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Speaker 1: Okay fine, it was Jamal, and he, you know, with

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Speaker 1: So he was waiting to take them to the cleaners

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Speaker 1: until for like three weeks. So I'm like, Negro, can

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Speaker 1: I say, Negro, sure, okay, you have a stack of

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Speaker 1: way of not repeating I don't give a ship. It

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Speaker 1: stinks it. It was bad because it was just like

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Speaker 1: it was horrible. So I would like sneak and take

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Speaker 1: like we should have named this episode pick your Battles. Okay, yes,

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Speaker 1: we're changing the name right now. It's now called pick

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Speaker 1: your goddamn Battles. Pick your battles people, because I feel

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Speaker 1: You know, like certain things it's like, okay, this is

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