WEBVTT - How Feeding Babies Works: The Bottle

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, San Francisco, we're coming back to see you. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>our second year in a row. We're gonna be going

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<v Speaker 1>to s F Sketch Fest. What I'd like to think,

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<v Speaker 1>it's the premier comedy festival in the United States, probably

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<v Speaker 1>well in the world, you think, so, Yeah, what about Beijing? Nope,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a it's a close second, but a second. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we love San Francisco, we love performing there. Everyone is

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<v Speaker 1>always so kind to us. And by San Francisco we

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<v Speaker 1>mean the entire Bay area of course. Yeah, so we

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<v Speaker 1>will be there doing our thing for one time only

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<v Speaker 1>show on Sunday, January at one pm. Yeah, it's the

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<v Speaker 1>rare Sunday afternoon. We're like the NFL of podcasters. Yeah right,

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<v Speaker 1>that's that's what I've always thought. So all you have

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<v Speaker 1>to do is go to the SF Sketch Fest site,

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<v Speaker 1>look at the old calendar, and there are tons of

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<v Speaker 1>great people performing. Oh yeah, So I suggest like just

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<v Speaker 1>doubling down and getting tickets to all kinds of good

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<v Speaker 1>shows for sure, And hurry up and get tickets to

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<v Speaker 1>is because they've only been on sale for a week

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<v Speaker 1>or so and they're already half sold out. That's right,

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<v Speaker 1>So please hurry, San Francisco, please hurry. Welcome to Stuff

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<v Speaker 1>You Should Know from how Stuff Works dot Com. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>and welcome to the podcast. I'm Josh Clark, There's Charles W.

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<v Speaker 1>Chuck Bryant, and we have guest producer Noel with us.

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<v Speaker 1>And this is Stuff you Should Know, Part two. That's right.

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<v Speaker 1>And actually things are gonna get weird because Noal is

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<v Speaker 1>about to leave, I think, and then that means we're

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<v Speaker 1>alone again. You never know what's gonna happen. The beating

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<v Speaker 1>of our hearts is the only sound stuff you should

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<v Speaker 1>know after dark. Let's got weird pretty quick. Uh. So

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<v Speaker 1>this is part two of How Feeding Babies Works? Right,

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<v Speaker 1>we're on the same page. Oh yeah, yeah, I hope so.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh and part one I think went down pretty well.

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<v Speaker 1>It's uh, it was a little nerve racking being two

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<v Speaker 1>dudes at the risk of doing it wrong or or

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<v Speaker 1>like you said, man splaining, which I I even hate

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<v Speaker 1>saying that term. But I think we did a pretty

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<v Speaker 1>good job. Yeah, we didn't come across as we were

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<v Speaker 1>hanging on by just our fingernails like I felt for

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<v Speaker 1>most of the time. I think we did all right too. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and today we're gonna focus a lot more on formula feeding,

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<v Speaker 1>which I feel much more comfortable because it's something I

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<v Speaker 1>know a lot about. Right, Yeah, I figured you could

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<v Speaker 1>probably deal a lot of heavy lifting on this one.

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<v Speaker 1>Well it's not that heavy, just five or six ounces

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<v Speaker 1>at a time. Terrible we uh Yeah, this one is

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<v Speaker 1>the first. One is called the breast. This one is

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<v Speaker 1>called the bottle. And yeah, you know, the bottle is

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<v Speaker 1>well usually filled with formula, but there's plenty of other

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<v Speaker 1>stuff you could fill with it, specifically breast milk, UM.

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<v Speaker 1>But a lot of women start using bottles fairly early on,

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes from the outset. And there's a lot of reasons why.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a lot of reasons I guess, in other words,

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<v Speaker 1>why UM women either choose not to or ultimately have

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<v Speaker 1>chosen for them not to breastfeed UM. And one of

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<v Speaker 1>the big ones that's actually pretty common is a condition

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<v Speaker 1>called mass titis. And mess titis is basically an extremely

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<v Speaker 1>extremely painful inflammation of the breast or breasts, I guess,

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<v Speaker 1>in the worst case, which can be brought on by

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<v Speaker 1>like sore cracked nipples, um or an infection in the

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<v Speaker 1>breast block milk ducks. There's a lot of stuff they

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<v Speaker 1>can bring it on and as painful as breastfeeding can be,

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<v Speaker 1>Apparently the recommended treatment, of course of treatment for massitis

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<v Speaker 1>is to keep on breastfeeding. That clearly, like actually the

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<v Speaker 1>flow of milk through the breast clears up the inflammation

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<v Speaker 1>and even the infection in some cases. And I was

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<v Speaker 1>trying to figure that out, like how would that work?

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<v Speaker 1>But then I remember breastmoke is so chuck full of

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<v Speaker 1>anybodies that I guess it would deliver that antibodies to

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<v Speaker 1>that site as well, right, wouldn't that That was the

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<v Speaker 1>only thing I could come up with. Yeah, that makes sense,

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, yes, or well actually did record We'll

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<v Speaker 1>let the cat out of the bag. We're recording these

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<v Speaker 1>on two super days even yeah, we usually do the

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<v Speaker 1>sweets in one day. But uh yeah, we decided to

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<v Speaker 1>sleep on it, right, And I think that's probably a

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<v Speaker 1>good move. But yesterday when I mentioned my mother did

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<v Speaker 1>not breastfeed me and she had some problems with my brother,

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<v Speaker 1>I think that was the deal. I think there was,

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<v Speaker 1>um it was pain and stuff like that. Yeah, And

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, like from what I can gather, mastitis is

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<v Speaker 1>not just pain, like you feel very ill and run

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<v Speaker 1>down and apparently you're supposed to get lots of bedrest

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<v Speaker 1>and and nutritious fluids and express your milk every two

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<v Speaker 1>hours and apparently and express yourself for that matter, right,

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<v Speaker 1>which is probably amounts to, um, I'm in hell right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Probably um. But the when you put all this stuff

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<v Speaker 1>together on top of like all of the normal things

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<v Speaker 1>that you have to do under the best of circumstances

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<v Speaker 1>when caring for a newborn, this very frequently represents the

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<v Speaker 1>last straw. For women who are like on the fence

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<v Speaker 1>about breastfeeding. The mestiti is commonly leads them to say,

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<v Speaker 1>we're done with that. I'm done with breastfeeding. That's one

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<v Speaker 1>another one I came across that, Um, I hadn't really

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<v Speaker 1>thought about that kind of surprised me, was boom jobs, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I never considered this until you did the research and

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<v Speaker 1>that thought. Oh you know what, I never even thought

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<v Speaker 1>about that. That's so out of my uh sphere of consciousness.

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<v Speaker 1>That pretty uh oh. I don't think I meant that

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<v Speaker 1>to be a pun was it? No, it wasn't. It was.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a great T shirt, you know, like instead of

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<v Speaker 1>talk to the hand, it's you are now out of

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<v Speaker 1>my sphere of consciousness. Uh So if you do get

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<v Speaker 1>breast implants, Um, it kind of depends on the reasons why,

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<v Speaker 1>how it's done. Uh, where it's actually done obviously in

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<v Speaker 1>the breast area, but they have we haven't done one

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<v Speaker 1>of breast implants have, dude. One of our better episodes

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<v Speaker 1>is on breast implant Really. Yeah, I remember I said

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to see what a breast I plant looks

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<v Speaker 1>like on a dog because apparently they practice on dogs

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<v Speaker 1>early on. Yeah, that was a great episode from beginning

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<v Speaker 1>to end. It was a long time ago though. Um So,

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<v Speaker 1>getting back to it. The the incisions, it depends on

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<v Speaker 1>where they're made. If they go across the nipples are arela,

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<v Speaker 1>it's probably likely that your milk ducks in the nerves

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<v Speaker 1>were cut, which means you probably can't breastfeed exactly. But

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<v Speaker 1>if you had a good doctor and they went like

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<v Speaker 1>into your armpit underneath your breast, they probably also specifically

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<v Speaker 1>chose to save those nerves and go around them. So

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<v Speaker 1>if your incisions are under your breast, around your armpit, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>you you probably are able to breastfeed. I imagine that's

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<v Speaker 1>a part of the conversation when you go in there,

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<v Speaker 1>don't you think probably, Bie, like, hey, do you want

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<v Speaker 1>to have kids or do you have kids or do

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<v Speaker 1>you want a breastfeed? Yeah, like I would. I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>I've never I've never had a consultation. No, but yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it does seem reasonable that that would be

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<v Speaker 1>part of it, for sure, I would think so. Yeah. Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>The other thing, if you still have feeling in your nipples,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a good sign that the nerves are still intact. Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>And sometimes that takes a little while to come back though. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>if you just had your your breast augmentation surgery and

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<v Speaker 1>the feeling isn't back, that doesn't mean it's not going

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<v Speaker 1>to come back. So that's not a sign. But if

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<v Speaker 1>it's been years now and you have feeling back in

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<v Speaker 1>your nipples, you probably can can breastfeed. Where you got

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<v Speaker 1>your implants counts too. If it's in the actual memory tissue, UM,

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<v Speaker 1>that's gonna be a problem. It's going to get in

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<v Speaker 1>the way of milk production. But if they put it

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<v Speaker 1>under your chest muscles, which is more involved but um

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<v Speaker 1>is basically out of the way of your your actual breasts,

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<v Speaker 1>you can um probably breastfeed. I feel like I should

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<v Speaker 1>be finishing each one of these with you're probably your redneck.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, you probably can breastfeed if the implant is

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<v Speaker 1>on the back of your neck. The good news is

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<v Speaker 1>you can breastfeed, but you probably made a grave error

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<v Speaker 1>in your choice of doctors. Then you might be a redneck. Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>you'd be a boob neck. Uh. And then the reason

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<v Speaker 1>for having it is another UM factor. If you if

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<v Speaker 1>you just got the breast implants because you wanted larger

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<v Speaker 1>breast and it was purely cosmetic, then you probably are

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<v Speaker 1>a better candidate for breastfeeding. Whereas if you got implants

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<v Speaker 1>because the tissue was never developed, or there was maybe

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<v Speaker 1>asymmetric problems, or if the breasts were far apart from

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<v Speaker 1>one another, Like, these are reasons that you may not

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<v Speaker 1>be able to breastfeed. And again I imagine in the

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<v Speaker 1>console this will all be coward Yeah, Like if you

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<v Speaker 1>got breast augmentation because your memory tissue didn't develop properly

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<v Speaker 1>or normally, then um, yeah, you might not be able

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<v Speaker 1>to breastfeed. So those are a couple. There's plenty of

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<v Speaker 1>other reasons why a woman would choose not to breastfeed. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>In large part it's a matter of preference right. Some

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<v Speaker 1>women just simply don't want a breastfeed. Some are afraid

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<v Speaker 1>it's gonna hurt, Some are embarrassed by the idea. UM.

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<v Speaker 1>In some families, it's a family tradition that you're raised

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<v Speaker 1>on formula um. There's basically as many reasons for a

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<v Speaker 1>woman to choose not to breastfeed as as as there

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<v Speaker 1>are reasons, probably even more to tell you the truth.

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<v Speaker 1>So let's die back in history a bit. We sort of, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess we usually do history first, but this is

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<v Speaker 1>sort of woven in sensibly. I think um back in

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<v Speaker 1>the day it was. It's kind of interesting. I have

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<v Speaker 1>heard wet nurse my whole life. I've known that was

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<v Speaker 1>a term, but I literally never knew what that was. Really. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know why. It's just maybe I'm a big dummy,

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<v Speaker 1>but I had no idea that a wet nurse is

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<v Speaker 1>a woman who breastfeeds someone else's child. It's funny, I

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<v Speaker 1>did not know that, did you had? Did you think

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<v Speaker 1>it was something else? So you just never stopped and

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<v Speaker 1>thought about We never stopped and thought about it. I

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<v Speaker 1>never needed one, so I was just like, yeah, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, put a wet nurse on it. Sure that help, right,

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<v Speaker 1>that'll clear that bum nye right up? Is better than

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<v Speaker 1>a dry nurse, right, sure, drying nurse. They're chapped and cracked.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, that's what what happens. Uh, And it was

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<v Speaker 1>it's very common practice back in the day, especially before

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<v Speaker 1>the feeding bottle was invented, and um, of course, as

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<v Speaker 1>you would imagine, it was an alternative mainly for people

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<v Speaker 1>of higher status. Yeah. Yeah, that's actually kind of fascinating.

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<v Speaker 1>Um in that for a very very long time, except

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<v Speaker 1>for a period between about eighteen thirty or eighteen twenty

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<v Speaker 1>and eighteen no I'm sorry, eighteen fifty and eighteen eighty,

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<v Speaker 1>when breastfeeding was all the rage in America, very much

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<v Speaker 1>akin to the situation now. Breastfeeding was seen as what

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<v Speaker 1>the um women of lower socioeconomic classes did, like, they

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<v Speaker 1>can't afford a wet nurse, so they have to feed

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<v Speaker 1>their baby exactly right, exactly or yeah, they like I

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<v Speaker 1>would hire a woman of a lower socio economic class

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<v Speaker 1>to feed my own baby, um, just because it just

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't done this. Women didn't do that kind of thing

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<v Speaker 1>if you were well off or well to do. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>which is is terrible, but you, Um, I never considered

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<v Speaker 1>that a lot of mothers died during or not a lot,

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<v Speaker 1>but plenty more mothers died during childbirth back then. And

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<v Speaker 1>so that's a chance to save these babies, which is amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>Sure truly, for sure, I mean like, and that's that's

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<v Speaker 1>one way that wet nurses really did kind of keep

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<v Speaker 1>things going. But for for a large part for about

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<v Speaker 1>two thousand years, UM, breastfeeding or the use of wet

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<v Speaker 1>nurses was basically what you what women of a higher

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<v Speaker 1>status did they hired breasts or wet nurses, which is

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<v Speaker 1>I had no idea. It's fascinating, it is, and even

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<v Speaker 1>more to the point, uh, it kind of formed the

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<v Speaker 1>basis of this idea that um, not breastfeeding was preferable

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<v Speaker 1>to breastfeeding, that you were it was better to not

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<v Speaker 1>breastfeed if you were able to write, it was the

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<v Speaker 1>preference of the wealthier class, whereas the exact opposite is

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<v Speaker 1>is the position today. They've completely switched positions today. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and this this author Katherine Joyce uh in The New Republic,

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<v Speaker 1>UM basically said, you know, it's been a constant throughout

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<v Speaker 1>history that whether whichever is in fashion, they think they're right, right,

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<v Speaker 1>Like one is viewed as better than the other depends

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<v Speaker 1>on where you are in history as to which that was.

0:12:56.320 --> 0:12:59.480
<v Speaker 1>It's not equal, it's not different. One is clearly better,

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<v Speaker 1>and in many cases, especially as the cases now concerning breastfeeding,

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<v Speaker 1>is morally better in the view of the people who

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<v Speaker 1>champion it, you know. Um, So for a very long

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<v Speaker 1>time men have been extremely fascinated with breast milk or

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<v Speaker 1>with feeding babies. Right, they've applied scientific inquiry to the

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<v Speaker 1>whole thing, because I think that is part of it,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. Um, well, yeah, but I mean we covered

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<v Speaker 1>that yesterday. We could try all we wanted to wouldn't work,

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<v Speaker 1>So maybe that is part of the reason. I hadn't

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<v Speaker 1>really considered that. But there has been a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>scientific inquiry. Ironically, it hasn't really come up with any

0:13:40.760 --> 0:13:43.720
<v Speaker 1>set stuff. But as far back as um, I think

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<v Speaker 1>ninety the nineties, just the nineties, not even the nineteen nineties.

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<v Speaker 1>Years before the nineties, there is a guy named Serahnis

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<v Speaker 1>of Theseus, and he was an early physician who basically

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<v Speaker 1>wrote a twenty three chapter treatise on obstetrics and pediatrics

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<v Speaker 1>and kind of gynecology, and one of the things he

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<v Speaker 1>focused on was breast milk. Yeah, and his big contribution, well,

0:14:12.240 --> 0:14:15.640
<v Speaker 1>one of the big contributions was a test for the

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<v Speaker 1>consistency of breast milk that stood for about fifteen hundred years,

0:14:21.400 --> 0:14:25.520
<v Speaker 1>which is pretty amazing. Well, because it's clearly infallible. Yeah.

0:14:25.560 --> 0:14:27.800
<v Speaker 1>So here's what you do, is you, uh, you take

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<v Speaker 1>a fingernail and you drop a drop of breast milk

0:14:31.640 --> 0:14:34.240
<v Speaker 1>on the fingernail and I guess the fingernails facing up

0:14:34.240 --> 0:14:37.720
<v Speaker 1>and you're flat with the finger. Uh. When it's on

0:14:37.760 --> 0:14:40.760
<v Speaker 1>the fingernail and you move the finger, the milk is

0:14:40.840 --> 0:14:43.200
<v Speaker 1>not supposed to be so watered down that it runs

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<v Speaker 1>all over the nail. And when you point your fingernail down,

0:14:47.400 --> 0:14:51.760
<v Speaker 1>it's not so thick that it uh turns into a

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<v Speaker 1>transformer robot. Now, it's not so thick that it clings

0:14:55.720 --> 0:14:58.960
<v Speaker 1>to the nail and that you're looking for somewhere in

0:14:59.000 --> 0:15:02.520
<v Speaker 1>the middle. Is what he's says. And for years people said, yep,

0:15:02.600 --> 0:15:04.840
<v Speaker 1>that's how you do it. Yeah. And so not only

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<v Speaker 1>was that like, your breast milk is great, but also

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<v Speaker 1>this wet nurse's breast milk is adequate for the contract

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<v Speaker 1>you want to give her. Oh, sure, I never thought

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<v Speaker 1>about that. Yeah, I probably had a lot to do

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<v Speaker 1>with it, for sure. Um. And people also used animal

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<v Speaker 1>milk as well. Apparently for the last two thousand years,

0:15:23.800 --> 0:15:28.360
<v Speaker 1>there's evidence of people using animal milk. Um. But for

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<v Speaker 1>for the most part it was wet nurses and then formula,

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<v Speaker 1>artificial formula, which came back late nineteenth century. Yeah. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>In the nineteenth century there was a guy named Eustace

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<v Speaker 1>fun lie Big and he set about trying to create

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<v Speaker 1>a perfect infant food and artificial breast milk, right, and

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<v Speaker 1>in eighteen sixty five he kind of cracked it. He

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<v Speaker 1>made a liquid form and then a powdered form, and

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<v Speaker 1>it was made up of cow's milk, wheat and malt,

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<v Speaker 1>flour and potassium by carbonate. And when he came up

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<v Speaker 1>with this in the eighteen sixties, um, it was considered

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<v Speaker 1>like the perfect infant food, basically better than breast milk. Yeah.

0:16:10.720 --> 0:16:14.360
<v Speaker 1>And by this point, this was about uh fifteen is

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<v Speaker 1>years after the first feeding bottles were introduced in France.

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<v Speaker 1>So people were ready like, we've got the bottle, we've

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<v Speaker 1>we've worked out these very rudimentary cork nipples, and um,

0:16:29.000 --> 0:16:31.800
<v Speaker 1>we need something to put in it besides breast milk

0:16:32.160 --> 0:16:36.480
<v Speaker 1>and one of the other things that that UM came all.

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<v Speaker 1>All this stuff kind of came together to form the

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<v Speaker 1>basis of a successful formula feeding formula, right, um. And

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<v Speaker 1>one of those was things like sterilization, pasteurization, germ theory,

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<v Speaker 1>because in the early nineteenth century they were trying out

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<v Speaker 1>like bottles and stuff like that, but it was killing

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<v Speaker 1>infants left and right because they didn't know about sterilization,

0:16:59.360 --> 0:17:02.360
<v Speaker 1>they didn't know about UM germ theory at the time.

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<v Speaker 1>They I think something like one third of non breastfed

0:17:07.400 --> 0:17:13.280
<v Speaker 1>babies died from being fed UM artificial milk. That's staggering,

0:17:13.640 --> 0:17:16.000
<v Speaker 1>it is, that's a lot. So there was a huge

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<v Speaker 1>breakthrough in the late nineteenth century when they came up

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<v Speaker 1>with a decent formula that wasn't UM just animal milk,

0:17:23.160 --> 0:17:26.320
<v Speaker 1>and that they could deliver it in some sort of

0:17:26.359 --> 0:17:29.680
<v Speaker 1>feeding apparatus that wasn't gonna ultimately kill the baby, right,

0:17:30.080 --> 0:17:32.520
<v Speaker 1>So that was a big deal. Yeah, And this is all,

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<v Speaker 1>like I said, early eighteen fifties is when the bottle

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<v Speaker 1>comes UM. Eighteen sixty five is when von lee Big

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<v Speaker 1>developed his UM, and sort of a little before and

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<v Speaker 1>a little after you had people like Gail Borden if

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<v Speaker 1>that name rings a bell, uh, Eagle brand boarding condensed milk.

0:17:50.400 --> 0:17:53.560
<v Speaker 1>She came up with that um at a sugar. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>pretty sure, Huh, it could be a boy. It sounds

0:17:59.359 --> 0:18:01.760
<v Speaker 1>like it's just a man too, as a country western singer. No,

0:18:02.000 --> 0:18:05.080
<v Speaker 1>Gael totally can be a guy's name. I just defaulted

0:18:05.119 --> 0:18:08.440
<v Speaker 1>to lady because I don't know, because it's about breastfeeding,

0:18:08.480 --> 0:18:12.399
<v Speaker 1>I guess, so he I guess added sugar to evaporated

0:18:12.440 --> 0:18:16.240
<v Speaker 1>milk candid and that was condensed milk. And then about

0:18:16.359 --> 0:18:20.159
<v Speaker 1>thirty years later, I mean, it became popular as an

0:18:20.200 --> 0:18:25.000
<v Speaker 1>infant food. Obviously. Have you ever had condensed milk in

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<v Speaker 1>in things, not in things like cheesecakes and and like

0:18:29.200 --> 0:18:32.120
<v Speaker 1>the sweetest dessert you can ever have. Yeah, they were

0:18:32.200 --> 0:18:36.280
<v Speaker 1>feeding that that stuff straight up to infants as the

0:18:36.359 --> 0:18:42.080
<v Speaker 1>infant food. Yeah. Yeah. And about thirty years later, another one,

0:18:42.600 --> 0:18:47.000
<v Speaker 1>John B. Marling, was that a man. It's possible. Uh.

0:18:47.240 --> 0:18:51.359
<v Speaker 1>He developed an unsweetened condensed milk. UM called it evaporated milk,

0:18:52.080 --> 0:18:54.760
<v Speaker 1>and this became a big thing to feed babies in

0:18:54.800 --> 0:18:58.480
<v Speaker 1>the thirties and forties. All this stuff had a lot

0:18:58.520 --> 0:19:02.040
<v Speaker 1>of fat Um, it would plump your baby up really well,

0:19:02.080 --> 0:19:05.119
<v Speaker 1>but it was missing a lot of the things that

0:19:05.160 --> 0:19:07.879
<v Speaker 1>babies need to thrive, like why does my baby have

0:19:08.040 --> 0:19:13.919
<v Speaker 1>claws instead of fingernails and like dark circles under his eyes. Oh, nutrients,

0:19:13.960 --> 0:19:16.680
<v Speaker 1>that's right, we need vitamins in this stuff. Yeah, which,

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<v Speaker 1>uh in the nineteen twenties or so is when scientists

0:19:21.160 --> 0:19:26.879
<v Speaker 1>started developing these uh formulas that didn't even have cow's

0:19:26.920 --> 0:19:30.400
<v Speaker 1>milk at all, right, right, for kids that had milk allergies.

0:19:30.440 --> 0:19:34.600
<v Speaker 1>They started using like soy flower. Yeah. And so when

0:19:34.600 --> 0:19:37.680
<v Speaker 1>they figured out that, um, you could take this stuff

0:19:37.720 --> 0:19:42.320
<v Speaker 1>and evaporate milk or evaporate soy protein and add this

0:19:42.400 --> 0:19:46.960
<v Speaker 1>other stuff to it, like nutrients and vitamins, um, and

0:19:47.080 --> 0:19:50.639
<v Speaker 1>balance it all out, formula really took off and it

0:19:50.760 --> 0:19:54.879
<v Speaker 1>became a really almost a triumph of science in the

0:19:54.920 --> 0:19:59.359
<v Speaker 1>popular culture. Right. So, starting in the thirties in America,

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<v Speaker 1>if you wanted formula, you basically had to go to

0:20:03.760 --> 0:20:06.800
<v Speaker 1>your doctor for it. You didn't necessarily need a prescription

0:20:06.840 --> 0:20:09.639
<v Speaker 1>from what I saw, but the the rule was that

0:20:09.680 --> 0:20:12.800
<v Speaker 1>if you were a formula manufacturer, you could only advertise

0:20:12.920 --> 0:20:17.600
<v Speaker 1>directly to doctors. So it gave formula this kind of

0:20:17.920 --> 0:20:22.000
<v Speaker 1>air of medicine like it was. It was medical and nature.

0:20:22.200 --> 0:20:24.800
<v Speaker 1>It was like sterile and high quality, and that that

0:20:24.960 --> 0:20:29.080
<v Speaker 1>had the stamp of science behind it, and it lionized

0:20:29.440 --> 0:20:34.320
<v Speaker 1>the physicians who were now in between the mother and

0:20:34.400 --> 0:20:38.520
<v Speaker 1>the baby's food, right, the doctor needed to recommend it,

0:20:38.640 --> 0:20:41.240
<v Speaker 1>and so it was a It was a real way

0:20:41.240 --> 0:20:47.760
<v Speaker 1>that UM science and medicine and parenting, especially early early

0:20:47.960 --> 0:20:53.280
<v Speaker 1>childhood parenting came fused together. And so there was this

0:20:53.359 --> 0:20:57.560
<v Speaker 1>idea that science had had conquered nature and created this

0:20:57.680 --> 0:21:01.800
<v Speaker 1>perfect infant food. So by the nineties and fifties, this

0:21:01.840 --> 0:21:07.040
<v Speaker 1>is when formula had really taken root, uh in the

0:21:07.119 --> 0:21:09.920
<v Speaker 1>United States, and I guess around the world, but definitely

0:21:09.920 --> 0:21:13.200
<v Speaker 1>in the United States, and it definitely caused a decline

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<v Speaker 1>in breastfeeding for about thirty years. Yeah, I mean this

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<v Speaker 1>is around the time the Late h A League started

0:21:18.119 --> 0:21:21.919
<v Speaker 1>to organize in the fifties as a direct result of

0:21:21.960 --> 0:21:25.840
<v Speaker 1>this decline in breastfeeding UM, and it continued on even

0:21:25.880 --> 0:21:30.720
<v Speaker 1>into the seventies where the Our Bodies Ourselves people UM

0:21:30.960 --> 0:21:35.240
<v Speaker 1>organized that second wave of lactivism, right, and formula is

0:21:35.320 --> 0:21:40.399
<v Speaker 1>like flying high from the thirties the forties onto about

0:21:40.440 --> 0:21:44.360
<v Speaker 1>the mid seventies, and you can actually point to one

0:21:45.000 --> 0:21:50.719
<v Speaker 1>specific scandal that that basically led to a massive erosion

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<v Speaker 1>of trust in formula, not just in the United States

0:21:55.040 --> 0:21:58.920
<v Speaker 1>but around the world that's still around today. Actually, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>the Nesli Company in the mid nineteen seventies, they were

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<v Speaker 1>sued because they were trying to really market formula to

0:22:08.280 --> 0:22:12.360
<v Speaker 1>developing countries very aggressively. Yeah, they wanted to sell more formula,

0:22:12.440 --> 0:22:16.520
<v Speaker 1>so they would do things like sin uh, saleswomen over

0:22:16.640 --> 0:22:20.960
<v Speaker 1>dressed up in nurses uniforms who were not nurses, giving

0:22:21.080 --> 0:22:24.399
<v Speaker 1>obviously the indication like, hey, this this is a great thing.

0:22:24.440 --> 0:22:26.480
<v Speaker 1>You should you should use it. And formula was a

0:22:26.480 --> 0:22:29.880
<v Speaker 1>great thing that they developed it, for sure, But what

0:22:29.920 --> 0:22:33.679
<v Speaker 1>they didn't say in Africa to these mothers is that, hey,

0:22:33.920 --> 0:22:36.480
<v Speaker 1>you need really good clean water here for this to

0:22:36.560 --> 0:22:40.000
<v Speaker 1>be a viable source of nutrition for your kid. They

0:22:40.000 --> 0:22:43.000
<v Speaker 1>didn't know that. Uh, they used at tainted water and

0:22:43.080 --> 0:22:46.879
<v Speaker 1>infants started dying. Yeah, and it was laid squarely at

0:22:46.920 --> 0:22:52.639
<v Speaker 1>the feet of nestly formula and ultimately formula in general. Um.

0:22:52.680 --> 0:22:55.960
<v Speaker 1>And that was I think seventy four that that happened,

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<v Speaker 1>and a few years later the World Health Ordization came

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<v Speaker 1>up with these guidelines for for marketing formula around the world.

0:23:06.320 --> 0:23:10.160
<v Speaker 1>It was such a huge scandal, and the US said, oh, wait,

0:23:10.200 --> 0:23:12.760
<v Speaker 1>you know what, we just realized there's nobody overseeing our

0:23:12.880 --> 0:23:15.600
<v Speaker 1>formula market they we should put the FDA on that.

0:23:15.920 --> 0:23:18.639
<v Speaker 1>So it wasn't until nineteen eighty that the United States

0:23:18.680 --> 0:23:23.840
<v Speaker 1>task the f d A with overseeing the quality impurity

0:23:23.920 --> 0:23:27.680
<v Speaker 1>of formula. For then it was apparently just totally unregulated. Yeah,

0:23:27.680 --> 0:23:30.639
<v Speaker 1>I can't believe nineteen eighty that's really really surprising. But

0:23:30.720 --> 0:23:33.959
<v Speaker 1>the whole suspicion of formula and the whole idea that

0:23:34.000 --> 0:23:38.639
<v Speaker 1>it's dangerous, sir, that it's problematic, it all stems from

0:23:38.680 --> 0:23:44.119
<v Speaker 1>that event that um, that that scandal with Nessley in Africa. Yeah.

0:23:44.160 --> 0:23:47.240
<v Speaker 1>So about eight years later, in the late eighties, the

0:23:47.320 --> 0:23:51.320
<v Speaker 1>formula folks started, uh they could advertise directly to the

0:23:51.320 --> 0:23:54.240
<v Speaker 1>public for the first time. I got on TV, got

0:23:54.240 --> 0:23:58.199
<v Speaker 1>in print ads and said, hey, used to use our

0:23:58.200 --> 0:24:02.840
<v Speaker 1>formula's good stuff, and and um, apparently the American Academy

0:24:02.840 --> 0:24:06.080
<v Speaker 1>of Pediatric so still didn't like this kind of advertising

0:24:06.200 --> 0:24:08.159
<v Speaker 1>and said you should still go to your doctor and

0:24:08.160 --> 0:24:10.720
<v Speaker 1>talk about all this stuff, right, which is a conundrum

0:24:10.720 --> 0:24:13.040
<v Speaker 1>it's like, well, wait a minute, are you guys saying

0:24:13.080 --> 0:24:17.200
<v Speaker 1>that the the formula industry is being greedy and and

0:24:17.400 --> 0:24:20.200
<v Speaker 1>reckless by going around you? Or are you just trying

0:24:20.240 --> 0:24:25.760
<v Speaker 1>to preserve you know, your own bank accounts by reinsinuating

0:24:25.800 --> 0:24:29.000
<v Speaker 1>yourselves into this this factor when you're not really necessary.

0:24:29.040 --> 0:24:31.639
<v Speaker 1>It's like just one more thing you have to figure

0:24:31.640 --> 0:24:34.159
<v Speaker 1>out when you're trying to raise a newborn infant. That

0:24:34.680 --> 0:24:37.800
<v Speaker 1>just stinks, you know. All right, Well, speaking of stinks,

0:24:38.280 --> 0:24:42.119
<v Speaker 1>I need to take a break and man, we'll come

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<v Speaker 1>back in a minute and talk a little bit about

0:24:44.800 --> 0:25:10.480
<v Speaker 1>milk banks and other cool things. Alright, chuckers, we're back, right,

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<v Speaker 1>We're at the milk bank. Yeah, milk bank is Uh,

0:25:15.680 --> 0:25:18.240
<v Speaker 1>it's pretty neat. I hadn't heard of it before. Um,

0:25:18.480 --> 0:25:21.200
<v Speaker 1>had you? Oh I'm sure you have. I actually hadn't

0:25:21.200 --> 0:25:24.040
<v Speaker 1>heard of any of this stuff. Oh really, Okay, Well

0:25:24.119 --> 0:25:29.280
<v Speaker 1>let's talk milk banks then baby. All right, So let's say, um,

0:25:29.480 --> 0:25:31.879
<v Speaker 1>breastfeeding is not an option for any of the reasons

0:25:31.920 --> 0:25:35.320
<v Speaker 1>we've talked about. For mom um, you can go to

0:25:35.359 --> 0:25:39.200
<v Speaker 1>a milk bank where milk has been donated breast milk obviously,

0:25:39.920 --> 0:25:44.520
<v Speaker 1>uh from from women and uh you can pay a

0:25:44.600 --> 0:25:48.760
<v Speaker 1>lot of money for banked milk that you know is

0:25:49.640 --> 0:25:53.359
<v Speaker 1>very healthy, fully screened. Uh, just like going to a

0:25:53.359 --> 0:25:58.400
<v Speaker 1>blood bank, basically, right, exactly. Um, you need a doctor's prescription. Uh.

0:25:58.400 --> 0:26:02.320
<v Speaker 1>And it is expensive, like five bucks an ounce of money,

0:26:02.640 --> 0:26:07.680
<v Speaker 1>it is, but it's good, high quality, disease free mother's milk. Right.

0:26:08.560 --> 0:26:12.080
<v Speaker 1>And so I've seen that some insurance companies, some insurance

0:26:12.080 --> 0:26:15.119
<v Speaker 1>plans will either pay all or some of that cost,

0:26:15.200 --> 0:26:20.320
<v Speaker 1>so it can drop dramatically. But because it's so expensive

0:26:20.320 --> 0:26:24.680
<v Speaker 1>and because not all insurance covers it. Um other um

0:26:24.840 --> 0:26:29.960
<v Speaker 1>peripheral milk exchanges have grown up, some alarming, some slightly

0:26:30.040 --> 0:26:33.240
<v Speaker 1>less alarming. But like there's one called only the Breast,

0:26:33.840 --> 0:26:38.280
<v Speaker 1>which is a lot looks a lot like Craigslist for milk. Okay,

0:26:38.880 --> 0:26:41.040
<v Speaker 1>have you been on it? No, Actually didn't go to

0:26:41.040 --> 0:26:46.840
<v Speaker 1>the website. So every probably every third UM ad is

0:26:47.160 --> 0:26:49.520
<v Speaker 1>like some sort of weird porno ad or something like that.

0:26:51.040 --> 0:26:54.760
<v Speaker 1>But the other two are legitimate. You know, Like, I

0:26:54.840 --> 0:26:57.800
<v Speaker 1>have milk, I'm healthy, and i just have too much,

0:26:57.840 --> 0:26:59.920
<v Speaker 1>so I'm selling it for a dollar announce or something

0:27:00.080 --> 0:27:02.680
<v Speaker 1>like that. UM, and I'm like I got the best

0:27:02.680 --> 0:27:05.600
<v Speaker 1>stuff out there. Well, now I'm sure there are. I

0:27:05.600 --> 0:27:08.240
<v Speaker 1>didn't run across any of that. But there's also uh

0:27:08.320 --> 0:27:10.920
<v Speaker 1>like something that that you can also click that says

0:27:11.000 --> 0:27:15.000
<v Speaker 1>like men need not contact me because apparently there's like

0:27:15.040 --> 0:27:17.520
<v Speaker 1>a whole thing of weirdos out there who are like, hey,

0:27:17.760 --> 0:27:20.439
<v Speaker 1>sell me your extra breast milk. You know, I was

0:27:20.480 --> 0:27:23.639
<v Speaker 1>gonna make a joke a minute ago about milk banks

0:27:23.680 --> 0:27:26.359
<v Speaker 1>being for you know, mother suit can't or won't breastfeed,

0:27:26.840 --> 0:27:29.919
<v Speaker 1>or creepy weird wealthy guys. They go to only the

0:27:29.920 --> 0:27:32.280
<v Speaker 1>breast apparently, So is it a thing for men to

0:27:32.359 --> 0:27:35.600
<v Speaker 1>drink breast milk? I guess so, because you can go

0:27:35.640 --> 0:27:37.720
<v Speaker 1>on only the breast, and most from what I saw,

0:27:37.840 --> 0:27:42.439
<v Speaker 1>most of the legitimate ads were like, no, don't. I

0:27:42.480 --> 0:27:46.359
<v Speaker 1>don't want any men to contact me, but there are

0:27:46.480 --> 0:27:48.600
<v Speaker 1>That means that there are some out there where if

0:27:48.640 --> 0:27:50.960
<v Speaker 1>you are a man, you could buy breast milk, which

0:27:51.040 --> 0:27:52.760
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I guess if you have that fetish and

0:27:52.800 --> 0:27:59.600
<v Speaker 1>it's not hurting anybody then right, But still I guess so,

0:27:59.600 --> 0:28:02.840
<v Speaker 1>so so you've got only the breast, the problem is this, right,

0:28:03.680 --> 0:28:05.120
<v Speaker 1>And I don't mean to pick on only the breast.

0:28:05.200 --> 0:28:08.199
<v Speaker 1>There's other milk sharing sites like this. They definitely do

0:28:08.320 --> 0:28:10.560
<v Speaker 1>serve a function where if you want to feed your

0:28:10.600 --> 0:28:14.080
<v Speaker 1>baby mother's milk, um, and you just can't afford five

0:28:14.119 --> 0:28:16.480
<v Speaker 1>dollars an ounce, but you can't afford one dollar announced

0:28:16.760 --> 0:28:19.280
<v Speaker 1>and some some women on there have it for free.

0:28:19.320 --> 0:28:22.119
<v Speaker 1>They're just donating it, they don't aren't charging anything for it.

0:28:22.840 --> 0:28:26.159
<v Speaker 1>Um that's a viable place to go. The problem is this,

0:28:26.359 --> 0:28:28.840
<v Speaker 1>the milk you're getting is not in any way screened.

0:28:29.040 --> 0:28:31.960
<v Speaker 1>You have no idea whether the person you're getting it from,

0:28:32.080 --> 0:28:34.280
<v Speaker 1>despite how great they look and how healthy they look,

0:28:34.440 --> 0:28:37.320
<v Speaker 1>whether they're actually disease free, and hence whether their milk

0:28:37.440 --> 0:28:41.200
<v Speaker 1>is disease free, which is that's very alarming. It is.

0:28:41.280 --> 0:28:45.040
<v Speaker 1>There's also something called cross nursing, which seems like a

0:28:45.080 --> 0:28:49.560
<v Speaker 1>reasonable alternative, and that's that's basically just when two women

0:28:49.840 --> 0:28:53.480
<v Speaker 1>or four or five, just people who know each other

0:28:53.600 --> 0:28:56.720
<v Speaker 1>like neighbors or good friends that are pregnant at the

0:28:56.720 --> 0:29:00.360
<v Speaker 1>same time, uh, well, cross nurse and basically it's it's

0:29:00.400 --> 0:29:04.400
<v Speaker 1>just milk sharing among a few people, straight from the tap,

0:29:04.800 --> 0:29:07.680
<v Speaker 1>straight not straight from the tap. They'll they'll bottle it

0:29:07.800 --> 0:29:10.600
<v Speaker 1>up and and go next door and say, you know,

0:29:10.720 --> 0:29:13.600
<v Speaker 1>I had this leftover milk. I see, it's just it's

0:29:13.640 --> 0:29:18.440
<v Speaker 1>basically milk sharing, but but not through like some big website.

0:29:18.480 --> 0:29:20.560
<v Speaker 1>It's just among friends. I got to just keep it

0:29:20.600 --> 0:29:24.240
<v Speaker 1>between friends. There's there is a website called milk Share

0:29:24.800 --> 0:29:26.960
<v Speaker 1>that is it's along the lines of only the breast,

0:29:26.960 --> 0:29:31.760
<v Speaker 1>but it's much more um uh regimented. Yeah. Um, it's

0:29:31.760 --> 0:29:35.240
<v Speaker 1>all donated, it's all free um or there's no charge

0:29:35.720 --> 0:29:39.400
<v Speaker 1>and um there are there's like guidelines for storing and

0:29:39.400 --> 0:29:41.680
<v Speaker 1>shipping and stuff like that that only the breast didn't have.

0:29:41.720 --> 0:29:43.239
<v Speaker 1>But again still, as far as I know, it's not

0:29:43.280 --> 0:29:46.479
<v Speaker 1>screened for anything. Yeah, and we're not disparaging anyone who

0:29:46.560 --> 0:29:49.040
<v Speaker 1>wants to use services like this at all. I just

0:29:49.080 --> 0:29:51.480
<v Speaker 1>want to make that clear. It's just we want people

0:29:51.520 --> 0:29:54.680
<v Speaker 1>to be as safe as possible. Yeah, I mean what's

0:29:54.720 --> 0:29:57.400
<v Speaker 1>the alternative though? You know, like if you want to

0:29:57.880 --> 0:30:01.880
<v Speaker 1>feed your child breast milk, you can't breastfeed and you

0:30:02.000 --> 0:30:04.800
<v Speaker 1>just don't have the money, what do you do? You know,

0:30:04.840 --> 0:30:08.600
<v Speaker 1>that's a sticky situation. It is. It's very sad. Uh.

0:30:08.680 --> 0:30:10.880
<v Speaker 1>We talked a little bit about the breast pump yesterday,

0:30:11.520 --> 0:30:14.560
<v Speaker 1>but um, we'll we'll really get into it here. It

0:30:14.640 --> 0:30:17.120
<v Speaker 1>was advented in the early nineteenth Uh. I don't know

0:30:17.120 --> 0:30:19.520
<v Speaker 1>if it's early, but let's just say nineteenth century. It

0:30:19.600 --> 0:30:21.960
<v Speaker 1>was about the time when formula was really starting to

0:30:22.000 --> 0:30:24.000
<v Speaker 1>come into its own all right, Well that kind of

0:30:24.000 --> 0:30:27.160
<v Speaker 1>makes sense in a way. Everyone's like vying for that

0:30:27.320 --> 0:30:30.960
<v Speaker 1>space in the industry even back then. Uh. And the

0:30:30.960 --> 0:30:34.320
<v Speaker 1>earliest models are probably what you think. It's basically a

0:30:34.440 --> 0:30:39.200
<v Speaker 1>cow milking machine that's been modified slightly. Um, look like

0:30:39.880 --> 0:30:43.480
<v Speaker 1>a vacuum and a hand pump. But it was and

0:30:43.560 --> 0:30:46.480
<v Speaker 1>this is something I had no idea. UM as far

0:30:46.520 --> 0:30:52.080
<v Speaker 1>as a consumer delivered at home product, it's only been

0:30:52.120 --> 0:30:58.760
<v Speaker 1>around since about when uh Madela introduced the first at

0:30:58.800 --> 0:31:02.200
<v Speaker 1>home electric po houred. Uh, you can you can have

0:31:02.280 --> 0:31:06.000
<v Speaker 1>it in your as a consumer use breast pump. Yeah,

0:31:06.200 --> 0:31:08.680
<v Speaker 1>right up to I had no idea it was that new,

0:31:09.840 --> 0:31:13.000
<v Speaker 1>right Yeah and verse since then. There's just a really

0:31:13.040 --> 0:31:16.120
<v Speaker 1>great Jillapoor article from the New York Or called Baby

0:31:16.160 --> 0:31:18.760
<v Speaker 1>Food where she kind of chronicles the rise of the

0:31:18.800 --> 0:31:24.560
<v Speaker 1>breast pump. But she points out that since nine um,

0:31:24.680 --> 0:31:30.400
<v Speaker 1>sales of Medella's model alone had quadrupled and they become ubiquitous,

0:31:30.480 --> 0:31:33.320
<v Speaker 1>you know. Um. Then they started out as a medical

0:31:33.360 --> 0:31:37.520
<v Speaker 1>device like, if your baby couldn't um, couldn't nurse, you

0:31:37.520 --> 0:31:40.400
<v Speaker 1>could still feed your baby breast milk by using these pumps.

0:31:41.080 --> 0:31:45.440
<v Speaker 1>And it was a medical intervention that became a consumer product,

0:31:45.880 --> 0:31:48.840
<v Speaker 1>And the reason it's spread and popularity like wildfire is

0:31:48.880 --> 0:31:54.680
<v Speaker 1>because it makes uh, breastfeeding mom's life exponentially more awesome

0:31:55.160 --> 0:31:58.360
<v Speaker 1>then if they're just nursing. Yeah, I mean that obviously

0:31:58.440 --> 0:32:01.760
<v Speaker 1>has the advantages of freeing mom up by being able

0:32:01.800 --> 0:32:06.280
<v Speaker 1>to bank that milk on her own. H. Then dad

0:32:06.360 --> 0:32:10.840
<v Speaker 1>can help feed, and babysitter, daycare worker can help feed. Uh.

0:32:11.000 --> 0:32:15.040
<v Speaker 1>Mom can sleep through the night, maybe even if you

0:32:15.120 --> 0:32:17.680
<v Speaker 1>know dad is a good dad and a good husband.

0:32:18.320 --> 0:32:22.520
<v Speaker 1>She can go to the store by herself. Uh, well,

0:32:22.560 --> 0:32:24.600
<v Speaker 1>what do you mean. Well, I mean, rather than having

0:32:24.640 --> 0:32:27.280
<v Speaker 1>to to feed every two hours or to express milk

0:32:27.320 --> 0:32:30.360
<v Speaker 1>every two hours, she can go as far as I've

0:32:30.360 --> 0:32:33.560
<v Speaker 1>seen up to like six hours between expressions, right, So

0:32:33.800 --> 0:32:36.640
<v Speaker 1>you can fit a lot of time away by yourself

0:32:36.800 --> 0:32:40.000
<v Speaker 1>in that six hours rather than too Yeah, I hear you.

0:32:40.200 --> 0:32:43.120
<v Speaker 1>It's another big one. Uh. It also made things way

0:32:43.120 --> 0:32:46.600
<v Speaker 1>easier in the workforce. Obviously, we we did touch on

0:32:46.640 --> 0:32:48.760
<v Speaker 1>the yesterday with UM. As of two thousand and ten.

0:32:49.360 --> 0:32:52.160
<v Speaker 1>Here in the United States, UM employers are required to

0:32:52.200 --> 0:32:55.200
<v Speaker 1>provide these break times in a private place. But it's

0:32:55.240 --> 0:32:57.600
<v Speaker 1>not like we had a lovely lactation room in our

0:32:57.680 --> 0:33:00.840
<v Speaker 1>last office. We actually recorded it in there once. I

0:33:00.880 --> 0:33:04.160
<v Speaker 1>think I actually was studying in there once, UM, and

0:33:04.200 --> 0:33:07.080
<v Speaker 1>I was like elactation room. But it didn't occur to

0:33:07.120 --> 0:33:09.880
<v Speaker 1>me like that was a lactation room at all times

0:33:10.000 --> 0:33:14.320
<v Speaker 1>rather than just when uh, somebody was in there pumping. UM.

0:33:14.400 --> 0:33:16.000
<v Speaker 1>So I was in there studying because it was very

0:33:16.080 --> 0:33:19.320
<v Speaker 1>quiet and comfortable before I finally got cooked out and

0:33:19.360 --> 0:33:22.000
<v Speaker 1>it dawned on me that, oh, that's the lactation room

0:33:22.040 --> 0:33:26.120
<v Speaker 1>all the time. I should probably steer clear of that place. Here,

0:33:26.120 --> 0:33:32.360
<v Speaker 1>and they're smoking a cigarette pretty much doing shots of whiskey. Uh.

0:33:32.400 --> 0:33:36.000
<v Speaker 1>And you mentioned a second ago that UM the breast

0:33:36.000 --> 0:33:39.360
<v Speaker 1>pump allowed women if their baby had troubled nursing. One

0:33:39.360 --> 0:33:43.000
<v Speaker 1>of the issues that can happen. It's called nipple confusion.

0:33:43.720 --> 0:33:48.520
<v Speaker 1>And it is UM, not confusion which is a little confusing. UM.

0:33:48.560 --> 0:33:51.720
<v Speaker 1>It is not the baby doesn't know like whether or

0:33:51.760 --> 0:33:54.480
<v Speaker 1>not it's mom's nipple or a bottle nipple. It's that

0:33:54.520 --> 0:33:57.880
<v Speaker 1>the baby actually has a preference for the bottle nipple. Right, Yeah,

0:33:57.880 --> 0:33:59.959
<v Speaker 1>the baby has been introduced to the bottle in an

0:34:00.160 --> 0:34:03.040
<v Speaker 1>now that the mom's like, okay, don't forget about the boob.

0:34:03.480 --> 0:34:06.000
<v Speaker 1>The baby's like, no, no, no, I'm I'm pretty hip

0:34:06.040 --> 0:34:09.480
<v Speaker 1>on the bottle instead. Let's just stick with that. Yeah.

0:34:09.560 --> 0:34:12.000
<v Speaker 1>I think it's it's a little easier, supposedly right for

0:34:12.040 --> 0:34:15.680
<v Speaker 1>a baby to feed from a bottle, easier for the baby,

0:34:15.719 --> 0:34:19.239
<v Speaker 1>that is right. It employs gravity more than the um

0:34:19.520 --> 0:34:22.120
<v Speaker 1>the breast does, and the baby has to work less.

0:34:22.400 --> 0:34:25.680
<v Speaker 1>And since babies are inherently lazy. Um, they're like, I

0:34:25.760 --> 0:34:28.319
<v Speaker 1>like the bottle more. I just I don't understand why

0:34:28.360 --> 0:34:30.640
<v Speaker 1>it was ever called nipple confusion, and I couldn't find

0:34:30.840 --> 0:34:34.080
<v Speaker 1>the origin of it, although I bet you nipple preference

0:34:34.120 --> 0:34:37.279
<v Speaker 1>just sounded mean, I guess. So. Yeah, like they were

0:34:37.320 --> 0:34:43.799
<v Speaker 1>worried that the mom would take it as rejection. Uh,

0:34:43.840 --> 0:34:45.799
<v Speaker 1>And so they say, experts do that if you want

0:34:45.840 --> 0:34:49.319
<v Speaker 1>to try and avoid that potential at least that you

0:34:49.360 --> 0:34:51.560
<v Speaker 1>want to at least try and breastfeed if that's what

0:34:51.560 --> 0:34:54.720
<v Speaker 1>you're gonna do for two weeks before the baby sees

0:34:54.760 --> 0:34:58.880
<v Speaker 1>any sort of bottled nipple. Yeah, right, you want him

0:34:58.920 --> 0:35:01.040
<v Speaker 1>to get good at breastfeed thinks so they can remember

0:35:01.120 --> 0:35:05.279
<v Speaker 1>how right it seems? Smart? Yeah, you're lazy, little dumb

0:35:05.280 --> 0:35:08.799
<v Speaker 1>baby is smarter and not as lazy as you think.

0:35:09.080 --> 0:35:13.560
<v Speaker 1>No or confused, that's right. So, um, if you are

0:35:13.600 --> 0:35:18.480
<v Speaker 1>going with formula, there's a lot of different types available,

0:35:18.520 --> 0:35:22.400
<v Speaker 1>as I'm sure you know more than me. Even um.

0:35:22.560 --> 0:35:25.080
<v Speaker 1>From what I've found though, that almost all of the

0:35:25.120 --> 0:35:28.640
<v Speaker 1>milk based ones, which is the standard version, all of

0:35:28.680 --> 0:35:34.040
<v Speaker 1>the milk based versions are almost exactly the same. Yeah,

0:35:34.160 --> 0:35:39.280
<v Speaker 1>there there are things that the FDA requires be present,

0:35:39.400 --> 0:35:43.400
<v Speaker 1>so you're gonna see a lot of the same stuff. Um,

0:35:43.400 --> 0:35:45.920
<v Speaker 1>should we go through the list here? I love this list, Yes,

0:35:46.160 --> 0:35:52.120
<v Speaker 1>go ahead. Protein, fat, vitamin C, A, D, E, K

0:35:52.360 --> 0:35:56.239
<v Speaker 1>B one, B two, B six and B twelve, niacin delicious,

0:35:56.360 --> 0:36:02.320
<v Speaker 1>folic acid, love it, pantathemic acid, Calcium, How do you

0:36:02.320 --> 0:36:07.960
<v Speaker 1>feel about phosphorus? It's a little sneaky. Magnesium, iron, zinc,

0:36:08.480 --> 0:36:12.279
<v Speaker 1>here's the best one. Manganese It's like a mongoose and

0:36:12.280 --> 0:36:17.719
<v Speaker 1>a mango mixed together. Copper, iodine, sodium, potassium, and chloride.

0:36:18.280 --> 0:36:21.719
<v Speaker 1>Why do they always put potassium and chloride together? Have

0:36:21.760 --> 0:36:24.680
<v Speaker 1>you ever noticed that? I don't know one thing that

0:36:24.760 --> 0:36:27.800
<v Speaker 1>you may not find in your formula you probably won't

0:36:28.320 --> 0:36:32.799
<v Speaker 1>is a fluoride supplement. And the guy who wrote the

0:36:32.800 --> 0:36:36.720
<v Speaker 1>house Stuff Works article is just cuckoo for fluoride. Wants

0:36:36.760 --> 0:36:39.719
<v Speaker 1>to make sure that your baby has fluoride coming out

0:36:39.719 --> 0:36:44.759
<v Speaker 1>of his or her ears. Um, which you know, mambivalent

0:36:44.800 --> 0:36:48.360
<v Speaker 1>on that. Well they do say um. I think the

0:36:48.400 --> 0:36:52.279
<v Speaker 1>American Academy of Pediatric says no fluoride supplements at all

0:36:52.719 --> 0:36:55.560
<v Speaker 1>two babies six months or younger. Oh is that right? Good?

0:36:55.719 --> 0:36:58.640
<v Speaker 1>Good to add that because fluorosis is a concern in

0:36:58.640 --> 0:37:01.399
<v Speaker 1>that case. That's not what this guy is saying, so

0:37:01.719 --> 0:37:04.800
<v Speaker 1>you could catch He's clearly doesn't work for the American

0:37:04.840 --> 0:37:09.319
<v Speaker 1>Academy Pediatrics. The thing about UM formula, though, is, like you,

0:37:09.320 --> 0:37:11.560
<v Speaker 1>you would like to think it's all pure and wonderful

0:37:11.600 --> 0:37:14.000
<v Speaker 1>and like the best ingredients, And there are some out there,

0:37:14.040 --> 0:37:18.279
<v Speaker 1>and I'm sure they're mondo expensive right. Uh yeah, I mean,

0:37:18.280 --> 0:37:20.480
<v Speaker 1>you know, the good organic formula is a little pricier,

0:37:20.560 --> 0:37:24.160
<v Speaker 1>for sure. But there's also ones that are like they

0:37:24.200 --> 0:37:27.960
<v Speaker 1>appear to be almost junk food for babies. Well yeah,

0:37:28.040 --> 0:37:30.800
<v Speaker 1>I mean read the read those labels, uh, for sure,

0:37:30.840 --> 0:37:35.160
<v Speaker 1>like corn syrup and artificial sweeteners and corn starch sweeteners.

0:37:36.600 --> 0:37:38.720
<v Speaker 1>I mean, do what you want, but I would avoid

0:37:38.719 --> 0:37:41.920
<v Speaker 1>that stuff sure, And I'm sure a lot of people

0:37:42.280 --> 0:37:45.080
<v Speaker 1>aren't a percent aware that that stuff is in there.

0:37:45.520 --> 0:37:50.040
<v Speaker 1>Um there their baby food. And I mean a lot

0:37:50.080 --> 0:37:54.600
<v Speaker 1>of it's disguise like multidextrin sounds natural, but that's corn.

0:37:54.719 --> 0:37:57.839
<v Speaker 1>That's corn starch sweetener. I don't think that sounds natural

0:37:57.920 --> 0:38:01.520
<v Speaker 1>at all, But it sounds like it's It sounds like

0:38:01.560 --> 0:38:05.960
<v Speaker 1>a quarterback for like a middling Midwest college or something

0:38:06.040 --> 0:38:11.600
<v Speaker 1>like that, multi extron takes the field. It sounds like

0:38:11.680 --> 0:38:15.439
<v Speaker 1>that hardy Mid America kind of thing. All right, it's

0:38:15.440 --> 0:38:19.240
<v Speaker 1>not coastal at all. No, it's not coastal. Uh. If

0:38:19.480 --> 0:38:23.759
<v Speaker 1>your little baby has intolerance to milk um, like a

0:38:23.840 --> 0:38:27.880
<v Speaker 1>milk allergy, you can get those soy protein or coconut

0:38:27.920 --> 0:38:34.560
<v Speaker 1>milk um formulas. Still they're still out there, but they

0:38:34.600 --> 0:38:38.719
<v Speaker 1>now have the proper extra nutrients added, which they did

0:38:38.760 --> 0:38:42.640
<v Speaker 1>not used to have, right, And you can also get

0:38:42.680 --> 0:38:46.319
<v Speaker 1>did you say coconut too? Yeah? Yeah, I like the

0:38:46.320 --> 0:38:51.279
<v Speaker 1>sound of that one. Coconut Sure, coconut anything's good. Yeah.

0:38:51.320 --> 0:38:55.520
<v Speaker 1>I tried the formula ones. How is it? Is it sweet?

0:38:55.560 --> 0:38:58.560
<v Speaker 1>At all, or are these sweeeners just strictly for carbohydrate sake.

0:38:59.480 --> 0:39:02.279
<v Speaker 1>I don't remember how sweet it was. I don't think

0:39:02.320 --> 0:39:04.719
<v Speaker 1>I got enough to really. Oh, I see this is

0:39:04.760 --> 0:39:09.320
<v Speaker 1>after a couple of scotches. Let me see that right bottle?

0:39:10.239 --> 0:39:15.279
<v Speaker 1>Not that bottle. The the speaking of sweeteners, though, if

0:39:15.320 --> 0:39:18.320
<v Speaker 1>you want to get close to breast milk the sweetener,

0:39:18.360 --> 0:39:21.080
<v Speaker 1>you want to look for the main sweetening ingredient in

0:39:21.160 --> 0:39:25.920
<v Speaker 1>your formulas. Lactose. Okay, lactose, but then, like you said,

0:39:26.120 --> 0:39:28.440
<v Speaker 1>you may find out that your kid is lactose intolerant,

0:39:28.680 --> 0:39:31.920
<v Speaker 1>in which case you have some alternatives, especially soy and coconut,

0:39:32.080 --> 0:39:35.840
<v Speaker 1>which is my favorite. So uh, formula, you're gonna have

0:39:35.880 --> 0:39:39.719
<v Speaker 1>a few choices. You can have, um, like what they'll

0:39:39.719 --> 0:39:41.400
<v Speaker 1>give you in the hospital. A lot of times is

0:39:41.440 --> 0:39:46.000
<v Speaker 1>that just the bottles already pre packaged and pre made,

0:39:47.000 --> 0:39:49.719
<v Speaker 1>which obviously it doesn't get any easier than that. You

0:39:49.800 --> 0:39:53.400
<v Speaker 1>just pop the top and go at it, pre measured

0:39:53.400 --> 0:39:57.560
<v Speaker 1>and everything, and those are okay, yeah, I mean those

0:39:57.640 --> 0:40:00.520
<v Speaker 1>come in a variety of kinds as well, like from

0:40:00.760 --> 0:40:03.920
<v Speaker 1>probably ones that um aren't as great, to the more expensive,

0:40:03.920 --> 0:40:08.040
<v Speaker 1>better ones. UM, it's basically just the pre made version

0:40:08.040 --> 0:40:11.759
<v Speaker 1>of the powder that you might buy right right then,

0:40:11.800 --> 0:40:16.040
<v Speaker 1>the fact that they already measured out the precise amountain

0:40:16.040 --> 0:40:18.839
<v Speaker 1>added the water and shook it all together. Already, that's

0:40:18.840 --> 0:40:21.680
<v Speaker 1>what you're paying for the convenience, I guess. In other words, Yeah,

0:40:21.680 --> 0:40:24.680
<v Speaker 1>but you know it's their disposable, so you're you're I mean,

0:40:24.680 --> 0:40:28.319
<v Speaker 1>you're recycling the bottles hopefully, but it's still something that

0:40:28.400 --> 0:40:32.480
<v Speaker 1>you it's it's a one use thing. Okay. So then

0:40:32.480 --> 0:40:36.960
<v Speaker 1>you've got your concentrates and your powders, and um, price

0:40:37.040 --> 0:40:39.720
<v Speaker 1>and convenience are kind of what play in here according

0:40:39.760 --> 0:40:42.640
<v Speaker 1>to what you're gonna go with in addition to what

0:40:42.719 --> 0:40:46.880
<v Speaker 1>little b b will will want to eat. You know,

0:40:47.000 --> 0:40:48.680
<v Speaker 1>some babies are like, I don't I don't like that.

0:40:48.719 --> 0:40:53.000
<v Speaker 1>I reject your formula. Give me another one, or this

0:40:53.040 --> 0:40:56.719
<v Speaker 1>one makes me have reflux or makes me super gassy. Yeah.

0:40:56.719 --> 0:40:58.640
<v Speaker 1>That was the thing that I saw too, that that

0:40:59.520 --> 0:41:03.040
<v Speaker 1>even the formulas are virtually all the same. Um. Yeah,

0:41:03.160 --> 0:41:06.400
<v Speaker 1>your baby might have a strong preference for one over another.

0:41:06.600 --> 0:41:08.960
<v Speaker 1>I think such a triumph. Yeah, I think that the

0:41:09.080 --> 0:41:12.879
<v Speaker 1>thing the recipes are tweaked because there can I mean,

0:41:12.920 --> 0:41:16.799
<v Speaker 1>some of them say like, uh, for gas, problems specifically

0:41:16.800 --> 0:41:20.239
<v Speaker 1>and stuff like that. So there must be some either

0:41:20.520 --> 0:41:22.680
<v Speaker 1>a little less of something or maybe a little more

0:41:22.680 --> 0:41:26.040
<v Speaker 1>of something would be my guess. And I'm just I'm

0:41:26.040 --> 0:41:27.759
<v Speaker 1>flying off the cuff here, So if I got that wrong,

0:41:27.960 --> 0:41:32.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. One of the other things that UM formula

0:41:32.200 --> 0:41:37.839
<v Speaker 1>requires is really good water, yes, UM, which again the

0:41:37.920 --> 0:41:40.400
<v Speaker 1>author of the House to Folks article, who apparently is

0:41:40.480 --> 0:41:44.800
<v Speaker 1>unaware of fluorosis UM says just use tap water. You

0:41:44.840 --> 0:41:47.160
<v Speaker 1>can totally use cold tap water. And he does say

0:41:47.200 --> 0:41:49.279
<v Speaker 1>you never want to use hot tap water when you're

0:41:49.320 --> 0:41:53.000
<v Speaker 1>creating formula because if you do have UM lead plumbing

0:41:53.040 --> 0:41:57.160
<v Speaker 1>anywhere connecting to your house, hot water will leach it out. More.

0:41:57.640 --> 0:42:01.000
<v Speaker 1>When we covered that big time, our one about Flint, Michigan,

0:42:01.040 --> 0:42:05.200
<v Speaker 1>remember that, UM, So you want to use cold tap water,

0:42:05.440 --> 0:42:10.720
<v Speaker 1>I would say use filtered waters the first formula. Sure,

0:42:11.440 --> 0:42:13.360
<v Speaker 1>but if you if you're just using it out of

0:42:13.360 --> 0:42:15.080
<v Speaker 1>the tap, and in the rule of thumb is if

0:42:15.160 --> 0:42:18.320
<v Speaker 1>you can drink the tap water safely, uh, your baby

0:42:18.320 --> 0:42:21.239
<v Speaker 1>should be able to as well. But UM, just be

0:42:21.320 --> 0:42:23.799
<v Speaker 1>sure to use cold water. Yeah. And in fact, I

0:42:23.840 --> 0:42:26.600
<v Speaker 1>think for the first a little while we were even

0:42:26.680 --> 0:42:30.720
<v Speaker 1>using spring water just to be like those first few

0:42:30.760 --> 0:42:33.279
<v Speaker 1>weeks or you know, until you get a little more

0:42:33.280 --> 0:42:37.200
<v Speaker 1>comfortable or a little bit like all right, like I'm

0:42:37.360 --> 0:42:40.040
<v Speaker 1>doing everything right. Yeah, no, I don't blame me, man,

0:42:40.080 --> 0:42:41.839
<v Speaker 1>And then you get a little more relaxed you're like, oh,

0:42:42.239 --> 0:42:45.440
<v Speaker 1>you know, babies are pretty hardy little monsters, you know.

0:42:46.200 --> 0:42:49.799
<v Speaker 1>And apparently also like I was surprised that they'll they'll

0:42:49.840 --> 0:42:53.520
<v Speaker 1>take formula cold, but um, apparently they'll take a cold

0:42:53.560 --> 0:42:56.640
<v Speaker 1>right out of the fridge. Well, it depends, well, it

0:42:56.680 --> 0:42:59.920
<v Speaker 1>depends on the baby. Well, yeah, like, um, some babies

0:43:00.160 --> 0:43:02.839
<v Speaker 1>like no, no, no, no, heat that heat that stuff up? Right. Well,

0:43:02.880 --> 0:43:05.680
<v Speaker 1>when you're heating it up, you only want to run

0:43:05.680 --> 0:43:09.160
<v Speaker 1>it under hot tap water, in which case it's fine

0:43:09.200 --> 0:43:11.279
<v Speaker 1>because you're not actually adding the hot tap war you're

0:43:11.280 --> 0:43:13.440
<v Speaker 1>just using it to run out on the outside of

0:43:13.440 --> 0:43:15.480
<v Speaker 1>the bottle, right to heat it up. Yeah, I'm gonna

0:43:15.480 --> 0:43:18.359
<v Speaker 1>advise against that. Okay, how do you heat it up? Then?

0:43:18.360 --> 0:43:20.640
<v Speaker 1>Because I saw I don't use a microive, Well, there's

0:43:21.040 --> 0:43:24.200
<v Speaker 1>you can buy a bottle warmer, which is basically like

0:43:24.400 --> 0:43:27.880
<v Speaker 1>a just a little round thing with that you have

0:43:27.920 --> 0:43:30.000
<v Speaker 1>water in the bottom that boils it like a tea kettle.

0:43:30.120 --> 0:43:32.640
<v Speaker 1>It's like a water bath. Yeah, it's a little water bath.

0:43:32.680 --> 0:43:35.040
<v Speaker 1>But the reason I suggest that is if it takes

0:43:35.160 --> 0:43:39.000
<v Speaker 1>a long time to to warm it up under tap water,

0:43:39.120 --> 0:43:41.759
<v Speaker 1>and so you're literally like just running water for like

0:43:41.920 --> 0:43:44.359
<v Speaker 1>five minutes, well that's a that's a good that's kind

0:43:44.360 --> 0:43:46.640
<v Speaker 1>of wasteful. You're right, And at first I was likely

0:43:46.680 --> 0:43:48.440
<v Speaker 1>bottle warmer. They try to sell you all this junk.

0:43:49.440 --> 0:43:51.960
<v Speaker 1>Literally was like that, and you know, I tried it.

0:43:51.960 --> 0:43:53.000
<v Speaker 1>I was like, look, you can just put in a

0:43:53.000 --> 0:43:55.200
<v Speaker 1>coffee cup and put some hot water in there, but

0:43:55.320 --> 0:43:58.720
<v Speaker 1>that cools off like really quick, and the bottle warmer

0:43:58.920 --> 0:44:01.680
<v Speaker 1>was like fifteen dollar urs that You're like, well, look

0:44:01.719 --> 0:44:03.680
<v Speaker 1>you can just put the coffee cup on the stove,

0:44:03.960 --> 0:44:07.480
<v Speaker 1>turn the stove off, turn it on. Yeah. Emily was

0:44:07.480 --> 0:44:11.920
<v Speaker 1>basically like, get the bottle warmer done and it's infinitely easier.

0:44:11.920 --> 0:44:13.640
<v Speaker 1>You just just click it on. It's got a little

0:44:13.640 --> 0:44:15.759
<v Speaker 1>time or for a couple of minutes or whatever, and

0:44:15.800 --> 0:44:17.919
<v Speaker 1>it heats it up and you're not wasting as much water.

0:44:18.239 --> 0:44:20.399
<v Speaker 1>That's that's cool, But in a pinch, like when you're

0:44:20.400 --> 0:44:23.360
<v Speaker 1>out and about, you definitely like the running it undertap

0:44:23.400 --> 0:44:27.880
<v Speaker 1>water works. I think there's two things then that the

0:44:27.920 --> 0:44:32.759
<v Speaker 1>federal government should give every new parent at least a

0:44:32.840 --> 0:44:40.200
<v Speaker 1>year's supply of infant formula, good stuff, and a bottle warm,

0:44:40.360 --> 0:44:43.560
<v Speaker 1>like just for just for being an American, you should

0:44:43.600 --> 0:44:48.439
<v Speaker 1>get that. Yeah. What what country is it sweet where

0:44:48.440 --> 0:44:51.640
<v Speaker 1>they give him the box? Norway? Is it Norway? I

0:44:51.640 --> 0:44:54.440
<v Speaker 1>don't know. I think I think it's one of those

0:44:54.560 --> 0:44:56.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm sure. Oh, I know what you're talking about. The

0:44:56.560 --> 0:44:58.520
<v Speaker 1>box can be used as like a baby like a

0:44:58.600 --> 0:45:02.040
<v Speaker 1>crib even yeah. Oh, I think it is a Nordic

0:45:02.080 --> 0:45:04.440
<v Speaker 1>country and it's like this old tradition that they still do.

0:45:04.640 --> 0:45:06.840
<v Speaker 1>And uh. I think I posted something about it and

0:45:06.880 --> 0:45:08.480
<v Speaker 1>I was like, what in the world, and all these

0:45:08.480 --> 0:45:11.040
<v Speaker 1>women are like, no, dude, it's the best, like they're

0:45:11.080 --> 0:45:13.719
<v Speaker 1>doing it right. Yeah, but I can't remember. It was

0:45:13.760 --> 0:45:16.680
<v Speaker 1>some sort of baby box. Yeah, yeah, I know what

0:45:16.719 --> 0:45:18.400
<v Speaker 1>you're talking about. And I think it came with stuff

0:45:18.400 --> 0:45:19.880
<v Speaker 1>in it, but then you take the stuff out of

0:45:19.880 --> 0:45:23.120
<v Speaker 1>it and then you put your baby in it. Right,

0:45:23.200 --> 0:45:25.880
<v Speaker 1>I have to look into that. I think I'm describing

0:45:25.920 --> 0:45:30.640
<v Speaker 1>it correctly. And the baby's like echo. Uh So when

0:45:30.640 --> 0:45:34.040
<v Speaker 1>you get your bottles and your nipples, when you decide

0:45:34.080 --> 0:45:35.719
<v Speaker 1>on the ones, they're a bunch of them out there.

0:45:35.719 --> 0:45:37.600
<v Speaker 1>But when you decide on the one that works, that

0:45:37.719 --> 0:45:42.600
<v Speaker 1>you like and that works for baby, um, you you

0:45:42.640 --> 0:45:45.040
<v Speaker 1>want to sterilize it right out of the package by

0:45:45.040 --> 0:45:48.080
<v Speaker 1>boiling it. But then after that you can just wash

0:45:48.120 --> 0:45:51.399
<v Speaker 1>it in the dishwasher with hot water, supposedly unless your

0:45:51.880 --> 0:45:55.480
<v Speaker 1>house operates on well water, in which case you may

0:45:55.520 --> 0:46:01.200
<v Speaker 1>want to be a little more um steril ific you uh.

0:46:01.239 --> 0:46:03.960
<v Speaker 1>And in two thousand twelve they banned b p A

0:46:05.160 --> 0:46:08.000
<v Speaker 1>uh for baby bottles because b p A has been

0:46:08.000 --> 0:46:12.480
<v Speaker 1>shown to leach from its uh plastic containers the products

0:46:13.239 --> 0:46:16.319
<v Speaker 1>when heated up. And so since twelve, anything you buy

0:46:16.560 --> 0:46:19.360
<v Speaker 1>won't will be b p A free. But if people,

0:46:19.440 --> 0:46:22.120
<v Speaker 1>I mean, that wasn't that long ago. So people are like, here,

0:46:22.200 --> 0:46:25.200
<v Speaker 1>take my old bottles or you know, have my handy downs.

0:46:25.760 --> 0:46:28.640
<v Speaker 1>You gotta look, um, look on the bottom and if

0:46:28.640 --> 0:46:31.640
<v Speaker 1>you see a number seven on the bottom or PC, yeah,

0:46:31.640 --> 0:46:33.560
<v Speaker 1>then it might have b p A. So you should

0:46:33.640 --> 0:46:35.960
<v Speaker 1>just try and get a new one. Yeah. And you

0:46:36.320 --> 0:46:39.520
<v Speaker 1>don't be also lulled into complacency by things that say

0:46:39.680 --> 0:46:43.080
<v Speaker 1>b p A free, because they may be certified even

0:46:43.160 --> 0:46:47.000
<v Speaker 1>b p A free. But two replacements that have come

0:46:47.040 --> 0:46:50.000
<v Speaker 1>to stand in for b p A. BPS and BPF

0:46:50.600 --> 0:46:54.360
<v Speaker 1>are apparently just as bad endocrine endocrine disruptors as b

0:46:54.480 --> 0:46:56.960
<v Speaker 1>p A. So what you really want to do is

0:46:57.000 --> 0:47:01.239
<v Speaker 1>just avoid any clear plastic bottles. You want to use

0:47:01.280 --> 0:47:05.440
<v Speaker 1>the opaque kind because they're usually made of polyethylene or polypropylene,

0:47:05.960 --> 0:47:07.840
<v Speaker 1>and you want to go with ones that have the

0:47:07.920 --> 0:47:11.360
<v Speaker 1>recycling symbol with the number two or the number five

0:47:11.440 --> 0:47:15.719
<v Speaker 1>in them. Those are legitimately free of bp A or

0:47:16.120 --> 0:47:18.560
<v Speaker 1>or bisphenols of any kind. Yeah, they should put a

0:47:18.600 --> 0:47:21.720
<v Speaker 1>little baby with the thumbs up. They they they should

0:47:21.760 --> 0:47:25.760
<v Speaker 1>just yes, they shouldn't have taken this many years for

0:47:26.719 --> 0:47:30.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm just the whole bp A thing really gets me going, Yeah, yeah,

0:47:30.719 --> 0:47:32.719
<v Speaker 1>I totally agree. I mean it's only four years ago.

0:47:33.560 --> 0:47:36.080
<v Speaker 1>They're like, oh, wait a minute, it's leaching when you

0:47:36.120 --> 0:47:40.160
<v Speaker 1>heat it up into your baby's food. Yeah, well well wait,

0:47:40.200 --> 0:47:45.200
<v Speaker 1>we're making money off of it. Sorry to see. That's

0:47:45.200 --> 0:47:49.239
<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying. You can get glass bottles now. Back

0:47:49.280 --> 0:47:52.239
<v Speaker 1>in the day, that was all you would see obviously. Uh.

0:47:52.239 --> 0:47:55.600
<v Speaker 1>And they still make great glass bottles, and they're a

0:47:55.600 --> 0:48:00.960
<v Speaker 1>bit heavier um to hold they so you can break

0:48:01.040 --> 0:48:04.200
<v Speaker 1>if you drop them. But you've seen a lot of

0:48:04.200 --> 0:48:06.560
<v Speaker 1>places like the hazards of dropping and breaking a bottle.

0:48:07.680 --> 0:48:10.080
<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's not that big of a hazard. It's

0:48:10.120 --> 0:48:12.120
<v Speaker 1>like it's like any I mean, if you unless you

0:48:12.160 --> 0:48:14.840
<v Speaker 1>don't have any glass in your house at all, you

0:48:14.840 --> 0:48:18.520
<v Speaker 1>could always drop a glass. Sure. Also, I know these

0:48:18.520 --> 0:48:22.719
<v Speaker 1>things aren't the most fragile things you've rent countered, sick

0:48:22.760 --> 0:48:26.359
<v Speaker 1>and heavy, So they just cracked the baby's face if

0:48:26.400 --> 0:48:30.640
<v Speaker 1>you drop I guess that's a bigger hazard than it breaking. Right.

0:48:31.440 --> 0:48:34.680
<v Speaker 1>Uh no, I mean all right, you should be holding

0:48:34.680 --> 0:48:38.279
<v Speaker 1>that bottle, you know, which we're gonna get into, right, Yeah,

0:48:38.320 --> 0:49:04.000
<v Speaker 1>you want to take a break first. Hey, so Chuck,

0:49:04.040 --> 0:49:06.480
<v Speaker 1>I saw something. Um I think I said you don't

0:49:06.480 --> 0:49:10.480
<v Speaker 1>want a microwave baby bottles? Did you know that? I didn't?

0:49:10.560 --> 0:49:13.680
<v Speaker 1>But um, we we we don't really use a microwave

0:49:13.719 --> 0:49:16.600
<v Speaker 1>at all, so not an issue. Well, the reason why

0:49:16.680 --> 0:49:19.600
<v Speaker 1>you don't want to is because microwaves heat basically from

0:49:19.640 --> 0:49:22.279
<v Speaker 1>the inside out. So when you grab the bottle and

0:49:22.280 --> 0:49:25.560
<v Speaker 1>you're like, oh, it's lukewarm. The stuff that you're touching

0:49:25.600 --> 0:49:27.719
<v Speaker 1>on the outside is lukewarm, but the stuff inside might

0:49:27.719 --> 0:49:29.760
<v Speaker 1>be really hot, and you don't want to hurt baby.

0:49:29.960 --> 0:49:32.680
<v Speaker 1>I guess we should also say anytime you give baby

0:49:32.719 --> 0:49:36.160
<v Speaker 1>formula unless it's directly out of the fridge, and even then,

0:49:36.200 --> 0:49:38.600
<v Speaker 1>why not, Um, you want to shake a little on

0:49:39.120 --> 0:49:41.879
<v Speaker 1>the underside of your forearm, right because it's a very

0:49:41.920 --> 0:49:44.840
<v Speaker 1>sensitive area in your skin and you'll be able to

0:49:44.840 --> 0:49:46.840
<v Speaker 1>tell whether it's hot or not. I would drop it

0:49:46.840 --> 0:49:51.320
<v Speaker 1>in my eye. That's a good one. It's very sensitive.

0:49:52.400 --> 0:49:57.720
<v Speaker 1>I'll bet that spring water doesn't hurt at all. All right, So, um,

0:49:57.840 --> 0:50:01.240
<v Speaker 1>like you said, some babies don't mind it cold, or

0:50:01.640 --> 0:50:04.440
<v Speaker 1>after a while they've may be like, all right, cold

0:50:04.520 --> 0:50:09.240
<v Speaker 1>is fine with me. But you're still gonna want to, uh,

0:50:09.400 --> 0:50:11.800
<v Speaker 1>you still want to hold and feed your baby, You don't.

0:50:11.960 --> 0:50:14.720
<v Speaker 1>You don't like set your baby down on a couch

0:50:15.200 --> 0:50:18.520
<v Speaker 1>and hand your baby a bottle and walk away, because

0:50:18.560 --> 0:50:21.560
<v Speaker 1>a for a while, that's not even possible. Um, although

0:50:21.600 --> 0:50:23.720
<v Speaker 1>I will say, once the baby can hold the bottle,

0:50:23.719 --> 0:50:26.759
<v Speaker 1>it's pretty neat. Yeah, but you know you still want

0:50:26.760 --> 0:50:29.040
<v Speaker 1>to be there. But you're you know, you want to

0:50:29.080 --> 0:50:33.399
<v Speaker 1>still be there and provide eye contact and that closeness. Um.

0:50:33.440 --> 0:50:35.680
<v Speaker 1>You know, it's a big part of it. Yeah, that's

0:50:35.680 --> 0:50:38.040
<v Speaker 1>a huge part of it. Also. I mean, we talked

0:50:38.040 --> 0:50:42.919
<v Speaker 1>about it in the breast episode. Um, skin on skin

0:50:43.040 --> 0:50:47.279
<v Speaker 1>contact has a lot to do with social development in

0:50:47.360 --> 0:50:51.600
<v Speaker 1>brain development with babies due to oxytocin release. But that

0:50:51.680 --> 0:50:55.320
<v Speaker 1>doesn't just come from breastfeeding. So anytime you're feeding a baby,

0:50:55.360 --> 0:50:59.280
<v Speaker 1>you basically should be shirtless from what I'm gathering. Um,

0:50:59.440 --> 0:51:01.239
<v Speaker 1>So that and you way you hold a baby, whether

0:51:01.280 --> 0:51:04.000
<v Speaker 1>you're bottle feeding it, whether you're best feeding it, whether

0:51:04.080 --> 0:51:08.000
<v Speaker 1>you're the neighbor or the maleman who's been invited to

0:51:08.000 --> 0:51:10.160
<v Speaker 1>come beat and meet the baby and feed it, you

0:51:10.200 --> 0:51:12.560
<v Speaker 1>want to take your shirt off first so that the

0:51:12.600 --> 0:51:15.239
<v Speaker 1>baby's got some form of skin to skin contact while

0:51:15.520 --> 0:51:20.479
<v Speaker 1>she's she's eating. I never did that. Well, I it's

0:51:20.840 --> 0:51:25.320
<v Speaker 1>I don't think it's ever too late. Yeah. Now I

0:51:25.320 --> 0:51:29.920
<v Speaker 1>would be like, what are you doing? Um, it's a

0:51:29.920 --> 0:51:33.640
<v Speaker 1>new thing we're trying. So, Uh, you don't want to

0:51:33.719 --> 0:51:36.520
<v Speaker 1>have your baby laying down flat. Um. You want your

0:51:36.520 --> 0:51:40.680
<v Speaker 1>baby the head elevated a little bit or you know,

0:51:40.760 --> 0:51:43.480
<v Speaker 1>flat out sitting up. If they have reflux problems, you

0:51:43.520 --> 0:51:46.840
<v Speaker 1>may have to experiment a little bit with that angle. Um.

0:51:46.880 --> 0:51:48.920
<v Speaker 1>But uh, the one thing you definitely don't want to

0:51:48.960 --> 0:51:52.359
<v Speaker 1>do is just prop the bottle because that has four

0:51:52.480 --> 0:51:59.879
<v Speaker 1>specific problems that can happen, uh ear infections, perhaps because

0:51:59.880 --> 0:52:02.839
<v Speaker 1>the formula just floats right into the middle ear. Yeah, um,

0:52:02.880 --> 0:52:08.759
<v Speaker 1>feeding longer then uh they might normally um and then

0:52:09.200 --> 0:52:13.120
<v Speaker 1>decreased emotional and physical satisfaction from getting held right and

0:52:13.360 --> 0:52:18.000
<v Speaker 1>apparently also increases the potential for cavities too. Yeah. So

0:52:18.080 --> 0:52:23.080
<v Speaker 1>I mean this is like we're talking about you shouldn't

0:52:23.080 --> 0:52:25.120
<v Speaker 1>put your baby down into like even if your baby

0:52:25.160 --> 0:52:27.440
<v Speaker 1>can hold the bottle, you shouldn't lay your baby down

0:52:27.480 --> 0:52:30.560
<v Speaker 1>in a crib like a bedtime and say here's your

0:52:30.560 --> 0:52:33.800
<v Speaker 1>bottle to put you to sleep and then leave the

0:52:33.880 --> 0:52:36.000
<v Speaker 1>room because and that and this is a little bit

0:52:36.040 --> 0:52:38.919
<v Speaker 1>different than just bottle propping. But there are a lot

0:52:38.960 --> 0:52:43.360
<v Speaker 1>of uh dangers there. One tooth decay of course, because

0:52:43.360 --> 0:52:47.880
<v Speaker 1>the last thing that should happen is toothbrushing, uh, ear infections, choking,

0:52:48.360 --> 0:52:52.319
<v Speaker 1>and then just this sleep association. Um, you don't want

0:52:52.320 --> 0:52:55.040
<v Speaker 1>your baby to be dependent on having that bottle to

0:52:55.120 --> 0:52:58.600
<v Speaker 1>fall asleep, right, You're not doing yourself any favors there,

0:52:58.800 --> 0:53:02.240
<v Speaker 1>and sleep training, good point. So that's in the crib,

0:53:02.440 --> 0:53:05.720
<v Speaker 1>leaving the baby with the bottle slightly different the bottle

0:53:06.000 --> 0:53:09.719
<v Speaker 1>and sure, um, when you are feeding an actual infant

0:53:10.120 --> 0:53:12.560
<v Speaker 1>um and you have to hold them up basically and

0:53:12.920 --> 0:53:16.040
<v Speaker 1>feed them with the bottle. Um. One of the one

0:53:16.080 --> 0:53:17.760
<v Speaker 1>of the things I think you said was that you

0:53:17.760 --> 0:53:21.160
<v Speaker 1>you have a lot of um opportunity for eye contact. Right,

0:53:21.560 --> 0:53:23.880
<v Speaker 1>it's one of the benefits of holding the baby water feeding.

0:53:24.120 --> 0:53:26.560
<v Speaker 1>But you also want to be sure to hold the

0:53:26.560 --> 0:53:28.480
<v Speaker 1>baby with your left arm one time and then the

0:53:28.520 --> 0:53:30.600
<v Speaker 1>next time hold the baby through right arm and just

0:53:30.680 --> 0:53:33.399
<v Speaker 1>keep going back and forth, because apparently their eyes can

0:53:33.440 --> 0:53:38.839
<v Speaker 1>develop um uh. One one can develop more strongly than

0:53:38.880 --> 0:53:41.600
<v Speaker 1>the other. If it's if the baby is fed facing

0:53:41.600 --> 0:53:44.719
<v Speaker 1>the same way all the time, baby, you'll look up.

0:53:45.960 --> 0:53:48.600
<v Speaker 1>It's it's funny, it's intuitive. But I could totally see

0:53:48.640 --> 0:53:52.680
<v Speaker 1>not even thinking about that, never thought about it. Yeah. Uh.

0:53:52.719 --> 0:53:56.560
<v Speaker 1>You want to keep that um nipple full of milk

0:53:57.000 --> 0:54:00.479
<v Speaker 1>at all times, which means keeping it uh point down,

0:54:01.760 --> 0:54:04.960
<v Speaker 1>because you want to decrease the amount of air, because

0:54:05.000 --> 0:54:07.840
<v Speaker 1>that will make your baby gassy. The more air that

0:54:07.960 --> 0:54:12.439
<v Speaker 1>baby drinks are swallows while eating the gassier. Uh. He's

0:54:12.480 --> 0:54:16.200
<v Speaker 1>gonna be right. And when you are feeding your baby,

0:54:16.480 --> 0:54:20.560
<v Speaker 1>apparently it's good to to burp him midway between the feeding.

0:54:21.120 --> 0:54:24.600
<v Speaker 1>Definitely after each feeding yeah, midway for a while and

0:54:24.640 --> 0:54:30.040
<v Speaker 1>then eventually um just after and burping is they're there

0:54:30.040 --> 0:54:32.719
<v Speaker 1>are different ways from over the shoulder, like the sort

0:54:32.760 --> 0:54:35.520
<v Speaker 1>of classic over the shoulder. You want to go high though,

0:54:35.520 --> 0:54:38.680
<v Speaker 1>and make sure there's some pressure on the abdomen um too,

0:54:39.640 --> 0:54:41.960
<v Speaker 1>putting just sitting a baby on your lap sideways and

0:54:42.040 --> 0:54:45.080
<v Speaker 1>holding her under the chin, uh and then padding the

0:54:45.080 --> 0:54:48.160
<v Speaker 1>back or just across the lap again with the pressure

0:54:48.200 --> 0:54:52.800
<v Speaker 1>on the abdomen and you know you want to. People

0:54:53.280 --> 0:54:56.640
<v Speaker 1>are a little timid, I think at first because little

0:54:56.719 --> 0:54:59.759
<v Speaker 1>tiny babies seem so fragile, but they're not as f

0:55:00.040 --> 0:55:03.200
<v Speaker 1>toil as you think, and just tiny little soft pats

0:55:03.640 --> 0:55:08.120
<v Speaker 1>is doing literally nothing to get that burp out. So

0:55:08.160 --> 0:55:10.600
<v Speaker 1>if you've ever had a nurse do it for you

0:55:10.680 --> 0:55:14.080
<v Speaker 1>and show you, or your mom or someone who's had

0:55:14.080 --> 0:55:16.840
<v Speaker 1>a few kids, you might be like, oh my god,

0:55:17.400 --> 0:55:20.120
<v Speaker 1>my baby, you're beating my baby. But that's what you

0:55:20.160 --> 0:55:21.600
<v Speaker 1>want to do. I mean, obviously you don't want to,

0:55:21.640 --> 0:55:23.920
<v Speaker 1>you don't don't want to like strike them, but a

0:55:23.960 --> 0:55:26.960
<v Speaker 1>good firm pat is what it takes to get that

0:55:27.000 --> 0:55:32.720
<v Speaker 1>burp out. Like, don't be shy and uh in my case, uh,

0:55:32.760 --> 0:55:35.879
<v Speaker 1>my daughter never really burped much from burping. I would

0:55:35.920 --> 0:55:37.920
<v Speaker 1>try and try and then be like, all right, I

0:55:37.920 --> 0:55:40.239
<v Speaker 1>guess she's good. And then she would like sit up

0:55:40.239 --> 0:55:43.640
<v Speaker 1>and go on her own, and you know, and then

0:55:43.680 --> 0:55:48.600
<v Speaker 1>she's kind of smiling sort of and um, you know,

0:55:48.680 --> 0:55:51.000
<v Speaker 1>I mean whatever you can do to get that little

0:55:51.239 --> 0:55:54.480
<v Speaker 1>burp out, and burp doesn't always come out, so if

0:55:54.520 --> 0:55:56.120
<v Speaker 1>you try it for a few minutes it doesn't happen,

0:55:56.160 --> 0:55:59.080
<v Speaker 1>then you know they might be good. Yeah, which I'll

0:55:59.080 --> 0:56:01.480
<v Speaker 1>be is not not into it all that. Some babies

0:56:01.480 --> 0:56:05.480
<v Speaker 1>have just been pounded on for days because the parents

0:56:06.800 --> 0:56:13.360
<v Speaker 1>yea burp so chuck. Um you were saying before that, Um.

0:56:13.880 --> 0:56:16.239
<v Speaker 1>One of the great things about bottle feeding is that

0:56:16.560 --> 0:56:19.360
<v Speaker 1>it allows other people to share in some of the

0:56:19.440 --> 0:56:23.080
<v Speaker 1>feeding as well. Right, Um, it's not as mom who's

0:56:23.120 --> 0:56:26.440
<v Speaker 1>responsible for feeding the baby, dads can too and other people,

0:56:26.480 --> 0:56:31.160
<v Speaker 1>like I said, the male carrier whoever. Um. But the

0:56:31.160 --> 0:56:35.239
<v Speaker 1>the idea that it's not just um sharing responsibility but

0:56:35.360 --> 0:56:39.760
<v Speaker 1>also like an opportunity to get to like get closer

0:56:39.800 --> 0:56:42.600
<v Speaker 1>to your kid as a dads has got to be

0:56:42.640 --> 0:56:46.440
<v Speaker 1>pretty appealing as far as the concept of bottle feeding goes, right,

0:56:47.640 --> 0:56:50.600
<v Speaker 1>you know, like it's when you're breastfeeding. Apparently there's a

0:56:50.800 --> 0:56:56.040
<v Speaker 1>U there is a phenomenon among some some men where

0:56:56.040 --> 0:57:00.000
<v Speaker 1>they actually become jealous of either their wife or their baby.

0:57:00.040 --> 0:57:03.640
<v Speaker 1>You're both because of the bond that's being formed in

0:57:03.719 --> 0:57:06.080
<v Speaker 1>the amount of attention and time that's being given to

0:57:06.120 --> 0:57:09.279
<v Speaker 1>the baby through breastfeeding. Yeah, I've heard of that. You

0:57:09.320 --> 0:57:10.919
<v Speaker 1>have heard of it. I hadn't heard of it until

0:57:10.960 --> 0:57:13.600
<v Speaker 1>I ran into this. Yeah, I've heard of it. I

0:57:13.640 --> 0:57:16.440
<v Speaker 1>mean i'd say, just getting their dad and you can

0:57:16.440 --> 0:57:19.760
<v Speaker 1>still be a part of things. Yeah, yeah, you totally

0:57:20.160 --> 0:57:22.240
<v Speaker 1>your breastfeeding. Well, I'll just go in the other room then,

0:57:23.680 --> 0:57:27.400
<v Speaker 1>you know, like sit down with them. Yeah yeah, I say,

0:57:27.680 --> 0:57:30.440
<v Speaker 1>can your act together? Ye? Getting jealous of your baby

0:57:30.480 --> 0:57:34.760
<v Speaker 1>because it's being breastfed. Uh. As far as when, um,

0:57:34.800 --> 0:57:37.160
<v Speaker 1>there are a couple of methods of feedings, UM, demand

0:57:37.240 --> 0:57:42.760
<v Speaker 1>feeding versus scheduled Uh. I only have my own experience,

0:57:42.800 --> 0:57:46.840
<v Speaker 1>which was my daughter just fell into her own routine basically,

0:57:47.280 --> 0:57:51.040
<v Speaker 1>and it worked out to be a scheduled routine. UM

0:57:51.120 --> 0:57:54.320
<v Speaker 1>that was pretty pretty tight, like you know, down to

0:57:54.400 --> 0:57:57.720
<v Speaker 1>the you know, ten or fifteen minutes apart on a

0:57:57.800 --> 0:58:00.920
<v Speaker 1>daily basis when it was clear it So it ended

0:58:01.000 --> 0:58:03.160
<v Speaker 1>up being scheduled, but she sort of set the schedule.

0:58:03.240 --> 0:58:06.720
<v Speaker 1>That means it's pretty cool, you know. Um, but you know,

0:58:06.840 --> 0:58:08.840
<v Speaker 1>there are two different schools of thought. You can try

0:58:08.840 --> 0:58:12.280
<v Speaker 1>and stick to that schedule, um, but you may be

0:58:12.760 --> 0:58:16.400
<v Speaker 1>you know, pushing that that rock up the hill constantly,

0:58:16.840 --> 0:58:19.160
<v Speaker 1>in which case you might want to think about demand feeding,

0:58:19.200 --> 0:58:21.640
<v Speaker 1>which is I feed my baby when my baby says

0:58:21.800 --> 0:58:24.440
<v Speaker 1>they're hungry. Yeah, and I was, I was researching this

0:58:24.480 --> 0:58:26.720
<v Speaker 1>and I was like, well, it seems like setting the

0:58:26.720 --> 0:58:29.920
<v Speaker 1>schedules the smartest thing to do. And then I thought, oh, well,

0:58:29.960 --> 0:58:33.520
<v Speaker 1>the baby kind of lets you know when here she's hungry,

0:58:33.800 --> 0:58:36.000
<v Speaker 1>and it doesn't necessarily stick to the schedule. So I'm

0:58:36.040 --> 0:58:38.120
<v Speaker 1>sure the idea of sending the schedules goes right out

0:58:38.160 --> 0:58:41.880
<v Speaker 1>the window and the baby's like screaming, you know. So yeah.

0:58:42.160 --> 0:58:45.640
<v Speaker 1>The problem with demand feeding, though, is that, um, your

0:58:45.680 --> 0:58:48.520
<v Speaker 1>baby might come to say, oh, this is this is enough,

0:58:48.560 --> 0:58:50.520
<v Speaker 1>This will be enough for this hour. I'll see you

0:58:50.520 --> 0:58:54.439
<v Speaker 1>in another hour and do that like fifteen times a day. Yeah.

0:58:54.480 --> 0:58:57.800
<v Speaker 1>One thing I do recommend, and uh is to track it.

0:58:58.440 --> 0:59:00.760
<v Speaker 1>Uh we we just got it like a viral notebook

0:59:01.160 --> 0:59:04.360
<v Speaker 1>and track to the times and the amounts because even

0:59:04.360 --> 0:59:06.320
<v Speaker 1>though you think like no, no, no, I'm keeping up

0:59:06.320 --> 0:59:09.520
<v Speaker 1>with it. It's it's really easy to forget how much

0:59:10.240 --> 0:59:11.680
<v Speaker 1>they've had that day, and you don't want to over

0:59:11.720 --> 0:59:13.960
<v Speaker 1>feed them or underfeed there. So just yeah, we just

0:59:14.040 --> 0:59:17.200
<v Speaker 1>kept a little daily log made it super easy. Did

0:59:17.200 --> 0:59:21.560
<v Speaker 1>you get the spiral notebook? Warmer too? Did? Actually it

0:59:21.680 --> 0:59:25.080
<v Speaker 1>was very nice. Nice, it's good. At first I was like,

0:59:25.240 --> 0:59:27.640
<v Speaker 1>who needs it? But then every time I put it

0:59:27.680 --> 0:59:29.640
<v Speaker 1>on my lap it was all cold, and so, oh,

0:59:29.720 --> 0:59:33.480
<v Speaker 1>this is nice. Yeah, that's very nice. So so as

0:59:33.520 --> 0:59:36.760
<v Speaker 1>a dad being able to feed your your kid, I mean,

0:59:36.800 --> 0:59:39.800
<v Speaker 1>like that that has to be pretty special, right, it's

0:59:39.840 --> 0:59:42.320
<v Speaker 1>the best. Yeah, And that is one of the huge

0:59:42.360 --> 0:59:45.240
<v Speaker 1>benefits of bottle feeding that that the dad gets to

0:59:45.280 --> 0:59:49.560
<v Speaker 1>do that too. Um. And just kind of from the research,

0:59:49.560 --> 0:59:52.240
<v Speaker 1>I got the impression that a lot of dad's kind

0:59:52.240 --> 0:59:55.560
<v Speaker 1>of take this hands off thing where it's like, that's

0:59:55.600 --> 0:59:59.280
<v Speaker 1>your thing, you feed the baby, I'll I'll go make

0:59:59.320 --> 1:00:03.320
<v Speaker 1>some money outdoors or something like that, right, And and

1:00:03.520 --> 1:00:06.480
<v Speaker 1>the the idea of the dad being involved in the feeding,

1:00:06.520 --> 1:00:08.720
<v Speaker 1>Like that's part of the thing about bottle feeding the

1:00:08.760 --> 1:00:10.400
<v Speaker 1>kids that the dad can be involved, and so the

1:00:10.480 --> 1:00:13.440
<v Speaker 1>dad should be involved probably in more ways than he

1:00:13.480 --> 1:00:18.400
<v Speaker 1>even imagines in a lot of cases too. Yeah, like

1:00:18.520 --> 1:00:21.640
<v Speaker 1>not just actually feeding the baby, but actually knowing how

1:00:21.720 --> 1:00:25.480
<v Speaker 1>much formula is needed to prepare and that kind of stuff. Yeah,

1:00:25.680 --> 1:00:29.120
<v Speaker 1>just like, be involved is the best advice. And that's

1:00:29.200 --> 1:00:32.080
<v Speaker 1>kind of what this article says that you sourced here. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, don't be a chromagnant or a dad from

1:00:36.560 --> 1:00:39.360
<v Speaker 1>like the nineteen thirties. You know, just be involved. Like

1:00:39.840 --> 1:00:44.000
<v Speaker 1>if if, uh, your wife is breastfeeding or bottle feeding

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<v Speaker 1>and she wants to do it, and she likes a

1:00:46.680 --> 1:00:49.240
<v Speaker 1>nice quiet scene and she doesn't want the dogs barking

1:00:49.280 --> 1:00:52.840
<v Speaker 1>and stuff like set up the bedroom and light a candle,

1:00:53.000 --> 1:00:55.480
<v Speaker 1>take the dogs on a walk, but on some music

1:00:55.600 --> 1:00:58.320
<v Speaker 1>like run interference. If the phone rings, you know, go

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<v Speaker 1>get the phone. Just like, be involved, right, and if

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<v Speaker 1>you're if your wife or if the mom does choose

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<v Speaker 1>to breastfeed, if that is where you guys go with it.

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<v Speaker 1>There's also other stuff you can do too that that

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<v Speaker 1>isn't just feeding. Like you in the middle of the night,

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<v Speaker 1>you can go get the baby, bring baby two moms,

1:01:16.800 --> 1:01:19.560
<v Speaker 1>or take baby back to bed, hang out with baby

1:01:19.600 --> 1:01:22.760
<v Speaker 1>for a little while while you're burping him or her UM.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a lot of stuff you can do, including apparently

1:01:26.200 --> 1:01:32.080
<v Speaker 1>unwavering support with whatever choice the mom makes as far

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<v Speaker 1>as or you and the mom, I should say make

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<v Speaker 1>um as far as feeding the baby goes, especially apparently

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<v Speaker 1>when it comes to breastfeeding, because again, um, I guess

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<v Speaker 1>studies have shown that the dad's support, encouragement, and involvement

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<v Speaker 1>in the choice to breastfeed UM has a huge impact

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<v Speaker 1>on how long breastfeeding continues. To imagine, but I I

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<v Speaker 1>would guess the same thing goes for formula. To Like,

1:01:58.760 --> 1:02:00.640
<v Speaker 1>if you're a mom who decided it that you just

1:02:00.640 --> 1:02:02.960
<v Speaker 1>want to feed your baby formula, you're gonna catch a

1:02:02.960 --> 1:02:06.240
<v Speaker 1>lot of statics. So if you're the dad, you should

1:02:06.240 --> 1:02:08.400
<v Speaker 1>be able to run interference for her as well to

1:02:08.840 --> 1:02:13.760
<v Speaker 1>um with friends, family, all that chance. Yeah, go fight somebody. Yeah,

1:02:13.920 --> 1:02:16.920
<v Speaker 1>it's funny. All this stuff seems just intuitive to me

1:02:17.040 --> 1:02:20.320
<v Speaker 1>and guys like you who you know, it's not like

1:02:20.440 --> 1:02:22.919
<v Speaker 1>husband wife chores. It's like we just all support each other.

1:02:23.400 --> 1:02:25.840
<v Speaker 1>But I have like friends that you know, like, oh

1:02:25.880 --> 1:02:28.440
<v Speaker 1>I didn't wake up you know when my wife would did?

1:02:28.520 --> 1:02:31.400
<v Speaker 1>What could I do? And I'm like, what year is it?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have boobs, like, dude, play play a part,

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<v Speaker 1>Get up, get out of bed, right, I mean maybe

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<v Speaker 1>not every time, like maybe you can work out the

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<v Speaker 1>schedule and stuff, or maybe your wife is like, no,

1:02:42.240 --> 1:02:44.920
<v Speaker 1>you totally sleep through the night tonight, but you know,

1:02:45.240 --> 1:02:49.880
<v Speaker 1>offer sure, And you know, I bet your wife might say, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that'd be great. Go get the baby, bring it to me. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought you'd never ask take her back burper. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>This this kind of stuff reminds me of that that

1:02:58.440 --> 1:03:01.160
<v Speaker 1>parenting class that margin Homer Simpson had to go to

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<v Speaker 1>you once, and the instructors like, remember you place your

1:03:05.240 --> 1:03:08.240
<v Speaker 1>milk in the refrigerator or barring that in a cool

1:03:08.320 --> 1:03:13.320
<v Speaker 1>wet sack, you know, and Homer was just writing it

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<v Speaker 1>all down. Get involved, guys, get your head out of

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<v Speaker 1>your key stir. This is what I say. What else

1:03:20.000 --> 1:03:24.840
<v Speaker 1>you got? I got nothing else? Oh? This article from

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<v Speaker 1>House to Work says don't feed your baby junker, junk

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<v Speaker 1>food or alcohol. Dad's yeah we forgot about that part.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure I know that that was huge in the seventies,

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<v Speaker 1>like here's have a little beer, baby, dip that pacifier

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<v Speaker 1>and whiskey. Yeah you know they used to Yeah, they

1:03:42.080 --> 1:03:45.120
<v Speaker 1>used to do stuff like that. There was like this, Um,

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<v Speaker 1>what's the I guess it was colic? Is that that's

1:03:49.120 --> 1:03:51.760
<v Speaker 1>the one where the baby's just crying NonStop? Right? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Colic is uh supposed to be I'm not supposed to be.

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<v Speaker 1>It's terrible. There was a colic remedy um that it

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<v Speaker 1>was basically consistent of like these needles and like you

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<v Speaker 1>just kind of scraped the baby's skin with it, and

1:04:05.720 --> 1:04:09.000
<v Speaker 1>the active ingredient was morphine that trickled down the needles

1:04:09.040 --> 1:04:11.600
<v Speaker 1>and entered the baby's blood stream and that's what cured

1:04:11.640 --> 1:04:15.439
<v Speaker 1>the colic. Wow. Yeah, they used to do all sorts

1:04:15.440 --> 1:04:19.680
<v Speaker 1>of crazy stuff up to again about the seventies. Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>I do have one more thing. I would just offer

1:04:22.280 --> 1:04:24.280
<v Speaker 1>a general advice to hang in there if you're a

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<v Speaker 1>new parent. Um, Emily and I got super super lucky

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<v Speaker 1>with great sleep habits and great eating habits and just

1:04:35.080 --> 1:04:39.400
<v Speaker 1>all this intuitive stuff that we had nothing to do with. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>you can try your best to do everything you can,

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<v Speaker 1>and you may feel helpless because that little, that little

1:04:46.840 --> 1:04:52.040
<v Speaker 1>uh model of sunshine is ruling your household and you

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<v Speaker 1>you might be trying your darnists for sleep or for

1:04:54.160 --> 1:04:57.520
<v Speaker 1>eating and this and that and nothing is working. And um,

1:04:57.920 --> 1:05:00.640
<v Speaker 1>you know it's not your fault like hanging there, because

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<v Speaker 1>it will change. And that goes for good stuff. Just

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<v Speaker 1>when you think everything's going great, something will change and

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<v Speaker 1>then you'll take two steps back, just you know, hanging there.

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<v Speaker 1>It'll all work itself out. So the government should give

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<v Speaker 1>every new parent a good formula, a bottle warmer, and

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<v Speaker 1>one of those hanging yeah, and one of those hanging

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<v Speaker 1>their kiddie posters inspirational posts. If you want to know

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<v Speaker 1>more about breastfeeding well, brothers and sisters, there is plenty

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<v Speaker 1>more to it. Um. You can just start researching online,

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<v Speaker 1>talk to a doctor you trust, electation consultant, uh, friend

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<v Speaker 1>who's breastfed, a friend who's used formula. Put it all together.

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<v Speaker 1>Form your own opinion. Uh. And in the meantime, since

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<v Speaker 1>I said form your own opinion, it's time for a listener.

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<v Speaker 1>May all. I'm gonna call this a a suggestion. We

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<v Speaker 1>don't usually read suggestions, but this I've never heard of this, dude,

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<v Speaker 1>so I'm reading it. Um. John Evans, a young man

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<v Speaker 1>from North Wales the very late eighteenth century, agreed to

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<v Speaker 1>explore the American interior with his friend, uh. Yolo morgen Wig.

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<v Speaker 1>I think they specifically said it's not yolo. I think

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<v Speaker 1>you're right. It's like they said that. Oh was like,

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<v Speaker 1>you're right, people say yolo, but Welsh people don't care

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<v Speaker 1>for that. Sorry about that. So they didn't say how

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<v Speaker 1>to pronounce it though, they like, just figure it out yourself, chumps.

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<v Speaker 1>That says you say that, Oh like the first one

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<v Speaker 1>octopus and the h l or I as a yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so iyoway, I'll I'll try and be brief. He tried

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<v Speaker 1>to discover a Welsh speaking tribe in Middle America linked

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<v Speaker 1>to the Mandan tribes. We're talking like Patagoni here, not Ohio.

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<v Speaker 1>He went to London, sale to Boston. Uh, well, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>it's talking about Ohio. Uh. Then just walked and walked

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<v Speaker 1>the land. Worked for the Spanish mapping out the land,

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<v Speaker 1>which quickly become his auxiliary task, one that he was

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<v Speaker 1>very good at. Lewis and Clark actually uses maps for

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<v Speaker 1>the majority of their own famous expedition. Uh. Yeah. He

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<v Speaker 1>was sort of a diplomat, securing passage up the Mississippi

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<v Speaker 1>from the native tribes who then controlled it. Then headed

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<v Speaker 1>to New Orleans before realizing no such tribes existed. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>Apparently he's like, well it was, it was worth a try.

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<v Speaker 1>Apparently the guy from Super Furry Animals Um Griff rise

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<v Speaker 1>Rees Griff Reese. By the way, did you ever like them?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you? Oh? Yeah, yeah, I was into them for

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<v Speaker 1>a while. Like they opened um for Granddaddy one time,

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<v Speaker 1>and you won't find a bigger Granddaddy fan than me.

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<v Speaker 1>But they like it was one of the few times

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<v Speaker 1>where the opening act blew the mains act off the

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<v Speaker 1>stage from Oh yeah that that dude is a genius

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<v Speaker 1>musically intellectually he's awesome. Yeah, I agree, and I like

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<v Speaker 1>them um as a band, but like I was not

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<v Speaker 1>expecting that out of the live show. Yeah, like it

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<v Speaker 1>blew my mind. Are they still around? I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think so. I know they had an album

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<v Speaker 1>like in the last several years, last few years. I

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<v Speaker 1>need to get back into that anyway, and not to

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<v Speaker 1>not Grand Daddy. Of course they were still great. Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>He from Super Furry Animals made a book, a film,

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<v Speaker 1>an app and an album about the story and retraced

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<v Speaker 1>his journey in person. What I believe he is actually

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<v Speaker 1>distantly related. Oh that's cool. We gotta check that out. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>for sure. So he said this will make a great podcast. Dudes,

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<v Speaker 1>do yourselves a favorite a least and look up the

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<v Speaker 1>book American Interior and the same title as the album

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<v Speaker 1>and give it a read. So that is from David

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<v Speaker 1>Evans and I'm totally going to look that up. It's

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<v Speaker 1>a call again American Interior. And then the guy's name

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<v Speaker 1>was John Evans, nice the explorer. Well, thanks a lot

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<v Speaker 1>who wrote them? Who wrote in now David Evans and

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<v Speaker 1>alive lots of Evans going on. Thanks a lot, David.

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