1
00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:04,360
Speaker 1: It is time to ask the CLO our Chief Love Officer,

2
00:00:04,440 --> 00:00:06,320
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey in the building.

3
00:00:07,000 --> 00:00:11,560
Speaker 2: This is from Sonya. Ready, CLO. Absolutely, This is from

4
00:00:11,600 --> 00:00:12,760
Speaker 2: Sonya and Raleigh.

5
00:00:13,039 --> 00:00:15,640
Speaker 1: Sonia writes, when I talk on the phone, my husband

6
00:00:15,760 --> 00:00:19,280
Speaker 1: is all up in my conversation, and when I whisper,

7
00:00:19,440 --> 00:00:22,360
Speaker 1: he gets offended. He had the nerve to ask me

8
00:00:22,520 --> 00:00:25,079
Speaker 1: if I was talking about him yesterday, and I said, yes,

9
00:00:25,480 --> 00:00:29,000
Speaker 1: yes I was. Why is he so concerned about what

10
00:00:29,240 --> 00:00:30,280
Speaker 1: I'm talking about?

11
00:00:30,800 --> 00:00:33,199
Speaker 3: What if you're talking about him, he gonna be concerned.

12
00:00:35,360 --> 00:00:37,320
Speaker 3: That's what he listened to say. The first time you've

13
00:00:37,320 --> 00:00:42,320
Speaker 3: talked about He's overheard some other stuff. He heard some

14
00:00:42,360 --> 00:00:44,000
Speaker 3: stuff I wuldn't Yeah.

15
00:00:44,120 --> 00:00:46,040
Speaker 2: Is he just knows he or is he just concerned

16
00:00:46,040 --> 00:00:46,840
Speaker 2: what she's talking about?

17
00:00:46,880 --> 00:00:47,680
Speaker 4: It now here.

18
00:00:47,479 --> 00:00:50,760
Speaker 3: Hustling because he had found out some stuff. He's overheard

19
00:00:50,760 --> 00:00:52,360
Speaker 3: some stuff he didn't know about his son.

20
00:00:54,320 --> 00:00:56,000
Speaker 4: He made me so sick.

21
00:00:56,360 --> 00:00:58,360
Speaker 2: Oh, she said that just.

22
00:01:00,200 --> 00:01:04,560
Speaker 3: Now, he all up in all e comms. Said oh really, yeah,

23
00:01:04,600 --> 00:01:07,240
Speaker 3: it's going down like that. So yeah, yeah, it's all.

24
00:01:07,319 --> 00:01:09,959
Speaker 4: Okay, all right, there's nothing you can do about it.

25
00:01:10,319 --> 00:01:11,840
Speaker 2: Okay, moving on to friends.

26
00:01:11,880 --> 00:01:13,559
Speaker 4: You got a cellphone? Walk off?

27
00:01:14,000 --> 00:01:17,959
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, well she said she whispers and stuff. But anyway,

28
00:01:18,880 --> 00:01:22,400
Speaker 1: moving on to friends in Jersey City, friend says, I'm

29
00:01:22,440 --> 00:01:25,080
Speaker 1: married and my wife and I have two kids. I

30
00:01:25,200 --> 00:01:28,640
Speaker 1: also have a grown daughter from a previous relationship, and

31
00:01:28,720 --> 00:01:31,800
Speaker 1: she needs a place to live. My wife doesn't want

32
00:01:31,800 --> 00:01:34,280
Speaker 1: her at the house, and it is putting me in

33
00:01:34,360 --> 00:01:35,560
Speaker 1: an awkward position.

34
00:01:36,040 --> 00:01:37,639
Speaker 2: What do I tell my daughter?

35
00:01:38,080 --> 00:01:40,720
Speaker 4: Wow, why don't you just help her get a place

36
00:01:40,760 --> 00:01:44,560
Speaker 4: to live? Yeah, why don't you get back?

37
00:01:45,319 --> 00:01:48,080
Speaker 3: Okay, that's your only solution now if you can't afford

38
00:01:48,120 --> 00:01:51,560
Speaker 3: to do that, then when you had to go to

39
00:01:51,640 --> 00:01:54,080
Speaker 3: your wife, your wife don't want her here because that's

40
00:01:54,120 --> 00:01:57,640
Speaker 3: another relationship that she has to be reminded of what

41
00:01:57,680 --> 00:02:00,280
Speaker 3: you did in the past, even even if you did

42
00:02:00,280 --> 00:02:03,360
Speaker 3: it before you met her, even if this was a

43
00:02:03,400 --> 00:02:06,520
Speaker 3: relationship before you even knew your wife. She just don't

44
00:02:06,560 --> 00:02:08,280
Speaker 3: want it up in the house. She may not be

45
00:02:08,360 --> 00:02:10,680
Speaker 3: comfortable with the girl. That depends on how old the

46
00:02:10,720 --> 00:02:11,200
Speaker 3: girl is.

47
00:02:11,639 --> 00:02:15,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, he didn't say. He just says she

48
00:02:16,000 --> 00:02:18,600
Speaker 1: was grown. I have a grown Well she grown.

49
00:02:18,680 --> 00:02:20,640
Speaker 4: You know, they might not have a good relationship.

50
00:02:20,680 --> 00:02:22,960
Speaker 3: And then you can't expect you can't put your wife

51
00:02:23,000 --> 00:02:26,560
Speaker 3: out like that now, I understand you. I've been in

52
00:02:26,720 --> 00:02:29,720
Speaker 3: one of them situations similar to that too, where the

53
00:02:29,800 --> 00:02:32,760
Speaker 3: grown kid wanted something and my wife didn't.

54
00:02:34,919 --> 00:02:40,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, the wife won. I just want to say that.

55
00:02:42,720 --> 00:02:47,680
Speaker 1: All right, all right, friends, Moving on to Evelyn in Savannah.

56
00:02:48,240 --> 00:02:52,200
Speaker 1: Evelyn says, my boyfriend and I are celebrating twenty years

57
00:02:52,200 --> 00:02:55,600
Speaker 1: of dating, and his family is not celebrating with us

58
00:02:55,639 --> 00:02:59,440
Speaker 1: because they're also called Christians that think we should be married.

59
00:03:00,000 --> 00:03:02,840
Speaker 1: Why are they being judgmental and trying to ruin our

60
00:03:02,960 --> 00:03:05,720
Speaker 1: special celebration twenty years of dating?

61
00:03:05,720 --> 00:03:06,960
Speaker 4: We're so special about it.

62
00:03:07,280 --> 00:03:08,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, twenty years, y'all?

63
00:03:08,720 --> 00:03:11,880
Speaker 4: What y'all celebrate? Y'all just stay together for twenty years?

64
00:03:14,000 --> 00:03:18,520
Speaker 2: Not marriage, but dat dating? Twenty years of dating?

65
00:03:19,040 --> 00:03:20,760
Speaker 4: What is married?

66
00:03:22,320 --> 00:03:24,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's it's year fifteen.

67
00:03:24,560 --> 00:03:26,720
Speaker 4: You want to go to the movies with me? I

68
00:03:26,720 --> 00:03:27,400
Speaker 4: don't understand.

69
00:03:28,080 --> 00:03:33,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's probably what her family's thinking too, and she

70
00:03:33,160 --> 00:03:36,720
Speaker 1: thinks they're being judgmental because they're not married and trying

71
00:03:36,760 --> 00:03:38,040
Speaker 1: to ruin their celebration.

72
00:03:38,760 --> 00:03:42,760
Speaker 3: Listen to me, you had a celebration between the two

73
00:03:42,800 --> 00:03:47,040
Speaker 3: of y'all. Stop expecting people to feel the way you feel,

74
00:03:47,840 --> 00:03:49,880
Speaker 3: to say nothing, to send, don't make no really.

75
00:03:49,920 --> 00:03:53,280
Speaker 4: You know you we've been together twenty years. Why y'all not.

76
00:03:53,400 --> 00:04:00,520
Speaker 1: Married by just dating? Maybe they don't and say it.

77
00:04:00,560 --> 00:04:05,240
Speaker 1: Maybe they're not the marrying kind. Obviously after twe not Yeah,

78
00:04:06,480 --> 00:04:12,280
Speaker 1: they let it go. She didn't say they they've been

79
00:04:12,360 --> 00:04:15,040
Speaker 1: dating for twenty years. That's all the information we have.

80
00:04:15,240 --> 00:04:18,479
Speaker 1: And they want their family to celebrate and they won't.

81
00:04:19,880 --> 00:04:24,760
Speaker 1: And she says they're called Christians celebrate to celebrate dating

82
00:04:25,200 --> 00:04:26,160
Speaker 1: for twenty years.

83
00:04:26,560 --> 00:04:27,240
Speaker 4: That's stupid.

84
00:04:27,480 --> 00:04:30,080
Speaker 2: People. A lot of people can't say that.

85
00:04:31,080 --> 00:04:33,440
Speaker 4: Twenty years is shocking.

86
00:04:35,000 --> 00:04:39,760
Speaker 2: They didn't say they shocked. Yeah, twenty years.

87
00:04:39,760 --> 00:04:42,839
Speaker 4: Man, you stop expecting people to be happy for you

88
00:04:42,960 --> 00:04:43,320
Speaker 4: for what.

89
00:04:44,920 --> 00:04:51,680
Speaker 3: Because lady, he has convinced you that what you all

90
00:04:51,760 --> 00:04:54,960
Speaker 3: have is great the way, Yeah, because you all have

91
00:04:55,040 --> 00:04:57,840
Speaker 3: had this marriage conversation. It's no way you have it.

92
00:04:58,480 --> 00:05:01,120
Speaker 3: And what he does is he's told you what we

93
00:05:01,279 --> 00:05:05,320
Speaker 3: have is great. Why would we mess that up? Oh,

94
00:05:05,440 --> 00:05:08,559
Speaker 3: we don't need no piece of paper to define our love.

95
00:05:12,800 --> 00:05:16,960
Speaker 3: You've had this conversation twenty years with the person of dating.

96
00:05:17,480 --> 00:05:21,960
Speaker 3: The subject of marriage has come up more than ten times.

97
00:05:22,400 --> 00:05:23,839
Speaker 2: Twenty years of dating.

98
00:05:24,160 --> 00:05:36,640
Speaker 1: Wow, that's a lot of dates.

99
00:05:31,240 --> 00:05:33,560
Speaker 2: A lot of dates, twenty years.

100
00:05:36,680 --> 00:05:39,920
Speaker 4: Wow, all right, a lota olive garden right there.

101
00:05:40,000 --> 00:05:49,640
Speaker 2: That's a lot of Hey, grant Stick's.

102
00:05:47,240 --> 00:05:54,800
Speaker 1: After twenty years. Yeah, all right, last one. Steve Mackenzie

103
00:05:55,000 --> 00:05:58,839
Speaker 1: in Beaumont writes, I had a wild night recently and

104
00:05:58,920 --> 00:06:01,080
Speaker 1: had sex in the bathroom of a club with a

105
00:06:01,160 --> 00:06:01,960
Speaker 1: random guy.

106
00:06:02,720 --> 00:06:03,680
Speaker 2: I ran into him.

107
00:06:03,600 --> 00:06:05,320
Speaker 1: The other day and he was happy to see me,

108
00:06:05,560 --> 00:06:09,360
Speaker 1: but I barely remembered him. He asked me to go out.

109
00:06:09,680 --> 00:06:15,400
Speaker 1: Does he want a date or just sex? Well, come on, Carl,

110
00:06:15,640 --> 00:06:32,600
Speaker 1: both both, would you wrap? Of course he wants of course, Yeah,

111
00:06:33,120 --> 00:06:34,800
Speaker 1: in the bathroom at a club.

112
00:06:36,040 --> 00:06:37,040
Speaker 2: That's when it's good.

113
00:06:37,160 --> 00:06:37,360
Speaker 1: Dog.

114
00:06:37,400 --> 00:06:43,919
Speaker 2: Hang on, did you say anything out of your mouth?

115
00:06:45,400 --> 00:06:48,200
Speaker 1: No filtering, no idea.

116
00:06:48,360 --> 00:06:48,960
Speaker 4: I'm talking about it.

117
00:06:49,040 --> 00:06:51,520
Speaker 5: I'm talking about way everything, everything in the auto, many

118
00:06:51,560 --> 00:06:54,040
Speaker 5: everything going off, the toilet flushing back, I said, man,

119
00:06:55,160 --> 00:06:57,480
Speaker 5: paper running out of that machine, the water coming on

120
00:06:57,600 --> 00:06:59,520
Speaker 5: on the foxyball. There's a lot happening up in there

121
00:06:59,560 --> 00:07:01,120
Speaker 5: car too much.

122
00:07:01,520 --> 00:07:05,440
Speaker 1: The bathroom attended is in yet with peppermans?

123
00:07:07,480 --> 00:07:10,840
Speaker 2: So what do you think? Steve says he wants a date.

124
00:07:10,800 --> 00:07:15,280
Speaker 4: We won't have sex? What what? What's what? Y'all y'all

125
00:07:15,280 --> 00:07:16,880
Speaker 4: ain't got y'all ain't got no memories.

126
00:07:18,400 --> 00:07:21,160
Speaker 2: Right, they haven't been together twenty years.

127
00:07:22,680 --> 00:07:24,280
Speaker 4: You don't even know your last name?

128
00:07:26,320 --> 00:07:26,560
Speaker 1: Right?

129
00:07:26,920 --> 00:07:27,560
Speaker 4: Or yeah?

130
00:07:27,880 --> 00:07:28,080
Speaker 5: Right?

131
00:07:28,960 --> 00:07:31,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, she barely remembered.

132
00:07:31,200 --> 00:07:34,920
Speaker 1: Him when he when she ran.

133
00:07:34,800 --> 00:07:37,320
Speaker 2: Into him, he remembered her.

134
00:07:40,080 --> 00:07:40,320
Speaker 4: Yeah.

135
00:07:40,560 --> 00:07:45,280
Speaker 2: Well hey watch college. Wow we go out again.

136
00:07:45,320 --> 00:07:47,680
Speaker 4: We ain't get no room. All these bathroom around.

137
00:07:52,160 --> 00:07:54,240
Speaker 3: And I know you ain't expecting me to open no

138
00:07:54,360 --> 00:07:59,040
Speaker 3: doors and all this talking about yo looking at Wald

139
00:07:59,120 --> 00:07:59,800
Speaker 3: to be quiet.

140
00:08:01,160 --> 00:08:03,840
Speaker 2: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.