WEBVTT - Shady Highlight: Robyn & Gizelle Share Their Relationship Battles

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<v Speaker 1>We realized that in relationships it's all kinds of crazy

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<v Speaker 1>and a lot of times you're fighting about nonsense. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, I've been in several relationships. I remember

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<v Speaker 1>one in particular, this guy Okay fine, he was a preacher.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay fine, it was Jamal, and he, you know, with

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<v Speaker 1>him preaching, he his clothes with sweat, and so he

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<v Speaker 1>would just like take his clothes off and just like

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<v Speaker 1>throw it in the corner here, like this bag of

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<v Speaker 1>like stinky clothes. And then like after some time it

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<v Speaker 1>would get like festering, hating through the home of like stinkiness.

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<v Speaker 1>And he what he would want to do is he

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<v Speaker 1>would want to control, making sure that he didn't wear

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<v Speaker 1>clothes over and over again, because he was like trying

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<v Speaker 1>to control his wardrobe. But I didn't want to clean him.

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<v Speaker 1>So he was waiting to take them to the cleaners

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<v Speaker 1>until for like three weeks. So I'm like, Negro, can

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<v Speaker 1>I say, Negro, sure, okay, you have a stack of

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<v Speaker 1>stinky ass clothes in this corner right here, and look,

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<v Speaker 1>I know, because he felt like if the clothes were

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<v Speaker 1>cleaned and back into the house, he might repeat. He

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<v Speaker 1>didn't want to repeat too quickly. So this was his

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<v Speaker 1>way of not repeating I don't give a ship. It

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<v Speaker 1>stinks it. It was bad because it was just like

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<v Speaker 1>sweaty Okay, okay, I mean I can I can picture

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<v Speaker 1>that because remember talked about one bringing home his player's clothes. Yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>it was horrible. So I would like sneak and take

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<v Speaker 1>the clothes to the cleaners, and he would get so

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<v Speaker 1>mad as an argument everything it was really bad. It

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<v Speaker 1>was really bad. Okay. That and he hates Mexican food. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we've talked about that before, yes, and and okay, and

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<v Speaker 1>then one more? What was one more that we would oh? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So we would have several cars, okay. So he had

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<v Speaker 1>an aversion to like going to the gas station car,

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<v Speaker 1>so he would like drive one car until there was

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<v Speaker 1>like no gas. Instead of going to the gas station,

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<v Speaker 1>he would just getting too the other car. So I

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<v Speaker 1>would be laughing with some non gas car. Gas do eat?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, Negro can say, Negro, all the cars

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<v Speaker 1>have no gas in it. We don't eat because you

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<v Speaker 1>refused to go to the gas stage. Oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh. This is why we're divorced. Yes, this

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<v Speaker 1>is why that was dropping me crazy. That would drive

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<v Speaker 1>me crazy. That would drive me crazy. So you have

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<v Speaker 1>to go pump the gas all the time. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so that that was an issue. Okay. And and by

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<v Speaker 1>the way, this uh, this episode is called stop Fighting,

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<v Speaker 1>Stop Fighting because we put it out there for you

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<v Speaker 1>guys to let us know, like with the silly nonsense

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<v Speaker 1>that y'all fight over, and y'all came back with it.

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<v Speaker 1>But do you have any you want to you wanna talk,

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<v Speaker 1>you want to tell the world. So I I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like we should have named this episode pick your Battles. Okay, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>we're changing the name right now. It's now called pick

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<v Speaker 1>your goddamn Battles. Pick your battles people, because I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like when you're in relationships and you're with someone for

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<v Speaker 1>a long time, you have to choose to pick your battles.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, like certain things it's like, okay, this is

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<v Speaker 1>not going to change, let me just do it. So

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<v Speaker 1>it's like, um, well, okay, a few things. One likes

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<v Speaker 1>to take cash out of my wallet because he doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>want to go to the A T. M. And I'm like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't think you're gonna say that that it's funny

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<v Speaker 1>to me. So he's like a little kid stealing your money. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>he's literally taking cash for my wile. And then when

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<v Speaker 1>I go to my wallet and I'm like, I'm missing cash,

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<v Speaker 1>and he's like, you're blaming me, es, I'm blaming you.

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<v Speaker 1>You took the cash out of my wallet. Because he

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<v Speaker 1>plays the video game. He goes and plays video games

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<v Speaker 1>with his buddy and they bet and they have to

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<v Speaker 1>and so he doesn't want to stop and go to

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<v Speaker 1>the A t M. I'm like, well, I choose to

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<v Speaker 1>go to the A t M so that I can

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<v Speaker 1>have cash in my wallet. No, go, go, you stop

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<v Speaker 1>at the A t M and get cash. It's like,

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<v Speaker 1>it's late. I don't want to be robbed. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't. You're a man. I don't care. It's your fault.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, so, yes, we have that. Yes, that's that's huge.

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<v Speaker 1>It's annoying as hell. I mean I could I could

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<v Speaker 1>go on and on and on um, but I just

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<v Speaker 1>choose to pick my battles like that. Your battles, all right?

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<v Speaker 1>How about this one having sex? He's eight years older

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<v Speaker 1>than me, and he's always tired. It's so annoying. He's

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<v Speaker 1>eight years older he's always tired, so they gotta do

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<v Speaker 1>it like in the morning when he wakes up. Or

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<v Speaker 1>do you mean like sleepy tired or you mean like

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<v Speaker 1>out of breath tired. He's probably both. He's probably both

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<v Speaker 1>just eight years older. I mean, I think sleepy tired.

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<v Speaker 1>But then okay, so but this is the this is

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<v Speaker 1>in the reverse. So I was dating this guy who

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<v Speaker 1>was like ten years younger than me. Oh my gosh, listen,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have enough stand about I didn't I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>take my wheaties. I was like, dude, like, okay, first

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<v Speaker 1>of all, a good twenty eight minutes is good for me, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>But he be like it would be like, I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know that I will never forget. I'm the worst,

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<v Speaker 1>absolute worst. There was one dude and this was not

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<v Speaker 1>the young kid, and I shouldn't be sharing this, but

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna share this because we're getting towards the end

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<v Speaker 1>of this, uh this episode. So there was just one

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<v Speaker 1>dude and he was like very fit okay, and it

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<v Speaker 1>was going on way too long, right, and I just

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<v Speaker 1>was like, oh my god, I cannot Somehow we ended

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<v Speaker 1>up on the floor, right, That's what I left his

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<v Speaker 1>ass there I got up in the middle of the

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<v Speaker 1>whole thing and I literally put my clothes on the left.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, dude, I gotta go. Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like what I was like, I'm out. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god. I was like, and then did you continue?

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<v Speaker 1>Like did you see him again? After that? I've not

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<v Speaker 1>done that with him again? And that was probably why

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<v Speaker 1>this Beth the pandemic. But I just like, I can't

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<v Speaker 1>do this. I'm not fit for this. But guess what

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to go find we were in a hotel.

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to go find another girl in the lobby

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<v Speaker 1>and send her up because he was clearly not Dune.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was, okay, now are they like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>climax and then they just like want to go again?

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<v Speaker 1>Or they just like so the young dude would he

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<v Speaker 1>would guess it would be like ten, this is in

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<v Speaker 1>a row and I'm like, dude, who's got time for this?

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<v Speaker 1>Because I'm done. I want to go to sleep. I

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<v Speaker 1>got three years a mess. But the other one, no,

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<v Speaker 1>he was just ready to go, and I was like wow,

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<v Speaker 1>And I didn't even feel bad and I left his

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<v Speaker 1>ass on the floor for a hard one. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>know how he ended up on the floor. This is terrible.

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