WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Pals Before Gals

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<v Speaker 1>Second data to date. You know, it might be the

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<v Speaker 1>most important date of your entire life, but it's the

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<v Speaker 1>first date after you get out of a long term relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>Unda that's not important. It's just like we'll lead to

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<v Speaker 1>the bedroom because that's on the way. I'm getting over

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<v Speaker 1>out of it, you've been you know. Thing is if

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<v Speaker 1>that date ends up being a bad one, you could

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<v Speaker 1>end up swearing off romance forever. That's true. You're giving

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<v Speaker 1>it one date after a breakup? Are you not patient?

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<v Speaker 1>It doesn't have to be perfect, it doesn't even have

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<v Speaker 1>to be good. You just hope it doesn't go horribly,

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<v Speaker 1>horribly wrong and blow up in your face. But unfortunately,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what happened to one of our listeners, Krista, And

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<v Speaker 1>before she makes the decision to give up on men forever,

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<v Speaker 1>she's reached out to us for a little bit of help.

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<v Speaker 1>So Krista, first of all, welcome to the show. Hi. Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>that is a heavy welcome. Christa. If you had such

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<v Speaker 1>a bad date, why do you want to call this

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<v Speaker 1>guy back? Okay, well I have to explain though it's

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<v Speaker 1>not really a bad date with this guy. Okay, give

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<v Speaker 1>us the rundown. Tell us what happened. Okay, So I

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<v Speaker 1>was in a two year relationship that's over. I'm newly single,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I'm on apps, like a few apps. Yeah, so

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<v Speaker 1>I matched with this guy on Tinder. His name's Paxton.

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<v Speaker 1>We're like, okay, great, fine and name everybody. Everybody had

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<v Speaker 1>an image in your head as soon as you said

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<v Speaker 1>he was definitely a prom king Yeah. Yeah, no, I

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<v Speaker 1>could tell right away, like he's super douchey. Okay, is

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<v Speaker 1>a good thing. No, he talked about himself the whole time, like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh when he kept using the tree, keep going boy,

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<v Speaker 1>oh god, oh god, how long did it last? How

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<v Speaker 1>long were you on this date? For? It sounds terrible?

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<v Speaker 1>I like it. Well, he was talking about like these

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<v Speaker 1>hot women he's hooked up with. He's like, oh, but

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<v Speaker 1>you're not like them. But that's a good thing, like

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<v Speaker 1>the hot part or the hook up, the hot part.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh god, yeah, you're really like natural looking. What do

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<v Speaker 1>you say to that? I just stared at them and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, what the you know? And then like

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<v Speaker 1>he had some shots in front of him, like oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna I'm gonna went more drinks and then he

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<v Speaker 1>goes more drinks, buddy or whatever. Did you know? Did

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<v Speaker 1>you just leave? I mean, like, I'm not up for

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<v Speaker 1>like ghosting somebody on a date, but this guy sounds terrible. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So what happened next? What he gets worse? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>so I watch him go to the bar. He's hitting

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<v Speaker 1>on this other girl. He's talking to the other girl

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<v Speaker 1>and he's laughing. Love that. Yeah, he gets a wine,

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<v Speaker 1>a white wine like it looks like what I'm drinking,

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<v Speaker 1>and he hands it to that girl. What, oh my

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<v Speaker 1>gosh your drink? Tell me you left at this point? Yeah? No,

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<v Speaker 1>At that point, I'm like, well, do I leave or

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<v Speaker 1>do I store a drink in his face? Like? How dramatic?

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<v Speaker 1>Do I want to hear? Yeah? I want to be

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<v Speaker 1>here too for dramatic. What'd you go with? Well? I

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<v Speaker 1>look over to him and he just gives me the shrug,

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<v Speaker 1>like puts his hands in the air, like what am

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<v Speaker 1>I gonna do? He's hot? Girlfriend. So I saw this

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<v Speaker 1>other guy my hand to the bar and he's by himself,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, all right, he's cute that a

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<v Speaker 1>girl now, okay? Yeah, and I chucked that glass of wine.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm like feeling kind of loose or whatever. So

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<v Speaker 1>what's his name Braxton, then I would have run out

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<v Speaker 1>the door. His name was Luke, and it just sounds dumb.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's the time. It was the best I

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<v Speaker 1>could come up with. I just I like, is your

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<v Speaker 1>night going as bad as mine? Right now? And you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we kind of joked about that, and he was like,

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<v Speaker 1>well not yet. Okay, I don't think it's a bad opener,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. I mean, yeah, it's not the best opener,

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<v Speaker 1>but you know what he responded to it. He puts

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<v Speaker 1>some humor in and there was a connection and then

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<v Speaker 1>like to like swoop in and save the day. Good

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<v Speaker 1>hook comes from an other guy not being good, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like, oh he sucks, let me show you. I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think it's bad. You should be treated. So

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<v Speaker 1>we're able to keep a connection going with Luke. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean we talked for a lot. Like I pointed

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<v Speaker 1>out packs, like I pointed out the whole thing. He's like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>when you're getting out there, you got to sort through

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<v Speaker 1>the bad ones to get to the good ones. And

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<v Speaker 1>it was like some good advice. Like he just seemed

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<v Speaker 1>like a genuine dude, you know, and I learned stuff

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<v Speaker 1>about Like we had a conversation like he's a runner

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<v Speaker 1>and his jobs in science fields, and I like cool science.

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<v Speaker 1>It just sounds interesting, does he? To be honest, I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't really get it, and so I was like, oh, science,

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<v Speaker 1>But it was it sounded great. It's definitely up great

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<v Speaker 1>from the douchebag that Yeah, did he I mean, did

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<v Speaker 1>he reveal that he was single? It seemed like it. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>he said he was there to meet a friend and

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<v Speaker 1>his friend couldn't make it, you know, and it hid

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<v Speaker 1>plenty of time, you know, when you go like, oh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just out, my girlfriend's out with her friend's night,

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<v Speaker 1>he had plenty of chances to like, yeah, throw that in. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>But if he liked you and he was flirting with you,

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<v Speaker 1>even if he didn't have any intention of doing anything,

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<v Speaker 1>like man also like the you know, totally totally even

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<v Speaker 1>if even if he has a girlfriend, he's like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not going to do anything, so I'll just let

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<v Speaker 1>her continue to say. Yeah, so that's how'd you wrap

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<v Speaker 1>things up with Luke? Well, okay, so I'm the one

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<v Speaker 1>to suggests. I was like, we should hang out again,

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<v Speaker 1>and he took my phone, he put his number in

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<v Speaker 1>my phone. Okay, Yeah, so I tested a couple of times.

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<v Speaker 1>He didn't respond, but like maybe it wasn't tracked to me,

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<v Speaker 1>Like maybe he thinks I'm desperate because I went from

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<v Speaker 1>one guy to like hanging out with him or whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>But I didn't like him, or he has a girlfriend.

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<v Speaker 1>It's possible. I guess we're gonna find out. We will. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>let's play a song, we'll come back, we'll call Luke

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<v Speaker 1>for you, and we'll try and get you your second

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<v Speaker 1>date update. All right, boy, okay, we'll be all right

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<v Speaker 1>after this. Hold on second date if you're just joining

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<v Speaker 1>us for the second date update. One of our listeners, Christa,

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<v Speaker 1>called for help. She just got out of a two

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<v Speaker 1>year relationship and the first guy she meets off tender

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<v Speaker 1>turned out to be a real winner, and by winner,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean gold medal in the Douche Olympics, the Olympic game.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna spare you the details of it, but basically,

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<v Speaker 1>this guy, Paxton ended up hitting on another woman in

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<v Speaker 1>front of Christa and even handed that other woman her drink. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so Christa decided to get back at him by talking

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<v Speaker 1>to a different guy who was sitting alone at the bar.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean also because she didn't want to waste her

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<v Speaker 1>good makeup and hair everything. I don't think it was

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<v Speaker 1>about Paxton at all. I saw an opportunity and she

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<v Speaker 1>took it. Jeffrey, that's right. So she met this new guy, Luke.

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<v Speaker 1>They had a great conversation, according to her, but now

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<v Speaker 1>after exchanging phone numbers, Luke is not responding to any

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<v Speaker 1>of her texts. Krista, did I miss anything there? No,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, that's convey it's depressing when you say it, though,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I think we should look at it

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<v Speaker 1>the other way. I think you're going to be just

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<v Speaker 1>fine in the dating world. I think Luke's gonna have

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<v Speaker 1>a girlfriend. That's what I think. But that's not on you.

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<v Speaker 1>That's how the dating world is. Yeah, it doesn't mean

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<v Speaker 1>we still can't. Yeah, and then we'll have a silver

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<v Speaker 1>medalist Luke. But let's find out for sure. Okay, we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna call Luke's number and see what he has to say.

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<v Speaker 1>You're ready to do this, Christa, Yeah, okay, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>here we go. Hello. Hi, is this Luke speaking? Who's this?

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<v Speaker 1>My name's jeff from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning. Okay, Okay, yep, I was hoping for

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<v Speaker 1>a bigger response thing you always always Jeff. Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>Jeff Jeffrey. I mean, Jeff is such a famous name.

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<v Speaker 1>I really need to lower my expectations anyway, Luke. So

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<v Speaker 1>we're from the radio show Broken Jeffrey in the Morning,

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<v Speaker 1>and we're doing something called a second date update. Have

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<v Speaker 1>you ever heard of that before? H I haven't. That's okay,

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<v Speaker 1>the rest of us have low expectations, So, Jeffrey. The

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<v Speaker 1>way that it works is if one of our listeners

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<v Speaker 1>goes out on a date, and afterwards, if they're not

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<v Speaker 1>calling them back, you can email our show and we'll

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<v Speaker 1>help you get back in touch with your date to

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<v Speaker 1>figure out the reason why they've been ghosting. Gotcha, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and you didn't actually technically go on a date date,

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<v Speaker 1>but yeah, so it falls in the gray area. But

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<v Speaker 1>recently you met a woman who really liked you, and

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<v Speaker 1>her name's Krista. Oh Christa. Yeah, she was super sweet.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, that is a positive response, Luke. I mean, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>normally we don't get those types of responses. Maybe two

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<v Speaker 1>percent of the time they'll say something really happy and uploking. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>The rest of it's like people are dry heaving, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>the other edge. So we're off to a really good

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<v Speaker 1>start with this phone call already. So you liked Krista

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<v Speaker 1>super sweet girl? Yeah? Absolutely, she said super sweet twice.

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<v Speaker 1>That's fine, Yeah, that's okay. So obviously Christa's confused because,

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<v Speaker 1>according to her, she's been trying to reach you after you,

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<v Speaker 1>guys hung out and you have not been responding. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I just I just think maybe it's not going to

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<v Speaker 1>work out between us, Like I don't know, I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>not sure, you know, So I didn't want to kind

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<v Speaker 1>lead her off? Is that because you're in a relationship, Luke?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I'm dating here and there, but nothing really

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<v Speaker 1>clusive right now? Are you one of those people that

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<v Speaker 1>just keep thinking like suffing better is going to come along?

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<v Speaker 1>Like Brook, That's just what you think all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>I think a lot of people feel that way. And

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<v Speaker 1>what's going on, Luke, Well, you've clearly spoken her. What

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<v Speaker 1>did she tell you, guys? I mean she said that

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<v Speaker 1>she was at the bar on a date with a

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<v Speaker 1>different guy. It was like her first date out of

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<v Speaker 1>a two year relationship, right, and it didn't go well,

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<v Speaker 1>and so she went over and ended up sitting down

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<v Speaker 1>next to you and even told you about the guy

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<v Speaker 1>and the horrible date that she was just on. And

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<v Speaker 1>you were very supportive and very nice and had a

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<v Speaker 1>great conversation. You were super sweet. Yeah, and she says

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<v Speaker 1>that you gave her your number and you guys were

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<v Speaker 1>talking about hanging out again. It seemed like there was

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<v Speaker 1>chemistry from her description. Is that not true? That's all true.

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<v Speaker 1>But here's what happened after she left. Okay, okay, that

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<v Speaker 1>guy that she was when Paxton came over, Oh no,

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<v Speaker 1>came over to you. He came over to me, started

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<v Speaker 1>talking to me, and at first he was super confrontational

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<v Speaker 1>and he was just like stuff with that. Why are

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<v Speaker 1>you talking to her? I hate this guy so much.

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<v Speaker 1>What's he's saying? What's up? Boy? Are you talking to her?

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<v Speaker 1>Boy said to use boy a lot, that a lot? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean the guy was literally hitting on another woman

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<v Speaker 1>during their first dage. Yeah, she had mentioned that, but

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<v Speaker 1>Paxton also mentioned that christ was kind of frosty and

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<v Speaker 1>cold towards him. Okay, so he's blaming her. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>wonder why she was frosty and cold. Yeah, exactly, so.

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<v Speaker 1>But I was able to talk him down, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>He calmed down, and then the more we talked. It's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna sound strange, but like we actually ended up becoming friends.

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<v Speaker 1>He's actually kind of cool. He's really supportive, Like he

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<v Speaker 1>told me to just go for the things that I

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<v Speaker 1>want to go for. I don't really have a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of like cool guy friends like that. So you and

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<v Speaker 1>Paxton ended up bonding and now the two of you

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<v Speaker 1>are friends. Yeah. In fact, he's actually texted me a

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<v Speaker 1>few times to even hang out this week, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, of course, man, like we've been bonding. Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>we've been bonding. So you you can't date her because

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<v Speaker 1>you're dating the why can't you also go out with her? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>so when Christa got in touch with me, she was

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<v Speaker 1>just ragging on him, and like, yeah, I get that

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<v Speaker 1>she had a really bad experience with them, but I

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<v Speaker 1>just thought, like, if I was dating her, she would

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<v Speaker 1>not be happy that mom buds with the guy that

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<v Speaker 1>she had such a bad experience with it, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>And if I had to choose, I'm already friends with

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<v Speaker 1>him now we've been talking so much, But you're like

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<v Speaker 1>assuming what she would feel, you know, Like any guy

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<v Speaker 1>that you date always has at least one or two

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<v Speaker 1>super doe, you know, like you're well, you're right. Let's

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<v Speaker 1>not assume how she would feel. Let's just ask Christa directly,

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<v Speaker 1>because I need to let you know, Luke, she on

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<v Speaker 1>the other line listening and she wants to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 1>You could have told me that's in the beginning. Oh sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not very good at this. Chris, are you there? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I know I'm here. I'm definitely here. Um, I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>know you were on the line. Didn't tell me that.

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<v Speaker 1>I just hadn't responded because I figured you wouldn't be

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<v Speaker 1>happier the light of it, like, you know, me being

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<v Speaker 1>budged with Texan now and that, honestly, like the main

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<v Speaker 1>reason I hadn't gotten back to you. I thought you

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<v Speaker 1>were really pretty through super kind. You can stop talking

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<v Speaker 1>right now, Like you're friends with that guy. You became

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<v Speaker 1>friends with that guy? Well, he was really nice to me.

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<v Speaker 1>He was nice to what are you a puppy dogs?

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<v Speaker 1>And when is nice to you and you like them automatically,

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<v Speaker 1>Like that's not why the world works, that's just not

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<v Speaker 1>how Oh my god, I'm sorry. I don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>to tell you, but we just rode out together. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to be mean to people were nice to me, Chris.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, this is what happens in the guy world.

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<v Speaker 1>Nothing is more powerful than the bro connection. It trumps

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<v Speaker 1>everything else. And if you have to choose between the

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<v Speaker 1>bro connection and the girl connection, you're going with the guy.

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<v Speaker 1>I have to say, in all honesty, there are guys

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<v Speaker 1>out there that are the coolest dude, super nice, bro

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<v Speaker 1>to bro. But then you hear how they treat girls,

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<v Speaker 1>and you're like what You're like, how you cheat on people?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, but that's it. That's the same in the

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<v Speaker 1>world of women like I have. I have girlfriends who

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<v Speaker 1>are amazing girlfriends and I'm sure you do too, Chris,

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<v Speaker 1>that are or psycho in a relationship, you know, like

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<v Speaker 1>friends like Alexis maybe the psycho friend I'm talking about

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<v Speaker 1>that she's great with me. But why does that affect you?

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<v Speaker 1>Why are you upset about their bromance? You know what,

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<v Speaker 1>I probably wouldn't have been. But now that it's his

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<v Speaker 1>reason for not calling me back, if you're not texting

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<v Speaker 1>me like, it's almost like he's like, oh, I have

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<v Speaker 1>to choose. And so it wasn't dramatic until he made

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<v Speaker 1>it dramatic. And now obviously. It's the thing. Honestly, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're cool with me being passed and his friends,

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<v Speaker 1>I would love to say. But if you're not, then

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I just didn't want to send you the

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<v Speaker 1>wrong message and I didn't want to be the bad

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<v Speaker 1>guy in this. So like, if you're cool with it,

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<v Speaker 1>I would love to go out. Okay, So, Luke, you're

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<v Speaker 1>still interested in dating Chris da If she's cool with

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<v Speaker 1>you and Paxton being bros being boys? Yeah, well you know,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe I just think she might have read him wrong

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<v Speaker 1>that night. Maybe the three of us if we hung out,

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<v Speaker 1>it might be kind of fun. No, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>wait you want me to hang out with you and

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<v Speaker 1>that bad Oh yeah, this could this actually could be

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<v Speaker 1>the perfect opportunity for me right here. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>that that was an excited voice. I think really because

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<v Speaker 1>she's there was a lot of energy in it. Luke,

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<v Speaker 1>I would love to send you, Christa and Paxton out

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<v Speaker 1>on a date and we'll pay for it. I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>on a date with just you. But why do we?

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<v Speaker 1>Why is this guy? What is happenings happening? It's really cool.

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<v Speaker 1>After a few shots, that guy's even more fun than

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<v Speaker 1>he was like in the beginning, that's a good side

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<v Speaker 1>of someone you want to hang out in. Yeah, Christy,

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<v Speaker 1>you just gotta take a few Yeager bombs and you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna love them. I don't want to go on a date. Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess we'll have to change all our plans. But

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<v Speaker 1>maybe there's a way that we can just get you

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<v Speaker 1>and Luke to go out just the two of you. Luke,

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<v Speaker 1>is that okay? That would be fine with me. I

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<v Speaker 1>just want to be upfront that, like Paxston is now

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<v Speaker 1>a friend, and you know, if I'm giving an ultimatum, someday,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna have to go with my friend. Okay, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a red flags. We'll get that put down on

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<v Speaker 1>paper and notorize to make sure that it's legal. But Christa,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you say? One more date with just Luke?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even understand what's like? This whole thing has

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<v Speaker 1>been so weird. Yeah, but I don't really have anything

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<v Speaker 1>else going on right now. Yeah, Okay, boy, it's a

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<v Speaker 1>successful second date. Update. You are not going to regret it. Christa,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so much more fun ever since I met Paxton.

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<v Speaker 1>You're gonna love it. You can just stop, just stop,

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<v Speaker 1>just stop, just stop. Broke and Jeffrey in the morning