gosh.
Speaker 5: She's gonna look so beautiful in that dress, so happy.
Speaker 1: And I have a really good eye for dresses, so
Speaker 1: I think I know it.
Speaker 2: I think they already pick out.
Speaker 3: Sorry, and I'm going to send a thousand dollars to
Speaker 3: buy some food at Albertson's for the holidays for you too.
Speaker 10: Oh my gosh, thank you so much for you.
Speaker 8: Oh my gosh, that's incredible.
Speaker 1: Wow, it's our pleasure to do it. We're so happy
Speaker 1: to meet you.
Speaker 3: I'm glad your sister reached out your money so much.
Speaker 11: I you know what you deserve.
Speaker 3: Everything I love this time of year is a girl's
Speaker 3: night out. I love a girl's night out right right,
Speaker 3: and so the perfect one if I were a girl
Speaker 3: on a girl's night out, or at least hosting one,
Speaker 3: would be four tickets to go see the Weekend at
Speaker 3: the Rose Bowl in January.
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna send you.
Speaker 8: Major because it's incredible.
Speaker 1: So you can't feel your face.
Speaker 3: Oh and Samantha and Alisha, they're growing up pretty fast,
Speaker 3: hold are they?
Speaker 10: Alicia is seventeen, just through seventeen a couple of weeks ago.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, you know what she wants make up.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna send you a Sephour gift card, each of them,
Speaker 3: a five hundred bucks before gift card.
Speaker 1: If that's cool.
Speaker 8: Oh my god, Lisah, my god, Oh my gosh, it's incredible.
Speaker 3: So for Christmas they can have that. And you need
Speaker 3: a little pampering for yourself. So I've got a two
Speaker 3: hundred and fifty dollars gift card to Burke Williams Spa
Speaker 3: for you.
Speaker 11: Oh my god, oh my gosh.
Speaker 5: So Merry Christmas, Merry Christmas, Merry Christmas, Merry Christmas.
Speaker 2: You're so welcome.
Speaker 11: Oh, thank you guys so much for doing this for her.
Speaker 1: It's ours.
Speaker 10: Thank you.
Speaker 8: I wasn't expecting this.
Speaker 12: Thank you so much.
Speaker 10: It's gonna help a lot.
Speaker 3: I know one thing that's stressful for everybody is rent.
Speaker 3: And I think I know your rent is eighteen Is
Speaker 3: it eighteen hundred bucks?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 12: I just actually just won't up.
Speaker 5: It's two thousand.
Speaker 3: Now, Well that's not I'm going to take care of that.
Speaker 3: Let me pay for January, so you don't pay rent
Speaker 3: till February. I'll pay January's rent.
Speaker 7: Oh my gosh, it's huge.
Speaker 8: Thank you.
Speaker 3: Well, thank you very much for reaching out. And when
Speaker 3: you're in Sephora, just think of me.
Speaker 5: I are you thinking of him at the weekend concert?
Speaker 5: Do you think about during the holidays Williams having your massage?
Speaker 1: You guys are the best. Merry Christmas. Thank you, Mooney.
Speaker 2: Christmas, and you're so welcome.
Speaker 1: We love you, love you to thank you, love you.
Speaker 3: It's time for a second date update this morning one
Speaker 3: of two point seven Kiss FM. So this is interesting.
Speaker 3: I mean always love the tale of how people meet.
Speaker 3: You never know where you're gonna on a plane, at
Speaker 3: the gym, the store, move in, somebody's furniture. It's what
Speaker 3: happened with Jeremy. He's in Palms right now. Jeremy, good morning.
Speaker 3: Thanks for coming on for second date update.
Speaker 1: Here's the deal. We want to try and help out.
Speaker 3: So you had a new female tenant move in next
Speaker 3: door to you, and you and your roommates were helping
Speaker 3: her move in.
Speaker 11: Yeah, they were trying to be you know, gentlemanly or
Speaker 11: at least neighborly about it.
Speaker 1: And at that point where you also attracted to her,
Speaker 1: are you just being cool?
Speaker 11: I mean just being cool? You know what, I've helped
Speaker 11: guide neighbors move in and just you know, trying to
Speaker 11: make it like if we're all going to be living
Speaker 11: on the same floor, might as well try to make
Speaker 11: it as cool as an environment as possible.
Speaker 3: Okay, So a bunch of friends you help out and
Speaker 3: then what happens you ended up getting her number or.
Speaker 11: What no so I didn't get my neighbor's number. I
Speaker 11: got a friend of my neighbor's number, because you know,
Speaker 11: like me and my roommates, we were helping her move.
Speaker 11: A couple of her friends helped her move, and one
Speaker 11: of her friend friends was just dropped out gorgeous. And
Speaker 11: you know, you can tell someone's really stunning when they
Speaker 11: look pretty helping someone move, like she was in a
Speaker 11: baseball cap, sunglasses, had her hair and a ponytail. But
Speaker 11: you know, like you could just tell, Okay.
Speaker 1: So you got the so the not there but the
Speaker 1: friend and there I'm falling good and what.
Speaker 11: Yeah. So I wasn't like, hey, it's your deal, like
Speaker 11: it was just sort of a It's kind of corny
Speaker 11: how it all teams together, Like I just mentioned to
Speaker 11: my roommate how her friend was hot. My friend mentioned
Speaker 11: it to our new neighbor. Our new neighbor mentioned it
Speaker 11: to her friend. So then she came over. It's like, oh,
Speaker 11: so you think I'm cute. We'd get to talk in
Speaker 11: I did.
Speaker 1: Jesse said that. Chexa said you think I'm cute?
Speaker 11: Yeah, And you know I was I'm not the type
Speaker 11: who would blush, but the patch she was so forwed
Speaker 11: about it. I was like, oh, this is this is interesting.
Speaker 1: Have you ever said you think I'm cute? Like that
Speaker 1: seems like strong.
Speaker 2: I don't think I've ever said that either.
Speaker 1: I don't think I can so Jeremy, you went out
Speaker 1: three times? Then what happened after the last time you
Speaker 1: went out?
Speaker 11: Yeah? So you know, the first time was just trained
Speaker 11: to see if we would get along. We did, second
Speaker 11: time was dinner, spent a little more time together. Things
Speaker 11: are going good. The third time we went to this
Speaker 11: art installation in Santa Monica. And after that just you know,
Speaker 11: radio silence. And now I'm talking to you guys, all.
Speaker 1: Right, well you want to go out with her again?
Speaker 3: You don't know why she went radio silent and that's
Speaker 3: why we're here.
Speaker 11: Yeah, Like I thought everything was going great and now
Speaker 11: she's just, you know, just gone.
Speaker 1: What happened at the art installation?
Speaker 11: It is this thing called Freeze. It was at the
Speaker 11: Santa Monica hangar. Like, yeah, okay, so you've heard of it.
Speaker 11: I had like art from twenty different countries or something
Speaker 11: like not really my thing, but you know it was cool,
Speaker 11: super crowded, but its cool, and you know, I thought
Speaker 11: it would be good because she was an art major
Speaker 11: in college, and so I thought it would you know,
Speaker 11: she would like it. We'd have some fun thoughtful.
Speaker 1: Well, it turns out she didn't like it. I mean,
Speaker 1: if she hadn't we hadn't heard it.
Speaker 2: Oh, I don't know if that's the reason.
Speaker 11: I mean, I something happened.
Speaker 2: Was the conversation between you guys on that date? Fine,
Speaker 2: like there.
Speaker 11: Was no It's harder if I could tell you know,
Speaker 11: it's not why I asked her questions and she was
Speaker 11: ignoring me or anything.
Speaker 3: Okay, hold on one second, Jeremy. We're gonna try and
Speaker 3: track her down and see what we can find out. Okay, So, Jeremy,
Speaker 3: we got her on the line. Is it Alicia or Alicia?
Speaker 11: Do you know Alisha?
Speaker 1: Of course you know.
Speaker 2: Maybe that's the problem.
Speaker 3: Okay, so Jeremy, be very quiet. Let me see what
Speaker 3: I can find out. Okay, you're gonna listen in, but
Speaker 3: don't say anything. Don't breathe in the phone. Okay, breathe,
Speaker 3: but not on the phone. Okay, Alicia, thanks for coming on.
Speaker 3: It's Ryan and Cisany and Tanya. You're on the air
Speaker 3: with us right now. We are calling you about a
Speaker 3: guy named Jeremy you went out with does that ring
Speaker 3: a bell?
Speaker 13: Oh my god? This guy definitely like brought the negative
Speaker 13: dark vibe and like he just he was so dark
Speaker 13: and like just destroyed the entire vibe, Like he killed
Speaker 13: the vibe.
Speaker 1: You know, Alicia, can I ask you what you mean
Speaker 1: by dark?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Did he he does?
Speaker 13: Okay?
Speaker 12: So okay?
Speaker 13: So yes, it was raining, Like yes, we had to
Speaker 13: take a shuttle, Like it took forever to get to
Speaker 13: the place we had. We were in line for like
Speaker 13: forty five minutes. They directed us a mile away. It
Speaker 13: was kind of a nightmare, just like the hassle of
Speaker 13: like getting there. But like make make it fun, you know,
Speaker 13: like waiting in line, but make it fun.
Speaker 4: You know.
Speaker 13: It's like we're together, and I mean it's just like
Speaker 13: if you're at an amusement park or something, like you
Speaker 13: have fun in the line while you're waiting.
Speaker 3: But Alicia, you went out with him, That's what we understand.
Speaker 3: A few times prior, did it not go the same?
Speaker 3: And was he fun?
Speaker 1: None?
Speaker 13: I mean yeah, he was like playful and you know,
Speaker 13: not a downer, but this night he just never stopped complaining.
Speaker 3: Like it sounds like you've been waiting to get this
Speaker 3: off your chest, like you've been waiting to talk about this.
Speaker 13: Yes, like he yes, he was like the male version
Speaker 13: of de Wie Downer like he was. Have you ever
Speaker 13: heard of a grumpy Gus?
Speaker 3: No, we met a guy named Gus. Yeah, but he
Speaker 3: was opposite grumpy. Yeah.
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, he was quite fun.
Speaker 1: But we say.
Speaker 2: Grumpasaur's rex in our household.
Speaker 1: Was when something.
Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, listen, Alicia. Jeremy is on the line
Speaker 3: listening to this right now. So Jeremy, there's your answer. No,
Speaker 3: that's why she's not reaching out to go out again. Jeremy,
Speaker 3: is that accurate? I mean, were you a bummer?
Speaker 11: I mean I didn't think I was that bad?
Speaker 1: Was I sounds like you were in her mind?
Speaker 3: And to me, Jeremy, and at least he's on the phone,
Speaker 3: I've been talking to him. He doesn't sound like a
Speaker 3: downer type guy. Sounds pretty optimistic and lighthearted to me.
Speaker 13: No, it was so bad. You literally said kill me
Speaker 13: now at one point.
Speaker 11: Oh, I mean I was that That's an expression though,
Speaker 11: wasn't being serious? And look also to fairness. To me,
Speaker 11: it didn't make any sense that we had to wait
Speaker 11: and traffic for forty five minutes trying to into the
Speaker 11: parking lot, just to be told that we can't get
Speaker 11: into the parking lot and then drive a mile away through.
Speaker 1: But Jimmy, you're doing it now, Jerry, you're doing it now.
Speaker 1: This is the whole point she's trying to.
Speaker 5: Make you know, there's a coming that are very Larry
Speaker 5: David like this, and it's just that's just how they are,
Speaker 5: and you just need to find your perfect match.
Speaker 2: Jeremy and Alicia's n.
Speaker 11: I still think that's a valid point. It was fairly designed,
Speaker 11: and I mean, well I was better once we got inside, though.
Speaker 1: You want to go out with Jeremy again.
Speaker 13: Honestly, I just you just seemed angry and bored the
Speaker 13: whole time, and I just like every time I looked
Speaker 13: at your face, I.
Speaker 12: Was really turned off.
Speaker 13: I'm sorry. I wasn't like, oh, we like grey.
Speaker 3: Like all right, Jeremy, this is not going to go well.
Speaker 3: If it goes any further, I don't think it's going to.
Speaker 3: But uh, there's your answer, and thank you very much.
Speaker 11: I'm glad I called just to find out she hates
Speaker 11: my face.
Speaker 3: Okay, you know what, Well, lisha good luck, Jeremy, good
Speaker 3: luck and thank you for coming on with us.
Speaker 1: I'm getting out of here.
Speaker 5: Oh that one was really good.
Speaker 1: He just did what she said he was doing crest
Speaker 1: So Pannah in the city. Hey, Serena, how are you hi?
Speaker 12: I'm doing good?
Speaker 13: How are you good?
Speaker 3: So explain to us what's going on in your concern
Speaker 3: and how we can help.
Speaker 4: So.
Speaker 12: I saw my cousin at the grove. I was with
Speaker 12: my friends. We were hanging out, and we saw that
Speaker 12: he was holding hands with another guy, and none of
Speaker 12: us had any idea that he was gay, Okay, but
Speaker 12: when he saw us, so he quickly let go the
Speaker 12: guard's hand and he said hi. But he obviously looks
Speaker 12: so uncomfortable, and he made no effort to introduce.
Speaker 11: Us to him.
Speaker 12: So my question is, can I let him know that
Speaker 12: we saw and tell him that we support him one
Speaker 12: hundred percent? Or should I just pretend I never saw
Speaker 12: it and just let him come out of the o
Speaker 12: time when he's.
Speaker 1: Comfortable he knows you saw him, right.
Speaker 12: I don't think she knows that we saw him. We
Speaker 12: didn't tell him, right.
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, Sarmina, I mean this is you know your
Speaker 3: cousin better than any of us. Here, and so if
Speaker 3: it were me and I saw him, I probably wouldn't
Speaker 3: say something because there's a reason why he hasn't said
Speaker 3: anything to me yet, right, And so that's that's really
Speaker 3: what I would do in that situation if it were me.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Or you can just tell him that you saw him.
Speaker 12: Yeah, because I don't want to lie to him, and
Speaker 12: you know, like I don't want to just like hide
Speaker 12: the fact that I saw him holding hands with another guy.
Speaker 12: I want him to know that I can. I'm here to.
Speaker 2: Support you exactly, So why not I just talk to him?
Speaker 1: That's good too.
Speaker 12: Yeah, yeah, No, you're right.
Speaker 5: And if he denies it, maybe that just means that
Speaker 5: he's not ready, and then just respect that as well.
Speaker 1: Thank you, yeah as well, thank you for reaching out
Speaker 1: to assuming it. You have a great day.
Speaker 12: Yeah, thank you you as well.
Speaker 3: Okay, So are you somebody that every day, every evening,
Speaker 3: maybe in the morning, you don't sit on your couch,
Speaker 3: You just get down on your floor. I guess that's
Speaker 3: more common than we originally thought. This is something that's
Speaker 3: coming out of TikTok. It's called floor time.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, TikTok is all about floor time right now,
Speaker 5: And it's the go to move for anybody who's feeling
Speaker 5: stress or if you're just feeling overwhelmed, maybe even sad.
Speaker 5: Think about like after a breakup.
Speaker 6: Yeah, for some reason.
Speaker 5: Remember like you watched movies and they're always on the ground,
Speaker 5: like listening to music or whatever. After a long day,
Speaker 5: floor time, if you're in a bad mood, floor time.
Speaker 2: Apparently it's like the ultimate grounding.
Speaker 5: So you know how like if you're trying to wake
Speaker 5: up every day and put your feet on the earth
Speaker 5: and actually be grounded with the earth. If you actually
Speaker 5: put your whole body and lay on the floor, it
Speaker 5: does something to you.
Speaker 1: You have to do it naked to connect with the earth,
Speaker 1: or you can get dressed.
Speaker 3: Now what to each their own. If you're down on
Speaker 3: like a natural material.
Speaker 2: If that's what makes you feel good.
Speaker 3: Why are you laying there? Well, so I don't mean
Speaker 3: for you to have to step over me.
Speaker 5: Right now, Taylor, of course, is somebody that brought this
Speaker 5: to our attention, lying on the cold, hard ground from
Speaker 5: I knew you were trouble. And for adults, it's apparently
Speaker 5: extra soothing because it brings benefits similar to a more
Speaker 5: intentional practice that you do right after like a yoga
Speaker 5: class where you're done with the class and then you
Speaker 5: just lay there.
Speaker 1: Hey, can I ask you a question about that moment?
Speaker 3: After I take my sporadic yoga classes, hu am I
Speaker 3: the only one that keeps looking, like opening their eyes
Speaker 3: to see when we can get up?
Speaker 1: No, you're not.
Speaker 2: I do the same thing.
Speaker 7: I'm like, how long do we have to They tell
Speaker 7: you when you can?
Speaker 3: But I often just sort of quickly open my eyes
Speaker 3: and get caught staring, you know, like, hey, it is it?
Speaker 1: Can we is it time?
Speaker 5: And there's people that don't do that part. They just
Speaker 5: get up and leave early. Yeah, well they're more impatient
Speaker 5: than I am, and that's rare. I was just thinking
Speaker 5: about this, so I tried it this morning.
Speaker 4: Uh huh.
Speaker 3: It is interesting because it gives you a totally different perspective.
Speaker 3: You're looking at the ceiling. There's a there's a calming
Speaker 3: thing to it. The other thing that I don't know.
Speaker 3: If you don't sleep well, try this tonight, tomorrow, whatever,
Speaker 3: this weekend. Instead of putting your head at the headboard,
Speaker 3: put your head at the footboard. Sleep down there by
Speaker 3: your partner's feet.
Speaker 1: Let me know how that goes.
Speaker 2: I don't want to do that.
Speaker 6: I don't want to do that either.
Speaker 3: Why I have a buddy that does it, and he
Speaker 3: says it makes him sleep so much better.
Speaker 1: He showed me, he showed me how you do it.
Speaker 3: You basically you flip around and put your head down
Speaker 3: on the other side and it just changes your perspective
Speaker 3: and for some it makes them sleep better.
Speaker 7: But then I think your partner has to to flip
Speaker 7: flop too, because then you're taking the sheets and putting
Speaker 7: them over your head, So then it's probably not going
Speaker 7: to cover your partner's feet and vice versa.
Speaker 1: You can, you can manage that.
Speaker 3: And also there's less bodied volume with feet than there
Speaker 3: is head and breathing, so it can be more comfortable
Speaker 3: if you don't like being breathed on.
Speaker 5: If I got slapped in the face by Michael's foot
Speaker 5: in the middle of the night, that would ruin my day.
Speaker 1: You see, aren't going to go sideways?
Speaker 2: No, I don't know.
Speaker 1: You mean because he kicks he does he kick out?
Speaker 11: Yeah?
Speaker 5: Or like you know, he does like the knee up
Speaker 5: and takes up. I swear he's in the middle of
Speaker 5: the bed sometimes.
Speaker 3: Okay, I sleep like your husband, doesn't it doesn't like
Speaker 3: a triangle knee.
Speaker 2: Yes, and then he hugs a pillow too.
Speaker 1: Me too.
Speaker 3: Literally be sleeping twins were so well together because do
Speaker 3: you think of the configuration, it's perfect. Good to go
Speaker 3: and Tanya, you want a new alarm clock? Is that
Speaker 3: what you were in the market for? Yes, wake up
Speaker 3: differently or what?
Speaker 7: So I realized that my alarm clock is so jarring,
Speaker 7: and I I realized if other people wake up with
Speaker 7: such pleasantries, And so I wait, like.
Speaker 2: A physical alarm clock, like one that sits on your nightstand.
Speaker 6: No, my phone, my iPhone is my alarm.
Speaker 2: Realize there's different tones.
Speaker 1: You can you can put the chimes on, you can
Speaker 1: put spa music on.
Speaker 2: You know, there's a bunch of different stuff.
Speaker 7: But here's the the cat. No, no, no, I do want
Speaker 7: to use my phone, but I want it to wake
Speaker 7: me up. So I'm nervous. I don't want to have
Speaker 7: like a like a nice little soft thing.
Speaker 3: My volumes down. I don't know something's wrong with my
Speaker 3: volume sometimes and I barely hear I have chimes, yeah,
Speaker 3: and I barely.
Speaker 6: I don't think the chimes would would do it to me?
Speaker 5: It will, trust me. I thought the same thing I
Speaker 5: thought I had to have like a siren to.
Speaker 6: Wake me up. Do you want to hear?
Speaker 4: What?
Speaker 6: Do you want to hear?
Speaker 1: What it is? What is it?
Speaker 6: I'll play it for you.
Speaker 3: My phone also is jarring, like if the phone rings
Speaker 3: in the house, it's jarring beside the bed.
Speaker 2: Well, what do you have for your phone?
Speaker 1: It's a ring, but it's just like.
Speaker 2: The old school sounding ring.
Speaker 1: Yeah, like a handheld ring.
Speaker 3: I know that's I know that sound, Tony. I've fallen asleep.
Speaker 3: Oh gosh, no, yeah, that's the generic one.
Speaker 2: Oh that's painful.
Speaker 5: That Actually, that's a bad mood every day.
Speaker 6: That's why I don't snooze though.
Speaker 7: I believe that, because that's why I don't snooze, because
Speaker 7: I just want to turn it off.
Speaker 3: So this is mine, but I think it shocks you
Speaker 3: too much like I feel the cortisol in my body.
Speaker 1: Right, yep, I have that one.
Speaker 2: I make him like Cinderella.
Speaker 3: But I still when it goes off, I go, oh, yeah, Tony,
Speaker 3: we'll get into your.
Speaker 1: Phone and we can. You can also put songs. Why
Speaker 1: don't you put a song like a hook?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Jack Jarlow, Yeah, I need some spicy margarita. Get them I.
Speaker 6: Need something because this is not working for me.
Speaker 1: Let me ask you this.
Speaker 3: Once your alarm goes off, how quickly do you hit
Speaker 3: off and then you get up right away?
Speaker 1: Do you sort of lay there? I get up right
Speaker 1: away and Robbie just leaps through that.
Speaker 7: I think it probably wakes him up, though, I mean
Speaker 7: he doesn't sure and the neighbors.
Speaker 2: Are gonna wake up without alarm.
Speaker 1: He doesn't move when that jarring sound goes on.
Speaker 7: No, well, sometimes, like this morning, he was like, good morning,
Speaker 7: Oh yeah, is.
Speaker 1: His any players again?
Speaker 11: Oh?
Speaker 2: Okay, I get it.
Speaker 1: Oh it's Maria carry all I want for Christmas. It's
Speaker 1: the beginning.
Speaker 3: Oh right right there, that's like her song intro. But
Speaker 3: I thought, we're not supposed to use our phones. While
Speaker 3: we're on this topic, we're not supposed to use our
Speaker 3: phones to wake up. We' supposed to get an actual
Speaker 3: alarm clock because the phone actually bed's bad for you.
Speaker 1: I know, yes, you know what. I did figure out
Speaker 1: a couple weeks ago.
Speaker 3: I did, actually, even though I didn't have it this morning,
Speaker 3: I did figure out with one of the coffee machines
Speaker 3: that I've got, how to pre program it the night before,
Speaker 3: so it makes coffee in the morning and it's ready.
Speaker 3: It's not as good, but it makes the pot is
Speaker 3: there with coffee in it because the beans. I like
Speaker 3: to grind the beans so the beans have that fresh flavor. Yeah,
Speaker 3: but it takes so much time.
Speaker 2: And now you're not even drinking the coffee.
Speaker 1: This is you go back.
Speaker 3: I'm going back to it next hour. So let's get
Speaker 3: to some of these talkbacks. You know, you can go
Speaker 3: inside the free I heet radio app. It's a great
Speaker 3: way to listen to the show and not miss anything
Speaker 3: if you're on the go, and send us a talkback
Speaker 3: message with the microphone, the red microphone that's inside the page.
Speaker 3: We gotta these are gonna be all over the map.
Speaker 3: I think let's start with this one. Last week we
Speaker 3: had a hack a hotel lobbies are the best place
Speaker 3: to use the bathroom when you're on a road trip.
Speaker 3: Susie and Santa Monica actually tried this. Here's super time.
Speaker 14: I used the bathroom at a hotel lobby and I
Speaker 14: felt so guilty about it that I pretended like I
Speaker 14: was there to look at their wedding venue.
Speaker 1: And then they ended.
Speaker 11: Up sending me home with like ten packets of information
Speaker 11: about the wedding venue and it wasn't even engaged or
Speaker 11: dating anybody.
Speaker 1: Yeah, they got to play out the charade. So funny.
Speaker 3: Uh, let's see Kelly and Orange County knows why avocados
Speaker 3: sometimes taste buttery.
Speaker 1: I've talked about avocado. Sometimes I get an.
Speaker 3: Avocado, get very excited about my avocado. It's got no
Speaker 3: avocado flavor.
Speaker 1: It's done.
Speaker 3: It's just it's cream but cream of air, but cream
Speaker 3: of not air. Could but it's no flavor.
Speaker 6: Good morning.
Speaker 12: You were mentioning the buttery flavor on avocados. A lot
Speaker 12: of them have to do with grown versus getting produced
Speaker 12: veggies and fruits at the store.
Speaker 10: So that buttery flavor.
Speaker 13: You will get that if you have homegrown avocados, But
Speaker 13: if you've gotten them in the.
Speaker 10: Store, not so much.
Speaker 1: No, I don't have an avocado tree, so bet I
Speaker 1: get one.
Speaker 2: I think that checks out.
Speaker 5: My parents avocados are like the creamiest buttery and they.
Speaker 3: And they're green and they got that real flavor. All right, Well,
Speaker 3: thank you for that. This is Natalie here. We also
Speaker 3: talked about someone dating their ex's mom. We asked if
Speaker 3: that really happens. Remember that store you did, Tanya yeah,
Speaker 3: no one to Cyrus.
Speaker 1: So here's what she said.
Speaker 14: Now, guys, I just want to say I've been listening
Speaker 14: to you guys for twenty years.
Speaker 1: I love you.
Speaker 14: About that thing they're saying if a guy has dated
Speaker 14: his exist mom. Unfortunately, that kind of happens to me.
Speaker 14: But we weren't together, me and him, and he was
Speaker 14: my age and then I caught him with my mom
Speaker 14: and he really really destroyed our relationship and then he
Speaker 14: left her. Of course.
Speaker 3: Wow, so they were together and then he hooked up
Speaker 3: with her mom. Well, Natalie, thank you for calling. I
Speaker 3: can understand how that would damage some relationships.
Speaker 1: Wow.
Speaker 3: Coming down from that, All right, let's go. Now, let's
Speaker 3: just wrap it up here with Tony. So, Tony, he's back.
Speaker 3: This is the guy that reached out to Tubbs It
Speaker 3: wants to get on the jiu jitsu mat with him.
Speaker 1: Would you call it roll around or something? Would you
Speaker 1: say roll around?
Speaker 10: All right?
Speaker 3: Well, he's back, he's not taking no for an answer,
Speaker 3: and I think he's on his way out here. Let's see,
Speaker 3: this is Tony from Virginia wants to book a trip
Speaker 3: to go play jiu jitsu with Tubs.
Speaker 1: Rginia Beach Ryan bro, you should absolutely go with tubs
Speaker 1: to a jiu jitsu.
Speaker 2: Class and try it out.
Speaker 3: I'm telling you you'll be hooked, not heel hooked.
Speaker 1: Just you'll love it.
Speaker 11: It's a workout you're not used to, and you'll just
Speaker 11: you'll be exhausted.
Speaker 3: He sounds like bigger than I am, for sure, and
Speaker 3: stronger than I.
Speaker 1: Am for sure.
Speaker 2: What is still hooked?
Speaker 1: Yeah? What is?
Speaker 2: You started cracking up?
Speaker 1: You really got it. There's a little insider pun there.
Speaker 2: A heel hook is a type of submission where you're
Speaker 2: basically just trying to break the person's knee.
Speaker 3: This is like a It's a serious discipline, right, I
Speaker 3: mean it's very hard. I've actually been to some places
Speaker 3: where people are doing this and it's really the amount
Speaker 3: of energy that you exert, right, I mean it's really
Speaker 3: a lot.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it's crazy. It's like I just did a
Speaker 1: trial and I got hooked.
Speaker 3: As Tony said, yea, and he his girlfriend do it.
Speaker 1: They have a matt in the garage. We do. Thank
Speaker 1: you for those talkbacks, right, that is it for us.
Speaker 3: You come in, you think, well, we got all morning together,
Speaker 3: and then all of a sudden, when time flies, it
Speaker 3: flies by, right, my mom.
Speaker 1: She's listening. She's here, she's visiting Mom. I'm saying it
Speaker 1: for you. What is that saying? She says, time flies
Speaker 1: by when you having fun. That's the one. Thanks for listening,
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