1 00:00:00,760 --> 00:00:02,240 Speaker 1: Talk talk. 2 00:00:02,320 --> 00:00:06,400 Speaker 2: So we're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion 3 00:00:07,000 --> 00:00:07,560 Speaker 2: to talk. 4 00:00:11,480 --> 00:00:12,400 Speaker 1: What's up y'all? 5 00:00:12,400 --> 00:00:14,040 Speaker 3: Thank you for tuning in for a new episode, and 6 00:00:14,120 --> 00:00:16,040 Speaker 3: we talked back and show dedicated to. 7 00:00:16,000 --> 00:00:18,079 Speaker 1: These dreamers and chasers. 8 00:00:18,800 --> 00:00:22,800 Speaker 4: Okay, that's your co host, AJ Holiday. 9 00:00:22,920 --> 00:00:24,119 Speaker 1: What's up, Tam. 10 00:00:24,560 --> 00:00:27,720 Speaker 2: Hey, y'all, let's meet Tam Bam. I love y'all once again. 11 00:00:28,000 --> 00:00:30,560 Speaker 2: We all made it to another week. Thank y'all for 12 00:00:30,600 --> 00:00:32,160 Speaker 2: tuning in. How was your weekend? AJ? 13 00:00:33,440 --> 00:00:34,040 Speaker 1: It was cool. 14 00:00:34,040 --> 00:00:38,760 Speaker 3: I actually went outside. It was Auntie's homecoming this weekend. 15 00:00:38,880 --> 00:00:43,800 Speaker 3: I went outside for two days, bitch, Saturday, j Sunday. 16 00:00:46,360 --> 00:00:51,120 Speaker 1: Look outside by my girl on Sunday, Yes, honey. 17 00:00:50,920 --> 00:00:53,960 Speaker 2: Ya not outside by yourself for ge hoo. 18 00:00:55,040 --> 00:00:56,480 Speaker 1: There's some people right here, girl. 19 00:00:58,160 --> 00:00:58,319 Speaker 2: Yeah. 20 00:00:58,360 --> 00:01:01,000 Speaker 1: It was a day party on Sunday. On Saturday. 21 00:01:01,080 --> 00:01:07,120 Speaker 3: It was a old Head alumni party like at a Shriner's. 22 00:01:07,440 --> 00:01:11,920 Speaker 3: Mm hmmirl, your daddy was in there? Okay, it was 23 00:01:12,000 --> 00:01:14,440 Speaker 3: one daddy in there. Oh I wanted no, not your 24 00:01:14,480 --> 00:01:15,240 Speaker 3: actual daddy. 25 00:01:15,280 --> 00:01:19,120 Speaker 1: It was a lot of daddies though, y'all. We got 26 00:01:19,200 --> 00:01:19,759 Speaker 1: we got an. 27 00:01:19,680 --> 00:01:23,119 Speaker 4: Extra special guest on We talked back, yelling in the background, we're. 28 00:01:22,959 --> 00:01:30,080 Speaker 2: Supposed to wait till you introduce introduce your ass daddy. 29 00:01:33,720 --> 00:01:36,040 Speaker 1: God damn it, that was my weekend, y'all. 30 00:01:36,080 --> 00:01:38,080 Speaker 4: What's up with your weekend time that we're gonna introduce 31 00:01:38,160 --> 00:01:39,000 Speaker 4: this bitch man? 32 00:01:41,280 --> 00:01:43,600 Speaker 2: What did I do this weekend? Oh? I went on 33 00:01:43,640 --> 00:01:45,240 Speaker 2: a date this weekend. 34 00:01:46,440 --> 00:01:49,000 Speaker 1: That went on a little day and it was really 35 00:01:49,040 --> 00:01:49,760 Speaker 1: really nice. 36 00:01:50,280 --> 00:01:54,160 Speaker 3: He was a gentleman, so that's cool. We went to 37 00:01:54,240 --> 00:01:56,720 Speaker 3: he tried to get into draws. That's what we are, 38 00:01:56,760 --> 00:01:58,440 Speaker 3: a gentleman, okay. 39 00:01:58,400 --> 00:02:01,560 Speaker 2: Right, he kept his hands to his We just had 40 00:02:01,600 --> 00:02:04,160 Speaker 2: so much fun. We went to a couple of little, cute, 41 00:02:04,160 --> 00:02:06,440 Speaker 2: little quaint places here in Charlotte. And that's really all 42 00:02:06,480 --> 00:02:10,359 Speaker 2: I did this weekend work. I didn't do anything extraordinary 43 00:02:10,440 --> 00:02:11,640 Speaker 2: like GHO like you did. 44 00:02:12,480 --> 00:02:15,640 Speaker 3: Well that I never heard of GHO until now. First 45 00:02:15,639 --> 00:02:20,359 Speaker 3: of all, it's the greatest homecoming of on Earth. 46 00:02:21,040 --> 00:02:21,919 Speaker 1: On Earth, they go. 47 00:02:22,760 --> 00:02:24,840 Speaker 2: But you know that was only it was a t 48 00:02:25,280 --> 00:02:27,959 Speaker 2: A not at and t A and t people who 49 00:02:28,120 --> 00:02:31,639 Speaker 2: coined it that. You know, people from psychologists obviously think 50 00:02:31,680 --> 00:02:34,640 Speaker 2: their own homecoming is the greatest home coming on Earth. 51 00:02:34,880 --> 00:02:38,000 Speaker 2: But I saw videos and pictures and it is a 52 00:02:38,080 --> 00:02:40,120 Speaker 2: lot of people that show up for that shitch. 53 00:02:40,600 --> 00:02:42,840 Speaker 3: It was all of Somebody sent me a video of 54 00:02:42,880 --> 00:02:44,400 Speaker 3: the tailgating bitch. 55 00:02:44,520 --> 00:02:48,519 Speaker 1: It looked like the walking dad out that bitch people. 56 00:02:49,760 --> 00:02:51,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, it don't even look like it could be fun 57 00:02:51,760 --> 00:02:52,480 Speaker 2: with that many people. 58 00:02:52,520 --> 00:02:54,920 Speaker 1: You ain't got no room to move around exactly. 59 00:02:55,480 --> 00:02:57,839 Speaker 2: They said it was a great time. So maybe next 60 00:02:57,880 --> 00:02:59,480 Speaker 2: year I'll pull up the g HO and see what 61 00:02:59,520 --> 00:03:06,840 Speaker 2: the hose is doing out there. Period. All right, I 62 00:03:06,880 --> 00:03:08,919 Speaker 2: thought it was the greatest host of all time. That's 63 00:03:08,960 --> 00:03:11,160 Speaker 2: what I thought it was. But it's homecoming on Earth. 64 00:03:11,280 --> 00:03:14,679 Speaker 3: Okay, we're going to get to our guest weekend, but 65 00:03:14,760 --> 00:03:18,160 Speaker 3: let's let me give her a proper introduction. Okay, see all, 66 00:03:18,200 --> 00:03:22,480 Speaker 3: today's guest is the ultimate friend of We Talk Back. Okay, 67 00:03:22,520 --> 00:03:25,079 Speaker 3: if y'all went to the Black Effect Live show back 68 00:03:25,120 --> 00:03:27,080 Speaker 3: in April and Atlanta, you might have caught this bitch 69 00:03:27,120 --> 00:03:28,560 Speaker 3: on the head stand on a split. 70 00:03:28,760 --> 00:03:32,519 Speaker 1: I'm not sure which one it was, but that was her. Okay. 71 00:03:32,960 --> 00:03:36,560 Speaker 3: So she's an actress, she's an influencer. She's also an 72 00:03:36,600 --> 00:03:41,400 Speaker 3: aspiring comedian. She's everywhere you ain't manigga. Okay, welcome to 73 00:03:41,440 --> 00:03:47,000 Speaker 3: the Welcome to We Talk Back Ferbie ferb Firm. 74 00:03:49,320 --> 00:03:52,120 Speaker 5: Thank you. They called me with the word, and they 75 00:03:52,160 --> 00:03:52,880 Speaker 5: asked me what's. 76 00:03:52,800 --> 00:03:58,720 Speaker 4: The word and not her, So that fool bitch. 77 00:03:58,760 --> 00:03:59,680 Speaker 1: I was her weekend. 78 00:04:02,520 --> 00:04:07,400 Speaker 6: So my weekend was actually good. It was productive. I 79 00:04:07,440 --> 00:04:10,920 Speaker 6: worked the Falcons game, I made some money and I 80 00:04:10,960 --> 00:04:14,840 Speaker 6: had one you know when it got me went out 81 00:04:14,880 --> 00:04:18,039 Speaker 6: to eat, got me something to eat by these niggas 82 00:04:18,080 --> 00:04:20,800 Speaker 6: out here, you know, just trying to get. 83 00:04:20,560 --> 00:04:24,320 Speaker 5: In these pans, but they can't, so they getting in 84 00:04:24,360 --> 00:04:25,279 Speaker 5: the food ways. 85 00:04:25,480 --> 00:04:32,120 Speaker 2: Like I mean, goodness, look. 86 00:04:32,080 --> 00:04:33,680 Speaker 5: Let me not put my game out too much. 87 00:04:33,640 --> 00:04:35,359 Speaker 3: Right, they're gonna listen and don't want to feed you 88 00:04:35,400 --> 00:04:41,880 Speaker 3: no more exactly for y'all, let's get into stupid internet news. Okay, 89 00:04:42,200 --> 00:04:45,640 Speaker 3: I know everybody's been seeing what's going on with Saucy 90 00:04:45,680 --> 00:04:50,000 Speaker 3: Tantana and Academics. Like you know, Academics was under a 91 00:04:50,000 --> 00:04:54,160 Speaker 3: lot of saucy heat. Okay, he was being sauteed by 92 00:04:54,279 --> 00:04:58,080 Speaker 3: Saucy Santana for talking shit to the city girls. You know, 93 00:04:58,120 --> 00:05:00,240 Speaker 3: everybody was making fun of them, and I I think 94 00:05:00,279 --> 00:05:02,479 Speaker 3: people haven't listened to the album because, first of all, 95 00:05:02,920 --> 00:05:05,880 Speaker 3: their last two albums have been fucking hits. I don't know, 96 00:05:06,160 --> 00:05:08,800 Speaker 3: maybe people just going off with their hair and online 97 00:05:09,000 --> 00:05:10,919 Speaker 3: and they're not actually going to listen to the music. 98 00:05:11,320 --> 00:05:15,280 Speaker 3: But that album is fired that some of the songs 99 00:05:15,320 --> 00:05:17,520 Speaker 3: sound a little old, but it's a fire ass album. 100 00:05:17,680 --> 00:05:20,080 Speaker 3: So the record sales for the first week is like 101 00:05:20,160 --> 00:05:24,200 Speaker 3: between six and eight thousand. So people are talking about 102 00:05:24,200 --> 00:05:26,280 Speaker 3: them online and they're saying, like, their body language don't 103 00:05:26,279 --> 00:05:27,719 Speaker 3: look like they fuck with each other. This and the 104 00:05:27,760 --> 00:05:31,719 Speaker 3: third Academics had too much to say about them, making 105 00:05:31,720 --> 00:05:32,240 Speaker 3: fun of them. 106 00:05:32,279 --> 00:05:34,120 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. This nigga doesn't leave the house. 107 00:05:34,200 --> 00:05:37,960 Speaker 3: He's making content, making probably millions from his basement, which 108 00:05:38,160 --> 00:05:40,839 Speaker 3: is commendable. Yeah, but he also gets to be a 109 00:05:40,839 --> 00:05:44,080 Speaker 3: bitch ass nigga that nobody sees to put hands on him. 110 00:05:44,520 --> 00:05:48,320 Speaker 3: So Saucy's Antanna's sick of that shit. He's like, you know, 111 00:05:48,640 --> 00:05:50,560 Speaker 3: come fuckle to real, nigga. You always got all this 112 00:05:50,640 --> 00:05:53,000 Speaker 3: shit to say to women, Come say it to me. 113 00:05:53,160 --> 00:05:55,760 Speaker 3: So it's a whole big thing. But the last thing 114 00:05:56,000 --> 00:06:02,520 Speaker 3: that Saucy responded to. The last thing he said was 115 00:06:02,600 --> 00:06:08,520 Speaker 3: he would he would first beat Academics ass and then 116 00:06:09,080 --> 00:06:14,839 Speaker 3: he would fuck him an ass is his exact world. 117 00:06:14,880 --> 00:06:21,440 Speaker 3: Oh and Academics then took to his social media and 118 00:06:21,600 --> 00:06:26,599 Speaker 3: his platform from his basement crying, you know, saying that 119 00:06:26,920 --> 00:06:30,599 Speaker 3: he he just feels like he can't say anything to 120 00:06:30,680 --> 00:06:33,359 Speaker 3: Saucy Tantana because he's a gay man in fear of 121 00:06:33,400 --> 00:06:36,880 Speaker 3: being canceled. So it's like, I can't defend myself when 122 00:06:36,920 --> 00:06:40,159 Speaker 3: this person is clearly threatening me. And then he also 123 00:06:41,279 --> 00:06:43,720 Speaker 3: tried to throw some other women in saying okay, y'all, 124 00:06:43,800 --> 00:06:46,000 Speaker 3: y'all okay with rape when it comes to a gay 125 00:06:46,040 --> 00:06:49,120 Speaker 3: man saying some shit like this to me, which I 126 00:06:49,640 --> 00:06:50,359 Speaker 3: feel him. 127 00:06:50,880 --> 00:06:51,880 Speaker 1: I feel about that. 128 00:06:52,200 --> 00:06:54,800 Speaker 3: I feel I feel Academics although I don't fuck with him, 129 00:06:54,800 --> 00:06:57,360 Speaker 3: I don't like him. I just feel like nobody can 130 00:06:57,440 --> 00:07:00,080 Speaker 3: say some shit like that if if Academics was a 131 00:07:00,120 --> 00:07:02,080 Speaker 3: woman and he's. 132 00:07:03,440 --> 00:07:04,039 Speaker 1: But he's not. 133 00:07:04,520 --> 00:07:08,560 Speaker 3: But you can't. You can't only have these standards when 134 00:07:08,600 --> 00:07:11,720 Speaker 3: it comes to women. You know what I'm saying, that's 135 00:07:11,760 --> 00:07:12,640 Speaker 3: not okay. 136 00:07:12,680 --> 00:07:15,360 Speaker 6: And that's the problem with the world. One thing applies 137 00:07:15,400 --> 00:07:18,280 Speaker 6: to one gender. But if it's the other person saying 138 00:07:18,320 --> 00:07:20,680 Speaker 6: it's it's a problem. It's the cool when they do it, 139 00:07:20,680 --> 00:07:22,040 Speaker 6: it's a problem when I do it. 140 00:07:23,280 --> 00:07:25,600 Speaker 3: And let's look at jail culture. Niggas really be getting 141 00:07:25,640 --> 00:07:28,280 Speaker 3: raped in prison. People who can't defend themselves it's not 142 00:07:28,320 --> 00:07:28,720 Speaker 3: a joke. 143 00:07:28,920 --> 00:07:29,160 Speaker 2: Ever. 144 00:07:29,480 --> 00:07:30,640 Speaker 1: Rapist is never a joke. 145 00:07:33,080 --> 00:07:39,560 Speaker 2: Rape is a joke mm hmm. But however, Kmma, there 146 00:07:39,600 --> 00:07:44,040 Speaker 2: are some gray areas when it comes don't for me. 147 00:07:45,280 --> 00:07:46,240 Speaker 5: That's what I'm saying. 148 00:07:46,520 --> 00:07:49,360 Speaker 2: I've heard like some of the disgusting about things that 149 00:07:49,400 --> 00:07:53,520 Speaker 2: he said about women that it just makes me feel like, 150 00:07:54,800 --> 00:07:58,440 Speaker 2: I mean, obviously, Saucy Santana, I don't believe Saucy Santana 151 00:07:58,520 --> 00:08:00,280 Speaker 2: is gonna rape him, right, I think it was just. 152 00:08:00,280 --> 00:08:03,520 Speaker 1: Right because who would want who some mean shit. 153 00:08:03,440 --> 00:08:05,920 Speaker 2: To say back? Right, That's what I feel like it was. 154 00:08:06,080 --> 00:08:09,320 Speaker 2: And then just him crying is just kind of like 155 00:08:10,280 --> 00:08:13,960 Speaker 2: you're crying because I know you've said some very hurtful 156 00:08:14,000 --> 00:08:15,640 Speaker 2: things to people that probably may. 157 00:08:15,760 --> 00:08:18,680 Speaker 3: Never publicly told the woman he'd rape them after they 158 00:08:18,720 --> 00:08:20,320 Speaker 3: be after beat they ass though. 159 00:08:20,480 --> 00:08:23,920 Speaker 2: Right because wild But that's because he can't say that. 160 00:08:24,240 --> 00:08:25,680 Speaker 2: He would have been canceled for that. 161 00:08:26,080 --> 00:08:28,680 Speaker 1: So why can Saucy Santana say that? 162 00:08:28,720 --> 00:08:32,080 Speaker 2: Then you see, Yeah, that's what I'm saying, because we 163 00:08:32,200 --> 00:08:34,960 Speaker 2: know that Saucy Santana is not really gonna rape him. 164 00:08:35,760 --> 00:08:36,560 Speaker 1: How do we know that? 165 00:08:37,480 --> 00:08:41,080 Speaker 6: It's like the difference is the world doesn't see him 166 00:08:41,120 --> 00:08:43,880 Speaker 6: as a threat. They see academics as a threat. 167 00:08:44,559 --> 00:08:47,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, they see men as a threat to women versus 168 00:08:47,679 --> 00:08:50,240 Speaker 2: men as a threat to men, a gay man versus 169 00:08:50,280 --> 00:08:53,319 Speaker 2: you know, a straight man. It's kind of like, oh, 170 00:08:53,360 --> 00:08:57,760 Speaker 2: he probably could hurt Saucy more than Saucy could hurt him, 171 00:08:58,040 --> 00:09:01,120 Speaker 2: and in public opinion, which might not be true, Saucy 172 00:09:01,240 --> 00:09:03,240 Speaker 2: might could suck him up and bend him over in 173 00:09:03,280 --> 00:09:05,480 Speaker 2: time to a tree. You know, we don't know, but 174 00:09:06,480 --> 00:09:10,840 Speaker 2: Jesus Christ. But in the in the eyes of the public, 175 00:09:10,960 --> 00:09:13,120 Speaker 2: is just kind of like two men tossing words at 176 00:09:13,160 --> 00:09:13,520 Speaker 2: each other. 177 00:09:14,480 --> 00:09:18,120 Speaker 6: No, right, they don't look at it like, oh, he 178 00:09:18,280 --> 00:09:19,480 Speaker 6: just said he's gonna rape him. 179 00:09:19,559 --> 00:09:21,480 Speaker 5: Oh my god, you're right. 180 00:09:21,920 --> 00:09:24,080 Speaker 2: They should, they should, But I just yeah. 181 00:09:23,960 --> 00:09:26,840 Speaker 3: Because we can't we can't really argue how that, because 182 00:09:26,880 --> 00:09:28,600 Speaker 3: we live in a world where my truth is my 183 00:09:28,679 --> 00:09:32,120 Speaker 3: truth and all this bullshit, we can't argue how that 184 00:09:32,160 --> 00:09:35,240 Speaker 3: made academics feel he might really feel like he has 185 00:09:35,320 --> 00:09:36,080 Speaker 3: no defense. 186 00:09:37,080 --> 00:09:38,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, it is so. 187 00:09:38,840 --> 00:09:40,959 Speaker 6: But I do feel like the rate that he been 188 00:09:40,960 --> 00:09:43,480 Speaker 6: going talking all this trash about people for so long, 189 00:09:44,000 --> 00:09:45,000 Speaker 6: Now somebody. 190 00:09:44,640 --> 00:09:45,880 Speaker 5: Coming for you. 191 00:09:45,640 --> 00:09:49,280 Speaker 6: And oh, you're right, but you know came for these people. Know, 192 00:09:49,400 --> 00:09:51,520 Speaker 6: he ain't say he was gonna ever rape. But it 193 00:09:51,559 --> 00:09:54,200 Speaker 6: doesn't make nothing else that he said any better. You 194 00:09:54,280 --> 00:09:56,760 Speaker 6: still talk trash and said some stuff you shouldn't have said. 195 00:09:56,840 --> 00:09:58,120 Speaker 5: So now he don't hit you below the. 196 00:09:58,120 --> 00:10:01,280 Speaker 3: Bell and he was just talking crazy, said Erica Badu, 197 00:10:01,640 --> 00:10:04,760 Speaker 3: and I feel like so so. Queen Latifa just recently 198 00:10:04,760 --> 00:10:09,440 Speaker 3: co signed my son a post that he put on 199 00:10:09,480 --> 00:10:12,760 Speaker 3: his social media regarding the situation. It says, it's crazy 200 00:10:12,800 --> 00:10:15,920 Speaker 3: to me how Dj Academics is crying scared to say 201 00:10:15,920 --> 00:10:18,840 Speaker 3: anything to Saucy Santana because he's a gay man and 202 00:10:18,880 --> 00:10:21,920 Speaker 3: he's scared of getting canceled, but has said some of 203 00:10:21,920 --> 00:10:25,319 Speaker 3: the most outlandish, vile, disrespectful, and the meaning things to 204 00:10:25,400 --> 00:10:29,080 Speaker 3: black women with absolutely no fear whatsoever. Brings me back 205 00:10:29,080 --> 00:10:32,840 Speaker 3: to the Malcolm X quote the most disrespected, unprotected, neglected 206 00:10:32,880 --> 00:10:34,560 Speaker 3: person in America is a black woman. 207 00:10:35,440 --> 00:10:40,360 Speaker 1: So Queen Latifa reposted this. You got Queen Latifa on 208 00:10:40,400 --> 00:10:40,839 Speaker 1: your ass. 209 00:10:40,920 --> 00:10:45,840 Speaker 2: Nigga, you got Queen took time to repost that ship 210 00:10:45,960 --> 00:10:48,439 Speaker 2: you know, I mean, you know, got Erica Badu on 211 00:10:48,520 --> 00:10:49,280 Speaker 2: your ass. 212 00:10:50,000 --> 00:10:51,160 Speaker 1: Nigga's gonna learn. 213 00:10:51,960 --> 00:10:55,240 Speaker 3: Nigga's gonna learn and stop playing with a divine feminine 214 00:10:55,280 --> 00:10:58,480 Speaker 3: which is the black woman, Nigga's gonna start getting the 215 00:10:58,520 --> 00:11:01,439 Speaker 3: fuck up out of here and just just just disappearing 216 00:11:01,440 --> 00:11:04,240 Speaker 3: in like the rapture for playing with us, Like at 217 00:11:04,240 --> 00:11:04,760 Speaker 3: what point? 218 00:11:06,400 --> 00:11:08,840 Speaker 1: At what point that's yeah? 219 00:11:08,960 --> 00:11:11,680 Speaker 3: I don't fuck about academics. I feel like somebody do 220 00:11:11,720 --> 00:11:13,320 Speaker 3: need to put hands and feet on him. Do I 221 00:11:13,360 --> 00:11:16,160 Speaker 3: want a grown man who's not homosexual to be raped? 222 00:11:16,200 --> 00:11:20,000 Speaker 1: Absolutely not. I don't want anybody nobody to be raped. 223 00:11:20,160 --> 00:11:20,360 Speaker 2: Yeah. 224 00:11:20,400 --> 00:11:22,840 Speaker 1: Absolutely. I think it's more devastating for. 225 00:11:23,040 --> 00:11:28,240 Speaker 2: Somebody who you know, never, it's devastating for anybody. Anybody 226 00:11:28,240 --> 00:11:33,640 Speaker 2: who's violated sexually is devastated. I'm sure you don't matter. Man. Woman, 227 00:11:33,760 --> 00:11:36,720 Speaker 2: gay street is not okay, it's wild. 228 00:11:37,720 --> 00:11:38,720 Speaker 5: It's not okay. 229 00:11:38,960 --> 00:11:41,760 Speaker 6: And the whole problem with this scenario is the world 230 00:11:41,920 --> 00:11:44,439 Speaker 6: trying to be a fair world and then trying to 231 00:11:44,480 --> 00:11:48,520 Speaker 6: give someone else individually to shine, Like, okay, we want 232 00:11:48,559 --> 00:11:53,880 Speaker 6: all fairness. But but if Saucy because he's gay, it's 233 00:11:53,920 --> 00:11:57,480 Speaker 6: saying that he's gonna rape somebody, it's okay. I feel like, 234 00:11:57,559 --> 00:11:59,640 Speaker 6: if it's gonna be fairness around the world, how they're 235 00:11:59,640 --> 00:12:02,160 Speaker 6: trying to make it, let it be fairness. It's not 236 00:12:02,200 --> 00:12:04,120 Speaker 6: okay for him to say that, but it's also not 237 00:12:04,160 --> 00:12:06,640 Speaker 6: okay for academic to trash people in ways. 238 00:12:06,480 --> 00:12:08,720 Speaker 3: And Saucy better be careful because I I do feel 239 00:12:08,720 --> 00:12:11,120 Speaker 3: like it was crocodile tears right and he could be 240 00:12:11,160 --> 00:12:13,920 Speaker 3: lying so to Santana for a fucking lawsuit. You just 241 00:12:14,000 --> 00:12:16,960 Speaker 3: never know, Okay. 242 00:12:16,760 --> 00:12:19,680 Speaker 1: You gotta watch your mouth. You gotta watch your mouth. 243 00:12:20,360 --> 00:12:23,199 Speaker 5: I'm surprised the academic gang got lined up for a lawsuit. 244 00:12:23,440 --> 00:12:26,520 Speaker 2: I saw that, right, I mean, just because again he 245 00:12:26,640 --> 00:12:29,440 Speaker 2: allude to putting hands on Erica Badou, you know, like 246 00:12:30,120 --> 00:12:32,959 Speaker 2: some of the things he said was almost threatening towards her, 247 00:12:33,040 --> 00:12:36,000 Speaker 2: you know, like, so, I mean, you just gotta be 248 00:12:36,040 --> 00:12:37,719 Speaker 2: careful words. M. 249 00:12:38,520 --> 00:12:40,920 Speaker 5: So what did Eric did you did y'all? See what 250 00:12:41,000 --> 00:12:42,200 Speaker 5: it was a couple of months ago? 251 00:12:43,600 --> 00:12:46,600 Speaker 1: Was that him or blue faced Erica just called him 252 00:12:46,600 --> 00:12:47,040 Speaker 1: a pussy? 253 00:12:47,080 --> 00:12:50,440 Speaker 3: Basically, Yeah, she just called him a pussy and went 254 00:12:50,480 --> 00:12:52,960 Speaker 3: on with life and went on and sold some of 255 00:12:52,960 --> 00:12:56,439 Speaker 3: her pussy fragrance, like literally like she did like a 256 00:12:56,480 --> 00:13:03,520 Speaker 3: half off or some ship. So Joe Smith, y'all, he's 257 00:13:03,600 --> 00:13:06,199 Speaker 3: back at Joe Smith this week and his wife because 258 00:13:06,200 --> 00:13:12,440 Speaker 3: they still together. Keisha Shavez, former porn star whose husband 259 00:13:12,520 --> 00:13:15,480 Speaker 3: just found out that she has only fans. Last week, 260 00:13:15,720 --> 00:13:19,160 Speaker 3: she's on a press run right now. She says her 261 00:13:19,240 --> 00:13:21,959 Speaker 3: body count is low. This is a porn star. 262 00:13:22,440 --> 00:13:25,360 Speaker 1: Saying that her body count is low. Okay, she said, 263 00:13:25,400 --> 00:13:27,840 Speaker 1: my body count is very low. Sorry. 264 00:13:27,960 --> 00:13:30,400 Speaker 3: I just talked to Joe about that. A little while ago. 265 00:13:30,840 --> 00:13:34,880 Speaker 3: We were arguing. I was like, my personal body count 266 00:13:34,920 --> 00:13:40,240 Speaker 3: is low. I don't consider work. It don't matter. That's 267 00:13:40,280 --> 00:13:46,120 Speaker 3: not the same thing work. Bodies don't count, says Keisha Chavez. 268 00:13:50,520 --> 00:13:53,520 Speaker 1: But you using one. 269 00:13:53,559 --> 00:13:55,640 Speaker 2: It ain't like you got a separate pussy floor to work, 270 00:13:56,240 --> 00:13:57,080 Speaker 2: a separate mouth. 271 00:13:57,640 --> 00:14:02,840 Speaker 4: That's to my husband, like this like working, I talk 272 00:14:03,000 --> 00:14:04,480 Speaker 4: and I have my personal laptop. 273 00:14:04,559 --> 00:14:05,679 Speaker 1: Bitch, you don't have that. 274 00:14:05,840 --> 00:14:10,920 Speaker 3: You have one, one mouse, one body, but. 275 00:14:13,960 --> 00:14:18,679 Speaker 5: My number like and speaking from my standpoint that I 276 00:14:18,760 --> 00:14:21,440 Speaker 5: don't know. There ain't no way in hell you can 277 00:14:21,520 --> 00:14:23,000 Speaker 5: say that. I can say that. 278 00:14:23,240 --> 00:14:26,280 Speaker 1: You can't say that. 279 00:14:28,320 --> 00:14:31,160 Speaker 6: I feel like, if it's penetration being involved and you 280 00:14:31,200 --> 00:14:36,480 Speaker 6: can get pregnant, it counts. And it's sex. If it's scissoring, 281 00:14:36,920 --> 00:14:40,280 Speaker 6: dial dose, it don't count. And that's the only way 282 00:14:40,600 --> 00:14:42,520 Speaker 6: it don't count. And that's from experience. 283 00:14:43,840 --> 00:14:47,440 Speaker 2: This girl is wild, yo that But you know what 284 00:14:47,520 --> 00:14:53,240 Speaker 2: women will rationalize anything to keep their body like Niga crazy. 285 00:14:53,800 --> 00:14:56,280 Speaker 2: Let me tell you something. My body counts start over 286 00:14:56,520 --> 00:14:59,680 Speaker 2: the stroke of midnight on New Year's Eve every year. 287 00:15:00,000 --> 00:15:02,520 Speaker 1: You're fifty nine, fifty nine, I'm an. 288 00:15:02,560 --> 00:15:03,280 Speaker 2: Zero, bitch. 289 00:15:03,800 --> 00:15:05,080 Speaker 1: Talk to your mama about it. 290 00:15:05,160 --> 00:15:05,600 Speaker 2: I don't know. 291 00:15:09,480 --> 00:15:10,960 Speaker 1: Okay, so we're gonna argue. 292 00:15:11,080 --> 00:15:13,920 Speaker 5: So okay, look, I got a quick question since she's 293 00:15:13,920 --> 00:15:15,560 Speaker 5: saying that since it was a. 294 00:15:15,520 --> 00:15:17,960 Speaker 6: Work body, they don't count. So let me let me 295 00:15:18,040 --> 00:15:19,360 Speaker 6: ask y'all this do. 296 00:15:19,320 --> 00:15:21,000 Speaker 5: Y'all consider this as counting. 297 00:15:21,040 --> 00:15:25,240 Speaker 6: If you have sex with somebody just because you're horny, 298 00:15:25,240 --> 00:15:26,520 Speaker 6: but you don't like them, you don't want to be 299 00:15:26,560 --> 00:15:27,800 Speaker 6: with them, you just having that moment. 300 00:15:27,800 --> 00:15:31,320 Speaker 1: All, if I don't come and don't count, let's be 301 00:15:31,520 --> 00:15:38,120 Speaker 1: very clear area, and you already know. 302 00:15:38,280 --> 00:15:40,240 Speaker 3: Every man is not gonna make a woman have an organ. 303 00:15:40,360 --> 00:15:41,640 Speaker 3: That's the difference between men and women. 304 00:15:42,000 --> 00:15:42,320 Speaker 1: Okay. 305 00:15:42,400 --> 00:15:44,800 Speaker 3: Niggas can fuck about five inches in a day, come 306 00:15:44,880 --> 00:15:48,280 Speaker 3: every time. If I smash two dudes, I'm not coming 307 00:15:48,320 --> 00:15:48,840 Speaker 3: every time. 308 00:15:49,760 --> 00:15:50,120 Speaker 1: Okay. 309 00:15:50,240 --> 00:15:53,200 Speaker 3: So if I don't count, if I don't come, it 310 00:15:53,240 --> 00:15:55,400 Speaker 3: doesn't count. 311 00:15:55,640 --> 00:15:58,520 Speaker 1: That's my whole math. That's my whole math. 312 00:15:58,680 --> 00:16:03,880 Speaker 2: Okay, So everybody got their own home all my niggas, 313 00:16:04,200 --> 00:16:07,600 Speaker 2: all my count into the new year, and then they're gone. 314 00:16:07,840 --> 00:16:10,760 Speaker 2: Sorry to this man, I do not know this man, who. 315 00:16:13,600 --> 00:16:17,240 Speaker 1: Do you carry any over? Do you carry any over 316 00:16:17,320 --> 00:16:18,160 Speaker 1: into the next year. 317 00:16:18,560 --> 00:16:24,680 Speaker 2: Some of them make the cut like listen, let me 318 00:16:24,800 --> 00:16:27,360 Speaker 2: let me be clear, because niggas probably thinking I'd be 319 00:16:27,360 --> 00:16:29,600 Speaker 2: fucking all kinds of niggas and then I picked from 320 00:16:29,640 --> 00:16:31,680 Speaker 2: the litter and bring it over to the new year. No, 321 00:16:31,760 --> 00:16:34,400 Speaker 2: that's not what happens. Whoever I'm dealing with. At the 322 00:16:34,480 --> 00:16:36,560 Speaker 2: end of the year, we're still dealing. They come with me. 323 00:16:36,960 --> 00:16:46,280 Speaker 2: But you know, o emmy, they come with me into 324 00:16:46,360 --> 00:16:48,200 Speaker 2: the new year. If I'm still dealing with them, then 325 00:16:48,200 --> 00:16:51,120 Speaker 2: I yeah. But whoever else I don't know. 326 00:16:51,320 --> 00:16:54,640 Speaker 1: I'm back and you can't know. You play Brian McKnight 327 00:16:54,720 --> 00:16:55,560 Speaker 1: back at one. 328 00:16:59,240 --> 00:16:59,640 Speaker 5: Damn. 329 00:17:00,160 --> 00:17:02,760 Speaker 6: So now I probably should have believed my ex girlfriend 330 00:17:02,800 --> 00:17:04,720 Speaker 6: when she told me she had sex with this boy 331 00:17:04,720 --> 00:17:05,800 Speaker 6: but she didn't really like him. 332 00:17:05,800 --> 00:17:06,399 Speaker 5: I punched her in. 333 00:17:06,440 --> 00:17:09,800 Speaker 2: Her mom Okay, we don't condone violence. Here on we 334 00:17:09,880 --> 00:17:10,480 Speaker 2: talked back. 335 00:17:11,160 --> 00:17:13,120 Speaker 5: Okay, let me repeat that. 336 00:17:13,280 --> 00:17:15,160 Speaker 6: So maybe I should have listened to my ex when 337 00:17:15,160 --> 00:17:17,240 Speaker 6: she said she didn't care about this nigga she had 338 00:17:17,320 --> 00:17:19,760 Speaker 6: sex with when we broke up for a little bitter 339 00:17:19,960 --> 00:17:22,160 Speaker 6: period of time and I bust the windows. 340 00:17:21,800 --> 00:17:22,280 Speaker 1: Out of car. 341 00:17:22,560 --> 00:17:24,640 Speaker 5: I said that you couldn't have. 342 00:17:24,640 --> 00:17:27,679 Speaker 2: Sex with again here we talked back. We do not 343 00:17:27,800 --> 00:17:29,040 Speaker 2: condone violence. 344 00:17:29,440 --> 00:17:33,160 Speaker 1: God damn yet the fuck. 345 00:17:37,040 --> 00:17:42,200 Speaker 6: I'm saying, Look, third time without the viness? Well, maybe 346 00:17:43,200 --> 00:17:45,080 Speaker 6: maybe I should just listen. 347 00:17:44,840 --> 00:17:46,800 Speaker 5: To my ex in high school when she told me 348 00:17:46,840 --> 00:17:48,680 Speaker 5: she didn't like the niggas she had sex with. I 349 00:17:48,720 --> 00:17:49,520 Speaker 5: didn't believe her. 350 00:17:49,720 --> 00:17:52,440 Speaker 6: I said, how could you have sex with someone if 351 00:17:52,440 --> 00:17:55,680 Speaker 6: you don't like them? I thought that was absolutely impossible. 352 00:17:55,920 --> 00:17:59,480 Speaker 6: But today, at twenty twenty three, these women show baby. 353 00:17:59,640 --> 00:18:02,240 Speaker 3: Yes, if she didn't come, it doesn't count. Let's move 354 00:18:02,280 --> 00:18:03,280 Speaker 3: on to the next one. 355 00:18:05,040 --> 00:18:06,040 Speaker 2: Y'all, these are jokes. 356 00:18:06,040 --> 00:18:08,040 Speaker 3: And y'all know because people are gonna think like we're 357 00:18:08,080 --> 00:18:09,840 Speaker 3: really nuts, Like these are jokes. 358 00:18:09,920 --> 00:18:12,480 Speaker 2: We know that all sex really counts after. 359 00:18:14,600 --> 00:18:15,359 Speaker 1: It's still there. 360 00:18:16,040 --> 00:18:18,480 Speaker 3: Exists, it doesn't count even if it's a different zip 361 00:18:18,520 --> 00:18:19,560 Speaker 3: code or area code. 362 00:18:19,560 --> 00:18:20,520 Speaker 1: What are you talking about? 363 00:18:22,119 --> 00:18:22,199 Speaker 5: It? 364 00:18:22,280 --> 00:18:22,520 Speaker 6: Does? 365 00:18:23,240 --> 00:18:25,879 Speaker 1: They just move all the time and reset their whole 366 00:18:26,359 --> 00:18:27,800 Speaker 1: hormometer odometer? 367 00:18:29,960 --> 00:18:31,400 Speaker 2: They said they hold back an hour. 368 00:18:32,520 --> 00:18:38,040 Speaker 3: They like whole light saving whole light, saying whole light, 369 00:18:39,320 --> 00:18:46,800 Speaker 3: whole life. Sorry, I didn't mean to snort on here. 370 00:18:46,880 --> 00:18:51,720 Speaker 1: Okay, y'all, me is this stupid internet news? 371 00:18:51,840 --> 00:18:55,520 Speaker 3: Like Lauren Hill asks always not like late, And now 372 00:18:55,560 --> 00:18:59,040 Speaker 3: she's talking ship to her supporters about like, y'all better 373 00:18:59,040 --> 00:18:59,560 Speaker 3: be glad I. 374 00:18:59,480 --> 00:19:03,720 Speaker 1: Do show up the fuck Okay, I heard. 375 00:19:03,600 --> 00:19:06,640 Speaker 3: She said, Yo, y'all lucky I make it on stage 376 00:19:06,680 --> 00:19:07,200 Speaker 3: every night. 377 00:19:08,200 --> 00:19:11,920 Speaker 6: It's Mama said some things you don't say out loud, 378 00:19:11,920 --> 00:19:13,120 Speaker 6: and you just keep in your head. 379 00:19:13,119 --> 00:19:15,119 Speaker 5: If you ain't got nothing nice to say, don't say it. 380 00:19:15,200 --> 00:19:16,560 Speaker 5: But you got all. 381 00:19:16,400 --> 00:19:18,800 Speaker 6: These people out here to support you and you and 382 00:19:18,920 --> 00:19:21,840 Speaker 6: spending their money, and you're gonna feel the need to 383 00:19:21,880 --> 00:19:22,199 Speaker 6: say that. 384 00:19:22,240 --> 00:19:24,040 Speaker 5: I feel like that's something she need to fix with. 385 00:19:24,119 --> 00:19:26,480 Speaker 2: Then she always talks about how she's just a human 386 00:19:26,840 --> 00:19:30,760 Speaker 2: and she's just not a robot and things gonna happen. 387 00:19:30,840 --> 00:19:32,600 Speaker 2: Life is going to happen, and she's just gonna do 388 00:19:32,640 --> 00:19:34,840 Speaker 2: the best she can, and she hopes that her followers 389 00:19:34,920 --> 00:19:39,400 Speaker 2: can understand that. You know, yeah, which'all can understand that statement, right, 390 00:19:39,680 --> 00:19:41,960 Speaker 2: But going up there talking about ya, go fucker's lucky 391 00:19:41,960 --> 00:19:43,040 Speaker 2: a bit showed up at all? 392 00:19:43,160 --> 00:19:45,760 Speaker 1: Fuck y'all, that's that's kind a while. 393 00:19:47,240 --> 00:19:50,199 Speaker 6: Well, when you're saying like that, it gives off a 394 00:19:50,240 --> 00:19:51,400 Speaker 6: different persona well. 395 00:19:51,320 --> 00:19:52,840 Speaker 5: Damn do you care about us? 396 00:19:53,240 --> 00:19:53,600 Speaker 2: Yeah? 397 00:19:53,680 --> 00:19:55,359 Speaker 5: Well damn do you care about your fans? 398 00:19:55,440 --> 00:19:55,600 Speaker 2: Now? 399 00:19:55,600 --> 00:19:59,280 Speaker 5: It's giving like you know, it's just saying fuck everything. 400 00:19:59,359 --> 00:20:02,480 Speaker 3: A lot of these peop people, including Lauren Hill, and 401 00:20:02,520 --> 00:20:05,280 Speaker 3: a lot of these big artists, they almost bigger than life, 402 00:20:05,800 --> 00:20:07,720 Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying. So to get up in 403 00:20:07,720 --> 00:20:10,679 Speaker 3: front of thousands of people and give them all of 404 00:20:10,680 --> 00:20:11,600 Speaker 3: this energy. 405 00:20:12,200 --> 00:20:13,439 Speaker 1: Takes a fucking lot. 406 00:20:13,880 --> 00:20:16,280 Speaker 3: Bitch, we did that one live show and walking out 407 00:20:16,280 --> 00:20:18,520 Speaker 3: on stage and see the three thousand people looking back 408 00:20:18,520 --> 00:20:20,720 Speaker 3: at you like God, damn that shit. 409 00:20:21,040 --> 00:20:25,960 Speaker 2: You have to be in a different love that. I was, well, 410 00:20:26,000 --> 00:20:27,040 Speaker 2: I want to stay out here. 411 00:20:27,200 --> 00:20:31,639 Speaker 3: Yeah, some people are consumers. Some people give their energy, 412 00:20:31,680 --> 00:20:33,240 Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying. So maybe she needs to 413 00:20:33,240 --> 00:20:35,360 Speaker 3: find a way to transmute that energy so she could 414 00:20:35,400 --> 00:20:38,960 Speaker 3: feel different about performing for people, you know what I'm saying. 415 00:20:39,000 --> 00:20:42,760 Speaker 3: Because you can't just tell your your supporters y'all lucky, 416 00:20:42,840 --> 00:20:45,080 Speaker 3: y'all showed up the full thing, she says. She said, Yo, 417 00:20:45,160 --> 00:20:47,760 Speaker 3: y'all lucky, I make make it on the stage every night. 418 00:20:48,080 --> 00:20:50,000 Speaker 3: I don't do it because they let me do it. 419 00:20:50,040 --> 00:20:52,040 Speaker 3: I do it because I stand here in the name 420 00:20:52,080 --> 00:20:55,320 Speaker 3: of God. And that's how she said it, and she continued, 421 00:20:55,359 --> 00:20:57,360 Speaker 3: God is the one who allows me to do it, 422 00:20:58,200 --> 00:21:01,800 Speaker 3: who surrounded me with family. And when there was no support, 423 00:21:02,080 --> 00:21:04,760 Speaker 3: when the album sold so many records and no one 424 00:21:04,840 --> 00:21:07,199 Speaker 3: showed up and said, hey, would you like me to 425 00:21:07,240 --> 00:21:09,159 Speaker 3: make another one? So I went around the world and 426 00:21:09,200 --> 00:21:12,639 Speaker 3: I played the same album over and over and over again. 427 00:21:13,160 --> 00:21:17,560 Speaker 3: Because where the survivors. We're not just survivors, we're the thrivers, 428 00:21:18,520 --> 00:21:19,240 Speaker 3: is what she said. 429 00:21:19,320 --> 00:21:21,719 Speaker 2: But the truth is she's lucky. 430 00:21:22,640 --> 00:21:24,000 Speaker 1: Yes, not right. 431 00:21:25,280 --> 00:21:27,800 Speaker 3: She's been able to show up with this thing for 432 00:21:27,920 --> 00:21:29,800 Speaker 3: the album and people coming through. 433 00:21:30,240 --> 00:21:31,199 Speaker 1: Absolutely, you're right. 434 00:21:31,400 --> 00:21:34,720 Speaker 2: You will support her after you know you're right valuing 435 00:21:34,800 --> 00:21:35,520 Speaker 2: them in that way. 436 00:21:35,640 --> 00:21:36,760 Speaker 1: But you're absolutely right. 437 00:21:36,840 --> 00:21:39,439 Speaker 2: I mean her, you know, her fans are lucky, but 438 00:21:39,680 --> 00:21:41,919 Speaker 2: she's also lucky, and I think she should acknowledge that 439 00:21:41,960 --> 00:21:42,800 Speaker 2: on stage as well. 440 00:21:42,920 --> 00:21:45,880 Speaker 6: I guess when it comes to that level of startle 441 00:21:45,960 --> 00:21:50,440 Speaker 6: haad bitch, it's hard for them to see that really humble, 442 00:21:50,520 --> 00:21:54,280 Speaker 6: humble point of view. Now that they got everything laid 443 00:21:54,320 --> 00:21:56,639 Speaker 6: out like that, it's harder for them to see. But 444 00:21:57,040 --> 00:21:59,520 Speaker 6: like you said, in reality, she is the lucky one. 445 00:21:59,520 --> 00:22:03,119 Speaker 6: Because with out the fans doing that, you won't be 446 00:22:03,160 --> 00:22:06,200 Speaker 6: getting on stage. What do you mean, mm hmm. 447 00:22:06,760 --> 00:22:09,960 Speaker 2: Absolutely, But what Kanye said, it's hard to say humble 448 00:22:10,000 --> 00:22:14,879 Speaker 2: when you're stunting on the gum. That's what he said. Listen, 449 00:22:15,080 --> 00:22:17,240 Speaker 2: maybe lucky we will be lucky enough to know that 450 00:22:17,359 --> 00:22:19,679 Speaker 2: feeling and see how well I'm like. 451 00:22:19,760 --> 00:22:23,280 Speaker 7: Yeah, y'all, this is tam baan we talked back bitch. Y'all, 452 00:22:23,359 --> 00:22:26,880 Speaker 7: luckier bitch showed up for y'all. Motherfucking ass guess what 453 00:22:27,000 --> 00:22:29,000 Speaker 7: We're going to commercial and we'll be right back. We're 454 00:22:29,000 --> 00:22:31,320 Speaker 7: gonna get back into our topic. Y'all better come to 455 00:22:31,400 --> 00:22:32,960 Speaker 7: fuck Back's tam bam bitch. 456 00:22:37,400 --> 00:22:39,680 Speaker 3: So listen, y'all were back and to get into our 457 00:22:39,720 --> 00:22:43,040 Speaker 3: main topic today, we wanted to talk about the the 458 00:22:43,160 --> 00:22:45,320 Speaker 3: viral conversation with star of. 459 00:22:45,720 --> 00:22:48,200 Speaker 2: It's uh Yvonne Orgy Orgie. 460 00:22:48,280 --> 00:22:52,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, she's one of the stars of Eastern Rays 461 00:22:52,960 --> 00:22:54,440 Speaker 3: and Secure TV show. 462 00:22:55,000 --> 00:22:56,520 Speaker 1: She plays the character of Molly. 463 00:22:56,720 --> 00:22:59,120 Speaker 2: She has at least two great stand up I'm gonna 464 00:22:59,119 --> 00:23:02,600 Speaker 2: watch it, I think and Yeah. She speaks to a 465 00:23:02,880 --> 00:23:06,639 Speaker 2: lot about having, you know, Nigerian culture and Nigerian background 466 00:23:06,960 --> 00:23:09,120 Speaker 2: and her standing up she's really funny, you know. So 467 00:23:09,160 --> 00:23:10,480 Speaker 2: she's she's very talented. 468 00:23:11,280 --> 00:23:16,280 Speaker 3: Okay, So the insecure actress and comedian Yvonne Orgie has 469 00:23:16,720 --> 00:23:20,240 Speaker 3: never been shy when it comes to discussing how her 470 00:23:20,359 --> 00:23:24,359 Speaker 3: vow will wait until she gets married to have sex. 471 00:23:25,000 --> 00:23:27,959 Speaker 3: So she's a virgin and she's thirty nine years old today. 472 00:23:28,480 --> 00:23:28,840 Speaker 1: Okay. 473 00:23:28,920 --> 00:23:33,960 Speaker 3: So she appeared on an episode of Chelsea Handler's podcast, 474 00:23:34,040 --> 00:23:37,520 Speaker 3: Darrel Chelsea and was asked whether she was still a virgin, 475 00:23:37,680 --> 00:23:41,440 Speaker 3: to what she answered yes, jokingly asked listeners to pray 476 00:23:41,440 --> 00:23:45,160 Speaker 3: for her and her future husband because the weight has 477 00:23:45,280 --> 00:23:49,000 Speaker 3: left her with a lot of pent up energy. So 478 00:23:49,040 --> 00:23:51,360 Speaker 3: she said, pray for that man because when she put 479 00:23:51,400 --> 00:23:52,639 Speaker 3: that couchie. 480 00:23:52,200 --> 00:24:02,320 Speaker 1: On him, that coolchie stupid. So I don't know if 481 00:24:02,320 --> 00:24:03,080 Speaker 1: people realize. 482 00:24:03,080 --> 00:24:05,399 Speaker 3: And I wish I had that type of discipline, because 483 00:24:05,440 --> 00:24:09,720 Speaker 3: your sexual energy can be transmitted into creativity. So I 484 00:24:09,720 --> 00:24:11,520 Speaker 3: feel like I'll be able to do more shit if 485 00:24:11,520 --> 00:24:14,320 Speaker 3: I stopped thinking about dick all the damn time, Like 486 00:24:14,440 --> 00:24:21,240 Speaker 3: I'll be able to execute More's a she's a successful actress. 487 00:24:21,280 --> 00:24:24,800 Speaker 3: You said, she's had all these comedy shows, Like she's 488 00:24:24,880 --> 00:24:27,639 Speaker 3: doing the damn thing because she's been using that energy 489 00:24:27,680 --> 00:24:28,520 Speaker 3: in a different way. 490 00:24:28,680 --> 00:24:29,600 Speaker 5: That's so true. 491 00:24:30,320 --> 00:24:34,520 Speaker 2: That's amazing that you could go thirty nine years without 492 00:24:34,800 --> 00:24:38,119 Speaker 2: being in a trated because I know, like my coucha 493 00:24:38,119 --> 00:24:40,480 Speaker 2: getting thumping, I gotta go find me, so you know 494 00:24:40,520 --> 00:24:43,240 Speaker 2: what I'm saying. So I don't know how she How 495 00:24:43,320 --> 00:24:47,280 Speaker 2: she did that, like for thirty nine years is amazing 496 00:24:47,400 --> 00:24:51,480 Speaker 2: to me. Like that is like she's like a unicorn, 497 00:24:51,600 --> 00:24:55,399 Speaker 2: Like seriously, you know that to go that long without 498 00:24:55,480 --> 00:24:58,800 Speaker 2: and she's had serious relationships. It's not like you know, 499 00:24:59,080 --> 00:25:01,359 Speaker 2: she was just out here not doing nothing. You know, 500 00:25:01,440 --> 00:25:04,800 Speaker 2: she had relationships that got serious. Y'all ain't y'all ain't 501 00:25:04,800 --> 00:25:07,240 Speaker 2: never watched the movie y'all ain't had no Netflix and 502 00:25:07,440 --> 00:25:10,000 Speaker 2: chill y'all was just straighten Netflix and for real. 503 00:25:10,520 --> 00:25:11,919 Speaker 1: That's amazing to me. 504 00:25:12,000 --> 00:25:14,119 Speaker 3: And imagine like the four play, like the kissing and 505 00:25:14,160 --> 00:25:16,680 Speaker 3: all that, because I'm pretty sure she's done that at least, 506 00:25:16,720 --> 00:25:18,399 Speaker 3: like the kissing and rubbing up, Like. 507 00:25:18,440 --> 00:25:20,960 Speaker 2: How you just stop, That's what I'm saying. 508 00:25:21,119 --> 00:25:23,960 Speaker 1: That is stressful as you stop, like to get. 509 00:25:23,840 --> 00:25:25,760 Speaker 2: That's what I mean when I said when my coachi 510 00:25:25,840 --> 00:25:29,520 Speaker 2: gets about to go down like in hers, I know, 511 00:25:29,600 --> 00:25:32,160 Speaker 2: hers thumping like a heartbread out of the chest boom, 512 00:25:34,119 --> 00:25:36,640 Speaker 2: you know, thirty. 513 00:25:36,119 --> 00:25:41,680 Speaker 3: Years Okay, y'all. So our guest today ferb Okay, yes, 514 00:25:42,359 --> 00:25:44,399 Speaker 3: Erb is also a virgin. She's not a thirty How 515 00:25:44,400 --> 00:25:44,760 Speaker 3: old are you? 516 00:25:45,400 --> 00:25:49,320 Speaker 6: I am twenty four for the twenty four year old virgin. 517 00:25:49,480 --> 00:25:53,520 Speaker 6: Make a documentary right now, Netflix, I'm ready. 518 00:25:55,480 --> 00:25:57,080 Speaker 1: So firm is a virgin. She ain't made it to 519 00:25:57,160 --> 00:25:58,800 Speaker 1: thirty nine yet, and hopefully she does. 520 00:25:58,960 --> 00:26:01,560 Speaker 3: However long you want to carry this out, tell us, 521 00:26:01,600 --> 00:26:03,920 Speaker 3: tell us how that is for you, because listen, I 522 00:26:03,960 --> 00:26:06,480 Speaker 3: didn't look I dismatched. 523 00:26:05,960 --> 00:26:08,040 Speaker 1: You for a long time. Okay. 524 00:26:08,600 --> 00:26:11,040 Speaker 3: I was telling bitches how to smash in high school, 525 00:26:11,040 --> 00:26:12,600 Speaker 3: Like let me tell you all, bitches, what the dude 526 00:26:12,960 --> 00:26:16,240 Speaker 3: I was giving like sex etiquette in high school. 527 00:26:16,840 --> 00:26:19,360 Speaker 1: And I'm still I don't people get into to talk 528 00:26:19,400 --> 00:26:20,040 Speaker 1: about this ship. 529 00:26:20,280 --> 00:26:23,080 Speaker 2: I see. I started really popping mind koochie at benedict 530 00:26:23,200 --> 00:26:23,760 Speaker 2: in college. 531 00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:31,280 Speaker 5: When I heard about college, I'm pretty sure you're caught up. Okay, So. 532 00:26:33,960 --> 00:26:36,680 Speaker 6: Honestly, when I'm gonna break it down for y'all, and 533 00:26:36,760 --> 00:26:38,879 Speaker 6: the way that that break it down is gonna make sense. 534 00:26:38,960 --> 00:26:43,560 Speaker 6: So really, I've been liking women all my life, like 535 00:26:43,720 --> 00:26:47,680 Speaker 6: literally since elementary school, I got caught with like three 536 00:26:47,720 --> 00:26:52,000 Speaker 6: girls behind the basketball poll and I asked the one girl, 537 00:26:52,040 --> 00:26:55,480 Speaker 6: I said, hey, I'll never forget this, like yesterday, does 538 00:26:55,520 --> 00:26:58,159 Speaker 6: your vagina hair match the hair on your top on 539 00:26:58,200 --> 00:27:01,399 Speaker 6: top of your head? She was like, I said, well, 540 00:27:01,440 --> 00:27:04,160 Speaker 6: let me see. Put the pants down, and she did. 541 00:27:04,480 --> 00:27:06,800 Speaker 6: She pulled them down, then the other girl pulled them down. 542 00:27:06,840 --> 00:27:08,760 Speaker 6: Then I pulled mine down, and we was all just 543 00:27:08,800 --> 00:27:11,159 Speaker 6: looking at each other. Vagina's like, does you have vagina 544 00:27:11,200 --> 00:27:13,040 Speaker 6: hair match the hair on your head? Because she had 545 00:27:13,160 --> 00:27:15,639 Speaker 6: blonde hair in her head, so I'm like, you have 546 00:27:15,720 --> 00:27:19,520 Speaker 6: v Johnny hair blonde, let me see, and it's like, 547 00:27:19,760 --> 00:27:22,919 Speaker 6: I promise you. From that point is like when I 548 00:27:23,040 --> 00:27:26,280 Speaker 6: knew that I liked girls, cause it was so interesting 549 00:27:26,320 --> 00:27:27,160 Speaker 6: to me to see. 550 00:27:27,400 --> 00:27:28,720 Speaker 5: I wanted to see more of it. 551 00:27:29,080 --> 00:27:31,920 Speaker 2: I wanted to say, well, you know, Dick got hair too, 552 00:27:32,240 --> 00:27:35,640 Speaker 2: So I don't know if that was just peace that's 553 00:27:35,640 --> 00:27:37,240 Speaker 2: sticking out exactly. 554 00:27:37,320 --> 00:27:38,919 Speaker 5: And that's the scary part. 555 00:27:39,080 --> 00:27:42,119 Speaker 6: I was presented hair with no peace sticking out, and 556 00:27:42,160 --> 00:27:43,680 Speaker 6: I was cool with dad. 557 00:27:43,960 --> 00:27:47,240 Speaker 5: It was just lips. So this is my k. 558 00:27:48,800 --> 00:27:53,359 Speaker 6: I always wonder was I born like this or is 559 00:27:53,400 --> 00:27:55,800 Speaker 6: it the factors in life that made me like this? 560 00:27:55,880 --> 00:27:59,440 Speaker 6: Because I do have a mom that went through abusive relationships, 561 00:27:59,720 --> 00:28:02,280 Speaker 6: and I do have a dad that did his own whatever. 562 00:28:02,720 --> 00:28:04,639 Speaker 5: But I'm just like, what is it. 563 00:28:04,720 --> 00:28:07,760 Speaker 6: I was liking my elementary school teachers, so I'm like, 564 00:28:08,359 --> 00:28:10,600 Speaker 6: I don't know, but I've been liking girls from elementary 565 00:28:10,640 --> 00:28:15,639 Speaker 6: school to now. And dudes, yes, have been in and 566 00:28:15,680 --> 00:28:17,600 Speaker 6: out my life trying to talk to me. 567 00:28:17,760 --> 00:28:19,719 Speaker 5: But at the same time they looked at me as 568 00:28:19,760 --> 00:28:20,080 Speaker 5: one of. 569 00:28:20,000 --> 00:28:23,920 Speaker 6: The guys, so they never really forced nothing on to me, 570 00:28:24,119 --> 00:28:26,840 Speaker 6: like oh yeah, come on, and I ain't have to 571 00:28:27,560 --> 00:28:32,159 Speaker 6: worry about nothing, So I would use dudes like they 572 00:28:32,200 --> 00:28:33,600 Speaker 6: would tell me, Oh, I just want to give you 573 00:28:33,640 --> 00:28:34,040 Speaker 6: some head. 574 00:28:34,080 --> 00:28:35,680 Speaker 5: I don't even want to do that. I just want 575 00:28:35,720 --> 00:28:41,200 Speaker 5: to look on your titties and I'll be like in 576 00:28:41,280 --> 00:28:44,640 Speaker 5: so long. I don't have no penetration. So for me, 577 00:28:44,840 --> 00:28:49,680 Speaker 5: my sexual arousal is like through the moll fucking roof, 578 00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:52,400 Speaker 5: Like all the nigga got to come. 579 00:28:52,600 --> 00:28:55,480 Speaker 6: All anybody nigga or female got to do is come 580 00:28:55,520 --> 00:28:57,480 Speaker 6: and touch me right now, and I'm finna come. 581 00:28:57,720 --> 00:29:01,200 Speaker 5: That's how bad it is with me. I don't have sex. 582 00:29:02,160 --> 00:29:05,040 Speaker 6: I don't do much with girls like that, so it's 583 00:29:05,080 --> 00:29:07,720 Speaker 6: really I don't know what The problem is. 584 00:29:07,720 --> 00:29:10,400 Speaker 3: So you think you might be asexual. It sounds like 585 00:29:10,440 --> 00:29:13,920 Speaker 3: you might be asexual. You know people who are asexual. 586 00:29:13,960 --> 00:29:19,440 Speaker 3: They may not be attracted to one one gender or another, 587 00:29:19,680 --> 00:29:22,760 Speaker 3: just like anybody, but they really are not that sexual. 588 00:29:23,080 --> 00:29:23,680 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. 589 00:29:23,760 --> 00:29:25,600 Speaker 6: I get what you're saying, but look this where in 590 00:29:25,640 --> 00:29:27,640 Speaker 6: my mind I don't think I'm a sexual because I'm 591 00:29:27,640 --> 00:29:28,720 Speaker 6: always thinking about sex. 592 00:29:29,640 --> 00:29:31,520 Speaker 5: I can watch porn all day. 593 00:29:32,160 --> 00:29:34,840 Speaker 6: I can see a naked person walking by and get 594 00:29:34,840 --> 00:29:37,440 Speaker 6: horny ooh and get happy. 595 00:29:37,640 --> 00:29:40,120 Speaker 2: Why where you at? Where neckid? People just walking by? 596 00:29:41,920 --> 00:29:45,920 Speaker 6: I was just trying to get I was like, listen, 597 00:29:46,040 --> 00:29:51,400 Speaker 6: growing in Miami, them crackheads crazy, Okay, but no, it's 598 00:29:51,440 --> 00:29:52,840 Speaker 6: really like, yeah, I guess you could say at the 599 00:29:52,840 --> 00:29:54,880 Speaker 6: strip club. Like I can go to the strip club 600 00:29:54,880 --> 00:29:56,560 Speaker 6: and I'll be fine sitting there. 601 00:29:56,560 --> 00:29:59,200 Speaker 3: I don't got you remain a virgin in Miami, like 602 00:29:59,240 --> 00:30:01,400 Speaker 3: the kids in Miami me start having sex at eight 603 00:30:01,560 --> 00:30:02,320 Speaker 3: and shit like that. 604 00:30:02,320 --> 00:30:05,000 Speaker 1: That is so some advance, Joseen. 605 00:30:04,840 --> 00:30:07,320 Speaker 6: Is true, But that's how you know, Like my calling 606 00:30:07,400 --> 00:30:09,920 Speaker 6: here on this earth is different. I grew up there 607 00:30:10,400 --> 00:30:12,360 Speaker 6: and I was not affected by it. I have my 608 00:30:12,520 --> 00:30:15,560 Speaker 6: own mindset, like I don't know. And I was also 609 00:30:15,760 --> 00:30:17,880 Speaker 6: raised in Georgia. I feel like that has a lot 610 00:30:17,920 --> 00:30:20,960 Speaker 6: to do with it againsta Georgia and I've been dealing 611 00:30:21,000 --> 00:30:24,040 Speaker 6: with girls now men they try me all the time, 612 00:30:24,080 --> 00:30:26,120 Speaker 6: but they don't I don't know. 613 00:30:26,320 --> 00:30:28,240 Speaker 3: They try you because they know you're a virgin. That's 614 00:30:28,240 --> 00:30:31,880 Speaker 3: what it is, Okay, but look all of it sexual prowess. 615 00:30:32,000 --> 00:30:33,560 Speaker 5: All of them don't know firsthand. 616 00:30:33,600 --> 00:30:36,280 Speaker 6: I feel like what's their problem is they see the 617 00:30:36,440 --> 00:30:40,760 Speaker 6: tomboy neess. So they're like, Okay, we know we ain't 618 00:30:40,800 --> 00:30:43,120 Speaker 6: just gonna be able to get up in there, so 619 00:30:43,400 --> 00:30:45,240 Speaker 6: we have to try a different approach. 620 00:30:45,800 --> 00:30:51,080 Speaker 5: And that different approach ends up the dinner food, having. 621 00:30:50,800 --> 00:30:52,480 Speaker 1: The good times, want to hang out. 622 00:30:52,480 --> 00:30:55,000 Speaker 5: Hanging out, and it's like the ones that they may 623 00:30:55,720 --> 00:30:56,080 Speaker 5: go ahead. 624 00:30:56,280 --> 00:30:57,840 Speaker 3: They may feel like they get like the best of 625 00:30:57,880 --> 00:31:00,400 Speaker 3: both worlds talking to you. Maybe because you have like 626 00:31:00,440 --> 00:31:03,440 Speaker 3: the tomboy thing going on a lot of these dudes, 627 00:31:04,040 --> 00:31:06,920 Speaker 3: you know, it be borderline some other ship with them, right, 628 00:31:07,000 --> 00:31:09,560 Speaker 3: so they you might feed into this thing that they 629 00:31:09,640 --> 00:31:12,920 Speaker 3: got going on mentally that they really can't connect to 630 00:31:12,960 --> 00:31:14,840 Speaker 3: another man in a way. But like, oh, she's still 631 00:31:14,880 --> 00:31:16,800 Speaker 3: a female and she acts like one of the homies, 632 00:31:16,880 --> 00:31:17,640 Speaker 3: so it's not game. 633 00:31:17,840 --> 00:31:20,040 Speaker 2: I feel like I'm kind of like that a little bit. 634 00:31:20,360 --> 00:31:22,480 Speaker 1: I know you're a grown ass nigga. 635 00:31:22,480 --> 00:31:26,560 Speaker 2: Bit That's what I'm saying, Like I reacting like one 636 00:31:26,600 --> 00:31:29,320 Speaker 2: of the homies, but I'm like definitely dressed and move 637 00:31:29,400 --> 00:31:33,600 Speaker 2: like a lady. But I definitely got like like ill 638 00:31:33,720 --> 00:31:35,040 Speaker 2: will be out and I'll be like looking at it 639 00:31:35,120 --> 00:31:35,560 Speaker 2: as look. 640 00:31:35,440 --> 00:31:40,240 Speaker 5: At it different. You still get down and dirty. I don't. 641 00:31:41,320 --> 00:31:43,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm definitely getting dirty. 642 00:31:44,440 --> 00:31:45,160 Speaker 2: I know, she said. 643 00:31:45,240 --> 00:31:47,160 Speaker 1: I get that. 644 00:31:50,000 --> 00:31:52,920 Speaker 2: Let me ask you this for what, Because you said 645 00:31:52,960 --> 00:31:55,320 Speaker 2: you think about sex a lot. You you know you 646 00:31:55,360 --> 00:31:58,640 Speaker 2: can watch porn all day? What is keeping you from 647 00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:02,560 Speaker 2: losing your virginity? Like, what I'm. 648 00:32:02,040 --> 00:32:05,479 Speaker 5: Gonna tell you is that from losing my virginity? Baby? 649 00:32:06,560 --> 00:32:09,200 Speaker 6: Growing up in Miami, like I just said, I don't 650 00:32:09,280 --> 00:32:14,520 Speaker 6: witness boyfriends and girlfriends throwing their clothes out each other's car, 651 00:32:14,680 --> 00:32:19,680 Speaker 6: breaking windows, girls getting pregnant the next day, being single moms, 652 00:32:20,200 --> 00:32:24,400 Speaker 6: girls growing up without their fathers being in their kids' lives. 653 00:32:24,480 --> 00:32:27,600 Speaker 6: And I promise you, me, growing up looking at all 654 00:32:27,600 --> 00:32:31,360 Speaker 6: of that if affected my mind, it made me scared. 655 00:32:31,600 --> 00:32:34,520 Speaker 6: I see, it ain't effect I eight out of ten 656 00:32:34,560 --> 00:32:35,840 Speaker 6: of the females. 657 00:32:35,400 --> 00:32:37,360 Speaker 5: Here in the United States. 658 00:32:37,920 --> 00:32:41,480 Speaker 6: But I'm bad two percent that paid attention, And I 659 00:32:41,600 --> 00:32:44,320 Speaker 6: see how dudes are. They just want to get that 660 00:32:44,440 --> 00:32:47,520 Speaker 6: quick nut and then when you get pregnant, they're gone. 661 00:32:47,960 --> 00:32:49,520 Speaker 5: I said, you got be fucked up. 662 00:32:49,760 --> 00:32:52,040 Speaker 6: If a nigga quick nutting me, I'm gonna be quickly 663 00:32:52,120 --> 00:32:54,240 Speaker 6: under the jail because I'm gonna come and ruin your 664 00:32:54,280 --> 00:32:56,600 Speaker 6: fucking life until you know how to act right. And 665 00:32:56,640 --> 00:32:58,680 Speaker 6: that's not cool. That's not gonna work because I'm just 666 00:32:58,880 --> 00:33:01,120 Speaker 6: I'm gonna hurt. You're gonna hurt means just not. It 667 00:33:01,160 --> 00:33:05,680 Speaker 6: don't make sense. So by me witnessing all of the infidelities, 668 00:33:05,800 --> 00:33:09,480 Speaker 6: all the cheating I've cheated, and all of this stuff 669 00:33:09,480 --> 00:33:12,440 Speaker 6: in the world, I'm like, I will end up in 670 00:33:12,560 --> 00:33:14,320 Speaker 6: jail if I let a nigga have sex. It would 671 00:33:14,320 --> 00:33:15,400 Speaker 6: be right now, just because I'm. 672 00:33:15,280 --> 00:33:18,360 Speaker 2: So but those things. So it's a trauma. 673 00:33:18,440 --> 00:33:21,520 Speaker 5: Yeah, there you go. You hit it on the head. 674 00:33:21,640 --> 00:33:23,280 Speaker 5: It's a traumatic response. 675 00:33:23,640 --> 00:33:26,160 Speaker 6: I feel like my trauma and what I've been through 676 00:33:26,840 --> 00:33:29,600 Speaker 6: has fucked my head up so much that I can't 677 00:33:29,640 --> 00:33:32,640 Speaker 6: even allow myself to try something new because if it 678 00:33:32,680 --> 00:33:34,840 Speaker 6: don't go how it's supposed to, go baby, I'm. 679 00:33:34,680 --> 00:33:35,480 Speaker 5: Going to jail. 680 00:33:36,600 --> 00:33:39,720 Speaker 3: So we're just adding, we're just adding the part where 681 00:33:39,760 --> 00:33:43,840 Speaker 3: you can fuck around and produce another human being with 682 00:33:43,960 --> 00:33:47,280 Speaker 3: somebody who's not gonna be there with you. But women, 683 00:33:47,880 --> 00:33:50,080 Speaker 3: most of the females that I know that our relationships 684 00:33:50,080 --> 00:33:52,040 Speaker 3: with other women, they be fighting all the time. 685 00:33:52,800 --> 00:33:56,760 Speaker 1: So it's so volatile even with two women. So what is. 686 00:33:56,720 --> 00:33:58,480 Speaker 2: That she can't get pregnant. 687 00:33:58,200 --> 00:34:00,280 Speaker 3: Right, but you can't get pregnant, So you just a 688 00:34:00,360 --> 00:34:02,920 Speaker 3: dick from the equation. You still dealing with fucked up people. 689 00:34:03,000 --> 00:34:04,840 Speaker 3: I mean, at the top of the show, you were 690 00:34:04,880 --> 00:34:07,080 Speaker 3: saying how you had to you want the punch of 691 00:34:07,120 --> 00:34:10,040 Speaker 3: it in the face. So, like I said, two gay 692 00:34:10,080 --> 00:34:13,000 Speaker 3: women may be volatile as fuck, like periods be done, 693 00:34:13,080 --> 00:34:14,560 Speaker 3: synced up, shit get lit, And. 694 00:34:14,719 --> 00:34:16,360 Speaker 1: I agree with So what's the difference? 695 00:34:16,360 --> 00:34:19,920 Speaker 3: Okay, me personally, if a nigga piss me off, I 696 00:34:20,520 --> 00:34:22,880 Speaker 3: couldn't be with a woman, right because at least this 697 00:34:22,960 --> 00:34:24,719 Speaker 3: man can fuck the shit out of me when I'm mad, 698 00:34:25,120 --> 00:34:26,320 Speaker 3: like now this bitch. 699 00:34:26,080 --> 00:34:28,280 Speaker 1: Period on my period on we just in the house 700 00:34:28,840 --> 00:34:32,280 Speaker 1: just pissed. At least I could. 701 00:34:32,040 --> 00:34:34,960 Speaker 3: Get this affection from a man like That's this is 702 00:34:34,960 --> 00:34:36,239 Speaker 3: why it doesn't make sense to me. 703 00:34:36,400 --> 00:34:39,160 Speaker 6: Well, let me try to give you a little more sense. 704 00:34:39,760 --> 00:34:43,560 Speaker 6: So let me tell you the difference. Yeah, and I 705 00:34:43,600 --> 00:34:46,600 Speaker 6: don't take nothing from the females. When it goes comes 706 00:34:46,600 --> 00:34:48,759 Speaker 6: to female and men and go hand to hand, ain't 707 00:34:48,800 --> 00:34:50,759 Speaker 6: another one better than the other? 708 00:34:51,040 --> 00:34:55,400 Speaker 5: Niggas ain't shit absolutely, So when you say that, I agree. 709 00:34:55,480 --> 00:34:58,919 Speaker 6: Now my perspective is in order for it to work 710 00:34:58,960 --> 00:35:02,920 Speaker 6: with a woman, baby, you got to know yourself first. 711 00:35:03,440 --> 00:35:06,279 Speaker 5: And that's with men and women. Though it's like it's 712 00:35:06,280 --> 00:35:07,640 Speaker 5: the same, but it's not. 713 00:35:07,840 --> 00:35:10,840 Speaker 6: You have to know yourself before you get into something 714 00:35:10,880 --> 00:35:15,160 Speaker 6: with somebody because you're dating trauma. If you haven't healed, 715 00:35:15,360 --> 00:35:17,799 Speaker 6: when you get into that relationship, all of that is 716 00:35:17,840 --> 00:35:20,799 Speaker 6: gonna come out. Whether it's a female, whether it's a male, 717 00:35:21,080 --> 00:35:25,319 Speaker 6: method it's a transgender, whether it's an alien. Okay, let 718 00:35:25,320 --> 00:35:27,080 Speaker 6: me not say alien. I don't went too far, but 719 00:35:28,239 --> 00:35:30,799 Speaker 6: you you really have to know who you are. You 720 00:35:30,880 --> 00:35:33,040 Speaker 6: have to go through your traumas, you have to heal. 721 00:35:33,120 --> 00:35:34,839 Speaker 6: And I feel like that's the number one reason why 722 00:35:34,840 --> 00:35:37,719 Speaker 6: I'm single right now, because Baby, I'm crazy. I'll be 723 00:35:37,800 --> 00:35:40,879 Speaker 6: crying every day. They'll be calling me a simp. I'm 724 00:35:40,880 --> 00:35:45,319 Speaker 6: still period of taking these shots and who's. 725 00:35:45,000 --> 00:35:47,879 Speaker 1: Calling you a sim so like you be said good 726 00:35:47,920 --> 00:35:48,520 Speaker 1: for these women. 727 00:35:49,760 --> 00:35:54,880 Speaker 6: I definitely admit that I did once a point in time, 728 00:35:55,080 --> 00:35:58,160 Speaker 6: like because like women would see that what I got 729 00:35:58,200 --> 00:36:01,080 Speaker 6: going on on my page and stuffy old boom, okay 730 00:36:01,160 --> 00:36:04,839 Speaker 6: she lit. But they really not gay for real, so 731 00:36:04,840 --> 00:36:06,719 Speaker 6: they'd be like, Okay, I'm finna come over here, I'm 732 00:36:06,760 --> 00:36:10,320 Speaker 6: gonna flirt, I'm gonna have some fun, and then boom 733 00:36:10,400 --> 00:36:12,120 Speaker 6: they goes to me. So it's really like, it's so 734 00:36:12,239 --> 00:36:14,359 Speaker 6: many factors that come into this shit. 735 00:36:15,840 --> 00:36:16,880 Speaker 5: It's so many factors. 736 00:36:16,920 --> 00:36:19,480 Speaker 6: But the way that I look at it, my first 737 00:36:19,560 --> 00:36:22,600 Speaker 6: question would be to a woman is how is your 738 00:36:22,719 --> 00:36:25,719 Speaker 6: relationship with your mom and how is your upbringing? 739 00:36:26,440 --> 00:36:29,319 Speaker 5: To me, that's gonna determine a lot. That's not the sex. 740 00:36:29,360 --> 00:36:32,360 Speaker 6: That's why sex not before marriage is important because you 741 00:36:32,360 --> 00:36:35,480 Speaker 6: have to learn who you're wits before you get married. 742 00:36:35,680 --> 00:36:38,440 Speaker 6: It's not about sex because the sex can be great, 743 00:36:38,960 --> 00:36:41,479 Speaker 6: but that bitch nigga crazy is for a nigga donna 744 00:36:41,480 --> 00:36:42,480 Speaker 6: punct you in the goddamn month. 745 00:36:42,520 --> 00:36:44,600 Speaker 5: He didn't even know because the dig was so good 746 00:36:44,960 --> 00:36:46,200 Speaker 5: or the pussy was so good. 747 00:36:46,320 --> 00:36:48,719 Speaker 6: So it's like it's very completely different, but it also 748 00:36:48,800 --> 00:36:51,080 Speaker 6: go hand in hand when you think about it, the 749 00:36:51,239 --> 00:36:53,919 Speaker 6: realisticness the charisticness. 750 00:36:57,600 --> 00:37:03,640 Speaker 2: I'm trying to characteristic, right, Okay, So do you feel 751 00:37:03,640 --> 00:37:05,640 Speaker 2: like you have some healing to do first before you 752 00:37:05,680 --> 00:37:09,040 Speaker 2: can even go there, like sexually with anybody, not just 753 00:37:09,080 --> 00:37:11,360 Speaker 2: the other person, But do you feel like you potentially 754 00:37:11,400 --> 00:37:13,200 Speaker 2: have some healing that you need to do before you. 755 00:37:13,320 --> 00:37:16,120 Speaker 6: I feel like my healing probably is the reason why 756 00:37:16,160 --> 00:37:17,400 Speaker 6: I'm still a virgin. 757 00:37:19,239 --> 00:37:20,439 Speaker 5: Because. 758 00:37:21,360 --> 00:37:24,680 Speaker 6: I got so much hurt in me from my father, 759 00:37:25,280 --> 00:37:28,200 Speaker 6: from my mother. And I'm not talking about my father 760 00:37:28,280 --> 00:37:30,759 Speaker 6: and my mother coming here and saying I'm gonna hurt 761 00:37:30,800 --> 00:37:34,120 Speaker 6: you because you're my daughter. No, it's unintentional hurt from 762 00:37:34,239 --> 00:37:39,160 Speaker 6: their upbringing that they don't realize. And I'm starting to 763 00:37:39,160 --> 00:37:43,319 Speaker 6: realize that within myself, like it's not their fault. And 764 00:37:43,360 --> 00:37:46,919 Speaker 6: the fact that I realized that through the Lord, now 765 00:37:47,040 --> 00:37:51,480 Speaker 6: I have to adjust, and not everybody is okay with 766 00:37:51,640 --> 00:37:54,359 Speaker 6: taking the time to adjust. That's the hard part, Like 767 00:37:54,760 --> 00:37:56,800 Speaker 6: I don't want to do that data parents. Why I 768 00:37:56,920 --> 00:37:59,799 Speaker 6: gotta be the bigger person? Why this, that and the third? 769 00:37:59,840 --> 00:38:02,799 Speaker 6: But I'm starting to realize that right now, if I 770 00:38:02,880 --> 00:38:05,960 Speaker 6: want things to be, how they're supposed to be in. 771 00:38:05,960 --> 00:38:09,440 Speaker 5: My alignment with God. I've got to be the one. 772 00:38:09,800 --> 00:38:13,040 Speaker 2: To understand, well, that's very healthy. Yeah, you know, that's healthy, 773 00:38:13,080 --> 00:38:15,040 Speaker 2: And that's very mature of you at twenty four to 774 00:38:15,080 --> 00:38:18,440 Speaker 2: even recognize that. A lot oftentimes it's the exact opposite. 775 00:38:18,480 --> 00:38:21,880 Speaker 2: People are using their vagina to feel something they you know, 776 00:38:21,920 --> 00:38:24,360 Speaker 2: they got all these traumas and pain that they're carrying, 777 00:38:24,600 --> 00:38:29,440 Speaker 2: and instead of abstaining, they popping the pussy all over. 778 00:38:29,440 --> 00:38:32,680 Speaker 3: And doesn't heal that's shit you just said about the parents, 779 00:38:32,719 --> 00:38:34,799 Speaker 3: that she's like that, Like I'm thirty nine and just 780 00:38:34,840 --> 00:38:37,560 Speaker 3: realizing that job about the parents and stuff like that, 781 00:38:37,880 --> 00:38:40,839 Speaker 3: because yes, there they are older than us, but we 782 00:38:40,960 --> 00:38:43,160 Speaker 3: might be a little bit more. We might we I 783 00:38:43,280 --> 00:38:46,680 Speaker 3: know for sure I'm older than my mom and dad energetically, 784 00:38:47,360 --> 00:38:50,080 Speaker 3: you see what I'm saying, spiritually, older than them mentally. 785 00:38:50,200 --> 00:38:53,520 Speaker 3: So for you to recognize that, recognize that at twenty four, like, 786 00:38:53,520 --> 00:38:55,520 Speaker 3: because they aren't going to change, right, So how can 787 00:38:55,560 --> 00:38:58,400 Speaker 3: I How can I be a little bit different because 788 00:38:58,440 --> 00:38:59,839 Speaker 3: they are who they are? Right? 789 00:39:00,080 --> 00:39:01,680 Speaker 1: Yeah? How could I be a little bit different so 790 00:39:01,719 --> 00:39:03,040 Speaker 1: we can continue to be family? 791 00:39:03,320 --> 00:39:03,520 Speaker 5: Right? 792 00:39:03,800 --> 00:39:05,799 Speaker 1: You know, it's the fact that y'all's a hell of 793 00:39:05,800 --> 00:39:06,440 Speaker 1: a realization. 794 00:39:06,680 --> 00:39:09,560 Speaker 6: But y'all just helped me realize with the sex, like 795 00:39:10,000 --> 00:39:11,120 Speaker 6: it's really like my. 796 00:39:11,200 --> 00:39:14,040 Speaker 5: Healing, Like damn, like. 797 00:39:14,080 --> 00:39:17,160 Speaker 6: Cause it's it's not they don't try to do it 798 00:39:17,520 --> 00:39:20,480 Speaker 6: with me, but it's it was always something like no, 799 00:39:21,400 --> 00:39:22,080 Speaker 6: and I listen. 800 00:39:22,760 --> 00:39:24,880 Speaker 5: I didn't say I don't care. I'm just so horned. 801 00:39:24,920 --> 00:39:28,920 Speaker 6: I'm just like, Okay, maybe it's a reason it's not working, 802 00:39:29,440 --> 00:39:33,520 Speaker 6: And I just I'm thankful that I'm able to the awareness. 803 00:39:33,600 --> 00:39:36,520 Speaker 6: God bless me with the discernment. That's what it's called, 804 00:39:36,560 --> 00:39:37,759 Speaker 6: the ability. 805 00:39:37,360 --> 00:39:42,640 Speaker 5: To judge well and understand that, honey. So I'm thankful 806 00:39:42,680 --> 00:39:42,880 Speaker 5: for that. 807 00:39:42,960 --> 00:39:45,080 Speaker 6: And I really feel like that does have a huge 808 00:39:45,080 --> 00:39:47,680 Speaker 6: part to be with me being a virgin. I'm gonna 809 00:39:47,680 --> 00:39:51,640 Speaker 6: catch your bullshit before you catch me. That's the difference. 810 00:39:52,160 --> 00:39:58,480 Speaker 6: But it's like, can I blame the men for that, 811 00:39:59,600 --> 00:40:02,560 Speaker 6: them trying to do what they're doing with me? 812 00:40:03,440 --> 00:40:05,800 Speaker 5: Like, who's whose fault? Really is it? 813 00:40:05,880 --> 00:40:08,600 Speaker 6: Because you have men, Yeah, that's gonna pressure you, but 814 00:40:08,640 --> 00:40:11,399 Speaker 6: then you also have women that's given enough the first night, 815 00:40:12,000 --> 00:40:17,680 Speaker 6: So who's. 816 00:40:15,000 --> 00:40:17,600 Speaker 2: Well, I don't think it's anybody's fault because sex is natural, 817 00:40:18,080 --> 00:40:20,719 Speaker 2: so it's not like a right thing. It's about just 818 00:40:21,440 --> 00:40:23,359 Speaker 2: choosing for yourself what you want to do with your. 819 00:40:23,239 --> 00:40:25,960 Speaker 5: Own and what works for you personally in that moment. 820 00:40:26,640 --> 00:40:30,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree. So AJ said something about like having 821 00:40:30,440 --> 00:40:34,040 Speaker 2: older energy than our parents, and for me, I don't 822 00:40:34,080 --> 00:40:37,200 Speaker 2: think it's older energy. I think my parents they're older, 823 00:40:37,200 --> 00:40:39,279 Speaker 2: they have wisdom that I don't have, and that's just 824 00:40:39,320 --> 00:40:41,919 Speaker 2: something that comes with age. But I do think that 825 00:40:42,560 --> 00:40:46,719 Speaker 2: we have allowed to, you know, like discover our emotional 826 00:40:46,719 --> 00:40:48,759 Speaker 2: intelligence in the way our parents didn't get to. 827 00:40:49,239 --> 00:40:52,160 Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, I feel like some of them could have. 828 00:40:52,360 --> 00:40:54,480 Speaker 3: They just didn't, you know what I'm saying, Like a 829 00:40:54,520 --> 00:40:56,799 Speaker 3: lot of the things that we tapping out because I'm 830 00:40:56,840 --> 00:40:58,759 Speaker 3: just talking about my mom for the most part, she 831 00:40:58,960 --> 00:41:02,719 Speaker 3: just generation as a bunch of sims and were so 832 00:41:03,280 --> 00:41:06,520 Speaker 3: touchy and and but I'm like, you can't even talk 833 00:41:06,560 --> 00:41:08,480 Speaker 3: about your childhood without busting out crying. 834 00:41:09,280 --> 00:41:11,200 Speaker 2: But I don't think they were allowed in the way 835 00:41:11,239 --> 00:41:14,120 Speaker 2: that we are, like, you know, we are you know, yeah, 836 00:41:14,160 --> 00:41:17,960 Speaker 2: we are like tapping into things that our parents didn't 837 00:41:18,160 --> 00:41:19,080 Speaker 2: even have, like the. 838 00:41:19,000 --> 00:41:21,239 Speaker 3: Avenue and getting our magic back. That's all it is. 839 00:41:21,239 --> 00:41:22,160 Speaker 3: Our generation, you. 840 00:41:22,120 --> 00:41:25,480 Speaker 2: Know, like our emotional intelligence and our you know mental 841 00:41:25,520 --> 00:41:28,279 Speaker 2: health when our parents were our age, but nobody talking 842 00:41:28,320 --> 00:41:31,200 Speaker 2: to them about their mental health, right you better mental health? 843 00:41:31,480 --> 00:41:33,719 Speaker 2: Ask to the job, right you know? That was that 844 00:41:33,880 --> 00:41:37,280 Speaker 2: was it that provide, provide. 845 00:41:38,000 --> 00:41:39,680 Speaker 6: And then they had to be the women in the 846 00:41:39,719 --> 00:41:43,360 Speaker 6: household doing everything I meant doing, taking care of the household. 847 00:41:43,440 --> 00:41:46,480 Speaker 5: So it's like what what could they say. 848 00:41:46,280 --> 00:41:48,399 Speaker 6: When the man doing everything They in the house take 849 00:41:48,440 --> 00:41:50,759 Speaker 6: care of the household. It's like they were expected to 850 00:41:50,760 --> 00:41:53,080 Speaker 6: shut up and take care of the household. 851 00:41:53,480 --> 00:41:56,480 Speaker 5: So that that I agree with, like both of y'all 852 00:41:56,520 --> 00:41:57,160 Speaker 5: on that day. 853 00:41:57,800 --> 00:42:00,239 Speaker 3: I come from a long line of hell raisers. Ain't 854 00:42:00,280 --> 00:42:02,560 Speaker 3: no one woman and my family ever shut the fuck up, 855 00:42:02,880 --> 00:42:03,879 Speaker 3: I could promise y' all. 856 00:42:03,880 --> 00:42:07,279 Speaker 2: That shit we gotta break. We have to break those 857 00:42:07,360 --> 00:42:10,520 Speaker 2: cycles though, Like I see that in my fat too. 858 00:42:10,640 --> 00:42:15,080 Speaker 2: Like my grandmother was very strong, very strong minded. She 859 00:42:15,239 --> 00:42:17,440 Speaker 2: had a husband and they stayed together until you know, 860 00:42:17,600 --> 00:42:21,799 Speaker 2: they both died. But my mom got a strong personality. 861 00:42:22,000 --> 00:42:25,040 Speaker 2: I come along. I have the same strong personality. But 862 00:42:25,280 --> 00:42:28,160 Speaker 2: my mom didn't stay married for love. She ended up 863 00:42:28,160 --> 00:42:30,279 Speaker 2: getting a divorce and I've never been married, and I 864 00:42:30,360 --> 00:42:34,160 Speaker 2: don't want that to be the cycle that continues of 865 00:42:35,000 --> 00:42:38,520 Speaker 2: black women in my family without a husband, but those. 866 00:42:38,560 --> 00:42:40,640 Speaker 3: They were hell racist because of the type of men 867 00:42:40,960 --> 00:42:43,880 Speaker 3: they allowed access to them. I am a hell raiser, 868 00:42:44,320 --> 00:42:47,040 Speaker 3: but I don't just that's not my normal setting. Though 869 00:42:47,440 --> 00:42:49,200 Speaker 3: I can do that, you know what I'm saying. I 870 00:42:49,239 --> 00:42:52,080 Speaker 3: could be like that, that's if the man is putting 871 00:42:52,320 --> 00:42:54,319 Speaker 3: me in a position to have to be that way. 872 00:42:54,640 --> 00:42:56,239 Speaker 3: But that is just not how I want to be 873 00:42:56,360 --> 00:42:58,480 Speaker 3: normally with somebody I love. I don't want a man 874 00:42:58,560 --> 00:43:02,160 Speaker 3: that I can easily disrespect verbally or physically, so that 875 00:43:02,640 --> 00:43:04,239 Speaker 3: those are the type of people like And that's what 876 00:43:04,320 --> 00:43:06,680 Speaker 3: I've been learning through the relationships I've been in. Those 877 00:43:06,719 --> 00:43:08,759 Speaker 3: are not the type of people I want to be with. 878 00:43:08,920 --> 00:43:12,440 Speaker 3: That makes me step outside my body to equal their disrespect. 879 00:43:12,560 --> 00:43:13,279 Speaker 1: I don't want to do that. 880 00:43:13,400 --> 00:43:17,320 Speaker 2: But have you ever fully trusted a man, even in 881 00:43:17,440 --> 00:43:18,719 Speaker 2: his flaws, to lead? 882 00:43:19,120 --> 00:43:19,759 Speaker 1: Absolutely? 883 00:43:19,880 --> 00:43:23,759 Speaker 3: I have, And I almost went to prison, Like let's 884 00:43:23,800 --> 00:43:26,360 Speaker 3: be clear, because I still know what I'm supposed to 885 00:43:26,400 --> 00:43:29,520 Speaker 3: be doing, right, So you going, you going outside of 886 00:43:29,600 --> 00:43:31,560 Speaker 3: you to do what to follow? 887 00:43:31,600 --> 00:43:32,000 Speaker 6: This man? 888 00:43:32,480 --> 00:43:34,960 Speaker 1: Absolutely? But I might not have been the. 889 00:43:35,000 --> 00:43:38,240 Speaker 5: Right mantracting the same kind. 890 00:43:38,840 --> 00:43:41,120 Speaker 1: I think that we are. We You are what you eat, 891 00:43:41,200 --> 00:43:42,799 Speaker 1: Therefore you are who you beat. 892 00:43:43,120 --> 00:43:45,520 Speaker 3: I feel like these people that you have in your life, 893 00:43:46,520 --> 00:43:49,120 Speaker 3: there's an aspect of you in them, while you keep 894 00:43:49,160 --> 00:44:05,040 Speaker 3: attracting until you change who you are. But hold on 895 00:44:05,239 --> 00:44:07,600 Speaker 3: the thing is is that women realize that it's the 896 00:44:07,680 --> 00:44:09,359 Speaker 3: men who think they could go through their life being 897 00:44:09,400 --> 00:44:11,000 Speaker 3: a whole and not get a hope that's true. 898 00:44:11,320 --> 00:44:13,839 Speaker 1: Like why y'all think y'all deserve some wholesome matter? Why 899 00:44:13,880 --> 00:44:15,319 Speaker 1: the fuck y'all think y'all deserve her? 900 00:44:17,040 --> 00:44:19,359 Speaker 3: Why do y'all think y'all deserve a woman who's never 901 00:44:19,400 --> 00:44:21,800 Speaker 3: been with anybody when y'all I spent y'all entire lives 902 00:44:22,239 --> 00:44:26,720 Speaker 3: running through niggas daughters, Like why do you think nobody's 903 00:44:26,719 --> 00:44:28,040 Speaker 3: supposed to run through your daughter? 904 00:44:30,280 --> 00:44:33,279 Speaker 6: I feel like what's keeping them around with me is 905 00:44:33,400 --> 00:44:36,640 Speaker 6: the excitement and the hope that they are going. 906 00:44:36,719 --> 00:44:38,360 Speaker 1: To sexual prowess. 907 00:44:38,920 --> 00:44:41,640 Speaker 5: Yes, with me, that's why they're around. 908 00:44:41,800 --> 00:44:45,320 Speaker 2: But you never know, for you may have come across 909 00:44:45,440 --> 00:44:47,880 Speaker 2: a man who has done all of that and decided 910 00:44:47,920 --> 00:44:50,479 Speaker 2: that that's not the life he wants anymore. We can't 911 00:44:50,520 --> 00:44:52,759 Speaker 2: judge people off their past exactly, you know, because some 912 00:44:52,920 --> 00:44:56,200 Speaker 2: people do change, you know, Like I met a guy 913 00:44:56,280 --> 00:44:59,880 Speaker 2: who was an X and L L player in college. 914 00:45:00,040 --> 00:45:02,520 Speaker 2: He had all the everything, all the holes, all the 915 00:45:02,600 --> 00:45:05,440 Speaker 2: bitches getting the fuck out of both paint slegs for 916 00:45:05,560 --> 00:45:08,680 Speaker 2: a long time. He got cut from the NFL and 917 00:45:08,760 --> 00:45:12,680 Speaker 2: pretty much lost everything, and everybody was gone. All the 918 00:45:12,760 --> 00:45:15,719 Speaker 2: holes he was looking for, the holes, they was gone. 919 00:45:15,920 --> 00:45:18,799 Speaker 2: Everybody was gone, and he had to really start over, 920 00:45:18,960 --> 00:45:21,480 Speaker 2: and it changed him and humbled him, and it made 921 00:45:21,560 --> 00:45:23,480 Speaker 2: him not desire those things anymore. 922 00:45:23,840 --> 00:45:26,080 Speaker 1: So I think it takes a while sometimes for a 923 00:45:26,200 --> 00:45:27,600 Speaker 1: man to get to that point. Though. 924 00:45:27,800 --> 00:45:29,719 Speaker 3: I just was having this conversation with somebody this morning 925 00:45:29,719 --> 00:45:31,959 Speaker 3: because he was like, pussy don't drive. I'm like he said, 926 00:45:32,000 --> 00:45:34,000 Speaker 3: he'd be trying to figure out what type of pussy 927 00:45:34,120 --> 00:45:36,680 Speaker 3: other niggas be getting because pussy don't drive. 928 00:45:36,640 --> 00:45:39,320 Speaker 1: Him like that. That's a dangerous man when he's not 929 00:45:39,480 --> 00:45:41,640 Speaker 1: moved by bus. It takes a long time. 930 00:45:42,360 --> 00:45:45,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, it takes a long time for a man, most 931 00:45:45,280 --> 00:45:47,400 Speaker 3: men to get to that space to where they're not 932 00:45:47,960 --> 00:45:50,080 Speaker 3: waking up every morning trying to figure out how they 933 00:45:50,120 --> 00:45:51,080 Speaker 3: can get some new pussy. 934 00:45:51,840 --> 00:45:54,879 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, I can focus on getting money. 935 00:45:56,840 --> 00:45:58,759 Speaker 2: Well, I think you know that's not fair to say, 936 00:45:58,800 --> 00:46:00,520 Speaker 2: because I think it's a lot of men who focus 937 00:46:00,600 --> 00:46:02,640 Speaker 2: more on money than pussy, because I mean, if you 938 00:46:02,760 --> 00:46:04,480 Speaker 2: get in a lot of money, pussy gonna come. 939 00:46:04,560 --> 00:46:06,759 Speaker 1: I bet a lot of men don't realize that they 940 00:46:06,880 --> 00:46:09,360 Speaker 1: be chasing pussy instead of the money. They don't realize 941 00:46:09,520 --> 00:46:10,680 Speaker 1: what's he come with the money? 942 00:46:11,560 --> 00:46:16,160 Speaker 2: I I don't money, So if some men don't, it's 943 00:46:16,280 --> 00:46:18,880 Speaker 2: men who like be feeling like they don't even deserve 944 00:46:19,040 --> 00:46:19,880 Speaker 2: no exactly. 945 00:46:20,160 --> 00:46:23,480 Speaker 5: And then there's men that feel like they what what 946 00:46:23,800 --> 00:46:26,800 Speaker 5: AJ just said. I feel like it's literally fifty to fifty. 947 00:46:27,160 --> 00:46:29,880 Speaker 6: If you got it, you the pussy gonna come, or 948 00:46:30,320 --> 00:46:32,680 Speaker 6: the other half over here out here begging for trying 949 00:46:32,719 --> 00:46:35,400 Speaker 6: to get it anywhere they can, like it literally go 950 00:46:35,600 --> 00:46:36,200 Speaker 6: hand in hand. 951 00:46:36,320 --> 00:46:38,920 Speaker 5: Like I feel like, it's just who you are, how 952 00:46:39,040 --> 00:46:43,520 Speaker 5: you move, what you attract, what you do, because over 953 00:46:43,600 --> 00:46:46,439 Speaker 5: here I'm living life. 954 00:46:47,719 --> 00:46:49,960 Speaker 2: So let me let me ask you this for do 955 00:46:50,080 --> 00:46:52,319 Speaker 2: you feel like you're with women because you really are 956 00:46:52,400 --> 00:46:54,440 Speaker 2: attracted to them, or you feel safer. 957 00:46:54,239 --> 00:46:54,720 Speaker 6: With them. 958 00:46:57,239 --> 00:46:59,560 Speaker 1: Because you're the you would be the dominant person in 959 00:46:59,600 --> 00:46:59,920 Speaker 1: the relations. 960 00:47:00,719 --> 00:47:02,120 Speaker 5: I would be the dominant one. 961 00:47:02,280 --> 00:47:08,120 Speaker 6: So I think as far as the safety wise, personally, honestly, 962 00:47:08,239 --> 00:47:11,160 Speaker 6: I would feel safe for being with a man, not 963 00:47:11,360 --> 00:47:11,920 Speaker 6: a woman. 964 00:47:12,680 --> 00:47:18,320 Speaker 5: I am attracted to men. I just am a virgin 965 00:47:18,440 --> 00:47:19,799 Speaker 5: scared to have sex. 966 00:47:19,960 --> 00:47:23,759 Speaker 2: Brother, I mean emotionally, emotionally. 967 00:47:23,840 --> 00:47:27,319 Speaker 6: Emotional safety a woman because I feel like I can 968 00:47:27,400 --> 00:47:31,640 Speaker 6: connect more better with a woman. Like this got nothing 969 00:47:31,680 --> 00:47:34,719 Speaker 6: to do with sex, but with women connection. I feel 970 00:47:34,760 --> 00:47:37,000 Speaker 6: like I just moved out here to Alabama. The Lord 971 00:47:37,160 --> 00:47:40,160 Speaker 6: just connected me with a church that has a female 972 00:47:40,320 --> 00:47:43,480 Speaker 6: pastor because he know in order for me to have 973 00:47:43,719 --> 00:47:45,720 Speaker 6: that relationship with him, it's. 974 00:47:45,640 --> 00:47:47,560 Speaker 5: Not gonna be as easy to go through a man. 975 00:47:47,640 --> 00:47:50,320 Speaker 6: I'm not gonna be as comfortable to build my relationship 976 00:47:50,360 --> 00:47:51,600 Speaker 6: if I had a male pastor. 977 00:47:51,880 --> 00:47:55,279 Speaker 5: But I got a whole female pastor that is right 978 00:47:55,560 --> 00:47:56,720 Speaker 5: up my alley. 979 00:47:57,320 --> 00:47:59,640 Speaker 6: I can talk to her, I can call her like 980 00:48:00,160 --> 00:48:04,080 Speaker 6: she's a friend, and be comfortable with my who I 981 00:48:04,200 --> 00:48:05,560 Speaker 6: am as a woman. 982 00:48:06,040 --> 00:48:08,440 Speaker 5: So I really just feel like it's really personal. 983 00:48:08,880 --> 00:48:12,439 Speaker 6: But I am safer emotional wise with a woman because 984 00:48:12,480 --> 00:48:14,319 Speaker 6: I feel like that's all I've been dealing with first 985 00:48:14,360 --> 00:48:18,040 Speaker 6: of all. Second, I feel like women understand more than 986 00:48:18,160 --> 00:48:21,680 Speaker 6: what the male mind will understand. Like you just said, 987 00:48:21,840 --> 00:48:24,839 Speaker 6: like we mature faster than men, we see things more 988 00:48:24,920 --> 00:48:28,600 Speaker 6: than men, and will take accountability faster than a man would. 989 00:48:28,680 --> 00:48:30,760 Speaker 6: And I ain't got time to raise a man. Kevin 990 00:48:30,840 --> 00:48:34,799 Speaker 6: Schell said, you can't raise no man here. 991 00:48:34,840 --> 00:48:35,680 Speaker 5: You already grown. 992 00:48:35,760 --> 00:48:36,560 Speaker 2: What you gonna do? 993 00:48:37,320 --> 00:48:37,720 Speaker 5: Nothing? 994 00:48:40,160 --> 00:48:43,279 Speaker 2: I don't know. I see I think men take accountability fast. Thing. 995 00:48:43,440 --> 00:48:46,799 Speaker 1: Well, I never agree with that, but that's her experience. 996 00:48:47,000 --> 00:48:49,680 Speaker 2: What else I'll be asking hard it'd be hard to 997 00:48:49,719 --> 00:48:53,520 Speaker 2: get a woman to say. It's hard to get a woman, 998 00:48:53,760 --> 00:48:57,520 Speaker 2: including myself, you know, I'm I'm not here to own 999 00:48:57,760 --> 00:48:59,759 Speaker 2: they shit, they to own they shit. 1000 00:49:00,080 --> 00:49:00,200 Speaker 3: You know. 1001 00:49:00,440 --> 00:49:03,880 Speaker 2: I find it hard, Like it's always in hindsight that 1002 00:49:04,280 --> 00:49:06,759 Speaker 2: I find women or I'll be like, okay, well, since 1003 00:49:06,800 --> 00:49:10,120 Speaker 2: we're apologizing, I can say that back there, I was 1004 00:49:10,200 --> 00:49:12,200 Speaker 2: fucked up too, whereas. 1005 00:49:13,000 --> 00:49:16,600 Speaker 3: Men, for me in the moment can be like I 1006 00:49:16,680 --> 00:49:19,840 Speaker 3: don't like sorries without action. A motherfucker never got to 1007 00:49:19,840 --> 00:49:22,239 Speaker 3: apologize to me, as long as the change behavior is 1008 00:49:22,280 --> 00:49:24,280 Speaker 3: what I look for, right, So men can say sorry 1009 00:49:24,360 --> 00:49:27,640 Speaker 3: all day long and never change the behavior that is 1010 00:49:27,719 --> 00:49:30,800 Speaker 3: not a legitimate sorry, it's not So That's why I 1011 00:49:30,880 --> 00:49:33,879 Speaker 3: feel like women going at least like men literally don't 1012 00:49:34,000 --> 00:49:35,800 Speaker 3: tell us the truth so that we can even. 1013 00:49:35,800 --> 00:49:38,080 Speaker 1: Change the behavior. Right, They just go and do whatever 1014 00:49:38,120 --> 00:49:38,640 Speaker 1: they want to do. 1015 00:49:39,400 --> 00:49:42,120 Speaker 3: If men could be more honest with women about who 1016 00:49:42,200 --> 00:49:44,840 Speaker 3: they are, their expectations, what they want from, Like what 1017 00:49:45,360 --> 00:49:47,320 Speaker 3: do I need to do different in this relationship so 1018 00:49:47,400 --> 00:49:49,360 Speaker 3: I could be a better partner. I feel like women 1019 00:49:49,400 --> 00:49:51,880 Speaker 3: would be more open to doing that. But for whatever reason, 1020 00:49:52,719 --> 00:49:55,319 Speaker 3: it's out there that you can't be honest with women. 1021 00:49:55,440 --> 00:49:58,200 Speaker 3: That's one thing. So how can it be like you 1022 00:49:58,280 --> 00:50:01,759 Speaker 3: can't be honest with women and women are not accountable accountable. 1023 00:50:02,280 --> 00:50:05,480 Speaker 3: That's weird to me. It can't be both ways. I 1024 00:50:05,600 --> 00:50:08,000 Speaker 3: can't be accountable if you're not telling me the truth. 1025 00:50:09,800 --> 00:50:13,960 Speaker 6: Right right, it goes but I feel like it definitely 1026 00:50:14,040 --> 00:50:17,560 Speaker 6: goes back to the personal experience. I feel like Aj, 1027 00:50:17,840 --> 00:50:20,440 Speaker 6: I mean, Tom feels the way she feels because of 1028 00:50:20,719 --> 00:50:22,800 Speaker 6: her own experiences. 1029 00:50:22,600 --> 00:50:27,800 Speaker 5: With men being accountable and women not being accountable. 1030 00:50:27,840 --> 00:50:30,239 Speaker 6: And then you said, for yourself, you have your own 1031 00:50:30,360 --> 00:50:34,840 Speaker 6: troubles here and there being accountable, and the way that 1032 00:50:34,920 --> 00:50:35,640 Speaker 6: we act is. 1033 00:50:35,680 --> 00:50:38,719 Speaker 5: What we attract. So you may be attracting people that 1034 00:50:38,920 --> 00:50:40,200 Speaker 5: don't take accountability. 1035 00:50:40,320 --> 00:50:43,719 Speaker 6: But me personally, I've met a lot of people that 1036 00:50:44,520 --> 00:50:46,839 Speaker 6: I could communicate with like Okay, I did this wrong, 1037 00:50:46,960 --> 00:50:49,680 Speaker 6: you did that wrong. But that's because I've been dealing 1038 00:50:49,760 --> 00:50:53,920 Speaker 6: with mainly women my whole life, So it's really like 1039 00:50:54,120 --> 00:50:58,760 Speaker 6: your personal experience, what you attract, nobody's wrong. 1040 00:50:59,640 --> 00:51:03,360 Speaker 2: Do you want to so you you see yourself with 1041 00:51:03,560 --> 00:51:06,680 Speaker 2: a woman versus a man, or you just don't. 1042 00:51:06,520 --> 00:51:10,320 Speaker 6: Have so honestly, I don't know. I don't If a 1043 00:51:10,440 --> 00:51:13,440 Speaker 6: man treat me right and and and say they want 1044 00:51:13,480 --> 00:51:16,680 Speaker 6: to marry me, and they consistent, that's what's getting. 1045 00:51:16,800 --> 00:51:17,560 Speaker 5: That's all I need. 1046 00:51:18,000 --> 00:51:21,080 Speaker 6: If I found a man that's consistent with no sex, 1047 00:51:21,440 --> 00:51:23,560 Speaker 6: that treat me right, that try to get to know 1048 00:51:23,680 --> 00:51:24,520 Speaker 6: me and understand me. 1049 00:51:24,600 --> 00:51:27,799 Speaker 5: Baby, you got it. I'm an opening busset wid off 1050 00:51:27,960 --> 00:51:28,239 Speaker 5: for you. 1051 00:51:28,920 --> 00:51:35,040 Speaker 1: Real. Are you scared though? Are you scaredde open? 1052 00:51:35,719 --> 00:51:38,320 Speaker 5: I'm gonna be scared, but I'm gonna be comfortable. 1053 00:51:38,480 --> 00:51:40,040 Speaker 1: I feel like I ain't never been scared. 1054 00:51:43,239 --> 00:51:46,800 Speaker 5: I'm absolutely I'm so scared. My cherry ain't even popped, 1055 00:51:48,840 --> 00:51:50,800 Speaker 5: so I'm really, yes, I am scared. 1056 00:51:50,880 --> 00:51:53,240 Speaker 6: But I feel like once they you know, because I'm 1057 00:51:53,280 --> 00:51:55,640 Speaker 6: a horny free so I know, once they get me 1058 00:51:55,719 --> 00:51:57,880 Speaker 6: to that point, I'm gonna be okay. 1059 00:51:58,320 --> 00:52:00,479 Speaker 5: Like I just haven't found that one. 1060 00:52:02,239 --> 00:52:04,839 Speaker 2: First of all, you cannot call yourself a horny freak. 1061 00:52:04,960 --> 00:52:05,960 Speaker 2: Version that don't even. 1062 00:52:08,239 --> 00:52:11,239 Speaker 1: It's that hell of them titties. That's it though, I'm 1063 00:52:11,280 --> 00:52:16,239 Speaker 1: trying to tell you that I can do now. I'm 1064 00:52:16,280 --> 00:52:20,240 Speaker 1: a virgin. I'm a virgin, looks ahead, flipping around. 1065 00:52:20,680 --> 00:52:22,640 Speaker 5: Literally, I can work. 1066 00:52:23,760 --> 00:52:26,200 Speaker 2: So you've done all the four play things, but just. 1067 00:52:27,040 --> 00:52:28,960 Speaker 5: And so I've been always thinking like it does that 1068 00:52:29,120 --> 00:52:29,600 Speaker 5: mean something? 1069 00:52:29,640 --> 00:52:31,560 Speaker 3: I sort of got four play but you ain't ever 1070 00:52:31,640 --> 00:52:36,680 Speaker 3: suck no dick though, right I have I have. I'm 1071 00:52:37,840 --> 00:52:41,440 Speaker 3: oh you that's white girl, behave your honestly white girls. 1072 00:52:43,239 --> 00:52:45,279 Speaker 6: Guess and guess why I was when I did it 1073 00:52:46,160 --> 00:52:54,920 Speaker 6: and augusta motherfucker Georgia around, I was like probably middle school, 1074 00:52:55,080 --> 00:52:58,800 Speaker 6: high school, I suck. I think it was high school. 1075 00:52:59,320 --> 00:53:01,040 Speaker 6: I don't know if how of middle school high schol 1076 00:53:01,040 --> 00:53:03,279 Speaker 6: one of the two. I was at the park and. 1077 00:53:03,400 --> 00:53:06,320 Speaker 5: I did like I was like, what the fuck is 1078 00:53:06,360 --> 00:53:08,160 Speaker 5: this boy? Get out my face? I don't know what 1079 00:53:08,200 --> 00:53:08,640 Speaker 5: I'm doing. 1080 00:53:08,719 --> 00:53:10,640 Speaker 1: And that was it? Oh you like that was a 1081 00:53:10,640 --> 00:53:14,640 Speaker 1: little gummy worm, Yeah, a gummy It was so gooey. 1082 00:53:14,880 --> 00:53:16,240 Speaker 1: I was like, it was busy. 1083 00:53:18,000 --> 00:53:19,839 Speaker 6: This is now. 1084 00:53:20,880 --> 00:53:25,520 Speaker 1: Didn't have a turtleneck or no, listen never, no, don't 1085 00:53:25,560 --> 00:53:26,239 Speaker 1: do that, don't do that. 1086 00:53:26,800 --> 00:53:29,080 Speaker 5: Had turtle net. But I remember, I will tell you this. 1087 00:53:29,239 --> 00:53:31,600 Speaker 5: I just recently did it. Yes, I did recently. 1088 00:53:32,120 --> 00:53:34,880 Speaker 6: And it's this boy that I was thinking, Okay, you 1089 00:53:34,960 --> 00:53:38,960 Speaker 6: know he's nice, he's cool. He's treating me a mad sorry, 1090 00:53:39,400 --> 00:53:43,200 Speaker 6: a man that's treating me nice. It's cool taking me out. 1091 00:53:44,239 --> 00:53:46,839 Speaker 6: But I did it to him and he said I did. 1092 00:53:47,880 --> 00:53:49,759 Speaker 6: It's like I've been doing that ship my whole life. 1093 00:53:49,800 --> 00:53:51,920 Speaker 6: I'm like, nigga, I'm just talented. I eat puss it 1094 00:53:52,680 --> 00:53:57,759 Speaker 6: so that's nothing for me. But it almost threw up. 1095 00:53:58,000 --> 00:54:01,640 Speaker 5: I got like ten times. It just was like just 1096 00:54:02,800 --> 00:54:06,359 Speaker 5: they like, oh, like I couldn't do it, and I said, 1097 00:54:06,360 --> 00:54:08,040 Speaker 5: I don't want to ever do that again. It was 1098 00:54:08,239 --> 00:54:11,840 Speaker 5: disgusting to me. I didn't enjoy it. He enjoyed it, 1099 00:54:11,960 --> 00:54:13,840 Speaker 5: but it was very uncomfortable for me. 1100 00:54:13,920 --> 00:54:16,120 Speaker 6: But I was I wanted to make him feel good 1101 00:54:16,160 --> 00:54:18,160 Speaker 6: because he was making me feel good and I kind 1102 00:54:18,200 --> 00:54:18,760 Speaker 6: of felt. 1103 00:54:18,600 --> 00:54:20,920 Speaker 5: Bad at my heart. I wear it on my sleeve 1104 00:54:20,960 --> 00:54:23,480 Speaker 5: and I'm like, damn, he just made me feel Just 1105 00:54:23,520 --> 00:54:24,279 Speaker 5: give him some head. 1106 00:54:25,400 --> 00:54:27,560 Speaker 1: Let me just try to see what I can do him. 1107 00:54:27,960 --> 00:54:30,040 Speaker 2: And you gave him some. 1108 00:54:30,120 --> 00:54:34,320 Speaker 1: Pitiod Yo, this is amazing. 1109 00:54:35,600 --> 00:54:37,960 Speaker 5: And it didn't do and then I said I won't ever. 1110 00:54:38,040 --> 00:54:39,880 Speaker 5: I told him I know it felt good, but I 1111 00:54:40,200 --> 00:54:41,120 Speaker 5: just want to be honest with you. 1112 00:54:41,200 --> 00:54:42,839 Speaker 6: I'm not gonna ever do it again, So don't ask 1113 00:54:42,960 --> 00:54:45,160 Speaker 6: me because I didn't like it for myself. 1114 00:54:47,800 --> 00:54:54,919 Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, no, no no for no no moving 1115 00:54:55,000 --> 00:54:57,280 Speaker 4: at a new place. He needs some sofas and ship 1116 00:54:57,480 --> 00:55:00,080 Speaker 4: like stop you thought. 1117 00:55:00,280 --> 00:55:01,959 Speaker 1: The fact that you said, what if he paid? 1118 00:55:02,040 --> 00:55:03,080 Speaker 5: Girl, I just downloaded. 1119 00:55:05,960 --> 00:55:09,880 Speaker 2: Listen, I wouldn't don't do anything sexually for money that 1120 00:55:10,040 --> 00:55:12,160 Speaker 2: you wouldn't do with the person for free, because then 1121 00:55:12,239 --> 00:55:12,960 Speaker 2: it's prostitution. 1122 00:55:14,560 --> 00:55:15,919 Speaker 5: Well that's the case. 1123 00:55:16,040 --> 00:55:22,839 Speaker 2: You have to say, what, friend, know what I'm saying. 1124 00:55:22,920 --> 00:55:25,320 Speaker 2: If you wouldn't do it for free, don't do it 1125 00:55:26,160 --> 00:55:28,040 Speaker 2: because if you only would do it for money. 1126 00:55:28,200 --> 00:55:32,320 Speaker 1: But we know based on Keisha Shavez, that work doesn't count. 1127 00:55:38,400 --> 00:55:41,440 Speaker 1: Whatever don't count. 1128 00:55:41,920 --> 00:55:44,120 Speaker 5: But seriously, my. 1129 00:55:44,200 --> 00:55:51,160 Speaker 6: Whole thing is if I was not a virgin, would 1130 00:55:51,160 --> 00:55:55,000 Speaker 6: I still be getting my car clean, my gas tape 1131 00:55:55,080 --> 00:55:57,000 Speaker 6: field dinner days? 1132 00:55:57,680 --> 00:56:00,600 Speaker 5: Would I still be getting treated like a prince? Says Queen? 1133 00:56:00,920 --> 00:56:03,640 Speaker 5: If I had gave it up the first night, that's 1134 00:56:03,680 --> 00:56:05,200 Speaker 5: the question I want to ask the world. 1135 00:56:05,719 --> 00:56:10,200 Speaker 1: M very possibly, I don't know, man, niggas it's a 1136 00:56:10,280 --> 00:56:10,799 Speaker 1: crap show. 1137 00:56:10,880 --> 00:56:11,040 Speaker 6: It is. 1138 00:56:11,440 --> 00:56:12,440 Speaker 1: It is a crap shoot. 1139 00:56:12,520 --> 00:56:14,399 Speaker 3: I feel though, and I've said this before, I feel 1140 00:56:14,480 --> 00:56:17,399 Speaker 3: like women chase after they give the pussy up. Before 1141 00:56:17,400 --> 00:56:19,640 Speaker 3: you give the pussy up, that's all control over these 1142 00:56:19,719 --> 00:56:22,360 Speaker 3: niggas that once you give that power away, now we 1143 00:56:22,480 --> 00:56:25,360 Speaker 3: start chasing, trying to figure out that why you answering 1144 00:56:25,400 --> 00:56:28,200 Speaker 3: the phone one ring later and ship like that, we 1145 00:56:28,360 --> 00:56:31,480 Speaker 3: just started fucking with our own mind. So before you 1146 00:56:31,600 --> 00:56:33,600 Speaker 3: get that pussy up, Yeah, you got all types of 1147 00:56:34,840 --> 00:56:35,800 Speaker 3: all types of control. 1148 00:56:36,000 --> 00:56:37,120 Speaker 5: And I knew right now. 1149 00:56:37,360 --> 00:56:40,000 Speaker 6: Like I'm not gonna say everything because I know they're 1150 00:56:40,000 --> 00:56:43,200 Speaker 6: gonna listen, but it's like I really do though, and 1151 00:56:44,320 --> 00:56:46,120 Speaker 6: they they the way that they come at me, Like 1152 00:56:46,280 --> 00:56:46,880 Speaker 6: I just I just. 1153 00:56:46,920 --> 00:56:48,640 Speaker 5: Want to make sure you good. I just want to 1154 00:56:48,680 --> 00:56:50,360 Speaker 5: make sure this. I just want to make sure that. 1155 00:56:50,600 --> 00:56:53,760 Speaker 5: And I just like, damn, like my friend just fucked 1156 00:56:53,800 --> 00:56:54,520 Speaker 5: this nigga. 1157 00:56:54,280 --> 00:56:57,160 Speaker 6: And he ghosted her. He d ain't doing this, Dan 1158 00:56:57,160 --> 00:57:01,400 Speaker 6: ain't doing that, and I'm just like, so I need 1159 00:57:01,480 --> 00:57:03,959 Speaker 6: to keep this up. They're not giving up ever. 1160 00:57:04,920 --> 00:57:10,640 Speaker 1: Ever, I wish. I'm jealous. I'm gonna tell you I'm jealous. 1161 00:57:10,680 --> 00:57:13,319 Speaker 3: I told Tam and Taylor that ship yesterday, Like if 1162 00:57:13,360 --> 00:57:15,680 Speaker 3: I could unfuck some of these people, I would like, 1163 00:57:16,000 --> 00:57:17,960 Speaker 3: did it for what? Like I didn't have my first 1164 00:57:18,160 --> 00:57:21,200 Speaker 3: orgasm talk by myself. It wasn't from a man. Okay, 1165 00:57:21,960 --> 00:57:23,640 Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying, Like from a man and 1166 00:57:23,840 --> 00:57:25,040 Speaker 3: I might have been twenty two. 1167 00:57:27,480 --> 00:57:37,040 Speaker 2: Or listen. No, I definitely would take some of my 1168 00:57:37,160 --> 00:57:41,360 Speaker 2: body back to Yeah, I would also give my degree 1169 00:57:41,440 --> 00:57:43,640 Speaker 2: back because this should is expensive. They just think a 1170 00:57:44,000 --> 00:57:46,080 Speaker 2: pavement out of my account just now. I will give 1171 00:57:46,160 --> 00:57:49,040 Speaker 2: that back and I would take my hell. 1172 00:57:50,800 --> 00:57:55,160 Speaker 6: So, so I'm my next question for y'all because I see, 1173 00:57:55,440 --> 00:57:57,680 Speaker 6: like this is this is a real, a whole nother 1174 00:57:57,760 --> 00:58:00,360 Speaker 6: world that I've never really been in, like me and 1175 00:58:00,520 --> 00:58:04,000 Speaker 6: having sex, So there's there can really be times where 1176 00:58:04,080 --> 00:58:06,920 Speaker 6: y'all have sex, like just to get a quick nut, and. 1177 00:58:07,200 --> 00:58:08,800 Speaker 5: The men do it too, so it ain't nothing to 1178 00:58:08,840 --> 00:58:09,440 Speaker 5: be ashamed of. 1179 00:58:09,560 --> 00:58:11,720 Speaker 6: But I really need to know because I'm like into 1180 00:58:11,800 --> 00:58:13,440 Speaker 6: women for real over here, so I need to know 1181 00:58:13,520 --> 00:58:15,920 Speaker 6: what's going on in these these mindsets when they be 1182 00:58:16,000 --> 00:58:17,160 Speaker 6: fucking with these niggas. 1183 00:58:16,880 --> 00:58:19,360 Speaker 5: Like do you think they just need a quick nut 1184 00:58:19,600 --> 00:58:20,920 Speaker 5: or do y'all you know y'all. 1185 00:58:20,720 --> 00:58:22,440 Speaker 6: Can fuck with just a quick nun and not have 1186 00:58:22,600 --> 00:58:26,720 Speaker 6: feelings or relations and being with the men, or because. 1187 00:58:26,440 --> 00:58:27,160 Speaker 5: I really don't know. 1188 00:58:28,720 --> 00:58:32,320 Speaker 1: What I'm confused as to what you're just having sex period. 1189 00:58:32,480 --> 00:58:34,880 Speaker 3: Oh yeah you can have women. Women do have sex 1190 00:58:34,960 --> 00:58:37,120 Speaker 3: with men without feelings. I don't think men realize that, 1191 00:58:37,160 --> 00:58:39,640 Speaker 3: though they don't think it's true. They think that women 1192 00:58:39,800 --> 00:58:41,400 Speaker 3: like say friends is like if a woman cheating on 1193 00:58:41,440 --> 00:58:44,440 Speaker 3: her husband right or her boyfriend, Like men think that's 1194 00:58:44,480 --> 00:58:47,280 Speaker 3: like the ultimate betrayal, even though they don't fuck four 1195 00:58:47,360 --> 00:58:50,200 Speaker 3: hundred bitches right right, but it's the ultimate betrayal because 1196 00:58:50,240 --> 00:58:53,160 Speaker 3: they feel like this man somehow got my woman's mind. 1197 00:58:53,720 --> 00:58:56,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's why he gave she gave up the pussy. 1198 00:58:56,200 --> 00:58:59,200 Speaker 3: But no, sometimes want to just have sex and we 1199 00:58:59,360 --> 00:59:03,320 Speaker 3: know the best slinger, Like we call our favorite favorite eater, okay, 1200 00:59:03,800 --> 00:59:05,720 Speaker 3: we call him up. We know we're gonna get the 1201 00:59:05,760 --> 00:59:08,800 Speaker 3: good time out of him. And there's that part you 1202 00:59:08,960 --> 00:59:11,200 Speaker 3: really don't like him like that, like the same way 1203 00:59:11,320 --> 00:59:13,720 Speaker 3: men move. Sometimes I'm past that point in life. I 1204 00:59:13,720 --> 00:59:17,160 Speaker 3: ain't fucking on you unless like it's on some we 1205 00:59:17,480 --> 00:59:20,760 Speaker 3: like locked in at other than that, I don't feel 1206 00:59:20,800 --> 00:59:23,120 Speaker 3: like it, and the moment I don't feel like it physically, 1207 00:59:23,160 --> 00:59:23,720 Speaker 3: I'm out of there. 1208 00:59:25,520 --> 00:59:26,120 Speaker 1: That's true. 1209 00:59:26,880 --> 00:59:31,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I. 1210 00:59:33,960 --> 00:59:34,439 Speaker 5: Say, y'all. 1211 00:59:40,080 --> 00:59:41,160 Speaker 1: Right, y'all is. 1212 00:59:41,280 --> 00:59:41,720 Speaker 5: Full of it. 1213 00:59:41,920 --> 00:59:43,480 Speaker 2: But I. 1214 00:59:45,240 --> 00:59:50,240 Speaker 6: Understand from a woman's perspective that is actually involved with men, 1215 00:59:50,360 --> 00:59:51,120 Speaker 6: because it's a lot. 1216 00:59:51,080 --> 00:59:53,840 Speaker 5: Of females that I deal with that I just want 1217 00:59:53,880 --> 00:59:54,640 Speaker 5: to have fun with. 1218 00:59:55,000 --> 00:59:58,200 Speaker 1: But then they be like, you know, they're falling in love. 1219 00:59:59,160 --> 01:00:02,240 Speaker 8: No, they just go a man with no problem. I 1220 01:00:02,440 --> 01:00:04,680 Speaker 8: just be wanting to do that, but they won't do 1221 01:00:04,800 --> 01:00:06,919 Speaker 8: it with me. But they'll just go fuck a man. 1222 01:00:07,000 --> 01:00:08,600 Speaker 8: So I'm like, well, damn, you actually want to be 1223 01:00:08,720 --> 01:00:09,880 Speaker 8: with them, or something. 1224 01:00:09,840 --> 01:00:12,680 Speaker 5: Like why why can't we just real quick you have fun? 1225 01:00:13,360 --> 01:00:15,640 Speaker 5: So I don't know, y'all couldn't answer that question. 1226 01:00:15,960 --> 01:00:24,160 Speaker 2: What you can't fuck? You be strapping off? If you're trapping, 1227 01:00:24,240 --> 01:00:27,880 Speaker 2: you're not a virgin. I'm sorry. You've just never been penetrated. 1228 01:00:27,920 --> 01:00:29,120 Speaker 2: You've done all the things. 1229 01:00:30,600 --> 01:00:33,600 Speaker 1: Now she left off to go get her dick, y'all, Okay. 1230 01:00:34,840 --> 01:00:37,640 Speaker 3: Don't bring your preferred I do not want to see 1231 01:00:37,960 --> 01:00:39,600 Speaker 3: I want to see it. I want to see if 1232 01:00:39,640 --> 01:00:46,120 Speaker 3: she got a cheap one or one she went through 1233 01:00:46,160 --> 01:00:46,520 Speaker 3: that ship. 1234 01:00:46,560 --> 01:00:46,960 Speaker 1: Oh it's a. 1235 01:00:49,960 --> 01:01:00,400 Speaker 2: Man, that's how they send the right I would not 1236 01:01:00,560 --> 01:01:03,400 Speaker 2: let nobody fuck me with one of them. I want 1237 01:01:03,480 --> 01:01:09,120 Speaker 2: a real kick with some blood, warm bit, so get out, 1238 01:01:09,320 --> 01:01:11,360 Speaker 2: get out. The pin of my firm sent your crazy 1239 01:01:11,440 --> 01:01:11,919 Speaker 2: ass down. 1240 01:01:13,160 --> 01:01:15,439 Speaker 1: She got a little leather trim. How much that did costs? 1241 01:01:17,680 --> 01:01:18,760 Speaker 1: It was like thirty. 1242 01:01:20,240 --> 01:01:26,000 Speaker 2: DA's forty dollars deck. So apparently that dick is going 1243 01:01:26,040 --> 01:01:27,680 Speaker 2: for forty dollars period. 1244 01:01:28,000 --> 01:01:28,560 Speaker 1: Playing with a. 1245 01:01:28,680 --> 01:01:31,240 Speaker 5: Silicone It's not hard. 1246 01:01:31,480 --> 01:01:36,440 Speaker 6: It's bendabule, benda bull. It's soft and it's pretty. My goodness, 1247 01:01:36,920 --> 01:01:38,880 Speaker 6: this is the starter one. I ain't gonna laugh, yo. 1248 01:01:39,280 --> 01:01:41,200 Speaker 1: See that's why she don't want that dick. Get been 1249 01:01:41,280 --> 01:01:43,560 Speaker 1: folding this side of her that don't so look. 1250 01:01:45,600 --> 01:01:46,920 Speaker 2: Why your dick collapsing? 1251 01:01:48,880 --> 01:01:53,080 Speaker 1: Pup up the volume. I never used it. You need, yeah, 1252 01:01:53,120 --> 01:01:54,040 Speaker 1: you need an air. 1253 01:01:55,560 --> 01:01:55,760 Speaker 5: Dick. 1254 01:01:57,840 --> 01:02:02,280 Speaker 6: But so I haven't ever had a strap inside of me, 1255 01:02:02,360 --> 01:02:04,600 Speaker 6: which is why I still consider myself a virgin. 1256 01:02:04,680 --> 01:02:10,360 Speaker 5: But I don't done the strapping real, real quick and easy. 1257 01:02:10,440 --> 01:02:15,080 Speaker 6: But to have it inside of you, listen, y'all be 1258 01:02:15,160 --> 01:02:18,800 Speaker 6: trying to put this ship inside myself. I'm scared and 1259 01:02:19,000 --> 01:02:22,600 Speaker 6: just I'm just really scared, like I'm really scared of dick. 1260 01:02:25,400 --> 01:02:27,080 Speaker 1: So that's what it boils down to. You still a 1261 01:02:27,160 --> 01:02:28,280 Speaker 1: virgin because you're scared of dick. 1262 01:02:28,640 --> 01:02:33,120 Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, the way that listen, just imagine a virgin 1263 01:02:33,680 --> 01:02:36,200 Speaker 6: and a man coming up to you saying, oh, you're 1264 01:02:36,240 --> 01:02:39,720 Speaker 6: a virgin. I'm gonna put this horse dick all up 1265 01:02:39,800 --> 01:02:42,360 Speaker 6: through your ship. It's gonna touch your brain and breaking. 1266 01:02:42,400 --> 01:02:45,920 Speaker 3: And I'm looking like, that's not what I that's not appealing, 1267 01:02:46,280 --> 01:02:50,280 Speaker 3: that's not it's not it's really not like now yeah nowadays, 1268 01:02:50,360 --> 01:02:52,480 Speaker 3: ever a dude tell me, I'll be like, what, No, 1269 01:02:52,600 --> 01:02:56,320 Speaker 3: you're not. I don't even want that much dick, Like 1270 01:02:56,560 --> 01:02:59,200 Speaker 3: I gotta be around here saying any nine ten inches 1271 01:02:59,240 --> 01:03:02,520 Speaker 3: and all that shit, like honestly, like, look at my forearm. 1272 01:03:02,640 --> 01:03:05,800 Speaker 3: My forearm is ten inches. Why would you want somebody 1273 01:03:05,880 --> 01:03:07,480 Speaker 3: to put ten inches worth the dick inside you? 1274 01:03:07,640 --> 01:03:10,600 Speaker 5: That wild than they like, what the fuck is going on? 1275 01:03:11,520 --> 01:03:13,800 Speaker 2: That is wild, that's real wild. 1276 01:03:14,480 --> 01:03:16,640 Speaker 6: That's beyond the freak level that I got. I'm at 1277 01:03:16,680 --> 01:03:19,280 Speaker 6: the basic level of freak. All I want is for play. 1278 01:03:19,440 --> 01:03:23,800 Speaker 5: I don't want I'm not doing nothing. I'll jack you off. 1279 01:03:24,760 --> 01:03:25,800 Speaker 5: I'm not sucking it. 1280 01:03:26,680 --> 01:03:31,640 Speaker 1: But y'all, we should have went to commercial after that dick. 1281 01:03:31,720 --> 01:03:35,240 Speaker 1: But let's do that right quick, y'all stay tuned. 1282 01:03:35,600 --> 01:03:38,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, let let's get We don't know if we should 1283 01:03:38,720 --> 01:03:40,600 Speaker 2: get a SIMP series or a dumb bitch story. I 1284 01:03:40,640 --> 01:03:42,600 Speaker 2: don't even know what to ask you for at this point, 1285 01:03:42,920 --> 01:03:44,760 Speaker 2: but we're gonna get a story from. 1286 01:03:44,600 --> 01:03:48,840 Speaker 1: You, the dumbitch story. 1287 01:03:49,600 --> 01:03:52,439 Speaker 2: So because we've all been a dumb bitch at least 1288 01:03:52,480 --> 01:03:53,120 Speaker 2: once or twice. 1289 01:03:56,200 --> 01:03:58,200 Speaker 6: This this boy, the boy that I was just telling 1290 01:03:58,280 --> 01:04:00,880 Speaker 6: y'all about that I thought was a good one. I 1291 01:04:01,000 --> 01:04:03,440 Speaker 6: gave him some head because he was treating me nice. 1292 01:04:03,800 --> 01:04:07,080 Speaker 5: He was like the sex is he not worried about 1293 01:04:07,160 --> 01:04:10,920 Speaker 5: it and he respect me. He just texted me. I 1294 01:04:11,040 --> 01:04:13,440 Speaker 5: told him, I want some head. When can I get some? 1295 01:04:13,600 --> 01:04:15,720 Speaker 5: He said, whenever you bend it over. I said, I 1296 01:04:15,920 --> 01:04:16,240 Speaker 5: just did. 1297 01:04:16,800 --> 01:04:19,120 Speaker 6: He said, nah, bend it over and take it. So 1298 01:04:19,200 --> 01:04:21,760 Speaker 6: I'm acting playing stupid like I don't know he talking 1299 01:04:21,760 --> 01:04:24,280 Speaker 6: about sex. But I'm like, you know, I just said, 1300 01:04:24,320 --> 01:04:26,160 Speaker 6: I bend it over for you so you can give 1301 01:04:26,200 --> 01:04:28,600 Speaker 6: me head. And he said, I'm talking about it. 1302 01:04:29,200 --> 01:04:32,760 Speaker 5: And now he just got that X on my list. 1303 01:04:33,480 --> 01:04:37,680 Speaker 6: Because it's like, damn, I really thought he was different. 1304 01:04:38,040 --> 01:04:40,120 Speaker 6: And when I'm but. 1305 01:04:40,200 --> 01:04:42,640 Speaker 2: How you asking niggas for a sexual favors and they 1306 01:04:42,720 --> 01:04:44,840 Speaker 2: don't want to return them though, because. 1307 01:04:44,520 --> 01:04:47,880 Speaker 1: They she wants some head. She don't want to be penetrated, Okay. 1308 01:04:48,360 --> 01:04:51,480 Speaker 6: But she also don't want And the reason why I'm 1309 01:04:51,640 --> 01:04:54,479 Speaker 6: like that is because they come to me consistently wanting 1310 01:04:54,560 --> 01:04:56,480 Speaker 6: to give me head with nothing in the return. 1311 01:04:56,680 --> 01:04:59,440 Speaker 5: I got comfortable. If they wasn't never coming at me 1312 01:04:59,640 --> 01:05:04,439 Speaker 5: like that, I would have never said nothing. Oh yeah, 1313 01:05:08,800 --> 01:05:12,160 Speaker 5: I'll jack them off though, with some good lotion and oil. 1314 01:05:14,600 --> 01:05:17,520 Speaker 2: Girl, get the fuck I'll kick you out to get 1315 01:05:17,600 --> 01:05:18,920 Speaker 2: the fuck out of our house. 1316 01:05:20,680 --> 01:05:21,920 Speaker 1: That's a whole nother generation. 1317 01:05:22,200 --> 01:05:23,919 Speaker 2: Do you have a dumb Do you have a dumb 1318 01:05:23,960 --> 01:05:26,280 Speaker 2: bitch story for us? That was it? 1319 01:05:27,600 --> 01:05:27,640 Speaker 6: No? 1320 01:05:28,120 --> 01:05:29,480 Speaker 5: Like the time I was a dumb bitch? 1321 01:05:31,000 --> 01:05:32,080 Speaker 1: Yes, tell us about it? 1322 01:05:32,240 --> 01:05:35,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, you said you be simp Okay, yeah, I got one. 1323 01:05:36,400 --> 01:05:39,040 Speaker 1: All right, go ahead and tell us your SI story 1324 01:05:39,640 --> 01:05:40,920 Speaker 1: for so. 1325 01:05:40,960 --> 01:05:42,880 Speaker 5: I'm gonna tell y'all my dumb bitch story. And I 1326 01:05:42,920 --> 01:05:45,040 Speaker 5: will never ever in my life be a dumb bitch. 1327 01:05:45,120 --> 01:05:47,960 Speaker 5: And I don't talk to this beach no more. I was. 1328 01:05:48,320 --> 01:05:49,280 Speaker 5: I met this girl. 1329 01:05:49,440 --> 01:05:53,400 Speaker 6: She's a dancer, and I promise y'all a dancer. I'm 1330 01:05:53,480 --> 01:05:56,400 Speaker 6: saying that to be respectful. She's a stripper. You know, 1331 01:05:56,480 --> 01:06:00,680 Speaker 6: they like to call themself exotic dancers. Foreign child, you're 1332 01:06:00,680 --> 01:06:01,560 Speaker 6: a fucking stripper. 1333 01:06:01,960 --> 01:06:04,439 Speaker 5: Call it for what the fuck it is. You're getting money. 1334 01:06:04,720 --> 01:06:08,560 Speaker 5: So AnyWho, I met this stripper a while back or whatever. 1335 01:06:09,240 --> 01:06:09,919 Speaker 5: We was cool. 1336 01:06:10,800 --> 01:06:12,680 Speaker 6: We was vibing this, that and the third, and I 1337 01:06:12,920 --> 01:06:14,920 Speaker 6: liked her, so I said, okay, we're gonna have us 1338 01:06:14,960 --> 01:06:15,360 Speaker 6: so far. 1339 01:06:15,880 --> 01:06:17,040 Speaker 5: I'm finna take you out. 1340 01:06:16,920 --> 01:06:18,560 Speaker 1: To the club this, that, and the third. 1341 01:06:18,640 --> 01:06:21,520 Speaker 6: She had a nigga, but I didn't give a fuck 1342 01:06:21,520 --> 01:06:24,280 Speaker 6: about the nigga. I said, baby, I got you. I'm 1343 01:06:24,320 --> 01:06:26,880 Speaker 6: finna treat you right. I'm finna show you what a 1344 01:06:26,960 --> 01:06:27,800 Speaker 6: real bitch can do. 1345 01:06:28,280 --> 01:06:30,400 Speaker 1: I'm abouna take you about this club. You don't need 1346 01:06:30,440 --> 01:06:31,200 Speaker 1: a stripper. 1347 01:06:31,000 --> 01:06:34,480 Speaker 6: Exactly, Stevie said. Steee said, you gotta go back to 1348 01:06:34,520 --> 01:06:36,320 Speaker 6: the strip club. Baby, I'm gonna take you out the 1349 01:06:36,320 --> 01:06:41,080 Speaker 6: strip club like ballistic. Okay, so boom can we go. 1350 01:06:42,440 --> 01:06:44,960 Speaker 6: I'm helping her out. She done left the nigga. I'm 1351 01:06:45,080 --> 01:06:47,840 Speaker 6: helping her out, vibing with her. I don't let her 1352 01:06:47,920 --> 01:06:50,640 Speaker 6: come and stay with me. I done helped her, giving 1353 01:06:50,680 --> 01:06:52,960 Speaker 6: her rise where she needed to go. I done took 1354 01:06:53,000 --> 01:06:56,240 Speaker 6: her to work. Mind you, her job is an hour away. 1355 01:06:56,000 --> 01:06:58,520 Speaker 5: From where I had to work, and I'm just looking 1356 01:06:58,600 --> 01:06:59,120 Speaker 5: out for her. 1357 01:06:59,240 --> 01:07:01,600 Speaker 6: You know, anybody that's looking out for you, you're gonna 1358 01:07:01,640 --> 01:07:02,680 Speaker 6: communicate with them. 1359 01:07:02,800 --> 01:07:03,280 Speaker 5: Tight shit. 1360 01:07:03,720 --> 01:07:06,520 Speaker 6: So she had work all day, vibe and making her money. 1361 01:07:07,520 --> 01:07:10,240 Speaker 6: And I pull up to the club to see her 1362 01:07:10,320 --> 01:07:11,560 Speaker 6: at word like, damn, look. 1363 01:07:11,400 --> 01:07:12,240 Speaker 5: At all that fast. 1364 01:07:12,360 --> 01:07:14,320 Speaker 6: I love what I'm saying. Oh yeah, I'm gonna take 1365 01:07:14,360 --> 01:07:16,280 Speaker 6: her home. I'm finnah stare at that ass. On the 1366 01:07:16,400 --> 01:07:18,439 Speaker 6: drive home, I'm gonna watch her walk in the door 1367 01:07:18,920 --> 01:07:21,520 Speaker 6: all this good shit. I'm excited. I'm just so fucking 1368 01:07:21,560 --> 01:07:21,840 Speaker 6: as I. 1369 01:07:21,880 --> 01:07:25,600 Speaker 1: Got your grown ass man, Okay, I. 1370 01:07:25,760 --> 01:07:28,600 Speaker 5: Love slaying ass the titis. So I go pick her 1371 01:07:28,680 --> 01:07:31,760 Speaker 5: up on the club. She get on the stage once 1372 01:07:31,840 --> 01:07:33,560 Speaker 5: I walk in, give me a little one too. 1373 01:07:33,680 --> 01:07:36,760 Speaker 6: She put that leg up pop pop. I said, ooh, 1374 01:07:37,200 --> 01:07:39,400 Speaker 6: we finna have us a good night. She gonna might 1375 01:07:39,440 --> 01:07:43,000 Speaker 6: give me a private dance at home. Okay, back, yes, 1376 01:07:43,240 --> 01:07:45,440 Speaker 6: I mean I waited all day for this shit. From 1377 01:07:46,120 --> 01:07:48,920 Speaker 6: eight o'clock in the morning, It's twelve going on one o'clock. Now, 1378 01:07:49,520 --> 01:07:53,760 Speaker 6: am I'm excited. So she get off the pole, she 1379 01:07:53,840 --> 01:07:56,960 Speaker 6: go get her clothes, We walk into my car. I'm like, 1380 01:07:57,760 --> 01:08:00,720 Speaker 6: I'm watching that ass walk to the car. She opened 1381 01:08:00,760 --> 01:08:03,600 Speaker 6: the backseat and she grabbed all her shit. Hey baby, 1382 01:08:03,640 --> 01:08:06,320 Speaker 6: I'm finishing you another time. I'm finna go over here 1383 01:08:06,400 --> 01:08:08,440 Speaker 6: with my homegirl to my homegirl house. I'm gonna stay 1384 01:08:08,440 --> 01:08:09,040 Speaker 6: the night over there. 1385 01:08:11,920 --> 01:08:16,599 Speaker 1: Huh, she didn't use you from riding. 1386 01:08:17,280 --> 01:08:20,160 Speaker 5: I was confused. I was. She had me so fucked up. 1387 01:08:20,200 --> 01:08:20,919 Speaker 5: I was confused. 1388 01:08:20,960 --> 01:08:23,280 Speaker 6: She ain't just saying me that shit. She ain't just 1389 01:08:23,320 --> 01:08:24,800 Speaker 6: tell me that shit. And she know I was waiting 1390 01:08:24,840 --> 01:08:26,559 Speaker 6: for her all day to come pick her up tonight. 1391 01:08:26,640 --> 01:08:28,120 Speaker 6: She ain't just tell me that right now, And she 1392 01:08:28,160 --> 01:08:29,000 Speaker 6: could have been told me that. 1393 01:08:29,120 --> 01:08:32,599 Speaker 5: So I just didn't hear that shit. And I'm watching 1394 01:08:32,680 --> 01:08:33,920 Speaker 5: her grab her bags. 1395 01:08:34,479 --> 01:08:35,439 Speaker 1: I'm like, so what is that? 1396 01:08:36,200 --> 01:08:38,599 Speaker 5: Where are you going? And she was like, yeah, no, baby, 1397 01:08:38,600 --> 01:08:40,799 Speaker 5: I'm just go ahead and go over here with my homegirl. 1398 01:08:40,840 --> 01:08:45,000 Speaker 5: Because we worked together anyway, and she she was drunk, 1399 01:08:45,160 --> 01:08:47,240 Speaker 5: she was lit, and I just didn't know what was 1400 01:08:47,280 --> 01:08:47,560 Speaker 5: going on. 1401 01:08:47,680 --> 01:08:50,880 Speaker 6: For basically, yes, she used me for a ride, said 1402 01:08:51,000 --> 01:08:54,120 Speaker 6: fuck me, put me to the back burner, and went 1403 01:08:54,240 --> 01:08:56,479 Speaker 6: with her homegirl. Probably went to go get some dig 1404 01:08:56,880 --> 01:08:59,519 Speaker 6: and did what she needed to do. Hold on story 1405 01:08:59,600 --> 01:09:08,040 Speaker 6: night on the next day, got a phone call fir bro, Bro, 1406 01:09:08,400 --> 01:09:11,600 Speaker 6: I just I should have just went with you, Brocuz 1407 01:09:11,720 --> 01:09:13,800 Speaker 6: like that don't make no sense. 1408 01:09:13,840 --> 01:09:17,680 Speaker 5: And I'm like, what do you say? 1409 01:09:18,640 --> 01:09:20,960 Speaker 6: I'm laughing because, bitch, that's what the fuck you get 1410 01:09:21,040 --> 01:09:22,519 Speaker 6: when you do a good soul wrong. 1411 01:09:23,200 --> 01:09:23,920 Speaker 1: That's what happened. 1412 01:09:23,960 --> 01:09:25,639 Speaker 5: I was amused. I was so happy. 1413 01:09:26,040 --> 01:09:29,000 Speaker 6: I'm like, I love it. And people always ask me, 1414 01:09:29,120 --> 01:09:32,360 Speaker 6: why don't fight, Why don't do the raw rah? Why 1415 01:09:32,479 --> 01:09:34,280 Speaker 6: don't argue? Because the Lord got me? 1416 01:09:34,360 --> 01:09:37,639 Speaker 5: I don't never have to. I get the phone calls 1417 01:09:37,640 --> 01:09:41,479 Speaker 5: all the time. AnyWho. She called me, bro, I'm stuck 1418 01:09:41,520 --> 01:09:42,800 Speaker 5: out a hotel her. 1419 01:09:42,880 --> 01:09:45,160 Speaker 2: First of all, God, let me just interject right there. 1420 01:09:45,240 --> 01:09:47,120 Speaker 2: God don't have nothing to do with you not getting 1421 01:09:47,200 --> 01:09:47,960 Speaker 2: a private. 1422 01:09:47,720 --> 01:09:50,360 Speaker 5: Den got me. 1423 01:09:51,400 --> 01:09:54,360 Speaker 2: Don't try to bring God into you do it. 1424 01:09:55,479 --> 01:09:56,600 Speaker 5: I'm like, yeah, you. 1425 01:09:56,640 --> 01:09:59,040 Speaker 1: Didn't come do that whole ship for me because God 1426 01:09:59,160 --> 01:09:59,439 Speaker 1: got me. 1427 01:09:59,560 --> 01:10:04,120 Speaker 2: Baby, I would He's not gonna continue do that. 1428 01:10:04,600 --> 01:10:06,880 Speaker 1: We had really got to the hogs. But when you 1429 01:10:06,960 --> 01:10:11,000 Speaker 1: get dumb wrong, that was not there there. 1430 01:10:11,880 --> 01:10:13,560 Speaker 5: I'm not there with it, Lord, No, I'm not. 1431 01:10:14,960 --> 01:10:16,880 Speaker 1: I'm not okay. 1432 01:10:17,080 --> 01:10:20,040 Speaker 5: So she called me talking about oh, I'm at the hotel. 1433 01:10:22,000 --> 01:10:25,240 Speaker 6: The girl the girl just told me, oh, I gotta 1434 01:10:25,320 --> 01:10:27,920 Speaker 6: pay her in order for me to stay with her, 1435 01:10:28,520 --> 01:10:30,800 Speaker 6: and this that and the third, Oh, she's gonna need 1436 01:10:30,920 --> 01:10:34,000 Speaker 6: some rent money from me. When like, Bro, I could 1437 01:10:34,000 --> 01:10:36,679 Speaker 6: have just went with you. And that's what happened when 1438 01:10:36,720 --> 01:10:39,200 Speaker 6: you do weird stuff to people. Weird stuff happened to you. 1439 01:10:39,240 --> 01:10:41,160 Speaker 6: Because if I would have went with you that night, Bro, 1440 01:10:41,479 --> 01:10:43,320 Speaker 6: I wouldn't have had none of this to worry about. 1441 01:10:43,360 --> 01:10:43,519 Speaker 1: Bru. 1442 01:10:43,640 --> 01:10:46,360 Speaker 6: Now I'm sitting at this hotel looking like a bum 1443 01:10:46,760 --> 01:10:48,920 Speaker 6: with my dog in front of all these people, and 1444 01:10:49,040 --> 01:10:53,080 Speaker 6: I don't know, and I'm like, oh my god, I 1445 01:10:53,600 --> 01:10:55,920 Speaker 6: cannot believe that really happened. 1446 01:10:55,960 --> 01:10:57,240 Speaker 2: That girl really did that to you. 1447 01:10:57,360 --> 01:11:00,960 Speaker 6: But in all actual whit tea, I was happy as 1448 01:11:01,160 --> 01:11:04,559 Speaker 6: fun because don't treat me like that. I was really 1449 01:11:04,600 --> 01:11:06,960 Speaker 6: being a simp. I was being a dumb bitch. I 1450 01:11:07,120 --> 01:11:09,280 Speaker 6: was helping her, help her move out the nigga house, 1451 01:11:09,680 --> 01:11:12,040 Speaker 6: gave her a ride, made sure she got the work 1452 01:11:12,640 --> 01:11:14,280 Speaker 6: all for. All she had to do was get a 1453 01:11:14,360 --> 01:11:17,040 Speaker 6: phone call and say fuck me, left me right there 1454 01:11:17,080 --> 01:11:17,800 Speaker 6: in the batmaney. 1455 01:11:18,560 --> 01:11:21,720 Speaker 5: So that's some shit that I just I won't ever 1456 01:11:21,840 --> 01:11:22,240 Speaker 5: do again. 1457 01:11:22,439 --> 01:11:30,640 Speaker 6: Like, oh, another quick one, I gave this transgender, didn't know, didn't. 1458 01:11:30,360 --> 01:11:31,920 Speaker 5: Know it was a transgender. 1459 01:11:34,800 --> 01:11:38,960 Speaker 2: So was it trans woman or trans man? And then 1460 01:11:39,240 --> 01:11:40,160 Speaker 2: tell me which one they are? 1461 01:11:40,320 --> 01:11:44,800 Speaker 5: Damn. So when the man that was a woman into 1462 01:11:44,880 --> 01:11:46,559 Speaker 5: a woman, that's trans what. 1463 01:11:48,120 --> 01:11:48,400 Speaker 1: Woman? 1464 01:11:49,240 --> 01:11:53,880 Speaker 5: Trans woman? I was hanging out with this trans woman 1465 01:11:55,320 --> 01:11:57,400 Speaker 5: kissed her. I didn't I was. 1466 01:11:57,560 --> 01:11:59,960 Speaker 6: I ain't even gonna say me being drunk was my excuse. 1467 01:12:00,479 --> 01:12:03,160 Speaker 6: I felt the energy, and when I feel good energy, 1468 01:12:03,200 --> 01:12:04,480 Speaker 6: I don't pay attention. 1469 01:12:04,280 --> 01:12:06,200 Speaker 5: To what I need to pay attention to. I'm gonna 1470 01:12:06,240 --> 01:12:06,840 Speaker 5: just be honest. 1471 01:12:07,600 --> 01:12:07,960 Speaker 6: She was. 1472 01:12:08,320 --> 01:12:11,120 Speaker 5: The energy was good, I was vibing. 1473 01:12:11,720 --> 01:12:12,559 Speaker 1: He looked good. 1474 01:12:12,680 --> 01:12:15,720 Speaker 5: That surgery was good. I said, damn baby, let me 1475 01:12:15,760 --> 01:12:18,799 Speaker 5: get a kiss. Noah, we kissed. 1476 01:12:19,439 --> 01:12:22,960 Speaker 6: Gave this transgend of my phone because my phone broke 1477 01:12:23,040 --> 01:12:24,640 Speaker 6: that day, so I went to go do a trade in. 1478 01:12:24,880 --> 01:12:26,800 Speaker 6: While I was doing the trade in, the person was 1479 01:12:26,920 --> 01:12:29,200 Speaker 6: distracted by the transgender, so I was able to keep 1480 01:12:29,240 --> 01:12:32,320 Speaker 6: my phone and do the trade in. So I'm like, well, 1481 01:12:32,360 --> 01:12:34,320 Speaker 6: bitch says, you helped me keep my phone, and shit, 1482 01:12:34,840 --> 01:12:36,800 Speaker 6: you can have my phone because she needed a. 1483 01:12:36,840 --> 01:12:39,040 Speaker 5: Phone anyway, child, please. 1484 01:12:39,080 --> 01:12:43,519 Speaker 6: As the next couple of weeks, that man talked to 1485 01:12:43,600 --> 01:12:45,880 Speaker 6: me like I was a bitch off the streets, treated 1486 01:12:45,920 --> 01:12:48,520 Speaker 6: me like I was a peasant, like I was its assistant, 1487 01:12:48,640 --> 01:12:50,640 Speaker 6: and like I was just gonna do anything as soon 1488 01:12:50,680 --> 01:12:53,920 Speaker 6: as they said the word jump, and I'm like, damn, 1489 01:12:54,280 --> 01:12:57,400 Speaker 6: why keep getting treated running into people thinking I'm just 1490 01:12:57,479 --> 01:13:01,000 Speaker 6: a simple gonna just do anything for them. So once 1491 01:13:01,080 --> 01:13:03,280 Speaker 6: I realized how this bitch was, I cut her off, 1492 01:13:03,560 --> 01:13:07,000 Speaker 6: like cut him off, cut it off, whatever, and said, 1493 01:13:07,160 --> 01:13:07,880 Speaker 6: I'm done with you. 1494 01:13:08,800 --> 01:13:11,880 Speaker 1: So, yeah, we're not gonna be we are. 1495 01:13:13,120 --> 01:13:14,200 Speaker 5: You don't want to get canced? 1496 01:13:16,560 --> 01:13:19,040 Speaker 1: Girl, fuck that ship? You've been so scared. 1497 01:13:19,080 --> 01:13:23,439 Speaker 2: Girl, girlfriend, I'm kind of scared, but just saying, we. 1498 01:13:23,439 --> 01:13:26,720 Speaker 1: Don't know how it refers to itself, so we don't 1499 01:13:26,760 --> 01:13:31,479 Speaker 1: know how that person refer them. So like, yeah, I 1500 01:13:31,640 --> 01:13:35,960 Speaker 1: really look so girl. 1501 01:13:36,120 --> 01:13:39,320 Speaker 2: Yes, I ain't scared. 1502 01:13:39,400 --> 01:13:42,599 Speaker 1: I just overly consider it ship. 1503 01:13:43,120 --> 01:13:44,200 Speaker 5: Yeah, and I get it. 1504 01:13:44,360 --> 01:13:46,120 Speaker 1: So when it can't be canceled, when God. 1505 01:13:46,040 --> 01:13:48,040 Speaker 3: Put you on funk out of here, go ahead for 1506 01:13:49,000 --> 01:13:50,559 Speaker 3: I'm not worry about being canceled. 1507 01:13:50,600 --> 01:13:53,200 Speaker 5: It's just kind of it's rude the tricky person too. 1508 01:13:55,640 --> 01:13:57,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I finished telling that's how you found out 1509 01:13:57,800 --> 01:13:58,040 Speaker 1: this was? 1510 01:13:58,240 --> 01:14:01,679 Speaker 6: I need to know, like where's the oh, So, look 1511 01:14:01,800 --> 01:14:05,920 Speaker 6: they're still they're still like real, no, no, she coming 1512 01:14:05,960 --> 01:14:08,840 Speaker 6: out saying, yes, I'm a man. Like thirty million people 1513 01:14:08,920 --> 01:14:10,680 Speaker 6: came up to me started coming up to me once 1514 01:14:10,720 --> 01:14:13,840 Speaker 6: they saw me posting her. This is how popular he is. 1515 01:14:14,439 --> 01:14:16,120 Speaker 5: Started coming up to me like, you know that's a man. 1516 01:14:16,200 --> 01:14:18,800 Speaker 6: You know that's a man sending me this, sending me clips. Now, 1517 01:14:18,880 --> 01:14:23,040 Speaker 6: that's TV Zodiac House sending me shit. And I'm like, 1518 01:14:23,280 --> 01:14:26,439 Speaker 6: what the fuck did I just get myself into? But 1519 01:14:27,280 --> 01:14:29,760 Speaker 6: I had a respect. I didn't say nothing because I 1520 01:14:29,880 --> 01:14:32,360 Speaker 6: know how that feels for them. So I'm like, I 1521 01:14:32,479 --> 01:14:34,960 Speaker 6: fuck with you because your energy, energy is good, even 1522 01:14:35,000 --> 01:14:37,640 Speaker 6: though I feel disrespected because you could have told me 1523 01:14:38,439 --> 01:14:39,519 Speaker 6: so I can be prepared. 1524 01:14:40,200 --> 01:14:42,160 Speaker 5: But my heart, I'm just like, I'm gonna let you 1525 01:14:42,240 --> 01:14:43,840 Speaker 5: have this when I'm gonna still be cool with you 1526 01:14:43,920 --> 01:14:46,040 Speaker 5: because I know how it is out here for y'all. 1527 01:14:46,240 --> 01:14:49,920 Speaker 5: Y'all don't know how to do it. Y big huge mistake. 1528 01:14:50,000 --> 01:14:52,120 Speaker 6: Treated me like trash, talked to me like a bitch 1529 01:14:52,200 --> 01:14:55,400 Speaker 6: off the streets, always would curse at me and talk crazy. 1530 01:14:55,479 --> 01:14:56,439 Speaker 1: So I'm like, you know what. 1531 01:14:57,000 --> 01:14:58,720 Speaker 5: At first, I told her I was gonna fix the 1532 01:14:58,800 --> 01:15:00,760 Speaker 5: phone for her because it it blacked out on me. 1533 01:15:00,800 --> 01:15:02,599 Speaker 6: That's why I was getting a new one. I will 1534 01:15:02,640 --> 01:15:04,360 Speaker 6: fix it for you so you can unlock it. But 1535 01:15:04,479 --> 01:15:06,839 Speaker 6: once she started treating me like shit, I said, girl, fuck. 1536 01:15:06,720 --> 01:15:07,840 Speaker 5: You and I blocked her. 1537 01:15:08,360 --> 01:15:10,320 Speaker 6: Got a message from her one day saying, Oh, if 1538 01:15:10,320 --> 01:15:12,280 Speaker 6: you don't unlock the phone, I'm gonna sue you and 1539 01:15:12,400 --> 01:15:16,960 Speaker 6: call the police for the phone. God had assume me 1540 01:15:17,040 --> 01:15:19,800 Speaker 6: off of my phone that I gave you and call 1541 01:15:19,920 --> 01:15:20,400 Speaker 6: the police. 1542 01:15:20,560 --> 01:15:22,120 Speaker 5: Let me know how bad worked. 1543 01:15:22,439 --> 01:15:24,639 Speaker 1: And she literally did she paid you for the phone 1544 01:15:24,640 --> 01:15:25,080 Speaker 1: and said. 1545 01:15:25,400 --> 01:15:27,960 Speaker 5: She didn't do nothing, give me nothing for the phone, 1546 01:15:29,680 --> 01:15:30,920 Speaker 5: but she's gonna try to sue me. 1547 01:15:31,680 --> 01:15:35,080 Speaker 6: So we literally went on the whole reality show Boss 1548 01:15:35,240 --> 01:15:38,120 Speaker 6: Tech boot Camp, and she tried to embarrass me on 1549 01:15:38,240 --> 01:15:40,360 Speaker 6: that show saying that I scammed her out of two 1550 01:15:40,439 --> 01:15:42,479 Speaker 6: hundred dollars. Got these bitches in the house high they 1551 01:15:42,520 --> 01:15:45,360 Speaker 6: wallace bitch y'all know how to do that shit. This 1552 01:15:45,520 --> 01:15:48,200 Speaker 6: girl just talk about her phone. She had to pay 1553 01:15:48,280 --> 01:15:50,559 Speaker 6: two hundred and four a phone, and trying. 1554 01:15:50,320 --> 01:15:53,960 Speaker 5: To make it seem like I'm this bad and tricking 1555 01:15:54,040 --> 01:15:57,400 Speaker 5: them got them thinking swipings on vs us. I don't 1556 01:15:57,439 --> 01:16:00,640 Speaker 5: know what the funk I'm doing with that shit. So 1557 01:16:00,960 --> 01:16:02,080 Speaker 5: I was a dumb bitch for her. 1558 01:16:02,160 --> 01:16:04,800 Speaker 6: I will never ever give my phone for free to 1559 01:16:04,920 --> 01:16:07,600 Speaker 6: a bitch that I just met that same day. And 1560 01:16:07,840 --> 01:16:11,120 Speaker 6: still to this day, my spirit is telling me, yes, 1561 01:16:11,240 --> 01:16:13,960 Speaker 6: that's a man, But to this day she claims no, 1562 01:16:14,160 --> 01:16:16,320 Speaker 6: she's not a man. And I feel like that's because 1563 01:16:16,360 --> 01:16:19,240 Speaker 6: she done had did a lot of stuff with a 1564 01:16:19,280 --> 01:16:21,360 Speaker 6: lot of niggas, and if it comes out, she's. 1565 01:16:21,240 --> 01:16:23,920 Speaker 1: Dead simple as that she has the sex change. 1566 01:16:24,400 --> 01:16:27,160 Speaker 5: Oh yeah, everything, that's why I got. 1567 01:16:27,840 --> 01:16:30,080 Speaker 3: I heard those I heard those pussies were a shallow 1568 01:16:31,160 --> 01:16:32,840 Speaker 3: like you can't really like penetrate it. 1569 01:16:32,880 --> 01:16:35,040 Speaker 5: For me, I wish I could share my screen with y'all. 1570 01:16:35,080 --> 01:16:39,960 Speaker 1: I got receipts, all right, we're gonna get the funk 1571 01:16:40,000 --> 01:16:40,280 Speaker 1: about it. 1572 01:16:44,160 --> 01:16:46,639 Speaker 2: Yeah, thank you for me. I think that's my cue. 1573 01:16:47,000 --> 01:16:49,760 Speaker 1: I think that's you guys. Look, I want to see 1574 01:16:49,760 --> 01:16:52,479 Speaker 1: it though, but not right now on the line. Listen, 1575 01:16:53,560 --> 01:16:55,719 Speaker 1: I'm gonna make us a group chat, and I'm gonna show. 1576 01:16:55,600 --> 01:16:58,280 Speaker 2: Y'all all right, send. 1577 01:17:02,400 --> 01:17:04,680 Speaker 1: All your shit. Let let our listeners know where they 1578 01:17:04,720 --> 01:17:07,960 Speaker 1: can find your crazy ass at all right, So I just. 1579 01:17:07,960 --> 01:17:10,160 Speaker 6: Got to do the full introduction because y'all already know 1580 01:17:10,240 --> 01:17:12,920 Speaker 6: it's your girl. Third from Miami, Dade County Baby three 1581 01:17:13,000 --> 01:17:16,560 Speaker 6: oh five, we stay live. Yeah, you can follow me 1582 01:17:16,680 --> 01:17:19,840 Speaker 6: on the ground at make them laugh FIRB that's make 1583 01:17:20,520 --> 01:17:23,719 Speaker 6: m a k then out of M make them laugh 1584 01:17:24,240 --> 01:17:26,240 Speaker 6: ferb f e r B. If you don't know how 1585 01:17:26,280 --> 01:17:29,600 Speaker 6: to spell laugh, sorry, I just spell third for you. 1586 01:17:29,960 --> 01:17:31,920 Speaker 6: Make them laugh fird It's that easy. 1587 01:17:32,320 --> 01:17:41,479 Speaker 1: But with y'all peace, Thank you girl. Listen y'all, BIRB. 1588 01:17:41,520 --> 01:17:43,599 Speaker 2: What you on some shows that you can plug too, 1589 01:17:43,720 --> 01:17:45,200 Speaker 2: like you can tell people to watch. 1590 01:17:45,280 --> 01:17:47,080 Speaker 5: Alright, y'all. And I just want to give a special 1591 01:17:47,160 --> 01:17:51,000 Speaker 5: shout out to Oregon TV bus take book Ken for 1592 01:17:51,120 --> 01:17:54,120 Speaker 5: giving me an opportunity. Now, look at me. 1593 01:17:54,560 --> 01:17:57,840 Speaker 6: I'm a tomboy as you can see. But if you 1594 01:17:57,920 --> 01:18:00,000 Speaker 6: want to see me strip, you want to see y'all, 1595 01:18:00,040 --> 01:18:03,760 Speaker 6: Ya says, go and subscribe to that. I'm actually on 1596 01:18:03,880 --> 01:18:08,120 Speaker 6: their stripping with a throng with hills on. Yes I am, 1597 01:18:08,360 --> 01:18:11,120 Speaker 6: so make sure you subscribe. It's only five ninety nine 1598 01:18:11,280 --> 01:18:12,400 Speaker 6: and tap me when you watch. 1599 01:18:12,439 --> 01:18:14,719 Speaker 5: I was on the stripper for real, y'all, like stripping. 1600 01:18:15,080 --> 01:18:17,680 Speaker 1: And this bitch tall as hell, y'all tell him how 1601 01:18:17,760 --> 01:18:19,080 Speaker 1: tall you are, y'all. 1602 01:18:19,240 --> 01:18:20,240 Speaker 5: I'm literally like. 1603 01:18:25,120 --> 01:18:29,479 Speaker 6: I'm sixty three y'all six three six three, and it's 1604 01:18:29,479 --> 01:18:32,280 Speaker 6: a lot of people that want to climb up that tree. 1605 01:18:32,800 --> 01:18:42,840 Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, yeah, we are second year, y'all. If y'all 1606 01:18:42,960 --> 01:18:45,400 Speaker 1: enjoy firm. If y'all enjoy, we talk back, y'all. 1607 01:18:45,640 --> 01:18:49,320 Speaker 3: Tune in every Thursday on your iHeartRadio, Apple wherever the 1608 01:18:49,439 --> 01:18:51,000 Speaker 3: fuck you get your podcast at. 1609 01:18:51,400 --> 01:18:54,000 Speaker 1: This is your co host, AJ Holiday. 1610 01:18:53,720 --> 01:18:58,840 Speaker 3: Two point zero On instagrams KICKI Tam, y'all, it's me 1611 01:18:58,960 --> 01:19:00,599 Speaker 3: official Tam Bam on Instagram. 1612 01:19:00,720 --> 01:19:02,840 Speaker 2: Y'all follow me. I love y'all. Thank you Fird for 1613 01:19:02,960 --> 01:19:06,760 Speaker 2: joining us. We really appreciate y'all sharing your truth with us. Y'all, 1614 01:19:06,800 --> 01:19:07,920 Speaker 2: remember to speak now. 1615 01:19:08,280 --> 01:19:10,240 Speaker 1: And never hold your fake meat. 1616 01:19:10,400 --> 01:19:10,559 Speaker 2: Nah. 1617 01:19:10,600 --> 01:19:14,519 Speaker 1: We don't hold no peace over here. Okay, we talked back.