WEBVTT - Dramatic with Jana Kramer 0:00:00.960 --> 0:00:04.880 This is the most dramatic podcast ever and I heart 0:00:04.960 --> 0:00:10.080 radio podcast. Welcome to the most dramatic podcast ever. I 0:00:10.119 --> 0:00:14.680 am Chris Harrison alongside Lauren Zema. Welcome back to what 0:00:14.800 --> 0:00:16.759 has been an amazing week. I hope you've had a 0:00:16.760 --> 0:00:20.640 wonderful week as well. Yes, we just came back from Charleston, 0:00:20.840 --> 0:00:24.320 South Carolina. Chris and I went on a trip together. 0:00:24.600 --> 0:00:26.920 Can I brag on you for a second? Sure? Yes. 0:00:27.440 --> 0:00:30.800 One of the great things about Elsie, one of the 0:00:30.840 --> 0:00:33.320 more difficult things about me is I'm a tough person 0:00:33.360 --> 0:00:37.320 to buy for. I know this. We're talking gifts. It's 0:00:37.360 --> 0:00:39.240 not that I have everything. I'm just a tough person 0:00:39.280 --> 0:00:42.080 to buy for. And so what Lauren has adapted to 0:00:42.720 --> 0:00:46.559 and I love this is she gives us experiences and 0:00:46.640 --> 0:00:49.440 trips and things like that, and then they're not always extravagant, 0:00:49.440 --> 0:00:52.400 they're not always crazy. And one place that was on 0:00:52.440 --> 0:00:55.440 our bucket list that we had never been was Charleston, 0:00:55.520 --> 0:00:58.320 South Carolina. Well, it's hard. It's also hard to find 0:00:58.360 --> 0:01:02.000 a place you've never been. True traveled so many places 0:01:02.000 --> 0:01:04.240 for the show, but neither of us had been there. 0:01:04.280 --> 0:01:07.320 And so this was my Christmas gift to Chris Harrison 0:01:08.160 --> 0:01:10.399 to go to Charleston, South Carolina, all planned out. This 0:01:10.440 --> 0:01:12.440 is the best part is it was all planned out. 0:01:12.560 --> 0:01:14.959 You planned out where we were staying, where we were 0:01:14.959 --> 0:01:18.000 going to eat. We have a good friend who lives 0:01:18.120 --> 0:01:20.680 because another place I wanted to go to was Kiowa Island. 0:01:21.200 --> 0:01:24.440 It's a golf destination and I've always wanted to go there. 0:01:24.440 --> 0:01:27.080 It's like forty minutes away from Charleston, and so you 0:01:27.480 --> 0:01:29.920 reached out to my friend. You included that in it 0:01:29.959 --> 0:01:34.080 as well. It was just that stuff means so much 0:01:34.120 --> 0:01:37.760 to me, and I guess the takeaway is find that 0:01:37.959 --> 0:01:42.440 something that your significant other really loves. Food, wine, travel, 0:01:42.880 --> 0:01:46.080 you know, those are great gifts. It meant it meant 0:01:46.120 --> 0:01:50.520 more to me than any sweater you would have given me. Well, 0:01:50.960 --> 0:01:52.760 you are hard, so I think we're both hard to 0:01:52.760 --> 0:01:55.240 buy for it though I can't. I can't be one 0:01:55.280 --> 0:01:58.200 sided on that. Like I'm a pretty picky person to 0:01:58.200 --> 0:02:02.600 buy four. Hence why even when Chris proposed he picked 0:02:02.600 --> 0:02:05.640 out the stone of our of the engagement ring and 0:02:05.720 --> 0:02:08.360 gave it to me on just a plain band and said, 0:02:08.880 --> 0:02:10.960 you know, he didn't want to risk getting a ring 0:02:10.960 --> 0:02:12.960 I wouldn't like, So I was able to then go 0:02:13.000 --> 0:02:15.200 design the band myself, which was great because then I 0:02:15.240 --> 0:02:17.360 got the surprise of a ring and I got to 0:02:17.400 --> 0:02:19.079 go have fun designing it. Yeah, I don't think I've 0:02:19.080 --> 0:02:22.639 ever really told that story. We bought We bought the 0:02:22.760 --> 0:02:25.519 ring from a very dear friend of mine and now ours. 0:02:26.000 --> 0:02:28.080 Everybody was upset you didn't use Neil Lane, you know, 0:02:28.600 --> 0:02:32.200 but it was never any shade intended towards Neil Lane. 0:02:32.400 --> 0:02:34.400 But he was a part of the show. And while 0:02:34.520 --> 0:02:36.200 Neil and I got along grade, it's not like we 0:02:36.200 --> 0:02:41.720 were dear friends. This person, Nip mccleve, who owns a 0:02:41.800 --> 0:02:46.040 jewelry store and run He's family owned locally out of 0:02:46.160 --> 0:02:48.320 la for years. So I've been good friends with him, 0:02:48.320 --> 0:02:50.720 and so it just made sense to do something very sincere. 0:02:50.760 --> 0:02:53.280 And I actually got the advice from him. I said, look, 0:02:53.360 --> 0:02:56.200 this is so hard for me because whatever I feel 0:02:56.200 --> 0:02:58.080 like I'm going to get, I don't know if Lauren's 0:02:58.120 --> 0:02:59.720 going to love it. And he says, you know what 0:03:00.080 --> 0:03:02.320 a lot of people are doing now is pick the stone. 0:03:02.400 --> 0:03:07.240 That's the important thing. Then we will give it just 0:03:07.280 --> 0:03:11.200 a very simple band. Give it to her, propose that's 0:03:11.320 --> 0:03:13.760 you know. When she says yes. Hopefully, then we'll come 0:03:13.800 --> 0:03:16.679 back and design the ring of her dreams. Did any 0:03:16.720 --> 0:03:19.240 part of you think I was going to say no? No? 0:03:19.320 --> 0:03:22.799 I thought you would say yes. But that took so 0:03:22.919 --> 0:03:25.560 much pressure off me, because one of the craziest things 0:03:25.560 --> 0:03:28.480 for me, honestly, in the proposal. Proposing was easy. I 0:03:28.919 --> 0:03:31.320 thought you would say yes. I knew I wanted to 0:03:31.360 --> 0:03:34.280 get down on one knee. That part was easy. I 0:03:34.320 --> 0:03:36.560 was scared of giving you a ring that you just 0:03:36.760 --> 0:03:38.760 immediate because in that moment, you don't want your head 0:03:38.760 --> 0:03:41.320 to go anywhere other than oh, my god, I'm so happy. 0:03:41.360 --> 0:03:43.680 I love this man. I can't wait to marry you. 0:03:43.880 --> 0:03:47.080 I don't want it to be Oh, that's that was 0:03:47.120 --> 0:03:49.920 an interesting choice. Well, what's tough about that moment is 0:03:49.960 --> 0:03:52.440 if someone has picked a ring you don't like, you 0:03:52.520 --> 0:03:55.320 suddenly feel like, am I saying yes to this person 0:03:55.360 --> 0:03:57.880 who doesn't even know me? Like that's how you take it? 0:03:57.920 --> 0:03:59.760 As a woman, You're like, does he even know me? 0:03:59.800 --> 0:04:01.400 Why I would he pick this? I mean for me, 0:04:01.560 --> 0:04:03.720 that's yeah, it would kind of take I under I 0:04:03.720 --> 0:04:05.440 see what you're saying, and I appreciate your thought in 0:04:05.480 --> 0:04:06.840 that because it would take some joy out of it, 0:04:06.920 --> 0:04:09.440 but he put it into a very simple just wing 0:04:09.560 --> 0:04:11.520 and then he thought, you know, maybe she'll just love this. 0:04:11.680 --> 0:04:14.000 That could be it too, and then we can go 0:04:14.040 --> 0:04:17.279 back if we want to. So that was but it 0:04:17.279 --> 0:04:18.800 made it fun because then I got to design the 0:04:18.800 --> 0:04:20.560 band and that we got to do it together. Yeah, 0:04:20.920 --> 0:04:23.400 it did, and I highly recommend for those that are 0:04:23.760 --> 0:04:25.960 getting engaged it's not a bad way to go because 0:04:26.000 --> 0:04:28.400 it did. It added another layer that we got to 0:04:28.440 --> 0:04:31.560 do together after the proposal, which was kind of cool. Well, 0:04:31.600 --> 0:04:33.800 and this goes to yeah, so we're both tough to 0:04:33.800 --> 0:04:36.960 buy for you, but I love we have kind of 0:04:36.960 --> 0:04:39.400 started this tradition because for my birthday, you gave me 0:04:39.480 --> 0:04:41.880 a trip to Europe where you had planned everything, which 0:04:41.920 --> 0:04:44.320 was amazing, and it was thirty five, so I think 0:04:44.320 --> 0:04:46.000 I kind of felt like it was a bigger birthday 0:04:46.080 --> 0:04:48.919 or something. But this was Chris's Christmas gift. But what 0:04:49.000 --> 0:04:51.839 I was thinking about how we had people send in 0:04:51.920 --> 0:04:53.960 questions and one of the questions that we didn't get to, 0:04:54.000 --> 0:04:57.480 a relationship question that a listener submitted was how do 0:04:57.520 --> 0:05:00.960 you get out of a relationship rut? And I've realized 0:05:00.960 --> 0:05:03.799 something that really keeps us out of a rut because 0:05:03.800 --> 0:05:06.000 no matter what, right in your daily life, you have 0:05:06.040 --> 0:05:08.000 your restaurants, you go to, your friends, you hang out with, 0:05:08.040 --> 0:05:10.240 and those are all great, but it all is the 0:05:10.279 --> 0:05:14.360 same every day. Um. What helps us stay fresh is 0:05:14.440 --> 0:05:19.000 taking trips or even doing little weekends to new places, 0:05:19.120 --> 0:05:23.760 because when you're experiencing something new with your partner, well 0:05:23.760 --> 0:05:26.479 then that automatically like you have the same person, but 0:05:26.520 --> 0:05:28.599 you're in a new situation. And for us to be 0:05:28.640 --> 0:05:30.760 able to go to Charleston and like, you know, take 0:05:30.800 --> 0:05:34.240 a historical tour and learn about all the history, good 0:05:34.279 --> 0:05:37.240 and bad in that city, meet the incredible people of 0:05:37.240 --> 0:05:40.720 that city, try the new foods, and see the new places. 0:05:40.800 --> 0:05:45.440 It it's like automatically invigorating. And we share that adventure 0:05:45.920 --> 0:05:51.359 adventurous attitude and that zest for travel, and so we 0:05:51.440 --> 0:05:53.360 love explaining. You know what's great about gifts we give 0:05:53.360 --> 0:05:56.560 each other is they're also gifts we give ourselves. They're 0:05:56.680 --> 0:05:59.600 very self serving. I love this trip I got you 0:06:00.560 --> 0:06:03.039 and I had never been to Charleston, and let me 0:06:03.080 --> 0:06:06.680 just give a shout out. And by the way, no endorsements, 0:06:07.480 --> 0:06:09.800 we didn't there were no trade outs, no nothing like 0:06:10.320 --> 0:06:13.240 Elzi just paid for this. So this is Uh, we're 0:06:13.240 --> 0:06:15.200 not We're not trying to gain any favor because we're 0:06:15.200 --> 0:06:20.160 long gone. Charleston was amazing, What an amazing city, obviously 0:06:20.200 --> 0:06:23.680 full of history. Uh so much of our country's history 0:06:23.760 --> 0:06:27.039 came through those ports. And um, the you know Fort 0:06:27.080 --> 0:06:30.479 Sumter is there, there is I'm a history buff. I 0:06:30.520 --> 0:06:33.040 love history. Lauren is finding this out more and should 0:06:33.080 --> 0:06:34.920 have got him a tour of the boat. You guys, 0:06:35.279 --> 0:06:40.960 I didn't even know about this boat. Checked intip we 0:06:41.080 --> 0:06:45.280 checked into this very quaint hotel and it has a 0:06:45.400 --> 0:06:49.240 view of Fort Sumter, very famous you know Ford from 0:06:49.240 --> 0:06:53.159 the Civil War. And um, then there is this massive 0:06:53.160 --> 0:06:56.640 aircraft carrier. I might be I might be a complete idiot, 0:06:56.960 --> 0:07:00.360 but I didn't know what aircraft carrier had been, you know, 0:07:00.400 --> 0:07:03.920 stationed in mothballed there in Charleston. It's been there since 0:07:03.920 --> 0:07:06.400 the seventies, by the way, and it was the USS 0:07:06.560 --> 0:07:11.080 Yorktown easily one of the most famous aircraft carriers in 0:07:11.120 --> 0:07:13.120 the history of the United States of America. It was 0:07:13.160 --> 0:07:17.040 in three battles and World War Two, and I think 0:07:17.040 --> 0:07:19.960 it served in Vietnam as well. Not everybody's a history buff, 0:07:20.000 --> 0:07:21.920 So anyway, I was peaking out that this was right 0:07:21.960 --> 0:07:23.880 outside the window. I just thought it was amazing. So 0:07:24.200 --> 0:07:27.400 but we did a walking tour of Charleston, yes, which 0:07:27.440 --> 0:07:30.080 was amazing. I very much recommend something I love to 0:07:30.120 --> 0:07:32.560 do and you can book them through I use via 0:07:32.640 --> 0:07:37.040 tour is a walking food tour because you walk, your 0:07:37.200 --> 0:07:39.160 guide tells you the history of the city. As you walk, 0:07:39.200 --> 0:07:41.800 you stop in places, and then you stop and eat 0:07:41.840 --> 0:07:43.920 at like three or four different restaurants, just little bites 0:07:43.960 --> 0:07:46.640 at each place. And food is so tied to our culture, right, 0:07:46.680 --> 0:07:48.960 So I mean a you're eating, you're eating great food, 0:07:49.000 --> 0:07:50.840 and you're hearing more about the city through the food. 0:07:50.920 --> 0:07:53.400 And so it was so much fun. Can I tell 0:07:53.480 --> 0:07:55.960 something embarrassing about the tour? So Elze and I go 0:07:56.000 --> 0:07:58.120 on this tour and I don't know if you were 0:07:58.120 --> 0:07:59.960 embarrassed at all. I felt a little out of play. 0:08:00.560 --> 0:08:04.320 So Lauren warned me. She knows I don't love crowds, 0:08:04.680 --> 0:08:06.600 and so she said, look, we're with a group. It 0:08:06.640 --> 0:08:08.400 was a small group though, it was like ten people 0:08:08.480 --> 0:08:11.040 or twelve people, and so that was perfect. And so 0:08:11.080 --> 0:08:13.800 we meet, you know, in the historic part of Charleston, 0:08:13.840 --> 0:08:16.480 and you gather as a group and we introduce ourselves 0:08:16.480 --> 0:08:20.640 then you start the walking tour, and Lauren said, we 0:08:20.720 --> 0:08:23.120 got the food thing, and then I added on there 0:08:23.160 --> 0:08:26.920 was an option you can add on a curated drink 0:08:26.960 --> 0:08:29.360 experience at each stop as well. Guys, I'm going to 0:08:29.440 --> 0:08:31.600 say yes to the cocktail add on in the PA. 0:08:31.960 --> 0:08:33.360 By the way, I would have as well, So we 0:08:33.400 --> 0:08:37.000 added on the cocktail part of this. Well, Laura and 0:08:37.040 --> 0:08:40.040 I were the only ones that pushed yes on the cocktail. 0:08:40.120 --> 0:08:42.520 So everywhere we went and it was kind of a 0:08:42.520 --> 0:08:44.079 big deal where she's like, yeah, we have two over 0:08:44.120 --> 0:08:47.199 here that are drinking, and so every time we sat down, 0:08:47.720 --> 0:08:50.439 you and I got and it wasn't like a sampler. 0:08:50.480 --> 0:08:53.160 They put these massive cocktails in front of us at 0:08:53.240 --> 0:08:55.280 age and everyone I thought at the table just kind 0:08:55.320 --> 0:08:57.800 of looked at us like wow, okay, like they have 0:08:57.800 --> 0:09:00.440 a problem. Yeah. We Actually there was another couple and 0:09:00.480 --> 0:09:02.560 we started saying, do you want to take like we 0:09:02.600 --> 0:09:06.400 have these two huge tumblers of like a Southern tea 0:09:06.440 --> 0:09:08.480 time or whatever it was, do you want to take 0:09:08.520 --> 0:09:10.720 one of these? We'll just share the drink package with you. 0:09:10.760 --> 0:09:13.560 Because it was a little embarrassing, but hey, we were 0:09:13.559 --> 0:09:15.080 there for a good time, not a long time. Okay, 0:09:15.120 --> 0:09:17.080 we're only there for four days. I wanted to try 0:09:17.120 --> 0:09:20.000 the local drinks, the different I forget some. There was 0:09:20.040 --> 0:09:23.160 a punch you know, places of local cocktails, Babe, I'm 0:09:23.200 --> 0:09:27.880 about history too. I just felt like all our cocktails 0:09:27.320 --> 0:09:31.040 on this first stop at this barbecue place que Barbecue 0:09:31.120 --> 0:09:34.560 or Quology, and everyone was just like, Wow, you guys 0:09:34.559 --> 0:09:37.880 are gonna just jump in with those hurricanes. And it 0:09:37.920 --> 0:09:40.360 was so it was one o'clock. Okay, two quick shout 0:09:40.400 --> 0:09:44.199 outs to places we went. Yes, restaurants. Oh, I love 0:09:44.240 --> 0:09:45.880 restaurants and I love giving a shout out to a 0:09:45.920 --> 0:09:49.000 place we loved. And again we paid full fare. These 0:09:49.000 --> 0:09:50.679 are not trade outs. They have no idea we were 0:09:50.679 --> 0:09:55.720 even there. Place called Magnolia was amazing, Yes, incredible service, 0:09:55.760 --> 0:09:59.800 grateful ten out of ten. And Husk was phenomenal, which 0:09:59.840 --> 0:10:02.000 is local. And if I haven't gone back to look, 0:10:02.040 --> 0:10:04.880 but someone told me Anthony Bourdaine, who I'm a huge 0:10:05.040 --> 0:10:07.600 fan of and always watched his stuff and just loved 0:10:07.640 --> 0:10:11.839 him dearly um was a friend of the owner of Husk, 0:10:11.920 --> 0:10:14.680 and so he visited Charleston and eighth there as well. 0:10:14.800 --> 0:10:16.320 So I need to go back and watch that. But 0:10:16.920 --> 0:10:19.480 the Magnolia was one hundred ten out of ten, and 0:10:19.480 --> 0:10:21.440 then Husk was right up there as well. You know, 0:10:21.600 --> 0:10:23.199 I have the I will say, I think I did 0:10:23.240 --> 0:10:25.839 well with the trip. Should have booked the boat tour 0:10:26.200 --> 0:10:30.280 the aircraft carrier to it. You were like an excited 0:10:30.320 --> 0:10:33.240 little kid looking out the window. Look look at the boat. 0:10:33.600 --> 0:10:35.200 Well it's funny, is I asked? We were at this 0:10:35.320 --> 0:10:37.160 on this rooftop. And by the way, if you ever 0:10:37.200 --> 0:10:40.679 go there, the Duberry had this amazing rooftop bar and 0:10:40.800 --> 0:10:43.160 you can see it's one hundred and eighty de Grieview, 0:10:43.280 --> 0:10:46.240 So you're looking into old town Charleston and all the churches. 0:10:46.280 --> 0:10:48.200 Then you can see Fort Sumter and then you can 0:10:48.240 --> 0:10:50.760 see the aircraft carrier. And so I asked the waitress, like, 0:10:50.880 --> 0:10:53.560 I feel like an idiot, but what aircraft carrier is that? 0:10:53.720 --> 0:10:56.280 And she says, I don't know, so we're not idiot. 0:10:56.360 --> 0:10:59.720 So I googled yes, and there's like it's the Yorktown. 0:10:59.720 --> 0:11:02.320 And I really was like a child at Christmas because 0:11:02.320 --> 0:11:05.240 I'm a I'm a fan. Well, one thing I would 0:11:05.240 --> 0:11:07.480 have done, actually, which would have satisfied both our interests. 0:11:07.520 --> 0:11:09.520 We found out there's a ghost tour you can do 0:11:09.559 --> 0:11:11.480 a ghost tour of the ship late at night. I 0:11:11.559 --> 0:11:14.720 love a ghostie, so that would have been cool. Um, 0:11:14.840 --> 0:11:17.200 we'll have to go back to Charleston. But Charleston also 0:11:17.360 --> 0:11:19.680 a ten out of ten just for it's a walking city. 0:11:19.720 --> 0:11:22.000 It's easy and look, I will say, people are great. 0:11:22.040 --> 0:11:24.760 We did not meet a stranger. No. Everyone was so kind, 0:11:24.920 --> 0:11:26.840 including our waiter who we ended up going out with 0:11:27.000 --> 0:11:29.400 after our dinner at Magnolia and had a cocktail, which 0:11:29.400 --> 0:11:33.280 was weird. He was a sweet kid, he's he recommended 0:11:33.280 --> 0:11:34.960 a bar. We went to the bar and then he 0:11:35.000 --> 0:11:37.040 came to the We ended up having a drink and 0:11:37.040 --> 0:11:38.280 I think we bought him a drink. We did, We 0:11:38.280 --> 0:11:42.360 bought our way to a drink after dinner. But it 0:11:42.440 --> 0:11:43.880 was Yeah, it was so fun. And I will say 0:11:43.920 --> 0:11:46.640 when we do these trips, like I think, what's important 0:11:46.679 --> 0:11:48.240 and what makes it a gift as much as we 0:11:48.280 --> 0:11:50.800 both might enjoy it, is you have to do like 0:11:51.280 --> 0:11:53.920 you did two days of golf on Kiowa and I 0:11:54.000 --> 0:11:56.880 hung out with you know, our friend or our friend 0:11:57.360 --> 0:11:59.880 our friend's wife. We did some nice beach walks together. 0:12:00.040 --> 0:12:02.480 But I wasn't going to Kiua except for you. I 0:12:02.600 --> 0:12:04.400 knew you wanted to golf there and thank you for 0:12:04.520 --> 0:12:07.640 checking that off my list. Yes, so next time we'll add. 0:12:09.120 --> 0:12:11.040 But I lore stuff. I love that you do that 0:12:11.360 --> 0:12:14.480 for me and with me is travel and adventure, and 0:12:14.520 --> 0:12:16.720 that was something we talked about early on in our 0:12:16.760 --> 0:12:19.120 relationship that we both loved that we both love to 0:12:19.160 --> 0:12:21.960 be on the go and do things together. Speaking of 0:12:22.000 --> 0:12:27.520 being on the go and trips, this Gwyneth Paltrow story, Oh, 0:12:27.559 --> 0:12:32.360 you're transitioning to ski trip. This is a headline and 0:12:32.440 --> 0:12:35.600 it's a weird headline that I'm still trying to figure out. 0:12:35.600 --> 0:12:38.680 You and I have really kind of dove deep into 0:12:38.720 --> 0:12:41.720 this rabbit hole. So Gwyneth, isn't everyone I think this 0:12:41.840 --> 0:12:45.000 is a celebrity trial that I mean, I would definitely 0:12:45.040 --> 0:12:46.640 put it in the most dramatic headlines of the week. 0:12:46.679 --> 0:12:48.880 Everybody seems to be following it. I don't think it's 0:12:48.880 --> 0:12:52.240 on the Johnny Depp amber heard level, but to me, 0:12:52.320 --> 0:12:55.959 it's on the level of what the hell, what is happening? 0:12:56.000 --> 0:12:59.240 This is the weirdest story. Gwyneth Paltrow was on a 0:12:59.240 --> 0:13:03.280 ski trip and dear Valley six seven years ago and 0:13:04.480 --> 0:13:06.360 it's outside of Salt Lake. If you know, up in 0:13:06.360 --> 0:13:08.880 Park City and Deer Valley's this kind of exclusive place 0:13:09.440 --> 0:13:15.240 and it's quite beautiful. I've been there. And she either 0:13:15.800 --> 0:13:19.679 ran into somebody or this somebody ran into her. There 0:13:19.720 --> 0:13:23.040 was a collision on the ski slopes. She alleges this guy, 0:13:23.120 --> 0:13:26.240 this doctor, ran into her, and the doctor's alleging that 0:13:26.320 --> 0:13:29.320 she ran into him. Either way, they had a collision 0:13:29.400 --> 0:13:32.520 in Deer Valley, and six seven years later, they're now 0:13:32.600 --> 0:13:36.319 having a trial because this man alleges that she ran 0:13:36.360 --> 0:13:38.120 into him and now he has suffered all kind of 0:13:38.120 --> 0:13:42.160 physical and mental ailments. Yes, and it's it is a 0:13:42.160 --> 0:13:44.360 little confusing because at first he was suing her for 0:13:44.400 --> 0:13:47.160 like three million dollars and I believe that. Then a 0:13:47.280 --> 0:13:51.040 judge capped it at three hundred thousand dollars. So now 0:13:51.040 --> 0:13:52.800 at the end of the day, he's suing her for 0:13:52.800 --> 0:13:55.920 three hundred thousand dollars. She is countersuing for one dollar 0:13:56.000 --> 0:14:00.400 plus attorney's fees. And it's coming down to this, he said, 0:14:00.440 --> 0:14:03.319 she said, of just who hit who? And I'm seeing 0:14:03.440 --> 0:14:06.760 article headlines like what is ski etiquette? The trial is 0:14:06.760 --> 0:14:09.480 going to come down to ski conduct of who has 0:14:09.520 --> 0:14:11.480 the right of way on a mountain? And then It's 0:14:11.520 --> 0:14:13.760 also going to come down to like who you believe, right, 0:14:13.800 --> 0:14:16.920 because I think it's just his word against hers on 0:14:16.960 --> 0:14:19.920 who skied into whom. As far as the skiing situation, 0:14:20.240 --> 0:14:23.120 this happens on the daily at every ski slope in 0:14:23.160 --> 0:14:25.040 the world where that's something we've never done together and 0:14:25.080 --> 0:14:27.080 never been skiing. I'm a horrible ski People just run 0:14:27.120 --> 0:14:29.320 into each other. Are you a good skier? I do. 0:14:29.400 --> 0:14:32.360 I'm a pretty good skier and I love Honestly, guys, 0:14:32.440 --> 0:14:35.600 Chris Harrison is athletically good at everything. It's shocking. You 0:14:35.640 --> 0:14:37.520 should see us playing pickle ball. I stand in the 0:14:37.560 --> 0:14:40.520 front and he runs around like a madman behind me, 0:14:40.720 --> 0:14:42.840 getting every ball and people are like, oh, like if 0:14:42.840 --> 0:14:44.760 we win, it's like, well, I mean, Chris Harrison one, 0:14:44.880 --> 0:14:47.440 I'm literally actually When we were on Spring Breaking, Cobbo, 0:14:48.040 --> 0:14:51.160 you and Let's reveal to the world what you and 0:14:51.240 --> 0:14:56.840 Ivana Firestone did to Andrew and I, which is we 0:14:56.440 --> 0:14:59.600 we swung. We couple swapped, couple swapped on the pond 0:14:59.680 --> 0:15:03.160 the pickle because Ivanna knows herself well enough to know 0:15:03.240 --> 0:15:06.359 that her and Andrew are not good partners in competitive situations, 0:15:06.440 --> 0:15:10.360 so she switched and she and I who were defending champs, 0:15:11.400 --> 0:15:13.360 ran it back, and then you were you were partners 0:15:13.400 --> 0:15:16.280 with Andrew Firestone, our kids were together, and so we 0:15:16.360 --> 0:15:19.400 had a good little tournament. And yes, Ivanna Firestone and 0:15:19.440 --> 0:15:23.320 I are international Pickaball champions. But we digress back to 0:15:23.360 --> 0:15:26.880 the ski incident. Yes, this happens every day on the daily, 0:15:26.920 --> 0:15:30.000 at every slope, not a huge deal. People run into 0:15:30.000 --> 0:15:32.560 each other. Everyone had helmets on and goggles and all 0:15:32.560 --> 0:15:38.040 this other stuff. In skiing, it's kind of like a 0:15:38.040 --> 0:15:42.200 traffic accident. Whoever hits whom from behind, that's usually the 0:15:42.200 --> 0:15:44.240 person who fault. If you get rear ended, the person 0:15:44.240 --> 0:15:48.000 who rearended you is it faults yet nine percent of 0:15:48.000 --> 0:15:50.760 the time. So she is alleging and this is the 0:15:51.040 --> 0:15:53.560 this is where things get weird that all of a 0:15:53.600 --> 0:15:58.800 sudden she was skiing and skis slipped in between her legs. 0:15:59.040 --> 0:16:02.840 So she skiing, two skis slide between her, her legs 0:16:02.880 --> 0:16:06.040 start to separate, and then they fall. And but before 0:16:06.040 --> 0:16:08.760 that she heard this, she felt a body pressed against 0:16:08.800 --> 0:16:12.920 her and this man was grunting and groaning in what 0:16:13.080 --> 0:16:17.320 she kind of described in a sexual manner. This guy, 0:16:17.360 --> 0:16:20.320 I find out later was probably sixty eight sixty nine 0:16:20.400 --> 0:16:23.280 years old at the time, so it's just a bizarre 0:16:23.320 --> 0:16:28.320 scenario and a bizarre story. I mean, the details of 0:16:28.320 --> 0:16:30.440 what I don't know. Look, I think part of the 0:16:30.480 --> 0:16:33.280 thing if you're being if you're in some kind of collision, 0:16:34.400 --> 0:16:38.600 I would imagine it's all pretty chaotic. I have to say. 0:16:38.640 --> 0:16:41.400 Watching Gwyneth, I mean, and I don't think the guys 0:16:41.440 --> 0:16:43.840 testified yet I find I found her story to be 0:16:43.960 --> 0:16:45.560 very believable. I mean, I thought she was a very 0:16:45.600 --> 0:16:48.160 matter of fact. If we're just talking about the then Look, 0:16:48.200 --> 0:16:50.320 I know in trials it's you know, you have to 0:16:50.360 --> 0:16:53.240 look at the facts and believability whatever. But I found 0:16:53.240 --> 0:16:56.440 her to be believable. I was watching her and I 0:16:56.480 --> 0:16:59.000 felt like she was telling the truth. This was simple. 0:16:59.400 --> 0:17:01.880 I also feel like now that it's down to three 0:17:01.920 --> 0:17:05.600 hundred thousand dollars, like, here's why I believe her that 0:17:05.800 --> 0:17:08.240 to her, it's a rounding air is not that big 0:17:08.240 --> 0:17:12.359 of a number. So I think she like, at this 0:17:12.400 --> 0:17:14.119 point she could have just settled out of court with 0:17:14.160 --> 0:17:17.080 this guy. I think she's on principle now and she's like, 0:17:17.119 --> 0:17:19.320 I didn't do this, and so it's going to court. 0:17:19.760 --> 0:17:22.080 So that makes me believe her. Two things that came 0:17:22.080 --> 0:17:24.199 out that really I kind of set the tone for me, 0:17:24.240 --> 0:17:27.359 and I agree, I am fully behind Gwyneth Paltrow in this. 0:17:28.359 --> 0:17:31.440 The guy texted his daughter rather clearly he didn't know 0:17:31.560 --> 0:17:34.199 is Gwyneth Paltrow. You couldn't tell it was her. I 0:17:34.240 --> 0:17:36.639 think he just genuinely ran into another human being. It 0:17:36.680 --> 0:17:39.360 turns out he found out it was Gwyneth Paltrow, and 0:17:39.440 --> 0:17:43.600 he texted his daughter later that, hey, I'm famous now 0:17:43.800 --> 0:17:48.000 I ran into Gwyneth Paltrow. And then subsequently all these 0:17:48.000 --> 0:17:51.160 ailments happened and all that. So they talked in the moment. 0:17:51.200 --> 0:17:53.760 There wasn't anything devastating, There were no big injuries for 0:17:53.840 --> 0:17:57.000 either one of them. They went their separate ways. And 0:17:57.160 --> 0:18:00.280 now later things come up that he has these Well, look, 0:18:00.320 --> 0:18:03.200 maybe he has has like the collision, maybe he has 0:18:03.240 --> 0:18:06.680 had serious issues from the collision. But that doesn't mean 0:18:06.720 --> 0:18:09.439 that she caused the collision, you know. Oh and the 0:18:09.480 --> 0:18:12.560 GoPro apparently there was GoPro video because the dad was 0:18:13.240 --> 0:18:18.600 the doctor was had GoPro video. That video has mysteriously disappeared. 0:18:18.640 --> 0:18:21.560 Well that also, I found those two things I thought 0:18:21.600 --> 0:18:24.040 were a huge indictment on his story. I think her 0:18:24.080 --> 0:18:27.919 ski instructors to that sentence. I think her ski instructor 0:18:28.440 --> 0:18:30.720 is testifying this week, and I'm interested in what the 0:18:30.760 --> 0:18:33.639 ski instructor has to say, because he was there and 0:18:33.760 --> 0:18:37.160 stayed with the doctor even after Gwyneth went on. There's witnesses, 0:18:37.359 --> 0:18:39.320 I know when you're when you're skiing in Deer Valley. 0:18:39.359 --> 0:18:42.040 It's one of the most famous ski slopes in America. 0:18:42.320 --> 0:18:45.080 It's not like they were alone. There had to be 0:18:45.200 --> 0:18:48.199 dozens of people that saw this, witnessed it. So I 0:18:48.240 --> 0:18:50.480 think this thing falls apart very quickly. It just struck 0:18:50.480 --> 0:18:52.440 me as weird that this sixty nine year old man 0:18:52.960 --> 0:18:56.919 skied up between Gwyneth Paltrow's legs. It's just odd. The 0:18:56.960 --> 0:18:59.760 whole thing was just so weird. Well, my favorite headline 0:18:59.760 --> 0:19:03.760 out of it is from People magazine. People People really 0:19:03.800 --> 0:19:07.000 doing the hard journalist. Well, I love this headline. I do, 0:19:07.080 --> 0:19:08.919 because that's the thing. At the end of the day, 0:19:08.960 --> 0:19:12.000 you gotta remember this is Gwyneth Paltrow and People Magazine's 0:19:12.040 --> 0:19:17.159 headline about the trial is Gwyneth Paltrow's courtroom looks are 0:19:17.200 --> 0:19:24.240 peak Gwyneths elevated neutrals. They are elevated neutrals, it means, 0:19:24.400 --> 0:19:27.320 but it's just such a weird like People magazine. People 0:19:27.320 --> 0:19:29.720 magazine is like, look, we have nothing, we have nothing 0:19:29.760 --> 0:19:32.800 to talk about. This story is so weird. Let's talk 0:19:32.840 --> 0:19:35.240 about her FA I disagree. I don't think that we 0:19:35.280 --> 0:19:36.960 have nothing to talk about. I think it's let's talk 0:19:37.000 --> 0:19:41.320 about everything in this trial. Oh, by the way, speaking 0:19:41.320 --> 0:19:43.719 of this trial, you showed this to me. If you 0:19:43.720 --> 0:19:45.560 guys have nothing to do in your board at work 0:19:45.560 --> 0:19:51.760 today or your board at school, google the opening statements 0:19:52.160 --> 0:19:54.320 and part of this trial. You have to watch. First 0:19:54.359 --> 0:19:57.320 of all, this doctor's lawyer. I think she wants to 0:19:57.320 --> 0:20:00.600 be bff's with Gwyneth at the end of this her 0:20:01.280 --> 0:20:04.960