Speaker 1: Second d of date. Look, I'll be honest. Anytime somebody
Speaker 1: comes on our show and says that for a date
Speaker 1: they did dinner in a movie, I silently criticize them.
Speaker 1: Why yeah, I can get behind that. Actually I know
Speaker 1: I'm with him for a first date. It's a horrible idea.
Speaker 1: They can't talk, you don't get to know the person.
Speaker 1: I can always talk. Well, you know what, I really
Speaker 1: do need to stop judging now, because, on the other hand,
Speaker 1: anytime one of our listeners tries are really creative first date,
Speaker 1: it always seems to go worse than dinner in Hey,
Speaker 1: let's print out the local sex offender list and go
Speaker 1: around to all their addresses and let's just let's see
Speaker 1: what we see. Be romantic. Yes, exactly, it never seems
Speaker 1: to go quite as well as it does in your mind.
Speaker 1: Wasn't set And maybe that's how one of our listeners,
Speaker 1: Nick is feeling today that he should have gone with
Speaker 1: a more classic first date idea. We're here about it now, Nick,
Speaker 1: Welcome to the show man. I want to hey, how's
Speaker 1: it going. Please please tell me you didn't do the
Speaker 1: sex offender scavenger hunt or you weren't found on this list.
Speaker 1: I want to original with this one. Well, hear more
Speaker 1: about your non traditional date in the second, but first,
Speaker 1: tell us about the girl that you met. What's her name?
Speaker 1: Her name is Brittany, and I met Brittany on a
Speaker 1: dating app and it went pretty good. I mean we
Speaker 1: have talked for about three weeks on tech and like
Speaker 1: on the phone and stuffy. Yeah, you guys even had
Speaker 1: phone calls. Yeah. I don't know why you guys are
Speaker 1: acting like it's strange that I would talk to a
Speaker 1: woman before I go on a date with her. I
Speaker 1: want to call you, I really, I don't even answer
Speaker 1: my mom's calls. Yeah. I have to really like you,
Speaker 1: especially if you face time too. That's a whole other
Speaker 1: level of like make an eye contact. I mean Nicks,
Speaker 1: but Nick's more old school, like more traditional with his romance.
Speaker 1: Clearly you know how to court a woman first. Yeah,
Speaker 1: absolutely speaking to them. But so that's a nice you
Speaker 1: had three weeks of correspondence. What did you end up
Speaker 1: doing for a date. I'm trying to use I'm using
Speaker 1: his turn Okay, Okay, I invited her to dinner party
Speaker 1: with some friends. Oh oh, oh, so you're going in
Speaker 1: hot You're just introducing her to your friends right away. Yeah. Man,
Speaker 1: I didn't really mean for it to happen like that,
Speaker 1: Like I didn't want them all to meet her at once.
Speaker 1: But Brittany and my schedule just was not linking up.
Speaker 1: Brittany and me, we're not having an easy time getting
Speaker 1: a date together. Okay. So I mean, how did you
Speaker 1: prep her for a dinner with all your friends? Oh?
Speaker 1: I didn't prep her for it? Did you? Did you
Speaker 1: tell her that your friends were going to be at
Speaker 1: this dinner or you just invited her over to dinner
Speaker 1: and it's like surprised here's my entire social circle. Definitely
Speaker 1: the second one. Oh oh my god. Okay, So even
Speaker 1: if she knew she was coming to that, that sounds bad.
Speaker 1: But what was her What did she say when you guys?
Speaker 1: I mean, did you just walk into somebody's house or
Speaker 1: was it at your house? Paint the picture for me here.
Speaker 1: We got a lot of questions. I was at my house,
Speaker 1: so I was cooking up a bunch of food and
Speaker 1: she showed up late. So I was just about ready
Speaker 1: to like plate and everything and get going. Oh so
Speaker 1: you were like people were sitting down at the table
Speaker 1: ready to eat. Not quite there, but they were close.
Speaker 1: They were feeding Frenzy around. Okay awkward. Well, and she
Speaker 1: didn't realize that she had to be on time like that.
Speaker 1: There was because you didn't tell her right that other
Speaker 1: people would be waiting on her as well. No, I didn't.
Speaker 1: I thought she'd show up on time. It was a mistake.
Speaker 1: I didn't prepare. So she shows up late. She goes
Speaker 1: to your door, like what happens? So she came in
Speaker 1: and everybody just wanted her attention, and it was just
Speaker 1: it was a big pile to everybody wanted to meet her. Yeah,
Speaker 1: they like swarmed her at the door. Subtle, but they
Speaker 1: were like, oh yeah, okay, So she comes in and
Speaker 1: your friends are all about her. How does dinner go?
Speaker 1: Dinner was a nightmare? Why So we're there, We're sitting
Speaker 1: on the table and everybody's played it up. Finally, and
Speaker 1: then my mom showed up. No wait, so she's meeting
Speaker 1: your friends and your mom. I did not invite my
Speaker 1: mom to dinner. What is this a movie? This is amazing?
Speaker 1: Oh my god. At this point, because you'd been talking
Speaker 1: to Brittany for three weeks, like so, I feel like
Speaker 1: you may have a little bit of a sense of
Speaker 1: how she was doing. She was just kind of quiet too,
Speaker 1: but I couldn't keep an eye on her the whole
Speaker 1: time because I was dealing with my friends. Yeah, so
Speaker 1: clearly this doesn't go in the way that you hoped
Speaker 1: it would go. How how did the night end? I mean,
Speaker 1: I made a pretty good dessert, and you know, she
Speaker 1: didn't eat much of it. But I was just in
Speaker 1: a little temper tantrum when my mom showed up, and
Speaker 1: I just basically browned out. She put. Okay, so it
Speaker 1: sounds like you just wish that this night never even happened,
Speaker 1: and you want to do over, a total do over exactly. Okay,
Speaker 1: that makes sense, man, I want to do over for you,
Speaker 1: and yeah, I want to brown out this entire first partner.
Speaker 1: We'll play a song, we'll come back, we'll call Brittany
Speaker 1: for you, and we'll try and get you a second date.
Speaker 1: Up date. Okay, thank you, hold on second date. You know,
Speaker 1: a lot of times after a listener calls in and
Speaker 1: tells us about a really bad date that they went on,
Speaker 1: we'll try and reassure them like, hey, it's okay. You know,
Speaker 1: we've heard worse things happen on this show before. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but honestly, today, I'm not sure if we have. Oh no,
Speaker 1: I don't tell him that because Nick emailed us and
Speaker 1: he told us about a dinner date that he threw
Speaker 1: with all of his friends and didn't let his date
Speaker 1: know that they were going to be there. Surprise. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's the first strike. That's the first strike. Okay, meet
Speaker 1: everybody and me for the very first time. Then his
Speaker 1: mom showed up uninvited, Yeah, and acted kind of cold
Speaker 1: towards her, And to top it all off, she left
Speaker 1: after barely touching his homemade dessert. And that is well, yeah,
Speaker 1: so that was the worst part in my mind. But Nick,
Speaker 1: I'm assuming she didn't do any touching of you either.
Speaker 1: At the end of this whole thing. I mean we
Speaker 1: did a hug. It was pretty congenial, Okay, Okay, it's
Speaker 1: not a sexy word for a date. Yeah, And what's
Speaker 1: happened since, Like, have you tried to reach out and
Speaker 1: she's just not hitting you back or what I mean?
Speaker 1: I texted a couple of times, so I don't like
Speaker 1: to like flood the gates of text messages to Sometimes
Speaker 1: that's the problem in itself. You're like, hey, hey, and
Speaker 1: she's just ghosting. She hasn't been clear on where she's at.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't call it ghosting, but it's somewhere around there. Okay. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't know if any of this is sounding good. No, Yeah,
Speaker 1: there's nothing that stuck out that I'm like, Hey, I
Speaker 1: like what I what I do think is good? Is it? Nick?
Speaker 1: You realize that there were some mistakes made and you
Speaker 1: want to redo and I think that that, I mean,
Speaker 1: most people will give you a second chance. Yeah, you're
Speaker 1: not oblivious, bro. Yeah, that's what I'm trying for. But
Speaker 1: we'll see. Are you cooking a meal right now? Nick?
Speaker 1: Is that Is that what I'm hearing in the background.
Speaker 1: That's that's the spinning a spoon and a cup of coffee.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, multitasking isn't so? If you could just stop
Speaker 1: that for a second, little of a breakfast party, right
Speaker 1: all right? Why don't you try and finish up your
Speaker 1: coffee real quick. Meanwhile, I will dial Brittany's phone number
Speaker 1: and we'll try and get her on the line. See
Speaker 1: what she has to say. If she even answers, okay, awesome,
Speaker 1: thank you so much. You put your phone on mute
Speaker 1: while we call her. Yeah, okay, I'm not kidding, Okay,
Speaker 1: I know we need to try and make as little noise, yes,
Speaker 1: a little noise, as little possibility that something's going to
Speaker 1: go wrong during this call. So here we go. Good
Speaker 1: luck to us. I'm dialing the number right now. Hello.
Speaker 1: Hey is this Brittany. This is hey Britney. My name
Speaker 1: is jeff from the radio show Brook and Jeffrey in
Speaker 1: the Morning. How you doing? Hi? Good? Hi? Hi Brittany.
Speaker 1: Oh Hi, what's going on? That's my co host Brook.
Speaker 1: The whole team is here, Jose, Alexis and I. We're
Speaker 1: all calling you to do a second date update today. Um, okay,
Speaker 1: you don't know what that is. I know second updates? Okay,
Speaker 1: but who who is Compton doing this? All right? All right? Yeah,
Speaker 1: there's a guy that emailed us trying to get a
Speaker 1: hold of you. His name's Nick. Oh god, yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: that's kind of the reaction we thought might happen. Yeah, like,
Speaker 1: that was probably one of the weird, creepiest dates I'd
Speaker 1: been on. And so now that there's a radio station
Speaker 1: calling me, I'm just like, what do I need to
Speaker 1: change my address? What's happening? No? No, no, no, it's
Speaker 1: not that bad. But yeah, oh that's good. I didn't
Speaker 1: know what she thought was creepy about it. Yea. So
Speaker 1: we talked to Nick before we called you, and he
Speaker 1: said that the date didn't go quite the way he hoped.
Speaker 1: He mentioned that he surprised you a little bit, and
Speaker 1: looking back, he thinks maybe it wasn't the best idea
Speaker 1: to invite you to a dinner party with all his
Speaker 1: friends and not tell you about it. Did he use
Speaker 1: the word friends again? Is that what he says? Yeah?
Speaker 1: He said it was a dinner party where he was
Speaker 1: cooking for everybody, and you just showed up and you
Speaker 1: didn't know that all his friends were going to be there. Well,
Speaker 1: that's not the whole story, because his friends are his pets.
Speaker 1: What people, What do you mean? No? No, no, no no,
Speaker 1: no no. I get to his house. He had like
Speaker 1: a chef hat on. He was cooking a chef hat
Speaker 1: in his own home. I thought he was joking, Like
Speaker 1: he literally had a chef hat on. Yeah, and he
Speaker 1: had five to like seven pets, and he referred to
Speaker 1: those cuts as his friends. Mind you like dogs cats
Speaker 1: Like I got in the door and they like practically
Speaker 1: jumped me. They're alive, like stuffed pets memories said, they
Speaker 1: all stormed her. They wanted to like, so, it's a
Speaker 1: bunch of dogs running up to you and like jumping
Speaker 1: up and like they're cute dogs. I love I love animals.
Speaker 1: But the fact that he kept preferring to them is
Speaker 1: his friends. And I was like, okay, party, Oh he
Speaker 1: said dinner party, Like you were all sitting around a
Speaker 1: table together. There was an iguana on the dinner table.
Speaker 1: Are you joking? I you not. I'm sorry, this is shocking.
Speaker 1: I'm not even kidding you guys. At one point I
Speaker 1: texted my friend. I was like, I think that I'm
Speaker 1: on a date with eighth venturance son flying around an
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. He did not tell us any of this stuff.
Speaker 1: He just said friends. He didn't mention any animals. It's like,
Speaker 1: I'm shocked. So I can't imagine what your reaction was.
Speaker 1: You know, again, like I love animals, but I'm like,
Speaker 1: do you have real do you have human friends? Yeah.
Speaker 1: Nick also said that his mom showed up that way through.
Speaker 1: That was the craziest part because he told me that
Speaker 1: his mom had passed away right she passed on, and
Speaker 1: that he had a sense or a feeling that she
Speaker 1: had shown up in spirit, but a lot. It's sweet,
Speaker 1: but it's a lot for a first date. And he said,
Speaker 1: mom wants to know how many men you've been with
Speaker 1: what She's a more traditional type of mom. I thought
Speaker 1: I was about to get pranked or something, but that
Speaker 1: at the same time, I'm like, it was just so
Speaker 1: bizarre that I just needed to get out of there. Okay, okay, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I am interested to know the answer to his mom's question.
Speaker 1: Are we get to that in just a second, But
Speaker 1: first I need to tell you that Nick is actually
Speaker 1: on the other line listening. Oh yeah, and he wants
Speaker 1: to talk to you. Sorry, Nick, I mean she asked
Speaker 1: those questions. I didn't really want to tell her. But
Speaker 1: you left so much out of your story. I mean,
Speaker 1: there's a lot. I told you, there's a lot going on.
Speaker 1: It's a wild house, very wild. Yeah, yeah, i'd say so.
Speaker 1: So the iguana is my friend's animal, Okay, okay, but yeah,
Speaker 1: i'd take care of animals sometimes when my friends go
Speaker 1: out of town for vacation and I'm booked. O. Nick,
Speaker 1: did you hear how sing this all was to her? Yeah? Yeah,
Speaker 1: pretty eye opening. I mean, maybe maybe you should talk
Speaker 1: to her about it a little bit because she's obviously
Speaker 1: taken aback. Brittany, how are you better? You know? Um,
Speaker 1: I'm good, I am great? Uh? I don't I really
Speaker 1: have more words than that? Do you want to get
Speaker 1: dinner out somewhere? Sometime? Hector has returned so I can
Speaker 1: leave the house again? Is that the parrot? Which one
Speaker 1: is Hector the iguana owner? Okay, okay, Um, Well, Brittany,
Speaker 1: on the bright side of this, clearly he has, you know,
Speaker 1: an affection for living things, and he knows how to
Speaker 1: take care of people or things. And I mean, do
Speaker 1: you have any questions for Nick that that you need
Speaker 1: to have answered? Well? Yeah, actually I do have a
Speaker 1: question about the whole you know, conversation with with your
Speaker 1: mom being there. I mean, do you totally made that up?
Speaker 1: Come on, my mom's parrot does live with me because
Speaker 1: my mom's parent outlived my mother. So sometimes when my
Speaker 1: mom's parrot talks, I say, my mom's talking, And you
Speaker 1: trained your part to ask dates how many men they've
Speaker 1: been with. I did not train the parrot. The parrot
Speaker 1: was trained by my mother. Oh. I mean, here's the
Speaker 1: thing that question has no like, it doesn't matter. Why
Speaker 1: would you even ask that. I completely agree. I need
Speaker 1: to stop listening to my parents morse code. I'm sorry, Okay,
Speaker 1: that's just a very misogynistic. I mean, there are certain
Speaker 1: people out there I'm sure that would love a date
Speaker 1: with this guy. Do you mean people are pets or
Speaker 1: people need a pet. Somebody, somebody I'm sure is interested
Speaker 1: and Brittany, we're hoping you might be that somebody because
Speaker 1: we will offer to send you out on another date
Speaker 1: with Nick and we'll pay for it. You guys, that's
Speaker 1: so sweet of you all, and I appreciate the gesture,
Speaker 1: but this is a hard no. Okay, well sorry, we
Speaker 1: couldn't get you another date Nick, but hey, if you
Speaker 1: ever have another dinner party with your friends, we want
Speaker 1: to go. I need to witness this in person. I
Speaker 1: want to tell your mother to be there too. I
Speaker 1: want to have words with her. One of my buddies
Speaker 1: who lived on Wallaby Lane is going out of town
Speaker 1: in a couple of months, so that'll be an exciting
Speaker 1: times to come too. Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning