WEBVTT - Episode 179 "The Watcher"

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<v Speaker 1>Hold on, hold on, alert and Lord show ball Alert,

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<v Speaker 1>Friends since solo CT What m BT is on vacation?

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<v Speaker 1>Vacation from what? Didn't it? Wasn't you just a Miami

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<v Speaker 1>like a week ago? Heco my bad, I keep saying,

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<v Speaker 1>I keep trying to be little him. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>who we went with. Was it was it a lady

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<v Speaker 1>a significant other? I don't know. I think it was

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<v Speaker 1>somebody significant. I don't even if it was a significant other,

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<v Speaker 1>lady or just a lady friend. Well, bet enjoy your vacations.

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<v Speaker 1>Back to work on Thursday, your motherfucker. I'm great. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>having a good time. I'm feeling good. I'm well rested.

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<v Speaker 1>I want on the walk today. I've been writing, I've

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<v Speaker 1>been reading, I've been drinking my water. My urine is clear.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel great. That's nice, that's it's good. Yeah what

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<v Speaker 1>about you? Elc t um saying it? But I've been

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<v Speaker 1>all right. But everything is cool. I ain't gonna catch

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<v Speaker 1>Everything is nice and smooth, easy, sneezy, peasy, sleazy easy,

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<v Speaker 1>not the sleazy part, Okay, without sleezy. Are you guys

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<v Speaker 1>ready to pnb Rock? I'm tired of this. I'm going on,

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<v Speaker 1>it's heavy. He was at the Roscoe's and uh, Los Angeles.

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<v Speaker 1>Apparently he was in the very bad one, not the

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<v Speaker 1>one by the airport. Um, with all the jewelry on,

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<v Speaker 1>with his girlfriend security, no security, and uh an attempted

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<v Speaker 1>robbery gone back. Okay, so I have a couple of things.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's just be real about it. Um. A lot of

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<v Speaker 1>people are on social media right now bothered ourt comments

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<v Speaker 1>all over the gram blaming the girlfriend for posting the location.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to say this, you guys, we have to

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<v Speaker 1>be really careful with putting blame on someone on one

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<v Speaker 1>person in situations like this, because someone else could also say, well,

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<v Speaker 1>why was he running around with that much jewelry and security?

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<v Speaker 1>It's not fair to put it on the girlfriend. I

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<v Speaker 1>do agree that we all need to be cautious about

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<v Speaker 1>posting our locations in real time, especially when you are

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<v Speaker 1>someone of status. I agree with that. I also agree

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<v Speaker 1>that people of status should not be outside wearing all

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<v Speaker 1>this jewelry with no security. Yeah, we gotta be careful.

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<v Speaker 1>We we know what's going on out here. We know

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<v Speaker 1>that we're targets hip hop. You know that you are

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<v Speaker 1>in a dangerous field. We need all to do better.

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<v Speaker 1>And I also think, and this is just a random thought,

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes l A can really distract you because the weather

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<v Speaker 1>is nice. It's just a great beyont the scene is nice,

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<v Speaker 1>and it could kind of lower your paranoia it to

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<v Speaker 1>a point where you just was like, all right, it's cool,

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<v Speaker 1>let's go in and grab something to eat real quick.

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<v Speaker 1>And I don't I'm not saying I knew know exactly

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<v Speaker 1>what happened. I'm just saying that he let his guard

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<v Speaker 1>guard down. And ironically, he just did an interview a

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<v Speaker 1>week and a half ago with academics talking about how

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<v Speaker 1>someone was trying to press up on him in l

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<v Speaker 1>A and he kept his guard up and he didn't

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<v Speaker 1>want to lack. So I'm just trying to figure out

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<v Speaker 1>I'm pretty sure it's ten different stories of what exactly happened. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just heartbreaking that. Uh. In the old POC song,

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<v Speaker 1>we don't gotta worry about them killing us, just us

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<v Speaker 1>killing us when you think about it. Nipsey Hustle Golf

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<v Speaker 1>PNB rock. We're all just doing normal things. He was

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<v Speaker 1>chicken and waffles, Dolf was getting cookies, and I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's sad what we're doing to each other. But

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<v Speaker 1>I hope that the king rests well. I hope that

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<v Speaker 1>his family does not watch the video that these insensitive

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<v Speaker 1>people posted or person posted. That's another thing. We gotta

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<v Speaker 1>stop sharing videos like this for cloud. You're not thinking

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<v Speaker 1>of their family. They may have kids, parents, whoever, significant

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<v Speaker 1>others that are going to be on social media and

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<v Speaker 1>are gonna see this. We gotta stop. Yeah, and you did,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys see the tweet that when of the rappers said,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, l A's real hot right now, so not

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<v Speaker 1>from here, you shouldn't be here is hot right now.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a lot going on everywhere Atlanta. There's a lot

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<v Speaker 1>going on in Atlanta. There's a lot going on everywhere.

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<v Speaker 1>Speaking of Atlanta, you know when all the gang here

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<v Speaker 1>was doing all the break ins and they broke into

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<v Speaker 1>Mariah Carey's house, Well, you know that house is now

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<v Speaker 1>for sale. It's traumatizing. I mean it's traumatizing. And I

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<v Speaker 1>came in from work one night. This is when I

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<v Speaker 1>was working in compound, so it might have been around

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<v Speaker 1>like four in the morning, and I noticed that, like

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<v Speaker 1>my curtains were like pulled to the side, and my

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<v Speaker 1>laptop was gone, a little smoke was gone, and it

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<v Speaker 1>just felt like a violation. Even though I wasn't there

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<v Speaker 1>to see it. It was uncomfortable going to sleep, So

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<v Speaker 1>I can't imagine what it's like seeing it, or you know,

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<v Speaker 1>having to consider your children or your family being in

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<v Speaker 1>at home. This was just me and I was so uncomfortable.

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<v Speaker 1>So y'all, we we gotta do better. I had when

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<v Speaker 1>I was younger, somebody bringing to our house, and that

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<v Speaker 1>feeling is just like you feel empty, you feel like scared.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I get mad, like you know, I've been

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<v Speaker 1>robbed before, and I stay paranoid with every single little

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<v Speaker 1>detail from when I leave my house to when I

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<v Speaker 1>get home, Like I I put on my Instagram story,

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<v Speaker 1>like it's a job leaving your house and arriving at

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<v Speaker 1>your house and protecting your house. Thank God for cameras.

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<v Speaker 1>How many times? How many times do you guys get

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<v Speaker 1>up to make sure the doors locked right right right?

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<v Speaker 1>And now we've got so many ways to doing it

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<v Speaker 1>on our phones or you know just what, but just

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<v Speaker 1>stay safe. Y'all all right, moving right along. Suit. So

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<v Speaker 1>we was talking earlier on the radio about this, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>this crazy as subject between this wife finding out her man.

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<v Speaker 1>Go ahead, please. So there's this woman, black couple man woman.

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<v Speaker 1>She thinks that they're in a monogamous relation and ship.

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<v Speaker 1>She believes she's with a totally straight man. So we

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<v Speaker 1>assume on her wedding day, on their wedding day, she

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<v Speaker 1>got her dress on, hair done, nails did super excited

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<v Speaker 1>to be marrying her man. Yes, he proposed to me. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>everybody here celebrate us. Oh my god, and his ex

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<v Speaker 1>girlfriend leaves a video of him having sex with another man. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>in your first mind of thought, you might have been like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>divorce as soon as we got married, baby, it's over.

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<v Speaker 1>A no man, I'm about to run out of here,

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<v Speaker 1>called me the runaway bride. I'm out. But no, since

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<v Speaker 1>continue to enjoy her dad, she stuck with the reception.

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<v Speaker 1>She stuck beside him. And although some of y'all might

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<v Speaker 1>be cringing, you know their reaction is a hell of

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<v Speaker 1>a lot different. Damn Okay, she already know what's up,

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<v Speaker 1>what happen, So it's kind of like, damn, everybody know now, well, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>after reception is when I knew everybody know coming saying,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it's it's it's everywhere. He trend in, trend in.

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<v Speaker 1>But like I said, the video was old. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I know my husband's a freak. So well,

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<v Speaker 1>the freak come a lot of different freaky things, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>if you different for everybody. So I'm not judging the

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<v Speaker 1>damn thing. I just know that that ain't my preference.

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<v Speaker 1>That ain't I don't, I don't know. It's so confusing,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't. I don't understand. I actually I don't understand

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<v Speaker 1>why why people are just taking this all the way left?

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<v Speaker 1>When is she cooling in the wet It's that initial

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<v Speaker 1>shock and people are putting themselves in that position. That's

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<v Speaker 1>what My husband's a freak, So yeah, whatever floats your boat.

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<v Speaker 1>She's obviously okay with this, and like she said, he's

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<v Speaker 1>a freaky. Make she may not believe that he's still

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<v Speaker 1>doing it. I feel that she knew. I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>she was shocked. Um, there's no way for me to

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<v Speaker 1>imagine that I would receive that information on my wedding

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<v Speaker 1>day and still had that motherfucker dress on and be

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<v Speaker 1>at the reception goddamn cheers and and taking photos knowing

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<v Speaker 1>that everybody is talking about it at the Damn. I

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't do it. I couldn't do it where they spent

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<v Speaker 1>all that money, you know, I don't give a damn

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<v Speaker 1>if it was me, if it caught me off guard,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if I could react like she did.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, especially, listen that wing reception usually about an hour,

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<v Speaker 1>don't hand it minutes go by real quick, like they

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<v Speaker 1>didn't already cooked and paid for everybody to come in.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to see the reception video or people dancing,

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<v Speaker 1>what they're talking, what they like did they said that

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<v Speaker 1>was quiet? Like what happened? Could you hear a pen drop?

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<v Speaker 1>Like it was even talking? Okay, but it was there

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<v Speaker 1>slide with slide. Listen, different strucks for different folks. Different

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<v Speaker 1>people love differently. I respect all levels of love. I

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<v Speaker 1>just think that you have to be honest. You should

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<v Speaker 1>be honest with the person that you're with. Also, what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm learning is you gotta ask questions. This is what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm learning. There are a lot of people that are like,

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't a natural conversation. It just didn't come up

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<v Speaker 1>like it was my ladies and gentlemen asked the questions

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<v Speaker 1>that you want to damn no, ask the questions. But

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, we want to talk to your best seas.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to know if you were in this position,

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<v Speaker 1>what would you do it came I want to be

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<v Speaker 1>with him. I'm sorry. I understand different girls with different folks,

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<v Speaker 1>but to know that I've just married him in that,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, if this right theory, like, and then another thing, honestly, like,

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<v Speaker 1>how can you really enjoy yourself at the reception? Exactly?

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<v Speaker 1>I do think that she's kind of putting on the show.

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<v Speaker 1>But then side, I know you're not. You don't like that?

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<v Speaker 1>Or it could be that really want to keep her men.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, she did say that. She did say she

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<v Speaker 1>may want to keep her man, and so she might

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<v Speaker 1>be like acting like she's okay with it. Listen, a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of women will try to convince themselves that they're

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<v Speaker 1>okay with something when they're really not. I think a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of people do that in general. I think it's

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<v Speaker 1>just really hard for us to accept that you saw

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<v Speaker 1>your man having sex with another man. Okay, cue ushers

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<v Speaker 1>my way. I'm speaking to couples. You're all ready for loss.

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<v Speaker 1>The minute I met you, baby, I knew I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to marry the lovey. It's love versus money. Let's say

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<v Speaker 1>you can't put a price tag on love. I love

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<v Speaker 1>on the ball or alerted show because I was scared

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<v Speaker 1>with crushan blue face. Last week. It was a really

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<v Speaker 1>good one. That was all right. So this week, for

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<v Speaker 1>y'all who don't know love versus money, I'm going to

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<v Speaker 1>throw out a couple. You guys gonna give me your

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<v Speaker 1>opinion on if they're there for the love or the money,

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<v Speaker 1>and then can you let me know the success rate

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<v Speaker 1>of the couple. All right, So this week we got

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<v Speaker 1>money bag Yo and Ari. Damn, they're not together right now.

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<v Speaker 1>They broke up allegedly, But isn't there an alleged pregnant

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<v Speaker 1>it's an alleged pregnancy. I heard some some rumors about

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<v Speaker 1>a pregnancy, and I don't know if it's true. I

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<v Speaker 1>hope they work out their issues. I actually hope the

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<v Speaker 1>breakup is a rumor. I hope that's false because I

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<v Speaker 1>really like that. But nonetheless, I think it's love. I

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<v Speaker 1>think I think it's a good hood love. I think

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<v Speaker 1>both on both parts. I genuinely think that Ari Fletcher

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<v Speaker 1>and money Bag, y'all have real love for one another.

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<v Speaker 1>I do not doubt it whatsoever. So if that's the case,

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<v Speaker 1>if they have real love, you know it's not about

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<v Speaker 1>money or anything like that. Because she got her own bag,

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<v Speaker 1>he got his own bag. He's money bag, and um,

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<v Speaker 1>what were about to go to? Go ahead? They really

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<v Speaker 1>love eachself? I think so too. I thought you were

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<v Speaker 1>gonna say, you know what if they didn't have the

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<v Speaker 1>things that they have, like the money that they would have.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, I do think they could work it out.

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<v Speaker 1>I hope they can work it out. But nonetheless, I

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<v Speaker 1>just hope it's a healthy relationship for the both of them.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't get back together for nobody, not for the magazines,

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<v Speaker 1>not for the blogs. Like, don't get back together for

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<v Speaker 1>nobody unless it's healthy for the both of you. But

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's love. I think they love each other

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<v Speaker 1>for real. Yeah, I do. I'm going with love. I

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<v Speaker 1>do think it's love with a sprinkle of money because

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<v Speaker 1>it is a good economic decision to be with each other.

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<v Speaker 1>They use bosses and they both make money. Um, but

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<v Speaker 1>I can definitely tell other they make love to each other.

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<v Speaker 1>I could tell that they make love to each other

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<v Speaker 1>about how they talk to each other when you can

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<v Speaker 1>kind of see it in the camera, how they look

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<v Speaker 1>at each other in the camera. You can't fake an

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<v Speaker 1>organic love and feeling for somebody. So the way that

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<v Speaker 1>they look at each other, Yeah, they love each other.

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<v Speaker 1>They make love. I know. It remind me when I

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<v Speaker 1>used to boys. They ain't just it ain't just a

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<v Speaker 1>they and having passionate sex. Okay, yeah, they're looking at

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<v Speaker 1>each other's eyes. You're stupid. And on that note, let

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<v Speaker 1>go to commerce. We'll be right back with more of

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<v Speaker 1>the Baller Alert show. Now it is time for baller Now.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm nervous, Dear ball Alert. My man snores so loud.

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<v Speaker 1>It's starting to affect our relationship. We we don't even

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<v Speaker 1>sleep in the same room. My issue is I need

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<v Speaker 1>to cuddle with my man to fall asleep. So now

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not getting the proper sleep because my man either

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<v Speaker 1>snores and I can't sleep, or he sleeps in another

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<v Speaker 1>room and I can't sleep. I don't know what to do.

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<v Speaker 1>Please help. That's called go to the doctor. You don't

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<v Speaker 1>they have like strips and all that south, But I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going ahead and let you throw It might just be

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<v Speaker 1>a little dry. You might just need a little what

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<v Speaker 1>a little oh humidifier like you know, be probably can't

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<v Speaker 1>free because probably I don't know forever. Girl, go to

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<v Speaker 1>the doctor. That's number one. Just go to the doctor.

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<v Speaker 1>Some people really have issues they need to go see,

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<v Speaker 1>especially have surgically removed because their airwaves are really blocked.

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<v Speaker 1>So stop thinking that your man is snoring and it's

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<v Speaker 1>just like some small thing. It might actually really be

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<v Speaker 1>a health concern. Could be diet, could be that what's

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<v Speaker 1>you're feeding that man? Well, apparently you're in a relationship

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<v Speaker 1>with a big man and I mustn't Why would you

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<v Speaker 1>have sold that because he's crazy? In the comment section,

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<v Speaker 1>if he's a smaller guy, uh, I mean like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>husky not husky, then it's definitely a It could be

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<v Speaker 1>a health problem with fees um because I actually snore

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm under a hundred and sixty five. I had

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<v Speaker 1>to go get a sleep test and find out that

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<v Speaker 1>I have a percentage of blocking on my left nottril.

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<v Speaker 1>But I had to go get help for that. So

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<v Speaker 1>if you care about your man, you need to uh

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<v Speaker 1>dissect the problem. But I will say, if he's a

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<v Speaker 1>big man, you know it's that time of the year, baby,

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<v Speaker 1>Like you're gonna be cold in that bed having having

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<v Speaker 1>your big dog sleep in another room. So uh be

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<v Speaker 1>there for him and and take him to the doctor

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<v Speaker 1>and see if he's gonna have to take a sleep test.

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<v Speaker 1>That's usually what they tend to do. This is actually

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<v Speaker 1>real advice. Have a little teefore, have a little tee

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<v Speaker 1>before bed, a little nasal strips, certain things to help.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe his tonsils need to be removed. There are a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of things that affects snoring, so you might want

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<v Speaker 1>to help him and be there for him. Don't just

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<v Speaker 1>sleep in another room or just go to bed and um,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean sleep in another room and tell your favorite

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<v Speaker 1>I because clearly she can't just do that as a solution.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just saying, come to a better solution than just

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<v Speaker 1>sleeping in other rooms and and then being mad sleeping

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<v Speaker 1>in um with him. So that was a cute ballerment,

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<v Speaker 1>But I gotta get juicy, Okay, I want next week's

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<v Speaker 1>to be nasty. Uh. She actually DM me back and said,

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<v Speaker 1>are you gonna do it? Yeah, you're gonna do it yet?

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<v Speaker 1>And I said, yeah, I got you here. We'll be

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<v Speaker 1>right back with more of the bailer alert show. Time

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<v Speaker 1>for us, get up out of here. Let me get

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<v Speaker 1>some shoutouts, guys. UM, I want to shout out my

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<v Speaker 1>entire Tigodie community. Shout out to us. We celebrated a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of holidays. This weekend September eleventh was actually New

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<v Speaker 1>Year's for Tiglians, Ethiopians and Airtreans. So happy new Year

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<v Speaker 1>to the entire community. Happy new Year to the Eritreans

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<v Speaker 1>and Ethiopians that do not support the ticketdie and genocide.

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<v Speaker 1>And shout out to all my ticket Liians for rebelling

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<v Speaker 1>and choosing joy and keeping our culture alive. I had

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<v Speaker 1>a great time we dressed up. You can go check

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<v Speaker 1>it out on my Instagram at on the score. So

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<v Speaker 1>solo happy a Shinda, Yes, I love that. UM. I

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<v Speaker 1>want to say big shout out to Shirley Ralfman um

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<v Speaker 1>this week at the Emmys, she gave an amazing speech

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<v Speaker 1>and UM, I just want everybody to hear one more

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<v Speaker 1>time and the amy goes shoot Shirley round oming in

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<v Speaker 1>dangerous species, But I've seen no victim song. I am

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<v Speaker 1>a woman, I'm a nottist, and I know love below

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<v Speaker 1>to anyone who has ever ever had a dream and

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<v Speaker 1>thought your dream wasn't, wouldn't, couldn't come true. I am

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<v Speaker 1>here to tell you that this is what believing looks like,

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<v Speaker 1>this is what striving looks like. And don't you ever

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<v Speaker 1>ever give up on you, because if you get a

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<v Speaker 1>Quinta Bronson and your corner, if you get a husband

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<v Speaker 1>like mine in your corner, if you get children like

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<v Speaker 1>mine in your corner, and if you've got friends like

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<v Speaker 1>everybody who voted for me, cheered for me, love me,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you, thank you. The first one was Jackie Harry

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<v Speaker 1>from two to seven and it's the best Supporting Actress

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<v Speaker 1>in a comedy. Uh. She's the second black woman to

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<v Speaker 1>ever win this award, and um, it's been a long

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<v Speaker 1>time coming for her, so I'm just super happy for her,

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<v Speaker 1>super proud of her. Shout out to Quintin Bronson, the

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<v Speaker 1>creator of Abbot Elementary, in which whom she won the

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<v Speaker 1>award from. And uh, just every black person, especially black

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<v Speaker 1>woman out there, who has a dream, don't give up.

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<v Speaker 1>Keep going, ma'am. I usually have something kind of comical

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<v Speaker 1>to say, but I'm not gonna say anything comical today.

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<v Speaker 1>The key word of this show is flowers. Please give

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<v Speaker 1>flowers to those who deserve them, because you never know

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<v Speaker 1>when someone's gonna be there last day, here with us,

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<v Speaker 1>so even our last day. So the people who are

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<v Speaker 1>especially in your life, let them know that they're special,

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<v Speaker 1>call them, text them, um, do both, and UM tell

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<v Speaker 1>them how much they mean to you, because you never

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<v Speaker 1>know you might not be able to tell them that physically.

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<v Speaker 1>I wish I can do that to my grandma. I

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<v Speaker 1>know she's here in spirit, but I really wish that

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<v Speaker 1>I can show. I wish I can see her face

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<v Speaker 1>in person of all these blessings that I received. But

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<v Speaker 1>then again, I know that they are here because she's

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<v Speaker 1>part of the reason why they're here. So UM, get

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<v Speaker 1>a flowers to the people that you care about. Tell

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<v Speaker 1>the people that you love, you love them, hugg on

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<v Speaker 1>you love ones, Tell people you love them, Hugging your

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<v Speaker 1>kids if you have them, hugging your nieces and nephews. Everybody.

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<v Speaker 1>Just tell everybody that deserves those flowers that they can't

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