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Speaker 1: Good Morning, This is Laura. Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast.
Speaker 1: Today's tip is to let limits help you make choices.
Speaker 1: We don't generally seek out limits, but when we encounter them,
Speaker 1: we can acknowledge that sometimes they have their benefits. They
Speaker 1: help us prioritize, and that's not necessarily a bad thing.
Speaker 1: Like many folks, I realized not long ago that I
Speaker 1: had ended up with a fair amount of stuff in
Speaker 1: my closet that I didn't wear. My husband had the
Speaker 1: same problem. Neither of us felt compelled to do much
Speaker 1: about it. Then we had a fifth baby. We are
Speaker 1: eventually going to move to a house where the baby
Speaker 1: will have a room, but the renovations are taking a while,
Speaker 1: and in the meantime we decided to put his crib
Speaker 1: in the master bedroom closet. This required cleaning out an
Speaker 1: entire corner, two double racks plus a single one, and
Speaker 1: the pile of stuff we had on the floor, So
Speaker 1: we each took some time and got rid of what
Speaker 1: didn't fit in our remaining space. Much of what we
Speaker 1: got rid of could have been disposed of years ago,
Speaker 1: but we didn't have an obvious need to do so.
Speaker 1: Once we had a need, the limits on our space
Speaker 1: made decisions a little easier. Maybe you can use the
Speaker 1: same principle. If you have more books than bookshelf space,
Speaker 1: and trust me, I sympathize with us, get rid of
Speaker 1: some books, take the bookshelf space you have as a given,
Speaker 1: decide which books you want to keep on those shelves,
Speaker 1: and then let the rest go. It is time consuming
Speaker 1: and exhausting to ask yourself whether or not you want
Speaker 1: to keep each and every book, and to contemplate the
Speaker 1: likelihood that you want to reread it or lend it
Speaker 1: to a friend, and then start shopping through the universe
Speaker 1: of extra bookcases that might or might not go in
Speaker 1: your house. It's much easier to accept the limit of
Speaker 1: the size of your bookcase and right size your library
Speaker 1: for the available shelf space. If all your books have
Speaker 1: a home, grete you have the right number. If not,
Speaker 1: keep grabbing books you can give away until your shelves
Speaker 1: provide enough space. Limits can help us decide what to
Speaker 1: do with our time too. If you have ever worked
Speaker 1: in a department that was short staffed, you probably noticed
Speaker 1: that amazingly, the most critical work still got done. Now
Speaker 1: maybe a lot of other great stuff didn't get done,
Speaker 1: and I'm not suggesting cutting just to do so, but
Speaker 1: when there are limited hands available, this inspires a certain
Speaker 1: level of focus. Same thing with our personal lives. During
Speaker 1: a busy weekend, when there is less time available for
Speaker 1: life maintenance and household tasks. You will certainly make a
Speaker 1: quick stop at the store for the obvious stuff, but
Speaker 1: you won't visit three big box stores hunting for the
Speaker 1: perfect shovel. You will probably do laundry, but you aren't
Speaker 1: going to dust the base boards. You can even intentionally
Speaker 1: plan less time for life maintenance tasks so that they
Speaker 1: don't take over your weekend. Instead of thinking of Saturday
Speaker 1: as errand day, devote an hour or two to errands
Speaker 1: and let that limit help you decide which errands you
Speaker 1: actually need to do. Of course, lots of people are
Speaker 1: experiencing time constraints in their professional lives right now that
Speaker 1: they didn't really choose. Hopefully, schools and child care will
Speaker 1: be back to their usual operations soon, but in the meantime,
Speaker 1: if you have fewer hours available for your job responsibilities,
Speaker 1: I am guessing that, as a listener of this podcast,
Speaker 1: you are likely identifying the most import work and doing
Speaker 1: what fits with the available time. Wise move and if
Speaker 1: you aren't doing that, well, take a little time to
Speaker 1: consciously determine what's most important and what can be put
Speaker 1: on the back burner. Life won't always be like this,
Speaker 1: but maybe you can find a few tasks that never
Speaker 1: need to be prioritized again, and that is worth knowing.
Speaker 1: So today, if you are contending with limits on your
Speaker 1: time or space, start by being realistic and acknowledging the limit.
Speaker 1: All right, there are four hours I can do focused
Speaker 1: work today. What are my top priorities? Or we have
Speaker 1: a small car and a lot of stuff we wanted
Speaker 1: to take on this trip. What do we actually need
Speaker 1: the most? Then, without overthinking it, decide what's most essential
Speaker 1: to fit within your limits and what you can set aside.
Speaker 1: Handled such limits can make all decisions easier in the meantime.
Speaker 1: This is Laura. Thanks for listening, and here's to making
Speaker 1: the most of our time. Hey, everybody, I'd love to
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