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Speaker 1: Anyway, Calyn, take it away, do a blog please, dear Bog.

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Speaker 2: Speaking of loving each other very much, I actually went

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Speaker 2: over to Paulina's house over the weekend to have a

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Speaker 2: little auntie time with baby Gigi, who is just beautiful

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Speaker 2: and her hair is getting so long.

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Speaker 1: God, she's so pretty, thank you. So pretty.

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Speaker 2: It's like it's not even normal how pretty she is.

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Speaker 2: But one thing about Paulina is she's gonna be on brand, okay,

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Speaker 2: and she has a lot going on at all times

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Speaker 2: inside of that brain and outside of that brain. She's

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Speaker 2: kind of like a beautiful little like tornado at all times.

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Speaker 1: So I get over to her house.

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Speaker 2: Of course, I know I'm going to be greeted by Benzo,

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Speaker 2: who already you know he's my boy. No, I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: get a couple scratches on these legs, but I love him.

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Speaker 1: Say hi, he's excited.

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Speaker 2: I'm not a toddler, so I know he's not gonna

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Speaker 2: hunt me, which is nice.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, only toddlers, only toddlers.

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Speaker 2: So I get in there, we have the baby, and

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Speaker 2: then I go in the kitchen to drop something. There's

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Speaker 2: a random woman at the island who I'm just like, oh, hey,

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Speaker 2: I'm Caylin, and she's doing up some sort of plans

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Speaker 2: for your redoing something in your house.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm making a mudroom. So the one project I

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Speaker 3: want is a mudroom.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: When you walk in, so it's just organized. It looks good.

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Speaker 3: I bought something. Is it not fit?

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Speaker 1: Because I do not measure? Ye're to redo this again. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So there's a random woman I meet and then Pauline

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Speaker 2: is like, well, of course we had to go somewhere,

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Speaker 2: and she's like, of course, I'm not ready yet. So

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Speaker 2: here's the baby, and I'm like, good, I want this

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Speaker 2: baby immediately. Then we got one grandma coming over, beloved Marta,

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Speaker 2: who we all know. She comes on over. She's watching

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Speaker 2: the baby while we go. Then we got you know,

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Speaker 2: Hobvy in and out. It's like a revolving door over there.

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Speaker 2: We go to where we need to go, we come back.

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Speaker 2: We got another grandma and a sister in law that

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Speaker 2: comes over. We're swapping the baby. The grandmas are swapping.

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Speaker 2: Paulina's got another party to go to. She's just it's

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Speaker 2: just there's a lot of chaos going on in that

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Speaker 2: house at all times, and it was just happy to

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Speaker 2: see that, you know.

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Speaker 1: She's on brand. I can't tell if I would like

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Speaker 1: that or if I wouldn't like that. Like, sometimes I

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Speaker 1: think about what life would look like if I moved

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Speaker 1: to like more of a neighborhood, you know, and I

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Speaker 1: like knew my neighbors and and like people came and went,

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Speaker 1: and I, you know, I just wonder, like I've never

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Speaker 1: lived It's been twenty years, more than twenty years since

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Speaker 1: I've lived in the city where my family is. So

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Speaker 1: like my family is whoever I make. It's you guys,

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Speaker 1: it's friends or whatever, but like no one's stopping by.

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Speaker 1: I don't really know my neighbors very well because a

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Speaker 1: lot of them aren't there very often. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: It's just like what my grandfather, for example, they used

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Speaker 1: to live on a street in Peoria. And I've told

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Speaker 1: the story before, but he had a hegerator in his garage,

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Speaker 1: and all the neighbors had a garage door opener, or

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Speaker 1: he would just open the garage when he got home.

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Speaker 1: And if the garage door was opened, that meant come

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Speaker 1: over with your cup and get yeah. And so people

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Speaker 1: would just camp out in his driveway almost every day

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Speaker 1: and drink beer. And I just wonder sometimes like do

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Speaker 1: you ever do you ever want to like lock the

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Speaker 1: door and pretend like you're not in there so that

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Speaker 1: it's not you know, like an influx and outflux of people.

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Speaker 3: Honestly, not right now. I think because of baby and

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Speaker 3: because I know, like I want help and I need help.

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Speaker 3: I love it, but I feel like maybe one day

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Speaker 3: we'll get there when I'm gonna be like, all right,

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Speaker 3: door's closed, you know what I mean, shop is closed today.

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Speaker 1: Close side of.

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Speaker 3: The door maybe, But right now I'm loving it, like

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Speaker 3: I want everyone to come in. My best friend Jonathan,

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Speaker 3: he's got the cause I have a code key thing

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Speaker 3: at my door.

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Speaker 1: I don't have a lock. I have like oh yeah, right, yeah,

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Speaker 1: my friends over there.

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Speaker 2: There's always twenty people a construction project, yes, you know,

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Speaker 2: and we're lifting around yes to the audience.

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Speaker 3: I don't my best friend, I'm like, just come in,

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Speaker 3: and so now he just comes into, right.

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Speaker 1: I love it. There was It was a lot.

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Speaker 2: It was a good chaos, but it was cute. And

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Speaker 2: I know your your mother in law slept there the

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Speaker 2: night before, but then she was back. We're trading the baby,

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Speaker 2: we're switching outfits.

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Speaker 1: So like I was capable of being a very social person,

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Speaker 1: but sometimes I don't feel like talking now, And like

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Speaker 1: when I come sometimes I come in like almost every

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Speaker 1: morning when I walk into building here at the radio studio,

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Speaker 1: there's a guy and he's been at ball eye work

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Speaker 1: in security, and he wants to talk, okay, and he's

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Speaker 1: got a ton of energy and he wants to talk.

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Speaker 1: And I love him for that, and I'm super grateful

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Speaker 1: that he's so kind, but like I don't want to

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Speaker 1: talk to him, Like I'm not awake yet, i haven't

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Speaker 1: had any coffee. It's five o'clock in the morning, like

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Speaker 1: I'm not He yells at me, I'm not ready, and

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Speaker 1: a lot of times he pops up from the thing

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Speaker 1: scares me. That's why I take the backstairs. But again,

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Speaker 1: it's nothing personal. It's like there are just times in

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Speaker 1: my life like where I'm just not interested in And

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Speaker 1: like if you live in a high riserre of folks

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Speaker 1: that work there and they're very kind, but they're looking

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Speaker 1: at what you're doing and who's coming with you and

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Speaker 1: all that kind of stuff, and it's just sometimes I

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Speaker 1: don't I wish I could have complete and total privacy

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Speaker 1: and autonomy, but then other times I think how cool

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Speaker 1: would it be to have a little community like where

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Speaker 1: like I know a guy who he lives next door

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Speaker 1: to two or three of his buddies from when he

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Speaker 1: grew up, and like Fridays they you know, in the summer,

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Speaker 1: the grill gets rolled out and like the chairs get

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Speaker 1: have a great time, and the kids are running around

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Speaker 1: and like that sounds like fun. But like on a

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Speaker 1: four guys in my garage for in themselves beers, I'm like,

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Speaker 1: lose it. I'm like, dude, get get the hell out

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Speaker 1: of my house. But you can't be that way, I'm

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Speaker 1: surel So I just wonder, like how how that is?

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Speaker 1: Like sometimes I would think it would be great to

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Speaker 1: I would be like, how do you tell people? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's an open door, but actually not right now.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a tough line because it's like, you know,

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Speaker 3: you want your privacy. I know you want like your

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Speaker 3: own space. That's why I go upstairs sometimes and I

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Speaker 3: just I don't know, all set in the toilet for

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Speaker 3: like thirty minutes just because I'm like, I just want

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Speaker 3: to be by myself.

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Speaker 1: Everyone's like, god, Paulina has really bad Yes, right, get

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Speaker 1: that checked out? Girl? Do you have that? Kiky oh oh?

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Speaker 1: I listen.

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Speaker 4: I don't want to talk when I leave here to

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Speaker 4: anyone other than Instagram.

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Speaker 1: Thank god. I'm not the only one.

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Speaker 4: My sister is the house that's like probably in this house,

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Speaker 4: like everybody can just pull up as like an episode

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Speaker 4: of Martin. You never know who's going to walk in.

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Speaker 4: I like being one of the characters that pulls up

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Speaker 4: and walks in and then you can leave exactly because

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Speaker 4: don't pop up at my house. That is one of

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Speaker 4: my biggest like don't don't stop by, don't tell me

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Speaker 4: in the neighborhood. I need forty eight hours to have

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Speaker 4: noticed before you come to my house. God damn try

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Speaker 4: me because people think I'm weird. But like, I don't

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Speaker 4: like to talk a whole lot once we leave here.

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Speaker 4: Dude's not enough talking.

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Speaker 2: It's just however, you were were yappers. Yeah, I'm a

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Speaker 2: I'm a yupper. I want everyone around at all times.

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Speaker 3: Well, you guys are welcome to come by anytime.

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Speaker 1: I mean, they're not the code of my door.

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Speaker 4: Come on in, And that makes me happy because I

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Speaker 4: really thought, like the whole time you were off, I

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Speaker 4: was like, I don't want to bother.

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Speaker 1: Probably no, I don't want to bother.

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Speaker 4: I never want to be a bother because I feel

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Speaker 4: like somebody's always bothering me. Maybe that's the problem.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. One day, if you get tired of it,

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Speaker 1: just changed the door code. Everyone will be like, I

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Speaker 1: can't get in. I don't know. This would have pitchforks

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Speaker 1: outside like I can't get in, Like are you inside? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we'll come open the door. No, no,