1 00:00:00,560 --> 00:00:04,400 Speaker 1: Hey, San Francisco, we're coming back to see you. Yes, 2 00:00:04,880 --> 00:00:07,320 Speaker 1: our second year in a row. We're gonna be going 3 00:00:07,360 --> 00:00:10,520 Speaker 1: to s F Sketch Fest. What I'd like to think, 4 00:00:10,520 --> 00:00:13,840 Speaker 1: it's the premier comedy festival in the United States, probably 5 00:00:13,880 --> 00:00:17,720 Speaker 1: well in the world, you think, so, Yeah, what about Beijing? Nope, 6 00:00:18,600 --> 00:00:21,200 Speaker 1: it's a it's a close second, but a second. Well, 7 00:00:21,280 --> 00:00:24,320 Speaker 1: we love San Francisco, we love performing there. Everyone is 8 00:00:24,320 --> 00:00:27,000 Speaker 1: always so kind to us. And by San Francisco we 9 00:00:27,040 --> 00:00:29,880 Speaker 1: mean the entire Bay area of course. Yeah, so we 10 00:00:29,920 --> 00:00:33,080 Speaker 1: will be there doing our thing for one time only 11 00:00:33,120 --> 00:00:38,159 Speaker 1: show on Sunday, January at one pm. Yeah, it's the 12 00:00:38,320 --> 00:00:44,639 Speaker 1: rare Sunday afternoon. We're like the NFL of podcasters. Yeah right, 13 00:00:45,240 --> 00:00:47,600 Speaker 1: that's that's what I've always thought. So all you have 14 00:00:47,640 --> 00:00:50,040 Speaker 1: to do is go to the SF Sketch Fest site, 15 00:00:50,479 --> 00:00:52,640 Speaker 1: look at the old calendar, and there are tons of 16 00:00:52,680 --> 00:00:55,720 Speaker 1: great people performing. Oh yeah, So I suggest like just 17 00:00:56,080 --> 00:00:57,920 Speaker 1: doubling down and getting tickets to all kinds of good 18 00:00:57,960 --> 00:00:59,840 Speaker 1: shows for sure, And hurry up and get tickets to 19 00:01:00,160 --> 00:01:02,280 Speaker 1: is because they've only been on sale for a week 20 00:01:02,360 --> 00:01:04,480 Speaker 1: or so and they're already half sold out. That's right, 21 00:01:04,600 --> 00:01:10,000 Speaker 1: So please hurry, San Francisco, please hurry. Welcome to Stuff 22 00:01:10,000 --> 00:01:19,000 Speaker 1: You Should Know from how Stuff Works dot Com. Hey, 23 00:01:19,040 --> 00:01:22,360 Speaker 1: and welcome to the podcast. I'm Josh Clark, There's Charles W. 24 00:01:22,560 --> 00:01:25,720 Speaker 1: Chuck Bryant, and we have guest producer Noel with us. 25 00:01:26,680 --> 00:01:29,520 Speaker 1: And this is Stuff you Should Know, Part two. That's right. 26 00:01:29,800 --> 00:01:33,000 Speaker 1: And actually things are gonna get weird because Noal is 27 00:01:33,000 --> 00:01:35,080 Speaker 1: about to leave, I think, and then that means we're 28 00:01:35,120 --> 00:01:39,600 Speaker 1: alone again. You never know what's gonna happen. The beating 29 00:01:39,680 --> 00:01:42,520 Speaker 1: of our hearts is the only sound stuff you should 30 00:01:42,560 --> 00:01:48,800 Speaker 1: know after dark. Let's got weird pretty quick. Uh. So 31 00:01:48,880 --> 00:01:54,240 Speaker 1: this is part two of How Feeding Babies Works? Right, 32 00:01:54,280 --> 00:01:57,560 Speaker 1: we're on the same page. Oh yeah, yeah, I hope so. 33 00:01:58,560 --> 00:02:01,200 Speaker 1: Uh and part one I think went down pretty well. 34 00:02:01,320 --> 00:02:03,520 Speaker 1: It's uh, it was a little nerve racking being two 35 00:02:03,600 --> 00:02:07,600 Speaker 1: dudes at the risk of doing it wrong or or 36 00:02:07,760 --> 00:02:10,800 Speaker 1: like you said, man splaining, which I I even hate 37 00:02:10,800 --> 00:02:14,240 Speaker 1: saying that term. But I think we did a pretty 38 00:02:14,240 --> 00:02:17,320 Speaker 1: good job. Yeah, we didn't come across as we were 39 00:02:17,320 --> 00:02:19,720 Speaker 1: hanging on by just our fingernails like I felt for 40 00:02:19,760 --> 00:02:22,120 Speaker 1: most of the time. I think we did all right too. Yeah, 41 00:02:22,200 --> 00:02:26,200 Speaker 1: and today we're gonna focus a lot more on formula feeding, 42 00:02:26,200 --> 00:02:29,200 Speaker 1: which I feel much more comfortable because it's something I 43 00:02:29,200 --> 00:02:31,200 Speaker 1: know a lot about. Right, Yeah, I figured you could 44 00:02:31,200 --> 00:02:33,560 Speaker 1: probably deal a lot of heavy lifting on this one. 45 00:02:34,080 --> 00:02:36,400 Speaker 1: Well it's not that heavy, just five or six ounces 46 00:02:36,400 --> 00:02:41,560 Speaker 1: at a time. Terrible we uh Yeah, this one is 47 00:02:41,600 --> 00:02:43,799 Speaker 1: the first. One is called the breast. This one is 48 00:02:43,840 --> 00:02:47,160 Speaker 1: called the bottle. And yeah, you know, the bottle is 49 00:02:47,480 --> 00:02:50,359 Speaker 1: well usually filled with formula, but there's plenty of other 50 00:02:50,880 --> 00:02:55,200 Speaker 1: stuff you could fill with it, specifically breast milk, UM. 51 00:02:55,240 --> 00:02:59,480 Speaker 1: But a lot of women start using bottles fairly early on, 52 00:02:59,560 --> 00:03:01,880 Speaker 1: sometimes from the outset. And there's a lot of reasons why. 53 00:03:02,080 --> 00:03:03,840 Speaker 1: There's a lot of reasons I guess, in other words, 54 00:03:03,840 --> 00:03:08,600 Speaker 1: why UM women either choose not to or ultimately have 55 00:03:09,040 --> 00:03:13,120 Speaker 1: chosen for them not to breastfeed UM. And one of 56 00:03:13,120 --> 00:03:17,359 Speaker 1: the big ones that's actually pretty common is a condition 57 00:03:17,400 --> 00:03:22,120 Speaker 1: called mass titis. And mess titis is basically an extremely 58 00:03:22,240 --> 00:03:27,760 Speaker 1: extremely painful inflammation of the breast or breasts, I guess, 59 00:03:27,760 --> 00:03:30,720 Speaker 1: in the worst case, which can be brought on by 60 00:03:30,880 --> 00:03:35,680 Speaker 1: like sore cracked nipples, um or an infection in the 61 00:03:35,800 --> 00:03:38,720 Speaker 1: breast block milk ducks. There's a lot of stuff they 62 00:03:38,760 --> 00:03:43,160 Speaker 1: can bring it on and as painful as breastfeeding can be, 63 00:03:43,680 --> 00:03:47,040 Speaker 1: Apparently the recommended treatment, of course of treatment for massitis 64 00:03:47,040 --> 00:03:51,000 Speaker 1: is to keep on breastfeeding. That clearly, like actually the 65 00:03:51,000 --> 00:03:54,160 Speaker 1: flow of milk through the breast clears up the inflammation 66 00:03:54,200 --> 00:03:56,480 Speaker 1: and even the infection in some cases. And I was 67 00:03:56,520 --> 00:03:58,680 Speaker 1: trying to figure that out, like how would that work? 68 00:03:59,040 --> 00:04:01,560 Speaker 1: But then I remember breastmoke is so chuck full of 69 00:04:01,600 --> 00:04:04,760 Speaker 1: anybodies that I guess it would deliver that antibodies to 70 00:04:04,840 --> 00:04:07,760 Speaker 1: that site as well, right, wouldn't that That was the 71 00:04:07,800 --> 00:04:10,080 Speaker 1: only thing I could come up with. Yeah, that makes sense, 72 00:04:10,200 --> 00:04:13,520 Speaker 1: And you know, yes, or well actually did record We'll 73 00:04:13,600 --> 00:04:16,080 Speaker 1: let the cat out of the bag. We're recording these 74 00:04:16,080 --> 00:04:18,600 Speaker 1: on two super days even yeah, we usually do the 75 00:04:18,600 --> 00:04:20,919 Speaker 1: sweets in one day. But uh yeah, we decided to 76 00:04:20,920 --> 00:04:23,320 Speaker 1: sleep on it, right, And I think that's probably a 77 00:04:23,320 --> 00:04:27,200 Speaker 1: good move. But yesterday when I mentioned my mother did 78 00:04:27,200 --> 00:04:29,280 Speaker 1: not breastfeed me and she had some problems with my brother, 79 00:04:29,360 --> 00:04:31,000 Speaker 1: I think that was the deal. I think there was, 80 00:04:31,680 --> 00:04:34,840 Speaker 1: um it was pain and stuff like that. Yeah, And 81 00:04:34,880 --> 00:04:37,560 Speaker 1: I mean, like from what I can gather, mastitis is 82 00:04:37,680 --> 00:04:40,760 Speaker 1: not just pain, like you feel very ill and run 83 00:04:40,800 --> 00:04:43,680 Speaker 1: down and apparently you're supposed to get lots of bedrest 84 00:04:43,800 --> 00:04:48,000 Speaker 1: and and nutritious fluids and express your milk every two 85 00:04:48,000 --> 00:04:52,760 Speaker 1: hours and apparently and express yourself for that matter, right, 86 00:04:53,200 --> 00:04:56,640 Speaker 1: which is probably amounts to, um, I'm in hell right now. 87 00:04:56,920 --> 00:05:00,000 Speaker 1: Probably um. But the when you put all this stuff 88 00:05:00,040 --> 00:05:02,480 Speaker 1: together on top of like all of the normal things 89 00:05:02,560 --> 00:05:05,000 Speaker 1: that you have to do under the best of circumstances 90 00:05:05,040 --> 00:05:08,719 Speaker 1: when caring for a newborn, this very frequently represents the 91 00:05:08,800 --> 00:05:10,920 Speaker 1: last straw. For women who are like on the fence 92 00:05:10,960 --> 00:05:15,240 Speaker 1: about breastfeeding. The mestiti is commonly leads them to say, 93 00:05:15,520 --> 00:05:18,480 Speaker 1: we're done with that. I'm done with breastfeeding. That's one 94 00:05:19,200 --> 00:05:21,760 Speaker 1: another one I came across that, Um, I hadn't really 95 00:05:21,760 --> 00:05:25,160 Speaker 1: thought about that kind of surprised me, was boom jobs, Yeah, 96 00:05:25,400 --> 00:05:28,359 Speaker 1: I never considered this until you did the research and 97 00:05:28,360 --> 00:05:30,680 Speaker 1: that thought. Oh you know what, I never even thought 98 00:05:30,720 --> 00:05:34,800 Speaker 1: about that. That's so out of my uh sphere of consciousness. 99 00:05:36,040 --> 00:05:39,760 Speaker 1: That pretty uh oh. I don't think I meant that 100 00:05:39,800 --> 00:05:42,400 Speaker 1: to be a pun was it? No, it wasn't. It was. 101 00:05:42,520 --> 00:05:46,359 Speaker 1: It's a great T shirt, you know, like instead of 102 00:05:46,400 --> 00:05:48,760 Speaker 1: talk to the hand, it's you are now out of 103 00:05:48,800 --> 00:05:52,880 Speaker 1: my sphere of consciousness. Uh So if you do get 104 00:05:53,040 --> 00:05:57,720 Speaker 1: breast implants, Um, it kind of depends on the reasons why, 105 00:05:58,200 --> 00:06:02,800 Speaker 1: how it's done. Uh, where it's actually done obviously in 106 00:06:02,839 --> 00:06:06,360 Speaker 1: the breast area, but they have we haven't done one 107 00:06:06,360 --> 00:06:08,800 Speaker 1: of breast implants have, dude. One of our better episodes 108 00:06:08,880 --> 00:06:11,279 Speaker 1: is on breast implant Really. Yeah, I remember I said 109 00:06:11,440 --> 00:06:13,400 Speaker 1: I wanted to see what a breast I plant looks 110 00:06:13,400 --> 00:06:16,440 Speaker 1: like on a dog because apparently they practice on dogs 111 00:06:16,480 --> 00:06:20,480 Speaker 1: early on. Yeah, that was a great episode from beginning 112 00:06:20,520 --> 00:06:23,839 Speaker 1: to end. It was a long time ago though. Um So, 113 00:06:24,040 --> 00:06:26,800 Speaker 1: getting back to it. The the incisions, it depends on 114 00:06:27,080 --> 00:06:31,719 Speaker 1: where they're made. If they go across the nipples are arela, 115 00:06:31,800 --> 00:06:35,880 Speaker 1: it's probably likely that your milk ducks in the nerves 116 00:06:35,880 --> 00:06:40,080 Speaker 1: were cut, which means you probably can't breastfeed exactly. But 117 00:06:40,160 --> 00:06:41,840 Speaker 1: if you had a good doctor and they went like 118 00:06:41,839 --> 00:06:45,839 Speaker 1: into your armpit underneath your breast, they probably also specifically 119 00:06:46,360 --> 00:06:50,080 Speaker 1: chose to save those nerves and go around them. So 120 00:06:50,240 --> 00:06:53,400 Speaker 1: if your incisions are under your breast, around your armpit, uh, 121 00:06:53,600 --> 00:06:56,920 Speaker 1: you you probably are able to breastfeed. I imagine that's 122 00:06:56,960 --> 00:06:58,880 Speaker 1: a part of the conversation when you go in there, 123 00:06:58,920 --> 00:07:01,200 Speaker 1: don't you think probably, Bie, like, hey, do you want 124 00:07:01,200 --> 00:07:03,159 Speaker 1: to have kids or do you have kids or do 125 00:07:03,200 --> 00:07:05,599 Speaker 1: you want a breastfeed? Yeah, like I would. I don't know, 126 00:07:05,720 --> 00:07:09,240 Speaker 1: I've never I've never had a consultation. No, but yeah, 127 00:07:09,240 --> 00:07:11,600 Speaker 1: I mean it does seem reasonable that that would be 128 00:07:11,640 --> 00:07:14,280 Speaker 1: part of it, for sure, I would think so. Yeah. Uh. 129 00:07:14,320 --> 00:07:16,800 Speaker 1: The other thing, if you still have feeling in your nipples, 130 00:07:16,800 --> 00:07:21,200 Speaker 1: that's a good sign that the nerves are still intact. Uh. 131 00:07:21,240 --> 00:07:25,040 Speaker 1: And sometimes that takes a little while to come back though. Yeah, 132 00:07:25,080 --> 00:07:28,920 Speaker 1: if you just had your your breast augmentation surgery and 133 00:07:28,960 --> 00:07:31,000 Speaker 1: the feeling isn't back, that doesn't mean it's not going 134 00:07:31,040 --> 00:07:32,480 Speaker 1: to come back. So that's not a sign. But if 135 00:07:32,480 --> 00:07:35,040 Speaker 1: it's been years now and you have feeling back in 136 00:07:35,080 --> 00:07:40,080 Speaker 1: your nipples, you probably can can breastfeed. Where you got 137 00:07:40,080 --> 00:07:45,280 Speaker 1: your implants counts too. If it's in the actual memory tissue, UM, 138 00:07:45,360 --> 00:07:47,200 Speaker 1: that's gonna be a problem. It's going to get in 139 00:07:47,200 --> 00:07:49,480 Speaker 1: the way of milk production. But if they put it 140 00:07:49,600 --> 00:07:53,320 Speaker 1: under your chest muscles, which is more involved but um 141 00:07:53,600 --> 00:07:58,440 Speaker 1: is basically out of the way of your your actual breasts, 142 00:07:59,440 --> 00:08:03,080 Speaker 1: you can um probably breastfeed. I feel like I should 143 00:08:03,080 --> 00:08:06,560 Speaker 1: be finishing each one of these with you're probably your redneck. 144 00:08:07,480 --> 00:08:11,240 Speaker 1: You know, you probably can breastfeed if the implant is 145 00:08:11,280 --> 00:08:12,800 Speaker 1: on the back of your neck. The good news is 146 00:08:12,800 --> 00:08:16,240 Speaker 1: you can breastfeed, but you probably made a grave error 147 00:08:16,280 --> 00:08:21,440 Speaker 1: in your choice of doctors. Then you might be a redneck. Uh, 148 00:08:21,840 --> 00:08:26,200 Speaker 1: you'd be a boob neck. Uh. And then the reason 149 00:08:26,240 --> 00:08:29,400 Speaker 1: for having it is another UM factor. If you if 150 00:08:29,440 --> 00:08:32,480 Speaker 1: you just got the breast implants because you wanted larger 151 00:08:32,480 --> 00:08:35,600 Speaker 1: breast and it was purely cosmetic, then you probably are 152 00:08:35,640 --> 00:08:40,120 Speaker 1: a better candidate for breastfeeding. Whereas if you got implants 153 00:08:40,200 --> 00:08:44,920 Speaker 1: because the tissue was never developed, or there was maybe 154 00:08:45,800 --> 00:08:51,640 Speaker 1: asymmetric problems, or if the breasts were far apart from 155 00:08:51,640 --> 00:08:55,439 Speaker 1: one another, Like, these are reasons that you may not 156 00:08:55,559 --> 00:08:58,800 Speaker 1: be able to breastfeed. And again I imagine in the 157 00:08:58,800 --> 00:09:01,240 Speaker 1: console this will all be coward Yeah, Like if you 158 00:09:01,360 --> 00:09:05,600 Speaker 1: got breast augmentation because your memory tissue didn't develop properly 159 00:09:06,440 --> 00:09:09,000 Speaker 1: or normally, then um, yeah, you might not be able 160 00:09:09,000 --> 00:09:12,280 Speaker 1: to breastfeed. So those are a couple. There's plenty of 161 00:09:12,320 --> 00:09:16,600 Speaker 1: other reasons why a woman would choose not to breastfeed. Um. 162 00:09:17,480 --> 00:09:20,040 Speaker 1: In large part it's a matter of preference right. Some 163 00:09:20,080 --> 00:09:22,640 Speaker 1: women just simply don't want a breastfeed. Some are afraid 164 00:09:22,640 --> 00:09:25,840 Speaker 1: it's gonna hurt, Some are embarrassed by the idea. UM. 165 00:09:25,880 --> 00:09:28,839 Speaker 1: In some families, it's a family tradition that you're raised 166 00:09:28,840 --> 00:09:34,200 Speaker 1: on formula um. There's basically as many reasons for a 167 00:09:34,240 --> 00:09:38,000 Speaker 1: woman to choose not to breastfeed as as as there 168 00:09:38,000 --> 00:09:40,720 Speaker 1: are reasons, probably even more to tell you the truth. 169 00:09:41,520 --> 00:09:44,960 Speaker 1: So let's die back in history a bit. We sort of, uh, 170 00:09:45,040 --> 00:09:47,920 Speaker 1: I guess we usually do history first, but this is 171 00:09:47,920 --> 00:09:52,400 Speaker 1: sort of woven in sensibly. I think um back in 172 00:09:52,400 --> 00:09:57,720 Speaker 1: the day it was. It's kind of interesting. I have 173 00:09:57,840 --> 00:10:01,440 Speaker 1: heard wet nurse my whole life. I've known that was 174 00:10:01,480 --> 00:10:05,320 Speaker 1: a term, but I literally never knew what that was. Really. No, 175 00:10:05,600 --> 00:10:08,479 Speaker 1: I don't know why. It's just maybe I'm a big dummy, 176 00:10:08,520 --> 00:10:10,600 Speaker 1: but I had no idea that a wet nurse is 177 00:10:11,080 --> 00:10:15,600 Speaker 1: a woman who breastfeeds someone else's child. It's funny, I 178 00:10:15,640 --> 00:10:17,760 Speaker 1: did not know that, did you had? Did you think 179 00:10:17,760 --> 00:10:19,480 Speaker 1: it was something else? So you just never stopped and 180 00:10:19,480 --> 00:10:21,520 Speaker 1: thought about We never stopped and thought about it. I 181 00:10:21,640 --> 00:10:23,679 Speaker 1: never needed one, so I was just like, yeah, and 182 00:10:23,720 --> 00:10:26,600 Speaker 1: you know, put a wet nurse on it. Sure that help, right, 183 00:10:27,280 --> 00:10:29,840 Speaker 1: that'll clear that bum nye right up? Is better than 184 00:10:29,880 --> 00:10:33,360 Speaker 1: a dry nurse, right, sure, drying nurse. They're chapped and cracked. 185 00:10:34,240 --> 00:10:37,240 Speaker 1: So yeah, that's what what happens. Uh, And it was 186 00:10:37,760 --> 00:10:40,680 Speaker 1: it's very common practice back in the day, especially before 187 00:10:41,200 --> 00:10:45,720 Speaker 1: the feeding bottle was invented, and um, of course, as 188 00:10:45,760 --> 00:10:49,520 Speaker 1: you would imagine, it was an alternative mainly for people 189 00:10:49,559 --> 00:10:53,600 Speaker 1: of higher status. Yeah. Yeah, that's actually kind of fascinating. 190 00:10:53,679 --> 00:10:57,840 Speaker 1: Um in that for a very very long time, except 191 00:10:57,880 --> 00:11:01,920 Speaker 1: for a period between about eighteen thirty or eighteen twenty 192 00:11:01,920 --> 00:11:04,760 Speaker 1: and eighteen no I'm sorry, eighteen fifty and eighteen eighty, 193 00:11:04,880 --> 00:11:08,240 Speaker 1: when breastfeeding was all the rage in America, very much 194 00:11:08,280 --> 00:11:12,680 Speaker 1: akin to the situation now. Breastfeeding was seen as what 195 00:11:13,080 --> 00:11:16,679 Speaker 1: the um women of lower socioeconomic classes did, like, they 196 00:11:16,720 --> 00:11:18,480 Speaker 1: can't afford a wet nurse, so they have to feed 197 00:11:18,520 --> 00:11:22,840 Speaker 1: their baby exactly right, exactly or yeah, they like I 198 00:11:22,880 --> 00:11:26,640 Speaker 1: would hire a woman of a lower socio economic class 199 00:11:26,679 --> 00:11:29,560 Speaker 1: to feed my own baby, um, just because it just 200 00:11:29,640 --> 00:11:32,040 Speaker 1: wasn't done this. Women didn't do that kind of thing 201 00:11:32,320 --> 00:11:35,000 Speaker 1: if you were well off or well to do. Yeah, 202 00:11:35,000 --> 00:11:38,520 Speaker 1: which is is terrible, but you, Um, I never considered 203 00:11:38,520 --> 00:11:41,360 Speaker 1: that a lot of mothers died during or not a lot, 204 00:11:41,440 --> 00:11:45,200 Speaker 1: but plenty more mothers died during childbirth back then. And 205 00:11:45,240 --> 00:11:48,760 Speaker 1: so that's a chance to save these babies, which is amazing. 206 00:11:49,040 --> 00:11:51,640 Speaker 1: Sure truly, for sure, I mean like, and that's that's 207 00:11:52,000 --> 00:11:54,600 Speaker 1: one way that wet nurses really did kind of keep 208 00:11:54,640 --> 00:11:59,320 Speaker 1: things going. But for for a large part for about 209 00:11:59,320 --> 00:12:03,600 Speaker 1: two thousand years, UM, breastfeeding or the use of wet 210 00:12:03,679 --> 00:12:06,480 Speaker 1: nurses was basically what you what women of a higher 211 00:12:06,480 --> 00:12:10,120 Speaker 1: status did they hired breasts or wet nurses, which is 212 00:12:10,160 --> 00:12:13,120 Speaker 1: I had no idea. It's fascinating, it is, and even 213 00:12:13,160 --> 00:12:16,240 Speaker 1: more to the point, uh, it kind of formed the 214 00:12:16,280 --> 00:12:21,000 Speaker 1: basis of this idea that um, not breastfeeding was preferable 215 00:12:21,080 --> 00:12:24,040 Speaker 1: to breastfeeding, that you were it was better to not 216 00:12:24,160 --> 00:12:27,600 Speaker 1: breastfeed if you were able to write, it was the 217 00:12:27,640 --> 00:12:32,800 Speaker 1: preference of the wealthier class, whereas the exact opposite is 218 00:12:32,800 --> 00:12:37,640 Speaker 1: is the position today. They've completely switched positions today. Yeah, 219 00:12:37,640 --> 00:12:40,840 Speaker 1: and this this author Katherine Joyce uh in The New Republic, 220 00:12:41,440 --> 00:12:44,320 Speaker 1: UM basically said, you know, it's been a constant throughout 221 00:12:44,360 --> 00:12:50,719 Speaker 1: history that whether whichever is in fashion, they think they're right, right, 222 00:12:51,320 --> 00:12:54,040 Speaker 1: Like one is viewed as better than the other depends 223 00:12:54,080 --> 00:12:56,080 Speaker 1: on where you are in history as to which that was. 224 00:12:56,320 --> 00:12:59,480 Speaker 1: It's not equal, it's not different. One is clearly better, 225 00:12:59,679 --> 00:13:03,640 Speaker 1: and in many cases, especially as the cases now concerning breastfeeding, 226 00:13:03,720 --> 00:13:06,120 Speaker 1: is morally better in the view of the people who 227 00:13:06,200 --> 00:13:11,120 Speaker 1: champion it, you know. Um, So for a very long 228 00:13:11,200 --> 00:13:17,560 Speaker 1: time men have been extremely fascinated with breast milk or 229 00:13:17,559 --> 00:13:21,360 Speaker 1: with feeding babies. Right, they've applied scientific inquiry to the 230 00:13:21,400 --> 00:13:24,560 Speaker 1: whole thing, because I think that is part of it, 231 00:13:24,960 --> 00:13:28,600 Speaker 1: you know. Um, well, yeah, but I mean we covered 232 00:13:28,600 --> 00:13:31,040 Speaker 1: that yesterday. We could try all we wanted to wouldn't work, 233 00:13:33,120 --> 00:13:34,920 Speaker 1: So maybe that is part of the reason. I hadn't 234 00:13:34,920 --> 00:13:37,120 Speaker 1: really considered that. But there has been a lot of 235 00:13:37,120 --> 00:13:40,560 Speaker 1: scientific inquiry. Ironically, it hasn't really come up with any 236 00:13:40,760 --> 00:13:43,720 Speaker 1: set stuff. But as far back as um, I think 237 00:13:43,840 --> 00:13:48,840 Speaker 1: ninety the nineties, just the nineties, not even the nineteen nineties. 238 00:13:50,080 --> 00:13:53,520 Speaker 1: Years before the nineties, there is a guy named Serahnis 239 00:13:53,640 --> 00:13:59,040 Speaker 1: of Theseus, and he was an early physician who basically 240 00:13:59,080 --> 00:14:03,640 Speaker 1: wrote a twenty three chapter treatise on obstetrics and pediatrics 241 00:14:03,960 --> 00:14:07,360 Speaker 1: and kind of gynecology, and one of the things he 242 00:14:07,440 --> 00:14:12,240 Speaker 1: focused on was breast milk. Yeah, and his big contribution, well, 243 00:14:12,240 --> 00:14:15,640 Speaker 1: one of the big contributions was a test for the 244 00:14:15,679 --> 00:14:20,760 Speaker 1: consistency of breast milk that stood for about fifteen hundred years, 245 00:14:21,400 --> 00:14:25,520 Speaker 1: which is pretty amazing. Well, because it's clearly infallible. Yeah. 246 00:14:25,560 --> 00:14:27,800 Speaker 1: So here's what you do, is you, uh, you take 247 00:14:27,840 --> 00:14:31,520 Speaker 1: a fingernail and you drop a drop of breast milk 248 00:14:31,640 --> 00:14:34,240 Speaker 1: on the fingernail and I guess the fingernails facing up 249 00:14:34,240 --> 00:14:37,720 Speaker 1: and you're flat with the finger. Uh. When it's on 250 00:14:37,760 --> 00:14:40,760 Speaker 1: the fingernail and you move the finger, the milk is 251 00:14:40,840 --> 00:14:43,200 Speaker 1: not supposed to be so watered down that it runs 252 00:14:43,240 --> 00:14:46,840 Speaker 1: all over the nail. And when you point your fingernail down, 253 00:14:47,400 --> 00:14:51,760 Speaker 1: it's not so thick that it uh turns into a 254 00:14:51,800 --> 00:14:55,720 Speaker 1: transformer robot. Now, it's not so thick that it clings 255 00:14:55,720 --> 00:14:58,960 Speaker 1: to the nail and that you're looking for somewhere in 256 00:14:59,000 --> 00:15:02,520 Speaker 1: the middle. Is what he's says. And for years people said, yep, 257 00:15:02,600 --> 00:15:04,840 Speaker 1: that's how you do it. Yeah. And so not only 258 00:15:04,920 --> 00:15:07,920 Speaker 1: was that like, your breast milk is great, but also 259 00:15:08,200 --> 00:15:11,800 Speaker 1: this wet nurse's breast milk is adequate for the contract 260 00:15:12,440 --> 00:15:14,840 Speaker 1: you want to give her. Oh, sure, I never thought 261 00:15:14,880 --> 00:15:16,560 Speaker 1: about that. Yeah, I probably had a lot to do 262 00:15:16,640 --> 00:15:21,280 Speaker 1: with it, for sure. Um. And people also used animal 263 00:15:21,320 --> 00:15:23,800 Speaker 1: milk as well. Apparently for the last two thousand years, 264 00:15:23,800 --> 00:15:28,360 Speaker 1: there's evidence of people using animal milk. Um. But for 265 00:15:28,360 --> 00:15:33,440 Speaker 1: for the most part it was wet nurses and then formula, 266 00:15:33,840 --> 00:15:38,920 Speaker 1: artificial formula, which came back late nineteenth century. Yeah. Um. 267 00:15:39,000 --> 00:15:42,320 Speaker 1: In the nineteenth century there was a guy named Eustace 268 00:15:42,360 --> 00:15:46,240 Speaker 1: fun lie Big and he set about trying to create 269 00:15:46,400 --> 00:15:50,920 Speaker 1: a perfect infant food and artificial breast milk, right, and 270 00:15:50,960 --> 00:15:53,160 Speaker 1: in eighteen sixty five he kind of cracked it. He 271 00:15:53,600 --> 00:15:56,600 Speaker 1: made a liquid form and then a powdered form, and 272 00:15:56,640 --> 00:15:59,440 Speaker 1: it was made up of cow's milk, wheat and malt, 273 00:15:59,480 --> 00:16:02,600 Speaker 1: flour and potassium by carbonate. And when he came up 274 00:16:02,680 --> 00:16:06,080 Speaker 1: with this in the eighteen sixties, um, it was considered 275 00:16:06,160 --> 00:16:10,640 Speaker 1: like the perfect infant food, basically better than breast milk. Yeah. 276 00:16:10,720 --> 00:16:14,360 Speaker 1: And by this point, this was about uh fifteen is 277 00:16:14,560 --> 00:16:18,320 Speaker 1: years after the first feeding bottles were introduced in France. 278 00:16:19,120 --> 00:16:22,880 Speaker 1: So people were ready like, we've got the bottle, we've 279 00:16:23,040 --> 00:16:28,360 Speaker 1: we've worked out these very rudimentary cork nipples, and um, 280 00:16:29,000 --> 00:16:31,800 Speaker 1: we need something to put in it besides breast milk 281 00:16:32,160 --> 00:16:36,480 Speaker 1: and one of the other things that that UM came all. 282 00:16:36,760 --> 00:16:40,040 Speaker 1: All this stuff kind of came together to form the 283 00:16:40,080 --> 00:16:45,520 Speaker 1: basis of a successful formula feeding formula, right, um. And 284 00:16:45,560 --> 00:16:49,880 Speaker 1: one of those was things like sterilization, pasteurization, germ theory, 285 00:16:50,400 --> 00:16:52,680 Speaker 1: because in the early nineteenth century they were trying out 286 00:16:52,720 --> 00:16:55,840 Speaker 1: like bottles and stuff like that, but it was killing 287 00:16:55,880 --> 00:16:58,960 Speaker 1: infants left and right because they didn't know about sterilization, 288 00:16:59,360 --> 00:17:02,360 Speaker 1: they didn't know about UM germ theory at the time. 289 00:17:02,760 --> 00:17:07,280 Speaker 1: They I think something like one third of non breastfed 290 00:17:07,400 --> 00:17:13,280 Speaker 1: babies died from being fed UM artificial milk. That's staggering, 291 00:17:13,640 --> 00:17:16,000 Speaker 1: it is, that's a lot. So there was a huge 292 00:17:16,119 --> 00:17:18,520 Speaker 1: breakthrough in the late nineteenth century when they came up 293 00:17:18,520 --> 00:17:22,639 Speaker 1: with a decent formula that wasn't UM just animal milk, 294 00:17:23,160 --> 00:17:26,320 Speaker 1: and that they could deliver it in some sort of 295 00:17:26,359 --> 00:17:29,680 Speaker 1: feeding apparatus that wasn't gonna ultimately kill the baby, right, 296 00:17:30,080 --> 00:17:32,520 Speaker 1: So that was a big deal. Yeah, And this is all, 297 00:17:32,720 --> 00:17:35,320 Speaker 1: like I said, early eighteen fifties is when the bottle 298 00:17:35,400 --> 00:17:38,320 Speaker 1: comes UM. Eighteen sixty five is when von lee Big 299 00:17:38,320 --> 00:17:41,919 Speaker 1: developed his UM, and sort of a little before and 300 00:17:41,920 --> 00:17:45,160 Speaker 1: a little after you had people like Gail Borden if 301 00:17:45,200 --> 00:17:49,760 Speaker 1: that name rings a bell, uh, Eagle brand boarding condensed milk. 302 00:17:50,400 --> 00:17:53,560 Speaker 1: She came up with that um at a sugar. I'm 303 00:17:53,560 --> 00:17:59,359 Speaker 1: pretty sure, Huh, it could be a boy. It sounds 304 00:17:59,359 --> 00:18:01,760 Speaker 1: like it's just a man too, as a country western singer. No, 305 00:18:02,000 --> 00:18:05,080 Speaker 1: Gael totally can be a guy's name. I just defaulted 306 00:18:05,119 --> 00:18:08,440 Speaker 1: to lady because I don't know, because it's about breastfeeding, 307 00:18:08,480 --> 00:18:12,399 Speaker 1: I guess, so he I guess added sugar to evaporated 308 00:18:12,440 --> 00:18:16,240 Speaker 1: milk candid and that was condensed milk. And then about 309 00:18:16,359 --> 00:18:20,159 Speaker 1: thirty years later, I mean, it became popular as an 310 00:18:20,200 --> 00:18:25,000 Speaker 1: infant food. Obviously. Have you ever had condensed milk in 311 00:18:25,000 --> 00:18:29,119 Speaker 1: in things, not in things like cheesecakes and and like 312 00:18:29,200 --> 00:18:32,120 Speaker 1: the sweetest dessert you can ever have. Yeah, they were 313 00:18:32,200 --> 00:18:36,280 Speaker 1: feeding that that stuff straight up to infants as the 314 00:18:36,359 --> 00:18:42,080 Speaker 1: infant food. Yeah. Yeah. And about thirty years later, another one, 315 00:18:42,600 --> 00:18:47,000 Speaker 1: John B. Marling, was that a man. It's possible. Uh. 316 00:18:47,240 --> 00:18:51,359 Speaker 1: He developed an unsweetened condensed milk. UM called it evaporated milk, 317 00:18:52,080 --> 00:18:54,760 Speaker 1: and this became a big thing to feed babies in 318 00:18:54,800 --> 00:18:58,480 Speaker 1: the thirties and forties. All this stuff had a lot 319 00:18:58,520 --> 00:19:02,040 Speaker 1: of fat Um, it would plump your baby up really well, 320 00:19:02,080 --> 00:19:05,119 Speaker 1: but it was missing a lot of the things that 321 00:19:05,160 --> 00:19:07,879 Speaker 1: babies need to thrive, like why does my baby have 322 00:19:08,040 --> 00:19:13,919 Speaker 1: claws instead of fingernails and like dark circles under his eyes. Oh, nutrients, 323 00:19:13,960 --> 00:19:16,680 Speaker 1: that's right, we need vitamins in this stuff. Yeah, which, 324 00:19:16,920 --> 00:19:21,160 Speaker 1: uh in the nineteen twenties or so is when scientists 325 00:19:21,160 --> 00:19:26,879 Speaker 1: started developing these uh formulas that didn't even have cow's 326 00:19:26,920 --> 00:19:30,400 Speaker 1: milk at all, right, right, for kids that had milk allergies. 327 00:19:30,440 --> 00:19:34,600 Speaker 1: They started using like soy flower. Yeah. And so when 328 00:19:34,600 --> 00:19:37,680 Speaker 1: they figured out that, um, you could take this stuff 329 00:19:37,720 --> 00:19:42,320 Speaker 1: and evaporate milk or evaporate soy protein and add this 330 00:19:42,400 --> 00:19:46,960 Speaker 1: other stuff to it, like nutrients and vitamins, um, and 331 00:19:47,080 --> 00:19:50,639 Speaker 1: balance it all out, formula really took off and it 332 00:19:50,760 --> 00:19:54,879 Speaker 1: became a really almost a triumph of science in the 333 00:19:54,920 --> 00:19:59,359 Speaker 1: popular culture. Right. So, starting in the thirties in America, 334 00:20:00,000 --> 00:20:03,679 Speaker 1: if you wanted formula, you basically had to go to 335 00:20:03,760 --> 00:20:06,800 Speaker 1: your doctor for it. You didn't necessarily need a prescription 336 00:20:06,840 --> 00:20:09,639 Speaker 1: from what I saw, but the the rule was that 337 00:20:09,680 --> 00:20:12,800 Speaker 1: if you were a formula manufacturer, you could only advertise 338 00:20:12,920 --> 00:20:17,600 Speaker 1: directly to doctors. So it gave formula this kind of 339 00:20:17,920 --> 00:20:22,000 Speaker 1: air of medicine like it was. It was medical and nature. 340 00:20:22,200 --> 00:20:24,800 Speaker 1: It was like sterile and high quality, and that that 341 00:20:24,960 --> 00:20:29,080 Speaker 1: had the stamp of science behind it, and it lionized 342 00:20:29,440 --> 00:20:34,320 Speaker 1: the physicians who were now in between the mother and 343 00:20:34,400 --> 00:20:38,520 Speaker 1: the baby's food, right, the doctor needed to recommend it, 344 00:20:38,640 --> 00:20:41,240 Speaker 1: and so it was a It was a real way 345 00:20:41,240 --> 00:20:47,760 Speaker 1: that UM science and medicine and parenting, especially early early 346 00:20:47,960 --> 00:20:53,280 Speaker 1: childhood parenting came fused together. And so there was this 347 00:20:53,359 --> 00:20:57,560 Speaker 1: idea that science had had conquered nature and created this 348 00:20:57,680 --> 00:21:01,800 Speaker 1: perfect infant food. So by the nineties and fifties, this 349 00:21:01,840 --> 00:21:07,040 Speaker 1: is when formula had really taken root, uh in the 350 00:21:07,119 --> 00:21:09,920 Speaker 1: United States, and I guess around the world, but definitely 351 00:21:09,920 --> 00:21:13,200 Speaker 1: in the United States, and it definitely caused a decline 352 00:21:13,200 --> 00:21:15,919 Speaker 1: in breastfeeding for about thirty years. Yeah, I mean this 353 00:21:15,960 --> 00:21:18,119 Speaker 1: is around the time the Late h A League started 354 00:21:18,119 --> 00:21:21,919 Speaker 1: to organize in the fifties as a direct result of 355 00:21:21,960 --> 00:21:25,840 Speaker 1: this decline in breastfeeding UM, and it continued on even 356 00:21:25,880 --> 00:21:30,720 Speaker 1: into the seventies where the Our Bodies Ourselves people UM 357 00:21:30,960 --> 00:21:35,240 Speaker 1: organized that second wave of lactivism, right, and formula is 358 00:21:35,320 --> 00:21:40,399 Speaker 1: like flying high from the thirties the forties onto about 359 00:21:40,440 --> 00:21:44,360 Speaker 1: the mid seventies, and you can actually point to one 360 00:21:45,000 --> 00:21:50,719 Speaker 1: specific scandal that that basically led to a massive erosion 361 00:21:50,760 --> 00:21:55,000 Speaker 1: of trust in formula, not just in the United States 362 00:21:55,040 --> 00:21:58,920 Speaker 1: but around the world that's still around today. Actually, Yeah, 363 00:21:58,960 --> 00:22:02,360 Speaker 1: the Nesli Company in the mid nineteen seventies, they were 364 00:22:02,440 --> 00:22:07,919 Speaker 1: sued because they were trying to really market formula to 365 00:22:08,280 --> 00:22:12,360 Speaker 1: developing countries very aggressively. Yeah, they wanted to sell more formula, 366 00:22:12,440 --> 00:22:16,520 Speaker 1: so they would do things like sin uh, saleswomen over 367 00:22:16,640 --> 00:22:20,960 Speaker 1: dressed up in nurses uniforms who were not nurses, giving 368 00:22:21,080 --> 00:22:24,399 Speaker 1: obviously the indication like, hey, this this is a great thing. 369 00:22:24,440 --> 00:22:26,480 Speaker 1: You should you should use it. And formula was a 370 00:22:26,480 --> 00:22:29,880 Speaker 1: great thing that they developed it, for sure, But what 371 00:22:29,920 --> 00:22:33,679 Speaker 1: they didn't say in Africa to these mothers is that, hey, 372 00:22:33,920 --> 00:22:36,480 Speaker 1: you need really good clean water here for this to 373 00:22:36,560 --> 00:22:40,000 Speaker 1: be a viable source of nutrition for your kid. They 374 00:22:40,000 --> 00:22:43,000 Speaker 1: didn't know that. Uh, they used at tainted water and 375 00:22:43,080 --> 00:22:46,879 Speaker 1: infants started dying. Yeah, and it was laid squarely at 376 00:22:46,920 --> 00:22:52,639 Speaker 1: the feet of nestly formula and ultimately formula in general. Um. 377 00:22:52,680 --> 00:22:55,960 Speaker 1: And that was I think seventy four that that happened, 378 00:22:56,520 --> 00:23:01,240 Speaker 1: and a few years later the World Health Ordization came 379 00:23:01,320 --> 00:23:06,160 Speaker 1: up with these guidelines for for marketing formula around the world. 380 00:23:06,320 --> 00:23:10,160 Speaker 1: It was such a huge scandal, and the US said, oh, wait, 381 00:23:10,200 --> 00:23:12,760 Speaker 1: you know what, we just realized there's nobody overseeing our 382 00:23:12,880 --> 00:23:15,600 Speaker 1: formula market they we should put the FDA on that. 383 00:23:15,920 --> 00:23:18,639 Speaker 1: So it wasn't until nineteen eighty that the United States 384 00:23:18,680 --> 00:23:23,840 Speaker 1: task the f d A with overseeing the quality impurity 385 00:23:23,920 --> 00:23:27,680 Speaker 1: of formula. For then it was apparently just totally unregulated. Yeah, 386 00:23:27,680 --> 00:23:30,639 Speaker 1: I can't believe nineteen eighty that's really really surprising. But 387 00:23:30,720 --> 00:23:33,959 Speaker 1: the whole suspicion of formula and the whole idea that 388 00:23:34,000 --> 00:23:38,639 Speaker 1: it's dangerous, sir, that it's problematic, it all stems from 389 00:23:38,680 --> 00:23:44,119 Speaker 1: that event that um, that that scandal with Nessley in Africa. Yeah. 390 00:23:44,160 --> 00:23:47,240 Speaker 1: So about eight years later, in the late eighties, the 391 00:23:47,320 --> 00:23:51,320 Speaker 1: formula folks started, uh they could advertise directly to the 392 00:23:51,320 --> 00:23:54,240 Speaker 1: public for the first time. I got on TV, got 393 00:23:54,240 --> 00:23:58,199 Speaker 1: in print ads and said, hey, used to use our 394 00:23:58,200 --> 00:24:02,840 Speaker 1: formula's good stuff, and and um, apparently the American Academy 395 00:24:02,840 --> 00:24:06,080 Speaker 1: of Pediatric so still didn't like this kind of advertising 396 00:24:06,200 --> 00:24:08,159 Speaker 1: and said you should still go to your doctor and 397 00:24:08,160 --> 00:24:10,720 Speaker 1: talk about all this stuff, right, which is a conundrum 398 00:24:10,720 --> 00:24:13,040 Speaker 1: it's like, well, wait a minute, are you guys saying 399 00:24:13,080 --> 00:24:17,200 Speaker 1: that the the formula industry is being greedy and and 400 00:24:17,400 --> 00:24:20,200 Speaker 1: reckless by going around you? Or are you just trying 401 00:24:20,240 --> 00:24:25,760 Speaker 1: to preserve you know, your own bank accounts by reinsinuating 402 00:24:25,800 --> 00:24:29,000 Speaker 1: yourselves into this this factor when you're not really necessary. 403 00:24:29,040 --> 00:24:31,639 Speaker 1: It's like just one more thing you have to figure 404 00:24:31,640 --> 00:24:34,159 Speaker 1: out when you're trying to raise a newborn infant. That 405 00:24:34,680 --> 00:24:37,800 Speaker 1: just stinks, you know. All right, Well, speaking of stinks, 406 00:24:38,280 --> 00:24:42,119 Speaker 1: I need to take a break and man, we'll come 407 00:24:42,160 --> 00:24:44,159 Speaker 1: back in a minute and talk a little bit about 408 00:24:44,800 --> 00:25:10,480 Speaker 1: milk banks and other cool things. Alright, chuckers, we're back, right, 409 00:25:10,760 --> 00:25:15,520 Speaker 1: We're at the milk bank. Yeah, milk bank is Uh, 410 00:25:15,680 --> 00:25:18,240 Speaker 1: it's pretty neat. I hadn't heard of it before. Um, 411 00:25:18,480 --> 00:25:21,200 Speaker 1: had you? Oh I'm sure you have. I actually hadn't 412 00:25:21,200 --> 00:25:24,040 Speaker 1: heard of any of this stuff. Oh really, Okay, Well 413 00:25:24,119 --> 00:25:29,280 Speaker 1: let's talk milk banks then baby. All right, So let's say, um, 414 00:25:29,480 --> 00:25:31,879 Speaker 1: breastfeeding is not an option for any of the reasons 415 00:25:31,920 --> 00:25:35,320 Speaker 1: we've talked about. For mom um, you can go to 416 00:25:35,359 --> 00:25:39,200 Speaker 1: a milk bank where milk has been donated breast milk obviously, 417 00:25:39,920 --> 00:25:44,520 Speaker 1: uh from from women and uh you can pay a 418 00:25:44,600 --> 00:25:48,760 Speaker 1: lot of money for banked milk that you know is 419 00:25:49,640 --> 00:25:53,359 Speaker 1: very healthy, fully screened. Uh, just like going to a 420 00:25:53,359 --> 00:25:58,400 Speaker 1: blood bank, basically, right, exactly. Um, you need a doctor's prescription. Uh. 421 00:25:58,400 --> 00:26:02,320 Speaker 1: And it is expensive, like five bucks an ounce of money, 422 00:26:02,640 --> 00:26:07,680 Speaker 1: it is, but it's good, high quality, disease free mother's milk. Right. 423 00:26:08,560 --> 00:26:12,080 Speaker 1: And so I've seen that some insurance companies, some insurance 424 00:26:12,080 --> 00:26:15,119 Speaker 1: plans will either pay all or some of that cost, 425 00:26:15,200 --> 00:26:20,320 Speaker 1: so it can drop dramatically. But because it's so expensive 426 00:26:20,320 --> 00:26:24,680 Speaker 1: and because not all insurance covers it. Um other um 427 00:26:24,840 --> 00:26:29,960 Speaker 1: peripheral milk exchanges have grown up, some alarming, some slightly 428 00:26:30,040 --> 00:26:33,240 Speaker 1: less alarming. But like there's one called only the Breast, 429 00:26:33,840 --> 00:26:38,280 Speaker 1: which is a lot looks a lot like Craigslist for milk. Okay, 430 00:26:38,880 --> 00:26:41,040 Speaker 1: have you been on it? No, Actually didn't go to 431 00:26:41,040 --> 00:26:46,840 Speaker 1: the website. So every probably every third UM ad is 432 00:26:47,160 --> 00:26:49,520 Speaker 1: like some sort of weird porno ad or something like that. 433 00:26:51,040 --> 00:26:54,760 Speaker 1: But the other two are legitimate. You know, Like, I 434 00:26:54,840 --> 00:26:57,800 Speaker 1: have milk, I'm healthy, and i just have too much, 435 00:26:57,840 --> 00:26:59,920 Speaker 1: so I'm selling it for a dollar announce or something 436 00:27:00,080 --> 00:27:02,680 Speaker 1: like that. UM, and I'm like I got the best 437 00:27:02,680 --> 00:27:05,600 Speaker 1: stuff out there. Well, now I'm sure there are. I 438 00:27:05,600 --> 00:27:08,240 Speaker 1: didn't run across any of that. But there's also uh 439 00:27:08,320 --> 00:27:10,920 Speaker 1: like something that that you can also click that says 440 00:27:11,000 --> 00:27:15,000 Speaker 1: like men need not contact me because apparently there's like 441 00:27:15,040 --> 00:27:17,520 Speaker 1: a whole thing of weirdos out there who are like, hey, 442 00:27:17,760 --> 00:27:20,439 Speaker 1: sell me your extra breast milk. You know, I was 443 00:27:20,480 --> 00:27:23,639 Speaker 1: gonna make a joke a minute ago about milk banks 444 00:27:23,680 --> 00:27:26,359 Speaker 1: being for you know, mother suit can't or won't breastfeed, 445 00:27:26,840 --> 00:27:29,919 Speaker 1: or creepy weird wealthy guys. They go to only the 446 00:27:29,920 --> 00:27:32,280 Speaker 1: breast apparently, So is it a thing for men to 447 00:27:32,359 --> 00:27:35,600 Speaker 1: drink breast milk? I guess so, because you can go 448 00:27:35,640 --> 00:27:37,720 Speaker 1: on only the breast, and most from what I saw, 449 00:27:37,840 --> 00:27:42,439 Speaker 1: most of the legitimate ads were like, no, don't. I 450 00:27:42,480 --> 00:27:46,359 Speaker 1: don't want any men to contact me, but there are 451 00:27:46,480 --> 00:27:48,600 Speaker 1: That means that there are some out there where if 452 00:27:48,640 --> 00:27:50,960 Speaker 1: you are a man, you could buy breast milk, which 453 00:27:51,040 --> 00:27:52,760 Speaker 1: I mean, I guess if you have that fetish and 454 00:27:52,800 --> 00:27:59,600 Speaker 1: it's not hurting anybody then right, But still I guess so, 455 00:27:59,600 --> 00:28:02,840 Speaker 1: so so you've got only the breast, the problem is this, right, 456 00:28:03,680 --> 00:28:05,120 Speaker 1: And I don't mean to pick on only the breast. 457 00:28:05,200 --> 00:28:08,199 Speaker 1: There's other milk sharing sites like this. They definitely do 458 00:28:08,320 --> 00:28:10,560 Speaker 1: serve a function where if you want to feed your 459 00:28:10,600 --> 00:28:14,080 Speaker 1: baby mother's milk, um, and you just can't afford five 460 00:28:14,119 --> 00:28:16,480 Speaker 1: dollars an ounce, but you can't afford one dollar announced 461 00:28:16,760 --> 00:28:19,280 Speaker 1: and some some women on there have it for free. 462 00:28:19,320 --> 00:28:22,119 Speaker 1: They're just donating it, they don't aren't charging anything for it. 463 00:28:22,840 --> 00:28:26,159 Speaker 1: Um that's a viable place to go. The problem is this, 464 00:28:26,359 --> 00:28:28,840 Speaker 1: the milk you're getting is not in any way screened. 465 00:28:29,040 --> 00:28:31,960 Speaker 1: You have no idea whether the person you're getting it from, 466 00:28:32,080 --> 00:28:34,280 Speaker 1: despite how great they look and how healthy they look, 467 00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:37,320 Speaker 1: whether they're actually disease free, and hence whether their milk 468 00:28:37,440 --> 00:28:41,200 Speaker 1: is disease free, which is that's very alarming. It is. 469 00:28:41,280 --> 00:28:45,040 Speaker 1: There's also something called cross nursing, which seems like a 470 00:28:45,080 --> 00:28:49,560 Speaker 1: reasonable alternative, and that's that's basically just when two women 471 00:28:49,840 --> 00:28:53,480 Speaker 1: or four or five, just people who know each other 472 00:28:53,600 --> 00:28:56,720 Speaker 1: like neighbors or good friends that are pregnant at the 473 00:28:56,720 --> 00:29:00,360 Speaker 1: same time, uh, well, cross nurse and basically it's it's 474 00:29:00,400 --> 00:29:04,400 Speaker 1: just milk sharing among a few people, straight from the tap, 475 00:29:04,800 --> 00:29:07,680 Speaker 1: straight not straight from the tap. They'll they'll bottle it 476 00:29:07,800 --> 00:29:10,600 Speaker 1: up and and go next door and say, you know, 477 00:29:10,720 --> 00:29:13,600 Speaker 1: I had this leftover milk. I see, it's just it's 478 00:29:13,640 --> 00:29:18,440 Speaker 1: basically milk sharing, but but not through like some big website. 479 00:29:18,480 --> 00:29:20,560 Speaker 1: It's just among friends. I got to just keep it 480 00:29:20,600 --> 00:29:24,240 Speaker 1: between friends. There's there is a website called milk Share 481 00:29:24,800 --> 00:29:26,960 Speaker 1: that is it's along the lines of only the breast, 482 00:29:26,960 --> 00:29:31,760 Speaker 1: but it's much more um uh regimented. Yeah. Um, it's 483 00:29:31,760 --> 00:29:35,240 Speaker 1: all donated, it's all free um or there's no charge 484 00:29:35,720 --> 00:29:39,400 Speaker 1: and um there are there's like guidelines for storing and 485 00:29:39,400 --> 00:29:41,680 Speaker 1: shipping and stuff like that that only the breast didn't have. 486 00:29:41,720 --> 00:29:43,239 Speaker 1: But again still, as far as I know, it's not 487 00:29:43,280 --> 00:29:46,479 Speaker 1: screened for anything. Yeah, and we're not disparaging anyone who 488 00:29:46,560 --> 00:29:49,040 Speaker 1: wants to use services like this at all. I just 489 00:29:49,080 --> 00:29:51,480 Speaker 1: want to make that clear. It's just we want people 490 00:29:51,520 --> 00:29:54,680 Speaker 1: to be as safe as possible. Yeah, I mean what's 491 00:29:54,720 --> 00:29:57,400 Speaker 1: the alternative though? You know, like if you want to 492 00:29:57,880 --> 00:30:01,880 Speaker 1: feed your child breast milk, you can't breastfeed and you 493 00:30:02,000 --> 00:30:04,800 Speaker 1: just don't have the money, what do you do? You know, 494 00:30:04,840 --> 00:30:08,600 Speaker 1: that's a sticky situation. It is. It's very sad. Uh. 495 00:30:08,680 --> 00:30:10,880 Speaker 1: We talked a little bit about the breast pump yesterday, 496 00:30:11,520 --> 00:30:14,560 Speaker 1: but um, we'll we'll really get into it here. It 497 00:30:14,640 --> 00:30:17,120 Speaker 1: was advented in the early nineteenth Uh. I don't know 498 00:30:17,120 --> 00:30:19,520 Speaker 1: if it's early, but let's just say nineteenth century. It 499 00:30:19,600 --> 00:30:21,960 Speaker 1: was about the time when formula was really starting to 500 00:30:22,000 --> 00:30:24,000 Speaker 1: come into its own all right, Well that kind of 501 00:30:24,000 --> 00:30:27,160 Speaker 1: makes sense in a way. Everyone's like vying for that 502 00:30:27,320 --> 00:30:30,960 Speaker 1: space in the industry even back then. Uh. And the 503 00:30:30,960 --> 00:30:34,320 Speaker 1: earliest models are probably what you think. It's basically a 504 00:30:34,440 --> 00:30:39,200 Speaker 1: cow milking machine that's been modified slightly. Um, look like 505 00:30:39,880 --> 00:30:43,480 Speaker 1: a vacuum and a hand pump. But it was and 506 00:30:43,560 --> 00:30:46,480 Speaker 1: this is something I had no idea. UM as far 507 00:30:46,520 --> 00:30:52,080 Speaker 1: as a consumer delivered at home product, it's only been 508 00:30:52,120 --> 00:30:58,760 Speaker 1: around since about when uh Madela introduced the first at 509 00:30:58,800 --> 00:31:02,200 Speaker 1: home electric po houred. Uh, you can you can have 510 00:31:02,280 --> 00:31:06,000 Speaker 1: it in your as a consumer use breast pump. Yeah, 511 00:31:06,200 --> 00:31:08,680 Speaker 1: right up to I had no idea it was that new, 512 00:31:09,840 --> 00:31:13,000 Speaker 1: right Yeah and verse since then. There's just a really 513 00:31:13,040 --> 00:31:16,120 Speaker 1: great Jillapoor article from the New York Or called Baby 514 00:31:16,160 --> 00:31:18,760 Speaker 1: Food where she kind of chronicles the rise of the 515 00:31:18,800 --> 00:31:24,560 Speaker 1: breast pump. But she points out that since nine um, 516 00:31:24,680 --> 00:31:30,400 Speaker 1: sales of Medella's model alone had quadrupled and they become ubiquitous, 517 00:31:30,480 --> 00:31:33,320 Speaker 1: you know. Um. Then they started out as a medical 518 00:31:33,360 --> 00:31:37,520 Speaker 1: device like, if your baby couldn't um, couldn't nurse, you 519 00:31:37,520 --> 00:31:40,400 Speaker 1: could still feed your baby breast milk by using these pumps. 520 00:31:41,080 --> 00:31:45,440 Speaker 1: And it was a medical intervention that became a consumer product, 521 00:31:45,880 --> 00:31:48,840 Speaker 1: And the reason it's spread and popularity like wildfire is 522 00:31:48,880 --> 00:31:54,680 Speaker 1: because it makes uh, breastfeeding mom's life exponentially more awesome 523 00:31:55,160 --> 00:31:58,360 Speaker 1: then if they're just nursing. Yeah, I mean that obviously 524 00:31:58,440 --> 00:32:01,760 Speaker 1: has the advantages of freeing mom up by being able 525 00:32:01,800 --> 00:32:06,280 Speaker 1: to bank that milk on her own. H. Then dad 526 00:32:06,360 --> 00:32:10,840 Speaker 1: can help feed, and babysitter, daycare worker can help feed. Uh. 527 00:32:11,000 --> 00:32:15,040 Speaker 1: Mom can sleep through the night, maybe even if you 528 00:32:15,120 --> 00:32:17,680 Speaker 1: know dad is a good dad and a good husband. 529 00:32:18,320 --> 00:32:22,520 Speaker 1: She can go to the store by herself. Uh, well, 530 00:32:22,560 --> 00:32:24,600 Speaker 1: what do you mean. Well, I mean, rather than having 531 00:32:24,640 --> 00:32:27,280 Speaker 1: to to feed every two hours or to express milk 532 00:32:27,320 --> 00:32:30,360 Speaker 1: every two hours, she can go as far as I've 533 00:32:30,360 --> 00:32:33,560 Speaker 1: seen up to like six hours between expressions, right, So 534 00:32:33,800 --> 00:32:36,640 Speaker 1: you can fit a lot of time away by yourself 535 00:32:36,800 --> 00:32:40,000 Speaker 1: in that six hours rather than too Yeah, I hear you. 536 00:32:40,200 --> 00:32:43,120 Speaker 1: It's another big one. Uh. It also made things way 537 00:32:43,120 --> 00:32:46,600 Speaker 1: easier in the workforce. Obviously, we we did touch on 538 00:32:46,640 --> 00:32:48,760 Speaker 1: the yesterday with UM. As of two thousand and ten. 539 00:32:49,360 --> 00:32:52,160 Speaker 1: Here in the United States, UM employers are required to 540 00:32:52,200 --> 00:32:55,200 Speaker 1: provide these break times in a private place. But it's 541 00:32:55,240 --> 00:32:57,600 Speaker 1: not like we had a lovely lactation room in our 542 00:32:57,680 --> 00:33:00,840 Speaker 1: last office. We actually recorded it in there once. I 543 00:33:00,880 --> 00:33:04,160 Speaker 1: think I actually was studying in there once, UM, and 544 00:33:04,200 --> 00:33:07,080 Speaker 1: I was like elactation room. But it didn't occur to 545 00:33:07,120 --> 00:33:09,880 Speaker 1: me like that was a lactation room at all times 546 00:33:10,000 --> 00:33:14,320 Speaker 1: rather than just when uh, somebody was in there pumping. UM. 547 00:33:14,400 --> 00:33:16,000 Speaker 1: So I was in there studying because it was very 548 00:33:16,080 --> 00:33:19,320 Speaker 1: quiet and comfortable before I finally got cooked out and 549 00:33:19,360 --> 00:33:22,000 Speaker 1: it dawned on me that, oh, that's the lactation room 550 00:33:22,040 --> 00:33:26,120 Speaker 1: all the time. I should probably steer clear of that place. Here, 551 00:33:26,120 --> 00:33:32,360 Speaker 1: and they're smoking a cigarette pretty much doing shots of whiskey. Uh. 552 00:33:32,400 --> 00:33:36,000 Speaker 1: And you mentioned a second ago that UM the breast 553 00:33:36,000 --> 00:33:39,360 Speaker 1: pump allowed women if their baby had troubled nursing. One 554 00:33:39,360 --> 00:33:43,000 Speaker 1: of the issues that can happen. It's called nipple confusion. 555 00:33:43,720 --> 00:33:48,520 Speaker 1: And it is UM, not confusion which is a little confusing. UM. 556 00:33:48,560 --> 00:33:51,720 Speaker 1: It is not the baby doesn't know like whether or 557 00:33:51,760 --> 00:33:54,480 Speaker 1: not it's mom's nipple or a bottle nipple. It's that 558 00:33:54,520 --> 00:33:57,880 Speaker 1: the baby actually has a preference for the bottle nipple. Right, Yeah, 559 00:33:57,880 --> 00:33:59,959 Speaker 1: the baby has been introduced to the bottle in an 560 00:34:00,160 --> 00:34:03,040 Speaker 1: now that the mom's like, okay, don't forget about the boob. 561 00:34:03,480 --> 00:34:06,000 Speaker 1: The baby's like, no, no, no, I'm I'm pretty hip 562 00:34:06,040 --> 00:34:09,480 Speaker 1: on the bottle instead. Let's just stick with that. Yeah. 563 00:34:09,560 --> 00:34:12,000 Speaker 1: I think it's it's a little easier, supposedly right for 564 00:34:12,040 --> 00:34:15,680 Speaker 1: a baby to feed from a bottle, easier for the baby, 565 00:34:15,719 --> 00:34:19,239 Speaker 1: that is right. It employs gravity more than the um 566 00:34:19,520 --> 00:34:22,120 Speaker 1: the breast does, and the baby has to work less. 567 00:34:22,400 --> 00:34:25,680 Speaker 1: And since babies are inherently lazy. Um, they're like, I 568 00:34:25,760 --> 00:34:28,319 Speaker 1: like the bottle more. I just I don't understand why 569 00:34:28,360 --> 00:34:30,640 Speaker 1: it was ever called nipple confusion, and I couldn't find 570 00:34:30,840 --> 00:34:34,080 Speaker 1: the origin of it, although I bet you nipple preference 571 00:34:34,120 --> 00:34:37,279 Speaker 1: just sounded mean, I guess. So. Yeah, like they were 572 00:34:37,320 --> 00:34:43,799 Speaker 1: worried that the mom would take it as rejection. Uh, 573 00:34:43,840 --> 00:34:45,799 Speaker 1: And so they say, experts do that if you want 574 00:34:45,840 --> 00:34:49,319 Speaker 1: to try and avoid that potential at least that you 575 00:34:49,360 --> 00:34:51,560 Speaker 1: want to at least try and breastfeed if that's what 576 00:34:51,560 --> 00:34:54,720 Speaker 1: you're gonna do for two weeks before the baby sees 577 00:34:54,760 --> 00:34:58,880 Speaker 1: any sort of bottled nipple. Yeah, right, you want him 578 00:34:58,920 --> 00:35:01,040 Speaker 1: to get good at breastfeed thinks so they can remember 579 00:35:01,120 --> 00:35:05,279 Speaker 1: how right it seems? Smart? Yeah, you're lazy, little dumb 580 00:35:05,280 --> 00:35:08,799 Speaker 1: baby is smarter and not as lazy as you think. 581 00:35:09,080 --> 00:35:13,560 Speaker 1: No or confused, that's right. So, um, if you are 582 00:35:13,600 --> 00:35:18,480 Speaker 1: going with formula, there's a lot of different types available, 583 00:35:18,520 --> 00:35:22,400 Speaker 1: as I'm sure you know more than me. Even um. 584 00:35:22,560 --> 00:35:25,080 Speaker 1: From what I've found though, that almost all of the 585 00:35:25,120 --> 00:35:28,640 Speaker 1: milk based ones, which is the standard version, all of 586 00:35:28,680 --> 00:35:34,040 Speaker 1: the milk based versions are almost exactly the same. Yeah, 587 00:35:34,160 --> 00:35:39,280 Speaker 1: there there are things that the FDA requires be present, 588 00:35:39,400 --> 00:35:43,400 Speaker 1: so you're gonna see a lot of the same stuff. Um, 589 00:35:43,400 --> 00:35:45,920 Speaker 1: should we go through the list here? I love this list, Yes, 590 00:35:46,160 --> 00:35:52,120 Speaker 1: go ahead. Protein, fat, vitamin C, A, D, E, K 591 00:35:52,360 --> 00:35:56,239 Speaker 1: B one, B two, B six and B twelve, niacin delicious, 592 00:35:56,360 --> 00:36:02,320 Speaker 1: folic acid, love it, pantathemic acid, Calcium, How do you 593 00:36:02,320 --> 00:36:07,960 Speaker 1: feel about phosphorus? It's a little sneaky. Magnesium, iron, zinc, 594 00:36:08,480 --> 00:36:12,279 Speaker 1: here's the best one. Manganese It's like a mongoose and 595 00:36:12,280 --> 00:36:17,719 Speaker 1: a mango mixed together. Copper, iodine, sodium, potassium, and chloride. 596 00:36:18,280 --> 00:36:21,719 Speaker 1: Why do they always put potassium and chloride together? Have 597 00:36:21,760 --> 00:36:24,680 Speaker 1: you ever noticed that? I don't know one thing that 598 00:36:24,760 --> 00:36:27,800 Speaker 1: you may not find in your formula you probably won't 599 00:36:28,320 --> 00:36:32,799 Speaker 1: is a fluoride supplement. And the guy who wrote the 600 00:36:32,800 --> 00:36:36,720 Speaker 1: house Stuff Works article is just cuckoo for fluoride. Wants 601 00:36:36,760 --> 00:36:39,719 Speaker 1: to make sure that your baby has fluoride coming out 602 00:36:39,719 --> 00:36:44,759 Speaker 1: of his or her ears. Um, which you know, mambivalent 603 00:36:44,800 --> 00:36:48,360 Speaker 1: on that. Well they do say um. I think the 604 00:36:48,400 --> 00:36:52,279 Speaker 1: American Academy of Pediatric says no fluoride supplements at all 605 00:36:52,719 --> 00:36:55,560 Speaker 1: two babies six months or younger. Oh is that right? Good? 606 00:36:55,719 --> 00:36:58,640 Speaker 1: Good to add that because fluorosis is a concern in 607 00:36:58,640 --> 00:37:01,399 Speaker 1: that case. That's not what this guy is saying, so 608 00:37:01,719 --> 00:37:04,800 Speaker 1: you could catch He's clearly doesn't work for the American 609 00:37:04,840 --> 00:37:09,319 Speaker 1: Academy Pediatrics. The thing about UM formula, though, is, like you, 610 00:37:09,320 --> 00:37:11,560 Speaker 1: you would like to think it's all pure and wonderful 611 00:37:11,600 --> 00:37:14,000 Speaker 1: and like the best ingredients, And there are some out there, 612 00:37:14,040 --> 00:37:18,279 Speaker 1: and I'm sure they're mondo expensive right. Uh yeah, I mean, 613 00:37:18,280 --> 00:37:20,480 Speaker 1: you know, the good organic formula is a little pricier, 614 00:37:20,560 --> 00:37:24,160 Speaker 1: for sure. But there's also ones that are like they 615 00:37:24,200 --> 00:37:27,960 Speaker 1: appear to be almost junk food for babies. Well yeah, 616 00:37:28,040 --> 00:37:30,800 Speaker 1: I mean read the read those labels, uh, for sure, 617 00:37:30,840 --> 00:37:35,160 Speaker 1: like corn syrup and artificial sweeteners and corn starch sweeteners. 618 00:37:36,600 --> 00:37:38,720 Speaker 1: I mean, do what you want, but I would avoid 619 00:37:38,719 --> 00:37:41,920 Speaker 1: that stuff sure, And I'm sure a lot of people 620 00:37:42,280 --> 00:37:45,080 Speaker 1: aren't a percent aware that that stuff is in there. 621 00:37:45,520 --> 00:37:50,040 Speaker 1: Um there their baby food. And I mean a lot 622 00:37:50,080 --> 00:37:54,600 Speaker 1: of it's disguise like multidextrin sounds natural, but that's corn. 623 00:37:54,719 --> 00:37:57,839 Speaker 1: That's corn starch sweetener. I don't think that sounds natural 624 00:37:57,920 --> 00:38:01,520 Speaker 1: at all, But it sounds like it's It sounds like 625 00:38:01,560 --> 00:38:05,960 Speaker 1: a quarterback for like a middling Midwest college or something 626 00:38:06,040 --> 00:38:11,600 Speaker 1: like that, multi extron takes the field. It sounds like 627 00:38:11,680 --> 00:38:15,439 Speaker 1: that hardy Mid America kind of thing. All right, it's 628 00:38:15,440 --> 00:38:19,240 Speaker 1: not coastal at all. No, it's not coastal. Uh. If 629 00:38:19,480 --> 00:38:23,759 Speaker 1: your little baby has intolerance to milk um, like a 630 00:38:23,840 --> 00:38:27,880 Speaker 1: milk allergy, you can get those soy protein or coconut 631 00:38:27,920 --> 00:38:34,560 Speaker 1: milk um formulas. Still they're still out there, but they 632 00:38:34,600 --> 00:38:38,719 Speaker 1: now have the proper extra nutrients added, which they did 633 00:38:38,760 --> 00:38:42,640 Speaker 1: not used to have, right, And you can also get 634 00:38:42,680 --> 00:38:46,319 Speaker 1: did you say coconut too? Yeah? Yeah, I like the 635 00:38:46,320 --> 00:38:51,279 Speaker 1: sound of that one. Coconut Sure, coconut anything's good. Yeah. 636 00:38:51,320 --> 00:38:55,520 Speaker 1: I tried the formula ones. How is it? Is it sweet? 637 00:38:55,560 --> 00:38:58,560 Speaker 1: At all, or are these sweeeners just strictly for carbohydrate sake. 638 00:38:59,480 --> 00:39:02,279 Speaker 1: I don't remember how sweet it was. I don't think 639 00:39:02,320 --> 00:39:04,719 Speaker 1: I got enough to really. Oh, I see this is 640 00:39:04,760 --> 00:39:09,320 Speaker 1: after a couple of scotches. Let me see that right bottle? 641 00:39:10,239 --> 00:39:15,279 Speaker 1: Not that bottle. The the speaking of sweeteners, though, if 642 00:39:15,320 --> 00:39:18,320 Speaker 1: you want to get close to breast milk the sweetener, 643 00:39:18,360 --> 00:39:21,080 Speaker 1: you want to look for the main sweetening ingredient in 644 00:39:21,160 --> 00:39:25,920 Speaker 1: your formulas. Lactose. Okay, lactose, but then, like you said, 645 00:39:26,120 --> 00:39:28,440 Speaker 1: you may find out that your kid is lactose intolerant, 646 00:39:28,680 --> 00:39:31,920 Speaker 1: in which case you have some alternatives, especially soy and coconut, 647 00:39:32,080 --> 00:39:35,840 Speaker 1: which is my favorite. So uh, formula, you're gonna have 648 00:39:35,880 --> 00:39:39,719 Speaker 1: a few choices. You can have, um, like what they'll 649 00:39:39,719 --> 00:39:41,400 Speaker 1: give you in the hospital. A lot of times is 650 00:39:41,440 --> 00:39:46,000 Speaker 1: that just the bottles already pre packaged and pre made, 651 00:39:47,000 --> 00:39:49,719 Speaker 1: which obviously it doesn't get any easier than that. You 652 00:39:49,800 --> 00:39:53,400 Speaker 1: just pop the top and go at it, pre measured 653 00:39:53,400 --> 00:39:57,560 Speaker 1: and everything, and those are okay, yeah, I mean those 654 00:39:57,640 --> 00:40:00,520 Speaker 1: come in a variety of kinds as well, like from 655 00:40:00,760 --> 00:40:03,920 Speaker 1: probably ones that um aren't as great, to the more expensive, 656 00:40:03,920 --> 00:40:08,040 Speaker 1: better ones. UM, it's basically just the pre made version 657 00:40:08,040 --> 00:40:11,759 Speaker 1: of the powder that you might buy right right then, 658 00:40:11,800 --> 00:40:16,040 Speaker 1: the fact that they already measured out the precise amountain 659 00:40:16,040 --> 00:40:18,839 Speaker 1: added the water and shook it all together. Already, that's 660 00:40:18,840 --> 00:40:21,680 Speaker 1: what you're paying for the convenience, I guess. In other words, Yeah, 661 00:40:21,680 --> 00:40:24,680 Speaker 1: but you know it's their disposable, so you're you're I mean, 662 00:40:24,680 --> 00:40:28,319 Speaker 1: you're recycling the bottles hopefully, but it's still something that 663 00:40:28,400 --> 00:40:32,480 Speaker 1: you it's it's a one use thing. Okay. So then 664 00:40:32,480 --> 00:40:36,960 Speaker 1: you've got your concentrates and your powders, and um, price 665 00:40:37,040 --> 00:40:39,720 Speaker 1: and convenience are kind of what play in here according 666 00:40:39,760 --> 00:40:42,640 Speaker 1: to what you're gonna go with in addition to what 667 00:40:42,719 --> 00:40:46,880 Speaker 1: little b b will will want to eat. You know, 668 00:40:47,000 --> 00:40:48,680 Speaker 1: some babies are like, I don't I don't like that. 669 00:40:48,719 --> 00:40:53,000 Speaker 1: I reject your formula. Give me another one, or this 670 00:40:53,040 --> 00:40:56,719 Speaker 1: one makes me have reflux or makes me super gassy. Yeah. 671 00:40:56,719 --> 00:40:58,640 Speaker 1: That was the thing that I saw too, that that 672 00:40:59,520 --> 00:41:03,040 Speaker 1: even the formulas are virtually all the same. Um. Yeah, 673 00:41:03,160 --> 00:41:06,400 Speaker 1: your baby might have a strong preference for one over another. 674 00:41:06,600 --> 00:41:08,960 Speaker 1: I think such a triumph. Yeah, I think that the 675 00:41:09,080 --> 00:41:12,879 Speaker 1: thing the recipes are tweaked because there can I mean, 676 00:41:12,920 --> 00:41:16,799 Speaker 1: some of them say like, uh, for gas, problems specifically 677 00:41:16,800 --> 00:41:20,239 Speaker 1: and stuff like that. So there must be some either 678 00:41:20,520 --> 00:41:22,680 Speaker 1: a little less of something or maybe a little more 679 00:41:22,680 --> 00:41:26,040 Speaker 1: of something would be my guess. And I'm just I'm 680 00:41:26,040 --> 00:41:27,759 Speaker 1: flying off the cuff here, So if I got that wrong, 681 00:41:27,960 --> 00:41:32,120 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. One of the other things that UM formula 682 00:41:32,200 --> 00:41:37,839 Speaker 1: requires is really good water, yes, UM, which again the 683 00:41:37,920 --> 00:41:40,400 Speaker 1: author of the House to Folks article, who apparently is 684 00:41:40,480 --> 00:41:44,800 Speaker 1: unaware of fluorosis UM says just use tap water. You 685 00:41:44,840 --> 00:41:47,160 Speaker 1: can totally use cold tap water. And he does say 686 00:41:47,200 --> 00:41:49,279 Speaker 1: you never want to use hot tap water when you're 687 00:41:49,320 --> 00:41:53,000 Speaker 1: creating formula because if you do have UM lead plumbing 688 00:41:53,040 --> 00:41:57,160 Speaker 1: anywhere connecting to your house, hot water will leach it out. More. 689 00:41:57,640 --> 00:42:01,000 Speaker 1: When we covered that big time, our one about Flint, Michigan, 690 00:42:01,040 --> 00:42:05,200 Speaker 1: remember that, UM, So you want to use cold tap water, 691 00:42:05,440 --> 00:42:10,720 Speaker 1: I would say use filtered waters the first formula. Sure, 692 00:42:11,440 --> 00:42:13,360 Speaker 1: but if you if you're just using it out of 693 00:42:13,360 --> 00:42:15,080 Speaker 1: the tap, and in the rule of thumb is if 694 00:42:15,160 --> 00:42:18,320 Speaker 1: you can drink the tap water safely, uh, your baby 695 00:42:18,320 --> 00:42:21,239 Speaker 1: should be able to as well. But UM, just be 696 00:42:21,320 --> 00:42:23,799 Speaker 1: sure to use cold water. Yeah. And in fact, I 697 00:42:23,840 --> 00:42:26,600 Speaker 1: think for the first a little while we were even 698 00:42:26,680 --> 00:42:30,720 Speaker 1: using spring water just to be like those first few 699 00:42:30,760 --> 00:42:33,279 Speaker 1: weeks or you know, until you get a little more 700 00:42:33,280 --> 00:42:37,200 Speaker 1: comfortable or a little bit like all right, like I'm 701 00:42:37,360 --> 00:42:40,040 Speaker 1: doing everything right. Yeah, no, I don't blame me, man, 702 00:42:40,080 --> 00:42:41,839 Speaker 1: And then you get a little more relaxed you're like, oh, 703 00:42:42,239 --> 00:42:45,440 Speaker 1: you know, babies are pretty hardy little monsters, you know. 704 00:42:46,200 --> 00:42:49,799 Speaker 1: And apparently also like I was surprised that they'll they'll 705 00:42:49,840 --> 00:42:53,520 Speaker 1: take formula cold, but um, apparently they'll take a cold 706 00:42:53,560 --> 00:42:56,640 Speaker 1: right out of the fridge. Well, it depends, well, it 707 00:42:56,680 --> 00:42:59,920 Speaker 1: depends on the baby. Well, yeah, like, um, some babies 708 00:43:00,160 --> 00:43:02,839 Speaker 1: like no, no, no, no, heat that heat that stuff up? Right. Well, 709 00:43:02,880 --> 00:43:05,680 Speaker 1: when you're heating it up, you only want to run 710 00:43:05,680 --> 00:43:09,160 Speaker 1: it under hot tap water, in which case it's fine 711 00:43:09,200 --> 00:43:11,279 Speaker 1: because you're not actually adding the hot tap war you're 712 00:43:11,280 --> 00:43:13,440 Speaker 1: just using it to run out on the outside of 713 00:43:13,440 --> 00:43:15,480 Speaker 1: the bottle, right to heat it up. Yeah, I'm gonna 714 00:43:15,480 --> 00:43:18,359 Speaker 1: advise against that. Okay, how do you heat it up? Then? 715 00:43:18,360 --> 00:43:20,640 Speaker 1: Because I saw I don't use a microive, Well, there's 716 00:43:21,040 --> 00:43:24,200 Speaker 1: you can buy a bottle warmer, which is basically like 717 00:43:24,400 --> 00:43:27,880 Speaker 1: a just a little round thing with that you have 718 00:43:27,920 --> 00:43:30,000 Speaker 1: water in the bottom that boils it like a tea kettle. 719 00:43:30,120 --> 00:43:32,640 Speaker 1: It's like a water bath. Yeah, it's a little water bath. 720 00:43:32,680 --> 00:43:35,040 Speaker 1: But the reason I suggest that is if it takes 721 00:43:35,160 --> 00:43:39,000 Speaker 1: a long time to to warm it up under tap water, 722 00:43:39,120 --> 00:43:41,759 Speaker 1: and so you're literally like just running water for like 723 00:43:41,920 --> 00:43:44,359 Speaker 1: five minutes, well that's a that's a good that's kind 724 00:43:44,360 --> 00:43:46,640 Speaker 1: of wasteful. You're right, And at first I was likely 725 00:43:46,680 --> 00:43:48,440 Speaker 1: bottle warmer. They try to sell you all this junk. 726 00:43:49,440 --> 00:43:51,960 Speaker 1: Literally was like that, and you know, I tried it. 727 00:43:51,960 --> 00:43:53,000 Speaker 1: I was like, look, you can just put in a 728 00:43:53,000 --> 00:43:55,200 Speaker 1: coffee cup and put some hot water in there, but 729 00:43:55,320 --> 00:43:58,720 Speaker 1: that cools off like really quick, and the bottle warmer 730 00:43:58,920 --> 00:44:01,680 Speaker 1: was like fifteen dollar urs that You're like, well, look 731 00:44:01,719 --> 00:44:03,680 Speaker 1: you can just put the coffee cup on the stove, 732 00:44:03,960 --> 00:44:07,480 Speaker 1: turn the stove off, turn it on. Yeah. Emily was 733 00:44:07,480 --> 00:44:11,920 Speaker 1: basically like, get the bottle warmer done and it's infinitely easier. 734 00:44:11,920 --> 00:44:13,640 Speaker 1: You just just click it on. It's got a little 735 00:44:13,640 --> 00:44:15,759 Speaker 1: time or for a couple of minutes or whatever, and 736 00:44:15,800 --> 00:44:17,919 Speaker 1: it heats it up and you're not wasting as much water. 737 00:44:18,239 --> 00:44:20,399 Speaker 1: That's that's cool, But in a pinch, like when you're 738 00:44:20,400 --> 00:44:23,360 Speaker 1: out and about, you definitely like the running it undertap 739 00:44:23,400 --> 00:44:27,880 Speaker 1: water works. I think there's two things then that the 740 00:44:27,920 --> 00:44:32,759 Speaker 1: federal government should give every new parent at least a 741 00:44:32,840 --> 00:44:40,200 Speaker 1: year's supply of infant formula, good stuff, and a bottle warm, 742 00:44:40,360 --> 00:44:43,560 Speaker 1: like just for just for being an American, you should 743 00:44:43,600 --> 00:44:48,439 Speaker 1: get that. Yeah. What what country is it sweet where 744 00:44:48,440 --> 00:44:51,640 Speaker 1: they give him the box? Norway? Is it Norway? I 745 00:44:51,640 --> 00:44:54,440 Speaker 1: don't know. I think I think it's one of those 746 00:44:54,560 --> 00:44:56,520 Speaker 1: I'm sure. Oh, I know what you're talking about. The 747 00:44:56,560 --> 00:44:58,520 Speaker 1: box can be used as like a baby like a 748 00:44:58,600 --> 00:45:02,040 Speaker 1: crib even yeah. Oh, I think it is a Nordic 749 00:45:02,080 --> 00:45:04,440 Speaker 1: country and it's like this old tradition that they still do. 750 00:45:04,640 --> 00:45:06,840 Speaker 1: And uh. I think I posted something about it and 751 00:45:06,880 --> 00:45:08,480 Speaker 1: I was like, what in the world, and all these 752 00:45:08,480 --> 00:45:11,040 Speaker 1: women are like, no, dude, it's the best, like they're 753 00:45:11,080 --> 00:45:13,719 Speaker 1: doing it right. Yeah, but I can't remember. It was 754 00:45:13,760 --> 00:45:16,680 Speaker 1: some sort of baby box. Yeah, yeah, I know what 755 00:45:16,719 --> 00:45:18,400 Speaker 1: you're talking about. And I think it came with stuff 756 00:45:18,400 --> 00:45:19,880 Speaker 1: in it, but then you take the stuff out of 757 00:45:19,880 --> 00:45:23,120 Speaker 1: it and then you put your baby in it. Right, 758 00:45:23,200 --> 00:45:25,880 Speaker 1: I have to look into that. I think I'm describing 759 00:45:25,920 --> 00:45:30,640 Speaker 1: it correctly. And the baby's like echo. Uh So when 760 00:45:30,640 --> 00:45:34,040 Speaker 1: you get your bottles and your nipples, when you decide 761 00:45:34,080 --> 00:45:35,719 Speaker 1: on the ones, they're a bunch of them out there. 762 00:45:35,719 --> 00:45:37,600 Speaker 1: But when you decide on the one that works, that 763 00:45:37,719 --> 00:45:42,600 Speaker 1: you like and that works for baby, um, you you 764 00:45:42,640 --> 00:45:45,040 Speaker 1: want to sterilize it right out of the package by 765 00:45:45,040 --> 00:45:48,080 Speaker 1: boiling it. But then after that you can just wash 766 00:45:48,120 --> 00:45:51,399 Speaker 1: it in the dishwasher with hot water, supposedly unless your 767 00:45:51,880 --> 00:45:55,480 Speaker 1: house operates on well water, in which case you may 768 00:45:55,520 --> 00:46:01,200 Speaker 1: want to be a little more um steril ific you uh. 769 00:46:01,239 --> 00:46:03,960 Speaker 1: And in two thousand twelve they banned b p A 770 00:46:05,160 --> 00:46:08,000 Speaker 1: uh for baby bottles because b p A has been 771 00:46:08,000 --> 00:46:12,480 Speaker 1: shown to leach from its uh plastic containers the products 772 00:46:13,239 --> 00:46:16,319 Speaker 1: when heated up. And so since twelve, anything you buy 773 00:46:16,560 --> 00:46:19,360 Speaker 1: won't will be b p A free. But if people, 774 00:46:19,440 --> 00:46:22,120 Speaker 1: I mean, that wasn't that long ago. So people are like, here, 775 00:46:22,200 --> 00:46:25,200 Speaker 1: take my old bottles or you know, have my handy downs. 776 00:46:25,760 --> 00:46:28,640 Speaker 1: You gotta look, um, look on the bottom and if 777 00:46:28,640 --> 00:46:31,640 Speaker 1: you see a number seven on the bottom or PC, yeah, 778 00:46:31,640 --> 00:46:33,560 Speaker 1: then it might have b p A. So you should 779 00:46:33,640 --> 00:46:35,960 Speaker 1: just try and get a new one. Yeah. And you 780 00:46:36,320 --> 00:46:39,520 Speaker 1: don't be also lulled into complacency by things that say 781 00:46:39,680 --> 00:46:43,080 Speaker 1: b p A free, because they may be certified even 782 00:46:43,160 --> 00:46:47,000 Speaker 1: b p A free. But two replacements that have come 783 00:46:47,040 --> 00:46:50,000 Speaker 1: to stand in for b p A. BPS and BPF 784 00:46:50,600 --> 00:46:54,360 Speaker 1: are apparently just as bad endocrine endocrine disruptors as b 785 00:46:54,480 --> 00:46:56,960 Speaker 1: p A. So what you really want to do is 786 00:46:57,000 --> 00:47:01,239 Speaker 1: just avoid any clear plastic bottles. You want to use 787 00:47:01,280 --> 00:47:05,440 Speaker 1: the opaque kind because they're usually made of polyethylene or polypropylene, 788 00:47:05,960 --> 00:47:07,840 Speaker 1: and you want to go with ones that have the 789 00:47:07,920 --> 00:47:11,360 Speaker 1: recycling symbol with the number two or the number five 790 00:47:11,440 --> 00:47:15,719 Speaker 1: in them. Those are legitimately free of bp A or 791 00:47:16,120 --> 00:47:18,560 Speaker 1: or bisphenols of any kind. Yeah, they should put a 792 00:47:18,600 --> 00:47:21,720 Speaker 1: little baby with the thumbs up. They they they should 793 00:47:21,760 --> 00:47:25,760 Speaker 1: just yes, they shouldn't have taken this many years for 794 00:47:26,719 --> 00:47:30,640 Speaker 1: I'm just the whole bp A thing really gets me going, Yeah, yeah, 795 00:47:30,719 --> 00:47:32,719 Speaker 1: I totally agree. I mean it's only four years ago. 796 00:47:33,560 --> 00:47:36,080 Speaker 1: They're like, oh, wait a minute, it's leaching when you 797 00:47:36,120 --> 00:47:40,160 Speaker 1: heat it up into your baby's food. Yeah, well well wait, 798 00:47:40,200 --> 00:47:45,200 Speaker 1: we're making money off of it. Sorry to see. That's 799 00:47:45,200 --> 00:47:49,239 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. You can get glass bottles now. Back 800 00:47:49,280 --> 00:47:52,239 Speaker 1: in the day, that was all you would see obviously. Uh. 801 00:47:52,239 --> 00:47:55,600 Speaker 1: And they still make great glass bottles, and they're a 802 00:47:55,600 --> 00:48:00,960 Speaker 1: bit heavier um to hold they so you can break 803 00:48:01,040 --> 00:48:04,200 Speaker 1: if you drop them. But you've seen a lot of 804 00:48:04,200 --> 00:48:06,560 Speaker 1: places like the hazards of dropping and breaking a bottle. 805 00:48:07,680 --> 00:48:10,080 Speaker 1: I mean, it's not that big of a hazard. It's 806 00:48:10,120 --> 00:48:12,120 Speaker 1: like it's like any I mean, if you unless you 807 00:48:12,160 --> 00:48:14,840 Speaker 1: don't have any glass in your house at all, you 808 00:48:14,840 --> 00:48:18,520 Speaker 1: could always drop a glass. Sure. Also, I know these 809 00:48:18,520 --> 00:48:22,719 Speaker 1: things aren't the most fragile things you've rent countered, sick 810 00:48:22,760 --> 00:48:26,359 Speaker 1: and heavy, So they just cracked the baby's face if 811 00:48:26,400 --> 00:48:30,640 Speaker 1: you drop I guess that's a bigger hazard than it breaking. Right. 812 00:48:31,440 --> 00:48:34,680 Speaker 1: Uh no, I mean all right, you should be holding 813 00:48:34,680 --> 00:48:38,279 Speaker 1: that bottle, you know, which we're gonna get into, right, Yeah, 814 00:48:38,320 --> 00:49:04,000 Speaker 1: you want to take a break first. Hey, so Chuck, 815 00:49:04,040 --> 00:49:06,480 Speaker 1: I saw something. Um I think I said you don't 816 00:49:06,480 --> 00:49:10,480 Speaker 1: want a microwave baby bottles? Did you know that? I didn't? 817 00:49:10,560 --> 00:49:13,680 Speaker 1: But um, we we we don't really use a microwave 818 00:49:13,719 --> 00:49:16,600 Speaker 1: at all, so not an issue. Well, the reason why 819 00:49:16,680 --> 00:49:19,600 Speaker 1: you don't want to is because microwaves heat basically from 820 00:49:19,640 --> 00:49:22,279 Speaker 1: the inside out. So when you grab the bottle and 821 00:49:22,280 --> 00:49:25,560 Speaker 1: you're like, oh, it's lukewarm. The stuff that you're touching 822 00:49:25,600 --> 00:49:27,719 Speaker 1: on the outside is lukewarm, but the stuff inside might 823 00:49:27,719 --> 00:49:29,760 Speaker 1: be really hot, and you don't want to hurt baby. 824 00:49:29,960 --> 00:49:32,680 Speaker 1: I guess we should also say anytime you give baby 825 00:49:32,719 --> 00:49:36,160 Speaker 1: formula unless it's directly out of the fridge, and even then, 826 00:49:36,200 --> 00:49:38,600 Speaker 1: why not, Um, you want to shake a little on 827 00:49:39,120 --> 00:49:41,879 Speaker 1: the underside of your forearm, right because it's a very 828 00:49:41,920 --> 00:49:44,840 Speaker 1: sensitive area in your skin and you'll be able to 829 00:49:44,840 --> 00:49:46,840 Speaker 1: tell whether it's hot or not. I would drop it 830 00:49:46,840 --> 00:49:51,320 Speaker 1: in my eye. That's a good one. It's very sensitive. 831 00:49:52,400 --> 00:49:57,720 Speaker 1: I'll bet that spring water doesn't hurt at all. All right, So, um, 832 00:49:57,840 --> 00:50:01,240 Speaker 1: like you said, some babies don't mind it cold, or 833 00:50:01,640 --> 00:50:04,440 Speaker 1: after a while they've may be like, all right, cold 834 00:50:04,520 --> 00:50:09,240 Speaker 1: is fine with me. But you're still gonna want to, uh, 835 00:50:09,400 --> 00:50:11,800 Speaker 1: you still want to hold and feed your baby, You don't. 836 00:50:11,960 --> 00:50:14,720 Speaker 1: You don't like set your baby down on a couch 837 00:50:15,200 --> 00:50:18,520 Speaker 1: and hand your baby a bottle and walk away, because 838 00:50:18,560 --> 00:50:21,560 Speaker 1: a for a while, that's not even possible. Um, although 839 00:50:21,600 --> 00:50:23,720 Speaker 1: I will say, once the baby can hold the bottle, 840 00:50:23,719 --> 00:50:26,759 Speaker 1: it's pretty neat. Yeah, but you know you still want 841 00:50:26,760 --> 00:50:29,040 Speaker 1: to be there. But you're you know, you want to 842 00:50:29,080 --> 00:50:33,399 Speaker 1: still be there and provide eye contact and that closeness. Um. 843 00:50:33,440 --> 00:50:35,680 Speaker 1: You know, it's a big part of it. Yeah, that's 844 00:50:35,680 --> 00:50:38,040 Speaker 1: a huge part of it. Also. I mean, we talked 845 00:50:38,040 --> 00:50:42,919 Speaker 1: about it in the breast episode. Um, skin on skin 846 00:50:43,040 --> 00:50:47,279 Speaker 1: contact has a lot to do with social development in 847 00:50:47,360 --> 00:50:51,600 Speaker 1: brain development with babies due to oxytocin release. But that 848 00:50:51,680 --> 00:50:55,320 Speaker 1: doesn't just come from breastfeeding. So anytime you're feeding a baby, 849 00:50:55,360 --> 00:50:59,280 Speaker 1: you basically should be shirtless from what I'm gathering. Um, 850 00:50:59,440 --> 00:51:01,239 Speaker 1: So that and you way you hold a baby, whether 851 00:51:01,280 --> 00:51:04,000 Speaker 1: you're bottle feeding it, whether you're best feeding it, whether 852 00:51:04,080 --> 00:51:08,000 Speaker 1: you're the neighbor or the maleman who's been invited to 853 00:51:08,000 --> 00:51:10,160 Speaker 1: come beat and meet the baby and feed it, you 854 00:51:10,200 --> 00:51:12,560 Speaker 1: want to take your shirt off first so that the 855 00:51:12,600 --> 00:51:15,239 Speaker 1: baby's got some form of skin to skin contact while 856 00:51:15,520 --> 00:51:20,479 Speaker 1: she's she's eating. I never did that. Well, I it's 857 00:51:20,840 --> 00:51:25,320 Speaker 1: I don't think it's ever too late. Yeah. Now I 858 00:51:25,320 --> 00:51:29,920 Speaker 1: would be like, what are you doing? Um, it's a 859 00:51:29,920 --> 00:51:33,640 Speaker 1: new thing we're trying. So, Uh, you don't want to 860 00:51:33,719 --> 00:51:36,520 Speaker 1: have your baby laying down flat. Um. You want your 861 00:51:36,520 --> 00:51:40,680 Speaker 1: baby the head elevated a little bit or you know, 862 00:51:40,760 --> 00:51:43,480 Speaker 1: flat out sitting up. If they have reflux problems, you 863 00:51:43,520 --> 00:51:46,840 Speaker 1: may have to experiment a little bit with that angle. Um. 864 00:51:46,880 --> 00:51:48,920 Speaker 1: But uh, the one thing you definitely don't want to 865 00:51:48,960 --> 00:51:52,359 Speaker 1: do is just prop the bottle because that has four 866 00:51:52,480 --> 00:51:59,879 Speaker 1: specific problems that can happen, uh ear infections, perhaps because 867 00:51:59,880 --> 00:52:02,839 Speaker 1: the formula just floats right into the middle ear. Yeah, um, 868 00:52:02,880 --> 00:52:08,759 Speaker 1: feeding longer then uh they might normally um and then 869 00:52:09,200 --> 00:52:13,120 Speaker 1: decreased emotional and physical satisfaction from getting held right and 870 00:52:13,360 --> 00:52:18,000 Speaker 1: apparently also increases the potential for cavities too. Yeah. So 871 00:52:18,080 --> 00:52:23,080 Speaker 1: I mean this is like we're talking about you shouldn't 872 00:52:23,080 --> 00:52:25,120 Speaker 1: put your baby down into like even if your baby 873 00:52:25,160 --> 00:52:27,440 Speaker 1: can hold the bottle, you shouldn't lay your baby down 874 00:52:27,480 --> 00:52:30,560 Speaker 1: in a crib like a bedtime and say here's your 875 00:52:30,560 --> 00:52:33,800 Speaker 1: bottle to put you to sleep and then leave the 876 00:52:33,880 --> 00:52:36,000 Speaker 1: room because and that and this is a little bit 877 00:52:36,040 --> 00:52:38,919 Speaker 1: different than just bottle propping. But there are a lot 878 00:52:38,960 --> 00:52:43,360 Speaker 1: of uh dangers there. One tooth decay of course, because 879 00:52:43,360 --> 00:52:47,880 Speaker 1: the last thing that should happen is toothbrushing, uh, ear infections, choking, 880 00:52:48,360 --> 00:52:52,319 Speaker 1: and then just this sleep association. Um, you don't want 881 00:52:52,320 --> 00:52:55,040 Speaker 1: your baby to be dependent on having that bottle to 882 00:52:55,120 --> 00:52:58,600 Speaker 1: fall asleep, right, You're not doing yourself any favors there, 883 00:52:58,800 --> 00:53:02,240 Speaker 1: and sleep training, good point. So that's in the crib, 884 00:53:02,440 --> 00:53:05,720 Speaker 1: leaving the baby with the bottle slightly different the bottle 885 00:53:06,000 --> 00:53:09,719 Speaker 1: and sure, um, when you are feeding an actual infant 886 00:53:10,120 --> 00:53:12,560 Speaker 1: um and you have to hold them up basically and 887 00:53:12,920 --> 00:53:16,040 Speaker 1: feed them with the bottle. Um. One of the one 888 00:53:16,080 --> 00:53:17,760 Speaker 1: of the things I think you said was that you 889 00:53:17,760 --> 00:53:21,160 Speaker 1: you have a lot of um opportunity for eye contact. Right, 890 00:53:21,560 --> 00:53:23,880 Speaker 1: it's one of the benefits of holding the baby water feeding. 891 00:53:24,120 --> 00:53:26,560 Speaker 1: But you also want to be sure to hold the 892 00:53:26,560 --> 00:53:28,480 Speaker 1: baby with your left arm one time and then the 893 00:53:28,520 --> 00:53:30,600 Speaker 1: next time hold the baby through right arm and just 894 00:53:30,680 --> 00:53:33,399 Speaker 1: keep going back and forth, because apparently their eyes can 895 00:53:33,440 --> 00:53:38,839 Speaker 1: develop um uh. One one can develop more strongly than 896 00:53:38,880 --> 00:53:41,600 Speaker 1: the other. If it's if the baby is fed facing 897 00:53:41,600 --> 00:53:44,719 Speaker 1: the same way all the time, baby, you'll look up. 898 00:53:45,960 --> 00:53:48,600 Speaker 1: It's it's funny, it's intuitive. But I could totally see 899 00:53:48,640 --> 00:53:52,680 Speaker 1: not even thinking about that, never thought about it. Yeah. Uh. 900 00:53:52,719 --> 00:53:56,560 Speaker 1: You want to keep that um nipple full of milk 901 00:53:57,000 --> 00:54:00,479 Speaker 1: at all times, which means keeping it uh point down, 902 00:54:01,760 --> 00:54:04,960 Speaker 1: because you want to decrease the amount of air, because 903 00:54:05,000 --> 00:54:07,840 Speaker 1: that will make your baby gassy. The more air that 904 00:54:07,960 --> 00:54:12,439 Speaker 1: baby drinks are swallows while eating the gassier. Uh. He's 905 00:54:12,480 --> 00:54:16,200 Speaker 1: gonna be right. And when you are feeding your baby, 906 00:54:16,480 --> 00:54:20,560 Speaker 1: apparently it's good to to burp him midway between the feeding. 907 00:54:21,120 --> 00:54:24,600 Speaker 1: Definitely after each feeding yeah, midway for a while and 908 00:54:24,640 --> 00:54:30,040 Speaker 1: then eventually um just after and burping is they're there 909 00:54:30,040 --> 00:54:32,719 Speaker 1: are different ways from over the shoulder, like the sort 910 00:54:32,760 --> 00:54:35,520 Speaker 1: of classic over the shoulder. You want to go high though, 911 00:54:35,520 --> 00:54:38,680 Speaker 1: and make sure there's some pressure on the abdomen um too, 912 00:54:39,640 --> 00:54:41,960 Speaker 1: putting just sitting a baby on your lap sideways and 913 00:54:42,040 --> 00:54:45,080 Speaker 1: holding her under the chin, uh and then padding the 914 00:54:45,080 --> 00:54:48,160 Speaker 1: back or just across the lap again with the pressure 915 00:54:48,200 --> 00:54:52,800 Speaker 1: on the abdomen and you know you want to. People 916 00:54:53,280 --> 00:54:56,640 Speaker 1: are a little timid, I think at first because little 917 00:54:56,719 --> 00:54:59,759 Speaker 1: tiny babies seem so fragile, but they're not as f 918 00:55:00,040 --> 00:55:03,200 Speaker 1: toil as you think, and just tiny little soft pats 919 00:55:03,640 --> 00:55:08,120 Speaker 1: is doing literally nothing to get that burp out. So 920 00:55:08,160 --> 00:55:10,600 Speaker 1: if you've ever had a nurse do it for you 921 00:55:10,680 --> 00:55:14,080 Speaker 1: and show you, or your mom or someone who's had 922 00:55:14,080 --> 00:55:16,840 Speaker 1: a few kids, you might be like, oh my god, 923 00:55:17,400 --> 00:55:20,120 Speaker 1: my baby, you're beating my baby. But that's what you 924 00:55:20,160 --> 00:55:21,600 Speaker 1: want to do. I mean, obviously you don't want to, 925 00:55:21,640 --> 00:55:23,920 Speaker 1: you don't don't want to like strike them, but a 926 00:55:23,960 --> 00:55:26,960 Speaker 1: good firm pat is what it takes to get that 927 00:55:27,000 --> 00:55:32,720 Speaker 1: burp out. Like, don't be shy and uh in my case, uh, 928 00:55:32,760 --> 00:55:35,879 Speaker 1: my daughter never really burped much from burping. I would 929 00:55:35,920 --> 00:55:37,920 Speaker 1: try and try and then be like, all right, I 930 00:55:37,920 --> 00:55:40,239 Speaker 1: guess she's good. And then she would like sit up 931 00:55:40,239 --> 00:55:43,640 Speaker 1: and go on her own, and you know, and then 932 00:55:43,680 --> 00:55:48,600 Speaker 1: she's kind of smiling sort of and um, you know, 933 00:55:48,680 --> 00:55:51,000 Speaker 1: I mean whatever you can do to get that little 934 00:55:51,239 --> 00:55:54,480 Speaker 1: burp out, and burp doesn't always come out, so if 935 00:55:54,520 --> 00:55:56,120 Speaker 1: you try it for a few minutes it doesn't happen, 936 00:55:56,160 --> 00:55:59,080 Speaker 1: then you know they might be good. Yeah, which I'll 937 00:55:59,080 --> 00:56:01,480 Speaker 1: be is not not into it all that. Some babies 938 00:56:01,480 --> 00:56:05,480 Speaker 1: have just been pounded on for days because the parents 939 00:56:06,800 --> 00:56:13,360 Speaker 1: yea burp so chuck. Um you were saying before that, Um. 940 00:56:13,880 --> 00:56:16,239 Speaker 1: One of the great things about bottle feeding is that 941 00:56:16,560 --> 00:56:19,360 Speaker 1: it allows other people to share in some of the 942 00:56:19,440 --> 00:56:23,080 Speaker 1: feeding as well. Right, Um, it's not as mom who's 943 00:56:23,120 --> 00:56:26,440 Speaker 1: responsible for feeding the baby, dads can too and other people, 944 00:56:26,480 --> 00:56:31,160 Speaker 1: like I said, the male carrier whoever. Um. But the 945 00:56:31,160 --> 00:56:35,239 Speaker 1: the idea that it's not just um sharing responsibility but 946 00:56:35,360 --> 00:56:39,760 Speaker 1: also like an opportunity to get to like get closer 947 00:56:39,800 --> 00:56:42,600 Speaker 1: to your kid as a dads has got to be 948 00:56:42,640 --> 00:56:46,440 Speaker 1: pretty appealing as far as the concept of bottle feeding goes, right, 949 00:56:47,640 --> 00:56:50,600 Speaker 1: you know, like it's when you're breastfeeding. Apparently there's a 950 00:56:50,800 --> 00:56:56,040 Speaker 1: U there is a phenomenon among some some men where 951 00:56:56,040 --> 00:57:00,000 Speaker 1: they actually become jealous of either their wife or their baby. 952 00:57:00,040 --> 00:57:03,640 Speaker 1: You're both because of the bond that's being formed in 953 00:57:03,719 --> 00:57:06,080 Speaker 1: the amount of attention and time that's being given to 954 00:57:06,120 --> 00:57:09,279 Speaker 1: the baby through breastfeeding. Yeah, I've heard of that. You 955 00:57:09,320 --> 00:57:10,919 Speaker 1: have heard of it. I hadn't heard of it until 956 00:57:10,960 --> 00:57:13,600 Speaker 1: I ran into this. Yeah, I've heard of it. I 957 00:57:13,640 --> 00:57:16,440 Speaker 1: mean i'd say, just getting their dad and you can 958 00:57:16,440 --> 00:57:19,760 Speaker 1: still be a part of things. Yeah, yeah, you totally 959 00:57:20,160 --> 00:57:22,240 Speaker 1: your breastfeeding. Well, I'll just go in the other room then, 960 00:57:23,680 --> 00:57:27,400 Speaker 1: you know, like sit down with them. Yeah yeah, I say, 961 00:57:27,680 --> 00:57:30,440 Speaker 1: can your act together? Ye? Getting jealous of your baby 962 00:57:30,480 --> 00:57:34,760 Speaker 1: because it's being breastfed. Uh. As far as when, um, 963 00:57:34,800 --> 00:57:37,160 Speaker 1: there are a couple of methods of feedings, UM, demand 964 00:57:37,240 --> 00:57:42,760 Speaker 1: feeding versus scheduled Uh. I only have my own experience, 965 00:57:42,800 --> 00:57:46,840 Speaker 1: which was my daughter just fell into her own routine basically, 966 00:57:47,280 --> 00:57:51,040 Speaker 1: and it worked out to be a scheduled routine. UM 967 00:57:51,120 --> 00:57:54,320 Speaker 1: that was pretty pretty tight, like you know, down to 968 00:57:54,400 --> 00:57:57,720 Speaker 1: the you know, ten or fifteen minutes apart on a 969 00:57:57,800 --> 00:58:00,920 Speaker 1: daily basis when it was clear it So it ended 970 00:58:01,000 --> 00:58:03,160 Speaker 1: up being scheduled, but she sort of set the schedule. 971 00:58:03,240 --> 00:58:06,720 Speaker 1: That means it's pretty cool, you know. Um, but you know, 972 00:58:06,840 --> 00:58:08,840 Speaker 1: there are two different schools of thought. You can try 973 00:58:08,840 --> 00:58:12,280 Speaker 1: and stick to that schedule, um, but you may be 974 00:58:12,760 --> 00:58:16,400 Speaker 1: you know, pushing that that rock up the hill constantly, 975 00:58:16,840 --> 00:58:19,160 Speaker 1: in which case you might want to think about demand feeding, 976 00:58:19,200 --> 00:58:21,640 Speaker 1: which is I feed my baby when my baby says 977 00:58:21,800 --> 00:58:24,440 Speaker 1: they're hungry. Yeah, and I was, I was researching this 978 00:58:24,480 --> 00:58:26,720 Speaker 1: and I was like, well, it seems like setting the 979 00:58:26,720 --> 00:58:29,920 Speaker 1: schedules the smartest thing to do. And then I thought, oh, well, 980 00:58:29,960 --> 00:58:33,520 Speaker 1: the baby kind of lets you know when here she's hungry, 981 00:58:33,800 --> 00:58:36,000 Speaker 1: and it doesn't necessarily stick to the schedule. So I'm 982 00:58:36,040 --> 00:58:38,120 Speaker 1: sure the idea of sending the schedules goes right out 983 00:58:38,160 --> 00:58:41,880 Speaker 1: the window and the baby's like screaming, you know. So yeah. 984 00:58:42,160 --> 00:58:45,640 Speaker 1: The problem with demand feeding, though, is that, um, your 985 00:58:45,680 --> 00:58:48,520 Speaker 1: baby might come to say, oh, this is this is enough, 986 00:58:48,560 --> 00:58:50,520 Speaker 1: This will be enough for this hour. I'll see you 987 00:58:50,520 --> 00:58:54,439 Speaker 1: in another hour and do that like fifteen times a day. Yeah. 988 00:58:54,480 --> 00:58:57,800 Speaker 1: One thing I do recommend, and uh is to track it. 989 00:58:58,440 --> 00:59:00,760 Speaker 1: Uh we we just got it like a viral notebook 990 00:59:01,160 --> 00:59:04,360 Speaker 1: and track to the times and the amounts because even 991 00:59:04,360 --> 00:59:06,320 Speaker 1: though you think like no, no, no, I'm keeping up 992 00:59:06,320 --> 00:59:09,520 Speaker 1: with it. It's it's really easy to forget how much 993 00:59:10,240 --> 00:59:11,680 Speaker 1: they've had that day, and you don't want to over 994 00:59:11,720 --> 00:59:13,960 Speaker 1: feed them or underfeed there. So just yeah, we just 995 00:59:14,040 --> 00:59:17,200 Speaker 1: kept a little daily log made it super easy. Did 996 00:59:17,200 --> 00:59:21,560 Speaker 1: you get the spiral notebook? Warmer too? Did? Actually it 997 00:59:21,680 --> 00:59:25,080 Speaker 1: was very nice. Nice, it's good. At first I was like, 998 00:59:25,240 --> 00:59:27,640 Speaker 1: who needs it? But then every time I put it 999 00:59:27,680 --> 00:59:29,640 Speaker 1: on my lap it was all cold, and so, oh, 1000 00:59:29,720 --> 00:59:33,480 Speaker 1: this is nice. Yeah, that's very nice. So so as 1001 00:59:33,520 --> 00:59:36,760 Speaker 1: a dad being able to feed your your kid, I mean, 1002 00:59:36,800 --> 00:59:39,800 Speaker 1: like that that has to be pretty special, right, it's 1003 00:59:39,840 --> 00:59:42,320 Speaker 1: the best. Yeah, And that is one of the huge 1004 00:59:42,360 --> 00:59:45,240 Speaker 1: benefits of bottle feeding that that the dad gets to 1005 00:59:45,280 --> 00:59:49,560 Speaker 1: do that too. Um. And just kind of from the research, 1006 00:59:49,560 --> 00:59:52,240 Speaker 1: I got the impression that a lot of dad's kind 1007 00:59:52,240 --> 00:59:55,560 Speaker 1: of take this hands off thing where it's like, that's 1008 00:59:55,600 --> 00:59:59,280 Speaker 1: your thing, you feed the baby, I'll I'll go make 1009 00:59:59,320 --> 01:00:03,320 Speaker 1: some money outdoors or something like that, right, And and 1010 01:00:03,520 --> 01:00:06,480 Speaker 1: the the idea of the dad being involved in the feeding, 1011 01:00:06,520 --> 01:00:08,720 Speaker 1: Like that's part of the thing about bottle feeding the 1012 01:00:08,760 --> 01:00:10,400 Speaker 1: kids that the dad can be involved, and so the 1013 01:00:10,480 --> 01:00:13,440 Speaker 1: dad should be involved probably in more ways than he 1014 01:00:13,480 --> 01:00:18,400 Speaker 1: even imagines in a lot of cases too. Yeah, like 1015 01:00:18,520 --> 01:00:21,640 Speaker 1: not just actually feeding the baby, but actually knowing how 1016 01:00:21,720 --> 01:00:25,480 Speaker 1: much formula is needed to prepare and that kind of stuff. Yeah, 1017 01:00:25,680 --> 01:00:29,120 Speaker 1: just like, be involved is the best advice. And that's 1018 01:00:29,200 --> 01:00:32,080 Speaker 1: kind of what this article says that you sourced here. Like, 1019 01:00:32,760 --> 01:00:36,560 Speaker 1: you know, don't be a chromagnant or a dad from 1020 01:00:36,560 --> 01:00:39,360 Speaker 1: like the nineteen thirties. You know, just be involved. Like 1021 01:00:39,840 --> 01:00:44,000 Speaker 1: if if, uh, your wife is breastfeeding or bottle feeding 1022 01:00:44,320 --> 01:00:46,560 Speaker 1: and she wants to do it, and she likes a 1023 01:00:46,680 --> 01:00:49,240 Speaker 1: nice quiet scene and she doesn't want the dogs barking 1024 01:00:49,280 --> 01:00:52,840 Speaker 1: and stuff like set up the bedroom and light a candle, 1025 01:00:53,000 --> 01:00:55,480 Speaker 1: take the dogs on a walk, but on some music 1026 01:00:55,600 --> 01:00:58,320 Speaker 1: like run interference. If the phone rings, you know, go 1027 01:00:58,400 --> 01:01:02,160 Speaker 1: get the phone. Just like, be involved, right, and if 1028 01:01:02,200 --> 01:01:06,760 Speaker 1: you're if your wife or if the mom does choose 1029 01:01:06,760 --> 01:01:09,120 Speaker 1: to breastfeed, if that is where you guys go with it. 1030 01:01:09,360 --> 01:01:11,520 Speaker 1: There's also other stuff you can do too that that 1031 01:01:11,720 --> 01:01:14,000 Speaker 1: isn't just feeding. Like you in the middle of the night, 1032 01:01:14,240 --> 01:01:16,680 Speaker 1: you can go get the baby, bring baby two moms, 1033 01:01:16,800 --> 01:01:19,560 Speaker 1: or take baby back to bed, hang out with baby 1034 01:01:19,600 --> 01:01:22,760 Speaker 1: for a little while while you're burping him or her UM. 1035 01:01:22,800 --> 01:01:25,280 Speaker 1: There's a lot of stuff you can do, including apparently 1036 01:01:26,200 --> 01:01:32,080 Speaker 1: unwavering support with whatever choice the mom makes as far 1037 01:01:32,120 --> 01:01:34,520 Speaker 1: as or you and the mom, I should say make 1038 01:01:34,960 --> 01:01:38,200 Speaker 1: um as far as feeding the baby goes, especially apparently 1039 01:01:38,520 --> 01:01:43,360 Speaker 1: when it comes to breastfeeding, because again, um, I guess 1040 01:01:43,480 --> 01:01:47,360 Speaker 1: studies have shown that the dad's support, encouragement, and involvement 1041 01:01:47,800 --> 01:01:52,440 Speaker 1: in the choice to breastfeed UM has a huge impact 1042 01:01:52,520 --> 01:01:56,680 Speaker 1: on how long breastfeeding continues. To imagine, but I I 1043 01:01:56,680 --> 01:01:58,720 Speaker 1: would guess the same thing goes for formula. To Like, 1044 01:01:58,760 --> 01:02:00,640 Speaker 1: if you're a mom who decided it that you just 1045 01:02:00,640 --> 01:02:02,960 Speaker 1: want to feed your baby formula, you're gonna catch a 1046 01:02:02,960 --> 01:02:06,240 Speaker 1: lot of statics. So if you're the dad, you should 1047 01:02:06,240 --> 01:02:08,400 Speaker 1: be able to run interference for her as well to 1048 01:02:08,840 --> 01:02:13,760 Speaker 1: um with friends, family, all that chance. Yeah, go fight somebody. Yeah, 1049 01:02:13,920 --> 01:02:16,920 Speaker 1: it's funny. All this stuff seems just intuitive to me 1050 01:02:17,040 --> 01:02:20,320 Speaker 1: and guys like you who you know, it's not like 1051 01:02:20,440 --> 01:02:22,919 Speaker 1: husband wife chores. It's like we just all support each other. 1052 01:02:23,400 --> 01:02:25,840 Speaker 1: But I have like friends that you know, like, oh 1053 01:02:25,880 --> 01:02:28,440 Speaker 1: I didn't wake up you know when my wife would did? 1054 01:02:28,520 --> 01:02:31,400 Speaker 1: What could I do? And I'm like, what year is it? 1055 01:02:31,680 --> 01:02:35,640 Speaker 1: I don't have boobs, like, dude, play play a part, 1056 01:02:35,720 --> 01:02:38,240 Speaker 1: Get up, get out of bed, right, I mean maybe 1057 01:02:38,240 --> 01:02:40,080 Speaker 1: not every time, like maybe you can work out the 1058 01:02:40,120 --> 01:02:42,120 Speaker 1: schedule and stuff, or maybe your wife is like, no, 1059 01:02:42,240 --> 01:02:44,920 Speaker 1: you totally sleep through the night tonight, but you know, 1060 01:02:45,240 --> 01:02:49,880 Speaker 1: offer sure, And you know, I bet your wife might say, yeah, 1061 01:02:49,920 --> 01:02:53,000 Speaker 1: that'd be great. Go get the baby, bring it to me. Yeah. 1062 01:02:53,120 --> 01:02:56,240 Speaker 1: I thought you'd never ask take her back burper. Yeah. 1063 01:02:56,320 --> 01:02:58,360 Speaker 1: This this kind of stuff reminds me of that that 1064 01:02:58,440 --> 01:03:01,160 Speaker 1: parenting class that margin Homer Simpson had to go to 1065 01:03:01,200 --> 01:03:05,200 Speaker 1: you once, and the instructors like, remember you place your 1066 01:03:05,240 --> 01:03:08,240 Speaker 1: milk in the refrigerator or barring that in a cool 1067 01:03:08,320 --> 01:03:13,320 Speaker 1: wet sack, you know, and Homer was just writing it 1068 01:03:13,360 --> 01:03:18,200 Speaker 1: all down. Get involved, guys, get your head out of 1069 01:03:18,200 --> 01:03:19,960 Speaker 1: your key stir. This is what I say. What else 1070 01:03:20,000 --> 01:03:24,840 Speaker 1: you got? I got nothing else? Oh? This article from 1071 01:03:24,840 --> 01:03:28,000 Speaker 1: House to Work says don't feed your baby junker, junk 1072 01:03:28,040 --> 01:03:30,919 Speaker 1: food or alcohol. Dad's yeah we forgot about that part. 1073 01:03:31,520 --> 01:03:34,560 Speaker 1: I'm sure I know that that was huge in the seventies, 1074 01:03:34,600 --> 01:03:37,960 Speaker 1: like here's have a little beer, baby, dip that pacifier 1075 01:03:37,960 --> 01:03:42,000 Speaker 1: and whiskey. Yeah you know they used to Yeah, they 1076 01:03:42,080 --> 01:03:45,120 Speaker 1: used to do stuff like that. There was like this, Um, 1077 01:03:45,160 --> 01:03:49,080 Speaker 1: what's the I guess it was colic? Is that that's 1078 01:03:49,120 --> 01:03:51,760 Speaker 1: the one where the baby's just crying NonStop? Right? Yeah? 1079 01:03:52,200 --> 01:03:54,760 Speaker 1: Colic is uh supposed to be I'm not supposed to be. 1080 01:03:54,800 --> 01:03:58,720 Speaker 1: It's terrible. There was a colic remedy um that it 1081 01:03:58,800 --> 01:04:02,360 Speaker 1: was basically consistent of like these needles and like you 1082 01:04:02,480 --> 01:04:05,440 Speaker 1: just kind of scraped the baby's skin with it, and 1083 01:04:05,720 --> 01:04:09,000 Speaker 1: the active ingredient was morphine that trickled down the needles 1084 01:04:09,040 --> 01:04:11,600 Speaker 1: and entered the baby's blood stream and that's what cured 1085 01:04:11,640 --> 01:04:15,439 Speaker 1: the colic. Wow. Yeah, they used to do all sorts 1086 01:04:15,440 --> 01:04:19,680 Speaker 1: of crazy stuff up to again about the seventies. Actually, 1087 01:04:19,720 --> 01:04:21,520 Speaker 1: I do have one more thing. I would just offer 1088 01:04:22,280 --> 01:04:24,280 Speaker 1: a general advice to hang in there if you're a 1089 01:04:24,280 --> 01:04:29,040 Speaker 1: new parent. Um, Emily and I got super super lucky 1090 01:04:29,280 --> 01:04:35,000 Speaker 1: with great sleep habits and great eating habits and just 1091 01:04:35,080 --> 01:04:39,400 Speaker 1: all this intuitive stuff that we had nothing to do with. Um, 1092 01:04:39,480 --> 01:04:42,400 Speaker 1: you can try your best to do everything you can, 1093 01:04:42,640 --> 01:04:46,200 Speaker 1: and you may feel helpless because that little, that little 1094 01:04:46,840 --> 01:04:52,040 Speaker 1: uh model of sunshine is ruling your household and you 1095 01:04:52,040 --> 01:04:54,040 Speaker 1: you might be trying your darnists for sleep or for 1096 01:04:54,160 --> 01:04:57,520 Speaker 1: eating and this and that and nothing is working. And um, 1097 01:04:57,920 --> 01:05:00,640 Speaker 1: you know it's not your fault like hanging there, because 1098 01:05:00,760 --> 01:05:03,000 Speaker 1: it will change. And that goes for good stuff. Just 1099 01:05:03,040 --> 01:05:05,640 Speaker 1: when you think everything's going great, something will change and 1100 01:05:05,680 --> 01:05:08,960 Speaker 1: then you'll take two steps back, just you know, hanging there. 1101 01:05:09,360 --> 01:05:13,040 Speaker 1: It'll all work itself out. So the government should give 1102 01:05:13,080 --> 01:05:19,160 Speaker 1: every new parent a good formula, a bottle warmer, and 1103 01:05:19,160 --> 01:05:22,400 Speaker 1: one of those hanging yeah, and one of those hanging 1104 01:05:22,440 --> 01:05:27,240 Speaker 1: their kiddie posters inspirational posts. If you want to know 1105 01:05:27,280 --> 01:05:31,040 Speaker 1: more about breastfeeding well, brothers and sisters, there is plenty 1106 01:05:31,120 --> 01:05:34,560 Speaker 1: more to it. Um. You can just start researching online, 1107 01:05:35,000 --> 01:05:39,240 Speaker 1: talk to a doctor you trust, electation consultant, uh, friend 1108 01:05:39,280 --> 01:05:42,600 Speaker 1: who's breastfed, a friend who's used formula. Put it all together. 1109 01:05:43,000 --> 01:05:46,160 Speaker 1: Form your own opinion. Uh. And in the meantime, since 1110 01:05:46,200 --> 01:05:48,880 Speaker 1: I said form your own opinion, it's time for a listener. 1111 01:05:48,920 --> 01:05:53,800 Speaker 1: May all. I'm gonna call this a a suggestion. We 1112 01:05:53,800 --> 01:05:56,600 Speaker 1: don't usually read suggestions, but this I've never heard of this, dude, 1113 01:05:57,080 --> 01:06:01,600 Speaker 1: so I'm reading it. Um. John Evans, a young man 1114 01:06:01,680 --> 01:06:04,640 Speaker 1: from North Wales the very late eighteenth century, agreed to 1115 01:06:04,680 --> 01:06:12,520 Speaker 1: explore the American interior with his friend, uh. Yolo morgen Wig. 1116 01:06:12,920 --> 01:06:16,320 Speaker 1: I think they specifically said it's not yolo. I think 1117 01:06:16,360 --> 01:06:20,320 Speaker 1: you're right. It's like they said that. Oh was like, 1118 01:06:21,280 --> 01:06:23,480 Speaker 1: you're right, people say yolo, but Welsh people don't care 1119 01:06:23,520 --> 01:06:26,200 Speaker 1: for that. Sorry about that. So they didn't say how 1120 01:06:26,240 --> 01:06:29,000 Speaker 1: to pronounce it though, they like, just figure it out yourself, chumps. 1121 01:06:29,280 --> 01:06:30,760 Speaker 1: That says you say that, Oh like the first one 1122 01:06:30,800 --> 01:06:38,720 Speaker 1: octopus and the h l or I as a yeah, 1123 01:06:39,120 --> 01:06:51,560 Speaker 1: so iyoway, I'll I'll try and be brief. He tried 1124 01:06:51,600 --> 01:06:55,200 Speaker 1: to discover a Welsh speaking tribe in Middle America linked 1125 01:06:55,240 --> 01:06:59,040 Speaker 1: to the Mandan tribes. We're talking like Patagoni here, not Ohio. 1126 01:07:00,040 --> 01:07:02,680 Speaker 1: He went to London, sale to Boston. Uh, well, maybe 1127 01:07:02,720 --> 01:07:06,200 Speaker 1: it's talking about Ohio. Uh. Then just walked and walked 1128 01:07:06,320 --> 01:07:09,080 Speaker 1: the land. Worked for the Spanish mapping out the land, 1129 01:07:09,080 --> 01:07:11,920 Speaker 1: which quickly become his auxiliary task, one that he was 1130 01:07:12,040 --> 01:07:15,160 Speaker 1: very good at. Lewis and Clark actually uses maps for 1131 01:07:15,200 --> 01:07:19,200 Speaker 1: the majority of their own famous expedition. Uh. Yeah. He 1132 01:07:19,320 --> 01:07:23,040 Speaker 1: was sort of a diplomat, securing passage up the Mississippi 1133 01:07:23,080 --> 01:07:25,439 Speaker 1: from the native tribes who then controlled it. Then headed 1134 01:07:25,440 --> 01:07:30,440 Speaker 1: to New Orleans before realizing no such tribes existed. Um. 1135 01:07:30,520 --> 01:07:34,080 Speaker 1: Apparently he's like, well it was, it was worth a try. 1136 01:07:34,440 --> 01:07:39,080 Speaker 1: Apparently the guy from Super Furry Animals Um Griff rise 1137 01:07:39,200 --> 01:07:44,400 Speaker 1: Rees Griff Reese. By the way, did you ever like them? 1138 01:07:44,560 --> 01:07:47,120 Speaker 1: Did you? Oh? Yeah, yeah, I was into them for 1139 01:07:47,160 --> 01:07:51,600 Speaker 1: a while. Like they opened um for Granddaddy one time, 1140 01:07:52,160 --> 01:07:54,080 Speaker 1: and you won't find a bigger Granddaddy fan than me. 1141 01:07:54,640 --> 01:07:58,240 Speaker 1: But they like it was one of the few times 1142 01:07:58,280 --> 01:08:01,120 Speaker 1: where the opening act blew the mains act off the 1143 01:08:01,120 --> 01:08:03,880 Speaker 1: stage from Oh yeah that that dude is a genius 1144 01:08:04,000 --> 01:08:08,960 Speaker 1: musically intellectually he's awesome. Yeah, I agree, and I like 1145 01:08:09,120 --> 01:08:12,040 Speaker 1: them um as a band, but like I was not 1146 01:08:12,120 --> 01:08:15,160 Speaker 1: expecting that out of the live show. Yeah, like it 1147 01:08:15,160 --> 01:08:19,840 Speaker 1: blew my mind. Are they still around? I don't know. 1148 01:08:21,160 --> 01:08:23,240 Speaker 1: I don't think so. I know they had an album 1149 01:08:23,320 --> 01:08:25,720 Speaker 1: like in the last several years, last few years. I 1150 01:08:25,760 --> 01:08:29,120 Speaker 1: need to get back into that anyway, and not to 1151 01:08:29,200 --> 01:08:32,040 Speaker 1: not Grand Daddy. Of course they were still great. Uh. 1152 01:08:32,080 --> 01:08:35,519 Speaker 1: He from Super Furry Animals made a book, a film, 1153 01:08:35,920 --> 01:08:39,560 Speaker 1: an app and an album about the story and retraced 1154 01:08:39,600 --> 01:08:42,800 Speaker 1: his journey in person. What I believe he is actually 1155 01:08:42,840 --> 01:08:46,160 Speaker 1: distantly related. Oh that's cool. We gotta check that out. Yeah, 1156 01:08:46,200 --> 01:08:48,840 Speaker 1: for sure. So he said this will make a great podcast. Dudes, 1157 01:08:49,479 --> 01:08:51,080 Speaker 1: do yourselves a favorite a least and look up the 1158 01:08:51,120 --> 01:08:54,840 Speaker 1: book American Interior and the same title as the album 1159 01:08:54,880 --> 01:08:57,400 Speaker 1: and give it a read. So that is from David 1160 01:08:57,400 --> 01:09:00,160 Speaker 1: Evans and I'm totally going to look that up. It's 1161 01:09:00,160 --> 01:09:04,040 Speaker 1: a call again American Interior. And then the guy's name 1162 01:09:04,120 --> 01:09:09,679 Speaker 1: was John Evans, nice the explorer. Well, thanks a lot 1163 01:09:09,800 --> 01:09:13,519 Speaker 1: who wrote them? Who wrote in now David Evans and 1164 01:09:13,640 --> 01:09:17,320 Speaker 1: alive lots of Evans going on. Thanks a lot, David. 1165 01:09:17,320 --> 01:09:19,920 Speaker 1: We appreciate that forgiving us that heads up. Will definitely 1166 01:09:20,000 --> 01:09:22,120 Speaker 1: check it out. If you want to get in touch 1167 01:09:22,160 --> 01:09:25,120 Speaker 1: with us like David did, you can tweet to us 1168 01:09:25,120 --> 01:09:27,880 Speaker 1: at s Y s K podcast or Josh um Clark. 1169 01:09:28,439 --> 01:09:30,599 Speaker 1: You can hang out with Chuck on Facebook at Chuck 1170 01:09:31,040 --> 01:09:35,240 Speaker 1: Charles W. Chuck Bryant at Facebook dot com. Uh, you 1171 01:09:35,320 --> 01:09:37,240 Speaker 1: can hang out with us at Facebook dot com, slash 1172 01:09:37,280 --> 01:09:39,280 Speaker 1: stuff you Should Know too. 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