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Speaker 1: My mother has been taking my disability checks for a

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Speaker 1: long time. I finally secured my independence. Oh you got it.

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Speaker 1: Once you secure that independence, don't let it go. Your

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Speaker 1: mama is a sackadoochy. So for context, Hi, I'm creerr

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Speaker 1: or as of late delta Krueger. Need to get that fixed.

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Speaker 1: I am the twenty seven male year year old lad

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Speaker 1: of this story. I am considered a high functioning autistic

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Speaker 1: individual officially disabled by government standards. By the way, this

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Speaker 1: comes from Kerr Grimpa and and if you want to

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Speaker 1: submit your own stories, God, it's okay, short time, stepar it.

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Speaker 1: So my mother for a long time, but especially these

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Speaker 1: past three years, has been taking in and managing my

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Speaker 1: checks from the government to keep the household afloats. That

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Speaker 1: is important context, making use of everything but hundreds of

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Speaker 1: dollars of it, which often got absorbed in moments of crisis,

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Speaker 1: as well as me not spending it much. And while

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Speaker 1: I and while I was doing so, while I was

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Speaker 1: doing so, sowing seeds of doubt and fear into my

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Speaker 1: mind about ever learning how to live on my own,

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Speaker 1: stating I was very far from ever reaching that. I

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Speaker 1: myself didn't really try to struggle or push my way out.

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Speaker 1: Even when I turned eighteen, she offered to sign me

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Speaker 1: up as a dependent, but I thankfully declined. I decided

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Speaker 1: for the good of the family to keep working with them.

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Speaker 1: That changed about four years ago. Four years ago, my

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Speaker 1: developmentally held back brain decided to say, oh, now it's

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Speaker 1: time to teenager. Ah, Yes, the time is now, team time.

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Speaker 2: It's time, it's it's it's within the context of the conversation,

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Speaker 2: completely okay, completely appropriate, teen time.

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Speaker 1: You know, we don't keep going. So I suddenly craved independence,

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Speaker 1: looking every which way for a way to flee gracefully

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Speaker 1: every time, though there was some unfortunate situation or action

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Speaker 1: that meant that if I left with my two incomes,

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Speaker 1: my mother became my PSW primary source worker, primary p

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Speaker 1: service as ps chat, do we know what PSW means

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Speaker 1: in the context of maybe a caretaker or income government

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Speaker 1: something of that nature. Please let me know in the

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Speaker 1: comments the old primary So there we go. I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: see here. What does PSW mean in the context of

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Speaker 1: maybe someone having a caretaker or maybe government support or something. Ah,

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Speaker 1: personal support worker, says tinker. You just might be right.

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Speaker 2: Personal support worker, personal primary work, primary social worker primary

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Speaker 1: We'll go with that pooky snooky wookie. So I love

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Speaker 1: this guy. Can't hold out. We can't eliminate all options.

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Speaker 1: Every stone must go turned. So every time though there

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Speaker 1: was an unfortunate situation or action, that meant if I

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Speaker 1: social worker or primary support worker, which has which that

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Speaker 1: has its own irony. Later on the family would fall

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Speaker 1: apart and I'd be dooming all of the animals, some

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Speaker 1: of which were never listed on our lease at the

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Speaker 1: time and were hidden in UH and were hidden every inspection.

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Speaker 1: Now what means you now what happens when you cage

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Speaker 1: a teenager that so desperately wants to do their own thing, Well,

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Speaker 1: they get rebellious. According to op, three years ago, I

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Speaker 1: got a therapist through my state insurance program, and after

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Speaker 1: venting all of the hoops my mom was making me

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Speaker 1: jump through and all of the work that was piled

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Speaker 1: and the stupid high expectations of me that would always

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Speaker 1: end up creating streaming matches to her over these past

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Speaker 1: three years. She finally said to me, as of roughly

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Speaker 1: a week ago, from this post that literally sounds like

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Speaker 1: an abuse case. M So let's actually just quickly stop there.

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Speaker 1: So basically to run it down, we have Opie is

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Speaker 1: receiving checks from the government, right and the mom is

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Speaker 1: taking them in. But it seems from what OPI's saying

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Speaker 1: in a way where it's like it's really keeping mom

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Speaker 1: and the rest of the family afloat, like they're kind

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Speaker 1: of like skimming off of Opie's Opie's checks, And the

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Speaker 1: therapist is now saying this literally sounds like a abuse

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Speaker 1: case quote unquote, Yeah, definitely probably, I mean sounds like

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Speaker 1: it could be financial abuse or yeah, even like an

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Speaker 1: emotion like I don't know, it feels like maybe this person,

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Speaker 1: like we're gonna take care of you anyway. It's like

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Speaker 2: Like well okay, wait, wait, you're just gonna take away

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Speaker 2: stuff because it's miss like okay, that's what's happening.

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Speaker 1: And it's like Opie is clearly saying like, hey, I

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, opis twenty seven. Yeah, now so op is

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Speaker 1: legally they're an adult and can do what they want.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, it seems that op is, in my opinion,

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Speaker 1: doing Mom the massive favor and everyone else in a massive favor.

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Speaker 1: Because also Mom admitted your checks are like keeping us

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Speaker 1: for them to do. What's up, sink. I ain't keeping

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Speaker 1: you a float anymore, Mama. Let me know if you

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Speaker 1: disagree with me in the chat, in the comments, please

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Speaker 2: I know, I don't let Mama float. I think I

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Speaker 2: think they can float. I think they can float. They're

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Speaker 2: just used to. This is probably like extra money they.

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Speaker 1: Got on they got like those those like kitty you know,

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Speaker 1: uh swim what do they call them, the swim wing things?

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Speaker 1: The king water wings wings? Take them off? Pop a, mom,

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Speaker 1: We're getting back to the story, So pop out and

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Speaker 1: show your mom. So I initially dismissed that and said,

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Speaker 1: I'll keep it in my mind on the comment of

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Speaker 1: it's maybe maybe as we ended that call that day,

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Speaker 1: only to then immediately after get chewed out for jumping

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Speaker 1: on a request my mom made earlier in the day.

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Speaker 1: She had requested research for something that made another lengthy story,

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Speaker 1: but regardless, she basically chewed me out for hounding her,

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Speaker 1: filling out the paperwork. What paperwork, you ask, Hmmm, I

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Speaker 1: don't know. I think we're about to find out. I

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Speaker 1: think I think you might be on the right track there.

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Speaker 1: So one day later, Mom and I get into another spat,

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Speaker 1: this time about the dishes, which were my daily chore.

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Speaker 1: Sure it was assigned to me, but my drive to

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Speaker 1: my effort could be pushed down on a whim, even

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Speaker 1: though it was ordered. There is some good improvisation. I

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Speaker 1: appreciate you, brother, We have had many Censoring is good.

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Speaker 1: The argument is hazy in my head for many a reason,

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Speaker 1: but The main one is Mom went farreh. The moment

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Speaker 1: oh this is this is? This escalated quickly. Dad stepped

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Speaker 1: and says, well, then I'm gonna make those next thirty

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Speaker 2: It's legal for your technically what are they both on

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Speaker 1: So yeah, Dad stepped in and told her since he

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Speaker 1: that Opie's over eighteen, uh and on the lease, that

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Speaker 1: I was given thirty days notice. So she was trying

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Speaker 1: literally legally have to give him thirty days notice, right,

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Speaker 1: So he's a tendant and then she's the landlord. So

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Speaker 2: Believe it's extremely illegal for the landlord to go, oh, well,

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna torture you for thirty days. Pretty sure you

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Speaker 2: can't do that, dude. Just a gut check right there

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Speaker 1: Not take mom to court. Well, we take a mom

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Speaker 1: to court. She's taking my money. She can use that

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Speaker 1: to pay for the fees. Oh take that, mama, But

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Speaker 1: then she'll need you even more. I need your fees

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Speaker 1: to sue you. I love it. You just prove your

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Speaker 1: case right there in Corey. You can see, yes, see

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Speaker 1: you see what she does. Look at her, look at her.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I love it. So uh, dad, let

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Speaker 1: She played herself four years. She said that if I

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Speaker 1: and I mean everything. It all popped into my head.

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Speaker 1: It was all propped up by my social security income.

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Speaker 1: I believe that's what that is. Uh, and the income

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Speaker 1: So those two opie leaves.

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Speaker 2: It does seem like a weird ploy to be like

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Speaker 1: It's you, Opie. But now I feel like we're just

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Speaker 1: How just straight up cuckoo for cocoa puffs. The mom

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Speaker 1: is like she will get so emotionally distraught and disregulated,

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Speaker 1: She feels slighted. Hey, maybe get out. Yeah, maybe you

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Speaker 1: know what, maybe just move yourself out. Hey, maybe just

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Speaker 1: She fell into what she had made of her life

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Speaker 3: Liberals, getting get dunked on liberals.

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Speaker 1: I told that I took that renewed energy to reach

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Speaker 1: out to those friends, those found families, my lovers, and

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Speaker 1: even my grandparents got a weird thing to put right

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Speaker 1: next to each other. Dude. I looked through my cards

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Speaker 1: back fast enough? God, what is that If you're packing

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Speaker 1: I think you just need to calm down.

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Speaker 2: Honestly, I don't think that's a good indicator on if.

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Speaker 1: You're folded, folded, stop it like Johnny, Okay, it sounds

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Speaker 1: like the wind is blowing in man, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Just folded, Mom, don't worry about me. I'm just moving

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Speaker 1: next few stages. So now grandparents saw the explosion brewing

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Speaker 1: for years, opened arms and let me take my belongings

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Speaker 1: and my dreaded and my bearded dragon pancake in while

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Speaker 1: my mother was on psychiatric care. Wow, sounds needed. With

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Speaker 1: why not? Why I'm funny. Let your veins blow up? Anyways?

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Speaker 1: from the WEG from the web accessible printer. Smart move

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Speaker 1: because there's there's full episodes of stories just like this

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Speaker 1: full episodes, so many. But Dakota, we are reaching the

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Speaker 1: my situation. But I don't think I'm being taken advantage of. Run.

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Speaker 1: Day, you don't have to support them, even if they're

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Speaker 1: Oh be a writer, Op. Yeah, we'll read write more stories. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you've minute our size, Okay, start time, like we'll read them.

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Speaker 1: You write in a very delightful voice. I agree heavily.

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Speaker 1: hundred percent pure American. If you catch my drift. That's

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Speaker 1: how we should censor that word. Moving forward. Your American freedom.

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Speaker 4: Pure American freedom, great a pow, some freedom machines, some

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Speaker 1: We can show it's just Delta Krueger. What a shout

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Speaker 1: out for Delta Kruger thirteen subscribers, Delta Krueger. Guys, just

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Speaker 1: go follow Delta Krueger. Well, yeah, sure, let's do are

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Speaker 1: I have a mental disability to my mom wouldn't be

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Speaker 1: That is. That's God again. If that sounds like you

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Speaker 1: Call one eight hundred story time. He gotta get that number.

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Speaker 1: a bunch of chores, is true. Forgot about that. So

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Speaker 1: Best wishes to you, to which OPI replies, I mean,

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Speaker 1: she plotted out, She plotted out the mooching like just

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Speaker 2: Is there a universe where if that plan is just

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Speaker 1: Is there? If if it's mutual, right, if you're not

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Speaker 1: Come on, come on, now, come on. They saw my

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Speaker 1: But you know it's never discussed them, I mean now

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Speaker 5: Yeah, every now and then it gets a little gross.

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Speaker 5: But shush, everybody, be quiet.

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Speaker 1: Hannah has donated fifty bricking dollars to the chat to

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Speaker 1: get us closer to more time, which we did by

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Speaker 1: that is the end of that story. Any other donos

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Speaker 1: we got definitely nice.

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Speaker 2: That when I hit it, that hit, I got it.

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Speaker 2: Aurora May sixty x' six, Thanks for the five dollars.

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Speaker 2: Love your videos and love to support you guys, always

438
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439
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Speaker 2: Glad I get to listen to you guys before I

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Speaker 1: Oh wait, you're streaming too, They stream you stream, We

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Speaker 2: Jazza Jay Bride nineteen ninety six. Welcome to the nights.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to the nines or did that get up graded?

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Speaker 1: Was this your night day? I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Exactly how that was got a new thing that was

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Speaker 2: a new member. Cool cow one cool cool cool. Let's

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Speaker 1: We don't have anyone else. That's it. That's it. Okay, dokey,

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Speaker 1: that's it. Okay, donkey or the jokey. So I go

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Speaker 1: through new story now number yes. Also, did you get

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Speaker 1: the thing working? No, I'm doing it well fashion that work.

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Speaker 1: That works though, because that will be in the videos,

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Speaker 1: and like the it won't be in the videos. It

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Speaker 1: won't be in the videos. That's okay. This is fifteen thirteen,

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Speaker 1: thanks sir, won't actually no, no, no, no, no, that was

459
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Speaker 1: a long one. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. Oh oh you're going, oh.

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Speaker 2: You can't pick the long one for the soaperhep uh

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Speaker 2: thirteen oh six thirteen six. What gets me when I

462
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Speaker 2: think about it is how you say that it's happened

463
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Speaker 2: like so many times.

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Speaker 1: That's just two. Yeah, I thought it was three. I

465
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Speaker 1: wasn't three, but actually I just had a core memory unlocked.

466
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Speaker 1: So when I was kid, I used to take kool

467
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Speaker 1: aid water and soap, put it in a squirt gun

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Speaker 1: a water gun, and uh I would shoot it into

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Speaker 1: my mouth. I just remember and soap and soap a

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Speaker 1: little a little bit of soap. But I didn't you

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Speaker 1: mean a little What was it? What kind of soap?

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Speaker 1: Han soaf? Handsome? Like? But like what scent? What flavor?

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Speaker 1: Why did Young John orange one? You wanted the orange soap?

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Speaker 1: Whoa this guys, I don't know. I've just made Riley

475
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Speaker 1: need If anyone realizes how crazy this is. Not only

476
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Speaker 1: is he the orange, but he was consuming the orange

477
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Speaker 1: all the all the dots are connecting here like this

478
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Speaker 1: is this is this is crazy? Is maybe instead of

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Speaker 1: this being like, oh I drink soap, like I'm getting soap,

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Speaker 1: He's like it's your body trying to transcend into the

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Speaker 1: next phase of your evolution. Maybe maybe soap is what

482
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Speaker 1: unlocks my my spiritual chakras to the next parallel universe.

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Speaker 2: You're just gonna become like a really like messed up

484
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Speaker 2: version of mister Clean, where instead of just being bald

485
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Speaker 2: and cleaning stuff, you just like like.

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Speaker 1: Soap out of you, but then soaps here. Yeah, maybe

487
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Speaker 1: I clean for people, you know, I give them the cleanliness.

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Speaker 1: Yeah exactly.

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Speaker 2: Anyways, one huh, oh, Patria B. I don't know if

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Speaker 2: that's maybe you supposed to be Patricia. Either way, thanks

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Speaker 2: for the five gifted membership. Freaking Wow freakingserts.

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Speaker 1: We love to see it. We love to see it,

493
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Speaker 1: and we love to see this next story. Let's get

494
00:29:46,680 --> 00:29:49,520
Speaker 1: into it. I divorced my husband. I have divorced my

495
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Speaker 1: husband because of my mother in law. Now he wants

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Speaker 1: me back. Well, that's a funny chain of events. Dump

497
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Speaker 1: your mom, then easy. My ex and I were married

498
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Speaker 1: for well over five years and together as a couple

499
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Speaker 1: four ten years. His mother was a nightmare. She would

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Speaker 1: spend her time belittling me and tried humiliating me. I

501
00:30:11,240 --> 00:30:13,440
Speaker 1: could take it as I loved my husband and I

502
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Speaker 1: didn't want to make him choose between her or me.

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Speaker 1: By the way, this comes from opposite Leopard on the

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Speaker 1: r slash okay story comes over it. So of course

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Speaker 1: I would always tell him what she would be doing,

506
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Speaker 1: and he would always brush it off as her being

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Speaker 1: a loving and over protective mom, but a terrible mother

508
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Speaker 1: in law. When she would say something racist I am

509
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Speaker 1: Hispanic and they are white, he would laugh it off.

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00:30:39,480 --> 00:30:46,720
Speaker 1: I mean, don't no, no is It is a human

511
00:30:46,760 --> 00:30:52,600
Speaker 1: response to laugh when things get really uncomfortable. You gotta confront.

512
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Speaker 1: There's a difference between like laughing uncomfortable. I'm reading this

513
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Speaker 1: as like he's like not uncomfortable, Like he's like, oh,

514
00:31:01,520 --> 00:31:05,680
Speaker 1: good one, that's okay. That's what I read it. I

515
00:31:05,720 --> 00:31:08,760
Speaker 1: had a confront. That is time to confront. When she

516
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Speaker 1: would make a comment of me being a gold digger

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Speaker 1: even though I earned more than my ex oh my god,

518
00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:18,680
Speaker 1: he would just say, oh mom. He would also get

519
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Speaker 1: mad at me if I ever stood up for myself.

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Speaker 1: H dump on which you did. Congratulations. But the straw

521
00:31:23,680 --> 00:31:25,840
Speaker 1: that broke the camel's back is that when we had

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Speaker 1: our is when we had our daughter, my mother in

523
00:31:28,880 --> 00:31:31,120
Speaker 1: law would always try to parent her and say that

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Speaker 1: I would do something wrong. My daughter has an irritable

525
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Speaker 1: colon and she cannot ingest any kind of effing oils

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Speaker 1: or artificial things. And guess what that looney of a

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Speaker 1: woman did.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna say she took all the seed oils in

529
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Speaker 2: a five mile radius.

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Speaker 1: And she took all the oils she could find. She

531
00:31:50,800 --> 00:31:55,360
Speaker 1: cangeeled it into a mistake and caused Riley's chair to

532
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Speaker 1: to break and deteriorate. My chair broke. Let's get a

533
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Speaker 1: new chair. That's not the first. I'm worried.

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00:32:03,400 --> 00:32:06,800
Speaker 2: I think I have no idea when I explained how

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Speaker 2: those chairs can malfunction.

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00:32:09,840 --> 00:32:12,719
Speaker 1: Oh, that's true, that was scary. But also, Keyon, there

537
00:32:12,800 --> 00:32:16,959
Speaker 1: was another nut that fell out when Keon did it.

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Speaker 1: What Also, who screws keep falling out of that chair?

539
00:32:22,120 --> 00:32:24,880
Speaker 1: Crews keep falling out? Are you talking to me? He's

540
00:32:24,920 --> 00:32:32,240
Speaker 1: taking those? Also, Keon, I was not in the wrong.

541
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Speaker 1: Not the record show. So back to the story. Guess

542
00:32:37,960 --> 00:32:41,160
Speaker 1: what this looney of a woman does. She fed my

543
00:32:41,400 --> 00:32:46,720
Speaker 1: three year old daughter essential oils? Fed you gross, fed,

544
00:32:47,960 --> 00:32:50,440
Speaker 1: like the oils you're supposed to just like smell and

545
00:32:50,480 --> 00:32:55,360
Speaker 1: put on your wrists. Yeah, she is not anti you

546
00:32:55,360 --> 00:32:59,000
Speaker 1: knowing in your arm anti jab anti jab. Thank you,

547
00:32:59,120 --> 00:33:02,360
Speaker 1: just very stupid to make her go to sleep. Oh

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Speaker 1: my god, she was in the ICU. I had it

549
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Speaker 1: and I can right. Sorry, but that was good. That

550
00:33:18,880 --> 00:33:23,280
Speaker 1: was really good. I'm sorry, Chat you can flame me,

551
00:33:23,400 --> 00:33:27,600
Speaker 1: but this is why he Riley is just all time

552
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Speaker 1: producer status. I'm sorry. It was great, guys, he said,

553
00:33:31,640 --> 00:33:38,200
Speaker 1: was okay anymore? Yeah, their three year old child is

554
00:33:38,240 --> 00:33:43,800
Speaker 1: no longer. They made it right, so we can do

555
00:33:43,840 --> 00:33:47,720
Speaker 1: the ic thing as a joke. You said it again.

556
00:33:49,080 --> 00:33:53,760
Speaker 1: I was just right. But yeah, show she was in

557
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Speaker 1: the ICU. I had it, and I can in front

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Speaker 1: of my husband who said she only did what she

559
00:34:00,720 --> 00:34:06,880
Speaker 1: thought was best. She only did what she thought was best, Dakota.

560
00:34:06,920 --> 00:34:09,440
Speaker 1: But you know what what happened when she did what

561
00:34:09,520 --> 00:34:12,440
Speaker 1: she thought was best, Dakota, the best thing didn't happen.

562
00:34:12,640 --> 00:34:15,560
Speaker 1: She ended up in the Oh, she ended up in

563
00:34:15,600 --> 00:34:19,840
Speaker 1: the ice. You she ended up in the ICU. So

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00:34:20,920 --> 00:34:25,600
Speaker 1: we cannot let the mother in law around the baby

565
00:34:26,320 --> 00:34:29,680
Speaker 1: lest the worst happens. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Sorry, I have a zero poisoning tolerance when it comes

567
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Speaker 2: to my children.

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Speaker 1: So this is immediate. No, like nolicon Dyson, if you don't,

569
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Speaker 1: if you don't see that, my child is like in

570
00:34:44,160 --> 00:34:47,680
Speaker 1: danger for your to protect your ship. No, it's over,

571
00:34:47,719 --> 00:34:51,080
Speaker 1: it's gone. It's gone, Obie says. I lost it. I

572
00:34:51,120 --> 00:34:53,640
Speaker 1: went to my parents and drafted a divorce agreement. Let's go,

573
00:34:54,160 --> 00:34:56,160
Speaker 1: that's the best course of action. I saw a post

574
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Speaker 1: earlier describing a situation that is much more dangerous than mine,

575
00:34:58,920 --> 00:35:03,279
Speaker 1: involving al Dgens in an EpiPen. His face was like

576
00:35:03,320 --> 00:35:09,480
Speaker 1: that Pikachu meme. When I served him, I got you, Yeah, yeah,

577
00:35:09,719 --> 00:35:11,960
Speaker 1: he didn't know why I was. He didn't know why

578
00:35:12,000 --> 00:35:15,400
Speaker 1: I was doing that because we were happy. We were happy.

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00:35:15,680 --> 00:35:18,200
Speaker 1: So now a years passed and my life was heck.

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00:35:18,640 --> 00:35:20,960
Speaker 1: My monster in law tried every dirty trick in the

581
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Speaker 1: book to take my daughter. To name a few, she

582
00:35:23,920 --> 00:35:30,160
Speaker 1: accused my brother of touching her inappropriately. Ooh. She accused

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Speaker 1: me of neglect. She accused me of taking rugs and

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00:35:35,600 --> 00:35:39,360
Speaker 1: leaving them in reach of my toddler. I take a

585
00:35:39,680 --> 00:35:43,720
Speaker 1: medication that's prescribed and good for Heaven's sake. She accused

586
00:35:43,719 --> 00:35:46,640
Speaker 1: me of endangering my daughter by leaving a random man

587
00:35:46,960 --> 00:35:50,399
Speaker 1: in my house. The list goes on. But during this time,

588
00:35:50,440 --> 00:35:53,000
Speaker 1: the excuse of my ex was that I broke his

589
00:35:53,080 --> 00:35:56,520
Speaker 1: heart and that I had to understand his mother. She

590
00:35:56,719 --> 00:36:01,200
Speaker 1: only once was best for him. What are you talking about?

591
00:36:01,520 --> 00:36:07,080
Speaker 1: She poisoned the child. She literally like, dude, you can't

592
00:36:07,080 --> 00:36:10,200
Speaker 1: be an apologist for your mom after she poisons the child.

593
00:36:10,280 --> 00:36:14,520
Speaker 1: We can't. We can't can't do that. Observe divorce just

594
00:36:15,160 --> 00:36:19,080
Speaker 1: more than divorce, like put everyone in jail, like I

595
00:36:19,120 --> 00:36:22,840
Speaker 1: don't know, yeah, probably honestly, jail for mom, jail for

596
00:36:22,920 --> 00:36:26,719
Speaker 1: the poisoner. Jail. Yeah, yes, please like. I feel like

597
00:36:26,719 --> 00:36:30,160
Speaker 1: we could actually do that. Yeah, that's the face. I

598
00:36:30,239 --> 00:36:33,360
Speaker 1: like the one on the right. That's not the face.

599
00:36:34,600 --> 00:36:40,560
Speaker 1: But we were happy. But we were happy. I like that. Luckily, though,

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Speaker 1: I got good representation and even got my daughter full

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00:36:44,040 --> 00:36:47,480
Speaker 1: time minus some weekends for visitation. I could prove that

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00:36:47,560 --> 00:36:52,560
Speaker 1: my daughter was endangered by his mother. Yeah, I guess

603
00:36:52,600 --> 00:36:54,840
Speaker 1: who's endangering now, stupid?

604
00:36:55,080 --> 00:36:57,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I guess you should have thought about that

605
00:36:57,960 --> 00:36:59,680
Speaker 2: before you were complete idiots.

606
00:37:01,280 --> 00:37:04,040
Speaker 1: So now onto the advice part. I knew that my

607
00:37:04,160 --> 00:37:06,960
Speaker 1: ex and needed to be permanently in my life because

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00:37:07,000 --> 00:37:09,719
Speaker 1: of my daughter, and I was learning to live with that. Uh.

609
00:37:09,760 --> 00:37:12,799
Speaker 1: He was very cold to me again because I broke

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00:37:12,880 --> 00:37:16,160
Speaker 1: his heart. Well, bro's brain has broken, so yeah, I

611
00:37:16,200 --> 00:37:22,160
Speaker 1: don't know, it's like it does. But he poisoned the child.

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Speaker 2: I don't think anyone has to be involved. I mean,

613
00:37:25,480 --> 00:37:27,439
Speaker 2: if you're gonna make one of them involved, I guess

614
00:37:27,440 --> 00:37:27,919
Speaker 2: made the dad.

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00:37:27,920 --> 00:37:31,840
Speaker 1: But I guess I guess legally he from that court decision,

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Speaker 1: he is entitled to those visitations. He's a poison apologist.

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00:37:36,320 --> 00:37:39,239
Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not arguing in his defense, but I

618
00:37:39,239 --> 00:37:43,799
Speaker 1: guess he legally has don't you would you rather, would

619
00:37:43,800 --> 00:37:47,000
Speaker 1: you rather ignore, or would you rather try to control

620
00:37:47,040 --> 00:37:50,400
Speaker 1: and improve the person who has some visitation rights to

621
00:37:50,440 --> 00:37:53,759
Speaker 1: your daughter? Yeah, I guess I wanted to. We want

622
00:37:53,719 --> 00:37:57,720
Speaker 1: to improve. We will have a proof. Now two things

623
00:37:57,719 --> 00:38:00,759
Speaker 1: have come together. One, my ex his brother in law

624
00:38:00,840 --> 00:38:03,840
Speaker 1: got married to an African American woman, so of course

625
00:38:03,920 --> 00:38:08,640
Speaker 1: my ex mother in law flipped. And two I started

626
00:38:08,680 --> 00:38:12,160
Speaker 1: dating again. Ohpi, my ex brother in law is a

627
00:38:12,200 --> 00:38:14,920
Speaker 1: great guy, and he actually stood up for his wife.

628
00:38:15,239 --> 00:38:19,080
Speaker 1: Don't figure it is possible. And to be clear, this

629
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Speaker 1: is the the brother of Opie's stinky husband who sucks,

630
00:38:22,040 --> 00:38:27,080
Speaker 1: who didn't defend. Clearly, he got all of the good traits. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I stay in contact with him because we are friends,

632
00:38:29,160 --> 00:38:31,319
Speaker 1: and he was a mediator and fought with his brother

633
00:38:31,400 --> 00:38:34,319
Speaker 1: quite often. So my brother in law actually stood up

634
00:38:34,320 --> 00:38:37,480
Speaker 1: for his wife and my ex husband got his painting's induced.

635
00:38:39,600 --> 00:38:42,840
Speaker 1: My brother in law basically opened his eyes to how

636
00:38:42,960 --> 00:38:45,840
Speaker 1: crappy he was being, and that their mom treated me

637
00:38:45,960 --> 00:38:48,120
Speaker 1: the same way that she treats his way that she

638
00:38:48,239 --> 00:38:54,360
Speaker 1: treated his wife. And finally my dense ex started understanding.

639
00:38:56,360 --> 00:38:58,719
Speaker 1: Now the guy I'm seeing is great. I've even met

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00:38:58,719 --> 00:39:01,960
Speaker 1: his parents and his mother is normal. She treats me

641
00:39:02,040 --> 00:39:04,440
Speaker 1: like a human being and has invited me already to

642
00:39:04,480 --> 00:39:06,759
Speaker 1: many family functions and tries to make me and my

643
00:39:06,840 --> 00:39:10,120
Speaker 1: daughter feel welcomed. My ex got wind of the situation

644
00:39:10,239 --> 00:39:15,360
Speaker 1: through a mutual friend and guess who now is flipping

645
00:39:15,440 --> 00:39:15,880
Speaker 1: his crap?

646
00:39:16,960 --> 00:39:20,640
Speaker 2: Oh, I couldn't possibly imagine who it could be.

647
00:39:20,880 --> 00:39:21,960
Speaker 1: We couldn't get you.

648
00:39:22,120 --> 00:39:26,439
Speaker 2: We could it possibly be the poison apologist.

649
00:39:26,800 --> 00:39:30,480
Speaker 1: It's a I don't know if is that is that

650
00:39:30,520 --> 00:39:34,360
Speaker 1: gonna get us? Don't get us, very very very feel like.

651
00:39:34,360 --> 00:39:36,279
Speaker 2: They're not even smart enough to know that. They just

652
00:39:36,320 --> 00:39:38,560
Speaker 2: look at like dumb word like be bop. Oh it

653
00:39:38,640 --> 00:39:43,120
Speaker 2: said kick me violent. It's like you never The key

654
00:39:43,200 --> 00:39:48,160
Speaker 2: is you never know? Yeah, sorry, okay, I'll say pussal.

655
00:39:47,480 --> 00:39:52,880
Speaker 1: There we go. That's perfect censor frinch chocolate blue. So

656
00:39:52,920 --> 00:39:56,000
Speaker 1: he started bringing flowers and chocolate. I don't even like

657
00:39:56,160 --> 00:40:00,000
Speaker 1: chocolate to pick up our daughter. God, this guy thought

658
00:40:00,280 --> 00:40:03,480
Speaker 1: guy dude, even when he's trying, he sucks. He's trying

659
00:40:03,520 --> 00:40:07,040
Speaker 1: to make you, you know, expand your horizons, like maybe

660
00:40:07,040 --> 00:40:11,280
Speaker 1: you'll like chocolate now. He sends me cards and texts

661
00:40:11,360 --> 00:40:15,520
Speaker 1: with hearts and who knows what. But yesterday was the

662
00:40:15,560 --> 00:40:18,120
Speaker 1: best thing, quote unquote, My daughter was at my mother's

663
00:40:18,120 --> 00:40:20,640
Speaker 1: place and I was at home with my boyfriend. He

664
00:40:20,719 --> 00:40:23,799
Speaker 1: appears in front of my door, crying and clutching my

665
00:40:23,880 --> 00:40:29,480
Speaker 1: engagement ring, begging me to come back. Babe. Look what

666
00:40:29,600 --> 00:40:30,080
Speaker 1: I did.

667
00:40:30,280 --> 00:40:33,040
Speaker 4: I got in a suit to get on one knee

668
00:40:33,080 --> 00:40:36,080
Speaker 4: and beg to cap your head in marriage again while

669
00:40:36,080 --> 00:40:38,319
Speaker 4: you're chilling with your boyfriend in there.

670
00:40:39,840 --> 00:40:44,640
Speaker 1: Oh god, it's like I does anybody think that'll work?

671
00:40:44,960 --> 00:40:46,280
Speaker 1: Has that ever worked?

672
00:40:46,880 --> 00:40:52,719
Speaker 2: Just groveling like a pathetic little baby and then the partner.

673
00:40:52,400 --> 00:40:54,920
Speaker 1: Goes, you know what, I actually see you in a

674
00:40:54,960 --> 00:40:58,520
Speaker 1: different light now. Yeah, it's a big pathetic man, baby. Yeah,

675
00:40:58,560 --> 00:41:02,719
Speaker 1: they'll take you backing has made me realize that I

676
00:41:02,760 --> 00:41:08,040
Speaker 1: should just dump this functional caring person for you, A

677
00:41:08,040 --> 00:41:15,120
Speaker 1: a idiot, a dummy. Oh oh, I didn't know you

678
00:41:15,160 --> 00:41:21,000
Speaker 1: could gravel pathetically. Please let me come back, so Opie says.

679
00:41:21,200 --> 00:41:23,279
Speaker 1: My daughter was at my mother's place and I was home.

680
00:41:23,360 --> 00:41:26,440
Speaker 1: My boyfriend already said that I said no and then

681
00:41:26,440 --> 00:41:29,120
Speaker 1: he should go away. He wouldn't and started demanding that

682
00:41:29,200 --> 00:41:31,279
Speaker 1: I come out and talk to him. My boyfriend told

683
00:41:31,360 --> 00:41:34,440
Speaker 1: him that he would call the police, and in his

684
00:41:34,480 --> 00:41:41,239
Speaker 1: pathetic fashion, he threatened to uh do fisticuffs. The old

685
00:41:41,239 --> 00:41:48,919
Speaker 1: one too, didley doo to my boyfriend, the old one too,

686
00:41:49,000 --> 00:41:53,640
Speaker 1: spin round gold, go to town in the way, in

687
00:41:53,760 --> 00:41:56,520
Speaker 1: the way that makes me not frown.

688
00:41:57,360 --> 00:41:59,160
Speaker 2: And there was no save in that, dude. It was

689
00:41:59,400 --> 00:42:01,359
Speaker 2: that's just gonna be sus no matter how I said.

690
00:42:01,400 --> 00:42:04,520
Speaker 2: That boyfriend drying one two back of my shoes. So

691
00:42:04,719 --> 00:42:08,960
Speaker 2: I closed the door and let him pound sand. Today

692
00:42:09,040 --> 00:42:10,760
Speaker 2: he picks up my daughter for a day trip.

693
00:42:10,920 --> 00:42:13,640
Speaker 1: And when they came back, my daughter was asking if

694
00:42:13,640 --> 00:42:17,080
Speaker 1: I loved my boyfriend more than her.

695
00:42:21,320 --> 00:42:25,800
Speaker 2: Yep, just be like no that, oh yeah, it's impossible.

696
00:42:25,800 --> 00:42:27,719
Speaker 2: You know what else is yees say, that's impossible.

697
00:42:27,800 --> 00:42:30,560
Speaker 1: You know what, but you know what is seems impossible,

698
00:42:30,560 --> 00:42:34,560
Speaker 1: but chat makes it possible. More time, thirty more mother

699
00:42:34,800 --> 00:42:38,520
Speaker 1: freaking minutes, and John, since we can't do the rumba,

700
00:42:38,600 --> 00:42:41,239
Speaker 1: and it started and it landed on ten minutes. We're

701
00:42:41,239 --> 00:42:45,000
Speaker 1: gonna add another ten minutes. We're gonna add another ten minutes.

702
00:42:45,120 --> 00:42:48,520
Speaker 1: That's that bang boom. That is what I'm talking about.

703
00:42:48,800 --> 00:42:50,480
Speaker 1: That's the kind of that's what I'm talking about. It's

704
00:42:50,480 --> 00:42:55,799
Speaker 1: the kind of dedication I like, oh, oh, you know,

705
00:42:56,640 --> 00:42:59,880
Speaker 1: I was not ready for that. Oh I don't know.

706
00:43:00,080 --> 00:43:03,640
Speaker 1: I can keep looking at this. It doesn't do that.

707
00:43:03,680 --> 00:43:07,480
Speaker 1: With my perspectacle, see I can see into the fifth dimension.

708
00:43:07,640 --> 00:43:12,520
Speaker 1: Oh god, well, so oh god from Anna Moon with

709
00:43:12,600 --> 00:43:16,759
Speaker 1: the sixty nine? Don'no on the tip league, what is it?

710
00:43:16,840 --> 00:43:23,560
Speaker 1: The uh six? There he goes, he got it? How

711
00:43:23,600 --> 00:43:28,279
Speaker 1: doy doodle? Hope y'all are well? Oki dokie bay Hey, thanks,

712
00:43:28,320 --> 00:43:31,680
Speaker 1: Anna moond? How do doodle to you? And how do

713
00:43:31,760 --> 00:43:36,160
Speaker 1: doodle to all? Y'all? Getting another thirty minutes? Anna Moon?

714
00:43:37,040 --> 00:43:39,600
Speaker 1: Come on with that quick houty doodle, quick do it?

715
00:43:40,239 --> 00:43:46,319
Speaker 1: So today? So today he picked up my daughter for

716
00:43:46,320 --> 00:43:47,920
Speaker 1: a day trip. When they came back, my daughter was

717
00:43:47,920 --> 00:43:50,640
Speaker 1: asking if I love my boyfriend more than her. Now

718
00:43:50,680 --> 00:43:53,120
Speaker 1: I'm at a loss of what to do. I already

719
00:43:53,120 --> 00:43:56,040
Speaker 1: told my daughter that it was impossible because my love

720
00:43:56,080 --> 00:43:58,920
Speaker 1: for her is infinite and there is nothing bigger than

721
00:43:58,960 --> 00:44:03,000
Speaker 1: infinite cute. But now, but now I know that my

722
00:44:03,239 --> 00:44:05,799
Speaker 1: ex is trying to make my daughter hate me. I'm

723
00:44:05,840 --> 00:44:08,920
Speaker 1: at a loss because I won't use my daughter's ammunition.

724
00:44:09,080 --> 00:44:11,400
Speaker 1: But also, what the heck am I supposed to do?

725
00:44:11,719 --> 00:44:14,120
Speaker 1: I will never return to that man, but I can't

726
00:44:14,200 --> 00:44:17,160
Speaker 1: take away the father of my daughter. Do you guys

727
00:44:17,440 --> 00:44:20,600
Speaker 1: have any advice? And we have some edits mini updates,

728
00:44:20,640 --> 00:44:25,799
Speaker 1: just a Schmortgash board Schmortgish board of stuff. But I

729
00:44:25,880 --> 00:44:31,080
Speaker 1: have to ask my good friend and smarter than any

730
00:44:31,160 --> 00:44:35,759
Speaker 1: psychiatrist on planet Earth, can give more overqualified answers than

731
00:44:35,760 --> 00:44:39,480
Speaker 1: anyone you can think of. Dakota, bring the pain pay.

732
00:44:39,560 --> 00:44:42,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, editors put a little asterisk over John's face when

733
00:44:42,760 --> 00:44:43,400
Speaker 2: he says all that, and.

734
00:44:43,719 --> 00:44:45,880
Speaker 1: That he's more credible that than John is saying.

735
00:44:45,680 --> 00:44:50,560
Speaker 2: Exactly, yeah, exactly that I'm actually more credible, more credibility.

736
00:44:50,640 --> 00:44:53,520
Speaker 1: So what do we do? I think the first thing

737
00:44:53,560 --> 00:44:56,480
Speaker 1: you gotta do is make sure that your child understands

738
00:44:56,480 --> 00:44:59,919
Speaker 1: that they are like no, right, It's like I think

739
00:45:00,160 --> 00:45:02,040
Speaker 1: get ahead of like the do you like, do you

740
00:45:02,200 --> 00:45:03,960
Speaker 1: have this person more than me? Do you have that

741
00:45:04,000 --> 00:45:04,919
Speaker 1: person more? Nope?

742
00:45:05,640 --> 00:45:09,920
Speaker 2: Nope, you're literally like not even on like the here's

743
00:45:09,960 --> 00:45:12,680
Speaker 2: like the scale and it's like you're like all the

744
00:45:12,680 --> 00:45:15,920
Speaker 2: way on the moon, like right, and.

745
00:45:15,800 --> 00:45:19,960
Speaker 1: Then you are totally fine in not letting.

746
00:45:19,600 --> 00:45:22,319
Speaker 2: The dad back in, like if the dad is going

747
00:45:22,400 --> 00:45:29,040
Speaker 2: to be an active like potential you know, neglect threat

748
00:45:29,280 --> 00:45:33,719
Speaker 2: to the child because it's like you know, whatever they say.

749
00:45:33,719 --> 00:45:35,480
Speaker 2: The apple doesn't fall far from the tree, and it's

750
00:45:35,520 --> 00:45:38,080
Speaker 2: not always the case, but it's like, I just think

751
00:45:38,120 --> 00:45:41,920
Speaker 2: it's wild that the husband was not immediately on like,

752
00:45:42,400 --> 00:45:45,319
Speaker 2: oh yeah, no, my mom is not that. That was

753
00:45:45,360 --> 00:45:49,640
Speaker 2: one hundred percent not okay, not down with any of that,

754
00:45:50,320 --> 00:45:54,320
Speaker 2: not down with.

755
00:45:51,120 --> 00:45:51,319
Speaker 1: The the.

756
00:45:52,840 --> 00:45:56,080
Speaker 2: Snide, not down with the remarks that I'm laughing at,

757
00:45:57,600 --> 00:46:04,240
Speaker 2: not down with literally pass ing our child. But instead

758
00:46:04,239 --> 00:46:05,720
Speaker 2: it was like, oh, it's just my mom.

759
00:46:06,680 --> 00:46:09,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, well you're gonna have just your mom because I'm

760
00:46:09,880 --> 00:46:13,000
Speaker 1: leaving you and you're not allowed to see our daughter.

761
00:46:13,400 --> 00:46:16,640
Speaker 1: You freak. If you love your mom so much, why

762
00:46:16,680 --> 00:46:18,799
Speaker 1: don't you marry her?

763
00:46:20,920 --> 00:46:23,480
Speaker 2: I mean, there's a lot of reasons why, right, I mean,

764
00:46:23,520 --> 00:46:27,360
Speaker 2: but apparently Op's X has no none of them in

765
00:46:27,400 --> 00:46:27,719
Speaker 2: their head.

766
00:46:27,800 --> 00:46:30,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, but yeah, I I completely agree with that. You said. Also,

767
00:46:31,480 --> 00:46:35,319
Speaker 1: I'm not a lawyer, but I'm only dressed like one.

768
00:46:36,440 --> 00:46:39,920
Speaker 1: But could we take this and remove his visitation rights

769
00:46:40,040 --> 00:46:43,200
Speaker 1: if you like him going to the door and saying like, yo,

770
00:46:43,360 --> 00:46:46,200
Speaker 1: I'm gonna watch out for your boyfriend, I'm gonna Yeah.

771
00:46:46,239 --> 00:46:51,000
Speaker 1: I think definitely we could could factor into it. Well, try,

772
00:46:51,080 --> 00:46:53,120
Speaker 1: could we try? I like trying? We could try that.

773
00:46:53,600 --> 00:46:56,680
Speaker 1: Let's see if we try because we have an edit

774
00:46:56,800 --> 00:47:01,320
Speaker 1: slash media update. Thanks to you all I needed devent

775
00:47:01,360 --> 00:47:03,360
Speaker 1: and I was feeling helpless, and I'm so thankful for

776
00:47:03,400 --> 00:47:06,960
Speaker 1: you wonderful people. I talked to my lawyer who confirmed

777
00:47:07,040 --> 00:47:09,640
Speaker 1: that we could have a case for DV by proxy.

778
00:47:10,080 --> 00:47:12,040
Speaker 1: A social worker will be visiting us in the next

779
00:47:12,040 --> 00:47:15,000
Speaker 1: few days to talk to my daughter about this edit,

780
00:47:15,040 --> 00:47:17,560
Speaker 1: because apparently people want to spin this narrative on me.

781
00:47:17,960 --> 00:47:19,959
Speaker 1: I don't care if he wants me back, I don't

782
00:47:19,960 --> 00:47:22,759
Speaker 1: love him anymore and we'll never get back together with him.

783
00:47:23,000 --> 00:47:25,480
Speaker 1: If you were commenting on this saying, oh, why are

784
00:47:25,520 --> 00:47:27,440
Speaker 1: you abandoning him? Or why don't you get back together

785
00:47:27,480 --> 00:47:30,239
Speaker 1: with him? Find a rock, crawl under it, and never

786
00:47:30,320 --> 00:47:34,839
Speaker 1: crawl out. Yeah, for real, who's actually saying that? Who

787
00:47:34,880 --> 00:47:39,680
Speaker 1: could positively be saying that? There's a subreddit called redpill.

788
00:47:41,680 --> 00:47:44,520
Speaker 2: So it's just I think it's just Op's X made

789
00:47:44,520 --> 00:47:46,479
Speaker 2: a bunch of accounts, and it's just like, you should

790
00:47:46,520 --> 00:47:47,920
Speaker 2: totally get back together that guy.

791
00:47:47,920 --> 00:47:51,000
Speaker 1: He sounds really cool. It's true, he sounds like he's

792
00:47:51,000 --> 00:47:54,040
Speaker 1: got lots of school stuff going for him, and also

793
00:47:54,719 --> 00:47:57,440
Speaker 1: the essential oil things not to be dual. Did you

794
00:47:57,480 --> 00:48:02,799
Speaker 1: say no, Riley? Oh okay. I thought no, no, no,

795
00:48:02,840 --> 00:48:05,840
Speaker 1: You're good because when I heard that no, it sounded

796
00:48:05,880 --> 00:48:07,480
Speaker 1: like it didn't come from you, and like it like

797
00:48:07,680 --> 00:48:09,960
Speaker 1: there was a ghost in this room. I'm sorry. It

798
00:48:10,040 --> 00:48:15,080
Speaker 1: just wigged me out first, that John hearing his uh

799
00:48:15,120 --> 00:48:18,879
Speaker 1: siblings there was a ghost in Kean's house because he's

800
00:48:18,880 --> 00:48:21,799
Speaker 1: so old. Certainly, when he knows that there was a

801
00:48:21,840 --> 00:48:24,680
Speaker 1: ghost in his house, dang, probably should have met him.

802
00:48:24,680 --> 00:48:29,120
Speaker 1: It's probably still there. Oh man. So Obi goes on

803
00:48:29,160 --> 00:48:31,479
Speaker 1: to say, staying for the sake of our daughter would

804
00:48:31,480 --> 00:48:33,440
Speaker 1: not make it would not make sense as it has

805
00:48:33,480 --> 00:48:36,200
Speaker 1: been proven that kids grow up happier in divorced homes

806
00:48:36,520 --> 00:48:39,840
Speaker 1: than unhappy homes. Dang, I was. They got me in

807
00:48:39,880 --> 00:48:41,560
Speaker 1: the first half, and then I was like, all right

808
00:48:41,640 --> 00:48:45,200
Speaker 1: there we okay. Yeah. At first I was like whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa,

809
00:48:46,000 --> 00:48:49,719
Speaker 1: But that's fair. Yeah yeah yeah. I tried talking to

810
00:48:49,760 --> 00:48:52,399
Speaker 1: my husband when we were still married, and he would

811
00:48:52,400 --> 00:48:56,040
Speaker 1: always brush it off. He would brush off everything his

812
00:48:56,120 --> 00:48:58,480
Speaker 1: mother did. I explained to him and told him that

813
00:48:58,560 --> 00:49:01,320
Speaker 1: we needed to go to therapy, to which he declined

814
00:49:02,360 --> 00:49:05,040
Speaker 1: he has his daughter on the weekends. The court gave

815
00:49:05,080 --> 00:49:08,680
Speaker 1: me a majority custody because of his mother. Jesus, guys,

816
00:49:08,840 --> 00:49:11,400
Speaker 1: I guess some of y'all's in some of y'all's eyes,

817
00:49:11,440 --> 00:49:13,919
Speaker 1: I should have kept being on my ex's side as

818
00:49:13,960 --> 00:49:23,680
Speaker 1: a submissive bembo. And we have an update, and we

819
00:49:23,840 --> 00:49:28,799
Speaker 1: have two updates. So I think with that being said,

820
00:49:28,800 --> 00:49:32,000
Speaker 1: i'm i'm I might just get right in this first.

821
00:49:32,000 --> 00:49:34,120
Speaker 1: Take your stance from the diving board, take a jump,

822
00:49:34,200 --> 00:49:40,719
Speaker 1: hop right in. No splash babies, splashless. So update, I

823
00:49:40,800 --> 00:49:43,760
Speaker 1: just posted here yesterday, but it feels like weeks have happened.

824
00:49:44,160 --> 00:49:46,440
Speaker 1: So I just left my daughter with my mother and

825
00:49:46,480 --> 00:49:48,840
Speaker 1: I'm going to my lawyer again. I followed some advice

826
00:49:48,840 --> 00:49:50,600
Speaker 1: that you guys gave me, and we sat down with

827
00:49:50,640 --> 00:49:54,200
Speaker 1: my daughter to chip chat. We knew that we couldn't

828
00:49:54,200 --> 00:49:57,680
Speaker 1: prompt any kind of responses by asking overly specific questions

829
00:49:57,760 --> 00:50:01,640
Speaker 1: as per her therapist, So my mother asked my daughter, Uh,

830
00:50:01,719 --> 00:50:06,080
Speaker 1: let's call her cat, Kat, Uh what did you and

831
00:50:06,200 --> 00:50:09,760
Speaker 1: daddy talk about? And Kat just listed many toddler things,

832
00:50:09,840 --> 00:50:12,920
Speaker 1: like she talks about kindergarten games, et cetera, et cetera.

833
00:50:13,560 --> 00:50:16,919
Speaker 1: When I was kind of relieved, when I was kind

834
00:50:16,920 --> 00:50:19,560
Speaker 1: of relieved that that comment my ex maide yesterday it

835
00:50:19,600 --> 00:50:23,400
Speaker 1: may have just been a one off. Came the big bomb.

836
00:50:23,800 --> 00:50:28,800
Speaker 1: Ooh kaboo oo. He also shows me pictures of houses

837
00:50:28,880 --> 00:50:31,000
Speaker 1: and tells me that I can have two now have

838
00:50:31,040 --> 00:50:36,960
Speaker 1: two rooms with loads of stuff. Red alert, red alert,

839
00:50:37,719 --> 00:50:41,280
Speaker 1: red flag. I asked her if her dad is buying

840
00:50:41,320 --> 00:50:47,480
Speaker 1: a new house. Nope. Turns out that that nut wants

841
00:50:47,520 --> 00:50:53,399
Speaker 1: to take my daughter out of the country. Wait what.

842
00:50:54,480 --> 00:50:57,440
Speaker 1: He shows her pictures of beach houses and even bought

843
00:50:57,480 --> 00:51:00,399
Speaker 1: her a bag so she can put her stuff side

844
00:51:00,400 --> 00:51:03,480
Speaker 1: of it, which explains why so many of her clothes

845
00:51:03,520 --> 00:51:09,120
Speaker 1: have gone missing. Jail sight through jail, now jail jail jail.

846
00:51:09,200 --> 00:51:14,279
Speaker 1: He's plotting, conspiring to do the big k n that's

847
00:51:14,320 --> 00:51:18,280
Speaker 1: not a napping kid, It is the other way around,

848
00:51:19,000 --> 00:51:22,720
Speaker 1: jail jail. At first, I thought maybe my ex hadn't

849
00:51:22,719 --> 00:51:25,239
Speaker 1: told me because it hadn't come through. But no. He

850
00:51:25,360 --> 00:51:28,000
Speaker 1: told my daughter to keep this as a secret because

851
00:51:28,040 --> 00:51:30,680
Speaker 1: Mommy would get sad if she knew that daddy was

852
00:51:30,719 --> 00:51:33,480
Speaker 1: going away. Oh Mommy would throw a party if it

853
00:51:33,520 --> 00:51:39,799
Speaker 1: was just dad going away. Okay, she would rejoice Hallujah

854
00:51:40,920 --> 00:51:45,160
Speaker 1: is gone. So I am effing livid and also sad

855
00:51:45,239 --> 00:51:48,600
Speaker 1: because I will have to tell my daughter no once again.

856
00:51:48,880 --> 00:51:51,759
Speaker 1: I feel lost. Quick edit update. I talked to my

857
00:51:51,840 --> 00:51:54,279
Speaker 1: lawyer and we have taken measures that I can't discuss here,

858
00:51:54,320 --> 00:51:56,840
Speaker 1: but we are on it. I have my daughter's passport

859
00:51:56,880 --> 00:52:01,040
Speaker 1: as we flew last month to visit extended family. Yes. Also,

860
00:52:01,080 --> 00:52:03,160
Speaker 1: I am a US citizen, so even if my mother

861
00:52:03,200 --> 00:52:08,480
Speaker 1: in law tried to have me deported, that wouldn't be possible.

862
00:52:08,520 --> 00:52:08,919
Speaker 1: Thank god.

863
00:52:09,080 --> 00:52:11,799
Speaker 2: Well yeah, it's like if they tried, they'd find out

864
00:52:11,840 --> 00:52:15,680
Speaker 2: they're stupid and they don't know how that works.

865
00:52:15,680 --> 00:52:19,480
Speaker 1: Citizen, you can't deport I just like I would. I

866
00:52:19,480 --> 00:52:22,720
Speaker 1: would personally take mother in law to a foreign country,

867
00:52:23,840 --> 00:52:26,400
Speaker 1: coerce her into doing a crime, and get her jailed

868
00:52:26,560 --> 00:52:28,479
Speaker 1: in the foreign country. Yeah, she did that. I'm sorry.

869
00:52:28,480 --> 00:52:33,399
Speaker 1: That'd be great. But we have not only update number two,

870
00:52:33,760 --> 00:52:39,600
Speaker 1: mister Dakota, we have the final update. Yeah, yes, sorry, No,

871
00:52:39,680 --> 00:52:45,120
Speaker 1: I just thought of it anyway. Yes, continue, yes, in

872
00:52:45,200 --> 00:52:50,440
Speaker 1: trusive thoughts aside, So where are you feeling now? We're

873
00:52:50,719 --> 00:52:54,799
Speaker 1: working on some some lawyer stuff. Yeah, what what are

874
00:52:55,040 --> 00:52:58,160
Speaker 1: put yourself in op shoes? Like? What are your next moves?

875
00:52:58,320 --> 00:52:58,520
Speaker 6: Oh?

876
00:52:58,640 --> 00:53:01,360
Speaker 2: This is you now have a slow lamb dunk, like

877
00:53:01,480 --> 00:53:05,319
Speaker 2: you have like the like the the the iconic like

878
00:53:05,719 --> 00:53:10,160
Speaker 2: Dwayne Wade to Lebron James slam dunk, the.

879
00:53:09,640 --> 00:53:11,520
Speaker 1: The shot of like it's it's over.

880
00:53:11,719 --> 00:53:16,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's trying to abscond with the child out of

881
00:53:17,239 --> 00:53:18,360
Speaker 2: to a new continent.

882
00:53:18,680 --> 00:53:22,439
Speaker 1: Mm hmm. Yeah, no, you've got it. You win now

883
00:53:23,040 --> 00:53:25,839
Speaker 1: as soon as you prove that, which I think you

884
00:53:25,880 --> 00:53:28,680
Speaker 1: already have the evidence because she probably because she did

885
00:53:28,680 --> 00:53:31,719
Speaker 1: it with the lawyer, that's probably like some sort of

886
00:53:31,760 --> 00:53:35,760
Speaker 1: like official there's there's gotta be some kind of record somewhere.

887
00:53:35,800 --> 00:53:38,799
Speaker 1: It's like you got maybe oh you know what.

888
00:53:38,880 --> 00:53:41,600
Speaker 2: It might suck though, because they might need the daughter's

889
00:53:41,680 --> 00:53:45,440
Speaker 2: testimony and that could be real traumatic to have have

890
00:53:45,480 --> 00:53:46,920
Speaker 2: to have a kid because if you don't have like

891
00:53:46,960 --> 00:53:50,160
Speaker 2: the if you don't have like the evidence of like

892
00:53:50,200 --> 00:53:52,160
Speaker 2: the bag and the plan to like take the kid

893
00:53:52,160 --> 00:53:53,719
Speaker 2: out of the country to like a new house, so

894
00:53:53,800 --> 00:53:56,160
Speaker 2: like you don't have the pictures, like it's like they

895
00:53:56,239 --> 00:53:57,160
Speaker 2: might have to have the kids what.

896
00:53:57,239 --> 00:53:59,920
Speaker 1: Did your dad tell you that he wanted? And then

897
00:54:00,280 --> 00:54:03,359
Speaker 1: that's gets set so rough. I would love to though,

898
00:54:04,520 --> 00:54:06,359
Speaker 1: have him be in court and then they'd be like

899
00:54:06,560 --> 00:54:09,520
Speaker 1: what is this bag and he he has two choices.

900
00:54:09,640 --> 00:54:13,120
Speaker 1: He can lie and perjure himself, or he can say

901
00:54:13,239 --> 00:54:17,479
Speaker 1: it's the bag that I packed to take her and go. Yeah.

902
00:54:17,800 --> 00:54:23,600
Speaker 1: I mean hopefully there's got to be a way. I

903
00:54:23,600 --> 00:54:30,319
Speaker 1: think that's a vict that's fire, oh man, or maybe

904
00:54:30,360 --> 00:54:35,440
Speaker 1: the worst version the the cat. I don't know if

905
00:54:35,440 --> 00:54:41,440
Speaker 1: I should say that. Yeah, the the rubber bands on

906
00:54:41,480 --> 00:54:44,400
Speaker 1: the cohunas and they just fall. I'm gonna says the

907
00:54:44,520 --> 00:54:50,920
Speaker 1: non voluntary cat straight shin cat size. It's a little

908
00:54:51,080 --> 00:54:58,480
Speaker 1: yeah straight yeah, okay, Oh that was that was clever.

909
00:54:59,120 --> 00:55:01,040
Speaker 1: I'll give that to you. Thank you. That was the

910
00:55:01,120 --> 00:55:07,280
Speaker 1: word jiu jitsu, my friend. You all right, Well that's great.

911
00:55:07,520 --> 00:55:10,839
Speaker 1: Oh we got update number two, the final update. So uh,

912
00:55:10,960 --> 00:55:13,000
Speaker 1: I thought of giving you the last update as you

913
00:55:13,080 --> 00:55:15,800
Speaker 1: all helped me through this. I don't have enough evidence

914
00:55:15,840 --> 00:55:21,520
Speaker 1: to request my ex partay a ka emergency child custody,

915
00:55:21,760 --> 00:55:23,680
Speaker 1: so my lawyer and I had to work on steps

916
00:55:23,680 --> 00:55:29,200
Speaker 1: to prevent child upsconding. We got a custody decree that

917
00:55:29,280 --> 00:55:34,000
Speaker 1: included provisions including passports, travel restrictions, et cetera. Oh that's smart, Like, okay,

918
00:55:34,080 --> 00:55:38,040
Speaker 1: she just can't like stops stops. I like that. I

919
00:55:38,160 --> 00:55:40,239
Speaker 1: like on paper. It sounds like it's like this three

920
00:55:40,320 --> 00:55:42,120
Speaker 1: year old is too dangerous to be let out of

921
00:55:42,120 --> 00:55:44,360
Speaker 1: the country. Can't do it. Someone's just like, why is

922
00:55:44,360 --> 00:55:48,040
Speaker 1: this three year old locked down right now? Also just

923
00:55:48,080 --> 00:55:49,799
Speaker 1: had to shout out six seven eight in the chat

924
00:55:49,920 --> 00:55:55,680
Speaker 1: meustration it's pretty great, yesstration. We also had to be

925
00:55:55,800 --> 00:55:58,160
Speaker 1: very wary of the signs. In fact, he quit his

926
00:55:58,280 --> 00:56:00,600
Speaker 1: job and on a realtor's page, I saw that he

927
00:56:00,640 --> 00:56:03,799
Speaker 1: was putting his mother's house on sale. That, in my

928
00:56:03,920 --> 00:56:06,640
Speaker 1: daughter's words, was all that he needed to notify law

929
00:56:06,760 --> 00:56:09,239
Speaker 1: enforcement to keep an eye out. Okay, well that's good.

930
00:56:09,600 --> 00:56:12,319
Speaker 1: I couldn't prevent my daughter from seeing her father. We

931
00:56:12,440 --> 00:56:15,800
Speaker 1: tried to continue business as usual without my daughter feeling

932
00:56:15,800 --> 00:56:19,120
Speaker 1: like something was up, but I got a call from

933
00:56:19,120 --> 00:56:24,400
Speaker 1: the police department regarding the passport situation. My daughter's passport

934
00:56:24,480 --> 00:56:29,680
Speaker 1: had expired recently five years validity keep it expired. My

935
00:56:29,760 --> 00:56:32,080
Speaker 1: ex husband had tried to request a passport for my

936
00:56:32,160 --> 00:56:36,360
Speaker 1: daughter without my knowledge, which was stupid because even without

937
00:56:36,360 --> 00:56:38,680
Speaker 1: the decree, I had to be present or submit a

938
00:56:38,719 --> 00:56:43,080
Speaker 1: notarized document of me stating that he could request the passports, Like.

939
00:56:43,160 --> 00:56:46,000
Speaker 2: Is there not evidence that this guy was like low

940
00:56:46,080 --> 00:56:49,359
Speaker 2: keyed not that bothered by his moms sending their kid

941
00:56:49,400 --> 00:56:50,040
Speaker 2: to the hospital.

942
00:56:50,320 --> 00:56:57,560
Speaker 1: Is there no? No, because like that, why is it not? What? Ah? Oh,

943
00:56:57,600 --> 00:57:00,399
Speaker 1: there's no evidence to right take away all right, It's

944
00:57:00,440 --> 00:57:02,280
Speaker 1: like he shouldn't be able to get her a passport.

945
00:57:02,920 --> 00:57:07,120
Speaker 1: His mom feder essential oils and he was like, don't

946
00:57:07,160 --> 00:57:08,120
Speaker 1: worry about it.

947
00:57:08,440 --> 00:57:11,520
Speaker 3: Is my mom huge?

948
00:57:11,719 --> 00:57:17,120
Speaker 1: No, you're danger because you lack the mental faculties to

949
00:57:17,200 --> 00:57:20,720
Speaker 1: keep her safe. We should be like, you know what, mom,

950
00:57:20,960 --> 00:57:24,800
Speaker 1: you're right, why don't you take some get healthy? Let's

951
00:57:25,200 --> 00:57:28,880
Speaker 1: let's let's hey mom, Hey mom, I think I think

952
00:57:28,880 --> 00:57:32,120
Speaker 1: you could use some. You know, why is she taking it?

953
00:57:32,560 --> 00:57:35,640
Speaker 1: You guys thought my soapies was bad? Wait till you

954
00:57:35,640 --> 00:57:41,560
Speaker 1: see mama. Anyways. Yeah. Man. So after that things went

955
00:57:41,600 --> 00:57:44,600
Speaker 1: really fast. He was investigated because he had violated that

956
00:57:44,640 --> 00:57:46,919
Speaker 1: decree and it was found out that mother in law

957
00:57:46,960 --> 00:57:50,520
Speaker 1: had bought three tickets with no return day to Mexico.

958
00:57:51,800 --> 00:57:54,840
Speaker 1: I could request an ex partey. Do we know what

959
00:57:54,880 --> 00:57:57,360
Speaker 1: that means? Or am I saying that right? I think

960
00:57:57,400 --> 00:58:00,480
Speaker 1: that means like it's like the emergency order. Yeah, like

961
00:58:00,480 --> 00:58:03,800
Speaker 1: you yeah, you have control, you have custody. Yeah, essentially

962
00:58:03,840 --> 00:58:08,120
Speaker 1: what it seems like involved legally in any way looking

963
00:58:08,160 --> 00:58:13,360
Speaker 1: it up by or for one party. Letting term meaning

964
00:58:13,440 --> 00:58:15,720
Speaker 1: by or for one party. The term refers to a

965
00:58:15,800 --> 00:58:21,000
Speaker 1: attorney's communication with a judge or attributor without notice to

966
00:58:21,520 --> 00:58:24,959
Speaker 1: and outside the presence of the other parties another party,

967
00:58:24,960 --> 00:58:28,520
Speaker 1: outside of the presence of that party's attorney. Ah, so

968
00:58:28,560 --> 00:58:30,400
Speaker 1: she could go straight to the judge and be like, Yo,

969
00:58:30,680 --> 00:58:32,200
Speaker 1: this is what's going on. I think it's that.

970
00:58:33,080 --> 00:58:37,680
Speaker 2: Is that what that is, or that's what it's true.

971
00:58:37,880 --> 00:58:40,200
Speaker 2: I think I can't tell if that's what what you

972
00:58:40,240 --> 00:58:43,000
Speaker 2: just said, John, or if it's that no decisions are

973
00:58:43,040 --> 00:58:48,160
Speaker 2: allowed to be made outside of the presence of everyone's stuff. Right,

974
00:58:48,200 --> 00:58:50,480
Speaker 2: It's like, if he wants to do something, he's got

975
00:58:50,480 --> 00:58:53,280
Speaker 2: to have his lawyers and her lawyers and the judge,

976
00:58:53,920 --> 00:58:55,720
Speaker 2: and they've all got to make the decision together.

977
00:58:56,400 --> 00:58:58,320
Speaker 1: I'm not a I don't know. I'm not a real lawyer.

978
00:58:58,320 --> 00:59:00,280
Speaker 1: I just play one on a podcast, but real in

979
00:59:00,320 --> 00:59:03,080
Speaker 1: the chat. Please tell us if we're correct. It's so

980
00:59:03,120 --> 00:59:05,440
Speaker 1: funny to me that you were like, yeah, Dakota, like

981
00:59:05,480 --> 00:59:08,520
Speaker 1: the guy who's more certified than every psychologist on earth,

982
00:59:08,560 --> 00:59:10,720
Speaker 1: and like all this, and then you're like, immediately I'm

983
00:59:10,720 --> 00:59:14,120
Speaker 1: not a lawyer. It's true though both of the states.

984
00:59:14,200 --> 00:59:17,480
Speaker 2: John is not a lawyer because he's transcended the need

985
00:59:17,520 --> 00:59:18,480
Speaker 2: to become a lawyer.

986
00:59:18,520 --> 00:59:21,720
Speaker 1: He's so familiar with the law. He wrote the law.

987
00:59:22,200 --> 00:59:24,480
Speaker 1: That's why he's two hundred plus years old. He was

988
00:59:24,520 --> 00:59:26,960
Speaker 1: there when the declaration was made. There we go that

989
00:59:27,080 --> 00:59:30,480
Speaker 1: his signature is on the document by John Hancock, the

990
00:59:30,520 --> 00:59:32,160
Speaker 1: Bill of Rights. They used to call it the John

991
00:59:32,200 --> 00:59:35,439
Speaker 1: of Rights until Bill got jealous and decided he needed

992
00:59:35,480 --> 00:59:39,800
Speaker 1: to be involved. What can I say, John Rights, that's

993
00:59:39,920 --> 00:59:44,720
Speaker 1: me the Bill of John anyways, after a crap ton

994
00:59:44,760 --> 00:59:47,880
Speaker 1: of documents I submitted. In most cases, the judge will

995
00:59:47,920 --> 00:59:51,400
Speaker 1: evaluate behind closed doors. We had the hearing yesterday. He

996
00:59:51,480 --> 00:59:56,240
Speaker 1: usually takes ten to twenty days who which is very

997
00:59:56,320 --> 00:59:59,080
Speaker 1: Which is very good for me At the moment, I

998
00:59:59,120 --> 01:00:02,600
Speaker 1: have soul custom you have my daughter, Yeah, but this

999
01:00:02,720 --> 01:00:08,160
Speaker 1: is all temporary by excess visitation rights if I was present,

1000
01:00:08,240 --> 01:00:11,080
Speaker 1: but he can't take her anywhere. This is once the

1001
01:00:11,120 --> 01:00:14,640
Speaker 1: investigation of him is closed. I was cursed out by

1002
01:00:14,640 --> 01:00:16,840
Speaker 1: my ex and ex mother in law, and they have

1003
01:00:17,080 --> 01:00:19,520
Speaker 1: said they will try to contest, but they have no

1004
01:00:19,800 --> 01:00:23,360
Speaker 1: leg to stand on. By the way, if you want

1005
01:00:23,400 --> 01:00:28,400
Speaker 1: to stand on business and get in our business by

1006
01:00:28,600 --> 01:00:32,160
Speaker 1: listening to full episodes of stories just like this with

1007
01:00:32,280 --> 01:00:37,520
Speaker 1: a infinite catalog. Go to Spotify, search okay, Storytime or

1008
01:00:37,560 --> 01:00:40,800
Speaker 1: Google or Apple Podcasts or wherever you listen to podcasts

1009
01:00:41,600 --> 01:00:43,240
Speaker 1: and check us out there. That's right, that's all you

1010
01:00:43,320 --> 01:00:47,560
Speaker 1: gotta do. But Dakota, we are reaching the finale of

1011
01:00:47,760 --> 01:00:53,000
Speaker 1: this story. What do we think they get feeling?

1012
01:00:53,080 --> 01:00:55,560
Speaker 2: Every phone call that you have with this man needs

1013
01:00:55,600 --> 01:00:58,960
Speaker 2: to be recorded, Yes, every every instance that you have

1014
01:00:59,120 --> 01:01:02,160
Speaker 2: with you know, any of his side needs to be

1015
01:01:02,680 --> 01:01:06,240
Speaker 2: recorded to give more evidence as to why they should

1016
01:01:06,280 --> 01:01:07,960
Speaker 2: not be involved.

1017
01:01:07,920 --> 01:01:09,840
Speaker 1: In your child's life. That is true.

1018
01:01:10,720 --> 01:01:14,600
Speaker 2: I hope that you still don't feel the need to

1019
01:01:14,720 --> 01:01:16,960
Speaker 2: have this man because I know at the beginning of

1020
01:01:16,960 --> 01:01:19,160
Speaker 2: the story it was like, I really want to find

1021
01:01:19,160 --> 01:01:21,360
Speaker 2: out how to get the father of my child involved

1022
01:01:21,360 --> 01:01:23,360
Speaker 2: in her life. And it's like, well, I think the

1023
01:01:23,400 --> 01:01:25,560
Speaker 2: best way to have him involved is to have him

1024
01:01:26,520 --> 01:01:27,880
Speaker 2: on the other side of the planet.

1025
01:01:28,000 --> 01:01:32,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, potentially, yeah, or not even on the planet. Yeah. Oh,

1026
01:01:32,560 --> 01:01:33,960
Speaker 1: you know what we can do. We can load him

1027
01:01:34,000 --> 01:01:36,400
Speaker 1: into a little triple trebuche we send.

1028
01:01:36,320 --> 01:01:39,560
Speaker 2: Them around the moon. Actually, Okay, so he has to

1029
01:01:39,600 --> 01:01:43,040
Speaker 2: skip off of the moon, okay, because that hurt. He

1030
01:01:43,120 --> 01:01:46,960
Speaker 2: skips off the moon through the sun into the Orc cloud.

1031
01:01:48,640 --> 01:01:54,080
Speaker 2: Just the cosmic blender into the black hole turned into spaghetti.

1032
01:01:54,960 --> 01:01:59,240
Speaker 2: And now the sentient spaghetti is in the pit of Tartarus.

1033
01:01:59,760 --> 01:02:05,120
Speaker 2: This spaghetti is still able to experience an interface with reality.

1034
01:02:05,960 --> 01:02:09,280
Speaker 2: The spaghetti gets eaten by the pigs that are taken

1035
01:02:09,320 --> 01:02:13,760
Speaker 2: care of by James Gandolfini's spirit in Tartarus. He's not

1036
01:02:13,800 --> 01:02:15,439
Speaker 2: there because he's a bad guy. He's just there because

1037
01:02:15,440 --> 01:02:17,760
Speaker 2: someone needs to take care of the pigs. And he

1038
01:02:17,920 --> 01:02:21,800
Speaker 2: ran a deli in the Sopranos's.

1039
01:02:20,440 --> 01:02:26,680
Speaker 1: Simpler every time. He was also a mobster. Fun fact. Yes,

1040
01:02:27,040 --> 01:02:31,080
Speaker 1: so that's where that's where he's going. I agree. The

1041
01:02:31,120 --> 01:02:38,600
Speaker 1: plan is in place. So Obie says, whoa man chair

1042
01:02:38,720 --> 01:02:45,240
Speaker 1: upside down? Chat chair upside down? It doesn't.

1043
01:02:45,440 --> 01:02:47,360
Speaker 2: It's a little bit of just a big funny noise

1044
01:02:47,400 --> 01:02:50,400
Speaker 2: happened right now, And then you went back and said, Chat,

1045
01:02:50,480 --> 01:02:51,880
Speaker 2: the chair is not fished anymore.

1046
01:02:53,680 --> 01:02:57,880
Speaker 1: That's too expensive. I can do that. So my daughter

1047
01:02:57,960 --> 01:03:01,160
Speaker 1: is going to continue therapy, especially after this. I will

1048
01:03:01,160 --> 01:03:03,919
Speaker 1: not prohibit him from seeing her, but he needs help.

1049
01:03:04,720 --> 01:03:11,320
Speaker 1: I mean prohibit him this was really scary in a

1050
01:03:11,440 --> 01:03:13,760
Speaker 1: very intense two weeks. I don't think that I will

1051
01:03:13,800 --> 01:03:16,240
Speaker 1: update again, but I wanted to thank you all for

1052
01:03:16,280 --> 01:03:18,840
Speaker 1: your tips and support. I'm really thankful as I am

1053
01:03:18,920 --> 01:03:23,400
Speaker 1: finally not anxious the whole time. Thank you very much.

1054
01:03:24,640 --> 01:03:28,760
Speaker 1: That's all right, and that's that. That is that, and that, folks,

1055
01:03:28,880 --> 01:03:33,920
Speaker 1: is all she wrote. She wrote, raddale Ye, yeah, I

1056
01:03:33,960 --> 01:03:38,160
Speaker 1: mean good luck. I hope that, uh, you know, I

1057
01:03:38,200 --> 01:03:41,200
Speaker 1: hope this guy gets gets exactly what he deserves, which

1058
01:03:41,240 --> 01:03:44,439
Speaker 1: is nothing from you and nothing from your daughter. Yes,

1059
01:03:44,760 --> 01:03:46,240
Speaker 1: and you know, and then your daughter can grow up

1060
01:03:46,240 --> 01:03:51,560
Speaker 1: and you know, make the determination on her own. You know,

1061
01:03:51,680 --> 01:03:53,160
Speaker 1: at some point she's gonna get to the age where

1062
01:03:53,200 --> 01:03:55,680
Speaker 1: she can can can think for herself and decide do

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01:03:55,680 --> 01:03:57,520
Speaker 1: I want any contact for my dad? Do I want

1064
01:03:57,520 --> 01:04:00,640
Speaker 1: a relationship on that right? Right? No? I I think

1065
01:04:00,680 --> 01:04:01,320
Speaker 1: I agree with you.

1066
01:04:01,400 --> 01:04:05,720
Speaker 2: I think it's it's only fair to be honest at

1067
01:04:05,720 --> 01:04:11,360
Speaker 2: that point, you know, where it's like, it's not it's

1068
01:04:11,400 --> 01:04:13,160
Speaker 2: not up to you at that point, it's it's the

1069
01:04:13,280 --> 01:04:15,560
Speaker 2: daughter's decision. But you need to inform her of like, hey,

1070
01:04:15,600 --> 01:04:19,000
Speaker 2: so this is what happened, this is why he's not here,

1071
01:04:20,560 --> 01:04:22,600
Speaker 2: and then let that information.

1072
01:04:23,640 --> 01:04:26,520
Speaker 1: You know, I agree coalesce into the brain. I agreed,

1073
01:04:27,000 --> 01:04:30,800
Speaker 1: I was, I was very I was very intently listening

1074
01:04:30,960 --> 01:04:35,640
Speaker 1: to everything you were saying. What Riley, what do you

1075
01:04:35,680 --> 01:04:39,600
Speaker 1: think that spells? What? I'm sorry that was kind of

1076
01:04:39,760 --> 01:04:43,880
Speaker 1: d I'm sorry I didn't even connect that.

1077
01:04:44,320 --> 01:04:46,560
Speaker 7: You would have gotten away with the two if you

1078
01:04:46,600 --> 01:04:49,080
Speaker 7: weren't for you rascally calling yourself out.

1079
01:04:50,120 --> 01:04:50,320
Speaker 8: Hey.

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01:04:50,640 --> 01:04:52,960
Speaker 1: But speaking of calling things out, uh, Dakota, do we

1081
01:04:53,000 --> 01:04:54,600
Speaker 1: have any donuts? You can call it?

1082
01:04:54,640 --> 01:05:00,680
Speaker 2: I think we do, Sassy, just kidding, We're gonna go

1083
01:05:00,720 --> 01:05:02,439
Speaker 2: wait on the bottom, hey, little bit.

1084
01:05:02,760 --> 01:05:08,840
Speaker 1: Uh. Someone named oh sh donated twenty dollars. I see it, cofi, Hey,

1085
01:05:08,840 --> 01:05:17,280
Speaker 1: thank you. And somebody somebody somebody donated twenty five dollars

1086
01:05:17,320 --> 01:05:23,000
Speaker 1: with no message whatsoever. I need somebody to love. That's

1087
01:05:23,200 --> 01:05:23,760
Speaker 1: to be clear.

1088
01:05:23,800 --> 01:05:25,840
Speaker 2: That's what I was referencing there. I just didn't see it.

1089
01:05:25,960 --> 01:05:27,840
Speaker 2: Good Uh sasy sin he'p p see. Thank you for

1090
01:05:27,880 --> 01:05:30,400
Speaker 2: the twenty five dollars. And also I'm not sure who

1091
01:05:30,480 --> 01:05:32,400
Speaker 2: got us over more time, but we did get more

1092
01:05:32,400 --> 01:05:33,000
Speaker 2: time earlier.

1093
01:05:33,120 --> 01:05:36,600
Speaker 1: Hey, let's go go down a little bit more for me.

1094
01:05:36,720 --> 01:05:39,520
Speaker 1: Rodie Sas sent thank you for the twenty five and

1095
01:05:39,600 --> 01:05:47,840
Speaker 1: Sassy Sin says hello, Hello, Hi, Squeaky girl, thank aka Colleen,

1096
01:05:47,880 --> 01:05:50,920
Speaker 1: thank you for the twenty five dollars more time.

1097
01:05:50,960 --> 01:05:55,600
Speaker 2: And then somebody again donated twenty five dollars, said nothing,

1098
01:05:56,120 --> 01:05:59,440
Speaker 2: and I, you know, more time. I'll just say that, uh,

1099
01:05:59,640 --> 01:06:02,920
Speaker 2: thank you again, somebody if donating five dollars.

1100
01:06:03,000 --> 01:06:05,240
Speaker 1: Y'all are some of the most wholesome men on the internet.

1101
01:06:05,280 --> 01:06:09,880
Speaker 1: You make my soul happy, damn, And you make my cockcad?

1102
01:06:09,960 --> 01:06:14,439
Speaker 1: What Riley? What get out?

1103
01:06:15,920 --> 01:06:16,160
Speaker 8: Dumn?

1104
01:06:16,840 --> 01:06:22,000
Speaker 1: Who else am I supposed to think of? Whenever that happens? Wait,

1105
01:06:22,200 --> 01:06:25,920
Speaker 1: Katy Perry, I'm just I'm just lost. I don't know

1106
01:06:25,960 --> 01:06:28,320
Speaker 1: what's happening. But I don't know. Man, we're gonna save

1107
01:06:28,480 --> 01:06:31,280
Speaker 1: Riley today. I'd go to the next one.

1108
01:06:31,320 --> 01:06:35,520
Speaker 2: I guess Hey, uh, Sassey Sin LPCs thanks for the

1109
01:06:35,840 --> 01:06:38,440
Speaker 2: dollar ninety five the quote aren't you older.

1110
01:06:38,120 --> 01:06:44,240
Speaker 1: Than John good Nights? Hey? You know what? I'm sorry?

1111
01:06:44,280 --> 01:06:50,640
Speaker 1: Who who's out here? Yes? I am dang it. But

1112
01:06:50,760 --> 01:06:55,040
Speaker 1: guess what. Guess what? Golden Goblins, we ride, we ride,

1113
01:06:55,280 --> 01:06:56,720
Speaker 1: we ride, and that was a fist bump. That was

1114
01:06:56,720 --> 01:06:59,800
Speaker 1: a fist bump off camera. We ride. That's right, it's okay,

1115
01:07:00,120 --> 01:07:06,400
Speaker 1: we're all the same age a thousand, Holy Schmid, thanks

1116
01:07:06,400 --> 01:07:09,640
Speaker 1: for the ten dollars via co Fi. Been watching you

1117
01:07:09,640 --> 01:07:15,120
Speaker 1: guys for the past week, subbed and following. Love that.

1118
01:07:15,120 --> 01:07:16,040
Speaker 1: That is awesome.

1119
01:07:17,200 --> 01:07:22,000
Speaker 2: Thank you, Kimberly Holy, thank you for the five bucks.

1120
01:07:22,520 --> 01:07:25,000
Speaker 2: We could feed these guys to Kitty Purry. She's on

1121
01:07:25,040 --> 01:07:26,360
Speaker 2: a diet and would love a treat.

1122
01:07:26,800 --> 01:07:33,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe I think yes, I think yes, I think yes, Yes,

1123
01:07:34,080 --> 01:07:34,720
Speaker 1: I think yes.

1124
01:07:37,360 --> 01:07:42,800
Speaker 2: Parsley, Sage, Rosemary and Time. Thanks for the five dollars.

1125
01:07:44,160 --> 01:07:46,800
Speaker 2: I guess I should have said Parsley, Sage, Rosemary and

1126
01:07:47,000 --> 01:07:48,440
Speaker 2: more Time.

1127
01:07:49,480 --> 01:07:54,480
Speaker 1: That's clever, clever, that's clever. I love that. I love

1128
01:07:54,600 --> 01:08:02,360
Speaker 1: that me too, all right? And is that evert Oh,

1129
01:08:02,600 --> 01:08:05,440
Speaker 1: we've got some milestones. Hey, Frank the Pug, you've been

1130
01:08:05,440 --> 01:08:07,520
Speaker 1: remember for three months?

1131
01:08:08,520 --> 01:08:13,000
Speaker 2: Frank the Pluh Yeah, thank you, yay for three months already.

1132
01:08:13,560 --> 01:08:14,440
Speaker 2: Time is flying.

1133
01:08:14,680 --> 01:08:16,679
Speaker 1: Just wanted to let you all know that I'm posting.

1134
01:08:16,720 --> 01:08:25,599
Speaker 1: My brother asked for a booty boot boot hmm, brother

1135
01:08:25,720 --> 01:08:31,280
Speaker 1: asking for Noodle's story tomorrow. Bolo? What does bolo mean?

1136
01:08:31,720 --> 01:08:41,559
Speaker 1: I forget bowling or lingdon Berry's only I think that's

1137
01:08:41,600 --> 01:08:45,760
Speaker 1: a Swedish thing. Also, hey, Hannah, I see you, I

1138
01:08:45,840 --> 01:08:48,920
Speaker 1: see you donating forty bucks. Hannah, I see you sending

1139
01:08:48,960 --> 01:08:52,240
Speaker 1: forty with a absolute just nothing.

1140
01:08:52,600 --> 01:08:56,679
Speaker 2: Silence shushes in the chat. Let's go for seventy bucks

1141
01:08:56,720 --> 01:08:57,840
Speaker 2: away for another half hour.

1142
01:08:58,439 --> 01:08:59,800
Speaker 1: Let's do it and the more.

1143
01:08:59,800 --> 01:09:03,719
Speaker 2: Welcome to the Knights, and I hope you're vertigos treating

1144
01:09:03,720 --> 01:09:04,320
Speaker 2: you a little better.

1145
01:09:04,439 --> 01:09:10,360
Speaker 1: Yeah. See, be on the lookout is what bolo stands for. Yay.

1146
01:09:10,400 --> 01:09:14,519
Speaker 1: I love learning new things. Okay? Is that do we have?

1147
01:09:14,560 --> 01:09:19,439
Speaker 1: Maybe the gifted the gift O members gift gift my

1148
01:09:19,800 --> 01:09:24,360
Speaker 1: gift O member row. Are we all caught up? I'm

1149
01:09:24,400 --> 01:09:26,320
Speaker 1: not used to the new donating. We got a new donation.

1150
01:09:28,960 --> 01:09:32,040
Speaker 1: I'm not used to it yet. Okay, guys, I'm sorry, okay, okay,

1151
01:09:32,600 --> 01:09:35,720
Speaker 1: but you know what you should be freaking used to

1152
01:09:36,520 --> 01:09:41,000
Speaker 1: in your face hole? Oh like this next story? Yeah,

1153
01:09:41,560 --> 01:09:45,679
Speaker 1: more stories on me on my peripheral face holes side ones,

1154
01:09:45,680 --> 01:09:49,200
Speaker 1: the ones in my ears, not the periphery face holes. Well, yeah,

1155
01:09:49,560 --> 01:09:53,599
Speaker 1: should we do all right? Here? A story with my mouth? Okay,

1156
01:09:55,479 --> 01:09:58,040
Speaker 1: we'll try it out to Science doesn't have the answer yet.

1157
01:09:58,640 --> 01:10:04,320
Speaker 1: That's where we come in. Okay, onto this next story,

1158
01:10:05,320 --> 01:10:08,880
Speaker 1: let's go. I refuse to put my boyfriend on life insurance,

1159
01:10:09,360 --> 01:10:13,720
Speaker 1: but I left my ex on it. Hey, yo, does

1160
01:10:13,760 --> 01:10:17,240
Speaker 1: that sounds like you have a really really bad plan

1161
01:10:17,320 --> 01:10:21,400
Speaker 1: in mind? Ooh ooh yeah, don't do that. A lot

1162
01:10:21,439 --> 01:10:24,880
Speaker 1: of meetings here. WHOA I thirty two female, have an

1163
01:10:24,920 --> 01:10:28,120
Speaker 1: ex thirty three male, and we have two children, ten

1164
01:10:28,200 --> 01:10:31,080
Speaker 1: female and nine male. More context. My ex and I

1165
01:10:31,200 --> 01:10:34,599
Speaker 1: had a difficult start in life. I felt pregnant pretty

1166
01:10:34,680 --> 01:10:37,519
Speaker 1: quickly after we started dating. By the way, this comes

1167
01:10:37,520 --> 01:10:40,320
Speaker 1: from Bitter Room thirty five fifty three on the arsash

1168
01:10:40,360 --> 01:10:43,120
Speaker 1: Okay story attempt Separate It. So our daughter was born

1169
01:10:43,120 --> 01:10:45,400
Speaker 1: with leukemia, Oh my god no, and we spent the

1170
01:10:45,439 --> 01:10:48,360
Speaker 1: first few years of our relationship in the hospital. She's

1171
01:10:48,479 --> 01:10:52,360
Speaker 1: now in remission thankfully. Yes. We also had another child

1172
01:10:52,439 --> 01:10:55,720
Speaker 1: during this time. Also, our son is autistic. After being

1173
01:10:55,760 --> 01:10:58,680
Speaker 1: together for six years, we split up indefinitely when our

1174
01:10:58,760 --> 01:11:01,400
Speaker 1: children were six and five, which was very hard for

1175
01:11:01,479 --> 01:11:03,840
Speaker 1: him and me. After healing for about one and a

1176
01:11:03,880 --> 01:11:06,880
Speaker 1: half years, I began dating my now boyfriend let's call

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01:11:06,960 --> 01:11:10,160
Speaker 1: him Jake, not real name. Jake was really lovely and

1178
01:11:10,240 --> 01:11:12,960
Speaker 1: kind and took it slow with me. After a year,

1179
01:11:13,000 --> 01:11:15,559
Speaker 1: I introduced him to my kids. At first, my daughter

1180
01:11:15,640 --> 01:11:18,320
Speaker 1: was not happy with the situation, but she eventually grew

1181
01:11:18,360 --> 01:11:22,080
Speaker 1: to tolerate him. Tolerate oh Man. Jake even has a

1182
01:11:22,120 --> 01:11:26,519
Speaker 1: civil situation. Jake even has a civil relationship with my ex.

1183
01:11:27,360 --> 01:11:29,640
Speaker 1: Jake moved in with my children and I have been

1184
01:11:29,680 --> 01:11:35,400
Speaker 1: living in Jake moved in with my children and I

1185
01:11:35,760 --> 01:11:38,200
Speaker 1: and has been living with us for about two months now.

1186
01:11:39,479 --> 01:11:43,559
Speaker 1: One more time. Yes, I can baby. I refuse to

1187
01:11:43,560 --> 01:11:46,080
Speaker 1: put my boyfriend on my life insurance, but I left

1188
01:11:46,080 --> 01:11:56,519
Speaker 1: my ex on it. Sorry you good, Oh, thank you.

1189
01:11:57,479 --> 01:11:59,559
Speaker 1: When my daughter was born in leukemia, my ex and

1190
01:11:59,560 --> 01:12:01,599
Speaker 1: I had to I had to both get separate life

1191
01:12:01,600 --> 01:12:05,439
Speaker 1: insurance just in case anything happened to us. When we

1192
01:12:05,479 --> 01:12:07,880
Speaker 1: originally got them, we decided that we would be each

1193
01:12:07,920 --> 01:12:11,280
Speaker 1: other's trustee and also would receive thirty percent of the

1194
01:12:11,280 --> 01:12:14,839
Speaker 1: insurance and the rest would go on to our child

1195
01:12:14,880 --> 01:12:18,479
Speaker 1: slash children. After we had our son, we updated our

1196
01:12:18,520 --> 01:12:21,840
Speaker 1: life insurances with his name also on it. So the

1197
01:12:21,880 --> 01:12:26,040
Speaker 1: son's name on it, we both still honored that. Our

1198
01:12:26,080 --> 01:12:29,240
Speaker 1: reasoning for that is if one of us was to go, oh,

1199
01:12:29,240 --> 01:12:32,120
Speaker 1: I'm sorry with the husband still on it, we have

1200
01:12:32,200 --> 01:12:34,479
Speaker 1: both still honored that. And our reasoning for this is

1201
01:12:34,479 --> 01:12:36,559
Speaker 1: that if one of us was to go while our

1202
01:12:36,640 --> 01:12:39,160
Speaker 1: children were still young, then the other would be left

1203
01:12:39,200 --> 01:12:43,160
Speaker 1: as a single parent and may need some support and stability.

1204
01:12:43,320 --> 01:12:51,760
Speaker 1: I felt very strongly about this. Sorry, I just had

1205
01:12:51,800 --> 01:12:56,360
Speaker 1: to that's important. We're pondering, but I also said ahead,

1206
01:12:56,600 --> 01:13:00,000
Speaker 1: some pondering. Pe there's some pondering and some reading ahead.

1207
01:13:01,640 --> 01:13:07,160
Speaker 1: Side note. I am from Bradenton, Florida and absolutely loved

1208
01:13:07,160 --> 01:13:13,759
Speaker 1: my band teacher. Wait a minute, where's that? Oh okay,

1209
01:13:14,439 --> 01:13:19,880
Speaker 1: that's in Florida. That's my hometown. Damn explicitly my hometown

1210
01:13:19,920 --> 01:13:23,880
Speaker 1: who like directly on the dot. He met the world

1211
01:13:23,880 --> 01:13:26,000
Speaker 1: to me and reached out to me in this tough time.

1212
01:13:26,400 --> 01:13:32,880
Speaker 1: He actually mentioned John Fry and to submit this here. Okay,

1213
01:13:34,920 --> 01:13:39,120
Speaker 1: what's going on? My band teacher? Who is this? So?

1214
01:13:39,200 --> 01:13:43,120
Speaker 1: Who is your band teacher? John? I have a few

1215
01:13:43,320 --> 01:13:49,800
Speaker 1: names popping around in my head. This is wow, this

1216
01:13:49,960 --> 01:13:54,200
Speaker 1: is cool, is intense, this is I I love this.

1217
01:13:54,479 --> 01:13:57,120
Speaker 1: It's like imagine they just keep getting like more detailed

1218
01:13:57,120 --> 01:14:01,240
Speaker 1: about Like, yeah, start talking about you, teacher. Could you

1219
01:14:01,320 --> 01:14:04,200
Speaker 1: like reach out to me on Instagram because I would

1220
01:14:04,479 --> 01:14:08,000
Speaker 1: love to reconnect with you and without doxing you on

1221
01:14:08,040 --> 01:14:10,720
Speaker 1: the inn, without doxing you notice how I'm being very

1222
01:14:10,760 --> 01:14:13,320
Speaker 1: intentional with what I'm saying, or if you have any

1223
01:14:13,320 --> 01:14:17,920
Speaker 1: of my old contact information from the before times, use

1224
01:14:18,000 --> 01:14:20,840
Speaker 1: that because I would love to connect with you. And

1225
01:14:20,920 --> 01:14:24,439
Speaker 1: crazy that you found the show anyways and plugged it.

1226
01:14:24,479 --> 01:14:26,679
Speaker 1: He was like, oh, you gotta talk to John, Yeah

1227
01:14:26,760 --> 01:14:31,360
Speaker 1: you got I know what you need to talk to dude,

1228
01:14:31,360 --> 01:14:35,720
Speaker 1: I have I don't know what to say. Oh my god,

1229
01:14:36,400 --> 01:14:39,720
Speaker 1: oh man, Okay, so uh we're gonna keep going with

1230
01:14:39,720 --> 01:14:43,439
Speaker 1: the story, Obi says, but really I can't stand the guy.

1231
01:14:44,640 --> 01:14:47,120
Speaker 1: He is so stuck up and just a selfish narcissist.

1232
01:14:47,160 --> 01:14:50,160
Speaker 1: I hope he figures out that Kanye isn't the only artist.

1233
01:14:50,640 --> 01:14:55,000
Speaker 1: Dang no, they flipped the script on you. Bro.

1234
01:14:55,160 --> 01:14:57,200
Speaker 7: This is a real fan right here, This is this

1235
01:14:57,280 --> 01:15:01,519
Speaker 7: is this is a real re old freaking fan right here.

1236
01:15:01,760 --> 01:15:02,639
Speaker 1: This is out.

1237
01:15:03,840 --> 01:15:09,160
Speaker 7: Dying back there right Look, he's crazy, he's ready, how

1238
01:15:09,240 --> 01:15:10,519
Speaker 7: ready is bro?

1239
01:15:10,640 --> 01:15:17,600
Speaker 1: This right now? That's crazy that like a fan submitted this.

1240
01:15:17,600 --> 01:15:20,680
Speaker 1: This is wild wild so wid only is it a

1241
01:15:20,720 --> 01:15:23,720
Speaker 1: fanum mission, but just yeah, that's that's just crazy that

1242
01:15:23,880 --> 01:15:26,599
Speaker 1: like a fan submitted that and knew all those intense

1243
01:15:26,880 --> 01:15:30,840
Speaker 1: like comments and descriptions about you and wrote that into

1244
01:15:30,880 --> 01:15:34,640
Speaker 1: the story, wow, instead of talking about their daughter's leukemio.

1245
01:15:35,479 --> 01:15:40,320
Speaker 1: Hold on wait wow, hey nice one to a twist,

1246
01:15:40,360 --> 01:15:45,120
Speaker 1: and that I wrote, John, Hey, we know what I

1247
01:15:45,200 --> 01:15:55,640
Speaker 1: wrote that in there? Are you joking? I deceive us

1248
01:15:55,840 --> 01:16:00,679
Speaker 1: like that? Riley, you have the deceiver. You're the a severer.

1249
01:16:01,600 --> 01:16:12,760
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, he's so no wonder he was laughing so hard, dude, Bro,

1250
01:16:12,880 --> 01:16:16,760
Speaker 1: you know it's sad is. I was like, I was like, wow,

1251
01:16:16,840 --> 01:16:21,479
Speaker 1: my band teacher actually watches the show and like, I'm

1252
01:16:21,479 --> 01:16:25,559
Speaker 1: like so excited to reconnect with them. This is so great.

1253
01:16:27,760 --> 01:16:36,080
Speaker 1: Dude's sad now, Bro, I'm freaking sad. Sorry, he got

1254
01:16:36,560 --> 01:16:45,000
Speaker 1: so good. I was immediately. I was like, stop depress.

1255
01:16:49,640 --> 01:16:57,479
Speaker 1: You were like, this is in my hometown. Dude, Wow

1256
01:16:57,840 --> 01:17:05,200
Speaker 1: about the joke at all? Oh man, If there's any

1257
01:17:05,240 --> 01:17:11,599
Speaker 1: a hole in the story, that's me. I'm crying, of course.

1258
01:17:11,720 --> 01:17:17,840
Speaker 1: Y'ah m hm. You know what Mandarin? You have to

1259
01:17:17,920 --> 01:17:19,439
Speaker 1: learn Mandarin? Now, you have to learn how to write.

1260
01:17:21,720 --> 01:17:25,200
Speaker 1: I don't even know you have to learn Mandarin now?

1261
01:17:25,560 --> 01:17:28,479
Speaker 2: Oh man, you're you're gonna having fun with that one.

1262
01:17:28,800 --> 01:17:32,120
Speaker 1: You know what I need this actual lott of reset.

1263
01:17:33,400 --> 01:17:36,799
Speaker 1: I get it tight. I get it tight on that. Yeah. Sorry.

1264
01:17:37,040 --> 01:17:41,800
Speaker 1: Oh my, it's a light that made my day. Oh man,

1265
01:17:43,360 --> 01:17:45,640
Speaker 1: my day. I gotta I gotta cook on something. I

1266
01:17:45,640 --> 01:17:50,559
Speaker 1: gotta cook on something. Now my cheeks are hurting. Oh

1267
01:17:50,640 --> 01:17:57,240
Speaker 1: my god. Okay, anyways, that faked story part aside. We're

1268
01:17:57,280 --> 01:18:03,400
Speaker 1: getting back to the real story anyway now, think he says,

1269
01:18:03,439 --> 01:18:10,000
Speaker 1: I vote paddle. Yes, yes, yes for everyone who saw

1270
01:18:10,080 --> 01:18:13,600
Speaker 1: Riley get spanked, that's yes. Yes, yes, we get we

1271
01:18:13,640 --> 01:18:23,000
Speaker 1: get crazy. So Jake was cleaning up Jake was cleaning

1272
01:18:23,080 --> 01:18:24,880
Speaker 1: up flies in my office when I was at work,

1273
01:18:25,120 --> 01:18:29,080
Speaker 1: and I'd come across my life insurance files. Okay, misspelled.

1274
01:18:29,240 --> 01:18:31,320
Speaker 1: Jake was cleaning up files in my office when I

1275
01:18:31,360 --> 01:18:34,400
Speaker 1: was at work, and I come across my life insurance agreements.

1276
01:18:34,560 --> 01:18:36,240
Speaker 1: While I was at work, he sent me a message

1277
01:18:36,280 --> 01:18:39,280
Speaker 1: saying we need to discuss something important when you get home.

1278
01:18:40,640 --> 01:18:47,000
Speaker 1: The life insurance, I mean, okay, weirdo. Obviously I was

1279
01:18:47,000 --> 01:18:49,200
Speaker 1: freaking out and tried calling him, but he would not

1280
01:18:49,280 --> 01:18:52,240
Speaker 1: answer me and said he was too angry to talk

1281
01:18:52,280 --> 01:18:53,439
Speaker 1: to the X or the.

1282
01:18:53,439 --> 01:18:56,280
Speaker 2: Current the current Okay, okay, that's why I was confused.

1283
01:18:56,320 --> 01:18:58,080
Speaker 2: I was like, what anyway.

1284
01:18:57,840 --> 01:19:02,360
Speaker 1: The current let me just double which second, make sure yes, yes, yes,

1285
01:19:02,400 --> 01:19:06,200
Speaker 1: it is the current. So I run my own business.

1286
01:19:06,200 --> 01:19:08,920
Speaker 1: So I took off early and drove home before I left.

1287
01:19:09,160 --> 01:19:09,280
Speaker 8: UH.

1288
01:19:09,479 --> 01:19:13,240
Speaker 1: Before I left, UH. Before I left, I messaged Jake

1289
01:19:13,280 --> 01:19:15,599
Speaker 1: to say I'm on my way home. When I arrived,

1290
01:19:15,640 --> 01:19:17,960
Speaker 1: I had seen Jake on the sofa glaring at me.

1291
01:19:18,000 --> 01:19:21,040
Speaker 1: When I arrived, he threw the life insurance papers at

1292
01:19:21,040 --> 01:19:26,160
Speaker 1: me and demanded. I explained myself, dang, dude, can we

1293
01:19:26,280 --> 01:19:29,960
Speaker 1: just have civil discussions? Whatever happened to civil discussion? No? No,

1294
01:19:30,160 --> 01:19:31,920
Speaker 1: he ever did we lose? We have to We have

1295
01:19:32,000 --> 01:19:34,639
Speaker 1: to throw papers, and we have to say you've done

1296
01:19:34,680 --> 01:19:38,880
Speaker 1: the massive wrong that can ever be done, and then

1297
01:19:39,040 --> 01:19:40,600
Speaker 1: make something that's the red a story. That's what we

1298
01:19:40,720 --> 01:19:41,040
Speaker 1: have to do.

1299
01:19:41,120 --> 01:19:43,519
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, I guess if everyone was cool, calm

1300
01:19:43,520 --> 01:19:47,120
Speaker 2: and collected and you know, knew how to handle stuff, we'd.

1301
01:19:46,960 --> 01:19:54,400
Speaker 1: Be out of content. That's true. Hey, but it's human nature, baby,

1302
01:19:54,520 --> 01:19:56,799
Speaker 1: human nature, and we are here. We can't be perfect

1303
01:19:56,800 --> 01:19:58,880
Speaker 1: all the time. That's why that's what we're for. Some

1304
01:19:58,920 --> 01:20:03,960
Speaker 1: people just to lie to millions of people and tell

1305
01:20:04,479 --> 01:20:08,479
Speaker 1: fake stories that are false, which who falsified information? I

1306
01:20:08,520 --> 01:20:17,840
Speaker 1: can't imagine a single person who whatever to commit not

1307
01:20:17,960 --> 01:20:23,280
Speaker 1: the baby. But when I arrived, I had seen the bear.

1308
01:20:25,560 --> 01:20:28,320
Speaker 1: I picked him up and asked what the problem was.

1309
01:20:28,600 --> 01:20:31,200
Speaker 1: He began to scream at me and say, why is

1310
01:20:31,240 --> 01:20:34,479
Speaker 1: your ex on your insurance? And I am not. I

1311
01:20:34,560 --> 01:20:38,400
Speaker 1: explained to him my reasons above, and he scoffed and said, well,

1312
01:20:38,439 --> 01:20:40,680
Speaker 1: you both make so much money now, you don't need

1313
01:20:40,720 --> 01:20:44,040
Speaker 1: to support one another. I was ex Dude, bro is

1314
01:20:44,080 --> 01:20:46,360
Speaker 1: just not getting him? Dang, what does that even mean? Like,

1315
01:20:46,479 --> 01:20:49,200
Speaker 1: how are you gonna get insecure about life insurance? Due?

1316
01:20:49,520 --> 01:20:52,160
Speaker 1: That's such a wild thing to be insecure about. It's

1317
01:20:52,280 --> 01:20:55,760
Speaker 1: so crazy. I was extremely angry at this and told

1318
01:20:55,800 --> 01:20:57,640
Speaker 1: him that it's not his business who I put on

1319
01:20:57,680 --> 01:21:00,559
Speaker 1: my life insurance. The money is mainly for my children

1320
01:21:00,880 --> 01:21:05,000
Speaker 1: and X and it will stay that way. Yeah. Jake replied, well,

1321
01:21:05,360 --> 01:21:07,760
Speaker 1: I put so much work in his relationship and I'm

1322
01:21:07,800 --> 01:21:10,840
Speaker 1: not going to get anything from it. No normal man

1323
01:21:10,960 --> 01:21:13,880
Speaker 1: would want a woman with two children who has issues.

1324
01:21:15,960 --> 01:21:20,840
Speaker 2: Hey, Hey, well there's the door, buddy. Hey, don't let

1325
01:21:20,840 --> 01:21:25,640
Speaker 2: the door smack you on the way out, hit you.

1326
01:21:25,600 --> 01:21:28,280
Speaker 1: Where the good Lord split you. M. Don't let it

1327
01:21:28,360 --> 01:21:31,519
Speaker 1: do that. Don't please by all means that, don't let

1328
01:21:31,600 --> 01:21:38,920
Speaker 1: it do that. Don't get him to cut out. Visious, dude,

1329
01:21:38,920 --> 01:21:42,080
Speaker 1: you're literally so adorable. You can't be You're just too

1330
01:21:42,200 --> 01:21:44,479
Speaker 1: You're just too cute. I wonder, does the Hood Will

1331
01:21:44,479 --> 01:21:52,720
Speaker 1: the Hood see now it looks tucked in, so it's

1332
01:21:52,760 --> 01:21:56,479
Speaker 1: just more adorable. Oh no, I wasn't trying to make

1333
01:21:56,479 --> 01:21:59,160
Speaker 1: the Hood make me look scarier. I was trying to

1334
01:21:59,200 --> 01:22:01,639
Speaker 1: secure the act a lot on my head. I see,

1335
01:22:02,160 --> 01:22:08,679
Speaker 1: well it accomplished both computer that is. Anyways, Opie says,

1336
01:22:09,360 --> 01:22:14,240
Speaker 1: I saw red. I got him out of there and

1337
01:22:14,360 --> 01:22:19,040
Speaker 1: told him we were done. Okay, story time later. My

1338
01:22:19,200 --> 01:22:21,680
Speaker 1: children will always come first, and I have never let

1339
01:22:21,760 --> 01:22:24,400
Speaker 1: anyone get in the way of that. Jake packed his

1340
01:22:24,479 --> 01:22:27,400
Speaker 1: bags and left. While he was packing, he shouted at

1341
01:22:27,400 --> 01:22:29,439
Speaker 1: me that I never really got over my ex and

1342
01:22:29,439 --> 01:22:31,400
Speaker 1: we still love each other. Blah blah blah.

1343
01:22:31,479 --> 01:22:33,880
Speaker 2: What because he's on Well, clearly because he's on the

1344
01:22:33,920 --> 01:22:34,599
Speaker 2: life insurance.

1345
01:22:35,200 --> 01:22:37,760
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that means, you know, it's not like, oh,

1346
01:22:37,840 --> 01:22:42,439
Speaker 1: if Opie's gone, that she wants the primary caretaker, the

1347
01:22:42,479 --> 01:22:45,599
Speaker 1: father of her children, to be able to financially support

1348
01:22:45,600 --> 01:22:49,240
Speaker 1: them by you know, just imagine as a guy who

1349
01:22:49,320 --> 01:22:52,160
Speaker 1: fundamentally has no idea what life insurance does, and he

1350
01:22:52,280 --> 01:22:54,599
Speaker 1: just thinks it's like, well, that person's your whole life.

1351
01:22:55,439 --> 01:22:59,240
Speaker 1: Oh so what I'm not your life? What if he

1352
01:22:59,240 --> 01:23:01,000
Speaker 1: thinks it's like like like a bank account or something,

1353
01:23:01,280 --> 01:23:03,920
Speaker 1: he's gonna get like a million dollars? Like what why

1354
01:23:03,960 --> 01:23:06,640
Speaker 1: were you paying him a million dollars? That? What if?

1355
01:23:06,640 --> 01:23:10,320
Speaker 1: He's just like the dumbest piece of dirt ever? But

1356
01:23:10,360 --> 01:23:13,360
Speaker 1: now now he sounds very smart. He also sucks to Now,

1357
01:23:13,439 --> 01:23:17,360
Speaker 1: so I think we've got the I think the sun

1358
01:23:17,439 --> 01:23:20,200
Speaker 1: needs to get involved here. We've got the number. Sixteen

1359
01:23:20,320 --> 01:23:26,760
Speaker 1: is the the sun just becomes sentient sixteen now yeah, yeah, the.

1360
01:23:26,720 --> 01:23:29,200
Speaker 2: Fifteen is just the fourteen with a boom bam, and

1361
01:23:29,240 --> 01:23:33,240
Speaker 2: then the sixteen is just the sun becomes sentient and goes.

1362
01:23:33,680 --> 01:23:35,760
Speaker 1: I want to do a new segment where we have

1363
01:23:36,080 --> 01:23:39,960
Speaker 1: someone on chat come up and have one person explain

1364
01:23:40,800 --> 01:23:44,879
Speaker 1: the system all the way from from from top to bottom.

1365
01:23:45,240 --> 01:23:47,840
Speaker 2: Oh, Casanda has an entire thing on the discord explaining

1366
01:23:47,920 --> 01:23:50,240
Speaker 2: the whole thing. But she did yell at me recently

1367
01:23:50,320 --> 01:23:52,559
Speaker 2: to stop adding to it.

1368
01:23:53,320 --> 01:23:55,120
Speaker 1: I don't know if we can handle anymore. It is

1369
01:23:55,880 --> 01:23:57,760
Speaker 1: so he knew it, Oh, he says he knew it

1370
01:23:57,760 --> 01:24:00,920
Speaker 1: from the start, and I'm such an for not putting

1371
01:24:00,960 --> 01:24:04,080
Speaker 1: him on the life Assurance So Internet, I have to ask,

1372
01:24:04,200 --> 01:24:07,000
Speaker 1: am I the a hole? Quick edit? I should have

1373
01:24:07,400 --> 01:24:10,360
Speaker 1: also I should have added this also. This did happen

1374
01:24:10,400 --> 01:24:13,160
Speaker 1: a few weeks ago. I haven't seen his uh. I

1375
01:24:13,240 --> 01:24:16,439
Speaker 1: haven't seen him since then, but constantly receiving messages from

1376
01:24:16,520 --> 01:24:20,680
Speaker 1: him and calls. So we have a mini update after this,

1377
01:24:20,760 --> 01:24:26,360
Speaker 1: but we we have to talk. We have to talk

1378
01:24:30,960 --> 01:24:35,679
Speaker 1: talk to me. I mean, this guy's trash. Definitely shouldn't

1379
01:24:35,680 --> 01:24:37,559
Speaker 1: be with him. Yeah, at the end of the day,

1380
01:24:37,600 --> 01:24:40,720
Speaker 1: as soon as the as soon as the kids are besmirched,

1381
01:24:40,760 --> 01:24:44,519
Speaker 1: it's like, oh, you're done, Sorry, you're done. That's what

1382
01:24:44,560 --> 01:24:46,519
Speaker 1: he said, right, He's like, nobody wants a woman with

1383
01:24:46,800 --> 01:24:50,760
Speaker 1: Like who's with two kids that have issues? It's like, oh,

1384
01:24:51,000 --> 01:24:55,200
Speaker 1: guess what, I don't want anything to do with you.

1385
01:24:55,200 --> 01:24:58,040
Speaker 1: You are my issue? Get out? Yeah, yeah, like if

1386
01:24:58,040 --> 01:24:59,880
Speaker 1: I got if, I got so many issues? And why

1387
01:25:00,760 --> 01:25:05,240
Speaker 1: why why are you here? Why why do you live here? Why? Why? Truly? Why? Why?

1388
01:25:05,040 --> 01:25:08,000
Speaker 1: Why truly? Why what do you Oh? When you be

1389
01:25:08,040 --> 01:25:09,600
Speaker 1: on you I think your meane.

1390
01:25:09,520 --> 01:25:13,800
Speaker 2: Okay, goodbye, You've talked your way out of this entire relationship,

1391
01:25:15,200 --> 01:25:16,120
Speaker 2: Go find a new future.

1392
01:25:16,280 --> 01:25:18,639
Speaker 1: I have none with you. Yeah, it's it's literally it's

1393
01:25:18,680 --> 01:25:23,360
Speaker 1: about you know what, It's about the kids. But even uh,

1394
01:25:23,400 --> 01:25:26,160
Speaker 1: there's also kind of a component of like, hey, look

1395
01:25:26,360 --> 01:25:29,400
Speaker 1: this is a person I shared a relationship with. This

1396
01:25:29,560 --> 01:25:33,160
Speaker 1: is the uh you know, my the co parent, the

1397
01:25:33,240 --> 01:25:36,000
Speaker 1: father of my children. Not only do I want the

1398
01:25:36,080 --> 01:25:38,880
Speaker 1: kids looked after, but you know I want to make

1399
01:25:38,920 --> 01:25:42,840
Speaker 1: sure that you know, he can be okay too? What's

1400
01:25:42,880 --> 01:25:43,519
Speaker 1: wrong with that?

1401
01:25:43,600 --> 01:25:46,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's literally the most logical, it's sensible thing to do.

1402
01:25:46,880 --> 01:25:49,960
Speaker 2: It's like, all right, well, seeing as it's the father

1403
01:25:50,600 --> 01:25:55,000
Speaker 2: of my children, I guess if something God forbid were

1404
01:25:55,000 --> 01:25:57,400
Speaker 2: to happen to me, it would make sense for him

1405
01:25:57,880 --> 01:26:01,439
Speaker 2: to now be in charge of our children rim and

1406
01:26:01,720 --> 01:26:04,960
Speaker 2: to get something out of it or vice versa. Yeah,

1407
01:26:05,080 --> 01:26:07,200
Speaker 2: where he if something whatever?

1408
01:26:08,160 --> 01:26:12,080
Speaker 1: Hello, I have a question. Yes, this might completely change

1409
01:26:12,080 --> 01:26:17,719
Speaker 1: everything if OP and their ex did not have children

1410
01:26:19,080 --> 01:26:21,760
Speaker 1: but had the what ten year relationship, let's say ten

1411
01:26:21,800 --> 01:26:25,240
Speaker 1: year relationship, right are you know it's like, hey, we

1412
01:26:25,320 --> 01:26:28,400
Speaker 1: parted ways, but you know, we don't have a life

1413
01:26:28,439 --> 01:26:30,479
Speaker 1: partner or whatever. Is that still okay?

1414
01:26:33,080 --> 01:26:38,360
Speaker 2: I mean I think it's I mean, in what world

1415
01:26:38,840 --> 01:26:42,640
Speaker 2: does yes, this is coming straight from the acts a

1416
01:26:42,680 --> 01:26:43,360
Speaker 2: lot of way.

1417
01:26:44,400 --> 01:26:48,400
Speaker 3: In what world does a man need to care about

1418
01:26:48,640 --> 01:26:51,320
Speaker 3: who's who on whose life insurance plan?

1419
01:26:52,360 --> 01:26:52,720
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1420
01:26:52,960 --> 01:26:55,679
Speaker 3: Doesn't seem like it makes any sense to me, ax.

1421
01:26:55,520 --> 01:26:58,480
Speaker 1: A Lottel, You're you're bringing up a good point, and perhaps,

1422
01:26:58,600 --> 01:27:00,320
Speaker 1: like you know, they just want to take of them.

1423
01:27:00,600 --> 01:27:04,320
Speaker 1: Could it be an indicator of some more feelings there? Maybe,

1424
01:27:04,360 --> 01:27:07,000
Speaker 1: But that on its acx lott is that on its own,

1425
01:27:07,160 --> 01:27:09,920
Speaker 1: you know, the incriminating evidence.

1426
01:27:10,120 --> 01:27:12,080
Speaker 3: Maybe not. I mean, if anything, it could also be

1427
01:27:12,120 --> 01:27:13,040
Speaker 3: just a clerical error.

1428
01:27:13,120 --> 01:27:16,880
Speaker 1: I mean, it's just something you need to have a discussion.

1429
01:27:16,439 --> 01:27:20,280
Speaker 3: With that person about, instead of being all angry and

1430
01:27:20,400 --> 01:27:23,080
Speaker 3: nasty and throwing the papers at them and being like.

1431
01:27:23,240 --> 01:27:28,599
Speaker 1: Right, act, I think you're right. Also this right about everything.

1432
01:27:29,000 --> 01:27:33,439
Speaker 3: Oh, I'm very confident. I'm the only one to make

1433
01:27:33,479 --> 01:27:34,240
Speaker 3: it out of my cave.

1434
01:27:35,800 --> 01:27:35,920
Speaker 1: Here.

1435
01:27:35,960 --> 01:27:37,519
Speaker 3: I am in the big city, I mean, all the

1436
01:27:37,520 --> 01:27:38,120
Speaker 3: way to Los.

1437
01:27:38,000 --> 01:27:45,559
Speaker 1: Angeles, same dog. I love that this also makes sense.

1438
01:27:45,640 --> 01:27:47,639
Speaker 1: I had to give the acci lott of the negative trade.

1439
01:27:47,840 --> 01:27:53,759
Speaker 1: Yeah right, I called my way out. Everyone else is begging.

1440
01:27:54,080 --> 01:27:55,920
Speaker 3: I have a superiority complex.

1441
01:27:57,640 --> 01:28:02,160
Speaker 1: This makes me want us to have Muppet characters very

1442
01:28:02,439 --> 01:28:06,879
Speaker 1: very badly rise chat with that one day that actually

1443
01:28:06,920 --> 01:28:08,720
Speaker 1: you're kind of cooking on that. It would be it

1444
01:28:08,720 --> 01:28:12,360
Speaker 1: would be the coolest thing ever, probably an endeavor, but

1445
01:28:12,400 --> 01:28:15,639
Speaker 1: it would be literally the coolest thing ever. You know. Well,

1446
01:28:15,840 --> 01:28:17,759
Speaker 1: we'll talk about that later. Yeah, there is a maybe

1447
01:28:17,840 --> 01:28:20,760
Speaker 1: special thing of where people could do if some for

1448
01:28:21,000 --> 01:28:23,320
Speaker 1: sort of thing that could make things happen on this

1449
01:28:23,360 --> 01:28:27,679
Speaker 1: special thing. Yeah. I got nothing else to add to that. Yes,

1450
01:28:28,560 --> 01:28:34,080
Speaker 1: uh AnyWho, we have a mini update, but big in consequences.

1451
01:28:34,479 --> 01:28:36,920
Speaker 1: So before I start with a little update, I want

1452
01:28:36,920 --> 01:28:39,400
Speaker 1: to say thank you for all the comments. I'm going

1453
01:28:39,439 --> 01:28:41,559
Speaker 1: through them all and try and we try to reply

1454
01:28:41,720 --> 01:28:43,799
Speaker 1: even though it's a lot. I just want to address

1455
01:28:43,800 --> 01:28:47,200
Speaker 1: a few things. This did happen a few weeks ago,

1456
01:28:47,320 --> 01:28:49,720
Speaker 1: and I did post in another group, but unfortunately no

1457
01:28:49,800 --> 01:28:52,080
Speaker 1: advice on that side. But I had left it for

1458
01:28:52,080 --> 01:28:55,360
Speaker 1: a few weeks before my ex suggested this one because

1459
01:28:55,720 --> 01:28:59,400
Speaker 1: oh and he's suggesting that's another thing that the X

1460
01:28:59,479 --> 01:29:02,040
Speaker 1: is like, yo, you should so he knows, you know,

1461
01:29:02,080 --> 01:29:04,400
Speaker 1: and it's like, hey, give advice on this. My ex

1462
01:29:04,439 --> 01:29:08,040
Speaker 1: suggested this one because, in his words, maybe these internet

1463
01:29:08,040 --> 01:29:12,080
Speaker 1: strangers would make you see sense and stop you and

1464
01:29:12,160 --> 01:29:14,960
Speaker 1: stop you from thinking you're an a hole. Also could

1465
01:29:15,000 --> 01:29:19,840
Speaker 1: help you see you shouldn't get back together with Jake.

1466
01:29:21,200 --> 01:29:23,720
Speaker 2: Oh wait, so is the ex low key making a

1467
01:29:23,760 --> 01:29:26,080
Speaker 2: play or is the ex just like I mean, you

1468
01:29:26,120 --> 01:29:27,920
Speaker 2: can care about someone you used to date and not

1469
01:29:28,000 --> 01:29:29,120
Speaker 2: like want to date them again.

1470
01:29:29,240 --> 01:29:32,840
Speaker 1: You can just be like, yeah, maybe post this here, so, I.

1471
01:29:32,800 --> 01:29:37,439
Speaker 3: Mean, maybe post this like on the internet so that

1472
01:29:37,680 --> 01:29:38,720
Speaker 3: you can realize you.

1473
01:29:38,640 --> 01:29:42,400
Speaker 1: Should just leave this piece of crap person at great point. Yeah,

1474
01:29:42,479 --> 01:29:44,479
Speaker 1: thank you, You're welcome. Thank you.

1475
01:29:44,600 --> 01:29:45,840
Speaker 3: I'm literally full of them.

1476
01:29:45,840 --> 01:29:50,360
Speaker 1: Thank you, ax Lottle, You're welcome. Now. Firstly, I should

1477
01:29:50,360 --> 01:29:52,559
Speaker 1: have probably added this in the post. My ex and

1478
01:29:52,600 --> 01:29:55,519
Speaker 1: I are definitely not getting back together. We are very

1479
01:29:55,520 --> 01:29:58,760
Speaker 1: good friends as I am with his husband.

1480
01:29:59,760 --> 01:30:09,639
Speaker 9: Oh oh well, this this this whoa makes boyfriend Jake's

1481
01:30:10,800 --> 01:30:16,280
Speaker 9: insane reaction ridiculous reaction a quadrillion times more insane.

1482
01:30:17,200 --> 01:30:19,519
Speaker 1: Do we have to say it? I do we have

1483
01:30:19,600 --> 01:30:21,880
Speaker 1: to say it? I think we might because I'm so

1484
01:30:22,280 --> 01:30:29,120
Speaker 1: I'm in shock. He's gay, he likes men. Are Are

1485
01:30:29,160 --> 01:30:33,280
Speaker 1: you kidding me, Axe lott No, I'm not. It's real.

1486
01:30:34,360 --> 01:30:38,800
Speaker 1: That's a My flabbers are gasted. Gas your flabbers, axel

1487
01:30:38,760 --> 01:30:42,000
Speaker 1: Lottel because this here is the truth. We don't report

1488
01:30:42,400 --> 01:30:45,920
Speaker 1: fake stories on the show. We don't think of things.

1489
01:30:45,960 --> 01:30:48,799
Speaker 1: I would maybe get someone excited to reconnect to someone

1490
01:30:48,800 --> 01:30:54,800
Speaker 1: from their childhood and then put that fictitious nonsense inside

1491
01:30:54,880 --> 01:30:58,960
Speaker 1: of truth designed to give people good advice that I

1492
01:30:59,040 --> 01:31:01,160
Speaker 1: was so good. We wouldn't do that ax a lot

1493
01:31:01,160 --> 01:31:08,320
Speaker 1: on that would we? Riley? Get him? Get him camp,

1494
01:31:09,120 --> 01:31:13,559
Speaker 1: get him? Or at least to Secret Wallace's point, he's

1495
01:31:13,600 --> 01:31:18,200
Speaker 1: at least not straight. Could be Bye or Pan that's true? Yes, yeah,

1496
01:31:18,240 --> 01:31:23,759
Speaker 1: that's true. It could be could be so op, he says. Firstly,

1497
01:31:25,320 --> 01:31:28,479
Speaker 1: so my ex always thought that he was gay, but

1498
01:31:28,600 --> 01:31:31,320
Speaker 1: he is not from the UK and his parents would disapprove,

1499
01:31:31,800 --> 01:31:34,960
Speaker 1: which they have done so and cut ties with them.

1500
01:31:34,960 --> 01:31:37,840
Speaker 1: That is unfortunate. I was upset to start with, but

1501
01:31:38,040 --> 01:31:40,920
Speaker 1: love them both dearly. I was even best woman at

1502
01:31:40,920 --> 01:31:44,240
Speaker 1: their wedding. That is cute. So yes, I am definitely

1503
01:31:44,280 --> 01:31:47,479
Speaker 1: over my ex. Smiley face. That sounds healthy. Yeah, my

1504
01:31:47,560 --> 01:31:49,720
Speaker 1: ex and his husband and I are currently having a

1505
01:31:49,880 --> 01:31:53,679
Speaker 1: lovely glass of vino and discussing the issues around Jake.

1506
01:31:54,000 --> 01:31:56,920
Speaker 1: I love this. I love that they have this their

1507
01:31:56,960 --> 01:31:59,719
Speaker 1: co parents is great. Love it for the people saying

1508
01:31:59,720 --> 01:32:01,559
Speaker 1: that it's it's not right that I have my ex

1509
01:32:01,560 --> 01:32:04,679
Speaker 1: on my life insurance. Let me just explain my point

1510
01:32:04,680 --> 01:32:07,120
Speaker 1: of view. Our son is autistic so has a lot

1511
01:32:07,120 --> 01:32:11,080
Speaker 1: of issues around his autism. Our daughter, due to chemotherapy,

1512
01:32:11,160 --> 01:32:13,040
Speaker 1: is deaf in one ear and is currently in a

1513
01:32:13,040 --> 01:32:17,519
Speaker 1: wheelchair and has multiple appointments. I am very wealthy. My

1514
01:32:17,680 --> 01:32:22,080
Speaker 1: ex partner is not. We opted to do private care

1515
01:32:22,160 --> 01:32:26,240
Speaker 1: to get the best we could for our children. We

1516
01:32:26,320 --> 01:32:29,200
Speaker 1: just took a situation that already made sense and made

1517
01:32:29,200 --> 01:32:31,800
Speaker 1: it make Yes, this is the most sense ever made

1518
01:32:31,840 --> 01:32:36,320
Speaker 1: on planet Earth. Indeed, God, I am leaving him some

1519
01:32:36,400 --> 01:32:38,519
Speaker 1: money for our children and to help him and his

1520
01:32:38,600 --> 01:32:41,720
Speaker 1: husband financially if anything was to happen to me, I

1521
01:32:42,040 --> 01:32:46,200
Speaker 1: one hundred thousand percent trust my ex with our kids money.

1522
01:32:46,600 --> 01:32:50,040
Speaker 1: My children will inherit all of my properties and money.

1523
01:32:50,400 --> 01:32:53,200
Speaker 1: I do have a will, so everything in that sense

1524
01:32:53,320 --> 01:32:56,040
Speaker 1: is sorted. They have trust funds and never need to

1525
01:32:56,040 --> 01:32:59,200
Speaker 1: worry about their future. My life insurance is all my

1526
01:32:59,360 --> 01:33:03,600
Speaker 1: ex gets just I. The more I read this, the

1527
01:33:03,600 --> 01:33:06,400
Speaker 1: more I love it. Just genius. Uh. My life insurance

1528
01:33:06,439 --> 01:33:08,720
Speaker 1: is all my ex gets money from and a few

1529
01:33:08,760 --> 01:33:12,320
Speaker 1: thousand from my own personal money. As does his husband. Well,

1530
01:33:12,479 --> 01:33:17,760
Speaker 1: love it now onto Jake, our good old friend Jake. Ah, Yes,

1531
01:33:19,200 --> 01:33:28,680
Speaker 1: Jacob great a talent currently my ex. His husband and

1532
01:33:28,720 --> 01:33:31,960
Speaker 1: I are packing up Jake's things and they are going

1533
01:33:32,000 --> 01:33:34,240
Speaker 1: to take it to his parents' house. I informed his

1534
01:33:34,320 --> 01:33:41,920
Speaker 1: parents that Jake and I are no longer together broken up,

1535
01:33:42,439 --> 01:33:44,840
Speaker 1: and that we will drop off his stuff at their house.

1536
01:33:45,200 --> 01:33:49,160
Speaker 1: They're sad and wished me well as I did them. See,

1537
01:33:49,160 --> 01:33:54,559
Speaker 1: they're not crazy people. Jake continually called me and texted me,

1538
01:33:54,640 --> 01:33:57,400
Speaker 1: which I have ignored these past few weeks, and I

1539
01:33:57,479 --> 01:34:00,639
Speaker 1: just continue to ignore him. He was he has pleading

1540
01:34:00,680 --> 01:34:03,160
Speaker 1: with me about taking him back, and how much he

1541
01:34:03,400 --> 01:34:06,880
Speaker 1: loves me. You know what, he loves the kids? Uh,

1542
01:34:06,920 --> 01:34:09,519
Speaker 1: Axe Lottle. Does Jake love Opie and the children?

1543
01:34:10,520 --> 01:34:10,880
Speaker 8: You mean?

1544
01:34:11,240 --> 01:34:12,360
Speaker 3: Probably not?

1545
01:34:13,080 --> 01:34:16,280
Speaker 1: No, No, Axe Lottle, Jake does not.

1546
01:34:16,840 --> 01:34:20,320
Speaker 3: I can't speak to the the fickleness of the human heart.

1547
01:34:20,479 --> 01:34:24,479
Speaker 1: Don't don't. Don't switch up on me now, No, No.

1548
01:34:24,320 --> 01:34:25,519
Speaker 3: Only a simple amphibian.

1549
01:34:25,600 --> 01:34:28,400
Speaker 1: You're a smart amphibian. A lotta you're a smart amphibian.

1550
01:34:28,439 --> 01:34:29,760
Speaker 3: I'm definitely the smartest one.

1551
01:34:31,120 --> 01:34:35,559
Speaker 1: Now you're taking it too far. I won the.

1552
01:34:35,560 --> 01:34:37,760
Speaker 3: Smartest Amphibian Award. You can't take it away from me.

1553
01:34:38,560 --> 01:34:41,400
Speaker 1: Uh oh, he doesn't like the kids.

1554
01:34:41,520 --> 01:34:43,479
Speaker 3: He literally said he didn't, and it was like.

1555
01:34:43,520 --> 01:34:47,080
Speaker 1: Really, cringe, That's what I was looking for. Thank you.

1556
01:34:48,200 --> 01:34:49,439
Speaker 1: He very much does.

1557
01:34:49,320 --> 01:34:50,520
Speaker 3: Not like the kids.

1558
01:34:53,800 --> 01:34:59,880
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. Hey for all our listeners out there, wh

1559
01:35:00,200 --> 01:35:02,720
Speaker 1: see what the hell is going on right now? Oh

1560
01:35:02,760 --> 01:35:07,080
Speaker 1: there's a new character in town. It's strapped to the

1561
01:35:07,080 --> 01:35:10,120
Speaker 1: top of head. If you don't know what's trapped, which

1562
01:35:10,160 --> 01:35:14,920
Speaker 1: is a lot with the strap on a lottle. God,

1563
01:35:15,000 --> 01:35:17,920
Speaker 1: if you want an image of that, you know what?

1564
01:35:18,280 --> 01:35:25,000
Speaker 1: Now debian art? Okay. So however, however, just an hour

1565
01:35:25,040 --> 01:35:27,800
Speaker 1: ago he sent me the most vile messages I've ever

1566
01:35:27,840 --> 01:35:39,400
Speaker 1: had in my life. Wait, alright, that's what I see.

1567
01:35:44,360 --> 01:35:49,560
Speaker 1: First day you have three days? Did backwards? Oh no,

1568
01:35:50,479 --> 01:35:53,080
Speaker 1: you have to do the hand coming with the hand

1569
01:35:54,120 --> 01:35:58,679
Speaker 1: now more more like creepy, like written straight creepy wrinkley,

1570
01:35:59,520 --> 01:36:03,800
Speaker 1: like how you get it in the movie We're do it. No,

1571
01:36:04,000 --> 01:36:06,599
Speaker 1: that's wrong. It all just refers back to twelve year

1572
01:36:06,640 --> 01:36:09,920
Speaker 1: old there here we go, okay, we go. So Via

1573
01:36:10,040 --> 01:36:12,640
Speaker 1: just defaults to her her twelve year old twelve year

1574
01:36:12,680 --> 01:36:18,080
Speaker 1: old eighth the worm queen.

1575
01:36:18,080 --> 01:36:20,160
Speaker 2: Indeed, dude, we've got this is a this is a

1576
01:36:20,200 --> 01:36:22,240
Speaker 2: wild segment. We've got a lot going on in this

1577
01:36:22,280 --> 01:36:23,120
Speaker 2: segment right now.

1578
01:36:23,200 --> 01:36:26,719
Speaker 1: This is this is a shot, got new camera angles unlocked,

1579
01:36:27,280 --> 01:36:29,240
Speaker 1: got new characters, put on a show. That might be

1580
01:36:29,240 --> 01:36:31,240
Speaker 1: the first door shot of all time. We don't know.

1581
01:36:31,680 --> 01:36:34,200
Speaker 1: It was stylish, was dark? That was a dark door?

1582
01:36:34,320 --> 01:36:40,880
Speaker 1: Come on? Oh god, the face of a liar. Guys,

1583
01:36:40,920 --> 01:36:46,479
Speaker 1: close up Riley isn't real. He can't hurt you, dude.

1584
01:36:46,520 --> 01:36:51,320
Speaker 1: That is high definition, great camera work. Even in Riley's

1585
01:36:51,320 --> 01:36:54,320
Speaker 1: creepy He's still the greatest producer ever and a liar.

1586
01:36:54,479 --> 01:36:58,880
Speaker 1: Just kidding. We're getting back to it. So, however, just

1587
01:36:58,880 --> 01:37:01,599
Speaker 1: an hour ago, he sent me the most vile message

1588
01:37:01,640 --> 01:37:05,120
Speaker 1: I've ever had in my life, calling my calling my

1589
01:37:05,200 --> 01:37:09,280
Speaker 1: daughter a spoiled, dramatic lit'll be again the one in

1590
01:37:09,320 --> 01:37:12,679
Speaker 1: the wheelchair who uses her illness to get her way.

1591
01:37:13,120 --> 01:37:15,800
Speaker 1: He called my son some disgusting things which I won't

1592
01:37:15,840 --> 01:37:20,640
Speaker 1: even repeat. At this point, I was done, as you

1593
01:37:20,680 --> 01:37:23,439
Speaker 1: should be. I messaged him one final message, saying that

1594
01:37:23,439 --> 01:37:25,640
Speaker 1: if he continued to try reaching out to me, I

1595
01:37:25,680 --> 01:37:28,519
Speaker 1: will be filing a protection order against him and blocking

1596
01:37:28,600 --> 01:37:32,880
Speaker 1: him on all platforms. I mean, you should probably already

1597
01:37:32,880 --> 01:37:36,720
Speaker 1: block him on all platforms and probably already just you

1598
01:37:36,720 --> 01:37:39,080
Speaker 1: know what, just keep this guy away from your kids

1599
01:37:39,120 --> 01:37:42,360
Speaker 1: and you. I that is done enough to warrant it.

1600
01:37:43,120 --> 01:37:47,320
Speaker 1: Absolutely do it, do it now. I could not agree more.

1601
01:37:47,960 --> 01:37:51,839
Speaker 1: You know, you know who deserves the strap on ax Lottle. Okay,

1602
01:37:52,360 --> 01:37:53,200
Speaker 1: this fricking guy.

1603
01:37:53,400 --> 01:37:55,040
Speaker 3: I'd really prefer we didn't.

1604
01:37:55,120 --> 01:37:57,759
Speaker 1: And nope, nope, you walked into this, ax a Lottle.

1605
01:37:57,840 --> 01:38:00,800
Speaker 1: You did this to yourself, app yourself on.

1606
01:38:01,160 --> 01:38:03,840
Speaker 3: Okay, anyways, sang it.

1607
01:38:05,280 --> 01:38:07,640
Speaker 1: I also screenshot of the last message he sent and

1608
01:38:07,680 --> 01:38:10,719
Speaker 1: forwarded it to his to his ex and his family.

1609
01:38:11,200 --> 01:38:13,280
Speaker 1: I am very aware that it is petty, but I

1610
01:38:13,360 --> 01:38:15,920
Speaker 1: do not care. No one gets away with saying that

1611
01:38:16,000 --> 01:38:18,840
Speaker 1: about my children. I really think I will take a

1612
01:38:18,880 --> 01:38:21,360
Speaker 1: break from dating a while and concentrate on me and

1613
01:38:21,400 --> 01:38:24,040
Speaker 1: my little family, which includes the father of my kids

1614
01:38:24,200 --> 01:38:27,639
Speaker 1: and his husband. So I was. I was so upset

1615
01:38:27,720 --> 01:38:29,679
Speaker 1: that there were red that there were red flags there

1616
01:38:29,720 --> 01:38:35,480
Speaker 1: that I just chose to ignore or were really obvious. Uh,

1617
01:38:35,560 --> 01:38:39,599
Speaker 1: by the way, what's really obvious? I hope, I pray.

1618
01:38:40,160 --> 01:38:44,639
Speaker 1: At this point, I just screamed to the heavens. Uh

1619
01:38:44,800 --> 01:38:47,840
Speaker 1: is that if you want to listen to full episodes.

1620
01:38:48,040 --> 01:38:52,080
Speaker 1: Full episodes with stories just like these. Go to Spotify,

1621
01:38:52,360 --> 01:38:55,759
Speaker 1: go to go to Apple podcast. What's our name? Okay

1622
01:38:55,760 --> 01:38:58,280
Speaker 1: stories tiving You type it in and then you find

1623
01:38:58,320 --> 01:39:02,519
Speaker 1: our stories, our episode and just listen to our catalog.

1624
01:39:02,560 --> 01:39:05,360
Speaker 1: We got actually some fun stuff. I'm actually cooking up

1625
01:39:05,360 --> 01:39:08,120
Speaker 1: on the podcast. Yeah, please, gentlemen. So oh yeah, but anyways,

1626
01:39:08,160 --> 01:39:13,200
Speaker 1: oh John's cooking always I'm cooking. But before we get

1627
01:39:13,240 --> 01:39:16,559
Speaker 1: into it, I want to ask you, Dakota, a question

1628
01:39:16,720 --> 01:39:21,000
Speaker 1: and a poll to our chat. What I want to

1629
01:39:21,200 --> 01:39:28,840
Speaker 1: ask is uh send or not? Do we send the

1630
01:39:29,479 --> 01:39:34,720
Speaker 1: texts that Jake said to us, to the family and

1631
01:39:34,800 --> 01:39:39,400
Speaker 1: to the X because we could block, We could block

1632
01:39:39,479 --> 01:39:43,839
Speaker 1: and move on and all of this stuff because Opie

1633
01:39:43,840 --> 01:39:45,479
Speaker 1: did do it. You know, Opie just pulled the trick.

1634
01:39:45,520 --> 01:39:47,880
Speaker 1: She's like, I don't care, I'm petty. We'll call me

1635
01:39:47,880 --> 01:39:51,599
Speaker 1: petty whatever. Do we send it or not? Dakota, what's

1636
01:39:51,600 --> 01:39:59,759
Speaker 1: the you? We will chat votes? Expose him? Expose him.

1637
01:40:00,120 --> 01:40:01,960
Speaker 1: Everyone should know how much this guy sucks.

1638
01:40:02,520 --> 01:40:07,679
Speaker 2: Right, he said some nasty, terrible stuff that you shouldn't

1639
01:40:07,720 --> 01:40:10,080
Speaker 2: be able to People shouldn't be able to walk around thinking.

1640
01:40:09,960 --> 01:40:12,120
Speaker 1: Oh, there goes Jake. He's such a good guy. Yeah.

1641
01:40:12,160 --> 01:40:16,280
Speaker 1: I saw him help his neighbor take his trash at curb.

1642
01:40:16,680 --> 01:40:18,840
Speaker 2: Oh he said, what about the girl in the wheelchair?

1643
01:40:19,520 --> 01:40:22,719
Speaker 2: Oh never mind. No, he sucks and he will be pariah.

1644
01:40:23,800 --> 01:40:27,320
Speaker 2: He deserves it, He deserves nothing, deserves less than nothing,

1645
01:40:27,640 --> 01:40:28,520
Speaker 2: He deserves.

1646
01:40:28,200 --> 01:40:29,240
Speaker 3: Things to be taken away.

1647
01:40:33,040 --> 01:40:35,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's where I'm at. That's where i'm at. Yeah,

1648
01:40:35,640 --> 01:40:38,559
Speaker 2: I get Petty ruined his life. If they were my kids,

1649
01:40:38,560 --> 01:40:39,160
Speaker 2: that's what I do.

1650
01:40:40,160 --> 01:40:43,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess if I think about it, if it

1651
01:40:43,080 --> 01:40:47,160
Speaker 1: were my kids. Yeah, that's when it's like, you got

1652
01:40:47,280 --> 01:40:48,840
Speaker 1: to send it, because if you don't, he's gonna make

1653
01:40:48,920 --> 01:40:50,920
Speaker 1: up something and they're gonna believe that before you can

1654
01:40:50,960 --> 01:40:55,080
Speaker 1: actually get the truth out. That's another fantastic point. You

1655
01:40:55,120 --> 01:40:57,040
Speaker 1: have to with these things. You never know, so you

1656
01:40:57,080 --> 01:40:59,720
Speaker 1: have to contry, especially the way that Bro Jake is

1657
01:41:00,320 --> 01:41:03,720
Speaker 1: crashing out. You look crash up in the dictionary. It

1658
01:41:03,880 --> 01:41:06,679
Speaker 1: is what Jake is doing right now. Yeah, it's yes,

1659
01:41:07,240 --> 01:41:11,639
Speaker 1: it is. Yeah, you'll see you'll see Jake. Yes, Jake's

1660
01:41:11,680 --> 01:41:19,920
Speaker 1: stupid face. Fredville. Also, we should crash out to fall asleep,

1661
01:41:20,120 --> 01:41:22,760
Speaker 1: is that what? Or to pass out? No, No, to

1662
01:41:22,880 --> 01:41:26,280
Speaker 1: lose control of emotions is the colloquial use of crashout.

1663
01:41:26,960 --> 01:41:30,360
Speaker 1: Crash out is what to go insane or to to

1664
01:41:30,439 --> 01:41:31,519
Speaker 1: do something stupid.

1665
01:41:31,600 --> 01:41:34,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, crash and you crash out, crash I just can't

1666
01:41:34,439 --> 01:41:35,240
Speaker 2: take it anymore.

1667
01:41:36,240 --> 01:41:36,479
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1668
01:41:36,520 --> 01:41:38,719
Speaker 2: A great example of a crash out would be Michael

1669
01:41:38,720 --> 01:41:43,080
Speaker 2: Douglas's character in the entirety of Falling Down, which John

1670
01:41:43,360 --> 01:41:44,080
Speaker 2: doesn't know anything.

1671
01:41:44,360 --> 01:41:51,000
Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, no, listen listen Michael right, yeah, Bell

1672
01:41:51,560 --> 01:41:56,599
Speaker 1: down exactly, and Dallas his crash out. Man, he couldn't

1673
01:41:56,600 --> 01:41:58,759
Speaker 1: He literally couldn't even hold his legs together, let alone

1674
01:41:58,800 --> 01:42:02,080
Speaker 1: his life. He's falling down. He was just falling straight down.

1675
01:42:02,400 --> 01:42:05,040
Speaker 2: That might be one of the best examples of a

1676
01:42:05,080 --> 01:42:06,080
Speaker 2: crash out of all time.

1677
01:42:06,560 --> 01:42:10,000
Speaker 1: Agreed, couldn't agree more? Great show Great. He just wanted

1678
01:42:10,040 --> 01:42:15,800
Speaker 1: some breakfast movie. Yeah, he just wanted breakfast. Okay, I

1679
01:42:15,840 --> 01:42:20,040
Speaker 1: don't know, I don't know. Chat says ninety seven percent.

1680
01:42:20,360 --> 01:42:24,719
Speaker 1: Send Katie Paladin says, exposed a piece of dirt. Mrsas

1681
01:42:24,800 --> 01:42:26,960
Speaker 1: I love the word colloquial. I was literally thinking same.

1682
01:42:27,000 --> 01:42:30,080
Speaker 1: I remember the day I learned that, yes, colloquial.

1683
01:42:31,439 --> 01:42:34,720
Speaker 2: My favorite use of colloquial is the use of colloquial

1684
01:42:35,000 --> 01:42:36,040
Speaker 2: right now.

1685
01:42:36,240 --> 01:42:43,320
Speaker 1: Whoooo I can cut so, he says. I messaged him

1686
01:42:43,400 --> 01:42:46,840
Speaker 1: one final time saying that if you do, you bet

1687
01:42:46,840 --> 01:42:49,519
Speaker 1: good boot goot boom. I already read that little at

1688
01:42:49,560 --> 01:42:53,680
Speaker 1: it not a big one. I know. I said I

1689
01:42:53,680 --> 01:42:56,960
Speaker 1: wouldn't post what he said, but screw it. He's a

1690
01:42:56,960 --> 01:42:59,600
Speaker 1: horrible human and I'm a few glasses of veo in

1691
01:43:01,120 --> 01:43:04,120
Speaker 1: what is going on over there. He called my daughter

1692
01:43:05,040 --> 01:43:14,759
Speaker 1: a cripple butt and called my son a R word freak.

1693
01:43:16,040 --> 01:43:18,160
Speaker 1: So you can go off himself. Hey, so do you.

1694
01:43:18,160 --> 01:43:21,439
Speaker 8: Have any evidence of him sending these things? Because you

1695
01:43:21,479 --> 01:43:25,720
Speaker 8: could use this evidence to sort of de ingratiate him

1696
01:43:25,720 --> 01:43:29,080
Speaker 8: with the community that he's he's surrounded himself by.

1697
01:43:29,400 --> 01:43:32,080
Speaker 1: That's what he's doing. Good having excellent job.

1698
01:43:32,200 --> 01:43:34,600
Speaker 3: I hope this guy ends up with no friends and

1699
01:43:35,920 --> 01:43:41,519
Speaker 3: nothing to call a dang it. I'm starting to crash out.

1700
01:43:41,840 --> 01:43:43,000
Speaker 3: Act a lot is crashing out.

1701
01:43:43,160 --> 01:43:44,040
Speaker 1: Uh oh, it's okay.

1702
01:43:45,000 --> 01:43:45,800
Speaker 3: I'm gonna take a break.

1703
01:43:45,840 --> 01:43:49,080
Speaker 1: We'll catch you before you crash, he says. I'm probably

1704
01:43:49,080 --> 01:43:51,439
Speaker 1: just gonna leave this post now. Time to heal and

1705
01:43:51,479 --> 01:43:53,840
Speaker 1: focus on my beautiful kids. Thank you all so much

1706
01:43:53,840 --> 01:43:55,880
Speaker 1: for the comments and advice. I hope you're all blessed

1707
01:43:55,960 --> 01:43:58,599
Speaker 1: and I appreciate Evan's opinion's advice and support. I will

1708
01:43:58,640 --> 01:44:01,679
Speaker 1: definitely be taking a lot of points into my heart.

1709
01:44:02,520 --> 01:44:02,960
Speaker 1: Thank you.

1710
01:44:04,520 --> 01:44:08,760
Speaker 2: Hey, I I think that's that's a good place. That's

1711
01:44:08,760 --> 01:44:13,240
Speaker 2: a good place to be. I I that that last sense,

1712
01:44:13,280 --> 01:44:17,160
Speaker 2: it's taking points into my heart sounds painful though I

1713
01:44:17,200 --> 01:44:21,000
Speaker 2: know that they meant taking those points to heart, but

1714
01:44:21,120 --> 01:44:24,760
Speaker 2: like points into my heart, it's like, ow, that's how,

1715
01:44:24,840 --> 01:44:25,360
Speaker 2: that's how.

1716
01:44:25,280 --> 01:44:29,040
Speaker 1: That's how well pose? You know. It's like it's like

1717
01:44:29,040 --> 01:44:32,840
Speaker 1: like burrowing itself in your soul. I just imagine like

1718
01:44:32,880 --> 01:44:36,200
Speaker 1: a bunch of like rose like stems with the thorns

1719
01:44:36,200 --> 01:44:38,200
Speaker 1: just being like poke book book book. I'm sorry, that's

1720
01:44:38,200 --> 01:44:45,320
Speaker 1: a terrible uh wow, I'm gonna undo that. Hey, I

1721
01:44:45,360 --> 01:44:48,800
Speaker 1: am the ax al Lottle, and it's gonna go back

1722
01:44:48,840 --> 01:44:49,400
Speaker 1: on the shelf.

1723
01:44:49,439 --> 01:44:50,240
Speaker 5: Now there you go.

1724
01:44:52,240 --> 01:44:54,000
Speaker 1: And it's a light too, guys. You see that look

1725
01:44:56,439 --> 01:44:59,320
Speaker 1: it's so it's so oh there it goes ah, there

1726
01:44:59,360 --> 01:45:01,680
Speaker 1: goes yeah, because through there yep. And you know that

1727
01:45:01,720 --> 01:45:04,120
Speaker 1: to me all the time, she like presses me and

1728
01:45:04,120 --> 01:45:06,800
Speaker 1: I turn on you have bioluminescence. Oh I thought you

1729
01:45:06,840 --> 01:45:15,960
Speaker 1: meant strap on. I got him back chat I got

1730
01:45:16,040 --> 01:45:22,960
Speaker 1: him back. Chat got him back. Coda's beachless right now

1731
01:45:23,200 --> 01:45:30,000
Speaker 1: got him back. I got him, I got him. My

1732
01:45:30,080 --> 01:45:33,200
Speaker 1: friend ignored my warning about his boyfriend. So I'm not

1733
01:45:33,240 --> 01:45:36,040
Speaker 1: giving him any sympathy. Hey, where's the sympathy. I can't

1734
01:45:36,080 --> 01:45:39,160
Speaker 1: find it. Oh I left it back there. Sympathy not

1735
01:45:39,280 --> 01:45:42,800
Speaker 1: from me. So I twenty five Mail was part of

1736
01:45:42,800 --> 01:45:45,000
Speaker 1: a kind of big friend group in college, and in

1737
01:45:45,080 --> 01:45:48,400
Speaker 1: that group there were two guys, Damien twenty five Mail

1738
01:45:48,680 --> 01:45:51,280
Speaker 1: and Jake, twenty seven male. At the time we met,

1739
01:45:51,400 --> 01:45:54,160
Speaker 1: Damian and I were eighteen and Jake was twenty. By

1740
01:45:54,200 --> 01:45:56,920
Speaker 1: the way this comes from, I cannot I swear on

1741
01:45:56,960 --> 01:45:58,920
Speaker 1: the ur slash okay story. I'm starting it. So we

1742
01:45:58,960 --> 01:46:01,120
Speaker 1: got pretty close since we were in the same classes

1743
01:46:01,240 --> 01:46:04,000
Speaker 1: and always paired up to work in these So by

1744
01:46:04,040 --> 01:46:06,840
Speaker 1: like halfway through that year we had become very close friends.

1745
01:46:06,920 --> 01:46:08,439
Speaker 1: By the end of it, we had gotten to the

1746
01:46:08,479 --> 01:46:11,000
Speaker 1: point in friendship where we were comfortable telling each other

1747
01:46:11,040 --> 01:46:15,920
Speaker 1: stuff people normally would tell their therapists. Shit, oh, hey,

1748
01:46:16,040 --> 01:46:18,920
Speaker 1: that's like what we do. Ooh, you tell us that

1749
01:46:18,960 --> 01:46:23,040
Speaker 1: stuff with your stories. More qualified than a therapist. Dakota

1750
01:46:23,160 --> 01:46:26,960
Speaker 1: is fact jecket It's true it's true, and I said

1751
01:46:27,080 --> 01:46:31,160
Speaker 1: allegiance to the flag of therapy and our second year.

1752
01:46:31,200 --> 01:46:34,080
Speaker 1: Around September or so, Jake started dating Tom twenty eight

1753
01:46:34,120 --> 01:46:37,599
Speaker 1: mail currently he was twenty one or almost twenty two

1754
01:46:37,760 --> 01:46:40,559
Speaker 1: when he met Jake. Jake was also in class with us,

1755
01:46:40,560 --> 01:46:43,000
Speaker 1: but we never talked because he was always because he

1756
01:46:43,080 --> 01:46:46,920
Speaker 1: always just gave me weird vibes. I couldn't explain it,

1757
01:46:47,000 --> 01:46:49,639
Speaker 1: but something was just off about him. When he started

1758
01:46:49,680 --> 01:46:52,599
Speaker 1: dating Jake. I obviously lied and said I was happy

1759
01:46:52,600 --> 01:46:54,720
Speaker 1: for Jake because he had been telling us a lot

1760
01:46:54,760 --> 01:46:58,040
Speaker 1: about about how he wanted to finally have a boyfriend.

1761
01:46:58,160 --> 01:47:00,519
Speaker 1: So Damian and I were supportive and often tended to

1762
01:47:00,600 --> 01:47:03,760
Speaker 1: gush whenever Jake would talk about Tom and the things

1763
01:47:03,800 --> 01:47:06,000
Speaker 1: that he did, Like he would gush about how sweet

1764
01:47:06,000 --> 01:47:08,760
Speaker 1: Tom was because he asked how his day was that

1765
01:47:08,840 --> 01:47:09,360
Speaker 1: kind of stuff.

1766
01:47:09,400 --> 01:47:13,840
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, but it's like that's no one that's like

1767
01:47:13,920 --> 01:47:16,479
Speaker 2: the top level being nice.

1768
01:47:16,600 --> 01:47:20,439
Speaker 1: You can't do more, like like we'll show him right now,

1769
01:47:20,439 --> 01:47:23,680
Speaker 1: ready to cut, How is your day? I'm gonna make

1770
01:47:23,800 --> 01:47:27,639
Speaker 1: that's cool. I don't care, so like I like, uh,

1771
01:47:27,840 --> 01:47:29,960
Speaker 1: I made a mystery wheel today and like spun it

1772
01:47:30,000 --> 01:47:32,679
Speaker 1: on chat isn't that cool? Oh yeah, no, to ignore exactly. Yeah,

1773
01:47:32,720 --> 01:47:35,639
Speaker 1: so I'm just gonna keep talking. Yeah see you see, guys,

1774
01:47:35,840 --> 01:47:38,599
Speaker 1: do you see how terrible that was? That's that's how

1775
01:47:38,640 --> 01:47:42,920
Speaker 1: it can be facts that Yeah. Anyways, I'm sorry Dakota

1776
01:47:43,040 --> 01:47:48,519
Speaker 1: that you're going to marry me. John, please marry me.

1777
01:47:49,120 --> 01:47:50,559
Speaker 1: Oh remember my middle name?

1778
01:47:50,640 --> 01:47:56,400
Speaker 2: My friend oh randle marriage to me, John, marriage to me?

1779
01:47:56,520 --> 01:47:59,519
Speaker 1: Fry Oh no, John, I have a girlfriend. John, I

1780
01:47:59,560 --> 01:48:02,719
Speaker 1: have a girl friend. F okay, gotcha. Maybe you don't

1781
01:48:02,720 --> 01:48:08,400
Speaker 1: have a husband, though, that is true. I can't fight facts.

1782
01:48:09,200 --> 01:48:12,360
Speaker 1: But in our third year, things went to heck, Jake

1783
01:48:12,439 --> 01:48:15,320
Speaker 1: had failed the Jake had failed the one class we

1784
01:48:15,400 --> 01:48:18,240
Speaker 1: all Damian, Jake, Tom and I shared, so we had

1785
01:48:18,280 --> 01:48:22,120
Speaker 1: to retake that class. And he left and that left

1786
01:48:22,200 --> 01:48:25,759
Speaker 1: Tom Damien and I, Tom, Damien and I many times,

1787
01:48:26,120 --> 01:48:30,160
Speaker 1: move your mic, move that third mic. Oh, I'll delete

1788
01:48:30,200 --> 01:48:32,920
Speaker 1: it or it's muted now. Sorry, We thank you, We

1789
01:48:33,040 --> 01:48:36,519
Speaker 1: got it. In our third year, things went to heck,

1790
01:48:37,160 --> 01:48:40,960
Speaker 1: Jake had the failed the one class up we all Damian, Jake,

1791
01:48:41,000 --> 01:48:44,280
Speaker 1: Tom and I shared, so we had to retake. He

1792
01:48:44,320 --> 01:48:46,720
Speaker 1: had to retake that class, and that left Tom with

1793
01:48:46,840 --> 01:48:51,320
Speaker 1: Damian and I many times I caught Tom oggling other people.

1794
01:48:51,720 --> 01:48:54,160
Speaker 1: I did tell Jake immediately, but he brushed it off,

1795
01:48:54,479 --> 01:48:56,760
Speaker 1: telling me that he didn't care and that looking at

1796
01:48:56,800 --> 01:48:59,680
Speaker 1: others was legal, et cetera, et cetera. Oh yeah, that's

1797
01:48:59,720 --> 01:49:04,280
Speaker 1: the standard, right will. They're not doing anything illegal, it's ill.

1798
01:49:04,720 --> 01:49:08,760
Speaker 1: I'm not breaking the law, am I officer, It's a

1799
01:49:08,880 --> 01:49:13,439
Speaker 1: standard law procedure. But I kept an eye on Tom

1800
01:49:13,560 --> 01:49:18,799
Speaker 1: either way. Then he started to make moves on Damien. Literally,

1801
01:49:18,840 --> 01:49:20,559
Speaker 1: not just like making moves on someone, but the guy

1802
01:49:20,560 --> 01:49:25,960
Speaker 1: who's in their initial fraid to what heckkes right, who

1803
01:49:26,000 --> 01:49:29,080
Speaker 1: is extremely uncomfortable, because not only was he not into

1804
01:49:29,080 --> 01:49:33,599
Speaker 1: Tom at all, he was also straight. I am not

1805
01:49:33,720 --> 01:49:36,800
Speaker 1: gonna give the full list, so it gets pretty long,

1806
01:49:36,840 --> 01:49:39,519
Speaker 1: but I'll just give some of his examples. Number one,

1807
01:49:39,800 --> 01:49:42,360
Speaker 1: one time Tom hugged us goodbye after class and hugged

1808
01:49:42,400 --> 01:49:44,960
Speaker 1: Damien for a bit too long for comfort, and once

1809
01:49:45,040 --> 01:49:48,120
Speaker 1: he let go, he grabbed his arm and said, oh wow,

1810
01:49:49,000 --> 01:49:56,960
Speaker 1: you're so meaty. Oh oh, he's so meaty. That's one

1811
01:49:57,000 --> 01:50:01,000
Speaker 1: way to describe that. And Damien the face you get

1812
01:50:01,240 --> 01:50:04,760
Speaker 1: when you're highly uncomfortable, because guess what, guys, I think

1813
01:50:04,760 --> 01:50:09,559
Speaker 1: he was highly uncomfortable. Number two, we were all sitting

1814
01:50:09,640 --> 01:50:11,639
Speaker 1: on the floor outside of an outside of a lab

1815
01:50:11,760 --> 01:50:14,000
Speaker 1: waiting to be called in to give an exam. Tom

1816
01:50:14,040 --> 01:50:17,120
Speaker 1: went in first, and when we left, he kissed Damien's

1817
01:50:17,160 --> 01:50:21,040
Speaker 1: cheek goodbye, and then, instead of walking over Damien to

1818
01:50:21,080 --> 01:50:23,160
Speaker 1: do the same with me, he grabbed Damian by the

1819
01:50:23,160 --> 01:50:28,000
Speaker 1: shoulder and leaned in forward to kiss my cheek goodbye

1820
01:50:28,320 --> 01:50:34,240
Speaker 1: while basically laying on top of Damien. I don't even

1821
01:50:34,280 --> 01:50:37,360
Speaker 1: know what exactly is happening, but I know it's not appropriate.

1822
01:50:37,439 --> 01:50:40,439
Speaker 1: This is not cool. And then number three, to close

1823
01:50:40,520 --> 01:50:44,439
Speaker 1: us off, sent Damien a text saying I like you.

1824
01:50:45,479 --> 01:50:47,080
Speaker 1: This may not look like a lot to you, but

1825
01:50:47,120 --> 01:50:49,400
Speaker 1: in my country, saying I like you is only used

1826
01:50:49,439 --> 01:50:53,320
Speaker 1: for crushes and crushes only. Yeah. No, that was that

1827
01:50:53,400 --> 01:50:55,439
Speaker 1: was very clearly like I.

1828
01:50:55,560 --> 01:50:59,880
Speaker 2: Like you in like a you know, smoochy moochie way,

1829
01:51:00,040 --> 01:51:01,439
Speaker 2: smoochy woucci rass, a bunch.

1830
01:51:01,280 --> 01:51:02,920
Speaker 1: Of different ways. You could have been like, yeah, I

1831
01:51:02,960 --> 01:51:05,439
Speaker 1: did you really cool? We should hang out. I like you.

1832
01:51:05,680 --> 01:51:10,479
Speaker 1: It's like, it's very clear. So when we told Jake

1833
01:51:10,520 --> 01:51:12,479
Speaker 1: all of this, we would always tell him as soon

1834
01:51:12,479 --> 01:51:16,000
Speaker 1: as it happened. He always brushed it off. Man is

1835
01:51:16,000 --> 01:51:18,559
Speaker 1: a he should join the Canadian sweep team because he

1836
01:51:18,640 --> 01:51:21,000
Speaker 1: is the master of brushing things off. Yeah, you're gonna

1837
01:51:21,040 --> 01:51:23,839
Speaker 1: go to the Olympics get a gold medal in curling.

1838
01:51:24,000 --> 01:51:26,919
Speaker 1: Google with that at curling. That's what I meant to say. Anyways,

1839
01:51:27,160 --> 01:51:30,840
Speaker 1: thank you to God to the joke would have been complete.

1840
01:51:30,880 --> 01:51:34,360
Speaker 1: But anyways, uh claiming he was trying to joke but

1841
01:51:34,560 --> 01:51:36,559
Speaker 1: it came out wrong, or that when he just didn't

1842
01:51:36,600 --> 01:51:40,479
Speaker 1: think about going around Damien, that we misinterpreted the text,

1843
01:51:40,479 --> 01:51:43,040
Speaker 1: et cetera, et cetera. After a while, we just excited.

1844
01:51:43,080 --> 01:51:45,160
Speaker 1: We just decided to start ignoring Tom. We'd wait for

1845
01:51:45,240 --> 01:51:47,720
Speaker 1: him to enter a room, then we'd follow a few

1846
01:51:47,760 --> 01:51:50,479
Speaker 1: seconds later and said somewhere else. We'd come out of

1847
01:51:50,520 --> 01:51:52,559
Speaker 1: a lesson and say that we're going to miss the bus.

1848
01:51:52,600 --> 01:51:54,280
Speaker 1: So we all had to hear hurry and all that.

1849
01:51:54,680 --> 01:51:58,120
Speaker 1: Although I would also just missed faces whenever he spoke,

1850
01:51:58,400 --> 01:52:00,960
Speaker 1: because anytime he opened his mouth, all I could think

1851
01:52:00,960 --> 01:52:04,120
Speaker 1: of was how much better he is when he's silent.

1852
01:52:05,439 --> 01:52:10,360
Speaker 2: Sh that's a bad trait. They have you talk and

1853
01:52:10,360 --> 01:52:14,479
Speaker 2: people are like, ah, stop it right, it's not good.

1854
01:52:14,880 --> 01:52:18,240
Speaker 2: I miss it when you weren't doing that dang and

1855
01:52:18,320 --> 01:52:19,200
Speaker 2: Amanda k love.

1856
01:52:20,040 --> 01:52:23,360
Speaker 1: A Canadian sweep team is hilarious. I'm gonna have to

1857
01:52:23,400 --> 01:52:26,479
Speaker 1: own it. I'm gonna if dude, if only I had

1858
01:52:27,080 --> 01:52:30,800
Speaker 1: me and Dakota, if we had a telepathic connection, he

1859
01:52:30,800 --> 01:52:34,800
Speaker 1: could have given me the ally I needed. And I

1860
01:52:34,880 --> 01:52:38,280
Speaker 1: was missing the information. I was sorely mistaken. I'm a

1861
01:52:38,320 --> 01:52:42,360
Speaker 1: fan of this entire thing, right, you know what Canadian

1862
01:52:42,400 --> 01:52:45,360
Speaker 1: sweep team. It's Canadian sweet sweet team should be what

1863
01:52:45,400 --> 01:52:49,080
Speaker 1: that's called. Thank you that I appreciate it. I like

1864
01:52:49,120 --> 01:52:51,920
Speaker 1: it better. I like it better. It is better. You're right,

1865
01:52:52,040 --> 01:52:56,160
Speaker 1: Ye're right. What are they even curling? There's no curls whatsoever? Nothing?

1866
01:52:56,280 --> 01:52:58,559
Speaker 1: You know what. They're sweeping a lot. They are sweeping

1867
01:52:58,680 --> 01:53:01,920
Speaker 1: like crazy. Bro, It's like the whole thing. Oh he's

1868
01:53:01,960 --> 01:53:06,720
Speaker 1: going out of fashion. But back to OP. It all

1869
01:53:06,760 --> 01:53:10,680
Speaker 1: came to a head in July, hopefully not someone giving it.

1870
01:53:11,400 --> 01:53:13,479
Speaker 1: One of our friends was turning twenty one, and she

1871
01:53:13,600 --> 01:53:15,559
Speaker 1: made a small gathering at her house and we all

1872
01:53:15,600 --> 01:53:18,559
Speaker 1: got wasted, and in around one am, only my friend

1873
01:53:18,640 --> 01:53:21,719
Speaker 1: the birthday goal Damien and me and three other girls remained,

1874
01:53:21,920 --> 01:53:23,920
Speaker 1: as well as two other guys. I think I left.

1875
01:53:23,920 --> 01:53:25,479
Speaker 1: How OPI was like there was like no one there,

1876
01:53:25,520 --> 01:53:28,799
Speaker 1: but there was like ten people there, and we randomly

1877
01:53:28,840 --> 01:53:31,000
Speaker 1: decided to go to a club. We found the nearest one,

1878
01:53:31,040 --> 01:53:33,600
Speaker 1: and it happened to be the only gay club in

1879
01:53:33,600 --> 01:53:36,280
Speaker 1: our town. We actually have two, but the other is

1880
01:53:36,320 --> 01:53:38,880
Speaker 1: in an awful neighborhood, so we can never go there.

1881
01:53:39,200 --> 01:53:41,960
Speaker 1: We went there and it was already crowded. After a

1882
01:53:42,000 --> 01:53:44,840
Speaker 1: few hours, I, Damien and I needed some air or

1883
01:53:44,880 --> 01:53:50,280
Speaker 1: else we'd absolutely yuke everywhere. That's a good reason to

1884
01:53:50,280 --> 01:53:52,240
Speaker 1: get air. That is a good run. I need to

1885
01:53:52,240 --> 01:53:55,360
Speaker 1: go outside or on my insides will be outside. Oh,

1886
01:53:55,439 --> 01:53:59,479
Speaker 1: let's go outside. Time to go outside outside. While we

1887
01:53:59,479 --> 01:54:02,479
Speaker 1: were going off to the rooftop, we happened to see

1888
01:54:02,479 --> 01:54:08,000
Speaker 1: a very familiar face. I wonder what could be? I

1889
01:54:08,040 --> 01:54:11,880
Speaker 1: don't know. Could it be maybe Tom? Uh?

1890
01:54:11,920 --> 01:54:17,719
Speaker 6: It's tomble freaking Tom who would have thought no Jerry

1891
01:54:19,160 --> 01:54:22,240
Speaker 6: who had his face buried in another guy's face.

1892
01:54:23,680 --> 01:54:26,479
Speaker 1: In true Tom fashion. Mind you, Jake had gone to

1893
01:54:26,520 --> 01:54:29,320
Speaker 1: this girl's party too, but had left at eleven pm

1894
01:54:29,760 --> 01:54:33,280
Speaker 1: because he had a family barbecue the next day, and

1895
01:54:33,440 --> 01:54:40,160
Speaker 1: Tom had picked him up, meaning this balding booty mother

1896
01:54:40,280 --> 01:54:43,440
Speaker 1: effort with a wandering eye had picked up his boyfriend.

1897
01:54:43,520 --> 01:54:46,600
Speaker 1: My friend dropped him off at a place and then

1898
01:54:46,720 --> 01:54:51,120
Speaker 1: came to the club to cheat on him. What a guy, Hey,

1899
01:54:51,160 --> 01:54:55,960
Speaker 1: what a what a class actor? Class action? This guy

1900
01:54:55,160 --> 01:54:59,400
Speaker 1: is class act. Wrote a book on class Oh no, no, no, no,

1901
01:54:59,520 --> 01:55:02,840
Speaker 1: take out this in the l There we go. That's

1902
01:55:02,840 --> 01:55:06,560
Speaker 1: the book he wrote. We immediately started taking pictures in

1903
01:55:06,600 --> 01:55:09,120
Speaker 1: filming to make sure that we had all the evidence possible.

1904
01:55:09,200 --> 01:55:11,360
Speaker 1: You couldn't see his face in some picks since you know,

1905
01:55:12,240 --> 01:55:14,440
Speaker 1: but in others it was extremely obvious it was him.

1906
01:55:14,760 --> 01:55:17,080
Speaker 1: After that, we lied, so we got tired and left

1907
01:55:17,080 --> 01:55:19,560
Speaker 1: the club. We spent about a week or so trying

1908
01:55:19,600 --> 01:55:22,280
Speaker 1: to see what to do, how to tell Jake, what

1909
01:55:22,480 --> 01:55:25,280
Speaker 1: to say. We didn't send. We didn't want to send

1910
01:55:25,280 --> 01:55:27,840
Speaker 1: the pics immediately because we thought it was something that

1911
01:55:27,880 --> 01:55:30,720
Speaker 1: you wanted to tell your friend in person. I had

1912
01:55:30,880 --> 01:55:33,760
Speaker 1: just starting seeing mine now boyfriend, so I asked if

1913
01:55:33,800 --> 01:55:36,200
Speaker 1: I could lie about one of his friends, just to

1914
01:55:36,200 --> 01:55:40,520
Speaker 1: make up an experiment. He asked his friend told him

1915
01:55:40,520 --> 01:55:44,320
Speaker 1: to lie, and he said yes, okay. I invited Jake

1916
01:55:44,320 --> 01:55:46,520
Speaker 1: and Damien too my place and we started talking. I

1917
01:55:46,560 --> 01:55:48,960
Speaker 1: tried to frame it as, oh, I just really want

1918
01:55:48,960 --> 01:55:51,840
Speaker 1: to hang out type situation and not an intervention. So

1919
01:55:52,080 --> 01:55:54,480
Speaker 1: we talked a lot, and then I mentioned the lie,

1920
01:55:54,600 --> 01:55:58,840
Speaker 1: telling Damien and Jake that my boyfriend's friend had had

1921
01:55:58,840 --> 01:56:01,200
Speaker 1: been getting dumped by his girl girl friend because he

1922
01:56:01,400 --> 01:56:05,560
Speaker 1: asked for an open relationship. We all immediately jumped into

1923
01:56:05,600 --> 01:56:07,840
Speaker 1: the whole conversation on what we do if we were

1924
01:56:07,880 --> 01:56:11,840
Speaker 1: in an open relationship, and Jake said that he would

1925
01:56:11,880 --> 01:56:15,280
Speaker 1: never even consider having one, how it was gross and

1926
01:56:15,520 --> 01:56:20,240
Speaker 1: all that jazz. So them having an open relationship was

1927
01:56:20,480 --> 01:56:26,560
Speaker 1: completely out of the equation, meaning Tom had in fact cheated. Wow, Okay,

1928
01:56:26,960 --> 01:56:30,240
Speaker 1: just to pause it here real quick, we just Opie's

1929
01:56:30,240 --> 01:56:33,080
Speaker 1: going on quite a journey here, so to break down

1930
01:56:33,080 --> 01:56:38,440
Speaker 1: what just happened, please, So OPI was I think, basically

1931
01:56:38,680 --> 01:56:42,440
Speaker 1: trying to confirm that they weren't in an open relationship

1932
01:56:42,480 --> 01:56:46,960
Speaker 1: or and or testing the waters to see how he

1933
01:56:47,000 --> 01:56:50,640
Speaker 1: would react if, like, if Jake thinks open relationship is bad, Oh,

1934
01:56:50,640 --> 01:56:53,080
Speaker 1: he's gonna hate cheating, right right? So I think that

1935
01:56:53,240 --> 01:56:55,200
Speaker 1: was the point of this experiment. So they made up

1936
01:56:55,200 --> 01:56:58,040
Speaker 1: this story like oh uh, blah blah blahs, boyfriend asked

1937
01:56:58,040 --> 01:57:00,520
Speaker 1: for an open relationship. What do you think Jake is? Like,

1938
01:57:00,640 --> 01:57:04,680
Speaker 1: I hate that idea. Basically, I'd never do it. They're like, okay,

1939
01:57:04,800 --> 01:57:07,000
Speaker 1: not only is Jake not in an open relationship, We've

1940
01:57:07,040 --> 01:57:08,880
Speaker 1: got that out of the way. If he doesn't like

1941
01:57:08,920 --> 01:57:13,440
Speaker 1: this open relationship, he's gonna hate the cheating, right.

1942
01:57:13,480 --> 01:57:16,440
Speaker 2: It's like, if you don't like that, you're really not

1943
01:57:16,480 --> 01:57:18,839
Speaker 2: good it like even worse version.

1944
01:57:19,520 --> 01:57:24,640
Speaker 1: Do we agree with this experiment? I mean, I think

1945
01:57:24,680 --> 01:57:30,040
Speaker 1: it's not cool to run experiments on your friends, although

1946
01:57:31,600 --> 01:57:35,600
Speaker 1: for the purpose of gathering evidence perhaps, and gathering evidence

1947
01:57:35,720 --> 01:57:39,520
Speaker 1: and well, here's here's the alternative scenario he tells them,

1948
01:57:39,640 --> 01:57:41,959
Speaker 1: and then he's like, oh, yeah, we're in an open relationship,

1949
01:57:42,720 --> 01:57:46,680
Speaker 1: no big deal. And then it's no big deal. So yeah,

1950
01:57:46,120 --> 01:57:50,200
Speaker 1: I don't know if this is an a whole move necessarily.

1951
01:57:50,280 --> 01:57:52,160
Speaker 1: I mean, it's not the cleanest move. It's not the

1952
01:57:52,240 --> 01:57:55,840
Speaker 1: cleanest move though, either, So I think would it have

1953
01:57:55,840 --> 01:57:56,920
Speaker 1: been better just left alone?

1954
01:57:56,960 --> 01:58:00,800
Speaker 2: Dakota ar official or therapist way you want to live

1955
01:58:00,840 --> 01:58:03,360
Speaker 2: your life? But like for like you're the sake of

1956
01:58:03,720 --> 01:58:05,040
Speaker 2: your own peace and serenity.

1957
01:58:05,120 --> 01:58:08,520
Speaker 1: Yes, if we're giving good advice, goofully, he just left

1958
01:58:08,520 --> 01:58:12,360
Speaker 1: it alone. We just left it alone. I agree, I agree,

1959
01:58:12,400 --> 01:58:16,440
Speaker 1: But we're gonna get into this next part, and I

1960
01:58:16,480 --> 01:58:24,160
Speaker 1: think the shoe is about to drop. Oh, let's go, so,

1961
01:58:25,000 --> 01:58:27,920
Speaker 1: Opie says. We told him later that day. We sat

1962
01:58:28,000 --> 01:58:31,480
Speaker 1: him down on the couch like that, just like that,

1963
01:58:31,880 --> 01:58:34,640
Speaker 1: and I told him that I had actually lied about

1964
01:58:34,640 --> 01:58:37,480
Speaker 1: my boyfriend's friend because we wanted to make sure that

1965
01:58:37,560 --> 01:58:40,840
Speaker 1: we weren't barking up the rold wrong tree. We told

1966
01:58:40,880 --> 01:58:44,160
Speaker 1: him very gently and very calm about what we had

1967
01:58:44,200 --> 01:58:49,280
Speaker 1: seen in the club. Jake obviously didn't believe us. Lah,

1968
01:58:49,880 --> 01:58:54,320
Speaker 1: he couldn't. Yeah, he couldn't do it. Why would he? Uh?

1969
01:58:54,360 --> 01:58:56,800
Speaker 1: And so we showed him the pictures and the videos.

1970
01:58:57,400 --> 01:59:04,840
Speaker 1: He watched them and became extremely angry at us. Oh,

1971
01:59:04,920 --> 01:59:08,960
Speaker 1: the plot. The plot is as thick as Keon's cakes, right,

1972
01:59:09,200 --> 01:59:12,280
Speaker 1: like a bono. Me think, like a pull of oatmeal.

1973
01:59:12,400 --> 01:59:14,800
Speaker 1: It's not it doesn't have a lot of water. No,

1974
01:59:14,920 --> 01:59:21,120
Speaker 1: we're talking porridge. He started yelling at us, Dakota, telling

1975
01:59:21,200 --> 01:59:23,480
Speaker 1: us that he couldn't believe we were trying to ruin

1976
01:59:23,520 --> 01:59:26,880
Speaker 1: in his relationship just because we're jealous. How he knows

1977
01:59:26,960 --> 01:59:29,640
Speaker 1: I hated Tom the whole time because he paid attention

1978
01:59:29,720 --> 01:59:32,600
Speaker 1: to Jake and not me. And how Damien was jealous

1979
01:59:32,640 --> 01:59:35,240
Speaker 1: that he was single and we weren't, and how he

1980
01:59:35,280 --> 01:59:41,440
Speaker 1: was just trying to make us as unhappy as him.

1981
01:59:41,640 --> 01:59:48,960
Speaker 1: This is just like a mess, a messy, messy, messy, messy, messy, messy,

1982
01:59:48,960 --> 01:59:52,800
Speaker 1: messy messy. How how how dare you? How dare you

1983
01:59:52,880 --> 01:59:55,600
Speaker 1: tell me the truth? And you know which by the way,

1984
01:59:55,720 --> 01:59:59,160
Speaker 1: we've confirmed that he you know he doesn't want his

1985
01:59:59,200 --> 02:00:01,480
Speaker 1: partner to see other people? How dare you tell me

1986
02:00:01,520 --> 02:00:04,680
Speaker 1: a truth that you wouldn't that would cause you to

1987
02:00:04,720 --> 02:00:06,280
Speaker 1: not want to be in a relationship? How do you?

1988
02:00:06,400 --> 02:00:08,560
Speaker 1: How dare you give me information that that I need?

1989
02:00:08,960 --> 02:00:11,720
Speaker 1: Yeah to live? People aren't ready for the truth, man,

1990
02:00:12,080 --> 02:00:15,400
Speaker 1: some people people are not ready, really are really not.

1991
02:00:16,400 --> 02:00:18,920
Speaker 1: He even used all the things we told him in

1992
02:00:18,960 --> 02:00:22,000
Speaker 1: our conversation, save for therapists, bringing up a lot of

1993
02:00:22,080 --> 02:00:24,800
Speaker 1: trauma and fears we both had confided in one another.

1994
02:00:25,320 --> 02:00:29,600
Speaker 1: Oh y, I don't like that. No contact? We don't

1995
02:00:29,600 --> 02:00:33,240
Speaker 1: bring that stuff up and see no contact? Can we

1996
02:00:33,280 --> 02:00:34,840
Speaker 1: pull that? I want to pull I want to see

1997
02:00:34,840 --> 02:00:37,440
Speaker 1: if chat or do you feel what Riley's feeling right now? Also,

1998
02:00:37,480 --> 02:00:39,920
Speaker 1: by the way, quick shout to Facebook two hundred and

1999
02:00:39,920 --> 02:00:41,760
Speaker 1: twenty two people in livestream that might be an all

2000
02:00:41,800 --> 02:00:45,920
Speaker 1: time record. Oh yeah, it might be. Yeah, almost got

2001
02:00:45,920 --> 02:00:48,120
Speaker 1: a thousand people in the live right now. We are

2002
02:00:48,120 --> 02:00:50,040
Speaker 1: cooking ladies and gentlemen anyways, just want to give that

2003
02:00:50,080 --> 02:00:53,800
Speaker 1: a cook shut up. I won't share Damien's since they

2004
02:00:53,800 --> 02:00:56,280
Speaker 1: were extremely private and personable, but let's just say he

2005
02:00:56,480 --> 02:00:59,040
Speaker 1: brought up my fear of intimacy and abandonment and that

2006
02:00:59,120 --> 02:01:02,000
Speaker 1: kind of stuff. He said that you can't see anything

2007
02:01:02,040 --> 02:01:03,840
Speaker 1: in the photo and the video, and how we just

2008
02:01:03,880 --> 02:01:06,680
Speaker 1: did it to a random who was dressed exactly like

2009
02:01:06,760 --> 02:01:09,560
Speaker 1: Tom and who had a similar tattoo. Tom has a

2010
02:01:09,600 --> 02:01:13,560
Speaker 1: huge tattoo in his arm, which he claimed he designed himself. Okay,

2011
02:01:13,800 --> 02:01:16,560
Speaker 1: I'd like to remind y'all you couldn't see his face

2012
02:01:16,720 --> 02:01:19,240
Speaker 1: very well when he was making out with the other guy,

2013
02:01:19,400 --> 02:01:21,400
Speaker 1: but you can definitely tell it's him in these other

2014
02:01:21,520 --> 02:01:25,120
Speaker 1: picks because of said tattoo, clothes, and hair, and those

2015
02:01:25,120 --> 02:01:27,280
Speaker 1: picks where you can see his face. Jake said the

2016
02:01:27,360 --> 02:01:30,320
Speaker 1: lights made it impossible to see that it's even him

2017
02:01:30,360 --> 02:01:34,400
Speaker 1: at all, basically just delusioning himself that way out of

2018
02:01:34,440 --> 02:01:34,840
Speaker 1: the truth.

2019
02:01:34,880 --> 02:01:37,720
Speaker 2: Look, sweety pies, you can lead a horse to water,

2020
02:01:38,240 --> 02:01:41,800
Speaker 2: but you cannot make the horse drink from it. We

2021
02:01:41,960 --> 02:01:43,960
Speaker 2: at this point, you got to just cut your losses

2022
02:01:44,000 --> 02:01:47,640
Speaker 2: and you're not gonna If he refuses to see the truth,

2023
02:01:48,680 --> 02:01:50,400
Speaker 2: then you just gotta be like, hey, this is what

2024
02:01:50,480 --> 02:01:53,960
Speaker 2: he wants. He wants he's like the weekend, he says,

2025
02:01:54,000 --> 02:01:57,480
Speaker 2: I don't want to know if you're playing me, just.

2026
02:01:57,480 --> 02:02:01,040
Speaker 1: Keep it on the low. Hm. So that's what he wants.

2027
02:02:01,240 --> 02:02:03,000
Speaker 1: You can't tell him the truth because you won't hear it.

2028
02:02:03,160 --> 02:02:07,280
Speaker 1: But if we know op OPI doesn't know the definition

2029
02:02:07,320 --> 02:02:09,520
Speaker 1: of keeping a low. He only knows crank it to

2030
02:02:09,640 --> 02:02:12,880
Speaker 1: eleven out of ten stage a fake intervention with a

2031
02:02:12,960 --> 02:02:15,160
Speaker 1: lie to see if you're okay with an open relationship.

2032
02:02:15,240 --> 02:02:19,720
Speaker 1: That's that's what op knows. I think that needs to that. Well,

2033
02:02:20,200 --> 02:02:24,520
Speaker 1: I like business. It's no point mind your business at

2034
02:02:24,520 --> 02:02:28,520
Speaker 1: this point. And why oba says Dakota, and that should

2035
02:02:28,560 --> 02:02:31,720
Speaker 1: be locked. I just don't think you got anything. You

2036
02:02:31,840 --> 02:02:35,680
Speaker 1: got no vertical movement here, You've got no wickle room.

2037
02:02:35,800 --> 02:02:40,520
Speaker 1: It's not gonna happen. You've already told him. Well, well, Dakota,

2038
02:02:40,840 --> 02:02:44,960
Speaker 1: my dear friend, am I wrong? Let's findast He left

2039
02:02:45,280 --> 02:02:47,600
Speaker 1: and blocked us everywhere, even leaving the group chat we

2040
02:02:47,640 --> 02:02:50,080
Speaker 1: made with all of our common friends. We explained to

2041
02:02:50,120 --> 02:02:52,400
Speaker 1: our friend group about what happened, and they also tried

2042
02:02:52,400 --> 02:02:54,720
Speaker 1: to talk some sense into Jake, which never worked. He

2043
02:02:54,880 --> 02:02:57,400
Speaker 1: just yelled at whoever told him and would then just

2044
02:02:57,440 --> 02:02:59,840
Speaker 1: block him. After he cut contact with two members of

2045
02:02:59,880 --> 02:03:01,840
Speaker 1: our friend group, we told them just to drop it

2046
02:03:02,080 --> 02:03:04,160
Speaker 1: because we didn't think it was a good idea to

2047
02:03:04,200 --> 02:03:07,400
Speaker 1: alienate Jake from all of us. We didn't hear much

2048
02:03:07,440 --> 02:03:10,240
Speaker 1: from Jake and Tom after that, since they also avoided

2049
02:03:10,320 --> 02:03:14,600
Speaker 1: us everywhere we went. In our college, Tom even switched

2050
02:03:14,640 --> 02:03:17,560
Speaker 1: classes to not be in the same room as us,

2051
02:03:18,000 --> 02:03:21,040
Speaker 1: and in our fourth and fifth year he made sure

2052
02:03:21,160 --> 02:03:23,280
Speaker 1: to have not signed up for any of the same

2053
02:03:23,360 --> 02:03:26,240
Speaker 1: classes we were in. Actually he signed up in different

2054
02:03:26,280 --> 02:03:29,280
Speaker 1: groups since our classes are all split up in different

2055
02:03:29,280 --> 02:03:32,080
Speaker 1: groups that went on different days in different hours. But

2056
02:03:32,840 --> 02:03:36,240
Speaker 1: we graduated, and after that we never talked to Jake again.

2057
02:03:37,560 --> 02:03:41,040
Speaker 1: So that was the end of the story. I know,

2058
02:03:41,160 --> 02:03:45,880
Speaker 1: it seems shocking, it's crazy. What was Jake on? But

2059
02:03:47,040 --> 02:03:53,360
Speaker 1: just like Jake, I just lied. Okay, there's more story.

2060
02:03:53,640 --> 02:03:58,600
Speaker 1: There's more story. Oh, they graduated. The next sentence says, uh,

2061
02:03:59,000 --> 02:04:01,480
Speaker 1: we graduated. After that, we never talked to Jake again

2062
02:04:02,880 --> 02:04:10,280
Speaker 1: until just last week could could I could? I dare

2063
02:04:11,360 --> 02:04:15,520
Speaker 1: ask us to down. I love your hat, but we

2064
02:04:15,600 --> 02:04:23,360
Speaker 1: might have to don the conspiracy. Conspiracy theory has What

2065
02:04:23,440 --> 02:04:26,040
Speaker 1: do you think pray tell is going to happen here

2066
02:04:26,160 --> 02:04:34,960
Speaker 1: next Dakota. I think John sees the light becomes maybe

2067
02:04:35,000 --> 02:04:41,520
Speaker 1: some kind of philanthropist. No, I don't know. I think

2068
02:04:41,600 --> 02:04:45,320
Speaker 1: John's maybe gonna pretend like nothing ever happened. That's my gut.

2069
02:04:45,560 --> 02:04:47,520
Speaker 1: That's my gut. Jake, right now, do you mean John

2070
02:04:47,600 --> 02:04:51,560
Speaker 1: or do you mean Jake? I'm sorry, Jake, I'm I

2071
02:04:51,640 --> 02:04:53,440
Speaker 1: feel like an animate Carrea. Sorry, I got lost in

2072
02:04:53,480 --> 02:04:55,800
Speaker 1: your eyes there, John and I oh, because you can

2073
02:04:55,800 --> 02:04:58,440
Speaker 1: see him so well, lady name. Uh yeah. No, I

2074
02:04:58,480 --> 02:05:00,160
Speaker 1: think Jake will try to just like be like like

2075
02:05:00,200 --> 02:05:04,680
Speaker 1: oh my god, hey and just like pretend like nothing

2076
02:05:04,800 --> 02:05:08,680
Speaker 1: is happen, and they're gonna be like that's weird. Yeah,

2077
02:05:08,720 --> 02:05:11,440
Speaker 1: that's my gut. That's because the relationship is going to

2078
02:05:11,480 --> 02:05:13,480
Speaker 1: fail and he's gonna kind of come crawling back and

2079
02:05:13,600 --> 02:05:17,000
Speaker 1: just like Yeah, I think Jake's gonna be like what

2080
02:05:17,040 --> 02:05:19,120
Speaker 1: do you what even was that? Wasn't that crazy?

2081
02:05:19,240 --> 02:05:19,280
Speaker 8: You?

2082
02:05:19,600 --> 02:05:21,640
Speaker 1: Oh? You think Jake will let it go? Yeah? I

2083
02:05:21,640 --> 02:05:24,800
Speaker 1: think Jake is just gonna pretend like nothing happened. Am

2084
02:05:24,880 --> 02:05:27,400
Speaker 1: I mixing up the character? Yeah? So oh sorry, sorry,

2085
02:05:28,160 --> 02:05:30,120
Speaker 1: I don't think I know I I screwed you. I

2086
02:05:30,120 --> 02:05:34,400
Speaker 1: screwed you. There's o P and then Jake is right.

2087
02:05:34,680 --> 02:05:36,760
Speaker 1: The Jake is the one who refuses to see the light.

2088
02:05:38,080 --> 02:05:40,000
Speaker 2: What you just I think that he's going to just

2089
02:05:40,040 --> 02:05:44,480
Speaker 2: be like that was crazy, that guy was weird, and

2090
02:05:44,520 --> 02:05:46,480
Speaker 2: they're gonna be like, no, Jake, you didn't listen to us.

2091
02:05:47,280 --> 02:05:49,520
Speaker 1: He didn't that was weird, And he's gonna be like,

2092
02:05:51,280 --> 02:05:51,840
Speaker 1: I mean, like.

2093
02:05:52,280 --> 02:05:57,400
Speaker 2: When, what, what even is weird these days?

2094
02:05:58,040 --> 02:06:00,760
Speaker 1: I think that's what I think. That's that's my guess, Dakota.

2095
02:06:00,840 --> 02:06:02,480
Speaker 1: I think that is not only a great theory, but

2096
02:06:02,560 --> 02:06:05,280
Speaker 1: I think we need to get back to reality to

2097
02:06:05,360 --> 02:06:11,720
Speaker 1: see if that is the truth. We didn't we here?

2098
02:06:13,000 --> 02:06:16,080
Speaker 1: Uh he left? Well, we found this. We found this

2099
02:06:16,280 --> 02:06:18,880
Speaker 1: out through one of the very few friends he's kept

2100
02:06:18,960 --> 02:06:21,960
Speaker 1: in touch with. Dude, I don't know what happened here, Okay,

2101
02:06:22,000 --> 02:06:24,520
Speaker 1: we go. We found this out through one of the

2102
02:06:24,600 --> 02:06:26,680
Speaker 1: very few friends we had kept in touch with after college.

2103
02:06:26,760 --> 02:06:29,000
Speaker 1: All of this I found out I found out through her.

2104
02:06:29,240 --> 02:06:31,280
Speaker 1: So I do apologize if it's not as detail as

2105
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Speaker 1: you may, hope. Apparently he had caught up with Tom.

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02:06:34,080 --> 02:06:36,400
Speaker 1: He had caught Tom with another guy, and he tried

2107
02:06:36,440 --> 02:06:38,520
Speaker 1: to do what he always did. Excuse it, say it

2108
02:06:38,520 --> 02:06:40,640
Speaker 1: was okay, it was a slip up, et cetera. But

2109
02:06:40,840 --> 02:06:47,480
Speaker 1: Tom broke up with him to be with the new guy. Scimback.

2110
02:06:48,120 --> 02:06:51,200
Speaker 2: Wow, if he's still sticking with it, you know he's like,

2111
02:06:51,280 --> 02:06:53,000
Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, we broke up and.

2112
02:06:52,960 --> 02:06:55,120
Speaker 1: He's living with another guy, but like, he'll be back.

2113
02:06:55,240 --> 02:06:58,720
Speaker 1: I feel like, if you cheat on your partner, you

2114
02:06:58,800 --> 02:07:02,000
Speaker 1: have to stay with the new person for twice the

2115
02:07:02,080 --> 02:07:04,200
Speaker 1: amount of time you were with your partner, no matter

2116
02:07:04,200 --> 02:07:07,960
Speaker 1: how Badley's golden rule. Yep, that's my golden rule. That's

2117
02:07:08,000 --> 02:07:15,520
Speaker 1: something he lives by. Well, they shared an apartment, but

2118
02:07:15,760 --> 02:07:19,080
Speaker 1: Tom owned it beforehand, so it was his apartment and

2119
02:07:19,160 --> 02:07:21,800
Speaker 1: he kicked Jake out of it. Wait say that again.

2120
02:07:21,840 --> 02:07:25,960
Speaker 1: Say that again. You can't say that they shared an apartment. Tom,

2121
02:07:26,040 --> 02:07:29,200
Speaker 1: the cheating scoundrel owned it beforehand, so it was his

2122
02:07:29,240 --> 02:07:32,120
Speaker 1: apartment and kicked Jake out of it. I can't say that,

2123
02:07:32,200 --> 02:07:36,720
Speaker 1: so you can't do it again. Sorry, sorry, thank you, Riley.

2124
02:07:36,880 --> 02:07:39,040
Speaker 1: They shared an apartment, but Tom owned it beforehand, so

2125
02:07:39,080 --> 02:07:41,680
Speaker 1: it was his apartment, and so he made sure that

2126
02:07:41,800 --> 02:07:45,640
Speaker 1: Jake was out of the apartment. There we go, thank you.

2127
02:07:46,120 --> 02:07:51,000
Speaker 1: I think it's the verb followed by the noun. Yes,

2128
02:07:51,280 --> 02:08:00,680
Speaker 1: that's exactly Jake, That's probably what it was. Yet, guys,

2129
02:08:00,720 --> 02:08:04,680
Speaker 1: we're getting crazy, yes crazy?

2130
02:08:04,720 --> 02:08:05,040
Speaker 8: Stream?

2131
02:08:05,280 --> 02:08:07,400
Speaker 1: Is this ten hours? Do we want to do it?

2132
02:08:07,440 --> 02:08:09,960
Speaker 2: I saw some people screaming for a TLDR in there.

2133
02:08:10,880 --> 02:08:13,920
Speaker 2: I can give you the t lst d R of

2134
02:08:14,000 --> 02:08:14,480
Speaker 2: all time.

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02:08:14,560 --> 02:08:19,840
Speaker 1: Go. So, Op's friend, the Jake is your boyfriend named Tom?

2136
02:08:19,920 --> 02:08:23,720
Speaker 1: All right, Tom's cheating on Jake. Op goes through an

2137
02:08:23,760 --> 02:08:30,720
Speaker 1: elaborate plan to expose Tom's infidelity. Jake refuses to see

2138
02:08:30,760 --> 02:08:35,640
Speaker 1: the truth, so they stopped talking, and now we're caught up.

2139
02:08:37,160 --> 02:08:42,400
Speaker 1: But now Tom cheated so aggressively Jake wouldn't accept it.

2140
02:08:42,480 --> 02:08:44,720
Speaker 1: And now Tom's just like, I'm gonna get with the

2141
02:08:44,720 --> 02:08:49,160
Speaker 1: scouching with your kick out. Okay, now we're coding. We

2142
02:08:49,280 --> 02:08:52,840
Speaker 1: got a baby. Two plus two equals five, so because

2143
02:08:52,840 --> 02:08:56,760
Speaker 1: we're overachievers, that's correct. Jake had to move in with

2144
02:08:56,800 --> 02:08:59,120
Speaker 1: his parents for some time and then get a new

2145
02:08:59,120 --> 02:09:02,320
Speaker 1: apartment of his own, but he's obviously distraught. After all,

2146
02:09:02,760 --> 02:09:05,840
Speaker 1: he was just dumped and now lost a relationship of

2147
02:09:06,000 --> 02:09:12,640
Speaker 1: almost six years. I mean, was it really a relationship

2148
02:09:12,640 --> 02:09:15,120
Speaker 1: of six years? If he's just been like, you know,

2149
02:09:15,320 --> 02:09:19,640
Speaker 1: like back sated and cheated on like for most of it.

2150
02:09:19,640 --> 02:09:24,480
Speaker 1: It's tempting to think that. But remember Jake is de Lulu,

2151
02:09:25,080 --> 02:09:28,080
Speaker 1: so in the lululand he was in a relationship with

2152
02:09:28,120 --> 02:09:32,440
Speaker 1: Tom for six years. It's true. It's true. InLu Land,

2153
02:09:32,520 --> 02:09:35,720
Speaker 1: you can't see the truth of reality. You can't. You

2154
02:09:35,800 --> 02:09:39,000
Speaker 1: only see thelu the thick for the trees. I might

2155
02:09:39,000 --> 02:09:40,840
Speaker 1: have messed that up, but that's okay. You know what.

2156
02:09:40,920 --> 02:09:44,400
Speaker 1: I like that you said thick. I like thick. I

2157
02:09:44,480 --> 02:09:48,560
Speaker 1: like sweeping. Canadian teams deal with it, so I hope.

2158
02:09:48,560 --> 02:09:51,440
Speaker 1: He says he has been slowly talking talking to the

2159
02:09:51,480 --> 02:09:53,720
Speaker 1: friend he cut ties with after they tried to warn

2160
02:09:53,800 --> 02:09:56,360
Speaker 1: him about Tom, and he recently began talking to them

2161
02:09:56,400 --> 02:10:01,120
Speaker 1: about wanting to apologize to Damien and I, however, I

2162
02:10:01,120 --> 02:10:02,760
Speaker 1: don't know if I ever want to talk to him again.

2163
02:10:03,040 --> 02:10:05,520
Speaker 1: He had said some incredibly hurriful things about us. He

2164
02:10:05,560 --> 02:10:07,720
Speaker 1: insulted us, brought up all the things we told him

2165
02:10:07,720 --> 02:10:10,080
Speaker 1: in private and threw it in our faces. And now

2166
02:10:10,080 --> 02:10:11,840
Speaker 1: he wants to apologize and I don't even want to

2167
02:10:11,840 --> 02:10:13,640
Speaker 1: look at him or have him in the same building

2168
02:10:13,680 --> 02:10:17,040
Speaker 1: as me. Damian's currently living in another province state for

2169
02:10:17,120 --> 02:10:19,840
Speaker 1: those who for people use that name, so he's away

2170
02:10:19,880 --> 02:10:23,720
Speaker 1: from us, So he's away from this, but I'm still

2171
02:10:23,760 --> 02:10:26,200
Speaker 1: staying in our town, meaning I can't escape him much.

2172
02:10:26,440 --> 02:10:28,400
Speaker 1: I was talking to a friend about it, trying to

2173
02:10:28,440 --> 02:10:30,960
Speaker 1: see what to do, and she said that she understood,

2174
02:10:31,160 --> 02:10:33,680
Speaker 1: but that I should try to be empathetic for his situation.

2175
02:10:34,040 --> 02:10:36,400
Speaker 1: I told her, I can't feel empathy for someone who

2176
02:10:36,400 --> 02:10:39,800
Speaker 1: willingly adored everything his boyfriend did and then cut ties

2177
02:10:39,840 --> 02:10:42,400
Speaker 1: with everyone who tried to show him the truth. I

2178
02:10:42,520 --> 02:10:45,600
Speaker 1: told her, I understand. He's sad and upset, and we

2179
02:10:45,640 --> 02:10:48,440
Speaker 1: told him multiple times many years ago that this guy

2180
02:10:48,520 --> 02:10:50,720
Speaker 1: was bad news, that he was a cheater, a d

2181
02:10:51,280 --> 02:10:53,280
Speaker 1: and he ignored all of it just to be with

2182
02:10:53,320 --> 02:10:56,200
Speaker 1: a mediocre looking guy who had no personality at all.

2183
02:10:56,680 --> 02:10:58,600
Speaker 1: He can cry all he wants. I do not feel

2184
02:10:58,600 --> 02:11:00,880
Speaker 1: bad for him. He could jump out of the relationship

2185
02:11:00,920 --> 02:11:04,400
Speaker 1: and then instead stayed in the train headed for the

2186
02:11:04,400 --> 02:11:07,280
Speaker 1: cliff and is now shocked that the train fell off

2187
02:11:07,280 --> 02:11:09,880
Speaker 1: the cliff. He can go cry to the crying factory,

2188
02:11:10,080 --> 02:11:12,800
Speaker 1: but he better not come to me to do it.

2189
02:11:13,120 --> 02:11:16,840
Speaker 1: Rough translation, it was said in Spanish. Cry to the

2190
02:11:16,880 --> 02:11:21,400
Speaker 1: crying factories. My new favorite thing. Cry go crying the

2191
02:11:21,440 --> 02:11:25,520
Speaker 1: crying factory. Bro, Cry to the crime factory. They probably

2192
02:11:25,560 --> 02:11:28,080
Speaker 1: need you over there. They're trying to increase production. You

2193
02:11:28,120 --> 02:11:31,120
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. You're increase production. You'd probably be

2194
02:11:31,200 --> 02:11:40,200
Speaker 1: manager in like six months. Increase tier pro tearduction, yes,

2195
02:11:40,200 --> 02:11:42,760
Speaker 1: pro te reduction yea, yeah, yeah, yeah I said that

2196
02:11:42,840 --> 02:11:45,160
Speaker 1: an it made sense yea, yeah, yeah yeah. And I'm

2197
02:11:45,160 --> 02:11:47,520
Speaker 1: off of whatever's in this class. I'm off of a

2198
02:11:47,560 --> 02:11:53,680
Speaker 1: mysterious translucent liquid, mysterious trans loosen juice. I almost said

2199
02:11:53,680 --> 02:11:57,200
Speaker 1: another way. Anyways, by the way, guys, speaking of those

2200
02:11:57,280 --> 02:12:01,360
Speaker 1: kinds of things, we have a Podcas asked, Yeah, dude,

2201
02:12:01,400 --> 02:12:04,280
Speaker 1: It's on Spotify, It's on Google podcast, it's on Apple

2202
02:12:04,320 --> 02:12:07,480
Speaker 1: Podcasts if you want to just search, Okay, story time.

2203
02:12:07,880 --> 02:12:10,680
Speaker 1: I just go there and just listen to full, full

2204
02:12:10,720 --> 02:12:16,400
Speaker 1: episodes of stories like this, Dakota, just like this weekday Ah, identical,

2205
02:12:16,880 --> 02:12:20,000
Speaker 1: identical stories like this. But Dakota, we're almost at the

2206
02:12:20,040 --> 02:12:23,680
Speaker 1: end of the story. We what are we thinking here?

2207
02:12:23,800 --> 02:12:26,040
Speaker 1: I mean, what's going through your head as we come

2208
02:12:26,080 --> 02:12:29,200
Speaker 1: to a cloth. Hey, wow, my god. Sometimes you meet

2209
02:12:29,240 --> 02:12:30,960
Speaker 1: people and know people in your life and then they

2210
02:12:30,960 --> 02:12:35,120
Speaker 1: turn out to be like, you know, uh, liars like

2211
02:12:35,320 --> 02:12:38,560
Speaker 1: Tom Right, who's bad. And sometimes you have friends who

2212
02:12:38,560 --> 02:12:41,760
Speaker 1: are dating people like Tom and then they get real

2213
02:12:41,880 --> 02:12:45,440
Speaker 1: mean and nasty towards you. And guess what, you know

2214
02:12:45,480 --> 02:12:48,000
Speaker 1: what happens after they do that to you? What happens, Dakota?

2215
02:12:48,080 --> 02:12:51,120
Speaker 1: You don't have to be friends with them anymore. Oh,

2216
02:12:52,040 --> 02:12:56,000
Speaker 1: you can cut them out of your life. Okay, you

2217
02:12:56,000 --> 02:12:56,360
Speaker 1: don't have to.

2218
02:12:56,320 --> 02:13:00,560
Speaker 2: Feel bad about it because they've shown you that they stink.

2219
02:13:01,560 --> 02:13:03,440
Speaker 1: Sometimes we don't need stinky people in it.

2220
02:13:03,520 --> 02:13:06,640
Speaker 2: Sometimes, you know they clearly they tolerated the stink for

2221
02:13:06,680 --> 02:13:10,840
Speaker 2: a while, but at one point the stink gets so

2222
02:13:10,960 --> 02:13:13,600
Speaker 2: acute you can't ignore her anymore.

2223
02:13:15,320 --> 02:13:18,000
Speaker 1: I see your point. I'm gonna ask you this question,

2224
02:13:18,360 --> 02:13:21,680
Speaker 1: and I also am gonna ask for a poll for

2225
02:13:21,760 --> 02:13:25,440
Speaker 1: the chat ahole or not. Is OPI and a hole

2226
02:13:25,440 --> 02:13:30,440
Speaker 1: are not? I think while Opia has every right in

2227
02:13:30,520 --> 02:13:35,880
Speaker 1: the world to basically say, hey, look, I tried to

2228
02:13:35,920 --> 02:13:39,920
Speaker 1: warn you. I I if you wanted to come to me,

2229
02:13:40,000 --> 02:13:41,880
Speaker 1: and any of the times I was trying to get

2230
02:13:41,920 --> 02:13:44,880
Speaker 1: through to you, of which there were many. Yes, I

2231
02:13:44,920 --> 02:13:47,320
Speaker 1: think we could have reconciled at that point, but at

2232
02:13:47,320 --> 02:13:51,280
Speaker 1: this point I just can't waste my energy anymore. And

2233
02:13:51,320 --> 02:13:53,280
Speaker 1: it's years later and I've moved on trying to I

2234
02:13:53,360 --> 02:13:55,960
Speaker 1: just don't want to entertain that. I feel like you

2235
02:13:56,000 --> 02:13:59,440
Speaker 1: could have accomplished the same thing without saying go cry

2236
02:13:59,480 --> 02:14:03,080
Speaker 1: to the crying factory. Do you think OPI was an

2237
02:14:03,120 --> 02:14:06,400
Speaker 1: ahole for saying what he did? Is it justified? I mean,

2238
02:14:07,040 --> 02:14:10,960
Speaker 1: because this person is is shooting back at them. It's

2239
02:14:11,000 --> 02:14:15,840
Speaker 1: like Jake was being nasty. It's not like Jake was like,

2240
02:14:16,000 --> 02:14:19,760
Speaker 1: I mean, guys, he's fine. It was like he's fine.

2241
02:14:19,800 --> 02:14:24,640
Speaker 1: And also you suck, and it's like what I'm I

2242
02:14:24,680 --> 02:14:28,520
Speaker 1: saw your boyfriend suck in someone's face. You're right, like,

2243
02:14:28,920 --> 02:14:34,160
Speaker 1: now I suck? Hmm. So yeah, I think if he's like, oh.

2244
02:14:33,960 --> 02:14:35,680
Speaker 2: My god, I can't believe, it's like, yeah, go cry

2245
02:14:35,760 --> 02:14:37,360
Speaker 2: to the crying factory, little cry boy.

2246
02:14:38,480 --> 02:14:41,360
Speaker 1: I have no sympathy for your tears. I already told you,

2247
02:14:41,520 --> 02:14:44,360
Speaker 1: Sophia gonna happen. Sophia, Callan why is he the a hole?

2248
02:14:44,480 --> 02:14:46,600
Speaker 1: Let us know? And shawna whin is you the ahole?

2249
02:14:46,680 --> 02:14:48,960
Speaker 1: Let us know? Yes, we have currently ninety six percent

2250
02:14:48,960 --> 02:14:51,040
Speaker 1: of Chat. I'm gonna withhold my decision to the end

2251
02:14:51,040 --> 02:14:53,800
Speaker 1: of the story, so you watching have gotta stick around. Yeah,

2252
02:14:53,880 --> 02:14:57,320
Speaker 1: we're gonna get to the end. Let's get opie says.

2253
02:14:57,680 --> 02:15:01,280
Speaker 1: My friend said she understood that I had all the

2254
02:15:01,320 --> 02:15:03,240
Speaker 1: right in the world to be mad and upset at him,

2255
02:15:03,360 --> 02:15:06,280
Speaker 1: but that it wasn't okay for me to not even

2256
02:15:06,320 --> 02:15:08,960
Speaker 1: feel an ounce of sympathy for him. I told her

2257
02:15:09,000 --> 02:15:11,920
Speaker 1: all of my sympathy left the moment he weaponized my trauma,

2258
02:15:12,000 --> 02:15:15,200
Speaker 1: forgot about that part and insecurities to defend himself when

2259
02:15:15,240 --> 02:15:18,320
Speaker 1: he told him about Tom cheating on him. She left,

2260
02:15:18,480 --> 02:15:21,040
Speaker 1: but she did say that it was okay for me

2261
02:15:21,240 --> 02:15:24,040
Speaker 1: to not talk to him again, but that again, it

2262
02:15:24,160 --> 02:15:27,000
Speaker 1: wasn't okay for me to not even say, oh, poor

2263
02:15:27,080 --> 02:15:31,840
Speaker 1: thing in this situation. So am I the a hole

2264
02:15:31,880 --> 02:15:34,960
Speaker 1: for not even feeling bad for my ex best friend,

2265
02:15:35,520 --> 02:15:38,280
Speaker 1: for my ex friend after his boyfriend of six years

2266
02:15:38,640 --> 02:15:41,640
Speaker 1: dumped him. Let's get a final vote from chat. Let's

2267
02:15:41,640 --> 02:15:44,960
Speaker 1: see where the numbers. Ninety four percent we do. We

2268
02:15:45,000 --> 02:15:48,640
Speaker 1: do have six percent saying the a whole almost consensus.

2269
02:15:49,280 --> 02:15:56,720
Speaker 1: I would say you're not the a hole, but it's

2270
02:15:56,760 --> 02:15:59,920
Speaker 1: not the high road, so I'll go not the A hole.

2271
02:16:01,280 --> 02:16:03,880
Speaker 1: But I do think, especially after all these years, like

2272
02:16:04,200 --> 02:16:08,000
Speaker 1: would you snap back that hard, Like if it was

2273
02:16:08,480 --> 02:16:10,440
Speaker 1: I don't know what the timeline of like years ago

2274
02:16:10,480 --> 02:16:12,080
Speaker 1: it was, but let's say it was three or four

2275
02:16:12,160 --> 02:16:14,280
Speaker 1: years ago, would you be like, ah, I would you

2276
02:16:14,320 --> 02:16:18,120
Speaker 1: be like, I'm just I think regardless of how long

2277
02:16:18,200 --> 02:16:21,440
Speaker 1: a friendship has existed, like there are like flash points

2278
02:16:21,560 --> 02:16:23,640
Speaker 1: or like the sort of forks in the road where

2279
02:16:23,640 --> 02:16:27,360
Speaker 1: it's like something happens and it's either gonna continue or

2280
02:16:27,360 --> 02:16:31,960
Speaker 1: it's not, and it's like sure that can range, and

2281
02:16:32,000 --> 02:16:35,320
Speaker 1: it's like, I don't know, it's I mean, I've seen

2282
02:16:35,320 --> 02:16:37,600
Speaker 1: it happen before where it's like people are best friends

2283
02:16:37,600 --> 02:16:41,760
Speaker 1: and then one thing happens and it's over because it

2284
02:16:41,879 --> 02:16:45,360
Speaker 1: just cannot be overcome. Is this one of those things?

2285
02:16:45,440 --> 02:16:46,120
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know.

2286
02:16:46,160 --> 02:16:48,080
Speaker 2: It's like we're getting the Reddit breakdown and it's like

2287
02:16:48,120 --> 02:16:50,360
Speaker 2: I can see the emotional exhaustion of trying to be.

2288
02:16:50,360 --> 02:16:52,879
Speaker 1: Like please, this guy's no good for you and he's just.

2289
02:16:52,840 --> 02:16:57,440
Speaker 2: Like shut up, overcome, you don't know, and then it's like, oh,

2290
02:16:57,760 --> 02:16:59,360
Speaker 2: oh my god, he broke up with you and is

2291
02:16:59,400 --> 02:17:03,680
Speaker 2: living with the guy was seeing and you're upset. I

2292
02:17:03,840 --> 02:17:07,920
Speaker 2: don't care, dude, I freaking told you go cry at

2293
02:17:07,920 --> 02:17:14,000
Speaker 2: the cry factory.

2294
02:17:13,280 --> 02:17:20,200
Speaker 1: Okay, oh oh oh you're you think you're you think

2295
02:17:20,200 --> 02:17:24,600
Speaker 1: you're all that, but you're not. Oh okay, boggy Dakota.

2296
02:17:26,080 --> 02:17:29,480
Speaker 1: But play games. You won't play games. Okay, this is

2297
02:17:29,520 --> 02:17:33,800
Speaker 1: an attack axe model, Oh God, don't make an attack.

2298
02:17:33,959 --> 02:17:39,200
Speaker 1: Don't make it. But to close us out. I'm just

2299
02:17:39,200 --> 02:17:42,400
Speaker 1: gonna say I agree, not the A hole. Move on

2300
02:17:42,480 --> 02:17:45,640
Speaker 1: with your life. Could have been less messy too.

2301
02:17:45,680 --> 02:17:47,640
Speaker 2: It's like there's there's ways to do that where it's like,

2302
02:17:47,720 --> 02:17:49,080
Speaker 2: I think it's not so dramatic.

2303
02:17:49,160 --> 02:17:51,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, I would be less dramatic, but they're probably just dramatic.

2304
02:17:51,360 --> 02:17:54,240
Speaker 1: People could be can't can't help it, could be could

2305
02:17:54,240 --> 02:17:56,880
Speaker 1: be well you can't. Maybe they can't. You can you can't,

2306
02:17:56,920 --> 02:17:58,680
Speaker 1: but not them. Maybe they seemed like they were being

2307
02:17:58,800 --> 02:18:01,440
Speaker 1: very dramatic. Yeah, they liked the Crying Factory. It was funny,

2308
02:18:01,480 --> 02:18:04,320
Speaker 1: so people liked to live in the drama. That's right.

2309
02:18:04,400 --> 02:18:08,680
Speaker 1: But anyways, that's all votes are in, not the A hole.

2310
02:18:09,080 --> 02:18:09,800
Speaker 1: Across the board,