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Speaker 1: Okay for the singles in the room, So I guess

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Speaker 1: that's maybe Kiki Kaylin me occasionally Jason, depends on the day.

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Speaker 1: So someone sent me this last night. Seventy six percent

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Speaker 1: of people from according to Vogue magazine, are open to

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Speaker 1: being chatted up in real life. So that's a new

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Speaker 1: thing now, people, I guess are now brand new technology

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Speaker 1: is your mouth to speak to other people in person,

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Speaker 1: which is wild. That being said, there's a social experiment

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Speaker 1: going around where they're trying to make it.

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Speaker 2: A thing to have.

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Speaker 1: A single ring. And in this case, it's on the

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Speaker 1: right hand. It's on the pointer finger. It looks like

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Speaker 1: or the middle finger.

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Speaker 2: I'm trying.

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Speaker 1: It's on the middle finger. It looks like it's a

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Speaker 1: blue ring. Is it blue? Yeah, It's like a rubber

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Speaker 1: and you would wear this on your finger and that

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Speaker 1: would indicate to everybody universally that you are single and

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Speaker 1: want to be approached. And I guess they're trying to

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Speaker 1: make this like the standard so that everybody would do this,

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Speaker 1: so it's not like, who's the weirdo with the you know,

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Speaker 1: the blue rubber ring on, like you would know the

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Speaker 1: whole world would know what this means. And yeah, I mean,

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Speaker 1: would you wear a I'm single, come hither ring?

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Speaker 2: Yes, plummy.

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Speaker 1: It's rubber, so I don't think it's you know, very expensive.

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Speaker 1: But I guess, yeah, I guess you buy the ring,

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Speaker 1: you wear it, and then everybody knows that you would

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Speaker 1: like to be approached because I think one, you know, truthfully,

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Speaker 1: if as a single guy, there are people, I would

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Speaker 1: say more people than not who will tell you they

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Speaker 1: don't really want to be approached by a stranger in

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Speaker 1: a bar. The second thing is you never really know

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Speaker 1: if if I am approaching somebody, if they're not wearing

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Speaker 1: a wedding ring, that doesn't mean they're not taken, And

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Speaker 1: so I don't know. This would enunciate to people, hey,

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Speaker 1: I'm here for this. So Kiki, you are not single,

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Speaker 1: but you are single, and you would wear this?

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Speaker 2: Would you wear it because you really.

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Speaker 1: Want to be approacher, because you just want big tim

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Speaker 1: to get pissed and by you another ring?

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Speaker 3: Well it so me right now would obviously be option

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Speaker 3: number two. But if I was truly on the market,

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Speaker 3: like in the dating pool, I would absolutely wear this

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Speaker 3: because I feel I just had this argument over the

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Speaker 3: weekend with a friend. People are so uncomfortable approaching other

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Speaker 3: people in public, like he told me that was weird

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Speaker 3: old vibes, Like he was like, absolutely not, but I'll

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Speaker 3: talk to any girl on the app. I'm like, well, so,

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Speaker 3: I just feel like if we all had rings, then

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Speaker 3: you would feel a lot more comfortable approaching me, because

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Speaker 3: I'm literally saying like I want to be approached and

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Speaker 3: it's not so scary for people now who don't want

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Speaker 3: to have any human contact.

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Speaker 1: Kaitlin, would you as the other single person in the room,

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Speaker 1: maybe technique and usually that would be you and me,

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Speaker 1: but I guess we're kind of kiki and you know, depends.

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Speaker 2: On the dock a hard launch relationship.

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Speaker 1: No, I'm wearing a Lecone blue ring right now. Everybody

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Speaker 1: check it out. It's all you know, let's go. Would

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Speaker 1: you want to sort of do something that was the

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Speaker 1: universal sign of yeah, I'm single, I want you to

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Speaker 1: talk to me.

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Speaker 2: No, No, I don't think so.

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Speaker 4: I think if you want to talk to me, you

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Speaker 4: think I'm hot, and you're wondering or worried about me

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Speaker 4: having someone shoot your shot, and I'll tell you I

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Speaker 4: have someone. Honestly, I think that that's so sexy to

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Speaker 4: me to be hit on in real life. I just

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Speaker 4: think it's I don't know. I don't need to like

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Speaker 4: tell you to come over with my ring, like, just

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Speaker 4: come over if you think I'm hot, and let's see

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Speaker 4: how it goes.

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Speaker 1: It's weird, though, Like it's weird as a guy approaching

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Speaker 1: women that you're right, I mean, and maybe to to

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Speaker 1: all of our detriment. Like people will say anything on

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Speaker 1: the apps because they don't have to look at face

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Speaker 1: stranger these days and speak to them. You know. That

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Speaker 1: used to be the only method you wanted to ask somebody.

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Speaker 1: Do you have to walk up to them ask them

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Speaker 1: for their phone number? Now you don't necessarily have to.

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Speaker 1: People are more inclined to get on the hinge and

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Speaker 1: then try and zoom in on the range and try

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Speaker 1: and find you on their or whatever, you know what

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Speaker 1: I mean, as supposed to. They'll go to great efforts

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Speaker 1: to find you on Instagram as opposed to actually walking

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Speaker 1: up to you. And I kind of wonder, like, is

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Speaker 1: it because a lot of people Is it because we've

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Speaker 1: become more antisocial? Is it because you know, for there

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Speaker 1: was a time where where guys were being scrutinized for

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Speaker 1: I don't know what, how have we gotten here to?

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Speaker 2: Where are you? Are you more afraid of the rejection part?

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Speaker 2: Is that that's what it is? Fred Like, I mean.

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Speaker 5: Because I had, we all had to do it, like

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Speaker 5: that's all yeah, butes, And I meant, you know what

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Speaker 5: I'm saying, right, I can get rejected any you know,

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Speaker 5: trust me, I get rejected on many platforms Instagram, Uh,

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Speaker 5: you know, hinge.

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Speaker 1: You know, it doesn't it doesn't really matter. But I

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Speaker 1: don't know if it's that so much as I think

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Speaker 1: there was a time where people were kind of icked

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Speaker 1: out by strangers talking of them. I think there's a

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Speaker 1: generation of people that think that it's kind of weird.

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Speaker 1: And I think that's kind of weird.

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Speaker 4: Don't you think it's like it's easier to get rejected

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Speaker 4: though online than it would be in person, Like I think,

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Speaker 4: I don't. I'm not saying it's for you, but I

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Speaker 4: think a lot of guys are really freaking scared of

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Speaker 4: getting rejected in person.

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Speaker 2: And I feel for you guys.

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Speaker 4: It's scary to walk up to somebody and you know,

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Speaker 4: risk them being like ell, you know, but shoot or

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Speaker 4: shoot and sometimes you miss, you know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, But you hear from women all the time,

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Speaker 1: like you hear from good looking women all the time

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Speaker 1: that will say, guys don't they don't approach me, like

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Speaker 1: they're intimidated or something. And I don't know if it's

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Speaker 1: so much because you're good looking. Maybe, I don't know

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Speaker 1: if it's more maybe because guys assume that if you're

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Speaker 1: and I'm just speaking from the male perspective, that guys

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Speaker 1: assume that because you're good looking, you must be spoken for.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if it's because we're not used to

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Speaker 1: speaking to others.

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Speaker 2: I don't. I don't really know what it is.

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Speaker 1: But I don't know that I would necessarily wear a

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Speaker 1: ring that says hey, like, come here, single finger.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, I don't, I don't really Why do

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Speaker 2: you got a ring on right now? I've just ordered mine? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Why is there a pineapple on it?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 2: No, wait a minute. She's single and she's mingling