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Speaker 1: second date update. The girl on the phone for a
Speaker 1: second date Update today had some very nice things to
Speaker 1: say about the guy that she went out with. In
Speaker 1: her email, she said he's different than the normal dudes
Speaker 1: she usually dates. He's kind of shy, kind of nervous,
Speaker 1: and not that good looking. What. Yeah, Lisa, that's really
Speaker 1: nice stuff to say about your dates. I mean, I've
Speaker 1: never heard such a rave review about somebody. I mean
Speaker 1: I meant to say, he's not like the classic like
Speaker 1: beefcake dudes that I've gone out with, Like he's cute,
Speaker 1: but he's not. Yeah, like that, Lisa, you phrase that
Speaker 1: he's not that good looking? Okay, Well, I mean he's
Speaker 1: you know, he's cute, Like when do you know him? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I got you in a bad spot right now, Lisa,
Speaker 1: We just can we just move on to the second
Speaker 1: date update? Sure? Hey, I'm not the one that called
Speaker 1: him ugly, you are? I never called him ugly? Where
Speaker 1: did you meet this stunner. We met online and the
Speaker 1: profile looked great, but you never know, you know, so
Speaker 1: we decided to meet at a restaurant and he had
Speaker 1: actually gotten Clay tickets to go to see, you know,
Speaker 1: to see some live theater that which I thought was
Speaker 1: really cool. So we met at the restaurant. Everything was cool,
Speaker 1: you know, he was nice and he was kind of
Speaker 1: shy but quick though, before we get into your date,
Speaker 1: how does it feel to be blown off by a
Speaker 1: guy who's not that good looking? Bother you, Lisa, I
Speaker 1: will never live that one down. So you guys went
Speaker 1: out to the play. How'd that go? It was great?
Speaker 1: He actually held my hand, which was nice. It was
Speaker 1: a nice little touch. No pennant tended, so I was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: this guy's really nice. He wasn't too like forward or
Speaker 1: it was just very gentle and sweet. You were attracted
Speaker 1: to him, though, even though you say he's not that
Speaker 1: good looking. Yeah, for sure. I mean he's taller, you know,
Speaker 1: like tall guys, so he's got that going for him.
Speaker 1: Tall Okay, So I mean you obviously were able to
Speaker 1: look past the fact that he's not the normal meadhead
Speaker 1: type guy that you usually go out with. Yeah, I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna with some guys who are just like like
Speaker 1: they don't even know what holding the door is, you know,
Speaker 1: like it like doesn't even occur to them. And he
Speaker 1: was very you had that like very chivalrous sort of
Speaker 1: put you first kind of attitude or I liked it.
Speaker 1: And yeah, he seemed interested in you. If if he
Speaker 1: held your hand, yeah for sure. What happened at the
Speaker 1: end of the day. Did he try to kiss you
Speaker 1: or anything? Yeah, Like after we went to the theater
Speaker 1: and we were kind of like hanging out and we
Speaker 1: were having a good time, so he asked if I
Speaker 1: wanted to come back to the part, and we were
Speaker 1: like I was thinking my head, like sure, let's let's
Speaker 1: see where this goes. And while we were there and
Speaker 1: we were drinking wine and he was like kind of
Speaker 1: talking and opening up a little bit and he um
Speaker 1: revealed something that was a little shocking to me, but
Speaker 1: it was okay. Um he told me that he was
Speaker 1: a virgin. Oh really, that would see that would have
Speaker 1: made me want to leave right there, because virgins are
Speaker 1: the worst they are. I mean, it was okay, it
Speaker 1: was okay, And I guess the second part of the
Speaker 1: story is um, he is no longer a virgin a girl.
Speaker 1: Uh yeah, I mean we has a wine. Yes, it's
Speaker 1: so right. So and you were like, let me show
Speaker 1: you how it's done. I'm I'm an expert. Why don't
Speaker 1: you let mama teach you. I definitely wasn't my plan.
Speaker 1: A little bit of wine in you, and then you
Speaker 1: were like, yeah, let's do this. It's kind of just
Speaker 1: the way it happened. Yeah, So how did he act
Speaker 1: after that? I mean, that's a that's a huge deal.
Speaker 1: Especially how old is he? Well, I'm twenty seven, he's
Speaker 1: twenty six. Twenty six, okay, so twenty six year old
Speaker 1: virgin and you took his virginity. How did he act
Speaker 1: after that? I mean, other than they're thanking you profusely,
Speaker 1: that's what I would have been doing. Everything was fine,
Speaker 1: Like it was like great, and he was very sweet
Speaker 1: and like to me, like a good morning kiss because
Speaker 1: I spent a night and yeah, you know, I was like, okay,
Speaker 1: well i'll talk to you soon, and we texted for
Speaker 1: a few days and then like I don't know, it
Speaker 1: was kind of one of those things that like seemed
Speaker 1: to happen, he just kind of stopped it. So he
Speaker 1: just kind of dropped off the face of the earth. Huh. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I ask you, do you know why he was waiting
Speaker 1: so long? He didn't really say the only thing that
Speaker 1: he mentioned was that, like you just had never clicked
Speaker 1: with him with someone, and he had never really taken
Speaker 1: tick in the plane. Okay, so he decided to do
Speaker 1: it with you. Did your buns feel pretty special about that? Yeah?
Speaker 1: So why do you think he's not calling you back then?
Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean, our conversation seemed to be
Speaker 1: like perfectly normal and like you know, like flirty, and
Speaker 1: it almost was like we were going to go out again.
Speaker 1: And then when it came to like planning our second
Speaker 1: day that it was just like no resun and there
Speaker 1: was nothing weird that you can think of, not beside
Speaker 1: the fact that it was Liken took his virginity. I mean, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's that's a big one. I mean, other than ruining
Speaker 1: his innocence. Is there anything else that happened? No, not
Speaker 1: that I remember. Weel like, I mean, I would have
Speaker 1: just been so self conscious going into it, like are
Speaker 1: you sure you okay this? Are you positive that this
Speaker 1: is what you want to happen? No? I was like,
Speaker 1: it's time. You're twenty six years old. You've way past
Speaker 1: the marker on that. I've got to take care of
Speaker 1: this for you. Let me help you out here. All right,
Speaker 1: Well we'll play a song, come back, call him and
Speaker 1: get your second date update. All right, Okay, thank you guys.
Speaker 1: All right, hang on rooking Jubil in the morning. Second,
Speaker 1: I think I'm going to title today's second date update
Speaker 1: the Curious Case of the Ugly Virgin's crooking Jubil in
Speaker 1: the morning, because Lisa is on the phone with us,
Speaker 1: and she described the guy that she wants us to
Speaker 1: call today in her email to us as kind of shy,
Speaker 1: kind of nervous and not that good looking. Isn't that right? Oh?
Speaker 1: I didn't even know why I'm doing this, because you
Speaker 1: want to get hold of him. And I called him
Speaker 1: a virgin because Lisa took his virginity on their first date.
Speaker 1: So it is the curious case of the ugly Virgin.
Speaker 1: Why is he not calling Lisa back? Lisa, I'm sorry
Speaker 1: to keep harping on all this stuff. It's just funny
Speaker 1: to me, and it's even more funny to me that
Speaker 1: now your business is out there for the world. To hear.
Speaker 1: Glad you have made your morning. All right, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: dowe the phone number right now and see why he's
Speaker 1: not getting back to you. Okay, excellent, here we go,
Speaker 1: curious case. I'm gonna write that children's book, Lisa in
Speaker 1: your honor? Hello, how can I speak to Eric? Please? Yeah?
Speaker 1: It's Eric, Eric. How are you? This is Jewil from
Speaker 1: Brook and Jewil in the Morning. Oho? Oh? Sorry? Who
Speaker 1: Jewel from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. You're okay? Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's just its confused. Sorry. Oh no, that's all right.
Speaker 1: Who are you guys? It's a morning radio show. Oh okay?
Speaker 1: Ever hear of it? Um? Nah? No, okay, listen. I
Speaker 1: wanted to take a few seconds of your time because
Speaker 1: we got an email from one of our listeners about you.
Speaker 1: About me. It's a girl that you realy went out
Speaker 1: on a date with. Wait where Yeah, you recently went
Speaker 1: out on a date with a girl named Lisa, and
Speaker 1: since your date you haven't been calling her back. So
Speaker 1: she emailed us and asked if we could get you
Speaker 1: on the phone to find out if she did something wrong. Really. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's a segment we do on our show called the
Speaker 1: Second Date Update. Oh, gosh, do you mind talking to
Speaker 1: us for a second about your date? Nah? Really, I
Speaker 1: don't really feel comfortable. I know you might not feel comfortable,
Speaker 1: but she really is curious. She thinks she did something wrong.
Speaker 1: It would help us at least put her mind at
Speaker 1: ease if she could know, like, hey, I'm just not
Speaker 1: really into her or whatever. You know, why didn't she
Speaker 1: just call me? She says, she's been trying to call you,
Speaker 1: but you haven't been getting back to her. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: let me let me ask you a question. Okay. She
Speaker 1: told us about your date. She told us how you
Speaker 1: guys went to the theater and back to your place
Speaker 1: and then whatever happened she told you that. Yes, oh god, okay,
Speaker 1: are you okay? Man? You don't feel comfortable with you
Speaker 1: guys knowing all of that. Well, it's not like she
Speaker 1: told us. It's not like she told us she took
Speaker 1: your virginity or anything. Yeah. Ok, she told us. She
Speaker 1: told us all about your date and how she takes
Speaker 1: your virginity, and she thinks that's why you're not calling
Speaker 1: her back. Is that true? Oh my god, she only
Speaker 1: had really good things to say. Oh yeah, it's true.
Speaker 1: She took my virginity. Oh so is that it? Is?
Speaker 1: It just uncomfortable now and you don't want to see
Speaker 1: her again? Kevin was talking about this on the radio. Um, sorry,
Speaker 1: what was that say that? Against? It is the virginity thing?
Speaker 1: The reason that you're not calling her back? Is it
Speaker 1: just kind of uncomfortable now? You don't want to see
Speaker 1: her again? No? Not really, I'm uncomfortable with seeing her again.
Speaker 1: It's just I don't want to come off like a
Speaker 1: bad guy or a bad person. Like a bad person. Yeah, oh,
Speaker 1: let me ask you a question. Did you lie about
Speaker 1: being a virgin in order to like Oh no, no, no,
Speaker 1: oh my mom told me never to lie. So you
Speaker 1: were a virgin? Yes, I was a virgin. Okay, why
Speaker 1: would we think you're a bad person? Then? Well she did,
Speaker 1: I guess, did me a favor, and, like we all,
Speaker 1: she took my virtinity. It was awesome. But well, it's
Speaker 1: just like I'm new to this now, and I've been
Speaker 1: in relationships, but obviously I haven't had sex anyone, and
Speaker 1: the relationships have gone along. However, now that I've actually
Speaker 1: had sex, I'm just like, what the how have I
Speaker 1: been doing? I don't want to, you know, explore with
Speaker 1: some more. Now, do you want to explore some more? Now?
Speaker 1: So you're not calling her back? Let me see if
Speaker 1: I'm understanding you correctly. You're not calling her back because
Speaker 1: you got a taste of sex, and now you want
Speaker 1: to have it with everybody. Not everybody, but she kind
Speaker 1: of opened my eyes and now I just kind of
Speaker 1: want to try it with a lot of people. Oh man,
Speaker 1: So okay, and so you don't want to call her
Speaker 1: back because you don't want to be like exclusive to
Speaker 1: just dating her. Now, exactly, have you already slept with
Speaker 1: other people since your date with her? No? Boy, Like,
Speaker 1: I'm I already went tanning to go out on another day.
Speaker 1: What did you say? You already? What? I went tanning? You?
Speaker 1: Hann you tanning? Yeah? Okay? What is is that? Like? Yeah?
Speaker 1: In preparation to me, I'm like, now, yeah, now I'm
Speaker 1: preparing my body to have sex with other people. I shave, man,
Speaker 1: I got a new haircut. Okay, Well let me ask
Speaker 1: you this, swords men, you got any dates lined up?
Speaker 1: I have one tomorrow night, and I'm really excited about it.
Speaker 1: I want to see how it go. Yeah too, man,
Speaker 1: I'm really interested. So basically, she was like a crack
Speaker 1: dealer who gave you your first hit and now you're addicted. Um,
Speaker 1: I don't do drugs, if that's what you're implying. No, no,
Speaker 1: I'm not implying that at all. Eric, Thank you for
Speaker 1: being honest with us. I appreciate it. Good luck in
Speaker 1: your quest. Thanks, you're welcome. I do have to let
Speaker 1: you know, though, before we get you off the phone,
Speaker 1: that Lisa is actually on the other line and she's
Speaker 1: been listening to this conversation. Yeah. I've been on the
Speaker 1: whole time. I've listened to everything you've said, and it's
Speaker 1: incredibly shallow. Let me just say that, like I did
Speaker 1: this for you. I felt like I was like opening
Speaker 1: you up and now you're supposed to be special, and
Speaker 1: then you just like go and you're like you want
Speaker 1: to go, like run around in the streets and like
Speaker 1: taste every piece of candy you can. It's so disrespectful.
Speaker 1: What's going on. I didn't know if she was on
Speaker 1: the phone. I know, Eric, I'm sorry to do that
Speaker 1: to you. You lie to me, I know, I'm sorry, dude.
Speaker 1: I didn't mean to lie to you, But don't you
Speaker 1: don't you want to just tell Lisa yourself, like, hey,
Speaker 1: thanks for what you did for me. Now I'm onto
Speaker 1: the next one. He doesn't necessity. I mean, he's already
Speaker 1: said everything that he needed to say. I heard everything
Speaker 1: that I needed to hear, and he totally used me.
Speaker 1: I didn't use you. I didn't mean for that to happen.
Speaker 1: It just happened that night. It was a neutral agreement,
Speaker 1: mutual agreement, we signed a contract or something. I mean,
Speaker 1: I was doing you a favor. You realize this if
Speaker 1: you were a twenty six year old virgin when you
Speaker 1: met me. I mean, yeah, I was a twenty six
Speaker 1: year old version. I'm not that anymore. Oh, Lisa, you
Speaker 1: don't really feel used by this guy. I mean I
Speaker 1: actually thought he was nice, like I made exceptions for him,
Speaker 1: like really honestly, not like a guy that I would
Speaker 1: normally go out with. But then we had a connection,
Speaker 1: I thought, and now I just feel like gross. It
Speaker 1: really actually does feel old, pretty gross. He still sounds
Speaker 1: like a nice guy. Eric, you sound like a nice guy.
Speaker 1: I am a nice guy. You have to understand from
Speaker 1: my point of view, and you can't blame him. I mean, Lisa,
Speaker 1: you've had some experience. I'm sure that you're really happy
Speaker 1: that you've had all those experiences, right, he's got to
Speaker 1: make up for lost time. Well yeah, I mean yes, soo.
Speaker 1: But you know it's like you have someone on lockdown, like, okay, great,
Speaker 1: let's do this, Like doesn't he think he needs a
Speaker 1: little more practice before he goes out in the world,
Speaker 1: And like, you know, if it's like your second time
Speaker 1: to ever have sex, one's gonna wonder if you're really
Speaker 1: that bad in bed? How are you saying you want
Speaker 1: to practice with me some more? Because I'm just saying
Speaker 1: I totally will. That leads me to my next question.
Speaker 1: I guess Eric, would you like to go out on
Speaker 1: a second date with Lisa? We will pay for it. No, No,
Speaker 1: but I will go out on any other date so
Speaker 1: I get some more fun. No. No, he doesn't get
Speaker 1: to he doesn't get to turn me down. Now I'm
Speaker 1: not asking anymore. Oh my gosh. Hey, we can hook
Speaker 1: up from time to time. We just can't be exclusive.
Speaker 1: I'm not asking you for that. I mean no, I'm
Speaker 1: saying no, So don't act like you're like doing me
Speaker 1: favors now because I'm good. I'm telling you I'm good.
Speaker 1: No to looking up or no it's being exclusive. What
Speaker 1: is your do? Like you I we have this thing
Speaker 1: and you're a normal guy, and then all of a
Speaker 1: sudden you're gonna go out and like slay all these ladies.
Speaker 1: But it's gonna just like fred your seat all over
Speaker 1: the world, like you were shy, like you wouldn't even
Speaker 1: hardly talk to me. Lisa, I'd take it as a compliment.
Speaker 1: I mean, obviously whatever you do is really good. Crazed, Yes, Lisa,
Speaker 1: it was really good. Broken Jupil in the morning,