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Speaker 1: I don't even understand what's like? This whole thing has

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Speaker 1: successful second date. Update. You are not going to regret it. Christa,

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Speaker 1: I'm so much more fun ever since I met Paxton.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna love it. You can just stop, just stop,

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