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Speaker 1: What would you talk about on your on your podcast

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Speaker 1: firm Elvis represents fifteen Minute Morning Show. Well, well, well

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Speaker 1: look at the cat dragged in a room full of

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Speaker 1: my best friends. It is the fifteen Minute Morning Show podcast.

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Speaker 1: Let's see. We have Scary, we have Gandhi, we have

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Speaker 1: Dave Brody, we have Scotty b and Garrett and Danielle

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Speaker 1: and Straightenate Froggy's in the house. Hey, I don't know

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Speaker 1: if you listen to our show today, but we had

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Speaker 1: a d J Envy and Gia Casey on of course

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Speaker 1: married DJ Envy works down the hall at the world

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Speaker 1: famous breakfast club The Morning Show. Uh. Their a new

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Speaker 1: book called Real Life, Real Love kind of talks about

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Speaker 1: their ups and downs. They had a lot of downs,

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Speaker 1: but the sounds like they've got a lot of ups. Right.

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Speaker 1: What a great interview If you want to catch it

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Speaker 1: on demand, just wherever you hear your podcasts, um do

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Speaker 1: a search for Elvis stray in Morning show talk about it.

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Speaker 1: How great were they? Oh? They're awesome. I mean I've

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Speaker 1: been listening to their podcast for years, which is called

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Speaker 1: the Casey Crew, and they're What I've always loved about

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Speaker 1: them is that they've always been open and honest about

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Speaker 1: their relationships, and like you said, ups and downs, and

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Speaker 1: sometimes they'll have a fight, like right before the podcast starts,

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Speaker 1: they will push record and they will discuss it right

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Speaker 1: then there and get through the problem. And if you're

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Speaker 1: a parent, they have a lot of great um a

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Speaker 1: lot a lot of great advice about their children and

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Speaker 1: how they raised them to be good people, people that

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Speaker 1: respect um others. And they do a lot of charity

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Speaker 1: work too, so it's nice to see that. You know,

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Speaker 1: they have been very blessed in their lives. They work

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Speaker 1: very hard for what they have, but at the same

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Speaker 1: time they give back. So that's really nice. Excellent again,

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Speaker 1: d j Envy and Casey Real Life, Real Love. It

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Speaker 1: really is an amazing interview that we did with them.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure the book is fifteen times were amazing. They

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Speaker 1: said in this book they have the twenty questions to

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Speaker 1: ask yourself before you get married. So this is the

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Speaker 1: twenty questions you ask yourself. Correct. Shall we go through

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Speaker 1: these and argue? Yes, He's got plenty of time. Do

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Speaker 1: I know what love is? Define it? Do my partner

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Speaker 1: and I have similar definitions of what love is? What

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Speaker 1: is love? Loves? That feeling, but can you describe it?

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Speaker 1: It's a million different answers. I think it's somebody oh sorry.

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Speaker 1: I think it's putting somebody else before yourself all the time.

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Speaker 1: And I don't know if I'm capable of that. All

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Speaker 1: that is that is a very challenging thing. Yeah, Frog,

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Speaker 1: I think it's like you said when we had them on,

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Speaker 1: I think that is love. Does it make you guys

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Speaker 1: now than when you actually that you have? Cool? Brodie,

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Speaker 1: What do you want in a marriage? Well, I want

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Speaker 1: six months ago, and everything he said or started to say,

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Speaker 1: I really am? Why are you so quiet, Nate. I'm

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Speaker 1: have had the same conversation throwing stones in those glass houses?

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Speaker 1: the number one reason for couples to dissolve money finances.

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Speaker 1: Finances of number one on the list of reasons why

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Speaker 1: couples don't do well, at least in an argument. The

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Speaker 1: other day, she went to this grocery store and she

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Speaker 1: were nine more uses in there not counted. Yes, value

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Speaker 1: I use all. Yeah, I cut myself trying to Frog.

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Speaker 1: So your divorce house is built upon many bricks. One

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Speaker 1: Give us more bricks. The spending money on things that

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Speaker 1: That would have been a novel idea. Well, that's we

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Speaker 1: went to there's another break We went to Creton Barrel

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Speaker 1: remember the explanation. Go, that's gonna be like once a year.

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Speaker 1: Like we're buying a dish. You're prepared just in case,

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Speaker 1: other stuff we could have gotten. So you need stuff

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Speaker 1: and you got to play. You didn't need you there's

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Speaker 1: your first break of divorce. You're starting comes your breakhouse. Alright,

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Speaker 1: So and another question on here from dj Envy and

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Speaker 1: Gia Casey's Real Life, Real Love Book, Um, have you

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Speaker 1: What is it they're dreaming about when you're not having conversations.

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Speaker 1: Some people have dreams. I know we all have dreams.

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Speaker 1: We don't always talk about them. But with your partner,

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Speaker 1: of the things that I want in life from somebody else,

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Speaker 1: whether it is a friend or a partner romantically, is

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Speaker 1: the free stuff. I don't want them to buy me things.

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Speaker 1: more important than you know them buying me a pair

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Speaker 1: of shoes or number seven on the questions, Am I

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Speaker 1: as religion is on this list too, and I think

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Speaker 1: a lot of people don't even think about those things anymore.

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Speaker 1: Are we on the same page regarding faith or lack thereof?

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Speaker 1: And that's how you with me because Sheldon's Episcopalian and

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Speaker 1: I'm um Catholic and it's very close. But I from

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Speaker 1: the beginning said, you know how important it is. I

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Speaker 1: really want to raise the children Catholic. And you know

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Speaker 1: I get it. So that if that's important to you,

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Speaker 1: that's something you definitely need to discuss as well. You

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Speaker 1: can't just hey, here's the kids, what are we gonna

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Speaker 1: raise them? Like? Go into it that way? Well, look,

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Speaker 1: I want you to get the book. It's called Real Life,

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Speaker 1: Real Love with DJ n V and Gia Casey. It's

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Speaker 1: pretty incredible, are you guys? You're good? We had no

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Speaker 1: toilet humor today. We didn't talk about things that you

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Speaker 1: know what I'm saying We're a vomit up conversation, growing

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Speaker 1: up conversation, so that means tomorrow we let loose. It's

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Speaker 1: all fun those Everyone say goodbye by the fifteen minute

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Speaker 1: Morning Show