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Speaker 1: My ex cheated and ghosted me.

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Speaker 2: I moved on.

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Speaker 1: Now she's angry. What do I do?

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Speaker 2: Keep ghosting? Keep ghosting?

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Speaker 1: First of context, the exus twenty five female.

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Speaker 3: I am male twenty five and my girlfriend is female

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Speaker 3: twenty four. So my now ex girlfriend and I met

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Speaker 3: and started dating in early twenty twenty two.

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Speaker 1: I always felt on my guard with her.

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Speaker 3: Because she was a ten out of ten and I

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Speaker 3: couldn't figure out why she decided to date me. Don't

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Speaker 3: doubt yourself, King, You're an eleven offense.

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Speaker 2: Sam hell On.

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Speaker 1: Let alone be in a relationship with me for a year.

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Speaker 3: We went long distance in twenty twenty three because she

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Speaker 3: got a great opportunity to go to Europe to work

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Speaker 3: on a one year contract. By the way, this comes

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Speaker 3: from username on our shosho okay story times over.

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Speaker 2: So it was.

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Speaker 3: Huge money and an opportunity for her to travel, but

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Speaker 3: I couldn't afford to go. We video chatted regularly, talks

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Speaker 3: throughout the day, texting, and things seemed manageable for a

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Speaker 3: few months.

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Speaker 1: In put an icy in the comments if you.

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Speaker 2: See me see you, I see you.

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Speaker 3: I started feeling anxious because she mentioned a guy that

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Speaker 3: she worked with who was always hitting on her, But

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Speaker 3: she assured me nothing would happen and that she really

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Speaker 3: missed me.

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Speaker 2: H yeah, she.

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Speaker 1: Had something helping her out with their feelings of missing him.

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Speaker 2: Well, yeah, it's not cheating if you think about him

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Speaker 2: while you're cheating.

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Speaker 1: Exactly like, nothing was missing from her holes. There was

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Speaker 1: something in there.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Sometimes you know, I'm warming.

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Speaker 1: It up for you, babe, warming it up, keep it,

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Speaker 1: keeping it warm. Okay, just stay on the bench in action.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, one week she didn't answer and left me on

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Speaker 3: red for two weeks.

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Speaker 2: My god, two weeks. That's crazy. That is wild.

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Speaker 1: That is bananas.

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Speaker 2: I read a long distance thing.

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Speaker 1: Dude, dude, dude.

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Speaker 3: I finally asked if she was okay and if something

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Speaker 3: had happened. She finally answered and said that she had

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Speaker 3: made a mistake and didn't know how to tell me.

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Speaker 2: Oh god, yeah, we got didn't know how to tell

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Speaker 2: for two weeks. Also, jud just fine, we'll read your

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Speaker 2: donah in a second, we got you.

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Speaker 1: She wound up going out with that coworker and.

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Speaker 2: Slept with him.

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Speaker 1: There it is hooray.

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Speaker 2: Hi girl, your summer.

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Speaker 3: Yeah no, she told me this was completely crappy and

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Speaker 3: described to few things about it that.

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Speaker 1: Made it so weird.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, honestly, it was too big.

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Speaker 3: Yours is perfect, Yeah, dude, classic, classic things I wish

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Speaker 3: I didn't know. I told her I was really hurt

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Speaker 3: because she promised nothing would happen and we were still

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Speaker 3: in a relationship.

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Speaker 1: She said she understood. She hurt me and it was

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Speaker 1: hard for me, but she chose to be honest.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's hard for both of us. I had to

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Speaker 2: tell you, you know, he.

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Speaker 1: Was really hard and it hurt you really hard. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: a lot of things were hard.

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Speaker 2: I've been taking a lot of hard things recently, a

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Speaker 2: lot of hard things. Okay, so give me a give

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Speaker 2: me my break. Sometimes a woman can take too many

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Speaker 2: hard things, you know. There's such a thing and the thing,

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Speaker 2: honestly that one of the hard things was like it

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Speaker 2: was it was too long again, too long, You're the

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Speaker 2: length of time for you. It's perfect, it's perfect, it's perfect.

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Speaker 2: I don't need any more than three minutes or in.

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Speaker 3: This very specific now. She said she needed some space

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Speaker 3: to sort out everything. I love how she needs space,

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Speaker 3: But where's this, I don't know. She needs space, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: she needs space to think everything, to really explore. Yeah, exactly,

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Speaker 3: to come back, you know, and it felt like she

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Speaker 3: wanted me to feel.

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Speaker 1: Bad for her.

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Speaker 3: Uh yos, that's what she did. What he did a

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Speaker 3: month by bye? I reached out once and she left

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Speaker 3: me on red. This relationship is ever. I'm sorry, I'm sorry,

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Speaker 3: we should be.

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Speaker 2: Oh this really hip?

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Speaker 1: Come on?

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Speaker 2: Give up?

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Speaker 1: One month became two and then three.

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Speaker 2: I gave up.

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Speaker 3: I went to therapy after a few weeks because I

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Speaker 3: was so devastated. I had gone to a therapist after

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Speaker 3: I got out of college at eighteen, so it's been helpful.

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Speaker 3: But I just wrote off the relationship and decided it

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Speaker 3: was time to move on. I felt angry at first,

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Speaker 3: thought about sleeping with one of my coworkers or friends,

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Speaker 3: but I never did get don't let what what is it?

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Speaker 3: Impulsive thoughts, intrusive thoughts? Get it out in a relationship anymore?

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Speaker 1: I mean during the time.

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Speaker 3: So where we are now is a three month point

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Speaker 3: of basically leaving him on red when he.

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Speaker 2: A few weeks in, don't stoop to her level. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I have a clean break and then and then go wild.

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Speaker 2: Yeah a few weeks and he was contemplating it. But

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Speaker 2: then go wild or you know, actually take time to

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Speaker 2: heal and then go wild.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: But after four months, I asked out the girl who

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Speaker 3: had been my stylist for almost a year. She was

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Speaker 3: super sweet and had always subtly flirted with me.

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Speaker 2: Stylist, man has a stylist, du Bros. Bros.

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Speaker 3: Getting it You you lost a good one, Okay, lady.

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Speaker 2: We get a stylist. We should probably have.

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Speaker 3: Like, I actually have a stylist in mind that I've

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Speaker 3: been thinking about reaching out to.

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Speaker 2: Actually yeah for me, Yeah you can't have them, yeah,

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Speaker 2: yeah for me, we can.

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Speaker 1: We can share him. You know. They actually ran out

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Speaker 1: of business last week, fresh out, fresh out of style advice.

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Speaker 1: But hey, I'm freaking down.

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Speaker 3: We went out and it was just a freath of

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Speaker 3: fresh air. She was very beautiful and kind, and we

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Speaker 3: talked so easily and had a great time with each other.

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Speaker 3: We went on five or so dates before we said

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Speaker 3: we were a thing. I told her about what happened

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Speaker 3: with my ex, and I considered it over and in

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Speaker 3: the past, but I had some trust issues and she

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Speaker 3: understood her ex had cheated on her too a few

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Speaker 3: years prior. We have so much in common. Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: It's been about six months since my ex cheated on me. Guys,

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Speaker 1: put another ic you in the comments.

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Speaker 2: She's gonna come back.

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Speaker 3: She's gonna come she's gonna rear her ugly head. She's

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Speaker 3: gonna come back after getting come on her back.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she's gonna be like, I'm here for you again.

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Speaker 1: Hey, go back, I'm here. You can come on my

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Speaker 1: back now if you want.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, my new girlfriend met my parents and

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Speaker 3: I met her mom. It's getting serious. Things have gone

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Speaker 3: very well and I can't explain. Everything's just been easy,

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Speaker 3: less anxious and fun. Wow, a relationship that's all that?

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Speaker 1: Who to funk?

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Speaker 3: It impossible? Where's where's the tears and the anxiety and

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Speaker 3: the strife.

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Speaker 2: Honestly, I feel like a relationship isn't a rollers coaster

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Speaker 2: that is just making you question your self worth? Is

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Speaker 2: it really worth having?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, there's like zero growth happening.

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Speaker 2: Here's zero growth?

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Speaker 1: Are we doing?

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Speaker 2: Oh so we Are you gonna get the dark energy

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Speaker 2: to build you know, your next company or like build

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Speaker 2: muscles in the gym?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, bad relationships build gains. We need a red pill supervillain.

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Speaker 1: Go.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm trying to. I'm trying to freaking hit my

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Speaker 2: pr and bench.

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Speaker 1: Right in a cold in an ice bath.

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Speaker 2: Which, dude, I've been, I've been, I've been mentioned recently.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I mean now right now?

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Speaker 1: Is not?

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Speaker 2: I just I'm like at one fifty. But it's gonna be.

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Speaker 2: It's gonna be so good. It's gonna be. It's gonna

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Speaker 2: be two ten. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 2: My highest was two fifteen in high school.

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Speaker 1: Pretty freaking good, dude.

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Speaker 2: But it's gonna be back. It's gonna be back. It's

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Speaker 2: gonna be a one to eighty.

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Speaker 3: Like next week, get ready for get your thirst ready

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Speaker 3: chat because it's about to be Pech season.

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Speaker 1: Oh god.

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Speaker 3: So we had a family party and my parents placed

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Speaker 3: this last weekend. I decided to post some photos to

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Speaker 3: up the next morning to a flood of angry texts

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Speaker 3: from our ex for quote unquote abandoning our relationship.

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Speaker 1: You know the one where you just like, don't talk

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Speaker 1: for six months.

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Speaker 3: You like, see, don't talk for six months? Yeah, look

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Speaker 3: I cheat on you, I leave you on read for

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Speaker 3: six months.

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Speaker 1: This is the relationship.

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Speaker 2: This is the relationship, all right. So my someone asked

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Speaker 2: about my Golden rule about how long you can leave

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Speaker 2: someone on red in a relationship with notice. But my

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Speaker 2: rule was a day for every year of the relationship.

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Speaker 2: This is way over that.

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Speaker 1: Yes, they didn't have a year, they didn't have a

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Speaker 3: Yeah, dude, come on, Opie had like an afternoon or

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Speaker 3: Opie's ex had like an afternoon. Yeah, save for six

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Speaker 3: months and come on, oh man, so and not being

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Speaker 3: man enough to tell her that it was over and

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Speaker 3: I had moved on, I blocked your number, and then

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Speaker 3: she continued on Instagram and even emailed not the inbox.

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Speaker 1: Finally I responded saying that she didn't deserve to be mad.

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Speaker 3: She cheated and turned her back on everything she in

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Speaker 3: the relationship was to me, and she needed to live

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Speaker 3: with what she did.

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Speaker 2: And you need to live with the.

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Speaker 3: Fact that you haven't tapped our profile and joined the

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Speaker 3: live yet. Hey, it's a week day at three pm PST,

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Speaker 3: ding dog.

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Speaker 1: You should be here with us.

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Speaker 2: Come on, point sir.

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Speaker 3: But before we finished the story, so this insane X

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Speaker 3: has come back and is shaming OP. Do you agree

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Speaker 3: with the blocking?

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Speaker 2: I think you text what I think? I think exactly

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Speaker 2: what OP?

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Speaker 1: Did?

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Speaker 2: Do you text a little bit reblock.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like honestly, just just to twist the knife of like, listen,

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Speaker 3: you think after you cheated and you didn't you would

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Speaker 3: read my messages.

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Speaker 2: Left me on right, Yeah, you went no contact with me? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: like like who are you?

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Speaker 1: And that's who? That's who?

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Speaker 2: Shout out to the Kazoo kid reference. But then also

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Speaker 2: I feel like, what maybe Op should have done a

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Speaker 2: little bit differently talk to me if he didn't do this.

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Speaker 2: Maybe he did, but when she wasn't responding, send a

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Speaker 3: Yeah, just to make this ever, so she can't freaking

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Speaker 2: I think it's not like it's not that she deserves it.

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Speaker 3: I need to answer for at this point. Do you

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Speaker 3: think that does op He need to answer anymore? No?

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Speaker 1: Anymore? No, no, no, I think we got it.

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Speaker 2: I think you cut it.

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Speaker 2: I think I would have done exactly what op He did.

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Speaker 1: Time for okop relash.

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Speaker 2: Am I the a hole for a VIC. I think

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Speaker 2: If I'm a landlord. You think I'm trying to have

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Speaker 4: Way and they're raising the rent for like more times.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, oh yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm bubbling that rent. Yes,

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Speaker 2: I know the title sounds awful, but please do hear

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Speaker 2: me out before making judgment. I will accept what judgment

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Speaker 2: is given. I thirty male purchase a three bedroom condo

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Speaker 2: in Toronto, Canada.

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Speaker 1: Oh, Canada.

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Speaker 2: Canada, Canada, Oh, Canada, Canada. Secret Canadians.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, taught you the Canadian.

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Speaker 2: What's the Canadian thing?

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Speaker 1: Hey?

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Speaker 2: And I was in my second year of medical residency.

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Speaker 2: Soon after the purchase, I rented one of the rooms

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Speaker 2: She has been a great roommate from the beginning. We

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Speaker 1: That's kind of what you want out of a roommate.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, good enough, good enough situation. Christian, You're good enough.

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Speaker 2: I love you. The entire roommate tenant relationship has gone

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Speaker 2: broke the news to me that she's diseased. Diseased with

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Speaker 2: don't pick up after themselves for nothing. You live under

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Speaker 2: I told her essentially what I've written here, she better

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Speaker 2: that baby in her are not coming by condo. I'm

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Speaker 2: not rushing her out or anything. I have given her

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Speaker 2: too close to the birth. She was honestly quite taken

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Speaker 2: aback and thought I was being cruel. All right, well,

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Speaker 2: I guess like, do you think do you think Op's

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Speaker 4: It's definitely a little rough since she's about to be

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Speaker 4: that thing happened in.

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Speaker 2: My yeah, especially you know, like it's a condo. It's

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Speaker 1: I would I would try to assure her, say.

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Speaker 4: Hey, I'm gonna help you find me.

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Speaker 2: P Yeah, it is a but it is. It is rough.

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Speaker 2: It's a pretty sticky situation.

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Speaker 4: It's like one of those like when you're on the

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Speaker 2: Yeah, not only do I not want you on by scene,

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Speaker 2: how about you sit on the floor, your fat mama.

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Speaker 2: Her primary concern is that rent has gone up substantially

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Speaker 2: but I did waive her rent for that period. All

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Speaker 4: He's not a charity. Am I the A hole like this,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I even gave her a break on the rent,

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Speaker 2: But what's the verdict? Not not the A hole, not

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Speaker 2: A whole. But there is an update that makes OP

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Speaker 2: and for expecting that I would be okay for her

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Speaker 1: That's a really chill, right.

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Speaker 2: So OPI for sure not the A hole. But yeah, hey,

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Speaker 2: let me know in the comments what you think you

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Speaker 2: would do if you were in this situation? Would you

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Speaker 2: to live with a baby? Would you be okay with that?

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Speaker 2: Put your comments down below. You've just been graced by

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Speaker 2: my girlfriend, the beautiful Ariana, and I will see you

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Speaker 2: very soon. Make me wear a suit instead of my

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Speaker 2: safety guar? How fun destroy your coday? Okayop? This is Okayop.

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Speaker 2: I'm Samuel Daughter and I'm John Fry. We tell the

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Speaker 2: funniest stories on the Internet. And John, have you ever

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Speaker 2: I've had two instances.

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Speaker 3: Well, the first one I was working at Mister Kabab

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Speaker 3: and Falaffel Amazing in Capitola, California, and I at the time,

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Speaker 3: you know, I just moved from Florida young Buck, seventeen

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Speaker 3: I was warring my attire from the summer before, which

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Speaker 3: was you know Tiva sandals.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, the ones that like strap around your Yeah,

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Speaker 3: It's like it's like it's a sandal essentially with like

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Speaker 3: waiter and he's like, John, you cannot serve people with

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Speaker 2: It's just it's just not what we do.

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Speaker 3: And at the time I was like, Man, let me

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Speaker 3: me express myself. And now I'm like, I don't want

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Speaker 3: to stare at someone's toes on the cancer, especially my toes.

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Speaker 2: Like if someone else has my toes, I don't need

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Speaker 2: to see that. I don't know, John, I think you

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Speaker 2: might get extra tips from those those customers at the

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Speaker 3: I one time had some sixty sixty year old grannies

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Speaker 2: Hey, they like that. They they try and John, I'll

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Speaker 2: get a night at the hotel above the falafel place.

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Speaker 3: And let me tell you, at that point in time,

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Speaker 3: I was for sale. If you have money for my

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Speaker 3: seventeen year old broke ass here.

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Speaker 2: I let's just say the falafel wasn't the only meat

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Speaker 2: they're getting. Oh, John's servering up some fresh beef. Although

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Speaker 2: falafel does not have any meat. I still Sharma Sharma

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Speaker 2: has some meat. They don't have any meat, and it's well,

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Speaker 2: I know, the falaffels Garbanzo beans. Oh shit, it's blended

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Speaker 2: garbanzo beans. Although it does it does taste very hearty.

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Speaker 2: I will give any meat.

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Speaker 3: There's no I don't even I don't know if there's

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Speaker 3: any common iteration of a falaffel with it.

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Speaker 2: It's a meat like served with the falaffel, you could

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Speaker 2: get like a sharma. That's like a common thing. So

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Speaker 2: it's the joke still stands.

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Speaker 3: Okay, the joke still I didn't want to ruin it

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Speaker 3: in the moment, but I did want to educate you.

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Speaker 2: I appreciate the education. Falafel no meat anyway, speaking of toes,

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Speaker 2: exposed and exposed toes make me wear a suit instead

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Speaker 2: of my safety gear? How fun?

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Speaker 3: Destroying this will be an interesting see how we go

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Speaker 3: from pointing to point B.

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Speaker 2: There it's a journey that goes through time space the

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Speaker 2: Twilight Zone. The backstory. Father in law works for a

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Speaker 2: heavy equip mint manufacturer, highway making equipment machines for gold

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Speaker 2: and gem mining. The machines aren't really relevant to the story,

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Speaker 2: only that they're big and scary enough that everyone is

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Speaker 2: under very strict supervision about safety, well almost everyone.

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Speaker 3: The description of what they work on just makes me

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Speaker 3: think of the Ford f one fifty.

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Speaker 2: It can take any rocks that you need. Twelve tons

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Speaker 2: of rocks. The Ford f one fifties got it, crush

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Speaker 2: them like they were meant to be. This company as

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Speaker 2: one it guy, he does everything from web admin to

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Speaker 2: the ID badges to the printer isn't working, so obviously

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Speaker 2: he needs an office with a computer only. Problem is,

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Speaker 2: most of his job is keeping the ancient assembly line

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Speaker 2: machines on life support, so he's constantly on the factory

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Speaker 2: floor fixing error code TI eighty six on the machine

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Speaker 2: CEE one thirty seven. You know a bunch of gobblinggook.

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Speaker 2: That means big machines, one guy fixing them, getting his

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Speaker 2: hands real dirty. Yeah, just like the Ford F one

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Speaker 2: fifty does broom broom, broom wetherfor the problem. One day,

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Speaker 2: one of the vps of butt Kissing deigns to leave

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Speaker 2: the plush veneer of the sea level suites to enter

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Speaker 2: the Plebeian offices and takes great offense to the it

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Speaker 2: guy wearing jeans, boots and one of those orange high

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Speaker 2: viz reflective vests in this strictly suit and tie office

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Speaker 2: protests about it guys job duties fall on deaf ears,

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Speaker 2: and since this IT department of one single solitary person

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Speaker 2: doesn't have an official CEA level officer, the VP of

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Speaker 2: butt Kissen decides to write a new dress code for

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Speaker 2: the IT department suit and tie at all times, no exceptions.

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Speaker 4: No.

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Speaker 2: IT Guy shows up the next day in a suit

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Speaker 2: and tie as asks, tries to fix an error on

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Speaker 2: the factory floor and rightfully gets turned away at the

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Speaker 2: door for lack of safety gear's not wearing a high

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Speaker 2: vis vest. Oh boy. He spends a few days in

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Speaker 2: his office goofing off while the errors on the factory

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Speaker 2: floor grow and grow and grow the fallout. Finally, around

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Speaker 2: three am one night, a big production line goes down.

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Speaker 2: This is a huge contract for the company. The company

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Speaker 2: might go under if this client goes elsewhere. As such,

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Speaker 2: emergency procedures state all sea level execs and even the

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Speaker 2: owner must be notified immediately if this line stops at

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Speaker 2: any time for any reason. So the upper echelon of

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Speaker 2: the company, including the VP butt Kisser, assembles in the

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Speaker 2: boardroom to prepare for the firing spree peopo, someone's going

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Speaker 2: to go down.

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Speaker 1: Oh.

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Speaker 2: Around five am, IT Guy is ordered into the boardroom,

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Speaker 2: where they really lay into him before they fire him,

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Speaker 2: Threats of lacklisting him in the industry, threats of lawsuits

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Speaker 2: for damages, et cetera. Of course there's the condescending. Now,

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Speaker 2: what do you off for yourself? The mic drop. He

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Speaker 2: unfolds a few pieces of paper from his pocket and

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Speaker 2: puts them on the table in front of the owner.

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Speaker 2: This is why I have to wear a suit and tie,

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Speaker 2: no matter what. This was my objection, because I have

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Speaker 2: to do my job properly. This is the safety officer

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Speaker 2: refusing me entry for lack of safety gear. And this

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Speaker 2: is the record that the VP butt kisser got my

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Speaker 2: emails but never responded. This guy has the receipts. He

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Speaker 2: is rough bared prepared. Not a pin drop or a

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Speaker 2: cricket chirp could be heard, just the faint ruffling of

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Speaker 2: papers as the owner read. Finally he spoke, your so

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Speaker 2: called dress code is officially revoked. VP butt Casser is

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Speaker 2: no longer allowed to have any authority over you. Please

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Speaker 2: put on your safety gear and fix the machine. The

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Speaker 2: rest of us will stay here all day until I'm

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Speaker 2: convinced that this problem we'll never happen again. VP butt

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Speaker 2: Cass kept his job. He was very good at doing

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Speaker 2: his namesake, after all, but he was transferred to VP

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Speaker 2: of a division that didn't even exist and a workforce

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Speaker 2: of one only him. Rumor is he kept the job

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Speaker 2: because he was related to the owner somehow. But at

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Speaker 2: least his self righteousness can't ruin actual work being done.

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Speaker 3: Ruh, Just like it's it's so beautifully maliciously compliant because

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Speaker 3: not only was he able to like take take the

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Speaker 3: guy down, but also just do nothing, fiddle around with.

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Speaker 2: His orn basically have a chill, chill, a couple of

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Speaker 2: days relaxing and like that just shows Keep the receipts, man, Oh,

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Speaker 2: keep you receipts. The receipts are very important, they are,

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Speaker 2: but you know what you should always have on you

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