Speaker 1: We realized that in relationships it's all kinds of crazy
Speaker 1: and a lot of times you're fighting about nonsense. Okay,
Speaker 1: And you know, I've been in several relationships. I remember
Speaker 1: one in particular, this guy Okay fine, he was a preacher.
Speaker 1: Okay fine, it was Jamal, and he, you know, with
Speaker 1: him preaching, he his clothes with sweat, and so he
Speaker 1: would just like take his clothes off and just like
Speaker 1: throw it in the corner here, like this bag of
Speaker 1: like stinky clothes. And then like after some time it
Speaker 1: would get like festering, hating through the home of like stinkiness.
Speaker 1: And he what he would want to do is he
Speaker 1: would want to control, making sure that he didn't wear
Speaker 1: clothes over and over again, because he was like trying
Speaker 1: to control his wardrobe. But I didn't want to clean him.
Speaker 1: So he was waiting to take them to the cleaners
Speaker 1: until for like three weeks. So I'm like, Negro, can
Speaker 1: I say, Negro, sure, okay, you have a stack of
Speaker 1: stinky ass clothes in this corner right here, and look,
Speaker 1: I know, because he felt like if the clothes were
Speaker 1: cleaned and back into the house, he might repeat. He
Speaker 1: didn't want to repeat too quickly. So this was his
Speaker 1: way of not repeating I don't give a ship. It
Speaker 1: stinks it. It was bad because it was just like
Speaker 1: sweaty Okay, okay, I mean I can I can picture
Speaker 1: that because remember talked about one bringing home his player's clothes. Yes, yes,
Speaker 1: it was horrible. So I would like sneak and take
Speaker 1: the clothes to the cleaners, and he would get so
Speaker 1: mad as an argument everything it was really bad. It
Speaker 1: was really bad. Okay. That and he hates Mexican food. Okay,
Speaker 1: we've talked about that before, yes, and and okay, and
Speaker 1: then one more? What was one more that we would oh? Okay,
Speaker 1: So we would have several cars, okay. So he had
Speaker 1: an aversion to like going to the gas station car,
Speaker 1: so he would like drive one car until there was
Speaker 1: like no gas. Instead of going to the gas station,
Speaker 1: he would just getting too the other car. So I
Speaker 1: would be laughing with some non gas car. Gas do eat?
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Negro can say, Negro, all the cars
Speaker 1: have no gas in it. We don't eat because you
Speaker 1: refused to go to the gas stage. Oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. This is why we're divorced. Yes, this
Speaker 1: is why that was dropping me crazy. That would drive
Speaker 1: me crazy. That would drive me crazy. So you have
Speaker 1: to go pump the gas all the time. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: so that that was an issue. Okay. And and by
Speaker 1: the way, this uh, this episode is called stop Fighting,
Speaker 1: Stop Fighting because we put it out there for you
Speaker 1: guys to let us know, like with the silly nonsense
Speaker 1: that y'all fight over, and y'all came back with it.
Speaker 1: But do you have any you want to you wanna talk,
Speaker 1: you want to tell the world. So I I feel
Speaker 1: like we should have named this episode pick your Battles. Okay, yes,
Speaker 1: we're changing the name right now. It's now called pick
Speaker 1: your goddamn Battles. Pick your battles people, because I feel
Speaker 1: like when you're in relationships and you're with someone for
Speaker 1: a long time, you have to choose to pick your battles.
Speaker 1: You know, like certain things it's like, okay, this is
Speaker 1: not going to change, let me just do it. So
Speaker 1: it's like, um, well, okay, a few things. One likes
Speaker 1: to take cash out of my wallet because he doesn't
Speaker 1: want to go to the A T. M. And I'm like, okay,
Speaker 1: I didn't think you're gonna say that that it's funny
Speaker 1: to me. So he's like a little kid stealing your money. Okay,
Speaker 1: he's literally taking cash for my wile. And then when
Speaker 1: I go to my wallet and I'm like, I'm missing cash,
Speaker 1: and he's like, you're blaming me, es, I'm blaming you.
Speaker 1: You took the cash out of my wallet. Because he
Speaker 1: plays the video game. He goes and plays video games
Speaker 1: with his buddy and they bet and they have to
Speaker 1: and so he doesn't want to stop and go to
Speaker 1: the A t M. I'm like, well, I choose to
Speaker 1: go to the A t M so that I can
Speaker 1: have cash in my wallet. No, go, go, you stop
Speaker 1: at the A t M and get cash. It's like,
Speaker 1: it's late. I don't want to be robbed. I'm like,
Speaker 1: I don't. You're a man. I don't care. It's your fault.
Speaker 1: I mean, so, yes, we have that. Yes, that's that's huge.
Speaker 1: It's annoying as hell. I mean I could I could
Speaker 1: go on and on and on um, but I just
Speaker 1: choose to pick my battles like that. Your battles, all right?
Speaker 1: How about this one having sex? He's eight years older
Speaker 1: than me, and he's always tired. It's so annoying. He's
Speaker 1: eight years older he's always tired, so they gotta do
Speaker 1: it like in the morning when he wakes up. Or
Speaker 1: do you mean like sleepy tired or you mean like
Speaker 1: out of breath tired. He's probably both. He's probably both
Speaker 1: just eight years older. I mean, I think sleepy tired.
Speaker 1: But then okay, so but this is the this is
Speaker 1: in the reverse. So I was dating this guy who
Speaker 1: was like ten years younger than me. Oh my gosh, listen,
Speaker 1: I don't have enough stand about I didn't I didn't
Speaker 1: take my wheaties. I was like, dude, like, okay, first
Speaker 1: of all, a good twenty eight minutes is good for me, okay.
Speaker 1: But he be like it would be like, I'm like,
Speaker 1: you know that I will never forget. I'm the worst,
Speaker 1: absolute worst. There was one dude and this was not
Speaker 1: the young kid, and I shouldn't be sharing this, but
Speaker 1: I'm gonna share this because we're getting towards the end
Speaker 1: of this, uh this episode. So there was just one
Speaker 1: dude and he was like very fit okay, and it
Speaker 1: was going on way too long, right, and I just
Speaker 1: was like, oh my god, I cannot Somehow we ended
Speaker 1: up on the floor, right, That's what I left his
Speaker 1: ass there I got up in the middle of the
Speaker 1: whole thing and I literally put my clothes on the left.
Speaker 1: I was like, dude, I gotta go. Oh my god.
Speaker 1: I was like what I was like, I'm out. Oh
Speaker 1: my god. I was like, and then did you continue?
Speaker 1: Like did you see him again? After that? I've not
Speaker 1: done that with him again? And that was probably why
Speaker 1: this Beth the pandemic. But I just like, I can't
Speaker 1: do this. I'm not fit for this. But guess what
Speaker 1: I wanted to go find we were in a hotel.
Speaker 1: I wanted to go find another girl in the lobby
Speaker 1: and send her up because he was clearly not Dune.
Speaker 1: And I was, okay, now are they like, you know,
Speaker 1: climax and then they just like want to go again?
Speaker 1: Or they just like so the young dude would he
Speaker 1: would guess it would be like ten, this is in
Speaker 1: a row and I'm like, dude, who's got time for this?
Speaker 1: Because I'm done. I want to go to sleep. I
Speaker 1: got three years a mess. But the other one, no,
Speaker 1: he was just ready to go, and I was like wow,
Speaker 1: And I didn't even feel bad and I left his
Speaker 1: ass on the floor for a hard one. I didn't
Speaker 1: know how he ended up on the floor. This is terrible.
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