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Speaker 1: My ex abandoned me and dated my nineteen year old friend.

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Speaker 1: He's thirty. Now they're engaged. What should I do? And

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Speaker 1: this is Okyop where we read the craziest true stories

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Speaker 1: on Earth. I'm John Sam and Sophia Wreussell. With this

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Speaker 1: conundrum that way kind of wild wild.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, please let me go. No, you're hurting my throat.

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Speaker 1: Let how go.

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Speaker 3: No, that's what the thirty year old said to the

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Speaker 3: nineteen year old.

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Speaker 1: All right, fine, thank you, but what should op you do?

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Speaker 3: She said? Let her go? That's crazy. That's yeah, nineteen

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Speaker 3: and thirty ADULTO.

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Speaker 4: Huh, she's a consenting ADULTO.

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Speaker 3: That is true, but that feels like a large age job.

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Speaker 2: Nineteen is just it's just so young.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Like you're still thirty, you know context context.

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Speaker 1: Twenty nine and forty different friend, totally nineteen and.

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Speaker 2: Thirty, nineteen thirty, you're still in college. Yeah, and thirty.

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Speaker 3: You're like, yeah, give it ten years, but we're not

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Speaker 3: ten years in. It's weird until ten years later.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And you know you want to know something that's

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Speaker 1: this one from Eternal Octopi. Greetings, just found the show

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Speaker 1: and I totally love it. They totally love you, Eternal Octopi.

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Speaker 3: We want you to be your eternal Octopi.

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Speaker 1: That's right.

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Speaker 3: We'll keep you in a little aquarium exactly. I'll watch

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Speaker 3: you all day.

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Speaker 1: We'll feed you ink or whatever octopus squirt ink they

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Speaker 2: Record a documentary about you or.

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Speaker 3: You and it's my octopus octopus teacher. That man fell

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Speaker 3: in love with that octopus, and so did the octopus.

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Speaker 3: The octopus fell in love. I three octopus.

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Speaker 1: Bail capital gotta love it. But this is a different octopus. Okay,

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Speaker 1: this is Eternal Octopi. And I saw you guys wanted

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Speaker 1: cheating stories. We do, We did, we did, and well,

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Speaker 1: my love life is kind of a crap show. And

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Speaker 1: I have several Reddit worthy ones. Apparently one so worthy

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Speaker 1: that Big Protein producer Riley picked it for the show.

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Speaker 2: Wow, wow, I hope.

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Speaker 3: You're okay, y, yes, yes, Big Protein selected it. Oh man,

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Speaker 3: that means.

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Speaker 1: It's pretty rough, but this one is one that would

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Speaker 1: still leave me fairly Reddit anonymous, so let's get into it.

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Speaker 1: In my female mid twenties, a friend early thirties, male

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Speaker 1: ish decided that he was totally in love with me. Okay,

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Speaker 1: all right, mid twenties, mid regular thirties.

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Speaker 3: Yeah that's a regular, a regular, right, Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Nothing would do, but he just had to go out

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Speaker 1: with me. We lived about four hours apart, but often

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Speaker 1: saw each other because of a club that we were

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Speaker 1: both in. We were both equestrians, horse people riding horses

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Speaker 1: of destiny towards each other.

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Speaker 2: Though they were going like clubbing, no.

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Speaker 3: Question, horse country, club country, that kind of clubbing. That's

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Speaker 3: kind of club. Sophia did horses.

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Speaker 1: That's that's that.

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Speaker 3: She rode horse, She rode horses.

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Speaker 2: Stop was I was in equestrian I like took a

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Speaker 3: The question why are you doing that? To me? I

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Speaker 1: Anyway, he was a cool guy, but it took me

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Speaker 1: a long time and a lot of outside convincing that

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Speaker 1: I should give him a chance. As in two years, if.

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Speaker 2: It takes you two years to convince someone to like

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Speaker 2: date at what winter?

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Speaker 3: At what point is it like infringing on your personal space?

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Speaker 1: Creepy and too much.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, if someone's like, hey, you should, they're like no,

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Speaker 2: I'm like not interested. They're like no, you should date

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Speaker 2: and like for two years, like date them, date them, datam.

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Speaker 4: But what if their parents didn't raise equator?

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Speaker 3: That's true.

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Speaker 2: I hate thought if someone says no, leave it at thought.

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Speaker 3: But like all of the greatest love stories are like Charlette,

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Speaker 3: I want to be with you forever. She's like, no,

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Speaker 3: I'm married to harry em and then like and then

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Speaker 3: they died like Shrek, like lord fark wad.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but that was an arranged marriage. That's totally different.

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Speaker 3: Well, in the notebook throughout I haven't seen the Notebook. Well,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but they were into each other, that's totally different.

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Speaker 3: But she was like I could I can't possibly be.

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Speaker 2: She was too shy, but she still wanted.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Well, anyway, how many times is too many times?

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Speaker 1: Put your answers in the caution ladies out there, let

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's right.

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Speaker 1: This guy courted me for two years until I finally

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Speaker 2: If someone's giving in, that's not a good sign.

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Speaker 1: Turns out he was a pretty great boyfriend. Oh get wreck, Sophia.

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Speaker 2: It doesn't seem like that great.

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Speaker 1: We were both used to long distance relationships, so we

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Speaker 1: well and just seem to click.

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Speaker 3: See Sofia, they clicked.

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Speaker 2: We'll see they click will we'll see if it ends well.

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Speaker 1: Most of our mutuals thought we did extremely well together.

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Speaker 3: See Sofia did extremely well together.

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Speaker 1: And when he came to my place, which is what

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Speaker 3: There's no red flags show. I don't know.

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Speaker 2: This shadow is as big as a horse.

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Speaker 3: It could be foreshadow.

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Speaker 1: Oh god, what does that mean?

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Speaker 3: What it could be?

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Speaker 1: For shadow?

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Speaker 3: Because because it's a shadow so big, it could be foreshadows.

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Speaker 2: I thought you just met there were four horses.

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Speaker 3: No, I mean, but it also could be that because

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Speaker 3: we're going to Apocalyptia, the.

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Speaker 1: Four Horsemen event of this relationship.

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Speaker 3: Oh god, well, it worked on so many levels anyway.

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Speaker 1: Anyways, at the eight month mark in our relationship, I

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Speaker 3: How many times did she encourage him? Two years.

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Speaker 1: My new place would have enough land for both of

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Speaker 1: do the long commutes. He came to talk about it

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Speaker 1: I'm guessing the nineteen female one, was helping a local

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Speaker 1: put in the comments?

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Speaker 2: I see you, but.

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Speaker 3: I see you in the comments if you see where

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Speaker 3: this is going, also throw a red flag at that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah flats in the chat. I was moving out of

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Speaker 1: unlike them. I told them it was fine if they

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Speaker 3: Wait a second, why are you setting the mood for them?

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Speaker 3: Just turn off the lightlight, kick the candles.

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Speaker 1: So she's sleeping. The two of them were next to

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Speaker 1: of a whole different type of story. What kind of

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Speaker 1: story A naughty one. This led to me being half

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Speaker 3: No no.

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Speaker 1: When I heard my boyfriend mention you're wearing a tight bra,

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Speaker 1: his hands were not in my body and being in

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Speaker 3: I sat out.

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Speaker 1: They were both fully clothed, but his hand was in

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Speaker 3: That is the most ballsy thing to do, to try

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Speaker 1: He eventually came out to me and managed to talk

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Speaker 3: Bra was too tight and it was constricting the blood

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Speaker 3: flow and she.

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Speaker 1: Was going to die, and like an idiot, I believed.

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Speaker 4: No okayam he used Sam's exact words.

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Speaker 1: Of what what he just said? No, I am reading

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Speaker 1: the stars. Here's the real question.

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Speaker 3: Through KOP fans will know they know real questions.

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Speaker 1: It's bad, I have a problem. Cut to two weeks

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Speaker 1: before the move. He still hadn't given me an answer,

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Speaker 1: but had told me that he would help me move.

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Speaker 1: Oh so he hasn't said whether he's moving in or

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Speaker 1: not two weeks up to the move, which is pretty

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Speaker 1: you're short notice on movie.

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Speaker 3: That's a red flag.

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Speaker 2: Well we already know this. Kuy's a reply.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean he's I don't know if I want

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Speaker 1: to be with your best friend. I need time, Babe.

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Speaker 3: I actually have a online a question to all our

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Speaker 1: Nice. I like it like a question.

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Speaker 3: Any question is the question? Anyway, how much time do

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Speaker 3: you need before you move to like lock something someone

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Speaker 3: into a place, because like two weeks before seems crazy.

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Speaker 2: Lease you have to put them on the lease.

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Speaker 1: No sound, I'm kind of getting a vibe of op

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Speaker 1: buying this place. If there's I'm totally sitting here.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like if anyone's like, oh, it had

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Speaker 2: enough if you describe anything with enough land that's where

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Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, that's purchase.

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Speaker 1: That's a rich person in person, that's a purchase, but.

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Speaker 3: A cot Like if they're so rich, why don't they

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Speaker 1: Maybe the cause the original place and then they're.

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Speaker 2: Moving into They.

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Speaker 3: Would have been rich before the original unless their money yes,

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Speaker 3: Sam for the horse farm. Yeah, yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Something doesn't matter.

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Speaker 1: The math might not be math. And oh oh oh,

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Speaker 1: and my friend would also help me move nineteen female.

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Speaker 1: The weekend before was a competition that all three of

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Speaker 1: not unusual. I also love how they're riding together to

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Speaker 1: the competition. We've write it down. That's pretty awesome, except

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Speaker 1: this time it was bash ope weekend. Oh I think,

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Speaker 1: meaning we're gonna hate on.

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Speaker 3: H PEE was like, what's that weekend?

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Speaker 1: Anything I had an opinion on was ridiculed or talked

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Speaker 1: down about. Any attempts to help my boyfriend in his performance,

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Speaker 2: This guy is like manipulating everyone.

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Speaker 3: Does that make it better or worse? Worse?

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Speaker 2: One, he tried to manipulate ope into thinking that nothing

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Speaker 3: Oh no, obviously he's terrible. I'm like, but I'm wondering, like,

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Speaker 2: He was manipulating a nineteen year old.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, if it's like, if they stay in the relationship,

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Speaker 2: No, that's like a Aaron Taylor Johnson.

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Speaker 3: Who's that?

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Speaker 2: Aaron the actor? Kick ass?

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Speaker 3: What about him?

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Speaker 2: He is in a relationship. He met his now wife

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Speaker 3: How old is his wife?

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Speaker 1: A lot older?

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Speaker 2: A lot older, and they have a couple. They met

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Speaker 3: But yeah, and how old is his wife? Look it up,

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Speaker 3: seventy is like illegal.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but they weren't technically dating, so he's thirty three

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Speaker 3: He was eighteen, she was forty two.

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Speaker 2: But they I believe, well maybe okay I heard that

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Speaker 3: Maybe, I mean possibly.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's crazy, that's why. And now they're married eighteen four, yeah.

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Speaker 2: Which is insane.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, twelve years later.

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Speaker 3: Wow, I mean at least they're still to get No.

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Speaker 2: No, that's worse. It's worse because he's like, I feel like,

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Speaker 2: when you're with someone like at that age, that's just manipulation.

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Speaker 3: That's not good. Yeah, that's not that's old, dude, that's old.

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Speaker 3: That's weird.

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Speaker 2: It's weird when you're weird. Yeah, with an eighteen year

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Speaker 2: olds are you interested in an eighteen year old? That's

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Speaker 3: I mean. But again, as Riley said, like consenting adults.

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Speaker 1: No, no, no saying adults Riley twenty twenty four.

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Speaker 2: No, I think eighteen is pretty sure.

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Speaker 3: Riley was saying, like, I support Leonardo DiCaprio and his

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Speaker 1: Ye ye, women of that ever come and put a conversation.

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Speaker 1: Riley's like, stop, stops her, No, it's it's.

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Speaker 3: So what so the rule what is half your age

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Speaker 2: I think something like that.

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Speaker 2: I just think under twenty five like there's a big

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Speaker 1: That's just yeah.

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Speaker 2: Twenty three, twenty three is like you did.

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Speaker 3: A forty year old ry.

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Speaker 2: Like yeah, But I think eighteen.

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Speaker 1: Is just like that's okay.

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Speaker 4: I would date a forty year old if she was

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Speaker 1: Dude, that's like one thousand dollars. That's like not even

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Speaker 1: what are you not expensive?

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Speaker 5: Are you?

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Speaker 3: Richy? Rich?

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Speaker 1: Mads Riley's bachelor party, playing basketball.

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Speaker 2: And going to national parks.

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Speaker 1: Going to national parks, it would all be it's a

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's pretty expensive. More cost.

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Speaker 2: To get to the national parks. You need like a

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Speaker 1: Oh all right, friends out? Yeah, that's true.

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Speaker 3: He has play his friends out.

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Speaker 1: That's true.

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Speaker 3: That's true.

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Speaker 1: Were going to Vegas? Maybe fair enough?

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Speaker 3: A couple of brand fair enough.

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Speaker 2: The point is this guy is thirty year old guys

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Speaker 1: Whoa that wow, Sophia really all right? She called it.

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Speaker 2: There's a moment if you go back in the video

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Speaker 1: Frame motor face.

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Speaker 3: But I would love to know what you think. Do

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Speaker 3: you think this relationship is good?

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Speaker 1: And if you have been in or seen a similar scenario.

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Speaker 3: Amp like, have you ever like when you were like

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Speaker 1: Speaking of stories, I do have a okay story time

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Speaker 1: yeah for us, all real quick, I have an okay

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Speaker 3: Wait, but he has his stories on first case, it's

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Speaker 3: it's a quick fact. It's quick fact. Just most of

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a really common it's a really common thing

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Speaker 2: because I don't know, it's just older guys are weird

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Speaker 1: I just don't want to.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but it is a thing. It is a thing

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, because it's it's when you're younger, it's

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Speaker 2: totally different. You're like, oh, well, this older man or

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Speaker 3: I've always thought it was kind of weird, but it

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Speaker 2: But I think they can be good, like they can

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Speaker 4: But how were their relationships with their fathers those women,

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Speaker 4: I'm not sure.

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Speaker 2: I think it is on the old person, the older

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Speaker 1: Yes, because they're taking advantage of them.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because they know better, they better, they know better

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I can't imagine it's dating someone even in college.

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Speaker 1: It is such an insanely different life experience. Just being

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Speaker 3: I wouldn't even want to date someone who was in

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Speaker 1: I know you'd be like, you.

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Speaker 3: Have a different life fair enough.

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Speaker 1: Sorry grad school ladies, Sam's out on you. But I

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 1: I was at Sunday school with my mom helping the

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Speaker 1: and finds his sister and he's like, I mean, she'd

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00:20:18,000 --> 00:20:20,800
Speaker 1: obviously never contact her before. She's like, hey, I you know,

449
00:20:20,920 --> 00:20:23,360
Speaker 1: was dating this guy for a year and you know,

450
00:20:23,520 --> 00:20:25,000
Speaker 1: he just kind of disappeared. I just wanted to make

451
00:20:25,000 --> 00:20:27,560
Speaker 1: sure he was okay. And then she's like, he's been

452
00:20:27,560 --> 00:20:29,479
Speaker 1: married for five years and has a child.

453
00:20:30,200 --> 00:20:30,480
Speaker 2: Shock.

454
00:20:30,720 --> 00:20:31,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, so that's why was.

455
00:20:31,880 --> 00:20:34,200
Speaker 3: He at the strip club or was he actually making

456
00:20:34,200 --> 00:20:35,439
Speaker 3: glitter stuff with his child?

457
00:20:35,560 --> 00:20:38,040
Speaker 1: No, he was almost certainly at the strip club. And

458
00:20:38,119 --> 00:20:40,359
Speaker 1: he literally like, I mean, he made good money, but

459
00:20:40,440 --> 00:20:42,679
Speaker 1: he like it seems that he because he would his

460
00:20:43,119 --> 00:20:45,240
Speaker 1: way of appeasing her would be like, oh, let me

461
00:20:45,280 --> 00:20:46,920
Speaker 1: pay for your nails this weekend. Oh let me help

462
00:20:46,960 --> 00:20:48,840
Speaker 1: you with your rent? Oh, do you need a new TV? Like?

463
00:20:48,880 --> 00:20:50,520
Speaker 3: And John and I did our nails That ain't cheap.

464
00:20:50,600 --> 00:20:53,399
Speaker 1: It is no, it is not cheap. And we're talking

465
00:20:53,520 --> 00:20:57,399
Speaker 1: weekly weekly new nails like and so anytime she'd be

466
00:20:57,480 --> 00:20:59,679
Speaker 1: like hey, but she was just like, just like, spend

467
00:21:00,080 --> 00:21:02,960
Speaker 1: one night with me. But he never did it because.

468
00:21:04,920 --> 00:21:05,760
Speaker 2: Yowks.

469
00:21:06,000 --> 00:21:06,200
Speaker 3: Yeah.

470
00:21:06,600 --> 00:21:09,880
Speaker 1: And then she you know, did the research.

471
00:21:10,119 --> 00:21:10,959
Speaker 3: Did she exposed him?

472
00:21:10,960 --> 00:21:13,320
Speaker 1: I don't think so. I think she just left it.

473
00:21:13,960 --> 00:21:14,800
Speaker 1: I think she just left it.

474
00:21:14,880 --> 00:21:15,640
Speaker 3: Would you expose?

475
00:21:15,840 --> 00:21:17,520
Speaker 2: I mean it depends on if I could get into

476
00:21:17,520 --> 00:21:18,320
Speaker 2: contact with you.

477
00:21:18,359 --> 00:21:20,640
Speaker 3: Could you could you found their Instagram?

478
00:21:20,760 --> 00:21:22,520
Speaker 2: I might be like, hey, I just want to let

479
00:21:22,560 --> 00:21:23,520
Speaker 2: you know, would you.

480
00:21:23,560 --> 00:21:27,919
Speaker 3: Michael Scott another tell Andy that Angela and Dwight are

481
00:21:27,960 --> 00:21:29,800
Speaker 3: cheating on each other. The whole office is like, no,

482
00:21:29,840 --> 00:21:31,680
Speaker 3: you shouldn't tell, You shouldn't tell, You shouldn't tell. It

483
00:21:31,720 --> 00:21:34,480
Speaker 3: should come Angela, and Michael's like, no, he needs to know.

484
00:21:34,680 --> 00:21:37,480
Speaker 4: No, no, no, no coming. Whenever Michael was dating that one

485
00:21:37,520 --> 00:21:39,679
Speaker 4: chick that was having an affair, oh, I was thinking

486
00:21:39,680 --> 00:21:42,080
Speaker 4: about that's the more similar situation.

487
00:21:42,280 --> 00:21:45,080
Speaker 3: Well, in this situation, Michael was the one that told

488
00:21:45,320 --> 00:21:47,520
Speaker 3: Andy that they were having affairs. So it's similar.

489
00:21:47,880 --> 00:21:50,080
Speaker 2: That is true, but like in that situation, I would

490
00:21:50,160 --> 00:21:51,840
Speaker 2: go first to the person who was having an affair

491
00:21:51,840 --> 00:21:53,560
Speaker 2: and be like, hey, you should tell, but he wouldn't

492
00:21:53,560 --> 00:21:55,960
Speaker 2: say anything to say anything you should have, but like

493
00:21:56,000 --> 00:21:57,399
Speaker 2: you could have because he was the one that was

494
00:21:57,480 --> 00:21:59,399
Speaker 2: participating in the affair, and you could have went and

495
00:21:59,440 --> 00:22:01,200
Speaker 2: like came click. Okay.

496
00:22:01,240 --> 00:22:03,640
Speaker 3: I think if you're participating in the affair, then you

497
00:22:03,800 --> 00:22:07,679
Speaker 3: it is as your duty to tell the person, the

498
00:22:07,720 --> 00:22:08,960
Speaker 3: wife or partner.

499
00:22:09,000 --> 00:22:10,040
Speaker 1: You should expose yourself.

500
00:22:10,040 --> 00:22:11,960
Speaker 3: Basically, yeah, you should expose yourself.

501
00:22:11,680 --> 00:22:14,680
Speaker 2: If you if you didn't know, yes, and also if you.

502
00:22:14,640 --> 00:22:17,600
Speaker 3: Didn't know, and expose it later either way. But you

503
00:22:17,640 --> 00:22:21,520
Speaker 3: know what, I want to expose what this next caller,

504
00:22:22,000 --> 00:22:22,719
Speaker 3: let's do it?

505
00:22:24,920 --> 00:22:31,440
Speaker 6: Am I at for leaving my four year relationship with

506
00:22:31,560 --> 00:22:37,399
Speaker 6: my fiance well ex fiance now and Alma started dating

507
00:22:37,520 --> 00:22:40,560
Speaker 6: and staying with my friendless benefits immediately.

508
00:22:40,800 --> 00:22:43,920
Speaker 3: Well that's a question. So long story short, my ex

509
00:22:43,960 --> 00:22:46,080
Speaker 3: and I were in a poly open relationship and he

510
00:22:46,200 --> 00:22:48,840
Speaker 3: was okay, yikes, you never want to hear just you're okay.

511
00:22:48,920 --> 00:22:50,160
Speaker 1: It was okay, oh pee.

512
00:22:50,359 --> 00:22:52,720
Speaker 3: We were both okay with each other seeing somebody else

513
00:22:52,800 --> 00:22:54,960
Speaker 3: as long as we stayed protected and we knew the

514
00:22:55,000 --> 00:22:57,320
Speaker 3: person and we didn't bring them home. Well, the friends

515
00:22:57,320 --> 00:22:59,800
Speaker 3: with benefits now my boyfriend and father to my two

516
00:22:59,880 --> 00:23:01,560
Speaker 3: k kids with one of the way, Well, we ended

517
00:23:01,640 --> 00:23:04,640
Speaker 3: up getting pregnant with our daughter, and the ex gave

518
00:23:04,680 --> 00:23:07,200
Speaker 3: it ultimatum of either you put the kid up for

519
00:23:07,359 --> 00:23:09,800
Speaker 3: adoption and we could work on a relationship and do

520
00:23:09,840 --> 00:23:14,040
Speaker 3: couples counseling slash separate counseling single, or you and I

521
00:23:14,200 --> 00:23:17,480
Speaker 3: are done. WHOA I chose to be done?

522
00:23:17,680 --> 00:23:21,000
Speaker 7: Yeah, you guys, if you're going to be this way,

523
00:23:21,080 --> 00:23:22,920
Speaker 7: even though a couple of years before you stated that

524
00:23:22,960 --> 00:23:26,160
Speaker 7: we could if I had any children with anyone by accident,

525
00:23:26,480 --> 00:23:29,600
Speaker 7: or you do yours and your relationship.

526
00:23:29,119 --> 00:23:31,560
Speaker 1: So both basically it goes both ways. Yeah, if anyone

527
00:23:31,600 --> 00:23:35,399
Speaker 1: was accidentally pregnant, fine, we're understanding that risk and it

528
00:23:35,440 --> 00:23:35,720
Speaker 1: going in.

529
00:23:35,840 --> 00:23:37,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, you said you'd still stay with me and we

530
00:23:37,840 --> 00:23:39,919
Speaker 3: end up raising the kid together. Now you had to

531
00:23:39,960 --> 00:23:43,639
Speaker 3: pull this shit. Yeah, we're done. So is OP the

532
00:23:43,720 --> 00:23:47,000
Speaker 3: a hole for leaving the four year relationship?

533
00:23:47,119 --> 00:23:47,679
Speaker 2: I don't think so.

534
00:23:47,920 --> 00:23:51,040
Speaker 1: No, And I think this is what I'm understanding, and

535
00:23:51,200 --> 00:23:53,399
Speaker 1: maybe we're going to call them in. We're going to

536
00:23:53,480 --> 00:23:55,960
Speaker 1: call them ask and so maybe this is a question

537
00:23:56,040 --> 00:23:59,120
Speaker 1: for that, but it sounds like so Op was with

538
00:23:59,320 --> 00:24:03,480
Speaker 1: the now x, Yes, but she was seeing a guy

539
00:24:03,560 --> 00:24:05,800
Speaker 1: that she had already had a kid with prior, and

540
00:24:05,840 --> 00:24:08,240
Speaker 1: then they had a second kid together, so the.

541
00:24:08,400 --> 00:24:10,520
Speaker 2: I think they currently have children, but this was in.

542
00:24:10,480 --> 00:24:13,320
Speaker 3: The past, so this was before they didn't have any

543
00:24:13,400 --> 00:24:17,679
Speaker 3: kids before. Yeah, I think this was the first. This

544
00:24:17,800 --> 00:24:19,640
Speaker 3: was them getting This was like having.

545
00:24:19,440 --> 00:24:21,560
Speaker 1: A child for the first time. So her and her

546
00:24:21,680 --> 00:24:23,400
Speaker 1: ex have a kid together? Is that?

547
00:24:23,640 --> 00:24:27,080
Speaker 3: No, I don't have any kids. So there's the ex fiance,

548
00:24:27,640 --> 00:24:30,480
Speaker 3: and then there's the friends with benefits. Yes, the friends

549
00:24:30,480 --> 00:24:35,199
Speaker 3: with benefits is now the husband. Yes, because she was

550
00:24:35,840 --> 00:24:40,280
Speaker 3: married they're together now boyfriends, so the benefits is now

551
00:24:40,320 --> 00:24:43,240
Speaker 3: the boyfriend right, yes, And she ditched the ex fiance

552
00:24:43,320 --> 00:24:45,760
Speaker 3: because she's like because the ex fiance is like, hey.

553
00:24:45,720 --> 00:24:49,960
Speaker 2: You have to adopt get rid of George, which is

554
00:24:49,960 --> 00:24:50,440
Speaker 2: a weird.

555
00:24:50,240 --> 00:24:54,359
Speaker 3: Friends with benefits to say that, Yeah, especially if you

556
00:24:54,440 --> 00:24:55,359
Speaker 3: had that stipulation.

557
00:24:55,520 --> 00:24:56,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, you were like, hey, that's fine.

558
00:24:56,800 --> 00:24:57,400
Speaker 1: In fact that it was.

559
00:24:57,320 --> 00:25:02,520
Speaker 3: Communicated before either of us have a kid, we raise it. Yeah,

560
00:25:02,560 --> 00:25:04,520
Speaker 3: but I think we need to find out some more details,

561
00:25:04,520 --> 00:25:06,440
Speaker 3: like what, like what I feel like something I need

562
00:25:06,440 --> 00:25:08,679
Speaker 3: to know is how did they establish the bounds of

563
00:25:08,680 --> 00:25:12,120
Speaker 3: their poly relationship, which I'm always curious about, like how

564
00:25:12,160 --> 00:25:14,479
Speaker 3: you how you set strong bounds? And also how are

565
00:25:14,520 --> 00:25:17,679
Speaker 3: things going in the new relationship and also was there

566
00:25:17,720 --> 00:25:21,679
Speaker 3: any fallout from the ex fiance after leaving? Sounds that

567
00:25:21,760 --> 00:25:25,720
Speaker 3: possible given his ultimatum. But I think we to call

568
00:25:26,000 --> 00:25:27,440
Speaker 3: this person from the Okay fam.

569
00:25:27,520 --> 00:25:28,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's check it out.

570
00:25:28,640 --> 00:25:30,480
Speaker 3: Hey, this is Sam from Okay op.

571
00:25:30,840 --> 00:25:32,120
Speaker 1: This is Sophia and John.

572
00:25:32,200 --> 00:25:32,680
Speaker 3: What's up?

573
00:25:32,880 --> 00:25:33,120
Speaker 6: Hi?

574
00:25:33,800 --> 00:25:34,639
Speaker 5: Sam?

575
00:25:34,920 --> 00:25:35,240
Speaker 3: Hello?

576
00:25:37,800 --> 00:25:39,359
Speaker 1: Good, we're good? How about you?

577
00:25:39,480 --> 00:25:42,760
Speaker 5: Oh? Not too bad? And funny things you're calling? And

578
00:25:42,800 --> 00:25:46,280
Speaker 5: I was literally just watching some old Rica but Okay

579
00:25:46,320 --> 00:25:49,000
Speaker 5: Okay show video that.

580
00:25:49,080 --> 00:25:55,200
Speaker 1: Is so crazy dedicated.

581
00:25:55,480 --> 00:26:00,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, Riley is here too. Yeah, Riley, say.

582
00:25:59,200 --> 00:26:00,480
Speaker 4: Dude, I'm doing great.

583
00:26:00,920 --> 00:26:03,879
Speaker 1: How are you bad? Beautiful?

584
00:26:03,920 --> 00:26:08,680
Speaker 3: We just were listening to your voicemail and we had questions, Sophia,

585
00:26:08,680 --> 00:26:09,720
Speaker 3: do you want to hit her the person?

586
00:26:10,400 --> 00:26:13,640
Speaker 2: Now?

587
00:26:13,840 --> 00:26:14,080
Speaker 1: Yes?

588
00:26:14,920 --> 00:26:15,240
Speaker 5: Sorry?

589
00:26:15,280 --> 00:26:15,840
Speaker 1: Yes, okay?

590
00:26:15,920 --> 00:26:17,000
Speaker 2: Sorry?

591
00:26:16,240 --> 00:26:20,720
Speaker 1: Sam is sorry, Sam is dying.

592
00:26:21,119 --> 00:26:24,560
Speaker 3: But I need a cough drop, so sory.

593
00:26:24,560 --> 00:26:27,680
Speaker 1: We were yeah, so sorry. It's a chaos right now,

594
00:26:27,720 --> 00:26:31,440
Speaker 1: but we wanted to know. You know, you've probably seen

595
00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:33,160
Speaker 1: I mean, you're a fan of the show. We've had

596
00:26:33,480 --> 00:26:36,960
Speaker 1: a few stories before come up talking about polyamorous relationships

597
00:26:36,960 --> 00:26:38,879
Speaker 1: and it's like, hey, how do you said the boundaries?

598
00:26:38,920 --> 00:26:41,800
Speaker 1: What does that look like? So we were curious, like,

599
00:26:42,040 --> 00:26:45,760
Speaker 1: how did you go about like having those conversations on

600
00:26:45,800 --> 00:26:48,320
Speaker 1: like setting those boundaries in your relationship.

601
00:26:48,520 --> 00:26:50,639
Speaker 5: So about a year and a half to two years

602
00:26:50,680 --> 00:26:54,560
Speaker 5: into the relationship, we were on a drive and we

603
00:26:54,560 --> 00:26:59,199
Speaker 5: were both looked up recently before the difference between the

604
00:26:59,240 --> 00:27:03,359
Speaker 5: monogamy and polly were and we both chose and we

605
00:27:03,520 --> 00:27:06,760
Speaker 5: chose to do Polly as long as we were talking

606
00:27:08,600 --> 00:27:13,040
Speaker 5: well talking meaning like we were uh open with who

607
00:27:13,040 --> 00:27:15,720
Speaker 5: we were seeing, and we knew the person as a

608
00:27:15,720 --> 00:27:18,359
Speaker 5: way like my other person that I was with at

609
00:27:18,359 --> 00:27:22,800
Speaker 5: the time, which is now my boyfriend. We were co workers.

610
00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:26,920
Speaker 5: We had known each other for a little bit. He's

611
00:27:27,640 --> 00:27:29,560
Speaker 5: he knew him for a little bit too, as he's

612
00:27:29,600 --> 00:27:31,400
Speaker 5: seen him at work, and I just and I told

613
00:27:31,480 --> 00:27:34,119
Speaker 5: him about how he would and he had a couple

614
00:27:34,680 --> 00:27:37,160
Speaker 5: girls that he had seen as we were both also

615
00:27:37,280 --> 00:27:41,520
Speaker 5: bisexual too, but a girl and a couple of guys,

616
00:27:41,760 --> 00:27:45,080
Speaker 5: and but he never got to where he wanted to

617
00:27:45,600 --> 00:27:50,040
Speaker 5: have full on intimate relationship with him I'm like, he

618
00:27:50,080 --> 00:27:52,680
Speaker 5: didn't care that I did, as long as we were

619
00:27:52,920 --> 00:27:58,040
Speaker 5: full protected, right, or a plan B if it happened

620
00:27:58,040 --> 00:27:59,120
Speaker 5: like it broken one night.

621
00:28:00,160 --> 00:28:02,680
Speaker 3: Right? So was it talked about if there was risk

622
00:28:02,760 --> 00:28:04,720
Speaker 3: of pregnancy, like what you guys would do?

623
00:28:04,960 --> 00:28:07,760
Speaker 5: Yeah, there was talk about that, like I per se

624
00:28:08,119 --> 00:28:11,320
Speaker 5: it broke or whatnot day after or two days later,

625
00:28:11,440 --> 00:28:16,120
Speaker 5: get the plan B, or talk about like, hey, if

626
00:28:16,160 --> 00:28:19,720
Speaker 5: it were to happen, we might end up either A

627
00:28:20,200 --> 00:28:23,359
Speaker 5: because one thing that was never on the table was termination.

628
00:28:23,560 --> 00:28:25,879
Speaker 5: It was either a caught up for adoption or B

629
00:28:26,040 --> 00:28:29,359
Speaker 5: c if the father of the child, if it wasn't

630
00:28:29,480 --> 00:28:34,040
Speaker 5: him would be to be open to taking in the child,

631
00:28:34,160 --> 00:28:35,200
Speaker 5: or we would figure out a.

632
00:28:35,119 --> 00:28:36,320
Speaker 6: Way to do a co parenting.

633
00:28:36,560 --> 00:28:39,360
Speaker 3: So like when you found out you were pregnant, When

634
00:28:39,400 --> 00:28:42,200
Speaker 3: you found out you were pregnant, like what would what

635
00:28:42,240 --> 00:28:43,480
Speaker 3: was the conversation.

636
00:28:43,160 --> 00:28:48,000
Speaker 5: Like, Oh, he basically completely forgot all about those talks

637
00:28:48,000 --> 00:28:50,720
Speaker 5: and ship and you basically almost blew up on me

638
00:28:51,360 --> 00:28:54,800
Speaker 5: and Gaven. Everyone loves ultimatums, right Sam.

639
00:28:54,880 --> 00:28:57,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, Oh yeah, ultimatums are a healthy way to start

640
00:28:57,640 --> 00:28:59,240
Speaker 3: the relationship and continue it.

641
00:28:59,440 --> 00:29:03,000
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, ended up giving an ultimatum either him, either

642
00:29:03,640 --> 00:29:06,480
Speaker 5: I stay with him, and we do the couples and

643
00:29:06,680 --> 00:29:10,400
Speaker 5: separate counseling, and I give either give the child up

644
00:29:10,400 --> 00:29:14,000
Speaker 5: for adoption or give the child to the father once

645
00:29:14,080 --> 00:29:17,680
Speaker 5: they once made my almost one year old daughter shall

646
00:29:17,720 --> 00:29:20,320
Speaker 5: be a year this month up for might give her

647
00:29:20,360 --> 00:29:23,920
Speaker 5: to the father or b I keep the child and

648
00:29:24,120 --> 00:29:24,840
Speaker 5: if we're done.

649
00:29:25,080 --> 00:29:26,720
Speaker 3: Was this decision to make.

650
00:29:26,840 --> 00:29:32,160
Speaker 5: Four years together altogether about almost two roughly almost two

651
00:29:32,240 --> 00:29:37,360
Speaker 5: years engaged? Wow, congrats all because of that is how

652
00:29:37,400 --> 00:29:42,960
Speaker 5: that relationship went. And now one year with my other

653
00:29:43,080 --> 00:29:46,840
Speaker 5: partner now my boyfriend during that relationship incredible.

654
00:29:47,040 --> 00:29:49,640
Speaker 3: Is this relationship with your boyfriend, Polly too?

655
00:29:50,000 --> 00:29:53,440
Speaker 5: No, but we we talked with this one to where

656
00:29:53,480 --> 00:29:57,560
Speaker 5: we were only us and I'm actually okay with that

657
00:29:57,680 --> 00:30:01,360
Speaker 5: because you have him and my daughter and my son

658
00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:02,920
Speaker 5: on the way because we got one on the way

659
00:30:02,920 --> 00:30:07,000
Speaker 5: now too. Congratulations Or and who's to stay happy in

660
00:30:07,120 --> 00:30:12,400
Speaker 5: that or throw all that away because of a poly relationship.

661
00:30:12,400 --> 00:30:14,760
Speaker 5: It's like, no, and I'm blessed with what I have

662
00:30:14,920 --> 00:30:16,920
Speaker 5: because it's an amazing relationship.

663
00:30:17,040 --> 00:30:19,920
Speaker 1: So it sounds like for you, like when you now

664
00:30:19,960 --> 00:30:22,000
Speaker 1: that it's like you have a family, have children with

665
00:30:22,120 --> 00:30:25,200
Speaker 1: us with your partner, It's like, hey, we don't want

666
00:30:25,240 --> 00:30:28,719
Speaker 1: to continue a polyamorous relationship anymore because is it just

667
00:30:28,760 --> 00:30:29,480
Speaker 1: so complicated?

668
00:30:29,480 --> 00:30:32,120
Speaker 3: It sounds complicated, It sounds like a lot to keep. Yeah, Like,

669
00:30:32,200 --> 00:30:34,320
Speaker 3: is it just hard? Is a poly relationship just like

670
00:30:34,520 --> 00:30:37,240
Speaker 3: hard to manage in general? Or is it just because

671
00:30:37,240 --> 00:30:39,920
Speaker 3: of your partner, your previous partner that was hard to manage?

672
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Speaker 5: It was very complicated due to the previous partner. Because

673
00:30:45,280 --> 00:30:49,840
Speaker 5: once you started seeing that another guy and also a

674
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Speaker 5: female that I talked to at times here and there,

675
00:30:53,680 --> 00:30:56,720
Speaker 5: which I still talk to her, and my boyfriend's okay

676
00:30:56,800 --> 00:30:58,560
Speaker 5: with that, because hey.

677
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Speaker 6: It's a girl.

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Speaker 5: I know you're bisexual if anything, and if you were

679
00:31:02,240 --> 00:31:06,600
Speaker 5: to do bring home a girl, that's okay, but no guys.

680
00:31:06,840 --> 00:31:09,760
Speaker 5: But with him on that he once he started seeing

681
00:31:09,760 --> 00:31:12,680
Speaker 5: that I was happy with another person on a guy too,

682
00:31:12,960 --> 00:31:15,240
Speaker 5: he started to get very jealous and started to get

683
00:31:15,360 --> 00:31:17,200
Speaker 5: severely toxic about it.

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Speaker 1: Right, And it sounded like you two had both like

685
00:31:20,200 --> 00:31:24,520
Speaker 1: set parameters in the relationship that for instance, if there

686
00:31:24,560 --> 00:31:27,080
Speaker 1: was a pregnancy on either side, you two would both

687
00:31:27,120 --> 00:31:29,240
Speaker 1: be down to like raise the kid. But as soon

688
00:31:29,280 --> 00:31:32,080
Speaker 1: as you realize, oh, I have a pregnancy, that's when

689
00:31:32,080 --> 00:31:35,960
Speaker 1: he completely changed and basically went completely against the arrangements

690
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Speaker 1: and boundaries you had set beforehand.

691
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Speaker 5: Right completely went Yeah, And it sounds.

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Speaker 3: Like he was already like getting jealous beforehand, and that

693
00:31:44,120 --> 00:31:47,240
Speaker 3: was like that was just the thing that probably set

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Speaker 3: him off completely.

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00:31:48,520 --> 00:31:51,640
Speaker 5: Yeah, once he started to show that, and so immediately

696
00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:57,240
Speaker 5: and basically after he threw the ultimatum also and literally

697
00:31:57,320 --> 00:32:01,240
Speaker 5: every single day basically to every other day before I

698
00:32:01,280 --> 00:32:05,600
Speaker 5: went on my little week back home to go see

699
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Speaker 5: my mom and dad, which is which is like five

700
00:32:08,240 --> 00:32:10,880
Speaker 5: hours away. I want to go see them. Up until

701
00:32:10,880 --> 00:32:13,640
Speaker 5: that day, he was kept asking the same question, So,

702
00:32:13,680 --> 00:32:15,360
Speaker 5: have you made your decision yet? Are you going to

703
00:32:15,440 --> 00:32:18,600
Speaker 5: keep it or are you going to give her give

704
00:32:18,680 --> 00:32:22,360
Speaker 5: the baby to your other partner? And I kept saying no,

705
00:32:22,960 --> 00:32:26,320
Speaker 5: because I already knew even at even at like seven

706
00:32:26,400 --> 00:32:29,800
Speaker 5: weeks into the pregnancy, that I was going to keep her.

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Speaker 6: And I'm very happy.

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00:32:32,040 --> 00:32:32,240
Speaker 5: Guys.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well, good for you. And it sounds like it

710
00:32:35,120 --> 00:32:38,920
Speaker 3: sounds like the uh, your your your family is now

711
00:32:39,040 --> 00:32:41,960
Speaker 3: like super happy and things are going well. So I'm

712
00:32:41,960 --> 00:32:44,720
Speaker 3: glad it all worked out. I do have a somewhat

713
00:32:44,880 --> 00:32:48,880
Speaker 3: unrelated question for you, though, what's that? So when you

714
00:32:48,960 --> 00:32:52,120
Speaker 3: were talking about the people that you brought home. You

715
00:32:52,160 --> 00:32:56,280
Speaker 3: mentioned you brought home a female, And I'm curious what

716
00:32:56,440 --> 00:32:59,320
Speaker 3: is your relationship with the word female, because my sister

717
00:32:59,440 --> 00:33:03,960
Speaker 3: says should. She's been telling, she's been telling all the

718
00:33:04,000 --> 00:33:07,200
Speaker 3: boys in the house that you shouldn't use the word female,

719
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Speaker 3: you should.

720
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Speaker 1: Specifically, she's been.

721
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Speaker 3: Calling Riley Hout saying Riley can't say the word female,

722
00:33:14,000 --> 00:33:18,800
Speaker 3: he should say woman instead, because she says he sounds

723
00:33:18,840 --> 00:33:21,840
Speaker 3: like an inceel when he uses the word female. So

724
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Speaker 3: curious what your thoughts on that are. And Sophia, do

725
00:33:26,000 --> 00:33:29,240
Speaker 3: you have any defense why I will hear this thought.

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00:33:32,160 --> 00:33:35,640
Speaker 5: Sometimes I use female, other times I use girlfriends because

727
00:33:35,680 --> 00:33:38,120
Speaker 5: sometimes when you hear the word girlfriend, you end up

728
00:33:38,800 --> 00:33:42,120
Speaker 5: people like always so you have a girlfriend and a boyfriend,

729
00:33:42,480 --> 00:33:44,560
Speaker 5: like I'm gonna go hang out with a girlfriend, your

730
00:33:44,560 --> 00:33:47,880
Speaker 5: female friends or your woman friend. I've always used the

731
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Speaker 5: word girlfriend, even when I was in high school.

732
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Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, So you do you think the word female

733
00:33:57,160 --> 00:33:57,600
Speaker 3: is fine?

734
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Speaker 5: Yeah? I think the word female depending on the context

735
00:34:01,680 --> 00:34:04,240
Speaker 5: to use, you know, like, unless you don't know that

736
00:34:04,000 --> 00:34:09,320
Speaker 5: I'm if it's someone who prefers other pronouns. Otherwise I

737
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Speaker 5: say female or girlfriend because some people even if they

738
00:34:13,400 --> 00:34:17,160
Speaker 5: are a woman, don't are non binary or whatnot. So

739
00:34:17,200 --> 00:34:19,479
Speaker 5: it's like, instead of like that, it's like, first, hey,

740
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Speaker 5: what are your pronouns do you say? If I call

741
00:34:21,200 --> 00:34:25,439
Speaker 5: you female? Or or girlfriend or my girlfriend? Because I've

742
00:34:25,440 --> 00:34:28,240
Speaker 5: known this one chick for so long too, where literally

743
00:34:28,239 --> 00:34:32,000
Speaker 5: we started ended up just being girlfriends. And then it's

744
00:34:32,040 --> 00:34:33,759
Speaker 5: like and now we're like, wait, are we just going

745
00:34:33,840 --> 00:34:35,000
Speaker 5: to keep saying girlfriend?

746
00:34:35,040 --> 00:34:36,440
Speaker 3: Are we asking a girlfriends?

747
00:34:36,440 --> 00:34:38,360
Speaker 1: It's like, right, dude.

748
00:34:38,120 --> 00:34:42,160
Speaker 5: We've known each other for so long, we are girlfriends.

749
00:34:42,680 --> 00:34:45,480
Speaker 3: Riley's asking if you can say check, I don't see.

750
00:34:45,280 --> 00:34:50,160
Speaker 5: A problem in it, all right, I say bird? What

751
00:34:50,320 --> 00:34:50,600
Speaker 5: is this?

752
00:34:52,040 --> 00:34:53,920
Speaker 3: Riley's asking If you could say bird.

753
00:34:55,239 --> 00:34:58,440
Speaker 5: Why would you want to say bird unless your context

754
00:34:58,480 --> 00:34:59,919
Speaker 5: is towards the actual creep?

755
00:35:00,040 --> 00:35:02,920
Speaker 2: Sure it seems like the livestop.

756
00:35:05,600 --> 00:35:08,400
Speaker 3: Well, thank you so much for answering our call and

757
00:35:08,440 --> 00:35:10,799
Speaker 3: telling us your story. We really appreciate it.

758
00:35:10,880 --> 00:35:12,600
Speaker 5: And if you wanted to throw my name out the

759
00:35:12,680 --> 00:35:14,600
Speaker 5: show to my name is Missy Sam.

760
00:35:15,040 --> 00:35:15,560
Speaker 3: What is it?

761
00:35:15,719 --> 00:35:26,840
Speaker 5: Missy, Missy, Missy, miss m I misty.

762
00:35:24,200 --> 00:35:26,360
Speaker 3: Well Misty, thank you so much for calling and we

763
00:35:26,400 --> 00:35:27,279
Speaker 3: really appreciate it.

764
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Speaker 5: Have a good night, guys.

765
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Speaker 1: Yeah, Well, I mean we got to the bottom of

766
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Speaker 1: the of the.

767
00:35:33,800 --> 00:35:38,279
Speaker 3: We've been debating this in the house. For Sophia has

768
00:35:38,280 --> 00:35:41,479
Speaker 3: been Sophia has been destroying Riley's soul.

769
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Speaker 2: I think he was saying more it was like female friend.

770
00:35:46,000 --> 00:35:49,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, talking about she said female. I think I agree.

771
00:35:49,960 --> 00:35:52,279
Speaker 1: I think she was more talking about the context of

772
00:35:52,400 --> 00:35:55,200
Speaker 1: like saying, like a friend who is a woman.

773
00:35:56,280 --> 00:35:59,800
Speaker 3: When she when she was talking, she said I modelist.

774
00:35:59,880 --> 00:36:03,320
Speaker 3: I was, well, I know, but this is one data point. Okay,

775
00:36:03,400 --> 00:36:06,600
Speaker 3: it's one against one Sophia. She did say I brought

776
00:36:06,600 --> 00:36:10,200
Speaker 3: home a female not female friend. Okay, so that's why

777
00:36:10,239 --> 00:36:10,839
Speaker 3: I brought it up.

778
00:36:12,000 --> 00:36:16,560
Speaker 1: It also does listen to Reddit stores.

779
00:36:16,760 --> 00:36:20,080
Speaker 3: She's like, females love to know from everyone. What vibe

780
00:36:20,120 --> 00:36:22,279
Speaker 3: do you get? This is for Riley. What vibe do

781
00:36:22,320 --> 00:36:25,640
Speaker 3: you get when a guy says female? Is it in

782
00:36:25,680 --> 00:36:27,279
Speaker 3: selly or do you even think anything of it?

783
00:36:27,360 --> 00:36:30,560
Speaker 2: I personally don't like when men say female. I have

784
00:36:30,600 --> 00:36:33,840
Speaker 2: an okay story time when I was at the brother

785
00:36:33,960 --> 00:36:37,480
Speaker 2: School to my high school. I remember, yeah, Crispy, we

786
00:36:37,520 --> 00:36:40,399
Speaker 2: had a like like the switch day where you go

787
00:36:40,480 --> 00:36:43,200
Speaker 2: to Crosby but anyway, you like go to the Brother

788
00:36:43,280 --> 00:36:45,279
Speaker 2: School and they have like fun activities and stuff, and

789
00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:47,719
Speaker 2: I remember that, like the coach was like, okay, men

790
00:36:47,880 --> 00:36:51,240
Speaker 2: line up, Okay, females line up, and like that sounds

791
00:36:51,280 --> 00:36:54,480
Speaker 2: so weird. No, Like he's like, okay, then let's you know,

792
00:36:54,520 --> 00:36:57,480
Speaker 2: and he's like, oh John, Matt. You know he's naming

793
00:36:57,520 --> 00:36:59,800
Speaker 2: all them and he's like, okay, female, next female.

794
00:36:59,880 --> 00:37:02,719
Speaker 3: I think it sounds weird. I think I wonder if

795
00:37:02,760 --> 00:37:05,640
Speaker 3: you ever heard me say female. I don't hear you, yeah,

796
00:37:05,640 --> 00:37:11,120
Speaker 3: because I'm because I tell you not to strange you.

797
00:37:11,400 --> 00:37:12,400
Speaker 1: I am secretly.

798
00:37:15,080 --> 00:37:17,919
Speaker 3: It's one time Sophia, she was telling me a fact.

799
00:37:17,960 --> 00:37:19,520
Speaker 3: I'm like, wait, there's no way that's real. And then

800
00:37:19,560 --> 00:37:22,080
Speaker 3: I looked up the fact and it turns out it

801
00:37:22,120 --> 00:37:24,040
Speaker 3: was like it was fake. And then she's like, that's right.

802
00:37:24,280 --> 00:37:27,480
Speaker 3: I've been telling you fake facts for years, so you

803
00:37:27,640 --> 00:37:30,520
Speaker 3: question your reality and you don't know what's true or false.

804
00:37:31,000 --> 00:37:32,759
Speaker 1: I don't think I said it like that exactly what

805
00:37:32,800 --> 00:37:33,280
Speaker 1: you said.

806
00:37:33,800 --> 00:37:36,760
Speaker 3: Sophia has been manipulating me behind the scenes.

807
00:37:37,239 --> 00:37:40,160
Speaker 2: No, I just I just like I just like saying,

808
00:37:40,280 --> 00:37:43,080
Speaker 2: like sometimes this gun sounds crazy, but like sometimes it's

809
00:37:43,080 --> 00:37:44,520
Speaker 2: like fun to make up a fact.

810
00:37:44,680 --> 00:37:45,240
Speaker 3: Whoa whoaoa?

811
00:37:45,320 --> 00:37:48,040
Speaker 1: You told me a fact yesterday what No, that was true?

812
00:37:48,719 --> 00:37:53,080
Speaker 3: What's true? What chocolate?

813
00:37:53,120 --> 00:37:55,360
Speaker 2: And chocolate is actually healthy if you get like a

814
00:37:55,560 --> 00:37:56,719
Speaker 2: cocoa potter, that is true?

815
00:37:56,760 --> 00:38:02,960
Speaker 3: Is Sophia distorting my world? Put your answer to mine.

816
00:38:03,520 --> 00:38:06,160
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817
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Speaker 2: Love You and Sorrow.

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Speaker 3: for okop Rework entitled Dad says, oh shoot the flight

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Speaker 3: attendant and now the FBI are coming, but they want

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Speaker 3: to arrest me.

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00:38:21,960 --> 00:38:24,040
Speaker 1: You know. It's it's just it's like it's like you're

823
00:38:24,080 --> 00:38:26,759
Speaker 1: just like sitting there and they're like, why are you

824
00:38:26,800 --> 00:38:29,080
Speaker 1: ating in a bedding? It's like I didn't choose thirty

825
00:38:29,280 --> 00:38:34,720
Speaker 1: thirty two A. I didn't choose that. It chose me. Okay, dude,

826
00:38:35,080 --> 00:38:35,520
Speaker 1: off of me.

827
00:38:35,680 --> 00:38:43,320
Speaker 3: I I firmly believe that if you are sitting next

828
00:38:43,360 --> 00:38:47,239
Speaker 3: to a ruckus, yeah, you deserve prison time. Wow. Yeah

829
00:38:47,960 --> 00:38:51,840
Speaker 3: a statement from Samuel Donner. Yeah, get away from the ruckus.

830
00:38:51,840 --> 00:38:53,239
Speaker 3: If you don't want to go to prison, that's true.

831
00:38:53,560 --> 00:38:59,040
Speaker 3: Just just sit in the toilet, Just go that. You

832
00:38:59,080 --> 00:39:02,680
Speaker 3: could have gone to theilet first class baby. Yeah, dude. Actually,

833
00:39:02,760 --> 00:39:04,960
Speaker 3: I was on a plane with the Quick Tangent. I

834
00:39:05,000 --> 00:39:08,839
Speaker 3: was on a plane ride from London sixteen hour flight. Right,

835
00:39:09,760 --> 00:39:12,560
Speaker 3: I was cramped up in my seat. I'm just like

836
00:39:12,920 --> 00:39:15,359
Speaker 3: I need a bigger area. Went to the bathroom, sat

837
00:39:15,360 --> 00:39:17,480
Speaker 3: in there for like an hour is great. An hour

838
00:39:17,600 --> 00:39:21,080
Speaker 3: and they didn't they didn't have multiple bathrooms, so wow,

839
00:39:21,320 --> 00:39:23,920
Speaker 3: it was great travel hacks. Ladies in general, axe sit

840
00:39:24,000 --> 00:39:25,680
Speaker 3: on the toilet. I sit on the toil for an hour.

841
00:39:26,080 --> 00:39:28,759
Speaker 3: Just finally got to my destination. After this one, I

842
00:39:28,840 --> 00:39:31,560
Speaker 3: was flying a sealt to Lax A man and woman

843
00:39:31,680 --> 00:39:34,439
Speaker 3: boarded with four children aged roughly four to eight.

844
00:39:34,640 --> 00:39:36,160
Speaker 1: Disgusting children.

845
00:39:36,280 --> 00:39:38,680
Speaker 3: First, they didn't book seats together and made to stink

846
00:39:38,760 --> 00:39:41,000
Speaker 3: to get people to switch seats with them to get

847
00:39:41,040 --> 00:39:44,239
Speaker 3: the six to sit together. Okay, I think you can

848
00:39:44,320 --> 00:39:47,200
Speaker 3: ask an aisle for an aisle, but you can't ask.

849
00:39:47,600 --> 00:39:49,440
Speaker 3: You can't trade an aisle for a middle.

850
00:39:49,520 --> 00:39:53,600
Speaker 1: It's it's just too it's you can ask, But like, also,

851
00:39:53,719 --> 00:39:54,839
Speaker 1: six is way too much.

852
00:39:55,160 --> 00:39:55,359
Speaker 3: Yeah.

853
00:39:55,400 --> 00:39:58,239
Speaker 1: Six, They have to get like so many people to

854
00:39:58,320 --> 00:40:02,319
Speaker 1: change your seats. Yeah, dude, that's you're orchestrating so much. Yeah,

855
00:40:02,440 --> 00:40:06,520
Speaker 1: or if you were also rank the seats aisle middle window,

856
00:40:07,440 --> 00:40:13,000
Speaker 1: honestly I would, I would make ferocious love to the

857
00:40:13,040 --> 00:40:18,000
Speaker 1: window seat. Yeah, window seat is the most romantic one. Uh,

858
00:40:18,040 --> 00:40:22,800
Speaker 1: it's for it's for if you're enjoying the flight. Uh

859
00:40:22,840 --> 00:40:26,879
Speaker 1: well yeah, yeah, fuck the window seat, Mary, the aisle seat,

860
00:40:26,960 --> 00:40:29,680
Speaker 1: because it's practical. Sometimes you need to go, you need

861
00:40:29,719 --> 00:40:31,640
Speaker 1: to just use the bathroom, you need to leave. And

862
00:40:31,680 --> 00:40:34,000
Speaker 1: then of course, kill the middle seat. Any anyone, anyone

863
00:40:34,000 --> 00:40:37,279
Speaker 1: who likes the middle seat is certifiably a psychopathic.

864
00:40:37,320 --> 00:40:39,759
Speaker 3: Okay, so I don't like the middle seat. Yeah, but

865
00:40:40,440 --> 00:40:43,200
Speaker 3: riddle me this. Yeah, in the aisle seat, you're at

866
00:40:43,239 --> 00:40:46,279
Speaker 3: the beck and call of both the window and the

867
00:40:46,280 --> 00:40:50,960
Speaker 3: middle seat. So the person that most frequently has to

868
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Speaker 3: get up during the flight for on the account of others,

869
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Speaker 3: is the ale seat.

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Speaker 1: Well if well, if you're on the window and the

871
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Speaker 1: middle person wants to get up, you don't have to

872
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Speaker 1: do anything.

873
00:41:00,760 --> 00:41:03,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, I agree with the fuck the window seat in

874
00:41:03,800 --> 00:41:06,160
Speaker 3: terms of of of of getting.

875
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Speaker 1: No what I'm saying, you're saying that you have to

876
00:41:09,000 --> 00:41:11,239
Speaker 1: either window or aisle you have to get up like

877
00:41:11,680 --> 00:41:14,160
Speaker 1: every time or whatever. The window seat doesn't have to

878
00:41:14,160 --> 00:41:16,200
Speaker 1: get up when the middle actually the window seat like

879
00:41:16,239 --> 00:41:17,000
Speaker 1: never has to get.

880
00:41:16,960 --> 00:41:20,000
Speaker 3: Up really when well windows, yeah, window seat doesn't have

881
00:41:20,040 --> 00:41:22,239
Speaker 3: to get up window, but you can't make them get up.

882
00:41:22,360 --> 00:41:25,120
Speaker 3: But yeah, but I'll see, I'll see it gets sucked

883
00:41:25,160 --> 00:41:27,399
Speaker 3: over because they always have to get up.

884
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Speaker 1: At this point. I see. My My only thing is

885
00:41:29,400 --> 00:41:31,319
Speaker 1: I don't want to crawl over people or like have

886
00:41:31,360 --> 00:41:33,080
Speaker 1: to go through more. If I just have to stand

887
00:41:33,200 --> 00:41:35,239
Speaker 1: up like yeah, gets easier, slide to the side and

888
00:41:35,239 --> 00:41:37,520
Speaker 1: then sit back down, I'm cool with that. Fair, I'm fine.

889
00:41:37,520 --> 00:41:39,600
Speaker 1: I used to be window all the way, but i've

890
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Speaker 1: I've I've come around to come around to the you know,

891
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Speaker 1: I see it's merits. What do you guys think?

892
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Speaker 3: Ye Mary cal Aisle Middle. After an hour into the flight,

893
00:41:51,200 --> 00:41:53,840
Speaker 3: two girls started skipping and running from the middle of

894
00:41:53,880 --> 00:41:57,600
Speaker 3: the plane up to the cockpit and back repeatedly, so

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Speaker 3: you get some exercise on the plane. They got bored

896
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Speaker 3: of it and sat down. Eventually, maybe three hours later,

897
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Speaker 3: a boy starts sprinting from one end to the plane

898
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Speaker 3: to the other incessantly stop it. Many passengers complained, how

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Speaker 3: are you not like having a little control of your.

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Speaker 1: Kids, and how how are like the flight attends not

901
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Speaker 1: instantly like after the first lap, being like, this isn't

902
00:42:22,200 --> 00:42:23,000
Speaker 1: a screamach kid?

903
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Speaker 3: They were too fast? Dude, Yeah, you seeing both of

904
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Speaker 3: these kids. Bro, They're like, I can't ask me next

905
00:42:29,360 --> 00:42:34,759
Speaker 3: freaking quarterback over here? Yeah, Tom Brady, six year old.

906
00:42:34,960 --> 00:42:38,080
Speaker 3: A flight attendant got him to stop. That lasted fifteen

907
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Speaker 3: minutes and off to the races. He goes again. No,

908
00:42:40,560 --> 00:42:44,640
Speaker 3: somebody else complains and he stops briefly. Now A male

909
00:42:44,719 --> 00:42:47,080
Speaker 3: flight attendant had enough, escorts the boy back to his

910
00:42:47,160 --> 00:42:51,560
Speaker 3: seat and forcefully tells the parents to control your effing kids.

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Speaker 1: You know what I would do. As he's running to

912
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Speaker 1: the back of the plane, I would figure out how

913
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Speaker 1: to open the cargo things. So he just flies right out.

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Speaker 3: Yo, I'm put my I'm putting my leg out there.

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Speaker 1: We go's gonna that's something you could actually do.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, just oh so oops. This is when I took

917
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Speaker 3: my headphones off due to the yelling.

918
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Speaker 1: Whoa, oh pe it's getting serious.

919
00:43:14,160 --> 00:43:16,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, you know it's serious when you start eavesdropping

920
00:43:17,000 --> 00:43:20,200
Speaker 3: and listening to the drama. The father is a livid

921
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Speaker 3: about being told to control his kids. He's screaming about

922
00:43:23,360 --> 00:43:29,200
Speaker 3: having four kids and only two adults. How could I

923
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Speaker 3: ever do it? Maybe you should have thought of that

924
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Speaker 3: before you stop wearing protection.

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Speaker 1: Come on, bro, wrap your jimmy and I ain't talking,

926
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Speaker 1: mister beast.

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Speaker 3: He's screaming about the flight attendant touching his kid. He

928
00:43:41,360 --> 00:43:45,359
Speaker 3: threatened to sue multiple times. Finally, the attendant yells, put

929
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Speaker 3: your f and mask on and sit the f down, bro.

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Speaker 1: I would start clapping if on the flight if a

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Speaker 1: flight attendant like starts cursing out like a belligerent, like

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Speaker 1: annoying as I'm.

933
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Speaker 3: Dude for the whole plane erupts in applause, that would

934
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Speaker 3: be awesome. The dude loses his shit even more and

935
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Speaker 3: yells back, I have your information.

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Speaker 1: I will find you and we will shook you. So

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Speaker 1: when you're on a plane, why are you making threats

938
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Speaker 1: a plane? Yeah, at least say like I'm gonna find

939
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Speaker 1: you and beat you up or something. Yeah, but if you,

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Speaker 1: if you, if anyone utters, I will shoot you on

941
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Speaker 1: a plane.

942
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Speaker 3: It's like yell and fire in a theater, but but worse,

943
00:44:28,360 --> 00:44:31,960
Speaker 3: but worse. Yeah, that's the moment I knew my night

944
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Speaker 3: was gonna suck. It took a while, but eventually all

945
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Speaker 3: of the flight attendants gathered and restrained the guy. A

946
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Speaker 3: little while later, we were told by the pilot we

947
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Speaker 3: had to turn to Albuquerque and land for this freaking

948
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Speaker 3: guy that literally the whole flight to be ruined. We

949
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Speaker 3: stayed on the plane and local police escored the guy

950
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Speaker 3: off and the whole family was removed. Wow, as I

951
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Speaker 3: was one of the few that wasn't wearing headphones, they

952
00:44:59,040 --> 00:45:02,080
Speaker 3: got my info and sent the FBI to interview me.

953
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Speaker 1: Why why are we interrogating this poor guy?

954
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Speaker 3: And like he's like trying to be like a good citizen,

955
00:45:07,520 --> 00:45:10,480
Speaker 3: but now his whole like night is being being like

956
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Speaker 3: interrogated by the FBI. Like what did he say?

957
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Speaker 1: Yeah, and I imagine he's like he said he was

958
00:45:15,239 --> 00:45:20,839
Speaker 1: gonna shoot him. Where's the gun? What we know? It's

959
00:45:20,840 --> 00:45:23,400
Speaker 1: in your bag. We know what you did. Plead guilty.

960
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Speaker 1: It's twenty years now.

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Speaker 3: After that, we were told there was no fuel truck

962
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Speaker 3: available to top us off. Some sloppy toppy oh, so

963
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Speaker 3: they had to send one in. Then the maintenance guy

964
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Speaker 3: that needed to sign off on the plane was at

965
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Speaker 3: home and he had to be called in. We eventually

966
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Speaker 3: got going and made it to Lax about two hours late.

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Speaker 1: That's not bad. It's not bad at all an FBI interrogation,

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Speaker 1: Like someone asked to cut Like, that's impressive.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, So the real question is I guess, so, I guess.

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Speaker 3: The real moral of the story is, don't take your

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Speaker 3: headphones out if you don't want to be questioned by

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Speaker 3: the FBI.

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Speaker 1: I am trying to have no FBI interrogate me. I

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Speaker 1: am good know it's her read