1 00:00:00,680 --> 00:00:06,680 Speaker 1: From Hollywood. Thank you for listening to us with a 2 00:00:06,840 --> 00:00:11,880 Speaker 1: Ryan Seacrest. It's Rain Seacrest. Thanks for having us on 3 00:00:12,039 --> 00:00:14,400 Speaker 1: this morning. We're gonna start paying bills here in a 4 00:00:14,440 --> 00:00:19,319 Speaker 1: second that we're getting all lined up. Uh, let's see. 5 00:00:19,320 --> 00:00:22,160 Speaker 1: Have you seen I've started something new in the morning. 6 00:00:22,160 --> 00:00:27,200 Speaker 1: There's some leaves in their habitat water habitat water. So 7 00:00:27,480 --> 00:00:31,280 Speaker 1: I have my coffee. But then I got that plastic 8 00:00:31,960 --> 00:00:34,800 Speaker 1: box of mint at the grocery store. It's already sort 9 00:00:34,840 --> 00:00:38,360 Speaker 1: of mint, pulled big leaves of mint with stems, and 10 00:00:38,560 --> 00:00:41,360 Speaker 1: I put those in my shake thermis and I put 11 00:00:41,400 --> 00:00:45,520 Speaker 1: water on top, and I've been drinking it is delicious. 12 00:00:45,600 --> 00:00:47,479 Speaker 1: It just sues the stomach. I find to be quite 13 00:00:47,479 --> 00:00:51,120 Speaker 1: refreshing in the morning. And I'm thinking that this with so. 14 00:00:51,440 --> 00:00:53,720 Speaker 1: I love coffee and neat coffee, but sometimes it makes 15 00:00:53,760 --> 00:00:57,040 Speaker 1: my stomach growl, burn and feels acidic. I'm with you. 16 00:00:57,120 --> 00:00:59,640 Speaker 1: I can't do coffee every day. It's a It can 17 00:00:59,640 --> 00:01:01,920 Speaker 1: be rough, especially like it's strong, like I got nothing 18 00:01:01,960 --> 00:01:05,119 Speaker 1: in it black strong coffee. And at times I need 19 00:01:05,160 --> 00:01:06,720 Speaker 1: saying to coat my stomach. And I find that this 20 00:01:07,080 --> 00:01:11,560 Speaker 1: habitat water that it's called I just call it that 21 00:01:11,800 --> 00:01:14,200 Speaker 1: I called that, like if you were to have a 22 00:01:14,200 --> 00:01:16,440 Speaker 1: an aquarium with a bunch of greens at the bottom, 23 00:01:16,880 --> 00:01:19,560 Speaker 1: that's what this looks like. No fishing side habitat on water, 24 00:01:19,720 --> 00:01:21,640 Speaker 1: so much better with stuff in it, Like, why don't 25 00:01:21,640 --> 00:01:25,640 Speaker 1: we just do that more often? I agree? Lemon, lime, greens. Um, 26 00:01:25,680 --> 00:01:27,839 Speaker 1: all right, so let's see what we got this morning. 27 00:01:27,840 --> 00:01:30,080 Speaker 1: We have a second date update later, of course, for 28 00:01:30,160 --> 00:01:32,520 Speaker 1: paying your bills. I also got worried that Friday we're 29 00:01:32,520 --> 00:01:37,720 Speaker 1: announcing the jingle ball lineup. Roja Shada ends at sundown tonight. 30 00:01:37,760 --> 00:01:40,080 Speaker 1: So what have you and Robbie been up to? Well, 31 00:01:40,120 --> 00:01:43,280 Speaker 1: it's the Jewish New Year, so we Um had a 32 00:01:43,280 --> 00:01:45,800 Speaker 1: big dinner with his family last night and we had 33 00:01:45,840 --> 00:01:48,880 Speaker 1: apples and honey, which is the symbol to have like 34 00:01:48,880 --> 00:01:53,160 Speaker 1: a sweet new year. And yeah, what was the dinner? Um, 35 00:01:53,200 --> 00:01:57,040 Speaker 1: it's a lot of traditional stuff like taddike and gormazab 36 00:01:57,160 --> 00:02:03,520 Speaker 1: z and it's they're like traditional, honestly tells us and 37 00:02:03,520 --> 00:02:09,480 Speaker 1: then tell us what its exact. One of them is 38 00:02:09,520 --> 00:02:11,799 Speaker 1: like a fried it's like rice, but it's like fried 39 00:02:11,880 --> 00:02:16,120 Speaker 1: on top. It's really good. And then um, one of 40 00:02:16,120 --> 00:02:18,240 Speaker 1: them is like a meat dish. What kind of meat. 41 00:02:18,320 --> 00:02:22,560 Speaker 1: Is it ground meat? No? No, I'm so bad with meats. 42 00:02:23,960 --> 00:02:28,040 Speaker 1: It's like a brown meat, a brown meat. Okay, let's 43 00:02:28,080 --> 00:02:31,560 Speaker 1: see almost like a goulash almost like like a brisket. 44 00:02:32,240 --> 00:02:37,000 Speaker 1: It's cubed beat. Yes, brisket's traditional Brisket's amazing. So my 45 00:02:37,120 --> 00:02:41,520 Speaker 1: friend makes brisket and the secret ingredient is Catalina dressing. 46 00:02:42,200 --> 00:02:44,400 Speaker 1: That she cooks it with Catalina dressing. So you've got 47 00:02:44,440 --> 00:02:47,480 Speaker 1: that sweetness while cooking, slow cooking the brisket that melts 48 00:02:47,520 --> 00:02:49,200 Speaker 1: in your mouth. Yeah, like, I know, it's all good. 49 00:02:49,200 --> 00:02:51,080 Speaker 1: And then they have like goldi which is basically these 50 00:02:51,120 --> 00:02:53,680 Speaker 1: like I don't even know how. They're like meatballs, but 51 00:02:53,680 --> 00:02:55,600 Speaker 1: they're not meatballs. They're made with all kinds of different 52 00:02:55,600 --> 00:02:58,639 Speaker 1: stuff like beans and herbs. They're so good. Everything's so good. 53 00:02:59,080 --> 00:03:03,760 Speaker 1: It's it's really delicious food. Yeah. Um, all right, so listen, 54 00:03:03,800 --> 00:03:05,520 Speaker 1: we got a lot going on and it's gonna be hot. 55 00:03:05,560 --> 00:03:07,760 Speaker 1: If you're planning your day, just no heat is back 56 00:03:07,960 --> 00:03:10,400 Speaker 1: relief soon and not today. Um. The best way to 57 00:03:10,440 --> 00:03:13,959 Speaker 1: reheat pizza Pi's probably my favorite. If you were to say, 58 00:03:13,960 --> 00:03:16,680 Speaker 1: what's your go to cheat pizza? And I like it 59 00:03:16,960 --> 00:03:20,600 Speaker 1: crispy um, and I like smaller pies to have more 60 00:03:20,720 --> 00:03:25,200 Speaker 1: different variety topping flavors, but do interesting. Yeah, I said 61 00:03:25,240 --> 00:03:28,680 Speaker 1: one big one, I'd have three smaller ones. Get different. 62 00:03:28,840 --> 00:03:32,320 Speaker 1: I like that style. I might steal that. Well. I 63 00:03:32,320 --> 00:03:33,760 Speaker 1: mean a lot of places serve you just sort of 64 00:03:33,800 --> 00:03:38,280 Speaker 1: like smaller pizzas in an Italian size versus the big 65 00:03:38,720 --> 00:03:43,040 Speaker 1: like fast food size, the big mom. Okay, so what's 66 00:03:43,080 --> 00:03:47,560 Speaker 1: going on? So? Um, I really like to not lie 67 00:03:47,600 --> 00:03:51,960 Speaker 1: to my kids, and I always them. Well. I say 68 00:03:52,000 --> 00:03:53,920 Speaker 1: this because it was like I was leaving the house 69 00:03:54,560 --> 00:03:56,200 Speaker 1: and as I was asking, she was like, where are 70 00:03:56,200 --> 00:03:57,840 Speaker 1: you going? And so I literally could just be like, 71 00:03:57,880 --> 00:03:59,840 Speaker 1: I'm gonna go run the errand or I should have 72 00:03:59,880 --> 00:04:01,440 Speaker 1: just said that probably, but what I said was I'm 73 00:04:01,440 --> 00:04:03,120 Speaker 1: going to go get a spray tan, which is what 74 00:04:03,200 --> 00:04:05,680 Speaker 1: I was getting. And so trying to explain what a 75 00:04:05,720 --> 00:04:07,640 Speaker 1: spray tan is to a four year old is very 76 00:04:07,680 --> 00:04:09,760 Speaker 1: confusing because she was just like, well, what is that? 77 00:04:09,920 --> 00:04:12,280 Speaker 1: And I was like, Oh, they're just gonna spray some 78 00:04:12,320 --> 00:04:17,640 Speaker 1: paint on my body. And now she's what kind of paint? Right? 79 00:04:17,800 --> 00:04:20,200 Speaker 1: But she's like why And I was like, because it 80 00:04:20,240 --> 00:04:23,440 Speaker 1: looks nice, but why And I'm like oh my gosh, 81 00:04:23,440 --> 00:04:29,520 Speaker 1: she's actually right and at our bodies so ridiculous, like 82 00:04:29,560 --> 00:04:30,920 Speaker 1: when you really think about it. And I was like, 83 00:04:31,000 --> 00:04:32,960 Speaker 1: driving to the salon, I was like, what am I doing? 84 00:04:33,080 --> 00:04:36,800 Speaker 1: It's actually insane, it's really funny. So whatever, So I 85 00:04:36,960 --> 00:04:40,080 Speaker 1: spray tan. I come home, all back to business, We 86 00:04:40,120 --> 00:04:42,479 Speaker 1: do dinner, we go to bed, I sleep in it 87 00:04:43,000 --> 00:04:45,360 Speaker 1: all that. The next day, I'm picking them up at 88 00:04:45,400 --> 00:04:47,280 Speaker 1: school and I got there too early, so they got 89 00:04:47,320 --> 00:04:48,800 Speaker 1: upset with me because they were going to go out 90 00:04:48,800 --> 00:04:50,400 Speaker 1: to recess and so I was like, okay, fine, So 91 00:04:50,440 --> 00:04:52,640 Speaker 1: I sat in like the little courtyard and watched them 92 00:04:52,640 --> 00:04:54,640 Speaker 1: play in the jungle gyms for like ten more minutes. 93 00:04:55,160 --> 00:04:57,800 Speaker 1: So I was talking to her teacher and she was like, oh, 94 00:04:58,000 --> 00:05:00,120 Speaker 1: she was like, so do you spray tan? And I 95 00:05:00,160 --> 00:05:02,760 Speaker 1: was like, why yes, I do, like thinking like she's 96 00:05:02,839 --> 00:05:06,000 Speaker 1: noticing like my tan and there was no Still I 97 00:05:06,040 --> 00:05:08,240 Speaker 1: find that to be intrusive. Well, I know, I thought 98 00:05:08,279 --> 00:05:10,599 Speaker 1: it was a weird, like in the question from the 99 00:05:10,600 --> 00:05:13,360 Speaker 1: preschool teacher. So then I'm sitting there and she was like, 100 00:05:13,520 --> 00:05:15,839 Speaker 1: because at school every morning they have circle time and 101 00:05:15,839 --> 00:05:17,719 Speaker 1: they all talk about like what did you do yesterday? 102 00:05:17,760 --> 00:05:20,120 Speaker 1: So in circle time, Asa shared with the entire class, 103 00:05:20,480 --> 00:05:28,720 Speaker 1: my mommy yesterday and painted herself. That's what you said. 104 00:05:28,720 --> 00:05:31,479 Speaker 1: So she came home and she had brown paint, and 105 00:05:31,480 --> 00:05:33,520 Speaker 1: then Max and shimes in, but then she took a 106 00:05:33,600 --> 00:05:36,400 Speaker 1: shower and then it comes off and then it's light 107 00:05:36,480 --> 00:05:39,640 Speaker 1: brown paint. Oh my god. This is dangerous to be 108 00:05:39,680 --> 00:05:42,640 Speaker 1: careful what you tell your kids because all the faculty's 109 00:05:42,640 --> 00:05:46,920 Speaker 1: gonna know. So when the teacher said to you that 110 00:05:47,920 --> 00:05:50,080 Speaker 1: I really said, I said yeah because I thought like 111 00:05:50,120 --> 00:05:54,000 Speaker 1: she was noticed that she was complimenting me on my Yeah, 112 00:05:54,080 --> 00:05:56,680 Speaker 1: it's get right down the street, you know. Yeah. And 113 00:05:56,720 --> 00:05:59,159 Speaker 1: I was like, oh my, first of all, be careful 114 00:05:59,440 --> 00:06:01,840 Speaker 1: now that my Chael is in a band. Soon they're 115 00:06:01,839 --> 00:06:04,360 Speaker 1: gonna say is your husband a rock star? Because that's 116 00:06:04,400 --> 00:06:06,400 Speaker 1: gonna be shared in this circle. But also I think 117 00:06:06,480 --> 00:06:08,360 Speaker 1: when you go back to like what to tell your kids, yeah, 118 00:06:08,400 --> 00:06:10,000 Speaker 1: you don't want to lie, but you can give generic 119 00:06:10,040 --> 00:06:12,160 Speaker 1: answers you want way too deeps. I really did. I 120 00:06:12,480 --> 00:06:14,800 Speaker 1: stuck with mommy's running an errand I should have and 121 00:06:14,839 --> 00:06:17,800 Speaker 1: I'm not lying right category, but underneath the category the 122 00:06:17,880 --> 00:06:20,080 Speaker 1: umbrella and errands, it's right tanning a lot of other 123 00:06:20,120 --> 00:06:21,960 Speaker 1: things that they don't need to know about to sharing 124 00:06:22,000 --> 00:06:27,560 Speaker 1: circle time exactly. So that's so common that I mean I, 125 00:06:27,960 --> 00:06:31,960 Speaker 1: for example, with Flora, I said poop pooh. You know, 126 00:06:32,120 --> 00:06:37,000 Speaker 1: every time she sees me pooooooooooo, you tell her you 127 00:06:37,000 --> 00:06:40,320 Speaker 1: how to make a poopoo or no, I just said, obviously, 128 00:06:40,360 --> 00:06:42,200 Speaker 1: I'm trying to make conversation with the three year old, 129 00:06:42,279 --> 00:06:44,919 Speaker 1: so poopoo is one of the great bonding terms. But 130 00:06:45,120 --> 00:06:46,800 Speaker 1: I said it, And now every time I get on 131 00:06:46,839 --> 00:06:49,359 Speaker 1: the phone there she's like, say poopoo. Or if I 132 00:06:49,400 --> 00:06:51,440 Speaker 1: say poop before she says poopoo, she tells on me, 133 00:06:51,640 --> 00:06:56,440 Speaker 1: tell my sister. I love it. Boo poo, poo poo. 134 00:06:57,080 --> 00:07:00,200 Speaker 1: Do you want to go say it again? Pop? Okay? 135 00:07:00,240 --> 00:07:02,359 Speaker 1: Say it to get no. I can't try get in 136 00:07:02,360 --> 00:07:06,600 Speaker 1: trouble repeaters. That's the reason I gotta be careful what 137 00:07:06,640 --> 00:07:09,520 Speaker 1: I tell him. Your morning act pizza. Everybody loves it. 138 00:07:09,520 --> 00:07:11,240 Speaker 1: It's great to happen the next day. I like it 139 00:07:11,280 --> 00:07:15,160 Speaker 1: when the oil and the cheese all nice and congealed. 140 00:07:16,000 --> 00:07:21,840 Speaker 1: That's the right word, wow, congealed oils and cheese. You 141 00:07:21,920 --> 00:07:23,720 Speaker 1: just read the dictionary before you go to bed at night, 142 00:07:23,840 --> 00:07:28,200 Speaker 1: like I just food. You know, it's a food. That's 143 00:07:28,240 --> 00:07:31,520 Speaker 1: a food dictionary. Food. I have a food all that. 144 00:07:32,160 --> 00:07:35,400 Speaker 1: You have a food dictionary. I have a Jewish encyclopedia. 145 00:07:35,920 --> 00:07:39,960 Speaker 1: What's his name? What's yours? I just live life. You 146 00:07:39,960 --> 00:07:42,600 Speaker 1: don't have any handbooks? A handbook? No, but I'm reading 147 00:07:42,640 --> 00:07:45,480 Speaker 1: that book right now. The idea of you that they're 148 00:07:45,480 --> 00:07:48,520 Speaker 1: going to make the movie of with Anne Hathaway starting 149 00:07:48,800 --> 00:07:52,520 Speaker 1: and the guy from Purple Hearts is exactly about like 150 00:07:52,560 --> 00:07:55,160 Speaker 1: the one direction Marosa, you guys about it. So I 151 00:07:55,160 --> 00:07:58,000 Speaker 1: started the book and I was driving to San Diego 152 00:07:58,600 --> 00:08:01,000 Speaker 1: all in day by the way, and so I started 153 00:08:01,000 --> 00:08:03,640 Speaker 1: it and I got lost because it's audio. So I 154 00:08:03,720 --> 00:08:06,480 Speaker 1: was listening to audible, and um, I know how to 155 00:08:06,560 --> 00:08:09,200 Speaker 1: drive to my sister's house. And Carl's bad, Like, no, 156 00:08:09,320 --> 00:08:11,440 Speaker 1: not even miss the exit, Ryan, like, I end up 157 00:08:11,480 --> 00:08:18,480 Speaker 1: in Riverside. I was like, because this book looked up 158 00:08:18,480 --> 00:08:20,400 Speaker 1: and I'm on the way, I'm on the fifteen going 159 00:08:20,440 --> 00:08:23,560 Speaker 1: to Riverside. I'm like, oh my gosh, So should we 160 00:08:23,640 --> 00:08:25,200 Speaker 1: listen to it, read it or wait for the meeting? 161 00:08:25,160 --> 00:08:27,160 Speaker 1: You know? I mean, it all depends on what your 162 00:08:27,160 --> 00:08:29,440 Speaker 1: style is. I I love to listen to books and 163 00:08:29,520 --> 00:08:33,480 Speaker 1: I read. I don't like pay attention. So if I'm 164 00:08:33,520 --> 00:08:35,640 Speaker 1: listening to a book, it's great and and Robin Lee, 165 00:08:35,840 --> 00:08:38,240 Speaker 1: the author of the book, is the one that's actually 166 00:08:38,280 --> 00:08:41,160 Speaker 1: doing the audible, so she does a great job. Highly recommend. 167 00:08:41,760 --> 00:08:44,079 Speaker 1: But you need to be alone. Well, I'm going to 168 00:08:44,200 --> 00:08:46,719 Speaker 1: take a nice road trip up to northern California and 169 00:08:46,760 --> 00:08:50,480 Speaker 1: listen to the whole book right through the Redwoods. All right, listen. 170 00:08:51,720 --> 00:08:54,400 Speaker 1: I think people agree. There's a consensus that you don't 171 00:08:54,400 --> 00:08:57,000 Speaker 1: really want a microwave leftover pizza. This is your morning hack. 172 00:08:58,760 --> 00:09:01,960 Speaker 1: The best way to reheat this from TikTok The best 173 00:09:01,960 --> 00:09:05,120 Speaker 1: way to reheat your pizza A TikTok are named I'll Dent. 174 00:09:05,280 --> 00:09:07,800 Speaker 1: The diva says to follow these steps. Put the slice 175 00:09:07,800 --> 00:09:11,040 Speaker 1: in a hot frying pan. When you see the cheese 176 00:09:11,080 --> 00:09:14,200 Speaker 1: start to melt a bit, add some water to the pan. 177 00:09:15,080 --> 00:09:18,760 Speaker 1: Cover it. The steam will melt the cheese perfectly and 178 00:09:18,800 --> 00:09:22,720 Speaker 1: the pan will keep the crust crisp. I've never tried it. 179 00:09:22,960 --> 00:09:27,240 Speaker 1: I will try it. It's a great hack. Wow, she says, 180 00:09:27,240 --> 00:09:31,520 Speaker 1: gonna taste like it was originally delivered. Put the slice 181 00:09:31,520 --> 00:09:34,560 Speaker 1: in a hot frying pan. You see the cheese melt, 182 00:09:35,000 --> 00:09:36,720 Speaker 1: Add a little bit of water, to the pan, then 183 00:09:36,840 --> 00:09:40,200 Speaker 1: cover it. The steam will melt the cheese and the 184 00:09:40,240 --> 00:09:44,440 Speaker 1: crust will stay crispy. Today's quote of the day you 185 00:09:44,480 --> 00:09:52,199 Speaker 1: can mute people in real life. It's called boundaries. Well, 186 00:09:52,200 --> 00:09:55,280 Speaker 1: the valleys are facing another heat wave this week, but 187 00:09:55,360 --> 00:09:57,360 Speaker 1: it's not as bad as last time. The heat is 188 00:09:57,400 --> 00:10:01,160 Speaker 1: on in southern California as high temperatures and heat advisories 189 00:10:01,200 --> 00:10:04,160 Speaker 1: are expected to last until tomorrow. After that, a cooling 190 00:10:04,160 --> 00:10:06,840 Speaker 1: trend is going to move into the region continuing into 191 00:10:06,920 --> 00:10:09,720 Speaker 1: next weekend. L A and Orange Counties will be under 192 00:10:09,720 --> 00:10:12,520 Speaker 1: an excessive heat warning until tomorrow, and the regions just 193 00:10:12,559 --> 00:10:16,240 Speaker 1: s these sharp sea temperatures reaching about a hundred degrees. 194 00:10:16,760 --> 00:10:20,520 Speaker 1: Southern California gas prices, man, they continue to rise. The 195 00:10:20,600 --> 00:10:23,920 Speaker 1: average price of a gallon of self serve regular gasoline 196 00:10:23,920 --> 00:10:27,360 Speaker 1: in l A County, for example, rose four point one 197 00:10:27,440 --> 00:10:31,320 Speaker 1: cents yesterday to about five dollars and eighty four cents. 198 00:10:31,360 --> 00:10:35,240 Speaker 1: That is the twenty four consecutive increase. The average price 199 00:10:35,280 --> 00:10:38,640 Speaker 1: has increased fifty nine point four cents over the past 200 00:10:38,640 --> 00:10:43,120 Speaker 1: twenty four days, including eleven cents on Sunday. Wow, that's 201 00:10:43,160 --> 00:10:47,079 Speaker 1: a pretty big jump. And the Biden administration is planning 202 00:10:47,080 --> 00:10:51,720 Speaker 1: a crackdown on hidden airline fees. Okay, I see you, Biden. 203 00:10:51,880 --> 00:10:57,920 Speaker 1: The administration wants to require airlines to post extra costs 204 00:10:57,960 --> 00:11:02,000 Speaker 1: like baggage and change fee with their flight prices so 205 00:11:02,040 --> 00:11:05,640 Speaker 1: that us, you know, the customers, know the true cost 206 00:11:05,760 --> 00:11:09,360 Speaker 1: of the airline ticket. Under the proposed rules, airlines and 207 00:11:09,440 --> 00:11:13,160 Speaker 1: travel sites included would have to disclose upfront the first 208 00:11:13,200 --> 00:11:17,880 Speaker 1: time an airline is displayed any fees change to see. Um, 209 00:11:17,920 --> 00:11:20,679 Speaker 1: if you have like a that's gonna be on your lap, 210 00:11:20,760 --> 00:11:22,480 Speaker 1: they do charge you for that and they don't tell 211 00:11:22,480 --> 00:11:25,000 Speaker 1: you about it, apparently, Or if you're gonna be changing 212 00:11:25,120 --> 00:11:27,280 Speaker 1: or canceling your flight, all that stuff is going to 213 00:11:27,360 --> 00:11:30,520 Speaker 1: be disclosed now, even carry on baggage, those little small fees. 214 00:11:30,559 --> 00:11:32,800 Speaker 1: We're all gonna know exactly how much that costs. Now 215 00:11:33,640 --> 00:11:41,120 Speaker 1: on air with Ryan Seacrets. Here is Megan, not the Stallion. 216 00:11:41,440 --> 00:11:44,400 Speaker 1: This is Megan of Torrance. Beggan, good morning, how are you? 217 00:11:45,280 --> 00:11:48,280 Speaker 1: I'm great? Thank you, how are you doing well? Thank 218 00:11:48,280 --> 00:11:51,800 Speaker 1: you for asking? So tell me, Megan, what's happening. Okay, 219 00:11:51,800 --> 00:11:54,640 Speaker 1: So my best friend is getting married next month and 220 00:11:54,679 --> 00:11:57,360 Speaker 1: she asked me to be her maid of honor. Oh 221 00:11:57,800 --> 00:12:00,760 Speaker 1: you know, right, like I'm really touched with super emotional. 222 00:12:00,800 --> 00:12:04,240 Speaker 1: Of course, yes, I said yes. So then she told 223 00:12:04,240 --> 00:12:06,120 Speaker 1: me she had her trying out of the dress outing. 224 00:12:06,720 --> 00:12:08,800 Speaker 1: But when she let me know what it was, I 225 00:12:08,840 --> 00:12:10,280 Speaker 1: had to tell her I couldn't go. I was in 226 00:12:10,640 --> 00:12:13,240 Speaker 1: Phoenix that weekend for another friend's wedding and I have 227 00:12:13,320 --> 00:12:15,680 Speaker 1: a bridesmaid with that one too, so you know, the 228 00:12:15,720 --> 00:12:18,719 Speaker 1: timing was bad. So I asked her if she could 229 00:12:18,840 --> 00:12:20,920 Speaker 1: move the dress fitting, and she said she couldn't. So 230 00:12:20,960 --> 00:12:23,320 Speaker 1: I thought, you know, it's fine. Mom's going to be there, 231 00:12:23,320 --> 00:12:26,320 Speaker 1: her sister will be there, It's all good. She just 232 00:12:26,600 --> 00:12:28,959 Speaker 1: called me over the weekend. Right, You're not gonna believe this. 233 00:12:29,240 --> 00:12:31,880 Speaker 1: She called me over the weekend and tell me I'm 234 00:12:31,880 --> 00:12:33,920 Speaker 1: not going to be her maid of honor anymore. A 235 00:12:34,120 --> 00:12:37,599 Speaker 1: different bridesmaid stepped up with the words she used, she 236 00:12:37,679 --> 00:12:39,880 Speaker 1: stepped I was there for the sitting. Oh yeah, she 237 00:12:40,080 --> 00:12:42,679 Speaker 1: stepped up and was there for the sitting, and now 238 00:12:42,760 --> 00:12:45,880 Speaker 1: she is maid of honor. I was demoted. Oh my gosh, 239 00:12:46,160 --> 00:12:50,000 Speaker 1: do that? I mean this thing? This is the whole 240 00:12:50,040 --> 00:12:54,600 Speaker 1: issue with the subtest of weddings, right, everybody gets all 241 00:12:54,679 --> 00:13:00,480 Speaker 1: wound up about positioning and this that and the drama 242 00:13:00,480 --> 00:13:02,640 Speaker 1: of it before the wedding. None of it's supposed to 243 00:13:02,679 --> 00:13:06,600 Speaker 1: be that way. So you were demoted from maid of 244 00:13:06,640 --> 00:13:10,680 Speaker 1: honor to bride'smaid because you weren't at the fitting. No, no, no, 245 00:13:10,760 --> 00:13:13,840 Speaker 1: I'm not even part of it now what wait, I 246 00:13:13,840 --> 00:13:15,880 Speaker 1: don't even want to go now, I'm not part of 247 00:13:15,880 --> 00:13:20,559 Speaker 1: the wedding party at all. Oh, I did not realize that. 248 00:13:20,559 --> 00:13:22,479 Speaker 1: I thought you were going to just be like a bride'smaid, 249 00:13:22,520 --> 00:13:26,360 Speaker 1: but not made of honor. Well, then this makes life 250 00:13:26,520 --> 00:13:29,240 Speaker 1: very clear. She's not your friend. She's not your friend. 251 00:13:29,520 --> 00:13:32,240 Speaker 1: She's all about herself and the attention she gets from 252 00:13:32,280 --> 00:13:37,880 Speaker 1: her friends with people that is not something that shows friendship, 253 00:13:37,920 --> 00:13:43,240 Speaker 1: good riddance. That shows her wanting it her way and 254 00:13:43,360 --> 00:13:46,920 Speaker 1: not caring about you know what was going on with you? 255 00:13:47,920 --> 00:13:50,520 Speaker 1: To me, it's like, okay, great, other people's feelings, other 256 00:13:50,520 --> 00:13:53,720 Speaker 1: people's obligations, Like it wasn't like you completely like blew 257 00:13:53,760 --> 00:13:55,640 Speaker 1: her off for something, like you blew off the wedding. 258 00:13:55,640 --> 00:13:58,160 Speaker 1: You know you're not going to the wedding. Yeah, what 259 00:13:58,200 --> 00:13:59,720 Speaker 1: does she want me to do? Cancel on my other 260 00:13:59,800 --> 00:14:02,600 Speaker 1: friend when I don't think her marriage is gonna last? 261 00:14:02,640 --> 00:14:05,440 Speaker 1: Are you going to go to the way. Yeah, well 262 00:14:05,440 --> 00:14:07,600 Speaker 1: this is the thing, right, So clearly we're not as 263 00:14:07,600 --> 00:14:09,760 Speaker 1: close as I thought we were. So like, I didn't 264 00:14:09,800 --> 00:14:11,880 Speaker 1: know if I bail on the whole thing or just 265 00:14:12,120 --> 00:14:14,120 Speaker 1: you know, swallow my pride and go to a bachelor 266 00:14:14,400 --> 00:14:17,640 Speaker 1: party and her shower and the wedding. There's so many things. 267 00:14:18,120 --> 00:14:20,120 Speaker 1: I mean, make some space in your life and take 268 00:14:20,160 --> 00:14:22,120 Speaker 1: her off of the agenda. Do you even like her 269 00:14:22,160 --> 00:14:27,800 Speaker 1: that much? I did? Why would be this is a 270 00:14:27,840 --> 00:14:31,720 Speaker 1: deal break? Absolutely? If you're gonna be that petty to 271 00:14:31,800 --> 00:14:33,800 Speaker 1: me and we're supposed to be friends, good for you. 272 00:14:33,880 --> 00:14:38,680 Speaker 1: Don't have to enjoy to the marriage by I'm telling you, 273 00:14:38,920 --> 00:14:43,720 Speaker 1: I'm telling you, mark my words, it won't work. Okay, 274 00:14:43,760 --> 00:14:48,760 Speaker 1: we don't need to put that honestly at friends going 275 00:14:49,120 --> 00:14:50,880 Speaker 1: and you know, I'm just am I going to look 276 00:14:51,240 --> 00:14:52,760 Speaker 1: I going to look like the petty one not going. 277 00:14:52,800 --> 00:14:55,560 Speaker 1: You need to stop worrying about it. Forced out and 278 00:14:55,600 --> 00:14:59,240 Speaker 1: you need to take it great. Okay, I understood. I 279 00:14:59,240 --> 00:15:03,640 Speaker 1: see where I stand. Thanks for the information. Knowledge is power. Wow, 280 00:15:03,680 --> 00:15:07,520 Speaker 1: I can't believe this. Well, Megan, thank you for calling 281 00:15:08,160 --> 00:15:11,800 Speaker 1: you take care of Sorry, I wouldn't go, Thank you. 282 00:15:11,880 --> 00:15:15,200 Speaker 1: I won't go I'm not gonna go a little harsh, guys, 283 00:15:15,920 --> 00:15:17,480 Speaker 1: But harsh, what are you talking about if she gets 284 00:15:17,520 --> 00:15:20,800 Speaker 1: demoted for that reason, I'm not saying that to me. 285 00:15:21,200 --> 00:15:25,400 Speaker 1: You're cut me too done? Okay. Problem with weddings, guys, 286 00:15:25,680 --> 00:15:27,840 Speaker 1: How many times I told you they're not worth it? 287 00:15:29,120 --> 00:15:31,320 Speaker 1: We don't even know that. People get a little hot 288 00:15:31,360 --> 00:15:34,440 Speaker 1: and testy around like important dates for themselves, and they 289 00:15:34,520 --> 00:15:37,520 Speaker 1: do things out of emotion, not out of like rational thought. 290 00:15:37,600 --> 00:15:39,920 Speaker 1: And maybe she like made a mistake. This is obviously 291 00:15:40,400 --> 00:15:42,520 Speaker 1: you would handle it that way. Sisten and I deal 292 00:15:42,560 --> 00:15:49,160 Speaker 1: break on air with Ryan Seacrest. It's time for a 293 00:15:49,280 --> 00:15:53,840 Speaker 1: second date update. This comes to us from Abby and 294 00:15:54,120 --> 00:15:56,960 Speaker 1: Glendale here at Kiss FM. Let me get Abby on 295 00:15:57,000 --> 00:15:58,560 Speaker 1: the phone. Do you know what a second date update is? 296 00:15:58,600 --> 00:16:00,600 Speaker 1: Do you know? The second date is? When you go 297 00:16:00,640 --> 00:16:02,400 Speaker 1: out with somebody. It's not to be just once in 298 00:16:02,440 --> 00:16:04,760 Speaker 1: a second time, but in theory a time or two 299 00:16:04,800 --> 00:16:07,360 Speaker 1: or a few and then they blow you off and 300 00:16:07,400 --> 00:16:09,480 Speaker 1: you don't know why. And you're the kind of person 301 00:16:09,800 --> 00:16:11,920 Speaker 1: that needs the peace of mind. I'm the kind of 302 00:16:11,960 --> 00:16:14,120 Speaker 1: person that has thin skin and doesn't want to know. 303 00:16:15,080 --> 00:16:20,520 Speaker 1: But you're the kind of personality that wants to know right, Yes, definitely, 304 00:16:20,800 --> 00:16:23,080 Speaker 1: all right. Let me just see if I got this correct. 305 00:16:23,160 --> 00:16:24,960 Speaker 1: You send us an email and you say that you've 306 00:16:24,960 --> 00:16:27,840 Speaker 1: been on dating apps for over a year and then 307 00:16:27,840 --> 00:16:31,720 Speaker 1: you met this guy. I r L in real life 308 00:16:31,760 --> 00:16:33,720 Speaker 1: got it. I was at a bar with some friends 309 00:16:33,760 --> 00:16:36,400 Speaker 1: and we were dancing. He came over he started dancing 310 00:16:36,400 --> 00:16:40,680 Speaker 1: with me. I find that uncomfortable sometimes when people come up, 311 00:16:40,760 --> 00:16:45,200 Speaker 1: especially some guys, and we try to dance. We tried 312 00:16:45,200 --> 00:16:47,560 Speaker 1: to dance. I saw it with a matter of fact. 313 00:16:47,640 --> 00:16:50,480 Speaker 1: At the Radio Music Festival, I saw my old roommate 314 00:16:50,520 --> 00:16:53,520 Speaker 1: Tannaz try to dance to Megan the Stallion and it 315 00:16:53,640 --> 00:17:01,240 Speaker 1: was on the cusp of embarrassing, but he was. But 316 00:17:01,360 --> 00:17:03,360 Speaker 1: if he were to go up to somebody be like, hey, 317 00:17:03,560 --> 00:17:07,600 Speaker 1: check me out, I might have said, no, you like it. 318 00:17:07,960 --> 00:17:11,600 Speaker 1: You like a random guy coming up and dancing with you. 319 00:17:11,640 --> 00:17:14,760 Speaker 1: Don't look good the tubs and I rolling in trying 320 00:17:14,760 --> 00:17:18,360 Speaker 1: to dance to Megan the Stallion at the festival next 321 00:17:18,359 --> 00:17:21,040 Speaker 1: to a stranger. No, you don't want it. You would 322 00:17:21,040 --> 00:17:23,640 Speaker 1: be kicked out of the Team Mobile arena anyway. So 323 00:17:24,000 --> 00:17:25,919 Speaker 1: he then he danced with you, blah blah blah. Then 324 00:17:25,960 --> 00:17:30,120 Speaker 1: he walks you to your car. What happens? Then? Um, 325 00:17:30,359 --> 00:17:35,000 Speaker 1: we exchanged numbers and he's been texting me and I 326 00:17:35,040 --> 00:17:37,480 Speaker 1: asked him or I was kind of waiting to see 327 00:17:37,480 --> 00:17:39,680 Speaker 1: if she'd like asking me out, and he never did, 328 00:17:39,760 --> 00:17:42,000 Speaker 1: and so I was like, okay, I will ask him. 329 00:17:42,480 --> 00:17:47,960 Speaker 1: And he's always busy, So he texts you, but then 330 00:17:47,960 --> 00:17:50,320 Speaker 1: he never can go out with you physically. I r 331 00:17:50,440 --> 00:17:54,199 Speaker 1: L Yes, So what's that about? Why is he like 332 00:17:54,520 --> 00:17:58,159 Speaker 1: leading you on to not pay it off? Is he 333 00:17:58,240 --> 00:17:59,879 Speaker 1: keeping you on the back Do you think you're on 334 00:17:59,920 --> 00:18:03,440 Speaker 1: the back burner? I mean I could be, I guess, 335 00:18:03,680 --> 00:18:06,000 Speaker 1: but it's so weird because you like text me all 336 00:18:06,040 --> 00:18:07,639 Speaker 1: the time, you text me every day and he's like 337 00:18:07,680 --> 00:18:09,800 Speaker 1: really flirty. I guess I could be. Yeah, I guess. 338 00:18:10,240 --> 00:18:17,760 Speaker 1: Or is he actually busy? Yeah, so he's leading you on? Yeah, okay, 339 00:18:18,240 --> 00:18:22,320 Speaker 1: hold on for a second. I'm wanting to know what 340 00:18:22,359 --> 00:18:24,920 Speaker 1: this guy's about. I mean they made out on the 341 00:18:25,000 --> 00:18:30,320 Speaker 1: dance floor. Yeah, so you've already had that first base. 342 00:18:31,040 --> 00:18:34,919 Speaker 1: That's not first base, right, that's first base? One second? 343 00:18:34,920 --> 00:18:37,480 Speaker 1: What's first based on? You? Tell me what's first base? Educate? 344 00:18:37,640 --> 00:18:43,160 Speaker 1: Is all now touching? Touching not first base? Yes, that's 345 00:18:43,200 --> 00:18:46,399 Speaker 1: the new math. Wow, No, no, it's not kissing his 346 00:18:46,520 --> 00:18:51,360 Speaker 1: first blah blah blah blah blah blah. That's the back room. 347 00:18:51,880 --> 00:18:56,119 Speaker 1: They're all single and dating. First. What's first space? I 348 00:18:56,160 --> 00:18:59,520 Speaker 1: feel like first base is like a makeout with some tongue. Yeah, correct, 349 00:18:59,600 --> 00:19:03,320 Speaker 1: thank you? Yeah, Second and third and fourth, a lot 350 00:19:03,320 --> 00:19:06,359 Speaker 1: of other things that after that. You know what, If 351 00:19:06,440 --> 00:19:10,560 Speaker 1: that's first, you can deduce what second, third, hold. You'll 352 00:19:10,680 --> 00:19:12,800 Speaker 1: need Ruby to explain it to you. And if you do, 353 00:19:13,040 --> 00:19:19,000 Speaker 1: talk to her after the show. And sorry, Robbie Robby 354 00:19:19,119 --> 00:19:25,720 Speaker 1: holding hands? First base? What second base? A cuddle? I'm 355 00:19:25,760 --> 00:19:44,440 Speaker 1: scared to ask? What? All right? According to the Columbia 356 00:19:44,600 --> 00:19:47,800 Speaker 1: University website, which we go to for all of our 357 00:19:47,840 --> 00:19:52,879 Speaker 1: relationship information, first base is kissing, second base above the waist. 358 00:19:53,400 --> 00:19:55,960 Speaker 1: I don't need to read the rest. We know we 359 00:19:56,080 --> 00:20:00,880 Speaker 1: can follow the basis. Um Abby met this guy. They 360 00:20:00,920 --> 00:20:02,800 Speaker 1: are out there dancing on the dance floor. He comes 361 00:20:02,800 --> 00:20:05,040 Speaker 1: over starts dancing with her, which is always a risky move, 362 00:20:05,520 --> 00:20:08,120 Speaker 1: but he starts dancing. She likes it. They make out 363 00:20:08,200 --> 00:20:12,560 Speaker 1: on the dance floor, out strangers. He walks her to 364 00:20:12,880 --> 00:20:16,400 Speaker 1: the car. The exchange numbers. He's been texting every day, 365 00:20:16,520 --> 00:20:19,080 Speaker 1: but every time she says, let's get together. He can't 366 00:20:20,560 --> 00:20:24,520 Speaker 1: strange weird? But is he just like Kenny? Just maybe 367 00:20:24,520 --> 00:20:29,280 Speaker 1: he's just busy. Something happened, something happened on the dance floor. 368 00:20:29,280 --> 00:20:31,399 Speaker 1: Why is he keep texting? Or then if something happens, 369 00:20:31,400 --> 00:20:35,119 Speaker 1: stop texting? They did exchange numbers after the fact. Okay, 370 00:20:35,160 --> 00:20:37,640 Speaker 1: so I don't know. Okay, So Abby, I have this guy, 371 00:20:37,760 --> 00:20:41,040 Speaker 1: Robert is that his name? Yeah, okay, I have this 372 00:20:41,119 --> 00:20:43,080 Speaker 1: dude on the phone, So hold on for a second. 373 00:20:43,119 --> 00:20:45,399 Speaker 1: You're gonna hear this. But let me and Cissy and 374 00:20:45,440 --> 00:20:47,440 Speaker 1: Tony asked him some questions and see what we can 375 00:20:47,480 --> 00:20:51,840 Speaker 1: find out. Okay, okay, okay, thank you, Robert. Hey, it's 376 00:20:51,880 --> 00:20:53,560 Speaker 1: Ryan Seacrist. Thank you for agreeing to come on the 377 00:20:53,560 --> 00:20:56,720 Speaker 1: air with us. How are you, hey, Ryan, how are you? 378 00:20:57,040 --> 00:20:59,880 Speaker 1: I'm doing well? Thanks Bro. I've got Tanya and Sissony 379 00:21:00,080 --> 00:21:05,600 Speaker 1: here on with us too, So Robert, let me jump 380 00:21:05,600 --> 00:21:08,919 Speaker 1: into it and we'll explain it all later. But you 381 00:21:09,280 --> 00:21:11,560 Speaker 1: met a woman named Abby out right, and you guys 382 00:21:11,680 --> 00:21:18,560 Speaker 1: hit it off. Um yeah, okay, tell me about Abby 383 00:21:18,720 --> 00:21:21,320 Speaker 1: and hitting it off? Like, what do you like about her? 384 00:21:21,960 --> 00:21:25,720 Speaker 1: What do you think about when you think of her? Um? 385 00:21:25,760 --> 00:21:32,160 Speaker 1: Abby is. Uh, she's really pretty, she's she's fun. Um 386 00:21:32,320 --> 00:21:36,680 Speaker 1: and uh she's we said a good time. I mean, 387 00:21:36,760 --> 00:21:38,639 Speaker 1: I don't know, you just you don't. Sometimes you just 388 00:21:38,680 --> 00:21:41,560 Speaker 1: connect with somebody and like it's just that's just it. 389 00:21:41,640 --> 00:21:44,359 Speaker 1: You just enjoy like get around them. So are you 390 00:21:44,400 --> 00:21:52,479 Speaker 1: looking forward to seeing her again eventually? Yeah? Okay, all right? 391 00:21:52,640 --> 00:21:56,360 Speaker 1: Have you asked her? So? Yeah? What's the hold up? 392 00:21:56,720 --> 00:22:01,440 Speaker 1: Are you lagging? Uh? Oh? I mean you guys. I'm 393 00:22:01,480 --> 00:22:03,159 Speaker 1: sure you guys know how it goes. You've got millions 394 00:22:03,160 --> 00:22:07,000 Speaker 1: of calls like if I hit a girl up right away, um, 395 00:22:07,119 --> 00:22:11,560 Speaker 1: she's gonna not hang out with wasn't one more time? Um? Oh? 396 00:22:11,560 --> 00:22:13,479 Speaker 1: So you're playing it cool. You're sitting in the pocket. 397 00:22:13,520 --> 00:22:14,880 Speaker 1: You're thinking like, hey, I don't want to ask about 398 00:22:14,880 --> 00:22:17,879 Speaker 1: too soon because she thinks then I'm a little too needy. 399 00:22:18,040 --> 00:22:20,040 Speaker 1: Is that what you're thinking? You're not nothing needy thing. 400 00:22:20,040 --> 00:22:22,280 Speaker 1: It's just like it's a psychology thing, right, like you 401 00:22:22,520 --> 00:22:24,080 Speaker 1: you want to hang out with the girl like right 402 00:22:24,119 --> 00:22:26,240 Speaker 1: away again, Like she's gonna be like, oh cool cool, 403 00:22:26,280 --> 00:22:27,879 Speaker 1: and that's gonna burn out like a second that she 404 00:22:28,000 --> 00:22:30,159 Speaker 1: meets somebody that well, that means you've had bad experience. 405 00:22:30,200 --> 00:22:32,760 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, No, that's not the case. Maybe you've 406 00:22:32,800 --> 00:22:34,560 Speaker 1: had bad experiences like I got it. You're trying to 407 00:22:34,600 --> 00:22:37,320 Speaker 1: measure your emotion and your responsing your strategy here. But 408 00:22:37,400 --> 00:22:39,400 Speaker 1: sometimes if you feel it, bro, let's like, just go 409 00:22:39,560 --> 00:22:43,880 Speaker 1: for it because life is short. But I understand what 410 00:22:43,920 --> 00:22:47,080 Speaker 1: you're telling me. Um, But what if we told you 411 00:22:47,119 --> 00:22:49,239 Speaker 1: that Abby wants to go out with you again, and 412 00:22:49,320 --> 00:22:51,640 Speaker 1: she's on the phone and she's hearing this, what would 413 00:22:51,680 --> 00:22:57,119 Speaker 1: you say? I would say, that's Um, it's really not 414 00:22:57,240 --> 00:22:59,439 Speaker 1: the right time. It's not the right time, got it? 415 00:22:59,520 --> 00:23:01,240 Speaker 1: So listen, why do you tell Abby why it's not 416 00:23:01,280 --> 00:23:04,960 Speaker 1: the right time? Abby? Go ahead and say, hi, hey, hey, 417 00:23:07,080 --> 00:23:16,240 Speaker 1: why is it not the right time? Robert? Uh? Wow? Um, 418 00:23:16,560 --> 00:23:18,639 Speaker 1: I don't really I don't really feel comfortable saying this 419 00:23:18,720 --> 00:23:28,119 Speaker 1: in front of the world. Not really the world, I 420 00:23:28,119 --> 00:23:34,440 Speaker 1: mean technically hopefully. Um. So, I have this weird thing 421 00:23:34,520 --> 00:23:37,320 Speaker 1: where this chick transferred gum into my mouth at like 422 00:23:37,359 --> 00:23:41,920 Speaker 1: fourteen years old, and it's really really ridiculous. But I 423 00:23:42,119 --> 00:23:46,920 Speaker 1: I can't like the textures in the mouth now is 424 00:23:47,080 --> 00:23:54,119 Speaker 1: really weird for me. Um. And uh, she's got like 425 00:23:54,440 --> 00:23:58,000 Speaker 1: those in the line embraceless things and like when we 426 00:23:58,000 --> 00:23:59,359 Speaker 1: were kissing, like it was a little it was a 427 00:23:59,400 --> 00:24:01,320 Speaker 1: little odd and like kind of like send me back 428 00:24:01,760 --> 00:24:06,520 Speaker 1: to that time. Um, let's let's look through this. I mean, look, 429 00:24:06,560 --> 00:24:12,840 Speaker 1: everybody has things. Everybody. Look, it's an issue from your past. 430 00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:17,040 Speaker 1: You're working through it. It's texture and it's a bad memory. Um. 431 00:24:17,160 --> 00:24:19,600 Speaker 1: No one's fault, right, No one's fault. Robert, you didn't 432 00:24:19,600 --> 00:24:21,480 Speaker 1: mean for that to happen. Abby, you didn't mean for 433 00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:23,960 Speaker 1: this to happen. No one's fault. So I think this 434 00:24:24,000 --> 00:24:26,159 Speaker 1: is great news. The good news is we now know 435 00:24:26,400 --> 00:24:30,320 Speaker 1: that there's a little PTSD on some kissing from when 436 00:24:30,320 --> 00:24:33,760 Speaker 1: you were a teenager. Abby has nothing to do with that. 437 00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:37,439 Speaker 1: So I think maybe now that we know the issue, 438 00:24:37,480 --> 00:24:38,879 Speaker 1: we could try and work through it. Abby, what do 439 00:24:38,920 --> 00:24:44,840 Speaker 1: you think I mean, I don't. I don't know. I mean, 440 00:24:45,160 --> 00:24:47,720 Speaker 1: if that's something that happened to you, then then you've 441 00:24:47,720 --> 00:24:51,840 Speaker 1: got such adecial reaction, then that's fine. Um. I just 442 00:24:52,000 --> 00:24:54,560 Speaker 1: was like excited to like get to know you and 443 00:24:54,960 --> 00:24:57,720 Speaker 1: and continue to kiss you. But I don't know, it 444 00:24:57,840 --> 00:25:00,119 Speaker 1: kind of makes me feel gross. I guess what is 445 00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:02,040 Speaker 1: is it? The fact that she had the tray of 446 00:25:02,080 --> 00:25:04,639 Speaker 1: invisible lines in her mouth or like the nubs on 447 00:25:04,680 --> 00:25:08,000 Speaker 1: the teeth. I don't know what they are. I mean, 448 00:25:08,040 --> 00:25:09,480 Speaker 1: I don't know. I know it's like something to do 449 00:25:09,520 --> 00:25:12,480 Speaker 1: with that. I mean, I didn't like investigated like it's 450 00:25:12,560 --> 00:25:14,600 Speaker 1: just but now I mean, this is what I'm saying, Like, 451 00:25:14,680 --> 00:25:16,400 Speaker 1: this is why I didn't say anything to Wor because 452 00:25:16,480 --> 00:25:20,040 Speaker 1: now I just look like, no, you don't. You look 453 00:25:20,200 --> 00:25:22,720 Speaker 1: like you have something that happened in your past, which 454 00:25:22,760 --> 00:25:26,080 Speaker 1: is totally fair. And the good news is here there's 455 00:25:26,080 --> 00:25:28,359 Speaker 1: no one that did anything wrong. No one's at fault, 456 00:25:28,359 --> 00:25:31,520 Speaker 1: no one did something that's wrong. It's just a matter 457 00:25:31,600 --> 00:25:33,879 Speaker 1: of working through a couple of things and deciding if 458 00:25:33,880 --> 00:25:35,560 Speaker 1: you guys want to work through it together or not. 459 00:25:36,280 --> 00:25:41,920 Speaker 1: Um so abby, when you get the invisil line out 460 00:25:42,320 --> 00:25:49,760 Speaker 1: months months, well that could be according term. Yeah, alright, great, listen, 461 00:25:49,840 --> 00:25:51,960 Speaker 1: we're gonna leave. You guys have each other's numbers. I 462 00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:53,840 Speaker 1: think maybe pick up the ball from here. I understand 463 00:25:53,920 --> 00:25:56,840 Speaker 1: we should probably move on and Robert and Abbey, good 464 00:25:56,920 --> 00:25:59,080 Speaker 1: luck to you if it works out, great. If not, 465 00:25:59,119 --> 00:26:05,280 Speaker 1: I'm glad we had this convert station. Okay, good luck. Wow, 466 00:26:07,600 --> 00:26:11,879 Speaker 1: I feel relieved. In a sense. I'm confused, um all, right, 467 00:26:11,960 --> 00:26:14,040 Speaker 1: So let's get into this. I need everybody's take on it. 468 00:26:14,520 --> 00:26:17,880 Speaker 1: Situation was Abby and Robert. They meet, they make out 469 00:26:17,920 --> 00:26:21,680 Speaker 1: for the first time out, they exchange numbers, they text 470 00:26:21,760 --> 00:26:24,639 Speaker 1: all the time. He's playing it cool, sitting back in 471 00:26:24,680 --> 00:26:27,080 Speaker 1: the pocket a little bit, not asking her out. But 472 00:26:27,119 --> 00:26:29,560 Speaker 1: they're texting every day and she's like, can we hang? 473 00:26:29,640 --> 00:26:34,240 Speaker 1: He's like, no, not yet. Why? Well, because he finally 474 00:26:34,280 --> 00:26:37,720 Speaker 1: told us that they kissed and he had a bad 475 00:26:37,760 --> 00:26:42,800 Speaker 1: experience as a teenager, and that kiss they had opened 476 00:26:42,840 --> 00:26:45,520 Speaker 1: up the wound of the bad experience he had as 477 00:26:45,560 --> 00:26:48,800 Speaker 1: a teenager. But what was that bad experience? He said, 478 00:26:48,840 --> 00:26:51,040 Speaker 1: When he was fourteen, he kissed the girl and she 479 00:26:51,200 --> 00:26:54,680 Speaker 1: swapped gum during the kiss with him, and that scarred 480 00:26:54,720 --> 00:26:57,160 Speaker 1: him for a long time. Something about the texture, he said, 481 00:26:57,200 --> 00:27:00,040 Speaker 1: the texture of the gump stale out a flavor. I 482 00:27:00,160 --> 00:27:01,960 Speaker 1: understand what he's saying, but I find him to be 483 00:27:02,040 --> 00:27:05,480 Speaker 1: highly skillful if you can do that. Sure. And then 484 00:27:05,720 --> 00:27:08,520 Speaker 1: he said, when he kissed her Abby the other night, 485 00:27:09,760 --> 00:27:12,919 Speaker 1: it reminded him of the texture of the gum because 486 00:27:12,920 --> 00:27:16,880 Speaker 1: she had an invisil line. So you can't laugh at 487 00:27:16,880 --> 00:27:19,399 Speaker 1: it or judge it, because that's real for them. I 488 00:27:19,440 --> 00:27:21,920 Speaker 1: thought it was great that we got to the issue 489 00:27:21,960 --> 00:27:24,199 Speaker 1: there and have some clarity because no one's at fault. 490 00:27:25,040 --> 00:27:27,240 Speaker 1: That's no one's fault. No one did something wrong. She 491 00:27:27,280 --> 00:27:29,080 Speaker 1: has in Visilne for eight more months. It's got a 492 00:27:29,119 --> 00:27:33,320 Speaker 1: weird I think to his tongue. But is that gonna 493 00:27:33,560 --> 00:27:37,080 Speaker 1: deter you from going out again? He's got to work 494 00:27:37,160 --> 00:27:38,919 Speaker 1: through that, by the way, he's got to work through that, 495 00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:42,200 Speaker 1: right if it's coming up years later. So, Toddy, what 496 00:27:42,200 --> 00:27:44,880 Speaker 1: are you confused about? Well, I just think it's I don't. 497 00:27:44,920 --> 00:27:46,600 Speaker 1: I just think it's a cop out. I think he's 498 00:27:46,680 --> 00:27:49,440 Speaker 1: using it as an excuse because I had in visi 499 00:27:49,520 --> 00:27:52,919 Speaker 1: line and I kissed many many men. Yeah, but he 500 00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:58,120 Speaker 1: had a but you can take Invisiline out in their permanently. 501 00:27:58,200 --> 00:27:59,920 Speaker 1: I don't think he's spinning us at all. I felt 502 00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:02,040 Speaker 1: him to be very genuine and that to get almost 503 00:28:02,040 --> 00:28:05,000 Speaker 1: embarrassed to tell us. And when you say many men 504 00:28:05,160 --> 00:28:07,760 Speaker 1: like that doesn't strike me is not winging to follow 505 00:28:07,840 --> 00:28:10,639 Speaker 1: up on? Well, that's true. Remember I was like, you 506 00:28:10,960 --> 00:28:13,439 Speaker 1: make out queen, you would wear it on your dates? No, 507 00:28:13,600 --> 00:28:15,760 Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying, Like, I wouldn't you come in 508 00:28:15,800 --> 00:28:17,119 Speaker 1: and out? So if you go on a date, like 509 00:28:17,560 --> 00:28:19,320 Speaker 1: but she wasn't on a date. She was out by 510 00:28:19,359 --> 00:28:23,040 Speaker 1: herself at the club. He comes over, starts dancing. They 511 00:28:23,040 --> 00:28:26,480 Speaker 1: make out. Right, So you meet some many thing, they're cute, 512 00:28:26,560 --> 00:28:30,399 Speaker 1: pop them out real fast. Yeah, your pocket. But haven't 513 00:28:30,440 --> 00:28:32,920 Speaker 1: you ever had something in the past that, like, when 514 00:28:32,960 --> 00:28:35,199 Speaker 1: you see it in a different form in the future, 515 00:28:36,359 --> 00:28:39,240 Speaker 1: it reminds you of it. For me, it could be 516 00:28:39,280 --> 00:28:43,480 Speaker 1: like a perfume, Yeah, smells usually an aroma could take 517 00:28:43,520 --> 00:28:45,400 Speaker 1: me back. You were super into a girl and she 518 00:28:45,480 --> 00:28:48,000 Speaker 1: was wearing that perfume that triggered something in you, You 519 00:28:48,000 --> 00:28:51,160 Speaker 1: would still go on a date with her? Is that right? Yeah? Really, 520 00:28:51,240 --> 00:28:53,680 Speaker 1: I don't know. I think it would be as are 521 00:28:53,800 --> 00:28:58,320 Speaker 1: very they really work voodoo on me, or someone just 522 00:28:58,360 --> 00:29:02,360 Speaker 1: smells bad. I'm like, oh, I can't, I can't you smell? 523 00:29:02,440 --> 00:29:05,600 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm terrified of smelling bad. Yeah, same, same, 524 00:29:05,680 --> 00:29:07,880 Speaker 1: I'm right, aren't we all like we're so worried about 525 00:29:07,880 --> 00:29:14,880 Speaker 1: smelling bad breath? Especially after dancing. Becca told me like 526 00:29:14,960 --> 00:29:17,520 Speaker 1: six months ago that when we do our podcast, my 527 00:29:17,560 --> 00:29:20,040 Speaker 1: breath smells because it's like at three pm and I've 528 00:29:20,040 --> 00:29:22,880 Speaker 1: already drink so much coffee. I'm still paranoid about it 529 00:29:22,920 --> 00:29:26,239 Speaker 1: to this day. I'm I put my hand over my 530 00:29:26,240 --> 00:29:27,880 Speaker 1: mouth a lot of times when I'm talking at a 531 00:29:27,920 --> 00:29:33,440 Speaker 1: table because I wanted to smell that food on my tongue. Yeah, 532 00:29:33,560 --> 00:29:35,960 Speaker 1: we all have issues, so we cannot judge Robert for this. 533 00:29:37,640 --> 00:29:40,600 Speaker 1: All right. I wonder if they're gonna do you let's 534 00:29:40,600 --> 00:29:42,040 Speaker 1: just close it here. Do you think they're gonna go 535 00:29:42,080 --> 00:29:44,920 Speaker 1: out again? I do? I do too, And then you 536 00:29:44,960 --> 00:29:46,440 Speaker 1: just need to take out the invizzilie when they go 537 00:29:46,440 --> 00:29:49,920 Speaker 1: on a date. It's I don't the nubs are a 538 00:29:49,960 --> 00:29:53,880 Speaker 1: little distracting, but it is a little bit. It's a 539 00:29:54,080 --> 00:29:57,560 Speaker 1: in FIZZI line. Get over it. But but there's number 540 00:29:58,520 --> 00:30:01,280 Speaker 1: trunks out of her gums. Very they feel weird. They're 541 00:30:01,320 --> 00:30:04,560 Speaker 1: like nuts on your teeth. So yeah, yeah, it's gonna 542 00:30:04,560 --> 00:30:13,720 Speaker 1: fly by. Then it's summer again. Guys. Rihanna gonna be 543 00:30:13,800 --> 00:30:16,600 Speaker 1: on the super Bowl stage. I'm very happy to hear 544 00:30:16,640 --> 00:30:21,840 Speaker 1: that news. She is so good at performance spectacle and 545 00:30:21,920 --> 00:30:25,160 Speaker 1: she had beef with the NFL for a while too, uh, 546 00:30:25,200 --> 00:30:28,800 Speaker 1: and now is going to be the performer. And again 547 00:30:28,920 --> 00:30:32,000 Speaker 1: this is a whole different halftime show. Pep seas no 548 00:30:32,080 --> 00:30:34,840 Speaker 1: longer the sponsor it's Apple Music, and so there are 549 00:30:34,880 --> 00:30:40,960 Speaker 1: a lot of different things surrounding the halftime show. One 550 00:30:41,040 --> 00:30:44,040 Speaker 1: woman one that's great. Now, whether or not she invites 551 00:30:44,080 --> 00:30:48,080 Speaker 1: people on, who knows it's her show, she's in control. 552 00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:53,000 Speaker 1: She could have somebody else. She may not, but she's brilliant. 553 00:30:53,880 --> 00:30:59,080 Speaker 1: I haven't seen her in a decade, I feel yeah, Yeah, 554 00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:03,080 Speaker 1: is very exciting. And it was announced kind of early. 555 00:31:03,520 --> 00:31:05,800 Speaker 1: That's a little early, I think for the announcement. So 556 00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:10,280 Speaker 1: let's get to the trending report. Now, these are stories 557 00:31:10,920 --> 00:31:15,200 Speaker 1: that are trending and I'm reported for well. This one 558 00:31:15,240 --> 00:31:19,200 Speaker 1: actually was like very soulful because Gwyneth Paltrow is doing 559 00:31:19,280 --> 00:31:22,440 Speaker 1: some soul searching. It's her fiftieth birthday actually today, and 560 00:31:22,640 --> 00:31:26,080 Speaker 1: she posted a black birthday today and she posted a 561 00:31:26,120 --> 00:31:28,120 Speaker 1: black and white picture of herself in a bikini with 562 00:31:28,200 --> 00:31:30,920 Speaker 1: the caption musings on a milestone link and bio and 563 00:31:31,000 --> 00:31:32,520 Speaker 1: so you click the link and it takes you to 564 00:31:32,640 --> 00:31:35,840 Speaker 1: her Goop blog, and um, she said she was reflecting 565 00:31:35,880 --> 00:31:37,800 Speaker 1: on the miles on birthday and what she learned throughout 566 00:31:37,840 --> 00:31:40,800 Speaker 1: the years. And this was one nugget that I found 567 00:31:41,080 --> 00:31:44,120 Speaker 1: so interesting. She said, I have a mantra I insert 568 00:31:44,200 --> 00:31:48,360 Speaker 1: into those reckless thoughts that try to derail me. I accept. 569 00:31:49,280 --> 00:31:52,600 Speaker 1: I accept the marks and the loosening skin, the wrinkles. 570 00:31:52,960 --> 00:31:55,000 Speaker 1: I accept my body and let go of the need 571 00:31:55,080 --> 00:31:59,280 Speaker 1: to be perfect, look perfect, defy gravity, defy logic, defy humanity. 572 00:32:00,160 --> 00:32:03,680 Speaker 1: But this was a huge, like aha moment, like I accept. 573 00:32:04,000 --> 00:32:06,400 Speaker 1: I feel like we're a lot of the anxiety and 574 00:32:06,440 --> 00:32:09,080 Speaker 1: the frustration and a lot of um tension in our 575 00:32:09,200 --> 00:32:13,520 Speaker 1: lives comes from us not just accepting things as they are. 576 00:32:13,720 --> 00:32:16,160 Speaker 1: We're trying to like change them or change people or 577 00:32:16,240 --> 00:32:18,520 Speaker 1: change situations, and sometimes you just can't and you have 578 00:32:18,640 --> 00:32:20,760 Speaker 1: to just accept that it is what it is. And 579 00:32:20,840 --> 00:32:24,320 Speaker 1: it felt very free to me. I get it, Yeah, 580 00:32:24,480 --> 00:32:28,880 Speaker 1: I get it. It was also I think fifty again, 581 00:32:28,960 --> 00:32:32,840 Speaker 1: this is biased, but fifty is not fifty the way 582 00:32:32,960 --> 00:32:36,400 Speaker 1: we were raised at fifty, I agree, but fifty is 583 00:32:36,400 --> 00:32:40,440 Speaker 1: still a significant number, like fifty number, but it's not 584 00:32:40,560 --> 00:32:42,600 Speaker 1: a number that I think is a number that was 585 00:32:42,680 --> 00:32:44,800 Speaker 1: the same number when my parents are right, Like when 586 00:32:44,880 --> 00:32:46,720 Speaker 1: we were kids and you saw someone that was fifty, 587 00:32:46,760 --> 00:32:52,320 Speaker 1: it felt like they were grandmas and grandparents had not 588 00:32:52,680 --> 00:32:57,160 Speaker 1: now not now, Jennifer Lopez right, like fifties being reset 589 00:32:57,240 --> 00:32:59,280 Speaker 1: and I'm here for all the resets, and I like 590 00:32:59,320 --> 00:33:02,240 Speaker 1: all the resets before I get there, because you know, 591 00:33:02,440 --> 00:33:04,560 Speaker 1: you look at Sisany, you look at Tanya, you look 592 00:33:04,640 --> 00:33:08,080 Speaker 1: at Tubbs. Just don't look your ages. I'm not going 593 00:33:08,120 --> 00:33:10,160 Speaker 1: to state them. We don't care ages because you live 594 00:33:10,200 --> 00:33:16,160 Speaker 1: a healthy Southern California life of happiness, of being connected 595 00:33:16,240 --> 00:33:19,160 Speaker 1: to fun and energy and culture. I think that makes 596 00:33:19,200 --> 00:33:22,120 Speaker 1: a big difference, right, don't you look at something like 597 00:33:22,120 --> 00:33:25,160 Speaker 1: you can look at some of your friends, maybe in 598 00:33:25,200 --> 00:33:28,840 Speaker 1: different places, maybe they're not happy, maybe's live in different life, 599 00:33:28,880 --> 00:33:32,280 Speaker 1: but they might not look the same in terms of age, 600 00:33:32,640 --> 00:33:34,600 Speaker 1: Like really has a lot to do with the way 601 00:33:34,640 --> 00:33:36,600 Speaker 1: that you treat yourself and care for yourself and feel 602 00:33:36,600 --> 00:33:42,640 Speaker 1: about yourself. Paul Rod for example, fifty three guy to me, 603 00:33:42,920 --> 00:33:50,200 Speaker 1: thirty five forever, Jen Garner fifty again. Resetting these numbers, 604 00:33:50,200 --> 00:33:51,800 Speaker 1: not that the numbers even matter, but in my head 605 00:33:51,840 --> 00:33:54,120 Speaker 1: they do for me, like I can't get them out 606 00:33:54,160 --> 00:33:55,920 Speaker 1: of my head. Well, do you think about it? Because 607 00:33:56,800 --> 00:34:00,320 Speaker 1: it's getting closer for you? I think, because is getting closer, sure, yeah, 608 00:34:00,320 --> 00:34:02,080 Speaker 1: of course. And then I'm sitting from that point it's 609 00:34:02,120 --> 00:34:06,640 Speaker 1: all downhill, you know, I know that's the thing. I'm 610 00:34:06,640 --> 00:34:08,440 Speaker 1: telling you, but it's like a roller coast inside my head. 611 00:34:08,640 --> 00:34:10,920 Speaker 1: It's like that's the thing. You can't change that, Like 612 00:34:11,239 --> 00:34:13,600 Speaker 1: you are going to turn fifty, but you're gonna say change. 613 00:34:14,040 --> 00:34:16,640 Speaker 1: I think about it. Yes, yes, drink your habitat water 614 00:34:16,800 --> 00:34:19,600 Speaker 1: and I look at the rock. I'm like, that guy's fifty. 615 00:34:20,200 --> 00:34:25,560 Speaker 1: That is good news. It's being reset now again. I 616 00:34:25,640 --> 00:34:27,840 Speaker 1: say this in this moment. In two seconds, I'll be 617 00:34:27,920 --> 00:34:32,040 Speaker 1: down on myself and two seconds you know the reality 618 00:34:32,160 --> 00:34:34,480 Speaker 1: was set in. It's all about It's just that's that's 619 00:34:34,520 --> 00:34:39,520 Speaker 1: the eman flow at least of my psyche. Are we 620 00:34:39,640 --> 00:34:45,120 Speaker 1: talking about? Who's what? Are you happy? Birth Paltry? This 621 00:34:45,239 --> 00:34:47,239 Speaker 1: shell might keep me young because I burned so many 622 00:34:47,280 --> 00:34:50,279 Speaker 1: calories when we ran. So listen to this is just 623 00:34:50,320 --> 00:34:53,040 Speaker 1: one of those great stories. If you are in Anaheim 624 00:34:53,320 --> 00:34:55,680 Speaker 1: or ever spend time there, maybe you know these sisters, 625 00:34:56,200 --> 00:35:01,760 Speaker 1: Gypsy and Jelsey Rodriguez. So their sisters who use social 626 00:35:01,840 --> 00:35:05,960 Speaker 1: media to like supercharge their parents business. Gypsy and Jealousy 627 00:35:06,040 --> 00:35:09,719 Speaker 1: Rodriguez and I'm um there behind the popular kin Say 628 00:35:09,840 --> 00:35:13,640 Speaker 1: dress shop Moda two thousand, Moda two thousands, their parents 629 00:35:13,680 --> 00:35:16,240 Speaker 1: found in Mota two thousand as a women's casual boutique 630 00:35:16,280 --> 00:35:20,120 Speaker 1: in after they immigrated here from Mexico, and I guess 631 00:35:20,120 --> 00:35:23,200 Speaker 1: about fifteen years ago, they shifted to kin Say dresses 632 00:35:23,719 --> 00:35:25,759 Speaker 1: and the designs and it didn't go well, Like they 633 00:35:25,880 --> 00:35:30,560 Speaker 1: just weren't getting any traction at first, so they sold 634 00:35:30,640 --> 00:35:35,320 Speaker 1: their home. They moved into the store, and they lived 635 00:35:35,440 --> 00:35:39,800 Speaker 1: in the store for three years. Gypsy and Jealousy Rodriguez, 636 00:35:39,840 --> 00:35:45,560 Speaker 1: Good morning, sisters, how are you high? Right? Good? More spoken? 637 00:35:45,640 --> 00:35:49,080 Speaker 1: Just like sister, read it just like um. So I 638 00:35:49,160 --> 00:35:52,439 Speaker 1: was just giving everybody some background on your parents story 639 00:35:52,520 --> 00:35:54,120 Speaker 1: and your story, and I got to the point where 640 00:35:54,280 --> 00:35:58,000 Speaker 1: you had moved into the store for three years. Tell 641 00:35:58,040 --> 00:36:02,359 Speaker 1: me about that. Oh okay, so we yes, we moved 642 00:36:02,400 --> 00:36:06,080 Speaker 1: into our store. Um for three years. It wasn't as 643 00:36:06,160 --> 00:36:08,360 Speaker 1: bad as it seems. Our story is really big. But 644 00:36:08,440 --> 00:36:10,760 Speaker 1: we did move to like the back into our office. 645 00:36:10,880 --> 00:36:13,080 Speaker 1: And I remember the first night we were there, my 646 00:36:13,200 --> 00:36:15,360 Speaker 1: parents did not tell us where we were going. They're like, no, 647 00:36:15,480 --> 00:36:17,279 Speaker 1: we're just gonna say that a night there because our 648 00:36:17,320 --> 00:36:19,560 Speaker 1: apartments getting ready and we're gonna be, you know, moving 649 00:36:19,600 --> 00:36:22,239 Speaker 1: pretty soon. We're like, okay, So we get there and 650 00:36:23,000 --> 00:36:24,920 Speaker 1: I come home, there's just like a mattress in the 651 00:36:25,000 --> 00:36:27,319 Speaker 1: office and then Gypsy comes home like two hours later, 652 00:36:27,760 --> 00:36:30,080 Speaker 1: and she just cried. She starts crying in the office 653 00:36:30,160 --> 00:36:32,360 Speaker 1: and I'm like, okay, I'm gonna join you. And we 654 00:36:32,440 --> 00:36:35,920 Speaker 1: were just both trying the first night story. Yes, um, 655 00:36:36,040 --> 00:36:38,120 Speaker 1: but we actually it was a crazy experience. It is 656 00:36:38,160 --> 00:36:41,400 Speaker 1: super fun. Um. It actually allowed us to be like 657 00:36:41,680 --> 00:36:44,640 Speaker 1: more in the business. And so you decided, hey, you know, 658 00:36:44,760 --> 00:36:47,880 Speaker 1: we are kind of connected to social media, YouTube, Instagram. 659 00:36:48,000 --> 00:36:52,040 Speaker 1: Eventually TikTok, We're gonna try and help save the Kingsonera 660 00:36:52,040 --> 00:36:55,239 Speaker 1: address design business. And what did you do? And then 661 00:36:55,280 --> 00:36:59,879 Speaker 1: what happened? Okay, So well, my mom was always really 662 00:37:00,040 --> 00:37:02,600 Speaker 1: good with her marketing. Anything that she could do, she 663 00:37:02,800 --> 00:37:06,239 Speaker 1: did it, which was like flyers magazines, being on like 664 00:37:06,360 --> 00:37:08,920 Speaker 1: the radio and TV shows, like she was always on it. 665 00:37:09,360 --> 00:37:11,600 Speaker 1: And I guess growing up we always saw our parents 666 00:37:11,719 --> 00:37:14,719 Speaker 1: working really hard at what they did. They they did 667 00:37:14,840 --> 00:37:17,319 Speaker 1: like two separate roles and they did it so well. 668 00:37:17,880 --> 00:37:20,920 Speaker 1: So growing up we never saw them really struggle because 669 00:37:20,960 --> 00:37:23,600 Speaker 1: they you know, when it got to like the store, 670 00:37:24,000 --> 00:37:26,440 Speaker 1: you know how it was, they didn't really show it 671 00:37:26,520 --> 00:37:28,920 Speaker 1: as much until Jelsey and I started living here at 672 00:37:28,960 --> 00:37:31,799 Speaker 1: the store and we obviously saw them, you know, struggling, 673 00:37:31,880 --> 00:37:34,719 Speaker 1: and so we both took part in the store and 674 00:37:34,960 --> 00:37:37,759 Speaker 1: Jelsey and I both do two different things, which like 675 00:37:37,960 --> 00:37:40,839 Speaker 1: fit perfectly when we started here working in the store. 676 00:37:41,400 --> 00:37:44,520 Speaker 1: So with social media, it just came naturally to us. Um, 677 00:37:45,000 --> 00:37:48,120 Speaker 1: Instagram and YouTube were like this thing back it still 678 00:37:48,200 --> 00:37:49,640 Speaker 1: is the thing, but that was like the only like 679 00:37:49,760 --> 00:37:52,160 Speaker 1: platforms that we had. So we were just posting and 680 00:37:52,280 --> 00:37:55,120 Speaker 1: posting and we didn't really like expect anything until like 681 00:37:55,239 --> 00:37:57,439 Speaker 1: girls started coming in like oh I found you guys 682 00:37:57,480 --> 00:38:00,680 Speaker 1: on Instagram, on YouTube and then eventually tick talk blew up. 683 00:38:00,840 --> 00:38:05,759 Speaker 1: So it's it just came naturally. And now families listen 684 00:38:05,800 --> 00:38:07,480 Speaker 1: to this. Families travel from all over the world to 685 00:38:07,560 --> 00:38:10,000 Speaker 1: be fitted in one of the Mutitude thousand designs. So 686 00:38:10,080 --> 00:38:12,719 Speaker 1: you turned the keen signaria at dress business around for 687 00:38:13,000 --> 00:38:16,480 Speaker 1: your entire family. Okay, So that happened. Now the business 688 00:38:16,560 --> 00:38:20,520 Speaker 1: is doing well for people who are listening whose parents 689 00:38:21,040 --> 00:38:25,080 Speaker 1: want to get address what's the best way to do 690 00:38:25,200 --> 00:38:28,680 Speaker 1: it and how does it work with you? So for us, 691 00:38:28,880 --> 00:38:31,879 Speaker 1: we you could either but an appointment to come into 692 00:38:32,000 --> 00:38:33,839 Speaker 1: store and we'll give you like the full Muti two 693 00:38:33,880 --> 00:38:36,919 Speaker 1: thousand experience. But we know that so many girls don't 694 00:38:36,960 --> 00:38:39,520 Speaker 1: have the opportunity or like their parents, campet into their 695 00:38:39,560 --> 00:38:43,080 Speaker 1: schedules to travel to California. So we started We created 696 00:38:43,160 --> 00:38:46,279 Speaker 1: virtual appointments, and virtual appointments are basically like you have 697 00:38:46,480 --> 00:38:50,560 Speaker 1: the experience virtually. Since like now everything is literally online, 698 00:38:50,640 --> 00:38:52,640 Speaker 1: we wanted to bring that same experience that we do 699 00:38:52,800 --> 00:38:56,759 Speaker 1: in store online. So we've gotten clients literally from Australia, 700 00:38:56,840 --> 00:38:59,799 Speaker 1: from London, anywhere in the world. So wherever you're at, 701 00:39:00,040 --> 00:39:01,920 Speaker 1: if you want to most a thousand gown, we could 702 00:39:01,960 --> 00:39:06,920 Speaker 1: definitely get it for you. Wow, go ahead. Oh, I 703 00:39:07,040 --> 00:39:09,640 Speaker 1: was just saying that we definitely personalize the experience too 704 00:39:09,680 --> 00:39:12,960 Speaker 1: when it's virtual. So Gypsy and Jelsey at Rodriguez out 705 00:39:12,960 --> 00:39:16,480 Speaker 1: of Anaheim just north of the five on Euclid in Anaheim, 706 00:39:16,560 --> 00:39:19,040 Speaker 1: Motitude thousand. Check them out TikTok and Instagram. I just 707 00:39:19,360 --> 00:39:21,480 Speaker 1: love the story of First of all, this boutique has 708 00:39:21,480 --> 00:39:24,440 Speaker 1: been around since it's like a staple here in something California, 709 00:39:24,520 --> 00:39:28,840 Speaker 1: and then y'all stepped in to help save your parents 710 00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:31,200 Speaker 1: and the family with social media. It's a really cool 711 00:39:31,200 --> 00:39:34,320 Speaker 1: way of using social media. So congratulations, and you know 712 00:39:34,360 --> 00:39:37,239 Speaker 1: how many like young women you're making happy with what 713 00:39:37,400 --> 00:39:39,960 Speaker 1: you're doing and staying in business and catering those experiences 714 00:39:40,000 --> 00:39:41,960 Speaker 1: for them. It's really cool. Thank you all for coming on. 715 00:39:42,040 --> 00:39:45,480 Speaker 1: Nice to meet you. Gypsy and Chelsey, thank you so much. 716 00:39:45,840 --> 00:39:52,600 Speaker 1: Bye bye. You can tell their sisters. So it's moutitude 717 00:39:52,640 --> 00:39:57,400 Speaker 1: thousand inc. On TikTok and Instagram. Maybe you want to 718 00:39:57,480 --> 00:40:01,080 Speaker 1: check them out. The jingle ball a lineup coming Friday 719 00:40:01,120 --> 00:40:03,520 Speaker 1: at seven am. Right in the wake of our I 720 00:40:03,640 --> 00:40:07,920 Speaker 1: Heart Radio Music festival in Las Vegas. Happy Birthday a 721 00:40:08,160 --> 00:40:14,120 Speaker 1: Levin and she was there so much. Batchl in Paradise 722 00:40:14,160 --> 00:40:19,480 Speaker 1: premieres tonight. Oh that's not the same readay would be? 723 00:40:19,680 --> 00:40:21,359 Speaker 1: I thought that would garner the same reaction as Aver 724 00:40:21,480 --> 00:40:25,440 Speaker 1: Levin's birthday from Tanya rad I'm excited for Bachelor in Paradise. 725 00:40:25,960 --> 00:40:28,040 Speaker 1: I don't know that I can know. That's my favorite. 726 00:40:28,239 --> 00:40:31,359 Speaker 1: That's the best one. That the best one. In your face, 727 00:40:31,480 --> 00:40:36,839 Speaker 1: it's just like chaos. Chaos. Nicole in Sherman Oaks, Good morning, Nicole. 728 00:40:36,880 --> 00:40:39,920 Speaker 1: How are you? I'm good? How are you doing well? 729 00:40:39,960 --> 00:40:43,279 Speaker 1: Thank you? Al Can we help you? So? Um, I 730 00:40:43,760 --> 00:40:46,359 Speaker 1: have some concerns about my friend's fiance, so I need 731 00:40:46,440 --> 00:40:50,239 Speaker 1: some advice Um. I was having dinner with her and 732 00:40:50,320 --> 00:40:53,239 Speaker 1: her fiance and her family, and we were talking about 733 00:40:53,280 --> 00:40:55,480 Speaker 1: her wedding and she had mentioned that she added an 734 00:40:55,520 --> 00:40:59,320 Speaker 1: air fire to their registry, and then her fiance like 735 00:40:59,440 --> 00:41:01,719 Speaker 1: slipped out on her and got so mad and was 736 00:41:01,800 --> 00:41:04,719 Speaker 1: yelling at her that she added something without telling him. 737 00:41:04,760 --> 00:41:06,080 Speaker 1: And he was yelling at her in front of me 738 00:41:06,280 --> 00:41:09,319 Speaker 1: and her parents, and I had never seen that side 739 00:41:09,360 --> 00:41:14,160 Speaker 1: of him, so it startled me. M So, you saw 740 00:41:14,400 --> 00:41:20,520 Speaker 1: your friend's fiancee be a little aggressive? Yes? What did 741 00:41:20,600 --> 00:41:24,399 Speaker 1: her parents do? They really didn't say much. I think 742 00:41:24,440 --> 00:41:28,040 Speaker 1: they were like startled by it too. I mean she 743 00:41:28,280 --> 00:41:30,400 Speaker 1: and my friend she just kept apologizing. She was like, 744 00:41:30,480 --> 00:41:32,680 Speaker 1: don't be mad at me, like I'm so sorry. But 745 00:41:32,760 --> 00:41:34,959 Speaker 1: I didn't really think she had to apologize for adding 746 00:41:34,960 --> 00:41:37,400 Speaker 1: an air fire to her right history. I mean, she 747 00:41:37,400 --> 00:41:42,200 Speaker 1: wouldn'tn't do anything wrong. Mhm. So what are years? So 748 00:41:42,360 --> 00:41:46,239 Speaker 1: now what are you feeling? Like, what's the issue for you? Well, 749 00:41:46,400 --> 00:41:49,279 Speaker 1: so I brought it up to another friend because I thought, like, 750 00:41:49,400 --> 00:41:51,000 Speaker 1: am I crazy? Like maybe it was just like a 751 00:41:51,080 --> 00:41:54,040 Speaker 1: one time thing. But she mentioned that she saw him 752 00:41:54,080 --> 00:41:56,640 Speaker 1: get mad at her, like when they moved into their 753 00:41:57,160 --> 00:41:59,880 Speaker 1: new house together. And she moved stuff in the pantry. 754 00:42:00,160 --> 00:42:04,000 Speaker 1: He's gotten a temperate issue that's now rearing its head. Yes, 755 00:42:04,160 --> 00:42:06,240 Speaker 1: and we have never seen the side of him before. 756 00:42:06,400 --> 00:42:09,000 Speaker 1: And I mean, I don't I don't want to upset 757 00:42:09,080 --> 00:42:11,040 Speaker 1: my friend, but I want to make sure that she's 758 00:42:11,080 --> 00:42:13,560 Speaker 1: okay and that you know she's making the right decision. 759 00:42:13,880 --> 00:42:18,239 Speaker 1: But to marry him, you know, Oh my goodness. So 760 00:42:18,360 --> 00:42:20,279 Speaker 1: do you think, I guess when trying to get at 761 00:42:20,520 --> 00:42:22,360 Speaker 1: are you saying that you feel like you need to 762 00:42:22,440 --> 00:42:25,560 Speaker 1: sit her down and say, hey, we've seen we not 763 00:42:25,760 --> 00:42:28,960 Speaker 1: just me, have seen this side of your fiance? Is 764 00:42:29,040 --> 00:42:31,799 Speaker 1: everything okay? And have you seen this and just bring 765 00:42:31,840 --> 00:42:33,520 Speaker 1: it to your attention, you know, do with it what 766 00:42:33,600 --> 00:42:35,400 Speaker 1: you want, But just want to tell you what we've observed. 767 00:42:35,640 --> 00:42:38,719 Speaker 1: Is that what you're considering? Yes? But I also you know, 768 00:42:38,760 --> 00:42:40,320 Speaker 1: I don't know if it's any of my business, and 769 00:42:40,360 --> 00:42:42,040 Speaker 1: I don't want to think. I think if we're at 770 00:42:42,080 --> 00:42:43,600 Speaker 1: this point, for here's the way I look at it 771 00:42:43,719 --> 00:42:46,360 Speaker 1: right now, this one specifically, if it's at this point 772 00:42:46,440 --> 00:42:49,000 Speaker 1: in your mind where you're here talking to us about it, 773 00:42:49,360 --> 00:42:51,840 Speaker 1: it's now become your business and it is something that 774 00:42:51,880 --> 00:42:54,600 Speaker 1: I think you'd regret, not addressing with your friend before 775 00:42:54,760 --> 00:42:56,440 Speaker 1: she makes the commitment, because you're not telling her to 776 00:42:56,480 --> 00:42:58,440 Speaker 1: do anything and asking her to do anything. You're saying, hey, look, 777 00:42:58,600 --> 00:43:02,319 Speaker 1: I mean we've observed, and I just want to make 778 00:43:02,360 --> 00:43:05,799 Speaker 1: sure you're aware. I think so too, you know, it's 779 00:43:05,840 --> 00:43:08,000 Speaker 1: so crazy. The same thing is happening in Southern Charm 780 00:43:08,160 --> 00:43:12,160 Speaker 1: with Shep and his Girlfriend's the reality show that I watched, yes, 781 00:43:12,360 --> 00:43:14,759 Speaker 1: and he is being like very overly aggressive to his 782 00:43:14,840 --> 00:43:16,640 Speaker 1: girlfriend and like all the friends are like talking to 783 00:43:16,719 --> 00:43:18,279 Speaker 1: her and pulling her aside and being like why are 784 00:43:18,320 --> 00:43:20,600 Speaker 1: you getting treated like this? Like what you don't deserve this, 785 00:43:20,680 --> 00:43:23,400 Speaker 1: You're so sweet and blah blah blah. And it's one 786 00:43:23,440 --> 00:43:26,120 Speaker 1: of those things where like she's she's really big on 787 00:43:26,239 --> 00:43:28,560 Speaker 1: like religion, and so she believes that God will like 788 00:43:28,640 --> 00:43:29,960 Speaker 1: you know, kind of like work all of this out 789 00:43:30,080 --> 00:43:31,879 Speaker 1: and like and he's going to change for the better 790 00:43:32,000 --> 00:43:34,759 Speaker 1: for her, and maybe he will. Well that's the thing, 791 00:43:34,800 --> 00:43:37,800 Speaker 1: and like maybe you know, with multiple conversations that she 792 00:43:37,880 --> 00:43:41,480 Speaker 1: has with her fiance, your friend will and him they're 793 00:43:41,480 --> 00:43:43,520 Speaker 1: going to be able to work it out. Because right 794 00:43:43,520 --> 00:43:45,279 Speaker 1: now it's like change, it's all happening, you know, like 795 00:43:45,320 --> 00:43:47,400 Speaker 1: they're about to get married, like, these are big milestones 796 00:43:47,400 --> 00:43:48,960 Speaker 1: in their life. They probably just moved into with each other. 797 00:43:49,120 --> 00:43:51,400 Speaker 1: So I think he's going through a lot, she's going 798 00:43:51,440 --> 00:43:53,560 Speaker 1: through a lot. Maybe give it some time and maybe 799 00:43:53,640 --> 00:43:57,200 Speaker 1: he will realize that he's being a jerk. But I 800 00:43:57,280 --> 00:43:58,719 Speaker 1: don't know. I mean, the fact that he did in 801 00:43:58,800 --> 00:44:02,759 Speaker 1: front of her parents not a great sign. I think 802 00:44:02,800 --> 00:44:05,600 Speaker 1: I wouldn't think twice about this. Talk to her, Talk 803 00:44:05,640 --> 00:44:08,919 Speaker 1: to your nicole. You're gonna regret it if you don't. Luck, Okay, 804 00:44:10,280 --> 00:44:12,279 Speaker 1: you all right, appreciate it. I just think if you're 805 00:44:12,280 --> 00:44:13,520 Speaker 1: at this point we're talking to us about it, you 806 00:44:13,520 --> 00:44:16,120 Speaker 1: gotta talk to her about it, right, Talk to her 807 00:44:17,000 --> 00:44:18,960 Speaker 1: not I mean, yes, that's fine, but talk to her 808 00:44:20,000 --> 00:44:22,680 Speaker 1: if it's top of mind for you. You're gonna be 809 00:44:22,880 --> 00:44:25,760 Speaker 1: unhappy if you don't say something. Let her make a decision. 810 00:44:25,800 --> 00:44:28,000 Speaker 1: But say something. So someone walks up and says, oh, 811 00:44:28,040 --> 00:44:35,759 Speaker 1: you're on the radio. Yeah, what do you guys do? Really? 812 00:44:35,880 --> 00:44:38,759 Speaker 1: But we talk a lot about relationships you do? What? Like? 813 00:44:38,880 --> 00:44:40,759 Speaker 1: What do you mean? What? What kind of relationships? Well? 814 00:44:40,880 --> 00:44:43,880 Speaker 1: Personal ones? What do you guys give advice? We do? 815 00:44:44,840 --> 00:44:48,880 Speaker 1: Do you stick to it? No? Are you advice? Sometimes? 816 00:44:49,480 --> 00:44:52,520 Speaker 1: I don't seek to any of my advice. I'm actually 817 00:44:52,760 --> 00:44:55,440 Speaker 1: I'm just gonna say, just boost my own self confidence. 818 00:44:55,480 --> 00:44:58,120 Speaker 1: I'm not terrible all the time at giving relationship advice, 819 00:44:58,200 --> 00:45:03,400 Speaker 1: Like sometimes I actually can give relatively decent advice for 820 00:45:03,560 --> 00:45:08,880 Speaker 1: relationships for myself, though I can't. It's very weird. It's 821 00:45:08,960 --> 00:45:13,319 Speaker 1: kind of like being, um, you know, uh, great at 822 00:45:13,360 --> 00:45:18,000 Speaker 1: coaching a sport, but not really playing it anymore. Like 823 00:45:18,120 --> 00:45:20,920 Speaker 1: I could coach you at swim practice, but I couldn't 824 00:45:21,160 --> 00:45:26,160 Speaker 1: beat you in the lane. But that's not the case 825 00:45:27,560 --> 00:45:33,840 Speaker 1: with what with your relationship. I'm not my own advice. No, no, no, no, 826 00:45:33,960 --> 00:45:36,160 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't want to hear myself. I don't 827 00:45:36,160 --> 00:45:38,440 Speaker 1: even hear myself think about my advice to me, but 828 00:45:38,480 --> 00:45:39,880 Speaker 1: I'm happy to get anyway. The point the reason we 829 00:45:40,640 --> 00:45:42,800 Speaker 1: talk a lot about relationships. If someone to ask you, 830 00:45:42,880 --> 00:45:45,480 Speaker 1: what's the show about, it's really a lot about that, right, 831 00:45:46,000 --> 00:45:49,080 Speaker 1: And that leads us into this prior dating, priorit dating, 832 00:45:49,760 --> 00:45:51,520 Speaker 1: priority dating. So I don't know anything about what you're 833 00:45:51,560 --> 00:45:53,320 Speaker 1: gonna tell me, but to me, it sounds like you 834 00:45:53,360 --> 00:45:59,200 Speaker 1: should date people that have the most boxes checked in 835 00:45:59,280 --> 00:46:02,320 Speaker 1: an order of prey or kind of but not really 836 00:46:02,440 --> 00:46:05,480 Speaker 1: because I think what happens when you're trying to find 837 00:46:05,520 --> 00:46:09,160 Speaker 1: the one. You have this list of boxes that you 838 00:46:09,280 --> 00:46:12,560 Speaker 1: need to check, and a lot of those things are 839 00:46:13,160 --> 00:46:16,960 Speaker 1: i would say, not necessarily your core values. They're a 840 00:46:17,000 --> 00:46:21,520 Speaker 1: little bit more superficial things like tall, yes, tall, dark, 841 00:46:21,560 --> 00:46:27,120 Speaker 1: cancer like things like that, you know, right on all 842 00:46:27,239 --> 00:46:31,640 Speaker 1: three boxes. So priori dating is this kind of like 843 00:46:31,920 --> 00:46:35,480 Speaker 1: low key I think revolutionary dating technique that was created 844 00:46:35,520 --> 00:46:38,280 Speaker 1: by a dating coach and relationship expert at e Harmony. 845 00:46:39,000 --> 00:46:42,879 Speaker 1: It's about prioritizing yourself and your primary needs in order 846 00:46:43,000 --> 00:46:46,400 Speaker 1: to find and build a healthy, long lasting relationship. This 847 00:46:46,560 --> 00:46:50,279 Speaker 1: is all about you first, not necessarily about who you 848 00:46:50,400 --> 00:46:54,279 Speaker 1: want to be with, all about you. So if you 849 00:46:54,360 --> 00:46:56,000 Speaker 1: had to sit there and think about what are your 850 00:46:56,200 --> 00:47:01,279 Speaker 1: core values? What is important to you? Ryan Seacrest, But 851 00:47:01,440 --> 00:47:05,080 Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying, Like that's years, That's what this is. No, 852 00:47:05,160 --> 00:47:10,440 Speaker 1: I didn't I just just whip this up. Values. It's 853 00:47:10,440 --> 00:47:12,759 Speaker 1: not a hard question. Think about yourself, think about your 854 00:47:12,800 --> 00:47:16,960 Speaker 1: top three. So like for me, it's some else of 855 00:47:17,080 --> 00:47:20,839 Speaker 1: your your own. This would be like if you're trying 856 00:47:20,880 --> 00:47:22,160 Speaker 1: to find a part of this would be the non 857 00:47:22,239 --> 00:47:25,480 Speaker 1: negotiable in trying to match with somebody, this would be 858 00:47:25,560 --> 00:47:27,719 Speaker 1: my non negotiable. So like number one for me would 859 00:47:27,719 --> 00:47:30,759 Speaker 1: be safety. Safety is a non negotiable for me. I need, 860 00:47:30,880 --> 00:47:33,279 Speaker 1: I need to value. I need to feel safe and 861 00:47:33,360 --> 00:47:36,920 Speaker 1: protected in a relationship. That's very important to secure secure 862 00:47:37,400 --> 00:47:41,200 Speaker 1: and no, no, no, not necessarily that. But I also 863 00:47:41,239 --> 00:47:43,719 Speaker 1: feel like loyalty falls under this category. So it's kind 864 00:47:43,719 --> 00:47:46,960 Speaker 1: of like the same thing. Um, social that's a core 865 00:47:47,040 --> 00:47:49,080 Speaker 1: value for me, Like I live a very like social life, 866 00:47:49,160 --> 00:47:50,520 Speaker 1: like I knew like whoever I was going to be 867 00:47:50,640 --> 00:47:53,839 Speaker 1: with needed to be like up to speed with all 868 00:47:54,400 --> 00:47:58,000 Speaker 1: social aspects of my life. And then laughter that was 869 00:47:58,040 --> 00:47:59,560 Speaker 1: another core value for me. So those are like my 870 00:47:59,640 --> 00:48:06,520 Speaker 1: non gootiables per se everyone does after you come along. 871 00:48:07,600 --> 00:48:10,480 Speaker 1: But that is but that is like so important to me, 872 00:48:10,680 --> 00:48:14,520 Speaker 1: Ryan like it literally no, But I don't think you 873 00:48:14,640 --> 00:48:17,800 Speaker 1: understand like I need that in my life, like with 874 00:48:17,960 --> 00:48:20,960 Speaker 1: my partner, Like that's what I love about Michael so much, 875 00:48:21,160 --> 00:48:24,640 Speaker 1: is that, Like he makes me laugh like nobody else. 876 00:48:26,560 --> 00:48:29,160 Speaker 1: I don't know. Laughter to me comes with the territory 877 00:48:29,239 --> 00:48:31,759 Speaker 1: like you're gonna that just is I think maybe you're 878 00:48:31,840 --> 00:48:35,280 Speaker 1: just not funny. I'm just saying, like it's not important 879 00:48:35,280 --> 00:48:40,400 Speaker 1: to you because that like, you're not totally unfunny, but 880 00:48:40,520 --> 00:48:42,320 Speaker 1: I like that. But I'm just saying like it's not 881 00:48:42,360 --> 00:48:44,719 Speaker 1: something I'm like, Oh, let's we need like one of 882 00:48:44,800 --> 00:48:47,200 Speaker 1: my boxes he is laughter laughter comes with the territory. 883 00:48:47,640 --> 00:48:55,600 Speaker 1: You don't need a funny gal necessarily need that. All 884 00:48:55,680 --> 00:48:58,360 Speaker 1: that comes with the other boxes for me. All right, 885 00:48:58,400 --> 00:48:59,799 Speaker 1: I'm thinking out loud of these may not be right, 886 00:48:59,840 --> 00:49:03,759 Speaker 1: but maybe it's just toughne so re kind. You said loyal, 887 00:49:03,800 --> 00:49:08,840 Speaker 1: I think loyal and listening a listener somebody could interesting. 888 00:49:09,160 --> 00:49:10,600 Speaker 1: But I feel like i'd want to do that same thing. 889 00:49:10,640 --> 00:49:14,480 Speaker 1: I'd want to be kind, loyal and a listener. That's good. 890 00:49:14,800 --> 00:49:20,239 Speaker 1: And also, yeah, this is a good assignment. I'm not 891 00:49:20,400 --> 00:49:23,000 Speaker 1: totally I'm not done. Maybe I'll change some to think 892 00:49:23,000 --> 00:49:25,560 Speaker 1: about it, I think there you it's hard because if 893 00:49:25,600 --> 00:49:26,959 Speaker 1: you really want to you have to do a little 894 00:49:26,960 --> 00:49:28,479 Speaker 1: bit of soul searching, if you want to think about 895 00:49:28,520 --> 00:49:35,960 Speaker 1: really your core values, like, think about it. I'm thinking, Tanya, well, 896 00:49:36,120 --> 00:49:39,560 Speaker 1: you know interesting values. To me, I feel like it 897 00:49:39,640 --> 00:49:42,399 Speaker 1: is like my relationship with God that's a good one. 898 00:49:43,239 --> 00:49:48,240 Speaker 1: Health is another. Is that a core value? Sure? Wellness? Yeah? Wellness? 899 00:49:48,280 --> 00:49:51,200 Speaker 1: Like I want to like exactly, so you want to 900 00:49:51,280 --> 00:49:52,879 Speaker 1: be dating the guy that just didn't never work out 901 00:49:53,120 --> 00:49:55,640 Speaker 1: a crappy like like I went on a couple of 902 00:49:55,719 --> 00:49:58,160 Speaker 1: days with this guy that like always just going out 903 00:49:58,280 --> 00:50:00,640 Speaker 1: raging on the week days. So doesn't have to for ammas, 904 00:50:00,640 --> 00:50:03,680 Speaker 1: Like I can't do that, Like that's not like he 905 00:50:03,719 --> 00:50:06,879 Speaker 1: didn't last long, No, very very quick. Um, so yeah, 906 00:50:06,880 --> 00:50:11,839 Speaker 1: I'd take my relationship with God health and but they 907 00:50:11,960 --> 00:50:14,640 Speaker 1: have to be into food. If you do not want 908 00:50:14,719 --> 00:50:19,640 Speaker 1: to eat or get excited about eating, cultural eating, different 909 00:50:19,719 --> 00:50:24,200 Speaker 1: territories of the world eating, I cannot hang that can 910 00:50:24,280 --> 00:50:27,000 Speaker 1: be a core value for that. Yeah, for people it 911 00:50:27,080 --> 00:50:30,760 Speaker 1: might be like taking adventures traveling. Prefer a foodie versus 912 00:50:30,800 --> 00:50:34,520 Speaker 1: a funny okay see and for me, no, I prefer 913 00:50:34,640 --> 00:50:38,480 Speaker 1: funny over a food different me too, I don't need 914 00:50:38,520 --> 00:50:41,040 Speaker 1: a foodie. But character is important to me. That's like 915 00:50:41,440 --> 00:50:44,720 Speaker 1: characters general. How to get the wheels turning? Here, everybody 916 00:50:44,760 --> 00:50:46,520 Speaker 1: has to take this show off, let's take this this 917 00:50:46,880 --> 00:50:51,040 Speaker 1: This could go on for days. Not everybody has character. No, okay, 918 00:50:51,360 --> 00:50:54,080 Speaker 1: thank you for waving your finger in our face. I 919 00:50:54,120 --> 00:50:56,920 Speaker 1: think it's important. Character is much more important than chemistry. 920 00:50:57,000 --> 00:50:58,160 Speaker 1: What does I say when you have to wear your 921 00:50:58,200 --> 00:51:00,719 Speaker 1: finger in our faces about your character. No, not Mike. 922 00:51:00,760 --> 00:51:03,680 Speaker 1: I'm just saying character is more important than chemistry. Okay, 923 00:51:03,840 --> 00:51:07,200 Speaker 1: got it. When you'll wipe her finger on air with 924 00:51:07,560 --> 00:51:11,839 Speaker 1: Ryan Seacrest, that's gonna do it for us this morning. 925 00:51:11,880 --> 00:51:15,080 Speaker 1: I kiss at them, sister. You want to stay till eleven, right, 926 00:51:15,239 --> 00:51:20,000 Speaker 1: you enjoy yourself, then there would be nobody but songs 927 00:51:20,040 --> 00:51:21,600 Speaker 1: going back to back to back to back with nobody. 928 00:51:21,680 --> 00:51:24,239 Speaker 1: We'll see tomorrow. Guys, thanks for listening to On Air 929 00:51:24,320 --> 00:51:27,160 Speaker 1: with Ryan Seacrest. Make sure to subscribe and we'll talk 930 00:51:27,200 --> 00:51:28,000 Speaker 1: to you again tomorrow