WEBVTT - Let’s Be Informative…with Dr. Mirhadi

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<v Speaker 1>This is Let's Be Clear with Shannon Doherty. Hi everyone,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm back with a new episode of Let's Be Clear

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<v Speaker 1>with Shannon Doherty. As I have mentioned before, it's important

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<v Speaker 1>for me to use this podcast platform to connect with

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<v Speaker 1>the cancer community in a very personal and honest way.

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<v Speaker 1>And what better way to do that than to hear

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<v Speaker 1>from the experts who are caring for me and can

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<v Speaker 1>speak to this complicated disease with experience and knowledge. Today,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm really happy to welcome one of those experts, my friend,

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<v Speaker 1>doctor Amin Marhati from Cedar SINAI. Welcome, Hey Shannon, Hi Doc,

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<v Speaker 1>good to see you now. I said your last name correctly, right, Yes.

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<v Speaker 2>You did, Mahi Marhati HAUGHTI.

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<v Speaker 1>So, can you tell us a little your radiation on collegist?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>And I think a lot of people don't necessarily know

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<v Speaker 1>the difference between you know, a regular on collegeist, a

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<v Speaker 1>radiation on colleges, a cardiologists on collegists. There's so many

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<v Speaker 1>different subcategories. Can you explain like your specific job?

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<v Speaker 2>Definitely, So when someone is diagnosed with cancer, I mean

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<v Speaker 2>there's obviously the work up to cancer, which would involve

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<v Speaker 2>like a radiologist, a pathologist. Sometimes like a surgeon to

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<v Speaker 2>do a biopsy. But then when someone has a diagnosis

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<v Speaker 2>of cancer, there's a there's three main specialties that sort

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<v Speaker 2>of are involved in the treatment of that. The main

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<v Speaker 2>one is a medical oncologist. That's what doctor Lawrence Piro

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<v Speaker 2>is my fav Love that guy, and he's a wonderful

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<v Speaker 2>medical oncologist that's taken care of you for many years.

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<v Speaker 2>And he they sort of work as the quarterback. But

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<v Speaker 2>then another full specialty is radiation oncology, and so I'm

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<v Speaker 2>involved more on the treatment side. You know, He's involved

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<v Speaker 2>more in kind of the management and restaging and ordering

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<v Speaker 2>the tests and labs and things like that. But my

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<v Speaker 2>role is the majority of cancer's breast, lung, colon, et

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<v Speaker 2>cetera involves some form of radiation therapy, especially when it

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<v Speaker 2>spreads to the brain or you know, bone, things like that.

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<v Speaker 2>What we do is we are experts in utilizing focused

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<v Speaker 2>radiation and delivering it properly to tumors and trying to

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<v Speaker 2>minimize the damage around it. So that's what my role

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<v Speaker 2>is as a radiation on collogs, which is different than

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<v Speaker 2>a radiologist who interprets images.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so you mentioned focused radiation. I met you because

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<v Speaker 1>I had mets in my brain. I don't remember, was

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<v Speaker 1>it like five or six?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well it was initially six and then three more

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<v Speaker 2>and so we did pinpoint radiation on all of this.

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<v Speaker 2>One of them was surgically removed so we can get tissue,

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<v Speaker 2>and we rated that just before doctor Chu got the

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<v Speaker 2>tumor out. And we did that mainly does this sort

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<v Speaker 2>of get the tissue and do more analysis and more

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<v Speaker 2>kind of testing to see if there's anything further we

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<v Speaker 2>can learn about your tumor. But then we did pinpoint

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<v Speaker 2>radiation to the rest and that's a procedure called radio surgery.

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<v Speaker 2>So the reason they call that radio surgery is because

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<v Speaker 2>this is delivery all the radiation in one shot. Radiation

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<v Speaker 2>when it hits your tissue, if you give a little

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<v Speaker 2>bit of radiation, it causes a little bit of damage

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<v Speaker 2>to the DNA of the tumor cells, and the tumor

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<v Speaker 2>cells will then gradually die off. If you're treating like

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<v Speaker 2>a large area, you do little bits at a time,

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<v Speaker 2>like over twenty five thirty sessions which you had, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>to your chest well, and that's when you're treating a

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<v Speaker 2>large area, you have to give the normal tissue a

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<v Speaker 2>chance to heal itself and fix itself. So you do

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<v Speaker 2>little bits of radiation at a time when it's to

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<v Speaker 2>larger areas, but when you're trying to treat it like

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<v Speaker 2>a distinct tumor, you do all of it at once.

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<v Speaker 2>You sort of condense that radiation because then you're using

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<v Speaker 2>radiation to just obliterate everything in its path. So that

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<v Speaker 2>what you had had to your brain was radio surgery,

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<v Speaker 2>and that what you had had to your chestwall and

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<v Speaker 2>then subsequently your rib was what's called fractioning radiation, meaning

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<v Speaker 2>chopped up into several small fractions.

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<v Speaker 1>Gotcha. So in my case, I'm hoping that people who

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<v Speaker 1>are listening saw my Instagram where I posted the bit

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<v Speaker 1>of getting fitted for you know, the mask which I

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<v Speaker 1>then took home was going to wear for Halloween, but

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't go out for Halloween. Plus a little scary

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<v Speaker 1>to put that mask back on. And we did that

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<v Speaker 1>so that the mask holds goes over your head, holds

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<v Speaker 1>everything in place. You guys, lock me in so that

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<v Speaker 1>there's minimal movement.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, that it's an amazing process. Well for you. If

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<v Speaker 2>you recall, we did a mapping session where we made

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<v Speaker 2>the mask and then got a quick scan and then

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<v Speaker 2>there was like ten days of doing calculations and planning.

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<v Speaker 2>When you came back for the treatment, each treatment was like,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, ten minutes or so, right, it was quick,

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<v Speaker 2>and so patients they kind of get up and they like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>that's it, right, but they don't realize, you know, what's

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<v Speaker 2>under the hook, so to speak. It's like there is

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<v Speaker 2>a team of people that you know. It starts with

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<v Speaker 2>me the radiation on colleges, I see you, I determine

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<v Speaker 2>what I want to treat, how much I want to treat,

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<v Speaker 2>et cetera. We go through the planning process and we

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<v Speaker 2>have a team of physicist who all have PhDs and

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<v Speaker 2>medical physics that are behind the scenes calibrating the machine,

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<v Speaker 2>doing calculations, and these are the kind of things that

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<v Speaker 2>patients don't always see what's going on behind the scene.

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<v Speaker 2>And this is where where Cedars Sinai excels because they

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<v Speaker 2>don't cut any corners on when it comes to like

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<v Speaker 2>the physics team or the quality of the equipment and

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<v Speaker 2>doing the quality checks and making sure everything is as

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<v Speaker 2>precise as it should be. And then the end result

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<v Speaker 2>is you lying there and getting a tumors out and

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<v Speaker 2>then going home.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, you make it sound really easy, just lying there

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<v Speaker 1>just like that. But yeahs as a person who is

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<v Speaker 1>you know, very claust tophobic, the mask and you've got

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<v Speaker 1>this lollipop stick that you know is in your mouth,

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<v Speaker 1>and the whole thing is to not move because if

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<v Speaker 1>you do move, if you get antsy, or if you stop,

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<v Speaker 1>it puts more time onto it. And I did make

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<v Speaker 1>it a little bit of a competition where I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to be the one person who moves the least.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And I was like standing there like, okay, so

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<v Speaker 2>someone check your pulse. And also I was wondering where

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<v Speaker 2>my ice cream went.

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<v Speaker 1>Now that's right, now I know where it was, and

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<v Speaker 1>then stuck that pompsicle. Yeah, it's like they all take that,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>But you know what's interesting is the way we monitor

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<v Speaker 2>your movement because the machine is delivering radiation, we don't

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<v Speaker 2>want you to like kind of jerk this way or

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<v Speaker 2>you know, we use this optical surface tracking where it's

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<v Speaker 2>a device that basically monitors your motion within less than

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<v Speaker 2>a millimeter, so if you move a little bit, it

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<v Speaker 2>has its feedback loop to the treatment machine, where you know,

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<v Speaker 2>it just shuts down instantaneously, so like if you're out

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<v Speaker 2>of position, we get you back into position before we

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<v Speaker 2>deliver this very high dose of precise radiation. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>I mean you're an actress, right, you get multiple takes.

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes we only get one.

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<v Speaker 1>Take, right, Yeah, you guys have to do it perfect

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<v Speaker 1>first time, which is a lot of pressure. It's a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of pressure, and you know you're again there's the

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<v Speaker 1>whole teams. It's a huge amount of work that in

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<v Speaker 1>treating literally just one person.

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<v Speaker 2>And that's what a lot of people don't realize. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>there are so many people involved in just delivering that

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<v Speaker 2>one Just take one of the little numors retreating you know,

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<v Speaker 2>you just kind of see you know, like Ty and Marty,

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<v Speaker 2>like the texts at the end, and then like you know,

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<v Speaker 2>the sim therapist, you see me, and then there's a

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<v Speaker 2>whole slew of other people and everyone has to be

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<v Speaker 2>one hundred percent precise all the time. And then we

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<v Speaker 2>have to do that day in and day out for hundreds,

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<v Speaker 2>if not thousands. I've treated over four thousand women with

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<v Speaker 2>breast cancer in my career, and like, imagine that kind

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<v Speaker 2>of pressure, like try to be precise, but we have

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<v Speaker 2>so many checks and balances in place. We have such

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<v Speaker 2>a high quality physics department, things like that, and it's

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<v Speaker 2>really teamwork at its finest.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's one of the things that I really love

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<v Speaker 1>about Sedars. And that's not to say there aren't other

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<v Speaker 1>amazing hospitals, but Sedars you really understand that everybody who

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<v Speaker 1>works there, the entire team, oh, has been thoroughly checked out, vetted.

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<v Speaker 1>They follow certain protocols that you're sort of getting the

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<v Speaker 1>absolute best of the best. Yeah, and you can go

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<v Speaker 1>in feeling pretty confident because radiation can be a very

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<v Speaker 1>scary thing, especially when it's to your brain. Of course, Oh, absolutely,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I was petrified of you know. It's not of you, No,

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<v Speaker 1>you made me feel very confident, but of you know,

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<v Speaker 1>is it going to change who I am? Like that?

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<v Speaker 1>That was, as you know, a big concern of mine,

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<v Speaker 1>not just with you, but with brain surgery with doctor

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<v Speaker 1>Chwo of are you going to zap something? Is it

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<v Speaker 1>going to change who I am? Am? I not going

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<v Speaker 1>to think as quickly, and particularly with the surgery, there

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<v Speaker 1>was that concern as well. Of course, doctor Chuo ignored

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<v Speaker 1>me when I asked him to like touch the part

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<v Speaker 1>of the brain that made me speak eight fluent languages.

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<v Speaker 1>He ignored me and didn't do it. Shame on you,

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<v Speaker 1>doctor Chu. One thing I asked of you. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean it is a very scary thing. And you do

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<v Speaker 1>all sorts of radiation for all sorts of different cancers.

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<v Speaker 2>Correct, Yeah, more or less, mostly breast and lung sort of,

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<v Speaker 2>particularly because those two spread to the brain a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>I have a question because this is I've actually been

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<v Speaker 1>wondering this for myself. Is there a certain amount of

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<v Speaker 1>times that you can do the pinpoint radiation? Like is

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<v Speaker 1>there a certain number and then it's up and then

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<v Speaker 1>you have to do overall brain radiation.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a great question. It's a topic of evolving debate.

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<v Speaker 2>We live in an era fortunately where you know, women

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<v Speaker 2>with breast cancer in particular are living a lot longer

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<v Speaker 2>because of all these wonderful therapies. And in the old

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<v Speaker 2>days they didn't have that much success, so they would

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<v Speaker 2>just sort of go crazy with like whole brain radiation

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<v Speaker 2>and cause a lot of side effects. But the thinking

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<v Speaker 2>has shifted now to being more pinpoint and precise. And

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<v Speaker 2>to answer your question, is there a number like meteors

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<v Speaker 2>like you've had nine total? The answer to that question

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<v Speaker 2>is how big are they? Like if you had like

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<v Speaker 2>ten of them that were like thirty milimeters each. In

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<v Speaker 2>my difficult and yours fortunately have all been very small,

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<v Speaker 2>so we can sort of keep going without causing problems.

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<v Speaker 2>And I've you know, in the past, there have been

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<v Speaker 2>times where I've had to do one that was like

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<v Speaker 2>close to the other, I ran into some problem, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>like it would cause some degree of side effects. But

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<v Speaker 2>having many small ones is the best case scenario because

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<v Speaker 2>then you can sort of keep going and have less

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<v Speaker 2>side effects, so to speak.

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<v Speaker 1>So what size becomes not small?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh? Good question. So for single shot radio surgery, when

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<v Speaker 2>you're delivering all the radiation at once, that's the most

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<v Speaker 2>intense treatment, that's the most effective, but it also could

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<v Speaker 2>potentially have the most side effects if you're doing a

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<v Speaker 2>big area is roughly three centimeters thirty millimeters. When you

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<v Speaker 2>get into a fifty centimeter tumor like I did this

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<v Speaker 2>morning before I came here, then you have to take

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<v Speaker 2>that one dose of radiation and chop it out into like,

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<v Speaker 2>let's say, five sessions, and if it gets it's even bigger,

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<v Speaker 2>and then you have to include a lot of your

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<v Speaker 2>normal brain in the treatment field. Then it's like up

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<v Speaker 2>to thirty sessions, and it's less effect. When you do

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<v Speaker 2>thirty sessions, you're delivering more radiation to a larger area,

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<v Speaker 2>but you're doing it in a way that allows the

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<v Speaker 2>normal brain to sort of safely regenerate itself, and but

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<v Speaker 2>you know, not perfectly, but enough so that you can

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<v Speaker 2>get away with doing that treatment, right, So smaller, the

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<v Speaker 2>fewer treatments you get, the more effective and the safer.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, let's say you know, I had these five or

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<v Speaker 1>six and then mets and we did however many treatments

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<v Speaker 1>we did, and then those mets come back and the

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<v Speaker 1>drugs aren't working, and I have to have pinpoint radiation again,

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<v Speaker 1>and then the same thing happens in three months. I

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<v Speaker 1>have to come back, and you know, you just keep

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<v Speaker 1>on that cycle. As long as they're small, you can

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<v Speaker 1>just keep doing the absolutely.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and it would be in your particular case. And

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<v Speaker 2>this is this is what something good educationally for people

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<v Speaker 2>who might be listening the routine staging, the getting the

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<v Speaker 2>brain EMRI every three four months. You know, getting the

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<v Speaker 2>pet CT and catching things relatively early makes all the difference.

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<v Speaker 2>Because I can't tell you how many times I've had

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<v Speaker 2>patients who had one or two treated and they're like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>let's go to you know, Barbados or something. I just

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<v Speaker 2>disappear off the grid. They come back two years later

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<v Speaker 2>and they have one that's like a little bit bigger.

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<v Speaker 2>Then I have to send him a doctor chew and

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<v Speaker 2>then he tells them about the language thing, and it

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<v Speaker 2>becomes a whole big mess.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. Is no, I'm not not going to let

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<v Speaker 1>you speak multiple languages so easily.

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<v Speaker 2>But I think it's But that's the the advantage that

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<v Speaker 2>people in let's call it Western medicine. When you live

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<v Speaker 2>in a metropolitan area like LA and have access to

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<v Speaker 2>wonderful doctors like doctor Piro and wonderful imaging centers where

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<v Speaker 2>you can get your scans in relatively quick fashion, you

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<v Speaker 2>can stay on top of it. And and that's a

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<v Speaker 2>thing like patients who are motivated about, you know, their health,

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<v Speaker 2>they're motivated about you know, quote unquote beating cans so

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<v Speaker 2>to speak. They're the ones that are just they listen

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<v Speaker 2>to their doctors, they're on top of things. They do

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<v Speaker 2>their restage and says, they do their blood work when

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<v Speaker 2>they're supposed to, you know, and and sometimes even in

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<v Speaker 2>cases like that it might not be enough. But to

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<v Speaker 2>give yourself and other patients the best fighting chance, just

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<v Speaker 2>you just have to kind of follow the routine, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean, I think what's unfortunate is that not

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<v Speaker 1>every insurance company support scans every three months, you know, Like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I know that. It was tricky for me in the

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<v Speaker 1>beginning as well, and it becomes easier. This is what's

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<v Speaker 1>really sad, is it becomes a lot easier to get

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<v Speaker 1>it every three months the worst you are. So once

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<v Speaker 1>you're enter stage four, they're like, oh, okay, yeah, you

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<v Speaker 1>might need a scan every three months, but you kind

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<v Speaker 1>of want it before then. Like even every six months

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<v Speaker 1>is a much healthier, you know, way as opposed to

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<v Speaker 1>the once a year. So a few things I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to have to work on in the future advocating for.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it is a good thing for us to

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<v Speaker 1>just remind all of you guys listening to press your

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<v Speaker 1>doctor too, because if you're feeling anything weird, if you've

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<v Speaker 1>got headaches and you have cancer or anything just really

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<v Speaker 1>really you can request. You can say I think there's

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<v Speaker 1>something going on and I need an MRI, I need

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<v Speaker 1>whatever it is. Your pet scans and do go in

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<v Speaker 1>for your blood test because those it's amazing how much

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<v Speaker 1>your blood tells you, Like I didn't even know, oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>really how much my blood was telling my doctors about me.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, Sit tight, because I would say in the

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<v Speaker 2>next few years, there's going to be even more tests

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<v Speaker 2>that analyze your blood and look for circulating tumor cells

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<v Speaker 2>and circulating tumor DNA and things like that. Genetic testing

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<v Speaker 2>is going to have a more profound component. We're at

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<v Speaker 2>sort of an inflection point in cancer care where we're

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<v Speaker 2>going to be less reliant on imaging and like MRIs

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<v Speaker 2>and cat skins and petskins, and more reliant on blood

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<v Speaker 2>work and genetic testing and molecular testing to understand what

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<v Speaker 2>direction things are going. The technology is there, like, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>there's this one test that was developed out of Cleveland

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<v Speaker 2>Clinic called the Gallery test, where it's like a blood

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<v Speaker 2>test that tells you if your tumor is proliferating or not,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, And it's relatively in a fledgling state, but

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<v Speaker 2>the science is developing, the data is accumulating. You now

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<v Speaker 2>have artificial intelligence that's helping you analyze this information. And

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<v Speaker 2>I think we're moving towards a new frontier. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>everyone likes to say that in cancer care, like everything,

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<v Speaker 2>every new drug or whatever, it is a new frontier, right,

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<v Speaker 2>but nothing really has been until now. I think this

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<v Speaker 2>way to analyze your blood and your DNA and your

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<v Speaker 2>molecular profile, it's really going to take off in the

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<v Speaker 2>next few years.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, that's really exciting to hear. And you mentioned

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<v Speaker 1>Cleveland Clinic and I just read a whole release from

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<v Speaker 1>them recently about their clinical trial that's currently happening on

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<v Speaker 1>breast cancer vaccine, and I found that to be absolutely

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<v Speaker 1>fascinating that finally there might be a vaccine for breast

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<v Speaker 1>cancer and that it can apparently work on people who

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<v Speaker 1>have you know, had it, are in remission, get the

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<v Speaker 1>vaccine and it's possibly you know, obviously a lot more

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<v Speaker 1>clinical trial has to be done in order to determine

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<v Speaker 1>what all it can do. But I agree with you,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a very exciting time. And although I always say

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<v Speaker 1>I can't believe the cancer has been around for what

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<v Speaker 1>a hundred years and there's not a cure yet, there's

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<v Speaker 1>not a vaccine, there's nothing.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to give you my take on what you

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<v Speaker 2>just said, I know that there's a lot of information

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<v Speaker 2>online and a lot of people are like, oh, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>they're trying to withhold the here. You know, like the

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<v Speaker 2>people think that the industry is trying really not to

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<v Speaker 2>find that. That's actually not true. I think that the

0:16:57.000 --> 0:17:00.320
<v Speaker 2>person you don't think that either, But there's a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of people who just sort of look superficially online and

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<v Speaker 2>get some information. Here is why it's really hard to

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<v Speaker 2>find a cure for most types of cancers. The reason

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<v Speaker 2>is because you have a tumor that formed. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>what is a tumor exactly, it's a portion of your breast.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, a portion within the duct of your breast

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<v Speaker 2>developed an abnormality as it was growing. You know, your

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<v Speaker 2>ducks replenish themselves and they have to go through the

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<v Speaker 2>process of cell division to make more cells and more

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<v Speaker 2>ducts and more lobules and things like that. Somewhere along

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<v Speaker 2>the way, due to X, Y and Z factors. No

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<v Speaker 2>one knows exactly there was a mutation in the DNA

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<v Speaker 2>of your tumor cell. Now, the human cell in general,

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<v Speaker 2>it's like, if you think about it, it's built to survive.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why humans have made it so long. Evolutionarily, you

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<v Speaker 2>have a cell that is just constantly dividing and growing

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<v Speaker 2>and growing. So you have to think of the human

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<v Speaker 2>cell as having its footstuck on the accelerator, so it

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't want to stop growing. So every cell in our

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<v Speaker 2>body inherently could be a cancer cell. It just doesn't

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<v Speaker 2>want to stop growing. But we have these big breaks

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<v Speaker 2>that are sitting on top of it as well. I'm oversimplifying,

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<v Speaker 2>of course, but when you get a mutation and the

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<v Speaker 2>big proteins that sit on top of it, the break,

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<v Speaker 2>so to speak, then cells kind of grow unchecked. But

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<v Speaker 2>then what happens is, Okay, you might find the ability

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<v Speaker 2>to treat one type of mutation, but tumor cells go

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<v Speaker 2>through evolution, they evolve, and then you might get a

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<v Speaker 2>drug like inher To or percepted or something that might

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<v Speaker 2>knock out ninety nine point ninety nine percent of your

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<v Speaker 2>tumor cells and be an effective therapy, but it's that

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<v Speaker 2>point oh oh one percent that might be behind that's

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<v Speaker 2>resistant to that particular therapy, and then that grows and

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<v Speaker 2>you have to find a different treatment. And people can

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<v Speaker 2>only tolerate certain types of treatment, certain amounts, and so

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<v Speaker 2>in my opinion, the best way to address that is

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<v Speaker 2>catching it as early as possible because over time, these

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<v Speaker 2>cells go through you know, evolution at a lightening pace

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<v Speaker 2>and they become resistant. They have this biology where they

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<v Speaker 2>become resistant to treatment.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, thank you, because that's a brilliant way of

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<v Speaker 1>explaining it in a way that someone like me who

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<v Speaker 1>does not have a medical degree, although on occasion I

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<v Speaker 1>like to pretend I do for me to understand, because

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<v Speaker 1>when you really break it down to how you did,

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<v Speaker 1>of course, you know the cell is constantly mutating and

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<v Speaker 1>growing and changing and becoming something different. So finding a

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<v Speaker 1>cure that also can adjust to that mutation is incredibly hard.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I would imagine it's like you could find

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<v Speaker 1>one thing that would cure it under this particular condition,

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<v Speaker 1>but then it's already mutated, so then that doesn't even work.

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<v Speaker 1>It's much like the protocols that we're on, right. So

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<v Speaker 1>I've actually had protocols that have last me I think

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<v Speaker 1>a pretty good amount of time, all things considered, But

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<v Speaker 1>eventually my body stopped it. Maybe the cells mutated whatever

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<v Speaker 1>they change, where that particular pill was no longer impacting it.

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<v Speaker 2>If I recall it's mina while since I looked at

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<v Speaker 2>your char but when you were originally.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't look at it every day.

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<v Speaker 2>Just sometimes I'm just like, gee.

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<v Speaker 1>My favor, it's not true. You guys.

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<v Speaker 2>You no. I look, I look at the tumor treated,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm like.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I got it. You know, you took care of Bob.

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<v Speaker 2>We can start Navy by Bob, by Bob. When you

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<v Speaker 2>were initially diagnosed, I recall your tumor was estrogen receptor

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<v Speaker 2>positive and her too negative. Now to the viewers and

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<v Speaker 2>people who are diagnosed with breast cancer, they hear that

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<v Speaker 2>and they're like, I mean, there's many layers to what

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<v Speaker 2>that could mean. In the most simplistic way, esergen receptor

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<v Speaker 2>positive means that your particular breast cancer was expressing estrogen receptors,

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<v Speaker 2>meaning to some degree estrogen was fueling your tumor growth.

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<v Speaker 2>Then the her too, which is a gene that they

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<v Speaker 2>you know that's involved in breast cancer treatment and diagnosis

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<v Speaker 2>and stuff, yours did not express the hurto receptor pathway.

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<v Speaker 2>And then over time in twenty eighteen or twenty or

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<v Speaker 2>something like that, when your tumor involved, it eventually did,

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<v Speaker 2>which suggests that you were able to successfully, doctor Piro,

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<v Speaker 2>was to eradicate all of the tumors that you had,

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<v Speaker 2>there was a little bit left behind that developed its

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<v Speaker 2>own molecular kind of evolution and its own resistance, and

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<v Speaker 2>that's what started to grow. And that's what came into

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<v Speaker 2>your brain, as we confirmed when doctor Chu took out

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<v Speaker 2>that one spot and we looked at it. Because cancer

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<v Speaker 2>in your living, breathing example of cancer, how it evolves

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<v Speaker 2>and how we change our strategy to address it.

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<v Speaker 1>So I mean, yes, by the way, I one of

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<v Speaker 1>my favorite things I probably once a month, I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to really sounds strange right now, is I look at

0:22:08.520 --> 0:22:12.119
<v Speaker 1>the picture of my brain opened up that doctor Chru

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<v Speaker 1>said to me. I he actually printed it out and

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<v Speaker 1>gave it to me because he knows I'm like a

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<v Speaker 1>weird nerd that way. And I look at it and

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<v Speaker 1>I actually, when I got done with brain surgery and

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<v Speaker 1>I got home, I showed it to as many people

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<v Speaker 1>as I possibly could, and some were horrified by it

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<v Speaker 1>and some enjoyed it like I do. But I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I just think it's it's it's to me, it's so

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<v Speaker 1>fascinating that you know radiation works the way that it does,

0:22:39.240 --> 0:22:41.560
<v Speaker 1>and it's you hear the word radiation, right, and you

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<v Speaker 1>think of like noble, you think of like all these

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<v Speaker 1>crazy things. So you get very, very very scared of radiation.

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<v Speaker 1>But because you're doing pinpoint, and you with me and

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<v Speaker 1>with all your patients, you were very careful. You didn't

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't laugh at me or sort of ignore the

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<v Speaker 1>fact that I was concerned about having more bald spots

0:23:04.400 --> 0:23:07.200
<v Speaker 1>and patches and that radiation can cause the hair loss.

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<v Speaker 1>You were equally as concerned, at least in front of

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<v Speaker 1>me about Listen, I'm going to get every little met

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<v Speaker 1>that I can, and I will do it trying to

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<v Speaker 1>not get your hair at the same time, like I

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<v Speaker 1>hear you, I respect the fact that you really want

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<v Speaker 1>to keep your hair. Thank you. It's a weird, but

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<v Speaker 1>it's growing underneath this.

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<v Speaker 2>By the way, I totally so you are going to

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<v Speaker 2>grow a third ear? Is that okay? I hope that

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't bother you. It's a third ear? Just back here.

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<v Speaker 1>Can I hear thousands of feet away, because I'll take.

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<v Speaker 2>It you bring up. I do want to make a

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<v Speaker 2>comment about what you just said, because you and I

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<v Speaker 2>we had dialogue. Of course, I told you about what

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<v Speaker 2>to expect what we're doing. One of the big disconnects

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<v Speaker 2>and healthcare in general, from doctor to patient, just patients

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<v Speaker 2>trying to navigate the healthcare system is there's too much information.

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<v Speaker 2>And one thing that in my eighteen years at SED

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<v Speaker 2>Sinai and my training at UCLA before that, one thing

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<v Speaker 2>I've always always made important to me is patients nodding

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<v Speaker 2>their head at you and sounding like they understand what

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<v Speaker 2>you're talking about. They almost never do, and it's really important,

0:24:18.760 --> 0:24:21.200
<v Speaker 2>you know, I have these you know, we just hired

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<v Speaker 2>like three or four young doctors who are physician scientists,

0:24:23.960 --> 0:24:27.639
<v Speaker 2>and they're absolutely brilliant. They are like like one smarter

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<v Speaker 2>than the next. I'm like, wow, you guys are like,

0:24:29.760 --> 0:24:32.160
<v Speaker 2>you know, it's a new era of just like smart

0:24:32.160 --> 0:24:35.720
<v Speaker 2>people to go into medicine. And you know, as young

0:24:35.800 --> 0:24:39.199
<v Speaker 2>doctors in particular, they feel compelled and this is not

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<v Speaker 2>right around this is actually probably more right than anything

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<v Speaker 2>to give you all the information. It's almost like a

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<v Speaker 2>checklist where they have to just kind of explain everything.

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<v Speaker 2>And what I've noticed is I started out doing that

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<v Speaker 2>in my career as well, until I realized that it

0:24:54.200 --> 0:24:57.479
<v Speaker 2>became detrimental to a patient. Until like The core of

0:24:57.560 --> 0:24:59.760
<v Speaker 2>what I wanted to convey to them to help them

0:24:59.800 --> 0:25:03.520
<v Speaker 2>make a decision was at the very last of a

0:25:03.600 --> 0:25:06.680
<v Speaker 2>two hour clinic visit where they were poked and prodded

0:25:06.680 --> 0:25:08.919
<v Speaker 2>by nurses and had an memory done. It was the

0:25:08.960 --> 0:25:10.560
<v Speaker 2>last two seconds where I was like, Oh, by the way,

0:25:10.560 --> 0:25:12.560
<v Speaker 2>it might do this and that, you know. And I

0:25:13.040 --> 0:25:15.560
<v Speaker 2>have been as I've gotten further into my career, I

0:25:15.600 --> 0:25:18.399
<v Speaker 2>have focused more on simplifying it. I don't know if

0:25:18.400 --> 0:25:21.840
<v Speaker 2>you ever saw that movie with Denzel Washington was called Philadelphia.

0:25:21.880 --> 0:25:23.800
<v Speaker 2>He was like a lawyer with Tom Hanks or something. Yeah,

0:25:23.840 --> 0:25:26.159
<v Speaker 2>and he goes. He kept saying, explain it to me

0:25:26.200 --> 0:25:27.600
<v Speaker 2>like I'm a six year old, or explain it to

0:25:27.600 --> 0:25:29.560
<v Speaker 2>me like I'm a ten year old. And that line

0:25:29.600 --> 0:25:32.800
<v Speaker 2>always resonated with me because not to try to insult

0:25:32.800 --> 0:25:35.959
<v Speaker 2>the intelligence of my patients, but I do cancer all day,

0:25:35.960 --> 0:25:39.399
<v Speaker 2>every day. I know what is going on or what

0:25:39.480 --> 0:25:42.280
<v Speaker 2>to expect, but you don't, or other patients don't.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think it's also it's overwhelming. And you go

0:25:55.480 --> 0:25:58.639
<v Speaker 1>in there and you're already nervous because you are getting poked.

0:25:58.720 --> 0:26:01.360
<v Speaker 1>You know, you're getting your blood drawn, getting an MRI done,

0:26:01.520 --> 0:26:03.959
<v Speaker 1>You're scared because you have cancer, or you're scared because

0:26:04.040 --> 0:26:07.040
<v Speaker 1>you hear the word radiation or surgery, whatever it is.

0:26:07.640 --> 0:26:12.040
<v Speaker 1>So then if there's so much information coming at you,

0:26:13.640 --> 0:26:16.720
<v Speaker 1>I think it can drown out your own questions. And

0:26:17.119 --> 0:26:20.479
<v Speaker 1>I always encourage people to, you know, write down a

0:26:20.560 --> 0:26:24.480
<v Speaker 1>list of questions beforehand and make sure that they check

0:26:24.520 --> 0:26:27.000
<v Speaker 1>that list off, and to also not be intimidated by

0:26:27.000 --> 0:26:29.640
<v Speaker 1>the white coat, which is something I find a lot

0:26:29.680 --> 0:26:32.640
<v Speaker 1>of people are that I speak to, oh that are sick,

0:26:32.760 --> 0:26:34.879
<v Speaker 1>is that they kind of feel they don't have the

0:26:35.000 --> 0:26:38.800
<v Speaker 1>right to question the doctor or ask for special things.

0:26:39.000 --> 0:26:41.520
<v Speaker 1>And I'm always like, oh God, I wish you all

0:26:41.560 --> 0:26:43.920
<v Speaker 1>could go to my doctors, you know, because I've never

0:26:44.000 --> 0:26:46.480
<v Speaker 1>felt that way. I've always felt like I could push

0:26:46.560 --> 0:26:51.280
<v Speaker 1>back and that I could question. I could say, you know, well,

0:26:51.760 --> 0:26:53.320
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to get an aria this month. I

0:26:53.359 --> 0:26:55.720
<v Speaker 1>want to get them every three months instead, And there's

0:26:55.760 --> 0:26:59.040
<v Speaker 1>a dialogue about like why that choice is that choice?

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<v Speaker 2>It takes a lot of experience to get to get

0:27:02.520 --> 0:27:05.119
<v Speaker 2>to that point as as a doctor, to value that

0:27:05.320 --> 0:27:07.200
<v Speaker 2>or to you know, because you're in your head, you're

0:27:07.359 --> 0:27:10.760
<v Speaker 2>you're the expert, and you're trying to impart your areation

0:27:11.040 --> 0:27:14.240
<v Speaker 2>to everyone which comes from a good place. Obviously. Obviously,

0:27:14.280 --> 0:27:16.800
<v Speaker 2>you know, I very very rarely meet a doctor who's

0:27:16.840 --> 0:27:19.639
<v Speaker 2>just out there doing it for you know, for kicks

0:27:19.720 --> 0:27:21.880
<v Speaker 2>or to try to be famous or you know, make

0:27:21.960 --> 0:27:24.680
<v Speaker 2>money or whatever. And most of them, the vast majority

0:27:24.680 --> 0:27:27.080
<v Speaker 2>of them, really just want you to get back, you know,

0:27:27.119 --> 0:27:30.040
<v Speaker 2>they want to take care of you. But the approach

0:27:30.080 --> 0:27:32.800
<v Speaker 2>can certainly fluctuate, and it takes a lot of experience.

0:27:32.840 --> 0:27:35.760
<v Speaker 2>And that one thing I like to do is I

0:27:36.119 --> 0:27:39.160
<v Speaker 2>like to not overload my patients with unnecessary, too much

0:27:39.200 --> 0:27:41.480
<v Speaker 2>information that's not necessarily relevant. But I also like to

0:27:41.480 --> 0:27:44.000
<v Speaker 2>give them my cell phone because what I find is

0:27:44.040 --> 0:27:47.160
<v Speaker 2>that when they leave my office, there's so much anxiety,

0:27:47.200 --> 0:27:49.960
<v Speaker 2>and there's so much uncertainty, and there's so much misinformation

0:27:50.040 --> 0:27:53.280
<v Speaker 2>out there that sometimes just like a little text message

0:27:53.359 --> 0:27:57.160
<v Speaker 2>or a little you know, two second conversation can sort

0:27:57.200 --> 0:28:01.280
<v Speaker 2>of reset them a little bit and take them to

0:28:01.359 --> 0:28:04.399
<v Speaker 2>a place of like, Okay, now I got now that

0:28:04.440 --> 0:28:07.280
<v Speaker 2>little bit of information clicks to me. You know, when

0:28:07.320 --> 0:28:10.040
<v Speaker 2>I started out in my career, you know, I was

0:28:10.080 --> 0:28:12.560
<v Speaker 2>focused on my career. I got a job at Cedars,

0:28:12.600 --> 0:28:14.199
<v Speaker 2>I was stoked to work there, stoked to live in

0:28:14.320 --> 0:28:16.959
<v Speaker 2>La and whatever. And then I remember one day there

0:28:17.000 --> 0:28:19.679
<v Speaker 2>was one very poignant moment women with breast cancer who

0:28:19.720 --> 0:28:22.320
<v Speaker 2>had a brain met that I treated. I remember like

0:28:22.400 --> 0:28:24.720
<v Speaker 2>I did my whole spiel with her. I recommended this,

0:28:24.960 --> 0:28:27.760
<v Speaker 2>did that, whatever, And then you know, she went off

0:28:27.800 --> 0:28:29.359
<v Speaker 2>and I went home and I always stopped by this

0:28:29.520 --> 0:28:32.600
<v Speaker 2>Bristol farms on the way home from Cedars as I

0:28:32.600 --> 0:28:36.040
<v Speaker 2>was grabbing ie tea or whatever, and I saw her

0:28:36.040 --> 0:28:38.160
<v Speaker 2>there with her daughter. I saw her, and she didn't

0:28:38.160 --> 0:28:40.560
<v Speaker 2>see me, and she was just there having a laugh

0:28:40.600 --> 0:28:43.240
<v Speaker 2>with her daughter. They were picking something and going home

0:28:43.280 --> 0:28:47.160
<v Speaker 2>to make dinner or something. And at that instant, I

0:28:47.240 --> 0:28:51.440
<v Speaker 2>was like, Okay, my job is about giving her more

0:28:51.520 --> 0:28:54.440
<v Speaker 2>days like that, more moments like that. It's about nothing else.

0:28:54.680 --> 0:28:57.280
<v Speaker 2>It's not about me, It's not about Cedars, not about

0:28:57.440 --> 0:29:00.640
<v Speaker 2>anything other than that woman sitting there is enjoying a

0:29:00.800 --> 0:29:03.840
<v Speaker 2>day with their daughter, you know, and give her more

0:29:03.840 --> 0:29:07.680
<v Speaker 2>of those. However you can whatever, use your knowledge and expertise,

0:29:07.680 --> 0:29:10.880
<v Speaker 2>and the best way you can to maximize that and

0:29:10.960 --> 0:29:11.800
<v Speaker 2>everything else.

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<v Speaker 1>Is hotter Ihan, My god, that's such a beautiful way

0:29:14.520 --> 0:29:17.600
<v Speaker 1>of looking at it. As you know, you guys are yes,

0:29:17.640 --> 0:29:20.800
<v Speaker 1>you're taking care of us, but you're also giving people

0:29:20.840 --> 0:29:26.560
<v Speaker 1>more time and more precious moments. You know, when we're gone,

0:29:26.720 --> 0:29:30.760
<v Speaker 1>their children, their loved ones, their friends will be so

0:29:30.960 --> 0:29:35.240
<v Speaker 1>deeply appreciative that they got that extra that extra laugh,

0:29:35.360 --> 0:29:39.880
<v Speaker 1>that extra cry, that extra whatever it was. That's a

0:29:40.520 --> 0:29:41.600
<v Speaker 1>that's very beautiful.

0:29:41.640 --> 0:29:44.400
<v Speaker 2>You know. I coached just recently, I coached my daughter's

0:29:44.480 --> 0:29:46.560
<v Speaker 2>junior high volleyball team. You know, I just kind of

0:29:46.600 --> 0:29:47.920
<v Speaker 2>did it on the side, and it was fun. It

0:29:47.960 --> 0:29:50.960
<v Speaker 2>was great, great experience. There was one thing I kept

0:29:51.000 --> 0:29:52.960
<v Speaker 2>emphasizing with them. It was there was a it was

0:29:52.960 --> 0:29:55.880
<v Speaker 2>a quote that I saw on a Michael Jordan documentary.

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<v Speaker 2>It was called The Last Dance whatever is Michael Jordan's

0:29:59.640 --> 0:30:03.320
<v Speaker 2>Ten Parts documentary. But some guy talked about how Michael

0:30:03.360 --> 0:30:06.760
<v Speaker 2>Jordan wasn't the best in the world because he dribbled

0:30:06.760 --> 0:30:09.320
<v Speaker 2>better than anyone, or he shot the ball better than anyone,

0:30:09.440 --> 0:30:12.800
<v Speaker 2>or he you know, did whatever, played defense better than anyone.

0:30:13.440 --> 0:30:15.920
<v Speaker 2>He was the best there was because he was always

0:30:16.040 --> 0:30:19.440
<v Speaker 2>present in the moment. So when I was coaching these young,

0:30:19.520 --> 0:30:22.480
<v Speaker 2>you know, seventh and eighth grade girls, I was like, listen,

0:30:22.720 --> 0:30:24.840
<v Speaker 2>look around you. You know, here we are playing a

0:30:24.880 --> 0:30:27.240
<v Speaker 2>game against you know, whoever here you are in the

0:30:27.280 --> 0:30:29.560
<v Speaker 2>gym is the last time you might might be together.

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<v Speaker 2>Just be present in the moment, because the moment is everything.

0:30:33.920 --> 0:30:36.240
<v Speaker 2>The moment is what will stick with you. Don't think

0:30:36.280 --> 0:30:39.360
<v Speaker 2>about what's ahead of you, don't think about what's behind you.

0:30:39.600 --> 0:30:43.160
<v Speaker 2>Be present, and that, I think is what's important to

0:30:43.320 --> 0:30:46.080
<v Speaker 2>cancer patients, people who are going through it. And I

0:30:46.120 --> 0:30:50.400
<v Speaker 2>always tell I always tell people this. I I live

0:30:50.440 --> 0:30:53.400
<v Speaker 2>my life, you know, as much as I'm capable of,

0:30:53.520 --> 0:30:55.400
<v Speaker 2>as much as I'm able to to the fullest, because

0:30:55.760 --> 0:30:58.600
<v Speaker 2>I'm surrounded by people like you, by other patients who

0:30:59.360 --> 0:31:02.400
<v Speaker 2>you know, vague go through something hard. They've they've gone

0:31:02.440 --> 0:31:05.320
<v Speaker 2>to the abyss and stared at it, you know, wherever

0:31:05.400 --> 0:31:09.760
<v Speaker 2>that quote moves from, and they realize that, Okay, you

0:31:09.800 --> 0:31:13.440
<v Speaker 2>know what. You know, life is limited. It's limited for everyone,

0:31:13.800 --> 0:31:17.120
<v Speaker 2>but people like you, they realize it more, they embrace

0:31:17.160 --> 0:31:20.400
<v Speaker 2>it more. And I am fortunate enough to be surrounded

0:31:20.400 --> 0:31:23.080
<v Speaker 2>by that every single day, so that when you know,

0:31:23.400 --> 0:31:24.960
<v Speaker 2>my buddy calls me up and says, let's go to

0:31:25.040 --> 0:31:27.800
<v Speaker 2>Kansas City, you know for the Chiefs game. Sure, let's

0:31:27.840 --> 0:31:29.719
<v Speaker 2>you know, like you take advantage of every moment. You know,

0:31:30.120 --> 0:31:33.120
<v Speaker 2>someone says let's have a big fiftieth birthday party or whatever, like,

0:31:33.560 --> 0:31:35.360
<v Speaker 2>go for it. Let's just you know, go out and

0:31:35.440 --> 0:31:37.840
<v Speaker 2>have some fun, that sort of thing, because that's what

0:31:37.840 --> 0:31:38.640
<v Speaker 2>life's about. It's that.

0:31:39.320 --> 0:31:44.160
<v Speaker 1>So let's say for those people out there who are not,

0:31:44.560 --> 0:31:48.800
<v Speaker 1>you know, as fortunate as I have been to have

0:31:48.840 --> 0:31:52.960
<v Speaker 1>a doctor like you, who you know, you cared, you listened.

0:31:53.400 --> 0:31:55.720
<v Speaker 1>You didn't you know, think that I was vain for

0:31:55.800 --> 0:31:59.680
<v Speaker 1>asking about my hair. You talked me through that whole

0:32:00.160 --> 0:32:03.280
<v Speaker 1>mapping mask process. I mean you saw me. I was crying.

0:32:03.360 --> 0:32:06.320
<v Speaker 1>I was just hyperventilating. You know, you talked me through.

0:32:06.840 --> 0:32:08.880
<v Speaker 1>You were kind enough to shoot video because I asked

0:32:08.920 --> 0:32:12.960
<v Speaker 1>you to. You basically held my hand through the entire

0:32:13.000 --> 0:32:15.880
<v Speaker 1>experience and knew how to talk to me and explain

0:32:16.000 --> 0:32:18.480
<v Speaker 1>things to me. Gave me your cell phone number, allowed

0:32:18.520 --> 0:32:22.959
<v Speaker 1>me to, you know, infiltrate your private time with your

0:32:23.000 --> 0:32:26.320
<v Speaker 1>own family after hours, to answer questions that popped up

0:32:26.360 --> 0:32:28.959
<v Speaker 1>in my head, because that happens a lot. You go in,

0:32:29.120 --> 0:32:31.360
<v Speaker 1>you think that you've got your list of questions, you

0:32:31.400 --> 0:32:33.719
<v Speaker 1>get overwhelmed, you leave, and then you don't see your

0:32:33.760 --> 0:32:36.480
<v Speaker 1>doctor again until it's time for radiation or surgery or

0:32:36.520 --> 0:32:39.680
<v Speaker 1>whatever it is so the fact that you allow, you know,

0:32:39.720 --> 0:32:43.440
<v Speaker 1>your patience to text you is a you know, very

0:32:43.520 --> 0:32:48.760
<v Speaker 1>rare thing from some that I know. But for those

0:32:48.800 --> 0:32:53.200
<v Speaker 1>people that don't have a doctor like you in their life,

0:32:53.280 --> 0:32:56.480
<v Speaker 1>what would be sort of your biggest suggestion when they

0:32:56.560 --> 0:33:00.680
<v Speaker 1>go in to meet their radiation oncologists? But what are

0:33:00.720 --> 0:33:03.000
<v Speaker 1>the things that they should be asking about? What are

0:33:03.040 --> 0:33:04.600
<v Speaker 1>the things that they should be looking for? And I

0:33:04.640 --> 0:33:08.560
<v Speaker 1>know that that answer changes does constantly because it's you know,

0:33:08.600 --> 0:33:10.160
<v Speaker 1>what kind of a cancer are you dealing with? How

0:33:10.200 --> 0:33:12.120
<v Speaker 1>big are the mets where? You know, is it in

0:33:12.160 --> 0:33:15.040
<v Speaker 1>your brain? Is it in your lungs? Like is it

0:33:15.080 --> 0:33:17.440
<v Speaker 1>in your breast? For you, it's a it's a hard one,

0:33:17.480 --> 0:33:19.280
<v Speaker 1>but I'm going to impress it. I'm going to ask it.

0:33:19.400 --> 0:33:23.880
<v Speaker 2>So specifically about women who have you know, breast cancer,

0:33:24.000 --> 0:33:28.920
<v Speaker 2>any cancer that spread to the brain. The most important

0:33:28.920 --> 0:33:31.800
<v Speaker 2>thing to understand is what's your experience with like the

0:33:31.920 --> 0:33:35.000
<v Speaker 2>long term effects and the long term outcomes, because sometimes

0:33:35.480 --> 0:33:39.080
<v Speaker 2>that will vary depending on where the little tumor spots are. Again,

0:33:39.160 --> 0:33:41.320
<v Speaker 2>this goes back to what I was saying earlier. Sometimes,

0:33:41.440 --> 0:33:44.000
<v Speaker 2>you know, doctors and healthcare providers in general, they feel

0:33:44.040 --> 0:33:47.120
<v Speaker 2>compelled to kind of go through that laundry list of

0:33:47.160 --> 0:33:49.400
<v Speaker 2>like these twenty things that can happen. And that's the

0:33:49.440 --> 0:33:52.200
<v Speaker 2>part I've noticed scarest patients the most. And sometimes it

0:33:52.240 --> 0:33:53.800
<v Speaker 2>has to be said. Sometimes you have to go through

0:33:53.960 --> 0:33:56.120
<v Speaker 2>like you know, you know, when a surgeon says you

0:33:56.200 --> 0:33:58.240
<v Speaker 2>might not wake up, you know, I mean it's happened before.

0:33:58.280 --> 0:33:58.920
<v Speaker 2>I mean it's rare.

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<v Speaker 1>I always like hearing that.

0:34:01.040 --> 0:34:04.600
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's always like, sign here, take a crocabol and

0:34:04.760 --> 0:34:08.319
<v Speaker 2>have an IC. The most important thing to say is

0:34:08.360 --> 0:34:10.799
<v Speaker 2>how camp like some of those laundry list questions is

0:34:11.120 --> 0:34:14.080
<v Speaker 2>making sure to understand how common or uncommon they are,

0:34:14.880 --> 0:34:18.759
<v Speaker 2>and have them really drill down and emphasize what they

0:34:18.800 --> 0:34:20.800
<v Speaker 2>really expect to happen. Just tell me what you really

0:34:20.840 --> 0:34:22.920
<v Speaker 2>think is going to happen, and like, let's leave the

0:34:22.960 --> 0:34:25.400
<v Speaker 2>fluff out and focus in on what I can do

0:34:25.520 --> 0:34:28.200
<v Speaker 2>to prevent it. Are there things I can do? Maybe

0:34:28.239 --> 0:34:30.840
<v Speaker 2>there's certain diets, or there's certain you know, preventive measures

0:34:30.880 --> 0:34:33.720
<v Speaker 2>I can take to limit the swelling that you might cause,

0:34:33.800 --> 0:34:37.399
<v Speaker 2>or what you know, things of that nature. I think

0:34:37.440 --> 0:34:40.440
<v Speaker 2>are important is to just be deliberate and to be

0:34:40.520 --> 0:34:43.720
<v Speaker 2>focused on the most important aspects of your care because

0:34:43.800 --> 0:34:45.520
<v Speaker 2>you have a limited amount of time with your doctor,

0:34:45.560 --> 0:34:47.439
<v Speaker 2>you have a limited of time to the treatment. It's

0:34:47.480 --> 0:34:49.759
<v Speaker 2>important to be finite. I think.

0:34:50.960 --> 0:34:54.759
<v Speaker 1>I think that's amazing advice. And then that after the

0:34:54.880 --> 0:34:58.240
<v Speaker 1>radiation was very interesting for me. You know, the first

0:34:58.239 --> 0:35:03.200
<v Speaker 1>time I got radiation done for for just the breast wall, yes,

0:35:03.280 --> 0:35:05.200
<v Speaker 1>I was like a little tired, but I don't think

0:35:05.200 --> 0:35:07.960
<v Speaker 1>it impacted me as much. And maybe it's age, or

0:35:07.960 --> 0:35:10.200
<v Speaker 1>maybe it's because it was in the brain, but you

0:35:10.280 --> 0:35:13.960
<v Speaker 1>were very conscious of saying, listen, you're going to be tired,

0:35:14.000 --> 0:35:16.360
<v Speaker 1>and it doesn't hit you right away. I feel like

0:35:16.400 --> 0:35:21.839
<v Speaker 1>it built up and the fatigue got much worse later on.

0:35:21.960 --> 0:35:25.000
<v Speaker 2>That's a great question, and there's a very specific reason

0:35:25.040 --> 0:35:27.239
<v Speaker 2>for why you get tired after radiation, and it's a

0:35:27.239 --> 0:35:30.560
<v Speaker 2>good thing. So when you radiate a particular tissue, your

0:35:30.600 --> 0:35:33.200
<v Speaker 2>body doesn't know how to respond to it, so it's

0:35:33.239 --> 0:35:35.800
<v Speaker 2>immune system starts going a little bit crazy, like thinking

0:35:35.840 --> 0:35:39.640
<v Speaker 2>it has like a foreign invader. So that tiredness is

0:35:39.680 --> 0:35:42.560
<v Speaker 2>your immune system ramping up to deal with it, and

0:35:42.560 --> 0:35:47.640
<v Speaker 2>that's good in the following sense, there's no better weapon

0:35:47.719 --> 0:35:50.839
<v Speaker 2>that you have for fighting your cancer than your own

0:35:50.840 --> 0:35:54.759
<v Speaker 2>immune system. It's the one that knows what's normal and

0:35:54.840 --> 0:35:57.000
<v Speaker 2>abnormal in your body. It knows how to interpret that

0:35:57.360 --> 0:35:59.600
<v Speaker 2>and what radiation does. And frankly, this is part of

0:35:59.640 --> 0:36:04.160
<v Speaker 2>how is an effective anti cancer treatment is it ramps

0:36:04.239 --> 0:36:07.200
<v Speaker 2>up your own immune system. So the radiation causes the

0:36:07.200 --> 0:36:09.359
<v Speaker 2>same type of tiredness as like when you have a flu.

0:36:09.840 --> 0:36:12.080
<v Speaker 2>Your body is battling off like a virus or a

0:36:12.080 --> 0:36:15.160
<v Speaker 2>bacteria or something, and it's doing that because your immune

0:36:15.160 --> 0:36:17.120
<v Speaker 2>system is ramp up. That's why you're tired.

0:36:17.360 --> 0:36:20.640
<v Speaker 1>And so that explains why because you're getting more and

0:36:20.719 --> 0:36:24.960
<v Speaker 1>more radiation after so many treatments, you just it keeps growing.

0:36:25.120 --> 0:36:27.960
<v Speaker 1>That's fatigue because it's just really fighting all of it.

0:36:28.120 --> 0:36:30.600
<v Speaker 2>Your immune system keeps going, which is amazing.

0:36:30.680 --> 0:36:32.960
<v Speaker 1>For a while, I think I was also you know,

0:36:33.040 --> 0:36:38.400
<v Speaker 1>I mean I did surgery as well. Yeah, radiation I have,

0:36:38.800 --> 0:36:44.000
<v Speaker 1>I have almost like a guinea pig. So but what

0:36:44.080 --> 0:36:49.239
<v Speaker 1>I also found interesting for my particular case was that

0:36:49.280 --> 0:36:54.040
<v Speaker 1>we did radiate Bob. For those of you who don't

0:36:54.080 --> 0:36:56.480
<v Speaker 1>know who Bob is because we've now or I've at

0:36:56.560 --> 0:36:59.239
<v Speaker 1>least mentioned him two or three times, Bob was the

0:36:59.360 --> 0:37:05.680
<v Speaker 1>bigger tumor that we decided to remove because then we

0:37:05.719 --> 0:37:09.760
<v Speaker 1>could study its pathology, and in studying its pathology, it's

0:37:09.920 --> 0:37:13.440
<v Speaker 1>you know, molecular makeup and everything else. It allowed the

0:37:13.520 --> 0:37:16.160
<v Speaker 1>doctors to come up with the right plan to see

0:37:16.200 --> 0:37:19.279
<v Speaker 1>if it had changed, if it had changed, did it

0:37:19.360 --> 0:37:22.200
<v Speaker 1>become you know, was there any her two negative prospects

0:37:22.200 --> 0:37:24.120
<v Speaker 1>in there, like whatever it happened, how.

0:37:24.239 --> 0:37:26.320
<v Speaker 2>Is it sensitive to certain drugs versus others?

0:37:26.360 --> 0:37:28.000
<v Speaker 1>You know, we have that type, so we could do

0:37:28.040 --> 0:37:32.920
<v Speaker 1>a better treatment plan. But we radiated Bob first, and

0:37:33.120 --> 0:37:36.319
<v Speaker 1>that was I call them seeds. It was so that

0:37:36.440 --> 0:37:40.560
<v Speaker 1>during surgery, like there's little cancer seeds that could have

0:37:40.600 --> 0:37:42.239
<v Speaker 1>spilled out. Can you explain that?

0:37:42.560 --> 0:37:44.919
<v Speaker 2>So there's two different approaches when you have a brain

0:37:45.040 --> 0:37:48.640
<v Speaker 2>metastasis or brain met for short, Bob wasn't a very

0:37:48.680 --> 0:37:51.799
<v Speaker 2>accessible area, you know, so when when doctor Chew went

0:37:51.800 --> 0:37:54.000
<v Speaker 2>in there, it wasn't you know, he made a small

0:37:54.080 --> 0:37:56.520
<v Speaker 2>decision in your skull, and you know, he was able

0:37:56.560 --> 0:37:59.120
<v Speaker 2>to open the tentorium and just kind of go right

0:37:59.160 --> 0:38:00.759
<v Speaker 2>to where he needs to and take it out. And

0:38:00.880 --> 0:38:04.760
<v Speaker 2>sometimes when you're surgically removing a tumor, little tiny tumor

0:38:04.800 --> 0:38:07.120
<v Speaker 2>cells might just sort of kind of stick to the

0:38:07.280 --> 0:38:10.440
<v Speaker 2>edges and they might seed along where the incision is.

0:38:10.880 --> 0:38:14.080
<v Speaker 2>So that's why we give radio surgery after the fact.

0:38:14.080 --> 0:38:17.880
<v Speaker 2>But then the radio surgery after you remove Bob, you know,

0:38:17.920 --> 0:38:20.120
<v Speaker 2>it's a little bit more difficult because you don't have

0:38:20.160 --> 0:38:23.960
<v Speaker 2>a discernible target. You know, sometimes things can shift and

0:38:24.000 --> 0:38:25.400
<v Speaker 2>things like that, you know, and yours was at a

0:38:25.440 --> 0:38:27.480
<v Speaker 2>place where it could have shifted a little bit. So

0:38:27.520 --> 0:38:30.280
<v Speaker 2>we thought it was better, let's just radiate Bob now.

0:38:31.000 --> 0:38:33.640
<v Speaker 2>And you know, so that way we kind of sterilized

0:38:34.080 --> 0:38:39.400
<v Speaker 2>Bob's edges. Bob's edges, Sorry, Bob is on. We've we

0:38:39.520 --> 0:38:42.800
<v Speaker 2>sliced and diced Bob. Bob is sitting in paraffin box somewhere.

0:38:43.200 --> 0:38:45.440
<v Speaker 2>We took care of Bob.

0:38:45.600 --> 0:38:47.680
<v Speaker 1>I was like, can you guys please give me Bob.

0:38:48.080 --> 0:38:49.719
<v Speaker 2>We could give you like a little like his head

0:38:49.840 --> 0:38:54.440
<v Speaker 2>or something like that. No, but but then that sterilizes

0:38:54.480 --> 0:38:57.080
<v Speaker 2>the edges. So when we remove it, the edges were

0:38:57.120 --> 0:38:59.680
<v Speaker 2>sort of dead, so it doesn't seed along the area

0:38:59.719 --> 0:39:02.399
<v Speaker 2>that we've surgically removed. And now we know a year

0:39:02.480 --> 0:39:06.040
<v Speaker 2>later that you know, it was successful in eradicating there,

0:39:06.080 --> 0:39:08.080
<v Speaker 2>So it didn't Bob didn't regrowth.

0:39:07.719 --> 0:39:11.400
<v Speaker 1>But it didn't kill all of Bob. It was like

0:39:11.440 --> 0:39:13.879
<v Speaker 1>you said, just the edges, so that when doctor Chu

0:39:14.000 --> 0:39:16.440
<v Speaker 1>removed as much of it as he could, yeah, it

0:39:16.480 --> 0:39:21.200
<v Speaker 1>was still alive enough tissue in order to see the pathology.

0:39:21.320 --> 0:39:22.279
<v Speaker 1>Does that make any sense?

0:39:22.320 --> 0:39:25.160
<v Speaker 2>Absolutely yes, because the things that we were looking at

0:39:25.239 --> 0:39:28.480
<v Speaker 2>kind of in a molecular aspect would take more than

0:39:28.680 --> 0:39:30.480
<v Speaker 2>you know, a few days to change, you know, in

0:39:31.000 --> 0:39:33.799
<v Speaker 2>the body. So we were able to get enough information

0:39:34.040 --> 0:39:37.480
<v Speaker 2>to make the necessary changes we needed, you know, to assess,

0:39:37.680 --> 0:39:39.960
<v Speaker 2>so to speak. You know, if you'd kind of radiated

0:39:40.000 --> 0:39:42.000
<v Speaker 2>Bob and waited like five or six weeks, there might

0:39:42.000 --> 0:39:43.719
<v Speaker 2>have been some changes, it might have transformed in a

0:39:43.760 --> 0:39:46.799
<v Speaker 2>way where the information wouldn't have been as useful. But

0:39:47.280 --> 0:39:49.640
<v Speaker 2>this approach was was ultimately the best for you, just

0:39:49.680 --> 0:39:53.120
<v Speaker 2>for that specific reason. So sometimes as an oncologist like

0:39:53.160 --> 0:39:57.080
<v Speaker 2>doctor Pirol, you're sort of giving, using your best clinical judgment,

0:39:57.480 --> 0:39:59.839
<v Speaker 2>what responds in what scenario. And that's why I think

0:40:00.520 --> 0:40:03.799
<v Speaker 2>having gray hair is really important on cology because you

0:40:03.800 --> 0:40:06.120
<v Speaker 2>can read the information in a medical journal. You can

0:40:06.200 --> 0:40:09.239
<v Speaker 2>read the statistics and the outcomes and things like that

0:40:09.320 --> 0:40:12.840
<v Speaker 2>other people's experiences, but when you do several thousand of

0:40:12.880 --> 0:40:16.560
<v Speaker 2>them yourself, that just gives you a much better perspective

0:40:16.560 --> 0:40:19.040
<v Speaker 2>of like, no, when I tried this, this worked and

0:40:19.080 --> 0:40:20.840
<v Speaker 2>that didn't work. When I tried that, that worked and

0:40:20.880 --> 0:40:24.239
<v Speaker 2>this didn't work. And so experience I think is really important.

0:40:24.400 --> 0:40:26.399
<v Speaker 2>Some of your listeners might be hearing this and saying, oh,

0:40:26.440 --> 0:40:28.239
<v Speaker 2>my doctors are really young and just came out, but

0:40:28.719 --> 0:40:32.240
<v Speaker 2>they I'm sure have the training and experience of their

0:40:32.400 --> 0:40:35.480
<v Speaker 2>mentors and people that can help guide them as well,

0:40:35.600 --> 0:40:39.600
<v Speaker 2>you know. So I do think that clinical experience is

0:40:39.719 --> 0:40:42.640
<v Speaker 2>very valuable in guiding this type of decision making because

0:40:43.040 --> 0:40:46.320
<v Speaker 2>a lot of it is just to some degree, relying

0:40:46.360 --> 0:40:49.560
<v Speaker 2>on chance and relying on hope that something works.

0:40:49.280 --> 0:40:52.400
<v Speaker 1>You know, right. I like my doctors to have some

0:40:52.520 --> 0:40:56.359
<v Speaker 1>surgical clinical research experience. I want to cover it all.

0:41:04.680 --> 0:41:07.960
<v Speaker 1>I also think that people have to be extremely careful,

0:41:07.960 --> 0:41:11.000
<v Speaker 1>because I know that this happened to me, of digging

0:41:11.040 --> 0:41:15.080
<v Speaker 1>for too much information on everything. Because there's a lot

0:41:15.280 --> 0:41:19.160
<v Speaker 1>of chat rooms that are wonderful right where people can

0:41:19.760 --> 0:41:24.920
<v Speaker 1>support each other, But it can also be a really

0:41:25.000 --> 0:41:29.719
<v Speaker 1>dark path because somebody will say, oh, well, I have

0:41:29.800 --> 0:41:32.920
<v Speaker 1>the same thing as you have, you know, stage four cancer,

0:41:34.239 --> 0:41:39.400
<v Speaker 1>but their body could respond to a medicine that yours doesen't.

0:41:39.480 --> 0:41:43.160
<v Speaker 1>They could you know, have shutting of hair much more

0:41:43.280 --> 0:41:46.560
<v Speaker 1>than you or much less. So you have to be

0:41:46.640 --> 0:41:49.200
<v Speaker 1>really careful with those chat rooms and when you're looking

0:41:49.239 --> 0:41:52.520
<v Speaker 1>for the information. Yet it's I think, is it helpful

0:41:52.600 --> 0:41:57.239
<v Speaker 1>for your patients at least to be somewhat knowledgeable.

0:41:58.320 --> 0:42:00.399
<v Speaker 2>It is helpful for them to be knowledgeable, of course,

0:42:00.840 --> 0:42:04.280
<v Speaker 2>but sometimes people sort of go down the wormhole, and

0:42:04.640 --> 0:42:07.120
<v Speaker 2>sometimes even if you tell them no, this is not

0:42:07.239 --> 0:42:09.239
<v Speaker 2>the case, they still don't believe you because they saw

0:42:09.239 --> 0:42:11.880
<v Speaker 2>it in some chat room. Here's a good way to

0:42:11.920 --> 0:42:14.799
<v Speaker 2>think about that. If you're in a classroom and you

0:42:14.880 --> 0:42:17.480
<v Speaker 2>lean over to you know, person next to you and say, hey,

0:42:17.920 --> 0:42:20.319
<v Speaker 2>I saw so and so kissing so and so, and

0:42:20.320 --> 0:42:22.680
<v Speaker 2>then that person turns, the next person says, I saw

0:42:22.760 --> 0:42:25.480
<v Speaker 2>so and so kissing so and so, and two other

0:42:25.480 --> 0:42:28.080
<v Speaker 2>people are, you know, and it keeps going around, and

0:42:28.160 --> 0:42:31.040
<v Speaker 2>just within one classroom, it might come back to you

0:42:31.080 --> 0:42:36.239
<v Speaker 2>as like, you know, so and so was on de Yeah,

0:42:36.280 --> 0:42:38.400
<v Speaker 2>I tried. I tried to weave in and I know

0:42:38.480 --> 0:42:41.719
<v Speaker 2>two in a reference there. But my point is, in

0:42:41.760 --> 0:42:45.080
<v Speaker 2>a very short amount of time, misinformation, just in a

0:42:45.239 --> 0:42:48.600
<v Speaker 2>small classroom, small table full of people can just spread

0:42:48.680 --> 0:42:50.800
<v Speaker 2>like that, you know, and so I always try to

0:42:50.840 --> 0:42:52.920
<v Speaker 2>tell people like, look, you know the Fourth House and

0:42:52.960 --> 0:42:56.200
<v Speaker 2>breast cancer patients that I've treated in my career, here's

0:42:56.280 --> 0:42:58.799
<v Speaker 2>my experience, here's what I tend to see. You know,

0:42:58.920 --> 0:43:01.200
<v Speaker 2>you might read on a room that it causes this

0:43:01.360 --> 0:43:03.640
<v Speaker 2>or that and that and this, but at the same time,

0:43:03.840 --> 0:43:05.480
<v Speaker 2>you know, it's a different era. You know, these are

0:43:05.600 --> 0:43:08.720
<v Speaker 2>women that were probably treated in the nineties or two

0:43:09.080 --> 0:43:12.719
<v Speaker 2>different period of time under different circumstances. So I do

0:43:12.840 --> 0:43:15.279
<v Speaker 2>my best to try to reel them in, you know,

0:43:15.719 --> 0:43:17.960
<v Speaker 2>as best as I can. But it is good to

0:43:18.000 --> 0:43:22.000
<v Speaker 2>be informed. It's not good to let information online consume

0:43:22.080 --> 0:43:24.840
<v Speaker 2>you and guide you down the wrong path, so to speak.

0:43:25.040 --> 0:43:27.319
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think you know. I did visit a few

0:43:27.400 --> 0:43:32.360
<v Speaker 1>chat rooms right in the beginning because I was obviously curious,

0:43:32.560 --> 0:43:37.480
<v Speaker 1>and I found it disruptive for me, just because it

0:43:37.760 --> 0:43:41.880
<v Speaker 1>did feel like a game of telephone. But there were

0:43:41.920 --> 0:43:44.279
<v Speaker 1>other chatrooms that I went into and it felt like

0:43:44.320 --> 0:43:47.600
<v Speaker 1>a sisterhood and like a family, all supporting each other.

0:43:47.600 --> 0:43:50.239
<v Speaker 1>And I was like, well, that's really beautiful because we

0:43:50.320 --> 0:43:52.600
<v Speaker 1>all need that, we all need the love and support,

0:43:52.880 --> 0:43:56.359
<v Speaker 1>especially when you're facing something like cancer, whatever cancer you have,

0:43:56.440 --> 0:43:59.640
<v Speaker 1>it's such a difficult disease. But there are, you know,

0:43:59.719 --> 0:44:05.239
<v Speaker 1>some excellent published papers out there to give you the

0:44:05.320 --> 0:44:08.719
<v Speaker 1>kind of knowledge and information that you need in order

0:44:08.760 --> 0:44:12.000
<v Speaker 1>to go in and feel like you've got a little

0:44:12.040 --> 0:44:13.719
<v Speaker 1>bit of a handle on your own disease, because I

0:44:13.800 --> 0:44:15.920
<v Speaker 1>think that that's the biggest thing, is that cancer is

0:44:16.040 --> 0:44:20.000
<v Speaker 1>still somewhat unknown. Of course to the individual who gets

0:44:20.000 --> 0:44:23.680
<v Speaker 1>it that they need to feel armed with knowledge.

0:44:23.760 --> 0:44:26.360
<v Speaker 2>Yes, absolutely, I'm going to add a little grain of

0:44:26.440 --> 0:44:28.080
<v Speaker 2>salt to what you said. I always had a lot

0:44:28.120 --> 0:44:31.200
<v Speaker 2>of patients, and I'd say you're definitely on the higher

0:44:31.280 --> 0:44:33.719
<v Speaker 2>end of the spectrum in terms of being able to

0:44:33.800 --> 0:44:36.759
<v Speaker 2>process this information. You're a pretty intelligent young lady. And

0:44:37.080 --> 0:44:41.520
<v Speaker 2>you also you're getting the right information from the right places.

0:44:41.560 --> 0:44:46.759
<v Speaker 2>I mean, that's like the top two percentile of my experience.

0:44:47.080 --> 0:44:51.240
<v Speaker 2>Usually it's like everything in between. Again, the vast majority

0:44:51.239 --> 0:44:53.799
<v Speaker 2>of patients, they understand the information you're sharing with them.

0:44:54.080 --> 0:44:56.480
<v Speaker 2>If they bring something up that they learn from the outside,

0:44:56.600 --> 0:44:59.000
<v Speaker 2>you know, it's easy to just sort of put it

0:44:59.040 --> 0:45:01.759
<v Speaker 2>into the proper content ext firm. But not everyone can

0:45:01.800 --> 0:45:06.320
<v Speaker 2>pull up medical literature papers and recent publications and process

0:45:06.320 --> 0:45:07.680
<v Speaker 2>that the way you do. And I know you've brought

0:45:07.680 --> 0:45:09.040
<v Speaker 2>it up with me a couple of times in the past.

0:45:09.080 --> 0:45:11.239
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, oh, wow, that's pretty impressive. You know, I

0:45:11.280 --> 0:45:13.760
<v Speaker 2>wish they were all like you, but you're the exception,

0:45:14.000 --> 0:45:17.799
<v Speaker 2>not the rule. But yes, it's always important to arm

0:45:17.800 --> 0:45:20.759
<v Speaker 2>yourself with whatever information you can, allow it to be

0:45:20.800 --> 0:45:24.080
<v Speaker 2>filtered properly. It's usually very helpful if you talk to

0:45:24.120 --> 0:45:26.799
<v Speaker 2>other people with the same condition that you have. I

0:45:26.880 --> 0:45:29.479
<v Speaker 2>found those chat room to be very helpful because, yeah,

0:45:29.840 --> 0:45:31.360
<v Speaker 2>very often sometimes there are in my own pace and

0:45:31.360 --> 0:45:33.320
<v Speaker 2>it's like, oh doctor, you know, like you know, they'll

0:45:33.520 --> 0:45:35.879
<v Speaker 2>make that connection and things like that. But I do

0:45:35.920 --> 0:45:39.600
<v Speaker 2>think it's incredibly important to find support as long as

0:45:39.640 --> 0:45:42.080
<v Speaker 2>you take with a grain of salt that sometimes the

0:45:42.080 --> 0:45:45.279
<v Speaker 2>information or the treatment they got might not pertain to

0:45:45.400 --> 0:45:48.400
<v Speaker 2>their circumstance. You know, you're very good at that, and

0:45:48.480 --> 0:45:49.359
<v Speaker 2>others aren't. You know.

0:45:49.960 --> 0:45:52.760
<v Speaker 1>Well, you know, I learned that through I had doctor

0:45:52.800 --> 0:45:55.240
<v Speaker 1>piro On and we talked about one of my best

0:45:55.239 --> 0:46:00.440
<v Speaker 1>friends who passed away from stage four breast cancer. Like me,

0:46:00.640 --> 0:46:03.440
<v Speaker 1>it didn't she didn't have brain mets, hers had spread

0:46:03.440 --> 0:46:08.279
<v Speaker 1>to her organs, and when she first got sick. I

0:46:08.360 --> 0:46:11.840
<v Speaker 1>really associated everything that she was going through with myself

0:46:11.880 --> 0:46:14.959
<v Speaker 1>in the beginning. So then when she had all these

0:46:15.000 --> 0:46:17.719
<v Speaker 1>pains and that meant that it had spread, all of

0:46:17.760 --> 0:46:20.360
<v Speaker 1>a sudden, I got pains and it had spread. Doctor

0:46:20.360 --> 0:46:25.160
<v Speaker 1>Parro was very on top of me about not associating

0:46:25.840 --> 0:46:30.040
<v Speaker 1>my experience with hers, because he said, night and day

0:46:30.239 --> 0:46:33.960
<v Speaker 1>two very different things. Yes, stage four breast cancer, yours

0:46:34.000 --> 0:46:36.319
<v Speaker 1>is in your bones, hers is in her organs. Like

0:46:36.680 --> 0:46:40.880
<v Speaker 1>there's two different treatments, there's two different This is incredibly different,

0:46:41.239 --> 0:46:43.760
<v Speaker 1>and you cannot associate. And even if you have someone

0:46:43.800 --> 0:46:47.680
<v Speaker 1>who who you find where it did travel into their

0:46:47.680 --> 0:46:49.920
<v Speaker 1>bones and they have brain mets, it's still going to

0:46:49.920 --> 0:46:54.359
<v Speaker 1>be different because we're all individuals, and although we can

0:46:54.800 --> 0:46:58.360
<v Speaker 1>hug and support each other as much as humanly possible,

0:46:58.880 --> 0:47:02.560
<v Speaker 1>you still have to keep a little bit of disassociation,

0:47:02.800 --> 0:47:03.600
<v Speaker 1>I guess.

0:47:04.080 --> 0:47:07.080
<v Speaker 2>And what's worse is that, you know, I'm sure that

0:47:07.440 --> 0:47:11.040
<v Speaker 2>doctors like doctor Piro, myself and others, you know, if

0:47:11.080 --> 0:47:14.520
<v Speaker 2>you're describing a circumstance from another patient to us, unless

0:47:14.520 --> 0:47:17.600
<v Speaker 2>we treated that patient, we don't know the details. We

0:47:17.640 --> 0:47:20.680
<v Speaker 2>don't know the molecular basis of their tumor or where

0:47:20.719 --> 0:47:23.040
<v Speaker 2>it has spread. It's also really hard for us to

0:47:23.040 --> 0:47:25.440
<v Speaker 2>say no, that doesn't apply to you because of X,

0:47:25.520 --> 0:47:28.120
<v Speaker 2>Y and Z, because we haven't had a chance to

0:47:28.160 --> 0:47:30.880
<v Speaker 2>read through their chart and say that. So sometimes I

0:47:31.320 --> 0:47:35.319
<v Speaker 2>see doctors sometimes get frustrated trying to kind of tell

0:47:35.320 --> 0:47:37.439
<v Speaker 2>them it doesn't really apply it because they don't have

0:47:37.840 --> 0:47:40.400
<v Speaker 2>the information to kind of say whether it does or doesn't,

0:47:40.440 --> 0:47:43.200
<v Speaker 2>you know, and that. But that's an important point. And

0:47:44.000 --> 0:47:46.640
<v Speaker 2>you know, I've seen a lot of people spiral with

0:47:47.480 --> 0:47:49.080
<v Speaker 2>having information and others like that.

0:47:49.320 --> 0:47:51.319
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean, and it's not just the person with

0:47:51.360 --> 0:47:55.320
<v Speaker 1>the cancer that spirals, it's everybody else. It happened to

0:47:55.360 --> 0:47:59.319
<v Speaker 1>me very very very recently where a woman said to

0:47:59.360 --> 0:48:01.840
<v Speaker 1>me that her dad is a doctor, and so she

0:48:02.000 --> 0:48:05.560
<v Speaker 1>spoke to her father and you know, how did it

0:48:05.640 --> 0:48:09.840
<v Speaker 1>feel or how does it feel that I have stage

0:48:09.960 --> 0:48:13.680
<v Speaker 1>four terminal cancer and my time is limited? And I

0:48:13.880 --> 0:48:16.880
<v Speaker 1>was like, whoa, And she's like, well, my dad explained.

0:48:16.880 --> 0:48:19.880
<v Speaker 1>I mean, like to me, it's like, first off, your

0:48:19.960 --> 0:48:25.560
<v Speaker 1>dad doesn't know anything about my particular like the broad strokes. Sure,

0:48:25.800 --> 0:48:28.400
<v Speaker 1>just what I've told people and what's out there in

0:48:28.440 --> 0:48:32.399
<v Speaker 1>the public, but he doesn't know my exact pathology, and

0:48:32.600 --> 0:48:34.480
<v Speaker 1>he doesn't know my treatment plan. Like there are so

0:48:34.560 --> 0:48:39.800
<v Speaker 1>many variables that go into each person's individual cancer. That

0:48:39.800 --> 0:48:44.280
<v Speaker 1>that's why associating your cancer with somebody else's or assuming

0:48:44.320 --> 0:48:48.719
<v Speaker 1>that you know everything, it's impossible because it just is.

0:48:48.840 --> 0:48:52.520
<v Speaker 1>It's like the people who tell me, hey, and you know,

0:48:52.600 --> 0:48:54.560
<v Speaker 1>God bless them because they're just trying to help me.

0:48:54.680 --> 0:48:59.200
<v Speaker 1>But you shouldn't be on any of these pharmaceutical drugs,

0:48:59.480 --> 0:49:02.000
<v Speaker 1>that's what's giving you cancer. Go on a vegan diet

0:49:02.120 --> 0:49:05.759
<v Speaker 1>or do this. And I'm like, yeah, sure, let me

0:49:05.880 --> 0:49:09.120
<v Speaker 1>just you know, not get infusions and see how fast

0:49:09.200 --> 0:49:14.040
<v Speaker 1>everything spreads while I try some experimental all natural which listen,

0:49:14.160 --> 0:49:19.400
<v Speaker 1>everybody can do what they want individually. But there's a

0:49:19.560 --> 0:49:21.720
<v Speaker 1>lot of misinformation about cancer.

0:49:22.280 --> 0:49:24.520
<v Speaker 2>You bring up a very good point, and it leads

0:49:24.600 --> 0:49:26.440
<v Speaker 2>me to one of my favorite quotes. I tell my

0:49:26.520 --> 0:49:28.480
<v Speaker 2>residents and fellows this all the time. You know, there's

0:49:28.520 --> 0:49:32.200
<v Speaker 2>three types of lies in this world. There's lies, there's

0:49:32.280 --> 0:49:37.160
<v Speaker 2>damn lies, and there's cancer statistics. The reason I say that,

0:49:37.200 --> 0:49:40.839
<v Speaker 2>and what I mean by that is, you know, very

0:49:40.880 --> 0:49:43.680
<v Speaker 2>often and patients are very focused on this, understandably, of course,

0:49:43.680 --> 0:49:45.920
<v Speaker 2>but they're very focused on how much longer do I

0:49:45.960 --> 0:49:46.319
<v Speaker 2>have to live?

0:49:46.400 --> 0:49:46.600
<v Speaker 1>Doc?

0:49:46.719 --> 0:49:49.040
<v Speaker 2>And I'm like, or what are the chances that I'll

0:49:49.080 --> 0:49:52.319
<v Speaker 2>be cured? And you know, my favorite answer sometimes is

0:49:52.320 --> 0:49:55.960
<v Speaker 2>like somewhere between zero and one hundred percent, because it's

0:49:56.239 --> 0:49:59.120
<v Speaker 2>really and I think that's where the experience comes in.

0:49:59.160 --> 0:50:02.839
<v Speaker 2>And I assured doctor Hero feels the same. You know. See,

0:50:02.880 --> 0:50:05.040
<v Speaker 2>you've seen it all over the years. You're like, you

0:50:05.080 --> 0:50:07.040
<v Speaker 2>see someone that thought they were going to be completely

0:50:07.120 --> 0:50:09.600
<v Speaker 2>cured and al lujah and go have a big party,

0:50:09.640 --> 0:50:11.520
<v Speaker 2>and then you know, two months later it comes back,

0:50:11.520 --> 0:50:14.319
<v Speaker 2>you know, crazy fashion. Or you see people where it's

0:50:14.400 --> 0:50:17.799
<v Speaker 2>quote unquote stage four terminal. All the buzzwords that I

0:50:17.800 --> 0:50:20.719
<v Speaker 2>think don't really apply in today's era of cancer care.

0:50:21.200 --> 0:50:23.880
<v Speaker 2>You see them living many, many, many many years with

0:50:23.960 --> 0:50:27.920
<v Speaker 2>no evidence of disease. Right, It's really hard to predict

0:50:27.960 --> 0:50:31.720
<v Speaker 2>what's going to happen on an individual basis. It's really

0:50:31.800 --> 0:50:34.759
<v Speaker 2>hard to try to tell people, hey, you know, I

0:50:34.760 --> 0:50:37.880
<v Speaker 2>mean there are some circumstances where the disease might not

0:50:37.960 --> 0:50:40.800
<v Speaker 2>be responding to X, Y and Z, and it continues

0:50:40.840 --> 0:50:43.640
<v Speaker 2>to progress where you can start to have a sense that, Okay,

0:50:43.640 --> 0:50:46.400
<v Speaker 2>this is not going in a good direction. In the

0:50:46.520 --> 0:50:50.920
<v Speaker 2>absence of that, in the absence of any discernible progression,

0:50:51.680 --> 0:50:55.360
<v Speaker 2>just living as a statistic living as like, oh I'm terminal,

0:50:55.440 --> 0:50:58.960
<v Speaker 2>Like you know, it's never. It doesn't make sense to me.

0:50:59.160 --> 0:51:00.840
<v Speaker 2>I don't think that's the right way to think about it.

0:51:00.840 --> 0:51:02.799
<v Speaker 2>I think the right way to think about it it's

0:51:02.880 --> 0:51:06.560
<v Speaker 2>highly variable. Do what you can with your doctors and

0:51:06.600 --> 0:51:08.640
<v Speaker 2>do what they offer you to the best that you can.

0:51:08.719 --> 0:51:11.520
<v Speaker 2>Be an advocate for yourself as a patient as you

0:51:11.600 --> 0:51:14.080
<v Speaker 2>are and as most of my patients are. Try to

0:51:14.160 --> 0:51:16.160
<v Speaker 2>learn as much as you can. Learn what your options are,

0:51:16.280 --> 0:51:18.319
<v Speaker 2>learn what would happen if it progresses, you know, but

0:51:19.120 --> 0:51:23.040
<v Speaker 2>there's no certainty in what in what this experience is, right,

0:51:23.239 --> 0:51:26.000
<v Speaker 2>which is good because you know it gives people hope

0:51:26.040 --> 0:51:29.160
<v Speaker 2>to you know, you know, I never you always want people,

0:51:29.800 --> 0:51:33.880
<v Speaker 2>even in dire circumstances, you know, you always want people

0:51:33.880 --> 0:51:36.560
<v Speaker 2>to have some semblance of hope. I saw this quote once,

0:51:36.640 --> 0:51:38.040
<v Speaker 2>I remember where I saw it, but it was like,

0:51:38.400 --> 0:51:41.960
<v Speaker 2>when you have health, we have health, you have hope,

0:51:42.320 --> 0:51:45.480
<v Speaker 2>and when you have hope, you have everything. You know,

0:51:45.560 --> 0:51:47.920
<v Speaker 2>that's really all you need is just a little bit

0:51:47.920 --> 0:51:49.839
<v Speaker 2>of hope. But you know, I don't want to you know,

0:51:49.960 --> 0:51:51.920
<v Speaker 2>you don't want to mislead people, but you also want

0:51:51.920 --> 0:51:55.120
<v Speaker 2>to say look, a lot of possibilities with what you have,

0:51:55.239 --> 0:51:58.160
<v Speaker 2>with your condition, with your response to treatment. Hang in there,

0:51:58.239 --> 0:52:01.359
<v Speaker 2>keep moving forward, be present, and every moment live your

0:52:01.360 --> 0:52:03.520
<v Speaker 2>life as best as you can. You know, let us

0:52:03.560 --> 0:52:05.279
<v Speaker 2>worry about the treatments and stuff like that, and just

0:52:05.360 --> 0:52:07.280
<v Speaker 2>keep moving forward. Every day is a gift.

0:52:07.840 --> 0:52:10.520
<v Speaker 1>Every day is a gift, And there are so many

0:52:12.280 --> 0:52:18.040
<v Speaker 1>new things in the works that I think hope is

0:52:18.239 --> 0:52:24.320
<v Speaker 1>always there. It's so important because listen, I can die today.

0:52:24.480 --> 0:52:27.040
<v Speaker 1>I could die in twenty years, I don't know. I

0:52:27.080 --> 0:52:30.120
<v Speaker 1>could die walking outside of my house and you know,

0:52:30.200 --> 0:52:32.360
<v Speaker 1>a tree falling on me or a bus hitting me

0:52:32.520 --> 0:52:36.000
<v Speaker 1>or whatever, or I can die of cancer. But all

0:52:36.040 --> 0:52:39.879
<v Speaker 1>I can do is live each day in as much

0:52:39.920 --> 0:52:43.440
<v Speaker 1>of a positive manner with a lot of hope as

0:52:43.520 --> 0:52:46.839
<v Speaker 1>I can, and embrace it and be like, wow, you know,

0:52:47.000 --> 0:52:48.880
<v Speaker 1>I get to wake up again today and what do

0:52:48.920 --> 0:52:52.360
<v Speaker 1>I get to do? And I believe that that positivity

0:52:52.480 --> 0:52:56.840
<v Speaker 1>that you bring into your life. I think it helps

0:52:56.880 --> 0:52:59.480
<v Speaker 1>with your hear it does, buddy, I think it helps

0:52:59.520 --> 0:53:00.520
<v Speaker 1>you fight the cancer.

0:53:00.719 --> 0:53:03.160
<v Speaker 2>It does kind of matter well well. Also, when you're

0:53:03.160 --> 0:53:05.400
<v Speaker 2>not as stressed out and anxious, you're not releasing as

0:53:05.480 --> 0:53:07.960
<v Speaker 2>much cortisol which gy have an effect. And I'm a

0:53:07.960 --> 0:53:10.560
<v Speaker 2>big believer, you know, not to sound like hope or anything,

0:53:10.600 --> 0:53:14.360
<v Speaker 2>but I believe that there is this energy in the world,

0:53:14.360 --> 0:53:19.520
<v Speaker 2>in the universe that manifesting positivity, you know, can have

0:53:19.560 --> 0:53:23.440
<v Speaker 2>this ripple effect somewhere in your world, you know, so

0:53:23.480 --> 0:53:26.480
<v Speaker 2>to speak. And but again it always it goes back

0:53:26.520 --> 0:53:29.440
<v Speaker 2>to what the Michael Jordan quote, being present in the moment.

0:53:29.760 --> 0:53:32.120
<v Speaker 2>Like you, you don't know what tomorrow is going to bring.

0:53:32.200 --> 0:53:33.839
<v Speaker 2>You don't know what you know five days from now

0:53:33.920 --> 0:53:36.080
<v Speaker 2>is going to bring. All you know is the day

0:53:36.080 --> 0:53:37.640
<v Speaker 2>in front of you is a gift and you want

0:53:37.680 --> 0:53:40.239
<v Speaker 2>to enjoy it and maximize it to the best of

0:53:40.239 --> 0:53:42.920
<v Speaker 2>your ability, enjoy it as best as you can. And

0:53:43.040 --> 0:53:47.319
<v Speaker 2>you know, hopefully there's always hope. You have hope a lot.

0:53:47.360 --> 0:53:50.840
<v Speaker 2>Hopefully all the patients who have cancer stage four cancer

0:53:51.360 --> 0:53:53.919
<v Speaker 2>that are listening to this, they have hope too. There's

0:53:54.000 --> 0:53:58.000
<v Speaker 2>always something that you know, you can turn over a

0:53:58.040 --> 0:54:01.640
<v Speaker 2>stone and it might lead to something that might add days,

0:54:01.760 --> 0:54:04.640
<v Speaker 2>you know, add weeks, years to your life. You just

0:54:04.719 --> 0:54:07.520
<v Speaker 2>don't know. You just have to keep moving forward.

0:54:12.040 --> 0:54:15.040
<v Speaker 1>So we met, if I recall how we met, it

0:54:15.160 --> 0:54:18.600
<v Speaker 1>was from doctor Piro. Yes, as we said, he's my

0:54:18.960 --> 0:54:21.560
<v Speaker 1>you know, general oncologist. I guess I'm gonna call it

0:54:21.600 --> 0:54:25.560
<v Speaker 1>like that. You obviously have to work in tandem with

0:54:25.760 --> 0:54:30.160
<v Speaker 1>the general on collegist, but does that always go smoothly?

0:54:30.360 --> 0:54:32.560
<v Speaker 2>No? No, never.

0:54:32.920 --> 0:54:35.480
<v Speaker 1>That response was amazing. That was very candid.

0:54:35.680 --> 0:54:39.080
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna put I'm gonna say something nice about doctor Piro.

0:54:39.239 --> 0:54:40.879
<v Speaker 2>This is why I respect him and me. I work

0:54:40.880 --> 0:54:42.279
<v Speaker 2>with a lot of different on colleagues, and a lot

0:54:42.320 --> 0:54:44.200
<v Speaker 2>of them are like you know, some of them are

0:54:44.239 --> 0:54:46.480
<v Speaker 2>on the cover of magazine, or some of them are

0:54:46.520 --> 0:54:48.960
<v Speaker 2>like you know, our big name people that you know

0:54:50.120 --> 0:54:52.920
<v Speaker 2>don't maybe they don't like to hear other perspectives as

0:54:53.320 --> 0:54:58.200
<v Speaker 2>their own. You know, someone like doctor Piro, who is

0:54:58.239 --> 0:55:01.799
<v Speaker 2>a very well established, very well afected oncologists. What I've

0:55:01.840 --> 0:55:06.799
<v Speaker 2>always appreciated about him in particular, you know, is he

0:55:06.920 --> 0:55:09.680
<v Speaker 2>will ask everyone, hey, this is the circumstance, this is

0:55:09.719 --> 0:55:12.600
<v Speaker 2>the clinical situation. What do you think He's not like

0:55:12.640 --> 0:55:14.520
<v Speaker 2>calling me up saying hey, I want you to do

0:55:14.640 --> 0:55:16.840
<v Speaker 2>this and that for Shannon or this person or you

0:55:16.880 --> 0:55:20.760
<v Speaker 2>know that person. Not at all. Very collegial, very open minded,

0:55:21.000 --> 0:55:24.560
<v Speaker 2>very open to discussion. Doctor Giuliano, who I think you know.

0:55:24.600 --> 0:55:27.399
<v Speaker 2>He's also he's got this whole dot g oh yeah,

0:55:27.520 --> 0:55:32.640
<v Speaker 2>doctor G. He's he has this army of you know,

0:55:32.800 --> 0:55:37.880
<v Speaker 2>young surgeons, young radiologists, young pathologists, young just this whole

0:55:37.960 --> 0:55:41.359
<v Speaker 2>team of people around him. He's always trying to learn something.

0:55:41.400 --> 0:55:43.919
<v Speaker 2>Every tumor board we have on Thursday, he's always trying

0:55:43.920 --> 0:55:46.400
<v Speaker 2>to learn something new. He's always trying to hear your perspective,

0:55:46.640 --> 0:55:48.880
<v Speaker 2>what are you bringing the table, what is your experience?

0:55:49.400 --> 0:55:53.120
<v Speaker 2>And it's wonderful to be surrounded by people like that. Now,

0:55:53.800 --> 0:55:57.160
<v Speaker 2>they're not always like that. There are definitely some people

0:55:57.360 --> 0:55:59.400
<v Speaker 2>that are like, Nope, this is the way to do it,

0:55:59.440 --> 0:56:02.640
<v Speaker 2>and you're all wrong, right, Like, there's definitely egos involved,

0:56:02.680 --> 0:56:05.600
<v Speaker 2>But I don't see that where I work, fortunately, and

0:56:05.680 --> 0:56:08.239
<v Speaker 2>I think it's it's lovely when you can all be like,

0:56:08.280 --> 0:56:10.880
<v Speaker 2>you know, listen, sometimes you might disagree. I'll disagree with

0:56:10.920 --> 0:56:14.719
<v Speaker 2>colleagues and we'll have playful discussions. But sometimes you're like,

0:56:14.800 --> 0:56:16.880
<v Speaker 2>you know, I don't know, you don't know, let's just

0:56:16.920 --> 0:56:19.440
<v Speaker 2>sort of do the best, make the best decision that

0:56:19.480 --> 0:56:20.840
<v Speaker 2>we can for the patient.

0:56:21.000 --> 0:56:23.480
<v Speaker 1>Do you really tell patients that it's not working?

0:56:24.800 --> 0:56:28.400
<v Speaker 2>Yes, very honest with patients. Oh yeah, So it just

0:56:28.400 --> 0:56:29.879
<v Speaker 2>didn't work. When did you do this? Now?

0:56:30.040 --> 0:56:33.440
<v Speaker 1>So how do you how do you how do you approach.

0:56:33.120 --> 0:56:36.080
<v Speaker 2>That right to the point, really right to the well.

0:56:38.560 --> 0:56:41.040
<v Speaker 1>The band aid off, by the way, I'm an advocate

0:56:41.080 --> 0:56:41.319
<v Speaker 1>of that.

0:56:41.480 --> 0:56:45.560
<v Speaker 2>No, of course, I'm always going to be empathetic to

0:56:45.680 --> 0:56:48.759
<v Speaker 2>anyone sitting in front of me that's undergoing cancer care.

0:56:48.760 --> 0:56:52.600
<v Speaker 2>I'm always going to be sensitive. But you got to

0:56:52.640 --> 0:56:54.840
<v Speaker 2>get right to the point, you know, And I do

0:56:54.880 --> 0:56:56.920
<v Speaker 2>a lot. A lot of my friends, you know, have

0:56:57.040 --> 0:56:59.399
<v Speaker 2>relatives that call me up and hey, what does this mean?

0:56:59.480 --> 0:57:02.600
<v Speaker 2>Or and he told me this or whatever. Sometimes they

0:57:02.680 --> 0:57:04.600
<v Speaker 2>might not have had the full picture, and like you

0:57:04.600 --> 0:57:07.080
<v Speaker 2>will see their report or their image or their MRI

0:57:07.239 --> 0:57:10.320
<v Speaker 2>and be like, ooh, that's not good. And you say, okay,

0:57:10.440 --> 0:57:13.239
<v Speaker 2>this means that, and it's bad. It's not you know,

0:57:13.239 --> 0:57:16.160
<v Speaker 2>it's not it's not something that responds. It's not something

0:57:16.200 --> 0:57:19.160
<v Speaker 2>that moves in a good direction. And you know, and

0:57:19.240 --> 0:57:22.760
<v Speaker 2>you this, we tried this treatment. It didn't work, So

0:57:22.760 --> 0:57:26.439
<v Speaker 2>we're going to try something else. And on occasion, there's

0:57:26.520 --> 0:57:28.840
<v Speaker 2>not much else we can try that's meaningful.

0:57:28.840 --> 0:57:30.840
<v Speaker 1>Right, I mean, like, that's got to have that's got

0:57:30.880 --> 0:57:33.440
<v Speaker 1>to be much harder conversation is when there isn't something

0:57:33.440 --> 0:57:33.919
<v Speaker 1>else to.

0:57:33.800 --> 0:57:36.280
<v Speaker 2>Try, it is And I think that in a time

0:57:36.440 --> 0:57:39.000
<v Speaker 2>like that, when you share that information with a patient,

0:57:39.040 --> 0:57:40.960
<v Speaker 2>you know, maybe once a week. You know, for me,

0:57:41.520 --> 0:57:44.120
<v Speaker 2>when you have to say something like that to a patient,

0:57:44.640 --> 0:57:47.479
<v Speaker 2>there's just like this dark cloak that goes over your head.

0:57:47.840 --> 0:57:51.360
<v Speaker 2>And that's where me, as as they're providing doctor in

0:57:51.400 --> 0:57:54.680
<v Speaker 2>that circumstance, I have to take a step back. Understand

0:57:54.760 --> 0:57:59.560
<v Speaker 2>they're not absorbing the information from me properly that they're

0:58:00.120 --> 0:58:03.040
<v Speaker 2>I don't want them to make a decision based on

0:58:03.160 --> 0:58:07.040
<v Speaker 2>something that was so emotionally reactive, something that you know,

0:58:07.040 --> 0:58:09.520
<v Speaker 2>where their life is flashing before their eyes. And that's

0:58:09.560 --> 0:58:11.720
<v Speaker 2>why I give my cell phone because they'll gather their

0:58:11.720 --> 0:58:14.480
<v Speaker 2>thoughts a day or two later. I always say, you know,

0:58:14.840 --> 0:58:18.120
<v Speaker 2>to my residence people I work with, they're there to

0:58:18.160 --> 0:58:22.640
<v Speaker 2>see you as an oncologist. First, it's always important to

0:58:22.760 --> 0:58:25.960
<v Speaker 2>get them to a point where they're making decisions that

0:58:26.000 --> 0:58:27.480
<v Speaker 2>you think are going to help me help them, or

0:58:27.480 --> 0:58:31.080
<v Speaker 2>that might give them a few more days, weeks, months, years,

0:58:31.080 --> 0:58:33.800
<v Speaker 2>you know what I'm saying. So I think it's important

0:58:33.800 --> 0:58:36.680
<v Speaker 2>and circumstances like that to always follow up, make sure

0:58:36.720 --> 0:58:40.040
<v Speaker 2>they're not overwhelmed, make sure they've thought about it, you know,

0:58:40.240 --> 0:58:42.960
<v Speaker 2>and then say, Okay, we can try X, we can

0:58:42.960 --> 0:58:45.760
<v Speaker 2>try Y, we can try Z. But it's hard. No, No,

0:58:45.800 --> 0:58:48.320
<v Speaker 2>it's hard. And you do as an oncologist and I'm

0:58:48.360 --> 0:58:52.280
<v Speaker 2>a very I feel relationships and feel friendships, and my

0:58:52.400 --> 0:58:54.640
<v Speaker 2>patients mean a lot to me on a personal level.

0:58:54.680 --> 0:58:57.240
<v Speaker 2>But you do have to detach yourself sometimes, not like

0:58:57.320 --> 0:58:59.120
<v Speaker 2>in a I'm not there for your sort of way,

0:58:59.160 --> 0:59:00.840
<v Speaker 2>but you have to go home home and shake it off.

0:59:00.880 --> 0:59:04.000
<v Speaker 1>And how do you do that? Because I mean, you know,

0:59:04.560 --> 0:59:07.800
<v Speaker 1>you have wife, you have kids, like, you have a family,

0:59:07.840 --> 0:59:11.520
<v Speaker 1>and you can't sort of take home that darkness all

0:59:11.520 --> 0:59:14.800
<v Speaker 1>the time because that would impact you know, your home life,

0:59:14.840 --> 0:59:17.280
<v Speaker 1>your family. How do you shake that off?

0:59:17.480 --> 0:59:19.880
<v Speaker 2>My wife? My wife talks about this all the time.

0:59:19.960 --> 0:59:22.960
<v Speaker 2>So like, you know, there's always that first hour or two,

0:59:23.080 --> 0:59:24.160
<v Speaker 2>like you know, it might you know, I might not

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<v Speaker 2>work till midnight or something, but I might come home

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<v Speaker 2>at five o'clock and just need like an hour to

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<v Speaker 2>to just be like turn on Sports Center, go to

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<v Speaker 2>dinner with a friend, or do something and just kind

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<v Speaker 2>of like decompressed. I never I never take it home

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<v Speaker 2>and put it on them of course, you know, because

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<v Speaker 2>again it goes back to what we're saying. Really, you know, life,

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<v Speaker 2>every every day's a gift, even for me, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>even though my days are numbered just like everyone else's.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, you have to take you have you have

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<v Speaker 2>to make sure you're present in the moment and then

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<v Speaker 2>enjoying every day that you can. But absorbing that and

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<v Speaker 2>passing it on to other people's not a good It

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't help anyone, and especially doesn't help your own patient.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, they're coming to you for help, They're coming

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<v Speaker 2>to you to help guide them, and you got to

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<v Speaker 2>be strong. So I always joke that like I'm holding

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<v Speaker 2>it all in and just one day I'll let it

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<v Speaker 2>all out, you know, like you know, run off the antarctica,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, starting to you know, you know, be friends

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<v Speaker 2>with like a polar bear or something, and just get

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<v Speaker 2>a hug.

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<v Speaker 1>This is why I do not I do not let

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<v Speaker 1>anyone in the medical field give me good news or

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<v Speaker 1>bad news in person, because for me, it puts an

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<v Speaker 1>instant barrier between us where they can have their own reaction.

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<v Speaker 1>They don't have to monitor their facial you know, reaction.

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<v Speaker 1>They can just say it to me on the phone,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I don't have to monitor my reaction because,

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<v Speaker 1>like the first time and second time that it was

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<v Speaker 1>told to me in person, I felt like I had

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<v Speaker 1>to be really strong in front of everybody and help

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<v Speaker 1>them through it. Not that they were asking me and

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<v Speaker 1>not that they weren't professional, but I still could see

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<v Speaker 1>like something a little different in their face, and I

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<v Speaker 1>had to reassure them that, like, oh, I'm not upset

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<v Speaker 1>by this news, like not at all. Don't worry about it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to go home. I'm going to have a

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<v Speaker 1>dance party, like and meanwhile, you know, all I want

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<v Speaker 1>to do is cry and like figure my shit out,

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<v Speaker 1>but I wouldn't do it in front of someone.

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<v Speaker 2>Human beings are complicated. It comes out in many different ways.

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<v Speaker 2>You have to let people sort of walk their path.

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<v Speaker 2>You have to let them go through the stages of

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<v Speaker 2>whatever it is they go through, and you fortunately have

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<v Speaker 2>this wonderful platform. I love that you're doing this in

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<v Speaker 2>such a way where you're bringing in all your doctors

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<v Speaker 2>and the people. You're trying to educate people on kind

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<v Speaker 2>of what the experience, what your experience has been, and

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<v Speaker 2>you've sort of run the table in terms of different

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<v Speaker 2>kinds of breast cancer therapy. You sort of had it all,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, and so I'm very grateful that you sitting

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<v Speaker 2>here in front of me looking as great you do,

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<v Speaker 2>with things being as controlled as they are, God blessed.

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<v Speaker 2>That's that's amazing, you know again, you know, but no,

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<v Speaker 2>not everyone experiences that, and as an oncologist, you just

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<v Speaker 2>have to do what's best for them.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, I'm going to wrap this up. I guess,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. One of those things that people always want

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<v Speaker 1>to know is like, have you seen miracles? But I

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<v Speaker 1>think for me I need to define really quickly in

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<v Speaker 1>my head what a miracle is. Yes, I'm a highly

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<v Speaker 1>spiritual human being. I believe in God, so I do

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<v Speaker 1>believe in miracles. Have you seen, you know, the worst

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<v Speaker 1>of the worst. Didn't think it was ever going to

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<v Speaker 1>be better, but something changed?

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<v Speaker 2>So the answer is absolutely yes. Now again, doesn't you know?

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<v Speaker 2>Common things happen commonly, right, you know? And I know

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<v Speaker 2>everyone wants an answer, they want to know what's going

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<v Speaker 2>to happen with me? I don't know, like you know,

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<v Speaker 2>you think you know sometimes you can guess, but seeing

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<v Speaker 2>the most dire circumstances, you know, switch to a better

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<v Speaker 2>direct where many months or years or you know, longer

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<v Speaker 2>than that was added. I have seen. Sometimes there's luck involved,

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<v Speaker 2>sometimes there's you know, the human body is sort of

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<v Speaker 2>this kind of this enigmatic thing, and sometimes things take

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<v Speaker 2>a turn that you don't expect as a professional that

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<v Speaker 2>you haven't seen many times or ever in your past.

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<v Speaker 2>And again you have to just always take one day

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<v Speaker 2>at a time and have hope and have faith that

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<v Speaker 2>you know you're moving in the right direction and that

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<v Speaker 2>as long as you do everything you can. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>when I played football in high school, they always coach

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<v Speaker 2>use to always say leave it all on the field.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, when you're out there playing you might win,

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<v Speaker 2>you might lose. I tell my volleyball girls is too, like,

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<v Speaker 2>just just leave it all in the court, don't leave

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<v Speaker 2>anything behind. You don't want to leave any stone unturned.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't want to have any regrets about trying this

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<v Speaker 2>or not doing that. And that applies to life, it

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<v Speaker 2>applies to your cancer journey. Leave it all out there

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<v Speaker 2>and then you can just move on in peace in life.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I agree with that, and I think that

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's beautiful. I kind of look at you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm I'm not gonna say what it is. I'm on

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<v Speaker 1>a new uh you know, cancer infusion, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>after four treatments, we didn't really see a difference, and

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<v Speaker 1>everybody wanted me to switch and yeah, and I just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of was like, we're going to keep going with

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<v Speaker 1>this and see and you know, yeah, after the sixth

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<v Speaker 1>seventh treatment, we really saw it breaking down the blood

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<v Speaker 1>brain barrier. Do I call that a miracle? Yeah? For me,

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<v Speaker 1>that happens to be a miracle right now. That like

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<v Speaker 1>I sort of rolled the dice and said let's keep going.

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<v Speaker 1>And doctor Piro and I, you know, after he looked

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<v Speaker 1>at the tumor markers, he felt comfortable with that decision.

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<v Speaker 1>And that it's actually breaking that blood brain barrier is

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<v Speaker 1>a miracle of that drug and a miracle of you know,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe God intervening and being like I'm going to give

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<v Speaker 1>her a break.

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<v Speaker 2>You know.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, sometimes you're looking for miracles in all the

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<v Speaker 1>wrong places and they're right there in front of your face.

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<v Speaker 2>This is true.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I feel like we could easily do a whole

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<v Speaker 1>nother anytime podcast, a whole another episode. You're wonderful. I

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<v Speaker 1>just love you and for all of you guys listening,

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<v Speaker 1>remember to go on Let's Be Clear pod on Instagram,

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<v Speaker 1>send us any questions that you have, and I promise,

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<v Speaker 1>if I have to drive to seaters with all of

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<v Speaker 1>my computers and mics and all of that stuff, I'll

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<v Speaker 1>do it and we'll answer your guys questions. So thank you,

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you, doctor MARHARDI thank you very much, and I

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<v Speaker 1>adore you, and I really appreciate everything that you do

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<v Speaker 1>and how fantastic you are with your patients and all

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<v Speaker 1>of your advice and your expertise. It's deeply appreciated.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you for having me.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks all right, you guys, tune in next week to

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