Speaker 1: Welcome to the Women While Out Podcast. You guys the
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Speaker 1: Welcome to the Women While and Out podcast. These guys
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Speaker 1: to me control the mic. Like I said before, we
Speaker 1: control a lot of other things too, but tonight we're
Speaker 1: controlling the mic. It is our world from our perspective.
Speaker 1: I am be Simoon and let me get your this
Speaker 1: my beautiful co host prettype what they do, what they do,
Speaker 1: musty and crusty. I have a beautiful breathe while an
Speaker 1: out goddess. We we you know, not calling girl somewhere
Speaker 1: this last night, goddess. So we are here. I am
Speaker 1: be Simone and we're gonna have a good something now. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it was a great. It was a great day to
Speaker 1: day though it was. We got through. We killed it.
Speaker 1: I did goddamn with who who else? I with a
Speaker 1: little short nigger body. Yeah, we got a lot of
Speaker 1: you know, he can't already kill me. That's a raven.
Speaker 1: Believe he was on the show. Yes, I learned something
Speaker 1: to do. He was cute on the show. You're not
Speaker 1: cute now it's a little bit more weird. How old
Speaker 1: was he? Raven too? Look? Maybe the cigarettes? Knuckles black?
Speaker 1: I'm like, what's going on, Bobby, don't touch me? Remember
Speaker 1: little hand on scary movie? My germs his hands. How
Speaker 1: you been selling houses? Girl books? High billion dollar houses?
Speaker 1: I told you, I'm bracelets. You live in l A. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so when I can afford the Haliba money. She's not
Speaker 1: one of them. She say calabasket, that's Calibasis, Calabasqui you're
Speaker 1: trying to say calbaskets can caliban ca that's is anybody
Speaker 1: in your family like that's done real estate? So you're
Speaker 1: the first one. What made you get into that? The money? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Could you still? Yeah? Thank you at the home. Yeah, honestly,
Speaker 1: I think it was just growing up in l A.
Speaker 1: Everything you do is plugging people. So it's like they
Speaker 1: wanna you know, they want to run a house, they
Speaker 1: want to get cars, they want to go to the club,
Speaker 1: they want to meet girls, they want to whatever, and
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm going to have all those plugs
Speaker 1: and I'm going to hit every single mark and make
Speaker 1: all the bags. And they're doing it and they can't
Speaker 1: do without you. After that, what else do you do
Speaker 1: besides real estate? So I used to work in the clubs.
Speaker 1: So I worked in the clubs until I was like
Speaker 1: and then, um, I pretty much made all my contacts
Speaker 1: and meant everyone off of that. And then that's how
Speaker 1: I started figuring out all right, so as if people
Speaker 1: come in, they really need to hit all these points,
Speaker 1: so I canna get my license. I'm gonna meet these people.
Speaker 1: And I kind of just hustled it out until I
Speaker 1: became like the main plug. Not getting your real estate
Speaker 1: license was hard. It's hard. I mean it's all law
Speaker 1: really has. But feel that rent apartment. So when it's
Speaker 1: time to close all the house, if I was your cousin,
Speaker 1: would I be sladding in to get my house? Because
Speaker 1: I mean my credit school, I know how to think.
Speaker 1: It makes your credit fix your I'll send you to
Speaker 1: my people that find Yeah, no problem, you'll do that
Speaker 1: in Atlanta. Yeah, okay, yeah, do I need pay stuff
Speaker 1: a little pat count something apartment didn't come. I'm a
Speaker 1: lot of my pasto when I first moved. For sure,
Speaker 1: you get fa person. Yeah, she said you waked up.
Speaker 1: I said, Marcy, you know me put it on there
Speaker 1: my back end. I am so excited because today we
Speaker 1: have an amazing guess y'all give it up for my girl.
Speaker 1: Just jes in the mask and is real. Before you
Speaker 1: sit down and get comfortable, you want to like the glass.
Speaker 1: I'm definitely want to say that I was comfortable first.
Speaker 1: So you want to glass the red lit y'all. Y'all,
Speaker 1: y'all thought about me. I'm like, what's sorry? Just taste
Speaker 1: it tasting what's up y'all? What they do? Yes, they
Speaker 1: didn't do nothing. They first all right, let's get into
Speaker 1: it because I want to know. First of all, just
Speaker 1: hand there's in so many things. Entrepreneur, stand up, comedian, actress,
Speaker 1: I mean, just a boss everything and our friend. You
Speaker 1: know we all come from social media. Um, so what's
Speaker 1: going on with your career right now? Like you know
Speaker 1: lately that's the one I didn't real, right, Yeah, what's up?
Speaker 1: What do you? Where do you see yourself in ten years?
Speaker 1: That's like one of them questions. Yeah, but I got
Speaker 1: my own podcast. I do Carefully Reckless every Wednesday by
Speaker 1: our radio. Um with a black Charlemagne. That's my man.
Speaker 1: She actually just defended me on her podcast when think, yeah,
Speaker 1: I love that episode. But yeah, I got the podcast.
Speaker 1: I got a fitness line. Um, I have a doggyline.
Speaker 1: I'm dropping next week. Do you have a dog? I
Speaker 1: have a French bull dog. You just got a dog? No,
Speaker 1: I have to dog. I had my dog for like
Speaker 1: a year, Bain. I just gotta oh, what kind? What
Speaker 1: do you have? It's a little mix, it's not it's
Speaker 1: a Yorky. What's a little muddy muddy money working? Yes?
Speaker 1: His name boy? His name is un Oh well all
Speaker 1: right my boyfriends versus Spanish? Little Spanish. No, he's definitely
Speaker 1: black one. Still okay, how did you started in a comedy?
Speaker 1: Next question? Now, shouldn't listen as I'm also working on
Speaker 1: my special as well. Really, yes, let me tell you
Speaker 1: something about just hilarious. Okay, So I called her Fridays
Speaker 1: and people always ask me this question of interviews. Who
Speaker 1: do you look up to a comedy? Who you know
Speaker 1: got you into comedy? I always say my peers, just hilarious,
Speaker 1: pretty v because that's literally who I went to and
Speaker 1: who stuff I looked at and was inspired by to
Speaker 1: get on stage. And she was one of the first
Speaker 1: people I called when I did stand up, and she
Speaker 1: sat on the phone with me and went over these
Speaker 1: whack ass jokes. It was like when you're working, you know,
Speaker 1: but you helped me. So it was on my phone
Speaker 1: for like an hour, and she helped me, and I
Speaker 1: got on stage, and you know, I had so much
Speaker 1: confidence because of that conversation she helped me. She wrote,
Speaker 1: you like I just punched it up. I said, I
Speaker 1: have an ugly negree, Like how do I make it better?
Speaker 1: We're gonna stop right there, but we'll be right back
Speaker 1: to the Women of Wild in our podcast now. Because
Speaker 1: you did Jeff jam Right, you did the comedy that
Speaker 1: that right there was so inspiring to me, Like just
Speaker 1: seeing you on that stage everything. Yeah, just like you
Speaker 1: have Martin you have like yeah, literally listen speaking of Martin. Actually,
Speaker 1: like that's exactly how I got into comedy. Like I
Speaker 1: was going viral. I've been on Instagram for like like
Speaker 1: since I made my first videos of Maury parodies. Like
Speaker 1: two was the first time he went viral. Yes, and
Speaker 1: I don't know why I snatched the video down. I
Speaker 1: was on some dumb I mean dumb stuff I just snatched.
Speaker 1: I don't know, sorry, but yeah, I snatched it down
Speaker 1: and then um, Martin had called me. I started doing
Speaker 1: more more videos and he called me like a year later.
Speaker 1: I never when I touched the stage. One time I
Speaker 1: did one spoken word one and one of the comedy yes,
Speaker 1: and I want him dad playing my brother big brother
Speaker 1: put me up there and I went him there. And
Speaker 1: that was one time. Martin called me like a year
Speaker 1: two years after me going viral or whatever this story yes, finishing,
Speaker 1: just kidding so and he he was like, yo, you
Speaker 1: you do comedy and um, and I was like no.
Speaker 1: He actually was calling me for something else from tripping.
Speaker 1: He was calling me, I should you don't even know
Speaker 1: the story, You don't even know, like something else. And
Speaker 1: he said, how long have you been doing stand up?
Speaker 1: And you said two to three years? And you lied
Speaker 1: because he wants you to open up for him, and
Speaker 1: he was giving you an opportunity, and you lie to
Speaker 1: Martin Lawrence so that you could get on that stage
Speaker 1: with him. And I'm glad you did that because now
Speaker 1: we're here. I love that she knows this and you
Speaker 1: don't exactly and I'm telling and Martin, I'm we letting
Speaker 1: me know. Remember lying to Martin, she said, And he
Speaker 1: still Martin, I had never been on stage, right, I'd
Speaker 1: just be so interested to know everyone's story because you're
Speaker 1: you're not like an open book too much, like you
Speaker 1: drop as you go, and I'm big on that. As
Speaker 1: for his confirmation, like you know you got something in
Speaker 1: the works, and I'm a confirmed. I mean, we get it.
Speaker 1: What's for use for you? But sometimes, like I said,
Speaker 1: sometimes the enemy can't take stuff away from you, but
Speaker 1: it can delay it. So that's why I always said,
Speaker 1: but for everyone else. But literally, you're not like an
Speaker 1: open book. So that's why I was like, what's next
Speaker 1: when you've got in the words, like you know what
Speaker 1: you have going on? Because I'd be like up to
Speaker 1: because you still you make you still make time to
Speaker 1: do your videos to still you know, perform for your
Speaker 1: followers because you've got people that look to you fifty
Speaker 1: fourteen that can't come to you, so you still have to,
Speaker 1: you know, perform. And that's a different fan base because
Speaker 1: I have with y'all. You know what I'm saying, I
Speaker 1: still was just about well, you know, it's just about
Speaker 1: that balance and all of that, you know, still having
Speaker 1: to create content that I have a podcast now has
Speaker 1: to be a new topic to speak one minutes, that's
Speaker 1: twenty minutes. I have to put into um a topic
Speaker 1: where your opinion on what you think about something that
Speaker 1: has to be a true perspective. It can't be no
Speaker 1: bull ship all together, you know what I'm saying. It
Speaker 1: got to be what they want to hear, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean. Then I have to be mom, you know.
Speaker 1: And then I got to write jokes constantly because I'm
Speaker 1: working on my special on the Three City. So I'm
Speaker 1: gonna do Atlanta Bottomore easily. So I'm gonna do a
Speaker 1: package crazy, So I'm like working on that. Then I'm
Speaker 1: writing a sitcom myself, like writing it. Me and my
Speaker 1: brother Daisy. I love him hilarious. It's hilarious from Baltimore. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's my man, even traveling with me and so on
Speaker 1: with me, since you know what I'm saying. Yeah, and
Speaker 1: I remember when I was on your tour. Yes you
Speaker 1: didn't watch jazz I host Um we did like maybe
Speaker 1: like four Yeah, it was a Virginia, Ohio we did Ohio,
Speaker 1: because maybe we did Cleveland. I think we did. It
Speaker 1: was me and you watch the pink roll outside all day,
Speaker 1: so it was me the the other grade. I was
Speaker 1: getting on my nerves. Oh my god, who was remember
Speaker 1: the girl was a comedian. Was a comedian? Alright, so
Speaker 1: how's your son? And I still have Actually I like
Speaker 1: to I like to keep like my flies and posters
Speaker 1: and stuff. So but and I have it on my
Speaker 1: fridge and yeah, scratched her face out. Let me tell
Speaker 1: you what I liked about what she said to me though,
Speaker 1: But it was me you and watched jazz and her right,
Speaker 1: and thank you again for allowing me to come on.
Speaker 1: You know, I hosted. I ain't gonna stand it, but
Speaker 1: clearly the same thing practice. But um, she said to me.
Speaker 1: She was just like, you're not a good host. She
Speaker 1: said that, she said to me. And I was like,
Speaker 1: she said, it was like four years ago. Is she old?
Speaker 1: She was older? Right? And I said, okay, right, you
Speaker 1: don't think I'm a good This is when I lived
Speaker 1: in Charlotte, my first apartment. Mind you now, I was
Speaker 1: just getting on Instagram and I wasn't really out there.
Speaker 1: You know, I don't need you know how many caves
Speaker 1: I had? I don't know if I don't know who
Speaker 1: it was. But literally she was like, you know, a
Speaker 1: good host. Jazzy got me out my house and you're
Speaker 1: standing because Jazzy was just like, yo, it's not money
Speaker 1: and stand up, like you should do it me. And
Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, like I host jass,
Speaker 1: She's all right, we'll host. Like just do it because
Speaker 1: you know what's crazy to me about you're not a
Speaker 1: good host. Y'all. People are entitled to their opinions, and
Speaker 1: there's always for growth. Give people constructive criticism. There is
Speaker 1: nothing constructive about that conduct or actually mind you, but
Speaker 1: I'm saying your businesses sometimes some things just don't even
Speaker 1: need to be comming at, or you're not even doing
Speaker 1: it out of love. You got a good host. You
Speaker 1: could have pulled me to the side and said I
Speaker 1: see something and you maybe you need to work. But
Speaker 1: if you don't know how to say that, don't say nothing,
Speaker 1: because honestly she was she was. But what did you
Speaker 1: say when she it was being Jazz standing there and
Speaker 1: um when she said that, we just looked at was like,
Speaker 1: what are you talking about? Didn't say I didn't say
Speaker 1: anything to her Like I was just like, call Jazzy,
Speaker 1: give me her name. Yeah, I was like, all right,
Speaker 1: the next I want to know. And the next day,
Speaker 1: I mean I culled it like it was just like
Speaker 1: and then what she said then she smirked at me
Speaker 1: and was just like, oh that was that was good.
Speaker 1: But it was something where you come back she did.
Speaker 1: She go up. She was let say her set was
Speaker 1: her set was cool. You know, I'm not gonna hate
Speaker 1: on Siss like she was on my show. Yeah it
Speaker 1: was yeah, but literally literally literally literally literally like, um,
Speaker 1: what was about to say? It was something after I
Speaker 1: was gonna say it? Um, she like I said, she smirked,
Speaker 1: she said whatever. That she was. She funny, she was decent.
Speaker 1: But my thing you just understand too. You have people
Speaker 1: that that's so miserable and I say miserable because I'm Caribbean,
Speaker 1: you know, so miserable in their own space of we
Speaker 1: come from social media and they've been doing this ship
Speaker 1: for seven ten years and it's like, how did ship
Speaker 1: get on this tour and hosting and doing whatever and
Speaker 1: acting food? She could go on a robe and a
Speaker 1: pink bond, a pink pink robe low Bonne and be.
Speaker 1: You know, you know they love me mine. You know
Speaker 1: I went out there, they knew, they knew Peanut already
Speaker 1: in mine. Like I said, I don't know how many
Speaker 1: hundred kids or two hund kids I had, but I still,
Speaker 1: you know, own that stage, even in the midst of
Speaker 1: you telling me I wasn't a good host. But now
Speaker 1: when we fast forward so where we at, it's just
Speaker 1: like sweets, like, let's not do that, okay, because my
Speaker 1: thing is when you when you're coming from social media
Speaker 1: and we all could you know, talk about it, It's
Speaker 1: like it's not easy, you know, one when you're trying
Speaker 1: to transition, none of it is easy. But I'm telling
Speaker 1: you one thing, I love stand up more than doing videos. Man,
Speaker 1: me too, I love it. That's it's nothing like those
Speaker 1: instant laughs. Ever since that day I did the Martin Show.
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, like that was thirteen people I
Speaker 1: was in front of in my own first show. Someone
Speaker 1: else I would have been scared shitless. Yeah you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Am I allowed to curse because I
Speaker 1: feel these women do not that you all haven't cursed
Speaker 1: at all. And I'm like, she don't know, Like we're
Speaker 1: like yeah, to speak to Martin, it's like, who's I
Speaker 1: want to know, who's your mentor? You have a mentor
Speaker 1: in in um my big brother, DESI me my mentor. Honestly,
Speaker 1: you know, I'm gonna be honest with you. I didn't
Speaker 1: grow up on stand up comedy. I grew up watching
Speaker 1: Martin you know show, and you would be like surprised
Speaker 1: that I didn't watch, Like I have family members that
Speaker 1: are upset with me when they Thanksgiving and they're talking
Speaker 1: about like living single and you know, like other shows
Speaker 1: that we should not even girlfriends, not even like really
Speaker 1: like moha. Out of that, I was, I'm gonna give
Speaker 1: you this Martin Causby show, Leave It the Beaver, like
Speaker 1: I'm so you know different, Like no, watch that like seriously, yeah, hey, Arnold,
Speaker 1: I love that. I'm Lizzie MacGuire, M. Yeah, I love
Speaker 1: Pote Nickelode. Yeah. Yeah, I didn't grow up on that.
Speaker 1: Say I did not. I promised that. I honestly just
Speaker 1: grew up like watching the only sitcom that I love
Speaker 1: was Fresh Prince and Martin every Day, Martin every Day,
Speaker 1: you know, And that's how I got into that ship.
Speaker 1: And no, I like I absorbed so much from what
Speaker 1: I was young. So it's like, you know, and didn't
Speaker 1: you talk like me? You know I talk like him
Speaker 1: but from the same so ye, so I would similarity
Speaker 1: hear him because he talked like the people. Well that's like,
Speaker 1: you know, growing up watching that ship was so relatable,
Speaker 1: you know, opened up and I can't wait. I always say, Pam,
Speaker 1: that's literally solarly when I was, and he was like yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: like just the animation and the class. So that's how
Speaker 1: long have you been on Wilding Out? My first season
Speaker 1: was two seventeen. Yeah, dang, that is so funny. How
Speaker 1: I got on, I wasn't. I still had that picture
Speaker 1: of all of us in New York City when I
Speaker 1: was fighting against the wind my face, I was like,
Speaker 1: everybody look like I was like, it was like it
Speaker 1: was remember you had on this, you walked right past me.
Speaker 1: You had a partner on the middle, honey long weed
Speaker 1: and it was literally some like some color block shirt.
Speaker 1: That's like I remember of the damage come to me. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and then you you made it. You made it. I
Speaker 1: was sent home you Yeah. The Fridays. First we went
Speaker 1: to Fridays. We did we had fun, we ate, we
Speaker 1: drank yeah, And I was like, all right, give me
Speaker 1: a dinna laugh. Remember um, before I even got on,
Speaker 1: like right before I took a picture with my son,
Speaker 1: I was naked and my son remember that? Remember that?
Speaker 1: And yo, that ship went viral and I remember what's
Speaker 1: your name? Um? Oh my god, the Chicago Chicago dude?
Speaker 1: Hold them? Yeah, I said, Johnny holm Co said, uh
Speaker 1: some and you know, like very disrespectful or whatever. Are
Speaker 1: y'all cool? Now? Wow? And I gotta show him on
Speaker 1: the show with him Wow coming out? Are we not cool? Yeah?
Speaker 1: He could apologize and all I still would never you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, We like, I could respect if
Speaker 1: you apologize. He's sent a nigga to apologize to me.
Speaker 1: He guess who he sent to apologize to me? D
Speaker 1: C never and DC would never do that apologize yet
Speaker 1: especially um D rang the most and it was only
Speaker 1: the worst. Apology was like a wall in our game?
Speaker 1: Are we playing pickup? I am so sorry? You know no,
Speaker 1: I didn't need it, but I just like, what and
Speaker 1: I gotta send my message back to Robotto. What we're
Speaker 1: doing a dumbass bottle? D Right, You're on my nerves?
Speaker 1: Like he couldn't even he was laughing every gigly and
Speaker 1: You're like, it's an apology. He really just and then
Speaker 1: he got service like seriously, no for real, don't make
Speaker 1: me laugh nobody. He's like yeah he uh he said,
Speaker 1: you know, he didn't really mean it by yeah, but
Speaker 1: you should not be the messenger, right, No, no, done,
Speaker 1: And I'm on the show with him. It was a
Speaker 1: long time, like it took a minute for me to
Speaker 1: even want to do any type of show. But look,
Speaker 1: I came to wilding Out because because he was on here.
Speaker 1: I'm telling you X Now I don't know if now
Speaker 1: I'll remember, I swear what happened. I only came to
Speaker 1: wild and you wanted to be Nick was like, Nick
Speaker 1: was like, yo, you fired you yeah on the Rose
Speaker 1: and Tip. Actually, I don't even think Nick was worried
Speaker 1: about the ship that was going on. He knew what
Speaker 1: was wrong with Corey said about my son, but he
Speaker 1: wasn't really he just was like gross so wilding Out
Speaker 1: and I'm like so, he like you want know you
Speaker 1: come up audition New York whatever, Like yeah, Corey, what's up?
Speaker 1: All right? Whatever? Because he didn't only talk about me
Speaker 1: and the tweet. He talked about my son. Yeah, and
Speaker 1: that's literally he literally he literally this is why like
Speaker 1: our remember I remember that black whars like wow wow.
Speaker 1: So you understand when Nick was like, yo, you want
Speaker 1: to come up to an audition, I'm like, yeah, I
Speaker 1: always wanted to be all day. I want to punch him. Yes, yeah,
Speaker 1: But I don't know if Nick figured out why, because
Speaker 1: when I got up there, I don't know why he wasn't.
Speaker 1: And now I'm sitting here having to be funny and
Speaker 1: that's not what I You're like, where's Corey Hug? Like,
Speaker 1: make up a rhyme here? Like this rhyme it's called
Speaker 1: hawk m. So I'm like, and I don't know. I
Speaker 1: think I say, like it's Coreoco Maya. Wow. Then I
Speaker 1: don't know that I say that. Yeah yeah yeah damn.
Speaker 1: He was like nah he not. I was like, why
Speaker 1: did you ask me to come here? I thought she
Speaker 1: was like the hell me out? You know you already
Speaker 1: know just speaking the speaking of the show still, because
Speaker 1: I know you're talking about how you started, yeah on
Speaker 1: modeling out. So now you know we have a whole
Speaker 1: new season, a brand new season, you know. Um, it's
Speaker 1: amazing revolution evolution. Um, so what's you know your favorite
Speaker 1: game on this season? Okay, or they don't even got
Speaker 1: to be this season because just like I don't like,
Speaker 1: we don't got, we don't go, we don't do what's
Speaker 1: your favorite? So what's your favorite game? But she's like,
Speaker 1: I think right, yeah, yeah, no, honestly, I'm gonna give
Speaker 1: you my favorite game in my least favorite game, even
Speaker 1: though you ain't axt. I don't care. I ain't gonna
Speaker 1: lie my favorite game it's actually in the classroom. I yeah,
Speaker 1: I like it. I like it. My second favorite game
Speaker 1: pick up and kill it. But I'm doing ain't it yet?
Speaker 1: So what's your least favorite? Um uh, let me holler,
Speaker 1: but we won't even do that. But that's my least favorite.
Speaker 1: I don't really have at least favorite this year. I
Speaker 1: like all the all of them, like it makes you sharp,
Speaker 1: will rapping and today kill this girl, kill goddamn time.
Speaker 1: I ain't never did it before. How you do? Goddam?
Speaker 1: I don't really rose. She got out there. I was like, bitch,
Speaker 1: you rose, period. Yeah, but I do it differently li literally,
Speaker 1: differently literally, and I think everybody does in their own way.
Speaker 1: And I got girl to be like yo, talk about
Speaker 1: black you like you know, you not need it, like
Speaker 1: you know, just no share, yeah, just something you know.
Speaker 1: I just so the last episode, we talked to Nick
Speaker 1: about cancel culture, and I do want to talk to
Speaker 1: you about that because we've both been through that and
Speaker 1: I talked to Nick about it. Um, how do you
Speaker 1: feel like, um, it changed you if it did at all?
Speaker 1: Or how do you do you feel like? Um? You know, uh,
Speaker 1: you dealt with it in a in a good way.
Speaker 1: You feel like what do you feel about the whole
Speaker 1: scenario with cancel call? Honestly, at first he used to
Speaker 1: bother me a whole one, like it used to really
Speaker 1: get me down, um in the beginning for real. And
Speaker 1: then after a while when like after like my twelfth
Speaker 1: time being can you know what you know? This is?
Speaker 1: You know what I mean? Like it don't matter because
Speaker 1: you're all gonna get mad at whatever. Since I made you.
Speaker 1: You gotta do is make somebody man one time. You
Speaker 1: know you can donate, you can do whatever, you can
Speaker 1: save a life. And they will still bring up in
Speaker 1: every comment what if you did, yeah you know, not
Speaker 1: what you did to make it right now? How you
Speaker 1: moved on from it? Not how you've evolved, not how
Speaker 1: you've grown. You know what I'm saying, You've changed, Like
Speaker 1: I was literally five when yeah before Yeah, you know,
Speaker 1: like I was young, urban hood, that's where I'm from.
Speaker 1: Like different, you know what I'm saying, Like I have
Speaker 1: a son. I'm a single mom, like you know. And
Speaker 1: and when I say a single mom, because everybody be
Speaker 1: like his father, He's like, yeah, I don't mean like
Speaker 1: I meant. Primarily most of that's my Yeah, yeah, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So all of that I have
Speaker 1: to I have to really really cleanse myself. So like
Speaker 1: trolls and getting canceled and all of that. Once I
Speaker 1: realized what is more important than an app on the phone? Yeah,
Speaker 1: because that's what it is when you think about it.
Speaker 1: The Internet is powerful if you let it, if you
Speaker 1: let it. If you let it, you can't think about it.
Speaker 1: We started there was no Instagram at one point. Yeah. Culture, Yeah,
Speaker 1: cancel culture, social culture. Wendy did that? Wendy? Did we
Speaker 1: understand Wayne doing this? Yeah? Ain't the Wendy? We we
Speaker 1: need no When did you have to be honest? You
Speaker 1: know I was a social media I believe you. But
Speaker 1: I'm saying, like the way it is. Yeah, I'm saying
Speaker 1: that's all it was, was Wendy, So that's good. You
Speaker 1: know what. That's different. And I have to commend you
Speaker 1: on that because I told you that it was to
Speaker 1: day I sent her long resage. I said, you are
Speaker 1: the same person you just said urban single mom, come
Speaker 1: from the hood. You're the same Jess that you were
Speaker 1: when you were, but you have evolved in so many
Speaker 1: ways that I don't even see that thing. We see
Speaker 1: each other maybe once every day, and I'm like year
Speaker 1: every other year when now and I was like, yo,
Speaker 1: you are really the same person but so different and
Speaker 1: I can see your evolution and cancel coaches don't give
Speaker 1: a funk about that. They don't care if you know,
Speaker 1: they don't care if you're saying, sorry, don't that's why
Speaker 1: you gotta funk what the people think about you? What
Speaker 1: do you think about That's why I swear when the
Speaker 1: only time I got canceled that really affected me, like
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, was that religious ship. Because that's not
Speaker 1: even how that ship went down. You know what that
Speaker 1: one time it will great, We're not gonna bring it out. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so um single and uh, something you don't play with
Speaker 1: because I don't like I'm I don't play with religions
Speaker 1: my mother yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah never, I
Speaker 1: would never play with him. Yeah, I don't play with God.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, you're talking. You know. That's why that bothered
Speaker 1: me so much, Not even me being at home record
Speaker 1: messing up Wayne. You know, you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: not me insulting the gate that insulted me first, not
Speaker 1: me doing nothing else like all the other times. Religion.
Speaker 1: That's the one that broke me down. Like I really
Speaker 1: was crying, damn. You know what I'm saying. It's the
Speaker 1: only time I'm like, yeah, you doing And then I
Speaker 1: had to think about it, like I gotta joke about this,
Speaker 1: Like I was crying on the phone. I was like,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Like I was on the phone. The people
Speaker 1: that i'd be like, yeah, why would you do this?
Speaker 1: Why are you holding your phone? So you think about it,
Speaker 1: like when you see comments like that, like I would
Speaker 1: never record myself crying. You don't know what you'll do
Speaker 1: if you you are in this land and you have
Speaker 1: this big platform and yes, and the Internet is conditioned everyone,
Speaker 1: you know, into thinking that this is the per feel
Speaker 1: like this is how you're supposed to be. You're not
Speaker 1: supposed to think, you're not supposed to feel, you're not
Speaker 1: supposed to mess up, and you're not supposed to be perfect. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you're not supposed to be yourself. You're not supposed to
Speaker 1: have any imperfections. You're never You're supposed to do what
Speaker 1: we say, and that's it. Get rich, but don't get
Speaker 1: too too rich. Don't put on your slides. You got
Speaker 1: a problem with your body changing the way you look,
Speaker 1: but don't get surgery. You know what I'm saying. You look,
Speaker 1: don't work out too much, you don't want get too skinny,
Speaker 1: but you know, don't do it. Yeah, that's why you
Speaker 1: gotta I noticed that going through my things, Like you said,
Speaker 1: I was crying and people be like, you're not funny,
Speaker 1: You're fat. You this you gotta gap your eyebrow. When
Speaker 1: people question your character, that's like, hold on, now, I'm
Speaker 1: building I'm really doing this ship, I'm really waking up,
Speaker 1: doing the function. I'm really working on my character. That's
Speaker 1: when people question it. It's like you want your fans
Speaker 1: and the people that you actually love and love you
Speaker 1: back to love you and trust you. Our fans trust us,
Speaker 1: you know, so Yeah, that was hard. I was consolutely right,
Speaker 1: So I gotta and now we're here. Yeah, I got
Speaker 1: a question for all y'all. I have so much respect
Speaker 1: for what you guys do. I couldn't never get my
Speaker 1: ass up there ever, So, like, how does it feel
Speaker 1: to be in such like a male dominant space and
Speaker 1: y'll be killing that killing man? I ain't even old
Speaker 1: you jokes on on like while I know about me
Speaker 1: being a man, masking all that, I'm telling you on stage,
Speaker 1: that's what I am. I'm telling you I'm literally a man.
Speaker 1: Yeah I'm crazy, but funniest funnies. It's on an old
Speaker 1: other level. You know, understand what I'm saying, like not
Speaker 1: like really a boy because you know, like you like
Speaker 1: you hanging with him? Who I am I'm hanging It's
Speaker 1: like that's Jesse, you know, that's who. That's my that
Speaker 1: was my nickname growing up or whatever. That who I
Speaker 1: would set outside and joke with my brother and his
Speaker 1: friends all day. That's why I'm on stage. Niggas got
Speaker 1: me right, They used to crack on me or yeah
Speaker 1: you or get you know what I'm saying that since
Speaker 1: I was like nine, So that's something. None of this
Speaker 1: phases y'all. Nowe y'all go home and think about anything
Speaker 1: they said to you. You say that, hold on, it's
Speaker 1: still be sometimes you know it can be like yeah,
Speaker 1: you accept all of you. It really don't get to
Speaker 1: the saggy. I know that I'm I didn't have these
Speaker 1: sad things forever. It's I mean, there's nothing else to say.
Speaker 1: I think I think for me hearing the same thing
Speaker 1: I mean, and I hate like real stay reading the
Speaker 1: same thing like like yeah, I think I think for
Speaker 1: me because y'all already know me, like I'm just I'm animated,
Speaker 1: you know, so my thing is physical. I like to
Speaker 1: I mean say much, but I ain't saying ship. But
Speaker 1: I got to read my body before all that. But
Speaker 1: Email you will right, it's literally um head through me
Speaker 1: every time. Now I know we was in that damn
Speaker 1: um here and makeup room, Like oh my god, I
Speaker 1: want to knock him out so bad. When you know
Speaker 1: who do that to me? Literally rip you know what?
Speaker 1: Let me tell you why. I feel like everybody's jokes
Speaker 1: is legit, like out of love. When Email say something
Speaker 1: to me, I'm like, he loved me. When when can
Speaker 1: say something to me? I love when rip say something
Speaker 1: to me. I'm like, yeah, you want to stop talking
Speaker 1: to me because he I feel like he wants to
Speaker 1: be me. It's not even like love. It's like you're yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't get that from you, and I just don't
Speaker 1: get that from can't wait for somebody to bomb well
Speaker 1: ripped one sets like that is that email? But I've
Speaker 1: known how to control it, and I've told myself to clip.
Speaker 1: The other day, I said, I'm not gonna let none
Speaker 1: of this give anxiety or give me a headache. Before
Speaker 1: I do that, I'm going to my room. So for me,
Speaker 1: I told myself, I said, if email said something one
Speaker 1: one more time, of course I'm looking. I think people
Speaker 1: won't love. You'll understand too when you when you're nagging
Speaker 1: at somebody and you you just got something to say
Speaker 1: about something, Let me say something one day. Could see
Speaker 1: the potential in you. So they're probably like, yeah, I
Speaker 1: want to say something to you each time you get
Speaker 1: your ship together. Cool. I get that. But then when
Speaker 1: this is too much to say, I'm like, yo, if
Speaker 1: you want my number, you want my room number? Like
Speaker 1: what is it? So I could just let you know?
Speaker 1: Hell know? Is that happening? This season too. Oh no,
Speaker 1: he has set and he violated and said something. But
Speaker 1: I didn't let that get to you know. I would
Speaker 1: have pu the side and said, you know, you know,
Speaker 1: he getting my nerves. So I didn't really care, like
Speaker 1: you know, like what he said, because it don't matter
Speaker 1: no more back then like last season, of course, I'm
Speaker 1: like like I said, now I knew, I wasn't there,
Speaker 1: like yo, he is about to let me wire him
Speaker 1: up because I'm really not playing with him like one
Speaker 1: time with you man, But now I don't don't play
Speaker 1: with I don't play with you. I don't. I don't don't,
Speaker 1: I don't, I don't. I love Eman as a talent,
Speaker 1: he's super, super talented. No one could take his artistry
Speaker 1: read from him. But I don't do too much all that,
Speaker 1: but I want to actually want something, you know. I'm
Speaker 1: so notsing. They don't call me just with the mess,
Speaker 1: but they call me pretty v and I want to
Speaker 1: know the ta hello literally so you think literally literally,
Speaker 1: So you're not like trying to like date date, Well
Speaker 1: that's not the focus. No, it's not that, it's not
Speaker 1: the focus for twenties twenty one. I just m sometimes
Speaker 1: I feel like I don't have time for it. Dam
Speaker 1: I do want it, you know what I'm saying, Like
Speaker 1: it's I don't know if you'll ever get in that position.
Speaker 1: You know, y'all are both you know, busy as hell,
Speaker 1: but you are now girls enough time I am. I'm
Speaker 1: happy bron of it. You have time when you find
Speaker 1: the right one. Yeah, you know, when you find somebody
Speaker 1: worth your time. And that's exactly what it is for me,
Speaker 1: you know. But sometimes it's like I do want a relationship,
Speaker 1: but I don't want to settle. You shouldn't nobody. And
Speaker 1: then like sometimes I don't I know, I don't have
Speaker 1: time for it. But it's still like those times the
Speaker 1: time that I do have, those times where I'm like home,
Speaker 1: like spands of time. I have four days. Somebody could
Speaker 1: be here, you know. You know, I got tweets, But
Speaker 1: it's like you have a time when the right person
Speaker 1: comes along. It makes you got enough money to have
Speaker 1: the time. Okay, you fly to me, I fly to you.
Speaker 1: I'm bringing Ashton, your son, that's the son. You know.
Speaker 1: You have the money to have the time because just
Speaker 1: as rich y'all, y'all gotta see these change. I asked,
Speaker 1: that's your change. She said, Oh this is my change.
Speaker 1: That that looks like student jewelry. It looks so damn
Speaker 1: big and black me she has some real rubies on her.
Speaker 1: Well you already that's all starts everything you come with
Speaker 1: so much like around you. You know, I know your
Speaker 1: spiritual I know of course you love your son like that,
Speaker 1: and the one the forefront like that, and then your business.
Speaker 1: You're down to your stand up comedy. Like I told you,
Speaker 1: like I love I mean, we all love you. I
Speaker 1: mean the whole world. I mean, you're you're like against
Speaker 1: the sky is not the limit. So we're just so
Speaker 1: grateful that you came on this show, the Women of
Speaker 1: Whiling Out podcast. You know, we try to leave this podcast,
Speaker 1: but you know, in a dope inspirational quote, you know,
Speaker 1: and I wanted us to go around the room and
Speaker 1: just you know, says, just tell us to sell each
Speaker 1: of one of us, Like what what's your quote means
Speaker 1: to you? You know? I know I say a delay
Speaker 1: is never denial that I'm here, that I'm set free
Speaker 1: and I'm beautiful. I try to say that to myself
Speaker 1: every day, so it could resonated my spirit. Um. So
Speaker 1: before we leave, you just want to hear yours and
Speaker 1: what does that mean to you? Good times anytime you
Speaker 1: need a neighbor, good time, any time you need good times.
Speaker 1: Jazz one moment, keep something, keep motivate people out there
Speaker 1: that are your fans. She said, never for yourself. Good team,
Speaker 1: better go dreaming. Keep your head above water. She said, Look,
Speaker 1: you'll always get but I'm a starry with the mask,
Speaker 1: y'all want to get it inspiration for y'all. Got to
Speaker 1: tell her Instagram and find it in the caption and
Speaker 1: asked her for something. But I love her evolution. I'm
Speaker 1: so proud of her, and I'm just proud for her
Speaker 1: my friend, not just my coworker. And um, we love you,
Speaker 1: think we love you. We'll be right back with the
Speaker 1: women a wild in our podcast Beak it off Me.
Speaker 1: That was really real. It was raw, uncut, like it's
Speaker 1: always gonna be like that with us. Shoot, people come
Speaker 1: on these shows and you know, trying to be still
Speaker 1: like it. Please speak your truth, speak your truth. And
Speaker 1: I think that's what's important. And I think we can
Speaker 1: give women and you know people that platform here because
Speaker 1: we're very, very open and you know, very human. People
Speaker 1: don't know that it's so much to us than just
Speaker 1: the skits or the beauty being abund now Godess, it's
Speaker 1: so much more to you to us, so you know,
Speaker 1: so yeah, like I said, just has evolved and I'm
Speaker 1: proud of her and y'all out there, to anybody that's watching,
Speaker 1: there's always room for evolution. The person you are now
Speaker 1: out and the person you were in your past, it's
Speaker 1: not even the person God created you to be. You
Speaker 1: still walking towards that person, so constantly evolved, constantly grow
Speaker 1: and um and make changes. It has great give people
Speaker 1: the opportunity to do to do to do that too.
Speaker 1: You know. The important thing is just be unapologetically you,
Speaker 1: because that's the thing that that that way of desaone said,
Speaker 1: walking in your purpose, having grace and just being unapologetically
Speaker 1: you because you ain't trying to be nobody else but yourself.
Speaker 1: That is why people love you. This is why people
Speaker 1: adore you. And even the women they don't have a
Speaker 1: platform they're trying to get out there with whatever they're
Speaker 1: trying to do. Is a doctor, lawyer, actress, um, whomever.
Speaker 1: I mean, just be unapologetically so breede to Let's just
Speaker 1: takeaways from Jess because you might we have interacted with her,
Speaker 1: work with her. You probably don't know her the way
Speaker 1: we know her. And so was she everything you expected?
Speaker 1: What did you think? What? Yeah? You know, I I
Speaker 1: followed her for a long time. She's slutely hilarious. Her
Speaker 1: name is so fitting for her. So this was really
Speaker 1: cool to get to see her another side. Ever, That's
Speaker 1: what I love about what we're doing here and sitting
Speaker 1: here and seeing everyone's side, because you don't get to
Speaker 1: see that. You don't know how like humble and like
Speaker 1: what she's been through and just like how she processes
Speaker 1: things and the spirituality so much beauty to her. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So it's so great to sit here and like see
Speaker 1: what y'all have been through. And as I said, I
Speaker 1: have so much respect for y'all getting up. I love that.
Speaker 1: I couldnt it. I'm gonna tell you now, we're gonna
Speaker 1: do it tonight. It's getting late. But one of these
Speaker 1: days I'm gonna come here and be like, let's do
Speaker 1: our style and have all we could do, you know,
Speaker 1: a little pick up and kill it. I'm gonna give
Speaker 1: you a little we can do. No. Yeah, yeah, but
Speaker 1: this was a good episode. Thank you so much again.
Speaker 1: Jess hilarious, we love you and I will are we
Speaker 1: gonna see her tomorrow on stage. I'm roasting up. I've
Speaker 1: got my jokes. You what's gonna say? Pick up? And
Speaker 1: I can't wait. So we play that we didn't played again? No,
Speaker 1: but I even manifest that I'm gonna say, let's go back, Canvy,
Speaker 1: let's go back? And doesn't even get that went viral
Speaker 1: And that's it, you guys for the women abouting our
Speaker 1: podcast