1 00:00:06,920 --> 00:00:10,479 Speaker 1: Hello, Hey, what's up? This is the Jewel Show. Sorry 2 00:00:10,480 --> 00:00:12,600 Speaker 1: about that you texted in four one six one they 3 00:00:12,600 --> 00:00:14,280 Speaker 1: have a dirty little secret. And I was taking a 4 00:00:14,320 --> 00:00:16,600 Speaker 1: said of water when we dialed the phone number, and um, 5 00:00:16,600 --> 00:00:21,319 Speaker 1: you answered, so Hi, Hi, how are you Hi? I'm good. 6 00:00:21,640 --> 00:00:23,680 Speaker 1: How are you good? I didn't expect you to answer 7 00:00:23,680 --> 00:00:31,240 Speaker 1: so quickly. Yeah, so you have a dirty little secret. 8 00:00:31,600 --> 00:00:35,320 Speaker 1: That's what you texted in. You we have dirty little 9 00:00:35,320 --> 00:00:40,120 Speaker 1: ear screes. So are you in a place that you 10 00:00:40,159 --> 00:00:44,319 Speaker 1: can tell us your dirty little secret? Um? Yeah at 11 00:00:44,320 --> 00:00:50,879 Speaker 1: the moment, all right. So okay, my boyfriend and I 12 00:00:50,960 --> 00:00:55,360 Speaker 1: of we were dating like five years, and we broke 13 00:00:55,440 --> 00:00:58,240 Speaker 1: up for the first time, um, a little bit ago, 14 00:00:58,400 --> 00:01:03,160 Speaker 1: and it was like so breaking. Um. And they say 15 00:01:03,320 --> 00:01:06,399 Speaker 1: the best way to get over someone's to get under someone. 16 00:01:06,600 --> 00:01:17,400 Speaker 1: That's what they say. Did you okay? All at once? UM? 17 00:01:18,480 --> 00:01:24,240 Speaker 1: I don't know. My dirty little secret is one of 18 00:01:24,240 --> 00:01:30,240 Speaker 1: those someone who's someone at work. Um M, I knows 19 00:01:30,319 --> 00:01:35,800 Speaker 1: that person. And now we got back together, and I 20 00:01:35,880 --> 00:01:40,280 Speaker 1: don't know if I need to tell him about this. 21 00:01:40,280 --> 00:01:42,320 Speaker 1: This is where I don't understand how people don't know 22 00:01:42,600 --> 00:01:44,600 Speaker 1: if they should tell her if they should not, you know, 23 00:01:44,720 --> 00:01:47,240 Speaker 1: like they're broken up. I'm like, do you want problems? Yeah? 24 00:01:48,560 --> 00:01:50,800 Speaker 1: You want to break, You want to break, like friends, 25 00:01:50,920 --> 00:01:54,600 Speaker 1: we were at a break yo, he's been I think honestly, 26 00:01:54,760 --> 00:01:57,440 Speaker 1: like you, if you're gonna decide to go back with him, 27 00:01:57,480 --> 00:02:01,560 Speaker 1: I think you should tell him it's a break. It's 28 00:02:01,600 --> 00:02:04,760 Speaker 1: a break, and like if he accepts that, Okay. If 29 00:02:04,800 --> 00:02:06,520 Speaker 1: he doesn't, then like you got to move forward. He 30 00:02:06,600 --> 00:02:10,120 Speaker 1: probably didn't, but I'm just saying he asked, don't just 31 00:02:10,200 --> 00:02:12,799 Speaker 1: go off and like offer up that information, right, Yeah, 32 00:02:12,919 --> 00:02:14,840 Speaker 1: don't don't tell him all the people that you hooked 33 00:02:14,919 --> 00:02:17,160 Speaker 1: up with. But you know, if he does ask, you 34 00:02:17,160 --> 00:02:19,400 Speaker 1: want to tell him because especially if he knows that person, 35 00:02:19,440 --> 00:02:22,520 Speaker 1: if he finds out later on, then he could be upset. 36 00:02:22,600 --> 00:02:25,160 Speaker 1: Outs true, Now put yourself in his shoes. If he 37 00:02:25,200 --> 00:02:27,120 Speaker 1: had hooked up with one of your friends while y'all 38 00:02:27,120 --> 00:02:28,680 Speaker 1: are broken up, would you want him to come to 39 00:02:28,680 --> 00:02:33,080 Speaker 1: you and tell you about it? Oh? God, I don't know. 40 00:02:33,240 --> 00:02:34,760 Speaker 1: I don't know if i'd want to know. I mean, 41 00:02:34,800 --> 00:02:36,640 Speaker 1: I guess I guess part of me would want to know, 42 00:02:36,760 --> 00:02:39,320 Speaker 1: but not if it's over, nothing's going to happen from it. 43 00:02:39,360 --> 00:02:42,919 Speaker 1: I'd rather move forward. Yeah, see Adam on I don't 44 00:02:42,919 --> 00:02:44,880 Speaker 1: want to know. I would never want to know, but 45 00:02:45,120 --> 00:02:46,840 Speaker 1: I would never want to do with that person if 46 00:02:46,880 --> 00:02:49,480 Speaker 1: that did happen, though, exactly, And I think he should 47 00:02:49,520 --> 00:02:52,200 Speaker 1: have that choice to make that decision. In my case, 48 00:02:52,720 --> 00:02:55,080 Speaker 1: honesty was a virtue, but it was it did not 49 00:02:55,200 --> 00:02:58,079 Speaker 1: work out, Okay, just it has that. But yeah, I 50 00:02:58,120 --> 00:02:59,560 Speaker 1: think a lot of people if you broke up and 51 00:02:59,560 --> 00:03:01,920 Speaker 1: they found out that you hooked up with somebody that 52 00:03:01,919 --> 00:03:03,440 Speaker 1: they know or their friend, a lot of people wouldn't 53 00:03:03,440 --> 00:03:05,799 Speaker 1: be able to get back together. For sure. I wouldn't care. 54 00:03:05,840 --> 00:03:09,040 Speaker 1: But honestly, Isabel Halsey, Yeah, it is most of the time, 55 00:03:09,480 --> 00:03:13,240 Speaker 1: only if they ask you them. Yeah, exactly, So keep 56 00:03:13,280 --> 00:03:15,400 Speaker 1: it a dirty little secret, don't. Don't And then if 57 00:03:15,440 --> 00:03:18,040 Speaker 1: they asked, and make it seem not as bad as 58 00:03:18,080 --> 00:03:21,240 Speaker 1: it was. Yeah, it was terrible. Yeah, make it and 59 00:03:21,280 --> 00:03:22,640 Speaker 1: make sure you say it's Sarah Wor's not in my 60 00:03:22,680 --> 00:03:26,720 Speaker 1: life at all. The text messages got them, I didn't 61 00:03:26,760 --> 00:03:30,040 Speaker 1: even get Yeah, it was horrible. Oh my god, I 62 00:03:30,120 --> 00:03:35,160 Speaker 1: was like I wanted to laugh. It was so badly 63 00:03:35,200 --> 00:03:38,800 Speaker 1: blow Yeah five times. Thank you for telling us your 64 00:03:38,840 --> 00:03:45,200 Speaker 1: good a little secret, have a good one. Thank you bye, Okay, 65 00:03:45,240 --> 00:03:45,640 Speaker 1: thank you