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Speaker 1: go by Ferrari Simmons and I go buy your best
Speaker 1: Friends since solo CT What m BT is on vacation?
Speaker 1: Vacation from what? Didn't it? Wasn't you just a Miami
Speaker 1: like a week ago? Heco my bad, I keep saying,
Speaker 1: I keep trying to be little him. I don't know
Speaker 1: who we went with. Was it was it a lady
Speaker 1: a significant other? I don't know. I think it was
Speaker 1: somebody significant. I don't even if it was a significant other,
Speaker 1: lady or just a lady friend. Well, bet enjoy your vacations.
Speaker 1: Back to work on Thursday, your motherfucker. I'm great. I'm
Speaker 1: having a good time. I'm feeling good. I'm well rested.
Speaker 1: I want on the walk today. I've been writing, I've
Speaker 1: been reading, I've been drinking my water. My urine is clear.
Speaker 1: I feel great. That's nice, that's it's good. Yeah what
Speaker 1: about you? Elc t um saying it? But I've been
Speaker 1: all right. But everything is cool. I ain't gonna catch
Speaker 1: Everything is nice and smooth, easy, sneezy, peasy, sleazy easy,
Speaker 1: not the sleazy part, Okay, without sleezy. Are you guys
Speaker 1: ready to pnb Rock? I'm tired of this. I'm going on,
Speaker 1: it's heavy. He was at the Roscoe's and uh, Los Angeles.
Speaker 1: Apparently he was in the very bad one, not the
Speaker 1: one by the airport. Um, with all the jewelry on,
Speaker 1: with his girlfriend security, no security, and uh an attempted
Speaker 1: robbery gone back. Okay, so I have a couple of things.
Speaker 1: Let's just be real about it. Um. A lot of
Speaker 1: people are on social media right now bothered ourt comments
Speaker 1: all over the gram blaming the girlfriend for posting the location.
Speaker 1: I'm going to say this, you guys, we have to
Speaker 1: be really careful with putting blame on someone on one
Speaker 1: person in situations like this, because someone else could also say, well,
Speaker 1: why was he running around with that much jewelry and security?
Speaker 1: It's not fair to put it on the girlfriend. I
Speaker 1: do agree that we all need to be cautious about
Speaker 1: posting our locations in real time, especially when you are
Speaker 1: someone of status. I agree with that. I also agree
Speaker 1: that people of status should not be outside wearing all
Speaker 1: this jewelry with no security. Yeah, we gotta be careful.
Speaker 1: We we know what's going on out here. We know
Speaker 1: that we're targets hip hop. You know that you are
Speaker 1: in a dangerous field. We need all to do better.
Speaker 1: And I also think, and this is just a random thought,
Speaker 1: sometimes l A can really distract you because the weather
Speaker 1: is nice. It's just a great beyont the scene is nice,
Speaker 1: and it could kind of lower your paranoia it to
Speaker 1: a point where you just was like, all right, it's cool,
Speaker 1: let's go in and grab something to eat real quick.
Speaker 1: And I don't I'm not saying I knew know exactly
Speaker 1: what happened. I'm just saying that he let his guard
Speaker 1: guard down. And ironically, he just did an interview a
Speaker 1: week and a half ago with academics talking about how
Speaker 1: someone was trying to press up on him in l
Speaker 1: A and he kept his guard up and he didn't
Speaker 1: want to lack. So I'm just trying to figure out
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure it's ten different stories of what exactly happened. Um,
Speaker 1: it's just heartbreaking that. Uh. In the old POC song,
Speaker 1: we don't gotta worry about them killing us, just us
Speaker 1: killing us when you think about it. Nipsey Hustle Golf
Speaker 1: PNB rock. We're all just doing normal things. He was
Speaker 1: chicken and waffles, Dolf was getting cookies, and I mean,
Speaker 1: it's it's sad what we're doing to each other. But
Speaker 1: I hope that the king rests well. I hope that
Speaker 1: his family does not watch the video that these insensitive
Speaker 1: people posted or person posted. That's another thing. We gotta
Speaker 1: stop sharing videos like this for cloud. You're not thinking
Speaker 1: of their family. They may have kids, parents, whoever, significant
Speaker 1: others that are going to be on social media and
Speaker 1: are gonna see this. We gotta stop. Yeah, and you did,
Speaker 1: you guys see the tweet that when of the rappers said,
Speaker 1: you know, l A's real hot right now, so not
Speaker 1: from here, you shouldn't be here is hot right now.
Speaker 1: It's a lot going on everywhere Atlanta. There's a lot
Speaker 1: going on in Atlanta. There's a lot going on everywhere.
Speaker 1: Speaking of Atlanta, you know when all the gang here
Speaker 1: was doing all the break ins and they broke into
Speaker 1: Mariah Carey's house, Well, you know that house is now
Speaker 1: for sale. It's traumatizing. I mean it's traumatizing. And I
Speaker 1: came in from work one night. This is when I
Speaker 1: was working in compound, so it might have been around
Speaker 1: like four in the morning, and I noticed that, like
Speaker 1: my curtains were like pulled to the side, and my
Speaker 1: laptop was gone, a little smoke was gone, and it
Speaker 1: just felt like a violation. Even though I wasn't there
Speaker 1: to see it. It was uncomfortable going to sleep, So
Speaker 1: I can't imagine what it's like seeing it, or you know,
Speaker 1: having to consider your children or your family being in
Speaker 1: at home. This was just me and I was so uncomfortable.
Speaker 1: So y'all, we we gotta do better. I had when
Speaker 1: I was younger, somebody bringing to our house, and that
Speaker 1: feeling is just like you feel empty, you feel like scared.
Speaker 1: You know, I get mad, like you know, I've been
Speaker 1: robbed before, and I stay paranoid with every single little
Speaker 1: detail from when I leave my house to when I
Speaker 1: get home, Like I I put on my Instagram story,
Speaker 1: like it's a job leaving your house and arriving at
Speaker 1: your house and protecting your house. Thank God for cameras.
Speaker 1: How many times? How many times do you guys get
Speaker 1: up to make sure the doors locked right right right?
Speaker 1: And now we've got so many ways to doing it
Speaker 1: on our phones or you know just what, but just
Speaker 1: stay safe. Y'all all right, moving right along. Suit. So
Speaker 1: we was talking earlier on the radio about this, uh,
Speaker 1: this crazy as subject between this wife finding out her man.
Speaker 1: Go ahead, please. So there's this woman, black couple man woman.
Speaker 1: She thinks that they're in a monogamous relation and ship.
Speaker 1: She believes she's with a totally straight man. So we
Speaker 1: assume on her wedding day, on their wedding day, she
Speaker 1: got her dress on, hair done, nails did super excited
Speaker 1: to be marrying her man. Yes, he proposed to me. Yes,
Speaker 1: everybody here celebrate us. Oh my god, and his ex
Speaker 1: girlfriend leaves a video of him having sex with another man. Now,
Speaker 1: in your first mind of thought, you might have been like, okay,
Speaker 1: divorce as soon as we got married, baby, it's over.
Speaker 1: A no man, I'm about to run out of here,
Speaker 1: called me the runaway bride. I'm out. But no, since
Speaker 1: continue to enjoy her dad, she stuck with the reception.
Speaker 1: She stuck beside him. And although some of y'all might
Speaker 1: be cringing, you know their reaction is a hell of
Speaker 1: a lot different. Damn Okay, she already know what's up,
Speaker 1: what happen, So it's kind of like, damn, everybody know now, well, yeah,
Speaker 1: after reception is when I knew everybody know coming saying,
Speaker 1: you know, it's it's it's everywhere. He trend in, trend in.
Speaker 1: But like I said, the video was old. I mean,
Speaker 1: I know, I know my husband's a freak. So well,
Speaker 1: the freak come a lot of different freaky things, you know,
Speaker 1: if you different for everybody. So I'm not judging the
Speaker 1: damn thing. I just know that that ain't my preference.
Speaker 1: That ain't I don't, I don't know. It's so confusing,
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't understand. I actually I don't understand
Speaker 1: why why people are just taking this all the way left?
Speaker 1: When is she cooling in the wet It's that initial
Speaker 1: shock and people are putting themselves in that position. That's
Speaker 1: what My husband's a freak, So yeah, whatever floats your boat.
Speaker 1: She's obviously okay with this, and like she said, he's
Speaker 1: a freaky. Make she may not believe that he's still
Speaker 1: doing it. I feel that she knew. I don't think
Speaker 1: she was shocked. Um, there's no way for me to
Speaker 1: imagine that I would receive that information on my wedding
Speaker 1: day and still had that motherfucker dress on and be
Speaker 1: at the reception goddamn cheers and and taking photos knowing
Speaker 1: that everybody is talking about it at the Damn. I
Speaker 1: couldn't do it. I couldn't do it where they spent
Speaker 1: all that money, you know, I don't give a damn
Speaker 1: if it was me, if it caught me off guard,
Speaker 1: I don't know if I could react like she did.
Speaker 1: I mean, especially, listen that wing reception usually about an hour,
Speaker 1: don't hand it minutes go by real quick, like they
Speaker 1: didn't already cooked and paid for everybody to come in.
Speaker 1: I want to see the reception video or people dancing,
Speaker 1: what they're talking, what they like did they said that
Speaker 1: was quiet? Like what happened? Could you hear a pen drop?
Speaker 1: Like it was even talking? Okay, but it was there
Speaker 1: slide with slide. Listen, different strucks for different folks. Different
Speaker 1: people love differently. I respect all levels of love. I
Speaker 1: just think that you have to be honest. You should
Speaker 1: be honest with the person that you're with. Also, what
Speaker 1: I'm learning is you gotta ask questions. This is what
Speaker 1: I'm learning. There are a lot of people that are like,
Speaker 1: it wasn't a natural conversation. It just didn't come up
Speaker 1: like it was my ladies and gentlemen asked the questions
Speaker 1: that you want to damn no, ask the questions. But
Speaker 1: you know what, we want to talk to your best seas.
Speaker 1: I want to know if you were in this position,
Speaker 1: what would you do it came I want to be
Speaker 1: with him. I'm sorry. I understand different girls with different folks,
Speaker 1: but to know that I've just married him in that,
Speaker 1: I mean, if this right theory, like, and then another thing, honestly, like,
Speaker 1: how can you really enjoy yourself at the reception? Exactly?
Speaker 1: I do think that she's kind of putting on the show.
Speaker 1: But then side, I know you're not. You don't like that?
Speaker 1: Or it could be that really want to keep her men.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, she did say that. She did say she
Speaker 1: may want to keep her man, and so she might
Speaker 1: be like acting like she's okay with it. Listen, a
Speaker 1: lot of women will try to convince themselves that they're
Speaker 1: okay with something when they're really not. I think a
Speaker 1: lot of people do that in general. I think it's
Speaker 1: just really hard for us to accept that you saw
Speaker 1: your man having sex with another man. Okay, cue ushers
Speaker 1: my way. I'm speaking to couples. You're all ready for loss.
Speaker 1: The minute I met you, baby, I knew I wanted
Speaker 1: to marry the lovey. It's love versus money. Let's say
Speaker 1: you can't put a price tag on love. I love
Speaker 1: on the ball or alerted show because I was scared
Speaker 1: with crushan blue face. Last week. It was a really
Speaker 1: good one. That was all right. So this week, for
Speaker 1: y'all who don't know love versus money, I'm going to
Speaker 1: throw out a couple. You guys gonna give me your
Speaker 1: opinion on if they're there for the love or the money,
Speaker 1: and then can you let me know the success rate
Speaker 1: of the couple. All right, So this week we got
Speaker 1: money bag Yo and Ari. Damn, they're not together right now.
Speaker 1: They broke up allegedly, But isn't there an alleged pregnant
Speaker 1: it's an alleged pregnancy. I heard some some rumors about
Speaker 1: a pregnancy, and I don't know if it's true. I
Speaker 1: hope they work out their issues. I actually hope the
Speaker 1: breakup is a rumor. I hope that's false because I
Speaker 1: really like that. But nonetheless, I think it's love. I
Speaker 1: think I think it's a good hood love. I think
Speaker 1: both on both parts. I genuinely think that Ari Fletcher
Speaker 1: and money Bag, y'all have real love for one another.
Speaker 1: I do not doubt it whatsoever. So if that's the case,
Speaker 1: if they have real love, you know it's not about
Speaker 1: money or anything like that. Because she got her own bag,
Speaker 1: he got his own bag. He's money bag, and um,
Speaker 1: what were about to go to? Go ahead? They really
Speaker 1: love eachself? I think so too. I thought you were
Speaker 1: gonna say, you know what if they didn't have the
Speaker 1: things that they have, like the money that they would have.
Speaker 1: But yeah, I do think they could work it out.
Speaker 1: I hope they can work it out. But nonetheless, I
Speaker 1: just hope it's a healthy relationship for the both of them.
Speaker 1: Don't get back together for nobody, not for the magazines,
Speaker 1: not for the blogs. Like, don't get back together for
Speaker 1: nobody unless it's healthy for the both of you. But
Speaker 1: I think it's love. I think they love each other
Speaker 1: for real. Yeah, I do. I'm going with love. I
Speaker 1: do think it's love with a sprinkle of money because
Speaker 1: it is a good economic decision to be with each other.
Speaker 1: They use bosses and they both make money. Um, but
Speaker 1: I can definitely tell other they make love to each other.
Speaker 1: I could tell that they make love to each other
Speaker 1: about how they talk to each other when you can
Speaker 1: kind of see it in the camera, how they look
Speaker 1: at each other in the camera. You can't fake an
Speaker 1: organic love and feeling for somebody. So the way that
Speaker 1: they look at each other, Yeah, they love each other.
Speaker 1: They make love. I know. It remind me when I
Speaker 1: used to boys. They ain't just it ain't just a
Speaker 1: they and having passionate sex. Okay, yeah, they're looking at
Speaker 1: each other's eyes. You're stupid. And on that note, let
Speaker 1: go to commerce. We'll be right back with more of
Speaker 1: the Baller Alert show. Now it is time for baller Now.
Speaker 1: I'm nervous, Dear ball Alert. My man snores so loud.
Speaker 1: It's starting to affect our relationship. We we don't even
Speaker 1: sleep in the same room. My issue is I need
Speaker 1: to cuddle with my man to fall asleep. So now
Speaker 1: I'm not getting the proper sleep because my man either
Speaker 1: snores and I can't sleep, or he sleeps in another
Speaker 1: room and I can't sleep. I don't know what to do.
Speaker 1: Please help. That's called go to the doctor. You don't
Speaker 1: they have like strips and all that south, But I'm
Speaker 1: going ahead and let you throw It might just be
Speaker 1: a little dry. You might just need a little what
Speaker 1: a little oh humidifier like you know, be probably can't
Speaker 1: free because probably I don't know forever. Girl, go to
Speaker 1: the doctor. That's number one. Just go to the doctor.
Speaker 1: Some people really have issues they need to go see,
Speaker 1: especially have surgically removed because their airwaves are really blocked.
Speaker 1: So stop thinking that your man is snoring and it's
Speaker 1: just like some small thing. It might actually really be
Speaker 1: a health concern. Could be diet, could be that what's
Speaker 1: you're feeding that man? Well, apparently you're in a relationship
Speaker 1: with a big man and I mustn't Why would you
Speaker 1: have sold that because he's crazy? In the comment section,
Speaker 1: if he's a smaller guy, uh, I mean like you know,
Speaker 1: husky not husky, then it's definitely a It could be
Speaker 1: a health problem with fees um because I actually snore
Speaker 1: and I'm under a hundred and sixty five. I had
Speaker 1: to go get a sleep test and find out that
Speaker 1: I have a percentage of blocking on my left nottril.
Speaker 1: But I had to go get help for that. So
Speaker 1: if you care about your man, you need to uh
Speaker 1: dissect the problem. But I will say, if he's a
Speaker 1: big man, you know it's that time of the year, baby,
Speaker 1: Like you're gonna be cold in that bed having having
Speaker 1: your big dog sleep in another room. So uh be
Speaker 1: there for him and and take him to the doctor
Speaker 1: and see if he's gonna have to take a sleep test.
Speaker 1: That's usually what they tend to do. This is actually
Speaker 1: real advice. Have a little teefore, have a little tee
Speaker 1: before bed, a little nasal strips, certain things to help.
Speaker 1: Maybe his tonsils need to be removed. There are a
Speaker 1: couple of things that affects snoring, so you might want
Speaker 1: to help him and be there for him. Don't just
Speaker 1: sleep in another room or just go to bed and um,
Speaker 1: I mean sleep in another room and tell your favorite
Speaker 1: I because clearly she can't just do that as a solution.
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, come to a better solution than just
Speaker 1: sleeping in other rooms and and then being mad sleeping
Speaker 1: in um with him. So that was a cute ballerment,
Speaker 1: But I gotta get juicy, Okay, I want next week's
Speaker 1: to be nasty. Uh. She actually DM me back and said,
Speaker 1: are you gonna do it? Yeah, you're gonna do it yet?
Speaker 1: And I said, yeah, I got you here. We'll be
Speaker 1: right back with more of the bailer alert show. Time
Speaker 1: for us, get up out of here. Let me get
Speaker 1: some shoutouts, guys. UM, I want to shout out my
Speaker 1: entire Tigodie community. Shout out to us. We celebrated a
Speaker 1: couple of holidays. This weekend September eleventh was actually New
Speaker 1: Year's for Tiglians, Ethiopians and Airtreans. So happy new Year
Speaker 1: to the entire community. Happy new Year to the Eritreans
Speaker 1: and Ethiopians that do not support the ticketdie and genocide.
Speaker 1: And shout out to all my ticket Liians for rebelling
Speaker 1: and choosing joy and keeping our culture alive. I had
Speaker 1: a great time we dressed up. You can go check
Speaker 1: it out on my Instagram at on the score. So
Speaker 1: solo happy a Shinda, Yes, I love that. UM. I
Speaker 1: want to say big shout out to Shirley Ralfman um
Speaker 1: this week at the Emmys, she gave an amazing speech
Speaker 1: and UM, I just want everybody to hear one more
Speaker 1: time and the amy goes shoot Shirley round oming in
Speaker 1: dangerous species, But I've seen no victim song. I am
Speaker 1: a woman, I'm a nottist, and I know love below
Speaker 1: to anyone who has ever ever had a dream and
Speaker 1: thought your dream wasn't, wouldn't, couldn't come true. I am
Speaker 1: here to tell you that this is what believing looks like,
Speaker 1: this is what striving looks like. And don't you ever
Speaker 1: ever give up on you, because if you get a
Speaker 1: Quinta Bronson and your corner, if you get a husband
Speaker 1: like mine in your corner, if you get children like
Speaker 1: mine in your corner, and if you've got friends like
Speaker 1: everybody who voted for me, cheered for me, love me,
Speaker 1: thank you, thank you. The first one was Jackie Harry
Speaker 1: from two to seven and it's the best Supporting Actress
Speaker 1: in a comedy. Uh. She's the second black woman to
Speaker 1: ever win this award, and um, it's been a long
Speaker 1: time coming for her, so I'm just super happy for her,
Speaker 1: super proud of her. Shout out to Quintin Bronson, the
Speaker 1: creator of Abbot Elementary, in which whom she won the
Speaker 1: award from. And uh, just every black person, especially black
Speaker 1: woman out there, who has a dream, don't give up.
Speaker 1: Keep going, ma'am. I usually have something kind of comical
Speaker 1: to say, but I'm not gonna say anything comical today.
Speaker 1: The key word of this show is flowers. Please give
Speaker 1: flowers to those who deserve them, because you never know
Speaker 1: when someone's gonna be there last day, here with us,
Speaker 1: so even our last day. So the people who are
Speaker 1: especially in your life, let them know that they're special,
Speaker 1: call them, text them, um, do both, and UM tell
Speaker 1: them how much they mean to you, because you never
Speaker 1: know you might not be able to tell them that physically.
Speaker 1: I wish I can do that to my grandma. I
Speaker 1: know she's here in spirit, but I really wish that
Speaker 1: I can show. I wish I can see her face
Speaker 1: in person of all these blessings that I received. But
Speaker 1: then again, I know that they are here because she's
Speaker 1: part of the reason why they're here. So UM, get
Speaker 1: a flowers to the people that you care about. Tell
Speaker 1: the people that you love, you love them, hugg on
Speaker 1: you love ones, Tell people you love them, Hugging your
Speaker 1: kids if you have them, hugging your nieces and nephews. Everybody.
Speaker 1: Just tell everybody that deserves those flowers that they can't
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