Speaker 1: Second date, up date. We report on these all the
Speaker 1: time on our show, but I don't think anyone in
Speaker 1: this room has ever actually been to one, or at
Speaker 1: least not allowed inside due to the restraining orders. But
Speaker 1: I'm talking about pop up restaurants and bars. They have
Speaker 1: like a cool, unique theme.
Speaker 2: Alexis and I were just talking about one this morning.
Speaker 1: Cool.
Speaker 2: Yeah, neither of us have been, like you said, but
Speaker 2: it looked awesome.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you didn't invite me for some reason to this
Speaker 1: thing you want to do.
Speaker 2: We wanted to have fun, Jeff, Okay, do something else
Speaker 2: then without you.
Speaker 1: But one of our listeners says he went to a
Speaker 1: pop up thing for a date, So let's talk to
Speaker 1: him about it.
Speaker 3: Nick.
Speaker 1: First of all, welcome to the show, and kudos on
Speaker 1: having no active restraining orders.
Speaker 4: Good for you, Hi, thanks for having me.
Speaker 2: Yeah, was it a pop up restaurant or bar?
Speaker 4: I would classify more as a restaurant because we were
Speaker 4: set down, we had some food, but if we had
Speaker 4: like really cool drinks.
Speaker 3: I mean, because they're all like so instagram friendly, like
Speaker 3: you know, they want you to take cool pictures and
Speaker 3: share them.
Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe we should just like skip the date altogether
Speaker 1: and just talk about the bar only for the next
Speaker 1: six minutes. I mean, I'm interested what the drinks look like?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 2: What these?
Speaker 5: Sure?
Speaker 1: But can we ask, like, what's this woman that you
Speaker 1: took there? What's her name?
Speaker 4: Yeah? Yeah, sure, so her name's Elizabeth.
Speaker 1: Okay, enough about Elizabeth. Now let's get back to the
Speaker 1: good stuff.
Speaker 2: I want to know. Was Elizabeth as excited as we
Speaker 2: were about this pop up thing?
Speaker 4: Yeah? No, we had a blast. Actually, I would highly
Speaker 4: recommend anyone going to the one we went to.
Speaker 1: Okay, what did you go to?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Which one? Was it?
Speaker 4: So?
Speaker 3: Uh?
Speaker 4: This one was like toy themeed and it was like
Speaker 4: different toys from different generations and.
Speaker 2: Wow, whoa, it's like your childhood. But you're kind of buzzed,
Speaker 2: you know. Do you play with the toys or they
Speaker 2: just like decoration?
Speaker 4: Well, I mean they had some some elements of playing.
Speaker 4: A lot of it was decorations. The menu was all
Speaker 4: like toys scened as well. So they had like one
Speaker 4: of the fun things we got where martini. They were
Speaker 4: called etches sketch martinis, which are shaken not stirred.
Speaker 2: I love it, Okay.
Speaker 4: Challenge at their tables to certain toys. So like there
Speaker 4: was a Rubik's Cube on our table and on the next,
Speaker 4: and so we challenged the table to see who could
Speaker 4: finish hers.
Speaker 3: Oh, I could.
Speaker 2: Do it.
Speaker 1: Can you do it?
Speaker 2: Jeff? Can you do the Rubi's Cube?
Speaker 1: I try to look cool, so no, okay, I cu
Speaker 1: it all color on purpose. How did the Rubik's Cube
Speaker 1: gaming go for you and Elizabeth?
Speaker 2: Oh?
Speaker 4: We got destroyed.
Speaker 1: Together?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Yeah, the bonding experience.
Speaker 1: I mean, I know we're talking a lot, specifically about
Speaker 1: toys and stuff. Can you give us like the mood
Speaker 1: of the whole date, Like, how was the connection between
Speaker 1: you two?
Speaker 4: Honestly? I thought it was great. We were having lots
Speaker 4: of fun and we actually got to know each other
Speaker 4: as well. And I learned more about like her family
Speaker 4: because of like the toys that she played with, like
Speaker 4: her her sister and things like that. And uh so,
Speaker 4: you know, we got to actually get to a deeper
Speaker 4: level than usually think of on like the first date.
Speaker 2: Yea, was there anything like uncomfy or I mean maybe
Speaker 2: you got too deep?
Speaker 4: I mean I don't think so, nothing too much though
Speaker 4: apparently she like cut her sister's Barbara Doll's hair off
Speaker 4: once without donor classic like Okay, and.
Speaker 1: Then glued the hair to herself and was like, I'm
Speaker 1: your Barbie now.
Speaker 3: I mean, that's every little sister ever though, you know that.
Speaker 1: Did that not happen with Elizabeth and her sister?
Speaker 4: Oh no, no, I know.
Speaker 1: Okay, maybe she is a cool, normal girl. Then that
Speaker 1: sounds fun so different than you. And yeah, this is
Speaker 1: why I did not want to tell you about my childhood.
Speaker 1: So how did it end between you two?
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I think that also ended fairly well
Speaker 4: at first at least. But we were like walking back
Speaker 4: to your car, we've been for a few hours, and
Speaker 4: it's like, you know, feels natural, I'm going for the kiss, okay, yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean you guys are vibing, yeah, feeling, and
Speaker 2: what happened?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 4: And she kiss me back.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 4: It was one of the most romantic first kiss.
Speaker 1: Like when you used to like kiss dolls back in
Speaker 1: the day and practice.
Speaker 2: You see, I I did some weird stuff with dolls.
Speaker 2: I apologize, No.
Speaker 1: Weird the dolls kiss each other.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's not weird. My dolls did all
Speaker 2: sorts of fun stuff, but I didn't do.
Speaker 1: Nick is regretting calling into the show at this But.
Speaker 4: I never, never kissed any dolls growing up myself?
Speaker 1: Okay, was that you and I are the weird ones.
Speaker 1: So but you said the kiss wasn't quite what you
Speaker 1: were hoping for.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it wasn't like fireworks, I guess. And then she
Speaker 4: was like, actually, I want to talk about something, and uh,
Speaker 4: She's like, I want to be transparent. I'm finally in
Speaker 4: this place where I feel really good about myself and
Speaker 4: I want to start like kind of dating multiple people
Speaker 4: right now. I want to like explore the dating world.
Speaker 1: She said that after you kissed her.
Speaker 4: Yeah, this is after we kiss.
Speaker 1: Oh b it's not good people.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but you got you gotta think like maybe she
Speaker 3: could just finally tell how into her he was, and.
Speaker 2: She just wanted to be honest.
Speaker 3: Were you okay with that?
Speaker 2: Or are you not okay with that?
Speaker 4: Well? I mean I told her I was. I was like, yeah,
Speaker 4: I know me too.
Speaker 2: What I was going to say, oh my god, I
Speaker 2: have a date after this right now.
Speaker 4: Actually, but when we did text, we've been text or
Speaker 4: we're texting for a while afterwards and talking about hanging
Speaker 4: out again. But then I guess I haven't heard from
Speaker 4: her for a while now, and I'm wondering if maybe
Speaker 4: she just she did find someone else she wants to
Speaker 4: date all the time.
Speaker 2: Okay, so this is more of like you want to
Speaker 2: find answers if she's even single still? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Yeah, and definitely offer to redo the kiss over again
Speaker 1: better this next time?
Speaker 2: Can you rewind to kiss?
Speaker 3: Can you do that?
Speaker 1: I feel like that's what he should have done right there, Like,
Speaker 1: I promise you I could do better than Yeah, that
Speaker 1: may have been the move that you miss.
Speaker 2: You're saying. If there was more fireworks, she wouldn't have
Speaker 2: said that.
Speaker 1: Maybe, But let's call her and see what she has
Speaker 1: to say. We're gonna come back. We'll ring Elizabeth for you.
Speaker 1: I can't believe I said ring Elizabeth. God, who's old. Anyway,
Speaker 1: we're gonna do it with your second date update, Next
Speaker 1: second date update. Playing with Tonka trucks while drinking Etches
Speaker 1: Sketch Martinis and challenging the people next to you to
Speaker 1: a drunk Rubik's Cube off. Yes, it's not a playdate
Speaker 1: with Brooks children. That was a real date that one
Speaker 1: of our listeners, Nick went on because he took a
Speaker 1: woman named Elizabeth to a pop up restaurant bar that
Speaker 1: had an old school toy theme to it. Yeah, and
Speaker 1: it actually went pretty well from what we heard till
Speaker 1: the very and when they had a short kiss, and
Speaker 1: then immediately afterwards she told him, Oh, by the way,
Speaker 1: I am going to be dating other people and you
Speaker 1: should know that upfront, which sounds bad, but that is
Speaker 1: what Brooke whispered to her husband after they said I
Speaker 1: do want the I think there's hope for you.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, thanks, good, we got you. Nick, don't worry.
Speaker 2: I mean that thing is, it is pretty brutal when
Speaker 2: you recap it, like she could have maybe waited for
Speaker 2: like the next date to say that a text message
Speaker 2: or something.
Speaker 1: Or just ghost him like a normal person does.
Speaker 2: Yeah, the timing was brutal. You're right though, maybe she
Speaker 2: was telling you because she still wanted to see you.
Speaker 2: She just her calendar is busy with other dates.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean maybe. I mean when you put it
Speaker 4: like that, kind of down, isn't it.
Speaker 2: There's as much hope as I could muster.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Brooke, I're not going to get much. So that's
Speaker 1: why I'm going to lead the conversation at least at
Speaker 1: the start when we call her oh wow, and the
Speaker 1: rest of the rest of them can chime in. If
Speaker 1: it stays, stay on.
Speaker 2: If it's bad, we'll just toss it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, there we go. All right, you're ready to do this.
Speaker 4: Nick, I guess, so let's do it.
Speaker 1: I was kidding. By the way, Nick, you're in good hands.
Speaker 2: Okay, I don't know.
Speaker 1: It's the worst all state commercial level. I know you're
Speaker 1: in good hands. I don't know. You call her right now. Hello, Hey,
Speaker 1: we're looking for Elizabeth.
Speaker 5: This is her speaking perfect.
Speaker 1: Okay, this is Jeffrey speaking from a radio show called
Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 5: Oh okay, just like and hi.
Speaker 1: So yeah, it's okay if you're underwhelmed. But we're doing
Speaker 1: a segment on our show that we'd like to bring
Speaker 1: you in on. It's called a second Date update.
Speaker 2: Have you heard those before?
Speaker 5: No? I don't think I have. Sorry, this is really
Speaker 5: weird to me.
Speaker 4: Sorry, sorry, Yeah, right, that's all right.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're trying to help out one of our listeners
Speaker 1: that you went out on a date with recently named Nick.
Speaker 1: You guys went to like a toy themed pop up
Speaker 1: restaurant bar thing.
Speaker 5: Yes, yeah, oh god, he reached out to you about that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, he wanted to see you again.
Speaker 3: And it sounds like maybe you're not giving him a
Speaker 3: firm yes or no on.
Speaker 1: That, and we're just trying to help him figure stuff out,
Speaker 1: like wanting to know exactly what was your takeaway from
Speaker 1: the date?
Speaker 5: Yeah, so ke Okay, So Nick is a super nice
Speaker 5: guy and he's really sweet. I had a nice date
Speaker 5: with him, But I did tell him at the end
Speaker 5: of the date, I'm just not in a place emotionally
Speaker 5: right now where I want to date just one person.
Speaker 5: I want to date multiple people.
Speaker 2: Yeah, he told us that. Yeah.
Speaker 3: I don't think he's like I don't think he's trying
Speaker 3: to argue like you should only date him.
Speaker 2: I think he just was to see you again.
Speaker 1: He wants to be one of those people.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 5: Yeah, so.
Speaker 1: It's a good thing. He supports the lifestyle that you
Speaker 1: want to live. It sounds like you're trying to say
Speaker 1: something but you don't want to like say it.
Speaker 5: Yeah, this is a little awkward. I think it's so.
Speaker 5: I think I might have found somebody that's a better
Speaker 5: fit with me than Nick.
Speaker 2: But I thought you were a dating multiple people.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you've only gone on one date with Nick. Why
Speaker 1: not just go on another one just to see how
Speaker 1: your connection is.
Speaker 5: I don't know. There's this one person that I've been
Speaker 5: on accompidation with and I feel like we're moving towards something,
Speaker 5: and I just I don't see there really being a
Speaker 5: possibility with Nick anymore, at least until I investigate this
Speaker 5: other things first.
Speaker 2: So there's nothing he can do to change your mind
Speaker 2: on that.
Speaker 5: I mean, here's the situation. I've been out on like
Speaker 5: seven or eight dates, and I would I would say, Nick,
Speaker 5: he's not in the top two. I mean he's like
Speaker 5: maybe number three, but I want to stick with the
Speaker 5: top two right now. And he's a really great thing.
Speaker 1: To top three. Yeah, yeah, Elizabeth. I'm not sure if
Speaker 1: you heard, but Nick kind of jumped in there. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he's been on the other line listening to this conversation.
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's a little competitive.
Speaker 4: Well, I just think I think three is a little
Speaker 4: low as all. I just I think, you know, it's
Speaker 4: ranking have at least being the top two. I would
Speaker 4: assume based on a day it was pretty good day.
Speaker 1: Have you seen the other guys?
Speaker 5: What is going on? Did you set this whole thing
Speaker 5: up on the radio?
Speaker 3: I mean, maybe that moves him up, Yeah, but the
Speaker 3: other two guys wouldn't have reached out to a radio
Speaker 3: show just to get a hold of you.
Speaker 4: He's got drive exactly.
Speaker 5: No, No, they're right, it is I just I don't
Speaker 5: I don't know what to say. I'm kind of weirded
Speaker 5: out by this whole thing.
Speaker 1: Honestly, look what you did? Weirded out this?
Speaker 3: You could as a romantic, right, do you want somebody romantic?
Speaker 1: You want somebody who will go the.
Speaker 2: Extra mile for you, you know, and next your guy.
Speaker 3: And the thing is is, like, man, can you imagine
Speaker 3: being told right after you kiss somebody that, like, hey,
Speaker 3: by the way, I'm going to see other people Like
Speaker 3: that would be a big blow. And you know what,
Speaker 3: Nick has enough confidence to be like, you know what,
Speaker 3: that's okay.
Speaker 2: I'm cool with that.
Speaker 5: I would have told him earlier, but I just didn't
Speaker 5: know how to tell him or what to tell him.
Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe you should just like include it on your
Speaker 2: dating app.
Speaker 1: I mean, what do you want to do here, buddy?
Speaker 4: You want to Well, first, I just want to say that, like,
Speaker 4: I'm someone who pays attention. One of the things we
Speaker 4: talked about on our date was love languages, right, and
Speaker 4: I remember her saying that her love languages were words
Speaker 4: of affirmation and physical touch, right, And so I just
Speaker 4: want you to know I'm going to do with someone.
Speaker 4: You're so smart and so pretty and just an all
Speaker 4: around wonderful human being. And you know what I want
Speaker 4: you to do. I want you to imagine I'm hugging
Speaker 4: you yourself.
Speaker 1: Do you know the other two guys pretend to hug
Speaker 1: you through the phone, Elizabeth will giving you compliments? I
Speaker 1: don't think so.
Speaker 4: Ah.
Speaker 5: Well, I don't know if those guys are as weird
Speaker 5: as she is, but.
Speaker 1: You're right that I think the word you were going
Speaker 1: for was sweet.
Speaker 2: Yeah, weird can be good.
Speaker 1: Yeah, would be if maybe Jeff and I hugged for you.
Speaker 1: That's just Jose really desperate for like I haven't had
Speaker 1: in a long time.
Speaker 2: Yeah, language, we just want to help.
Speaker 1: Come on, you guys should go out.
Speaker 2: Again one more time, see if he can move up
Speaker 2: to number two.
Speaker 1: Yeah I bet, I bet Nick would be a really
Speaker 1: good boyfriend.
Speaker 2: She doesn't want that a really good guy to date.
Speaker 5: Okay A yeah, I don't think so.
Speaker 4: Sorry, if it's about like not knowing if I'm good enough,
Speaker 4: you're talking about, you know, dating other people I've dated
Speaker 4: other people. Give you references with my accident.
Speaker 1: No, no, no, don't do references, bro, Actually I would
Speaker 1: like that. No, let's do that.
Speaker 2: Let's call it.
Speaker 1: Let's call some of Nick's x's on the line right
Speaker 1: now and have them sing nixed praises.
Speaker 2: I'm I don't think you want to know what your
Speaker 2: exes are really going to say about you.
Speaker 5: You don't need to do that.
Speaker 2: You don't need to do it anymore.
Speaker 4: I don't want to. I don't want to give up.
Speaker 4: I don't I don't like what is your like?
Speaker 5: Was it?
Speaker 4: How would I send you something? But your address can
Speaker 4: an edible arrangement dress.
Speaker 2: Nobody wants edible fruit as a flower arranged right?
Speaker 4: Wait, look, I just need to know are you allergic
Speaker 4: to any fruit? You know? And it'll be a perfect arrangement.
Speaker 1: Oh boy, I.
Speaker 2: Think you're falling down the list. You sounding kind of desperate.
Speaker 1: Look at the effort that he's willing to go just
Speaker 1: to get one more date with you.
Speaker 5: Yes, all the fruits, Nick, I wish you the best.
Speaker 5: You're a really great guy. But like I said, I
Speaker 5: just need to focus on the other two right now.
Speaker 5: But good luck out there. You're gonna make someone really happy.
Speaker 1: And often you hear that one in the morning. Okay,
Speaker 1: so that second date didn't quite work out, but yeah,
Speaker 1: it should be proof to all the ladies listening out
Speaker 1: there that good guys do still exist. They're playing with
Speaker 1: hot wheels and nurse blasters and giving you hugs through
Speaker 1: the phone and sending big baskets of fruit to where
Speaker 1: you live.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it feels like he just couldn't get the hint.
Speaker 2: And she was pretty direct.
Speaker 5: You know, the nice guy's still finished last Yeah, yeah, dude,
Speaker 5: even there's.
Speaker 4: Like she's like, I'm willing to have multiple boyfriends and
Speaker 4: you're still at the most.
Speaker 3: If it proves what you think it proves, Jeffrey, I
Speaker 3: think the girl's that was a good try.
Speaker 1: I think she's gonna come back twelve, thirteen, fifteen years
Speaker 1: from now and be like I should have said yes
Speaker 1: to guy number three.
Speaker 2: I don't think she'll probably ever remember.
Speaker 1: Yeah, she'll be on her like fourth.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, if you want to have a phone call
Speaker 1: that you want to instantly forget, you know, the show, Yeah,
Speaker 1: we'll call the person who isn't calling you
Speaker 2: Back brooking Jeffrey in the morning,