1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:02,320 Speaker 1: All right, Steve, it's time to check your voicemail. If 2 00:00:02,320 --> 00:00:04,440 Speaker 1: you want to leave Steve a voicemail, call him eight 3 00:00:04,519 --> 00:00:08,200 Speaker 1: seven seven twenty nine. Steve, eight seven seven twenty nine, Steve, 4 00:00:08,600 --> 00:00:10,760 Speaker 1: let's go to the first caller. Her name is Michelle. 5 00:00:10,800 --> 00:00:12,720 Speaker 1: She's from Greenville, Mississippi. 6 00:00:13,240 --> 00:00:16,800 Speaker 2: Tay, Steve. My name is Michelle. I'm from Greenville, Mississippi. 7 00:00:17,200 --> 00:00:20,119 Speaker 2: I was driving and listening to your closing remarks and 8 00:00:20,160 --> 00:00:23,279 Speaker 2: it almost brought me to tears. I had this exact 9 00:00:23,360 --> 00:00:27,680 Speaker 2: same conversation your closing remarks mentioned with my son yesterday, 10 00:00:27,720 --> 00:00:30,560 Speaker 2: and I googled him, and I hope it's somewhere online 11 00:00:30,720 --> 00:00:33,120 Speaker 2: that he can actually listen to let him know it's 12 00:00:33,200 --> 00:00:36,000 Speaker 2: just not me talking. That it is true statements that 13 00:00:36,000 --> 00:00:38,600 Speaker 2: are from people you don't even know in person. But 14 00:00:38,720 --> 00:00:40,680 Speaker 2: I thank you for that, and I pray that my 15 00:00:40,800 --> 00:00:44,400 Speaker 2: son listens to that message, because Steve, he is so lost. 16 00:00:44,440 --> 00:00:46,879 Speaker 2: He's only twenty two, and I believe I'm about to 17 00:00:46,920 --> 00:00:49,240 Speaker 2: lose my child. But thank you so very much. 18 00:00:49,760 --> 00:00:50,800 Speaker 3: Bye, thank you. 19 00:00:51,320 --> 00:00:53,800 Speaker 4: I believe you're talking about the one where pastor Will, 20 00:00:54,200 --> 00:00:56,520 Speaker 4: the one that we played the phone call the other day, 21 00:00:56,760 --> 00:01:01,160 Speaker 4: and you followed up with that talking about God, and 22 00:01:01,200 --> 00:01:03,279 Speaker 4: it was very moving what you were saying. So I 23 00:01:03,320 --> 00:01:07,080 Speaker 4: believe this is what Miss Michelle from Mississippi was referring to. 24 00:01:07,200 --> 00:01:09,480 Speaker 3: Well, thanks, but keep praying for your son though he 25 00:01:09,560 --> 00:01:12,880 Speaker 3: ain't totally lost. Don't ever give up on prayer. Prayer 26 00:01:12,959 --> 00:01:15,920 Speaker 3: change is thing. Prayer change people too. 27 00:01:16,400 --> 00:01:19,679 Speaker 1: That's right, all right, Steve. As we move on, this 28 00:01:19,800 --> 00:01:24,720 Speaker 1: caller needs some relationship advice about trusting a cheating husband. 29 00:01:25,240 --> 00:01:30,000 Speaker 2: Well, hey, Steve, sometime hopeing for some information and advice 30 00:01:30,040 --> 00:01:30,520 Speaker 2: from you. 31 00:01:31,240 --> 00:01:33,880 Speaker 4: I was a victim of infidelity. 32 00:01:34,000 --> 00:01:35,119 Speaker 1: I'm not going to say a victim. 33 00:01:35,160 --> 00:01:38,080 Speaker 2: I'm going to say my husband he did on me. 34 00:01:38,280 --> 00:01:38,920 Speaker 1: I'll just say that. 35 00:01:39,800 --> 00:01:43,319 Speaker 2: And it's been several years and I. 36 00:01:43,440 --> 00:01:45,479 Speaker 4: Decided to stay and we're working it out. 37 00:01:45,400 --> 00:01:47,800 Speaker 2: But I just don't trust them. Can you give me 38 00:01:47,840 --> 00:01:52,120 Speaker 2: some advice on how I can start trusting my husband again. 39 00:01:52,720 --> 00:01:54,800 Speaker 3: I really love him, I want us to stay together, 40 00:01:55,520 --> 00:01:57,840 Speaker 3: but I just I just don't trust. 41 00:01:57,560 --> 00:01:59,520 Speaker 1: Them, and I really want. 42 00:01:59,360 --> 00:02:00,640 Speaker 2: To thank you. 43 00:02:01,400 --> 00:02:04,120 Speaker 3: Well, I don't know the exact answer to that, to 44 00:02:04,200 --> 00:02:07,640 Speaker 3: be honest with you, because there's so many particulars when 45 00:02:07,680 --> 00:02:12,240 Speaker 3: you get into things like this, but one thing is 46 00:02:12,600 --> 00:02:17,160 Speaker 3: if your husband's behavior has changed, then it could mean 47 00:02:17,240 --> 00:02:20,320 Speaker 3: as it has been a change in him. Now, if 48 00:02:20,360 --> 00:02:24,520 Speaker 3: you're going to hang on to these feelings that you have, 49 00:02:25,120 --> 00:02:29,080 Speaker 3: there's nothing I or anybody else can do, because if 50 00:02:29,080 --> 00:02:32,760 Speaker 3: you're going to stay in that feeling for whatever the reason, now, 51 00:02:33,040 --> 00:02:36,840 Speaker 3: you may be very legitimized in that feeling now because 52 00:02:36,880 --> 00:02:41,639 Speaker 3: that maybe you've see a reoccurring pattern which causing you 53 00:02:41,760 --> 00:02:45,760 Speaker 3: not to fully trust again, or maybe your intuition is 54 00:02:45,800 --> 00:02:49,720 Speaker 3: telling you something is still happening even though you see 55 00:02:49,760 --> 00:02:51,880 Speaker 3: a little bit of change. See, I don't know what 56 00:02:52,000 --> 00:02:56,240 Speaker 3: that is. So I really can't advise you on this, 57 00:02:56,960 --> 00:03:02,519 Speaker 3: but you cannot live your life in an untrusting atmosphere. 58 00:03:02,880 --> 00:03:08,920 Speaker 3: You just can't. That's hard to do for anybody to 59 00:03:09,080 --> 00:03:14,040 Speaker 3: keep walking in a door into a home. That's not 60 00:03:14,160 --> 00:03:17,919 Speaker 3: a peaceful existence for you. And I got you wanted 61 00:03:18,000 --> 00:03:21,120 Speaker 3: to work, But you got to ask yourself a couple 62 00:03:21,160 --> 00:03:25,880 Speaker 3: of questions. Is this my soul mate? You gotta ask 63 00:03:25,919 --> 00:03:29,760 Speaker 3: yourself that am I staying in this simply because I've 64 00:03:29,760 --> 00:03:31,799 Speaker 3: been in it? Because a lot of people don't want 65 00:03:31,800 --> 00:03:34,600 Speaker 3: to leave a relationship because the time they have invested 66 00:03:34,639 --> 00:03:38,240 Speaker 3: in it, right, And then I always ask people the 67 00:03:38,280 --> 00:03:41,640 Speaker 3: same question, Well, I've been with him eight years and 68 00:03:41,680 --> 00:03:44,200 Speaker 3: if I just leave it all be for nothing. Well, 69 00:03:44,280 --> 00:03:46,000 Speaker 3: let me ask you this question. Do you want eight 70 00:03:46,080 --> 00:03:48,920 Speaker 3: more years or the previous eight years? You got to 71 00:03:48,920 --> 00:03:55,320 Speaker 3: ask that question too, Yes, I can't. Yeah that time. Yeah, yeah, 72 00:03:55,360 --> 00:03:58,560 Speaker 3: you hang on to that time instead of hanging on 73 00:03:58,600 --> 00:04:00,520 Speaker 3: to what you want or what you do deserve. 74 00:04:01,000 --> 00:04:05,200 Speaker 1: But on the other side of that, Steve, with just 75 00:04:05,240 --> 00:04:08,680 Speaker 1: a few seconds left, if he has cheated, can he 76 00:04:08,840 --> 00:04:09,720 Speaker 1: change his ways? 77 00:04:09,960 --> 00:04:10,680 Speaker 3: Absolutely? 78 00:04:11,000 --> 00:04:11,960 Speaker 1: She wants to women. 79 00:04:12,120 --> 00:04:15,760 Speaker 3: Have you all up spreading bad information? Once a cheatah, 80 00:04:15,800 --> 00:04:20,520 Speaker 3: always a Cheatah. That's not true. People change and get 81 00:04:20,560 --> 00:04:22,880 Speaker 3: it right all the time. Once a thief don't make 82 00:04:22,920 --> 00:04:24,159 Speaker 3: you always a thief. 83 00:04:24,680 --> 00:04:27,320 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, I just wanted you to point that out. 84 00:04:28,240 --> 00:04:31,400 Speaker 3: A hold on real quick, like that dude on TikTok's head. 85 00:04:33,560 --> 00:04:37,600 Speaker 3: Just because I cheated one time, I'm a cheater if 86 00:04:37,640 --> 00:04:40,719 Speaker 3: I cut your hat one time in my bable yeah 87 00:04:44,000 --> 00:04:46,160 Speaker 3: right now, all right, okay. 88 00:04:47,000 --> 00:04:50,760 Speaker 1: All right. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.