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Speaker 2: My sister in law stole my baby's name, but I

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Speaker 2: played her with the perfect bluff.

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Speaker 1: That's actually not the name.

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Speaker 2: I female thirty two, have been married to my husband,

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Speaker 2: male thirty two for two years, but together for nine years.

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Speaker 2: I get along well with everyone in the family except

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Speaker 2: my brother in law's girlfriend, Bethany, female thirty six. She

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Speaker 2: and my brother in law male forty have been together

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Speaker 2: for three years. She came into the family with an

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Speaker 2: overconfidence that comes across as arrogant. We initially thought that

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Speaker 2: she might be nervous and overcompensating, but we soon learned

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Speaker 2: that that was just her personality. By the way, this

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Speaker 2: Okay Storytime supread it obviously read them. And I'm Angie,

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Speaker 2: I'm Riley, and I'm Keon no p says she took

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Speaker 2: an instant dislike to me. It turns out that my

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Speaker 2: brother in law once paid me a compliment about my hair,

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Speaker 2: saying the new color and style suited me. That was it.

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Speaker 2: She threw daggers with her eyes all night and was

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Speaker 2: angry we got married before her.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, she's just the jealous, tithe like you.

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Speaker 2: Gotta take up this issue with your guy, not with me.

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Speaker 1: Stop giving women compliments, That's what she would say.

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Speaker 2: Yeah exactly. I just accepted that's who she is and

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Speaker 2: moved on. Life's too short to care. Fast forward to

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Speaker 2: some months ago and she announced that she was pregnant.

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Speaker 2: We were all happy for her. Little did I know

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Speaker 2: that I was pregnant too.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a competition now.

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Speaker 2: Oh sorry. She was not happy when she found out

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Speaker 2: that we were due two weeks apart.

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Speaker 1: Oh no.

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Speaker 2: She immediately started demanding to know our baby names. I

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Speaker 2: refused to tell her and gave the generic we're waiting

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Speaker 2: until we see them first, which was a lie. My

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Speaker 2: husband and I have had names picked out for a

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Speaker 2: long time. After every event, she would corner me or

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Speaker 2: send messages demanding to know. Eventually we were at her

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Speaker 2: baby shower and I had had enough. We were both

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Speaker 2: name that was very special to us. We were combining

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Speaker 2: my mother's names, Hilda and Matilda, and had.

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Speaker 4: Chosen Hittilda Atila Atila, Hotilda, Httila, Hitla. It's hit it's

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Speaker 4: probab well with how those sounds hit Hilda and Matilda,

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Speaker 4: it's probably Hittila.

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Speaker 1: Atilda, Hatilda, Hotila.

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Speaker 2: The only thing I got from Matilda was the tea

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Speaker 2: and the extra l.

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Speaker 1: Yeah that's funny.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but what you guys do your own thing, you guys.

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Speaker 1: Does no one else see a problem with.

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Speaker 3: This Hotila Attila? You know?

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Speaker 2: I I see what you're saying. It's now where my

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Speaker 2: mind went. But I do see what you're saying anyone else, Yeah.

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Speaker 3: That's where your mind's going. I picked it up. Okay, No,

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Speaker 3: I don't get that.

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Speaker 2: You can't do that. You can't do that. To say that,

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Speaker 2: I'm just.

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Speaker 1: Saying they should do that. Then she'd have that name.

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Speaker 2: We're moving on. She smirked, and I made her promise

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Speaker 2: not to tell anyone. We had our babies two days apart,

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Speaker 2: due to my mother in law being unwell. Both babies

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Speaker 2: decided it would be nice to do a name unveiling

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Speaker 2: out of family gathering. Bethany got up and did a

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Speaker 1: She fell for the babe that's on the birth certificate.

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Speaker 1: It's real.

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Speaker 2: That's crazy. Oh wait, okay, but you think Ope lied

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Speaker 2: to her a hun Okay, okay, because I didn't want

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Speaker 2: that name. But we all said it was unique. Bethany

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Speaker 2: and introduced our daughter Rose, named after my mother in law. Oh,

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Speaker 2: it's the two. It's she's getting a better win with

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Speaker 2: the family that she's also married into. Dude, it's a

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Speaker 1: You hit childood.

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, that is crazy. Everyone said, ah, and

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Speaker 1: Dude, right now, you did it? Did it? You did

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Speaker 2: I don't think that was I think that was just

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Speaker 1: But dude, the grandmothers are there and they're like, yo,

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Speaker 1: this is so, this is what family's about. Yeah yeah yeah,

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Speaker 1: they're like they're getting the people go win.

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Speaker 2: Wait, like the grandmother is like of these new babies.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well they got them all together, and the grandmothers

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Speaker 1: are now like yes, yeah, let's go. Yeah. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Bethany had a face like thunder when she got me alone.

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Speaker 2: Bethany snarled, what the was that? Why didn't you tell

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Speaker 2: me you changed your mind? I laughed and responded, you

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Speaker 2: didn't think I was serious, did you? Why would I

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Speaker 2: name it my child after two guys that caused so

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Speaker 2: much pain and destruction? Shh Yeah yeah, she looks puzzled,

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Speaker 2: So I said, Hitler Attila and the hun Attila.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, you're right, You're right, you got it.

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Speaker 1: Riley, good job, you're the dragon in this one. These

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Speaker 2: Ever ever Wait, yeah, this is actually crazy, because this

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Speaker 2: She tricked her and said like, oh yeah, I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: give you an ugly button name to name your child.

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Speaker 2: I know you're gonna fall for it, and she did.

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Speaker 2: And also stupid of this other girl to be like,

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Speaker 2: oh my god, I thought we both named the kid

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Speaker 2: the same name, and you were gonna look stupid like

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Speaker 2: you were copying me, Like what stupid? And then obviously

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Speaker 2: Opie gets bonus points with rose beautiful name and bonus

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Speaker 2: points from that being the mother in law's name named

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Speaker 2: in law, and bonus the name was actually all of

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Speaker 1: That is you too key on. I know you also

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Speaker 1: disagreed with me, and I was right, well, I.

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Speaker 2: Didn't disagree, just the snow wre my mind went, but.

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Speaker 3: I didn't disagree, and my mind was like, okay, that's

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Speaker 3: kind of weird. They didn't put the dun in it.

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Speaker 3: But all right, Catilda, yeah, have you seen my name?

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Speaker 2: My name's obscures heck, so, I said, But I'm glad

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Speaker 2: for you and your family.

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Speaker 2: She went crazy and started screaming at me, throwing paper

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Speaker 2: day before my brother in law had to take her

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Speaker 2: away to calm down. The family has mixed feelings about

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Speaker 3: Change the name that wasn't. Again, that's not your fault,

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Speaker 3: that's her decision.

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Speaker 2: Literally. Yeah, my husband knew what I had done and

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Speaker 2: So am I the a hole? I had a feeling

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Speaker 2: that she would steal the name? But is it my

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Speaker 2: fault that she took it? No? No, you're just exposing her,

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Speaker 2: like the reason. She can't even explain that to anyone,

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Speaker 2: the explanation from her. You stole her name, and then

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Speaker 2: when she didn't copy or like seem like she copied you,

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Speaker 1: Like, girl, come on, be original.

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Speaker 2: When you said to everyone in your announcement that it

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and Bonus is terrible name, Okay, and now you

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Speaker 1: have to go and change your kid's name to something

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's crazy, So we do have an update. This

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Speaker 2: I still giggle when I think about it. I would too, dude.

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Speaker 2: My husband spoke to his brother last night and they

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Speaker 2: eventually gave it. Wait, that's so funny. So the brother

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Speaker 2: to her, but he didn't realize that meaning was pettiness.

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Speaker 2: Ever since finding out she didn't get our real name.

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Speaker 2: She's been crying and throwing tantrums. Brother in law said

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Speaker 2: their daughter as a pawn in her one sided game,

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Speaker 2: but now he gets to change her name and Bethany

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Speaker 2: cannot have a say. He was thinking about proposing at Christmas,

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Speaker 1: Oh ooh, since, yeah, dang, you also ruined their marriage.

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Speaker 2: Good job, ob not well, yeah, she didn't even have

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Speaker 1: Story, said one name.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. This has shone a light on so much and

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Speaker 2: has him thinking about his future with her. He'd never

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Speaker 2: abandon their child, but he wants security for his daughter,

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Speaker 2: not insecure actions. Mother in law asked for a family

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Speaker 2: dinner to resolve the issues. I'll update you when it happens,

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Speaker 2: no doubt. More drama will unravel, and there's another update

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Speaker 2: and I could tell well. Opie says, things got interesting,

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Speaker 2: So oh my gosh, I'm so excited.

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Speaker 1: Just how as a person, why would you want to

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Speaker 1: steal someone's name and just do that for what, like

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Speaker 1: Chris makes no sense whatsoever.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're willing to give your daughter an ugly name

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Speaker 2: just to prove, just to like get some sort of

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Speaker 2: that could easily. That's why I think being mean is

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Speaker 2: so embarrassing because it's like, what could have happened if

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Speaker 2: Opie did want to actually name their child that, like,

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Speaker 2: if she announced it like oh my gosh, like we

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Speaker 1: No, this is great.

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Speaker 1: Well, they're breastfeeding, yeah, with a strange I knew you

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Speaker 2: you know? We had to convince the register that Hattila

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Speaker 2: She was fuming after she found out Rose's name. When

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Speaker 2: was using me. Oh boy, his voice cracked. My husband

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Speaker 2: got in water. She was paying for her mom's lifestyle

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Speaker 1: This is a great story.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, I know what really is.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm sorry. I know.

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Speaker 2: She doesn't want to be with me. She wants what

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Speaker 2: I can provide, she said other personal things. Then I

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Speaker 2: for ages. Well, seeing her ex this whole time. The

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Speaker 1: Oh, dude, an inheritance. We got inheritance, we got baby stuff,

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Speaker 2: Dude, this is perfect. Yeah, this is beautiful. Honestly, I

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Speaker 2: kind of hope the baby's not his. I agree, because

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Speaker 2: in the child's life if it is his. Yeah, but

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Speaker 2: And then if he if she has full custody, then

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Speaker 1: Hot hot take. I see your point, and I do

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because I'm kid like.

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Speaker 1: I feel so bad for this kid now. Yeah, like Catilda,

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry. Honestly, we're gonna change your name to Olive

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Speaker 2: Right. But wow, man, due, wow, wow, wow, ridiculous. That's

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Speaker 1: And Nope, no, oh I'm hot ah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, definitely not because that's not what you did. You

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Speaker 1: Are you the a whole for I don't know. If

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Speaker 1: That's what it feels like here.

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Speaker 2: Absolutely, that's a like great example. Yeah, all you did

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: And even that alone, just seeing just her petty, it

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Speaker 2: news in a sense, like kind of but yeah, definitely

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Speaker 2: not your fault.

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Speaker 1: You let the you showed them mobs up on what

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Speaker 3: I was gonna say you saved him. Yeah, you saved

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Speaker 3: him from a life of turmoil, lies, being manipulated, all

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Speaker 3: that jazz being a literal atm verbatim. Yeah, you saved

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Speaker 3: him exactly. He's gonna, like in the short term, it's

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, it's gonna be a toss up if you're

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I know, hopefully, like things are gonna get so

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Speaker 1: She's not going to get there, Meg, She's not gonna

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Speaker 1: get DNA jest at all. She won't. She'll find it.

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean, I wonder if that's possible.

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Speaker 1: You can I think the father can request one, but

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Speaker 2: Yeah, true, I mean, if if he has proof that

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Speaker 1: Be enough wherever they are.

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Speaker 2: You know, Oh my gosh, that is so terrible. But yeah,

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Speaker 2: like a great story. Terrible that you had to experience it,

436
00:20:49,359 --> 00:20:51,960
Speaker 2: but like, but that is you know, we got some

437
00:20:52,080 --> 00:20:53,000
Speaker 2: amazing like.

438
00:20:54,520 --> 00:20:56,320
Speaker 1: We got a lot, we hit a lot of genres.

439
00:20:56,640 --> 00:21:00,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, we hit some good good points there. Yeah, like yeah,

440
00:21:00,920 --> 00:21:01,520
Speaker 2: oh my.

441
00:21:01,480 --> 00:21:03,439
Speaker 1: Gosh, guys, we're gonna get another story.

442
00:21:03,920 --> 00:21:08,520
Speaker 2: Yes we are. That is so wild. Wow wow wow wow.

443
00:21:08,880 --> 00:21:10,000
Speaker 3: Oh we do have an update?

444
00:21:10,640 --> 00:21:11,160
Speaker 2: Wait really?

445
00:21:11,760 --> 00:21:12,000
Speaker 3: Yeah?

446
00:21:12,240 --> 00:21:14,120
Speaker 2: Oh my god. It's how big?

447
00:21:14,200 --> 00:21:14,399
Speaker 3: Is it?

448
00:21:14,440 --> 00:21:15,200
Speaker 2: Maybe I can.

449
00:21:15,119 --> 00:21:18,440
Speaker 1: It's long, it's pretty long. Can you okay you add yeah?

450
00:21:19,160 --> 00:21:20,840
Speaker 1: Can you add it to that one and download it

451
00:21:20,880 --> 00:21:21,520
Speaker 1: and put it in there?

452
00:21:22,040 --> 00:21:22,159
Speaker 3: Uh?

453
00:21:22,240 --> 00:21:28,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, I'm sooy you're good. Yeah dude, I'm down. Okay.

454
00:21:29,000 --> 00:21:31,120
Speaker 2: Oh that's perfect. I'm so glad we asked right away

455
00:21:31,480 --> 00:21:33,320
Speaker 2: instead of like on another day or something like that.

456
00:21:33,359 --> 00:21:36,280
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I'm good, good ass, good ask. It's

457
00:21:36,320 --> 00:21:38,040
Speaker 1: not done yet, guys. We're gonna take a second to

458
00:21:38,600 --> 00:21:39,359
Speaker 1: load that up.

459
00:21:39,520 --> 00:21:42,440
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah yeah, yeah, wow, this is long.

460
00:21:42,960 --> 00:21:43,600
Speaker 1: This is beautiful.

461
00:21:43,680 --> 00:21:44,680
Speaker 3: I told you it was long.

462
00:21:44,800 --> 00:21:48,120
Speaker 2: I'm so excited. I'm so excited. My sister in law

463
00:21:48,240 --> 00:21:51,359
Speaker 2: stole my baby's name, but I played her with the

464
00:21:51,440 --> 00:21:55,320
Speaker 2: perfect bluff. And this is an update, is a big,

465
00:21:55,359 --> 00:21:58,359
Speaker 2: old update, So if you have not read the first

466
00:21:58,359 --> 00:22:00,920
Speaker 2: two posts, please do. It will help you make sense

467
00:22:00,920 --> 00:22:03,399
Speaker 2: of this insanity which is my life right now. So

468
00:22:03,800 --> 00:22:06,000
Speaker 2: it's only been a few days, and what a few

469
00:22:06,080 --> 00:22:08,720
Speaker 2: days it's been. I wish I had time, as I'm

470
00:22:08,760 --> 00:22:11,920
Speaker 2: sure this would make a great book. Anyway, I digress.

471
00:22:12,200 --> 00:22:14,760
Speaker 2: You're probably wanting to know what in the world could

472
00:22:14,760 --> 00:22:16,760
Speaker 2: have happened in less than a week that would warrant

473
00:22:16,800 --> 00:22:18,959
Speaker 2: a new post already. Oh and this is less than

474
00:22:18,960 --> 00:22:21,679
Speaker 2: a week, okay. On a Monday, brother in law got

475
00:22:21,720 --> 00:22:24,760
Speaker 2: an appointment to discuss the Bethany situation. It's Tuesday, and

476
00:22:24,840 --> 00:22:27,720
Speaker 2: things got top sea to irvy. Bethany got in touch

477
00:22:27,760 --> 00:22:29,840
Speaker 2: with brother in law and said that she got a

478
00:22:29,880 --> 00:22:33,280
Speaker 2: cancelation on Wednesday to get the baby's name to change.

479
00:22:33,480 --> 00:22:36,159
Speaker 2: But he needs to be there okay, as nothing has

480
00:22:36,200 --> 00:22:38,840
Speaker 2: gone to Coreyette for paternity. His name is still on

481
00:22:38,880 --> 00:22:41,520
Speaker 2: the original birth certificate, so he will need to be

482
00:22:41,600 --> 00:22:43,920
Speaker 2: there for the name change. Bethany said that he will

483
00:22:43,960 --> 00:22:46,560
Speaker 2: be punishing the baby if he waits for court to

484
00:22:46,680 --> 00:22:48,200
Speaker 2: be over. Wait what.

485
00:22:49,720 --> 00:22:50,440
Speaker 1: Oh? Oh?

486
00:22:50,520 --> 00:22:53,520
Speaker 2: Bethany said that he will be punishing the baby if

487
00:22:53,560 --> 00:22:55,520
Speaker 2: he waits for court to be over. What wait what

488
00:22:55,520 --> 00:22:57,720
Speaker 2: does that even mean? Yeah, they're going to court to

489
00:22:57,760 --> 00:23:00,800
Speaker 2: try to get the name changed. Basically, he needs to

490
00:23:00,840 --> 00:23:03,080
Speaker 2: be there. Nothing has gone to court yet for paternity.

491
00:23:03,400 --> 00:23:05,879
Speaker 2: Bethany said that he will be punishing the baby if

492
00:23:05,920 --> 00:23:08,720
Speaker 2: he waits for court to be over. Oh okay, okay,

493
00:23:08,760 --> 00:23:12,000
Speaker 2: So she's saying like, you shouldn't wait so long or

494
00:23:12,000 --> 00:23:15,160
Speaker 2: else that's punish it, okay. She played with his affections

495
00:23:15,200 --> 00:23:17,600
Speaker 2: for the child to get him to agree to go

496
00:23:17,680 --> 00:23:20,000
Speaker 2: with her. When he called to tell us what had happened,

497
00:23:20,040 --> 00:23:22,440
Speaker 2: I reminded him that she has twelve months to change

498
00:23:22,440 --> 00:23:24,560
Speaker 2: the baby's name, but he said that she made him

499
00:23:24,560 --> 00:23:27,080
Speaker 2: feel guilty, that the baby deserves to have a name,

500
00:23:27,359 --> 00:23:29,880
Speaker 2: and how complicated things will get the longer they wait.

501
00:23:29,960 --> 00:23:32,560
Speaker 2: She continued to blame me for the name and refused

502
00:23:32,560 --> 00:23:35,520
Speaker 2: to see that she was at fault at all. We

503
00:23:35,720 --> 00:23:38,560
Speaker 2: told him that we support him, but he really should

504
00:23:38,600 --> 00:23:41,320
Speaker 2: wait until he sees his lawyer before agreeing to anything.

505
00:23:41,760 --> 00:23:44,560
Speaker 2: It could go against him. Later on, but for now

506
00:23:44,600 --> 00:23:47,480
Speaker 2: he needs to only communicate with her through texts or

507
00:23:47,520 --> 00:23:50,440
Speaker 2: emails so he can keep a written record of communications.

508
00:23:50,720 --> 00:23:53,240
Speaker 2: Tuesday night, she sent him a message and asked if

509
00:23:53,240 --> 00:23:55,520
Speaker 2: he had any names he liked for the baby, and

510
00:23:55,560 --> 00:23:57,960
Speaker 2: then said that to show that she is committed to

511
00:23:58,040 --> 00:24:00,880
Speaker 2: him and prove the baby is his brother in law,

512
00:24:00,920 --> 00:24:05,640
Speaker 2: can choose her name. Okay really so yeah? Like okay,

513
00:24:06,280 --> 00:24:07,960
Speaker 2: just to prove that I was loyal and I didn't

514
00:24:08,000 --> 00:24:10,000
Speaker 2: cheat on you, you get to choose the child's name.

515
00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:13,879
Speaker 1: Ah, thank you. You're right. That's so truthful of you.

516
00:24:14,040 --> 00:24:16,359
Speaker 1: How could I be the one choosing the name whenever

517
00:24:16,359 --> 00:24:19,080
Speaker 1: you'd ever cheated? You're right, right right? Uh.

518
00:24:19,200 --> 00:24:22,520
Speaker 2: Wednesday, he went. When Bethany turned up, she was dressed

519
00:24:22,520 --> 00:24:25,600
Speaker 2: in a skimpy outfit, hair and makeup done, and stiletto's on.

520
00:24:25,920 --> 00:24:28,160
Speaker 2: He said she looked like she was going out clubbing.

521
00:24:28,400 --> 00:24:30,360
Speaker 2: He had to run up the path to meet her

522
00:24:30,440 --> 00:24:32,520
Speaker 2: as she was attempting to walk with the car seat

523
00:24:32,720 --> 00:24:35,280
Speaker 2: and it was a little wobbly. While they waited, he

524
00:24:35,359 --> 00:24:38,080
Speaker 2: had to switch seats as Bethany was flirting with him

525
00:24:38,119 --> 00:24:41,119
Speaker 2: and constantly touching him and caressing his arm and face.

526
00:24:41,520 --> 00:24:44,640
Speaker 2: When they went in. Brother in law said it was awkward.

527
00:24:44,920 --> 00:24:47,520
Speaker 2: She kept acting like they were still together and calling

528
00:24:47,600 --> 00:24:50,720
Speaker 2: him names like sweetheart and darling. Brother in law chose

529
00:24:50,720 --> 00:24:54,560
Speaker 2: the name Arabella, that's beautiful. And Bethany chose the middle name. Yes,

530
00:24:54,640 --> 00:24:58,159
Speaker 2: you probably guessed it. Arabella's middle name is Rose.

531
00:24:58,560 --> 00:25:03,760
Speaker 3: That's a Rose is Opie's daughter's name, which again is

532
00:25:03,800 --> 00:25:05,280
Speaker 3: copying right, and.

533
00:25:05,400 --> 00:25:08,640
Speaker 2: It's named after the mother in law. Yes, still at

534
00:25:08,680 --> 00:25:10,960
Speaker 2: her games that ended up her in this situation.

535
00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:12,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, if that was brother in law and probably like no,

536
00:25:13,320 --> 00:25:16,560
Speaker 1: yeah name that's.

537
00:25:15,720 --> 00:25:18,200
Speaker 3: And again Rose is one of the most common middle names,

538
00:25:18,200 --> 00:25:20,720
Speaker 3: but at that point I would Yeah.

539
00:25:20,680 --> 00:25:25,160
Speaker 2: It's not because of that. It's not Elizabeth, yeah Marie. Oh,

540
00:25:25,200 --> 00:25:28,359
Speaker 2: but it gets better. It's a hyphenated middle name. So

541
00:25:28,400 --> 00:25:34,159
Speaker 2: it's Arabella Rose dash my name. What why? Brother in

542
00:25:34,240 --> 00:25:36,920
Speaker 2: law held back his annoyance While they were in the room.

543
00:25:37,680 --> 00:25:40,320
Speaker 2: She tried to give the little girl his surname, but

544
00:25:40,440 --> 00:25:44,080
Speaker 2: he stepped in and double barreled with Bethany's surname. He

545
00:25:44,240 --> 00:25:47,320
Speaker 2: was thinking that if she was his, then he'd have

546
00:25:47,400 --> 00:25:50,240
Speaker 2: an easier time if she had his surname, but if

547
00:25:50,280 --> 00:25:52,800
Speaker 2: she wasn't, then it would be an easier transition to

548
00:25:52,840 --> 00:25:55,720
Speaker 2: delete half of the surname than change it fully. Of course,

549
00:25:55,920 --> 00:25:59,000
Speaker 2: he paid for the changes in new certificates. When they left,

550
00:25:59,080 --> 00:26:01,600
Speaker 2: Bethany tried to hold his hand and he pulled away

551
00:26:01,640 --> 00:26:03,800
Speaker 2: and asked her what theef was that they are not

552
00:26:03,960 --> 00:26:07,200
Speaker 2: together and and what's with the middle name. She went

553
00:26:07,240 --> 00:26:09,720
Speaker 2: on to say that she's sorry and wants to try again.

554
00:26:10,119 --> 00:26:12,720
Speaker 2: She loves him, blah blah blah. She wanted to prove

555
00:26:12,720 --> 00:26:14,840
Speaker 2: her love for him and his family by using his

556
00:26:14,880 --> 00:26:17,359
Speaker 2: mother's name so she can bond over the baby and

557
00:26:17,480 --> 00:26:20,240
Speaker 2: my name to show that I'm forgiven. She tried to

558
00:26:20,320 --> 00:26:23,000
Speaker 2: kiss him, but he stepped away. He walked her to

559
00:26:23,040 --> 00:26:25,880
Speaker 2: the car, with her pleading the whole time and reminding

560
00:26:25,960 --> 00:26:27,920
Speaker 2: him of happier time. But he went to the car

561
00:26:28,040 --> 00:26:29,960
Speaker 2: just to make sure the baby was safely placed in

562
00:26:30,119 --> 00:26:33,080
Speaker 2: and left. Brother in law said that it nearly broke

563
00:26:33,160 --> 00:26:35,960
Speaker 2: him to remain strong until he got in his car,

564
00:26:36,119 --> 00:26:38,440
Speaker 2: then he had to cry. He drove to a beach

565
00:26:38,480 --> 00:26:40,480
Speaker 2: near us and went for a walk to clear his head.

566
00:26:40,600 --> 00:26:42,480
Speaker 2: Called my husband and came to our house to tell

567
00:26:42,560 --> 00:26:45,040
Speaker 2: us what happened. We decided to have fun and played

568
00:26:45,080 --> 00:26:47,720
Speaker 2: some card games such as cards against humanity and made

569
00:26:47,720 --> 00:26:50,320
Speaker 2: it a drinking game, except mine was switched for apple

570
00:26:50,400 --> 00:26:53,600
Speaker 2: juice as I'm nursing Rose. It was a fun evening

571
00:26:53,720 --> 00:26:55,960
Speaker 2: and brother in law forgot his worries for a couple

572
00:26:56,000 --> 00:26:59,080
Speaker 2: of hours. He slept over due to the drinking. Thursday morning,

573
00:26:59,200 --> 00:27:02,040
Speaker 2: both the guys looked a little worse for wear. I

574
00:27:02,119 --> 00:27:04,640
Speaker 2: made them a fry up and dealt with Rose. Brother

575
00:27:04,640 --> 00:27:06,520
Speaker 2: in law needed to leave to get home, so I

576
00:27:06,560 --> 00:27:09,440
Speaker 2: called a taxi. He shouldn't drive after that amount of booze.

577
00:27:09,520 --> 00:27:11,520
Speaker 2: When the taxi arrived, I walked him to the car

578
00:27:11,560 --> 00:27:14,600
Speaker 2: while my husband slept on the sofa. I gave him

579
00:27:14,640 --> 00:27:17,200
Speaker 2: a hug and said that we'll see him later for dinner,

580
00:27:17,400 --> 00:27:19,359
Speaker 2: as he needs to come back for his car. Anyway,

581
00:27:19,480 --> 00:27:21,920
Speaker 2: he got in and drove off that evening. He turned

582
00:27:21,960 --> 00:27:25,120
Speaker 2: up and was no longer calm or worried about his hangover.

583
00:27:25,400 --> 00:27:29,680
Speaker 2: He was fuming. Uh oh. He sat down and showed

584
00:27:29,720 --> 00:27:32,560
Speaker 2: us a message. There was a picture of the two

585
00:27:32,600 --> 00:27:35,680
Speaker 2: of us hugging by the taxi this morning, with a long.

586
00:27:35,600 --> 00:27:38,159
Speaker 1: Rant, Oh my.

587
00:27:38,600 --> 00:27:41,040
Speaker 2: Gosh, oh my god.

588
00:27:41,160 --> 00:27:45,000
Speaker 1: You're being stalked now, how did this is a crazy story?

589
00:27:45,160 --> 00:27:46,080
Speaker 2: This is crazy?

590
00:27:46,119 --> 00:27:48,960
Speaker 1: This guy Loco, Poco d loco.

591
00:27:49,359 --> 00:27:51,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, this is so wild.

592
00:27:51,920 --> 00:27:53,800
Speaker 1: Oh my dude, holy cow.

593
00:27:54,240 --> 00:27:57,119
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm yeah, I've I've taken a little glance at it.

594
00:27:57,119 --> 00:28:01,240
Speaker 3: It only gets a lot of bit crazy shut shut off, excited,

595
00:28:01,520 --> 00:28:05,119
Speaker 3: shure you serious. Yeah, I'm not kidding, Like I skimmed

596
00:28:05,119 --> 00:28:06,120
Speaker 3: it because it was very long.

597
00:28:06,200 --> 00:28:08,400
Speaker 1: This is only the tip of the iceberg we just started.

598
00:28:08,680 --> 00:28:09,800
Speaker 3: It gets a lot of bit crazier.

599
00:28:10,000 --> 00:28:12,080
Speaker 1: Oh my god. Okay, Okay, So she's being stalked.

600
00:28:12,359 --> 00:28:15,320
Speaker 2: She's being stalked because or a reminder from the very

601
00:28:15,359 --> 00:28:19,040
Speaker 2: beginning of the original post, she was like already weirdly

602
00:28:19,119 --> 00:28:22,760
Speaker 2: jealous of Ope and like like thinking that there was

603
00:28:22,800 --> 00:28:26,399
Speaker 2: something between, like like Op was being flirtatious or something

604
00:28:26,400 --> 00:28:27,960
Speaker 2: like that, which is obviously not true.

605
00:28:28,000 --> 00:28:29,200
Speaker 1: It's so weird. Okay.

606
00:28:29,920 --> 00:28:32,800
Speaker 2: So Bethany was saying that she knew there was something

607
00:28:32,840 --> 00:28:35,560
Speaker 2: iffy about us, and now she had proof that we

608
00:28:35,560 --> 00:28:38,080
Speaker 2: were having an affair. She went on to say some

609
00:28:38,120 --> 00:28:42,280
Speaker 2: horrible accusations and lots of colorful language. She then said

610
00:28:42,280 --> 00:28:44,640
Speaker 2: that she would only do a paternity test if I

611
00:28:44,880 --> 00:28:48,320
Speaker 2: do one, because she knows that we cheated and Rose

612
00:28:48,480 --> 00:28:49,680
Speaker 2: is brother in law's kid.

613
00:28:50,120 --> 00:28:54,600
Speaker 4: Dude, dude, that is so crazy.

614
00:28:54,640 --> 00:28:58,360
Speaker 1: But it's like she did as soon as you get in, it's.

615
00:28:58,240 --> 00:29:02,040
Speaker 2: False to another one another, it's all fake. Of course,

616
00:29:02,200 --> 00:29:03,920
Speaker 2: it's never gonna end. Like I knew you were still

617
00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:07,200
Speaker 2: cheating anyway, because I have this picture. It's like such

618
00:29:07,240 --> 00:29:10,160
Speaker 2: a paparazzi kind of move, you know. But it's like,

619
00:29:10,200 --> 00:29:13,240
Speaker 2: but what's great about it though, in Op's case, is that, oh,

620
00:29:13,280 --> 00:29:17,880
Speaker 2: PE's husband was there, so it's it's like happened. Yes,

621
00:29:18,160 --> 00:29:20,400
Speaker 2: It's not like it was some sort of friend that

622
00:29:20,760 --> 00:29:23,240
Speaker 2: is a witness that could easily easily lie. This is

623
00:29:23,240 --> 00:29:25,120
Speaker 2: someone who would never want to lie about it.

624
00:29:25,160 --> 00:29:27,239
Speaker 1: And it's Opie's brother and he was there and he

625
00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:29,880
Speaker 1: was passed out on the couch. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I

626
00:29:29,920 --> 00:29:31,560
Speaker 1: knew it was bad. Whenever she went to go, I

627
00:29:31,600 --> 00:29:34,160
Speaker 1: was like, don't don't do that. Wait to do what

628
00:29:34,440 --> 00:29:37,360
Speaker 1: like to hug him by they could well.

629
00:29:40,040 --> 00:29:40,160
Speaker 3: Him.

630
00:29:40,240 --> 00:29:42,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, I know it's not a bad thing to do,

631
00:29:42,080 --> 00:29:44,160
Speaker 1: but I was like, right now, it feels weird. But anyways, no,

632
00:29:44,240 --> 00:29:44,960
Speaker 1: I get you. I get you.

633
00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:47,920
Speaker 2: I mean, obviously she could see that and think something,

634
00:29:48,160 --> 00:29:51,200
Speaker 2: but it's a very innocent and kind hug.

635
00:29:51,320 --> 00:29:53,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, you guys gonna heat reading.

636
00:29:54,400 --> 00:29:57,720
Speaker 2: My husband wanted to find Bethany and ring her nurk.

637
00:29:58,240 --> 00:30:01,120
Speaker 2: I had to hand him row and he calms down.

638
00:30:01,240 --> 00:30:04,720
Speaker 2: Baby therapy is the best. He was hurt that anyone

639
00:30:04,760 --> 00:30:07,680
Speaker 2: would say such a thing. We all were. We realized

640
00:30:07,720 --> 00:30:11,320
Speaker 2: that someone is clearly following him. We ordered in pizza

641
00:30:11,400 --> 00:30:13,600
Speaker 2: and decided that we needed to blow off steam, so

642
00:30:13,640 --> 00:30:16,320
Speaker 2: we resumed our drinking game from the previous night. After

643
00:30:16,360 --> 00:30:18,560
Speaker 2: a few shots, the boys were talking and trying to

644
00:30:18,560 --> 00:30:21,600
Speaker 2: figure out how she knew where he was. We investigated

645
00:30:21,640 --> 00:30:24,840
Speaker 2: everything and realized he had a tracker on his phone.

646
00:30:25,120 --> 00:30:28,160
Speaker 2: They decided to have some fun and made a plan

647
00:30:28,280 --> 00:30:30,520
Speaker 2: because we all know that Opi is really great at

648
00:30:30,520 --> 00:30:33,560
Speaker 2: scheming up these plans and it's very effective of I guess.

649
00:30:33,560 --> 00:30:37,040
Speaker 1: Oh dude, so I trust Sopie to scheme. Well, oh yeah,

650
00:30:37,120 --> 00:30:37,720
Speaker 1: I'm excited.

651
00:30:37,800 --> 00:30:38,760
Speaker 2: Oh I'm excited.

652
00:30:38,760 --> 00:30:41,640
Speaker 1: I didn't think about that. Okay, okay, it's johnio og

653
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Speaker 1: host here.

654
00:30:42,080 --> 00:30:43,480
Speaker 2: We're gonna get back to the stories. But he's a

655
00:30:43,520 --> 00:30:45,920
Speaker 2: quick three minute break of ass from our sponsors. In

656
00:30:45,960 --> 00:30:48,920
Speaker 2: the morning, both men were far from hungover. It seems

657
00:30:48,960 --> 00:30:51,440
Speaker 2: that learned from the night before and switched to soft

658
00:30:51,560 --> 00:30:54,840
Speaker 2: drinks after the few at start, I thought they'd forgotten

659
00:30:54,880 --> 00:30:57,959
Speaker 2: their plan, but hadn't. I agreed, as we know what

660
00:30:58,000 --> 00:31:01,200
Speaker 2: I'm like. I went and got out of my seashells

661
00:31:01,280 --> 00:31:03,840
Speaker 2: pj's and got into a cute but schmeck sail a

662
00:31:03,840 --> 00:31:06,320
Speaker 2: little number. I put on some lipstick and put some

663
00:31:06,400 --> 00:31:08,880
Speaker 2: kisses on brother in law's face, and he smungged a

664
00:31:08,880 --> 00:31:10,000
Speaker 2: bit across his lips.

665
00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:10,480
Speaker 1: Oh my god.

666
00:31:10,720 --> 00:31:13,400
Speaker 2: We tussled our hair. We went to his car. I

667
00:31:13,480 --> 00:31:16,000
Speaker 2: saw a shadow duck down across the road and I

668
00:31:16,040 --> 00:31:18,000
Speaker 2: gave him a smooch on the cheek and a hug.

669
00:31:18,200 --> 00:31:21,000
Speaker 2: The next thing, my husband came out in his boxers

670
00:31:21,040 --> 00:31:23,320
Speaker 2: and a T shirt and lipstick on him too, and

671
00:31:23,480 --> 00:31:27,400
Speaker 2: hugged his brother, and we said goodbye and went in

672
00:31:27,440 --> 00:31:32,680
Speaker 2: to get washed and start our day. That's crazy. It

673
00:31:32,760 --> 00:31:37,000
Speaker 2: can be a little weird in some relationships. That's why

674
00:31:37,200 --> 00:31:37,800
Speaker 2: we do this.

675
00:31:39,120 --> 00:31:41,640
Speaker 1: What are we trying to insinuate here? I don't know.

676
00:31:41,680 --> 00:31:44,680
Speaker 2: I'm guessing just some sort of just something to be

677
00:31:44,840 --> 00:31:49,000
Speaker 2: even crazier, okay, like that, you know, just probably that,

678
00:31:49,080 --> 00:31:51,440
Speaker 2: Like you know, this girl doesn't have anything on op

679
00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:54,280
Speaker 2: like that's not gonna ruin her marriage, you know what

680
00:31:54,280 --> 00:31:56,760
Speaker 2: I mean? Yeah, that's what I'm guessing, all right, you know,

681
00:31:56,840 --> 00:31:59,680
Speaker 2: little strange. Obviously everyone was comfortable with it, so okay,

682
00:32:00,240 --> 00:32:04,560
Speaker 2: one of the consequences. So mother in law called and

683
00:32:04,640 --> 00:32:07,400
Speaker 2: invited us for dinner on Sunday. Of course we're going.

684
00:32:07,440 --> 00:32:09,880
Speaker 2: Brother in law said that he'll update us then on

685
00:32:09,960 --> 00:32:14,280
Speaker 2: what our petty fund has created, and he laughed. Saturday

686
00:32:14,360 --> 00:32:18,120
Speaker 2: cartoons were rudely interrupted, again shaking my head, but this

687
00:32:18,200 --> 00:32:22,480
Speaker 2: time it escalated. Grab your popcorn, oh boy. From about

688
00:32:22,480 --> 00:32:25,720
Speaker 2: two am, we started to get nuisance calls on the landline. Yes,

689
00:32:25,760 --> 00:32:27,800
Speaker 2: I still have one of those. I'm always losing my phone.

690
00:32:27,880 --> 00:32:30,680
Speaker 2: At first I thought it was a pesky cold call machine,

691
00:32:30,720 --> 00:32:33,840
Speaker 2: but when I answered it, it was someone saying some

692
00:32:34,000 --> 00:32:36,560
Speaker 2: horrendous things down the phone. I hung up, and after

693
00:32:36,600 --> 00:32:38,720
Speaker 2: the third one, my husband took the phone into the car.

694
00:32:39,000 --> 00:32:41,600
Speaker 2: When it rang again, he let the person on the

695
00:32:41,640 --> 00:32:44,959
Speaker 2: other end start to talk and then blew a bloor

696
00:32:45,200 --> 00:32:52,600
Speaker 2: and down the phone. Oh my gosh, that's crazy. Remember

697
00:32:52,880 --> 00:32:55,040
Speaker 2: in the area where I live, people are used to

698
00:32:55,080 --> 00:32:57,160
Speaker 2: being disturbed, but they were also He also was in

699
00:32:57,200 --> 00:32:58,280
Speaker 2: the car, so it was nice.

700
00:32:59,240 --> 00:32:59,440
Speaker 1: Yeah.

701
00:32:59,480 --> 00:33:01,960
Speaker 2: He came back and unplugs the phone and we went

702
00:33:02,040 --> 00:33:04,440
Speaker 2: back to sleep. We did check, but the number was

703
00:33:04,440 --> 00:33:08,239
Speaker 2: being withheld. At five am, someone started knocking using our

704
00:33:08,360 --> 00:33:11,240
Speaker 2: knocker on the door. My husband got up and there

705
00:33:11,320 --> 00:33:13,200
Speaker 2: was no one there. He went to the kitchen to

706
00:33:13,200 --> 00:33:16,000
Speaker 2: switch on the kettle and it happened again. He opened

707
00:33:16,000 --> 00:33:17,520
Speaker 2: the door and no one was there.

708
00:33:17,600 --> 00:33:18,160
Speaker 3: It's a ghost.

709
00:33:18,640 --> 00:33:21,920
Speaker 2: My husband, being the quick thinger he is, waited for

710
00:33:21,960 --> 00:33:23,959
Speaker 2: the next time, and when he opened the door, he

711
00:33:24,000 --> 00:33:26,479
Speaker 2: acted like he was checking on the knocker, but really

712
00:33:26,600 --> 00:33:28,800
Speaker 2: he set a trap. He sat on the stairs with

713
00:33:28,840 --> 00:33:31,200
Speaker 2: his morning tea, waiting for a shadow to approach the door,

714
00:33:31,200 --> 00:33:34,040
Speaker 2: and then we hear a laud uh. Oh effing gross?

715
00:33:34,800 --> 00:33:35,520
Speaker 1: What is that?

716
00:33:36,360 --> 00:33:38,440
Speaker 2: Who puts crap on their door?

717
00:33:38,640 --> 00:33:38,880
Speaker 3: Oh?

718
00:33:39,000 --> 00:33:43,480
Speaker 2: It's everywhere? And they ran off, but he waited a

719
00:33:43,480 --> 00:33:45,560
Speaker 2: little in case they came back, and then he scrubbed

720
00:33:45,600 --> 00:33:48,720
Speaker 2: the knocker and surrounding areas. He had grabbed one of

721
00:33:48,840 --> 00:33:51,680
Speaker 2: Rosa's nappies from the bin and wiped it on the knocker,

722
00:33:51,880 --> 00:33:53,960
Speaker 2: so they would have had to grab it to knock again.

723
00:33:54,200 --> 00:33:58,480
Speaker 2: Oh oh, Mark, they will go to the ends of

724
00:33:58,520 --> 00:34:00,400
Speaker 2: the earth. Stress the people.

725
00:34:00,440 --> 00:34:02,680
Speaker 1: I'm watching Tom and Jerry or something, yeah, or like

726
00:34:02,720 --> 00:34:03,240
Speaker 1: home alone?

727
00:34:03,440 --> 00:34:11,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, gross, unhygienic. But effective I was upstairs watching this

728
00:34:11,920 --> 00:34:14,240
Speaker 2: on my phone. We decided to get a new hidden

729
00:34:14,280 --> 00:34:16,880
Speaker 2: camera set after the previous fun we had with Delia.

730
00:34:17,080 --> 00:34:21,279
Speaker 2: It was a familiar female voice, be Fanny. Unfortunately the

731
00:34:21,320 --> 00:34:24,040
Speaker 2: culprit had a hoodie and a cap to hide their face.

732
00:34:24,160 --> 00:34:26,879
Speaker 2: But we knew we got on with our day. We

733
00:34:26,880 --> 00:34:29,279
Speaker 2: were not letting it slide. We just decided it was

734
00:34:29,280 --> 00:34:31,600
Speaker 2: something we would give to brother in law for his case.

735
00:34:31,960 --> 00:34:34,520
Speaker 2: Five pm and Rose has been having a playd eight

736
00:34:34,560 --> 00:34:36,760
Speaker 2: at mother in laws so I can do a deep clean.

737
00:34:36,840 --> 00:34:38,719
Speaker 2: I think the knowledge of what happened to my Dora

738
00:34:38,840 --> 00:34:40,359
Speaker 2: made me want to thoroughly clean.

739
00:34:41,040 --> 00:34:43,520
Speaker 3: There's gonna be a tiny trigger warning here. It's like

740
00:34:43,840 --> 00:34:46,759
Speaker 3: a little bit of violence, okay, like not physical, but

741
00:34:47,000 --> 00:34:48,399
Speaker 3: a little bit of just aggressiveness.

742
00:34:48,400 --> 00:34:52,320
Speaker 2: Okay, cool, Okay, trigger warning, there are details of violence

743
00:34:52,440 --> 00:34:54,160
Speaker 2: here up ahead, cat fotten.

744
00:34:54,320 --> 00:34:54,680
Speaker 1: Yeah.

745
00:34:54,719 --> 00:34:58,480
Speaker 2: So I'm deep cleaning and then smash, A brick comes

746
00:34:58,560 --> 00:35:03,160
Speaker 2: hurling through my room wind and takes out the TV. Smash,

747
00:35:03,239 --> 00:35:06,960
Speaker 2: another brick comes flying out, smash a third through my

748
00:35:07,080 --> 00:35:09,759
Speaker 2: front door, and Bethany put her hand through the hole

749
00:35:09,800 --> 00:35:12,160
Speaker 2: and opened my front door to let herself in.

750
00:35:12,719 --> 00:35:18,400
Speaker 1: What what the I told you guys. I was like,

751
00:35:18,480 --> 00:35:23,600
Speaker 1: whoa three The most I've ever heard was one, never two,

752
00:35:23,800 --> 00:35:24,840
Speaker 1: never three.

753
00:35:25,000 --> 00:35:28,160
Speaker 2: But also though that thing came in and took the

754
00:35:28,239 --> 00:35:30,239
Speaker 2: TV out, so it's not like it just crashed through

755
00:35:30,280 --> 00:35:33,120
Speaker 2: and just like plopped there. The child could have been home.

756
00:35:33,320 --> 00:35:35,720
Speaker 2: They could have been in the way of the window,

757
00:35:35,760 --> 00:35:37,680
Speaker 2: because you know, the TV is not right next to

758
00:35:37,719 --> 00:35:39,600
Speaker 2: the window, It's got to be across the room.

759
00:35:39,840 --> 00:35:42,359
Speaker 1: That was my mom. She'd be in Joe. If my mom,

760
00:35:42,760 --> 00:35:45,319
Speaker 1: if this woman Bethany did this to my mom, my

761
00:35:45,360 --> 00:35:46,200
Speaker 1: mom would be in Joe.

762
00:35:46,360 --> 00:35:49,160
Speaker 2: Well, I mean it would be self defense, it would,

763
00:35:51,080 --> 00:35:51,839
Speaker 2: but they could go.

764
00:35:51,840 --> 00:35:53,359
Speaker 1: To that point where she'd be in Joe.

765
00:35:53,400 --> 00:35:54,440
Speaker 2: Ste Yeah.

766
00:35:54,560 --> 00:35:56,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm just saying like, yeah.

767
00:35:56,480 --> 00:36:02,000
Speaker 2: Bro, like what, Thank goodness that OPI is uh was

768
00:36:02,000 --> 00:36:03,520
Speaker 2: not in the way of those things, and that the

769
00:36:03,520 --> 00:36:05,320
Speaker 2: baby was out of the house. The baby.

770
00:36:05,400 --> 00:36:06,840
Speaker 1: This is insane, Oh my gosh.

771
00:36:06,880 --> 00:36:08,640
Speaker 2: And thank goodness too that we have proof that it

772
00:36:08,680 --> 00:36:10,800
Speaker 2: went across the room because the TV is now broken.

773
00:36:11,000 --> 00:36:14,640
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, dude, yeah, Okay, he just start video tape.

774
00:36:14,719 --> 00:36:18,360
Speaker 2: Okay, Oh my gosh, I won't lie. I was frozen

775
00:36:18,400 --> 00:36:20,520
Speaker 2: to the spot while my mind tried to decode what

776
00:36:20,640 --> 00:36:23,480
Speaker 2: was happening. Bethany lunges at me, so I grabbed the

777
00:36:23,480 --> 00:36:26,080
Speaker 2: broom in my hand and unleashed my hidden Jackie Chan

778
00:36:26,239 --> 00:36:30,240
Speaker 2: moves being a majorette as a kid came in handy.

779
00:36:30,480 --> 00:36:34,200
Speaker 2: I screamed as I said, Bethany flying. She starts shouting

780
00:36:34,239 --> 00:36:36,520
Speaker 2: all sorts of rubbish about me and hubby and brother

781
00:36:36,600 --> 00:36:39,359
Speaker 2: in law being in a dirty, spicy sleep group. How

782
00:36:39,400 --> 00:36:42,600
Speaker 2: I've ruined her life, some disgusting things about my daughter.

783
00:36:42,960 --> 00:36:45,640
Speaker 2: I saw red and picked up my dirty mop water

784
00:36:45,760 --> 00:36:48,759
Speaker 2: and rammed it on her head. I quickly wondered where

785
00:36:48,760 --> 00:36:51,560
Speaker 2: my husband was and heard more screaming coming from the hall.

786
00:36:51,680 --> 00:36:54,080
Speaker 2: My husband was sitting on top of Delia while on

787
00:36:54,239 --> 00:36:56,120
Speaker 2: the phone to the police, so she was there too.

788
00:36:56,160 --> 00:36:59,200
Speaker 2: Then Dlia was there too. Bethany got up and continued

789
00:36:59,239 --> 00:37:01,920
Speaker 2: the screaming fit ut me, and this time she cracked

790
00:37:01,920 --> 00:37:04,080
Speaker 2: me in the face with a book. I felt the

791
00:37:04,120 --> 00:37:06,640
Speaker 2: sting and heat, and I knew she'd got me good.

792
00:37:06,760 --> 00:37:09,319
Speaker 2: I moved to dodge the next book, and then there

793
00:37:09,440 --> 00:37:12,279
Speaker 2: was a loud crash followed by a whimper. She had

794
00:37:12,320 --> 00:37:17,760
Speaker 2: pulled the bookcase down on herself. Oh my god, how.

795
00:37:17,680 --> 00:37:19,640
Speaker 1: Is she doing this? Thinking she's gonna get away with

796
00:37:19,680 --> 00:37:20,880
Speaker 1: it too, this woman.

797
00:37:21,160 --> 00:37:23,680
Speaker 2: That is so freaking embarrassing.

798
00:37:23,760 --> 00:37:26,320
Speaker 1: Now this is a Tom and Jerry film.

799
00:37:26,480 --> 00:37:30,400
Speaker 2: I tried to hit someone with another book and instead

800
00:37:30,880 --> 00:37:34,759
Speaker 2: pulled the whole bookshelf down on myself. We heard a

801
00:37:34,840 --> 00:37:38,640
Speaker 2: smash and then a whimper. Beautyiss woman, Oh my.

802
00:37:38,520 --> 00:37:40,560
Speaker 1: Gosh, this is just beautiful.

803
00:37:40,680 --> 00:37:44,880
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. The police arrived and Bethany and Dalia

804
00:37:44,920 --> 00:37:46,800
Speaker 2: were protesting their innocence.

805
00:37:49,360 --> 00:37:52,319
Speaker 3: You do this, she's trapped under the bookcase like it's

806
00:37:52,480 --> 00:37:53,680
Speaker 3: our fault.

807
00:37:54,400 --> 00:37:56,080
Speaker 1: I would have gotten away with this without you.

808
00:37:56,360 --> 00:38:00,720
Speaker 2: That's crazy. Then Bethany said something that made me gasp.

809
00:38:00,960 --> 00:38:03,640
Speaker 2: You can't arrest me. My baby is in the car.

810
00:38:04,760 --> 00:38:08,360
Speaker 2: So baby Hotila is in the car. We're in the

811
00:38:08,360 --> 00:38:11,200
Speaker 2: summer and it's freaking hot, and she left her baby

812
00:38:11,239 --> 00:38:14,080
Speaker 2: in the car to come and attack us. That is

813
00:38:14,120 --> 00:38:18,280
Speaker 2: so insane. They yeah, you can arrest you for two reasons. Now, great.

814
00:38:18,520 --> 00:38:21,120
Speaker 2: They called for assistance. We gave our statements and had

815
00:38:21,160 --> 00:38:23,920
Speaker 2: to go to the hospital to complete procedures. Obviously, we

816
00:38:23,960 --> 00:38:26,160
Speaker 2: called brother in law. I didn't see his face, but

817
00:38:26,239 --> 00:38:28,880
Speaker 2: the stunned silence on the phone was enough. He met

818
00:38:28,960 --> 00:38:30,799
Speaker 2: us at the hospital and the police had to take

819
00:38:30,800 --> 00:38:34,040
Speaker 2: a statement from him after Arabella was checked over. They said,

820
00:38:34,080 --> 00:38:37,080
Speaker 2: which is Hatilda or Hettila? They said that he is

821
00:38:37,200 --> 00:38:39,640
Speaker 2: legally responsible for her well at least for now, and

822
00:38:39,719 --> 00:38:42,799
Speaker 2: he would need to take her home, which, okay, very

823
00:38:42,880 --> 00:38:45,560
Speaker 2: terrible circumstances how we got here, but it kind of

824
00:38:45,760 --> 00:38:48,120
Speaker 2: is a silver lining, Like you were saying earlier, that

825
00:38:48,239 --> 00:38:50,640
Speaker 2: he is definitely gonna have full custody of this child

826
00:38:50,840 --> 00:38:52,680
Speaker 2: and not have that terrible mother around.

827
00:38:52,719 --> 00:38:54,240
Speaker 1: Imagine he married this woman.

828
00:38:54,600 --> 00:38:56,520
Speaker 2: Yeah dude, yeah.

829
00:38:56,320 --> 00:39:01,000
Speaker 1: Obi, thank you for playing that funk, because you saved

830
00:39:01,000 --> 00:39:02,800
Speaker 1: this man get.

831
00:39:02,560 --> 00:39:05,759
Speaker 2: Attacked in the way on the downfall.

832
00:39:05,840 --> 00:39:08,319
Speaker 1: But she would do it though, OPI would definitely take

833
00:39:08,320 --> 00:39:10,040
Speaker 1: the hit again if the mint to save his brother

834
00:39:10,080 --> 00:39:11,400
Speaker 1: in law and this baby.

835
00:39:11,600 --> 00:39:14,399
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah. I was released by the hospital and went

836
00:39:14,440 --> 00:39:16,719
Speaker 2: to mother in law's. My husband went home to sort

837
00:39:16,760 --> 00:39:19,720
Speaker 2: out the wreckage. Brother in law came round all apologetic

838
00:39:19,840 --> 00:39:22,760
Speaker 2: and offered to pay for replacing everything. He kept repeating

839
00:39:22,760 --> 00:39:25,000
Speaker 2: that he didn't think she was this crazy. I tried

840
00:39:25,000 --> 00:39:28,000
Speaker 2: to reassure him. He pointed to sleeping Arabella and said,

841
00:39:28,239 --> 00:39:30,759
Speaker 2: what am I supposed to do? Bethany and Delia are

842
00:39:30,920 --> 00:39:33,439
Speaker 2: likely to be detained for a while. That little girl

843
00:39:33,520 --> 00:39:35,600
Speaker 2: needs me, but I don't know what to do. He

844
00:39:35,640 --> 00:39:37,560
Speaker 2: put a small box on the table. It was an

845
00:39:37,600 --> 00:39:40,120
Speaker 2: over the counter paternity kit. Oh wow. If I do

846
00:39:40,200 --> 00:39:42,640
Speaker 2: this and she's not mine, then I have a responsibility

847
00:39:42,719 --> 00:39:46,520
Speaker 2: to inform social services. But then she might get put

848
00:39:46,560 --> 00:39:48,680
Speaker 2: into a home and I don't want that for her.

849
00:39:48,760 --> 00:39:51,440
Speaker 2: But I wouldn't have any legal rights. But if I

850
00:39:51,480 --> 00:39:53,960
Speaker 2: am her father, then I can keep bonding with her

851
00:39:54,080 --> 00:39:57,320
Speaker 2: and fight for custody. It's a child's life, an innocent child.

852
00:39:57,560 --> 00:40:00,640
Speaker 2: That is very true in a very valid way. I

853
00:40:00,880 --> 00:40:03,479
Speaker 2: wonder if you'd still be able to adopt the child,

854
00:40:03,560 --> 00:40:06,000
Speaker 2: because if the if the child went into foster care,

855
00:40:06,560 --> 00:40:09,959
Speaker 2: then you know you would you would probably be able

856
00:40:09,960 --> 00:40:10,719
Speaker 2: to adopt her.

857
00:40:10,840 --> 00:40:11,400
Speaker 1: I agree.

858
00:40:11,520 --> 00:40:15,839
Speaker 2: Yeah, obviously insanely complicated, but I feel like there is

859
00:40:15,880 --> 00:40:18,120
Speaker 2: a way to do that. We talked about it at length,

860
00:40:18,160 --> 00:40:19,880
Speaker 2: and he is going to think about it. If he

861
00:40:19,920 --> 00:40:22,080
Speaker 2: does it, it's at least a two week wait for

862
00:40:22,120 --> 00:40:25,360
Speaker 2: the results. So yeah, that's where we are at the moment.

863
00:40:25,480 --> 00:40:28,160
Speaker 2: It's a cliffhanger. I'm afraid. I'm sat here late on

864
00:40:28,200 --> 00:40:31,200
Speaker 2: a Saturday night. My face is throbbing, and I'm clinging

865
00:40:31,239 --> 00:40:34,240
Speaker 2: to my wonderful daughter while I digest the events of today.

866
00:40:34,360 --> 00:40:37,600
Speaker 2: I apologize for any typos. I'm exhausted and in pain,

867
00:40:37,800 --> 00:40:40,440
Speaker 2: so not fully with it right now. However, you have

868
00:40:40,600 --> 00:40:43,319
Speaker 2: all been so supportive, so I wanted to keep you

869
00:40:43,400 --> 00:40:46,239
Speaker 2: in the loop. I'll update in due course. On the

870
00:40:46,280 --> 00:40:48,440
Speaker 2: plus side, I'm staying at my mother in law's for

871
00:40:48,600 --> 00:40:51,000
Speaker 2: a couple of days, so I'm definitely getting that Sunday

872
00:40:51,040 --> 00:40:53,520
Speaker 2: roast she it promised, which is in the last story.

873
00:40:54,040 --> 00:40:58,920
Speaker 2: So gosh. Yeah. But we do actually have a small update.

874
00:40:59,160 --> 00:41:01,200
Speaker 2: Brother in law did the t yes. Now it's a

875
00:41:01,200 --> 00:41:04,399
Speaker 2: waiting game. No news on Bethany and Dalia, but it's

876
00:41:04,400 --> 00:41:07,560
Speaker 2: a Sunday, so they're probably tucked away until Monday. Mother

877
00:41:07,600 --> 00:41:10,880
Speaker 2: in Law's Sunday roast did not disappoint. It was baying.

878
00:41:11,239 --> 00:41:14,279
Speaker 2: I've definitely overeaten and I do not care. And that

879
00:41:14,400 --> 00:41:17,360
Speaker 2: is the end of that insane story.

880
00:41:17,880 --> 00:41:19,880
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, she just baffled.

881
00:41:20,000 --> 00:41:21,320
Speaker 2: You deserve that full belly.

882
00:41:21,400 --> 00:41:24,520
Speaker 1: Everyone does, everyone does, especially Uop. I want to fact

883
00:41:24,560 --> 00:41:28,000
Speaker 1: that you went through this thought on your toes came

884
00:41:28,080 --> 00:41:28,520
Speaker 1: after this.

885
00:41:28,680 --> 00:41:31,719
Speaker 2: We're able to offend for yourself, defend yourself physically.

886
00:41:32,120 --> 00:41:34,640
Speaker 1: The person I worry about the most is this baby. Yeah,

887
00:41:34,760 --> 00:41:35,799
Speaker 1: what's the baby's name again?

888
00:41:36,160 --> 00:41:36,640
Speaker 2: Arabella?

889
00:41:37,239 --> 00:41:40,000
Speaker 1: Arabella. Yeah, I worry about her so much because this

890
00:41:40,080 --> 00:41:43,320
Speaker 1: woman is insane and should be behind bars.

891
00:41:43,680 --> 00:41:45,640
Speaker 2: That is so crazy.

892
00:41:46,160 --> 00:41:48,040
Speaker 1: If you're if you're here, please update us.

893
00:41:48,280 --> 00:41:48,600
Speaker 4: Yeah.

894
00:41:48,640 --> 00:41:50,000
Speaker 1: But I don't think it is his.

895
00:41:50,440 --> 00:41:51,480
Speaker 2: Really, you don't think it's his.

896
00:41:51,560 --> 00:41:53,160
Speaker 1: Actually, it's a toss up. I really don't know. I

897
00:41:53,680 --> 00:41:54,239
Speaker 1: cannot tell.

898
00:41:54,440 --> 00:41:56,840
Speaker 2: I don't know. I kind of I wouldn't be surprised

899
00:41:56,840 --> 00:41:59,000
Speaker 2: if it was his, if she was like really trying

900
00:41:59,000 --> 00:42:01,280
Speaker 2: to baby trap him in this case because she wanted

901
00:42:01,280 --> 00:42:03,080
Speaker 2: to use him originally, like for money.

902
00:42:03,120 --> 00:42:06,680
Speaker 1: Basically, that's like if it honestly, I feel like it is,

903
00:42:07,080 --> 00:42:09,319
Speaker 1: it's for the better because this kid will be in

904
00:42:09,360 --> 00:42:13,120
Speaker 1: a better place. Yeah. Absolutely, it would suck and it

905
00:42:13,120 --> 00:42:15,080
Speaker 1: wouldn't be the best thing ever, but like right, I

906
00:42:15,120 --> 00:42:17,120
Speaker 1: think the kid needs a good dad, a good stable

907
00:42:17,160 --> 00:42:18,440
Speaker 1: person in their.

908
00:42:18,280 --> 00:42:20,600
Speaker 2: Life, and he's going to be. And a silver lining

909
00:42:20,600 --> 00:42:24,120
Speaker 2: about that too is that, you know, originally this girl

910
00:42:24,320 --> 00:42:26,040
Speaker 2: was like so upset that they had their babies so

911
00:42:26,080 --> 00:42:28,680
Speaker 2: close together, But now it's kind of a plus because

912
00:42:28,719 --> 00:42:31,080
Speaker 2: now they are going through all the like first baby

913
00:42:31,080 --> 00:42:32,960
Speaker 2: stages at the same time that he's going to be,

914
00:42:33,040 --> 00:42:35,080
Speaker 2: you know, so they can help him out for sure.

915
00:42:35,320 --> 00:42:39,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, agreed, But guys, one, we'll have.

916
00:42:39,719 --> 00:42:41,839
Speaker 3: To keep an eye on it for the I guess

917
00:42:41,920 --> 00:42:43,600
Speaker 3: the third and final Yeah, but.

918
00:42:43,600 --> 00:42:45,240
Speaker 1: Guys, that's the end the story.

919
00:42:45,360 --> 00:42:46,719
Speaker 2: Oh my god, what a way to end it.

920
00:42:46,800 --> 00:42:47,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, this is beautiful.

921
00:42:47,840 --> 00:42:49,080
Speaker 2: Thank you to who sent that in.

922
00:42:49,280 --> 00:42:50,279
Speaker 1: Thank my gosh.

923
00:42:50,320 --> 00:42:53,799
Speaker 2: My mother in law repeatedly stomped on my boundaries, so

924
00:42:54,000 --> 00:42:55,120
Speaker 2: I don't want her around.

925
00:42:55,400 --> 00:42:56,600
Speaker 1: It's to cut her out.

926
00:42:56,960 --> 00:43:00,000
Speaker 2: And this comes directly from the r slash Okay storytime

927
00:43:00,120 --> 00:43:01,600
Speaker 2: subreddits two for two.

928
00:43:01,680 --> 00:43:03,279
Speaker 1: Here am I the a whole for.

929
00:43:03,280 --> 00:43:05,640
Speaker 2: Being hesitant in becoming close to my mother in law.

930
00:43:05,800 --> 00:43:08,440
Speaker 2: I thirty three female, have been married to my husband

931
00:43:08,520 --> 00:43:11,800
Speaker 2: thirty three male, for ten years and together for thirteen years.

932
00:43:11,920 --> 00:43:13,920
Speaker 2: We met when we were both nineteen years old and

933
00:43:13,960 --> 00:43:16,719
Speaker 2: started seeing each other after a year of friendship. My

934
00:43:16,800 --> 00:43:19,640
Speaker 2: then best friend now husband spent almost every day at

935
00:43:19,640 --> 00:43:21,960
Speaker 2: my house and became very close to my family, especially

936
00:43:22,040 --> 00:43:23,879
Speaker 2: my mom. We dated for two and a half years

937
00:43:23,880 --> 00:43:27,360
Speaker 2: before getting married. Wow, that's fast. In all that time,

938
00:43:27,480 --> 00:43:29,840
Speaker 2: I was not taken to his house formally since his

939
00:43:29,960 --> 00:43:33,759
Speaker 2: parents never wanted to meet me. When asked, what.

940
00:43:35,000 --> 00:43:37,080
Speaker 1: That's weird interesting?

941
00:43:37,640 --> 00:43:39,920
Speaker 2: In fact, they were upset when I was taken to

942
00:43:39,920 --> 00:43:42,680
Speaker 2: meet his cousins and other relatives who wanted to get

943
00:43:42,680 --> 00:43:44,480
Speaker 2: to know me. By the way, this comes from a

944
00:43:44,520 --> 00:43:46,719
Speaker 2: feeling touch fifteen seventy eight. And if you want to

945
00:43:46,719 --> 00:43:48,560
Speaker 2: submit your own stories, go to the hours slash Okay,

946
00:43:48,560 --> 00:43:50,800
Speaker 2: storry time subred it and I'm Angie, I'm Riley.

947
00:43:51,080 --> 00:43:51,279
Speaker 1: I know.

948
00:43:51,440 --> 00:43:54,759
Speaker 2: He says our marriage happened without his family knowing, though

949
00:43:54,800 --> 00:43:57,239
Speaker 2: my family knew at the time. My professional life and

950
00:43:57,280 --> 00:43:59,880
Speaker 2: mother in law's overlapped. And mother in law kept asking

951
00:43:59,880 --> 00:44:02,560
Speaker 2: you what I was to her son. I told her

952
00:44:02,600 --> 00:44:04,040
Speaker 2: that she needed to talk to her son.

953
00:44:04,760 --> 00:44:07,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, Also, what do you guys do both? I think

954
00:44:07,360 --> 00:44:11,160
Speaker 1: they're both real estate agents? You think, oh yeah, why why?

955
00:44:12,120 --> 00:44:14,600
Speaker 1: I don't know. I think their professional lives, you know,

956
00:44:15,000 --> 00:44:16,880
Speaker 1: overlabed or nothing the same. She would have said, we

957
00:44:16,920 --> 00:44:18,560
Speaker 1: worked at the same company and worked in the same

958
00:44:19,040 --> 00:44:20,799
Speaker 1: you know whatever. I don't know.

959
00:44:20,920 --> 00:44:22,520
Speaker 2: I mean, it could be anything that really worked at

960
00:44:22,560 --> 00:44:25,520
Speaker 2: the same company or something not sure. I told her

961
00:44:25,560 --> 00:44:27,719
Speaker 2: that the person who needs to answer that is him,

962
00:44:27,920 --> 00:44:30,279
Speaker 2: and that I said what I needed to say to

963
00:44:30,280 --> 00:44:32,600
Speaker 2: my parents and she needed to address her son to

964
00:44:32,640 --> 00:44:35,439
Speaker 2: get the answers that she needs that was between them.

965
00:44:35,640 --> 00:44:38,000
Speaker 2: I feel the need to mention that they were extremely

966
00:44:38,000 --> 00:44:40,360
Speaker 2: controlling to my husband, which is why he felt the

967
00:44:40,400 --> 00:44:42,839
Speaker 2: need to marry me in secret, and it was his

968
00:44:42,920 --> 00:44:45,960
Speaker 2: demons he needed to face. Significant other and I moved

969
00:44:46,000 --> 00:44:48,600
Speaker 2: into a mobile home that we could afford, despite it

970
00:44:48,640 --> 00:44:51,319
Speaker 2: not being what my husband was used to. It was

971
00:44:51,440 --> 00:44:53,440
Speaker 2: hard adjusting to being on our own, but we were

972
00:44:53,440 --> 00:44:55,800
Speaker 2: happily in love and glad to be together. Mother in

973
00:44:55,880 --> 00:44:58,279
Speaker 2: law apparently blamed me for her son being in that

974
00:44:58,320 --> 00:44:59,080
Speaker 2: living situation.

975
00:44:59,360 --> 00:45:03,279
Speaker 1: A dude, they're okay with it's their lives. Yeah, those

976
00:45:03,360 --> 00:45:05,800
Speaker 1: mobile homes are you can make them look really nice

977
00:45:05,800 --> 00:45:07,280
Speaker 1: on the inside, or sure.

978
00:45:07,640 --> 00:45:10,120
Speaker 2: I come from a humble family and I'm not deserving

979
00:45:10,160 --> 00:45:12,640
Speaker 2: of her son in her eyes, even though I'm a

980
00:45:12,719 --> 00:45:15,719
Speaker 2: hard worker and helped him get his first car, motivated

981
00:45:15,760 --> 00:45:18,960
Speaker 2: him to better himself, and helped him improve his college grades.

982
00:45:19,080 --> 00:45:21,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, more than you would ever did for him.

983
00:45:22,080 --> 00:45:26,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, modun mom. Hey y'all, it's John og Host here.

984
00:45:26,000 --> 00:45:27,400
Speaker 3: We're gonna get back to the stories, but here's a

985
00:45:27,440 --> 00:45:29,320
Speaker 3: quick three minute break from ASP for more sponsors.

986
00:45:29,719 --> 00:45:32,120
Speaker 2: When my in laws found out about our union. I

987
00:45:32,320 --> 00:45:35,000
Speaker 2: was finally taking to their house and introduced to his family,

988
00:45:35,120 --> 00:45:38,080
Speaker 2: since in their eyes, marriage meant that we were serious

989
00:45:38,200 --> 00:45:40,160
Speaker 2: and there was no way around it as I was

990
00:45:40,200 --> 00:45:42,359
Speaker 2: a part of their lives now. Mother in law made

991
00:45:42,440 --> 00:45:44,919
Speaker 2: jabs at me every time she saw me, and even

992
00:45:44,960 --> 00:45:47,040
Speaker 2: her mother would disrespect me when no one was looking.

993
00:45:47,280 --> 00:45:49,120
Speaker 2: I became close to my father in law and he

994
00:45:49,120 --> 00:45:51,960
Speaker 2: would listen to me vent My relationship with my husband

995
00:45:52,000 --> 00:45:54,319
Speaker 2: started to sour because I felt like he didn't care

996
00:45:54,360 --> 00:45:56,440
Speaker 2: about me. He would just tell me to ignore her,

997
00:45:56,480 --> 00:45:58,440
Speaker 2: and he would force me to visit even though he

998
00:45:58,520 --> 00:46:00,719
Speaker 2: knew that I felt uncomfortable and it would end in

999
00:46:00,760 --> 00:46:03,080
Speaker 2: a fight. When we arrived at home four years into

1000
00:46:03,080 --> 00:46:06,240
Speaker 2: our marriage, we found out that we were expecting. Congratulations,

1001
00:46:06,480 --> 00:46:10,520
Speaker 2: you cute. We were thrilled. Mother in law not so much.

1002
00:46:10,719 --> 00:46:16,719
Speaker 1: Another demon spawning. No, it's half even half.

1003
00:46:16,520 --> 00:46:20,719
Speaker 2: Good, my husband told her on Thanksgiving an announcement. I

1004
00:46:20,760 --> 00:46:23,120
Speaker 2: took no pardon because my husband knew it would not

1005
00:46:23,200 --> 00:46:26,000
Speaker 2: go well. From there, things just got worse.

1006
00:46:26,120 --> 00:46:26,960
Speaker 1: Oh gosh.

1007
00:46:27,000 --> 00:46:29,399
Speaker 2: My pregnancy was high risk, and whenever my husband would

1008
00:46:29,440 --> 00:46:32,160
Speaker 2: want to see them, I chose to stay home. Being

1009
00:46:32,200 --> 00:46:34,879
Speaker 2: around her was stressful and I want to avoid all

1010
00:46:35,000 --> 00:46:38,200
Speaker 2: negative people who could cause me emotional stress and anxiety.

1011
00:46:38,320 --> 00:46:41,720
Speaker 2: Per doctor's orders, all right for the delivery, I said,

1012
00:46:41,760 --> 00:46:44,799
Speaker 2: no visitors outside of immediate family. Mother in law thought

1013
00:46:44,800 --> 00:46:47,239
Speaker 2: it was okay to bring her longtime best friend and

1014
00:46:47,320 --> 00:46:51,080
Speaker 2: their significant other to meet the baby. After the hospital discharged,

1015
00:46:51,160 --> 00:46:55,160
Speaker 2: things got even worse. Oh no, Due to certain situations,

1016
00:46:55,239 --> 00:46:58,359
Speaker 2: we husband, baby and I had to move in with

1017
00:46:58,440 --> 00:46:59,320
Speaker 2: my in laws.

1018
00:46:59,320 --> 00:47:01,240
Speaker 1: Oh wow, oh, oh gosh, that's.

1019
00:47:01,200 --> 00:47:04,000
Speaker 2: Not what you wanna do. I ended up having to

1020
00:47:04,000 --> 00:47:06,319
Speaker 2: be rushed back to the er because of fluid in

1021
00:47:06,360 --> 00:47:09,280
Speaker 2: my lungs. Oh my gosh. This meant that the baby

1022
00:47:09,320 --> 00:47:11,200
Speaker 2: had to stay with my in laws while I was

1023
00:47:11,239 --> 00:47:14,080
Speaker 2: in the hospital for a week. Having baby abstained from

1024
00:47:14,160 --> 00:47:17,200
Speaker 2: visiting homes for the first three months was a boundary

1025
00:47:17,200 --> 00:47:19,520
Speaker 2: that we made clear to both sides of our family.

1026
00:47:19,680 --> 00:47:22,320
Speaker 2: We had heard a baby's immunity needs to be slowly

1027
00:47:22,360 --> 00:47:25,600
Speaker 2: built up, and thought about the baby's best interest. Postpartum

1028
00:47:25,640 --> 00:47:29,080
Speaker 2: depression is real. I was in a bad state of

1029
00:47:29,080 --> 00:47:31,480
Speaker 2: mind and being a week away from my baby was

1030
00:47:31,560 --> 00:47:34,160
Speaker 2: hard enough. The day that I was released, it was

1031
00:47:34,280 --> 00:47:37,000
Speaker 2: raining and I was very anxious. I got home at

1032
00:47:37,040 --> 00:47:39,319
Speaker 2: three pm. The car port was empty, so I called

1033
00:47:39,320 --> 00:47:42,879
Speaker 2: mother in law and got no answer. Worried and devastated,

1034
00:47:43,000 --> 00:47:45,560
Speaker 2: I had no choice but to go to my parents' house.

1035
00:47:45,800 --> 00:47:48,439
Speaker 2: While I waited for a reply, I found out mother

1036
00:47:48,480 --> 00:47:51,399
Speaker 2: in law completely violated our trust because she took him

1037
00:47:51,680 --> 00:47:54,799
Speaker 2: to her relatives home. Girl, do you.

1038
00:47:54,760 --> 00:47:57,560
Speaker 1: Need a doctor's know to know what to do here?

1039
00:47:57,840 --> 00:47:58,360
Speaker 2: Honestly?

1040
00:47:58,880 --> 00:48:01,640
Speaker 1: Baby can't. Baby needs to be safe.

1041
00:48:02,160 --> 00:48:05,440
Speaker 2: Right, Baby can't go out and go club and to

1042
00:48:05,480 --> 00:48:06,400
Speaker 2: different houses.

1043
00:48:06,520 --> 00:48:10,040
Speaker 1: Go play bridge at your friend's house. Right, Baby needs

1044
00:48:10,040 --> 00:48:12,760
Speaker 1: to be safe. Right. Mother in law's like, but baby

1045
00:48:12,800 --> 00:48:13,319
Speaker 1: wanted to go.

1046
00:48:13,600 --> 00:48:15,840
Speaker 2: But baby wanted to Baby's having a great time.

1047
00:48:16,080 --> 00:48:16,680
Speaker 1: Look at him.

1048
00:48:17,120 --> 00:48:19,879
Speaker 2: Mother in law was first to arrive home around six

1049
00:48:19,960 --> 00:48:23,200
Speaker 2: pm that day. My sister and I arrived shortly after.

1050
00:48:23,400 --> 00:48:25,280
Speaker 2: I took the baby in my arms and my sister

1051
00:48:25,400 --> 00:48:27,400
Speaker 2: had a few words with her on my path about

1052
00:48:27,440 --> 00:48:30,919
Speaker 2: boundaries and both sides needing to respect our wishes. After

1053
00:48:30,960 --> 00:48:33,400
Speaker 2: my husband's return home, mother in law twisted the story

1054
00:48:33,440 --> 00:48:35,680
Speaker 2: to everyone in the house. My husband, who was at

1055
00:48:35,680 --> 00:48:38,520
Speaker 2: work when it happened, said my sister was not welcome,

1056
00:48:38,800 --> 00:48:41,600
Speaker 2: which led to me going off on him and setting

1057
00:48:41,600 --> 00:48:44,399
Speaker 2: the record straight to both him and father in law.

1058
00:48:44,560 --> 00:48:48,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, husband, come on to stand up. Yeah, stand up

1059
00:48:48,760 --> 00:48:52,480
Speaker 1: for your wife. Oh also your recently pregnant wife who

1060
00:48:52,560 --> 00:48:54,440
Speaker 1: has you're the mother of your child.

1061
00:48:54,719 --> 00:48:59,680
Speaker 2: Right, things went further downhill. Oh, my God, keeps going,

1062
00:49:00,200 --> 00:49:03,400
Speaker 2: keeps going. She would meddle in our affairs, try to

1063
00:49:03,440 --> 00:49:05,799
Speaker 2: dictate how to raise our baby. It would criticize my

1064
00:49:05,920 --> 00:49:09,719
Speaker 2: cooking and then complain about me not cooking. She even

1065
00:49:09,760 --> 00:49:12,920
Speaker 2: complained about me staying in my room. We ended up

1066
00:49:13,000 --> 00:49:16,040
Speaker 2: moving out on Christmas. I felt like I would end

1067
00:49:16,120 --> 00:49:18,440
Speaker 2: up separating from my husband or harming myself if I

1068
00:49:18,480 --> 00:49:20,680
Speaker 2: stay there any longer. Yeah, get out of there.

1069
00:49:20,719 --> 00:49:23,560
Speaker 1: Goodness gracious. One of my one of my favorite things

1070
00:49:23,640 --> 00:49:28,120
Speaker 1: is watching other parents tell parents how to parent their kid. Yeah.

1071
00:49:28,239 --> 00:49:29,799
Speaker 1: I love doing I love doing that with my aunt.

1072
00:49:29,880 --> 00:49:32,279
Speaker 2: We don't. It's this is what we've called mother in

1073
00:49:32,360 --> 00:49:35,040
Speaker 2: law splaining. Yeah, mills plaining.

1074
00:49:34,800 --> 00:49:36,359
Speaker 1: Mills plaining. Did you come up with when you come

1075
00:49:36,440 --> 00:49:36,600
Speaker 1: up with that?

1076
00:49:36,880 --> 00:49:38,720
Speaker 2: Me and Coda came up with that on a stream

1077
00:49:38,760 --> 00:49:39,200
Speaker 2: while ago.

1078
00:49:39,360 --> 00:49:41,160
Speaker 1: That's good, Ye's good. Yeah.

1079
00:49:41,239 --> 00:49:43,920
Speaker 2: The depression was coming at me full force, and I

1080
00:49:44,040 --> 00:49:47,120
Speaker 2: felt powerless. She continued to get between my husband and

1081
00:49:47,200 --> 00:49:49,799
Speaker 2: I with her japs. One year after the baby's birth,

1082
00:49:49,880 --> 00:49:51,840
Speaker 2: she took the liberty to cut our son's hair in

1083
00:49:51,920 --> 00:49:54,360
Speaker 2: our absence, after we had said that we wanted to

1084
00:49:54,360 --> 00:49:56,280
Speaker 2: witness it do I was livid.

1085
00:49:56,560 --> 00:49:59,880
Speaker 1: I would be livid too, Yeah, you let the baby curls.

1086
00:50:00,800 --> 00:50:03,399
Speaker 1: Takes a while. What the heck are you doing?

1087
00:50:03,480 --> 00:50:03,880
Speaker 2: In right?

1088
00:50:04,040 --> 00:50:05,640
Speaker 1: Are you trying to piss them off?

1089
00:50:05,800 --> 00:50:08,279
Speaker 2: Yeah? Like this is this is my firstborn. I went

1090
00:50:08,400 --> 00:50:12,440
Speaker 2: to see his first haircut, and you knew that, and

1091
00:50:12,480 --> 00:50:15,799
Speaker 2: you still did it yourself when we were specifically.

1092
00:50:15,280 --> 00:50:17,200
Speaker 1: Gone, what's wrong with you? Come on?

1093
00:50:17,800 --> 00:50:19,719
Speaker 2: She didn't seem to care about what she did. She

1094
00:50:19,880 --> 00:50:21,680
Speaker 2: felt that she was in her right, that it was

1095
00:50:21,760 --> 00:50:24,400
Speaker 2: no big deal, and only I found issue with her decision.

1096
00:50:24,840 --> 00:50:27,600
Speaker 2: Father in law was upset at her for overstepping, so,

1097
00:50:27,760 --> 00:50:30,400
Speaker 2: because it's not just OpEd, it's upset. She should know

1098
00:50:30,560 --> 00:50:33,320
Speaker 2: as a mother how special that first haircut is, especially

1099
00:50:33,600 --> 00:50:36,839
Speaker 2: with the first child. He told her, I was heartbroken.

1100
00:50:37,160 --> 00:50:40,719
Speaker 2: Work prevented me from being present during many milestones. His

1101
00:50:40,800 --> 00:50:43,360
Speaker 2: haircut was one that shouldn't have been out of my control,

1102
00:50:43,440 --> 00:50:46,600
Speaker 2: and she robbed us of that experience. Husband dropped me

1103
00:50:46,640 --> 00:50:48,480
Speaker 2: off of my parents' house that day, and he went

1104
00:50:48,520 --> 00:50:51,000
Speaker 2: to confront her at home. She was the one at fault,

1105
00:50:51,120 --> 00:50:54,839
Speaker 2: but everyone paid the price. Our son didn't see them

1106
00:50:54,880 --> 00:50:58,560
Speaker 2: for two months. Through the years, we have had confrontations

1107
00:50:58,600 --> 00:51:00,759
Speaker 2: to the point of avoiding her and not wanting to

1108
00:51:00,760 --> 00:51:03,319
Speaker 2: spend holidays over there. I've never told my husband not

1109
00:51:03,400 --> 00:51:06,200
Speaker 2: to go, but uh, that's his family and they are

1110
00:51:06,239 --> 00:51:08,920
Speaker 2: important to him. I would just stay with my parents

1111
00:51:08,920 --> 00:51:12,600
Speaker 2: and our son would go with them. Now to the present,

1112
00:51:13,080 --> 00:51:17,200
Speaker 2: so the kid is now like six years old. Believe

1113
00:51:17,440 --> 00:51:19,640
Speaker 2: my husband tells me his mother wants to have a

1114
00:51:19,680 --> 00:51:22,319
Speaker 2: relationship with me, she wants to know me better. But

1115
00:51:22,480 --> 00:51:24,920
Speaker 2: I feel that it's only because I am going through

1116
00:51:24,960 --> 00:51:27,200
Speaker 2: a tough time with my health. So am I the

1117
00:51:27,239 --> 00:51:29,359
Speaker 2: a hole for not wanting to And we do have

1118
00:51:29,400 --> 00:51:33,120
Speaker 2: an update. So do we think that OP is an

1119
00:51:33,160 --> 00:51:35,000
Speaker 2: a hole for not wanting to have a relationship with

1120
00:51:35,040 --> 00:51:36,240
Speaker 2: her mother in law? Yeah?

1121
00:51:36,280 --> 00:51:38,719
Speaker 1: I feel like there's not a lot of love here,

1122
00:51:39,200 --> 00:51:44,239
Speaker 1: not a lot. I don't know, no depth to this relationship. Yeah,

1123
00:51:44,280 --> 00:51:47,560
Speaker 1: she always bigger at you. Yeah. And two, if she

1124
00:51:47,600 --> 00:51:49,960
Speaker 1: wants a relationship with you, she can say it from herself,

1125
00:51:50,239 --> 00:51:51,720
Speaker 1: not send her a little flying monkey.

1126
00:51:51,840 --> 00:51:55,120
Speaker 2: Your husband right to do that, Yeah, exactly, it's I

1127
00:51:55,160 --> 00:51:57,839
Speaker 2: would want to know her reasoning. I would want to know,

1128
00:51:58,239 --> 00:52:01,200
Speaker 2: you know, if she is expected some sort of apology

1129
00:52:01,200 --> 00:52:04,880
Speaker 2: from ope to start this rekindling. I just if she

1130
00:52:05,000 --> 00:52:07,719
Speaker 2: has been acting that same way for all of these

1131
00:52:07,760 --> 00:52:11,560
Speaker 2: six years that have gone by, then it's like, well, like, no,

1132
00:52:11,880 --> 00:52:14,520
Speaker 2: if you want to start, then maybe make some effort,

1133
00:52:14,760 --> 00:52:17,279
Speaker 2: yeah and show me that, But I can't. I'm not

1134
00:52:17,280 --> 00:52:18,680
Speaker 2: going to show the effort until you will.

1135
00:52:18,920 --> 00:52:19,400
Speaker 1: Easy.

1136
00:52:20,000 --> 00:52:22,120
Speaker 2: But we do have an update. Thank you to everyone

1137
00:52:22,160 --> 00:52:24,799
Speaker 2: for your input in suggestions. I spoke to my significant

1138
00:52:24,800 --> 00:52:27,120
Speaker 2: other about it and we cleared up a lot of things.

1139
00:52:27,440 --> 00:52:30,120
Speaker 2: So so backs me up and feels bad for everything

1140
00:52:30,120 --> 00:52:32,200
Speaker 2: that has happened in the past. We decided he will

1141
00:52:32,239 --> 00:52:34,399
Speaker 2: speak with his mother about everything and make it clear

1142
00:52:34,440 --> 00:52:36,880
Speaker 2: that the attitude will no longer be tolerated. We will

1143
00:52:36,920 --> 00:52:38,840
Speaker 2: give her one last chance and she will have to

1144
00:52:38,880 --> 00:52:41,799
Speaker 2: apologize and prove that she really wants a relationship with me.

1145
00:52:42,040 --> 00:52:44,160
Speaker 2: He will speak with her alone, and I will speak

1146
00:52:44,160 --> 00:52:46,560
Speaker 2: with her afterwards. Mother in law in the past has

1147
00:52:46,600 --> 00:52:48,600
Speaker 2: done a lot of crappy things to me, but she

1148
00:52:48,760 --> 00:52:51,200
Speaker 2: has also helped a lot of times, and that's why

1149
00:52:51,239 --> 00:52:52,799
Speaker 2: I want to give her the benefit of the doubt.

1150
00:52:52,920 --> 00:52:55,360
Speaker 2: I guess I'm not completely opposed to getting close to

1151
00:52:55,400 --> 00:52:58,440
Speaker 2: her as much as cautious and on edge about it.

1152
00:52:58,800 --> 00:53:01,520
Speaker 2: My son loves this's his grandma. That is the main

1153
00:53:01,560 --> 00:53:03,319
Speaker 2: reason why I want to give it one last try.

1154
00:53:03,440 --> 00:53:05,720
Speaker 2: I also believe the reason she treated me that way

1155
00:53:05,760 --> 00:53:09,120
Speaker 2: maybe because she was or is jealous of me. I

1156
00:53:09,160 --> 00:53:11,719
Speaker 2: took her first born away from her, and she was

1157
00:53:11,760 --> 00:53:15,400
Speaker 2: rebelling when we started dating. She was controlling. I was

1158
00:53:15,440 --> 00:53:17,640
Speaker 2: his first serious relationship, and I guess she thought that

1159
00:53:17,640 --> 00:53:19,200
Speaker 2: I would get in the way of his studies. But

1160
00:53:19,239 --> 00:53:21,200
Speaker 2: he ended up dropping out of college because they were

1161
00:53:21,239 --> 00:53:23,719
Speaker 2: pushing him to study what she wanted him to and

1162
00:53:23,760 --> 00:53:24,640
Speaker 2: not what he wanted.

1163
00:53:25,000 --> 00:53:27,880
Speaker 1: Ah. Okay, so I see what's happening here.

1164
00:53:27,960 --> 00:53:30,279
Speaker 2: It's a control thing, lots of control. And she did

1165
00:53:30,440 --> 00:53:33,160
Speaker 2: mention that she had been controlling like his whole childhood too,

1166
00:53:33,320 --> 00:53:36,560
Speaker 2: So it's just a lot of controlling. This was his

1167
00:53:36,880 --> 00:53:40,799
Speaker 2: chance and his choice to have a serious relationship and

1168
00:53:40,840 --> 00:53:44,520
Speaker 2: to make these commitments to someone, but she wasn't ready

1169
00:53:44,520 --> 00:53:44,719
Speaker 2: for that.

1170
00:53:45,000 --> 00:53:48,759
Speaker 1: That's ready, baby boy, but it's not a little longer, right.

1171
00:53:49,400 --> 00:53:51,759
Speaker 2: Significant other also mentioned to me that he told her

1172
00:53:51,800 --> 00:53:55,160
Speaker 2: everything that she blamed me for was wrong. He told

1173
00:53:55,160 --> 00:53:57,279
Speaker 2: her that it was all because of what she did

1174
00:53:57,280 --> 00:53:59,560
Speaker 2: to him. She pushed him away and she needed to

1175
00:53:59,640 --> 00:54:02,160
Speaker 2: understand and that his priority is me and our son.

1176
00:54:02,360 --> 00:54:05,440
Speaker 2: He also mentioned that he will not tolerate me being disrespected,

1177
00:54:05,480 --> 00:54:07,400
Speaker 2: and father in law also said this to her. He

1178
00:54:07,440 --> 00:54:10,640
Speaker 2: also explained to them why he chose to Elope. Apparently

1179
00:54:10,760 --> 00:54:13,520
Speaker 2: she thought that it was all my idea. Oh wow,

1180
00:54:14,239 --> 00:54:17,320
Speaker 2: of course, I mean, I'm not surprised.

1181
00:54:17,160 --> 00:54:19,040
Speaker 1: It was his idea, but it was easier to blame

1182
00:54:19,080 --> 00:54:22,319
Speaker 1: her because how could yeah, baby boy do that to him?

1183
00:54:22,440 --> 00:54:23,880
Speaker 2: Right, of course he wouldn't do that.

1184
00:54:23,960 --> 00:54:25,840
Speaker 1: Of course he wouldn't think that. Of Course he loves me.

1185
00:54:26,239 --> 00:54:29,399
Speaker 1: It's her right, it's her dude. So I note there

1186
00:54:29,440 --> 00:54:31,919
Speaker 1: is a special guest coming soonish, I don't know when,

1187
00:54:32,160 --> 00:54:35,280
Speaker 1: but they have a book that's coming out November fourth

1188
00:54:35,880 --> 00:54:40,080
Speaker 1: about the complications between people in mother in laws. Really.

1189
00:54:41,480 --> 00:54:45,080
Speaker 2: Oh wow, Yeah, that's honestly a good thing to talk

1190
00:54:45,120 --> 00:54:47,520
Speaker 2: about in a book, because we have so many mother

1191
00:54:47,560 --> 00:54:50,720
Speaker 2: in law stories, I mean and mother in law things.

1192
00:54:50,719 --> 00:54:52,520
Speaker 2: We have mother in law suits, and we have mother

1193
00:54:52,560 --> 00:54:57,120
Speaker 2: in law chairs which are just uncomfortable chairs. Really, yeah,

1194
00:54:57,160 --> 00:54:59,799
Speaker 2: those I have mother in law chairs in my house.

1195
00:55:00,040 --> 00:55:01,760
Speaker 2: My mom said that they were mother in law chairs,

1196
00:55:01,760 --> 00:55:04,080
Speaker 2: but they were just chairs from her childhood. But yeah,

1197
00:55:04,120 --> 00:55:07,560
Speaker 2: these ones are just very they have no like back support,

1198
00:55:07,560 --> 00:55:10,960
Speaker 2: they're just very upright. Oh god, the pillows on them,

1199
00:55:11,000 --> 00:55:12,799
Speaker 2: and so, I mean they have a but I don't

1200
00:55:12,800 --> 00:55:14,839
Speaker 2: know why there was called that. Yeah, because you don't

1201
00:55:14,880 --> 00:55:18,520
Speaker 2: want them around very much for too long. It's pretty funny,

1202
00:55:18,640 --> 00:55:20,720
Speaker 2: So that that would be an interesting book. I feel

1203
00:55:20,719 --> 00:55:22,840
Speaker 2: that a lot of my feelings have been validated and

1204
00:55:22,880 --> 00:55:24,920
Speaker 2: I feel at peace with significant other and now I

1205
00:55:25,000 --> 00:55:27,520
Speaker 2: just have to focus on getting my health together. But

1206
00:55:27,560 --> 00:55:31,000
Speaker 2: we do have a second update. Do you have any

1207
00:55:31,000 --> 00:55:32,680
Speaker 2: final thoughts before we roll right into that.

1208
00:55:34,560 --> 00:55:38,480
Speaker 1: No, I dog to the husband. I'm not one forgiving ultimatums,

1209
00:55:38,840 --> 00:55:41,680
Speaker 1: but I think of my line in the sand, your husband, Hey,

1210
00:55:42,000 --> 00:55:45,000
Speaker 1: this is gonna happen or this like, we're gonna have

1211
00:55:45,000 --> 00:55:47,279
Speaker 1: to go no contact with her because I can't can't

1212
00:55:47,280 --> 00:55:49,200
Speaker 1: do it, and I don't would relationship with her because

1213
00:55:49,520 --> 00:55:51,719
Speaker 1: it just stresses me out and it's not good for

1214
00:55:51,800 --> 00:55:52,520
Speaker 1: my beauty sleep.

1215
00:55:52,680 --> 00:55:54,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, and hopefully he would understand, because I mean, it

1216
00:55:54,520 --> 00:55:56,720
Speaker 2: seems like that's how it's been for the last several years.

1217
00:55:57,200 --> 00:55:59,839
Speaker 2: And so if she decided to not have a release

1218
00:55:59,840 --> 00:56:02,920
Speaker 2: whip with this mother in law. Hopefully he would understand that. Yeah,

1219
00:56:03,080 --> 00:56:05,600
Speaker 2: but it sounds like she's kind of open to it.

1220
00:56:05,760 --> 00:56:09,359
Speaker 2: So let's see what update two sets. Hello Reddit, it's

1221
00:56:09,400 --> 00:56:12,440
Speaker 2: been a while since my last update. Well, it's finally happened.

1222
00:56:12,520 --> 00:56:16,120
Speaker 2: My mental state has relapsed and has gotten worse. That's

1223
00:56:16,160 --> 00:56:18,360
Speaker 2: not what we want to hear. I spoke to my

1224
00:56:18,440 --> 00:56:21,200
Speaker 2: husband and gave him the ultimatum of us possibly getting

1225
00:56:21,200 --> 00:56:23,799
Speaker 2: a divorce or us going no contact with mother in law.

1226
00:56:23,960 --> 00:56:26,160
Speaker 2: How'd you do that? That has been happening so many

1227
00:56:26,160 --> 00:56:29,040
Speaker 2: times today, just in general of like like when I

1228
00:56:29,080 --> 00:56:32,000
Speaker 2: was filming with Dakota, just like we would say something

1229
00:56:32,040 --> 00:56:33,719
Speaker 2: and be like, ah, yeah, I feel like this needs

1230
00:56:33,719 --> 00:56:35,279
Speaker 2: to come up or something like that, and then it

1231
00:56:35,320 --> 00:56:38,040
Speaker 2: immediately does. And that's something I wouldn't have even thought

1232
00:56:38,040 --> 00:56:38,959
Speaker 2: about too. Yeah.

1233
00:56:39,360 --> 00:56:43,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh my gosh, Wow, ultimatum. I'm not working for one.

1234
00:56:44,160 --> 00:56:46,759
Speaker 1: It's coming to that. Yeah, gotta watch out for them,

1235
00:56:46,800 --> 00:56:47,880
Speaker 1: mama boys, everybody.

1236
00:56:48,040 --> 00:56:50,560
Speaker 2: So things have happened recently with our son and mother

1237
00:56:50,600 --> 00:56:53,319
Speaker 2: in law's family visiting from their home country and them

1238
00:56:53,360 --> 00:56:56,000
Speaker 2: saying things to our child that are in fact offensive

1239
00:56:56,040 --> 00:56:58,959
Speaker 2: to my person and my culture and heritage boy.

1240
00:56:59,200 --> 00:57:01,520
Speaker 1: Oh no, but not racism. No.

1241
00:57:02,760 --> 00:57:05,520
Speaker 2: For clarity, we are not the same nationality. Our son

1242
00:57:05,640 --> 00:57:08,560
Speaker 2: is mixed my husband's family and made some very disgusting

1243
00:57:08,600 --> 00:57:11,200
Speaker 2: opinions to our son about my flag, about my people,

1244
00:57:11,400 --> 00:57:14,279
Speaker 2: and about him not being of that nationality but rather

1245
00:57:14,480 --> 00:57:17,480
Speaker 2: solely of theirs. Needless to say, I spoke to my

1246
00:57:17,560 --> 00:57:19,680
Speaker 2: husband about it once I found out, who in turn

1247
00:57:19,800 --> 00:57:21,960
Speaker 2: spoke to my father in law, who then spoke to

1248
00:57:22,040 --> 00:57:25,600
Speaker 2: mother in law. Good game and telephone here, nothing was resolved.

1249
00:57:25,880 --> 00:57:28,120
Speaker 2: My husband ended up speaking to her last night about

1250
00:57:28,160 --> 00:57:30,479
Speaker 2: the issue, but how offensive it was and how wrong

1251
00:57:30,520 --> 00:57:33,200
Speaker 2: it was of her sister to make those comments to

1252
00:57:33,240 --> 00:57:36,120
Speaker 2: our child. Mother in law tried to downplay everything, saying

1253
00:57:36,160 --> 00:57:38,360
Speaker 2: it was just a joke and how I was immature

1254
00:57:38,440 --> 00:57:41,680
Speaker 2: and completely too sensitive. My husband ended up deciding to

1255
00:57:41,760 --> 00:57:44,560
Speaker 2: completely go no contact with her, and we have decided

1256
00:57:44,600 --> 00:57:48,760
Speaker 2: to keep our son from her entirely. Let's go okay, okay,

1257
00:57:49,120 --> 00:57:51,800
Speaker 2: we have decided to just focus on our family of three.

1258
00:57:52,000 --> 00:57:53,919
Speaker 2: I am sure some drama will happen in the next

1259
00:57:53,960 --> 00:57:56,560
Speaker 2: couple of days. Mother in law is texting my husband

1260
00:57:56,600 --> 00:57:58,800
Speaker 2: and he is ignoring it for now since he needs

1261
00:57:58,840 --> 00:58:01,160
Speaker 2: time to process. Last night, it was a lot, and

1262
00:58:01,360 --> 00:58:04,080
Speaker 2: we both find ourselves mentally drained.

1263
00:58:04,200 --> 00:58:05,360
Speaker 1: Let me go see there's an update.

1264
00:58:05,480 --> 00:58:06,720
Speaker 2: That's the end of the story. We're going to see

1265
00:58:06,720 --> 00:58:10,120
Speaker 2: if there's an update, I feel drained from that's that

1266
00:58:10,240 --> 00:58:13,920
Speaker 2: sounds very very difficult and upsetting that you have to

1267
00:58:14,640 --> 00:58:17,600
Speaker 2: face no contact with your mom anyway. That's always a

1268
00:58:17,640 --> 00:58:19,440
Speaker 2: hard thing to do, so, I mean, it sounds like

1269
00:58:19,480 --> 00:58:22,320
Speaker 2: they had a difficult relationship growing up, but that they

1270
00:58:22,360 --> 00:58:26,920
Speaker 2: were relatively on good terms up until all of these issues.

1271
00:58:27,000 --> 00:58:30,680
Speaker 2: So that really really sucks that it has come to this,

1272
00:58:31,240 --> 00:58:34,040
Speaker 2: But what can you do? Yep, But that's the end

1273
00:58:34,040 --> 00:58:36,160
Speaker 2: of that story and the end of that episode.

1274
00:58:36,280 --> 00:58:38,920
Speaker 1: So if you love us, make sure to subscribe. We

1275
00:58:39,000 --> 00:58:41,040
Speaker 1: love you and see you tomorrow.