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Speaker 2: Skater belts, saying Patty Melt saying, mate, Carlos and El Dorados,

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Speaker 3: God damn it, spotify.

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Speaker 2: An El Dorado's I'm waking up with my slumber Philller

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Speaker 3: What about olding the lepers print? Wait?

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Speaker 2: What about the holding the lepers print? Oh that's what

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Speaker 2: he said all in year. Okay, I didn't even know

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Speaker 2: that Teddy pender Grass cooler than Freddy Jackson. Sip of

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Speaker 2: at the least might take you. But you're gonna have

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Speaker 2: any mistaken with them statements that you make. Uh, ain't

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Speaker 2: nobody dope ask me? Just so frushinating, that's just solease. Hey,

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Speaker 2: welcome to the Black Out to his podcast, your host

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Speaker 2: Rod and Karen, and we are in the house on

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Speaker 2: a what appears to be a Saturday, and of course,

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Speaker 2: because of Saturday, that means we gotta do feedback.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 2: Now, this is a feedback show, so that means we

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Speaker 2: will talk about all the things that you guys wrote

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Speaker 2: in to the show about. We'll talk about all the

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Speaker 2: we'll play the voicemails, we'll read your emails, we'll read

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Speaker 2: your five star reviews.

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Speaker 3: Okay, because that's the kind of podcast we have.

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Speaker 2: We're a very responsible, receptive, reactive podcast.

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Speaker 2: But first and foremost, we got to react to the

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Speaker 3: So let me play the songs.

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Speaker 2: We got a new one, and I hope it's pronounced

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Speaker 3: Oh, we can just go with male for now.

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Speaker 2: Got a one time donation from Jason, who says, I

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Speaker 2: know it's not much, but I truly feel it's necessary

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Speaker 2: amazing show. I'll drop what I can when I can.

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Speaker 2: It won't be much or often, but it's what I

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Speaker 2: choir from Atlanta Christmas. Oh man, I still remember when

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Speaker 2: that album came out because I'm old, all right, guys.

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Speaker 3: That song to this day. Anyway, man, let's talk about

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Speaker 2: Five star reviews on iTunes and Stitcher. We got three

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Speaker 2: Mama Sunday dinner starting listen. Started listening to this podcast

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Speaker 2: the start of the new year, and I have not

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Speaker 2: looked back. Rod and Careen provide insight, valid logical observations

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Speaker 2: with candid with comedy and satire. Karen's laugh is infectious

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Speaker 2: because I don't know why finding Richard Simmons is number one.

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Speaker 3: But I'm not a of that idea that's such a

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Speaker 5: My favorite music too. Sometimes even don't make sense.

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Speaker 2: They've been you everyone's been using the bathroom your whole life.

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Speaker 2: Remember that one girl that got raped by that transgender man, Like,

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Speaker 5: Now, that's the thing. We want people to continue.

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Speaker 2: If you worry about somebody fucking your kids, and you

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Speaker 4: Years ago, they didn't fight against it. They you know,

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Speaker 4: I got to worry.

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Speaker 5: About my kids.

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Speaker 4: You know, we started integrating bathrooms while my kids something

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Speaker 5: But you know, they didn't fight against it. They didn't.

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Speaker 4: They wasn't in an uproar about it because whatever the

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Speaker 1: Mm hmm.

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Speaker 3: So yep, But thank you, you know, appreciate you.

446
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Speaker 2: Right now, we got another five star review this This

447
00:22:08,960 --> 00:22:11,840
Speaker 2: Love is Real from Busting Loose five stars. I've been

448
00:22:11,880 --> 00:22:14,840
Speaker 2: listening to this podcast for years now. The Love is Real, Yo,

449
00:22:15,520 --> 00:22:18,680
Speaker 2: thirteen ninety seven. Ben Carson just got Lucky Karen's pun

450
00:22:18,720 --> 00:22:21,399
Speaker 2: after Rod read the story about the guy who bites

451
00:22:21,440 --> 00:22:25,479
Speaker 2: his wife over some chips. Well, were they kettle chips.

452
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Speaker 2: I was done hilarious, Love you guys, Thank you. I

453
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Speaker 2: don't know if that was a pun. I think she

454
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Speaker 2: just really had a question. Yeah, so you just never

455
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Speaker 2: know what. Karens she's a loose cannon out here to me,

456
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Speaker 2: I got the questions, m oh Man. We also got

457
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Speaker 2: some five star reviews on stitcher.

458
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Speaker 3: Got one.

459
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Speaker 2: Ali Shepherd says five stars dynamic duo. I just wanted

460
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Speaker 2: to say I love listening to you, to you Rod

461
00:23:03,320 --> 00:23:07,440
Speaker 2: and Karen, you all wait, y'all are like the play

462
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Speaker 2: cousins in my head.

463
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Speaker 3: I don't have much to say, so I'll keep it brief.

464
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Speaker 2: I try to listen to you guys every day or

465
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Speaker 2: at least every week.

466
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Speaker 3: I just wanted to.

467
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Speaker 2: Say, you guys make my day and make me laugh

468
00:23:17,840 --> 00:23:20,560
Speaker 2: and smile with what's going on in the world. Sometimes

469
00:23:20,640 --> 00:23:22,000
Speaker 2: you have to laugh to keep from crying. And I

470
00:23:22,000 --> 00:23:24,680
Speaker 2: can't forget the Facebook group too. They like my second

471
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Speaker 2: and third family smiley face.

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Speaker 3: Well, I just.

473
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Speaker 2: Wanted to say both of you, both of you do

474
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Speaker 2: a great job and keep it the great work.

475
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Speaker 3: Thank you. I'm glad you can enjoy the Facebook group.

476
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Speaker 4: Yes, and shout out to Quita.

477
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Speaker 5: There can only be one of loose cannon. That's her.

478
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Speaker 4: I guess I'll be loose cannon number number two, a

479
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Speaker 4: little cannon because you know.

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Speaker 5: She number one.

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Speaker 2: We also have some comments on the website. Woke with

482
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Speaker 2: Jokes was our feedback episode, and we had three comments

483
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Speaker 2: on the feedback episode. Let's see who has something say?

484
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Speaker 2: Uh Asari says, oh, or that maybe desire but it

485
00:24:04,119 --> 00:24:07,040
Speaker 2: has too easy at the end, Oh god, oh Rod,

486
00:24:07,280 --> 00:24:10,800
Speaker 2: you thought my vote for syrup on grits while saying

487
00:24:11,359 --> 00:24:14,160
Speaker 2: you might want to discount my vote was peak whiteness.

488
00:24:14,400 --> 00:24:17,240
Speaker 2: Well I can one up you. I'm now giving feedback

489
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Speaker 2: about a feedback show.

490
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Speaker 3: Sorry, y'all. The whiteness just permeates. It's like sweat.

491
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Speaker 2: I don't want it to come out, but it does,

492
00:24:24,200 --> 00:24:26,359
Speaker 2: and I'm like, well, fuck it, it's here, everyone can

493
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Speaker 2: see it.

494
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Speaker 3: Might as well claim it. Holy shit, Holy shit, y'all.

495
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Speaker 2: I'm in my garage smoking right now, and I just

496
00:24:32,440 --> 00:24:35,040
Speaker 2: heard tire screech and what sounded like three shots and

497
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Speaker 2: now signs for real.

498
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Speaker 3: Not a joke.

499
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Speaker 2: It's just it's just great to live in small taxes

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Speaker 2: with a bunch of white people who never cause any trouble. Damn,

501
00:24:43,320 --> 00:24:46,840
Speaker 2: I fucking hate this town. Anyway, I wanted to speak

502
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Speaker 2: on y'all's conversation about ac HBCUs. Obviously I can't relate

503
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Speaker 2: too much, but your conversation, particularly Care's comments, made me

504
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Speaker 2: think about my seventh grade reading class. By very rare chance,

505
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Speaker 2: our class for the first semester was all female female

506
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Speaker 2: teas as well. It was fucking awesome. Imagine over twenty

507
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Speaker 2: girls and the possibly the harshest, most confused the time

508
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Speaker 2: of their lives, being able to only talk about all

509
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Speaker 2: the white boys centered books we were required to read.

510
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Speaker 3: Our conversations were so free.

511
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Speaker 2: It's so full of input from everyone, from the cool

512
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Speaker 2: girls to the quiet nerves like me, without boys judging

513
00:25:17,680 --> 00:25:20,320
Speaker 2: us or worry of boys George judging us, and we

514
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Speaker 2: felt we could state our real opinions and thoughts on

515
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Speaker 2: any subject, as conversations about a certain book often veered

516
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Speaker 2: in the larger conversations That one semester made me genuinely

517
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Speaker 2: want to send my daughter to an all girls school.

518
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Speaker 2: Of course, that's not an option in my particular tax bracket,

519
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Speaker 2: and yet I'd never seen my sons to an all

520
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Speaker 2: boys school. It's the closest parallel I can personally relate

521
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Speaker 2: to boys stifle the opinions of girls, while girls help

522
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Speaker 2: boys understand something outside of themselves. White people stifle the

523
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Speaker 2: opinions of black people, while black people help white people

524
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Speaker 2: understand something outside of themselves. We all need to save space.

525
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Speaker 2: Sometimes the problem isn't within that space. The problem lives

526
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Speaker 2: with than the people who get to count everywhere as

527
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Speaker 2: their safe space, and shit on the rest of us

528
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Speaker 2: who don't don't see what's so great about their fucking space?

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Speaker 5: Correct, I'm with you, baby, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: The only thing I add is it's weird because I

531
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Speaker 2: do feel like different people outside of your group, like

532
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Speaker 2: marginalized people, often do end up helping people to see

533
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Speaker 2: shit they can't see. It's just it also takes that

534
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Speaker 2: burden and that toll on people. And that's one of

535
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Speaker 2: the reasons that you know, like you said, all girls School, HBCU,

536
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Speaker 2: those kind of things offer spaces for people where they

537
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Speaker 2: can actually.

538
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Speaker 3: Be free kind of, you know.

539
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Speaker 5: And to me, it's one of those things.

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Speaker 4: In my opinion, it is not fair, even though it happens,

541
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Speaker 4: it is not fair.

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Speaker 3: For a lot of.

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Speaker 4: Times, people that in the privileged group look at people

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Speaker 4: that in the mogulized group, every single person in the

545
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Speaker 4: mogulized group, and just assume that you're supposed to carry

546
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Speaker 4: this burden like they're not supposed to do any fucking thing.

547
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Speaker 4: And that's why a lot of times you get what

548
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Speaker 4: look fun I mean it's me, and a lot of

549
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Speaker 4: times for.

550
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Speaker 5: A lot of people, they're like, I'm not as funny.

551
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Speaker 5: Jack shit.

552
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Speaker 4: You either get it or you don't. And a lot

553
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Speaker 4: of times it becomes a problem because the people in

554
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Speaker 4: the pulice group just feel like because their privilege, I

555
00:27:15,440 --> 00:27:19,200
Speaker 4: have the right and you negro or whatever modulize people. Person,

556
00:27:19,480 --> 00:27:21,640
Speaker 4: it's just supposed to tell me because that's what all

557
00:27:21,680 --> 00:27:24,560
Speaker 4: of you do. You always have protected me. And like

558
00:27:24,600 --> 00:27:26,639
Speaker 4: then you go, no, no, we're not doing this. And

559
00:27:26,680 --> 00:27:29,199
Speaker 4: then that's what you deal with, the backlash and the

560
00:27:29,280 --> 00:27:32,200
Speaker 4: tears and the falling out because they don't understand why

561
00:27:32,200 --> 00:27:34,800
Speaker 4: I won't nobody explain to them. But there are people

562
00:27:34,800 --> 00:27:37,600
Speaker 4: out there that are helping and willing to change and

563
00:27:37,640 --> 00:27:39,760
Speaker 4: all that stuff, but they are not that funny.

564
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Speaker 5: Don't do that shit for free, you get paid for it.

565
00:27:41,880 --> 00:27:44,160
Speaker 4: That's the thing you want to learn, pay me to learn,

566
00:27:44,160 --> 00:27:47,560
Speaker 4: because it's a burden it's a heavy burden, and it

567
00:27:48,680 --> 00:27:52,000
Speaker 4: drains you mentally, it drains you spiritually, it drains you physically,

568
00:27:52,040 --> 00:27:53,480
Speaker 4: and that's something that a lot of times people in

569
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Speaker 4: the privilege group does not understand.

570
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Speaker 3: And right saying, I'm also supposed to feedback to the feed.

571
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Speaker 2: My original comment about the Trump advisor being racist in

572
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Speaker 2: the HBCUs meeting with Trump was not meant as a

573
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Speaker 2: dig at the HBCUs. I was directing the last part

574
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Speaker 2: of my comment at the Trump administration. Oh okay, this

575
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Speaker 2: is the person that wrote something like they think they're

576
00:28:14,840 --> 00:28:16,919
Speaker 2: playing chess, And I was like, I don't think the

577
00:28:17,000 --> 00:28:19,240
Speaker 2: HBCU people thought they were playing chess.

578
00:28:19,600 --> 00:28:22,640
Speaker 3: She was saying, or yeah, Anne was saying that.

579
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Speaker 2: The Trump administration thinks they're playing chess by making that

580
00:28:28,520 --> 00:28:31,760
Speaker 2: that photo op. Of course, they the Trump people, think

581
00:28:31,800 --> 00:28:36,680
Speaker 2: they are playing smart, multi dimensional chess by playing nice

582
00:28:36,800 --> 00:28:38,520
Speaker 2: with certain minority groups in front of the media.

583
00:28:38,600 --> 00:28:41,360
Speaker 3: Meanwhile, the general public can figure out that they deep.

584
00:28:41,160 --> 00:28:43,880
Speaker 2: Down inside they are white supremacists by simply researching the

585
00:28:43,920 --> 00:28:46,520
Speaker 2: history of any cabinet member or advisor. My point is

586
00:28:46,560 --> 00:28:48,400
Speaker 2: that they are trying hard to cover their hatred yet

587
00:28:48,400 --> 00:28:52,280
Speaker 2: feeling yeah and plus by their policies. They're gonna continue

588
00:28:52,280 --> 00:28:54,640
Speaker 2: to pay to pass policies that hurt people of color

589
00:28:55,200 --> 00:28:58,480
Speaker 2: and think that they can hide behind a photo op

590
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Speaker 2: and it won't work. Be touched as high Rod and Caaren. First,

591
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Speaker 2: I didn't want I did want to thank you both

592
00:29:05,400 --> 00:29:07,360
Speaker 2: so much for the calendar. I did receive it, but

593
00:29:07,400 --> 00:29:08,880
Speaker 2: I haven't had a chance to put it up yet.

594
00:29:08,920 --> 00:29:11,720
Speaker 2: I'll take care of that very soon. Second, about Moonlight

595
00:29:11,800 --> 00:29:13,520
Speaker 2: versus Broke Back Mountain, Moonlight.

596
00:29:13,240 --> 00:29:14,440
Speaker 3: Is a better film overall.

597
00:29:14,480 --> 00:29:18,680
Speaker 2: Broke Back is a more controversial, more conveniently formatted film

598
00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:21,880
Speaker 2: with a lot of very nice location cinematograph, field mountains

599
00:29:21,880 --> 00:29:24,360
Speaker 2: and sheep. The storytelling left me a bit cold, and

600
00:29:24,480 --> 00:29:27,400
Speaker 2: Moonlight does a much better job of making me care

601
00:29:27,400 --> 00:29:30,200
Speaker 2: about the leads. Other than being about gay men. The

602
00:29:30,240 --> 00:29:32,880
Speaker 2: two movies are extremely different than anyone who calls Moonlight

603
00:29:32,920 --> 00:29:35,760
Speaker 2: the black Broke Back Mountain put against.

604
00:29:35,360 --> 00:29:37,280
Speaker 3: The purple, against the people's eyebrow.

605
00:29:37,360 --> 00:29:40,720
Speaker 2: From me, it'd be like saying they when Harry Mett

606
00:29:40,800 --> 00:29:43,440
Speaker 2: Sally is the same movie as The Notebook. Broke Back

607
00:29:43,440 --> 00:29:46,040
Speaker 2: Mountain lost the two thousand and six Oscar for Best

608
00:29:46,080 --> 00:29:49,040
Speaker 2: Picture to crash the movie about race and intersecond stories

609
00:29:49,280 --> 00:29:52,360
Speaker 2: that people found very polarizing. Angrily did win Best Director

610
00:29:52,440 --> 00:29:56,880
Speaker 2: for Broke Back, however, be touched with No. You know,

611
00:29:56,920 --> 00:30:01,000
Speaker 2: he sees everything, and he's also from Say Something Nice podcast,

612
00:30:01,040 --> 00:30:02,040
Speaker 2: so we've been on never FORO.

613
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Speaker 3: So yeah, I mean I haven't seen it.

614
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Speaker 4: I still haven't seen I'm not gonna say and I

615
00:30:09,320 --> 00:30:10,400
Speaker 4: ain't gonna promise shit.

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Speaker 3: All right, Dan, never mind.

617
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Speaker 5: I mean you might watch it, but go ahead.

618
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Speaker 2: No, I was gonna say, I still feel I just

619
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Speaker 2: still remember looking back and going it was just it

620
00:30:23,880 --> 00:30:26,800
Speaker 2: was somebody just felt like white people shit at the time,

621
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Speaker 2: and I just didn't.

622
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Speaker 3: I just wasn't very interested in seeing it.

623
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Speaker 2: So I don't know, I haven't gone out of my

624
00:30:33,680 --> 00:30:35,920
Speaker 2: way to look for it. I'm still behind on so

625
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Speaker 2: much other ship. But you know, if I would get

626
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Speaker 2: a down time, maybe I'll take a look at it.

627
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Speaker 3: I don't know. Uh oh yeah.

628
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Speaker 4: And I wouldn't say that in the mean way, but

629
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Speaker 4: I was just saying, don't don't don't look for for

630
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Speaker 4: Broke Brown Mountain for me.

631
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Speaker 3: Yeah, I wasn't accusing of being me.

632
00:30:51,640 --> 00:30:55,200
Speaker 2: Which is better empathy or sympathy. Eighty nine point five

633
00:30:55,360 --> 00:30:59,800
Speaker 2: eight percent said empathy is better than sympathy, and sympathy

634
00:30:59,880 --> 00:31:01,400
Speaker 2: is got ten point four two.

635
00:31:02,760 --> 00:31:03,880
Speaker 3: So there you guys go.

636
00:31:05,560 --> 00:31:08,640
Speaker 2: We often hear those turns together empathy and sympathy, but

637
00:31:08,680 --> 00:31:12,480
Speaker 2: if you just have to pick one, people say go empathy.

638
00:31:13,240 --> 00:31:16,440
Speaker 2: We had episode thirteen ninety six, The Passion of Trump,

639
00:31:16,440 --> 00:31:19,160
Speaker 2: where we had all the guest star from shot at

640
00:31:19,200 --> 00:31:23,040
Speaker 2: our productions and we had Chris and Shan Tea and

641
00:31:23,120 --> 00:31:25,080
Speaker 2: all kinds of Thatcher dexter.

642
00:31:26,280 --> 00:31:31,520
Speaker 3: That Danny was on with us. We had a few comments.

643
00:31:31,560 --> 00:31:34,400
Speaker 2: PhD twenty fourteen says, each week, Hell, each day, the

644
00:31:34,440 --> 00:31:35,520
Speaker 2: show gets better and better.

645
00:31:35,600 --> 00:31:36,200
Speaker 3: Love all of you.

646
00:31:37,600 --> 00:31:41,480
Speaker 2: Amani says, See, y'all gotta think of the franchise opportunities

647
00:31:41,480 --> 00:31:43,920
Speaker 2: with Toiler Snakes. What if the plumber was an Italian

648
00:31:44,000 --> 00:31:46,400
Speaker 2: dude and his brother That's right, you just rebooted Super

649
00:31:46,440 --> 00:31:48,480
Speaker 2: Mario Brothers and Snakes on the plane crossover.

650
00:31:48,800 --> 00:31:49,520
Speaker 3: We're in business.

651
00:31:49,680 --> 00:31:53,040
Speaker 2: A great episode, and y'all really handled the unbridled optimism

652
00:31:53,080 --> 00:31:56,880
Speaker 2: that divorced from the real world consequences as well.

653
00:31:56,360 --> 00:31:58,000
Speaker 3: Oh so we talk about Dan.

654
00:31:58,320 --> 00:32:03,720
Speaker 2: Danny Layla says, look for like I have to literally

655
00:32:03,800 --> 00:32:06,040
Speaker 2: look for good and a person means you ain't shit

656
00:32:06,400 --> 00:32:09,200
Speaker 2: and then the words of Big Sean, I don't fuck

657
00:32:09,280 --> 00:32:09,800
Speaker 2: with you.

658
00:32:10,760 --> 00:32:14,560
Speaker 3: Little stupid lass bitch on fucking with you Looel.

659
00:32:14,680 --> 00:32:17,000
Speaker 2: I don't look for nothing but my check deposit every

660
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Speaker 2: other Friday.

661
00:32:17,680 --> 00:32:17,880
Speaker 5: Rod.

662
00:32:17,920 --> 00:32:20,680
Speaker 2: At one point I felt a oh you poor sweet

663
00:32:20,720 --> 00:32:21,840
Speaker 2: soul fit to come out of you.

664
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Speaker 3: Great convo. Respect was given all around. How can no I'm.

665
00:32:26,080 --> 00:32:28,600
Speaker 4: Laughing at that comment, that comment.

666
00:32:28,640 --> 00:32:33,200
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, great convo. Respect was given all around. Yeah,

667
00:32:33,240 --> 00:32:37,080
Speaker 2: I mean I personally enjoyed that conversation. Uh, I know,

668
00:32:37,160 --> 00:32:39,800
Speaker 2: we didn't get to play our games and all that stuff,

669
00:32:39,840 --> 00:32:43,880
Speaker 2: and it kind of got derailed because, uh, Danny was

670
00:32:43,960 --> 00:32:47,840
Speaker 2: kind of going on for a minute, I think, trying

671
00:32:47,880 --> 00:32:50,560
Speaker 2: to be like fully transparent with people and stuff with

672
00:32:50,600 --> 00:32:54,160
Speaker 2: her whole thought process. But I don't know, I felt

673
00:32:54,160 --> 00:32:56,040
Speaker 2: like it was a good conversation.

674
00:32:56,120 --> 00:32:57,120
Speaker 3: It is important because.

675
00:32:56,920 --> 00:32:58,440
Speaker 2: There's a lot of people that think like Danny, And

676
00:32:59,200 --> 00:33:01,640
Speaker 2: you know, I'm not trying to vilify people like that.

677
00:33:01,840 --> 00:33:04,560
Speaker 2: I'm not, you know, especially you know, being a black

678
00:33:04,600 --> 00:33:08,760
Speaker 2: person like I think, sometimes we do put so much

679
00:33:08,840 --> 00:33:11,560
Speaker 2: pressure on people to have the quote unquote right answer,

680
00:33:11,640 --> 00:33:12,240
Speaker 2: and we don't.

681
00:33:12,560 --> 00:33:14,000
Speaker 3: We'll say we're not a model left.

682
00:33:14,080 --> 00:33:17,200
Speaker 2: But then when someone presents a point of view outside

683
00:33:17,200 --> 00:33:21,840
Speaker 2: of that, we really will bash them, even with them

684
00:33:21,960 --> 00:33:25,000
Speaker 2: not really saying like like they don't even have to

685
00:33:25,000 --> 00:33:26,840
Speaker 2: be saying like there's so many people that say like

686
00:33:27,080 --> 00:33:33,440
Speaker 2: truly repugnant shit, like you know, like like where they where,

687
00:33:33,480 --> 00:33:40,360
Speaker 2: they're like they really like we're involuntary immigrants or slavery

688
00:33:40,360 --> 00:33:45,280
Speaker 2: shouldn't matter or whatever. And I think sometimes people lump

689
00:33:45,360 --> 00:33:48,959
Speaker 2: in like the Stacey Dashes of the world with people

690
00:33:49,000 --> 00:33:51,720
Speaker 2: like Danika, you know, And I don't think that that's

691
00:33:51,760 --> 00:33:56,560
Speaker 2: the same, so, you know, and I think Danica is

692
00:33:56,680 --> 00:34:00,240
Speaker 2: kind of a cool, like flower child, almost hippy, each

693
00:34:00,320 --> 00:34:03,680
Speaker 2: type of approach to a lot of stuff. And we

694
00:34:03,760 --> 00:34:07,720
Speaker 2: had long conversations and cool like talked about family and

695
00:34:07,800 --> 00:34:10,839
Speaker 2: stuff like that, off the off the mic and.

696
00:34:10,920 --> 00:34:12,880
Speaker 3: Just we went out to dinner together.

697
00:34:13,200 --> 00:34:16,759
Speaker 2: Everybody did, and I talked to her, They're like, I

698
00:34:16,800 --> 00:34:18,239
Speaker 2: don't know, man, I just feel like.

699
00:34:20,120 --> 00:34:21,520
Speaker 3: To a certain extent.

700
00:34:21,239 --> 00:34:25,360
Speaker 2: Not everybody's built for that type of fight, and not

701
00:34:25,480 --> 00:34:27,560
Speaker 2: everybody's in that type of world, and.

702
00:34:30,000 --> 00:34:30,839
Speaker 3: People are trying to.

703
00:34:30,800 --> 00:34:33,200
Speaker 2: Cope in the best way they can with whatever that

704
00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:37,000
Speaker 2: tools they have. So it's one of the reasons I'm

705
00:34:37,040 --> 00:34:40,719
Speaker 2: not very judgmental of people like needing religion to get

706
00:34:40,719 --> 00:34:45,040
Speaker 2: by because the world is so fucked up you need something,

707
00:34:45,320 --> 00:34:47,719
Speaker 2: you know what I mean, Like not everybody want to

708
00:34:47,760 --> 00:34:53,920
Speaker 2: be a Nahilist and shit, you know, people don't want

709
00:34:53,960 --> 00:34:57,319
Speaker 2: to live in like a dark place sometimes, and their

710
00:34:57,400 --> 00:35:01,279
Speaker 2: coping mechanism is a coping mechanism. People don't want to

711
00:35:01,320 --> 00:35:04,839
Speaker 2: look at their family and be like, you know, are

712
00:35:05,040 --> 00:35:07,920
Speaker 2: these white people who raised me bad people? Or did

713
00:35:07,920 --> 00:35:10,279
Speaker 2: they fuck up somehow? Like that's my family. I don't

714
00:35:10,280 --> 00:35:14,000
Speaker 2: want to think of them that way. So I understand

715
00:35:14,040 --> 00:35:16,080
Speaker 2: the very real personal thing, which is why I try

716
00:35:16,080 --> 00:35:19,279
Speaker 2: to keep the conversation kind of broad and not take

717
00:35:19,320 --> 00:35:21,560
Speaker 2: it to a personal level, because I don't know Danny's family.

718
00:35:22,160 --> 00:35:22,920
Speaker 3: You know, I saw.

719
00:35:22,760 --> 00:35:26,560
Speaker 2: People like tweeting and speculating stuff about like, well, it's

720
00:35:26,560 --> 00:35:29,439
Speaker 2: probably because of this, so she probably said that. All

721
00:35:29,480 --> 00:35:32,040
Speaker 2: I know is she was eight, you know what I mean,

722
00:35:32,320 --> 00:35:34,840
Speaker 2: talking to her black family for the first time in

723
00:35:34,880 --> 00:35:38,400
Speaker 2: her life. I can't imagine what that conversation once it

724
00:35:38,440 --> 00:35:41,040
Speaker 2: felt like at eight, you know, I can't imagine what

725
00:35:41,160 --> 00:35:44,120
Speaker 2: that what that conversation felt like to her black family

726
00:35:44,160 --> 00:35:47,000
Speaker 2: that first time, seeing you know, who knows what the

727
00:35:47,000 --> 00:35:49,480
Speaker 2: backstory is there for why that was the first time

728
00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:52,040
Speaker 2: they met. Like, there's so much shit that we don't know,

729
00:35:52,080 --> 00:35:55,200
Speaker 2: but I think we like to like put everything into

730
00:35:56,680 --> 00:35:58,799
Speaker 2: almost like a computer or a box or something to

731
00:35:58,880 --> 00:36:00,520
Speaker 2: be like this is how this person and this A

732
00:36:00,600 --> 00:36:01,440
Speaker 2: plus B equal C.

733
00:36:02,000 --> 00:36:03,640
Speaker 3: And I just don't think the world works like that.

734
00:36:03,840 --> 00:36:11,680
Speaker 2: So and I do think that some people are more conciliatory.

735
00:36:11,080 --> 00:36:16,000
Speaker 3: And they're more because of their worldview.

736
00:36:16,800 --> 00:36:22,000
Speaker 2: They feel like it's their obligation to find something redeemable

737
00:36:22,160 --> 00:36:26,120
Speaker 2: in everybody. And I don't believe in that, you know,

738
00:36:26,440 --> 00:36:28,360
Speaker 2: like it's just a different way of viewing the world.

739
00:36:28,440 --> 00:36:30,800
Speaker 2: I can't be I couldn't be like that because I

740
00:36:31,040 --> 00:36:33,960
Speaker 2: feel like I have to make hard lines with my

741
00:36:34,040 --> 00:36:37,160
Speaker 2: empathy because sometimes I will start to sympathize with people

742
00:36:37,160 --> 00:36:41,319
Speaker 2: that are fucked up people, and that's not healthy, you know,

743
00:36:41,640 --> 00:36:44,600
Speaker 2: like sometimes it's unhealthy to keep giving people chances or

744
00:36:44,680 --> 00:36:47,000
Speaker 2: cheap kind to say, but let's talk about this good

745
00:36:47,040 --> 00:36:49,560
Speaker 2: thing when when they're really fucking up and doing fucked

746
00:36:49,600 --> 00:36:52,880
Speaker 2: up things with people, which is fun. It's not like

747
00:36:54,080 --> 00:36:56,600
Speaker 2: Danny's in charge of Black Lives Matter or something like,

748
00:36:56,640 --> 00:36:59,200
Speaker 2: she's not in charge of the resistance, Like she's just

749
00:36:59,239 --> 00:37:01,400
Speaker 2: a person trying to this, So it didn't bother me,

750
00:37:01,480 --> 00:37:03,799
Speaker 2: I think as much as other people. I disagree with

751
00:37:03,840 --> 00:37:08,680
Speaker 2: her on some aspects, but I feel like it was

752
00:37:08,680 --> 00:37:10,080
Speaker 2: a very civil conversation.

753
00:37:11,520 --> 00:37:13,040
Speaker 3: And I still I still like Danny.

754
00:37:13,120 --> 00:37:13,319
Speaker 7: You know.

755
00:37:13,360 --> 00:37:16,239
Speaker 2: I didn't feel like it was argumentative or any of

756
00:37:16,280 --> 00:37:18,839
Speaker 2: that stuff. And I hope, you know, I would hope

757
00:37:18,840 --> 00:37:19,960
Speaker 2: that she feels the same way.

758
00:37:20,040 --> 00:37:20,239
Speaker 4: Man.

759
00:37:20,880 --> 00:37:26,160
Speaker 2: You know, whiteness in general in this country is a

760
00:37:26,160 --> 00:37:28,680
Speaker 2: head trip to like the things that I'm not talking

761
00:37:28,719 --> 00:37:32,360
Speaker 2: about white people, but whiteness as a concept and the

762
00:37:32,520 --> 00:37:35,840
Speaker 2: and the white supremacy that kind of underlies our society

763
00:37:35,960 --> 00:37:39,560
Speaker 2: but through laws and generational things and the way we

764
00:37:39,680 --> 00:37:42,680
Speaker 2: view each other. It's a head trip, and it can

765
00:37:42,719 --> 00:37:43,520
Speaker 2: fuck people up.

766
00:37:43,560 --> 00:37:46,640
Speaker 3: Man. And Danny's also pretty young. She wanted younger people.

767
00:37:47,200 --> 00:37:51,520
Speaker 2: They're like, who knows what Danny's gonna be talking about

768
00:37:51,360 --> 00:37:54,160
Speaker 2: at thirty? Who knows that Dan's gonna talking about at forty? Like,

769
00:37:55,280 --> 00:38:00,760
Speaker 2: you know, we just don't know, man, so and.

770
00:38:00,080 --> 00:38:01,640
Speaker 3: And I yeah, so, I don't know.

771
00:38:01,680 --> 00:38:04,800
Speaker 2: It was just I appreciate her being open and honest

772
00:38:04,800 --> 00:38:07,440
Speaker 2: and sharing that with everybody, and like not being afraid

773
00:38:07,480 --> 00:38:10,080
Speaker 2: because I know that that's probably pretty fucking intimidating to

774
00:38:10,120 --> 00:38:12,960
Speaker 2: be in a room full of people that are you know,

775
00:38:13,760 --> 00:38:18,840
Speaker 2: pretty pretty militant and and and and present that opinion,

776
00:38:18,920 --> 00:38:20,880
Speaker 2: you know, And I don't know how she would have

777
00:38:20,960 --> 00:38:24,719
Speaker 2: thought that conversation was gonna go, but I did want

778
00:38:24,719 --> 00:38:27,600
Speaker 2: her to be able to express herself and not feel

779
00:38:28,760 --> 00:38:33,759
Speaker 2: I don't know, shut down or scolded or whatever, because

780
00:38:33,960 --> 00:38:35,759
Speaker 2: it felt like in the room y'all couldn't see it

781
00:38:35,800 --> 00:38:37,840
Speaker 2: because you know, we weren't live, but I felt like

782
00:38:37,880 --> 00:38:38,720
Speaker 2: everybody got tight.

783
00:38:39,600 --> 00:38:43,600
Speaker 3: People were stopped talking, people stopped making.

784
00:38:43,400 --> 00:38:48,359
Speaker 2: Eye contact, so you know it, which is weird because

785
00:38:48,360 --> 00:38:53,600
Speaker 2: it's like a few minutes before Karen had taking the

786
00:38:53,640 --> 00:38:58,880
Speaker 2: mic from me just to talk to her about Steven Universe,

787
00:38:58,960 --> 00:39:03,560
Speaker 2: So like, you know, it's it's just amazing what I

788
00:39:03,600 --> 00:39:07,399
Speaker 2: don't know how like race and racism and talking about

789
00:39:07,440 --> 00:39:10,399
Speaker 2: it can just, like I don't know, change the whole

790
00:39:10,440 --> 00:39:15,600
Speaker 2: tone in the room when someone you know, kind of

791
00:39:17,400 --> 00:39:20,759
Speaker 2: when everybody's not in one hundred percent agreement that yes.

792
00:39:20,960 --> 00:39:27,960
Speaker 4: And also I can speak for me personally, I wanted

793
00:39:28,000 --> 00:39:30,640
Speaker 4: to hear her out because I can say I had

794
00:39:30,800 --> 00:39:33,879
Speaker 4: thoughts that I had things floating in my mind, and

795
00:39:34,200 --> 00:39:37,239
Speaker 4: I just wanted to hear her out. That was the

796
00:39:37,280 --> 00:39:41,680
Speaker 4: most important thing to me because it's one of those

797
00:39:41,719 --> 00:39:50,240
Speaker 4: things where when people have different perspectives and different views

798
00:39:50,480 --> 00:39:55,320
Speaker 4: a lot of times when they explain, I think there's

799
00:39:55,320 --> 00:39:59,200
Speaker 4: no nuance when you don't allow them to explain themselves.

800
00:39:59,280 --> 00:40:02,040
Speaker 4: I personally think that you were the best person to

801
00:40:02,040 --> 00:40:07,040
Speaker 4: have that conversation with her, in my opinion, versus me,

802
00:40:07,600 --> 00:40:09,600
Speaker 4: because it would kind of went very differently.

803
00:40:10,200 --> 00:40:10,960
Speaker 5: I think.

804
00:40:12,680 --> 00:40:14,759
Speaker 4: I could have had a nuance conversation with her too,

805
00:40:15,560 --> 00:40:18,160
Speaker 4: but I think that it would went very differently because

806
00:40:18,200 --> 00:40:21,600
Speaker 4: our minds ticked very differently in how we execute and

807
00:40:21,719 --> 00:40:24,160
Speaker 4: pick on people's brains is completely different.

808
00:40:25,960 --> 00:40:30,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, like I said, I didn't mind, you know, I

809
00:40:30,600 --> 00:40:31,640
Speaker 2: didn't mind the conversation.

810
00:40:31,719 --> 00:40:31,879
Speaker 6: Man.

811
00:40:31,920 --> 00:40:33,759
Speaker 3: I hope a lot of people heard it. The most

812
00:40:33,760 --> 00:40:34,359
Speaker 3: important thing.

813
00:40:34,400 --> 00:40:37,640
Speaker 2: I hope people here and then see that it's you

814
00:40:37,640 --> 00:40:42,960
Speaker 2: don't have to jump in somebody's ship or for disagreeing

815
00:40:43,200 --> 00:40:45,520
Speaker 2: or asking a question or something. I think there's times

816
00:40:45,560 --> 00:40:48,239
Speaker 2: where people literally question people's humanities, and that's when you

817
00:40:48,280 --> 00:40:49,800
Speaker 2: see a lot of people fly off the handle.

818
00:40:49,840 --> 00:40:53,800
Speaker 3: And I totally understand that. But sometimes it's just someone being.

819
00:40:53,680 --> 00:40:57,640
Speaker 2: Like, well, you know, well I feel this way and

820
00:40:58,840 --> 00:41:01,239
Speaker 2: you know, you're definitely not convince that person to be

821
00:41:01,280 --> 00:41:04,520
Speaker 2: on your side by yelling at them. And also, man,

822
00:41:04,640 --> 00:41:07,200
Speaker 2: it's unfair, but it puts black people in marginalized people

823
00:41:07,239 --> 00:41:10,080
Speaker 2: in general in a very precarious place, you know, because,

824
00:41:12,719 --> 00:41:15,400
Speaker 2: for example, when we were talking about the men who

825
00:41:15,480 --> 00:41:19,880
Speaker 2: were passing these laws about abortion and shit, and a

826
00:41:20,000 --> 00:41:22,880
Speaker 2: man has to sign off on something. I mean, Danny's

827
00:41:22,880 --> 00:41:27,640
Speaker 2: a Christian woman. She probably doesn't believe in you know,

828
00:41:27,719 --> 00:41:31,600
Speaker 2: she probably pro life or something possibly, but none of that.

829
00:41:31,800 --> 00:41:34,000
Speaker 2: I didn't feel like taking a burden on myself to

830
00:41:34,040 --> 00:41:37,160
Speaker 2: be like, well, these men are humans too, and they

831
00:41:37,200 --> 00:41:39,680
Speaker 2: may want to be a father, and what about their rights.

832
00:41:39,680 --> 00:41:41,200
Speaker 2: I'm not saying they should be able to tell you

833
00:41:41,280 --> 00:41:43,279
Speaker 2: what to do, but I mean, is anyone thinking of

834
00:41:43,320 --> 00:41:45,600
Speaker 2: them like I wouldn't make that point because I'm like,

835
00:41:46,040 --> 00:41:48,840
Speaker 2: to the point that we're the discussion we're talking about

836
00:41:49,719 --> 00:41:53,800
Speaker 2: it literally is inconsequential like that you shouldn't be allowed

837
00:41:53,840 --> 00:41:55,200
Speaker 2: to tell ayone what to do with her body.

838
00:41:55,239 --> 00:41:55,640
Speaker 3: Period.

839
00:41:55,640 --> 00:41:57,560
Speaker 2: That's the end of discussion as far as I'm concerned,

840
00:41:58,719 --> 00:42:00,640
Speaker 2: And I don't need to play devil's advocate will make

841
00:42:00,680 --> 00:42:03,719
Speaker 2: the point for them. I think also the discussion we

842
00:42:03,719 --> 00:42:05,720
Speaker 2: were having at the time was about the Blue Lives

843
00:42:05,760 --> 00:42:15,920
Speaker 2: Matter thing, where the psychiatrist was putting officers private patient

844
00:42:16,640 --> 00:42:20,480
Speaker 2: patient doctor confidentiality protected stuff out on the internet. So

845
00:42:20,560 --> 00:42:23,080
Speaker 2: it was one where everybody, I think, until I got

846
00:42:23,080 --> 00:42:25,000
Speaker 2: to Danny, everybody was like, I ain't fucking with at all,

847
00:42:25,120 --> 00:42:28,439
Speaker 2: like fucked them cops and that, And so I think

848
00:42:28,480 --> 00:42:30,719
Speaker 2: she was trying to rationalize out, like why do I

849
00:42:30,760 --> 00:42:34,120
Speaker 2: feel like it's not a zero that, like it definitely

850
00:42:34,280 --> 00:42:37,000
Speaker 2: was kind of fucked up, but it's not a hundred either,

851
00:42:37,719 --> 00:42:39,960
Speaker 2: And I thought she explained it pretty well, and it

852
00:42:40,120 --> 00:42:42,120
Speaker 2: just happened. It just so happened because of the random

853
00:42:42,360 --> 00:42:43,840
Speaker 2: because of the order of things and the way we

854
00:42:43,840 --> 00:42:44,280
Speaker 2: were sitting.

855
00:42:44,840 --> 00:42:45,520
Speaker 3: I didn't get to.

856
00:42:45,480 --> 00:42:48,040
Speaker 2: Go yet because on my turn, I was like, I agree,

857
00:42:48,840 --> 00:42:50,759
Speaker 2: Like to me, it was it was fifty. Like I

858
00:42:50,760 --> 00:42:53,719
Speaker 2: felt a little bit fucked with because you know, it

859
00:42:54,280 --> 00:42:56,080
Speaker 2: is a lot to put out there, and it does

860
00:42:56,200 --> 00:42:59,000
Speaker 2: kind of make it seem like officers should lie and

861
00:42:59,040 --> 00:43:04,480
Speaker 2: should not tell the psychiatrists whatever the truth is, which

862
00:43:04,640 --> 00:43:07,359
Speaker 2: puts us in more danger as a public, you know,

863
00:43:07,400 --> 00:43:09,000
Speaker 2: And there has to be a chain of command behind

864
00:43:09,000 --> 00:43:11,799
Speaker 2: closed doors that already exist to get these things done.

865
00:43:12,640 --> 00:43:14,640
Speaker 2: So if you just skip straight the posting people shit

866
00:43:14,719 --> 00:43:18,839
Speaker 2: on Facebook, yes, unprofessional, but more importantly it might get

867
00:43:18,840 --> 00:43:21,880
Speaker 2: people killed, you know, so that's the kind of you know.

868
00:43:22,000 --> 00:43:25,279
Speaker 3: Anyway, it was a good conversation. I thought it was.

869
00:43:25,280 --> 00:43:29,920
Speaker 4: It was a good conversation, and it also is one

870
00:43:29,920 --> 00:43:32,280
Speaker 4: of those things where I understood her perspective.

871
00:43:32,320 --> 00:43:32,480
Speaker 8: You know.

872
00:43:32,520 --> 00:43:34,960
Speaker 4: It's not like I didn't understand her perspective of where

873
00:43:35,000 --> 00:43:40,080
Speaker 4: she was coming from at all. I just think whenever

874
00:43:40,840 --> 00:43:42,680
Speaker 4: I took a lot of things to do consideration, I

875
00:43:42,719 --> 00:43:46,480
Speaker 4: took her youth into consideration more than anything else. Because

876
00:43:46,840 --> 00:43:50,480
Speaker 4: life will teach you a lot of things that sometimes

877
00:43:50,520 --> 00:43:54,399
Speaker 4: having a conversation like that just can't. Like you say,

878
00:43:54,480 --> 00:43:57,200
Speaker 4: as she grows her perspective, you don't know what her

879
00:43:57,239 --> 00:43:59,200
Speaker 4: perspective may be. You might talk to her and it

880
00:43:59,280 --> 00:44:02,680
Speaker 4: might be a different perspective. Because people grow, people change,

881
00:44:02,680 --> 00:44:03,400
Speaker 4: people evolved.

882
00:44:03,600 --> 00:44:05,640
Speaker 5: You have to allow.

883
00:44:05,440 --> 00:44:09,640
Speaker 4: Them to go through whatever the emotional changes and thought

884
00:44:09,680 --> 00:44:13,359
Speaker 4: processes they need to. Because most of us in our

885
00:44:13,400 --> 00:44:16,120
Speaker 4: thirties and forties and fifties and beyond that we were

886
00:44:16,239 --> 00:44:18,759
Speaker 4: allowed to go through that thought process and amount of

887
00:44:18,760 --> 00:44:21,400
Speaker 4: thos were actually shut down or we actually shouldn't have

888
00:44:21,400 --> 00:44:23,160
Speaker 4: been such down. We actually should have been able to

889
00:44:23,200 --> 00:44:25,840
Speaker 4: express ourselves. But a lot of us was shut down

890
00:44:26,160 --> 00:44:28,359
Speaker 4: being family and friends and loved ones because the quote

891
00:44:28,400 --> 00:44:32,279
Speaker 4: unquote didn't go with whatever the whatever the standard was.

892
00:44:32,320 --> 00:44:33,240
Speaker 5: But go ahead. I'm sorry.

893
00:44:33,480 --> 00:44:35,399
Speaker 3: No, no, you don't have to apologize. You were talking.

894
00:44:35,440 --> 00:44:38,839
Speaker 3: I didn't mean to interrupt you, but yeah, you're right.

895
00:44:39,160 --> 00:44:40,360
Speaker 2: I mean, who knows what the fuck we were have

896
00:44:40,400 --> 00:44:42,399
Speaker 2: been saying that we had a podcast at twenty three

897
00:44:42,560 --> 00:44:45,160
Speaker 2: or some shit, it would it would have.

898
00:44:45,080 --> 00:44:47,600
Speaker 4: Been all the think pieces and protests, and because Dante

899
00:44:47,680 --> 00:44:50,600
Speaker 4: I ain't know what the transgender was, it's a lot.

900
00:44:50,440 --> 00:44:52,719
Speaker 3: Of Oh, yeah, I know, okay, I know what you mean.

901
00:44:52,719 --> 00:44:55,279
Speaker 3: You mean the term yeah, yeah, the term transgender.

902
00:44:55,480 --> 00:44:57,680
Speaker 5: I'm sorry. Yes, I didn't mean that in a negative way,

903
00:44:57,719 --> 00:44:58,280
Speaker 5: but yeah.

904
00:44:58,200 --> 00:45:00,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, no, no, I know what you mean. I

905
00:45:00,080 --> 00:45:03,040
Speaker 2: thought you Yeah, I know what you meant. Do you

906
00:45:03,120 --> 00:45:06,279
Speaker 2: try to look for the good things? And everyone is

907
00:45:06,360 --> 00:45:09,759
Speaker 2: the was the pole, Yes everyone has something good in

908
00:45:09,800 --> 00:45:13,000
Speaker 2: them or no, fuck that shit, man of my audience

909
00:45:13,160 --> 00:45:16,319
Speaker 2: tries to look for the good and everything and everyone's yes,

910
00:45:16,400 --> 00:45:19,040
Speaker 2: everyone has something good about them and no fuck that shit.

911
00:45:19,120 --> 00:45:19,800
Speaker 3: Man eighty.

912
00:45:21,640 --> 00:45:24,759
Speaker 2: And I gotta say, man, I'm not a look for

913
00:45:24,840 --> 00:45:29,200
Speaker 2: the good in everybody person, but I do find it.

914
00:45:31,080 --> 00:45:33,360
Speaker 2: I wonder what people's impetus for that is, because I

915
00:45:33,400 --> 00:45:36,080
Speaker 2: really feel like it's a coping mechanism. I feel like

916
00:45:36,120 --> 00:45:39,120
Speaker 2: people want things to make sense. Nobody wants to think

917
00:45:40,280 --> 00:45:43,919
Speaker 2: there are people that just don't have anything good about them.

918
00:45:44,640 --> 00:45:48,160
Speaker 2: So so you're going I respect this person's passion, or

919
00:45:50,080 --> 00:45:53,240
Speaker 2: they're good to their family, or so you just anything

920
00:45:53,360 --> 00:45:58,040
Speaker 2: other than just going like yo, the amount of fucked

921
00:45:58,080 --> 00:46:00,920
Speaker 2: upness in them negates the fact that there's anything good

922
00:46:00,920 --> 00:46:01,680
Speaker 2: about this person.

923
00:46:02,200 --> 00:46:06,560
Speaker 4: Okay, But I just I try to see good in everyone,

924
00:46:06,920 --> 00:46:10,839
Speaker 4: like that's almost a default for me. So from that perspective,

925
00:46:11,040 --> 00:46:13,840
Speaker 4: I understood where she was coming from. But I also

926
00:46:14,640 --> 00:46:17,960
Speaker 4: as I've gotten older, I realized you can't do that.

927
00:46:17,960 --> 00:46:21,200
Speaker 5: Just from my growing up perspective, you can't do that.

928
00:46:21,239 --> 00:46:23,719
Speaker 4: And there's some people you got to say, oh, okay,

929
00:46:24,160 --> 00:46:28,000
Speaker 4: there's nothing good about you, and you got you got

930
00:46:28,000 --> 00:46:30,200
Speaker 4: to say okay, I got to disregard you and keep

931
00:46:30,200 --> 00:46:34,839
Speaker 4: it pushing. But for most people, the average person, there

932
00:46:34,920 --> 00:46:39,239
Speaker 4: is something good a lot. For some people there is not, uh,

933
00:46:39,320 --> 00:46:42,479
Speaker 4: and you got to go okay, that's fucked up. You're

934
00:46:42,560 --> 00:46:43,960
Speaker 4: fucked up, and keep it trucking.

935
00:46:45,680 --> 00:46:48,960
Speaker 2: Yep uh the Pope, And then we got Monica said,

936
00:46:49,040 --> 00:46:51,080
Speaker 2: I used to look for the good, and I.

937
00:46:51,000 --> 00:46:52,960
Speaker 3: Sort of do by reflect sometimes.

938
00:46:53,080 --> 00:46:55,240
Speaker 2: But I realized a while ago I had terrible judgment

939
00:46:55,239 --> 00:46:58,160
Speaker 2: when it comes to assholes too forgiven, So no, can't

940
00:46:58,160 --> 00:46:58,879
Speaker 2: look for the good.

941
00:46:59,080 --> 00:47:01,359
Speaker 3: I needed to be right.

942
00:47:01,400 --> 00:47:04,200
Speaker 4: And also I can say me personally, when you try

943
00:47:04,239 --> 00:47:07,160
Speaker 4: to look for the good and everyone you can be

944
00:47:07,239 --> 00:47:09,600
Speaker 4: taking advantage of just me just to think about my

945
00:47:09,680 --> 00:47:13,399
Speaker 4: usually be taking advantage of you be highly disappointed.

946
00:47:12,840 --> 00:47:14,279
Speaker 5: In people you can.

947
00:47:16,080 --> 00:47:17,840
Speaker 4: I can say I went through a lot of depression

948
00:47:17,880 --> 00:47:21,200
Speaker 4: and all types of emotional roller coasters, just trying to

949
00:47:21,239 --> 00:47:24,200
Speaker 4: look at the good, trying to look for the good

950
00:47:24,239 --> 00:47:27,040
Speaker 4: in someone in situations that were fucked up.

951
00:47:27,080 --> 00:47:29,759
Speaker 5: And I should have just cut my loss and ran.

952
00:47:30,480 --> 00:47:33,840
Speaker 4: And a lot of times once I cut my loss,

953
00:47:33,920 --> 00:47:36,160
Speaker 4: I had been through so much till it was just

954
00:47:36,280 --> 00:47:37,239
Speaker 4: devastating to me.

955
00:47:37,880 --> 00:47:39,040
Speaker 5: And then.

956
00:47:40,320 --> 00:47:42,520
Speaker 4: I was very angry, and then I began to blame

957
00:47:42,600 --> 00:47:45,600
Speaker 4: myself and like it was just a huge roller coaster.

958
00:47:46,040 --> 00:47:48,400
Speaker 4: If you're the type of person who automatically and this

959
00:47:48,480 --> 00:47:52,480
Speaker 4: is somebody whose personality is automatic, your default to automatically

960
00:47:52,560 --> 00:47:56,120
Speaker 4: look for the good and people. Now I'm more aware. Now,

961
00:47:56,200 --> 00:47:59,440
Speaker 4: I'm more alert. Now I know what those characteristics are,

962
00:47:59,520 --> 00:48:03,120
Speaker 4: because before I did not know what asshole characteristics were.

963
00:48:03,200 --> 00:48:06,240
Speaker 4: I did not know what to look for, what the clues,

964
00:48:06,360 --> 00:48:09,320
Speaker 4: what the signs were. You know, I never had anybody

965
00:48:09,360 --> 00:48:11,759
Speaker 4: around me to tell me this is what you look for.

966
00:48:11,840 --> 00:48:13,920
Speaker 5: There's no book to this, you know.

967
00:48:14,040 --> 00:48:16,400
Speaker 4: You just grow and learn and fuck up big erarors,

968
00:48:16,560 --> 00:48:19,600
Speaker 4: you know, and get heartbroken and then go okay. And

969
00:48:19,680 --> 00:48:21,480
Speaker 4: I just some people don't recover from that, and so

970
00:48:21,560 --> 00:48:23,600
Speaker 4: I never wanted to be a person that I just

971
00:48:23,640 --> 00:48:26,640
Speaker 4: completely said fuck the world and closed myself off because

972
00:48:26,680 --> 00:48:28,120
Speaker 4: I was almost getting to that point.

973
00:48:28,160 --> 00:48:29,640
Speaker 5: And that's not healthy either.

974
00:48:30,880 --> 00:48:33,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I think a lot of it is learned,

975
00:48:34,160 --> 00:48:36,839
Speaker 2: Like we just see it as like a positive trait

976
00:48:37,000 --> 00:48:39,440
Speaker 2: of they can see the good in everybody. We keep

977
00:48:39,480 --> 00:48:43,319
Speaker 2: telling people that aspired to that, but you know, I

978
00:48:43,320 --> 00:48:46,640
Speaker 2: don't know. I'm just more pragmatic towards shit, Like I

979
00:48:46,640 --> 00:48:49,960
Speaker 2: can see the usefulness in people more than I see

980
00:48:50,000 --> 00:48:52,959
Speaker 2: the good in people. And it's like my brother told me, Man,

981
00:48:53,040 --> 00:48:55,919
Speaker 2: I saw it on Facebook. Man, I'll never forget that shit.

982
00:48:56,360 --> 00:48:57,279
Speaker 2: I've quoted it a lot.

983
00:48:57,320 --> 00:48:59,680
Speaker 3: But if you're not useful, you're useless.

984
00:48:59,760 --> 00:49:04,160
Speaker 2: Like it ain't about just you having some good qualities,

985
00:49:04,160 --> 00:49:06,440
Speaker 2: like if I can't, if you can't.

986
00:49:06,200 --> 00:49:09,440
Speaker 3: Be of use to people, what the fuck is the point?

987
00:49:09,600 --> 00:49:09,839
Speaker 3: You know?

988
00:49:10,120 --> 00:49:12,879
Speaker 2: I don't care that Donald Trump could be a great

989
00:49:12,920 --> 00:49:13,879
Speaker 2: grandfather or some shit.

990
00:49:13,920 --> 00:49:14,880
Speaker 3: I don't care about.

991
00:49:14,600 --> 00:49:19,880
Speaker 2: That, all right, Episode thirteen ninety seven, Ben Carson just

992
00:49:19,920 --> 00:49:20,480
Speaker 2: got lucky.

993
00:49:20,920 --> 00:49:25,080
Speaker 3: We had a lot of comments. A River City girl says.

994
00:49:25,239 --> 00:49:27,960
Speaker 2: Ben Carson has to be the most ignorant mf ever.

995
00:49:28,640 --> 00:49:30,880
Speaker 2: To go from being a renowned black surgeon to the

996
00:49:30,920 --> 00:49:34,560
Speaker 2: chief secretary of the Coon squad is so disappointing. Ah ah,

997
00:49:35,320 --> 00:49:37,480
Speaker 2: he's a fucking embarrassing I want him to leave us

998
00:49:37,480 --> 00:49:37,920
Speaker 2: all alone.

999
00:49:37,960 --> 00:49:38,680
Speaker 3: What an asshole.

1000
00:49:39,000 --> 00:49:41,280
Speaker 2: Y'all completely caught me off guard with where the coon's

1001
00:49:41,280 --> 00:49:44,120
Speaker 2: at song. I guess if I stay ready, I won't

1002
00:49:44,120 --> 00:49:44,960
Speaker 2: have to get ready.

1003
00:49:45,200 --> 00:49:46,719
Speaker 3: I mean should have.

1004
00:49:46,680 --> 00:49:49,000
Speaker 2: Known it was coming if Ben Carson was about to

1005
00:49:49,000 --> 00:49:51,479
Speaker 2: be talking. I mean, come on, what was the odds

1006
00:49:51,480 --> 00:49:54,640
Speaker 2: of him saying something that we would all get behind,

1007
00:49:55,120 --> 00:49:57,280
Speaker 2: that we would be like, you know what, this time,

1008
00:49:58,480 --> 00:50:00,839
Speaker 2: this time he's got it right. I don't know what

1009
00:50:01,040 --> 00:50:06,239
Speaker 2: I was thinking earlier. We got more comments. We had

1010
00:50:06,480 --> 00:50:09,360
Speaker 2: anonymous says, hey, y'all, this episode is great as usual,

1011
00:50:09,680 --> 00:50:11,880
Speaker 2: The Emma Watson segment stayed on my mind, so I

1012
00:50:11,920 --> 00:50:14,759
Speaker 2: decided to talk about it with y'all. White women have

1013
00:50:14,920 --> 00:50:17,759
Speaker 2: had so much domain over black women's body since the

1014
00:50:17,800 --> 00:50:21,080
Speaker 2: inception of slavery. Shoot from the first time one of

1015
00:50:21,120 --> 00:50:23,680
Speaker 2: them kick one of their fuck ass husbands came back

1016
00:50:23,680 --> 00:50:28,000
Speaker 2: from an African expedition and then put in parentheses rape

1017
00:50:28,040 --> 00:50:30,359
Speaker 2: to her and decided that white women needed to have

1018
00:50:30,400 --> 00:50:31,439
Speaker 2: black women's.

1019
00:50:31,120 --> 00:50:33,080
Speaker 3: Silhouettes see bustles.

1020
00:50:33,520 --> 00:50:37,200
Speaker 2: I think that there's an unspoken acknowledgment and resentment of

1021
00:50:37,200 --> 00:50:39,800
Speaker 2: black women's beauty in the violent lens that white women

1022
00:50:39,840 --> 00:50:44,600
Speaker 2: go to deny this I eat infantalizing Beyonce worldview, combined

1023
00:50:44,640 --> 00:50:46,920
Speaker 2: with the back end the complement of white girls evolving

1024
00:50:46,960 --> 00:50:50,520
Speaker 2: equal button in hims. This proverbial fly in the ointment

1025
00:50:50,560 --> 00:50:53,439
Speaker 2: and against the foundation of white women's identity is being

1026
00:50:53,480 --> 00:50:57,120
Speaker 2: the most desirable in the peak echelon of femininity. So

1027
00:50:57,239 --> 00:51:02,200
Speaker 2: when that status is threatened, they get very passively, aggressively territorial.

1028
00:51:02,800 --> 00:51:04,400
Speaker 3: I've seen it and experienced it.

1029
00:51:04,960 --> 00:51:09,000
Speaker 2: I've had former white female friends say to me aren't

1030
00:51:09,000 --> 00:51:11,000
Speaker 2: you cold? As a way to shame me because I

1031
00:51:11,040 --> 00:51:13,160
Speaker 2: was looking good, Not to say that black women aren't

1032
00:51:13,200 --> 00:51:16,279
Speaker 2: capable of being haters. There is often no recourse for

1033
00:51:16,320 --> 00:51:18,640
Speaker 2: black women in these conflicts because we are not protected

1034
00:51:20,320 --> 00:51:24,279
Speaker 2: hell you you oh wait, we're not protecting hell. Usually

1035
00:51:24,320 --> 00:51:26,759
Speaker 2: we are vilified as seen as the aggressive, when oftentimes

1036
00:51:26,760 --> 00:51:29,879
Speaker 2: we're just trying to protect ourselves. Meanwhile, the white woman

1037
00:51:30,000 --> 00:51:32,520
Speaker 2: is protected and coddled and confirmed me that she is

1038
00:51:32,560 --> 00:51:35,799
Speaker 2: correcting her violence. Keep on being insightful, the insightful people

1039
00:51:35,800 --> 00:51:39,360
Speaker 2: that you both are. Peace, love and coconut grease, Charlotte B.

1040
00:51:39,680 --> 00:51:44,120
Speaker 2: Thanks Charlotte, And uh yeah, it is. It is a

1041
00:51:44,120 --> 00:51:47,120
Speaker 2: lot man especially. I mean it's it's always been odd

1042
00:51:47,200 --> 00:51:52,279
Speaker 2: to me that people see things such as tanning, such

1043
00:51:52,320 --> 00:51:59,960
Speaker 2: as be tall, dark and handsome, having full lips, wide here,

1044
00:52:00,520 --> 00:52:08,960
Speaker 2: being curvy, like all these things we see as like positive, positive.

1045
00:52:08,480 --> 00:52:10,759
Speaker 3: Things when it comes to being beautiful.

1046
00:52:10,840 --> 00:52:16,080
Speaker 2: But then ultimately people want to put black women into

1047
00:52:16,120 --> 00:52:19,800
Speaker 2: the undesirable box, and it's like, what what the fuck

1048
00:52:20,239 --> 00:52:22,680
Speaker 2: you know it does? I can't imagine they had trip

1049
00:52:22,719 --> 00:52:26,560
Speaker 2: of being a black woman that it has to be

1050
00:52:26,560 --> 00:52:32,440
Speaker 2: because it is, you know, hyper sexualized. It is you know, well,

1051
00:52:32,480 --> 00:52:34,120
Speaker 2: I want to fuck this woman, but I don't want

1052
00:52:34,120 --> 00:52:36,080
Speaker 2: to be seen with this woman.

1053
00:52:36,120 --> 00:52:38,520
Speaker 3: I don't I wouldn't want to marry this woman.

1054
00:52:39,040 --> 00:52:41,040
Speaker 2: I mean, there's a lot to it, man, it's you know,

1055
00:52:41,080 --> 00:52:43,319
Speaker 2: It's one of the reasons I don't really get very

1056
00:52:43,400 --> 00:52:47,200
Speaker 2: much into when people talking about like so and so

1057
00:52:47,320 --> 00:52:50,759
Speaker 2: got a white wife, or so and so got like

1058
00:52:50,800 --> 00:52:55,759
Speaker 2: there's a resentment there in general towards brothers that, you know,

1059
00:52:55,880 --> 00:52:58,120
Speaker 2: marry outside of our race and shit like that. I

1060
00:52:58,160 --> 00:53:01,400
Speaker 2: don't really get into it because I've never lived a

1061
00:53:01,480 --> 00:53:04,400
Speaker 2: head trip existence of being.

1062
00:53:04,239 --> 00:53:04,799
Speaker 3: A black woman.

1063
00:53:04,840 --> 00:53:07,279
Speaker 2: I don't know what the fuck that feels like. I

1064
00:53:07,320 --> 00:53:09,120
Speaker 2: don't know what it feels like to be gas lit.

1065
00:53:09,360 --> 00:53:12,040
Speaker 2: If you ever approach that topic, you know, I try

1066
00:53:12,040 --> 00:53:14,920
Speaker 2: to stay away from it because I can't always relate,

1067
00:53:15,040 --> 00:53:19,640
Speaker 2: you know, and specifically for me, I have to draw

1068
00:53:19,680 --> 00:53:22,279
Speaker 2: the line that if that person isn't say anything bad

1069
00:53:22,320 --> 00:53:25,960
Speaker 2: about black women or black people, then I don't really

1070
00:53:26,040 --> 00:53:27,880
Speaker 2: have anything to say about the fact that they are

1071
00:53:27,960 --> 00:53:30,520
Speaker 2: dating outside of the race. I don't know how, you know,

1072
00:53:30,719 --> 00:53:35,200
Speaker 2: I can quantify that person's personal life. I don't know

1073
00:53:35,239 --> 00:53:39,200
Speaker 2: that anyone's capable of doing that, but seeing it like

1074
00:53:39,520 --> 00:53:43,000
Speaker 2: as far as like the double standard of treatment in

1075
00:53:43,040 --> 00:53:45,719
Speaker 2: the media, and shit, I mean, it's there, and I

1076
00:53:45,840 --> 00:53:47,839
Speaker 2: just I hate that so many people can see it

1077
00:53:48,360 --> 00:53:53,040
Speaker 2: and either choose to say nothing or they do or

1078
00:53:53,040 --> 00:53:56,200
Speaker 2: they can see it and they only say something when

1079
00:53:56,200 --> 00:53:58,200
Speaker 2: they want to down black women, but they don't ever

1080
00:53:58,239 --> 00:54:00,959
Speaker 2: say anything any other time, you know, And.

1081
00:54:00,880 --> 00:54:03,279
Speaker 4: That's the major problem. I know we've talked about it

1082
00:54:03,360 --> 00:54:05,799
Speaker 4: kind of off the mic, but a lot of situations

1083
00:54:05,840 --> 00:54:08,960
Speaker 4: when I hear conversations, it just ignites anger in me.

1084
00:54:09,000 --> 00:54:10,840
Speaker 4: A lot of times I have to check myself and go, Okay,

1085
00:54:10,880 --> 00:54:15,000
Speaker 4: why am I getting angry? Am I getting angry based

1086
00:54:15,000 --> 00:54:17,880
Speaker 4: off of the content on what it's said? Or am

1087
00:54:17,960 --> 00:54:23,680
Speaker 4: I getting angry based off of who's saying it and

1088
00:54:23,719 --> 00:54:26,279
Speaker 4: how it's being set and all like, because me and

1089
00:54:26,280 --> 00:54:29,400
Speaker 4: a black woman, you're very sensitive to just conversations in general,

1090
00:54:29,440 --> 00:54:31,719
Speaker 4: being a woman, yours the conversation, being a black woman

1091
00:54:31,840 --> 00:54:35,399
Speaker 4: even more sensitive to conversations in general, because a lot

1092
00:54:35,400 --> 00:54:39,680
Speaker 4: of times when black women talk, a lot of times

1093
00:54:39,760 --> 00:54:43,560
Speaker 4: we're cut off. We're told to shut up in various

1094
00:54:43,640 --> 00:54:47,279
Speaker 4: different ways from various different groups. Like we know how

1095
00:54:47,320 --> 00:54:49,000
Speaker 4: black men tell us to shut up. We know how

1096
00:54:49,000 --> 00:54:50,799
Speaker 4: white men tell you shut up. We know how white

1097
00:54:50,840 --> 00:54:52,520
Speaker 4: women toell shut up, and you all tell us to

1098
00:54:52,520 --> 00:54:56,080
Speaker 4: shut up in various different formats, and we are completely

1099
00:54:56,160 --> 00:54:58,400
Speaker 4: aware of that. And people think you're fucking going crazy

1100
00:54:58,440 --> 00:55:00,719
Speaker 4: when I go, well, you're telling me me to shut up,

1101
00:55:01,040 --> 00:55:03,880
Speaker 4: And it's everything but the truth. And it's one of

1102
00:55:03,920 --> 00:55:06,440
Speaker 4: those things where we know code words, we.

1103
00:55:06,440 --> 00:55:08,280
Speaker 5: Know language, we know body language.

1104
00:55:08,320 --> 00:55:11,279
Speaker 4: We are not fucking crazy when it comes to us

1105
00:55:11,280 --> 00:55:13,920
Speaker 4: in our opinions, and we're constantly told to shut down,

1106
00:55:14,120 --> 00:55:18,000
Speaker 4: to sit down and shut up and just be my pond.

1107
00:55:18,440 --> 00:55:23,560
Speaker 5: Or you know, just exist for the sake.

1108
00:55:23,400 --> 00:55:28,200
Speaker 4: Of numbers, or you know, just exist and love me

1109
00:55:28,320 --> 00:55:30,200
Speaker 4: no matter what the fuck I do or how bad

1110
00:55:30,320 --> 00:55:32,360
Speaker 4: or terrible I treat you, And how dare you speak

1111
00:55:32,440 --> 00:55:32,799
Speaker 4: up to me?

1112
00:55:32,880 --> 00:55:34,520
Speaker 5: And how dare you tell me that I'm wrong?

1113
00:55:34,760 --> 00:55:36,120
Speaker 4: And a lot of that you get from all three

1114
00:55:36,120 --> 00:55:38,000
Speaker 4: of these groups. How dare you tell me that I'm wrong?

1115
00:55:38,080 --> 00:55:40,040
Speaker 4: And shit like that is one of those things where,

1116
00:55:40,280 --> 00:55:43,279
Speaker 4: like I said, I struggle with that, like I said,

1117
00:55:43,280 --> 00:55:45,360
Speaker 4: and I'm better with it, and I'm more aware and

1118
00:55:45,400 --> 00:55:48,880
Speaker 4: alert to why I get mad. And sometimes my anger

1119
00:55:49,040 --> 00:55:51,560
Speaker 4: is irrational and illogical, and sometimes I just don't give

1120
00:55:51,560 --> 00:55:54,240
Speaker 4: a fuck because I understand that.

1121
00:55:56,200 --> 00:55:57,799
Speaker 5: Those things are very sensitive to me.

1122
00:55:57,880 --> 00:56:00,719
Speaker 4: A lot of times where you're sensitive and certain situations

1123
00:56:00,840 --> 00:56:03,880
Speaker 4: and you have these insecurities, they shine in various different ways,

1124
00:56:03,920 --> 00:56:05,440
Speaker 4: and you have to be aware and you.

1125
00:56:05,440 --> 00:56:07,759
Speaker 5: Have to be alert of that. And I've getten to

1126
00:56:07,760 --> 00:56:08,160
Speaker 5: the point.

1127
00:56:08,040 --> 00:56:10,680
Speaker 4: Where I'm more aware and more alert to that and

1128
00:56:10,719 --> 00:56:13,120
Speaker 4: starting to be more rational about a lot of my.

1129
00:56:13,120 --> 00:56:15,399
Speaker 5: Insecurities, which is very hard for a lot of people

1130
00:56:15,440 --> 00:56:15,719
Speaker 5: to do.

1131
00:56:15,960 --> 00:56:18,000
Speaker 4: And it starts with out of arguments, particularly on social

1132
00:56:18,040 --> 00:56:20,080
Speaker 4: media where people aren't just reading your words.

1133
00:56:21,000 --> 00:56:25,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think, yeah, I just think people expect that

1134
00:56:25,440 --> 00:56:28,520
Speaker 2: in human amount of patients from black women that we

1135
00:56:28,600 --> 00:56:31,400
Speaker 2: just don't expect from everybody, you know. I'll listen to

1136
00:56:31,440 --> 00:56:36,040
Speaker 2: people where they'll be talking about black feminists and how

1137
00:56:36,080 --> 00:56:38,839
Speaker 2: they are terrible and the things they've done to piss

1138
00:56:38,920 --> 00:56:41,319
Speaker 2: them off and they don't do this, and they do

1139
00:56:41,360 --> 00:56:43,200
Speaker 2: too much, and they complain about this, but they ain't

1140
00:56:43,239 --> 00:56:46,359
Speaker 2: complain about that at the same time as calling women

1141
00:56:46,400 --> 00:56:49,680
Speaker 2: bitches and hoes and shit. So it's like they don't

1142
00:56:49,719 --> 00:56:54,120
Speaker 2: expect that level of consistency from themselves even but yet,

1143
00:56:54,760 --> 00:56:58,080
Speaker 2: and by black feminists, I think most people that say that,

1144
00:56:58,320 --> 00:57:02,600
Speaker 2: truly mean black women who are outspoken that they disagree.

1145
00:57:02,200 --> 00:57:02,960
Speaker 3: With it wouldn't matter.

1146
00:57:03,760 --> 00:57:07,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, the women could call themselves anything, but because they

1147
00:57:07,800 --> 00:57:11,080
Speaker 2: don't agree with them or they say something, they dislike it,

1148
00:57:11,160 --> 00:57:13,319
Speaker 2: they go into the quote unquote black feminist pile.

1149
00:57:13,719 --> 00:57:16,480
Speaker 3: But I'll listen to people, you know, cause I listen

1150
00:57:16,520 --> 00:57:16,880
Speaker 3: to everything.

1151
00:57:16,920 --> 00:57:19,840
Speaker 2: I listen to people's podcasts, talk to people at the gym,

1152
00:57:19,920 --> 00:57:22,560
Speaker 2: Like I listen to people a lot, and you can

1153
00:57:22,680 --> 00:57:29,440
Speaker 2: just hear like the undertones of you know, hatred specifically

1154
00:57:29,440 --> 00:57:32,880
Speaker 2: towards black women and everybody's shit, and I mean everybody,

1155
00:57:33,280 --> 00:57:36,400
Speaker 2: I'm not excluding myself. I mean it's part of our

1156
00:57:36,440 --> 00:57:39,560
Speaker 2: culture too, whether it's our music and our mut movies.

1157
00:57:40,120 --> 00:57:41,280
Speaker 3: It's just as sumpthing.

1158
00:57:41,320 --> 00:57:44,840
Speaker 2: And the thing is, it wouldn't be so bad if

1159
00:57:44,880 --> 00:57:48,520
Speaker 2: people didn't then turn around and expect like this inhuman

1160
00:57:48,640 --> 00:57:54,080
Speaker 2: amount of just fucking patience from black women. That's just

1161
00:57:54,120 --> 00:57:57,280
Speaker 2: incapable of anyone. No one is capable of being that

1162
00:57:57,320 --> 00:58:01,120
Speaker 2: fucking patient while being that disrespected. And you know, as

1163
00:58:01,200 --> 00:58:03,680
Speaker 2: much as people quote Malcolm X, they're not gonna quote

1164
00:58:03,680 --> 00:58:06,439
Speaker 2: when he's talking about, you know, the black woman being

1165
00:58:06,440 --> 00:58:08,440
Speaker 2: the most disrespected person on the earth and shit like

1166
00:58:08,440 --> 00:58:10,760
Speaker 2: they're not going to talk about that. They just want

1167
00:58:10,800 --> 00:58:14,080
Speaker 2: to talk about when he wants to go, uh, you know,

1168
00:58:14,200 --> 00:58:17,640
Speaker 2: get get these white people type things, you know. So yeah,

1169
00:58:18,520 --> 00:58:22,160
Speaker 2: for me, I sympathize, even if I can't really truly

1170
00:58:22,200 --> 00:58:28,440
Speaker 2: relate on that level. So all that all that to say, like, uh,

1171
00:58:30,240 --> 00:58:34,200
Speaker 2: I would like to at least point out the hypocrisy

1172
00:58:34,640 --> 00:58:40,040
Speaker 2: when you see like an Ema Watson criticized Beyonce and

1173
00:58:40,080 --> 00:58:44,400
Speaker 2: then let much later and a few years later put

1174
00:58:44,400 --> 00:58:47,160
Speaker 2: her titties on display and then be like all these

1175
00:58:47,200 --> 00:58:50,680
Speaker 2: people hating and you're like, Okay, you know, like someone

1176
00:58:50,680 --> 00:58:52,520
Speaker 2: should be around to point that out, and I'm glad

1177
00:58:52,600 --> 00:58:54,360
Speaker 2: we can at least do that, right.

1178
00:58:54,440 --> 00:58:56,760
Speaker 4: That And one more thing to add on to it

1179
00:58:56,800 --> 00:59:02,600
Speaker 4: is also one of the things where you have black

1180
00:59:02,680 --> 00:59:06,840
Speaker 4: women who get fed up, like completely get fed up.

1181
00:59:06,880 --> 00:59:09,919
Speaker 4: They get fed up on racing and they get fed

1182
00:59:10,000 --> 00:59:12,840
Speaker 4: up on sexism and when you when you deal with

1183
00:59:12,840 --> 00:59:15,520
Speaker 4: the black woman, it falls in both of those categories.

1184
00:59:15,880 --> 00:59:16,360
Speaker 5: A lot of.

1185
00:59:16,320 --> 00:59:19,320
Speaker 4: Times they can get to the point where they was like,

1186
00:59:19,600 --> 00:59:21,800
Speaker 4: I don't have time today and they don't deal with

1187
00:59:21,960 --> 00:59:25,000
Speaker 4: racism and they don't deal with sexism, and sometimes it

1188
00:59:25,040 --> 00:59:27,400
Speaker 4: can be too far to the extreme for some people,

1189
00:59:27,880 --> 00:59:29,800
Speaker 4: but I understand the anger and I understand their plight

1190
00:59:29,840 --> 00:59:31,840
Speaker 4: because they're like, look, I've gotten to the point where

1191
00:59:31,840 --> 00:59:34,680
Speaker 4: I'm fucking burned out and I have a zero tolerance

1192
00:59:34,680 --> 00:59:37,800
Speaker 4: for the fuck shit a zero tolerance, And I completely

1193
00:59:37,880 --> 00:59:40,520
Speaker 4: understand having a zero tolerance. You don't want to explain

1194
00:59:40,560 --> 00:59:43,840
Speaker 4: your humanity, you don't want to explain your womanhood, don't

1195
00:59:43,920 --> 00:59:46,200
Speaker 4: you don't want to explain your love for your people.

1196
00:59:46,520 --> 00:59:49,200
Speaker 5: You're like, fuck all, y'all, I am fed up.

1197
00:59:49,360 --> 00:59:52,120
Speaker 4: Whatever broke my back, broke it hard, and I'm not

1198
00:59:52,280 --> 00:59:55,440
Speaker 4: trying to fix it again because every time I fix it,

1199
00:59:56,200 --> 00:59:59,200
Speaker 4: all somebody else does is come and step on it

1200
00:59:59,240 --> 01:00:01,919
Speaker 4: and break it again, or continue to show me how

1201
01:00:02,040 --> 01:00:04,760
Speaker 4: I'm the problem for all my plights. I'm the problem

1202
01:00:04,840 --> 01:00:07,560
Speaker 4: for all my issues. I'm the problem that I'm a

1203
01:00:07,640 --> 01:00:10,920
Speaker 4: single mother. I'm the problem that I'm a divorced wife.

1204
01:00:11,240 --> 01:00:14,480
Speaker 4: I'm the problem. You know that my kids are in jail.

1205
01:00:14,680 --> 01:00:17,240
Speaker 4: I'm the problem for every goddamn.

1206
01:00:16,840 --> 01:00:18,760
Speaker 5: Thing in the black community, no matter where.

1207
01:00:18,840 --> 01:00:23,080
Speaker 4: Drugs is my problem, you know everything, Homelessness is my problem.

1208
01:00:23,280 --> 01:00:25,520
Speaker 4: You know the ghetto is my problem. And then get

1209
01:00:25,520 --> 01:00:27,360
Speaker 4: to the point where you were like, everything can't be

1210
01:00:27,440 --> 01:00:29,680
Speaker 4: my fucking problem. And sometimes other people need to be

1211
01:00:29,760 --> 01:00:32,640
Speaker 4: held accountable, and a lot of times men need to

1212
01:00:32,680 --> 01:00:34,440
Speaker 4: be held accountable too, but a lot of times the

1213
01:00:34,920 --> 01:00:39,080
Speaker 4: scrutiny isn't there for them. And then not only that,

1214
01:00:39,120 --> 01:00:40,920
Speaker 4: they'll turn around and look at you and tell you

1215
01:00:40,960 --> 01:00:41,800
Speaker 4: that you're a problem too.

1216
01:00:41,880 --> 01:00:43,640
Speaker 5: You go with nigga, you black too, you know.

1217
01:00:43,600 --> 01:00:47,720
Speaker 4: So it's one of them inconsistent, right, So so that's

1218
01:00:47,760 --> 01:00:50,240
Speaker 4: why you when you quote unquote people say she ain't know,

1219
01:00:50,280 --> 01:00:53,240
Speaker 4: but it ain't a black woman. I understand because she's

1220
01:00:53,280 --> 01:00:55,680
Speaker 4: fucking fed up with everybody's bullshit.

1221
01:00:56,480 --> 01:00:57,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't.

1222
01:00:58,000 --> 01:01:01,760
Speaker 2: I just don't understand, you know, like the hypocrisy of it.

1223
01:01:01,880 --> 01:01:05,640
Speaker 2: The I just don't understand that part because if people

1224
01:01:05,680 --> 01:01:09,160
Speaker 2: were consistent and they were like, I'm hard on everybody,

1225
01:01:09,400 --> 01:01:11,760
Speaker 2: I get it. You just a hard ass, and you

1226
01:01:11,800 --> 01:01:12,360
Speaker 2: got all.

1227
01:01:12,240 --> 01:01:13,680
Speaker 3: These high expectations for everything.

1228
01:01:13,880 --> 01:01:18,440
Speaker 2: But honestly, I watch especially you know, black men lower

1229
01:01:18,520 --> 01:01:21,400
Speaker 2: the bar for everybody, but black women.

1230
01:01:21,520 --> 01:01:23,760
Speaker 3: Black women gotta be perfect and jump over the bar.

1231
01:01:24,320 --> 01:01:28,200
Speaker 2: Can't be a whole, can't be too mouthed, you can't

1232
01:01:28,280 --> 01:01:29,800
Speaker 2: be a feminist, you can't be.

1233
01:01:31,280 --> 01:01:34,480
Speaker 3: You know everything. You can't be a baby mama, you

1234
01:01:34,520 --> 01:01:37,560
Speaker 3: can't be a yeah, you can't like, you just can't

1235
01:01:37,600 --> 01:01:38,280
Speaker 3: be anything.

1236
01:01:38,560 --> 01:01:41,880
Speaker 2: And then all of a sudden, anything that goes wrong

1237
01:01:41,960 --> 01:01:44,360
Speaker 2: as your fault. But we just don't have we don't

1238
01:01:44,360 --> 01:01:48,320
Speaker 2: apply at the menima for the most part. If you

1239
01:01:48,400 --> 01:01:50,760
Speaker 2: were even to just be consistent and apply that shit

1240
01:01:50,840 --> 01:01:53,640
Speaker 2: towards men and women, you're gonna get label some type

1241
01:01:53,640 --> 01:01:56,960
Speaker 2: of a hater, you anti man, like what's wrong with you?

1242
01:01:56,600 --> 01:01:57,160
Speaker 3: You know?

1243
01:01:57,320 --> 01:02:00,880
Speaker 2: So it's you know, it's black men are still socialized.

1244
01:02:01,160 --> 01:02:01,320
Speaker 3: You know.

1245
01:02:01,360 --> 01:02:03,760
Speaker 2: I talk about how white men are socialized to be conservative.

1246
01:02:04,160 --> 01:02:07,320
Speaker 2: Black men are still socialized to be conservative in areas too,

1247
01:02:08,000 --> 01:02:11,240
Speaker 2: you know. And it takes undoing that shit and fighting

1248
01:02:11,280 --> 01:02:13,840
Speaker 2: against it and speaking out against it, I think, to

1249
01:02:14,200 --> 01:02:15,320
Speaker 2: try to change our culture.

1250
01:02:15,560 --> 01:02:19,200
Speaker 4: Yes, that and a lot of times it stems back

1251
01:02:19,240 --> 01:02:22,240
Speaker 4: to slavery. A lot of times white men used to

1252
01:02:22,280 --> 01:02:24,800
Speaker 4: come in and beat black men, and black men would

1253
01:02:24,800 --> 01:02:26,400
Speaker 4: take their anger and we direct it.

1254
01:02:26,360 --> 01:02:30,800
Speaker 5: To their women. And that dynamic has not changed.

1255
01:02:31,800 --> 01:02:33,000
Speaker 4: You know, a lot of black men go in the

1256
01:02:33,040 --> 01:02:35,480
Speaker 4: world and they deal with various different oppressions, and so

1257
01:02:35,680 --> 01:02:37,600
Speaker 4: they come back and they put this on women, and

1258
01:02:37,640 --> 01:02:39,520
Speaker 4: you ain't got to have no sexual relationship with the

1259
01:02:39,560 --> 01:02:41,800
Speaker 4: woman to put the supplies oppression on her.

1260
01:02:42,480 --> 01:02:44,120
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1261
01:02:44,520 --> 01:02:48,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think also like one of the things about

1262
01:02:48,200 --> 01:02:50,880
Speaker 2: loving somebody black is you take on their burdens and shit,

1263
01:02:50,920 --> 01:02:53,040
Speaker 2: and you take on the issues they deal with and stuff.

1264
01:02:53,080 --> 01:02:57,080
Speaker 2: So it's you know, it's a lot for a lot

1265
01:02:57,080 --> 01:03:02,520
Speaker 2: of people. So at any rate, that is that's before

1266
01:03:02,520 --> 01:03:04,280
Speaker 2: you even get to just like I said, the white

1267
01:03:04,400 --> 01:03:07,680
Speaker 2: media with like Emma Watson and just the just moving

1268
01:03:07,720 --> 01:03:10,040
Speaker 2: the bar for feminism when it's her.

1269
01:03:10,240 --> 01:03:12,000
Speaker 3: You know, when it's a white woman, it's just different.

1270
01:03:12,000 --> 01:03:12,800
Speaker 3: The bar is lower.

1271
01:03:12,840 --> 01:03:15,400
Speaker 2: You can say certain things you couldn't say. And then

1272
01:03:15,520 --> 01:03:18,760
Speaker 2: black women they just scrutinize every fucking thing. Like Beyonce

1273
01:03:18,880 --> 01:03:22,280
Speaker 2: doesn't get to be a feminist icon without someone challenging it.

1274
01:03:22,800 --> 01:03:23,520
Speaker 3: Every day.

1275
01:03:23,600 --> 01:03:25,880
Speaker 2: There's just somebody telling you how what she's doing is

1276
01:03:25,920 --> 01:03:29,040
Speaker 2: wrong and it's just not seen that way with other people,

1277
01:03:29,200 --> 01:03:31,960
Speaker 2: you know, And I don't know exactly what it is

1278
01:03:32,000 --> 01:03:36,760
Speaker 2: to be honest, you know, like, uh, there's there's white

1279
01:03:36,840 --> 01:03:40,400
Speaker 2: women that you know, will cozy up to black academic

1280
01:03:40,520 --> 01:03:43,280
Speaker 2: academics that will be like this white woman actress is

1281
01:03:43,320 --> 01:03:46,680
Speaker 2: a good feminist, and we are doing this event together,

1282
01:03:47,200 --> 01:03:50,040
Speaker 2: and that same black academic would be like, fuck Beyonce,

1283
01:03:50,240 --> 01:03:53,400
Speaker 2: I hate her, you know, like, I don't know what

1284
01:03:53,440 --> 01:03:55,720
Speaker 2: the like, I don't know what the rules are, and

1285
01:03:56,400 --> 01:03:58,400
Speaker 2: not since I'm not a woman, I try to stay

1286
01:03:58,400 --> 01:04:01,480
Speaker 2: out of that shit because I don't know why people.

1287
01:04:02,760 --> 01:04:05,720
Speaker 3: Necessarily pick their faves and all that shit.

1288
01:04:05,800 --> 01:04:07,720
Speaker 2: When they get into all that, it just seemed like

1289
01:04:07,760 --> 01:04:10,000
Speaker 2: a kind of a mess and somewhat arbitrary.

1290
01:04:10,040 --> 01:04:11,520
Speaker 4: It is a lot of times a lot of nuance

1291
01:04:11,560 --> 01:04:14,560
Speaker 4: behind it, and my personal opinion, I think for a

1292
01:04:14,560 --> 01:04:17,480
Speaker 4: lot of those women is one of those things where,

1293
01:04:18,640 --> 01:04:21,120
Speaker 4: particularly if you're in a lot of those social circles

1294
01:04:21,160 --> 01:04:22,320
Speaker 4: around a lot of white women, you have a lot

1295
01:04:22,360 --> 01:04:27,880
Speaker 4: of special snowflakes and you also just a black snowflakes.

1296
01:04:28,240 --> 01:04:31,120
Speaker 4: And you also get to the point to where a

1297
01:04:31,160 --> 01:04:34,160
Speaker 4: lot of people feel like I put in my time,

1298
01:04:34,240 --> 01:04:36,840
Speaker 4: I put in my work, I'm not recognized, don't nobody

1299
01:04:36,840 --> 01:04:39,000
Speaker 4: know who I am. But oh, everybody go over here

1300
01:04:39,040 --> 01:04:41,080
Speaker 4: and they just praise her for just fucking showing up.

1301
01:04:41,400 --> 01:04:43,240
Speaker 4: And there's a lot of jealousy and behind that and

1302
01:04:43,280 --> 01:04:44,320
Speaker 4: resentment behind that.

1303
01:04:45,280 --> 01:04:48,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, in my opinion, yeah, like I said, I yeah,

1304
01:04:48,320 --> 01:04:51,680
Speaker 2: it could yeah, really dark. Knight also said, since I'm

1305
01:04:51,680 --> 01:04:53,680
Speaker 2: older than most of your audience, I certainly didn't grow

1306
01:04:53,720 --> 01:04:56,280
Speaker 2: up idolizing being cars, and as a certaint I didn't

1307
01:04:56,320 --> 01:04:58,000
Speaker 2: hear about him until a few years ago when he

1308
01:04:58,040 --> 01:05:01,919
Speaker 2: went into physical politics. I'll say this, and I don't

1309
01:05:01,920 --> 01:05:04,040
Speaker 2: mean it likely. Big Carson is the most dangerous type

1310
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Speaker 2: of coon.

1311
01:05:04,960 --> 01:05:07,680
Speaker 3: He now has a power and doesn't know what the

1312
01:05:07,680 --> 01:05:08,400
Speaker 3: hell he's doing.

1313
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Speaker 2: He's the type of coon that white people think is

1314
01:05:10,360 --> 01:05:12,720
Speaker 2: an authority on the lives of black people. I really

1315
01:05:12,760 --> 01:05:14,680
Speaker 2: want to get off of these sunken place jokes, but

1316
01:05:14,720 --> 01:05:17,360
Speaker 2: this motherfucker is seriously a problem, and he's gonna get

1317
01:05:17,360 --> 01:05:19,840
Speaker 2: a lot of us fucked up. He's a fucking embarrassment

1318
01:05:19,880 --> 01:05:21,840
Speaker 2: and needs to shut the fuck up when grown folks

1319
01:05:21,920 --> 01:05:22,320
Speaker 2: is talking.

1320
01:05:23,520 --> 01:05:26,200
Speaker 3: Yep, he is dangerous.

1321
01:05:26,720 --> 01:05:30,720
Speaker 2: Barby, you know, you can't have somebody that a historical

1322
01:05:30,880 --> 01:05:34,480
Speaker 2: in charge of housing for anyone. The poe was that

1323
01:05:34,560 --> 01:05:36,840
Speaker 2: Ben Carson just get lucky in that surgery. Yes, had

1324
01:05:36,880 --> 01:05:38,960
Speaker 2: to be a fluke. No, he's just really good at surgery.

1325
01:05:39,160 --> 01:05:41,520
Speaker 2: Forty percent of y'all say he's just really good at surgery.

1326
01:05:42,200 --> 01:05:44,240
Speaker 2: I mean sixty percent of y'all are count on my boat,

1327
01:05:44,280 --> 01:05:46,080
Speaker 2: which is he must have just got lucky. I don't

1328
01:05:46,080 --> 01:05:51,840
Speaker 2: know what the fuck happened. Eve says, I actually think

1329
01:05:51,880 --> 01:05:54,640
Speaker 2: the big Carson we knew from the nineties is quite intelligent.

1330
01:05:55,680 --> 01:05:57,439
Speaker 2: The problem now is that he's in a sunken place

1331
01:05:57,480 --> 01:06:03,560
Speaker 2: to some old white man's controlling his brain. Doctor Nolttle,

1332
01:06:03,640 --> 01:06:10,440
Speaker 2: Oh what involuntary immigration was the next episode because we

1333
01:06:11,280 --> 01:06:14,600
Speaker 2: had to talk about being carco some more, apparently, and

1334
01:06:14,680 --> 01:06:17,920
Speaker 2: we had a couple of comments let me go down.

1335
01:06:19,080 --> 01:06:22,720
Speaker 2: Heroja Sheeb says, I am surprised that Karen did not

1336
01:06:22,840 --> 01:06:24,800
Speaker 2: insist that this episode would be tied at what about

1337
01:06:24,800 --> 01:06:25,960
Speaker 2: the white kids in Wisconsin?

1338
01:06:26,320 --> 01:06:27,960
Speaker 3: Ah house Cat.

1339
01:06:27,840 --> 01:06:29,840
Speaker 2: Said, Are we sure that doctor Ben Carson hasn't been

1340
01:06:29,840 --> 01:06:32,240
Speaker 2: the victim of a get out scenario? He didn't hang

1341
01:06:32,240 --> 01:06:34,080
Speaker 2: out with a lot of white brain surgeons and we're

1342
01:06:34,080 --> 01:06:37,760
Speaker 2: in the cutting edge of brain surgery advancements. Was there

1343
01:06:37,760 --> 01:06:41,200
Speaker 2: a time where he wasn't a respectability politics zombie? I

1344
01:06:41,200 --> 01:06:43,120
Speaker 2: don't know, but he's not always wearing a hat, so

1345
01:06:43,160 --> 01:06:44,360
Speaker 2: we can't say that.

1346
01:06:44,640 --> 01:06:44,880
Speaker 3: Really.

1347
01:06:44,960 --> 01:06:47,760
Speaker 2: Dark Knight says, I have been wearing a military uniform

1348
01:06:47,800 --> 01:06:50,160
Speaker 2: for the past thirty two years. Your story of this

1349
01:06:50,360 --> 01:06:53,240
Speaker 2: marine Facebook group really should have been should have people

1350
01:06:53,280 --> 01:06:55,760
Speaker 2: take a pause on who we call heroes. When I

1351
01:06:55,800 --> 01:06:57,600
Speaker 2: came back from the Gulf War, people said that I

1352
01:06:57,640 --> 01:06:59,640
Speaker 2: was a hero for just me doing my job.

1353
01:07:00,080 --> 01:07:01,000
Speaker 3: I never liked the term.

1354
01:07:01,040 --> 01:07:03,720
Speaker 2: How heroic are marines passing around new pictures of fellow

1355
01:07:03,800 --> 01:07:07,080
Speaker 2: Marines to thirty thousand of their best friends. Women who

1356
01:07:07,200 --> 01:07:09,959
Speaker 2: served are treated differently than men who served, and still

1357
01:07:09,960 --> 01:07:12,200
Speaker 2: aren't given the same respect as I am. I'm not

1358
01:07:12,400 --> 01:07:15,440
Speaker 2: naive enough to think that other services don't have something similar.

1359
01:07:15,720 --> 01:07:18,920
Speaker 2: It's sad because although they're When I was a lieutenant

1360
01:07:19,000 --> 01:07:19,520
Speaker 2: it was bad.

1361
01:07:19,720 --> 01:07:21,800
Speaker 3: Now as a colonel it is much better.

1362
01:07:22,080 --> 01:07:24,560
Speaker 2: We still aren't there yet. I'm not sure whatever be.

1363
01:07:24,880 --> 01:07:26,520
Speaker 2: Thanks for the work that you guys do. This week

1364
01:07:26,560 --> 01:07:29,480
Speaker 2: has really gotten to me. Yeah, and you know what

1365
01:07:29,600 --> 01:07:32,160
Speaker 2: we haven't covered yet but will tomorrow. You were absolutely right.

1366
01:07:32,200 --> 01:07:36,280
Speaker 3: It was bigger than just the Marines. And the poe

1367
01:07:36,360 --> 01:07:41,040
Speaker 3: was have you ever lost your wedding ring? Yes?

1368
01:07:41,640 --> 01:07:41,840
Speaker 4: No?

1369
01:07:42,240 --> 01:07:43,680
Speaker 3: Or I've never had a wedding ring.

1370
01:07:45,280 --> 01:07:47,480
Speaker 2: Well, fifty six percent of my audience never had a

1371
01:07:47,480 --> 01:07:50,960
Speaker 2: wedding ring, twenty seven percent said no they never lost it,

1372
01:07:51,000 --> 01:07:54,320
Speaker 2: and seventeen percent have lost their wedding ring. Derek says,

1373
01:07:54,320 --> 01:07:57,439
Speaker 2: I had got married last year, and like two weeks

1374
01:07:57,440 --> 01:08:00,120
Speaker 2: in the marriage, I accidentally flushed through the automatic flush

1375
01:08:00,200 --> 01:08:01,479
Speaker 2: in the toilet at work.

1376
01:08:01,840 --> 01:08:06,720
Speaker 3: Damn the ring. Damn. You know you ain't going any

1377
01:08:06,720 --> 01:08:09,800
Speaker 3: there to get that back. That's the toilets ring. Now

1378
01:08:10,640 --> 01:08:11,600
Speaker 3: you better hope you.

1379
01:08:11,600 --> 01:08:13,200
Speaker 4: Can find something similar, as you're gonna have to.

1380
01:08:13,160 --> 01:08:14,040
Speaker 5: Buy a whole of set.

1381
01:08:14,400 --> 01:08:15,760
Speaker 3: Yep I had to propose.

1382
01:08:19,160 --> 01:08:21,679
Speaker 2: The last one was for our Walking Dead recap, which

1383
01:08:21,880 --> 01:08:24,679
Speaker 2: was episode.

1384
01:08:25,720 --> 01:08:28,799
Speaker 3: Thirteen ninety nine. Sweet Swirling z poc Love.

1385
01:08:31,280 --> 01:08:35,240
Speaker 2: Desiree says, all y'all give me and now I know

1386
01:08:35,360 --> 01:08:38,639
Speaker 2: about podcast. I now know about a football podcast hosted

1387
01:08:38,720 --> 01:08:39,240
Speaker 2: by women.

1388
01:08:39,600 --> 01:08:40,040
Speaker 3: Thank you.

1389
01:08:40,320 --> 01:08:43,360
Speaker 2: That's because Chells was our guess from the Grid Island

1390
01:08:43,400 --> 01:08:46,840
Speaker 2: Goals podcast. And yeah, I'm glad to put you onto

1391
01:08:46,840 --> 01:08:51,680
Speaker 2: some cool podcasting. Amani says, this whole down episode just

1392
01:08:51,720 --> 01:08:54,120
Speaker 2: sums up being a black woman. Rick didn't listen to

1393
01:08:54,160 --> 01:08:56,479
Speaker 2: Micheane taelor his ass to go home, gave her all

1394
01:08:56,560 --> 01:08:59,720
Speaker 2: the work killing his zombies, didn't notice her plan at all,

1395
01:08:59,800 --> 01:09:03,000
Speaker 2: my her pain almost losing him, and he still got

1396
01:09:03,000 --> 01:09:06,120
Speaker 2: a pep talk built back up by a black woman

1397
01:09:06,520 --> 01:09:09,200
Speaker 2: just looking at her, smiling at Rick, knowing she fucked

1398
01:09:09,200 --> 01:09:12,360
Speaker 2: his ass asleep and driving her man's car when she

1399
01:09:12,880 --> 01:09:16,080
Speaker 2: has to look happy. Her man bought her some Hamburger

1400
01:09:16,120 --> 01:09:19,800
Speaker 2: helper and made her get out and push the car. Then,

1401
01:09:19,920 --> 01:09:22,920
Speaker 2: after everything Rosita's being on this whole season, now she

1402
01:09:23,040 --> 01:09:26,479
Speaker 2: comes to Sata, drags her into a death trap without

1403
01:09:26,520 --> 01:09:29,240
Speaker 2: even an apology and her salty asses acting like his

1404
01:09:29,360 --> 01:09:32,720
Speaker 2: Gabe thought she missed peak white feminism.

1405
01:09:33,000 --> 01:09:35,120
Speaker 3: She wanted to be impressed so bad.

1406
01:09:35,600 --> 01:09:38,360
Speaker 2: I can't wait for the Junkyard dogs to flip on

1407
01:09:38,439 --> 01:09:40,919
Speaker 2: him and turn out to be a Savior satellite outpost

1408
01:09:41,240 --> 01:09:42,160
Speaker 2: who they're arming.

1409
01:09:42,680 --> 01:09:42,920
Speaker 9: Mmm.

1410
01:09:44,520 --> 01:09:46,080
Speaker 3: Oh, that would be a hell of a plot.

1411
01:09:45,880 --> 01:09:49,480
Speaker 2: Twist, the junky cons being working already with the Saviors.

1412
01:09:51,400 --> 01:09:53,760
Speaker 2: I can't see it, but that would be amazing because

1413
01:09:53,800 --> 01:09:57,360
Speaker 2: I think they would already have guns and shit. Dune

1414
01:09:57,439 --> 01:10:01,040
Speaker 2: Dragon says Rod, you called the Swirling Love in the

1415
01:10:01,040 --> 01:10:07,160
Speaker 2: previous review. It's confirmed TVGWT gets script leaks. This was

1416
01:10:07,240 --> 01:10:09,920
Speaker 2: the women's day episode of Walking Dead, only strong gas

1417
01:10:09,920 --> 01:10:12,640
Speaker 2: women allowed. Was I the only one who noticed the

1418
01:10:12,720 --> 01:10:14,920
Speaker 2: amount of candles they have burning in the carnival bunker

1419
01:10:14,960 --> 01:10:15,320
Speaker 2: of love?

1420
01:10:15,640 --> 01:10:18,280
Speaker 3: Nigan must not have candles on his list of things

1421
01:10:18,439 --> 01:10:19,479
Speaker 3: to bring his tribute.

1422
01:10:19,960 --> 01:10:22,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, I guess they left some there, or maybe they

1423
01:10:22,840 --> 01:10:26,200
Speaker 2: found all those candles that uh in that spot.

1424
01:10:26,280 --> 01:10:27,599
Speaker 3: I mean it had a lot of stuff in there.

1425
01:10:28,560 --> 01:10:32,040
Speaker 2: I did not feel this episode was philoristic like last episode.

1426
01:10:32,080 --> 01:10:34,160
Speaker 2: The Jungle Love at the beginning had me worried that

1427
01:10:34,200 --> 01:10:36,759
Speaker 2: Michean was going to die this episode, and when.

1428
01:10:36,560 --> 01:10:38,360
Speaker 3: She dropped that sword, I was like, that's it.

1429
01:10:38,439 --> 01:10:41,040
Speaker 2: That have killed my girl. I don't see them killing

1430
01:10:41,120 --> 01:10:42,960
Speaker 2: Niga by the end of the season. Now that they

1431
01:10:43,760 --> 01:10:46,240
Speaker 2: not that they will go the way of the comics.

1432
01:10:46,520 --> 01:10:48,720
Speaker 2: I just see him being the big bat in the

1433
01:10:48,760 --> 01:10:52,639
Speaker 2: next season. What's the rush, I gotta say the rush

1434
01:10:52,680 --> 01:10:56,520
Speaker 2: gotta be a lot of people were starting to lose interest,

1435
01:10:56,760 --> 01:10:59,080
Speaker 2: and I think people may still be watching, but they're

1436
01:10:59,080 --> 01:11:01,680
Speaker 2: not watching live, and I think that matters because it

1437
01:11:01,760 --> 01:11:05,519
Speaker 2: used to be like pulling in fifteen million viewers and

1438
01:11:05,520 --> 01:11:07,719
Speaker 2: it's gonna be hard if they can ever even get

1439
01:11:07,760 --> 01:11:13,240
Speaker 2: back to that. Another great podcast, but lated Happy Women's Day, Lovely, Karen,

1440
01:11:13,800 --> 01:11:15,920
Speaker 2: you just did a spelling check to make sure I

1441
01:11:15,960 --> 01:11:18,720
Speaker 2: didn't right Rob instead of Rod. I swear the last

1442
01:11:18,720 --> 01:11:21,080
Speaker 2: two times was on accident, but during the podcast, Rob

1443
01:11:21,080 --> 01:11:24,120
Speaker 2: pronounced a B like a disappointed third grade English teacher.

1444
01:11:24,680 --> 01:11:28,240
Speaker 3: Rob Buff, that's right. I hate when y'all do that.

1445
01:11:28,320 --> 01:11:31,040
Speaker 2: My name is Rod with a D, and I'm gonna

1446
01:11:31,080 --> 01:11:33,920
Speaker 2: make a point every time y'all do that. Sea Sick says,

1447
01:11:33,960 --> 01:11:37,400
Speaker 2: when Macheon shot the battle shot the bottle from the roof,

1448
01:11:37,880 --> 01:11:39,439
Speaker 2: I just assumed she was aiming for one of the

1449
01:11:39,479 --> 01:11:42,320
Speaker 2: walkers and just missed spectacularly. How could she have gotten

1450
01:11:42,360 --> 01:11:44,679
Speaker 2: better at shooting after the savors took all their rifles.

1451
01:11:44,920 --> 01:11:48,240
Speaker 2: I don't know she was, remember, Yeah, she remembers. She

1452
01:11:48,240 --> 01:11:50,160
Speaker 2: didn't give a fuck about them taking their rifle. She

1453
01:11:50,240 --> 01:11:52,280
Speaker 2: was like, I'm gonna keeps me a gut and figure

1454
01:11:52,280 --> 01:11:55,559
Speaker 2: it out. So she probably got another gun and kept practicing.

1455
01:11:56,360 --> 01:11:58,200
Speaker 2: A Naaman says, first of all, I love you both

1456
01:11:58,240 --> 01:12:00,120
Speaker 2: in your show, and reference to Michean pushing the car,

1457
01:12:00,120 --> 01:12:01,639
Speaker 2: The one time it is okay to have your girl

1458
01:12:01,720 --> 01:12:04,080
Speaker 2: push the car is if you drive a stick and

1459
01:12:04,120 --> 01:12:05,840
Speaker 2: you are the only one that can pop the clutch

1460
01:12:05,840 --> 01:12:08,879
Speaker 2: to get it started and the battery died, Lol, then

1461
01:12:08,920 --> 01:12:15,040
Speaker 2: it's okay. It sound like that happened to you now

1462
01:12:15,040 --> 01:12:17,000
Speaker 2: for you to push her, because this is just from anonymous,

1463
01:12:17,040 --> 01:12:18,439
Speaker 2: for you to push her or to push she I

1464
01:12:18,479 --> 01:12:22,200
Speaker 2: want to know, did you get tricked into it? Monica says,

1465
01:12:22,240 --> 01:12:24,000
Speaker 2: oh no, I don't want the junk of times it

1466
01:12:24,080 --> 01:12:27,200
Speaker 2: turned out to be the enemy. We only really know Jadas,

1467
01:12:27,200 --> 01:12:29,160
Speaker 2: so maybe as a group they won't really impact the

1468
01:12:29,200 --> 01:12:31,600
Speaker 2: storyline as much. Kind of random, but I have to

1469
01:12:31,600 --> 01:12:33,960
Speaker 2: say that when Rod called the carnival deer stupid and

1470
01:12:34,000 --> 01:12:36,760
Speaker 2: said it must have been Bambi's mother, I clutched my chest.

1471
01:12:36,800 --> 01:12:39,920
Speaker 2: I wanted to cry. Aha, says more about me than

1472
01:12:39,920 --> 01:12:42,479
Speaker 2: about you, Rod. I must have repressed some stuff going

1473
01:12:42,560 --> 01:12:45,320
Speaker 2: up on some of the press stuff going on any woodle.

1474
01:12:45,840 --> 01:12:48,120
Speaker 2: I enjoyed the Walking Dad, but I only started watching

1475
01:12:48,120 --> 01:12:50,960
Speaker 2: for your recast. They never disappoint Thanks, thank you, Monica,

1476
01:12:51,080 --> 01:12:55,519
Speaker 2: thank you. And the poe was will Eugene betray Sasha

1477
01:12:55,560 --> 01:12:56,080
Speaker 2: and Rosia?

1478
01:12:56,080 --> 01:12:56,639
Speaker 3: Because that's my.

1479
01:12:56,560 --> 01:13:01,960
Speaker 2: Prediction for next week and it is fifty fifty, right,

1480
01:13:02,360 --> 01:13:05,840
Speaker 2: very rare fifty to fifty. I'm just saying, I says,

1481
01:13:06,000 --> 01:13:07,920
Speaker 2: I voted that he wouldn't betray him. But at the

1482
01:13:07,920 --> 01:13:10,360
Speaker 2: same time, I think he is doing the long come,

1483
01:13:10,479 --> 01:13:11,280
Speaker 2: so he may not be.

1484
01:13:11,320 --> 01:13:12,439
Speaker 3: Very helpful either.

1485
01:13:13,520 --> 01:13:15,599
Speaker 2: Well, I mean you had to hear his comass up

1486
01:13:15,640 --> 01:13:18,840
Speaker 2: man Rosina and saw she's coming to kill They coming

1487
01:13:18,880 --> 01:13:21,120
Speaker 2: to sway. They ain't got time to be fucking with

1488
01:13:21,200 --> 01:13:23,840
Speaker 2: this man his give me a second ass plan.

1489
01:13:24,640 --> 01:13:27,880
Speaker 3: All right, let's tell these voicemails.

1490
01:13:29,320 --> 01:13:34,200
Speaker 7: HI riding Karence. This is Terrea at top story on

1491
01:13:34,240 --> 01:13:38,599
Speaker 7: Twitter and on my email because Caresa sounds like Kreesa.

1492
01:13:38,800 --> 01:13:42,760
Speaker 7: So that's me. That's my first time coling to leave

1493
01:13:42,840 --> 01:13:45,600
Speaker 7: you all the message. I just have to thank you

1494
01:13:45,960 --> 01:13:50,000
Speaker 7: for being who you are and doing what you do.

1495
01:13:51,040 --> 01:13:53,400
Speaker 7: I think I've written an email before telling you that

1496
01:13:53,520 --> 01:13:57,000
Speaker 7: you sound like I think I found with the Southern

1497
01:13:57,040 --> 01:13:59,519
Speaker 7: accents and everything, and it just means so much to

1498
01:13:59,560 --> 01:14:02,760
Speaker 7: me to be that they hear that accent along with

1499
01:14:02,960 --> 01:14:07,040
Speaker 7: progressive views. I'm like that I grew up around, so

1500
01:14:07,120 --> 01:14:09,639
Speaker 7: that means a lot to me. So all have also

1501
01:14:09,760 --> 01:14:13,080
Speaker 7: helped me say. I've been academic year. I'm usually a

1502
01:14:13,200 --> 01:14:16,519
Speaker 7: professor of English at Ohio State University, and this year

1503
01:14:16,560 --> 01:14:19,640
Speaker 7: I had the opportunity to spend a year at NUR

1504
01:14:19,680 --> 01:14:23,120
Speaker 7: the day with no teaching and just one time to

1505
01:14:23,200 --> 01:14:24,799
Speaker 7: push SOCASED on my research.

1506
01:14:24,920 --> 01:14:26,200
Speaker 3: So that was a real gift.

1507
01:14:26,720 --> 01:14:28,719
Speaker 7: But it was the first time that I lived apart

1508
01:14:28,960 --> 01:14:33,200
Speaker 7: from my partner. We've been together at years marriage, twelve,

1509
01:14:33,600 --> 01:14:35,280
Speaker 7: and I didn't think.

1510
01:14:35,200 --> 01:14:36,080
Speaker 10: It would be a big deal.

1511
01:14:38,040 --> 01:14:38,920
Speaker 3: That was really dumb.

1512
01:14:39,600 --> 01:14:41,880
Speaker 7: It was a really big deal. It was really really hard,

1513
01:14:42,080 --> 01:14:46,840
Speaker 7: and so this really helped me to navigate that because

1514
01:14:46,840 --> 01:14:49,439
Speaker 7: I felt like I was so alone. I was listening

1515
01:14:49,479 --> 01:14:53,560
Speaker 7: to you all and getting to hear discussions about the

1516
01:14:53,640 --> 01:14:56,320
Speaker 7: things that really mattered to me. So just thank you

1517
01:14:56,360 --> 01:14:58,800
Speaker 7: for everything you do. I've been thinking I'm pretty much

1518
01:14:58,840 --> 01:15:02,080
Speaker 7: with that discovered you. I guess it was last summer,

1519
01:15:02,640 --> 01:15:05,240
Speaker 7: and I just love the fact that you're independent and

1520
01:15:05,360 --> 01:15:09,639
Speaker 7: so and over and over he foods, like some sports

1521
01:15:09,680 --> 01:15:13,400
Speaker 7: management says, because you offer a perspective that we don't

1522
01:15:13,479 --> 01:15:16,040
Speaker 7: get otherwise. All Right, I have no idea how I'm

1523
01:15:16,080 --> 01:15:17,840
Speaker 7: doing on time, So I'm just going to say that

1524
01:15:18,200 --> 01:15:21,400
Speaker 7: I cannot wait to get out. I heard y'alls with you.

1525
01:15:21,680 --> 01:15:23,760
Speaker 7: I've been wanting to see it. Want to see it

1526
01:15:23,800 --> 01:15:28,519
Speaker 7: when I'm home. Oh, I am driving home four and

1527
01:15:28,600 --> 01:15:32,240
Speaker 7: a half hours, five hours. I've been doing this all years.

1528
01:15:32,360 --> 01:15:34,800
Speaker 7: That's the other reason why walk can help me through

1529
01:15:34,880 --> 01:15:38,840
Speaker 7: this anyway. So I'm finally going home for like ten days.

1530
01:15:39,000 --> 01:15:41,600
Speaker 7: I'm going to to get out. And I also just

1531
01:15:41,720 --> 01:15:44,800
Speaker 7: have to say that I really like the US to

1532
01:15:44,880 --> 01:15:47,759
Speaker 7: though I don't watch ABE, it just shows us clearly.

1533
01:15:47,840 --> 01:15:53,240
Speaker 7: I don't know what the play basketball with anyway, Thanks

1534
01:15:53,320 --> 01:15:56,280
Speaker 7: for everything you do both with few folks parents. Thank

1535
01:15:56,400 --> 01:15:58,599
Speaker 7: you so much, and so I'll see those him.

1536
01:16:01,120 --> 01:16:01,439
Speaker 3: Thank you.

1537
01:16:02,760 --> 01:16:05,120
Speaker 4: I don't know the people riding Justin pay basketball.

1538
01:16:06,360 --> 01:16:09,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, but we do have. Yeah, we do have.

1539
01:16:11,520 --> 01:16:13,800
Speaker 2: Like I do appreciate you listening. First of all, and

1540
01:16:14,040 --> 01:16:16,160
Speaker 2: especially like I said, I think a lot of people

1541
01:16:16,240 --> 01:16:19,040
Speaker 2: here sports or they hear like the pregame and they

1542
01:16:19,080 --> 01:16:22,040
Speaker 2: think like, oh, it's probably gonna be pretty whack and

1543
01:16:22,800 --> 01:16:25,240
Speaker 2: all about sports and shit. But if you listen to it,

1544
01:16:25,360 --> 01:16:27,240
Speaker 2: I think most people can get into what me and

1545
01:16:27,600 --> 01:16:29,600
Speaker 2: Justin will talk about. You don't really need to be

1546
01:16:29,680 --> 01:16:36,439
Speaker 2: the most versed sports person. And then also, yeah, I'm

1547
01:16:36,479 --> 01:16:38,160
Speaker 2: glad we're able to keep it company and I am

1548
01:16:38,200 --> 01:16:39,800
Speaker 2: glad that we're in depending we can say the things

1549
01:16:39,800 --> 01:16:42,599
Speaker 2: that we say, because I don't know how it works

1550
01:16:43,160 --> 01:16:45,639
Speaker 2: when you're part of some entity, man, and you gotta

1551
01:16:45,720 --> 01:16:48,280
Speaker 2: watch everything you say. You gotta worry about backlash, and

1552
01:16:48,720 --> 01:16:50,960
Speaker 2: you can't call this person out because that person works

1553
01:16:50,960 --> 01:16:53,760
Speaker 2: with this person and you know or you're gonna see

1554
01:16:53,800 --> 01:16:55,439
Speaker 2: this person later at some party or something.

1555
01:16:55,520 --> 01:16:59,160
Speaker 3: So but thank you for listening. And I'm glad. I'm

1556
01:16:59,200 --> 01:17:02,719
Speaker 3: glad we keeping your company and a guy and eighteen

1557
01:17:02,800 --> 01:17:04,519
Speaker 3: years together. Man, that's dope.

1558
01:17:05,600 --> 01:17:08,639
Speaker 4: And Honey, I feel I think what was I think

1559
01:17:08,640 --> 01:17:11,320
Speaker 4: it was last year. I uh, I had spent the

1560
01:17:11,400 --> 01:17:14,479
Speaker 4: night over at Morgan's at Rodney's house, and I think

1561
01:17:14,560 --> 01:17:16,880
Speaker 4: that was the first time I had actually since we've

1562
01:17:16,880 --> 01:17:19,200
Speaker 4: been actually married, that I had actually spent a night

1563
01:17:19,240 --> 01:17:19,760
Speaker 4: away from you.

1564
01:17:19,960 --> 01:17:22,240
Speaker 5: And you almost feel like a little kid. I can't

1565
01:17:22,240 --> 01:17:24,320
Speaker 5: speak for nobody else, but you know, it just did

1566
01:17:24,439 --> 01:17:25,040
Speaker 5: not feel right.

1567
01:17:26,280 --> 01:17:28,759
Speaker 3: Well, it felt right with me because I had several

1568
01:17:28,800 --> 01:17:32,080
Speaker 3: women over here. It was just fine. Everything was fine,

1569
01:17:32,280 --> 01:17:35,000
Speaker 3: not kidd Hey, there run.

1570
01:17:37,800 --> 01:17:43,120
Speaker 11: Long time listener your show way back when I'll keep

1571
01:17:43,160 --> 01:17:45,840
Speaker 11: it short. I know you have a time lim on

1572
01:17:46,040 --> 01:17:49,599
Speaker 11: you on your first lock some listeners from the UK,

1573
01:17:50,439 --> 01:17:55,720
Speaker 11: and I really enjoy when you cover this is our

1574
01:17:55,920 --> 01:18:02,160
Speaker 11: TV show. I've just watched the most recent World. I

1575
01:18:02,200 --> 01:18:04,880
Speaker 11: won't give any spotts, but Randall makes a very big

1576
01:18:05,000 --> 01:18:11,200
Speaker 11: decision in his career, and for the decision that he

1577
01:18:11,400 --> 01:18:15,240
Speaker 11: makes in his career, I recently went through the same

1578
01:18:15,320 --> 01:18:22,800
Speaker 11: thing this month last month. I haven't really been appreciated

1579
01:18:22,840 --> 01:18:27,599
Speaker 11: in my job, especially as a smart working black man,

1580
01:18:28,280 --> 01:18:31,760
Speaker 11: and I've put in a good couple of years. I'm

1581
01:18:31,800 --> 01:18:34,719
Speaker 11: talking eleven twelve years in the industry that I'm working.

1582
01:18:35,479 --> 01:18:40,400
Speaker 11: I'm highly educated, I've put in the hours, and I've

1583
01:18:40,680 --> 01:18:47,760
Speaker 11: purposely at points done myself down to make my team

1584
01:18:47,880 --> 01:18:52,200
Speaker 11: leaders or my management more comfortable that I'm as competent

1585
01:18:52,320 --> 01:18:54,400
Speaker 11: as them when it comes to doing a job. And

1586
01:18:54,920 --> 01:18:58,200
Speaker 11: I've been very much assilent leader when it comes to

1587
01:18:58,320 --> 01:19:02,200
Speaker 11: working with the said company that I used to work for.

1588
01:19:03,360 --> 01:19:07,559
Speaker 11: And it got to a point where I just broke.

1589
01:19:08,320 --> 01:19:13,280
Speaker 11: I just broke, and I literally quit my job and

1590
01:19:13,439 --> 01:19:17,599
Speaker 11: walked out. And I did it where there was such

1591
01:19:17,640 --> 01:19:20,759
Speaker 11: a high workload. My management wasn't giving me any support,

1592
01:19:21,760 --> 01:19:24,280
Speaker 11: and anytime I reached out to them and asked them

1593
01:19:24,320 --> 01:19:28,640
Speaker 11: for support, it was I don't know, I don't know.

1594
01:19:29,000 --> 01:19:30,920
Speaker 11: You can try on your own, see how you get on.

1595
01:19:32,400 --> 01:19:36,519
Speaker 11: And it really upset me, it really did. So I

1596
01:19:36,640 --> 01:19:41,840
Speaker 11: walked out and I've been really confused as to what

1597
01:19:41,960 --> 01:19:45,559
Speaker 11: I do with myself. I've got a backup job anyways,

1598
01:19:45,640 --> 01:19:48,000
Speaker 11: there's not that much of a big deal. But I've

1599
01:19:48,040 --> 01:19:50,479
Speaker 11: been very much scared and not too sure what to do.

1600
01:19:51,520 --> 01:19:57,720
Speaker 11: But seeing this most recent episode of what Randall does

1601
01:19:57,800 --> 01:20:05,040
Speaker 11: and how he handles his care career very much, it

1602
01:20:05,280 --> 01:20:09,479
Speaker 11: very much made me feel a lot more at ease

1603
01:20:09,680 --> 01:20:14,120
Speaker 11: what I've done and knowing that I've made the right decisions,

1604
01:20:14,439 --> 01:20:21,240
Speaker 11: especially for my health. You know, it's only obviously it's

1605
01:20:21,280 --> 01:20:28,120
Speaker 11: in a TV show. However, it for for what this man,

1606
01:20:28,520 --> 01:20:31,599
Speaker 11: especially as a black man, has done, for what he's

1607
01:20:31,680 --> 01:20:35,599
Speaker 11: had to go against. It made me feel a lot

1608
01:20:35,680 --> 01:20:38,439
Speaker 11: more reassured and what I did was the right stress,

1609
01:20:38,800 --> 01:20:43,080
Speaker 11: not only as me being a highly educated black man,

1610
01:20:43,320 --> 01:20:47,360
Speaker 11: but just a man in genuine not being allowed to

1611
01:20:47,400 --> 01:20:51,679
Speaker 11: be walked toward anymore. So I just wanted to share

1612
01:20:51,720 --> 01:20:54,280
Speaker 11: my my, my, what I've gone through, with my thoughts

1613
01:20:54,720 --> 01:20:59,200
Speaker 11: with you guys. And yeah, thank you very much for

1614
01:20:59,640 --> 01:21:03,320
Speaker 11: doing your podcast. I really to appreciate it. Thank you

1615
01:21:03,520 --> 01:21:08,519
Speaker 11: very much. And you know, if you want maybe a

1616
01:21:08,640 --> 01:21:11,200
Speaker 11: more in debt for a detailed story, I'm more than

1617
01:21:11,240 --> 01:21:14,439
Speaker 11: happy to sing you an email. Okay, thank you very much.

1618
01:21:14,800 --> 01:21:16,479
Speaker 11: Have's a good day, take care.

1619
01:21:16,880 --> 01:21:17,439
Speaker 3: Oh man.

1620
01:21:18,439 --> 01:21:20,720
Speaker 2: First of all, thank you for calling in, Karen. I

1621
01:21:20,760 --> 01:21:22,760
Speaker 2: see whoever against the break? Let me push to the

1622
01:21:22,880 --> 01:21:24,680
Speaker 2: second thing and then will answer.

1623
01:21:25,320 --> 01:21:28,439
Speaker 3: Uh, his voicemail. I think I said email. I made

1624
01:21:28,479 --> 01:21:31,439
Speaker 3: voicemail his voicemail when we come back on.

1625
01:21:31,880 --> 01:21:36,240
Speaker 5: But no problem. Yeah, that was thank you for calling

1626
01:21:36,320 --> 01:21:37,559
Speaker 5: always from the UK. Baby.

1627
01:21:38,960 --> 01:21:42,880
Speaker 3: That was dope. Man. I can't imagine quitting a job

1628
01:21:43,000 --> 01:21:43,800
Speaker 3: like that. I've never had it.

1629
01:21:43,880 --> 01:21:46,559
Speaker 2: I'm the only job I quit like that was a Wendy's.

1630
01:21:48,479 --> 01:21:51,640
Speaker 2: I just told him my way coming in. But that

1631
01:21:51,760 --> 01:21:53,799
Speaker 2: was by the phone, you know, and it was Wendy's.

1632
01:21:53,920 --> 01:21:54,400
Speaker 12: It wasn't it.

1633
01:21:55,160 --> 01:21:58,160
Speaker 3: You know, it wasn't some major major thing for me.

1634
01:21:59,080 --> 01:22:02,519
Speaker 2: But especially when you bring up the part about for

1635
01:22:02,640 --> 01:22:05,559
Speaker 2: your own mental health as a black person and being

1636
01:22:05,640 --> 01:22:08,640
Speaker 2: overworked and ship, I think a lot of times we

1637
01:22:08,760 --> 01:22:14,120
Speaker 2: do neglect that part, the health and the mental aspects

1638
01:22:15,400 --> 01:22:18,080
Speaker 2: and just try to push through. And uh, it's good

1639
01:22:18,160 --> 01:22:20,160
Speaker 2: that you were able to do that. I'm glad you

1640
01:22:20,200 --> 01:22:22,760
Speaker 2: have a backup job, you know. I hope everything goes

1641
01:22:22,800 --> 01:22:25,560
Speaker 2: okay with that. But you know, a job is not

1642
01:22:25,680 --> 01:22:28,559
Speaker 2: that necessarily to be all end all of your worth,

1643
01:22:29,000 --> 01:22:33,840
Speaker 2: and uh it is. It shouldn't justify, you know, being

1644
01:22:33,920 --> 01:22:36,400
Speaker 2: treated like shit and stuff like that. So good for you,

1645
01:22:36,560 --> 01:22:40,200
Speaker 2: bro mm hmmm. And we're gonna send you a box

1646
01:22:40,280 --> 01:22:45,840
Speaker 2: of pairs and uh, and we'll make sure that we

1647
01:22:46,000 --> 01:22:47,200
Speaker 2: have a card from the team.

1648
01:22:47,960 --> 01:22:48,040
Speaker 1: Uh.

1649
01:22:48,240 --> 01:22:50,880
Speaker 3: That's a little this is us seem of guys, all right.

1650
01:22:51,439 --> 01:22:52,800
Speaker 4: So it's one of those things.

1651
01:22:52,840 --> 01:22:56,439
Speaker 5: I know I don't even watch this as us, but uh,

1652
01:22:57,880 --> 01:22:59,320
Speaker 5: I can truly say that.

1653
01:23:01,160 --> 01:23:04,559
Speaker 4: The best decision was to do that with BOSSI because

1654
01:23:04,640 --> 01:23:07,280
Speaker 4: I think for a lot of people it really helps

1655
01:23:07,320 --> 01:23:10,680
Speaker 4: them get through a lot of different things. And I

1656
01:23:10,760 --> 01:23:13,360
Speaker 4: know it's nothing but a quote unquote TV show, but

1657
01:23:13,560 --> 01:23:17,040
Speaker 4: I think that for a lot of people, they enjoy

1658
01:23:17,240 --> 01:23:19,160
Speaker 4: and they love it and they can see themselves in

1659
01:23:19,240 --> 01:23:22,799
Speaker 4: the characters. And it's just on one of those things

1660
01:23:22,920 --> 01:23:26,080
Speaker 4: to where I'm glad that you see what you were

1661
01:23:26,160 --> 01:23:29,639
Speaker 4: worth and I'm glad that you see that you've seen

1662
01:23:29,880 --> 01:23:34,080
Speaker 4: that you was worthy of something more. Because the thing is,

1663
01:23:34,240 --> 01:23:36,360
Speaker 4: it's a lot of more people that wish they were

1664
01:23:36,400 --> 01:23:38,240
Speaker 4: in a place where they could make the decision just

1665
01:23:38,320 --> 01:23:40,200
Speaker 4: to flat be like, you know what, I'm out, I'm

1666
01:23:40,200 --> 01:23:43,000
Speaker 4: not getting to support you know, y'all not doing what

1667
01:23:43,120 --> 01:23:48,439
Speaker 4: y'all supposed to do, and just leave. And that was

1668
01:23:48,560 --> 01:23:50,360
Speaker 4: very courageous because a lot of people are at a

1669
01:23:50,439 --> 01:23:53,439
Speaker 4: lot of jobs that they actually should leave, actually should

1670
01:23:53,520 --> 01:23:56,000
Speaker 4: actually just apply and get another job. But they're still

1671
01:23:56,040 --> 01:23:57,360
Speaker 4: there for various different reasons.

1672
01:23:58,080 --> 01:24:02,160
Speaker 3: Yep, let's go to the next voice. Mail, I got

1673
01:24:02,280 --> 01:24:03,240
Speaker 3: a few more of these.

1674
01:24:03,400 --> 01:24:07,960
Speaker 1: Actually, what's up, Kim, what's up? Right?

1675
01:24:08,720 --> 01:24:08,920
Speaker 11: Yeah?

1676
01:24:10,800 --> 01:24:15,120
Speaker 1: I love love. I listen to the play the pre game,

1677
01:24:15,240 --> 01:24:17,360
Speaker 1: and I love I'm talking about Tropic Thunder. I love

1678
01:24:17,520 --> 01:24:19,920
Speaker 1: love the fact that I love Tropic Thunder so much

1679
01:24:20,560 --> 01:24:24,280
Speaker 1: because like that movie came out like me and like

1680
01:24:24,360 --> 01:24:26,000
Speaker 1: some of my college friends allowed to go see it,

1681
01:24:26,400 --> 01:24:30,160
Speaker 1: and he was like man like Pample is like bawling

1682
01:24:30,200 --> 01:24:32,320
Speaker 1: into his class and his game Dame, and the other

1683
01:24:32,400 --> 01:24:36,360
Speaker 1: half was like offended about the whole thing. But uh,

1684
01:24:36,680 --> 01:24:40,240
Speaker 1: Robber downon Junior and Black States. But the way right

1685
01:24:40,320 --> 01:24:44,120
Speaker 1: with down jais play uh Target, I forget his name,

1686
01:24:44,160 --> 01:24:46,280
Speaker 1: but the way he played Sarge, it was it was

1687
01:24:46,360 --> 01:24:50,200
Speaker 1: so good and so ethic, like, uh, I don't know,

1688
01:24:50,280 --> 01:24:53,559
Speaker 1: he nailed it. He nailed the aspect of it so much.

1689
01:24:53,640 --> 01:24:56,719
Speaker 1: In the aspect of it, like it was so lateous.

1690
01:24:57,400 --> 01:25:01,400
Speaker 1: So that movie, like if you can get out your feelings,

1691
01:25:01,400 --> 01:25:04,639
Speaker 1: you're not be so upset about somebody being a black person,

1692
01:25:04,720 --> 01:25:07,680
Speaker 1: a white person playing a dude playing as rub down

1693
01:25:07,760 --> 01:25:10,640
Speaker 1: and Jesus, but that I'm the dude playing to dud

1694
01:25:10,720 --> 01:25:14,599
Speaker 1: the guys a dude. You can see that he's making

1695
01:25:14,680 --> 01:25:18,679
Speaker 1: some of Hollywood, the fact that how far white actors

1696
01:25:18,720 --> 01:25:22,280
Speaker 1: will go to get a check, like and that movie

1697
01:25:22,360 --> 01:25:24,280
Speaker 1: is so ahead of the time because you know and

1698
01:25:24,479 --> 01:25:28,000
Speaker 1: you know, uh, they still do that to this day.

1699
01:25:28,080 --> 01:25:31,920
Speaker 1: You got jose Kans playing Michael Jacksons. You know Michael,

1700
01:25:31,960 --> 01:25:34,920
Speaker 1: I say, more white characters, more white people playing him

1701
01:25:35,000 --> 01:25:38,720
Speaker 1: and death after death. You got uh Matt Damon in

1702
01:25:38,760 --> 01:25:42,280
Speaker 1: The Great Wall. You got scholar Joe Hanson uh playing

1703
01:25:42,400 --> 01:25:46,360
Speaker 1: Japanese character, official Japanese character. Still like they just take

1704
01:25:46,400 --> 01:25:49,320
Speaker 1: these texts, man, But the movie is so good, so

1705
01:25:49,320 --> 01:25:52,400
Speaker 1: ahead of time, and I was so happy. Y'all love

1706
01:25:52,479 --> 01:25:54,800
Speaker 1: the movies as much as I did, because like as

1707
01:25:54,880 --> 01:25:58,200
Speaker 1: y'all mouth, uh all, y'all show is nothing wrong but funny,

1708
01:25:58,360 --> 01:26:02,439
Speaker 1: and shoot, that movie it so that like it was

1709
01:26:02,600 --> 01:26:03,000
Speaker 1: very fun.

1710
01:26:04,240 --> 01:26:05,160
Speaker 10: Play character.

1711
01:26:05,240 --> 01:26:07,400
Speaker 1: He could have he took his chance and he could

1712
01:26:07,439 --> 01:26:10,679
Speaker 1: have really messed up his money or know the hebitation

1713
01:26:10,880 --> 01:26:13,639
Speaker 1: because if he didn't messed that up, and like people,

1714
01:26:14,840 --> 01:26:17,840
Speaker 1: uh it was, I wouldn't sye saw high him and

1715
01:26:18,000 --> 01:26:20,920
Speaker 1: uh don't show you if you and all I ain't

1716
01:26:21,800 --> 01:26:25,280
Speaker 1: so good. So just need to look at Hollywood. The

1717
01:26:25,320 --> 01:26:29,320
Speaker 1: movie took took it, put itself and made fun of Hollywood.

1718
01:26:29,520 --> 01:26:32,040
Speaker 1: And I'm still I'm still gonna watch on watch that

1719
01:26:32,120 --> 01:26:36,000
Speaker 1: movie again. So that's all I got and played. They

1720
01:26:36,080 --> 01:26:38,519
Speaker 1: showed you, oh.

1721
01:26:38,560 --> 01:26:39,360
Speaker 3: Man, thank you.

1722
01:26:39,800 --> 01:26:42,360
Speaker 2: Uh he called back later to say that's oh four soldier.

1723
01:26:43,160 --> 01:26:45,680
Speaker 2: So that's if he might not know, he might know

1724
01:26:45,800 --> 01:26:49,960
Speaker 2: from Twitter. But yeah, that that's one of my favorite

1725
01:26:49,960 --> 01:26:50,760
Speaker 2: movies of all time.

1726
01:26:50,920 --> 01:26:51,080
Speaker 4: Man.

1727
01:26:51,400 --> 01:26:55,760
Speaker 2: Just the satire, the the way that they like, just

1728
01:26:55,880 --> 01:26:59,479
Speaker 2: the it's basically just a roast of Hollywood. And it

1729
01:26:59,640 --> 01:27:03,080
Speaker 2: was so ahead of his time man. Like the way

1730
01:27:03,200 --> 01:27:06,840
Speaker 2: that they had Robert Downey Jr. As the white man

1731
01:27:06,920 --> 01:27:11,519
Speaker 2: that took the good black role in that film. That yeah,

1732
01:27:11,560 --> 01:27:14,120
Speaker 2: it was so it's so like, yes, that is what

1733
01:27:14,280 --> 01:27:18,519
Speaker 2: Hollywood does. It gives the like and we give that

1734
01:27:18,680 --> 01:27:20,640
Speaker 2: guy all the credit because he will see this this

1735
01:27:20,800 --> 01:27:24,800
Speaker 2: great phenomenal best actor of all time, you know, taking

1736
01:27:24,840 --> 01:27:25,320
Speaker 2: his role.

1737
01:27:25,520 --> 01:27:25,680
Speaker 5: You know.

1738
01:27:27,160 --> 01:27:28,400
Speaker 3: Uh, it was just a lot.

1739
01:27:28,479 --> 01:27:30,120
Speaker 2: And then the fact that the black man they did

1740
01:27:30,280 --> 01:27:33,000
Speaker 2: cast was a rapper, so they passed they cast a

1741
01:27:33,120 --> 01:27:36,080
Speaker 2: rapper in the black part as an actor, like it

1742
01:27:36,200 --> 01:27:38,400
Speaker 2: was a little ship that I don't even know if

1743
01:27:38,439 --> 01:27:42,880
Speaker 2: they knew how fucking great that was. But it's one

1744
01:27:42,920 --> 01:27:45,519
Speaker 2: of the most amazing movies. Man, I watch all the time. Man,

1745
01:27:45,560 --> 01:27:48,640
Speaker 2: I don't. I don't think it gets enough credit. And

1746
01:27:48,720 --> 01:27:52,120
Speaker 2: I do think, you know, if here's my thing about entertainment.

1747
01:27:52,280 --> 01:27:55,160
Speaker 2: If you can't get past the idea, oh, Robert Downey

1748
01:27:55,200 --> 01:27:57,439
Speaker 2: got black face on and that ain't funny to you,

1749
01:27:57,800 --> 01:28:00,360
Speaker 2: that's fine. Like I'm not trying to make you like

1750
01:28:00,479 --> 01:28:02,920
Speaker 2: something you know you don't like. You know, I'm generally

1751
01:28:03,040 --> 01:28:05,720
Speaker 2: not a kind of a stringent person on that kind

1752
01:28:05,760 --> 01:28:08,880
Speaker 2: of shit. I don't normally boycott things. I don't normally

1753
01:28:09,600 --> 01:28:14,720
Speaker 2: avoid things that I feel like they'll entertain me. Even

1754
01:28:14,760 --> 01:28:17,559
Speaker 2: if I did feel it was problematic, which I really don't.

1755
01:28:17,600 --> 01:28:19,640
Speaker 2: But if I would have felt it was problematic and

1756
01:28:19,720 --> 01:28:21,519
Speaker 2: it was still good, I would have been like, well, it's.

1757
01:28:21,439 --> 01:28:22,559
Speaker 3: Problematic and it's good.

1758
01:28:22,760 --> 01:28:22,960
Speaker 4: You know.

1759
01:28:23,160 --> 01:28:25,880
Speaker 2: I'm not I'm not a stickler for that shit. But

1760
01:28:27,520 --> 01:28:29,040
Speaker 2: it was just it was just such a great show

1761
01:28:29,280 --> 01:28:31,800
Speaker 2: of a great movie. It's uh, it's to me, it's

1762
01:28:31,800 --> 01:28:38,200
Speaker 2: almost like Hollywood Shuffle and just lambasting fucking Hollywood and

1763
01:28:38,760 --> 01:28:42,879
Speaker 2: a bunch of other like in movie stars and entertainment

1764
01:28:42,920 --> 01:28:44,320
Speaker 2: industry and stuff, right, And for me.

1765
01:28:44,400 --> 01:28:47,040
Speaker 4: To protest something, that's a hard dance for me because

1766
01:28:47,040 --> 01:28:49,960
Speaker 4: I'm very open to everything and I'm not gonna lie.

1767
01:28:50,000 --> 01:28:52,160
Speaker 4: I shared tears every time I see that sCOD jokes.

1768
01:28:52,280 --> 01:28:53,880
Speaker 5: I'm like, oh, this shit looks so good, but I

1769
01:28:53,960 --> 01:28:54,519
Speaker 5: won't see that.

1770
01:28:55,520 --> 01:28:58,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, man, I like, if it's not gonna

1771
01:28:58,360 --> 01:29:01,120
Speaker 2: be fun, like that's the only way to really like.

1772
01:29:01,240 --> 01:29:05,120
Speaker 2: I've never really boycotted anything, but I have had just

1773
01:29:05,439 --> 01:29:09,400
Speaker 2: like general, a general feeling of like, Okay, this is

1774
01:29:09,600 --> 01:29:11,920
Speaker 2: no longer a fun thing to do now, I don't

1775
01:29:11,920 --> 01:29:17,280
Speaker 2: want to do it, like and just different things drag

1776
01:29:17,400 --> 01:29:20,800
Speaker 2: it down, you know, Like to be honest, iron Fist

1777
01:29:20,920 --> 01:29:23,200
Speaker 2: is getting that way from me now, Like I like,

1778
01:29:23,320 --> 01:29:26,240
Speaker 2: I don't really give a fuck about Iron Fist as

1779
01:29:26,280 --> 01:29:28,439
Speaker 2: a character, Like I don't even read the comics that much.

1780
01:29:28,600 --> 01:29:30,759
Speaker 3: I never found it to be so earth shattering.

1781
01:29:31,360 --> 01:29:34,120
Speaker 2: But Marvel shows have been on Netflix and they've been

1782
01:29:34,240 --> 01:29:37,040
Speaker 2: pretty good for the most part. And this is the

1783
01:29:37,120 --> 01:29:40,839
Speaker 2: newest one coming out. And now you see the discussion

1784
01:29:40,880 --> 01:29:42,920
Speaker 2: around it, you see all the arguments around it.

1785
01:29:43,360 --> 01:29:49,120
Speaker 3: You're seeing the star Finn Jones coming out and saying shit, and.

1786
01:29:49,800 --> 01:29:53,800
Speaker 2: I'm getting less and less enthusiastic about seeing it and

1787
01:29:53,960 --> 01:29:56,240
Speaker 2: more on the side of just like, well, fuck I mean,

1788
01:29:56,320 --> 01:29:58,839
Speaker 2: not like I said, not even on some like hashtag

1789
01:29:58,920 --> 01:30:01,439
Speaker 2: let's boycott this together, let's stop, let's ride on them,

1790
01:30:01,960 --> 01:30:04,200
Speaker 2: just more like, who I'm gonna talk about this with

1791
01:30:04,439 --> 01:30:07,920
Speaker 2: just don't even seem like it's gonna be fun as

1792
01:30:07,920 --> 01:30:08,679
Speaker 2: a as a fan.

1793
01:30:08,800 --> 01:30:10,679
Speaker 3: I just as a fan, I'm in it for fun,

1794
01:30:11,040 --> 01:30:11,559
Speaker 3: you know, I'm not.

1795
01:30:11,640 --> 01:30:12,040
Speaker 11: In it for.

1796
01:30:13,960 --> 01:30:17,320
Speaker 3: Arguing the merits of whitewashing with people. That's like, none

1797
01:30:17,320 --> 01:30:18,000
Speaker 3: of that's fun to me.

1798
01:30:18,200 --> 01:30:19,880
Speaker 4: Right, That's how I feel about that Nate Parker movie,

1799
01:30:19,920 --> 01:30:23,599
Speaker 4: because I remember you first preyo'alls like, oh, that's gonna

1800
01:30:23,640 --> 01:30:26,360
Speaker 4: be good, and I got really excited. But as time

1801
01:30:26,400 --> 01:30:28,560
Speaker 4: went on and ship came out, I was like, fuck it,

1802
01:30:28,600 --> 01:30:29,439
Speaker 4: I'm not watching it.

1803
01:30:29,800 --> 01:30:32,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's not fun to me, you know. And then

1804
01:30:33,160 --> 01:30:34,880
Speaker 2: like even the people I know that like it, they

1805
01:30:34,920 --> 01:30:38,280
Speaker 2: don't sound like they have fun. They're all angry, they're

1806
01:30:38,280 --> 01:30:41,160
Speaker 2: all mad at people like no, like it's all these agendas.

1807
01:30:41,280 --> 01:30:44,479
Speaker 2: Nobody sounds like they were genuinely entertained by this movie

1808
01:30:44,560 --> 01:30:44,960
Speaker 2: and they just.

1809
01:30:45,040 --> 01:30:47,920
Speaker 3: Think it's good. And they and they don't, and that's it,

1810
01:30:48,640 --> 01:30:49,920
Speaker 3: like that, I haven't seen one.

1811
01:30:50,080 --> 01:30:53,720
Speaker 2: Everybody either I'm attacking this movie because Nate Parker is a.

1812
01:30:55,280 --> 01:30:57,280
Speaker 3: Guy who got away with rape.

1813
01:30:57,520 --> 01:31:01,439
Speaker 2: Or I'm protecting in this movie because I'm mad that

1814
01:31:01,520 --> 01:31:04,920
Speaker 2: these people took my this black Man's movie like that,

1815
01:31:05,160 --> 01:31:08,479
Speaker 2: then nobody is there's nobody that's just like well as

1816
01:31:08,520 --> 01:31:08,960
Speaker 2: a movie.

1817
01:31:09,040 --> 01:31:10,760
Speaker 3: I saw it and it thought it was really good.

1818
01:31:11,000 --> 01:31:14,320
Speaker 2: Everybody got some kind of agenda, so I'm out, like

1819
01:31:14,439 --> 01:31:16,439
Speaker 2: it just doesn't do it, you know, even with the

1820
01:31:17,840 --> 01:31:20,040
Speaker 2: with iron Fist. The only thing that's even making me

1821
01:31:20,200 --> 01:31:22,759
Speaker 2: curious about it now is that some of the reviews

1822
01:31:22,800 --> 01:31:24,960
Speaker 2: are in for the first six episodes and then like

1823
01:31:25,000 --> 01:31:26,080
Speaker 2: it's terrible, and I'm like.

1824
01:31:26,600 --> 01:31:30,400
Speaker 3: Wow, Marvel made a terrible show, Like I kind of.

1825
01:31:30,439 --> 01:31:33,920
Speaker 2: Want to see how terrible the shit is, which you know,

1826
01:31:34,400 --> 01:31:37,960
Speaker 2: to like said, yeah, it's almost like I'd be better.

1827
01:31:38,000 --> 01:31:39,479
Speaker 3: It'd be better if the reviews came out.

1828
01:31:39,479 --> 01:31:41,880
Speaker 2: I was like, it's okay, and because I'd be like, well,

1829
01:31:41,880 --> 01:31:45,200
Speaker 2: of course it's, you know, okay, the good but you know,

1830
01:31:45,840 --> 01:31:48,320
Speaker 2: I just don't feel like fighting about it. Well that's

1831
01:31:48,400 --> 01:31:50,160
Speaker 2: kind of that's kind of how it goes with like

1832
01:31:50,800 --> 01:31:54,440
Speaker 2: traffic Thunder too. Was a lot of people were like blackface.

1833
01:31:54,600 --> 01:31:54,960
Speaker 3: I'm out.

1834
01:31:55,360 --> 01:31:57,880
Speaker 2: I'm like cool, you don't have to watch anything, but

1835
01:31:58,560 --> 01:31:59,960
Speaker 2: you might have missed out on a good movie.

1836
01:32:00,040 --> 01:32:00,680
Speaker 3: It was fun to me.

1837
01:32:00,840 --> 01:32:01,920
Speaker 4: It was so much fun.

1838
01:32:02,880 --> 01:32:08,879
Speaker 3: All right. Next voice mail, say.

1839
01:32:08,800 --> 01:32:12,080
Speaker 6: Riding Karen just called to say, I love the show,

1840
01:32:12,200 --> 01:32:15,559
Speaker 6: Love y'all. I was listening to episode thirteen ninety eight,

1841
01:32:16,320 --> 01:32:18,720
Speaker 6: and I realized something about y'all that you know, I

1842
01:32:18,800 --> 01:32:23,920
Speaker 6: didn't realize before that y'all are both food terrorists. That's right,

1843
01:32:24,120 --> 01:32:28,160
Speaker 6: while the kidcat terrorists and Karen's a cereal before milk terrists.

1844
01:32:28,439 --> 01:32:29,439
Speaker 10: Y'all just out here.

1845
01:32:29,600 --> 01:32:32,559
Speaker 6: Being a Bonnie and Clyde of food terrorism, terrorizing these

1846
01:32:32,640 --> 01:32:35,439
Speaker 6: podcast streets. Not madness, y'all.

1847
01:32:36,240 --> 01:32:43,120
Speaker 10: Anyway, love y'all, bye, as she called right back.

1848
01:32:44,000 --> 01:32:47,000
Speaker 6: Yeah, so I totally chanked that Karen's a cereal after

1849
01:32:47,200 --> 01:32:48,400
Speaker 6: milk terrorists.

1850
01:32:48,920 --> 01:32:53,840
Speaker 10: Anyway, Ah, love y'all, Bye, Terrist.

1851
01:32:53,840 --> 01:32:54,880
Speaker 5: I want to get it right, m.

1852
01:32:56,760 --> 01:32:58,560
Speaker 3: I don't have a problem with her eating hereal or

1853
01:32:58,560 --> 01:33:00,960
Speaker 3: way she does. She just is real the insecure about it.

1854
01:33:01,040 --> 01:33:04,320
Speaker 3: So just the fact that I even brought it up,

1855
01:33:04,400 --> 01:33:08,720
Speaker 3: she just went out because you said normal, Like what

1856
01:33:08,840 --> 01:33:10,920
Speaker 3: I was doing was it is abnormal.

1857
01:33:11,080 --> 01:33:13,000
Speaker 2: The way I eat a kick kat is outside of

1858
01:33:13,040 --> 01:33:15,920
Speaker 2: the box, and y'all won't put me inside of the box.

1859
01:33:16,200 --> 01:33:18,760
Speaker 3: I live outside the box. I don't mind being looked

1860
01:33:18,760 --> 01:33:20,879
Speaker 3: at as the not normal one.

1861
01:33:20,720 --> 01:33:23,160
Speaker 5: But you won't put me well, you won't put me

1862
01:33:23,200 --> 01:33:24,360
Speaker 5: outside of the cereal bowl.

1863
01:33:24,840 --> 01:33:25,840
Speaker 3: Now you're just in the now.

1864
01:33:27,400 --> 01:33:30,280
Speaker 2: It's obvious that you eat your cereal weird, and it's

1865
01:33:30,360 --> 01:33:33,400
Speaker 2: just that's just the fact that you won't accept it.

1866
01:33:33,439 --> 01:33:41,640
Speaker 3: It's just your fault. Two different approaches. I guess no,

1867
01:33:41,800 --> 01:33:45,479
Speaker 3: we won't. I see the good and everybody except your

1868
01:33:45,560 --> 01:33:46,160
Speaker 3: cereal bowl.

1869
01:33:46,720 --> 01:33:47,960
Speaker 1: Hey m.

1870
01:33:50,160 --> 01:33:55,040
Speaker 3: All right, let's get to the next voicemail. Got two more.

1871
01:33:58,360 --> 01:33:58,639
Speaker 10: Again.

1872
01:33:59,000 --> 01:34:00,920
Speaker 9: I don't know what happened. It's just cutting me off

1873
01:34:00,960 --> 01:34:03,960
Speaker 9: after thirty seconds, so I think it probably knows.

1874
01:34:04,000 --> 01:34:06,759
Speaker 12: And I'm about to cush you out Rod.

1875
01:34:06,880 --> 01:34:15,000
Speaker 9: For for cereal shaming. How dare you cereal shame? I'm

1876
01:34:15,120 --> 01:34:20,519
Speaker 9: so disappointed in you after that whole video on there's

1877
01:34:20,560 --> 01:34:22,320
Speaker 9: no proper way to eat a kid cat, you had

1878
01:34:22,360 --> 01:34:27,400
Speaker 9: the nerves to sit the cereal shame Karen, and I

1879
01:34:27,520 --> 01:34:30,919
Speaker 9: had to call you. I am one of those rebels

1880
01:34:31,439 --> 01:34:34,360
Speaker 9: who puts the milk first. In the bowl and then

1881
01:34:34,439 --> 01:34:37,360
Speaker 9: puts cereal on top, because I don't like soggy cereal

1882
01:34:39,080 --> 01:34:42,200
Speaker 9: to be crunchy as possible, so I put I put

1883
01:34:42,280 --> 01:34:43,400
Speaker 9: the cereal in afterwards.

1884
01:34:43,720 --> 01:34:46,200
Speaker 12: I'm not a heathen. I'm not a bad person.

1885
01:34:46,640 --> 01:34:50,519
Speaker 9: And so when you were making fun of Karen for

1886
01:34:50,680 --> 01:34:55,120
Speaker 9: pouring the milk first, that that that just got to me.

1887
01:34:55,760 --> 01:34:57,400
Speaker 12: It hurts my soul.

1888
01:34:58,360 --> 01:35:00,760
Speaker 9: Oh, cereal shame.

1889
01:35:00,880 --> 01:35:02,120
Speaker 12: Please don't cereal shame.

1890
01:35:03,280 --> 01:35:05,280
Speaker 9: But there's more than one way to eat all the cereal,

1891
01:35:06,680 --> 01:35:08,479
Speaker 9: if wanted to say. I've been kind of watching you

1892
01:35:08,560 --> 01:35:12,519
Speaker 9: interact with people on Twitter, and sometimes I want to

1893
01:35:12,600 --> 01:35:15,400
Speaker 9: jump in, but then I realized that I don't really

1894
01:35:15,439 --> 01:35:18,160
Speaker 9: want to have to deal with people who don't know

1895
01:35:18,240 --> 01:35:20,599
Speaker 9: what they're talking about coming back at me in the comments.

1896
01:35:20,760 --> 01:35:24,720
Speaker 9: So I'll start typing and I'll be like, nah, nah,

1897
01:35:26,000 --> 01:35:28,120
Speaker 9: I'm not about that life. I'm not about that life.

1898
01:35:28,439 --> 01:35:29,599
Speaker 10: Like I can't deal.

1899
01:35:30,080 --> 01:35:31,799
Speaker 12: I can't deal because yeah.

1900
01:35:32,439 --> 01:35:36,719
Speaker 9: Anyways, the other thing I want to talk about was Nikki.

1901
01:35:36,960 --> 01:35:40,080
Speaker 9: I'm kind of Nicki Minaj and kind of annoyed at

1902
01:35:40,160 --> 01:35:41,719
Speaker 9: that track that she dropped.

1903
01:35:41,760 --> 01:35:42,600
Speaker 11: I need you to listen to it.

1904
01:35:43,040 --> 01:35:45,080
Speaker 9: I read some of the lyrics and I'm like First

1905
01:35:45,120 --> 01:35:49,719
Speaker 9: of all, you had to get Drake and Little Wayne.

1906
01:35:51,880 --> 01:35:53,240
Speaker 9: I know the song is going to be a hit,

1907
01:35:54,160 --> 01:35:58,759
Speaker 9: but you took the easy route, and so I find

1908
01:35:58,800 --> 01:36:02,519
Speaker 9: you you molong have credibility in my opinion. So but

1909
01:36:02,640 --> 01:36:06,479
Speaker 9: I've been seeing you shaying to people that need to

1910
01:36:06,560 --> 01:36:08,800
Speaker 9: take this out and all these these these barbers are

1911
01:36:08,840 --> 01:36:10,720
Speaker 9: coming after you. So I just wanted to let you

1912
01:36:10,840 --> 01:36:15,400
Speaker 9: know that I agree with you whole wholeheartedly. I'm just

1913
01:36:15,520 --> 01:36:20,559
Speaker 9: not jumping in to the Twitter Twitter poor necause I'm

1914
01:36:20,560 --> 01:36:21,320
Speaker 9: not about that life.

1915
01:36:21,600 --> 01:36:22,040
Speaker 3: Anyways.

1916
01:36:22,439 --> 01:36:26,280
Speaker 9: Luck you guys, talk to you soon. I hope I'll

1917
01:36:26,320 --> 01:36:29,360
Speaker 9: be back again from all the great content.

1918
01:36:31,160 --> 01:36:35,960
Speaker 3: Thank you. And uh yeah, the Pink the Barbie grade

1919
01:36:36,160 --> 01:36:39,160
Speaker 3: was mad at your boy. I don't know.

1920
01:36:39,520 --> 01:36:45,200
Speaker 2: They was all they was getting personal. They was they

1921
01:36:45,280 --> 01:36:48,160
Speaker 2: were trying to find everything they could talk about. They

1922
01:36:48,240 --> 01:36:51,600
Speaker 2: talked about you talk about the podcast.

1923
01:36:51,920 --> 01:36:56,960
Speaker 3: They called me. Oh they they I mean.

1924
01:36:58,520 --> 01:37:01,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, they was like you mad famous and ship I was.

1925
01:37:02,880 --> 01:37:05,360
Speaker 2: I was like, man, all I did was make a

1926
01:37:05,479 --> 01:37:08,760
Speaker 2: joke that she needs to hold this l It was.

1927
01:37:09,840 --> 01:37:11,840
Speaker 2: I was like, I don't even know what he do.

1928
01:37:12,080 --> 01:37:15,320
Speaker 2: Was like, somebody come get him because I will take

1929
01:37:15,400 --> 01:37:15,920
Speaker 2: him down.

1930
01:37:16,680 --> 01:37:17,559
Speaker 3: He don't know who I am.

1931
01:37:17,600 --> 01:37:19,400
Speaker 2: I was like, I don't even know you're right, I

1932
01:37:19,479 --> 01:37:22,479
Speaker 2: don't know who you are, and you I'm not scared

1933
01:37:22,560 --> 01:37:26,000
Speaker 2: that you'll do anything to me over fucking Nicki Minaj

1934
01:37:26,120 --> 01:37:30,839
Speaker 2: who doesn't know you exist, and all this to avoid

1935
01:37:31,240 --> 01:37:33,360
Speaker 2: the obvious all that she took.

1936
01:37:33,479 --> 01:37:35,720
Speaker 3: Man, I just think she shouldn't have responded.

1937
01:37:37,000 --> 01:37:39,720
Speaker 2: If you was gonna wait two weeks to drop the

1938
01:37:39,800 --> 01:37:42,559
Speaker 2: ship that you did drop, you better off.

1939
01:37:42,560 --> 01:37:43,360
Speaker 3: Just not saying nothing.

1940
01:37:43,360 --> 01:37:46,320
Speaker 2: I think she could have really won the PR battle

1941
01:37:46,320 --> 01:37:52,200
Speaker 2: and everything by just never responding, and people would have one.

1942
01:37:52,479 --> 01:37:54,160
Speaker 2: It would have made Remy look like she was just

1943
01:37:54,320 --> 01:37:57,080
Speaker 2: lashing out for nothing. And this girl ain't even worried

1944
01:37:57,120 --> 01:38:01,200
Speaker 2: about you. You doing free styles, You're don't drop two

1945
01:38:01,320 --> 01:38:05,720
Speaker 2: or three songs like nobody cares, but instead, you know,

1946
01:38:06,280 --> 01:38:10,120
Speaker 2: somebody like people. She said serious fucking things about you,

1947
01:38:10,439 --> 01:38:13,400
Speaker 2: like protecting your pedophile brother type shit.

1948
01:38:13,720 --> 01:38:20,280
Speaker 3: And you came back with you a bum bitch. She's like, uh, okay,

1949
01:38:21,400 --> 01:38:22,160
Speaker 3: you know so.

1950
01:38:22,920 --> 01:38:25,080
Speaker 2: But but you know the other thing too for her

1951
01:38:25,400 --> 01:38:30,400
Speaker 2: is uh, Nigga's just playing a whole different game, like

1952
01:38:30,600 --> 01:38:31,000
Speaker 2: she's not.

1953
01:38:32,040 --> 01:38:35,280
Speaker 3: She's not trying her winning a rap battle or losing

1954
01:38:35,320 --> 01:38:36,200
Speaker 3: a rap battle.

1955
01:38:36,479 --> 01:38:39,640
Speaker 2: Will have pretty much no effect on her career for

1956
01:38:39,760 --> 01:38:43,360
Speaker 2: the aspirations that she has, but doubt to me, the

1957
01:38:43,439 --> 01:38:45,920
Speaker 2: point was, then, well, then don't even fuck with it

1958
01:38:46,000 --> 01:38:49,120
Speaker 2: at all, because you and the whole If your whole

1959
01:38:49,160 --> 01:38:51,600
Speaker 2: thing is I'm in a whole different league, then just

1960
01:38:51,680 --> 01:38:52,719
Speaker 2: being a whole different league.

1961
01:38:53,560 --> 01:38:56,160
Speaker 3: But once you kind of put one foot in, one foot.

1962
01:38:55,960 --> 01:38:58,040
Speaker 2: Out, and it's in the rap, hold on, I think

1963
01:38:58,080 --> 01:38:59,640
Speaker 2: I actually got the song, but in the bar she

1964
01:38:59,680 --> 01:39:03,360
Speaker 2: says something like, you got seventy two hours to respond.

1965
01:39:03,479 --> 01:39:06,640
Speaker 3: I was like, Nigga, it took you two weeks. What

1966
01:39:06,720 --> 01:39:07,679
Speaker 3: are you talking about?

1967
01:39:08,040 --> 01:39:10,720
Speaker 2: Ah? And then it was like, you got seventy two

1968
01:39:10,800 --> 01:39:12,720
Speaker 2: albums to come up with it hit song, seventy two

1969
01:39:12,720 --> 01:39:15,000
Speaker 2: hours to come up with a hit song. It just

1970
01:39:15,040 --> 01:39:18,560
Speaker 2: didn't make no sense, man Like. I'm sorry, Niggi, man like,

1971
01:39:20,600 --> 01:39:23,160
Speaker 2: and I'm not some Nikki hater or whatever. I don't

1972
01:39:23,280 --> 01:39:27,360
Speaker 2: really have a problem with Nicki Minaj and the songs

1973
01:39:27,400 --> 01:39:29,800
Speaker 2: I don't like by her albums and shit, but the

1974
01:39:29,920 --> 01:39:32,800
Speaker 2: songs that I've heard, like the singles and shit, like,

1975
01:39:33,240 --> 01:39:36,040
Speaker 2: there's several of those that I'm like, oh yeah, flawless remix.

1976
01:39:36,160 --> 01:39:39,519
Speaker 2: I fuck with Nigga's verse on this monster. But I'm

1977
01:39:39,600 --> 01:39:41,800
Speaker 2: not a I don't think I was ever in her

1978
01:39:41,840 --> 01:39:45,360
Speaker 2: target demo in the first place. But this response, man,

1979
01:39:45,360 --> 01:39:47,080
Speaker 2: you might as well left it alone. And I don't

1980
01:39:47,120 --> 01:39:49,280
Speaker 2: have any problem with these bars, to be honest, It's

1981
01:39:49,400 --> 01:39:52,800
Speaker 2: just you got seven minutes of she the and then

1982
01:39:52,880 --> 01:39:55,920
Speaker 2: you basically respond by trying to drop a single.

1983
01:39:56,040 --> 01:39:57,840
Speaker 1: You know we used to.

1984
01:39:57,880 --> 01:40:00,679
Speaker 3: I can skip to her part nanks here.

1985
01:40:02,160 --> 01:40:06,200
Speaker 4: That pick a side, Pick a side.

1986
01:40:06,880 --> 01:40:11,360
Speaker 13: I set the price and lit that dicho until the ice.

1987
01:40:12,040 --> 01:40:12,280
Speaker 8: Let me.

1988
01:40:13,960 --> 01:40:18,280
Speaker 13: Set the price and love that until the ice.

1989
01:40:20,680 --> 01:40:22,400
Speaker 4: Hey yo, oh your wrist us up.

1990
01:40:22,600 --> 01:40:23,720
Speaker 3: Oh my bitches up.

1991
01:40:23,920 --> 01:40:26,280
Speaker 4: These niggas just pussy You're then what well?

1992
01:40:26,360 --> 01:40:27,160
Speaker 13: He dix this up?

1993
01:40:27,400 --> 01:40:29,120
Speaker 4: All my real niggas.

1994
01:40:28,720 --> 01:40:31,240
Speaker 13: Down the ride through the chicks this up. I ain't

1995
01:40:31,360 --> 01:40:34,720
Speaker 13: in the project, but poll my bricks is up. You

1996
01:40:35,160 --> 01:40:39,280
Speaker 13: can't be poplow with your work game selling. What the

1997
01:40:39,400 --> 01:40:43,519
Speaker 13: fuck is this pitching? Helen put that helped you about

1998
01:40:43,600 --> 01:40:47,800
Speaker 13: that picture? Felon, I am le genderous thing, asked Miss

1999
01:40:47,920 --> 01:40:50,000
Speaker 13: Ellen cried to drop another one.

2000
01:40:50,240 --> 01:40:53,479
Speaker 4: You the kitchen is crap. You post your ghost white

2001
01:40:53,560 --> 01:40:54,320
Speaker 4: and ample.

2002
01:40:54,080 --> 01:40:56,880
Speaker 13: Bisherr was crapped court you pussy you on jump.

2003
01:40:56,960 --> 01:40:58,479
Speaker 4: I guess you needed the pack?

2004
01:40:58,640 --> 01:41:02,599
Speaker 13: What type of bum bitch the friend over rat type

2005
01:41:02,600 --> 01:41:05,640
Speaker 13: of mother believe her one son over stack and.

2006
01:41:06,120 --> 01:41:08,960
Speaker 2: The part about the path like she made it a

2007
01:41:09,080 --> 01:41:10,880
Speaker 2: basically a joke out of you need a pap smear

2008
01:41:11,320 --> 01:41:14,360
Speaker 2: but her but Remy's husband is named Pat Poo's so

2009
01:41:14,680 --> 01:41:16,559
Speaker 2: she was trying to like get at her that way too.

2010
01:41:19,040 --> 01:41:20,559
Speaker 4: I guess you needed the pack?

2011
01:41:20,720 --> 01:41:23,960
Speaker 13: What type of bum bitch shoe the friend over rat

2012
01:41:24,400 --> 01:41:26,040
Speaker 13: type of mother believe her one.

2013
01:41:26,080 --> 01:41:27,479
Speaker 5: Son over stack.

2014
01:41:28,920 --> 01:41:31,719
Speaker 2: So she basically try to say, because Remy was talking about,

2015
01:41:31,920 --> 01:41:33,880
Speaker 2: you know how they locked me up and I was

2016
01:41:33,880 --> 01:41:35,000
Speaker 2: away from my family and my.

2017
01:41:35,520 --> 01:41:36,599
Speaker 3: Kid, and then.

2018
01:41:38,360 --> 01:41:43,840
Speaker 2: Uh, Nikki, her retort is basically like, what kind of

2019
01:41:43,960 --> 01:41:45,960
Speaker 2: what kind of mother would do something that stupid?

2020
01:41:46,120 --> 01:41:49,519
Speaker 3: Knowing she's gonna go to jail and be away from

2021
01:41:49,560 --> 01:41:52,120
Speaker 3: her kid like that, that's all like that made you dumb?

2022
01:41:55,880 --> 01:41:56,120
Speaker 13: Pack?

2023
01:41:56,680 --> 01:42:00,120
Speaker 3: You need all right? And then so she says, so

2024
01:42:00,320 --> 01:42:03,000
Speaker 3: what kind of got this basic bitch thing? Is she back?

2025
01:42:03,520 --> 01:42:05,880
Speaker 2: And then she's about to basically talk about the fact

2026
01:42:05,920 --> 01:42:08,840
Speaker 2: that that second song really put out was over the

2027
01:42:08,920 --> 01:42:13,280
Speaker 2: beat for back to back and she so she's about

2028
01:42:13,320 --> 01:42:15,120
Speaker 2: to talk about that second disc track.

2029
01:42:15,040 --> 01:42:20,559
Speaker 4: Right now, you mean back whack the back.

2030
01:42:20,960 --> 01:42:22,519
Speaker 5: Me and Christy laughed at that.

2031
01:42:23,000 --> 01:42:25,479
Speaker 2: It's the numbers, So back to Back is Drake's song.

2032
01:42:25,600 --> 01:42:27,439
Speaker 2: So she's like me and Jerzzy listening to a little

2033
01:42:27,479 --> 01:42:29,360
Speaker 2: this song and we laughed at it because it was whack.

2034
01:42:30,960 --> 01:42:35,160
Speaker 13: When they discussing the king, he turned around and got

2035
01:42:35,320 --> 01:42:36,120
Speaker 13: six rings.

2036
01:42:37,439 --> 01:42:41,160
Speaker 3: So that was the thing for her. How everybody's like,

2037
01:42:41,960 --> 01:42:45,000
Speaker 3: sales don't matter. It's a battles it's a battle rap.

2038
01:42:45,040 --> 01:42:47,160
Speaker 2: It doesn't matter if you make more money and you

2039
01:42:47,320 --> 01:42:51,600
Speaker 2: got more She was like, no, uh, people say it

2040
01:42:51,680 --> 01:42:54,519
Speaker 2: don't matter. But when we talk about who the best

2041
01:42:54,520 --> 01:42:57,920
Speaker 2: basketball players, we talk about the fact that Jordan's got

2042
01:42:57,960 --> 01:43:01,320
Speaker 2: six rings and Lebron don't. So she basically like, yeah,

2043
01:43:01,439 --> 01:43:05,599
Speaker 2: people people, which, by the way, good point because people

2044
01:43:05,720 --> 01:43:07,400
Speaker 2: do say the ship like sales.

2045
01:43:07,160 --> 01:43:07,920
Speaker 3: Don't matter and shit.

2046
01:43:08,520 --> 01:43:13,400
Speaker 2: But every single time we talk about people's careers accomplishments,

2047
01:43:13,800 --> 01:43:17,519
Speaker 2: the sales come up like it just like people might

2048
01:43:17,600 --> 01:43:18,439
Speaker 2: disagree and shit.

2049
01:43:18,560 --> 01:43:21,479
Speaker 3: But and maybe in the context of a battle, but

2050
01:43:22,360 --> 01:43:23,720
Speaker 3: you take the amo you have.

2051
01:43:23,960 --> 01:43:26,960
Speaker 2: If you sell more records, you should probably bring that

2052
01:43:27,160 --> 01:43:30,400
Speaker 2: up because what people may or may not respect it,

2053
01:43:30,479 --> 01:43:34,639
Speaker 2: but you need to probably uh, you need to probably

2054
01:43:34,760 --> 01:43:36,880
Speaker 2: use all the ammunition you got, you.

2055
01:43:36,920 --> 01:43:43,560
Speaker 13: Know, that's one sixty bucom that's why Jane klips groups.

2056
01:43:43,439 --> 01:43:44,520
Speaker 4: For your album.

2057
01:43:47,320 --> 01:43:53,599
Speaker 2: So basically, she says, uh, Remy accused her of having

2058
01:43:53,600 --> 01:43:55,320
Speaker 2: a three sixty deal, which is these deals that you

2059
01:43:55,400 --> 01:43:59,400
Speaker 2: sign where your company, everything you do, your company gets money.

2060
01:43:59,600 --> 01:44:02,640
Speaker 2: So whether you're a TV or you do movies or

2061
01:44:02,720 --> 01:44:05,560
Speaker 2: a rap or tour, they always making money off of you.

2062
01:44:05,960 --> 01:44:08,840
Speaker 2: And she's basically like that, like, how I didn't sign

2063
01:44:08,920 --> 01:44:12,000
Speaker 2: three sixty deals? You all dumb, And that's why Jay

2064
01:44:12,040 --> 01:44:15,200
Speaker 2: and clear's verse for your album. So I guess maybe

2065
01:44:15,280 --> 01:44:16,920
Speaker 2: Jay had a verse that was supposed to go on

2066
01:44:17,040 --> 01:44:20,280
Speaker 2: this latest Rebi Ma Fat Joe album or something, or

2067
01:44:20,400 --> 01:44:22,120
Speaker 2: maybe it's some verse from way back in the day.

2068
01:44:22,600 --> 01:44:24,920
Speaker 2: But she said Jay didn't clear his verse, which means

2069
01:44:24,960 --> 01:44:26,960
Speaker 2: you can't put it on your album. So that's why

2070
01:44:27,000 --> 01:44:28,920
Speaker 2: you ain't got no jay Z feature on your album.

2071
01:44:31,840 --> 01:44:35,519
Speaker 13: Maybe you before coming to Pery, he got before and

2072
01:44:35,680 --> 01:44:36,519
Speaker 13: after pictures.

2073
01:44:38,600 --> 01:44:41,760
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, because Remy said, how like, oh, Nikki, you

2074
01:44:41,920 --> 01:44:47,080
Speaker 2: got implants and fake titties and fake ass looking like SpongeBob.

2075
01:44:47,160 --> 01:44:50,240
Speaker 3: Everybody know that you ain't You know that your ass

2076
01:44:50,320 --> 01:44:53,639
Speaker 3: and titties ain't real. You have surgery. And then NIGGI

2077
01:44:53,800 --> 01:44:55,960
Speaker 3: was like, well, you have surgery, and I got there

2078
01:44:56,000 --> 01:44:57,479
Speaker 3: before and after pictures of your ass.

2079
01:45:01,680 --> 01:45:03,599
Speaker 4: I got before and after pictures.

2080
01:45:04,600 --> 01:45:07,599
Speaker 13: Rock don't look like rock.

2081
01:45:08,200 --> 01:45:11,000
Speaker 4: The tables look like nah.

2082
01:45:12,600 --> 01:45:13,920
Speaker 3: And so basically.

2083
01:45:15,080 --> 01:45:17,479
Speaker 2: You went and got all that surgery and you still

2084
01:45:17,560 --> 01:45:21,559
Speaker 2: left the operating title table and you don't look good. Now,

2085
01:45:21,840 --> 01:45:24,479
Speaker 2: anybody that's seen pictures of man, that's a blatant a

2086
01:45:24,600 --> 01:45:24,880
Speaker 2: is lot.

2087
01:45:24,960 --> 01:45:28,840
Speaker 3: But you know it's cool. You gotta this, You got this,

2088
01:45:28,960 --> 01:45:29,320
Speaker 3: what you did this?

2089
01:45:29,560 --> 01:45:29,720
Speaker 7: You know?

2090
01:45:31,720 --> 01:45:35,439
Speaker 3: All right? So back to what was it a voicemail?

2091
01:45:35,520 --> 01:45:35,760
Speaker 5: We were?

2092
01:45:36,240 --> 01:45:40,760
Speaker 3: We got one more voicemail and I've already forgotten what

2093
01:45:40,840 --> 01:45:43,040
Speaker 3: the last voicemail was about. Were they talking about that?

2094
01:45:43,160 --> 01:45:46,200
Speaker 3: How do we get into this? Are you bringing up

2095
01:45:46,240 --> 01:45:46,760
Speaker 3: the disc? Oh?

2096
01:45:46,960 --> 01:45:49,120
Speaker 2: That's because she brought up the fact that the disc

2097
01:45:49,240 --> 01:45:52,560
Speaker 2: was whack. Look, I don't know if the disc was

2098
01:45:52,640 --> 01:45:56,960
Speaker 2: necessarily whack. I thought her bars had some merit to them.

2099
01:45:57,840 --> 01:46:01,320
Speaker 2: But you have to already really get we wait, and

2100
01:46:01,479 --> 01:46:03,640
Speaker 2: you have to already really be a nikky fan to

2101
01:46:03,720 --> 01:46:06,160
Speaker 2: give her a pass for that ship, because I'm not

2102
01:46:06,320 --> 01:46:08,240
Speaker 2: really a fan of her. So I was hoping for

2103
01:46:08,400 --> 01:46:12,080
Speaker 2: a real battle coming back. If you were gonna come back.

2104
01:46:12,240 --> 01:46:15,720
Speaker 2: I thought she shouldn't come back at all. But for that,

2105
01:46:16,720 --> 01:46:19,639
Speaker 2: I mean, I guess you know did she got three

2106
01:46:19,680 --> 01:46:21,680
Speaker 2: more songs coming out. She's gonna have something in all

2107
01:46:21,760 --> 01:46:23,800
Speaker 2: the songs, because if not, it's just like why are

2108
01:46:23,840 --> 01:46:28,040
Speaker 2: you even responding back then? But you know the thing

2109
01:46:28,160 --> 01:46:30,040
Speaker 2: is to the victor goes sports, she'll probably be able

2110
01:46:30,080 --> 01:46:30,720
Speaker 2: to ride this out.

2111
01:46:30,760 --> 01:46:30,880
Speaker 6: Man.

2112
01:46:30,960 --> 01:46:33,479
Speaker 2: She's a fan, she's the more popular person, and she

2113
01:46:33,640 --> 01:46:36,120
Speaker 2: may be able to just have taken this l within

2114
01:46:36,280 --> 01:46:38,840
Speaker 2: black culture. But as far as the rest of the

2115
01:46:38,880 --> 01:46:41,280
Speaker 2: world's concerned, unless people are gonna stop working with her,

2116
01:46:41,320 --> 01:46:41,759
Speaker 2: she's fine.

2117
01:46:41,920 --> 01:46:47,280
Speaker 12: And yeah, hangs out and Karen this to be mon.

2118
01:46:48,760 --> 01:46:53,080
Speaker 12: I just wanted to say I love Siera at Mom's

2119
01:46:53,400 --> 01:46:56,920
Speaker 12: Drag with Flag. I know, like a couple of episodes

2120
01:46:57,000 --> 01:47:00,880
Speaker 12: before you're asking who has all these too much? Have

2121
01:47:00,960 --> 01:47:03,680
Speaker 12: all this to say? And in a split second in

2122
01:47:03,720 --> 01:47:05,120
Speaker 12: my mind, I was like, Oh, it's probably.

2123
01:47:04,880 --> 01:47:07,519
Speaker 10: Sierra, and then you played it and it was I

2124
01:47:07,600 --> 01:47:11,960
Speaker 10: was like, yeah, But she just gives me so much

2125
01:47:12,080 --> 01:47:13,559
Speaker 10: life and her.

2126
01:47:13,600 --> 01:47:16,480
Speaker 12: Voices makes me so happy because she's just so energetic

2127
01:47:16,800 --> 01:47:18,120
Speaker 12: and vivacious and.

2128
01:47:18,320 --> 01:47:18,840
Speaker 11: I just love it.

2129
01:47:19,000 --> 01:47:21,080
Speaker 12: And I know you always usually say it. I guess

2130
01:47:21,120 --> 01:47:23,080
Speaker 12: maybe you mean it as a joke, like if you

2131
01:47:23,120 --> 01:47:25,360
Speaker 12: have all these or maybe you mean it seriously that

2132
01:47:25,640 --> 01:47:27,560
Speaker 12: if you have all this to say, like have a

2133
01:47:27,640 --> 01:47:31,080
Speaker 12: podcast for yourself for yourself, And I'm like, yeah, I

2134
01:47:31,280 --> 01:47:35,960
Speaker 12: listen to her podcast. So Sierra your girl, emon at

2135
01:47:36,040 --> 01:47:40,040
Speaker 12: nerd geek Ninja on Twitter, I just followed you because

2136
01:47:40,120 --> 01:47:42,639
Speaker 12: I love you so much and I think they're great

2137
01:47:42,920 --> 01:47:47,040
Speaker 12: and awesome. But yeah, and of course I love you

2138
01:47:47,160 --> 01:47:50,599
Speaker 12: guys too, Roding Karen and you guys are amazing as always.

2139
01:47:51,120 --> 01:47:54,000
Speaker 12: But I just wanted to tell her that. I guess

2140
01:47:54,040 --> 01:47:56,960
Speaker 12: I could have also told her that on Twitter now too. Okay,

2141
01:47:57,160 --> 01:47:59,639
Speaker 12: I'm gonna go back into Twitter and tell her that again.

2142
01:48:00,400 --> 01:48:03,960
Speaker 12: How awesome she is. All right, love you guys, Bye.

2143
01:48:03,800 --> 01:48:05,240
Speaker 4: Bye bye bye baby.

2144
01:48:06,720 --> 01:48:11,400
Speaker 3: Yeah. First of all, I love CC too. We love her,

2145
01:48:12,680 --> 01:48:14,240
Speaker 3: and uh yeah, I.

2146
01:48:14,439 --> 01:48:18,960
Speaker 2: Wasn't joking when I said she should started on podcasts.

2147
01:48:19,600 --> 01:48:21,400
Speaker 2: I mean, if you had that much to say and

2148
01:48:21,960 --> 01:48:25,400
Speaker 2: you're that entertaining and you can, you know, like it's

2149
01:48:25,439 --> 01:48:28,920
Speaker 2: easier to do it now more than ever, Like, yeah,

2150
01:48:29,040 --> 01:48:30,400
Speaker 2: she should start her on podcasts.

2151
01:48:30,400 --> 01:48:31,000
Speaker 3: It's not a joke.

2152
01:48:32,479 --> 01:48:35,800
Speaker 2: And then also, you know, we do have to have

2153
01:48:35,960 --> 01:48:39,680
Speaker 2: limits to calls and stuff, which is mostly for you know,

2154
01:48:39,800 --> 01:48:41,800
Speaker 2: obviously our time. We would like to be able to

2155
01:48:41,840 --> 01:48:43,960
Speaker 2: get in and out of here and do this feedback showing,

2156
01:48:44,280 --> 01:48:46,240
Speaker 2: but also for the guests. Man, we want to give

2157
01:48:46,520 --> 01:48:49,520
Speaker 2: all of our listeners who write in and leave voicemails.

2158
01:48:49,880 --> 01:48:52,320
Speaker 2: Everybody should get a chance to like be hear and

2159
01:48:52,479 --> 01:48:55,720
Speaker 2: sometimes and I'm not saying Serr did this, but we've

2160
01:48:55,800 --> 01:48:58,000
Speaker 2: had get like people in the past that have really

2161
01:48:58,080 --> 01:49:01,360
Speaker 2: just abused the all in feature to the point where

2162
01:49:02,439 --> 01:49:05,200
Speaker 2: nobody else really got a word in. Edge Wise, it

2163
01:49:05,400 --> 01:49:08,479
Speaker 2: kind of exasperates us. It takes a lot of our time,

2164
01:49:09,320 --> 01:49:14,120
Speaker 2: and it's like the show becomes about them. What I

2165
01:49:14,360 --> 01:49:18,519
Speaker 2: really was impressed by and really loved about Sierra is

2166
01:49:19,360 --> 01:49:22,479
Speaker 2: how you know, she didn't take our playful banter and

2167
01:49:22,960 --> 01:49:25,560
Speaker 2: being like, hey, you know, maybe next week leave some

2168
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Speaker 2: a couple less voicemails or whatever. She didn't take that

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Speaker 2: and get angry or take that and say some sideways

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Speaker 2: shit us on social media or something.

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01:49:33,840 --> 01:49:36,560
Speaker 3: We've had people do that. You know, we try to

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01:49:36,640 --> 01:49:37,360
Speaker 3: make it a joke.

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01:49:37,560 --> 01:49:41,400
Speaker 2: We try to be lighthearted about it, because nobody mean

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Speaker 2: most people don't mean bad when you when they're just excited.

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01:49:45,760 --> 01:49:47,479
Speaker 2: They love to show and they're exciting. They want to

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01:49:47,479 --> 01:49:50,280
Speaker 2: express their love and they want to like show something back.

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Speaker 2: And we provide this entertainment for hours on end throughout

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Speaker 2: the week, and they might like want to say something

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Speaker 2: back and so, which is fine.

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Speaker 3: But you know, I think sometimes in the past.

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Speaker 2: We've been like, hey, you left seventeen voicemails or your

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01:50:08,640 --> 01:50:10,680
Speaker 2: emails are really really long, and we can and we've

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01:50:10,720 --> 01:50:13,560
Speaker 2: had people get mad at us, like how dare we?

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Speaker 2: You know, So that was the thing that was the

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Speaker 2: most impressive about her response was just you know, we

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Speaker 2: was on we were on Twitter just joking around the

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Speaker 2: other day.

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Speaker 4: Man.

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Speaker 3: I appreciate her people. Yeah, I appreciate her for being cool.

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Speaker 11: You know.

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Speaker 2: It's sad that we have to like really give people

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Speaker 2: credit for shit like that these days. But that's the

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Speaker 2: truth out.

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Speaker 5: You know.

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Speaker 2: It makes us nervous sometimes that fans are gonna take

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01:50:40,200 --> 01:50:43,960
Speaker 2: things personal or or get offended by something when we

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Speaker 2: really mean no offense. Right, We got emails episode thirteen

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Speaker 2: ninety from a who writes Hi roder Carre. Okay, first off,

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Speaker 2: I'm behind on the episode, so I'm working hard to

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01:50:53,960 --> 01:50:56,479
Speaker 2: catch up. My favorite part of your show, besides fucker

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Speaker 2: with Black people gets to race and white people news,

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01:50:58,240 --> 01:51:01,000
Speaker 2: is the feedback Shows. Episode thirteen ninety, you had a

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01:51:01,080 --> 01:51:03,240
Speaker 2: listener who said they put syrup in their grits.

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01:51:03,560 --> 01:51:05,000
Speaker 3: What the fuck are you kidding me?

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Speaker 4: Right now?

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01:51:05,880 --> 01:51:08,920
Speaker 3: Really? I am a grit I am a grit girl

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01:51:09,000 --> 01:51:11,559
Speaker 3: raised in the South, and ain't no way somebody gonna

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Speaker 3: get away.

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Speaker 2: With syrup in their grits. Why doesn't the listener just

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01:51:15,160 --> 01:51:17,600
Speaker 2: buy a boxer forarena and get it over with. This

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01:51:17,800 --> 01:51:21,360
Speaker 2: is a sad day in Trump's America? Is Well, you

2212
01:51:21,479 --> 01:51:24,880
Speaker 2: can google it, I mean, I mean, or you can

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01:51:24,960 --> 01:51:27,000
Speaker 2: just derail the beautiful.

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Speaker 3: Rant that was in this email. Go ahead, I'm sorry,

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01:51:28,960 --> 01:51:31,680
Speaker 3: no fuck it now, I mean it's time to google it.

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01:51:31,720 --> 01:51:32,800
Speaker 3: Go ahead and take your time.

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Speaker 2: I will MS screaming week can okay, I'll just googled

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01:51:38,760 --> 01:51:41,680
Speaker 2: it for you. And this is a sad day in

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01:51:41,760 --> 01:51:44,080
Speaker 2: Trump's America when someone can get away with this type

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Speaker 2: of assault.

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Speaker 3: I'm appalled.

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Speaker 2: People of the North, get your grits revolution and keep

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Speaker 2: syrup sugar out of your grits. On the kitcat front,

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01:51:52,200 --> 01:51:53,920
Speaker 2: I don't eat kit casts often, but when I do,

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01:51:54,040 --> 01:51:56,000
Speaker 2: I break the sticks in half like the ass in half,

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01:51:56,280 --> 01:51:58,560
Speaker 2: and poof, my aggression is gone and I'm ready for

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Speaker 2: some white people news.

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Speaker 3: I love you guys.

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01:52:02,400 --> 01:52:04,840
Speaker 2: Please keep it coming because nothing's wrong. It's funny and

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01:52:05,280 --> 01:52:08,360
Speaker 2: thank you. Yeah, syrup and the gris is new for me.

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01:52:08,479 --> 01:52:11,400
Speaker 2: But you know what, if it works for you, it

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01:52:11,520 --> 01:52:11,960
Speaker 2: works for you.

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Speaker 3: What am I gonna say? Karen eats cereal milk? First,

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01:52:14,760 --> 01:52:16,920
Speaker 3: I don't know who is me the judge.

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Speaker 5: You will not keep me in the cereal bowl. I

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01:52:20,720 --> 01:52:21,840
Speaker 5: think outside the bowl.

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Speaker 3: Oh so now you are outside the bowl. Okay.

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01:52:25,280 --> 01:52:26,840
Speaker 2: Earlier you was trying to say, I can't kick you

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Speaker 2: out the bowl. You are outside the bowl. Live life

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Speaker 2: outside the bowl.

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Speaker 3: People.

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Speaker 5: You will not put me back in the bowl.

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01:52:34,920 --> 01:52:36,120
Speaker 4: I am outside the bowl.

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01:52:36,200 --> 01:52:38,800
Speaker 2: You know how I eat my cereal? I opened up

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Speaker 2: the box and I just pour the milk right into

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01:52:40,640 --> 01:52:41,960
Speaker 2: that bag inside the box.

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01:52:42,880 --> 01:52:43,639
Speaker 3: Just eat it that way.

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01:52:44,760 --> 01:52:48,000
Speaker 2: Ah, outside of the bowl and inside the box, but

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Speaker 2: on inside the bag. Unless I take the bag outside

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Speaker 2: of the box, then I'm outside the box with the bag.

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Speaker 2: John Wright saying, m O, please, dear riding Karen. First off,

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01:53:00,320 --> 01:53:01,960
Speaker 2: just want to echo all the praise you got. One

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01:53:01,960 --> 01:53:04,880
Speaker 2: of your discussion about the HBCU picture. It was incredibly

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01:53:05,200 --> 01:53:07,559
Speaker 2: educated for me to hear your perspective on the topic

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Speaker 2: of Emma Watson and Beyonce. The thing that really gets

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Speaker 2: me is not only would it be pretty easy and

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01:53:13,200 --> 01:53:16,040
Speaker 2: painless for Watson to apologize and admit she was wrong,

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01:53:16,160 --> 01:53:19,040
Speaker 2: but she could even use it as a teachable moment

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01:53:19,080 --> 01:53:22,360
Speaker 2: for other feminists like from her perspective. See, even women

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01:53:22,520 --> 01:53:25,960
Speaker 2: like me can internalize sexism like body policing because we

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01:53:26,080 --> 01:53:29,759
Speaker 2: have been so thoroughly marinated in it from our patriarchal society.

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01:53:30,439 --> 01:53:33,080
Speaker 2: She would get so much applause, probably more than she

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01:53:33,120 --> 01:53:35,600
Speaker 2: would deserve, and would be elevated even more as a

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01:53:35,680 --> 01:53:38,240
Speaker 2: voice of feminism. Of course, it would be even better

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01:53:38,280 --> 01:53:40,360
Speaker 2: if she admitted the way racism does the same things,

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01:53:40,400 --> 01:53:42,960
Speaker 2: it leads us white people to make these kinds of

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01:53:43,080 --> 01:53:46,320
Speaker 2: oversights like she did with Beyonce's with her Beyonce bs.

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Speaker 3: But I'm not gonna hold my breath for that.

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01:53:48,840 --> 01:53:52,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, she already released like her quote unquote statement, and

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Speaker 2: it was just the context of the interview where she

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01:53:55,880 --> 01:53:59,000
Speaker 2: went on to praise Beyonce in some areas, but it

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01:53:59,160 --> 01:54:03,040
Speaker 2: was like a sin atally, you still had the same point,

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01:54:04,120 --> 01:54:08,920
Speaker 2: which is that the reason she excused it is because

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01:54:10,040 --> 01:54:13,439
Speaker 2: she was doing it for her husband, and that that

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01:54:14,200 --> 01:54:16,599
Speaker 2: is different than just doing it for the male gaze

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01:54:16,840 --> 01:54:19,519
Speaker 2: or for just people in general to think about her

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01:54:19,600 --> 01:54:23,000
Speaker 2: being sexy or whatever. But it's like the picture you

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01:54:23,240 --> 01:54:27,920
Speaker 2: took in this magazine was not for your husband. So

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01:54:28,160 --> 01:54:31,120
Speaker 2: either way you got a double standard. Either way you

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01:54:31,200 --> 01:54:34,480
Speaker 2: got a double standard. You had a bunch of qualifications

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01:54:35,080 --> 01:54:36,920
Speaker 2: for beyond that you don't have for yourself.

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01:54:37,040 --> 01:54:37,680
Speaker 3: And that's cool.

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01:54:38,320 --> 01:54:40,480
Speaker 2: You just got double standards. And all you gotta say

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01:54:40,680 --> 01:54:44,800
Speaker 2: is my bad, I didn't you know. It's been a

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01:54:44,880 --> 01:54:47,400
Speaker 2: few years and I just I was still working through

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Speaker 2: it at the time.

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Speaker 3: Blah blah blah.

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Speaker 2: But instead you're just gonna get her tweeting out the

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Speaker 2: pictures of the interview, and then a lot of people

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01:54:55,040 --> 01:54:58,080
Speaker 2: are gonna defend the no matter what. I can't wait

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01:54:58,080 --> 01:54:59,960
Speaker 2: to see the Harriet Tubman and till the Snake's double feed.

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Speaker 3: Just sign me up.

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01:55:01,320 --> 01:55:04,120
Speaker 2: Ah ps. I loved your review of Moonlight with BOSSI.

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01:55:04,280 --> 01:55:05,840
Speaker 2: I have not been so moved by film in a

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01:55:05,920 --> 01:55:08,960
Speaker 2: long time. It was really a damn near perfect film,

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01:55:09,080 --> 01:55:10,280
Speaker 2: and I think everyone.

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01:55:10,040 --> 01:55:12,240
Speaker 3: Should see this movie. And they got a teacher in

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01:55:12,360 --> 01:55:12,920
Speaker 3: film school.

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Speaker 2: On a related note, fuck l L Love John Ha

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Speaker 2: Ha Man La La lanc all the shade this year.

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Speaker 3: Man, I almost feel bad for them, but you know, yeah,

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Speaker 3: they're white.

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, folks just come in and acting like with

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01:55:27,520 --> 01:55:28,280
Speaker 5: the greatest shit ever.

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01:55:28,760 --> 01:55:29,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know.

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Speaker 4: I hadn't seen it, but me, as the movie critic

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01:55:32,240 --> 01:55:35,480
Speaker 4: for my unaged caddas answer, like all these other white folks,

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01:55:35,520 --> 01:55:36,560
Speaker 4: I got the right to do it too.

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01:55:36,640 --> 01:55:39,400
Speaker 5: No, I didn't watch everything, and my opinion.

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Speaker 8: Is no, mm hmm, that's true equality, Trump's passion, your patients,

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01:55:47,160 --> 01:55:49,320
Speaker 8: and the beehive Trump's passion.

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01:55:49,560 --> 01:55:54,200
Speaker 2: This is from Komi, who writes saying, uh, Trump's passion.

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01:55:54,320 --> 01:55:57,320
Speaker 2: Everything episode thirteen ninety six was chilled until Trump's passion

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01:55:57,360 --> 01:56:00,640
Speaker 2: got a bump out out there. The whole old time

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01:56:01,720 --> 01:56:04,280
Speaker 2: that awkward conversation was happening, I kept telling my android

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01:56:04,320 --> 01:56:07,160
Speaker 2: device girl, ain't nobody got going to buy this lemon

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01:56:07,560 --> 01:56:12,920
Speaker 2: sending it back to the country dealership. Your patience, Roder Carr,

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01:56:12,920 --> 01:56:14,760
Speaker 2: and I enviy your ability to let people finish their

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01:56:14,800 --> 01:56:18,160
Speaker 2: dangerous opinions without people dying in the streets.

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01:56:18,240 --> 01:56:19,760
Speaker 3: Oh, without people dying in the streets.

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01:56:20,000 --> 01:56:22,480
Speaker 2: I feel my more obligations to stand by my fellow

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01:56:22,520 --> 01:56:25,760
Speaker 2: minorities and eyes with my civility for fair debate and decorum.

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01:56:26,160 --> 01:56:28,880
Speaker 2: But I would rather eat the mystery meat at the

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01:56:28,960 --> 01:56:31,840
Speaker 2: office pot look to entertain Trump's passion as a good thing.

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Speaker 3: Danny was tripping over the TVGWT high ps.

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Speaker 2: In my mind, I can hear the comments being tight

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01:56:41,200 --> 01:56:44,720
Speaker 2: as you shouted, no, don't comment, don't come in, guys.

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01:56:45,200 --> 01:56:49,600
Speaker 3: I'm good. Oh man, my eyes were crying from laughter

2329
01:56:49,760 --> 01:56:51,960
Speaker 3: when you said, well, you had that initial reaction.

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01:56:52,400 --> 01:56:54,960
Speaker 2: It's like the Blackout Tests community or their own beehive

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01:56:55,000 --> 01:56:58,040
Speaker 2: and Danny accidentally tripped over the nest could be its

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01:56:58,120 --> 01:56:58,960
Speaker 2: own horror movie.

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01:56:59,160 --> 01:57:02,720
Speaker 3: The comments and the tagline could go they going in

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01:57:03,160 --> 01:57:03,520
Speaker 3: on you.

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01:57:04,160 --> 01:57:08,080
Speaker 2: Anyways, you guys killed it yet again this episode. Thanks Coomy,

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01:57:08,240 --> 01:57:09,240
Speaker 2: Thanks and thank you.

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01:57:11,240 --> 01:57:14,480
Speaker 3: Yeah. I don't know, man, I'm glad y'all didn't really

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01:57:14,560 --> 01:57:17,480
Speaker 3: go in on Danny. I actually appreciate.

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01:57:17,520 --> 01:57:19,160
Speaker 2: I saw a couple of people say things to her

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01:57:19,800 --> 01:57:22,800
Speaker 2: and I tried to, you know, be like and some

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01:57:22,880 --> 01:57:25,840
Speaker 2: people attributed other shit to her like that just says

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01:57:25,880 --> 01:57:29,120
Speaker 2: something about Hitler being okay for ten years or something,

2343
01:57:29,200 --> 01:57:32,920
Speaker 2: which I don't know that to be honest, I don't

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01:57:32,920 --> 01:57:37,000
Speaker 2: know enough about Germany and their history.

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01:57:36,880 --> 01:57:38,280
Speaker 3: To know if he was cool.

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01:57:38,440 --> 01:57:42,160
Speaker 2: Ever, I just know it's hard to give anybody crops that, like,

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01:57:42,360 --> 01:57:46,400
Speaker 2: you know, exterminated Jewish people, So it really don't matter.

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01:57:46,400 --> 01:57:48,520
Speaker 2: I'm not looking for the good ten years to be

2349
01:57:48,680 --> 01:57:50,720
Speaker 2: like if you would have just stopped there, you know,

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01:57:50,800 --> 01:57:51,040
Speaker 2: I'm not.

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01:57:51,680 --> 01:57:53,040
Speaker 3: I'm just not that kind of person.

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01:57:54,240 --> 01:57:56,800
Speaker 2: And I think it does say something that the youngest

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01:57:56,840 --> 01:57:59,280
Speaker 2: people in the room had those thoughts, because I think

2354
01:57:59,360 --> 01:58:02,920
Speaker 2: also for a lot of people when you're young, a

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01:58:03,000 --> 01:58:05,800
Speaker 2: lot of shit is academic. So it takes a while

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01:58:06,120 --> 01:58:08,960
Speaker 2: living in the world before you see how real the

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01:58:09,080 --> 01:58:12,800
Speaker 2: things that you just learned about, how real they really are,

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01:58:13,480 --> 01:58:16,240
Speaker 2: and how they are shaped and affected people. And then

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01:58:16,240 --> 01:58:23,200
Speaker 2: it's a little less of just a thought exercise for you. Oh,

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01:58:23,320 --> 01:58:25,840
Speaker 2: this is an email for sport review for get Out. Well,

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01:58:25,920 --> 01:58:28,560
Speaker 2: I'll put that in the comments to get out Malcolm

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01:58:28,640 --> 01:58:31,320
Speaker 2: Right saying, what up, fam, I have a question my

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01:58:31,440 --> 01:58:34,320
Speaker 2: eighth grade daughter. Oh, and it's called non homophobic solution.

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01:58:35,720 --> 01:58:37,880
Speaker 2: My eighth grade daughter recently got a new student in

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01:58:37,920 --> 01:58:40,360
Speaker 2: her class. On two occasions, she told my daughter she

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01:58:40,480 --> 01:58:43,120
Speaker 2: has a fat ass and she can turn her gay

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01:58:44,360 --> 01:58:46,200
Speaker 2: I put my foot in my mouth in the past

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01:58:46,320 --> 01:58:49,840
Speaker 2: on this show concerned and homosexuality. So I'm asking you too,

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01:58:50,080 --> 01:58:54,400
Speaker 2: how do you handle this non homophobically? How do you

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01:58:54,520 --> 01:58:57,760
Speaker 2: handle it non homophobically? What is first of all, how

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01:58:57,840 --> 01:58:59,440
Speaker 2: do you handle this homophobically?

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Speaker 4: Like?

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01:59:01,400 --> 01:59:04,320
Speaker 5: Is there I mean, I mean there.

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01:59:04,200 --> 01:59:08,400
Speaker 4: Are rules for this, because basically your child is getting harassed,

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01:59:08,640 --> 01:59:14,320
Speaker 4: and their you know, protocols to a child being harassed regardless,

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01:59:14,600 --> 01:59:19,960
Speaker 4: I'm very confused. So we handle things homophobicly and non

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01:59:20,000 --> 01:59:22,960
Speaker 4: homophobically down we separate, but equally a fan.

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Speaker 6: I.

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Speaker 3: What how do you handle this? I just want to

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01:59:30,320 --> 01:59:32,600
Speaker 3: know what you are y'all gonna like commit a hate crime?

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01:59:33,000 --> 01:59:33,920
Speaker 3: Like I think?

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01:59:35,720 --> 01:59:38,520
Speaker 2: Okay, So how do you handle now homophobily? You don't

2383
01:59:38,520 --> 01:59:39,440
Speaker 2: commit a hate crime?

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01:59:40,320 --> 01:59:41,440
Speaker 5: That you definitely don't do.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that would be that would be a pretty big number.

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01:59:45,680 --> 01:59:45,800
Speaker 4: One.

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01:59:45,840 --> 01:59:47,200
Speaker 5: Don't commit any hate crhymes.

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01:59:47,440 --> 01:59:47,840
Speaker 4: Mm hmm.

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01:59:47,920 --> 01:59:51,120
Speaker 2: That would be a pretty big for me in my opinion.

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01:59:53,240 --> 01:59:55,400
Speaker 2: That would be a pretty big thing. Is you don't

2391
01:59:56,240 --> 01:59:58,040
Speaker 2: commit or encourage any hate crimes?

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Speaker 3: All right? If she all right?

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02:00:00,880 --> 02:00:04,400
Speaker 2: So to be serious though, if she's not putting her

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02:00:04,440 --> 02:00:07,120
Speaker 2: hands on her or anything like that, so it's not

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02:00:07,280 --> 02:00:10,120
Speaker 2: I don't think it sounds like a matter of self

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02:00:10,160 --> 02:00:12,280
Speaker 2: defense or something like you need to hit somebody or

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02:00:12,320 --> 02:00:16,480
Speaker 2: get physical. I think she would need to report that

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02:00:16,560 --> 02:00:19,440
Speaker 2: to like a teacher, you know, you as a parent,

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02:00:19,600 --> 02:00:19,800
Speaker 2: you know.

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Speaker 3: Maybe.

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Speaker 2: Try to I mean, is this possible to contact the

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02:00:24,800 --> 02:00:28,720
Speaker 2: other girls parents or something like that, because because it

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02:00:28,880 --> 02:00:33,280
Speaker 2: is pretty you know, speaking for your daughter on your

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02:00:33,360 --> 02:00:35,960
Speaker 2: daughter's behalf. Yeah, that's pretty fucked up to get you're

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02:00:36,000 --> 02:00:41,080
Speaker 2: getting harrassed at school. Essentially, if you're not returning or

2406
02:00:41,240 --> 02:00:43,640
Speaker 2: courting or even worried about.

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02:00:43,440 --> 02:00:46,080
Speaker 3: This sort of attention, it can be very distracting to.

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02:00:46,080 --> 02:00:48,000
Speaker 2: Your job, to your to what your job is as

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02:00:48,000 --> 02:00:52,960
Speaker 2: a student. It can be very timidating, you know, just

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02:00:53,320 --> 02:00:57,040
Speaker 2: the same way that I would say, handle it the

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02:00:57,080 --> 02:00:58,720
Speaker 2: same way you would if there was some boy that

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02:00:58,880 --> 02:00:59,920
Speaker 2: was like, you got a fat ass.

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Speaker 3: I don't know why. Yeah, I don't know why it

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02:01:02,760 --> 02:01:05,280
Speaker 3: would be any different unless you were gonna do something

2415
02:01:05,360 --> 02:01:07,680
Speaker 3: harmful to the to some kid for telling your daughter

2416
02:01:07,760 --> 02:01:09,240
Speaker 3: she got a fat ass, which.

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02:01:10,640 --> 02:01:12,320
Speaker 2: You know, you might be doing that shit for your

2418
02:01:12,360 --> 02:01:13,840
Speaker 2: whole life. If you're gonna be doing something like that,

2419
02:01:13,920 --> 02:01:14,760
Speaker 2: you're gonna go to jail.

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02:01:16,000 --> 02:01:18,320
Speaker 3: So yeah, use the tools that they have at the school.

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02:01:18,440 --> 02:01:21,960
Speaker 3: Man to try to mitigate it. Man, harassment, Yeah, you know.

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02:01:23,520 --> 02:01:25,760
Speaker 2: So yeah, especially if you know, if your daughter feels

2423
02:01:25,760 --> 02:01:29,320
Speaker 2: intimidated and doesn't want the same thing to her or something,

2424
02:01:29,360 --> 02:01:32,120
Speaker 2: that could be another whole deal. I don't know your daughter,

2425
02:01:33,040 --> 02:01:34,800
Speaker 2: so I don't know if that's something what she would

2426
02:01:35,280 --> 02:01:38,040
Speaker 2: be like, like, hey, leave me the fuck alone.

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02:01:38,640 --> 02:01:43,320
Speaker 3: And be okay. So I don't know, but I would

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02:01:43,360 --> 02:01:45,920
Speaker 3: just encourage somebody to get some teachers involved, you know.

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02:01:46,680 --> 02:01:49,080
Speaker 4: Yeah. And Ms Smart brought up something and demanded they

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02:01:49,120 --> 02:01:51,080
Speaker 4: take it seriously, as if it was a boy, Like

2431
02:01:51,560 --> 02:01:53,400
Speaker 4: I do not matter what the sex of the of

2432
02:01:53,520 --> 02:01:57,000
Speaker 4: the person that has committed the crime, take this shiit seriously.

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02:01:57,200 --> 02:02:00,560
Speaker 4: My child should feel comfortable and their child be gay

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02:02:00,680 --> 02:02:03,640
Speaker 4: TRANSI that's irrelevant. You're harassing my child.

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02:02:04,160 --> 02:02:05,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, man, see if you can get in and write in,

2436
02:02:05,920 --> 02:02:08,520
Speaker 2: see if you can maybe have the school facilitate a

2437
02:02:08,600 --> 02:02:13,920
Speaker 2: meeting with the parents of the child or something, because

2438
02:02:13,960 --> 02:02:15,400
Speaker 2: because I just I.

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02:02:15,440 --> 02:02:18,000
Speaker 3: Mean, while I do worry about.

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02:02:19,560 --> 02:02:25,000
Speaker 2: How the school would handle it if towards the other child,

2441
02:02:25,120 --> 02:02:28,040
Speaker 2: like if it if it really is just like uh,

2442
02:02:30,440 --> 02:02:33,280
Speaker 2: a kid that that just needs to learn to leave

2443
02:02:33,320 --> 02:02:33,960
Speaker 2: people along.

2444
02:02:33,840 --> 02:02:36,560
Speaker 3: Shut the fuck up and then they take it overboard.

2445
02:02:36,600 --> 02:02:39,960
Speaker 2: But honestly, that ain't your problem. You're only concerned is

2446
02:02:39,960 --> 02:02:43,600
Speaker 2: getting your kid through school. So and if the school

2447
02:02:43,680 --> 02:02:46,240
Speaker 2: somehow fucks up that other kids like, that's really on

2448
02:02:46,360 --> 02:02:50,360
Speaker 2: that school. So, like I said, I would probably bring

2449
02:02:50,400 --> 02:02:52,560
Speaker 2: it up to the school to see if you can

2450
02:02:52,600 --> 02:02:55,000
Speaker 2: get the harassment to stop, man and take it serious,

2451
02:02:55,080 --> 02:02:57,040
Speaker 2: like if you got to go down there, if you

2452
02:02:57,120 --> 02:02:59,400
Speaker 2: got to write them, get it in writing, if you

2453
02:02:59,520 --> 02:03:02,600
Speaker 2: have to have a official meeting. But uh, that kind

2454
02:03:02,600 --> 02:03:04,480
Speaker 2: of shit is something you definitely want to nip in

2455
02:03:04,520 --> 02:03:08,280
Speaker 2: the bud, you know, because that's very you know, I

2456
02:03:08,400 --> 02:03:11,040
Speaker 2: just don't think. I just think in my mind, her

2457
02:03:11,360 --> 02:03:14,200
Speaker 2: being it being a gay child that is trying to

2458
02:03:15,240 --> 02:03:17,560
Speaker 2: her being a gay child, that is the one who

2459
02:03:17,640 --> 02:03:20,920
Speaker 2: is trying to high let your daughter doesn't seem to

2460
02:03:21,000 --> 02:03:22,680
Speaker 2: have any bearing or anything. And I don't know why

2461
02:03:22,720 --> 02:03:26,440
Speaker 2: it would be homophobic to then say you can't hit

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02:03:26,480 --> 02:03:27,760
Speaker 2: on my daughter she's in school.

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02:03:28,160 --> 02:03:31,920
Speaker 4: Is irrelevant to this ras and harass men. And also

2464
02:03:32,520 --> 02:03:36,520
Speaker 4: because you're dealing with school, the system, who a lot

2465
02:03:36,560 --> 02:03:38,600
Speaker 4: of times does a lot of checks and balances, keep

2466
02:03:38,720 --> 02:03:42,440
Speaker 4: notations whenever your child come like keep good notation and

2467
02:03:42,560 --> 02:03:45,280
Speaker 4: keep good notes from your child so that when you.

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02:03:45,360 --> 02:03:47,280
Speaker 5: Go forth on your child behalf.

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02:03:47,000 --> 02:03:48,640
Speaker 4: You'll have all the information that you need.

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02:03:49,480 --> 02:03:51,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just weird to me that you would need

2471
02:03:51,560 --> 02:03:55,040
Speaker 2: advice on this, But I guess I'm glad you came

2472
02:03:55,120 --> 02:03:57,560
Speaker 2: to us, because who knows what the fuck other people

2473
02:03:57,560 --> 02:03:58,200
Speaker 2: would have told you.

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02:03:58,440 --> 02:04:01,040
Speaker 3: I don't know what YO friends in life is like,

2475
02:04:01,120 --> 02:04:04,000
Speaker 3: because like, I think this is very basic advice. I

2476
02:04:06,000 --> 02:04:09,280
Speaker 3: don't I don't know what like beat up or something.

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02:04:09,280 --> 02:04:13,040
Speaker 3: I don't know what kind of advice you was thinking

2478
02:04:13,480 --> 02:04:17,160
Speaker 3: would be reasonable. But yeah, just go to go to

2479
02:04:17,520 --> 02:04:19,160
Speaker 3: go to to the school man.

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02:04:19,240 --> 02:04:22,280
Speaker 2: That's my you know, because even it doesn't matter that

2481
02:04:22,440 --> 02:04:26,200
Speaker 2: the girl is gay, it matters that they're harassing your daughter.

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02:04:27,280 --> 02:04:29,440
Speaker 2: It's the only thing that would matter. I don't know,

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02:04:29,760 --> 02:04:32,840
Speaker 2: I don't I don't know what. Yeah, I don't know

2484
02:04:33,000 --> 02:04:35,200
Speaker 2: what being gay would have to do with this, So

2485
02:04:35,480 --> 02:04:38,240
Speaker 2: I mean, maybe I'm missing something, but I just don't know.

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02:04:39,800 --> 02:04:41,120
Speaker 2: The point is my daughter should be able to go

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02:04:41,160 --> 02:04:43,800
Speaker 2: to school without being harassed, you know. To me, it's

2488
02:04:44,200 --> 02:04:46,360
Speaker 2: to me, it's just no different than some boy.

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02:04:46,280 --> 02:04:48,080
Speaker 3: Being like a girl.

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02:04:48,720 --> 02:04:50,920
Speaker 2: I know, I'll turn your ass out. Don't make you

2491
02:04:51,000 --> 02:04:53,920
Speaker 2: a freak of something. It's like, motherfucker, we in math.

2492
02:04:54,360 --> 02:04:55,440
Speaker 2: You know that's the point.

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02:04:56,000 --> 02:04:57,800
Speaker 3: So anyway, we'll be back tomorrow.

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02:04:57,960 --> 02:05:00,880
Speaker 2: I hope that advice helps, and I hope you haven't

2495
02:05:00,920 --> 02:05:02,560
Speaker 2: done anything no hate crime.

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02:05:02,480 --> 02:05:03,600
Speaker 3: Since you wrote this end.

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Speaker 5: We'll be coming the news.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and we will have a very special nerd off

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Speaker 2: Man. So we'll see all the premium folks at four tomorrow,

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Speaker 2: and we'll also of course be doing our regular podcast

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Speaker 2: at ten in the morning.

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Speaker 3: Ye all right, we'll talk to y'all then. Until then,

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