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Speaker 1: We have a big problem sys. Dear Stephen Shirley. I've

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Speaker 1: Throughout the divorce, she was my rock and I turned

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Speaker 1: All of the signs were there that they could have

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Speaker 2: Well, fast forward to present day.

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Speaker 1: My sister lives with my ex husband and they are

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Speaker 1: My son knows that his mommy and his auntie don't

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Speaker 1: He constantly asked me why his auntie lives with his

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Speaker 1: All I told him is that his auntie hurt his

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Speaker 2: He's too young to understand.

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Speaker 1: I have told my ex that our son does not

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Speaker 1: he insists that he gets weekend visits. Visitations. For four years,

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Speaker 1: I've been bitter and angry and want to hurt both

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Speaker 1: on from this and be happy? Wow, you're a really

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Speaker 1: Even if it's at a low level, some sort, I mean,

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Speaker 1: I'm a woman that has two brothers. I always wanted

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Speaker 1: She could be my bff, we could bond all of that.

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Speaker 1: But clearly this is not the case in your situation

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Speaker 1: you divorced because he was cheap.

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Speaker 2: This is just awful.

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Speaker 1: I mean, and I can imagine how this has torn

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Speaker 1: You're a man, your husband, I mean, and right in

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Speaker 1: your face. Yeah, but how do you get through it?

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Speaker 1: This is a tough one. Right here, I'm gonna have

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Speaker 1: You know. I didn't say forget, but you're gonna have

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Speaker 2: That's what I have for you, Steve.

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Speaker 4: All Right, before I read through this letter, I want

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Speaker 4: to make this statement right here that nothing I'm about

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Speaker 3: Nothing. Nothing.

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Speaker 2: You want to cuss, don't you.

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Speaker 3: Well, it's not so much to cuss, but you do. Though.

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Speaker 4: What I want to do to both of them I

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Speaker 3: So let me take this approach to this.

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Speaker 4: This one has been divorced and she's got a seven

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Speaker 3: After your divorce.

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Speaker 4: After the divorce, now this is after divorce, you find

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Speaker 4: This is your saving grace in this whole thing that

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Speaker 4: you knowing this during for a particular reason, and you

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Speaker 4: the grace in all of this that you have.

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Speaker 3: There is an upside.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Steve, hang on, we'll have part two of your

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Speaker 1: Strawberry letter. We have a problem, sis.

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Speaker 4: This woman been divorced four years, got the seven year

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Speaker 4: that you got the divorce from. Now, there's a reason

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Speaker 4: been gut wrenching. I'm pretty sure it is now, but

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Speaker 4: you know, because she been divorced three times. I don't

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Speaker 4: Especially when you find out that all the signs that

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Speaker 4: You thought it was a check on you, but you

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Speaker 4: so she could be along with my husband in our bed. Okay,

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Speaker 4: now that's trifling. Let me tell you what's wrong here.

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Speaker 4: You have discovered after the marriage that two of the

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Speaker 4: The problem with siblings is you don't get to pick them.

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Speaker 4: Shirley said, a good thing. Shirley said, you have to forgive.

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Speaker 3: Now. When it all came out, you say you felt stupid.

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Speaker 4: And then it seemed as if my husband was relieved

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Speaker 4: He knows that as mommy and his auntie don't get along. Well,

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Speaker 4: that's cool, you can explain that. Quit taking him over there.

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Speaker 4: He constantly asked me why has auntie lived with his daddy?

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Speaker 3: Though? That's a little bit of trouble.

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Speaker 4: And if he's seven when he going to school, somebody

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Speaker 4: Though my ex is so very nasty towards me and

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Speaker 4: still has no remorse for what he's done. Well, he's

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Speaker 4: nasty towards you because that's a defense mechanism. He got

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Speaker 4: to be nasty towards him.

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Speaker 3: But kindness kills babies. Or if you were to just.

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Speaker 4: Be kind to him and his ex wife, him and

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Speaker 4: your sister, it would kill him. Now, it's gonna take

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Speaker 4: a lot for you, and I'm not sure you the

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Speaker 4: person that has that, because for years I've been bitter

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Speaker 4: and angry and I want to hurt both of them. See,

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Speaker 4: somebody told you that you should go to counseling, and

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Speaker 4: you really should because you need to talk over this

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Speaker 4: little more than that. Well, the only thing more than

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Speaker 4: that is God. See. And the one thing I'm gonna

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Speaker 4: tell you some old people say, sometimes you got to

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Speaker 4: let go and let God. You got to take this

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Speaker 4: situation that you're going through that's bigger than anything any

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Speaker 4: it over to God. I ain't joking, man, You really

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Speaker 4: got to turn this one over to God because you

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Speaker 4: need peace in your life. And I know no better

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Speaker 4: way to get peace in your life through a relationationship

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Speaker 4: with God. I don't know a better way. It's my

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Speaker 4: piece in my life and in your son's life. How

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Speaker 4: can we move on from this and be happy? You

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Speaker 4: move on to it because He got you out of it.

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Speaker 4: Stop dabbling in it. You got to play the game now, Okay,

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Speaker 4: this your daddy boom and separate yourself. You gotta get

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Speaker 4: to that point and you're gonna lose your mind. You

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Speaker 4: need counseling and you need.

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