1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,759 Speaker 1: Having a baby is supposed to be a happy time, 2 00:00:02,920 --> 00:00:06,559 Speaker 1: right raw, Today we're giving birth to the five craziest 3 00:00:06,600 --> 00:00:08,000 Speaker 1: pregnancy stories that. 4 00:00:07,960 --> 00:00:09,399 Speaker 2: Get increasingly more insant. 5 00:00:09,600 --> 00:00:13,080 Speaker 1: Starting with number five. My sister in law announced her 6 00:00:13,119 --> 00:00:16,040 Speaker 1: pregnancy at dinner to lighten the mood, and I think 7 00:00:16,079 --> 00:00:18,680 Speaker 1: she's the a hole. This is Okop, home to the 8 00:00:18,800 --> 00:00:22,960 Speaker 1: craziest true stories on Earth. I'm Sophia and John. What 9 00:00:23,000 --> 00:00:25,119 Speaker 1: do you think is the sister in law an a hole? 10 00:00:25,800 --> 00:00:29,840 Speaker 1: I mean, based off of zero zero context she announced 11 00:00:29,840 --> 00:00:30,480 Speaker 1: her pregnancy. 12 00:00:30,680 --> 00:00:34,000 Speaker 3: One would hope that announcing your pregnancy is actually a 13 00:00:34,120 --> 00:00:35,959 Speaker 3: joyous occasion and not in a whole move. 14 00:00:36,120 --> 00:00:40,520 Speaker 1: You'd be wrong. Sorry, there's only one way to find out. 15 00:00:40,920 --> 00:00:42,920 Speaker 2: Spell that tea. 16 00:00:43,000 --> 00:00:46,239 Speaker 1: This comes from Abs Throwaway. About a week ago, me 17 00:00:46,440 --> 00:00:49,880 Speaker 1: twenty four female, my brother Jack twenty six male, my dad, 18 00:00:50,080 --> 00:00:52,440 Speaker 1: and some other close family members went on a trip 19 00:00:52,440 --> 00:00:54,880 Speaker 1: to Tunisia, where my mother, who died in a car 20 00:00:54,920 --> 00:00:57,560 Speaker 1: accident about two years ago, was from, to discover a 21 00:00:57,560 --> 00:01:00,360 Speaker 1: little more about her life and her ancestors. On the trip, 22 00:01:00,400 --> 00:01:03,520 Speaker 1: my brother decided to bring his wife, Julie twenty six female, 23 00:01:03,520 --> 00:01:05,760 Speaker 1: and I brought my husband. Up Till now, I had 24 00:01:05,760 --> 00:01:08,160 Speaker 1: not had any issues with Julie as I don't know 25 00:01:08,240 --> 00:01:10,520 Speaker 1: her very well. She and my brother met and got 26 00:01:10,560 --> 00:01:12,800 Speaker 1: married during COVID and lived quite far so I have 27 00:01:12,880 --> 00:01:15,520 Speaker 1: only seen her two or three times before this trip. 28 00:01:15,720 --> 00:01:19,200 Speaker 1: So the incident occurred on the second to last day 29 00:01:19,200 --> 00:01:21,160 Speaker 1: of the trip when we all went out to dinner. 30 00:01:21,280 --> 00:01:23,320 Speaker 1: I think that it's important to note that this whole 31 00:01:23,360 --> 00:01:26,119 Speaker 1: trip was to remember and celebrate my mother. She died 32 00:01:26,120 --> 00:01:28,280 Speaker 1: around the beginning of COVID where I live, so we 33 00:01:28,319 --> 00:01:30,520 Speaker 1: didn't get a proper funeral for her, and the day 34 00:01:30,560 --> 00:01:33,800 Speaker 1: we went out to dinner was her birthday. I'm beginning 35 00:01:33,840 --> 00:01:37,839 Speaker 1: to see how this pregnancy announcement might not be best timing. 36 00:01:38,040 --> 00:01:41,399 Speaker 3: Yeah, put an icy in the comments, see if you 37 00:01:41,520 --> 00:01:43,520 Speaker 3: know what's about to go down? 38 00:01:44,200 --> 00:01:47,559 Speaker 1: Yes, and also I'm sorry to ope, yeah for your loss. 39 00:01:47,600 --> 00:01:49,360 Speaker 1: At the beginning of the dinner, my dad said a 40 00:01:49,400 --> 00:01:52,600 Speaker 1: short speech basically thanking everyone for coming and honoring my 41 00:01:52,680 --> 00:01:56,440 Speaker 1: mother's life. Before he even got the chance to sit down, 42 00:01:56,680 --> 00:01:59,440 Speaker 1: Julie stood up and announced that her and Jack are 43 00:01:59,480 --> 00:02:05,400 Speaker 1: expecting a baby. The entire table went silent, with only 44 00:02:05,440 --> 00:02:11,080 Speaker 1: a few quiet congratulations congrats. Instead of reading the room 45 00:02:11,120 --> 00:02:14,000 Speaker 1: and sitting back down, Julie ran up to me with 46 00:02:14,080 --> 00:02:17,000 Speaker 1: a big, obnoxious grin and asked me if I was 47 00:02:17,040 --> 00:02:19,880 Speaker 1: excited to be an auntie. I stayed silent, trying not 48 00:02:19,960 --> 00:02:22,240 Speaker 1: to ruin what was left of this train wreck of 49 00:02:22,240 --> 00:02:24,239 Speaker 1: a dinner. And she said that she was just trying 50 00:02:24,240 --> 00:02:26,320 Speaker 1: to lighten the mood with some good news. 51 00:02:26,760 --> 00:02:32,200 Speaker 3: Oh okay, did she lighten the mood? Yeah, let's break 52 00:02:32,200 --> 00:02:34,680 Speaker 3: this down a little bit, so, like, could one argue 53 00:02:34,760 --> 00:02:37,079 Speaker 3: that Julie's intentions were good? 54 00:02:37,360 --> 00:02:40,679 Speaker 1: I can see where the attention seeking claims. 55 00:02:40,440 --> 00:02:41,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, my papa. 56 00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:44,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's so tricky because it's like, it is good 57 00:02:44,880 --> 00:02:49,280 Speaker 3: news and it could have been a true like misfire in. 58 00:02:49,280 --> 00:02:51,600 Speaker 2: Terms of like, hey, let me try to you know, 59 00:02:53,639 --> 00:02:54,120 Speaker 2: the mood. 60 00:02:54,520 --> 00:02:56,480 Speaker 1: But I also think yeah, but I also think when 61 00:02:56,480 --> 00:02:59,480 Speaker 1: you're at a funeral, because this is basically the equivalent 62 00:02:59,480 --> 00:03:00,400 Speaker 1: of the funeral because they. 63 00:03:00,320 --> 00:03:02,160 Speaker 2: Didn't have a funeral, that is such a good point. 64 00:03:02,240 --> 00:03:05,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, if you're at a funeral and someone's like and like, 65 00:03:05,200 --> 00:03:07,440 Speaker 1: we're here today to talk about this person that we 66 00:03:07,480 --> 00:03:11,519 Speaker 1: deeply cared for, and then someone say I'm pregnant, pregnant, 67 00:03:11,800 --> 00:03:16,760 Speaker 1: I'm having a baby waiting for like, congratulations. 68 00:03:15,800 --> 00:03:18,000 Speaker 2: Do you want to say congratulations to me. Yeah, are 69 00:03:18,080 --> 00:03:18,679 Speaker 2: you excited? 70 00:03:18,800 --> 00:03:21,240 Speaker 1: Are you excited? That'd be weird. This is when I 71 00:03:21,600 --> 00:03:23,919 Speaker 1: cracked and yelled at her that she wasn't trying to 72 00:03:23,960 --> 00:03:26,680 Speaker 1: benefit anyone but herself and that she was a selfish 73 00:03:26,720 --> 00:03:29,960 Speaker 1: attention seegar. I walked out, followed by my husband and 74 00:03:30,000 --> 00:03:32,000 Speaker 1: then my dad. From what I gathered at the dinner 75 00:03:32,080 --> 00:03:34,800 Speaker 1: was pretty much ruined after that, and the whole family 76 00:03:34,840 --> 00:03:37,560 Speaker 1: had left before they ordered any food. Now, I do 77 00:03:37,720 --> 00:03:40,080 Speaker 1: understand that she could have seen it as a good 78 00:03:40,200 --> 00:03:43,320 Speaker 1: opportunity as the entire family was all together, But after 79 00:03:43,400 --> 00:03:45,280 Speaker 1: talking with my brother, I found out that they had 80 00:03:45,400 --> 00:03:48,000 Speaker 1: known for a month before the trip, so they could 81 00:03:48,080 --> 00:03:49,720 Speaker 1: easily have announced it before. 82 00:03:49,840 --> 00:03:51,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, they were together the whole week. 83 00:03:51,640 --> 00:03:55,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, why choose like yeah, right after he made the speeches. 84 00:03:56,000 --> 00:03:59,000 Speaker 1: That's crazy, insane, that's insane. My dad is staying neutral 85 00:03:59,000 --> 00:04:01,120 Speaker 1: on this, and my brother is angry at me for 86 00:04:01,320 --> 00:04:05,040 Speaker 1: embarrassing his wife, but understands my point of view. Some 87 00:04:05,200 --> 00:04:08,200 Speaker 1: family members and Julie's mom are now calling me a 88 00:04:08,440 --> 00:04:11,720 Speaker 1: be over text for ruining an important moment for her. 89 00:04:11,840 --> 00:04:14,520 Speaker 1: So am I the a hole? There's an edit? But 90 00:04:14,560 --> 00:04:15,600 Speaker 1: do we want to comment on her. 91 00:04:15,720 --> 00:04:18,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, let's let's break that down real quick. So I 92 00:04:18,240 --> 00:04:21,720 Speaker 3: mean you could argue that maybe. 93 00:04:21,440 --> 00:04:24,200 Speaker 1: Because oh yeah, I shouldn't like she said attention. 94 00:04:24,279 --> 00:04:27,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, seeking not seeking. Yeah. 95 00:04:27,200 --> 00:04:31,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, she is probably really emotion like this is this 96 00:04:31,120 --> 00:04:32,360 Speaker 3: is her time to grieve right now? 97 00:04:32,440 --> 00:04:34,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, this was she didn't get a funeral. Yeah, and 98 00:04:34,680 --> 00:04:36,039 Speaker 1: so she's probably very emotional. 99 00:04:36,200 --> 00:04:40,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's kind of hard to blame Op for snapping 100 00:04:40,680 --> 00:04:41,560 Speaker 3: to some degree. 101 00:04:41,839 --> 00:04:44,040 Speaker 2: I agree, right, Like, it's it's. 102 00:04:43,880 --> 00:04:45,440 Speaker 3: Just a lot to be going through and then this, 103 00:04:45,640 --> 00:04:47,560 Speaker 3: and I think also the fact that she kind of 104 00:04:47,640 --> 00:04:49,560 Speaker 3: I feel like if Julie said it and then kind 105 00:04:49,560 --> 00:04:52,200 Speaker 3: of sat down, it would have like smoothed over. But 106 00:04:52,240 --> 00:04:56,400 Speaker 3: it seemed like Julie kept like like be happy for me. 107 00:04:56,680 --> 00:04:59,080 Speaker 3: Happy for me, you can look look like a. 108 00:04:59,680 --> 00:05:02,000 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, especially because she said that she wanted to 109 00:05:02,080 --> 00:05:05,039 Speaker 1: lighten the mood. Yeah, right after that, which is like 110 00:05:05,240 --> 00:05:07,279 Speaker 1: it's not the time. I mean, there's times when you 111 00:05:07,320 --> 00:05:08,960 Speaker 1: don't want to lighten the mood and you want to 112 00:05:09,040 --> 00:05:10,720 Speaker 1: kind of sit in that solemnity. 113 00:05:10,920 --> 00:05:14,279 Speaker 3: Yeah, like like lightening the mood is actually like way worse, 114 00:05:14,600 --> 00:05:15,080 Speaker 3: way worse. 115 00:05:15,200 --> 00:05:15,400 Speaker 2: You know. 116 00:05:15,680 --> 00:05:18,240 Speaker 3: Maybe it was like an ahole move, but I get it. Yeah, like, 117 00:05:18,279 --> 00:05:19,000 Speaker 3: I kind of get it. 118 00:05:19,040 --> 00:05:19,440 Speaker 1: I get it. 119 00:05:19,440 --> 00:05:20,719 Speaker 2: I can't I can't really blame her. 120 00:05:20,839 --> 00:05:23,600 Speaker 1: Edit to answer some questions, my brother said that they 121 00:05:23,600 --> 00:05:26,240 Speaker 1: had spoken about announcing it to my family, but had 122 00:05:26,320 --> 00:05:28,640 Speaker 1: no idea she was going to do it at that time. 123 00:05:29,320 --> 00:05:31,760 Speaker 1: I don't know for sure who sent Julie's mom my number, 124 00:05:31,880 --> 00:05:35,000 Speaker 1: but based on evidence, I think I can assume it's Julie. 125 00:05:35,040 --> 00:05:37,440 Speaker 1: I have sent the screenshots of messages I have received 126 00:05:37,440 --> 00:05:39,880 Speaker 1: in my brother and block them. Thank you all for 127 00:05:39,960 --> 00:05:43,520 Speaker 1: the insightful comments and support and not so much support, 128 00:05:44,200 --> 00:05:48,080 Speaker 1: oh yeah, being mean. I will be going over to 129 00:05:48,160 --> 00:05:52,120 Speaker 1: Julie's house two hours and forty five minutes away, far 130 00:05:52,160 --> 00:05:54,920 Speaker 1: from me, but not impossible, to talk things through and 131 00:05:54,960 --> 00:05:57,360 Speaker 1: maybe post an update based on how it goes. Were 132 00:05:57,400 --> 00:06:02,000 Speaker 1: the comments negative towards OP? It seems that, like, are 133 00:06:02,080 --> 00:06:05,040 Speaker 1: there any comments? Because I feel like, based off of this, 134 00:06:05,120 --> 00:06:05,760 Speaker 1: I'm kind of on. 135 00:06:06,040 --> 00:06:09,159 Speaker 2: O P side, I'm on O P side, but I do. 136 00:06:09,240 --> 00:06:11,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, I understand how my people it is harsh, but 137 00:06:11,440 --> 00:06:13,840 Speaker 1: I think that's not the time to bring that. Oh yeah. 138 00:06:13,880 --> 00:06:16,039 Speaker 1: Also the fact that the brother didn't know that she 139 00:06:16,120 --> 00:06:17,520 Speaker 1: was going to do that, I feel like that's like 140 00:06:17,560 --> 00:06:19,559 Speaker 1: you have to have a conversation with your partner before 141 00:06:19,600 --> 00:06:20,120 Speaker 1: you announced. 142 00:06:20,240 --> 00:06:23,920 Speaker 3: That is another great another like it's it is kind 143 00:06:23,960 --> 00:06:26,799 Speaker 3: of like a big that's a big, big thing to do. 144 00:06:27,000 --> 00:06:29,080 Speaker 1: And like both sides to be ready. 145 00:06:29,160 --> 00:06:31,479 Speaker 3: It's kind of a cop out to be like, oh, 146 00:06:31,520 --> 00:06:33,240 Speaker 3: we talked about it when it's like, well, we didn't 147 00:06:33,320 --> 00:06:35,680 Speaker 3: say we were going to we were going to do it, 148 00:06:35,720 --> 00:06:37,919 Speaker 3: Like oh, yeah, we want to tell them, but like 149 00:06:37,960 --> 00:06:39,720 Speaker 3: we don't have a specific time and place. 150 00:06:40,040 --> 00:06:42,280 Speaker 1: I just like and then Julia chose the worst. 151 00:06:41,960 --> 00:06:47,760 Speaker 3: Time, the worst time possible. Yeah, I mean OPI driving 152 00:06:47,800 --> 00:06:50,040 Speaker 3: two hours and forty five minutes to that. 153 00:06:50,360 --> 00:06:55,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, to seemingly apologize, I would just do a phone call, 154 00:06:56,000 --> 00:06:58,120 Speaker 1: just a phone call. I want to know what the 155 00:06:58,160 --> 00:06:58,680 Speaker 1: comments is. 156 00:06:58,720 --> 00:06:59,320 Speaker 2: Guilt tripped. 157 00:07:00,120 --> 00:07:01,440 Speaker 1: But a lot of people are saying not the A 158 00:07:01,600 --> 00:07:04,440 Speaker 1: hole upbeat AD four eight to too. I still don't 159 00:07:04,520 --> 00:07:06,799 Speaker 1: understand why people think they can give out your number 160 00:07:06,839 --> 00:07:09,200 Speaker 1: to people who want to berate you, block those people, 161 00:07:09,240 --> 00:07:11,520 Speaker 1: or change your number. She just became the bigger a 162 00:07:11,880 --> 00:07:16,559 Speaker 1: hole when she did that her mother Opie's number, which 163 00:07:16,640 --> 00:07:19,120 Speaker 1: is to call her up. That is super weird. That 164 00:07:19,240 --> 00:07:20,120 Speaker 1: is super whack. 165 00:07:20,240 --> 00:07:22,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's one thing if it's like, hey, my mom 166 00:07:22,840 --> 00:07:24,520 Speaker 3: wants to talk to you, but that's still weird. 167 00:07:24,880 --> 00:07:29,520 Speaker 1: My mom wants to talk to you, you're a be 168 00:07:30,600 --> 00:07:34,160 Speaker 1: that would be crazy abs throw. So I have no 169 00:07:34,200 --> 00:07:37,040 Speaker 1: clue how Julie's mom and now her best friend too. 170 00:07:37,560 --> 00:07:41,240 Speaker 1: Oh I thought, I'm kind of saying Julie's mom was 171 00:07:41,280 --> 00:07:48,800 Speaker 1: the best friend and Julie's best friend separate people got 172 00:07:48,800 --> 00:07:50,560 Speaker 1: my number, But I can't see who it could be 173 00:07:50,600 --> 00:07:52,840 Speaker 1: other than Julie or my brother. Yeah no, how would 174 00:07:52,920 --> 00:07:57,920 Speaker 1: Julie's mom and best friend get Opie's numbers? 175 00:07:58,000 --> 00:07:58,080 Speaker 2: Like? 176 00:07:58,480 --> 00:08:01,160 Speaker 1: Is this person? And then awkward Girl thirty four says 177 00:08:01,200 --> 00:08:03,600 Speaker 1: the way I'd be sending screenshots to my brother saying 178 00:08:04,120 --> 00:08:07,640 Speaker 1: deal with this before I do. Opie says, great answer, 179 00:08:07,760 --> 00:08:10,440 Speaker 1: might steal it from you. Yeah that's great. Yeah that's true. 180 00:08:10,520 --> 00:08:12,240 Speaker 1: You know, it seems like the comments are mostly on 181 00:08:12,320 --> 00:08:14,560 Speaker 1: op side, so yeah, I don't know, maybe they were 182 00:08:14,560 --> 00:08:15,640 Speaker 1: getting pressure from other people. 183 00:08:15,680 --> 00:08:16,480 Speaker 2: There's probably a few. 184 00:08:16,520 --> 00:08:19,120 Speaker 3: I mean, like I imagine like when these people post, 185 00:08:19,160 --> 00:08:22,360 Speaker 3: they they literally skim through like all of the comments, 186 00:08:23,080 --> 00:08:25,720 Speaker 3: some negative, negative ones, and they're just like sticking out 187 00:08:25,800 --> 00:08:30,160 Speaker 3: their brains. So for sure, final verdicts, we have reached 188 00:08:30,160 --> 00:08:31,280 Speaker 3: the whole story. 189 00:08:31,120 --> 00:08:32,560 Speaker 2: This person just kidding. 190 00:08:32,640 --> 00:08:36,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, ras Beryllium says sister in law is the a 191 00:08:37,040 --> 00:08:39,079 Speaker 1: hole for giving OPI's number to her mom and allowing 192 00:08:39,120 --> 00:08:41,040 Speaker 1: her mom to b rate. Ope. She's also the A 193 00:08:41,120 --> 00:08:43,480 Speaker 1: hole for not discussing this announcement with her husband first. 194 00:08:43,600 --> 00:08:46,360 Speaker 1: Ope is the a hole for disproportionate reaction to a 195 00:08:46,400 --> 00:08:48,560 Speaker 1: social misstep. There are a dozen other ways she could 196 00:08:48,559 --> 00:08:50,720 Speaker 1: have handled this that would have expressed her displeasure without 197 00:08:50,760 --> 00:08:53,199 Speaker 1: blowing up. Also for claiming the fact that sister in 198 00:08:53,240 --> 00:08:55,160 Speaker 1: law had known about the pregnancy of her a month 199 00:08:55,320 --> 00:08:59,320 Speaker 1: as partial justification for calling her an attention leap. Lots 200 00:08:59,320 --> 00:09:02,000 Speaker 1: of people keep pregnancy is a secret until they're further along. 201 00:09:02,440 --> 00:09:04,680 Speaker 1: I don't know, and I don't know. I feel like 202 00:09:04,679 --> 00:09:07,600 Speaker 1: when you're at a funeral, you're like your mother. You're 203 00:09:07,640 --> 00:09:10,439 Speaker 1: allowed to have a couple yea, yeah, if it's if 204 00:09:10,440 --> 00:09:12,679 Speaker 1: it's a social misstep for the sister in law, it's 205 00:09:12,679 --> 00:09:15,000 Speaker 1: allowed to be a social miss step for the for Ope. 206 00:09:15,080 --> 00:09:17,360 Speaker 3: If yeah, if this was like a like maybe just 207 00:09:17,360 --> 00:09:19,800 Speaker 3: like a regular family dinner or something that would be 208 00:09:20,080 --> 00:09:22,680 Speaker 3: I think it is a whole but I'll give her 209 00:09:22,760 --> 00:09:26,400 Speaker 3: the pass because of the funeral and like all the 210 00:09:26,480 --> 00:09:28,240 Speaker 3: emotions that come with that. 211 00:09:28,440 --> 00:09:30,679 Speaker 1: I don't think in the context Opie is an anile. 212 00:09:30,880 --> 00:09:32,200 Speaker 2: Yes, there we go, There we go. 213 00:09:32,280 --> 00:09:34,559 Speaker 3: I had a miscarriage and my friend keeps reminding me 214 00:09:34,679 --> 00:09:38,040 Speaker 3: of it. Should I go no contact, Sophia? 215 00:09:38,440 --> 00:09:41,360 Speaker 1: I think maybe, I think maybe. I think yeah, if 216 00:09:41,400 --> 00:09:44,160 Speaker 1: they keep bringing it up, and I mean if they 217 00:09:44,280 --> 00:09:46,360 Speaker 1: know about it too, that's yeah. 218 00:09:46,520 --> 00:09:50,120 Speaker 3: My question is do they keep bringing it up because 219 00:09:50,120 --> 00:09:51,400 Speaker 3: they know it is painful? 220 00:09:51,600 --> 00:09:51,960 Speaker 2: Yeah? 221 00:09:52,240 --> 00:09:54,599 Speaker 3: Not like, oh, did you go to your obgui N 222 00:09:54,880 --> 00:09:58,200 Speaker 3: recently or you know, I'm gonna be contrarian and go 223 00:09:58,600 --> 00:10:01,000 Speaker 3: stay in contact because you went no contact? 224 00:10:01,080 --> 00:10:02,840 Speaker 1: Okay, okay, okay, So there's. 225 00:10:02,600 --> 00:10:05,640 Speaker 3: Only one way to find out spill that tea. So 226 00:10:05,679 --> 00:10:09,040 Speaker 3: this one comes from deleted. I twenty five female, have 227 00:10:09,120 --> 00:10:11,160 Speaker 3: had two miscarriages, Opie. 228 00:10:11,240 --> 00:10:12,719 Speaker 2: I am very sorry about that. 229 00:10:13,320 --> 00:10:16,000 Speaker 3: Awful once when I was twenty one and then again 230 00:10:16,160 --> 00:10:19,120 Speaker 3: when I was twenty three. Both were unplanned pregnancies, but 231 00:10:19,200 --> 00:10:22,560 Speaker 3: were a happy surprise until I lost them. I've always 232 00:10:22,559 --> 00:10:25,000 Speaker 3: wanted to be a mother and have been teased mercilessly 233 00:10:25,320 --> 00:10:27,800 Speaker 3: by my family and friends for saying I love a 234 00:10:27,840 --> 00:10:31,520 Speaker 3: big family. Okay, I thought OPI was going to say 235 00:10:31,559 --> 00:10:33,480 Speaker 3: I was too mercilessly for the misca carriages. 236 00:10:33,520 --> 00:10:34,480 Speaker 1: I was about to be horrified. 237 00:10:34,600 --> 00:10:35,840 Speaker 2: Okay, for a big family. 238 00:10:36,440 --> 00:10:39,520 Speaker 1: Okay, still after the miscarriages or before. 239 00:10:39,840 --> 00:10:44,440 Speaker 3: I'm guessing at on both like all times, that's both ways. 240 00:10:44,640 --> 00:10:46,200 Speaker 3: I know a lot of you will find this in 241 00:10:46,320 --> 00:10:49,520 Speaker 3: poor taste, But following both those events, I would make 242 00:10:49,600 --> 00:10:51,520 Speaker 3: miscarriage jokes with my best friend. 243 00:10:51,760 --> 00:10:54,120 Speaker 1: I think that's fine if you make jokes about your 244 00:10:54,160 --> 00:10:56,319 Speaker 1: own and that's like dark humor about your own thing, 245 00:10:56,400 --> 00:10:58,120 Speaker 1: like trying to get through it exactly, I. 246 00:10:58,120 --> 00:10:58,640 Speaker 2: Think it's fine. 247 00:10:58,679 --> 00:11:01,160 Speaker 3: I think humor is how I've all dealt with my trauma, 248 00:11:01,520 --> 00:11:05,240 Speaker 3: and this was no different things. Like my sister asked 249 00:11:05,280 --> 00:11:07,319 Speaker 3: me to babysit. Is she really sure that's a good 250 00:11:07,320 --> 00:11:15,760 Speaker 3: idea given my track record of keeping kids alive? God, 251 00:11:19,559 --> 00:11:22,320 Speaker 3: My husband and I have been actively trying to fall 252 00:11:22,360 --> 00:11:25,800 Speaker 3: pregnant since September last year, with no luck. My best 253 00:11:25,800 --> 00:11:28,160 Speaker 3: friend told me that she was starting to try in 254 00:11:28,280 --> 00:11:33,600 Speaker 3: January and fell pregnant that same month. I couldn't help 255 00:11:33,640 --> 00:11:36,760 Speaker 3: but feel envy, but I was also incredibly happy for her. 256 00:11:37,000 --> 00:11:40,040 Speaker 3: I might be an ahole for expecting her to be 257 00:11:40,080 --> 00:11:42,400 Speaker 3: a mind reader, but I thought it would be obvious 258 00:11:42,440 --> 00:11:45,720 Speaker 3: that given the new stages of our lives, miscarriage jokes 259 00:11:45,880 --> 00:11:49,320 Speaker 3: would no longer be appropriate, and I hadn't made any 260 00:11:49,400 --> 00:11:53,520 Speaker 3: myself in over a year. However, there have been quite 261 00:11:53,559 --> 00:11:58,400 Speaker 3: a few sprinkled in over the last few months. I 262 00:11:58,559 --> 00:12:01,800 Speaker 3: never acknowledged them and just skip right over them in conversation, 263 00:12:02,080 --> 00:12:03,920 Speaker 3: hoping that she would be able to read the room. 264 00:12:03,960 --> 00:12:06,880 Speaker 3: I didn't want to address them head on for fear 265 00:12:07,000 --> 00:12:08,760 Speaker 3: of coming across better. 266 00:12:08,840 --> 00:12:11,800 Speaker 2: Okay, I want to pause right here. What should Opie 267 00:12:12,440 --> 00:12:13,600 Speaker 2: do in this scenario? 268 00:12:13,760 --> 00:12:15,720 Speaker 1: After? Really, I think that she does need to talk 269 00:12:15,760 --> 00:12:19,080 Speaker 1: to her friend if those jokes are making her uncomfortable. Yeah, 270 00:12:19,320 --> 00:12:22,120 Speaker 1: I think context clues it. Some people might be able 271 00:12:22,120 --> 00:12:25,120 Speaker 1: to figure out, Hey, probably shouldn't make those jokes anymore. Yeah, 272 00:12:25,160 --> 00:12:28,720 Speaker 1: But because the precedent was set before in the friend 273 00:12:28,880 --> 00:12:32,280 Speaker 1: jop Iop that like they could make those jokes. I 274 00:12:32,320 --> 00:12:34,520 Speaker 1: think just saying like, hey, just because I had this 275 00:12:34,600 --> 00:12:37,200 Speaker 1: other thing happen, and like, I'm really happy for you, 276 00:12:37,280 --> 00:12:38,679 Speaker 1: but I just have a lot of stuff going on, 277 00:12:38,800 --> 00:12:40,720 Speaker 1: So can we not make those jokes? I think that's 278 00:12:40,720 --> 00:12:41,839 Speaker 1: something that needs to be said. 279 00:12:41,960 --> 00:12:44,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, Like, I don't think OPI asked, like, am I 280 00:12:44,679 --> 00:12:47,240 Speaker 3: an a hole for not being a mind reader. Absolutely 281 00:12:47,240 --> 00:12:50,080 Speaker 3: not No, not at all, But it totally could be 282 00:12:50,360 --> 00:12:53,320 Speaker 3: given that you like kind of introduced it in in 283 00:12:53,480 --> 00:12:56,240 Speaker 3: the friendship. Might not be clear she's kind of like 284 00:12:56,360 --> 00:12:59,520 Speaker 3: coasting on that, and it might not have occurred to her. 285 00:12:59,679 --> 00:13:02,520 Speaker 3: Maybe she's like, oh, they're helping, like there's still her 286 00:13:02,520 --> 00:13:06,160 Speaker 3: coping mechanism. Yeah, right, which I mean possible to think that. 287 00:13:06,240 --> 00:13:08,520 Speaker 3: But there's more to the story. Everything came to a 288 00:13:08,559 --> 00:13:11,320 Speaker 3: head this past weekend when my best friend had her 289 00:13:11,400 --> 00:13:15,080 Speaker 3: baby shower. I provided a cake, cookies, and decorations for 290 00:13:15,120 --> 00:13:17,600 Speaker 3: the day, as well as running the party games for her. 291 00:13:17,760 --> 00:13:20,280 Speaker 3: She had told me that another one of our friends 292 00:13:20,360 --> 00:13:23,240 Speaker 3: wouldn't be coming as she had suffered a miscarriage and 293 00:13:23,280 --> 00:13:25,400 Speaker 3: it would be hard for her to attend. 294 00:13:27,679 --> 00:13:32,280 Speaker 2: What about Opie, who planned the whole thing? 295 00:13:32,720 --> 00:13:35,840 Speaker 3: Adding this detail to show my best friend is capable 296 00:13:35,880 --> 00:13:38,199 Speaker 3: of empathy, just apparently. 297 00:13:38,160 --> 00:13:39,040 Speaker 2: Not not for me. 298 00:13:39,679 --> 00:13:41,440 Speaker 1: I think she's just being a little bit obli The 299 00:13:41,480 --> 00:13:44,400 Speaker 1: friend is being a little bit blivious, Like it's clear 300 00:13:45,120 --> 00:13:47,680 Speaker 1: over here because we know the context that like, oh, yeah, 301 00:13:47,720 --> 00:13:49,760 Speaker 1: you shouldn't be making those jokes. That's a hard thing, 302 00:13:49,920 --> 00:13:52,000 Speaker 1: especially when you're trying to go to a baby shower. 303 00:13:52,040 --> 00:13:55,880 Speaker 1: But yeah, I think it seems that your opie's friend 304 00:13:55,960 --> 00:13:57,320 Speaker 1: is just a little bit oblivious. 305 00:13:57,679 --> 00:14:01,360 Speaker 3: Also, I feel like this other friend told the best 306 00:14:01,360 --> 00:14:01,839 Speaker 3: friend that. 307 00:14:02,040 --> 00:14:05,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, that like, hey, I can't come because it's it's 308 00:14:05,920 --> 00:14:08,040 Speaker 1: too raw right now. Yeah, so maybe they already had 309 00:14:08,040 --> 00:14:08,719 Speaker 1: that conversation. 310 00:14:08,920 --> 00:14:11,559 Speaker 3: Maybe the best friend is again still kind of like 311 00:14:11,840 --> 00:14:15,040 Speaker 3: coasting and being oblivious on like oh well maybe, although 312 00:14:15,120 --> 00:14:18,480 Speaker 3: I will say it's much easier to give her the 313 00:14:18,679 --> 00:14:22,680 Speaker 3: like oblivious pass in the beginning now that it's directly 314 00:14:22,920 --> 00:14:26,280 Speaker 3: yes with the miscarriage true, the oblivious car it's kind 315 00:14:26,320 --> 00:14:27,760 Speaker 3: it's a little slipping away now. 316 00:14:28,000 --> 00:14:30,800 Speaker 1: A little yeah, yeah, yeah, she's just not being very 317 00:14:31,160 --> 00:14:31,920 Speaker 1: considerate to. 318 00:14:31,960 --> 00:14:34,280 Speaker 2: Maybe yeah, not not super empathetic. 319 00:14:34,440 --> 00:14:39,560 Speaker 3: Yeah. There were no less than five miscarriage jokes made 320 00:14:39,600 --> 00:14:42,240 Speaker 3: at my expense throughout the day. 321 00:14:42,080 --> 00:14:45,560 Speaker 1: Not half the baby shower, the baby shower. Oh. 322 00:14:46,160 --> 00:14:49,960 Speaker 3: Final one being when a friend said this game was 323 00:14:50,000 --> 00:14:53,280 Speaker 3: so fun. Hopefully your baby shower will be the next 324 00:14:53,320 --> 00:14:56,120 Speaker 3: one and we can play it again, to which my 325 00:14:56,240 --> 00:14:59,960 Speaker 3: best friend replied, if she can keep one in there. 326 00:15:03,560 --> 00:15:08,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, I gotta take away the pass. Oh that's that's horrible. 327 00:15:09,520 --> 00:15:13,360 Speaker 3: I made eye contact with her and just bladly said stop, 328 00:15:13,480 --> 00:15:16,200 Speaker 3: and she didn't make another joke. Later in the day, 329 00:15:16,600 --> 00:15:19,640 Speaker 3: when she opened her gifts again, I was trying to 330 00:15:19,640 --> 00:15:22,280 Speaker 3: be enthusiastic and happy for her. She opened a set 331 00:15:22,280 --> 00:15:25,800 Speaker 3: of books that I remembered from my childhood, and I said, oh, 332 00:15:25,840 --> 00:15:28,800 Speaker 3: my goodness, I love those books, to which she loudly 333 00:15:28,840 --> 00:15:33,040 Speaker 3: replied in front of everyone, well, it's not your baby shower, 334 00:15:33,280 --> 00:15:35,720 Speaker 3: what y'all. That's not even a joke. 335 00:15:35,800 --> 00:15:39,680 Speaker 1: That's not even a joke. It's just being a like, yeah, yeah, 336 00:15:39,680 --> 00:15:40,040 Speaker 1: come on. 337 00:15:40,360 --> 00:15:42,040 Speaker 2: I think I broke at that point. 338 00:15:42,160 --> 00:15:46,040 Speaker 3: I stopped being enthusiastic and engaging in conversation or reacting 339 00:15:46,040 --> 00:15:48,160 Speaker 3: to her gifts. As soon as she was done and 340 00:15:48,200 --> 00:15:51,000 Speaker 3: people started leaving, I said I would also be going, 341 00:15:51,080 --> 00:15:53,320 Speaker 3: even though we had initially planned for me to stay 342 00:15:53,360 --> 00:15:54,480 Speaker 3: back and help pack up. 343 00:15:54,520 --> 00:16:00,080 Speaker 1: You do not need to do that so much already. 344 00:15:58,640 --> 00:16:02,280 Speaker 3: The whole thing with misca, everything, everything. My best friend 345 00:16:02,360 --> 00:16:04,920 Speaker 3: asked if she had upset me, and I just nodded. 346 00:16:05,080 --> 00:16:07,640 Speaker 3: She said she had only been joking and didn't mean 347 00:16:07,680 --> 00:16:10,360 Speaker 3: anything seriously. I didn't want to get into it with 348 00:16:10,400 --> 00:16:14,480 Speaker 3: her and upset her on her day, so I just left. 349 00:16:14,680 --> 00:16:16,520 Speaker 2: The more I think about it, the more. 350 00:16:16,280 --> 00:16:18,600 Speaker 3: Better I get, because I feel like I have been 351 00:16:18,640 --> 00:16:21,520 Speaker 3: so happy for her and she is just rubbing it 352 00:16:21,960 --> 00:16:23,560 Speaker 3: in my face. 353 00:16:24,400 --> 00:16:26,320 Speaker 2: We've read the whole story, Yeah, how are we feeling? 354 00:16:26,600 --> 00:16:30,200 Speaker 1: I think that seems like Opie's best friend is being 355 00:16:30,720 --> 00:16:35,200 Speaker 1: very oblivious and very unempathetic, especially on a like It's 356 00:16:35,240 --> 00:16:37,320 Speaker 1: just it seems pretty obvious to me, Like if I 357 00:16:37,360 --> 00:16:38,800 Speaker 1: was out a baby shower, I'd be like, even if 358 00:16:38,800 --> 00:16:40,560 Speaker 1: I was making jokes like those kind of jokes with 359 00:16:40,600 --> 00:16:42,280 Speaker 1: my friend, I'd be like, oh, well, this is a 360 00:16:42,280 --> 00:16:44,440 Speaker 1: baby shower for my baby that I'm having. Maybe I 361 00:16:44,440 --> 00:16:47,040 Speaker 1: should be a little bit more right. Yeah, maybe I 362 00:16:47,080 --> 00:16:49,120 Speaker 1: should like think about that. But I think if it's 363 00:16:49,120 --> 00:16:51,080 Speaker 1: your best friend, you should have that conversation. 364 00:16:51,320 --> 00:16:51,720 Speaker 2: Yeah. 365 00:16:51,760 --> 00:16:53,480 Speaker 1: I think you have to be like direct with her 366 00:16:53,520 --> 00:16:55,880 Speaker 1: and be like hey, yeah, it's not okay, And if 367 00:16:55,920 --> 00:16:58,840 Speaker 1: she still does it, that's when you're like, okay, no contact. 368 00:16:58,920 --> 00:16:59,160 Speaker 2: Yeah. 369 00:16:59,160 --> 00:17:03,040 Speaker 3: I think I think the best friend is definitely the ahole. 370 00:17:03,160 --> 00:17:05,359 Speaker 2: Like, yeah, as we got later, there were just so 371 00:17:05,640 --> 00:17:07,240 Speaker 2: many opportunities for. 372 00:17:07,800 --> 00:17:12,439 Speaker 1: Realize, especially when op was like stop and then she 373 00:17:12,440 --> 00:17:14,359 Speaker 1: did it again. Yeah, And I don't know if that 374 00:17:14,400 --> 00:17:16,560 Speaker 1: was supposed to be another miscarriage joke, or if it was. 375 00:17:16,560 --> 00:17:17,480 Speaker 2: Just like I think so. 376 00:17:17,560 --> 00:17:19,840 Speaker 3: I think what that was is she opened one of 377 00:17:19,840 --> 00:17:21,520 Speaker 3: the gifts and it was like one of the books 378 00:17:21,520 --> 00:17:23,719 Speaker 3: from her childhood, and she was just like, Oh, I 379 00:17:23,760 --> 00:17:26,399 Speaker 3: love these books from my childhood. And then she's like, oh, well, 380 00:17:26,400 --> 00:17:28,480 Speaker 3: it's not your baby shower. Like that's the vibe that 381 00:17:28,520 --> 00:17:29,920 Speaker 3: I got from it. 382 00:17:30,440 --> 00:17:32,399 Speaker 1: Even if it wasn't the friends of atension, it might 383 00:17:32,440 --> 00:17:33,800 Speaker 1: have been interpreted as another one. 384 00:17:33,800 --> 00:17:34,560 Speaker 2: One hundred percent. 385 00:17:34,800 --> 00:17:37,240 Speaker 3: I think this person is the best friend, is definitely 386 00:17:37,240 --> 00:17:39,879 Speaker 3: the A whole op not the a hole. But you 387 00:17:39,920 --> 00:17:43,479 Speaker 3: know what, I don't want us to stop doing another story, 388 00:17:43,600 --> 00:17:44,840 Speaker 3: reading more stories of me. 389 00:17:45,720 --> 00:17:46,480 Speaker 2: Let's get it on. 390 00:17:47,160 --> 00:17:49,840 Speaker 1: My sister thinks I have to care for her baby 391 00:17:49,880 --> 00:17:54,160 Speaker 1: because I'm the aunt. Should I stop? Miss Fleming says, So, 392 00:17:54,240 --> 00:17:56,880 Speaker 1: my sister is pregnant and because I knit, she has 393 00:17:56,960 --> 00:17:59,520 Speaker 1: asked me to make baby blankets and the like. I 394 00:17:59,560 --> 00:18:01,240 Speaker 1: agree to do so as a gift to her and 395 00:18:01,240 --> 00:18:03,600 Speaker 1: the baby. I'm not charging her for my time or 396 00:18:03,640 --> 00:18:06,040 Speaker 1: any of the materials I have used. I'm not making 397 00:18:06,080 --> 00:18:08,280 Speaker 1: anything other than the blanket, as I often cook for 398 00:18:08,320 --> 00:18:10,439 Speaker 1: her and her boyfriend and will be looking after the 399 00:18:10,480 --> 00:18:12,400 Speaker 1: baby for free. It was really nice. 400 00:18:12,480 --> 00:18:15,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's good. Good, so good, so good. 401 00:18:15,040 --> 00:18:17,760 Speaker 1: The entitlement started when she messaged me to ask if 402 00:18:17,760 --> 00:18:19,439 Speaker 1: I would do a photo shoot for her, as I 403 00:18:19,440 --> 00:18:22,960 Speaker 1: did photography as a GCSE and own a camera. I 404 00:18:23,000 --> 00:18:24,720 Speaker 1: asked if I would get paid, as I would have 405 00:18:24,800 --> 00:18:26,800 Speaker 1: to travel to her and use my time to do 406 00:18:26,840 --> 00:18:29,400 Speaker 1: the photo shoot and then edit the images, and she said. 407 00:18:29,840 --> 00:18:32,760 Speaker 2: No, obviously not Now I would get. 408 00:18:32,600 --> 00:18:34,399 Speaker 1: Food or drink if she wasn't going to pay the 409 00:18:34,440 --> 00:18:38,439 Speaker 1: photographer who she was planning on hiring. Wait what okay, 410 00:18:39,280 --> 00:18:42,399 Speaker 1: I have no budget for the person I'm hiring. I 411 00:18:42,480 --> 00:18:45,360 Speaker 1: told her no, and she said that as her sibling, 412 00:18:45,560 --> 00:18:47,199 Speaker 1: I should do it. She said I should do it 413 00:18:47,240 --> 00:18:49,080 Speaker 1: even though we don't live in the same city, and 414 00:18:49,119 --> 00:18:51,159 Speaker 1: that she would pay for a taxi. I told her 415 00:18:51,200 --> 00:18:53,080 Speaker 1: that paying for a taxi is not the same as 416 00:18:53,080 --> 00:18:55,520 Speaker 1: paying me. She said she would ask my twin and 417 00:18:55,560 --> 00:18:57,800 Speaker 1: I told her to do that. Then if enough people 418 00:18:57,840 --> 00:18:59,800 Speaker 1: want it, I have screenshots of the conversation. 419 00:19:00,000 --> 00:19:02,520 Speaker 2: I do want to I would love to see it edit. 420 00:19:02,680 --> 00:19:05,280 Speaker 1: I keep getting comments saying that it's not entitle and 421 00:19:05,280 --> 00:19:07,399 Speaker 1: that's what families are for. Me and my sister are 422 00:19:07,440 --> 00:19:10,359 Speaker 1: not close. We never have been, and she's often extremely 423 00:19:10,440 --> 00:19:12,119 Speaker 1: rude to me. My gift to her is the blanket 424 00:19:12,160 --> 00:19:14,320 Speaker 1: which I'm knitting for her. We have several other sisters 425 00:19:14,359 --> 00:19:17,119 Speaker 1: who aren't getting slash making anything for her, So I 426 00:19:17,160 --> 00:19:19,280 Speaker 1: think it's unfair to say that families should do stuff 427 00:19:19,320 --> 00:19:21,840 Speaker 1: like this. I'm also a full time college student with 428 00:19:21,880 --> 00:19:23,760 Speaker 1: a part time job. For the people saying that she's 429 00:19:23,800 --> 00:19:26,719 Speaker 1: not asking too much. Before we move on, what are 430 00:19:26,760 --> 00:19:28,640 Speaker 1: your what are your thoughts so far? 431 00:19:28,760 --> 00:19:30,800 Speaker 3: I don't know if you've heard this expression. This is 432 00:19:30,920 --> 00:19:33,399 Speaker 3: this is a Southern expression looking a gift horse in 433 00:19:33,440 --> 00:19:33,840 Speaker 3: the mouth. 434 00:19:34,160 --> 00:19:35,200 Speaker 1: I have heard that expression. 435 00:19:35,359 --> 00:19:36,199 Speaker 2: See there you go. 436 00:19:36,280 --> 00:19:38,200 Speaker 1: I think asking you a little too much. 437 00:19:38,080 --> 00:19:42,080 Speaker 3: Too much, You're already getting a gift, already getting a gift. 438 00:19:41,840 --> 00:19:43,919 Speaker 2: The blanket, which is also her adorable. 439 00:19:44,040 --> 00:19:45,640 Speaker 1: Yeah bye, that's a great gift. 440 00:19:45,680 --> 00:19:48,600 Speaker 3: And now you're like I think if things often get 441 00:19:48,640 --> 00:19:52,679 Speaker 3: dicey when like a family member asks you to do 442 00:19:52,760 --> 00:19:55,639 Speaker 3: something that's like their paid profession for choices. 443 00:19:55,920 --> 00:19:58,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, they're like, oh, well you you like, this is 444 00:19:58,119 --> 00:19:59,680 Speaker 1: your job and i'm your family members, so do it 445 00:19:59,720 --> 00:20:00,200 Speaker 1: for free. 446 00:20:00,280 --> 00:20:03,120 Speaker 3: And it's like, well, but I have to, like it's 447 00:20:03,160 --> 00:20:07,080 Speaker 3: time travel and take my time, especially the traveling. Yeah, 448 00:20:07,119 --> 00:20:09,600 Speaker 3: and also I feel like I feel like your family member. 449 00:20:10,240 --> 00:20:11,879 Speaker 3: If they're going to ask you to do it for free, 450 00:20:12,080 --> 00:20:14,720 Speaker 3: will be even more entitled to be like, oh no, 451 00:20:14,880 --> 00:20:17,360 Speaker 3: like I didn't like this, Can you just like redo it? 452 00:20:17,640 --> 00:20:18,840 Speaker 2: Like gonna be a mess? 453 00:20:18,960 --> 00:20:22,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly, gonna be a mess. True edit too. Okay, 454 00:20:22,240 --> 00:20:24,240 Speaker 1: thank you all so much for the up votes. This 455 00:20:24,280 --> 00:20:26,840 Speaker 1: blew up way quicker than I thought possible. Thank you 456 00:20:26,880 --> 00:20:29,640 Speaker 1: for the Silver award. I'm seventeen and I usually get 457 00:20:29,640 --> 00:20:31,960 Speaker 1: the bus everywhere, and from my city to hers take 458 00:20:32,040 --> 00:20:34,880 Speaker 1: three takes three hours when there's little to no traffic. 459 00:20:35,040 --> 00:20:37,439 Speaker 2: She's seventeen and having to do all that. 460 00:20:38,080 --> 00:20:42,639 Speaker 1: Oh, what is this advantage of her seventeen year old system? 461 00:20:42,720 --> 00:20:45,679 Speaker 1: Come on, I don't run a photography business, and I 462 00:20:45,720 --> 00:20:48,640 Speaker 1: was only planning on charging her thirty to forty euros 463 00:20:48,640 --> 00:20:50,879 Speaker 1: for the whole thing. No, I don't have to go 464 00:20:50,960 --> 00:20:53,800 Speaker 1: into college, but I still have. But I still have 465 00:20:53,920 --> 00:20:56,000 Speaker 1: online lessons almost every day, and I have a lot 466 00:20:56,040 --> 00:20:59,400 Speaker 1: of coursework. Screenshots are posted on my profile if you're interested, 467 00:20:59,640 --> 00:21:01,320 Speaker 1: and then the say again, thank you so much for 468 00:21:01,359 --> 00:21:03,320 Speaker 1: all the awards. It means so much. I'm trying to 469 00:21:03,359 --> 00:21:05,480 Speaker 1: respond as many people as possible, but there's just so 470 00:21:05,560 --> 00:21:07,120 Speaker 1: many of you. If you want to ask a question, 471 00:21:07,160 --> 00:21:09,320 Speaker 1: please message me, as I'll probably get back too much quicker. 472 00:21:09,840 --> 00:21:12,800 Speaker 1: And then proper Cupcake four to eight eight says how 473 00:21:12,800 --> 00:21:15,280 Speaker 1: many siblings are there? And all are you a boy 474 00:21:15,359 --> 00:21:17,639 Speaker 1: or girl? Opie says, I have four sisters and that 475 00:21:17,680 --> 00:21:20,600 Speaker 1: they are not non binary, and that is that's it, 476 00:21:20,640 --> 00:21:21,240 Speaker 1: that's the whole thing. 477 00:21:21,560 --> 00:21:25,520 Speaker 3: Wow, I mean, the level of insanity just went to 478 00:21:25,600 --> 00:21:28,959 Speaker 3: a thousand when we realized. I thought Opie was like, 479 00:21:29,280 --> 00:21:31,480 Speaker 3: I'm in college, I'm working a part time job. 480 00:21:31,720 --> 00:21:33,919 Speaker 1: Yeah. I thought they were really in their twenties. 481 00:21:33,800 --> 00:21:36,440 Speaker 3: Same like late just by the like, I don't know, 482 00:21:36,480 --> 00:21:38,879 Speaker 3: the maturity like knitting, I don't know. 483 00:21:39,160 --> 00:21:40,880 Speaker 2: It is something about. 484 00:21:40,680 --> 00:21:44,199 Speaker 3: Op just gave me vibe vibes a mature like older adult, 485 00:21:44,400 --> 00:21:45,240 Speaker 3: seventeen years old. 486 00:21:45,280 --> 00:21:46,080 Speaker 1: Seventeen years old? 487 00:21:46,119 --> 00:21:46,800 Speaker 2: Are you kidding? 488 00:21:46,840 --> 00:21:49,600 Speaker 1: Cooking? They've already said that they have been cooking for 489 00:21:49,640 --> 00:21:53,280 Speaker 1: their sister. They've been what else they like, they made 490 00:21:53,320 --> 00:21:55,920 Speaker 1: the blanket price. They are doing all these classes and 491 00:21:56,040 --> 00:21:58,719 Speaker 1: they have to they already offered a babysit and then 492 00:21:58,760 --> 00:22:00,960 Speaker 1: the sister's like, oh well, you can just take photographs 493 00:22:01,000 --> 00:22:02,960 Speaker 1: for me, and you know, like take time out of 494 00:22:03,000 --> 00:22:05,520 Speaker 1: your day to travel to wherever. Just do it, Just 495 00:22:05,560 --> 00:22:06,920 Speaker 1: do it, just do it, and I'm not going to 496 00:22:07,000 --> 00:22:07,320 Speaker 1: pay you. 497 00:22:07,440 --> 00:22:11,520 Speaker 3: I also love how the sister was like, oh, I'll 498 00:22:11,520 --> 00:22:14,360 Speaker 3: pay your taxi for what's something that was? 499 00:22:14,359 --> 00:22:15,920 Speaker 2: Was a few hours away? Was it? 500 00:22:16,119 --> 00:22:16,399 Speaker 1: Yeah? 501 00:22:16,480 --> 00:22:18,960 Speaker 2: Thirty minutes forty minutes out of town? It didn't say, 502 00:22:19,400 --> 00:22:21,760 Speaker 2: but like I feel like a taxi. 503 00:22:22,320 --> 00:22:25,280 Speaker 3: You're already probably getting to thirty or forty euros at 504 00:22:25,280 --> 00:22:26,200 Speaker 3: that year, so it's. 505 00:22:26,080 --> 00:22:28,280 Speaker 2: Like, just change, just pay me. 506 00:22:28,840 --> 00:22:32,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, hello, come on, what are we doing here? 507 00:22:32,480 --> 00:22:34,960 Speaker 3: I think producer Riley was on his grind and did 508 00:22:35,080 --> 00:22:40,280 Speaker 3: locate the messages, says oh do you see Okay, okay, 509 00:22:40,480 --> 00:22:43,320 Speaker 3: might need you to do a photography photo shoot for 510 00:22:43,480 --> 00:22:46,679 Speaker 3: me as lockdown till April, so the man might not 511 00:22:46,760 --> 00:22:47,520 Speaker 3: be able to do it. 512 00:22:47,880 --> 00:22:48,879 Speaker 1: I'm get paid. 513 00:22:49,720 --> 00:22:53,720 Speaker 3: No, I wasn't paying him either. You can have food 514 00:22:53,720 --> 00:22:54,160 Speaker 3: and drink. 515 00:22:54,320 --> 00:22:57,159 Speaker 1: I'm already making you baby stuff lmao, but I might 516 00:22:57,200 --> 00:22:57,920 Speaker 1: think about it. 517 00:22:57,960 --> 00:22:59,600 Speaker 2: What's your point, my sibling? 518 00:23:00,160 --> 00:23:02,879 Speaker 1: Because I'm your sibling doesn't mean I have unlimited time? 519 00:23:03,160 --> 00:23:06,400 Speaker 3: You really do, laughing emoji, got my ass are very 520 00:23:06,440 --> 00:23:09,800 Speaker 3: now all you lot do is run around after your mother. 521 00:23:10,000 --> 00:23:13,600 Speaker 1: I have college and it's very time consuming. Also, if 522 00:23:13,600 --> 00:23:15,400 Speaker 1: we're in lockdown, I won't be able. 523 00:23:15,200 --> 00:23:20,160 Speaker 3: To travel laughing emoji. Okay, bunch, you will, cause social 524 00:23:20,320 --> 00:23:25,600 Speaker 3: bubble is a lot. This is a different city social bubble. 525 00:23:25,800 --> 00:23:29,600 Speaker 3: Get a taxi, you lot doing it with grando Mark. 526 00:23:30,040 --> 00:23:35,000 Speaker 3: Actually she's she's been yours, not traveling, not me. 527 00:23:35,520 --> 00:23:37,600 Speaker 2: Still to the same social bubble. 528 00:23:37,840 --> 00:23:40,160 Speaker 1: So you're not gonna pay me for the photoshoot all 529 00:23:40,160 --> 00:23:41,600 Speaker 1: the baby stuff, and you want me. 530 00:23:41,600 --> 00:23:44,520 Speaker 3: To travel when you lot get taxis, I do not 531 00:23:44,680 --> 00:23:45,360 Speaker 3: pay for them. 532 00:23:45,600 --> 00:23:47,240 Speaker 2: Yes, So what's your point? 533 00:23:47,480 --> 00:23:50,560 Speaker 1: My point is my time is valuable and paying for 534 00:23:50,600 --> 00:23:52,320 Speaker 1: a taxi isn't the same as paying me. 535 00:23:52,840 --> 00:23:57,800 Speaker 3: I'll ask blank then stronger emoji tell mom to stop 536 00:23:57,840 --> 00:24:02,120 Speaker 3: paying you as well, then, you know, for cleaning, seeing 537 00:24:02,160 --> 00:24:04,080 Speaker 3: as your time is valuable. 538 00:24:04,320 --> 00:24:06,760 Speaker 1: Okay, you do that, and I'll talk to mom about 539 00:24:06,760 --> 00:24:08,200 Speaker 1: stuff that needs to be discussed. 540 00:24:08,359 --> 00:24:11,600 Speaker 2: You do that. So okay, so we've we did the skit. 541 00:24:11,720 --> 00:24:12,680 Speaker 2: We did this skit. 542 00:24:12,760 --> 00:24:15,800 Speaker 3: We've gotten like the full full story context. Now, so 543 00:24:16,080 --> 00:24:18,720 Speaker 3: what is the what is the official verdict of the sister? 544 00:24:18,840 --> 00:24:21,159 Speaker 1: You know, I don't think I actually took any of 545 00:24:21,200 --> 00:24:22,200 Speaker 1: the conversation in. 546 00:24:22,920 --> 00:24:24,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, same the same here. 547 00:24:24,520 --> 00:24:27,000 Speaker 1: But I think from what I've gathered, the sister seems 548 00:24:27,080 --> 00:24:28,119 Speaker 1: very entitled. 549 00:24:28,119 --> 00:24:33,119 Speaker 3: Super super entitled. Like just the fact that Op is seventeen. 550 00:24:33,359 --> 00:24:35,639 Speaker 1: Come on, yeah, that's a lot to ask from seventeen 551 00:24:35,720 --> 00:24:39,080 Speaker 1: year olds in college, which for is high school because 552 00:24:39,119 --> 00:24:41,160 Speaker 1: I forgot that they were in Yeah. 553 00:24:41,000 --> 00:24:44,879 Speaker 2: Europe, right, so they called high school college? Got it? Okay, 554 00:24:44,920 --> 00:24:46,840 Speaker 2: so yeah, it's it's. 555 00:24:46,440 --> 00:24:49,080 Speaker 1: Entirely I think that's because it's an Australian thing, so 556 00:24:49,119 --> 00:24:51,320 Speaker 1: that should be a UK thing. 557 00:24:51,640 --> 00:24:54,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, but either way, they're in school, they are. 558 00:24:54,880 --> 00:24:57,000 Speaker 1: Does that makes sense because they're not in She wouldn't 559 00:24:57,000 --> 00:24:58,720 Speaker 1: be in UNI, Yeah, they would. 560 00:24:58,760 --> 00:25:00,640 Speaker 2: They wouldn't be in unis as a whole. 561 00:25:00,520 --> 00:25:03,359 Speaker 1: Sisters, the a whole Op. They're cool and. 562 00:25:04,440 --> 00:25:05,720 Speaker 2: Crushing it, actually. 563 00:25:05,359 --> 00:25:09,920 Speaker 1: Crushing it, doing a bunch of work, learning photography, learning photography, 564 00:25:10,600 --> 00:25:14,439 Speaker 1: going to school, a blanket for a baby. Yeah, no, 565 00:25:14,480 --> 00:25:16,080 Speaker 1: they're crushing it crazy. 566 00:25:16,320 --> 00:25:17,879 Speaker 2: But you know who else is crushing it? 567 00:25:17,960 --> 00:25:21,280 Speaker 1: Sophia this next story, Yes, let's do it.