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Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. How long you're willing to wait

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Speaker 1: Well, one of our listeners, Jacqueline, sent us an email

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Speaker 2: When you said it the music chriscendo, I'm so right, Jeff.

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Speaker 1: Months to do whatever it takes. In fact, she's calling

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Speaker 2: Than four months?

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Speaker 3: My gosh, have you been dating other people in that time?

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Speaker 3: Are you just holding out for this guy?

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Speaker 4: I mean, I've like met up with some other people,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he's guy number one. In your heart right now.

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Speaker 1: So Tom is his name? How did you meet him?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 4: Well, were that online? Like most people?

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Speaker 4: I did. I got that like feeling. He's a lawyer and.

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Speaker 1: He is say no more. You have won us all over,

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Speaker 5: I'm not going to anymore.

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Speaker 2: Why you He's busy, That's why I was gonna say,

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Speaker 2: and drunk. I mean, lawyers like to throw back.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, that's a lot of positives that you all

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Speaker 5: So that's not like your dream guy, a drunken, rich guy.

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Speaker 3: Like when my best friend was working at one of

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's possible. So how did things get

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Speaker 3: Oh well, okay, so now it feels like it puts

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Speaker 4: So yeah, we went to this Mediterranean place that I've

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Speaker 4: It was great? We had so much like we were laughing,

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Speaker 3: Basically, Oh, come on, she's just game playful, like you

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Speaker 3: So oh, she's still living in that embrace. Have you

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Speaker 4: Well, at first I texted him a little bit more.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, all right, you have to be on your a

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Speaker 1: four months. Most people don't wait that long to reach

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Speaker 2: Hey, and she met a unique man.

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Speaker 1: She figured out that man's birthday happened recently and won't

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Speaker 1: The bottom line is this, Her date Tom was very attractive.

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Speaker 2: No, they had a real connection, Jeffrey. It wasn't just

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Speaker 1: But her first two points to us were he's beautiful

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Speaker 1: He doesn't even have to mete for that, Jawllain. That's

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Speaker 4: I'm good. How are you guys?

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Speaker 2: I don't know that I was totally clear. Did he

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 5: Months ago total.

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Speaker 5: And she is looking for you.

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Speaker 2: Actively though, And do you know her first name?

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Speaker 2: And I'll remember that for you exactly.

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Speaker 1: We'll see if he answers. Are we calling his cell phone?

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Speaker 4: I gave you his cell phone and he's definitely going

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Speaker 6: Hello. Is it Tom? Uh?

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Speaker 4: Hi?

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Speaker 1: Oh you're so formal. Answer your phone professional. Yeah, Hey Tom,

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Speaker 1: nice to meet you. We're a radio show called Brook

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Speaker 1: and Jeffrey in the Morning. Do you have a second?

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Speaker 5: Hello Thomas?

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Speaker 1: Okay, did you hang.

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Speaker 6: Up too much?

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Speaker 1: Hello?

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Speaker 6: Tom?

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Speaker 2: Are you there?

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Speaker 6: I'm here? I'm sorry.

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Speaker 4: Who is this?

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Speaker 1: My name is jeff from a award winning radio show

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Speaker 1: called Brook and Jeffrey in the war.

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Speaker 2: That's actually true.

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Speaker 1: It happened a long time ago, but.

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Speaker 4: It happened like when the book City win prizes and

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Speaker 6: You're on the radio right now, man, That's what the

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Speaker 1: Yes, that's a great question actually regarding you and your

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Speaker 1: dating life with a woman that you went out with

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Speaker 1: about four months ago named Jacqueline.

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Speaker 6: Jacqueline. Yeah, okay, do.

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Speaker 2: You remember Jacqueline? She definitely remembers you.

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Speaker 1: You guys met online and went out to like a restaurant.

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Speaker 2: Oh he was Mediterranean, Mediterranean food.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, she loved your jaw.

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Speaker 6: I yes, I do remember who you were talking about.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, okay, I got a little laugh out of you.

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Speaker 2: Were you thinking about calling her back?

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Speaker 6: I know if I'm being completely out Okay.

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Speaker 1: Is there a reason.

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Speaker 6: end up staying away from her? Oh? It was it

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Speaker 6: The date? Well, the date, No, the date was fine.

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Speaker 6: We had a lovely time, We're out good. The problem

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Speaker 2: What do you mean?

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Speaker 6: Jacqueline was leaving voicemails at my place of work. Oh,

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Speaker 1: She said that you weren't answering her, and so she

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Did that feel like a boundary that was cross

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Speaker 3: Did you tell her though, because you know, people who

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Speaker 6: Well, after about the fourth or fifth voicemail, I remember

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Speaker 6: she did get in contact with my secretary and.

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Speaker 2: What did she say to her?

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Speaker 6: My secretary had her on the line and I had to,

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Speaker 6: you know, fib and say, I'm extremely busy with the case, which,

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Speaker 6: truth be told, I was busy with the case. But

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Speaker 6: the other issue with all of this is that I

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Speaker 2: How did she find you LinkedIn?

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Speaker 6: You know, I do not know off the top of

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Speaker 6: I found that it was a little bit of a

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Speaker 2: Out that's going to be good for her to hear.

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Speaker 1: Definitely a little odd. Yeah, and uh, I'm sorry that

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Speaker 2: She heard all that.

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Speaker 1: What Yeah, that's that's how this segment works, and she's

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Speaker 4: Yeah, hey, guys, heym I'm so happy that, like I

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Speaker 6: Cut a while, Jacqueline, what are you doing?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 4: I was just trying to get ahold of you because

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Speaker 6: So I did at a certain point. But this is

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Speaker 6: getting borderline stalker behavior. This is insane. You're using to

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Speaker 4: Oh, I'm so sorry. But if you would have gotten

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Speaker 4: I think stalker is like way overblown. I've left a

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Speaker 5: Say that often it's not technically.

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Speaker 6: If it's not stalkers, how did you find out where

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Speaker 1: Actually, that's a good question.

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Speaker 2: It's going to be hard to win an argument against

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Speaker 4: Okay, in my defense, it was so simple, like all

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Speaker 4: your pictures on the app, Like I saw that there

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Speaker 4: I did was go on Google find the courthouse, and

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Speaker 2: That made it sound worse.

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Speaker 1: Are you you did detective work based on a picture

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Speaker 4: Yeah, all ladies will do that, Like you look for

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Speaker 4: contract clues in the pictures.

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Speaker 2: That's true. I can't voicemails. You do it, but you

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Speaker 5: Don't tell them?

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Speaker 1: You can't leave the evidence behind that you've been okay.

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Speaker 4: I wouldn't have left voicemails if you would have just

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Speaker 4: returned my call. And you know he had meant that

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Speaker 4: he wasn't really loving his new secretary, so I thought.

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Speaker 2: Maybe you didn't love Wait did you just say he

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Speaker 4: He mentioned that when we had dinner.

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Speaker 2: To be the new secretary.

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Speaker 1: Tom, can you see how maybe you've brought some of

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Speaker 1: this upon yourself? Stop it, but at a bare minimum,

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Speaker 1: you have to be impressed with how she was able

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Speaker 4: You you section me Tom on the date, what's your

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Speaker 4: best quality? And I said, I'm determined, and so I

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Speaker 3: You know there's a good side and a bad side

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna have to like disagree with you about your

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Speaker 2: We can convert, not for long if she keeps giving

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Speaker 4: I found his information. I figured that all out on

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Speaker 2: He is not impressed, Tom.

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Speaker 1: Maybe he'll be impressed if you wish him happy belated

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Speaker 1: birthday right now.

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Speaker 6: What are you talking about?

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Speaker 1: That lets you figure out it's your birthday. That's called persistence.

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Speaker 2: I thought she texted you the birthday message.

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Speaker 6: I blocked her a long time ago. I don't see

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Speaker 6: anything she sent to me.

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Speaker 1: Why he didn't get the message? You better tell it

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Speaker 1: to him. Better wish him happy birthday right now, dude.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I didn't know that.

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Speaker 1: Or better yet, you can wish him happy birthday when

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Speaker 1: you meet face to face for your second date, a

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Speaker 1: date that we will pay for if Tom agrees to it.

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Speaker 1: What do you think, Tom?

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Speaker 6: Absolutely not. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I think that's a pretty clear message.

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Speaker 1: Well, are you sure you want to say that, because

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Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure Jacquelin's on the other side of the

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Speaker 1: want to say yes, Just.

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Speaker 5: Say yes, we'll go right now.

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Speaker 6: I would not be surprised at this point.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, oh my god, Jacqueline, you do understand what he's saying,

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Speaker 4: I get it. I mean there was a couple of times,

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Speaker 4: and she sort of lives over by that courthouse, like

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Speaker 4: trying to maybe run into Tom and I didn't.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, there's more than one crazy of you.

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Speaker 1: Well, I don't want Jacqueline to leave this phone call

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Speaker 1: empty handed. That's why, Jacqueline, we're going to offer to

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Speaker 1: send you out to lunch with Tom secretary you get

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Speaker 6: Well, please don't go to lunch with my secretary. Please.

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Speaker 6: It's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 1: I think this is going to be one of those

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Speaker 1: dates we look back at and say, you know what,

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Speaker 1: maybe there'll be better off as friends.

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Speaker 2: I was going to be one of those dates where

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Speaker 2: we turn the audio over to authorities.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, that'll be nice and they can be

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Speaker 1: friends and you can visit her every few months while

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Speaker 1: she's in prison for whatever mischief she gets herself into.

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Speaker 2: After this, I don't think there's any friendships ahead.

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Speaker 1: It'll be nice. They could write each other letters back

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Speaker 1: and forth.

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Speaker 3: I think that it'll just be back and.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he's never going to respond, But remember you can

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