WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Way Too Natural 

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<v Speaker 1>Brand new Second Date to start your Monday. Welcome to it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. Glad, happy, acstatic

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<v Speaker 1>that you were here. Tired we were talking about our

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<v Speaker 1>own no no, no, no no no. Yeah, I will

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<v Speaker 1>say we are a little tired when people call in

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<v Speaker 1>for our help of them not telling us the whole story. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>this guy detail left out the biggest, most important detail

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<v Speaker 1>because he thought it was just normal, Like yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't understand people's normal sometimes seriously, but you'll hear it

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<v Speaker 1>just a second and comments like this, Yeah, am said,

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<v Speaker 1>My question is what does Jeffrey do while Brook does

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<v Speaker 1>the intro? Where's jeff right now? Jeffrey, you know, started

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<v Speaker 1>as the assistant producer and he just really hasn't given

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<v Speaker 1>up on that role. No, so he's working away.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, he didn't do a very good negotiating this contract.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll tell you that easily gotten out of that job.

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<v Speaker 1>Can have been here talking with us looking him there

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<v Speaker 1>the work. Yeah, all right, let's get this started. We'll

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<v Speaker 1>stop talking and we'll get your brand new second day

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<v Speaker 1>on right now.

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<v Speaker 3>Second Date update. Every great romantic story usually starts with

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<v Speaker 3>some kind of awkward, funny meat cute. She accidentally trips

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<v Speaker 3>on her yoga matt and falls right underneath his downward dog.

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<v Speaker 3>Hell he or she accidentally sneezed into her flaming shot

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<v Speaker 3>of everclear and caught his pants on fire. And one

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<v Speaker 3>of our listeners apparently met someone in a funny, awkward

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<v Speaker 3>kind of way. His name is Nick, and I can't

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<v Speaker 3>wait to hear his story.

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<v Speaker 1>So Nick can't wait to hear who is injured during

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<v Speaker 1>this meet kill?

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<v Speaker 4>Nick?

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<v Speaker 3>Welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 5>Hey, thank you so much for taking my calls.

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<v Speaker 1>Been a full body cast. It was so adorable.

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<v Speaker 6>I think you were.

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<v Speaker 3>Well learn about that. You are going to be kind

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<v Speaker 3>of like our Ryan Gosling for this, but even more charming,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sure. So tell us the name of the woman

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<v Speaker 3>that you met and how you two came to.

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<v Speaker 5>Be the woman. Her name is Sydney, and we met

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<v Speaker 5>on a pickle bawl court.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually I went by a pickleball court the other night

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<v Speaker 1>and it was packed, Like I like you to play

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<v Speaker 1>with the older people.

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<v Speaker 3>But yeah, okay, so were you at Brooks Senior Citizen

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<v Speaker 3>Pickleball tournament? Has that already met him?

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<v Speaker 5>No, I was doing league night with my friends.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, and how'd you meet what was your name again?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, Sydney, Sydney, Okay.

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<v Speaker 5>We we were playing mixed doubles and while we were playing,

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<v Speaker 5>there was a rally and I hit the ball and

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<v Speaker 5>struck her right in the chest.

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<v Speaker 4>Ball.

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<v Speaker 1>But did you celebrate because you got the point? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>No, and mock her a little bit better, say no, no, no.

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<v Speaker 4>And so after.

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<v Speaker 5>The game we usually go out and have a drink,

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<v Speaker 5>and so we invited them, and I pick up the

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<v Speaker 5>first round because I felt bad about hitting this woman

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<v Speaker 5>I've never met before.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but you're playing mixed doubles. So she's with a guy, right, Well.

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<v Speaker 5>She was with the guy, but it was not so

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<v Speaker 5>much she was seeing Okay, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, yeah, I mean I assume always that they're together. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>That should be actually a rule in pick a ball

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<v Speaker 3>that if you have a partner you have to kiss. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>but we'll work on the pick the ball rules later.

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<v Speaker 3>So you took Sydney, and it sounds like a bunch

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<v Speaker 3>of people went out to get drinks afterwards, and.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, there was like six of us.

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<v Speaker 5>But Sydney and I talked for a while and realized

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<v Speaker 5>that we have more in common than just pick a ball.

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<v Speaker 5>It was really nice actually, because I wasn't going there

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<v Speaker 5>to meet anyone.

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<v Speaker 3>That's right.

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<v Speaker 1>At what point of the night did it dawn? And

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<v Speaker 1>you're like, oh my god, this could be something.

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<v Speaker 5>I feel like the fact that she never went away

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<v Speaker 5>to talk to somebody else. I was like, Oh, she's

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<v Speaker 5>staying here talking to me.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, that's cute.

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<v Speaker 3>Are you saying is this the date that you were

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<v Speaker 3>on with her? Or was there another meet up after that?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh?

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<v Speaker 5>I'm sorry, I'm being slow here. This leads to another date.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, this is me.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so we better get to the other date. We

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<v Speaker 1>only have so much time in a second.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, tell us about that.

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<v Speaker 5>So I was like, I'm going to the farmer's market's

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<v Speaker 5>farm morning?

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<v Speaker 4>Do you want to come?

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<v Speaker 1>My god, dude, hold on, farmers, hold on.

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<v Speaker 3>I got to stop you as a guy. Were you

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<v Speaker 3>really going to the farmer's market or did you know?

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<v Speaker 3>This is perfect?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I do you know that there is a farmer's market?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>It was, But it's cute. That's a great idea.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a cute date.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, So we went to this huge farmer's market. I've

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<v Speaker 5>actually never been before.

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<v Speaker 1>What is this?

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<v Speaker 4>And we walked all around and it was really fun.

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<v Speaker 5>And then after that we walked to a park and

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<v Speaker 5>walked all around this huge park also, and we were

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<v Speaker 5>together for like three hours.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my goodness, getting your steps in, Yeah, you said,

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<v Speaker 1>getting your steps in in a sexy way.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Mile three hours of straight walking is a lot.

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<v Speaker 3>Is you felt like you were connecting obviously?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>And then I walked her back to her car and

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<v Speaker 2>I was feeling the vibe and I leaned in for

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<v Speaker 2>a kiss and she did this like old tiny comedian

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<v Speaker 2>thing where she like went straight down like it was

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<v Speaker 2>an elevator.

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<v Speaker 1>Down physically she literally ducked. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Was that a joke?

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<v Speaker 5>No? I don't think so. I ended up kissing like

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<v Speaker 5>the top of her hair.

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<v Speaker 1>How did you recover from that? What did you say?

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<v Speaker 6>I was just like, huh, all right, you didn't push

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<v Speaker 6>the button to get the elevator back up to the

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<v Speaker 6>top floor where you're at it. Come on, We're just

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<v Speaker 6>push her down to the ground, so award.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I feel.

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<v Speaker 4>That, And so then you know I haven't.

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<v Speaker 5>She hasn't texted me back since then.

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<v Speaker 3>So how long ago was the farmers Market meet up?

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<v Speaker 5>It was about a week ago.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think it's just the ending the kiss.

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<v Speaker 5>That I feel like. I feel like I did something,

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<v Speaker 5>something happened, but since I don't know what it is,

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<v Speaker 5>it's kind of driving me crazy.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, well, why would you stick around that long? Like

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<v Speaker 3>if she wasn't feeling it? I mean, you don't get

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<v Speaker 3>me wrong. Some people's like the kiss right away, especially kiss.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean your broad daylight broad daylight kissing is different

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<v Speaker 1>than end of the night.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, yeah, it's pretty embarrassing, but I just didn't know

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<v Speaker 5>it wasn't that.

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<v Speaker 1>And if it is that, I think that's something you

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<v Speaker 1>can come back from.

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<v Speaker 5>I would think that, but since she didn't respond, I thought, maybe, yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>there's something else.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, Well we're gonna come back. We're gonna try

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<v Speaker 3>and call Sidney and get some answers for you and

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<v Speaker 3>reunite you with your pickleball queen. Oh pickleball. It's really

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<v Speaker 3>really important that you say that. We'll do it with

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<v Speaker 3>your second date update right after this hold on second

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<v Speaker 3>date update. It sucks getting rejected for a kiss the

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<v Speaker 3>normal way, but it sucks even worse when you lean

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<v Speaker 3>in and they bust out a comedic elevator going down

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<v Speaker 3>move so that your lips meet the top of her hairline.

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<v Speaker 3>Play on time, she like pushed the button first. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>but I mean it sounds like a joke, but that's

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<v Speaker 3>actually how Nick's date ended with a woman that Brooke

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<v Speaker 3>remembers her name.

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<v Speaker 1>Sydney, Sydney.

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<v Speaker 3>That's right.

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<v Speaker 1>Jeff was just checking because he forgot Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I forgot to Yeah, now we remember it's Sydney and

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<v Speaker 3>they spent three hours together. So a really strange way

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<v Speaker 3>to end the date.

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<v Speaker 1>Now that she might have just not been ready for

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<v Speaker 1>the kiss, like, that's no bad on her.

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<v Speaker 3>Sure, But now that a full week has passed, it's

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<v Speaker 3>pretty clear to Nick something is up, yeah, and he

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<v Speaker 3>just wants to know exactly what that might be before

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<v Speaker 3>we call her. Brook has generously offered to give you

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<v Speaker 3>a good luck kiss on the cheek though, So Nick,

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<v Speaker 3>how much tongue do you want with it?

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<v Speaker 1>I always use tongue on cheek kisses.

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<v Speaker 3>We didn't give you a choice there, you just got it.

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<v Speaker 3>So now that we have luck on our side, let's

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<v Speaker 3>dial Sydney. We'll see if she picks up the phone

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<v Speaker 3>and hopefully has some answers for us. But here we go.

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<v Speaker 5>Thank you so much, you guys, do it.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't thank us until you hear what happens.

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<v Speaker 1>Kiss. I don't know what you're talking about.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I'll kiss you when we're done, no matter what.

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<v Speaker 3>So here we go.

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<v Speaker 4>What hello?

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<v Speaker 3>Hey? Is this Sydney?

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<v Speaker 4>Ah?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Sidney, thank you so much for answering. This is

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<v Speaker 3>a radio show. We're called Brooke and Jeffrey in the

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<v Speaker 3>Morning's SAT Morning.

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<v Speaker 4>Hi the radio.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, and you're talking to the star of the show,

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<v Speaker 3>Jeffrey Dubo.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, yeah, totally.

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<v Speaker 3>You can google it.

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<v Speaker 1>Your name pops up every once in a while if

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<v Speaker 1>you go down really.

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<v Speaker 3>Funny Pit two hundred. I'm on there anyway, exactly. Yeah, Sorr.

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<v Speaker 3>We're doing a segment from our show. It's called I'm

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<v Speaker 3>not sure if you're familiar with something called the second

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<v Speaker 3>Date Update.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh not really now, Okay, that one will pop up

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<v Speaker 1>on Google, unlike Jeff's name.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, about a date.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's about a date that you went on recently

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<v Speaker 3>with one of our listeners named Nick.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, ah yeah y.

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<v Speaker 3>And apparently you're not calling Nick back like a week later,

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<v Speaker 3>so he's reached out to us to try and help

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<v Speaker 3>him figure out why.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, sounds like you two had a lot in common.

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<v Speaker 1>You met at pickleball, he talked forever. It sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>when you did the farmer's market.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we talked for a while, which must mean you

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<v Speaker 3>had some sort of connection going on.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe more like I couldn't quite find a way to

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<v Speaker 4>get myself out of there any Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>Really, you know, at what point did you want to leave?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, like an hour in, I was kind of

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<v Speaker 4>ready to go.

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<v Speaker 3>That's interesting because we definitely did not get that vibe

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<v Speaker 3>from Nick. His read was that it got better and

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<v Speaker 3>better and better.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to know why you wanted to leave.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean, like conversation and stuff like, he seems

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<v Speaker 4>like a nice guy, but there was just some stuff

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<v Speaker 4>that was it just wasn't my vibe.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, Okay, something you guys didn't match on.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, could you.

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<v Speaker 3>Be a little bit more specific about what stuff you

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<v Speaker 3>weren't vibing with? You guys have different favorite colors?

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<v Speaker 4>No what? Okay? So he wanted to go to the

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<v Speaker 4>farmer's market, right, But as soon as we got to

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<v Speaker 4>the farmer's Market, he took his shoes off and then asked,

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<v Speaker 4>like one of the people at like a stall to

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<v Speaker 4>like watch them for him when he.

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<v Speaker 1>Left his shoes at one of the booths.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and then like proceeded to walk the whole farmer's

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<v Speaker 4>market without shoes on, which, like, was.

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<v Speaker 3>It all on grass?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 4>Not on grass?

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<v Speaker 3>He went barefoot over a pavement in a farmer's market.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, we were downtown and like the city farmer's market.

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<v Speaker 1>One of the walk took so long. You can't move

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<v Speaker 1>very fast. I mean, I don't blame you. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>you're just fast forwarding in the relationship. You're like, dude,

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<v Speaker 1>I do not want those feet in my bed. No,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what I was thinking too. Why did he do that? Though?

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<v Speaker 1>That's really interesting scene.

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<v Speaker 4>He just kept being like, oh, it's I can really

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<v Speaker 4>steel the earth right now. Like I'm like, bro, you're

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<v Speaker 4>walking on cement.

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<v Speaker 3>People that are like that. But I guess the people.

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<v Speaker 1>She made the refuse to wear running shoes. It was

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<v Speaker 1>a problem.

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<v Speaker 2>Why.

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<v Speaker 1>That's usually like a hippie vibe, you know. And he

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<v Speaker 1>didn't seem very crunchy to me, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>So that feeling of ick about his bare feet carried

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<v Speaker 3>over for the next three hours.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and it like got worse too. I was like

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<v Speaker 4>really doing my best to just kind of like pretend

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<v Speaker 4>like he wasn't doing that, and then he's like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 4>you want to go to the park.

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<v Speaker 3>At least there's grass in a park.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm hoping he picks up his shoes at some

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<v Speaker 1>point there's some poor booth that still has his shoes.

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<v Speaker 4>No, he grabbed his shoes and he's like walking around

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<v Speaker 4>with them in his hand.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like it's like girls in Vegas. So you got

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<v Speaker 3>to the park and now he's holding his shoes, and

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<v Speaker 3>what happened there?

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<v Speaker 4>Do we sit down the bench? I'm already like really

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<v Speaker 4>fighting the whole thing, but I'm just like trying to

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<v Speaker 4>power through. And then all of a sudden, he gets up,

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<v Speaker 4>walks over to this tree not far away from me

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<v Speaker 4>at all, like within eyesight. Just go to the bathroom

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<v Speaker 4>behind the tree.

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<v Speaker 3>What I don't even want to ask him.

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<v Speaker 1>Public urination on a date, Yeah, in the public park.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I don't know. I get like guys do

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<v Speaker 4>that sometimes, but like on a date.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, public parks, public bathrooms. Yeah, but he probably did

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<v Speaker 1>want to go into a bathroom barefoot.

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<v Speaker 3>That one has standards. Yeah, So it's the bare feet

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<v Speaker 3>combined with the going to the bathroom in the park

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<v Speaker 3>that gave you all of the X.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, exactly. He's just a little too one with nature

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<v Speaker 4>for me.

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<v Speaker 3>I think, well, I can't speak to him being one

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<v Speaker 3>with nature, but I do know he is one with

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<v Speaker 3>this telephone call right now, because he's on the other

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<v Speaker 3>line listening and wanted to talk to you off though.

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<v Speaker 3>Who knows what's on? Nick? Are you there?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I'm here.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, sound a little embarrassed.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, it's good to know.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, this before.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, maybe you need to address to her what was

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<v Speaker 3>going on with your attired decisions.

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<v Speaker 1>I think she's in shock that he's on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>anything from Sydney Sidney?

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<v Speaker 3>Are you okay?

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know. This is just awkward, Nick.

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<v Speaker 3>Why don't you talk to her? And I mean, you

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<v Speaker 3>have a lot of explaining to.

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<v Speaker 5>Do, dude, I didn't know bothered you. Honestly, I I

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<v Speaker 5>really really do not like wearing shoes when I'm outside and.

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<v Speaker 1>In the city on the street.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and you know.

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<v Speaker 5>I do wash my feet before I climb the bed.

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<v Speaker 4>Just well, you would have had to wash them quite

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<v Speaker 4>a lot that day because they were black when we

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<v Speaker 4>got to the park.

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<v Speaker 5>That is, I mean, I'm not I'm not denying nothing

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<v Speaker 5>that is true.

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<v Speaker 3>We're focusing a lot on the shoes. What about the

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<v Speaker 3>other big red flag during the date where you went

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<v Speaker 3>to the bathroom in the park. Yeah, well, I feel like,

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<v Speaker 3>are you with nature? Is that you like connecting with nature?

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<v Speaker 5>Again, I'm not connecting with nature. No, but I do

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<v Speaker 5>believe that trees has been around longer than plumbing.

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<v Speaker 3>That's following the logic actually was off.

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<v Speaker 1>You're on a first date. You don't want to pee

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<v Speaker 1>in front of anybody on the first date.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, I understand, But in my defense, the tree was

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<v Speaker 5>blocking me from sight.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so it wasn't in front of her director, it's

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<v Speaker 3>kind of.

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<v Speaker 1>Behind Oh, Sydney. You didn't see it, So it's fine.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't have to see it. I heard it.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, if you can hear it, that must mean it's

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<v Speaker 3>pretty healthy.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I got a strong stream thrust. I don't know if

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<v Speaker 3>that's really a selling point, but that's what we're going with.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, we were walking through a long time and I

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<v Speaker 5>had to go.

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<v Speaker 1>I man, there's there's public restrooms for that.

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<v Speaker 3>So, like you said, he couldn't go win because he

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<v Speaker 3>didn't have a shoes Brooks, this was an emergency.

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<v Speaker 1>Out of all the people defending being shoeless in public,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't expect it to be here.

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<v Speaker 3>I know, somebody's got to stand up for mother nature,

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<v Speaker 3>and shockingly, it's me. Okay, me and Nick. And I'm

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<v Speaker 3>also going to stand up for love today because i'd

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<v Speaker 3>like to offer a second date for you, Sydney, if

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<v Speaker 3>you'll agree to meet up with him one more time,

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<v Speaker 3>we would pay for it, and he might even agree

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<v Speaker 3>to wear shoes on the next one.

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<v Speaker 4>He's gone shoes on.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wow, look at that. His boundary is a date

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<v Speaker 1>with you.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. I don't know about that. I just feel like

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<v Speaker 4>we're different people.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not always bad, though, you know, I.

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<v Speaker 5>Actually feel pretty okay about all of this.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, you know what, Sidney, we appreciate you answering the

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<v Speaker 3>phone and just being fully honest with us about what

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<v Speaker 3>really happened.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, of course, I'm sorry it didn't work.

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<v Speaker 1>Out the way it is. Man, they never complimented her

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<v Speaker 1>on her way of dodging a kiss. Yeah, so you need.

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<v Speaker 4>He told you about that? Yeah? That pretty good?

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<v Speaker 1>Right? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, a little too good?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay. Well, we don't want to leave you empty handed or

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<v Speaker 3>empty four headed Nicks, So before you leave. There you go.

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<v Speaker 1>I think he just stopped, as did you?

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<v Speaker 3>Duck damn it, Jeffrey in the morning. You know, normally,

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<v Speaker 3>if shoes are coming off on a first date, that's

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<v Speaker 3>a pretty good sign that things are moving in the

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<v Speaker 3>right direction.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, he doesn't leave his socks on during the act.

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<v Speaker 3>But yeah, in this case, it was not a good sign.

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<v Speaker 3>It was a weird sign.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I didn't expect that of him.

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<v Speaker 3>Honestly, No, we didn't see that coming, Alexis, which was

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<v Speaker 3>worse for you walking around barefoot? Or the urinating in public?

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<v Speaker 1>Barefoot?

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<v Speaker 3>Why public?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm jealous.

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<v Speaker 4>Guys can kind of do that anyway.

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<v Speaker 1>But I feel like if he's on a hill and

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<v Speaker 1>he's barefoot downhill, oh, I say, I had to not

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<v Speaker 1>go that. You up.

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<v Speaker 3>Brook needs to do a wilderness survival show and this

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<v Speaker 3>needs to be episode number one.

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<v Speaker 1>Gravity is not your friend when peen in the woods.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, let's but make sure to add all of those

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<v Speaker 3>to your first date checklists. Show up on time, tip

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<v Speaker 3>your waiters, keep your shoes on, don't pee on trees,

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<v Speaker 3>and make sure you're not peeing on a slope. If

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<v Speaker 3>you're going to be barefoot. Valid now there you go.

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<v Speaker 3>So much you can learn by listening to our second

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<v Speaker 3>get your podcasts. They're at Brook and Jeffrey