1 00:00:03,200 --> 00:00:05,280 Speaker 1: Welcome back to more to It to show that text 2 00:00:05,280 --> 00:00:08,240 Speaker 1: a deep dive into the biggest stories in sports, entertainment, 3 00:00:08,240 --> 00:00:08,799 Speaker 1: and culture. 4 00:00:09,119 --> 00:00:10,920 Speaker 2: Start with headline news and then journey to. 5 00:00:10,960 --> 00:00:14,520 Speaker 1: Deeper conversations, always finding those life lessons that are presented 6 00:00:14,600 --> 00:00:18,400 Speaker 1: in every single story. I'm your host, ourselfswhilely that dude, 7 00:00:19,160 --> 00:00:22,639 Speaker 1: what's up with that dude? Well, a man went to 8 00:00:22,680 --> 00:00:27,360 Speaker 1: a kid's party, a kid's pool party at that woo everywhere. 9 00:00:28,880 --> 00:00:31,400 Speaker 1: Don't jump in that water unless you like lemonade, like 10 00:00:31,440 --> 00:00:34,199 Speaker 1: one of those kind nah man, great people. It's my 11 00:00:34,320 --> 00:00:36,800 Speaker 1: son's best friend, like you know, because it's the one 12 00:00:36,880 --> 00:00:40,080 Speaker 1: he pumps up the most, he has the most fun with. Uh, 13 00:00:40,120 --> 00:00:44,120 Speaker 1: they just kick it, oh man, little dude, little Lucas, 14 00:00:44,200 --> 00:00:47,800 Speaker 1: he the homie and call a little sweaty head because 15 00:00:47,840 --> 00:00:50,400 Speaker 1: you know, I sweat all the time, and Lucas sweats 16 00:00:50,400 --> 00:00:53,440 Speaker 1: a lot, but only in his hair, like no other 17 00:00:53,479 --> 00:00:55,080 Speaker 1: part of his body, like his face a little bit. 18 00:00:55,120 --> 00:00:58,080 Speaker 1: I'm playing, but he don't sweat everywhere he his hair. 19 00:00:58,480 --> 00:01:02,800 Speaker 1: Soon look first quarter, first play, Lucas has went like, oh, 20 00:01:02,880 --> 00:01:05,520 Speaker 1: you're so funny, such a good little kid. 21 00:01:05,600 --> 00:01:07,640 Speaker 2: Man. Love him and his family so much. 22 00:01:07,480 --> 00:01:11,319 Speaker 1: And my boy swears by him, So so funny because 23 00:01:11,319 --> 00:01:14,200 Speaker 1: you like you project how long they're gonna be besties 24 00:01:14,319 --> 00:01:16,760 Speaker 1: or what happens when they split schools? So do they 25 00:01:16,760 --> 00:01:19,240 Speaker 1: stay in the same school forever? And you know, how 26 00:01:19,240 --> 00:01:22,400 Speaker 1: do those bonds go? Because man, you know he's going 27 00:01:22,440 --> 00:01:25,959 Speaker 1: to the second grade. Man, I got my best friend 28 00:01:26,080 --> 00:01:29,319 Speaker 1: JABORI Yeah, yeah, we met in the second grade. Met 29 00:01:29,360 --> 00:01:31,959 Speaker 1: in the second grade, still tilting to this day. So 30 00:01:32,160 --> 00:01:33,880 Speaker 1: you never know, man, But I hope they just keep 31 00:01:33,920 --> 00:01:36,399 Speaker 1: that connection. But good times. We had that little idy 32 00:01:36,440 --> 00:01:40,160 Speaker 1: bitty party that was fun. And then I'm waiting on 33 00:01:40,240 --> 00:01:45,319 Speaker 1: my sister to really really recover from the old school party. Yes, 34 00:01:46,080 --> 00:01:48,360 Speaker 1: my man dj Adam twelve, if y'all know him, he's 35 00:01:48,360 --> 00:01:51,440 Speaker 1: throwing the old school party and dinner and drinks and 36 00:01:51,640 --> 00:01:54,880 Speaker 1: a little dancing dd d oh. Man, come on, baby, 37 00:01:54,920 --> 00:01:57,960 Speaker 1: come on, lok my sister o g hennilow d d 38 00:01:58,120 --> 00:02:01,680 Speaker 1: D dinner, dancing and drinks do it dog pound gangster. 39 00:02:02,240 --> 00:02:04,880 Speaker 1: But she's still recovering for her foot injury. I'm telling you, 40 00:02:04,880 --> 00:02:06,360 Speaker 1: if she was on my football team, she had been 41 00:02:06,360 --> 00:02:10,480 Speaker 1: cut so long ago. She hurt her foot December thirty first, 42 00:02:10,520 --> 00:02:15,320 Speaker 1: and she's still limping. God dang, I mean, nobody had 43 00:02:15,360 --> 00:02:18,440 Speaker 1: a foot y'all mean healed from his foot injury faster 44 00:02:18,480 --> 00:02:19,600 Speaker 1: than you baby, come home. 45 00:02:19,639 --> 00:02:19,799 Speaker 2: Look. 46 00:02:20,360 --> 00:02:22,240 Speaker 1: And other than that, I've been playing with my kids 47 00:02:22,280 --> 00:02:27,320 Speaker 1: with a different spirit, different mindset, trying to be truly 48 00:02:27,639 --> 00:02:32,400 Speaker 1: appreciative and mindful when I'm playing with them in academics 49 00:02:32,440 --> 00:02:36,600 Speaker 1: and athletics, because I'm trying to broaden their base and 50 00:02:36,639 --> 00:02:38,799 Speaker 1: then I work on their skills later. 51 00:02:39,240 --> 00:02:43,360 Speaker 2: What does that mean? So basically, in academics, I want. 52 00:02:43,200 --> 00:02:47,440 Speaker 1: To just let them explore, so math, then we get 53 00:02:47,440 --> 00:02:53,160 Speaker 1: into spelling, geography, you know, facts, fun facts, Just get 54 00:02:53,240 --> 00:02:55,720 Speaker 1: into those things and just let them have fun with 55 00:02:55,800 --> 00:02:59,040 Speaker 1: it and don't always apply like the methods of like 56 00:02:59,160 --> 00:03:02,040 Speaker 1: figuring it out. Let them kind of just explore and 57 00:03:02,160 --> 00:03:05,360 Speaker 1: be mentally curious and intellectually curious about all these things, 58 00:03:05,360 --> 00:03:09,160 Speaker 1: including athletics. Yeah, so you know showing my boy, hey man, 59 00:03:09,200 --> 00:03:10,160 Speaker 1: shoot with your right hand? 60 00:03:10,160 --> 00:03:12,000 Speaker 2: Why because you're not as good with your right hand. 61 00:03:12,040 --> 00:03:12,600 Speaker 2: You're a lefty. 62 00:03:12,919 --> 00:03:16,079 Speaker 1: Oh okay, now play and you're just like, hey man, 63 00:03:16,200 --> 00:03:18,919 Speaker 1: you know, every now and then do it? Now, put 64 00:03:18,919 --> 00:03:23,880 Speaker 1: your elbow in, fingerspread, shoot it up, javeling and you know, 65 00:03:24,160 --> 00:03:24,880 Speaker 1: Mike a drill. 66 00:03:25,720 --> 00:03:27,080 Speaker 2: I can't no, not yet. 67 00:03:27,480 --> 00:03:29,800 Speaker 1: And there's a lot of good research out there, plus 68 00:03:29,840 --> 00:03:32,880 Speaker 1: just my experience, like, let a kid find his passion, 69 00:03:32,919 --> 00:03:35,960 Speaker 1: let a kid broadness base, and then you start building 70 00:03:35,960 --> 00:03:38,080 Speaker 1: on top of that, right, you put the finishes on it, 71 00:03:38,320 --> 00:03:41,160 Speaker 1: and you're gonna have something special. And I just look 72 00:03:41,160 --> 00:03:44,120 Speaker 1: at my kids, better versions of me, that's to go, 73 00:03:44,400 --> 00:03:46,200 Speaker 1: and so far, so fast, so good. 74 00:03:46,720 --> 00:03:48,680 Speaker 2: They're ahead of me. They got me beat. 75 00:03:49,120 --> 00:03:51,720 Speaker 1: I can't remember half of the stuff that I was 76 00:03:51,760 --> 00:03:54,640 Speaker 1: doing at their age, and I know the other half 77 00:03:54,640 --> 00:03:58,880 Speaker 1: that I do remember wasn't that good, wasn't to their level. 78 00:03:59,000 --> 00:04:03,320 Speaker 1: And I wasn't and I wasn't a slacker. But these kids, man, 79 00:04:03,760 --> 00:04:06,640 Speaker 1: like every parent, my kids a special All right, y'all, 80 00:04:06,680 --> 00:04:08,120 Speaker 1: let's talk about this story right now. This is a 81 00:04:08,160 --> 00:04:12,000 Speaker 1: special story. Took this dude. Somebody's ex boss ordered to 82 00:04:12,040 --> 00:04:16,760 Speaker 1: give back wages and damages to his Georgia employee, so he. 83 00:04:16,720 --> 00:04:19,400 Speaker 2: Paid them with ninety one thousand pennies. 84 00:04:21,360 --> 00:04:23,320 Speaker 1: I found a penny. I told you, Eller, where the 85 00:04:23,360 --> 00:04:25,800 Speaker 1: pennies at. This fool got them. So a Georgia auto 86 00:04:25,920 --> 00:04:28,440 Speaker 1: shop owner has been ordered to pay tens of thousands 87 00:04:28,440 --> 00:04:31,080 Speaker 1: of dollars in back wages and damages to ex employees, 88 00:04:31,080 --> 00:04:35,080 Speaker 1: including one who received this final paycheck as ninety one thousand, 89 00:04:35,560 --> 00:04:37,440 Speaker 1: five hundred in pennies. 90 00:04:38,760 --> 00:04:42,880 Speaker 2: That's a damn shame after leaving the AOK Walker Autoworks 91 00:04:42,920 --> 00:04:45,880 Speaker 2: in Peachtree City. Oh yeah, it ain't never work. Teamwork. 92 00:04:46,279 --> 00:04:48,960 Speaker 1: Ex employee Andrea is Flatten. Yeah, I'm calling out all 93 00:04:48,960 --> 00:04:51,599 Speaker 1: these names when you act like this. In November twenty twenty, 94 00:04:51,600 --> 00:04:53,680 Speaker 1: complained to the US Department of Labor that he never 95 00:04:53,760 --> 00:04:56,719 Speaker 1: received his final paycheck of nine hundred and fifteen dollars. 96 00:04:56,920 --> 00:04:58,360 Speaker 1: You about to get it, but it ain't gonna be 97 00:04:58,400 --> 00:05:01,119 Speaker 1: a check, but a check for these pennies. Several months later, 98 00:05:01,560 --> 00:05:04,800 Speaker 1: his ex boss, Miles Walker, left ninety one thousand, five 99 00:05:04,839 --> 00:05:08,800 Speaker 1: hundred pennies coated in oil in his driveway, according to 100 00:05:08,839 --> 00:05:11,479 Speaker 1: a federal lawsuit. Damn, that's pet You know how heavy 101 00:05:11,480 --> 00:05:14,600 Speaker 1: that is? Ninety one thousand pennies. He rented a U 102 00:05:14,680 --> 00:05:18,080 Speaker 1: hauled to get some pennies. Damn, A paste with an 103 00:05:18,160 --> 00:05:20,920 Speaker 1: expletive written on it was on top of the pile 104 00:05:21,000 --> 00:05:24,120 Speaker 1: while it took flattened hours to haul the coins. Yeah 105 00:05:24,200 --> 00:05:27,240 Speaker 1: you think he took that much time to drop off 106 00:05:27,400 --> 00:05:31,920 Speaker 1: ninety one thousand plus pennies and write some curse words 107 00:05:31,960 --> 00:05:37,800 Speaker 1: on it and then sitting in his driveway. Walker was 108 00:05:37,800 --> 00:05:40,640 Speaker 1: accused of retaliation in the federal lawsuit and loss. 109 00:05:40,760 --> 00:05:42,039 Speaker 2: Yeah you think he did. 110 00:05:42,360 --> 00:05:46,280 Speaker 1: The lawsuit in the court determined that Walker violated overtime 111 00:05:46,320 --> 00:05:50,080 Speaker 1: provisions by paying the complainant and other employees straight time 112 00:05:50,160 --> 00:05:53,360 Speaker 1: rates for all hours work, including for hours over forty 113 00:05:53,360 --> 00:05:55,000 Speaker 1: in a work week, when the overtime rate of pay 114 00:05:55,040 --> 00:05:56,000 Speaker 1: was legally required. 115 00:05:56,240 --> 00:05:57,839 Speaker 2: This dude, he ain't even. 116 00:05:57,720 --> 00:06:00,440 Speaker 1: Give him overtime pay. He even give him overtime conversation. 117 00:06:00,440 --> 00:06:02,359 Speaker 1: You try to give them that regular old nine to 118 00:06:02,400 --> 00:06:05,800 Speaker 1: five hours flat feet. The owner was ordered to pay 119 00:06:05,800 --> 00:06:08,440 Speaker 1: a total of thirty nine, nine hundred and thirty four 120 00:06:08,480 --> 00:06:11,960 Speaker 1: dollars represent back wages old and an equal mountain liquidated 121 00:06:12,040 --> 00:06:14,680 Speaker 1: damages to nine workers. The Department of Labor said in 122 00:06:14,680 --> 00:06:17,960 Speaker 1: the release, always tell my son, I always tell my kids, 123 00:06:19,400 --> 00:06:20,360 Speaker 1: don't skip a step. 124 00:06:20,800 --> 00:06:20,960 Speaker 2: Yo. 125 00:06:21,040 --> 00:06:24,240 Speaker 1: A's gonna be right back there sooner or later, and 126 00:06:24,279 --> 00:06:28,160 Speaker 1: it's gonna tax you man. Now, nine to fifteen to 127 00:06:28,279 --> 00:06:30,480 Speaker 1: thirty nine thousands should have paid them the first time 128 00:06:30,720 --> 00:06:31,520 Speaker 1: in cash. 129 00:06:31,760 --> 00:06:33,920 Speaker 2: All ones. Employers where that from? 130 00:06:33,960 --> 00:06:36,160 Speaker 1: Y'all gonna figure that one out where that from employers 131 00:06:36,200 --> 00:06:38,839 Speaker 1: who mistakenly believe they can will fully violate labor laws 132 00:06:38,839 --> 00:06:41,719 Speaker 1: at the expense of employees and competitors. Must understand that 133 00:06:41,800 --> 00:06:44,440 Speaker 1: we will do everything within our rights to bring them 134 00:06:44,440 --> 00:06:47,799 Speaker 1: to justice. That's right, US, Department of Lager Labor Lager. 135 00:06:48,800 --> 00:06:50,599 Speaker 1: Oh man, this is an abuse of power to the 136 00:06:50,600 --> 00:06:53,560 Speaker 1: fullest good this God dang, what's wrong with you? 137 00:06:53,640 --> 00:06:54,839 Speaker 2: Bruh hmm. 138 00:06:57,640 --> 00:07:00,480 Speaker 1: I had to highlight this story because of that abuse 139 00:07:00,520 --> 00:07:04,719 Speaker 1: of power, man, because so many times, because you need 140 00:07:04,720 --> 00:07:07,400 Speaker 1: that check, you need that money, you need that next payment, 141 00:07:07,760 --> 00:07:10,040 Speaker 1: you need to pay your bills, you eat it. And 142 00:07:10,120 --> 00:07:13,200 Speaker 1: you don't just eat it financially, you eat it ethically. 143 00:07:13,280 --> 00:07:20,480 Speaker 1: Sometimes you eat it emotionally. Sometimes like bosses. I've seen 144 00:07:20,560 --> 00:07:24,560 Speaker 1: bosses just undressed people before, right, and the person gets 145 00:07:24,640 --> 00:07:27,920 Speaker 1: undressed because they want to put on their clothes when 146 00:07:27,920 --> 00:07:30,600 Speaker 1: they come back home and pay those bills so they 147 00:07:30,600 --> 00:07:31,520 Speaker 1: can go back to work. 148 00:07:31,560 --> 00:07:32,640 Speaker 2: Sometimes to get undressed. 149 00:07:32,960 --> 00:07:35,440 Speaker 1: Therefore, a lot of that leads to actually some of 150 00:07:35,480 --> 00:07:37,320 Speaker 1: the issues in the family unit. 151 00:07:37,440 --> 00:07:40,160 Speaker 2: When they come home. You're not mad at your husband 152 00:07:40,240 --> 00:07:40,560 Speaker 2: or wife. 153 00:07:40,640 --> 00:07:43,560 Speaker 1: Really, you pissed at your boss who undressed you all day, 154 00:07:43,720 --> 00:07:45,480 Speaker 1: and you take it out on your husband and wife. 155 00:07:45,640 --> 00:07:47,320 Speaker 2: That's the vicious cycle right there. 156 00:07:47,680 --> 00:07:50,440 Speaker 1: And I just wanted to highlight this story because it's ignorant, 157 00:07:50,840 --> 00:07:54,600 Speaker 1: just plain ignorant to treat somebody like this, and when 158 00:07:54,600 --> 00:07:56,360 Speaker 1: you get caught with your hand in the cookie jar, 159 00:07:56,520 --> 00:08:00,520 Speaker 1: you crumble all the damn cookies, like ah god, dog. Plus, 160 00:08:00,560 --> 00:08:02,320 Speaker 1: I can't remember the last time I had any change 161 00:08:02,320 --> 00:08:07,200 Speaker 1: in my pocket, especially pennies, other than scratching a lotto 162 00:08:07,240 --> 00:08:08,160 Speaker 1: ticket when I get one. 163 00:08:08,200 --> 00:08:09,720 Speaker 2: When the last time I had a lot of ticket 164 00:08:09,920 --> 00:08:10,720 Speaker 2: ten years ago. 165 00:08:11,320 --> 00:08:14,560 Speaker 1: M It's crazy because I grew up saving pennies and 166 00:08:14,720 --> 00:08:15,240 Speaker 1: penny rolls. 167 00:08:15,240 --> 00:08:16,520 Speaker 2: Who didn't to get some snacks? 168 00:08:16,880 --> 00:08:19,040 Speaker 1: And even then you got your penny rolls, you know, 169 00:08:19,080 --> 00:08:22,080 Speaker 1: it used to be all your pennies, was it dollars worth. 170 00:08:21,920 --> 00:08:24,360 Speaker 2: Or fifty fifty cent? Think of a fifty cent, the 171 00:08:24,360 --> 00:08:27,000 Speaker 2: little brown thing and the brown roll. 172 00:08:27,400 --> 00:08:30,280 Speaker 1: And then even at that age seven eight nine years old, 173 00:08:30,320 --> 00:08:32,200 Speaker 1: I got all these pennies and I got my line. 174 00:08:32,760 --> 00:08:34,760 Speaker 1: It was slightly embarrassing to go to the store and 175 00:08:34,800 --> 00:08:37,079 Speaker 1: even cast those in drop that big ass brick of 176 00:08:37,200 --> 00:08:43,240 Speaker 1: pennies and he's like, that'll be a dollar fifty. I'm like, damn, 177 00:08:43,760 --> 00:08:45,880 Speaker 1: its sound heavy. But then when you got quarter rolls 178 00:08:46,200 --> 00:08:49,160 Speaker 1: or dime rolls or nickel rolls a little different, but 179 00:08:49,240 --> 00:08:52,360 Speaker 1: even pimps, there's just there's this a feeling with pennies 180 00:08:52,400 --> 00:08:57,400 Speaker 1: like damn, disrespect the lowest of all denominations of money, 181 00:08:57,440 --> 00:09:01,080 Speaker 1: like yuck. And this sucker went there and dropped it off. 182 00:09:01,160 --> 00:09:03,439 Speaker 1: Well guess what they did to you. They dropped off 183 00:09:03,440 --> 00:09:05,720 Speaker 1: of lawsuit thirty nine thousand dollars. I bet you won't 184 00:09:05,760 --> 00:09:10,200 Speaker 1: get that many pennies. Oh that's the pettiness man. So 185 00:09:10,240 --> 00:09:12,760 Speaker 1: do y'all think this was funny or funked up or both? 186 00:09:12,840 --> 00:09:15,040 Speaker 1: I think y'all think that was funked up. How happy 187 00:09:15,080 --> 00:09:17,120 Speaker 1: the ex employee got justice? How happy are you for 188 00:09:17,240 --> 00:09:20,400 Speaker 1: him against his ex boss? And I want to know 189 00:09:20,440 --> 00:09:23,720 Speaker 1: some crazy stories. I'm gonna check the comments where label 190 00:09:23,800 --> 00:09:26,480 Speaker 1: laws were violated. Y'all got some crazy stories like this, 191 00:09:26,520 --> 00:09:29,040 Speaker 1: because let me, I've only had two jobs in my 192 00:09:29,080 --> 00:09:32,480 Speaker 1: life all three. I was a broadcaster, I was a 193 00:09:32,480 --> 00:09:35,440 Speaker 1: football player, and I was a cardiovascular monitor. 194 00:09:37,559 --> 00:09:39,480 Speaker 2: I filed papers. I filed papers. This out of place. 195 00:09:39,480 --> 00:09:43,080 Speaker 2: So I have four jobs, but those first two cush 196 00:09:43,760 --> 00:09:46,920 Speaker 2: those first two hookup jobs, and the last two I 197 00:09:47,000 --> 00:09:47,679 Speaker 2: was working. 198 00:09:47,440 --> 00:09:50,520 Speaker 1: But it was highly compensated. So y'all tell me y'all stories. Man, 199 00:09:50,520 --> 00:09:52,880 Speaker 1: how these bosses be out here set tripping? All right, 200 00:09:53,000 --> 00:09:57,360 Speaker 1: let's get let me get into this story. Because theymar 201 00:09:57,480 --> 00:10:00,600 Speaker 1: out here set tripping or his girlfriend is both, let's 202 00:10:00,600 --> 00:10:06,920 Speaker 1: talk about this. Publicly apologizes to his pregnant girlfriend after 203 00:10:07,040 --> 00:10:09,040 Speaker 1: rumored cheating rules revealed. 204 00:10:09,120 --> 00:10:11,640 Speaker 2: This is an interesting story, sonymar We know who he is. 205 00:10:11,640 --> 00:10:14,720 Speaker 1: That soccer star thirty one years young, issued a public 206 00:10:14,720 --> 00:10:20,480 Speaker 1: apology Wednesday to his pregnant girlfriend Brune Beyond card express 207 00:10:20,520 --> 00:10:22,680 Speaker 1: of remorse for how much he suffered and beyond Cardi 208 00:10:22,760 --> 00:10:26,080 Speaker 1: went public with their relationship in April of twenty twenty two. 209 00:10:26,559 --> 00:10:29,160 Speaker 2: So he's in the middle of these reports. 210 00:10:29,240 --> 00:10:33,400 Speaker 1: A legend he and Baccarty have an agreement that follows 211 00:10:33,440 --> 00:10:36,120 Speaker 1: three apparent rules that enable him to be unfaithful. 212 00:10:37,520 --> 00:10:38,679 Speaker 2: We got to have some fun with this. 213 00:10:39,200 --> 00:10:41,760 Speaker 1: The three rules are one, he could apparently stay with 214 00:10:41,800 --> 00:10:45,360 Speaker 1: other girls as long as he is discreet about said 215 00:10:45,840 --> 00:10:53,400 Speaker 1: dailyensis dalliances. Oh, daily inss dalliances go to Columbia. 216 00:10:53,480 --> 00:10:53,600 Speaker 2: Right. 217 00:10:54,320 --> 00:10:56,360 Speaker 1: It's also claimed they are is forbidden to be with 218 00:10:56,440 --> 00:11:01,240 Speaker 1: call girls and make love without a condom. What of 219 00:11:01,240 --> 00:11:04,800 Speaker 1: these thirteen year olds who wrote this contract. And third, further, 220 00:11:04,920 --> 00:11:09,600 Speaker 1: he cannot kiss them on the mouth. They are thirteen. 221 00:11:10,720 --> 00:11:12,520 Speaker 2: Everybody grew up, I knew girls. 222 00:11:12,559 --> 00:11:14,679 Speaker 1: That was like, you can mess with them, you can 223 00:11:14,760 --> 00:11:16,680 Speaker 1: do anything to them, but couldn't kiss him in the mouth. 224 00:11:17,080 --> 00:11:18,840 Speaker 1: I remember that that was, but that was like in 225 00:11:18,880 --> 00:11:21,480 Speaker 1: my young twenties. I was like, now, ain't she ain't 226 00:11:21,520 --> 00:11:23,760 Speaker 1: want to kiss? Now we ain't kissing, just going to 227 00:11:23,800 --> 00:11:26,680 Speaker 1: get it? Was like what, Like that's too intimate, Like 228 00:11:26,720 --> 00:11:28,080 Speaker 1: I just met you, I ain't kissing you. 229 00:11:29,280 --> 00:11:33,000 Speaker 2: Do you know what else is going on right now? Anyway? Y'all, 230 00:11:33,240 --> 00:11:35,040 Speaker 2: y'all know what I'm talking about. And the post shared 231 00:11:35,120 --> 00:11:36,080 Speaker 2: on his Instagram. 232 00:11:35,800 --> 00:11:40,000 Speaker 1: Page the Superstars said he can't imagine life without her Brew. 233 00:11:40,120 --> 00:11:43,000 Speaker 1: I do this for both of you and your family, 234 00:11:43,160 --> 00:11:47,280 Speaker 1: just to justify the unjustifiable. No need to, but I 235 00:11:47,320 --> 00:11:50,760 Speaker 1: need you in our lives, all right? Yeah good, I'm glad. 236 00:11:50,760 --> 00:11:52,840 Speaker 1: I thought I couldn't read, but it says via translation 237 00:11:52,880 --> 00:11:56,200 Speaker 1: to English, I saw how much you were exposed, how 238 00:11:56,280 --> 00:11:58,480 Speaker 1: much you suffered with all of this, and how much 239 00:11:58,480 --> 00:12:01,480 Speaker 1: you want to be by myself, and I stand beside you. 240 00:12:01,559 --> 00:12:04,560 Speaker 1: I did wrong with you all I risk saying I'm 241 00:12:04,600 --> 00:12:09,439 Speaker 1: wrong every day, on and off the pitch. Nymar now 242 00:12:09,520 --> 00:12:12,080 Speaker 1: wrong on the pitch. That's when you know he's just like, look, 243 00:12:12,120 --> 00:12:13,439 Speaker 1: I need to get her back. I don't give it. 244 00:12:13,520 --> 00:12:14,480 Speaker 1: Damn what I lie about. 245 00:12:14,760 --> 00:12:17,440 Speaker 2: I suck in soccer. That's what the next line gonna say. 246 00:12:17,679 --> 00:12:20,360 Speaker 1: Only I solved my mistakes in personal life, at home, 247 00:12:20,440 --> 00:12:23,320 Speaker 1: in my intimacy with my family and friends. All of 248 00:12:23,320 --> 00:12:26,200 Speaker 1: this hit one of the most special people in my life. 249 00:12:26,400 --> 00:12:28,800 Speaker 2: I think he should have just went the most special, 250 00:12:28,880 --> 00:12:29,360 Speaker 2: not one of. 251 00:12:30,000 --> 00:12:33,200 Speaker 1: The women, the woman I dreamed of following beside me, 252 00:12:33,320 --> 00:12:36,839 Speaker 1: mother and my child. Has it touched his family, which 253 00:12:36,880 --> 00:12:39,680 Speaker 1: is my family today. She touched her intimacy in such 254 00:12:39,679 --> 00:12:42,800 Speaker 1: a special moment. That is maternity, all right. I mean 255 00:12:42,880 --> 00:12:45,360 Speaker 1: from another country, speaks another language. So y'all try to 256 00:12:45,360 --> 00:12:46,960 Speaker 1: make what y'all could out of that, because I could. 257 00:12:47,679 --> 00:12:50,520 Speaker 1: Naymar confirmed that they're expecting their first child, and he 258 00:12:50,600 --> 00:12:56,800 Speaker 1: already apologized for my mistakes, my unnecessary exposure. This contract 259 00:12:56,840 --> 00:13:01,840 Speaker 1: is real obligated to come publicly to reaffirm that. He says, 260 00:13:02,080 --> 00:13:05,480 Speaker 1: if a private matter has become public, the apology has 261 00:13:05,559 --> 00:13:09,280 Speaker 1: to be public. I can't imagine without you. I don't 262 00:13:09,280 --> 00:13:11,640 Speaker 1: know if we'll work out, but today you're sure I 263 00:13:11,679 --> 00:13:14,920 Speaker 1: want to try. Our purpose will prevail, Our love for 264 00:13:15,000 --> 00:13:17,360 Speaker 1: our baby will win, Our love for each other will 265 00:13:17,400 --> 00:13:20,440 Speaker 1: make us stronger. And he said, always us, and I 266 00:13:20,480 --> 00:13:26,280 Speaker 1: love you to be on CARDI. Oh damn, what's going 267 00:13:26,320 --> 00:13:26,760 Speaker 1: on with him? 268 00:13:27,120 --> 00:13:27,560 Speaker 2: All right? 269 00:13:27,720 --> 00:13:30,040 Speaker 1: First of all, I wonder how that three rule came 270 00:13:30,080 --> 00:13:34,160 Speaker 1: into play? Who came up with that conversation? And how 271 00:13:34,160 --> 00:13:35,400 Speaker 1: do y'all get the three rules? 272 00:13:35,480 --> 00:13:35,640 Speaker 2: Right? 273 00:13:35,920 --> 00:13:38,920 Speaker 1: I know three is the magic number, But did y'all 274 00:13:38,920 --> 00:13:43,080 Speaker 1: start at ten? And then y'all negotiated and he negotiated 275 00:13:43,160 --> 00:13:48,000 Speaker 1: down to three? Oh man, Okay, look, they can be 276 00:13:48,040 --> 00:13:50,800 Speaker 1: prettier than me, or they can't be prettier me. You know, 277 00:13:51,440 --> 00:13:54,000 Speaker 1: I'm just telling y'all these are the conversations you will have, 278 00:13:54,160 --> 00:13:54,520 Speaker 1: all right. 279 00:13:56,720 --> 00:13:59,800 Speaker 2: One, can she mess around with anybody? You know? That ain't? 280 00:14:00,920 --> 00:14:02,480 Speaker 2: So we went from ten to nine. 281 00:14:02,520 --> 00:14:06,600 Speaker 1: Already they could be prettier than her, uglier than her. 282 00:14:06,640 --> 00:14:09,160 Speaker 1: She don't care as long as no one knows. And 283 00:14:09,200 --> 00:14:12,120 Speaker 1: that's the problem. Okay, So he basically set up home 284 00:14:12,160 --> 00:14:14,000 Speaker 1: base with these three rules. But I have a lot 285 00:14:14,000 --> 00:14:16,280 Speaker 1: of vacation homes. Let's just say that, honey, Yeah, that's 286 00:14:16,280 --> 00:14:19,480 Speaker 1: that old versus New Testament mindset. Goodness, you know that 287 00:14:19,520 --> 00:14:21,480 Speaker 1: Old Testament how many wives, how many ladies? 288 00:14:21,480 --> 00:14:22,120 Speaker 2: How many women? 289 00:14:22,640 --> 00:14:25,880 Speaker 1: And New Testament, Oh no, you better wait till you're 290 00:14:25,920 --> 00:14:26,920 Speaker 1: married and be celibate. 291 00:14:27,640 --> 00:14:30,040 Speaker 2: Well, I mean we're having to all the women, were 292 00:14:30,040 --> 00:14:30,960 Speaker 2: having to all the wives. 293 00:14:31,440 --> 00:14:34,760 Speaker 1: Man, So they over there they living in this New 294 00:14:34,800 --> 00:14:37,120 Speaker 1: Testament world with some Old Testament rules. 295 00:14:37,200 --> 00:14:37,400 Speaker 2: Right. 296 00:14:38,720 --> 00:14:40,720 Speaker 1: The craziest thing about this is that you really think 297 00:14:40,720 --> 00:14:46,480 Speaker 1: about it. He wasn't unfaithful. Nope, he faithfully broke a rule. 298 00:14:47,680 --> 00:14:48,560 Speaker 2: Y'all gonna catch that. 299 00:14:49,320 --> 00:14:52,640 Speaker 1: He wasn't unfaithful because the rules said you could be 300 00:14:52,800 --> 00:14:56,960 Speaker 1: unfaithful as we determine it, as we define it. He 301 00:14:57,080 --> 00:15:01,640 Speaker 1: just faithfully broke a rule. So within the spirit of 302 00:15:01,640 --> 00:15:04,960 Speaker 1: what they could do, which is messing around, you got 303 00:15:05,040 --> 00:15:11,080 Speaker 1: caught and it got out. Oh man, the Delians, the Dalliances, 304 00:15:11,440 --> 00:15:13,120 Speaker 1: the Lions. 305 00:15:14,760 --> 00:15:17,240 Speaker 2: He got caught out. Let me tell you why. Because 306 00:15:17,240 --> 00:15:18,600 Speaker 2: she gave him permission to cheat. 307 00:15:19,240 --> 00:15:22,080 Speaker 1: And since what's done and dark comes to light, it 308 00:15:22,200 --> 00:15:24,080 Speaker 1: was inevitable he was gonna get caught up and it 309 00:15:24,160 --> 00:15:25,080 Speaker 1: was gonna get exposed. 310 00:15:25,520 --> 00:15:28,000 Speaker 2: Ah. That's why I think these were some immature rules. 311 00:15:28,040 --> 00:15:31,120 Speaker 1: Even though it was said with good intentions, but the 312 00:15:31,600 --> 00:15:34,160 Speaker 1: road to hell is paid for good intentions. 313 00:15:34,240 --> 00:15:36,960 Speaker 2: Man, she needs better homegirls. Let me just say that. 314 00:15:37,120 --> 00:15:39,280 Speaker 1: Who you got to have a homegirl to just sit 315 00:15:39,320 --> 00:15:40,760 Speaker 1: there and say, all right, let me see your rules. 316 00:15:40,920 --> 00:15:41,800 Speaker 1: Those are three rules. 317 00:15:42,280 --> 00:15:42,560 Speaker 2: Girl. 318 00:15:42,680 --> 00:15:45,480 Speaker 1: You can't have these rules? Why they work? I think 319 00:15:45,520 --> 00:15:48,160 Speaker 1: it's gonna keep us together. He's a superstar. We expect 320 00:15:48,200 --> 00:15:50,040 Speaker 1: them to just go to his hotel room after every 321 00:15:50,080 --> 00:15:52,400 Speaker 1: game after he scored a hat trick and just go 322 00:15:52,560 --> 00:15:55,160 Speaker 1: back home and just chill out and eat chicken wings 323 00:15:55,200 --> 00:15:55,600 Speaker 1: in the room. 324 00:15:55,800 --> 00:15:57,240 Speaker 2: No, he's gonna go out and party. And then these 325 00:15:57,240 --> 00:16:01,040 Speaker 2: beautiful girls from around the world. This ain't no American sport. 326 00:16:01,120 --> 00:16:03,960 Speaker 2: This is around our world. And here's some heat out there, 327 00:16:04,200 --> 00:16:05,680 Speaker 2: and then what as that going to do? 328 00:16:05,800 --> 00:16:07,400 Speaker 1: So I want to keep him and I want to 329 00:16:07,480 --> 00:16:11,280 Speaker 1: keep us safe and love, but I gotta be realistic. Okay, 330 00:16:11,360 --> 00:16:13,040 Speaker 1: But let me just tell you one thing. Okay, you 331 00:16:13,360 --> 00:16:15,920 Speaker 1: don't believe me. I'm your homegirl. I'm just gonna tell 332 00:16:15,960 --> 00:16:20,520 Speaker 1: you this. You can't negotiate against natural laws. And one 333 00:16:20,560 --> 00:16:24,600 Speaker 1: of the natural laws is, yeah, what's done in dark 334 00:16:24,680 --> 00:16:26,880 Speaker 1: will come to light. So he was gonna get exposed 335 00:16:27,120 --> 00:16:31,160 Speaker 1: or a letter, right, Also natural laws, Like it just 336 00:16:31,200 --> 00:16:34,680 Speaker 1: seems like a man's urge to spread his love is 337 00:16:35,200 --> 00:16:40,480 Speaker 1: especially applied to someone who, let's just say it's a superstar, 338 00:16:41,080 --> 00:16:46,720 Speaker 1: the successful ones in this world. It is, girl, he 339 00:16:46,840 --> 00:16:51,760 Speaker 1: gotta be old like young, young, rich, young rich famous 340 00:16:52,400 --> 00:16:58,960 Speaker 1: paulin good Luck. You know, everyone who sneaks eventually gets 341 00:16:59,000 --> 00:17:02,520 Speaker 1: caught somehow somewhere. So I don't know why you had 342 00:17:02,560 --> 00:17:04,520 Speaker 1: that as a rule, like nobody could find out. They 343 00:17:04,640 --> 00:17:09,360 Speaker 1: gonna find out. And the saddest rule, or I should say, 344 00:17:09,359 --> 00:17:12,600 Speaker 1: the saddest part about her rules is you care more 345 00:17:12,640 --> 00:17:15,440 Speaker 1: if we know he's cheating on you than if you 346 00:17:15,720 --> 00:17:20,760 Speaker 1: knew he was cheating on you. House way, It's okay. 347 00:17:20,880 --> 00:17:23,960 Speaker 1: I mean, look, it was with good intentions. Some things 348 00:17:24,040 --> 00:17:28,359 Speaker 1: can't be fixed. Naymar balling out of control and just 349 00:17:28,520 --> 00:17:33,000 Speaker 1: going home and being faithful to his young pregnant girlfriend. 350 00:17:33,760 --> 00:17:37,040 Speaker 2: Our wife? Is she a girlfriend? And wife? Is not? It? 351 00:17:37,480 --> 00:17:39,120 Speaker 2: Think it's girlfriend. So here's the point. 352 00:17:41,280 --> 00:17:43,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, you stuck between a rock and a hard place, mama, 353 00:17:44,720 --> 00:17:48,480 Speaker 1: But wow, you care more that we knew than if 354 00:17:48,640 --> 00:17:52,040 Speaker 1: you knew. Think about what that says about her self worth, 355 00:17:52,200 --> 00:17:55,760 Speaker 1: not Naymar's worth. We know Naymar's worth is making her 356 00:17:57,480 --> 00:17:59,919 Speaker 1: blinded to the fact that she can't look at her 357 00:18:00,200 --> 00:18:02,800 Speaker 1: self worth right, Like, girl, you ain't gotta deal with 358 00:18:02,880 --> 00:18:05,480 Speaker 1: all that, Like you put down your foot and say, no, 359 00:18:05,600 --> 00:18:07,640 Speaker 1: you can't cheat on me. Then he puts his foot 360 00:18:07,720 --> 00:18:10,240 Speaker 1: down and kicks it with the soccer ball and says, 361 00:18:10,280 --> 00:18:12,720 Speaker 1: I am cheating, and then y'all break up. There it is, 362 00:18:13,440 --> 00:18:15,560 Speaker 1: there is no winning in this situation. You just gonna 363 00:18:15,560 --> 00:18:18,680 Speaker 1: have to like date from afar and hope. But ain't 364 00:18:18,680 --> 00:18:21,680 Speaker 1: no woman doing that now with that lit old ticket, No, sir, 365 00:18:21,880 --> 00:18:22,119 Speaker 1: not me. 366 00:18:22,280 --> 00:18:25,600 Speaker 2: Pregos first thing gonna do is, hey, theymar pregnant, and 367 00:18:25,680 --> 00:18:29,080 Speaker 2: then it's like, oh, oh, you broke my heart. Now 368 00:18:29,160 --> 00:18:32,520 Speaker 2: let's figure it out. Leverage shift, leverage shift right there? 369 00:18:32,640 --> 00:18:35,440 Speaker 1: So, oh do y'all buy? Is a public apology to 370 00:18:35,840 --> 00:18:38,000 Speaker 1: his pregnant girlfriend. I mean, look, say what you want? 371 00:18:38,640 --> 00:18:42,120 Speaker 1: He eating something some crow, because that is a superstar 372 00:18:42,200 --> 00:18:44,600 Speaker 1: who went out there and just apologize. So that rule 373 00:18:45,200 --> 00:18:47,240 Speaker 1: and these rules must be real and what are your 374 00:18:47,320 --> 00:18:50,120 Speaker 1: thoughts on the three rules in the agreement? 375 00:18:50,600 --> 00:18:52,960 Speaker 2: And can a relationship even survive like this? Like this 376 00:18:53,040 --> 00:18:55,200 Speaker 2: is weird? We already know. Now, are y'all done? Y'all? 377 00:18:55,240 --> 00:18:57,679 Speaker 1: Had three rules and then he broke a rule. Are 378 00:18:57,760 --> 00:18:59,959 Speaker 1: y'all done? Are y'all just gonna make a more rule, 379 00:19:00,240 --> 00:19:01,879 Speaker 1: or you're just gonna be like, all right, reset the rules. 380 00:19:03,240 --> 00:19:06,359 Speaker 1: Sounds like there's no fix in that situation. Speaking of 381 00:19:06,400 --> 00:19:09,480 Speaker 1: a situation that can't get fixed, But deal, Earnhardt Junior 382 00:19:09,600 --> 00:19:12,560 Speaker 1: wants to he talking about Blue over here, and he 383 00:19:12,800 --> 00:19:16,280 Speaker 1: joins a lot of parents, especially dads, who think Blue 384 00:19:16,440 --> 00:19:21,040 Speaker 1: sets unrealistic expectations. Oh this is fun, deal, Earnhardt Juniors. 385 00:19:21,440 --> 00:19:25,320 Speaker 1: His two daughters apparently love Blue, just like my two daughters. 386 00:19:25,520 --> 00:19:27,760 Speaker 1: And while Bluey does a great job depicting more modern 387 00:19:27,800 --> 00:19:32,080 Speaker 1: family roles and having positive parental figures, may not be 388 00:19:32,200 --> 00:19:35,399 Speaker 1: the most realistic portrayal of a family whose parents have 389 00:19:35,520 --> 00:19:35,960 Speaker 1: to go out and. 390 00:19:35,960 --> 00:19:36,400 Speaker 2: Make a living. 391 00:19:37,320 --> 00:19:39,480 Speaker 1: Young kids may not fully understand why their mom and 392 00:19:39,600 --> 00:19:42,919 Speaker 1: their dad may not be playing with them as often 393 00:19:43,119 --> 00:19:47,080 Speaker 1: as it happens on Blue. Yeah, if you've ever seen 394 00:19:47,119 --> 00:19:49,879 Speaker 1: that show, they don't work, They on welfare. I don't know, 395 00:19:50,080 --> 00:19:53,000 Speaker 1: they rich welfare parents. They always with their kids. 396 00:19:53,160 --> 00:19:58,040 Speaker 2: Uh, sounds like my ass. So as earn Hardt talked with. 397 00:19:59,760 --> 00:20:02,560 Speaker 1: The Athletic, the conversation got to Blue and earn Hart 398 00:20:02,600 --> 00:20:05,520 Speaker 1: revealed his issue with the show, while earn Hart feels 399 00:20:05,560 --> 00:20:07,280 Speaker 1: that he does his best to be with his kids. 400 00:20:07,480 --> 00:20:10,840 Speaker 1: Uh oh, y'all heard that the show creates an unrealistic 401 00:20:11,080 --> 00:20:13,920 Speaker 1: expectation that no parent in real life can possibly match. 402 00:20:15,160 --> 00:20:18,240 Speaker 1: Let's get through his comments before I comment. The thing 403 00:20:18,280 --> 00:20:20,119 Speaker 1: that annoys me about Blue He is I'm gonna be 404 00:20:20,200 --> 00:20:23,200 Speaker 1: completely transparent. I think I'm a really good dad. All right, 405 00:20:24,040 --> 00:20:27,040 Speaker 1: I'm pretty happy about my daddy. I feel like I'm 406 00:20:27,080 --> 00:20:29,199 Speaker 1: president in their lives. I'm available for them and they 407 00:20:29,280 --> 00:20:32,000 Speaker 1: know where I'm at. But we watch Blue and the 408 00:20:32,119 --> 00:20:35,520 Speaker 1: kids are like, come on, Dad, do this, Come on, Dad. 409 00:20:35,480 --> 00:20:35,960 Speaker 2: Pretend this. 410 00:20:36,320 --> 00:20:38,200 Speaker 1: So every episode my kids watch bluey in and see 411 00:20:38,240 --> 00:20:41,800 Speaker 1: the dad is like the kid's best friend, always available, 412 00:20:41,960 --> 00:20:44,359 Speaker 1: always there, anytime they want the dad to get in 413 00:20:44,800 --> 00:20:46,000 Speaker 1: on the fund or to play. 414 00:20:46,440 --> 00:20:47,359 Speaker 2: He's never too busy. 415 00:20:47,480 --> 00:20:50,160 Speaker 1: He's never got to go to work, he's never got 416 00:20:50,240 --> 00:20:52,880 Speaker 1: his this thing he's got to do, or he's never 417 00:20:53,040 --> 00:20:57,119 Speaker 1: mowing the lawn and whatever. Right, it's always yep, you 418 00:20:57,240 --> 00:20:59,200 Speaker 1: got it. I'm gonna do what the kids want me 419 00:20:59,280 --> 00:20:59,440 Speaker 1: to do. 420 00:21:00,080 --> 00:21:00,719 Speaker 2: Pretend with them. 421 00:21:00,960 --> 00:21:04,479 Speaker 1: So my girls, mainly Isla, who just turned five, they 422 00:21:04,560 --> 00:21:07,639 Speaker 1: have the same expectation of me. Isla says this multiple 423 00:21:07,680 --> 00:21:10,399 Speaker 1: times a day. Hey, Dad, pretend this, and I never 424 00:21:10,440 --> 00:21:12,359 Speaker 1: say anything about it because I know you're supposed to 425 00:21:12,440 --> 00:21:15,080 Speaker 1: let them pretend. You're supposed to let them create and imagine. 426 00:21:15,240 --> 00:21:18,560 Speaker 1: But the dad on Blue, he is setting these expectations 427 00:21:18,600 --> 00:21:22,080 Speaker 1: for our children that are unrealistic. Because my daughter thinks, 428 00:21:22,200 --> 00:21:25,240 Speaker 1: oh yeah, my dad should do that, my dad will 429 00:21:25,320 --> 00:21:27,320 Speaker 1: do that, will ask him to do it, and he's 430 00:21:27,359 --> 00:21:27,800 Speaker 1: gonna do it. 431 00:21:28,200 --> 00:21:30,399 Speaker 2: I'm sure some people will have different opinions about all that. 432 00:21:30,800 --> 00:21:32,840 Speaker 2: I'd be curious to hear other's opinions. 433 00:21:32,880 --> 00:21:34,840 Speaker 1: I know somebody's going to say, there will come a 434 00:21:34,920 --> 00:21:37,200 Speaker 1: day when nobody's going to be asking you to pretend anymore, 435 00:21:37,240 --> 00:21:38,359 Speaker 1: and you're going to be so sad. 436 00:21:38,680 --> 00:21:41,320 Speaker 2: And I know that's coming. I'm not wishing my life away. 437 00:21:41,359 --> 00:21:45,360 Speaker 1: But Blue makes things challenging because the expectations are high, 438 00:21:47,720 --> 00:21:50,680 Speaker 1: a little suffering over here. Dale earn Hart Junior from 439 00:21:50,800 --> 00:21:53,160 Speaker 1: Perfect is the enemy of good, right, Like, so Blue 440 00:21:53,760 --> 00:21:57,240 Speaker 1: Daddy is looking perfect and you're like, how do I 441 00:21:57,359 --> 00:22:00,360 Speaker 1: measure up to that? Well, we know perfect's the enemy good. 442 00:22:00,440 --> 00:22:03,560 Speaker 1: So there's gonna be some distance here. But let's dive 443 00:22:03,640 --> 00:22:06,280 Speaker 1: into this what is really feeling. All right, So your 444 00:22:06,359 --> 00:22:12,679 Speaker 1: kids having high expectations is not a good thing. You're right, 445 00:22:14,160 --> 00:22:18,960 Speaker 1: it's a great thing. Like them having absurd expectations is 446 00:22:19,040 --> 00:22:21,880 Speaker 1: a great thing. Let me tell you why the complaint 447 00:22:22,000 --> 00:22:26,000 Speaker 1: is not and the disappointment that is triggering you the 448 00:22:26,160 --> 00:22:30,240 Speaker 1: parent is not either, And that's the real problem the expectations, 449 00:22:30,400 --> 00:22:33,280 Speaker 1: because you gotta talk kids into things, and you gotta 450 00:22:33,320 --> 00:22:34,520 Speaker 1: talk kids out of things. 451 00:22:34,560 --> 00:22:35,760 Speaker 2: That's called maturity. 452 00:22:36,000 --> 00:22:37,920 Speaker 1: You gotta know what things you can do with things 453 00:22:38,000 --> 00:22:39,720 Speaker 1: you can't do, and you got to know how you 454 00:22:39,800 --> 00:22:42,359 Speaker 1: have to challenge yourself with the wins and. 455 00:22:42,520 --> 00:22:44,080 Speaker 2: The losses, right, that's life. 456 00:22:44,200 --> 00:22:48,960 Speaker 1: Basically, always keep the challenge involved in wins and losses 457 00:22:49,200 --> 00:22:51,639 Speaker 1: in the process, whatever you want to call it. So 458 00:22:51,840 --> 00:22:54,080 Speaker 1: kids thinking, oh my god, my dad's always gonna be there. 459 00:22:54,280 --> 00:22:57,920 Speaker 1: But then your kids disappointing is a teaching moment, not 460 00:22:58,080 --> 00:23:01,320 Speaker 1: the expectations. The problem is the problem is that you 461 00:23:01,440 --> 00:23:04,760 Speaker 1: can't talk the kid through this, or the kid is 462 00:23:04,840 --> 00:23:08,520 Speaker 1: complaining and you can't get them back to a good place. 463 00:23:09,080 --> 00:23:11,840 Speaker 1: So I think that's the trigger right here. It's really 464 00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:16,080 Speaker 1: landing on Dale Earnhardt who earlier said, you know, my 465 00:23:16,200 --> 00:23:17,080 Speaker 1: kids know where I'm at. 466 00:23:18,640 --> 00:23:20,400 Speaker 2: You know, and I got to do a lot of things. Look, 467 00:23:20,880 --> 00:23:23,000 Speaker 2: he's really caught up in a dilemma, and this is 468 00:23:23,040 --> 00:23:23,640 Speaker 2: the dilemma. 469 00:23:24,720 --> 00:23:28,159 Speaker 1: The dilemma is being Dale Earnhard Junior and all that 470 00:23:28,280 --> 00:23:30,400 Speaker 1: comes with that, which is going to remove you from 471 00:23:30,440 --> 00:23:33,720 Speaker 1: your family or being there for your family. And that's 472 00:23:33,920 --> 00:23:37,000 Speaker 1: not being Dale Earnhard junior. Who can give us this 473 00:23:37,160 --> 00:23:40,760 Speaker 1: generation of wealth continuously. Right, So that's what it is. 474 00:23:40,840 --> 00:23:41,800 Speaker 1: It's the truest dilemma. 475 00:23:41,960 --> 00:23:44,960 Speaker 2: Most successful parents feel this way. 476 00:23:45,320 --> 00:23:48,440 Speaker 1: Man or woman, mom or dad. I had this conversation 477 00:23:48,600 --> 00:23:51,960 Speaker 1: several times in the last couple of months. Parent guilt. Man, 478 00:23:52,000 --> 00:23:55,240 Speaker 1: I'm on this trip, my boys just flying around. Got 479 00:23:55,359 --> 00:23:57,480 Speaker 1: to go chase that money and got to do their job. 480 00:23:58,000 --> 00:24:00,840 Speaker 1: I got friends that tour, you know. I got friends 481 00:24:00,880 --> 00:24:02,560 Speaker 1: that try to bring their kids and meet them in 482 00:24:02,640 --> 00:24:05,320 Speaker 1: certain dates, certain cities. But look, if you got a 483 00:24:05,600 --> 00:24:08,360 Speaker 1: you got a two month tour, You're coming home three 484 00:24:08,480 --> 00:24:14,440 Speaker 1: random weekends through six out of sixty days. Your kid 485 00:24:14,520 --> 00:24:17,560 Speaker 1: ain't seeing you one tenth ten percent of the time. 486 00:24:17,640 --> 00:24:19,840 Speaker 1: Your kids see you, But you brought in a couple 487 00:24:19,920 --> 00:24:25,119 Speaker 1: million see what I'm saying. So Dale Earnhardt really is 488 00:24:26,400 --> 00:24:30,280 Speaker 1: he really is displacing his issue with Bluie. The real 489 00:24:30,400 --> 00:24:33,159 Speaker 1: issue is Blue is saying this is how it is 490 00:24:33,280 --> 00:24:36,880 Speaker 1: in my world. But that's when Earnhardt that's to say 491 00:24:37,119 --> 00:24:38,960 Speaker 1: that ain't how it is in our world. But keep 492 00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:42,000 Speaker 1: watching that world because our world is different. My son 493 00:24:42,119 --> 00:24:44,199 Speaker 1: does this a lot. He's like Daddy. That person can 494 00:24:44,240 --> 00:24:47,600 Speaker 1: spend the night over there. That person can watch that show, 495 00:24:47,880 --> 00:24:51,399 Speaker 1: and I always talk them to it. What's your last name, Wiley? 496 00:24:51,560 --> 00:24:54,080 Speaker 1: What's their last name Perez? Okay? 497 00:24:55,320 --> 00:24:55,920 Speaker 2: Is that the same? 498 00:24:56,040 --> 00:24:58,440 Speaker 1: No, well, then the rules won't be the same, and 499 00:24:58,560 --> 00:25:01,879 Speaker 1: you just keep talking to their like oh and a 500 00:25:02,040 --> 00:25:05,240 Speaker 1: light will click. If not, your kid is always gonna 501 00:25:05,240 --> 00:25:08,200 Speaker 1: be attached and always gonna complain and always gonna expect 502 00:25:08,240 --> 00:25:10,119 Speaker 1: the other one because you haven't talked them through it. 503 00:25:10,480 --> 00:25:13,200 Speaker 1: So I'm not blaming Daryl Earnhardt as a bad dad. 504 00:25:13,400 --> 00:25:16,400 Speaker 1: I'm just saying, use these as teaching moments. This ain't hard, 505 00:25:17,040 --> 00:25:20,720 Speaker 1: and don't blame cartoons expectations. 506 00:25:20,920 --> 00:25:23,040 Speaker 2: Nah. I had to deal with this when I was 507 00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:24,760 Speaker 2: I had my first kid, Morocca. 508 00:25:25,119 --> 00:25:28,960 Speaker 1: I was an active football player. I'm not gonna quit football. 509 00:25:29,200 --> 00:25:31,560 Speaker 1: So guess what I saw her less? Now I got 510 00:25:31,600 --> 00:25:34,480 Speaker 1: my Indy biddies here, what's face with it again? When 511 00:25:34,560 --> 00:25:37,199 Speaker 1: I was leaving FS one and. 512 00:25:37,280 --> 00:25:39,359 Speaker 2: They were trying to make me travel, and I was like, man, 513 00:25:39,400 --> 00:25:42,200 Speaker 2: I don't want travel. I'm too old. It's crazy. Man. 514 00:25:42,240 --> 00:25:43,800 Speaker 2: I love my kids. I got to see them all 515 00:25:43,840 --> 00:25:46,720 Speaker 2: the time, Yes I do. I am Blue's daddy, damnit. 516 00:25:48,040 --> 00:25:49,600 Speaker 2: So you make. 517 00:25:49,520 --> 00:25:53,160 Speaker 1: Concessions man, right, Yeah, there was some money out there 518 00:25:53,200 --> 00:25:55,120 Speaker 1: I could have chased, but there's money in here that's 519 00:25:55,160 --> 00:25:55,800 Speaker 1: coming to me now. 520 00:25:56,960 --> 00:26:00,040 Speaker 2: So the point being, just don't blame stuff, man, and 521 00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:02,040 Speaker 2: don't teach your kids to blame stuff either. Man. 522 00:26:02,160 --> 00:26:05,440 Speaker 1: Like, work through it. Every problem has a solution built 523 00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:07,680 Speaker 1: into it. That's why it's a problem. It's almost like 524 00:26:07,800 --> 00:26:08,800 Speaker 1: inverted problems. 525 00:26:09,200 --> 00:26:13,439 Speaker 2: Solutions. Solutions are inverted problems, and problems are inverted solutions. Right, 526 00:26:13,800 --> 00:26:15,639 Speaker 2: Just got to pull it out, simple as that. 527 00:26:15,800 --> 00:26:18,880 Speaker 1: Come on, Dale, Earn Hunt, hit the coner, Finna, get busy, 528 00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:20,040 Speaker 1: tell a big homie who is he? 529 00:26:20,320 --> 00:26:22,320 Speaker 2: You know what to do? Right here? All right, y'all 530 00:26:22,600 --> 00:26:25,000 Speaker 2: got to do it. For more to it, check the 531 00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:27,560 Speaker 2: show notes for all the information on our topics today today. 532 00:26:28,000 --> 00:26:29,600 Speaker 2: Want to keep the conversation, go on, let's talk. 533 00:26:29,720 --> 00:26:32,720 Speaker 1: Find me on all socials at Marcel's Wiley More Too 534 00:26:32,800 --> 00:26:35,280 Speaker 1: is a production of Dan Patrick Production That Dude Entertainment 535 00:26:35,320 --> 00:26:38,199 Speaker 1: and Workhouse Media. 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