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Speaker 1: Brooking Jebels second data date. Not only does today's second

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Speaker 1: his date, all of his friends are telling him that

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Speaker 1: he did something very wrong. Alex, how are you hey,

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Speaker 1: I'm all right, how are you good? Thanks for your email,

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Speaker 1: appreciate it. My pleasure, Oh, my pain, my pleasure, my pain.

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Speaker 1: Alex isn't getting a call back from a girl named

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Speaker 1: Courtney And Alex tell us about Courtney and your date. Well,

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Speaker 1: we met on e harmony and I've done an online

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Speaker 1: date before, so I know that they could be kind

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Speaker 1: of awkward. So this time I tried to like alleviate

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Speaker 1: date to okay, and we went to Panera. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't like it, but it's a strong reaction you want.

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Speaker 1: So you went there and you had you had food. Well,

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Speaker 1: it seemed to be good in that I didn't feel

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Speaker 1: much pressure on her. And we were chatting um and

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Speaker 1: we talked about hobbies. Obviously one of my hobbies got mentioned.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if you've been to a comic con before,

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Speaker 1: but I haven't. Pretty fun they look like actually they

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Speaker 1: do look like a lot of fun. Yeah, um like

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Speaker 1: it's a fun hobby. Um And I figures looking about

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Speaker 1: hobbies at on the date. So The Big Bang Theory

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Speaker 1: is the most popular show on television. Nerds are very in.

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Speaker 1: It is very popular right now. It's chic Alex to

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Speaker 1: be a nerd. Yeah, but I thought it was pretty

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Speaker 1: good talk. We had better than usual, I would say

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Speaker 1: for for other online dates and I've been on. Can

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Speaker 1: I just ask one personal nerdy question, Alex? I gotta

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Speaker 1: know what do you dress up when you go to

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Speaker 1: comic Con? As well? There's an excellent named Gambit. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: I love Yeah? Is that Gambit? Yeah? It is? Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Well I don't want to rag, but when I go

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Speaker 1: as a Gambit, I go all out, you know, trench coat,

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Speaker 1: purple abs, the oversized playing cards, pretty much have it

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Speaker 1: all all? Right? Do you do the sick cage in

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Speaker 1: accent as well? I tried to. I guess it's hard

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Speaker 1: to maintain, but I do my best. Now. When you

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Speaker 1: told her that you dress up and go to comic Con,

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Speaker 1: when you did, she seem weird about it. I don't

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Speaker 1: that's why she's not writing, you know, writing a calling back.

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Speaker 1: But I thought it was just like a regular conversation topic.

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Speaker 1: It's just that when I mentioned to my friends, they're like, oh,

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Speaker 1: that's the problem. When you ended the date with her,

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Speaker 1: was everything good? Did it seem like there would be

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Speaker 1: a second date? It seemed like, I mean, it wasn't

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Speaker 1: So I just sort of gave her a peck on

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Speaker 1: It was like when she was walking away, you just

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Speaker 1: snatched a peck on the cheek and then ran away. Drive. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so she was there for the peck on the chick.

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Speaker 1: She liked it. In my view, she did okay, didn't

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Speaker 1: resist who kid? Who could resist you? Out here? Ye?

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Speaker 1: Are you sure you're not leaving anything out Alex, Not

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Speaker 1: that I can think of? How many times have you

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Speaker 1: tried to get a hold of her? Well, I don't

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Speaker 1: want to be too obsessive, So I just left a

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Speaker 1: but the texts were in succession. All right, gambet, Well

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Speaker 1: hang on, we're gonna play a song. Come back and

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Speaker 1: get your superpowered second date update. All right, okay, all right, man,

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Speaker 1: hold on five looking jubile in the morning. Second date. Hey,

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Speaker 1: Alex yep, if this second date update doesn't work out

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Speaker 1: for you, trust me, there are plenty of girls out

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Speaker 1: you and go out with you. Cool. I will even

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Speaker 1: strictly address you as Gambit or remy lebou from here

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Speaker 1: on out, he excited. He got alex Is on the

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Speaker 1: a hard time believing that that would scare a girl away,

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Speaker 1: all right, Alex, We're gonna give her a call right now.

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Speaker 1: You're ready? Okay, here we go? Helloh can I speak

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Speaker 1: to Courtney plea? Hi is the Courtney? Hey Courtney, how

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Speaker 1: are you? This is Jewel from brook and Jewil in

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Speaker 1: the Morning. I'm Moving ninety two point five. Sorry, this

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Speaker 1: is Jewil from Brooke and Jewil in the Morning on

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Speaker 1: the radio station Moving ninety two point five. He got

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Speaker 1: a second? Hey, what's this about? Do you listen to

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Speaker 1: the show at all? Courtney? Have you heard the second

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Speaker 1: date update before? Yes? Sometimes? Okay, you recently went out

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Speaker 1: to do a second date update on you? Oh geez,

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Speaker 1: okay his name is Alex. Yeah. Yeah. Have you been

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Speaker 1: on many dates other than with Alex lately? Not? Really?

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Speaker 1: But did you like Alex? Did you enjoy your date? Oh? Well,

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Speaker 1: he's really nice. Um, this is like, this is really weird, strange, Courtney.

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Speaker 1: Let me ask you a question. Alex talked to us

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Speaker 1: con might have been a turnoff for you. Yeah, oh

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Speaker 1: he is. I don't know. I didn't really know what

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Speaker 1: it's like grown adult people dressing in costumes. Yeah, I mean,

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Speaker 1: I'm sure that's fun for some people, but it was

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Speaker 1: I don't know he was telling me. He was like

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Speaker 1: for you. Well, that's like that's mean to say, Like

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Speaker 1: that's it, Like, you know, if one hobby like no,

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Speaker 1: thank you? I mean right, so you just didn't like him? No, no, no,

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Speaker 1: I like him. I totally think he's like really sweet.

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Speaker 1: I really don't want to say anything bad about him,

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Speaker 1: if it's not that bad, he's the one that wants

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Speaker 1: the date in some way. Yeah, yeah, I mean he

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Speaker 1: he didn't mean to me. Well, what was it though

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Speaker 1: He shows up like we went just for like a

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Speaker 1: quick one. It's like totally informal. He told me Panera

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Speaker 1: So um, he shows up and that's really bad that

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Speaker 1: Like I was like, you wearing like little denim jean shorts.

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Speaker 1: You were like little do you remember those like Jenko

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Speaker 1: I'm a terrible person purchase for making fun of his fashion. No,

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Speaker 1: be crazy, right, Courtney. Yeah, Alex is actually on the

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, Oh my god. I'm so sorry. I

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Speaker 1: you didn't. You just I didn't think the jean shorts

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Speaker 1: were that bad. It's just it's just not texeat. You know.

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Speaker 1: doesn't really matter as a guy who's in a fashion Alex,

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Speaker 1: sometimes I wear some things that people don't understand either.

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Speaker 1: You just gotta go with it and be yourself, wear

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Speaker 1: I think McLamore had a whole song about it, where

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Speaker 1: whatever you want. Yeah, No, those jeen shorts can never

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Speaker 1: So Courtney, you're you. Alex didn't necessarily do anything wrong.

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Speaker 1: He just isn't attractive to you because he dresses funny,

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Speaker 1: I don't always use that it was relevant. How many

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Speaker 1: said it before. I suppose like a hashtag. You know,

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Speaker 1: it's like a hashtag. Courtney, I like you. Maybe I

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Speaker 1: thought you liked me back too. Oh, Courtney, is there

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Speaker 1: any way that I could convince you to go out

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Speaker 1: with Alex again? Give him one more shot? Yeah, he's

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Speaker 1: a great guy. He sounds like a nice guy. He

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Speaker 1: to lay off the bitches be crazy? Why even though

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Speaker 1: I like it? Yeah, will you go out with him again?

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Speaker 1: We will pay for a second date. Um. You know,

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Speaker 1: I feel so bad that I just said all that stuff.

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Speaker 1: I just like Alex just such a great guy. I

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Speaker 1: I'm really sorry, Alex. You need a girl who's a

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Speaker 1: little more your speed. Someone who's into jean shorts and

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Speaker 1: Never Chames Man, never changs broken Jupil in the morning,