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Speaker 1: Hey, hey, hey, we're back. We're Black Brad Ambition ambition,

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Speaker 1: ambis ambition ambition. Hey Andrew you doing.

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Speaker 2: I'm trying to do the viral.

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Speaker 3: A monster seen this that Megan the Stallion, like Japanese

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Speaker 3: song I've heard, there's like this dance everyone's doing, and

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Speaker 3: I'll just I'll stop.

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Speaker 2: No one needs does it require good needs?

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Speaker 3: No, it's a pretty It's a lot of like handography.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I could do that.

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Speaker 2: You know, I got like a little hip hop.

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Speaker 1: I don't got that. I don't got the knees, but

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Speaker 1: I got my wrist are still a little.

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Speaker 3: It's what would be summer without like a little viral

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Speaker 3: TikTok dance moment. And I'm just glad because that song

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Speaker 3: is hot. And shout out to Japanese music because maybe

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Speaker 3: like K pop is that girl right now? Everyone is

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Speaker 3: into k pop, but like you know what, I don't

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Speaker 3: know who this young man is that she has on

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Speaker 3: this track or is she on his track? I don't

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Speaker 3: know anyway, love it, Love it for them. Happy September,

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Speaker 3: yes or August or whatever, Happy pumpkin spice latte season.

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Speaker 1: I know, let's just say that it's post Labor Day yes,

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Speaker 1: And I mean, I know we're deeper into the year,

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Speaker 1: but I feel like it's a good time for a

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Speaker 1: check in and check up of like your financial plus goals.

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Speaker 3: It's like, looking back, it's like the September hangover after

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Speaker 3: the summer being outside. Yes, this summer was EXPOSI but

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Speaker 3: the shitty the worst part is that now the holidays

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Speaker 1: This is an episode let's check in and check up.

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Speaker 1: Y'all listening. Good opportunity to check in and check check

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Speaker 1: up as well. So, yeah, do you remember, like what

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Speaker 1: your goals were in January? You're like, oh, this year

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Speaker 1: your like your finances.

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Speaker 2: Plus Tiffany, I'm not going to lie to you.

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Speaker 3: I mean, you know, in January I was in like

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Speaker 3: peak mental health crisis. Like I didn't make any sort

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Speaker 3: into feb than my dad had his like whole thing.

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Speaker 2: It was like survival was.

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Speaker 3: My only thing.

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Speaker 3: One shiny, like one of the bright spots when I

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Speaker 3: think about that period is that I hosted Mama's Night

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Speaker 3: in which was an event at my house where I

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Speaker 3: I don't know who she was that hosted that party

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Speaker 3: at the time, but my goal at the time, because

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Speaker 3: you and I talked a lot about making more connections

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Speaker 3: that I probably should have made a goal, like saving

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Speaker 3: more and bringing in more income from the business, and

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Speaker 3: like writing this book. I'm not going to lie. Those

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Speaker 3: three things not weren't cute. Weren't cute, But I am

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Speaker 1: Oh, we're gonna call this episode back half Heavy. That's

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Speaker 1: one of my friend He says that, like back half

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Speaker 1: Heavy four, like you know, the half of the year,

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Speaker 1: like you know, the happening this back half we go,

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Speaker 1: we gonna hit it hard. It's heavy that's going on.

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Speaker 2: This is it?

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Speaker 3: What about you? Miss condo.

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Speaker 1: Honestly, my goal saying for the business was just never

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Speaker 3: And so it looks so stunning. Think it looks so good.

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Speaker 1: To like that was one of looks good.

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Speaker 1: Was to enjoy the money I worked so hard to make.

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Speaker 1: That was one of my goals because everybody knows I'm

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Speaker 1: my sister Tracy and I have this, like we have

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Speaker 1: what is the money for? You know? And so many

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Speaker 1: that I can't balance that though, Yes that I bounce, yes,

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Speaker 1: So I say, all in all, with this halfway through

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you were gonna, I remember that.

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Speaker 3: Now you were gonna do it alongside Yes, the people

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Speaker 4: So when we just talked to Terry this week I

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Speaker 4: still holding on to that time that my first investing

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Speaker 4: So I think I'm still carrying that, like that fear

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Speaker 1: Like I don't trust myself almost, But so that's where

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Speaker 1: I would really love to end the year with taking

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Speaker 3: Yeah. State farm agents are small business owners too, so

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Speaker 3: they know how to help you choose personalized policies that

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Speaker 3: there talk to your local agent today? Gosh, I mean

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Speaker 3: it's like that mind block. So when you have that fear,

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Speaker 3: like is it something that when you you can log

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Speaker 2: You know? Is it that you just get stuck?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? I think each thing has a simulation. Is a

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Speaker 1: sinker swim, there's a simulation I've been using. Yeah, think, yeah,

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Speaker 1: so when I go on, even though obviously I'm not

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Speaker 1: the game, what comes up in my head is like,

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Speaker 1: What if you make a mistake? Even though if I

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Speaker 1: like this compounding, like snowball that like two hundred least

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like it's almost like you're thinking of it,

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Speaker 3: in deeper to get out. However, like, what are some

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Speaker 3: facts like can we check the facts on that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, thanks, you get doctor Green, look at doctor Man. Yes,

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Speaker 3: Wait, you know what, I just did my emotion regulation

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Speaker 3: homework from group therapy my DDT shout out to dialectical

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Speaker 3: behavioral therapy, y'all it is that girl. But yeah, checking

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Speaker 3: the facts is so important and I'm just like, so,

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Speaker 3: let's sit with that. Do you think you're going to fail?

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Speaker 3: But what's the reality. So let's say the worst happens,

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Speaker 3: what does that mean in trading? Like you lose it

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Speaker 3: because the stock value plummets.

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Speaker 2: And what is a rule?

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Speaker 3: Does Terry have like a rule around like when to

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Speaker 3: In place, so there's no way you'd lose everything. Also,

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Speaker 3: if you invest in Apple share, it's never going to

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Speaker 3: hit zero. Yeah, very likely to very unlikely to hit zero.

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Speaker 1: I think what's really I don't is a fact of

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Speaker 1: I think my fear is not so much about the

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Speaker 1: I told you didn't know how to do it, just

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Speaker 1: like you're not too far off from that twenty five

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Speaker 1: I think like tentatively having a module done every other week,

437
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Speaker 1: although we can check in verbally weekly about what do

438
00:21:22,800 --> 00:21:24,080
Speaker 1: you think about this? What do you think about that?

439
00:21:24,160 --> 00:21:26,280
Speaker 1: You know, like, let's just do that intentive. I'm excited

440
00:21:26,280 --> 00:21:28,960
Speaker 1: because I need someone because Carol is like me. I'm

441
00:21:29,000 --> 00:21:31,440
Speaker 1: like maybe maybe you know, like, but I need someone

442
00:21:31,440 --> 00:21:35,160
Speaker 1: who is more strict with the I thought. We said

443
00:21:35,480 --> 00:21:37,880
Speaker 1: every other Friday, we're having this chat where you at

444
00:21:38,600 --> 00:21:45,439
Speaker 1: you know, yes, yeah.

445
00:21:43,720 --> 00:21:44,359
Speaker 2: I can do that.

446
00:21:44,680 --> 00:21:49,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, because also I what makes me excited about it.

447
00:21:49,040 --> 00:21:52,000
Speaker 3: It's like the idea of especially after a difficult year

448
00:21:52,040 --> 00:21:54,600
Speaker 3: where I wasn't able to like be the business like

449
00:21:54,640 --> 00:21:57,240
Speaker 3: I didn't have the business mojo, like to have another

450
00:21:57,320 --> 00:22:00,880
Speaker 3: tool in the toolbox to say, if times are tough,

451
00:22:00,920 --> 00:22:04,960
Speaker 3: I can make something happen that feels like more resilience

452
00:22:04,960 --> 00:22:05,159
Speaker 3: to me.

453
00:22:05,280 --> 00:22:06,000
Speaker 2: And I like her.

454
00:22:06,119 --> 00:22:09,000
Speaker 1: Yes and low key. We can always be like, let's

455
00:22:09,000 --> 00:22:10,960
Speaker 1: bring Terry on for everyone else.

456
00:22:10,960 --> 00:22:14,240
Speaker 5: A k A s to be like, so we have Pence,

457
00:22:17,040 --> 00:22:20,800
Speaker 5: can you do it? Let's stupid, I know that sweet

458
00:22:20,960 --> 00:22:23,240
Speaker 5: She didn't say yes, she would obviously. I love that

459
00:22:23,280 --> 00:22:28,639
Speaker 5: she's such a quiet, adorable like Southern bell millionaire. They

460
00:22:28,680 --> 00:22:30,920
Speaker 5: don't even they don't even get they wouldn't even guess.

461
00:22:31,000 --> 00:22:33,199
Speaker 5: You put Terry in a line of the people, and

462
00:22:33,240 --> 00:22:36,240
Speaker 5: because of like the way we are, like in just society,

463
00:22:36,359 --> 00:22:37,880
Speaker 5: like no one would pick her out of the line.

464
00:22:38,119 --> 00:22:40,080
Speaker 2: She's like a multi millionaire.

465
00:22:40,560 --> 00:22:42,640
Speaker 1: She's I mean literally making a million dollars in the day.

466
00:22:42,640 --> 00:22:43,879
Speaker 1: It's like, do you want to do? You want to

467
00:22:43,920 --> 00:22:44,800
Speaker 1: sit here, honeymoon?

468
00:22:47,240 --> 00:22:50,280
Speaker 3: I love that though, just quiet and she calls herself

469
00:22:50,320 --> 00:22:52,679
Speaker 3: really nerdy and techy and into the needs, and I

470
00:22:52,720 --> 00:22:53,119
Speaker 3: love that.

471
00:22:53,240 --> 00:22:56,479
Speaker 1: I fool yes, oh yeah, so excited maybe.

472
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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, yeah, give me the access I'm gonna be

473
00:23:00,240 --> 00:23:01,880
Speaker 3: and yeah, I'm going to be doing like a little

474
00:23:01,880 --> 00:23:03,879
Speaker 3: bit of like a solo retreat. So this is actually

475
00:23:03,880 --> 00:23:06,520
Speaker 3: a good time. I can do all the things I

476
00:23:06,560 --> 00:23:09,320
Speaker 3: can't do when I don't have all of my brain

477
00:23:09,400 --> 00:23:11,200
Speaker 3: here because I share it with two other humans.

478
00:23:11,240 --> 00:23:13,840
Speaker 1: Honestly, I think we just modeled really good behavior. So

479
00:23:13,880 --> 00:23:16,760
Speaker 1: as you guys are doing your check in, you know, one,

480
00:23:16,920 --> 00:23:19,320
Speaker 1: identify kind of like what you wanted to do in

481
00:23:19,359 --> 00:23:22,399
Speaker 1: the beginning of the year. Identify where you are now

482
00:23:22,720 --> 00:23:25,240
Speaker 1: without judgment, and now like you should be here you know,

483
00:23:25,400 --> 00:23:27,320
Speaker 1: just oh I did say I kind of wanted to

484
00:23:27,359 --> 00:23:29,520
Speaker 1: do that, and here's why I am now. Oh some

485
00:23:29,600 --> 00:23:31,840
Speaker 1: things I did do, some things I did additional, some

486
00:23:31,920 --> 00:23:34,119
Speaker 1: things I never got to, some things I've regressed on.

487
00:23:34,920 --> 00:23:37,720
Speaker 1: And then ask yourself kind of like what's holding you

488
00:23:37,800 --> 00:23:41,960
Speaker 1: back like Mandy just did for me? And what would

489
00:23:42,000 --> 00:23:44,639
Speaker 1: you need in order to move forward? Is it support,

490
00:23:44,760 --> 00:23:47,520
Speaker 1: like you know, like an accountability partner like me and Mandy.

491
00:23:48,040 --> 00:23:51,560
Speaker 1: Is it a course, is it a book? You know,

492
00:23:51,920 --> 00:23:55,480
Speaker 1: whatever that is, you know, like identifying what that is.

493
00:23:55,480 --> 00:23:57,879
Speaker 1: And I suggest you don't do this alone because sometimes

494
00:23:57,920 --> 00:23:59,639
Speaker 1: you can't see yourself, like Mandy was so good at

495
00:23:59,640 --> 00:24:01,800
Speaker 1: pulling out out this stuff for me. Maybe do this

496
00:24:01,840 --> 00:24:04,520
Speaker 1: with your bestie, your sister, your your partner, your hubby,

497
00:24:04,880 --> 00:24:09,840
Speaker 1: your wife, whoever and so, and then like lock and

498
00:24:10,280 --> 00:24:12,879
Speaker 1: a tactical thing you're gonna do, because one thing to

499
00:24:13,000 --> 00:24:14,600
Speaker 1: be like, oh, thank you so much, Manny for helping

500
00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:16,600
Speaker 1: me see where I was stuck, and then I would

501
00:24:16,640 --> 00:24:18,560
Speaker 1: just continue to be stuck. But it's like no, no,

502
00:24:18,840 --> 00:24:21,680
Speaker 1: what can we actually do? You know, like, oh, now

503
00:24:21,880 --> 00:24:23,600
Speaker 1: she and I are, she's going to hold me accountable.

504
00:24:23,600 --> 00:24:26,119
Speaker 1: I'm gonna hold her accountable. And now it's like, no,

505
00:24:26,240 --> 00:24:29,800
Speaker 1: I can see movement forward because like it's not just me.

506
00:24:30,119 --> 00:24:31,560
Speaker 1: You know, I'm gonna be like Chad, I don't want

507
00:24:31,560 --> 00:24:32,920
Speaker 1: I want to hear manny about let me go ahead

508
00:24:32,920 --> 00:24:36,320
Speaker 1: and do this, do this module because I want to

509
00:24:36,359 --> 00:24:39,080
Speaker 1: make it out. So I'm so excited.

510
00:24:39,320 --> 00:24:41,760
Speaker 3: But I think it's I know I can be vulnerable

511
00:24:41,800 --> 00:24:44,119
Speaker 3: with you, like I don't have any I don't have

512
00:24:44,160 --> 00:24:47,040
Speaker 3: any self consciousness around, Like, girl, what does this mean again?

513
00:24:47,160 --> 00:24:48,080
Speaker 2: What's this girl?

514
00:24:48,600 --> 00:24:50,600
Speaker 1: The Googles is my friend? Okay Googles?

515
00:24:52,440 --> 00:24:55,879
Speaker 3: Yeah, I am excited. Yeah, this is great and I

516
00:24:55,920 --> 00:24:58,520
Speaker 3: love that we can coach each other. We're professional like

517
00:24:58,600 --> 00:25:01,919
Speaker 3: coaches in our live coaches, but we still need some

518
00:25:02,440 --> 00:25:06,200
Speaker 3: hell yeah, we still need some support. So okay, exciting.

519
00:25:06,200 --> 00:25:07,680
Speaker 3: Should we take a little break.

520
00:25:07,440 --> 00:25:10,760
Speaker 1: We should, so brown break, we'd be back.

521
00:25:11,400 --> 00:25:13,880
Speaker 3: We'll do a brown boost brown break. And then oh,

522
00:25:13,880 --> 00:25:15,960
Speaker 3: I wanted to do a call to action for y'all

523
00:25:16,000 --> 00:25:19,080
Speaker 3: be a fam what like do your midyear check in?

524
00:25:19,280 --> 00:25:21,199
Speaker 3: Like what is the thing that you wanted to do

525
00:25:21,200 --> 00:25:22,919
Speaker 3: at the beginning of the year, how's it going? And

526
00:25:22,960 --> 00:25:25,720
Speaker 3: then like send us a DM even if it's just

527
00:25:25,760 --> 00:25:26,240
Speaker 3: to say the.

528
00:25:26,200 --> 00:25:27,000
Speaker 2: Words out loud.

529
00:25:27,119 --> 00:25:30,400
Speaker 3: Of here's where I want to be, and then tell

530
00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:32,960
Speaker 3: us what you're going to do, like what do you

531
00:25:33,000 --> 00:25:35,240
Speaker 3: think has held you back? What do you think can

532
00:25:35,320 --> 00:25:39,200
Speaker 3: propel you forward? And let's have that uncomfortable sort of

533
00:25:39,280 --> 00:25:42,040
Speaker 3: dialogue and then hopefully that will lead you to like

534
00:25:42,040 --> 00:25:44,560
Speaker 3: taking a step toward whatever goal you had.

535
00:25:44,800 --> 00:25:46,679
Speaker 1: I love ooh and you know what, Actually I created

536
00:25:46,680 --> 00:25:49,199
Speaker 1: a goal sheet based upon my book Get It with

537
00:25:49,200 --> 00:25:51,520
Speaker 1: Money that was giving away for free. I forgot. If

538
00:25:51,560 --> 00:25:53,320
Speaker 1: you dm me this is something no I'm trying. If

539
00:25:53,359 --> 00:25:56,720
Speaker 1: you d m me on ig goals the word goals.

540
00:25:56,760 --> 00:25:59,200
Speaker 1: If you dm me, I will send you the gig.

541
00:25:59,240 --> 00:26:02,040
Speaker 1: It's called the gate good with get Good with goal Chot.

542
00:26:02,080 --> 00:26:03,480
Speaker 1: I don't know what it's called, but it's a really

543
00:26:03,480 --> 00:26:06,760
Speaker 1: great goal sheet. It's like it's totally free, and so

544
00:26:07,040 --> 00:26:09,840
Speaker 1: it helps, Like if you can't help yourself to identify

545
00:26:10,119 --> 00:26:12,760
Speaker 1: the financial places that you want to move forward, just

546
00:26:12,920 --> 00:26:15,560
Speaker 1: d m me the world goals at the bunch aissa

547
00:26:15,680 --> 00:26:18,439
Speaker 1: on I g and I will d m you like

548
00:26:18,480 --> 00:26:20,359
Speaker 1: you know, the goal sheet. It's not even a sheet.

549
00:26:20,359 --> 00:26:22,320
Speaker 1: It's like a packet or a mini book and you'll

550
00:26:22,359 --> 00:26:25,200
Speaker 1: get it and it's for me. So that's my gift

551
00:26:25,240 --> 00:26:26,520
Speaker 1: to you. We'll put that. I'll put that in the

552
00:26:26,520 --> 00:26:28,600
Speaker 1: show notes, so I don't forget. But yes, we're gonna

553
00:26:28,600 --> 00:26:31,440
Speaker 1: take goals or if I yeah, just just DM me

554
00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:33,840
Speaker 1: the world goals. It should be. You can comment goals too,

555
00:26:33,840 --> 00:26:35,240
Speaker 1: But I mean, I don't know when they're going to

556
00:26:35,320 --> 00:26:37,480
Speaker 1: be listening, and so the d ms will always be

557
00:26:37,520 --> 00:26:37,800
Speaker 1: the same.

558
00:26:38,280 --> 00:26:41,920
Speaker 3: You're talking to me, Yes, what's my first name?

559
00:26:43,720 --> 00:26:45,840
Speaker 1: It's going to ask you all these questions and it's going.

560
00:26:45,840 --> 00:26:48,439
Speaker 3: To send to Oh this is so neat. It's like

561
00:26:48,800 --> 00:26:50,960
Speaker 3: talking to the internet people online.

562
00:26:51,800 --> 00:26:54,040
Speaker 1: So yeah, just DM me the word goals and I'll

563
00:26:54,040 --> 00:26:56,960
Speaker 1: sub to you. All right, Yeah, we'll be back. And

564
00:27:01,320 --> 00:27:06,199
Speaker 1: all right, y'all, we are back. It's time. No, I'm

565
00:27:06,200 --> 00:27:10,399
Speaker 1: not supposed to be a QA and now it's time

566
00:27:10,640 --> 00:27:13,800
Speaker 1: to boost up. Break up, boost up, break up, boost up?

567
00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:19,000
Speaker 1: Break Are you gonna boost? Are you gonna break? What

568
00:27:19,119 --> 00:27:19,639
Speaker 1: you're gonna do?

569
00:27:21,000 --> 00:27:23,119
Speaker 2: Would you go to H?

570
00:27:23,440 --> 00:27:25,040
Speaker 1: Well, I know that, Mandy, that you have a little

571
00:27:25,040 --> 00:27:27,240
Speaker 1: bit of a deeper boost. I mean I got a

572
00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:28,800
Speaker 1: real light boost. So can I go first?

573
00:27:29,440 --> 00:27:29,640
Speaker 2: Yes?

574
00:27:30,080 --> 00:27:33,159
Speaker 1: Light boost? So my light boost is going to be

575
00:27:33,920 --> 00:27:40,600
Speaker 1: laughing gas girl. Here's it legally, So I yesterday. I

576
00:27:40,840 --> 00:27:43,760
Speaker 1: have dental anxiety. I did not know it was actually

577
00:27:43,760 --> 00:27:45,160
Speaker 1: a thing. I mean, I knew I felt anxious when

578
00:27:45,160 --> 00:27:46,840
Speaker 1: I went to the dentist, but I didn't realize it

579
00:27:46,840 --> 00:27:49,920
Speaker 1: was like a thing thing until like some years back.

580
00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:52,159
Speaker 1: I saw a guy with one of my friends I

581
00:27:52,200 --> 00:27:55,840
Speaker 1: follow on Facebook had posted that his dental anxiety had

582
00:27:55,880 --> 00:27:57,719
Speaker 1: kept me from the kept him from the dentist for

583
00:27:57,760 --> 00:28:00,000
Speaker 1: like twenty years, and his teeth were like falling apart.

584
00:28:00,200 --> 00:28:03,120
Speaker 1: I'm talking about no cleaning, no nothing. And he found

585
00:28:03,200 --> 00:28:06,080
Speaker 1: a dentist I want to say, in Brooklyn that specialized

586
00:28:06,080 --> 00:28:08,040
Speaker 1: in people with dental anxiety, and they literally put him

587
00:28:08,040 --> 00:28:10,320
Speaker 1: to sleep to do all his dental work. He had

588
00:28:10,320 --> 00:28:13,159
Speaker 1: to go for like two or three weeks straight. And

589
00:28:13,200 --> 00:28:15,680
Speaker 1: I was like, wait, dental anxiety. I mean, I thought

590
00:28:15,680 --> 00:28:17,560
Speaker 1: we all just hated the dentists, but there are people

591
00:28:17,560 --> 00:28:20,719
Speaker 1: who actually experience more anxiety than others. And I realized

592
00:28:20,720 --> 00:28:22,159
Speaker 1: I had not been going. I mean, I take care

593
00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:23,800
Speaker 1: of my teeth, I brush, I do all this stuff,

594
00:28:24,200 --> 00:28:26,000
Speaker 1: but I was not going for cleanings. I was not,

595
00:28:26,119 --> 00:28:28,040
Speaker 1: you know, And I didn't say I wasn't really getting

596
00:28:28,040 --> 00:28:29,879
Speaker 1: a ton of cavities or anything like that, but still,

597
00:28:30,240 --> 00:28:33,320
Speaker 1: I'm like, girl, you need to go. So I once

598
00:28:33,359 --> 00:28:36,560
Speaker 1: I saw that post, I googled dentists for anxious people.

599
00:28:36,560 --> 00:28:38,120
Speaker 1: I'm like, good, that's the thing, and it was. And

600
00:28:38,160 --> 00:28:40,680
Speaker 1: I found a place in New Jersey hack and Sack

601
00:28:41,000 --> 00:28:44,920
Speaker 1: called Designing Smiles, I think it's called. And so I went,

602
00:28:45,480 --> 00:28:49,600
Speaker 1: and I freaking loved that place because so on the surface,

603
00:28:49,600 --> 00:28:52,000
Speaker 1: it's just a regular dentist, but they specialized in people

604
00:28:52,000 --> 00:28:54,280
Speaker 1: with dental anxiety. So you go, there are three levels

605
00:28:54,280 --> 00:28:58,000
Speaker 1: of things they can do for you. So one, my

606
00:28:58,080 --> 00:29:00,080
Speaker 1: last dentist before you used to take forever on my

607
00:29:00,120 --> 00:29:02,200
Speaker 1: cleanings and was a little rough. That almost I was like,

608
00:29:02,200 --> 00:29:04,520
Speaker 1: I can't come back here. They are really click quick

609
00:29:04,520 --> 00:29:06,600
Speaker 1: with the cleaning, like they're thorough, but they specialize in

610
00:29:06,680 --> 00:29:10,200
Speaker 1: being really fast because they know you're anxious. And they're

611
00:29:10,240 --> 00:29:12,440
Speaker 1: really gentle because that's one of the things that you know,

612
00:29:12,480 --> 00:29:17,440
Speaker 1: like that's drilling, screeping's like and they have levels. They're like,

613
00:29:17,640 --> 00:29:19,440
Speaker 1: I bring my headphones and I can listen to our

614
00:29:19,480 --> 00:29:21,920
Speaker 1: Like I listened to our podcast or music or whatever

615
00:29:22,440 --> 00:29:25,480
Speaker 1: while they're cleaning, and so like like loud enough to

616
00:29:25,560 --> 00:29:27,080
Speaker 1: kind of cover the drill, but not so loud. That

617
00:29:27,080 --> 00:29:29,320
Speaker 1: I can't hear instructions from them. So that level one

618
00:29:29,440 --> 00:29:32,400
Speaker 1: is bring your headphones to zone out. Level two is

619
00:29:32,840 --> 00:29:35,440
Speaker 1: so I had a I did end up having a

620
00:29:35,520 --> 00:29:37,400
Speaker 1: cavity because I had not been to the dentist since

621
00:29:37,640 --> 00:29:39,960
Speaker 1: before d'ell passed away. I just stopped doing everything. So

622
00:29:40,000 --> 00:29:41,680
Speaker 1: I had a cavity, and I had one of my

623
00:29:41,720 --> 00:29:44,160
Speaker 1: crowns had to be replaced because after eight ten years

624
00:29:44,160 --> 00:29:46,000
Speaker 1: you got to get a new crown. And so I

625
00:29:46,080 --> 00:29:48,880
Speaker 1: was like, huh, the headphones are not going to be enough.

626
00:29:48,920 --> 00:29:51,400
Speaker 1: They're like, well, we have laughing gas, and I was like,

627
00:29:51,560 --> 00:29:55,760
Speaker 1: tell me more, and like basically it just calms you down,

628
00:29:55,880 --> 00:29:58,479
Speaker 1: and I said okay. And then the next level, if

629
00:29:58,520 --> 00:30:01,560
Speaker 1: you are really really anxious, like shaking, they can actually

630
00:30:01,600 --> 00:30:03,720
Speaker 1: put you to sleep. Putting someone to sleep is never

631
00:30:03,760 --> 00:30:06,200
Speaker 1: idea in general, just because to put someone to sleep

632
00:30:06,240 --> 00:30:08,080
Speaker 1: you also have to wake them up, and there's always

633
00:30:08,120 --> 00:30:10,520
Speaker 1: a chance that like you know, you don't so, but

634
00:30:10,600 --> 00:30:11,840
Speaker 1: that is for like the next level.

635
00:30:12,000 --> 00:30:14,520
Speaker 2: Jesus, Yeah, well that's just in general anesthesia.

636
00:30:14,840 --> 00:30:16,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, like they could just put you to sleep, put

637
00:30:16,400 --> 00:30:18,920
Speaker 1: you to sleep, and so I said, okay, I don't

638
00:30:18,920 --> 00:30:20,440
Speaker 1: think I need that, and they don't. They don't jump there.

639
00:30:20,520 --> 00:30:21,840
Speaker 1: You have to kind of like progress up.

640
00:30:22,320 --> 00:30:23,920
Speaker 2: So more expensive too.

641
00:30:24,280 --> 00:30:26,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, So for the laughing gas. So I got the

642
00:30:26,200 --> 00:30:27,920
Speaker 1: two teeth done. For the laughing gas. It was an

643
00:30:27,920 --> 00:30:31,600
Speaker 1: additional one hundred and twenty five dollars. I was like, pet, okay,

644
00:30:31,760 --> 00:30:35,520
Speaker 1: when I tell you Mandy Show they put the little

645
00:30:35,520 --> 00:30:37,520
Speaker 1: like nolse on your nose. That eleven gas hit. So

646
00:30:37,640 --> 00:30:39,960
Speaker 1: leven gas feels like, you know, right before you're about

647
00:30:39,960 --> 00:30:42,200
Speaker 1: to fall asleep, you're in this hazy dream state where

648
00:30:42,200 --> 00:30:45,080
Speaker 1: you're like, oh my belt, it's a good dum, but

649
00:30:45,120 --> 00:30:48,280
Speaker 1: you're not quite asleep. Girl. That laughing gas hit.

650
00:30:48,400 --> 00:30:51,080
Speaker 2: I was like, what I feel like?

651
00:30:51,080 --> 00:30:52,680
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know smoke weed, but I feel like,

652
00:30:52,760 --> 00:30:54,440
Speaker 1: is this what the weed smokers were feeling like? I

653
00:30:54,480 --> 00:30:59,640
Speaker 1: was liked about the tea. I mean, he was drilling,

654
00:30:59,680 --> 00:31:01,760
Speaker 1: he was all the things, and I was like, chat,

655
00:31:01,880 --> 00:31:07,040
Speaker 1: go ahead, go ahead, for right, And that was so chill.

656
00:31:07,200 --> 00:31:09,760
Speaker 1: So this is how anxious I get. So my The

657
00:31:09,800 --> 00:31:11,960
Speaker 1: last time I went to the doctor, my blood pressure

658
00:31:12,000 --> 00:31:13,680
Speaker 1: was one sixteen over eighty, which is like good, we

659
00:31:13,800 --> 00:31:16,360
Speaker 1: went perfect, really good, sure please. I went to the

660
00:31:16,400 --> 00:31:18,280
Speaker 1: dentist the next day. They take your blood pressure at

661
00:31:18,280 --> 00:31:21,520
Speaker 1: this place. She was like, you're one forty six over.

662
00:31:21,800 --> 00:31:23,280
Speaker 1: Oh my my.

663
00:31:23,920 --> 00:31:24,160
Speaker 3: I was.

664
00:31:24,240 --> 00:31:27,360
Speaker 1: And meanwhile, I didn't feel like I was anxious, but

665
00:31:27,680 --> 00:31:29,880
Speaker 1: it was obvious my body was having a reaction because

666
00:31:29,920 --> 00:31:33,200
Speaker 1: I was. And she said, you really do have Dentzel anxiety.

667
00:31:33,240 --> 00:31:35,560
Speaker 1: I was like, cause I told her my doctor just yesterday,

668
00:31:35,560 --> 00:31:38,800
Speaker 1: I just went perfect blood pressure. She's like, okay, And

669
00:31:38,880 --> 00:31:41,440
Speaker 1: so I got my two teeth done, I had my

670
00:31:41,480 --> 00:31:44,160
Speaker 1: headphones on, I listened to a podcast and I had

671
00:31:44,200 --> 00:31:47,880
Speaker 1: the laughing ass and when I tell you, the level

672
00:31:47,920 --> 00:31:50,680
Speaker 1: of anxiety I felt was like a two. And so

673
00:31:50,920 --> 00:31:52,720
Speaker 1: he was done. He was like, you were a perfect patient.

674
00:31:52,760 --> 00:31:57,240
Speaker 1: I was like, huh. So it takes about ten minutes

675
00:31:57,280 --> 00:31:58,760
Speaker 1: for it to wear off once they take it off,

676
00:31:59,440 --> 00:32:01,360
Speaker 1: and I tell you, I tell you, I tell you.

677
00:32:01,520 --> 00:32:04,640
Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, now I'm not as anxious because one,

678
00:32:04,800 --> 00:32:07,080
Speaker 1: I don't get it for cleaning, so I don't need it,

679
00:32:07,760 --> 00:32:10,440
Speaker 1: but I'm not as anxious to go, and I call it.

680
00:32:10,480 --> 00:32:13,000
Speaker 1: I was calling one of my friends who gets really anxious,

681
00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:14,880
Speaker 1: and I told her I would go with her, but

682
00:32:14,960 --> 00:32:18,120
Speaker 1: I told her the experience and so, so these are

683
00:32:18,120 --> 00:32:19,800
Speaker 1: one of the things like like what is the money

684
00:32:19,800 --> 00:32:22,840
Speaker 1: for this additional expense was worth it. The one twenty

685
00:32:22,840 --> 00:32:25,080
Speaker 1: five was worth it on top of what I had

686
00:32:25,080 --> 00:32:27,760
Speaker 1: to pay for dental, and you know, I had dental insurance,

687
00:32:27,800 --> 00:32:31,360
Speaker 1: but I like capped out on like my deductible or whatever.

688
00:32:32,720 --> 00:32:34,520
Speaker 1: And so yeah, so it just was worth to spend.

689
00:32:35,120 --> 00:32:38,600
Speaker 1: And so I just encourage anyone you know that if

690
00:32:38,600 --> 00:32:42,760
Speaker 1: you have any sort of anything medically, you know that

691
00:32:42,880 --> 00:32:44,600
Speaker 1: sometimes we tell ourselves this is just how it has

692
00:32:44,640 --> 00:32:47,840
Speaker 1: to go, and that's not necessarily true. Like I didn't

693
00:32:47,840 --> 00:32:49,760
Speaker 1: know there were dentists for people who were anxious, and

694
00:32:49,760 --> 00:32:52,560
Speaker 1: I'm so glad that I found some one, Yeah, because

695
00:32:52,600 --> 00:32:55,920
Speaker 1: like I said, they're great, and yeah, like it's a question.

696
00:32:55,720 --> 00:32:57,840
Speaker 3: Should just be a dentist for anxious people?

697
00:32:57,880 --> 00:32:59,960
Speaker 1: I mean, and it's black, only by a woman who's

698
00:33:00,040 --> 00:33:02,200
Speaker 1: started it. So there's like my dentist was a black

699
00:33:02,240 --> 00:33:04,800
Speaker 1: doctor my and so I love that too. You know,

700
00:33:04,800 --> 00:33:07,240
Speaker 1: we'd love to support the blacks round here, which is great.

701
00:33:08,000 --> 00:33:10,520
Speaker 1: So yeah, it's just worth the price, worth the extra expense.

702
00:33:10,560 --> 00:33:12,840
Speaker 1: I know everybody can't afford it, That's not what I'm saying.

703
00:33:13,120 --> 00:33:15,920
Speaker 1: But for me, you know, when people say what is

704
00:33:15,920 --> 00:33:18,480
Speaker 1: the money for? This is one of those areas where

705
00:33:18,480 --> 00:33:20,000
Speaker 1: I was like, I know, it's an extra hundred twenty

706
00:33:20,040 --> 00:33:23,480
Speaker 1: five dollars, but because extra twenty five dollars, one hundred

707
00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:25,760
Speaker 1: twenty five dollars meant that I don't avoid this for

708
00:33:25,760 --> 00:33:28,520
Speaker 1: another six months, which means, you know, a cavity could

709
00:33:28,520 --> 00:33:30,000
Speaker 1: become a root canal. So all of a sudden, you know,

710
00:33:30,040 --> 00:33:32,920
Speaker 1: you get yourself, a two hundred dollars for a cavity

711
00:33:33,120 --> 00:33:35,560
Speaker 1: is a fifteen hundred dollars two thousand dollars root canal.

712
00:33:36,000 --> 00:33:37,760
Speaker 1: And so in the long run, the one twenty five

713
00:33:37,800 --> 00:33:40,160
Speaker 1: allows me not to have to spend whatever one thousand

714
00:33:40,160 --> 00:33:43,160
Speaker 1: plus dollars to do doo deeper work, you know, so.

715
00:33:43,440 --> 00:33:46,440
Speaker 3: And the requires across which is another eight to ten years,

716
00:33:46,440 --> 00:33:50,000
Speaker 3: and the girl plays that girl, so I know it was.

717
00:33:49,920 --> 00:33:51,720
Speaker 1: Worth the cost. So yes, I mean, so we talking

718
00:33:51,720 --> 00:33:54,680
Speaker 1: about laughing as I'm talking about at the dentist, not

719
00:33:54,800 --> 00:33:55,200
Speaker 1: at home.

720
00:33:55,960 --> 00:33:58,520
Speaker 2: But it was great, you know.

721
00:33:58,600 --> 00:34:00,960
Speaker 3: In the midst of all my like really really tough

722
00:34:01,160 --> 00:34:03,720
Speaker 3: last few months. I dragged myself to my doctor for

723
00:34:03,800 --> 00:34:07,520
Speaker 3: my annual physical and that alone gives me so much anxiety,

724
00:34:07,520 --> 00:34:09,960
Speaker 3: and I was like looking for every reason not to go.

725
00:34:10,239 --> 00:34:12,839
Speaker 3: I ended up self sabotaging to where I had both

726
00:34:12,920 --> 00:34:15,239
Speaker 3: kids home with me that day and I was like, oh,

727
00:34:15,320 --> 00:34:17,279
Speaker 3: well I can't, but I anyway, I forced myself to go,

728
00:34:18,040 --> 00:34:19,879
Speaker 3: and I think I talked about that, but I got

729
00:34:19,880 --> 00:34:23,320
Speaker 3: my results back and my cholesterol is not that cute,

730
00:34:23,400 --> 00:34:26,800
Speaker 3: you guys. It was apparently it was too eighty six

731
00:34:27,160 --> 00:34:32,200
Speaker 3: last December, and I like didn't comprehend. I didn't really

732
00:34:32,239 --> 00:34:34,880
Speaker 3: like it didn't sink in for me. But anyway, it

733
00:34:34,920 --> 00:34:37,160
Speaker 3: went down this time, okay, but it's still like in

734
00:34:37,200 --> 00:34:40,719
Speaker 3: the high range is two thirty six okay, and I

735
00:34:40,960 --> 00:34:43,080
Speaker 3: and especially after everything my dad has been going through,

736
00:34:43,160 --> 00:34:46,520
Speaker 3: I was like, Okay, it makes sense that I'm not

737
00:34:46,600 --> 00:34:49,360
Speaker 3: at my healthy estate right now, but at least I

738
00:34:49,400 --> 00:34:53,080
Speaker 3: went and now I have the information. Yeah, but that

739
00:34:53,120 --> 00:34:57,799
Speaker 3: anxiety can stop so many people from getting the info

740
00:34:57,920 --> 00:34:59,279
Speaker 3: that could make them healthier.

741
00:35:00,080 --> 00:35:01,880
Speaker 1: Me. I'm like, if I'm gonna spend money like for me,

742
00:35:01,920 --> 00:35:03,440
Speaker 1: I went saying, Mandy, I went to I had not

743
00:35:03,480 --> 00:35:05,359
Speaker 1: been to a doctor since before Darrell passed away, because

744
00:35:05,360 --> 00:35:07,879
Speaker 1: I just kind of gave up obviously. So it was crazy.

745
00:35:07,920 --> 00:35:09,600
Speaker 1: I was in the doctor's She's like, I see here.

746
00:35:09,640 --> 00:35:11,000
Speaker 1: You haven't been here in two years. I had a

747
00:35:11,040 --> 00:35:15,319
Speaker 1: doctor before she got cancer, and she just was not

748
00:35:16,120 --> 00:35:18,600
Speaker 1: available obviously, and so I was looking for a new one.

749
00:35:18,640 --> 00:35:20,200
Speaker 1: And then Drell passed away and then I was like,

750
00:35:20,440 --> 00:35:22,160
Speaker 1: I'm not doing none of this stuff. So when I

751
00:35:22,160 --> 00:35:24,040
Speaker 1: got back, I did not expect to be crying at

752
00:35:24,040 --> 00:35:25,960
Speaker 1: the doctor's office. And she's like, why haven't you been here?

753
00:35:25,960 --> 00:35:29,400
Speaker 1: I was like, well, I know. She was so sweet.

754
00:35:30,200 --> 00:35:32,520
Speaker 1: So I love my new doctor. My sister suggested her,

755
00:35:32,960 --> 00:35:34,480
Speaker 1: and she's like, well, you're back now, and I'm glad

756
00:35:34,480 --> 00:35:37,160
Speaker 1: you're taking care of yourself. I too, got my results

757
00:35:37,200 --> 00:35:40,120
Speaker 1: from my chart or whatever, and I'm vitamin D deficient,

758
00:35:40,160 --> 00:35:44,440
Speaker 1: which I heard is very common. Same th so I

759
00:35:44,440 --> 00:35:45,680
Speaker 1: have to figure out, like what's a good way I

760
00:35:45,680 --> 00:35:46,480
Speaker 1: have to I got to ask my.

761
00:35:46,400 --> 00:35:47,840
Speaker 3: Mom to take a supplement.

762
00:35:48,120 --> 00:35:50,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm going to take a supplement. And then I

763
00:35:50,120 --> 00:35:55,120
Speaker 1: found out that I am pre diabetic. I was like, wait, Haley, yes,

764
00:35:55,440 --> 00:35:58,399
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie I'm a carb and Sweet got

765
00:35:58,400 --> 00:35:59,239
Speaker 1: a choke hold on me.

766
00:36:00,040 --> 00:36:02,000
Speaker 3: It doesn't even matter what your diet is. It's just

767
00:36:02,000 --> 00:36:03,440
Speaker 3: like genetics sometimes.

768
00:36:03,600 --> 00:36:05,920
Speaker 1: Well she said, like, I feel like it is my

769
00:36:06,040 --> 00:36:07,680
Speaker 1: diet because if you can only see the sweet time

770
00:36:07,719 --> 00:36:11,520
Speaker 1: and sleep like, I mean, yeah, so my mom doesn't have,

771
00:36:11,600 --> 00:36:14,400
Speaker 1: my dad doesn't have. So she said it's pretty and

772
00:36:14,440 --> 00:36:17,120
Speaker 1: pretty early stage, you know. So just she's like basically

773
00:36:17,600 --> 00:36:20,280
Speaker 1: Tiffany Monster because I I'm not gonna lie. The last

774
00:36:20,360 --> 00:36:22,719
Speaker 1: few at least maybe the last six months to a year,

775
00:36:23,080 --> 00:36:25,839
Speaker 1: I have just been like, girl, yes, I'll take more

776
00:36:25,880 --> 00:36:28,160
Speaker 1: syrup on my pancake, on top of my thissk, on

777
00:36:28,200 --> 00:36:29,880
Speaker 1: top of my cookie on the side, on top of

778
00:36:29,880 --> 00:36:33,640
Speaker 1: my dessert. You know, You're so funny for i know,

779
00:36:33,840 --> 00:36:36,719
Speaker 1: like ice cream, ice ice cream, And so I was

780
00:36:36,760 --> 00:36:38,960
Speaker 1: just like, so she basically was like, let's see if

781
00:36:39,000 --> 00:36:41,879
Speaker 1: you change your diet, you know, and then let's see

782
00:36:41,920 --> 00:36:43,839
Speaker 1: how what it does to your point. And so those

783
00:36:43,840 --> 00:36:45,319
Speaker 1: are the only two things. Everything else, like, you know,

784
00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:47,120
Speaker 1: she said, your cholesterol actually was excellent. So I was

785
00:36:47,120 --> 00:36:49,080
Speaker 1: proud of myself because I stopped eating fried foods a

786
00:36:49,160 --> 00:36:51,719
Speaker 1: very long time ago. You know, I walk every day

787
00:36:52,040 --> 00:36:55,320
Speaker 1: just about but and she was like, you know, kidney function,

788
00:36:55,920 --> 00:36:58,520
Speaker 1: everything else, every other level was where it should be.

789
00:36:59,239 --> 00:37:02,320
Speaker 1: But she was like, girls, pre diabetes. And I'd heard

790
00:37:02,840 --> 00:37:06,279
Speaker 1: that once you are diabetic, you're always diabetic. You just

791
00:37:06,360 --> 00:37:07,600
Speaker 1: manage it. I don't know.

792
00:37:07,760 --> 00:37:11,359
Speaker 3: No, not necessarily no, because like my dad had weight

793
00:37:11,400 --> 00:37:14,120
Speaker 3: loss surgery a long time ago, and he was officially

794
00:37:14,160 --> 00:37:18,759
Speaker 3: like not diabetic. Okay, So when you have type one diabetes,

795
00:37:18,800 --> 00:37:21,279
Speaker 3: which is the kind that's like you can't control it,

796
00:37:21,280 --> 00:37:22,959
Speaker 3: it's just like you either got it or you don't.

797
00:37:23,000 --> 00:37:25,480
Speaker 3: You can't get rid of that. But yeah, type two,

798
00:37:25,640 --> 00:37:29,240
Speaker 3: type two, you just it's kind of like the idea

799
00:37:29,280 --> 00:37:32,480
Speaker 3: of when a cancer goes into remission, you know, like

800
00:37:32,920 --> 00:37:35,200
Speaker 3: that and go like there could be a time I

801
00:37:35,200 --> 00:37:37,000
Speaker 3: think you always have to be like on alert. But

802
00:37:37,200 --> 00:37:39,240
Speaker 3: your blood sugar level was all your blood sugar levels

803
00:37:39,239 --> 00:37:42,080
Speaker 3: and if you're if they're staying consistently in a healthy range,

804
00:37:42,120 --> 00:37:44,760
Speaker 3: then I would say, I mean I'm not a doctor, obviously,

805
00:37:44,800 --> 00:37:47,680
Speaker 3: but having heard so many doctors, my dad was like

806
00:37:47,760 --> 00:37:50,760
Speaker 3: so adamant every and it was not even really relevant

807
00:37:50,800 --> 00:37:52,479
Speaker 3: to what was happening with him then, but it became

808
00:37:52,520 --> 00:37:55,080
Speaker 3: a point of pride for him to have everyone acknowledge

809
00:37:55,080 --> 00:38:00,000
Speaker 3: he's no longer diabetic. I love that though, And I'm like, okay, Dad, yeah,

810
00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:00,960
Speaker 3: you're not diabetic.

811
00:38:01,719 --> 00:38:04,359
Speaker 2: Sugar is immaculate. He's like, trump, I got.

812
00:38:04,239 --> 00:38:10,400
Speaker 1: A beautiful blood sugar. Oh boy, Well that that I

813
00:38:10,440 --> 00:38:13,840
Speaker 1: told all my business between like my cavity and the

814
00:38:13,960 --> 00:38:19,000
Speaker 1: diabetics beat us. I got a little touch of sugar.

815
00:38:20,480 --> 00:38:21,880
Speaker 1: You know. I know we're gonna be flooded. And I

816
00:38:21,880 --> 00:38:24,600
Speaker 1: don't mind. Girl, if you are a nurse or a doctor, whatever,

817
00:38:24,719 --> 00:38:26,719
Speaker 1: you got some tips for the for the vitamin D.

818
00:38:27,000 --> 00:38:29,439
Speaker 1: I am not a pill swallower, so come with something.

819
00:38:29,560 --> 00:38:32,600
Speaker 1: Is there is there a liquid? No, girl, I cannot.

820
00:38:32,640 --> 00:38:35,320
Speaker 2: Is there the babies a liquid salt?

821
00:38:35,320 --> 00:38:38,240
Speaker 3: There's definitely there's definitely a gummy. I hate gummies.

822
00:38:38,239 --> 00:38:39,200
Speaker 2: I'm I'm a swallow.

823
00:38:39,560 --> 00:38:41,640
Speaker 1: I love see look look at me already. Look I'm

824
00:38:41,640 --> 00:38:50,759
Speaker 1: already sugary gummy.

825
00:38:50,840 --> 00:38:53,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, and they just like they roll the gummies and sugar.

826
00:38:53,480 --> 00:38:56,279
Speaker 1: Now, I mean it's bad. I'm not gonna lie. I

827
00:38:56,680 --> 00:39:00,239
Speaker 1: feel like I was like addicted to Flintstone's chewabols. I thought,

828
00:39:00,320 --> 00:39:01,880
Speaker 1: let me another one. My Mom's like it's only one

829
00:39:01,880 --> 00:39:02,080
Speaker 1: to day.

830
00:39:02,120 --> 00:39:05,040
Speaker 3: I'm like, see they still up to be diabetics. I mean,

831
00:39:05,480 --> 00:39:06,840
Speaker 3: so there's a multi vitamin.

832
00:39:06,920 --> 00:39:08,839
Speaker 1: I probably shouldn't take a gummy. Scratch that. I don't

833
00:39:08,880 --> 00:39:10,640
Speaker 1: want a gummy because I'm gonna time to be like, well,

834
00:39:10,680 --> 00:39:14,000
Speaker 1: one is better than two, right, so let's go.

835
00:39:14,800 --> 00:39:15,560
Speaker 2: Swallow a pill.

836
00:39:15,920 --> 00:39:17,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, maybe a liquid supping because because I have

837
00:39:17,760 --> 00:39:19,719
Speaker 1: to take it daily, So maybe like a liquid suffing

838
00:39:19,719 --> 00:39:21,120
Speaker 1: I can put in water or something like that.

839
00:39:21,600 --> 00:39:22,479
Speaker 2: I have one of those.

840
00:39:22,680 --> 00:39:25,520
Speaker 3: I have a cute little pill case now. And it's

841
00:39:25,560 --> 00:39:29,680
Speaker 3: mostly vitamins because I'm I started taking magnesium and B

842
00:39:29,760 --> 00:39:32,840
Speaker 3: twelve I heard it really helps with like mood. Yeah.

843
00:39:33,120 --> 00:39:37,080
Speaker 3: Then and vitamin D on top of that, and I

844
00:39:37,120 --> 00:39:39,840
Speaker 3: don't know if it's I don't know, but I'm finally.

845
00:39:40,080 --> 00:39:42,200
Speaker 3: I have been vitamin D deficient for a long time.

846
00:39:42,719 --> 00:39:46,520
Speaker 3: And the doctor's like, so are you taking Yeah? I did,

847
00:39:46,719 --> 00:39:47,799
Speaker 3: finally I'm doing it.

848
00:39:47,880 --> 00:39:51,080
Speaker 1: So yeah, okay, well all right, well are you gonna

849
00:39:51,080 --> 00:39:53,239
Speaker 1: boost upbreak Maddy? Now, like I said, we don't all

850
00:39:53,239 --> 00:39:53,400
Speaker 1: of this.

851
00:39:55,040 --> 00:39:58,000
Speaker 3: We down told all the business. Let me see, well,

852
00:39:58,040 --> 00:40:00,840
Speaker 3: since it's September, I'm gonna boost for September.

853
00:40:01,760 --> 00:40:02,440
Speaker 1: Okay.

854
00:40:03,200 --> 00:40:03,759
Speaker 3: Do you hear that?

855
00:40:03,960 --> 00:40:04,960
Speaker 2: Do you hear the rumbling?

856
00:40:05,960 --> 00:40:09,279
Speaker 3: It's the It is the sound of everybody who has

857
00:40:09,360 --> 00:40:13,160
Speaker 3: power in hiring positions returning to the office after the

858
00:40:13,239 --> 00:40:17,439
Speaker 3: holiday the summer season, and they are dusting off their

859
00:40:18,239 --> 00:40:21,160
Speaker 3: keyboards and they are getting back to emails. They are

860
00:40:21,200 --> 00:40:24,120
Speaker 3: getting back on the hiring front, it's just a known

861
00:40:24,280 --> 00:40:27,520
Speaker 3: trend in September. They call it September surge. It's the

862
00:40:27,560 --> 00:40:31,400
Speaker 3: fact that more hiring tends to happen. It doesn't always

863
00:40:31,400 --> 00:40:34,160
Speaker 3: mean that there's like, all of a sudden, there's more jobs.

864
00:40:34,560 --> 00:40:37,040
Speaker 3: I really think it's down to the fact that it's

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Speaker 3: just like post September, people get their shit together because

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Speaker 3: now everyone's in the mode of like, Okay, we got

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Speaker 3: to get these new hires in, We've got to get

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Speaker 3: these roles filled, get them in, get them trained. The

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Speaker 3: holiday season is coming, like let's go, go go, And

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Speaker 3: I think everyone is just more switched on in September.

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Speaker 3: So for anyone, and I think a lot right now,

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Speaker 3: the data is showing that not no surprise, people at

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Speaker 3: work are not quitting like they were a couple of

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Speaker 3: years ago. They are feeling like, Okay, let's make this

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Speaker 3: work because the job market is like way more competitive.

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Speaker 2: There's not as many jobs as there were.

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Speaker 3: But it would be really wise, even if you are

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Speaker 3: sort of like sheltering in place at your current role,

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Speaker 3: it'd be really wise to start getting a little bit

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Speaker 3: more active on LinkedIn. If there is something if there

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Speaker 3: is some indication that you know, whether you just have

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Speaker 3: a gut feeling like ah, there's something off here, I

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Speaker 3: want to maybe look at other opportunities, or if you're

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Speaker 3: still getting the mixed messages from management about like your

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Speaker 3: opportunities for advancement, then this is just a great time

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Speaker 3: for anyone to be getting on LinkedIn, making sure your

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Speaker 3: profiles in tiptop shape. It's also the season of like

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Speaker 3: all the networking events start happening again, and conferences it's

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Speaker 3: like popping off. So if you don't have any plans

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Speaker 3: for like some kind of professional networking event in September

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Speaker 3: or the next few months, I would say plan for

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Speaker 3: some because this is just the time when people are

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Speaker 3: in the mode of Okay, holidays are coming, let's get

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Speaker 3: some stuff done. What else can I say? Update your LinkedIn?

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Speaker 3: Of course, yes, dust off your resume, that's always good.

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Speaker 3: Think about like setting what kind of goals, Like I

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Speaker 3: don't want you to go out there and apply for

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Speaker 3: every single thing that you see, but like really specifically

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Speaker 3: applied to roles if they speak to you, like if

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Speaker 3: they are where you want to go, and then do

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Speaker 3: your follow ups, like if you had applied for things

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Speaker 3: over the summer and hadn't heard back, like send those

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Speaker 3: follow up emails. It may just be that there was

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Speaker 3: some kind of pause for all the holidays and the

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Speaker 3: vacations and stuff. But take an opportunity to reach back out,

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Speaker 3: even reach back out to the recruiters. It's surprising to me,

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Speaker 3: like how many people forget about the recruiters who reach

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Speaker 3: out to them for opportunities, and they're like, can you

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Speaker 3: do a phone screen? Okay, cool, you do a phone screen.

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Speaker 3: You don't make it through the first round, and then

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Speaker 3: you go about your life. But those recruiters, they keep recruiting,

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Speaker 3: and even they may be working for several different firms.

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Speaker 3: So even just reaching back out to the recruiters who

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Speaker 3: contacted you in the past, let them know that you're open.

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Speaker 3: If they're a good recruiter, they're always looking for great talent,

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Speaker 3: so this could be a good time to just like

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Speaker 3: pop back up on their radar, say hey, hi, tell

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Speaker 3: them what you're looking for and see what shakes out.

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Speaker 1: That's a really good advice. I didn't realize it was

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Speaker 1: September search, Like, I guess that makes sense. You know,

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Speaker 1: summertimes a little slow. That really makes sense. So, yes,

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Speaker 1: why are you trying to get it. Here's the thing, right,

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Speaker 1: why we call ourselves Brown Ambition is that it's not

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Speaker 1: just money. Money is a tool for your holistic better

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