WEBVTT - The Good, The Bad and The Ick

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<v Speaker 1>Help We Suck At Being Newlyweds? With Dean Aungler, Haylen

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<v Speaker 1>Miller Keys, and Jared Haven.

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<v Speaker 2>An iHeartRadio podcast. What's going on?

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<v Speaker 3>Everyone, Welcome to an all new episode of Help We

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<v Speaker 3>Suck At Being Newlyweds? I am joining you from Jackson Hole. Dean,

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<v Speaker 3>we'll be joining us shortly. And Jared, where are you

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<v Speaker 3>in Rhode Island?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, of course. Uh well, now I get I shouldn't

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<v Speaker 5>say of course. I was just in Dallas. Travel in

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<v Speaker 5>the world really?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh what?

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<v Speaker 5>So the title of this podcast made me think, do

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<v Speaker 5>you guys, now you're a month in, do you suck

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<v Speaker 5>at being newlyweds?

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<v Speaker 2>I'd say some days for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>What does it mean to suck as being a newlywed?

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<v Speaker 2>Uh hmm, that's a good question.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean you would know better than me, as you've

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<v Speaker 3>been married for longer.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but you're in the midst of it, you're living

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<v Speaker 1>in yeah, yeah, past my prime.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>It's it's usually good and you know, you like come

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<v Speaker 3>off of a high from the wedding, so it's it's

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<v Speaker 3>hard to say right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you gotten any pictures?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, from the wedding? Yeah, do you have all

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<v Speaker 3>the pictures, Yeah, we have all of them.

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<v Speaker 2>We're just waiting on the full video, but we have everything.

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<v Speaker 4>Else that's going to be very nice.

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<v Speaker 5>The greatest thing about the pictures in the videos are

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<v Speaker 5>that it just takes you immediately back into that moment

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<v Speaker 5>that you never want to ever forget.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's the nice thing. You have all these because

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<v Speaker 1>you do come off the high of.

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<v Speaker 5>The wedding, but then you have all these things that

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<v Speaker 5>just kind of keep coming up, that just keep reminding

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<v Speaker 5>you of them. And now, so after the pictures and

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<v Speaker 5>the videos, then you'll start seeing friends that you haven't

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<v Speaker 5>seen since the wedding, and then you're going to be

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<v Speaker 5>reminiscing about it and you're like, oh, yeah, that feels good.

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<v Speaker 4>You know. That's the good part.

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<v Speaker 5>It's like you're going to see a friend like, oh

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<v Speaker 5>my god, I haven't seen you since the wedding. Like, oh,

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<v Speaker 5>we get to talk about it all over again. This

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<v Speaker 5>is amazing.

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<v Speaker 2>I know. I was trying.

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<v Speaker 3>I saw one of my girlfriends last week, Tory, who

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<v Speaker 3>gave a speech at the wedding, and she was just

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<v Speaker 3>filling me in an all the things that I missed,

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<v Speaker 3>and I was like whoa. A lot went down that

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<v Speaker 3>I was unaware of, So that was fun and just

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<v Speaker 3>hearing like what they did during the like off time,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, like hiking and fishing and all that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it was beautiful over there.

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<v Speaker 5>My biggest memory is the fact that Ben and Wells

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<v Speaker 5>definitely went to bed probably nine pm on the night

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<v Speaker 5>of the wedding because they were so drunk.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and they danced.

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<v Speaker 5>So hard they just disappeared. Because for a good hour

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<v Speaker 5>I was like, where the hell is Ben and Wells?

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<v Speaker 5>And then I realized that they definitely are passed out

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<v Speaker 5>right now because I went inside not looking for them,

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<v Speaker 5>but just you know, the movement of the wedding led

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<v Speaker 5>me to different parts of the venue and I was like,

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<v Speaker 5>I kept thinking. I was like, I haven't seen either

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<v Speaker 5>one of those guys. Because we were leaving so early

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<v Speaker 5>in the morning, I knew that we weren't going to

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<v Speaker 5>be able to say bye to anybody in the next morning.

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<v Speaker 5>We were out of there by like six in the

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<v Speaker 5>morning because our flight left at seven or something like that.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, that's why.

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<v Speaker 2>How did you guys leave? Because you roade with.

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<v Speaker 1>Tanya, right, But we rented a car.

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<v Speaker 5>So we oh, Okay, shout out to the app Turo.

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<v Speaker 5>This app is phenomenal. All the rental cars were gone

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<v Speaker 5>in Aspen, couldn't find one. The only car was like

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<v Speaker 5>this black car that was like fifteen hundred dollars for

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<v Speaker 5>the three days.

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<v Speaker 1>Obviously we're not going to do that. Ubers were really

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<v Speaker 1>hard to get.

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<v Speaker 5>We got an uber from the the airport to the

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<v Speaker 5>hotel the night we flew in, but it took like

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<v Speaker 5>twenty five minutes to get it. And then the next

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<v Speaker 5>day we were trying to find ubers and we just

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<v Speaker 5>couldn't find any, Like, how the hell are we going

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<v Speaker 5>to get to this venue? And Tanya and her fiance

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<v Speaker 5>were flying in and they were under the They were like,

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<v Speaker 5>we're just gonna take an uber, but now we don't

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<v Speaker 5>know what we're gonna do because we're in contact with them,

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<v Speaker 5>and then shout out to turo. I just I forget

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<v Speaker 5>who said it, but they were like, yeah, try this app,

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<v Speaker 5>see what happens. Got the car got there, so because

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<v Speaker 5>Tanya rode back with I think Beca and Haley.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, okay, yeah, that makes sense.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>We used turo once in Hawaii.

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<v Speaker 3>I think when Dean proposed we used to Row and

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<v Speaker 3>it's pretty nice.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like someone else's car.

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<v Speaker 4>It's great.

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<v Speaker 2>Is that the one where it's someone else?

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<v Speaker 1>It's like a uber for cars.

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<v Speaker 5>He showed up right to our hotel, dropped it off,

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<v Speaker 5>and I was like, Okay, I felt like I was

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<v Speaker 5>doing something wrong. Yeah, because it's there's not that much

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<v Speaker 5>of a process. You just have to scan your license.

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<v Speaker 5>I feel like with renting a car, I have to

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<v Speaker 5>sign my life away. There's so many there's so many papers.

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<v Speaker 3>So yeah, and it was so nice too, because our

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<v Speaker 3>guy just dropped us off at the airport in Hawaii

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<v Speaker 3>and I was like, this is great. This is so

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<v Speaker 3>much better than going to the rental spot then going

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<v Speaker 3>on a shuttle to the airport. And Dean's been talking

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<v Speaker 3>about renting his car out for F one Formula one,

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<v Speaker 3>because I bet wait, wait, no, no, I don't know

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<v Speaker 3>how many people are going to be renting cars for

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<v Speaker 3>Formula one, but Formula one is in like three weeks.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh.

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<v Speaker 5>I totally misunderstood that because I was like, what do

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<v Speaker 5>you mean that he's going to rent it out to

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<v Speaker 5>Formula one.

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<v Speaker 2>Race?

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<v Speaker 1>What kind of car does Dean have that I'm unaware of?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he hasn't done any action on that.

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<v Speaker 1>Dude, you walked over and you look like my dog

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<v Speaker 1>waking up in the morning, just like.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, thanks, I've already showered this morning. I feel pretty good.

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<v Speaker 4>But it's good to know I look like. No. Actually,

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<v Speaker 4>I did have the worst night of my worst sleep

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<v Speaker 4>in my life last night, so maybe uh, maybe that

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<v Speaker 4>has something to do with it. But but it's okay.

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<v Speaker 4>It's good to know I look like Thanks man, I

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<v Speaker 4>appreciate it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah anytime. Well, here's the thing.

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<v Speaker 5>This is why I never feel bad about saying Dean

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<v Speaker 5>doesn't look good.

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<v Speaker 1>Not looking good?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh please, like he's not aware of this fact Dean

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<v Speaker 5>not looking good. And Kaylin, you're in the same boat

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<v Speaker 5>where if you guys don't look good, you're still an

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<v Speaker 5>eight out of ten. You know, you're like you on

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<v Speaker 5>your worst days are an eight.

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<v Speaker 2>That's not true, but thank you.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh it's very true because I've noticed, Kaylin, I'm going

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<v Speaker 5>to say something I don't know how like to. It's

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<v Speaker 5>always weird talking about females. But you're not wearing any makeup,

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<v Speaker 5>are you correct?

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<v Speaker 2>I never do on the podcast.

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<v Speaker 4>I did just look at our big big screen. I

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<v Speaker 4>do look like I just want out of bed, so

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<v Speaker 4>I apologize, apologize.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't apologize. I love every second of it. But Caylen,

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<v Speaker 5>I was going to say, I think you are You're

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<v Speaker 5>so naturally beautiful, when I can't. You weren't wearing any makeup.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know why. Maybe it was just because of

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<v Speaker 5>the warning. But when you came on the zoom, I

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<v Speaker 5>was like, Cayle looks great. I mean you always obviously.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe I'm just.

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<v Speaker 5>It's not a flirtatious thing, like that's this is all.

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<v Speaker 5>But isn't it so hard to tell someone that, like

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<v Speaker 5>because you want to give them compliments? Like, of course

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<v Speaker 5>I want to give you compliments, both of you, because

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<v Speaker 5>you're both great people and you're both very good looking.

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<v Speaker 5>But it's always weird giving compliments to the opposite sex,

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<v Speaker 5>I could say, and.

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<v Speaker 1>No one thinks twice about it.

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<v Speaker 5>Dude, bro, I'm saying you're sexy now, okay, I'm flirting

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<v Speaker 5>with you.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, Jared, Yeah, we appreciate the compliments, man, but we

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<v Speaker 4>do looklick and it's funny to I look like and

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<v Speaker 4>it's funny because you still are glowing from your Austin experience.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know about that, I'm so pale now. My

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<v Speaker 5>spray tan went way. Sorry, Sad, I disagree with you.

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<v Speaker 5>I think I think you look good.

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<v Speaker 4>The hair's a little messier, the scruffs a little scruffier.

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<v Speaker 4>But yeah, yeah, you're welcome. Dude. You're beautiful, You're beautiful.

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<v Speaker 4>What do you want to talk about today?

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<v Speaker 1>What do I want to talk about today?

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<v Speaker 4>Just looking at the email here, yeah, well, let's let's

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<v Speaker 4>look at let's look at this real quick. So I'll

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<v Speaker 4>ask you a couple of questions that our great producers

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<v Speaker 4>put on this email for us real quick. You got

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<v Speaker 4>such great positive feedback and well wishes from fans after

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<v Speaker 4>your announcement on the pod last week. How does that feel.

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<v Speaker 1>Feels?

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<v Speaker 5>It feels great. A lot of people come into Audrey's

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<v Speaker 5>and they know about our lives, and it's very humbling.

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<v Speaker 5>Everybody always says like, oh, I'm sorry, I don't mean

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<v Speaker 5>to be creepy. I'm sure you guys get it all

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<v Speaker 5>the time too, where they just follow along and they

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<v Speaker 5>know a lot of things. But we also put it

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<v Speaker 5>on social media for that purpose, Like the reason we

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<v Speaker 5>post about it is not just for ourselves, it's for

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<v Speaker 5>everybody else who's following along on this journey. So the

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<v Speaker 5>fact that there's so many people who are aware of

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<v Speaker 5>Ashley and I's baby making story is pretty cool. So

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<v Speaker 5>it's great. Yeah, Dawson is in his prime right now, dude.

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<v Speaker 7>He is.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, he's cool.

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<v Speaker 1>He's like the only person I want to hang out

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<v Speaker 1>with now. He's just.

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<v Speaker 5>He's so happy. He's so happy, and we're in such

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<v Speaker 5>a great stage with him that it makes me look

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<v Speaker 5>forward to having another to get to that point because

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<v Speaker 5>like we all remember the infant stage Ashley and I

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<v Speaker 5>do and listen, I love baby Dawson.

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<v Speaker 4>He was the cutest thing ever.

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<v Speaker 5>But damn that was hard and the idea of doing

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<v Speaker 5>that all over again, especially on I mean, she's the

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<v Speaker 5>one who's going nine dude. It sucks for the mom.

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<v Speaker 5>Like it's the greatest obviously, you get to carry life

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<v Speaker 5>inside you. It's such a blessing, but damn, you have

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<v Speaker 5>to be pregnant for nine months, ten months, I think

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<v Speaker 5>technically speaking, and just like your body, your body is

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<v Speaker 5>just I mean your body. I don't even need to

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<v Speaker 5>go in the description. Everybody knows what happens your body

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<v Speaker 5>when you're pregnant and then you give birth and you're like, whoo,

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<v Speaker 5>that's over. Okay, now I have to raise this little one.

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<v Speaker 5>And it's like, oh man, at least, like I get

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<v Speaker 5>I don't have to go through the pregnancy part.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a very big blessing. But yeah, that's great.

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<v Speaker 4>So it's cool.

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<v Speaker 5>Uh, Dawson is just killing the game. He's dude, he

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<v Speaker 5>loves sports. He loves sports.

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<v Speaker 4>Are you sure he loves sports or you just are

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<v Speaker 4>like projecting that onto him?

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<v Speaker 5>Dude, he's the one. He grabs the ball. He throws

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<v Speaker 5>it all the time, ball anytime. Like he'll point to

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<v Speaker 5>the screen football football, because he'll see a picture and

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<v Speaker 5>then like, we have a Sports Illustrated two thousand and

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<v Speaker 5>one Patriots book and he'll bring it over to me.

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<v Speaker 5>He'll call football football like yeah, bro, football. And then

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<v Speaker 5>he has a little hockey set. Now Grandpa got for

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<v Speaker 5>him two little hockey sticks alone net Dude, he freaks out.

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<v Speaker 1>He just loves hitting the ball.

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<v Speaker 5>And we're like go and he starts screaming because it's

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<v Speaker 5>so it's so funny. How Ashley was known for this

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<v Speaker 5>laugh cry where she's laughing and then she starts crying

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<v Speaker 5>and then she's laughing and crying at the same time dude,

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<v Speaker 5>Dawson does the same thing. I don't know if it's

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<v Speaker 5>just a baby thing or if it's because he came

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<v Speaker 5>from Ashley, but he'll get so excited.

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<v Speaker 1>He's like it's like, you don't know if he's crying

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<v Speaker 1>or laughing. He's so excited.

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<v Speaker 5>Then he'll just like bite things because he just like

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<v Speaker 5>can't contain himself. Like, bro, that's pretty cool, and.

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<v Speaker 4>You're gonna have another one of those running around pretty soon.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I mean we'll see boy girl. I mean, uh,

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<v Speaker 5>Ashley doesn't care if it's a girl care either. I mean,

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<v Speaker 5>I prefer a girl, just because I would like Ashley

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<v Speaker 5>to have a girl. And girls apparently are easier. Watch

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<v Speaker 5>I'm gonna get so many people being like, oh, really,

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<v Speaker 5>the easier and then they'll just tell me horror stories.

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<v Speaker 5>But I've heard from the masses that girls are usually

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<v Speaker 5>easier up to a certain point because they're just calmer.

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<v Speaker 5>My niece, as much was, wasn't as much easier than Dawson.

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<v Speaker 5>Like when we go out to dinner with her, she sits,

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<v Speaker 5>she sits. Dawson does not sit.

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<v Speaker 1>He's up, he's walking, he's reaching, he's grabbing, he's throwing

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it's just like that's personality. So if we

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<v Speaker 1>have another one of Dawson doing that, that could be

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<v Speaker 1>problematic and quite stressful. But it's cool man, good things.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's what's going on.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, people are always asking about whether we move

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<v Speaker 5>out of Rhode Island as well, because you.

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<v Speaker 4>Were just talking about that like a couple like a

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<v Speaker 4>month ago.

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<v Speaker 1>I know.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, people always ask now because they're curious whether we're

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<v Speaker 5>going to move or not if we have a second one,

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<v Speaker 5>because Ashley's very open about how much help her family

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<v Speaker 5>is and they are so helpful.

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<v Speaker 1>There's so hands on. I don't I don't know. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys are you know in between like you're because

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<v Speaker 1>if you guys moved to Denver, you've been thinking about

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<v Speaker 1>keeping the place in Vegas too, So I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe we'll have I just don't know if we have

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<v Speaker 1>the financial stability to keep two places, but who knows.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll say. Plus Audrey's like, I need to bear there

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<v Speaker 1>a lot, but we.

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<v Speaker 4>Would have rent. We would rent our Vegas place out

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<v Speaker 4>what's going on with the Colorado house. We are still

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<v Speaker 4>in talks and figuring out which one we want. But

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<v Speaker 4>if we were to move to Colorado. We would hopefully

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<v Speaker 4>find like long term renters to live in our Las

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<v Speaker 4>Vegas house. You know, it's hard to say goodbye to

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<v Speaker 4>that super low mortgage rate.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's the goal. But so far I've fallen in

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<v Speaker 3>love with five houses. We haven't gotten any of.

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<v Speaker 2>Four or five.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but the newest one that I fell in love

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<v Speaker 3>with as of yesterday has an ADU, so we could

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<v Speaker 3>like it's in it's closer to Aspen than the previous

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<v Speaker 3>houses were, so we could rent it out. People could

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<v Speaker 3>like come for ski season for fall and make some

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<v Speaker 3>money off of that.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the goal at least.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you guys could come and have a free place

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<v Speaker 4>to stay whenever you wanted.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll charge you, but yeah, you free.

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<v Speaker 4>What I said free, I didn't actually mean free. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>I mean free for it. Yeah, it's not free free,

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<v Speaker 4>it's just free. You still pay for it. So we'll

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<v Speaker 4>see what happens with that. I am not I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>Kaylen seems to be more gung ho about moving in

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<v Speaker 4>sooner other than later.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, and here's why.

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<v Speaker 3>Because we keep hearing from our realtor that the market

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<v Speaker 3>dies in the winter. Nobody's everybody wants to buy an

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<v Speaker 3>aspin and like spring, summer, fall, and then as soon

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<v Speaker 3>as winter hits, all of the prices drop.

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<v Speaker 2>So I feel like this is the best time.

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<v Speaker 3>And I think, not that anyone knows, but I think

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<v Speaker 3>prices are just going to keep going up. So I'm like,

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<v Speaker 3>if this is these are the prices now, imagine what

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<v Speaker 3>they're going to be a year from now.

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<v Speaker 4>But also you realize that February or like winter's over

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<v Speaker 4>in February on November.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but I still want to look.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and if we find something, then let's snatch it.

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<v Speaker 4>But like, what if we waited for extra months and

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<v Speaker 4>waited till February and that house dropped two hundred thousand dollars.

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<v Speaker 2>And what if someone bought it?

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<v Speaker 4>But what if it dropped four hundred thousand dollars?

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<v Speaker 1>So that's okay, So that makes sense.

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<v Speaker 5>So your realtor is saying that because prices will drop,

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<v Speaker 5>people are going to jump on it more so it'll

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<v Speaker 5>be more competitive. So now, nous.

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<v Speaker 4>So what we think is, since it's harder to sell

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<v Speaker 4>a house in Colorado in the winter, if we wait

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<v Speaker 4>until winter to buy the house, the seller will be

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<v Speaker 4>more motivated to sell and come down and meet our

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<v Speaker 4>asking price.

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<v Speaker 3>Because but the house we're looking at right now has

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<v Speaker 3>already been on the market for like one hundred some

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<v Speaker 3>days and they've already dropped it in price. So and

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<v Speaker 3>we heard that they're pretty eager to sell. So hopefully,

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<v Speaker 3>but honestly, the houses that we've seen on the.

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<v Speaker 2>Site, they go so fast like that.

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<v Speaker 3>We had probably ten on our list, and I think

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<v Speaker 3>eight of those were pending within like two days.

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<v Speaker 4>Well not necessarily though, when we found them on the internet,

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<v Speaker 4>they were already pending. It's not like we found them

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<v Speaker 4>one day there for sale, next day they were pending.

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<v Speaker 2>No.

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<v Speaker 3>No, no, So our realtor sends us a list. I'm right, no,

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<v Speaker 3>he sends us a list, and then he text to us.

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<v Speaker 3>We sent him a list of ten and he was like, hey,

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<v Speaker 3>these ones just became pending.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, I'll just disagree, but I won't. I won't push

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<v Speaker 4>it any further on it. But yeah, hopefully we get

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<v Speaker 4>something there soon. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So you guys are in Jacksonville right now.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, we're in Jackson Hole, staying at cloud Vale Hotel.

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<v Speaker 4>Jackson's a pretty dope spot. Have you ever been out

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<v Speaker 4>to Jackson It's pretty cool. There's some great mountains. The

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<v Speaker 4>Grand Tetons are here, yellow Stone is right up the road.

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<v Speaker 4>It's just a nice It's actually the most expensive. I

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<v Speaker 4>think it's the most expensive town in America. I'm pretty

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<v Speaker 4>sure that's his stat right, more than tell your I

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<v Speaker 4>would tell your ID. Is so random to think that

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<v Speaker 4>that's the most expensive one. No, Jackson Hall, I'm pretty

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<v Speaker 4>sure is. Or maybe it saw the biggest increase in

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<v Speaker 4>price over the past like five years or something like that.

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<v Speaker 4>But yeah, it's like where old rich money comes to

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<v Speaker 4>to live, I guess. And so we're just walking around,

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<v Speaker 4>we're hanging out. My brother lives hour away, so he's

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<v Speaker 4>gonna come and hang out today, I think. And we're

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<v Speaker 4>gonna rock climb. Kaitlin's knockingna rock climb. She's gonna she's

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<v Speaker 4>gonna shop. I guess that sounds fun. Yeah, I guess

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<v Speaker 4>that's all we got, though.

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<v Speaker 1>I would probably rather shop than rock climb.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, I've got I've had a messed up shoulder

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<v Speaker 3>for the past couple of weeks, so there's no chance

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<v Speaker 3>I can lift myself off.

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<v Speaker 4>A mountain, gotcha. That's why you're not climbing.

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<v Speaker 3>There's a lot of reasons I'm not okay, probably yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>the first and foremost, but yeah, who knows, he knows

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<v Speaker 3>what's gonna happen.

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<v Speaker 4>After two and a half years.

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<v Speaker 1>He was cheating while you were pregnant.

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<v Speaker 2>We're pregnant. Yeah, about thirteen women.

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<v Speaker 1>More like if I would have stayed married to Max,

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<v Speaker 1>I think he would.

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<v Speaker 4>Have achieved forever it was. It was just toxic relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>Michael costs and returns to wind Down with Janet Kramer.

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<v Speaker 2>Flying Down with Janet Kramer and Michael Coffin, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't want to miss this three pruni on iHeartRadio or

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<v Speaker 1>wherever you get your podcast. We went to a launch,

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<v Speaker 1>which is an indoor trampoline park around here, and Dawson

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<v Speaker 1>loved it, but they had a it was so much

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<v Speaker 1>fun he lost it.

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<v Speaker 7>Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>There was also like a mini adult obstacle course kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like American Ninja Warrior.

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<v Speaker 5>Which of course I had to try. Yeah, And so

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<v Speaker 5>there was it was an easy, medium and hard. So

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<v Speaker 5>I was like, all right, let me do the medium one.

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<v Speaker 5>It was fun and I did it. It had one

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<v Speaker 5>of those ladders, you know how the ladders are like

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<v Speaker 5>it's pointed upwards and then you climb up the ladder

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<v Speaker 5>and then as you climb it, you know, it takes

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<v Speaker 5>your way down.

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<v Speaker 4>So I did that.

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<v Speaker 5>I had to swing across the rings and then I

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<v Speaker 5>had there was a rope and I had to like

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<v Speaker 5>tally myself.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm gonna post.

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<v Speaker 5>About it cause I'm very proud because I was able

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<v Speaker 5>to completely.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I look like a jackass, but I.

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<v Speaker 4>Always see those videos and I'm like, dang, that looks

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<v Speaker 4>suck so much fun. But you completed the You completed

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<v Speaker 4>the course.

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<v Speaker 5>I completed it was so the course is very It's

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<v Speaker 5>only probably like five or six you know, it's not

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<v Speaker 5>that extensive. But it made me think I wish that

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<v Speaker 5>there was an adult obstacle course because I would go there.

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<v Speaker 5>I wish the gym had an adult obstacle course because

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<v Speaker 5>I it was such a good workout. Dude, my entire

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<v Speaker 5>upper body. Like I lift pretty consistently and I can

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<v Speaker 5>feel when i'm I'm gaining mass. But dude, doing that

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<v Speaker 5>obstacle course, I never felt stronger in my life once

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<v Speaker 5>I was done, because it's amazing how carrying your own

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<v Speaker 5>weight is. I think even a better workout than actually lifting.

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<v Speaker 5>So I was like, dude, if I could do an

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<v Speaker 5>obstacle course, I would a look forward to it, be

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<v Speaker 5>attended more and see probably be in better shape that

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<v Speaker 5>I am right now.

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<v Speaker 1>So my point being Dean is.

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<v Speaker 5>I can I can see your fascination with like rock

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<v Speaker 5>climbing and hiking, because it's.

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<v Speaker 4>Like, why don't you just go to that gym every day?

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<v Speaker 5>It's not a gym, it's an indoor it's a kid's

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<v Speaker 5>tramp leane park that they had a small portion for

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<v Speaker 5>I probably most likely teenagers, but I just took it

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<v Speaker 5>as an adult session.

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, well, I'm gonna do it.

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<v Speaker 2>Instead of your softball league, you should have a Ninja

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<v Speaker 2>warrior league.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, there you go. Did you did you try the

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<v Speaker 4>hard portion of that obstacle course? No?

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<v Speaker 1>You know what it was too.

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<v Speaker 5>There was two So the guy was like, I've only

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<v Speaker 5>seen one person to complete the hard portion.

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<v Speaker 1>So the last part of it, there's two.

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<v Speaker 5>Like wooden planks that are played like three by three

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<v Speaker 5>and it's the ones where you have to hold on

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<v Speaker 5>by the side with your fingertips and then like slide

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<v Speaker 5>yourself across.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, bah, there's no way, my fingers are

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<v Speaker 1>not that strong.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. Caitlin always thinks that I should do those shows.

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<v Speaker 4>And whenever you like see someone that's actually really good

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<v Speaker 4>at it do it, you realize how impossibly hard all

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<v Speaker 4>of those things are.

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<v Speaker 3>Just because they make it look so easy. But we

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<v Speaker 3>actually have been watching Special Forces. Have you watched it?

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<v Speaker 3>The one Nicks on right now? Oh my gosh, I

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<v Speaker 3>love it. It's so good, and I want Deane to

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<v Speaker 3>go on. It's so bad because every single thing he's like,

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<v Speaker 3>that's easy, that's easy, and I mean it looks impossible

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<v Speaker 3>to me.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm just talking the whole time too, but it's obviously

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<v Speaker 4>not easy. It looks incredibly challenging. But I can't imagine.

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<v Speaker 4>Would you do a lot of those people leave after

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<v Speaker 4>like that?

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<v Speaker 2>No chance, absolutely not.

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<v Speaker 3>All of those shows that he wants to do, like

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<v Speaker 3>uh so this one Special Forces Survivor even we were

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<v Speaker 3>watching amazing race last night and we've talked about doing

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<v Speaker 3>it for so long. But I'm like, shoot, maybe he

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<v Speaker 3>would be better off with this brother than me.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I definitely would be, yeah, but if you more

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<v Speaker 4>fun with you.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just this season everyone's complaining a lot more so

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, shoot, maybe this isn't meant for me.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, Special Forces, I've heard is only about eight days

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<v Speaker 5>of filming.

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<v Speaker 4>That's crazy to me. Just suffer for eight days, I

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<v Speaker 4>can't imagine. Like Tara Reid and I can't remember many

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<v Speaker 4>of the other names, but they were leaving after like

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<v Speaker 4>one or two days, and it's like, you guys have

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<v Speaker 4>been there for two days. I'm sure it sucks, but

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<v Speaker 4>it's two days.

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<v Speaker 2>I do get where Tara Reid was coming from.

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<v Speaker 3>Where you have these guys that are like two hundred

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<v Speaker 3>and fifty pounds, like big muscular guys, and you have

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<v Speaker 3>little small Tara Reid, who's like, why why am I

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<v Speaker 3>carrying the same backpack as everyone else? Like this backpack

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<v Speaker 3>is the size of me. So I do you know,

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<v Speaker 3>Tara complained a lot on that show for one day,

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<v Speaker 3>but I do get where she was coming.

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<v Speaker 2>From at that point.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I suppose that's true, but still eight days of filming.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't even know it was that short. But have

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<v Speaker 4>you talked to Nike ad All about it now?

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<v Speaker 1>A little bit? Not really.

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<v Speaker 5>Ashley was the one I think who talked to someone

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<v Speaker 5>about it because she told me, because I was like,

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<v Speaker 5>of course, we asked the same question, like, Ashley, would

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<v Speaker 5>you be able to do this, and she's like, I

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<v Speaker 5>feel like I could do anything for eight days, like

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<v Speaker 5>I could do it.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm like, yeah, I think I think you could do it.

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<v Speaker 5>I think you could do it for eight days too,

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<v Speaker 5>because you just you see the light at the end

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<v Speaker 5>of the telem Here's what I think wood should be

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<v Speaker 5>so cool because I also like Special Forces. I don't

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<v Speaker 5>watch a lot of TV, but I've been watching this

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<v Speaker 5>and uh, I think it would be fun.

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<v Speaker 4>Caylen.

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<v Speaker 1>The reason I asked if you would do it is

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<v Speaker 1>if they did a like.

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<v Speaker 5>Couples not Bachelor, Like, of course they would have Bachelor,

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<v Speaker 5>but they would have you know, vander Pomp or different

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<v Speaker 5>like you know, reality TV personalities, but there would be couples,

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<v Speaker 5>and so they would have one for Bachelor, and it

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<v Speaker 5>could be like, you guys could be the first couple

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<v Speaker 5>from Bachelor, and then there would be a couple from

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<v Speaker 5>whatever Housewives or stuff like that, because that would be

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<v Speaker 5>an interesting dynamic if it was teams and so it

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<v Speaker 5>would be you, it would be Daning Kaylen versus so

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<v Speaker 5>on and so forth. And to see that dynamic of

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<v Speaker 5>you guys having to work together to achieve you know,

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<v Speaker 5>the goal and I would find that interesting. I would

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<v Speaker 5>find that very interesting to.

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<v Speaker 4>Be a lot of me yelling at Kaylen, her crying

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<v Speaker 4>and then yelling back at me, and then me getting

0:22:54.480 --> 0:22:56.600
<v Speaker 4>angry at her yell TV so that I started yelling

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<v Speaker 4>at her. Yeah, so let's not do that for the

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<v Speaker 4>sake of our marriage. Yeah.

0:23:01.320 --> 0:23:03.520
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but you guys will probably get money.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I'll do anything. I'd do a lot of weird

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<v Speaker 4>things for a lot of money. Nick actually is doing

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<v Speaker 4>pretty well for himself this season, though in that show.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not shocked by that. Dude, I feel like Nick

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<v Speaker 5>is underrated. Uh, He's always been underrated in the physical

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<v Speaker 5>department because he's always been ripped. But like, I don't

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<v Speaker 5>think a lot of people look at him as an athlete,

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<v Speaker 5>so to speak.

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<v Speaker 1>But dude, I'll never forget.

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<v Speaker 5>We were playing pick up basketball one time and with

0:23:30.160 --> 0:23:33.800
<v Speaker 5>one of Nick's buddies who had this beautiful court. He

0:23:33.840 --> 0:23:36.800
<v Speaker 5>had an entire indoor court in his backyard and he

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<v Speaker 5>had the Lakers emblem on it.

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<v Speaker 1>It was sick and it was five on Dean. Actually, Dean,

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<v Speaker 1>were you there? Did you play with those?

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<v Speaker 4>I don't think so? All right? Was it a Lakers

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<v Speaker 4>player's house?

0:23:46.400 --> 0:23:48.680
<v Speaker 5>No, no, No, it's just a guy who's very rich

0:23:48.680 --> 0:23:50.520
<v Speaker 5>and was a big Lakers fan and he like builds

0:23:50.560 --> 0:23:53.600
<v Speaker 5>an entire basketball court in his backyard. But we were

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<v Speaker 5>playing and dude, I remember Nick is you know, he

0:23:57.080 --> 0:23:59.240
<v Speaker 5>wasn't the greatest basketball player, but like he just knew

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<v Speaker 5>his role. Dude, he was like throwing bows at people.

0:24:02.480 --> 0:24:06.160
<v Speaker 5>He must have grabbed fifteen rebounds, had like twelve assists,

0:24:06.160 --> 0:24:08.439
<v Speaker 5>and dude, he was just boxing people out and throwing

0:24:08.440 --> 0:24:11.840
<v Speaker 5>people to the ground. Like damn, bro, Nick, You're like

0:24:12.160 --> 0:24:15.440
<v Speaker 5>you're kind of strong man, and you know, working out

0:24:15.440 --> 0:24:17.720
<v Speaker 5>with him so many times as I did, Like he's.

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<v Speaker 1>Just he was strong. He's pretty strong.

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<v Speaker 5>And when he signed up for special and he's super competitive.

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<v Speaker 5>He's so competitive. So when I found out he's on

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<v Speaker 5>Special Forces, I was like, I think he's going to

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<v Speaker 5>do pretty well.

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<v Speaker 1>And good for him. I'm happy for him.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, he seems to be doing well. Him and Tyler

0:24:34.320 --> 0:24:36.399
<v Speaker 4>are both doing pretty well. I mean, I mean, like

0:24:36.960 --> 0:24:39.680
<v Speaker 4>it's so hard not to be biased because you know,

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<v Speaker 4>Nick's our friend and Tyler I never met him, but

0:24:42.200 --> 0:24:45.480
<v Speaker 4>adjacent to him socially, so I want them to do well.

0:24:45.480 --> 0:24:47.879
<v Speaker 4>But I see them for like competing in these challenges.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm like, I don't really think anyone's going to be

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<v Speaker 4>able to beat these.

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<v Speaker 1>Guys, I know, But also Hannah won last season.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, and she was going against guys like you know,

0:24:57.160 --> 0:25:00.760
<v Speaker 5>Dwight Howard and all these professional athletes, So there's gotta

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<v Speaker 5>be you know, there's obviously a mental portion to this

0:25:06.160 --> 0:25:09.399
<v Speaker 5>that will showcase itself more towards the end, because if

0:25:09.400 --> 0:25:11.119
<v Speaker 5>it was just physical, then you're right, it would just

0:25:11.119 --> 0:25:14.480
<v Speaker 5>be guys like Tyler and Nick who always win these seasons.

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<v Speaker 5>So there's there's definitely more to it that because I

0:25:17.800 --> 0:25:21.400
<v Speaker 5>didn't finish watching the whole first season, Yeah, there has

0:25:21.440 --> 0:25:23.520
<v Speaker 5>to be some sort of mental and emotional part of it.

0:25:23.680 --> 0:25:27.119
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, like what happens if not everyone wants to leave?

0:25:27.280 --> 0:25:29.200
<v Speaker 4>Like they have to start eliminating people at some point

0:25:29.320 --> 0:25:31.320
<v Speaker 4>some way. I think Tyler is gonna win. He seems

0:25:31.359 --> 0:25:34.520
<v Speaker 4>like he's gotta got it pretty well figured out.

0:25:34.800 --> 0:25:36.679
<v Speaker 2>I say, Nick or Jojo, so you will.

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<v Speaker 4>But yeah, it's possible. I don't know. When Kelly Rizzo

0:25:41.000 --> 0:25:43.280
<v Speaker 4>was leaving in the last episode, I was like, why

0:25:43.280 --> 0:25:45.640
<v Speaker 4>don't you just do this? Wake up tomorrow and then

0:25:45.640 --> 0:25:47.600
<v Speaker 4>look back and be like that sucked, but at least I'm.

0:25:47.440 --> 0:25:49.240
<v Speaker 2>Still here right, Like the hard part's over.

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<v Speaker 4>Let's go. Yeah. So, so I want to do Special Forces.

0:25:53.680 --> 0:25:55.640
<v Speaker 4>If you're your casting director for that show and you're

0:25:55.640 --> 0:25:57.480
<v Speaker 4>out there, you're listening to this podcast, get me on

0:25:57.520 --> 0:26:00.520
<v Speaker 4>season three. Calen loves the show and she wants to

0:26:00.600 --> 0:26:01.120
<v Speaker 4>laugh at me.

0:26:01.119 --> 0:26:03.560
<v Speaker 1>So hell yeah, I get so.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, let's vocalize that because that's I feel like, certainly

0:26:07.560 --> 0:26:11.320
<v Speaker 5>not easy, but very very plausible.

0:26:12.000 --> 0:26:14.240
<v Speaker 1>Let's get deep on Special Forces next season.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, I've been working. I don't know how much

0:26:18.200 --> 0:26:21.080
<v Speaker 3>I can do. But after that, so we were watching

0:26:21.160 --> 0:26:23.000
<v Speaker 3>nat stars on Mars.

0:26:24.119 --> 0:26:25.960
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, stars on Mars is to do the show actually

0:26:26.040 --> 0:26:26.680
<v Speaker 4>was supposed to be.

0:26:26.600 --> 0:26:29.639
<v Speaker 1>On She is on it. She's on it for one episode.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh okay.

0:26:31.119 --> 0:26:31.640
<v Speaker 2>I wasn't sure.

0:26:31.720 --> 0:26:33.000
<v Speaker 3>So I wasn't going to say anything because I wasn't

0:26:32.960 --> 0:26:34.600
<v Speaker 3>sure if she had been on it already and what

0:26:34.680 --> 0:26:36.439
<v Speaker 3>the deal was. But then that one came on. I

0:26:36.480 --> 0:26:38.480
<v Speaker 3>was like, I could do that. That's something I think

0:26:38.520 --> 0:26:38.959
<v Speaker 3>I could do.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, can you has Ashley been on it yet or

0:26:43.000 --> 0:26:44.399
<v Speaker 4>do you know? Are you not allowed to talk about it?

0:26:44.440 --> 0:26:44.520
<v Speaker 1>Oh?

0:26:44.600 --> 0:26:46.879
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, so it's I'm assuming you guys are streaming it

0:26:46.880 --> 0:26:47.720
<v Speaker 5>because it's already aired.

0:26:48.720 --> 0:26:51.280
<v Speaker 3>Oh go okay, so only I only watched like half

0:26:51.320 --> 0:26:54.040
<v Speaker 3>of one episode, and I was like, okay, this seems

0:26:54.040 --> 0:26:55.800
<v Speaker 3>like something that I could do if I were to

0:26:55.840 --> 0:26:56.520
<v Speaker 3>go back on TV.

0:26:56.760 --> 0:26:58.800
<v Speaker 4>Wait, let's I want to hear all about her experience

0:26:59.000 --> 0:27:00.119
<v Speaker 4>if you're allowed to share it.

0:27:01.080 --> 0:27:03.920
<v Speaker 5>Of course, because it all aired, so she she's.

0:27:03.720 --> 0:27:06.680
<v Speaker 1>Talked about this. So she flew out. It was in Australia, dude.

0:27:06.720 --> 0:27:09.240
<v Speaker 1>She got the call two days before she flew out,

0:27:09.480 --> 0:27:11.000
<v Speaker 1>and they were like, you could be up, you know,

0:27:11.040 --> 0:27:13.600
<v Speaker 1>here for about two weeks or so and so, but

0:27:13.640 --> 0:27:15.560
<v Speaker 1>we were able to figure it out get her out there.

0:27:15.600 --> 0:27:18.600
<v Speaker 1>She flew to Australia. She flew in on this small

0:27:18.720 --> 0:27:19.680
<v Speaker 1>little plane.

0:27:19.960 --> 0:27:22.520
<v Speaker 5>Because when they flew to some part in Australia and

0:27:22.520 --> 0:27:24.040
<v Speaker 5>then actually had to fly the location, that had to

0:27:24.040 --> 0:27:27.080
<v Speaker 5>take like tiny plane and it fit like four people

0:27:27.119 --> 0:27:27.359
<v Speaker 5>on it.

0:27:27.400 --> 0:27:29.880
<v Speaker 4>And she flew with Paul Pierce, which was so cool.

0:27:30.000 --> 0:27:33.080
<v Speaker 5>Nice, and I think I think his name is Andy Richter,

0:27:33.200 --> 0:27:35.119
<v Speaker 5>the guy Conan's buddy on the.

0:27:37.160 --> 0:27:39.080
<v Speaker 4>Chebby Ish comedian guy I played off with them before.

0:27:39.119 --> 0:27:39.920
<v Speaker 4>Actually he'slarious.

0:27:40.200 --> 0:27:41.640
<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, it seems super nice.

0:27:41.720 --> 0:27:44.760
<v Speaker 5>So so she goes on and then she's in you know,

0:27:44.880 --> 0:27:48.080
<v Speaker 5>the space hold or whatever, and it's so cool. She

0:27:48.119 --> 0:27:50.160
<v Speaker 5>got to meet Marshawn Lynch and she got to meet

0:27:50.200 --> 0:27:52.520
<v Speaker 5>Lance Armstrong and Ronda Rousey and all these people, and

0:27:52.560 --> 0:27:54.520
<v Speaker 5>she said they were all very nice. She loved marsh On.

0:27:54.800 --> 0:27:58.480
<v Speaker 5>She said Marshaan was the coolest guy ever. I'm like, good, duh,

0:27:58.680 --> 0:27:59.320
<v Speaker 5>of course he is.

0:28:00.400 --> 0:28:01.080
<v Speaker 1>So she goes on.

0:28:01.640 --> 0:28:04.080
<v Speaker 5>They have one task, so they have like there's this,

0:28:05.040 --> 0:28:08.560
<v Speaker 5>you know, there's air getting through, or there's like gas

0:28:08.640 --> 0:28:10.359
<v Speaker 5>or something. There's a gas leak that they have to

0:28:10.400 --> 0:28:13.800
<v Speaker 5>plug up. So they go they do that, and then

0:28:13.800 --> 0:28:17.800
<v Speaker 5>everybody has their own individual task. Ashley's task was literally

0:28:17.920 --> 0:28:21.560
<v Speaker 5>just putting her finger on like blocking this hole on

0:28:21.600 --> 0:28:23.639
<v Speaker 5>the bottom, because some people had to stand up and

0:28:23.680 --> 0:28:25.439
<v Speaker 5>like reach up like this for like two hours to

0:28:25.440 --> 0:28:25.880
<v Speaker 5>block the.

0:28:25.800 --> 0:28:27.440
<v Speaker 1>Holes until they could fix it.

0:28:27.520 --> 0:28:30.800
<v Speaker 5>Ashley's was literally on the closest to the ground, so

0:28:30.840 --> 0:28:32.399
<v Speaker 5>she was just laying there for like an hour and

0:28:32.440 --> 0:28:34.679
<v Speaker 5>a half of their finger in this hole, just chilling.

0:28:34.880 --> 0:28:37.560
<v Speaker 1>It was very funny. It was really funny.

0:28:37.600 --> 0:28:40.760
<v Speaker 5>And then so fast forward, they come back from the

0:28:40.760 --> 0:28:43.040
<v Speaker 5>mission and this is when you start eliminating people and

0:28:43.080 --> 0:28:46.480
<v Speaker 5>the problem was there's really nobody to eliminate because everybody

0:28:46.800 --> 0:28:49.280
<v Speaker 5>they achieved the task. Everybody did their thing, so they

0:28:49.280 --> 0:28:52.880
<v Speaker 5>had to eliminate the person that had the littlest to do,

0:28:53.440 --> 0:28:56.960
<v Speaker 5>and they ended up being athlete's god.

0:28:57.320 --> 0:28:59.560
<v Speaker 4>So it wasn't even like her own fault that she

0:28:59.680 --> 0:29:01.200
<v Speaker 4>just she did what she was supposed to do, but

0:29:01.280 --> 0:29:02.760
<v Speaker 4>she was given the easiest task.

0:29:03.600 --> 0:29:05.160
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, she was given the easiest tasks that they're like,

0:29:05.160 --> 0:29:07.080
<v Speaker 5>all right, you're not mission critical, I guess, so, thank you.

0:29:07.760 --> 0:29:09.200
<v Speaker 4>And then I mean, while you're staying next to like

0:29:09.240 --> 0:29:11.520
<v Speaker 4>six foot eight Paul Pierce, who can like reach any

0:29:11.520 --> 0:29:14.760
<v Speaker 4>type of height, you know, so obviously like they want

0:29:14.760 --> 0:29:15.800
<v Speaker 4>to write him to stick around.

0:29:16.080 --> 0:29:18.240
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, and then you have all these sports athletes like

0:29:18.280 --> 0:29:21.400
<v Speaker 5>marshawn Or or Richard Truman was on it. He wasn't

0:29:21.400 --> 0:29:23.720
<v Speaker 5>on it when she was there, but then Lance Armstrong

0:29:23.920 --> 0:29:26.280
<v Speaker 5>and Paul Pierce and all these guys who are like, you.

0:29:26.200 --> 0:29:29.840
<v Speaker 4>Know, athletes and could do things. That's so funny.

0:29:30.000 --> 0:29:32.120
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so she's she enjoyed doing that.

0:29:32.240 --> 0:29:36.320
<v Speaker 5>I think it feels like Special Forces has tapped into something.

0:29:36.800 --> 0:29:39.720
<v Speaker 5>I hope Stars on Mars does well. Like Ashley left

0:29:39.760 --> 0:29:42.720
<v Speaker 5>her time on there, you know, we feel very honored

0:29:42.720 --> 0:29:44.720
<v Speaker 5>that they even considered Ashley to go on, so like

0:29:44.760 --> 0:29:47.400
<v Speaker 5>we really hope that she helped the show in any way,

0:29:47.680 --> 0:29:50.560
<v Speaker 5>and hopefully it gets renewed. But it feels like Special

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<v Speaker 5>Forces has tapped into something within the reality TV sphere

0:29:55.080 --> 0:29:56.760
<v Speaker 5>that is going to last a very long time.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, well, there's there's been shows like that around for

0:29:59.560 --> 0:30:03.240
<v Speaker 4>a while, like not in America, but there's that show

0:30:03.280 --> 0:30:05.200
<v Speaker 4>in Australia. Funny enough, you're just talking about it, isn't

0:30:05.200 --> 0:30:09.320
<v Speaker 4>it called like I'm a celebrity, Get me out of here? Yeah,

0:30:09.400 --> 0:30:11.840
<v Speaker 4>that show seems pretty hilarious and that's I mean, it's

0:30:11.840 --> 0:30:13.800
<v Speaker 4>obviously not the exact same as Special Forces, but it's

0:30:13.880 --> 0:30:16.000
<v Speaker 4>kind of in the same vein of like putting these

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<v Speaker 4>well known people through the ringer and like making them

0:30:19.040 --> 0:30:21.480
<v Speaker 4>suffer and then laughing at their expense kind of thing.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, and there's a UK version of Special Forces, which

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<v Speaker 3>I think they took the idea from, and I heard

0:30:27.040 --> 0:30:30.600
<v Speaker 3>it's like just as maybe a little bit less popular

0:30:30.640 --> 0:30:32.080
<v Speaker 3>than Love Island.

0:30:32.280 --> 0:30:33.840
<v Speaker 2>So Love Island became super popular.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know if this was their mindset and then

0:30:35.240 --> 0:30:38.840
<v Speaker 3>they were like, let's try incorporating more UK reality TV shows.

0:30:38.640 --> 0:30:39.400
<v Speaker 2>In the US.

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<v Speaker 4>So did Ashley fly to Australia, film one episode and

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<v Speaker 4>then fly directly back home.

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<v Speaker 5>Yep, she was gone for forty eight hours if that,

0:30:49.000 --> 0:30:54.600
<v Speaker 5>and it took her I mean it's like a two

0:30:54.640 --> 0:31:00.120
<v Speaker 5>hour flight, eighteen eighteen hour travel, eighteen twenty hours. She

0:31:01.160 --> 0:31:04.640
<v Speaker 5>traveled more than she spent time on the show.

0:31:05.640 --> 0:31:08.120
<v Speaker 4>Well, hopefully they compensated her well enough to make it

0:31:08.160 --> 0:31:08.600
<v Speaker 4>worth it.

0:31:09.040 --> 0:31:10.920
<v Speaker 5>Yes, it was very much worth it. We're very lucky

0:31:10.920 --> 0:31:16.840
<v Speaker 5>and grateful for that. So yeah, it's definitely worth it.

0:31:16.960 --> 0:31:18.120
<v Speaker 4>That's kind of why I want to go on one

0:31:18.120 --> 0:31:20.520
<v Speaker 4>of those shows instead of like Survivor, because Survivor you

0:31:20.560 --> 0:31:22.520
<v Speaker 4>go on you only get a million dollars if you win,

0:31:22.960 --> 0:31:24.840
<v Speaker 4>but stars on Mars you go on. I'm not saying

0:31:24.840 --> 0:31:26.840
<v Speaker 4>she got a million dollars obviously, but you're still getting

0:31:26.880 --> 0:31:30.440
<v Speaker 4>a nice little time to change for anyone one episode

0:31:30.440 --> 0:31:30.840
<v Speaker 4>that you're on.

0:31:32.680 --> 0:31:33.600
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and.

0:31:35.240 --> 0:31:40.160
<v Speaker 5>I'm I feel like there's because we're you know, it's

0:31:40.160 --> 0:31:42.440
<v Speaker 5>different than when we were first on the show. We're

0:31:42.480 --> 0:31:44.800
<v Speaker 5>like you said Survivor, right, Survivor is a show where

0:31:45.480 --> 0:31:47.880
<v Speaker 5>it's very similar to Bachelor. You pluck these people from

0:31:47.920 --> 0:31:51.120
<v Speaker 5>everyday life and put them on TV. So we're not

0:31:51.160 --> 0:31:56.440
<v Speaker 5>getting paid because we're not like, you know, we're not names.

0:31:56.680 --> 0:31:56.920
<v Speaker 4>You know.

0:31:57.320 --> 0:31:58.000
<v Speaker 1>Now it's different.

0:31:58.080 --> 0:32:00.480
<v Speaker 5>Indeed, if you went on Special Forces, I don't think

0:32:00.520 --> 0:32:03.000
<v Speaker 5>you would get paid per episode. I think you would

0:32:03.000 --> 0:32:06.600
<v Speaker 5>have a fee and then you know, they would offer

0:32:06.640 --> 0:32:08.520
<v Speaker 5>you a certain amount of money to do this show.

0:32:08.920 --> 0:32:11.520
<v Speaker 5>And it's like, if you laugh this long, you'll get

0:32:11.520 --> 0:32:13.040
<v Speaker 5>this amount of money. I think you'll just get a

0:32:13.080 --> 0:32:15.040
<v Speaker 5>flat fee and then go on the show.

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<v Speaker 4>I agree, I think that's right. But I would say, like,

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<v Speaker 4>for things like that that I want to do, I

0:32:19.800 --> 0:32:21.560
<v Speaker 4>would almost be like, I'll just do it for free.

0:32:22.120 --> 0:32:23.600
<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh. She says this about everything.

0:32:24.720 --> 0:32:26.880
<v Speaker 4>We talked about it too. It's like I would just

0:32:26.880 --> 0:32:27.640
<v Speaker 4>do it for free.

0:32:28.040 --> 0:32:28.720
<v Speaker 2>No, you wouldn't.

0:32:29.920 --> 0:32:31.400
<v Speaker 4>If they were like, hey, we have one more spot,

0:32:31.440 --> 0:32:32.960
<v Speaker 4>but we don't have any more budget, will you just

0:32:33.000 --> 0:32:35.360
<v Speaker 4>come do it for us, I'd be like one hundred percent. Yeah,

0:32:35.360 --> 0:32:37.880
<v Speaker 4>I'm there. Stars on Mars, I would do it.

0:32:37.800 --> 0:32:39.680
<v Speaker 3>For really, put your foot in your mouth here. If

0:32:39.720 --> 0:32:41.000
<v Speaker 3>they want to cast you, they know they don't have

0:32:41.040 --> 0:32:41.760
<v Speaker 3>to spend a cent.

0:32:41.920 --> 0:32:43.600
<v Speaker 4>Hey, perfect, if that's what it takes to get me

0:32:43.640 --> 0:32:45.360
<v Speaker 4>on the show, Just for them. To know that they

0:32:45.360 --> 0:32:47.120
<v Speaker 4>don't have to spend a single dollar on me. I'm

0:32:47.160 --> 0:32:50.960
<v Speaker 4>in what it's going to take. It seems like it's

0:32:50.960 --> 0:32:53.840
<v Speaker 4>fun enough for you to be making to make it

0:32:53.920 --> 0:32:57.560
<v Speaker 4>for free. Yeah yeah, but I guess we'll get to

0:32:57.600 --> 0:33:00.480
<v Speaker 4>that that when we come to it. But but yeah,

0:33:00.560 --> 0:33:03.640
<v Speaker 4>that's my dream is Special Forces or Survivor or Amazing

0:33:03.720 --> 0:33:06.240
<v Speaker 4>Race with my wife or my brother or no, no

0:33:06.640 --> 0:33:08.120
<v Speaker 4>Mars with Neil Armstrong.

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<v Speaker 5>No, no, no, got to focus on Special Forces because there's

0:33:10.720 --> 0:33:12.720
<v Speaker 5>definitely gonna be a season three. So we got to

0:33:12.720 --> 0:33:15.040
<v Speaker 5>get you on Special Forces season three because I'm assuming

0:33:15.240 --> 0:33:17.280
<v Speaker 5>it feels like this show is doing very well, they're

0:33:17.280 --> 0:33:19.160
<v Speaker 5>probably going to do a season three very quickly.

0:33:19.720 --> 0:33:21.960
<v Speaker 2>When do they film, do you know in the summer?

0:33:22.080 --> 0:33:22.920
<v Speaker 4>I have no idea.

0:33:24.600 --> 0:33:26.719
<v Speaker 5>I don't know, but I would imagine that they're going

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<v Speaker 5>to just keep pumping it out because the first season,

0:33:30.520 --> 0:33:33.640
<v Speaker 5>I mean was earlier this year, right, it was I

0:33:33.640 --> 0:33:36.479
<v Speaker 5>think springtime when it aired, and then they filmed, and

0:33:36.520 --> 0:33:39.840
<v Speaker 5>then now it's fall and there's another one. So assuming

0:33:40.080 --> 0:33:42.240
<v Speaker 5>there's probably gonna be you know, the Special Forces that airs,

0:33:42.560 --> 0:33:44.560
<v Speaker 5>you know, sometime in the spring next year, which means

0:33:44.560 --> 0:33:47.200
<v Speaker 5>they'll probably start filming here in the winter of twenty

0:33:47.240 --> 0:33:51.080
<v Speaker 5>twenty four. So because they could film anywhere in the world,

0:33:51.320 --> 0:33:54.960
<v Speaker 5>you know they can go. It doesn't you know wherever

0:33:54.960 --> 0:33:55.800
<v Speaker 5>they're going to film.

0:33:56.040 --> 0:33:57.280
<v Speaker 4>If you want to be cold, you can just go

0:33:57.280 --> 0:33:58.120
<v Speaker 4>to the other hemisphere.

0:33:58.280 --> 0:34:00.400
<v Speaker 5>Got to get the campaign out there because they'll, dude,

0:34:00.400 --> 0:34:03.000
<v Speaker 5>they'll put you on. You're a big name part of Bachelor.

0:34:03.040 --> 0:34:04.520
<v Speaker 4>I don't know. If I don't know, I'm big enough

0:34:04.520 --> 0:34:06.600
<v Speaker 4>of a controversial. But that's why I'm saying I'll work

0:34:06.640 --> 0:34:11.080
<v Speaker 4>for free. I'll give give them free labor controversial, thank

0:34:11.120 --> 0:34:14.160
<v Speaker 4>you very much. Yeah, I was watching last episode and

0:34:14.320 --> 0:34:16.600
<v Speaker 4>I don't I don't know. I don't know how I

0:34:16.640 --> 0:34:18.840
<v Speaker 4>would affair on that show, but like the boxing portion

0:34:18.920 --> 0:34:21.920
<v Speaker 4>of it, I'm not a fighter, obviously. Would I get rocked, probably,

0:34:22.560 --> 0:34:24.520
<v Speaker 4>but it'd be fun. But that's the point.

0:34:25.280 --> 0:34:29.480
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, Like everybody wants to see us reality TV personalities

0:34:29.560 --> 0:34:31.400
<v Speaker 5>just get punched in the face.

0:34:31.600 --> 0:34:32.680
<v Speaker 1>That's the point of the show.

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<v Speaker 6>Hillary Burton Morgan here, and I am excited to share

0:34:44.080 --> 0:34:47.640
<v Speaker 6>with you a new series. I'm launching a companion podcast

0:34:47.840 --> 0:34:52.560
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0:35:07.040 --> 0:35:09.960
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0:35:42.960 --> 0:35:46.200
<v Speaker 3>Also, that episode is crazy because Sandoval is just He's

0:35:46.239 --> 0:35:48.200
<v Speaker 3>like stop and he just keeps punching Nick.

0:35:48.400 --> 0:35:50.919
<v Speaker 2>I was like, dude, he said stop like ten times,

0:35:50.920 --> 0:35:51.880
<v Speaker 2>you got to stop punching it.

0:35:52.120 --> 0:35:54.000
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so I didn't see what happened.

0:35:55.120 --> 0:35:58.400
<v Speaker 3>Sandoval and Nick fought like a boxing match.

0:35:59.239 --> 0:36:02.279
<v Speaker 2>Yeah up, Sandoval one.

0:36:02.360 --> 0:36:04.120
<v Speaker 3>We thought Nick was winning the whole time, but then

0:36:04.160 --> 0:36:06.799
<v Speaker 3>Sandoval just like, I don't know. We were like, I

0:36:06.840 --> 0:36:09.120
<v Speaker 3>bet he's upset because Nick talks so much crap about

0:36:09.160 --> 0:36:12.680
<v Speaker 3>him when the whole scandaal went down, but he the

0:36:12.719 --> 0:36:15.399
<v Speaker 3>guy said stop, and Sandoval just kept going after him.

0:36:15.520 --> 0:36:17.960
<v Speaker 3>So then they're like, this guy's too fiery, so he's

0:36:18.000 --> 0:36:20.399
<v Speaker 3>got to fight someone else. So then he fought Jack

0:36:20.400 --> 0:36:21.600
<v Speaker 3>Osborne and Jack one.

0:36:24.080 --> 0:36:24.720
<v Speaker 1>Nick lost.

0:36:25.960 --> 0:36:29.239
<v Speaker 3>I it didn't. It seemed pretty even. Honestly, it's not

0:36:29.360 --> 0:36:31.799
<v Speaker 3>like he lost. They like would spar with each other

0:36:31.800 --> 0:36:34.120
<v Speaker 3>for a couple of minutes and then the guy, the

0:36:34.200 --> 0:36:35.959
<v Speaker 3>lead guy, would be like, yeah, you won, you lost,

0:36:36.000 --> 0:36:38.000
<v Speaker 3>but like no one was eliminated or anything.

0:36:38.080 --> 0:36:39.960
<v Speaker 4>It was but basically just trying to get people punched.

0:36:41.560 --> 0:36:44.000
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that makes sense. We haven't talked about dating once

0:36:44.000 --> 0:36:44.480
<v Speaker 1>this episode.

0:36:44.480 --> 0:36:46.880
<v Speaker 4>Have we Oh shucks?

0:36:47.680 --> 0:36:47.960
<v Speaker 1>I know?

0:36:48.400 --> 0:36:49.400
<v Speaker 4>Oh you know what? Who cares?

0:36:49.480 --> 0:36:53.560
<v Speaker 5>Honestly, this is so much more interesting anyway. But what

0:36:53.640 --> 0:36:55.560
<v Speaker 5>I want to do before we get going, because I

0:36:56.040 --> 0:36:59.799
<v Speaker 5>know time is quickly getting away from us, was that

0:36:59.840 --> 0:37:01.360
<v Speaker 5>there was an article that I wanted to talk to

0:37:01.440 --> 0:37:05.000
<v Speaker 5>you guys about. It was from this TikToker who's a

0:37:05.080 --> 0:37:08.560
<v Speaker 5>dating coach. Her name is Sabrina Zohar. She's thirty three.

0:37:09.120 --> 0:37:11.880
<v Speaker 5>She has over four hundred thousand followers on TikTok. But

0:37:12.120 --> 0:37:15.000
<v Speaker 5>the point is this clip went viral it says three

0:37:15.080 --> 0:37:19.480
<v Speaker 5>red flags to look for look out for early in dating.

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<v Speaker 5>What was your biggest red flag that you guys looked for?

0:37:24.280 --> 0:37:26.560
<v Speaker 5>Like what early in dating you meet someone, Like, what's

0:37:26.760 --> 0:37:27.920
<v Speaker 5>what's your biggest red flag?

0:37:29.239 --> 0:37:30.680
<v Speaker 2>I need to think for a second, do you know?

0:37:31.000 --> 0:37:32.560
<v Speaker 1>I think one of my biggest red flat flags.

0:37:32.560 --> 0:37:36.080
<v Speaker 5>I've talked about this numerous times coming from hospitality, is

0:37:36.080 --> 0:37:39.440
<v Speaker 5>how people treat their bartenders and wait staff. Yeah, dude,

0:37:39.480 --> 0:37:43.160
<v Speaker 5>you're rude to them. I couldn't the biggest quote unquote dick.

0:37:43.280 --> 0:37:45.560
<v Speaker 5>That's what the kids are saying these days. Also, I

0:37:45.600 --> 0:37:48.319
<v Speaker 5>got another ick too. I go to planing fitness. It's

0:37:48.360 --> 0:37:50.760
<v Speaker 5>near college. There's a lot of college boys and girls

0:37:50.760 --> 0:37:54.040
<v Speaker 5>that go to this gym, and there was legit. I

0:37:54.840 --> 0:38:00.400
<v Speaker 5>an ick is when girls and guys dance at the

0:38:00.440 --> 0:38:02.520
<v Speaker 5>gym to the music they're listening to on their headphones.

0:38:03.160 --> 0:38:05.279
<v Speaker 5>It's like nobody else is listening to the music that

0:38:05.280 --> 0:38:07.360
<v Speaker 5>you're listening to, and like I get like, you're pumping

0:38:07.360 --> 0:38:09.720
<v Speaker 5>yourself up. You gotta nod your head, But dude, I legit.

0:38:09.800 --> 0:38:13.080
<v Speaker 5>There these girls that like they were literally like this.

0:38:13.200 --> 0:38:13.759
<v Speaker 4>They were like.

0:38:16.080 --> 0:38:20.080
<v Speaker 7>They were doing TikTok dances like not on camera in

0:38:20.120 --> 0:38:21.759
<v Speaker 7>the mirror, just like looking at it, like, and then

0:38:21.760 --> 0:38:23.400
<v Speaker 7>they would look at each other and they're like bopping

0:38:23.440 --> 0:38:30.840
<v Speaker 7>their head and then it's like, dude, shut, does.

0:38:30.760 --> 0:38:31.719
<v Speaker 2>That mean we're getting older?

0:38:32.200 --> 0:38:36.080
<v Speaker 4>Yes? But I do agree with you. I do agree

0:38:36.120 --> 0:38:38.680
<v Speaker 4>with you very very much. So I'm trying to think

0:38:38.760 --> 0:38:41.560
<v Speaker 4>back of what my red flags were from dating. It

0:38:41.600 --> 0:38:44.759
<v Speaker 4>was hard for me to find something I didn't like

0:38:44.800 --> 0:38:48.279
<v Speaker 4>in someone on the first couple of dates. On the

0:38:48.280 --> 0:38:50.520
<v Speaker 4>first couple of dates, and then after those first few dates,

0:38:50.600 --> 0:38:54.080
<v Speaker 4>then it hit me like a freaking flood of things.

0:38:54.080 --> 0:38:55.640
<v Speaker 4>I was like, Oh, I hate this and this and

0:38:55.680 --> 0:38:57.560
<v Speaker 4>this and this and this about you. I don't ever

0:38:57.600 --> 0:38:58.560
<v Speaker 4>want to see you again.

0:38:59.360 --> 0:39:00.680
<v Speaker 2>I feel like mine is kind of similar.

0:39:00.719 --> 0:39:03.200
<v Speaker 3>I don't know, it's easy, excuse me to get the

0:39:03.239 --> 0:39:06.680
<v Speaker 3>dick from guys. I'm trying to think, like the brief

0:39:06.719 --> 0:39:08.640
<v Speaker 3>time I dated in LA, I just hated when people

0:39:08.719 --> 0:39:11.759
<v Speaker 3>name dropped. I'm like, okay, cool, you hung out with

0:39:11.800 --> 0:39:14.640
<v Speaker 3>Toby maguire once, like sweet, I don't know.

0:39:14.719 --> 0:39:16.400
<v Speaker 2>Things like that were just kind of off putting.

0:39:16.760 --> 0:39:18.759
<v Speaker 1>Did so many name drop Tom McGuire too.

0:39:19.080 --> 0:39:21.480
<v Speaker 4>That's a very specific thing to remember.

0:39:21.360 --> 0:39:25.400
<v Speaker 3>At Actually a girlfriend did a couple months ago, and

0:39:25.480 --> 0:39:26.680
<v Speaker 3>that's just top of mind.

0:39:26.719 --> 0:39:29.279
<v Speaker 2>But yeah, I don't know things like that.

0:39:30.680 --> 0:39:33.359
<v Speaker 4>Okay, it's fair enough. I I'm trying to I'm still

0:39:33.360 --> 0:39:35.120
<v Speaker 4>trying to think back, Like if a girl is super

0:39:35.160 --> 0:39:40.160
<v Speaker 4>into astrology, astronomy, astrology, astrology, If.

0:39:40.080 --> 0:39:41.680
<v Speaker 1>She's into astronomy, that's pretty cool.

0:39:42.200 --> 0:39:44.480
<v Speaker 4>That'd be dope, that would be really cool. But astrology

0:39:44.560 --> 0:39:44.959
<v Speaker 4>is a bit.

0:39:44.880 --> 0:39:46.440
<v Speaker 1>Of plants and stars.

0:39:46.840 --> 0:39:49.720
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, oh gosh, I'm trying to think about else. But yeah,

0:39:50.200 --> 0:39:54.640
<v Speaker 4>LA is tough because it's LA is great because there

0:39:54.719 --> 0:39:58.040
<v Speaker 4>is such a large number of beautiful people there and

0:39:58.160 --> 0:40:02.040
<v Speaker 4>interesting people. And when you're single and you live in LA,

0:40:02.960 --> 0:40:05.000
<v Speaker 4>you just kind of get spoiled because every time you're

0:40:05.000 --> 0:40:06.360
<v Speaker 4>going on a date with someone, you're going on a

0:40:06.440 --> 0:40:09.760
<v Speaker 4>date with the hottest person that would be from your hometown.

0:40:09.800 --> 0:40:11.600
<v Speaker 4>You know, Like the ugliest person I went on a

0:40:11.680 --> 0:40:13.480
<v Speaker 4>date with in LA was still hotter than the hottest

0:40:13.480 --> 0:40:15.960
<v Speaker 4>person I went on a date with in Colorado. Does

0:40:16.000 --> 0:40:16.560
<v Speaker 4>that make sense?

0:40:16.960 --> 0:40:18.319
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, not a nice way to put it.

0:40:18.520 --> 0:40:21.719
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Well, just from a physical standpoint.

0:40:22.120 --> 0:40:27.160
<v Speaker 1>A Colorado uh seven is like LA four exactly.

0:40:27.280 --> 0:40:29.959
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, yeah, and Colorado ten is like an LA seven,

0:40:30.120 --> 0:40:34.600
<v Speaker 4>So for different reasons. But part of that too, is

0:40:34.640 --> 0:40:37.080
<v Speaker 4>like my brother, I don't know if I talked about

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<v Speaker 4>this on the podcast or not, or I was just

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<v Speaker 4>thinking about it the other day. My brother, when I

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<v Speaker 4>was a kid, I was like maybe fifteen, and he

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<v Speaker 4>had just come back from San Diego because he was

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<v Speaker 4>like twenty or something. He's like, Man, san Diego's great

0:40:47.640 --> 0:40:50.880
<v Speaker 4>because everyone there is so beautiful. You can't act like

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<v Speaker 4>the most beautiful person in the world because you have

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<v Speaker 4>so much competition with all these other beautiful people around you.

0:40:55.560 --> 0:40:58.400
<v Speaker 4>Whereas if you were in Colorado and you were that beautiful,

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<v Speaker 4>you could just be the next piece of crap because

0:41:01.560 --> 0:41:03.520
<v Speaker 4>everyone will bend your will because you're so beautiful.

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<v Speaker 3>I have a question, do you guys think that people

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<v Speaker 3>are hotter in San Diego or La.

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<v Speaker 4>I haven't really spent enough time in San Diego, I

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<v Speaker 4>would say LA.

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<v Speaker 3>I guess it just depends what you're into, because San

0:41:15.320 --> 0:41:16.839
<v Speaker 3>Diego is more like surfer.

0:41:17.080 --> 0:41:20.520
<v Speaker 4>I mean, I'm more into that laid back lifestyle. But La,

0:41:20.600 --> 0:41:24.359
<v Speaker 4>there's just such a bigger pool to choose from. But also,

0:41:24.640 --> 0:41:25.920
<v Speaker 4>I don't know if I talked about this on the

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<v Speaker 4>podcast either. Part of what makes La great is being

0:41:28.760 --> 0:41:30.759
<v Speaker 4>single and living in that city, and that's why people

0:41:30.800 --> 0:41:33.200
<v Speaker 4>spend all that money to live there. But once you

0:41:33.200 --> 0:41:35.000
<v Speaker 4>get into a relationship, it's like, what are we paying

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<v Speaker 4>all this?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

0:41:35.640 --> 0:41:37.399
<v Speaker 2>Our friends are all married and still living there.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. No, we have like two friends.

0:41:41.080 --> 0:41:45.640
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, two friends, but their jobs keep them there, I guess, but.

0:41:45.600 --> 0:41:48.200
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I don't know. Yeah, what were we talking about again? Sorry,

0:41:48.239 --> 0:41:49.880
<v Speaker 4>I went on a long rant there.

0:41:52.480 --> 0:41:54.880
<v Speaker 1>Here we go. Number one, Let's get back. Number one.

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<v Speaker 5>The first the first sign, the first thread flag that

0:41:57.640 --> 0:41:59.840
<v Speaker 5>she says to look for early on in the relationship

0:42:01.440 --> 0:42:05.840
<v Speaker 5>is that when both parties start to over idealize the situation.

0:42:06.480 --> 0:42:08.279
<v Speaker 5>So you know that if someone is too into you

0:42:08.280 --> 0:42:10.799
<v Speaker 5>in the beginning of the relationship, they maybe love bombing you.

0:42:11.480 --> 0:42:14.120
<v Speaker 5>They can't get to know you at the level within

0:42:14.160 --> 0:42:16.360
<v Speaker 5>one or two dates, so don't fall for it. You

0:42:16.360 --> 0:42:18.960
<v Speaker 5>need to set boundaries and ask your crush to slow

0:42:19.040 --> 0:42:21.680
<v Speaker 5>things down if they start doing this to you.

0:42:22.360 --> 0:42:23.959
<v Speaker 4>Uh, dude, I don't know. It's so hard.

0:42:24.000 --> 0:42:25.960
<v Speaker 5>Like when you're early in a relationship, it's just like

0:42:26.000 --> 0:42:28.400
<v Speaker 5>there's you know, the endorphments and all that crap, and

0:42:28.840 --> 0:42:30.520
<v Speaker 5>just like you just want to see the person. So

0:42:30.760 --> 0:42:32.400
<v Speaker 5>is it love bombing. I guess it could be, but

0:42:32.440 --> 0:42:34.040
<v Speaker 5>it also could be just a sign of someone that's

0:42:34.080 --> 0:42:34.800
<v Speaker 5>really into.

0:42:35.080 --> 0:42:37.480
<v Speaker 4>I've never been I've never been love bombed before, but

0:42:38.440 --> 0:42:41.080
<v Speaker 4>I'm sure you have. I don't think so. I think

0:42:41.120 --> 0:42:44.160
<v Speaker 4>what happens is when you start dating someone and you're

0:42:44.160 --> 0:42:48.319
<v Speaker 4>really into them, you start, like, you start defining their

0:42:48.600 --> 0:42:50.719
<v Speaker 4>parts of themselves for them, and then the more you

0:42:50.719 --> 0:42:52.239
<v Speaker 4>get to know them, the more they fill it in

0:42:52.280 --> 0:42:54.400
<v Speaker 4>for themselves, and so you start to be disappointed that

0:42:54.400 --> 0:42:56.640
<v Speaker 4>it doesn't equate to what you had assumed that they

0:42:56.640 --> 0:42:58.600
<v Speaker 4>were going to be, you know, like you're filling in

0:42:58.600 --> 0:43:00.759
<v Speaker 4>the blanks for them, and then if actually they start

0:43:00.760 --> 0:43:03.279
<v Speaker 4>filling it in for themselves. And that's what I've noticed

0:43:03.320 --> 0:43:06.680
<v Speaker 4>as well too in relationships. Not in relationships, but like

0:43:06.719 --> 0:43:08.560
<v Speaker 4>in dating I guess a long time ago in the past.

0:43:08.600 --> 0:43:11.319
<v Speaker 4>But yeah, I've never been loved bombed. I'm sure I've

0:43:11.320 --> 0:43:12.400
<v Speaker 4>loved bombed a few times.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, in high school.

0:43:15.320 --> 0:43:15.760
<v Speaker 4>Probably.

0:43:16.400 --> 0:43:18.600
<v Speaker 2>What about you have I loved bombed?

0:43:18.680 --> 0:43:18.879
<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

0:43:18.960 --> 0:43:19.680
<v Speaker 2>I don't think so.

0:43:20.160 --> 0:43:21.240
<v Speaker 4>Have you been love bombed?

0:43:21.600 --> 0:43:21.799
<v Speaker 1>Oh?

0:43:21.880 --> 0:43:26.960
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, there's some weird guys in La GI give us

0:43:27.520 --> 0:43:30.840
<v Speaker 3>some examples of the love bombing.

0:43:33.680 --> 0:43:35.399
<v Speaker 2>I don't know there was just like this weird guy.

0:43:35.440 --> 0:43:38.560
<v Speaker 3>And I feel like guys egos in LA are so big,

0:43:38.680 --> 0:43:41.960
<v Speaker 3>so if you boast them or turn them down, they

0:43:42.000 --> 0:43:44.279
<v Speaker 3>get super upset and they're like, well, I'm great, so

0:43:44.320 --> 0:43:45.440
<v Speaker 3>why I don't know.

0:43:45.480 --> 0:43:49.160
<v Speaker 2>I feel like I've experienced that with Yeah, I don't.

0:43:49.000 --> 0:43:50.640
<v Speaker 4>Know that was I don't know.

0:43:50.719 --> 0:43:52.520
<v Speaker 2>I don't know how to how to explain it.

0:43:52.480 --> 0:43:55.640
<v Speaker 5>Really, Okay, have you guys ever experienced a relationship early

0:43:55.680 --> 0:43:57.640
<v Speaker 5>on where you just were so obsessed with the person,

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<v Speaker 5>Then after a few dates, after like everything you know,

0:44:00.520 --> 0:44:04.000
<v Speaker 5>war or off, you're like, oh, wait a minute, maybe

0:44:04.120 --> 0:44:05.799
<v Speaker 5>I don't like you as much as I need.

0:44:06.000 --> 0:44:07.880
<v Speaker 4>Not one hundred percent. And that's kind of what I

0:44:07.920 --> 0:44:09.360
<v Speaker 4>was saying earlier too, as I would go on a

0:44:09.400 --> 0:44:11.320
<v Speaker 4>couple of dates and I'd be like, Wow, this person

0:44:11.400 --> 0:44:14.759
<v Speaker 4>is perfect, but I was like I was defining who

0:44:14.800 --> 0:44:17.000
<v Speaker 4>I thought they were to myself versus letting them show

0:44:17.080 --> 0:44:18.520
<v Speaker 4>me who they were, and then you get to know

0:44:18.560 --> 0:44:20.040
<v Speaker 4>them better and you're like, oh, wait, this person actually

0:44:20.120 --> 0:44:22.400
<v Speaker 4>kind of sucks for me. Sucks for me, not sucks,

0:44:23.160 --> 0:44:24.480
<v Speaker 4>just sucks for me, you know.

0:44:25.239 --> 0:44:28.000
<v Speaker 5>M So the second red flag is kind of bouncing

0:44:28.040 --> 0:44:32.480
<v Speaker 5>off that. She says Number two is monopolizing your social time. Again,

0:44:32.800 --> 0:44:35.080
<v Speaker 5>she gets to it's so exciting when you meet somebody

0:44:35.120 --> 0:44:37.200
<v Speaker 5>really like and you want to spend all their time

0:44:37.239 --> 0:44:40.360
<v Speaker 5>with them. But she says this is actually a bad

0:44:40.480 --> 0:44:44.480
<v Speaker 5>tactic because you need to live your own life. She

0:44:44.640 --> 0:44:47.879
<v Speaker 5>said that if someone is attempting to alienate you from

0:44:47.920 --> 0:44:50.239
<v Speaker 5>your friends or spend all of their time with you,

0:44:50.320 --> 0:44:52.440
<v Speaker 5>it actually can be a sign of possessiveness.

0:44:53.160 --> 0:44:58.279
<v Speaker 4>Hmmm, interesting, I'll keep on. I mean, this girl, this

0:44:58.320 --> 0:45:00.640
<v Speaker 4>girl that I dated in high school, was dating a

0:45:00.680 --> 0:45:02.560
<v Speaker 4>guy before me, and I was like, why did you

0:45:02.600 --> 0:45:04.840
<v Speaker 4>guys break up? And she said that he would always

0:45:04.840 --> 0:45:06.920
<v Speaker 4>cancel his plans with his friends to hang out with her.

0:45:07.160 --> 0:45:08.680
<v Speaker 4>And I was like, that sounds really nice of him,

0:45:08.680 --> 0:45:10.840
<v Speaker 4>and she goes, no, I hate it so much. And

0:45:10.880 --> 0:45:13.800
<v Speaker 4>so ever since then, I'm like, oh, okay, got to

0:45:13.800 --> 0:45:15.400
<v Speaker 4>make sure you have your own social life going on.

0:45:15.440 --> 0:45:18.080
<v Speaker 2>Then that imprinted in your brain that really.

0:45:18.440 --> 0:45:21.560
<v Speaker 4>I always had a very formative brain at the time. It

0:45:21.640 --> 0:45:23.600
<v Speaker 4>was like play though, you can mold it anyway you wanted,

0:45:23.880 --> 0:45:24.959
<v Speaker 4>and she molded.

0:45:24.640 --> 0:45:27.000
<v Speaker 2>It for better or for worse.

0:45:27.080 --> 0:45:29.840
<v Speaker 3>Is this the same one that said, if you're accusing

0:45:29.880 --> 0:45:31.440
<v Speaker 3>me of cheating, I might as well, cheat on your

0:45:31.560 --> 0:45:32.719
<v Speaker 3>same exact one.

0:45:32.920 --> 0:45:36.680
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, yeah, sound logic right there.

0:45:37.360 --> 0:45:37.600
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:45:37.600 --> 0:45:38.960
<v Speaker 5>I mean we all have those friends that as soon

0:45:39.000 --> 0:45:41.120
<v Speaker 5>as they start dating someone, you just don't see them.

0:45:41.280 --> 0:45:43.799
<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah for a very long time. Yeah.

0:45:43.800 --> 0:45:45.480
<v Speaker 3>I was thinking that one of my best friends has

0:45:45.480 --> 0:45:48.560
<v Speaker 3>been dating her boyfriend for I don't know, like five

0:45:48.600 --> 0:45:51.520
<v Speaker 3>months now, And usually when my friends start a new relationship,

0:45:51.560 --> 0:45:52.880
<v Speaker 3>I'm like, all right, I won't see you for like

0:45:52.920 --> 0:45:55.440
<v Speaker 3>two to three months. It's whatever, So it is a

0:45:55.480 --> 0:45:57.600
<v Speaker 3>new relationship. She never went through that, and I'm really

0:45:57.600 --> 0:46:00.000
<v Speaker 3>proud of her because she is a very dependent person

0:46:00.040 --> 0:46:02.360
<v Speaker 3>and she never she was just like, you know, we're

0:46:02.360 --> 0:46:04.480
<v Speaker 3>going to have our own social lives and I don't

0:46:04.520 --> 0:46:06.319
<v Speaker 3>know if that's just dating as you're getting older, but

0:46:06.440 --> 0:46:08.040
<v Speaker 3>like I thought it was super healthy.

0:46:08.400 --> 0:46:11.439
<v Speaker 4>Yeah. I'll make sure to recall this exact conversation next

0:46:11.440 --> 0:46:12.840
<v Speaker 4>time I want to go play golf and you're getting

0:46:12.840 --> 0:46:16.920
<v Speaker 4>mad at me, Okay, I'll be like, it's healthy. Okay.

0:46:17.560 --> 0:46:19.560
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it sucks because Ashley is the one who'll just

0:46:19.800 --> 0:46:21.919
<v Speaker 5>tell me it's not healthy, and she wants to spend

0:46:21.960 --> 0:46:23.920
<v Speaker 5>all the time with me, which is so great and wonderful,

0:46:23.960 --> 0:46:27.440
<v Speaker 5>but also, like I want a golf. The third flag,

0:46:27.960 --> 0:46:32.840
<v Speaker 5>Sabrina says, is selective listening. I feel like this is

0:46:32.880 --> 0:46:34.000
<v Speaker 5>something Dean suffer sort of.

0:46:34.200 --> 0:46:38.480
<v Speaker 1>Are specific things that you said about things that pertain

0:46:38.640 --> 0:46:41.239
<v Speaker 1>to them, but when it comes to your boundaries and

0:46:41.320 --> 0:46:44.440
<v Speaker 1>non negotiables, they just kind of forget.

0:46:45.080 --> 0:46:49.480
<v Speaker 5>She says that this person is actually self centered. So

0:46:49.719 --> 0:46:51.799
<v Speaker 5>what do you guys think about selective listening as the

0:46:51.840 --> 0:46:52.440
<v Speaker 5>third flag?

0:46:52.480 --> 0:46:54.200
<v Speaker 4>Do you agree? I don't really really understand it.

0:46:54.920 --> 0:46:58.480
<v Speaker 5>I think she's saying that, like, so Dean, like, in

0:46:58.520 --> 0:47:00.840
<v Speaker 5>the beginning of the relationship you and Kaylen, if you

0:47:00.840 --> 0:47:04.120
<v Speaker 5>were like, Kaylen, there's you know, within a relationship, this

0:47:04.160 --> 0:47:06.600
<v Speaker 5>is the one thing that would really bother me if

0:47:06.640 --> 0:47:07.760
<v Speaker 5>it ever happened, And she's.

0:47:07.640 --> 0:47:08.840
<v Speaker 4>Like, yeah, of course, of course.

0:47:09.000 --> 0:47:11.200
<v Speaker 5>And then later on, like three months down the line,

0:47:12.920 --> 0:47:15.239
<v Speaker 5>she's doing that thing and you're like, but I said,

0:47:15.280 --> 0:47:19.080
<v Speaker 5>that's you know, important that it doesn't happen, and she's like, oh,

0:47:19.120 --> 0:47:21.920
<v Speaker 5>I don't even remember you saying that. I feel like

0:47:21.960 --> 0:47:25.000
<v Speaker 5>that happens sometimes. But it's also tough because it's like,

0:47:26.520 --> 0:47:28.319
<v Speaker 5>I don't know. Sometimes Ashley says things to me and

0:47:28.320 --> 0:47:31.239
<v Speaker 5>it's like in passing almost but it's important to her.

0:47:31.280 --> 0:47:32.840
<v Speaker 5>But I don't know it's important to her because she

0:47:32.920 --> 0:47:34.839
<v Speaker 5>just kind of says it and doesn't say with any

0:47:35.640 --> 0:47:38.040
<v Speaker 5>matter of factness, so I don't really take it as that.

0:47:38.120 --> 0:47:39.799
<v Speaker 5>And then of course I'm like, oh, yeah, I kind

0:47:39.800 --> 0:47:42.000
<v Speaker 5>of vaguely remember you saying that. She's like, well, I

0:47:42.040 --> 0:47:44.239
<v Speaker 5>did say it was very important to me, And I'm like, well, listen,

0:47:44.239 --> 0:47:46.160
<v Speaker 5>if something's very important to you, please let me know

0:47:46.200 --> 0:47:48.319
<v Speaker 5>that it's important, because sometimes when you say things, I

0:47:48.320 --> 0:47:50.560
<v Speaker 5>don't really know what's important what's not important, because then

0:47:50.600 --> 0:47:52.880
<v Speaker 5>you'll say something and then I'll keep that in my

0:47:52.960 --> 0:47:54.839
<v Speaker 5>head and then I'll make sure I don't do it,

0:47:55.480 --> 0:47:57.759
<v Speaker 5>and then she's you know, she'd be like, well that

0:47:57.800 --> 0:47:59.839
<v Speaker 5>doesn't really matter, like you can do that if you want. Well,

0:48:00.040 --> 0:48:01.960
<v Speaker 5>and then I'm like, okay, well, what what is important

0:48:01.960 --> 0:48:03.759
<v Speaker 5>and what's not important? Because we need to really make

0:48:03.800 --> 0:48:05.360
<v Speaker 5>these these lines clear?

0:48:06.239 --> 0:48:09.960
<v Speaker 2>Mm hmm yeah, Dean Dean uh does that? Sometimes I

0:48:10.000 --> 0:48:10.560
<v Speaker 2>knew you're.

0:48:10.400 --> 0:48:12.560
<v Speaker 3>Going to say that, which is because because you do

0:48:12.560 --> 0:48:15.480
<v Speaker 3>it no, And Dean Dean will say, He's like, no,

0:48:15.640 --> 0:48:16.279
<v Speaker 3>you can't do that.

0:48:16.320 --> 0:48:17.640
<v Speaker 2>You know my memory is bad, so.

0:48:19.120 --> 0:48:21.560
<v Speaker 4>What I just think that's so silly of you to say,

0:48:21.560 --> 0:48:22.719
<v Speaker 4>because you do it more outen than I.

0:48:22.880 --> 0:48:26.959
<v Speaker 2>Okay, Okay, Oh my gosh, you're just an assassin mod today.

0:48:26.960 --> 0:48:28.320
<v Speaker 4>I'm not what do you mean, I'm not in assassy

0:48:28.360 --> 0:48:31.200
<v Speaker 4>mood at all? Okay, then explained, No, you keep going.

0:48:31.200 --> 0:48:34.040
<v Speaker 4>You're on you're on one. My brain is slow, so

0:48:34.120 --> 0:48:39.680
<v Speaker 4>it doesn't work very well sometimes. But are you done? Okay? Yeah,

0:48:39.719 --> 0:48:42.520
<v Speaker 4>we both have selected listening. I guess communication is just hard, man.

0:48:43.239 --> 0:48:45.759
<v Speaker 4>You know it's not easy. It's not easy.

0:48:46.560 --> 0:48:49.160
<v Speaker 5>Well, that's why sometimes you just suck at being a

0:48:49.200 --> 0:48:49.879
<v Speaker 5>newly why you know?

0:48:50.760 --> 0:48:53.359
<v Speaker 4>Trust me, the podcast gets true and true every single day.

0:48:54.480 --> 0:48:56.759
<v Speaker 4>But that's why we're That's why we're all here, is

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<v Speaker 4>to improve. We did have some emails, but I guess

0:48:59.760 --> 0:49:01.279
<v Speaker 4>we don't I wanna. We don't have time to get

0:49:01.320 --> 0:49:03.080
<v Speaker 4>to them today. Is that what we're thinking? Yeah, we'll

0:49:03.080 --> 0:49:04.920
<v Speaker 4>do the next week. Say the emails for next week. Baby,

0:49:05.680 --> 0:49:07.520
<v Speaker 4>We got some emails for next week. So if you

0:49:07.560 --> 0:49:09.759
<v Speaker 4>were tuning in for the emails today, we apologize. But

0:49:09.760 --> 0:49:11.000
<v Speaker 4>I guess I just means you're going have to tune

0:49:11.000 --> 0:49:14.959
<v Speaker 4>in next week. Where maybe we stuck just a little

0:49:14.960 --> 0:49:16.520
<v Speaker 4>bit less. I wasn't sure I was ready to end

0:49:16.520 --> 0:49:19.440
<v Speaker 4>it just yet. At that moment, but I got myself

0:49:19.480 --> 0:49:21.200
<v Speaker 4>there and so I almost gave myself no choice.

0:49:22.360 --> 0:49:25.520
<v Speaker 1>It just it was like a Tarantino twist, like it

0:49:25.600 --> 0:49:26.360
<v Speaker 1>just fit everything.

0:49:26.440 --> 0:49:29.160
<v Speaker 4>So technically, it's like when you expect the movie to

0:49:29.160 --> 0:49:30.480
<v Speaker 4>be two hours long and then it ends at like

0:49:30.480 --> 0:49:31.960
<v Speaker 4>an hour and fifteen minutes into it, and you're like,

0:49:32.000 --> 0:49:32.600
<v Speaker 4>wait a second.

0:49:32.680 --> 0:49:34.600
<v Speaker 1>But it was just such a perfect ending that Jared.

0:49:34.480 --> 0:49:35.680
<v Speaker 4>I want you to end it for us because I

0:49:36.560 --> 0:49:37.960
<v Speaker 4>feel like that's probably the best way for us to

0:49:37.960 --> 0:49:38.200
<v Speaker 4>do it.

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<v Speaker 5>All right, Greg, Well, we'll have emails for next week, Uh, Caitlin, myself, Dean,

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<v Speaker 5>we'll all be back from parts unknown, and make sure

0:49:45.800 --> 0:49:49.719
<v Speaker 5>you tune in because well, I can't guarantee we're gonna

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<v Speaker 5>suck any less, but we're gonna try.

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<v Speaker 4>We're gonna try. Thanks for listening.

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