1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:05,280 Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all 2 00:00:05,280 --> 00:00:13,560 Speaker 1: don't know y'all have a suit on the don giving 3 00:00:13,600 --> 00:00:21,920 Speaker 1: them like the milling bus things and it's too Steve 4 00:00:24,320 --> 00:01:10,560 Speaker 1: listening to together for stuy don't joy. You gotta turn you, 5 00:01:24,640 --> 00:01:45,080 Speaker 1: you gotta turn to turnout. Got to turn them out 6 00:01:45,360 --> 00:01:58,680 Speaker 1: to turn turn the water to the water. Come come 7 00:01:58,720 --> 00:02:03,920 Speaker 1: on your baby now, h I shall well a good 8 00:02:03,960 --> 00:02:08,440 Speaker 1: morning everybody. Y'all listening to the voice, come on digging now, 9 00:02:09,080 --> 00:02:13,640 Speaker 1: One and only Steve Harvey got a radio show today. 10 00:02:14,600 --> 00:02:20,280 Speaker 1: I want to just share something with you. Um along 11 00:02:20,360 --> 00:02:24,640 Speaker 1: your way to wherever it is you're trying to get to. 12 00:02:24,880 --> 00:02:29,959 Speaker 1: You know, everybody has a different definition for success, and 13 00:02:30,160 --> 00:02:31,760 Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm not here to tell you what your 14 00:02:31,800 --> 00:02:35,120 Speaker 1: it should be. I mean, please pursue whatever you think success. 15 00:02:35,120 --> 00:02:39,320 Speaker 1: He is aim as high as you can though, that's 16 00:02:39,400 --> 00:02:43,240 Speaker 1: for sure. My father used to say all the time. 17 00:02:43,280 --> 00:02:45,880 Speaker 1: I'm sure you all have heard it in different variations, 18 00:02:45,960 --> 00:02:48,640 Speaker 1: but he used to always say, aim for the moon. 19 00:02:49,080 --> 00:02:52,000 Speaker 1: Just in case you miss, you'll still be amongst the stars. 20 00:02:52,560 --> 00:02:54,600 Speaker 1: Just say that to me all the time. So that 21 00:02:54,800 --> 00:03:00,280 Speaker 1: always was in me to aim high. Now, he wasn't 22 00:03:00,320 --> 00:03:03,920 Speaker 1: saying aim with the intent to miss. He was just 23 00:03:04,040 --> 00:03:09,760 Speaker 1: saying aim. In case you miss, you're still amongst the stars. 24 00:03:09,760 --> 00:03:12,080 Speaker 1: If you aim for the moon. But if you just 25 00:03:12,240 --> 00:03:14,680 Speaker 1: aim for that first flow wind and you miss it, 26 00:03:16,040 --> 00:03:19,359 Speaker 1: you know, usually run into some type of wall and 27 00:03:19,720 --> 00:03:23,040 Speaker 1: nothing happens. You slither down. You know. In my book, 28 00:03:23,320 --> 00:03:25,320 Speaker 1: act like a lady, think like a man. I told 29 00:03:25,320 --> 00:03:28,880 Speaker 1: her people that men love three ways. They profess, they provide, 30 00:03:29,040 --> 00:03:33,600 Speaker 1: they protect, and that's the core essence of a man's love. Well, 31 00:03:34,560 --> 00:03:38,480 Speaker 1: there's some other peas in life too. The number one 32 00:03:38,600 --> 00:03:42,920 Speaker 1: thing you have to understand about trying to be successful, 33 00:03:44,080 --> 00:03:46,360 Speaker 1: and I guess I call this the four peas. I 34 00:03:46,440 --> 00:03:48,800 Speaker 1: may come up with five along the way. I don't know. 35 00:03:49,400 --> 00:03:52,520 Speaker 1: I'm just talking as is given to me. So I'm 36 00:03:52,560 --> 00:03:55,080 Speaker 1: gonna summer start by saying, as these are the four 37 00:03:55,240 --> 00:03:59,400 Speaker 1: peas of success that you have to get ready for. 38 00:03:59,680 --> 00:04:04,600 Speaker 1: Number one, it's pressure. A lot of it is applied 39 00:04:04,640 --> 00:04:07,400 Speaker 1: by the circumstance of what you're trying to go for 40 00:04:07,480 --> 00:04:12,200 Speaker 1: and what you're trying to do, but a lot of 41 00:04:12,200 --> 00:04:16,640 Speaker 1: it also is self imposed pressure. It's what you put 42 00:04:16,680 --> 00:04:20,920 Speaker 1: on yourself to make it. It's a sense of urgency 43 00:04:22,880 --> 00:04:28,359 Speaker 1: it's a sense of necessity. But pressure is the first 44 00:04:28,400 --> 00:04:31,080 Speaker 1: thing I want you to be ready for. And pressure 45 00:04:31,120 --> 00:04:33,880 Speaker 1: comes in a lot of different forms, but it's going 46 00:04:33,960 --> 00:04:37,039 Speaker 1: to be pressured. As an old saying that pressure buster pipe. See, 47 00:04:37,040 --> 00:04:40,360 Speaker 1: that's why most people turn around because of the pressure 48 00:04:40,440 --> 00:04:43,240 Speaker 1: of trying to be successful. I want you to get 49 00:04:43,240 --> 00:04:46,040 Speaker 1: it in your mind that it is going to be 50 00:04:46,080 --> 00:04:51,360 Speaker 1: a pressure rized situation on your rise to the top. Pressure, 51 00:04:52,240 --> 00:04:54,960 Speaker 1: but understand that that it is what it is, is 52 00:04:55,040 --> 00:04:59,839 Speaker 1: not going to change. That's it. Prepare yourself, get ready 53 00:05:00,320 --> 00:05:05,479 Speaker 1: for there to be pressure. The second thing I want 54 00:05:05,520 --> 00:05:08,920 Speaker 1: you to understand is when you receive this pressure, you 55 00:05:09,080 --> 00:05:13,640 Speaker 1: have to persist. You got to stay at it. You 56 00:05:13,760 --> 00:05:20,800 Speaker 1: got to develop a dog getness has a There's a 57 00:05:20,839 --> 00:05:26,600 Speaker 1: song who says, why must I feel like that? Why 58 00:05:26,720 --> 00:05:31,120 Speaker 1: must I chase the cat? Nothing but the dog in me? 59 00:05:32,360 --> 00:05:36,120 Speaker 1: That's a funny line in that song, because really I 60 00:05:36,160 --> 00:05:38,159 Speaker 1: was thinking about it one day. I was humming it 61 00:05:39,320 --> 00:05:42,640 Speaker 1: and and it, and it occurred to me, said, why 62 00:05:42,720 --> 00:05:46,400 Speaker 1: must I feel like that? Why must I chase the cat? 63 00:05:47,360 --> 00:05:51,440 Speaker 1: Nothing but the dog get me? And you know, now 64 00:05:51,480 --> 00:05:53,960 Speaker 1: you could take it into literal says that the cat 65 00:05:54,040 --> 00:05:57,679 Speaker 1: chases the dog because it's innately is in his spirit. 66 00:05:57,720 --> 00:06:00,840 Speaker 1: That cats and dogs are a lot of time times enemies. 67 00:06:00,920 --> 00:06:03,599 Speaker 1: Now people have pets in him, proving that if you 68 00:06:03,680 --> 00:06:06,160 Speaker 1: show love on both sides, they can exist. And that 69 00:06:06,240 --> 00:06:11,320 Speaker 1: happens too but naturally innately, when your cat goes by 70 00:06:11,360 --> 00:06:13,359 Speaker 1: a dog and your dog don't recognize him, that some 71 00:06:13,440 --> 00:06:16,440 Speaker 1: barking going on. I'm talking I just walking through the 72 00:06:16,440 --> 00:06:22,240 Speaker 1: neighborhood or something. So, but the reason that this dog's 73 00:06:22,320 --> 00:06:26,680 Speaker 1: so persistent towards this cat is just cause it's in him. 74 00:06:28,040 --> 00:06:32,280 Speaker 1: It's innately in him. And what I'm saying to you, 75 00:06:33,080 --> 00:06:37,000 Speaker 1: just using that as an analogy, is that you got 76 00:06:37,040 --> 00:06:42,640 Speaker 1: to be you got to be persistent in that. You 77 00:06:42,760 --> 00:06:46,480 Speaker 1: got to develop some dog in you now, because pressure 78 00:06:47,000 --> 00:06:50,200 Speaker 1: takes some fighting back. See if you don't fight back 79 00:06:50,200 --> 00:06:53,040 Speaker 1: against pressure, pressure buster pipes, so what you think it 80 00:06:53,040 --> 00:06:58,479 Speaker 1: will do to you? Pressure, crack walls, pressure calls, explosions. 81 00:06:58,520 --> 00:07:00,960 Speaker 1: So if you don't fight back to hold it in, 82 00:07:02,240 --> 00:07:06,440 Speaker 1: you understand pressure does most people in the simple thing 83 00:07:06,520 --> 00:07:10,480 Speaker 1: called pressure, the weight of what it feels like to 84 00:07:10,560 --> 00:07:14,040 Speaker 1: want to be successful every single day, over and over 85 00:07:14,080 --> 00:07:16,960 Speaker 1: and over and over and over. It's just too much 86 00:07:17,000 --> 00:07:22,160 Speaker 1: pressure people crack. You got to persist. You have to persist. 87 00:07:23,160 --> 00:07:26,200 Speaker 1: You can the thought of giving up can come, but 88 00:07:26,320 --> 00:07:29,040 Speaker 1: you got to get it out. You got to persist. 89 00:07:30,200 --> 00:07:34,960 Speaker 1: The next thing I want you to think about is 90 00:07:35,000 --> 00:07:37,840 Speaker 1: another something that I've been thinking about for years and 91 00:07:37,920 --> 00:07:45,960 Speaker 1: learn for years. It's called perseverance. To persist means to insist. 92 00:07:46,080 --> 00:07:50,880 Speaker 1: It's keyword in insist and persistence insists you must. You 93 00:07:50,960 --> 00:07:54,240 Speaker 1: must insist that this is going to happen. Now, the 94 00:07:54,720 --> 00:07:58,480 Speaker 1: persist I'm assuming means it's a proaction. It's some type 95 00:07:58,480 --> 00:08:01,600 Speaker 1: of proaction that you go towards it to make it. 96 00:08:02,600 --> 00:08:05,440 Speaker 1: You know, persist, you gotta be persisted. You gotta be 97 00:08:05,480 --> 00:08:08,400 Speaker 1: constantly at it, insisting that it happens. You gotta be 98 00:08:08,440 --> 00:08:11,040 Speaker 1: constantly at it. But the next thing I want you 99 00:08:11,120 --> 00:08:16,840 Speaker 1: to remember is perseverance. Perseverance is important. Perseverance means that 100 00:08:17,560 --> 00:08:22,200 Speaker 1: when you've done your best, when you've persisted, when you're 101 00:08:22,240 --> 00:08:27,760 Speaker 1: fighting back against the pressure. Perseverance simply means I'm going 102 00:08:27,880 --> 00:08:32,120 Speaker 1: to hang in here when if a crack come into pipe, 103 00:08:32,679 --> 00:08:36,040 Speaker 1: I'm gonna hang in there. If the pipe bust, I'm 104 00:08:36,080 --> 00:08:41,240 Speaker 1: gonna keep going. If I gotta put duct, take mud, whatever, 105 00:08:41,280 --> 00:08:44,160 Speaker 1: I got to put on this thing. Man, I'm gonna 106 00:08:44,400 --> 00:08:49,480 Speaker 1: use perseverance. I'm going to stay with it no matter what. 107 00:08:50,120 --> 00:08:53,040 Speaker 1: So we're looking at the three things again. You got 108 00:08:53,040 --> 00:08:56,520 Speaker 1: to understand that it's gonna be pressure that you're gonna 109 00:08:56,520 --> 00:09:01,040 Speaker 1: have to persist keyword and persistence insist. You have to 110 00:09:01,120 --> 00:09:04,000 Speaker 1: insist that no matter what the pressure is, I'm gonna 111 00:09:04,000 --> 00:09:07,760 Speaker 1: stay with it. But then perseverance. If it goes wrong, Man, 112 00:09:08,240 --> 00:09:12,480 Speaker 1: you got to get in there and keep fighting. But 113 00:09:12,520 --> 00:09:16,240 Speaker 1: then Lord Him Mercy. Nothing helps you handle the three 114 00:09:16,320 --> 00:09:20,120 Speaker 1: peas better than the fourth pea. You got to pray. 115 00:09:20,200 --> 00:09:23,520 Speaker 1: You got to use prayer. You gotta talk to God. 116 00:09:23,960 --> 00:09:27,440 Speaker 1: You gotta use faith. You gotta have some conferences with 117 00:09:27,600 --> 00:09:30,920 Speaker 1: him late at night, early in the morning, in the 118 00:09:30,960 --> 00:09:33,360 Speaker 1: middle of the afternoon, when you own the train, when 119 00:09:33,400 --> 00:09:36,559 Speaker 1: you're driving. You got to talk to God. Man, you 120 00:09:36,640 --> 00:09:39,680 Speaker 1: gotta get yourself some help along the way. Nothing is 121 00:09:39,679 --> 00:09:43,400 Speaker 1: bigger than prayer. There is nothing bigger than prayer. Prayer 122 00:09:43,440 --> 00:09:46,520 Speaker 1: will help you overcome the pressure. Prayer will help you 123 00:09:46,559 --> 00:09:49,760 Speaker 1: stay persistent, and Lord Him Mercy, prayer will help you 124 00:09:49,800 --> 00:09:54,720 Speaker 1: persevere them is the faue peas. God gave that to me. 125 00:09:55,800 --> 00:10:03,680 Speaker 1: I'm passing it on. You're listening, ladies and gentlemen. It's 126 00:10:03,720 --> 00:10:06,319 Speaker 1: about that time of the morning. I don't know if 127 00:10:06,320 --> 00:10:09,520 Speaker 1: you've come to the conclusion or not. It's Steve Harvey 128 00:10:09,600 --> 00:10:15,280 Speaker 1: Morning Show, all and popping. Shirley Strawberry, A good morning. 129 00:10:15,320 --> 00:10:18,280 Speaker 1: It is popping yesterday. Excuse me, I can't. I can't 130 00:10:18,320 --> 00:10:22,000 Speaker 1: go no further. Is it a reason why we're looking 131 00:10:22,040 --> 00:10:29,080 Speaker 1: at your legs on the zoom call this morning? Mister Miles. See, 132 00:10:29,160 --> 00:10:32,600 Speaker 1: my head got on zoom so we can all see 133 00:10:32,640 --> 00:10:35,120 Speaker 1: each other. But now if you're gonna talk about my 134 00:10:35,200 --> 00:10:37,559 Speaker 1: leg and I finish to turn it off, well I'm not, 135 00:10:39,400 --> 00:10:43,080 Speaker 1: I'm but your leg is the biggest thing in the camera. 136 00:10:43,320 --> 00:10:48,240 Speaker 1: I'm just concerned about you. Are you doing okays? Everything 137 00:10:48,440 --> 00:10:52,400 Speaker 1: all right? This my makeup chill. I'm just oh, I 138 00:10:52,440 --> 00:10:55,320 Speaker 1: see what you're saying. Oh you're in a chair. I'm 139 00:10:55,320 --> 00:10:58,760 Speaker 1: in a director's chair. I'm oh, no, wonder you're so tall? 140 00:10:58,880 --> 00:11:03,960 Speaker 1: My bad? Hey, caller for rel because I was living 141 00:11:04,040 --> 00:11:05,680 Speaker 1: for the moment. If you would have said you thought 142 00:11:05,720 --> 00:11:15,679 Speaker 1: he was in a high chair, oh, it was there, 143 00:11:15,960 --> 00:11:18,160 Speaker 1: but I thought it was a little bit too early. 144 00:11:18,600 --> 00:11:25,200 Speaker 1: He seemed a little tight about to set up. You 145 00:11:25,200 --> 00:11:31,240 Speaker 1: don't like my legs pop out beyond hill? Really, Junior, 146 00:11:32,280 --> 00:11:35,880 Speaker 1: I think morning, everybody apprechate it. Now. If you tied 147 00:11:35,920 --> 00:11:46,000 Speaker 1: me in the building, I'm in the shining well. I 148 00:11:46,040 --> 00:11:51,079 Speaker 1: don't know if I got business with him, Junior. But ladies, 149 00:11:51,520 --> 00:11:56,839 Speaker 1: ladies caller and Shirley, I don't know if y'all recalled. 150 00:11:56,960 --> 00:12:01,720 Speaker 1: That was a sugar honey iced tea talking moment going 151 00:12:01,840 --> 00:12:07,400 Speaker 1: on about the Lakers and the ten for Nuggets. Yeah, 152 00:12:07,600 --> 00:12:11,640 Speaker 1: and I just wanted to inform mister Miles that the 153 00:12:11,720 --> 00:12:17,680 Speaker 1: Nuggets is down two games to none. I know, just 154 00:12:17,800 --> 00:12:21,280 Speaker 1: thought that bring them though. They're good? Now, do slight 155 00:12:21,360 --> 00:12:28,520 Speaker 1: them good? Come on? Clippers were good? O way, I 156 00:12:28,640 --> 00:12:35,319 Speaker 1: got rockets. Come on, man, we didn't No, no, I 157 00:12:35,480 --> 00:12:39,160 Speaker 1: was Cleveland the last ten years. Cleveland was great in 158 00:12:39,240 --> 00:12:44,080 Speaker 1: two thousand and sixteen. Now the Browns the Browns. It's 159 00:12:44,120 --> 00:12:47,880 Speaker 1: been the brown This is an old other sport. Oh 160 00:12:47,960 --> 00:12:53,640 Speaker 1: we're switching sports. Well, well, let's switch sports and let's 161 00:12:53,640 --> 00:13:03,000 Speaker 1: go with the Browns. Just one Sunday did Houston Houston loss? Oh, 162 00:13:03,120 --> 00:13:07,600 Speaker 1: we switched sports. Houston lost to the Ravens. Same team 163 00:13:07,679 --> 00:13:10,480 Speaker 1: Brown's lost to the raven Then the Cleveland one, then 164 00:13:10,520 --> 00:13:15,199 Speaker 1: the Texans loss again. God, don't what is y'all oneing? 165 00:13:15,520 --> 00:13:19,160 Speaker 1: Y'all is owing two? Yeah, yah ya, we're gonna We're 166 00:13:19,160 --> 00:13:22,640 Speaker 1: gonna correct him. We are owing two. Yes, we are well. 167 00:13:22,679 --> 00:13:29,560 Speaker 1: We is one and one. Stop talking to We just 168 00:13:29,600 --> 00:13:33,760 Speaker 1: need to shut up. Ain't worry about him. Man, Thank y'all. Everybody, 169 00:13:33,800 --> 00:13:39,920 Speaker 1: Good morning, All right, healthy, Get ready for the cello 170 00:13:40,080 --> 00:13:42,240 Speaker 1: that's coming up with thirty two minutes after the hour. 171 00:13:42,400 --> 00:13:47,440 Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, 172 00:13:47,880 --> 00:13:51,240 Speaker 1: time now for Steve's favorite segment. Asked the cello the 173 00:13:51,320 --> 00:13:54,520 Speaker 1: Chief love Officer, Ready, sir, all right? This one is 174 00:13:54,559 --> 00:13:57,800 Speaker 1: from Darsha and Colleen, Texas. She says, I've been dating 175 00:13:57,800 --> 00:14:00,800 Speaker 1: a soldier for the past year, and he will disappear 176 00:14:00,880 --> 00:14:05,079 Speaker 1: at times and blaming on a cot covert mission at work. 177 00:14:05,400 --> 00:14:08,840 Speaker 1: He gets testy when I questioned him about anything concerning 178 00:14:08,840 --> 00:14:12,959 Speaker 1: his job, so I have to accept whatever he tells me. Yesterday, 179 00:14:13,000 --> 00:14:15,000 Speaker 1: I was talking to him about work and he said 180 00:14:15,000 --> 00:14:18,200 Speaker 1: that several women on the base want him. I was like, 181 00:14:18,280 --> 00:14:20,600 Speaker 1: what does that mean? He said, I need to secure 182 00:14:20,680 --> 00:14:25,320 Speaker 1: my spot because the competition is fierce. I asked him, 183 00:14:25,360 --> 00:14:27,920 Speaker 1: what that meant, he said, figure it out. Is this 184 00:14:28,040 --> 00:14:31,200 Speaker 1: some kind of game? Of course it is. I can't 185 00:14:31,280 --> 00:14:37,000 Speaker 1: tell you how many, oh how many covert missions I've 186 00:14:37,000 --> 00:14:42,120 Speaker 1: been on in my illustrious career as a player. Oh 187 00:14:44,840 --> 00:14:46,560 Speaker 1: you know, I wasn't in the military, but that's what 188 00:14:46,680 --> 00:14:52,080 Speaker 1: I called it too. Call I want a covert mission. Damn. 189 00:14:52,120 --> 00:14:54,400 Speaker 1: We ain't even in war right now? That hell is 190 00:14:54,400 --> 00:14:56,120 Speaker 1: he talking about? You don't want to base? I win, 191 00:14:56,480 --> 00:15:00,360 Speaker 1: There ain't on no base, no covert mission. Dog. Now, 192 00:15:00,400 --> 00:15:02,600 Speaker 1: all these women that won't him on the base, why 193 00:15:02,600 --> 00:15:07,040 Speaker 1: don't you let them have him? Yes, you know, secure 194 00:15:07,120 --> 00:15:16,040 Speaker 1: your position, what you posted do? All right? You know, look, look, 195 00:15:16,240 --> 00:15:18,640 Speaker 1: look I got he's a soldier all that. But if 196 00:15:18,640 --> 00:15:22,440 Speaker 1: he want to play mister military all damn time, then 197 00:15:22,560 --> 00:15:27,880 Speaker 1: you play miss military. Go a wall. Oh you know, 198 00:15:28,960 --> 00:15:35,040 Speaker 1: you know, since we're doing military terms, why don't you 199 00:15:35,160 --> 00:15:44,840 Speaker 1: go a wall and reduce the rations? Yeah? All right, 200 00:15:45,440 --> 00:15:48,560 Speaker 1: all right, cello, here we go. Charles and Norfolk says, 201 00:15:48,640 --> 00:15:50,920 Speaker 1: I've been married for eight years, and every once in 202 00:15:50,960 --> 00:15:55,080 Speaker 1: a while I watch porn and I pleasure myself. My 203 00:15:55,080 --> 00:15:57,320 Speaker 1: wife does not understand it, so I try to hide 204 00:15:57,360 --> 00:15:59,800 Speaker 1: it from her as much as possible. She walked in 205 00:16:00,120 --> 00:16:01,760 Speaker 1: me in the shower the other day and I was 206 00:16:02,040 --> 00:16:05,920 Speaker 1: taking matters into my own hands. She yelled stop it, 207 00:16:06,360 --> 00:16:10,520 Speaker 1: and then she turned out. She turned she ran out, 208 00:16:10,640 --> 00:16:14,000 Speaker 1: and uh said she wanted a divorce. Okay, she ran out, 209 00:16:14,040 --> 00:16:16,600 Speaker 1: said she wanted a divorce. She's a drama queen. So 210 00:16:16,640 --> 00:16:18,800 Speaker 1: I kept on doing what I was doing. She thinks 211 00:16:18,800 --> 00:16:20,800 Speaker 1: I have a problem and I need to go to counseling. 212 00:16:20,840 --> 00:16:22,920 Speaker 1: We have a healthy sex life, So I don't see 213 00:16:22,920 --> 00:16:25,920 Speaker 1: what the problem is. Have you heard of needing counseling 214 00:16:26,000 --> 00:16:29,600 Speaker 1: for this? Well, you in the shop by yourself, and 215 00:16:29,760 --> 00:16:33,120 Speaker 1: you have a healthy, healthy sex life. What's her own dog? 216 00:16:34,720 --> 00:16:37,200 Speaker 1: But what is you in there with yourself? He like 217 00:16:37,480 --> 00:16:43,240 Speaker 1: him better than huh? You in the shower though? Yeah, yeah, 218 00:16:43,760 --> 00:16:49,680 Speaker 1: you don't like to sit down nowhere? Standing up here 219 00:16:50,560 --> 00:16:52,560 Speaker 1: making a lot of noise here to get in on this, 220 00:16:52,840 --> 00:17:00,120 Speaker 1: I won't do so bad. You must be seventeen, what 221 00:17:00,320 --> 00:17:02,400 Speaker 1: you say, Steve, you must be work. He must be 222 00:17:02,480 --> 00:17:08,399 Speaker 1: seventeen standing up in the shower for I don't. I 223 00:17:08,440 --> 00:17:11,520 Speaker 1: don't understand. Yeah, bro, see you said you've been married 224 00:17:11,560 --> 00:17:15,159 Speaker 1: eight years and you watch pawn to pleasure yourself and 225 00:17:15,240 --> 00:17:17,360 Speaker 1: your wife don't get it, so you try to keep 226 00:17:17,359 --> 00:17:22,720 Speaker 1: it from what when you was in that shower by yourself. Yeah, 227 00:17:22,920 --> 00:17:26,119 Speaker 1: y'all got TV in the shower playing that over you, 228 00:17:26,240 --> 00:17:34,560 Speaker 1: just yourself hard? Was you thinking? Dog? Yeah that's pretty 229 00:17:34,600 --> 00:17:38,280 Speaker 1: rough though. Man, you have a healthy sex life. That's 230 00:17:38,320 --> 00:17:41,320 Speaker 1: the issue. And he got a lot on his mind. 231 00:17:42,280 --> 00:17:46,679 Speaker 1: Yers is more though. Yeah, now she wants a divorce. 232 00:17:46,760 --> 00:17:49,440 Speaker 1: So you just kept on doing what you were doing. Well, go, 233 00:17:49,560 --> 00:17:57,920 Speaker 1: we're bringing the papers in here. If I got to 234 00:17:58,160 --> 00:18:04,639 Speaker 1: shut the dough, sure, kids don't come back. Get out 235 00:18:04,640 --> 00:18:13,920 Speaker 1: of here, Damian. But people there is there is counseling 236 00:18:14,000 --> 00:18:17,520 Speaker 1: for for some things such as bite he get to 237 00:18:17,600 --> 00:18:21,200 Speaker 1: keep the TV I'm keeping down. Counsel Yeah, I don't 238 00:18:21,240 --> 00:18:26,920 Speaker 1: know what something. Yeah, before you go to divorce, though, 239 00:18:26,960 --> 00:18:29,720 Speaker 1: I would definitely see some sort of counseling. I don't 240 00:18:29,720 --> 00:18:33,600 Speaker 1: want to divorce necessarily. All right, We're moving on. Susie 241 00:18:33,600 --> 00:18:36,400 Speaker 1: and Arizona says. I'm engaged to a twenty nine year 242 00:18:36,440 --> 00:18:39,040 Speaker 1: old man and he has a weird relationship with his mama. 243 00:18:39,520 --> 00:18:42,399 Speaker 1: He was engaged before but it didn't work out. He 244 00:18:42,440 --> 00:18:45,680 Speaker 1: got the engagement ring back and his mama is wearing it. 245 00:18:45,680 --> 00:18:48,320 Speaker 1: It's a nice diamond, and I have to see it 246 00:18:48,560 --> 00:18:51,879 Speaker 1: whenever I see her. His mom is married, but my 247 00:18:51,960 --> 00:18:55,240 Speaker 1: fiance caters to her. If I get a nice gift, 248 00:18:55,480 --> 00:18:58,600 Speaker 1: he gets her a little something too. For my birthday, 249 00:18:58,680 --> 00:19:01,640 Speaker 1: I got a huge bouquet of roses. His mama sent 250 00:19:01,720 --> 00:19:04,239 Speaker 1: me a pick of the bouquet he brought her the 251 00:19:04,320 --> 00:19:08,119 Speaker 1: same day. He says he loves making her smile. Is 252 00:19:08,160 --> 00:19:11,280 Speaker 1: this normal, weird or is he a straight up mama's boy? 253 00:19:11,800 --> 00:19:16,280 Speaker 1: Get out, No, it's it's a little the mama win 254 00:19:16,680 --> 00:19:20,880 Speaker 1: the ring that he bought the other girl. That's weird. 255 00:19:21,800 --> 00:19:25,880 Speaker 1: Him buying his mama flowers is not weird? Her texting 256 00:19:25,960 --> 00:19:29,200 Speaker 1: you a picture of the flowers, like nine nine nine nine, 257 00:19:29,400 --> 00:19:35,199 Speaker 1: that's weird. True, But I think go ahead coming, let 258 00:19:35,200 --> 00:19:37,320 Speaker 1: me ask you some state. It's not weird that he's 259 00:19:37,400 --> 00:19:41,000 Speaker 1: sending flowers to his mama on the same day he's 260 00:19:41,000 --> 00:19:43,560 Speaker 1: sending it to his girl. That ain't weird. Well, it's 261 00:19:43,600 --> 00:19:47,399 Speaker 1: not weird to send your mama flowers, but it is 262 00:19:47,440 --> 00:19:49,919 Speaker 1: weird if you send them on the same day. You 263 00:19:49,920 --> 00:19:51,680 Speaker 1: know I'm getting something for my Let me get mamas 264 00:19:51,680 --> 00:19:53,760 Speaker 1: because I like to make a smile. There's nothing wrong 265 00:19:53,800 --> 00:19:56,400 Speaker 1: with that. You know, you would we have better more 266 00:19:56,400 --> 00:19:59,919 Speaker 1: people treated their mama as well. But she sent up 267 00:20:00,080 --> 00:20:01,879 Speaker 1: hitch them to the girl. Feel like you ain't the 268 00:20:01,920 --> 00:20:07,560 Speaker 1: only one Mama's patty and he is a mama's boy. Yeah, 269 00:20:07,600 --> 00:20:10,240 Speaker 1: And I think that there is some signs of mama 270 00:20:10,280 --> 00:20:18,240 Speaker 1: boy ismm in Hill because the mama word ever, ever, 271 00:20:19,520 --> 00:20:23,600 Speaker 1: that is a hint of mama boy ism. And this 272 00:20:23,840 --> 00:20:26,639 Speaker 1: Hill called she got on the ring that was his 273 00:20:26,800 --> 00:20:30,879 Speaker 1: fiance that she felt should have been her ring. Anyway, 274 00:20:31,880 --> 00:20:34,439 Speaker 1: if you get involved in this situation, you will be 275 00:20:34,520 --> 00:20:37,200 Speaker 1: man the entire family. You just need to know that. 276 00:20:41,800 --> 00:20:45,679 Speaker 1: I wonder if there's a word for mama's who like 277 00:20:45,800 --> 00:20:50,159 Speaker 1: their sons like this, You know what I mean? Oh yeah, Steve, 278 00:20:50,400 --> 00:20:59,840 Speaker 1: what's your thing? That's called apron nias? Coming up next 279 00:20:59,880 --> 00:21:02,560 Speaker 1: to you will run that prank back right after this. 280 00:21:03,280 --> 00:21:07,320 Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at the 281 00:21:07,320 --> 00:21:11,639 Speaker 1: top of the hour and Entertainment News. Yesterday, Ellen DeGeneres 282 00:21:11,720 --> 00:21:16,040 Speaker 1: talked about her controversy and toxic work environment allegations during 283 00:21:16,080 --> 00:21:20,760 Speaker 1: her new season premiere plus Today's National Voter Registration Day. 284 00:21:21,080 --> 00:21:27,480 Speaker 1: Voter Registration Day today, you let's go, Yeah, we'll talk 285 00:21:27,480 --> 00:21:29,560 Speaker 1: about all of these stories at the top of the hour. 286 00:21:29,600 --> 00:21:31,560 Speaker 1: But right now the nephew is in the building with 287 00:21:31,800 --> 00:21:34,119 Speaker 1: run that prank back. What you got for it's neff. 288 00:21:34,960 --> 00:21:42,280 Speaker 1: Guess who's moving next door? Let's go people. Come on, Okay, hello, 289 00:21:42,359 --> 00:21:47,520 Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach uh mister Dolphinlan Nolan Dolan, mister 290 00:21:47,600 --> 00:21:50,200 Speaker 1: Dolan answer, how are you doing? My name is U 291 00:21:51,640 --> 00:21:55,920 Speaker 1: Clifford Cooper. Yeah, we can do for you. Mister. You 292 00:21:55,920 --> 00:22:00,560 Speaker 1: you live at um check you out a drive? Why 293 00:22:00,560 --> 00:22:03,440 Speaker 1: do you want to know that? Well, actually, I'm at 294 00:22:03,520 --> 00:22:06,679 Speaker 1: sixteen twenty three. I bought I bought the uh, I 295 00:22:06,720 --> 00:22:08,960 Speaker 1: actually bought the house that was for sale next door 296 00:22:09,040 --> 00:22:12,240 Speaker 1: team Okay, well congratulations, But how did you get my number? 297 00:22:12,960 --> 00:22:16,240 Speaker 1: Actually the realtor told me that he had your number 298 00:22:16,280 --> 00:22:18,000 Speaker 1: because I said I wanted to reach out to the 299 00:22:18,040 --> 00:22:21,679 Speaker 1: neighbor's next door and he told me that mister Dolan 300 00:22:21,800 --> 00:22:24,399 Speaker 1: was actually the person next door and and uh he 301 00:22:24,440 --> 00:22:27,880 Speaker 1: didn't think you would mind me me actually getting the number. Okay, well, 302 00:22:28,240 --> 00:22:30,520 Speaker 1: I'll talk with the real layer. But what can I 303 00:22:30,560 --> 00:22:32,199 Speaker 1: do for you, sir? What? What? What? I what I 304 00:22:32,240 --> 00:22:34,320 Speaker 1: wanted to know is do do you have any problems 305 00:22:34,320 --> 00:22:38,119 Speaker 1: like living next door? To to to black people. I'm sorry, 306 00:22:38,560 --> 00:22:41,199 Speaker 1: what did you just ask me? I mean, like, like 307 00:22:41,280 --> 00:22:42,760 Speaker 1: I said, you know, like I said, I just bought 308 00:22:42,760 --> 00:22:45,000 Speaker 1: the place next door, and I wanted to know, do 309 00:22:45,080 --> 00:22:47,119 Speaker 1: you have any problems, you know, living next door to 310 00:22:47,200 --> 00:22:51,600 Speaker 1: black people? Uh? No, sir, I have no problem. I'm 311 00:22:51,640 --> 00:22:54,679 Speaker 1: assuming you're a black man, and uh I have no 312 00:22:54,800 --> 00:22:57,760 Speaker 1: problem with that. I judge people by their actions, not 313 00:22:57,920 --> 00:22:59,920 Speaker 1: their color. Okay, now do you do you do you 314 00:23:00,000 --> 00:23:03,320 Speaker 1: don't have any any black people experience? Well, yeah, I've 315 00:23:03,320 --> 00:23:06,560 Speaker 1: worked with, gone to school with, has several friends of 316 00:23:06,720 --> 00:23:10,720 Speaker 1: many different ethnicities. Uh, but what what is it? What's this? 317 00:23:11,200 --> 00:23:13,520 Speaker 1: How is this relative? Well, you know, like I said, 318 00:23:13,520 --> 00:23:15,320 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be I'm gonna be living next to you, 319 00:23:15,359 --> 00:23:17,919 Speaker 1: and I'm just making sure that you know, you and 320 00:23:17,920 --> 00:23:22,560 Speaker 1: I can coincide, co exists rather on the same block 321 00:23:22,600 --> 00:23:24,480 Speaker 1: and not really have a problem with one another. Base 322 00:23:24,560 --> 00:23:26,199 Speaker 1: Because what I'm trying to say, well, do you have 323 00:23:26,200 --> 00:23:28,879 Speaker 1: a problem with white people? Uh? No, No, No, I 324 00:23:28,880 --> 00:23:31,760 Speaker 1: don't have a problem white people. I'm cool. I'm just 325 00:23:31,840 --> 00:23:34,439 Speaker 1: I'm just trying to make sure you know, Uh, I mean, 326 00:23:34,440 --> 00:23:36,240 Speaker 1: because me and you already have a bit of a 327 00:23:36,320 --> 00:23:40,359 Speaker 1: problem already. You know we do. Yeah, yeah, we have 328 00:23:40,440 --> 00:23:43,880 Speaker 1: a problem. I mean, I'm bothering me while on net work. 329 00:23:43,920 --> 00:23:47,439 Speaker 1: What's your problem? Okay? Well my problem is this is that, 330 00:23:47,880 --> 00:23:50,960 Speaker 1: you know, after purchasing the property, I went downtown to 331 00:23:51,040 --> 00:23:55,080 Speaker 1: the city and actually looked at, you know, the layout 332 00:23:55,119 --> 00:23:57,359 Speaker 1: of this entire property. And when I look at it, 333 00:23:57,680 --> 00:24:01,240 Speaker 1: you actually twenty five close to hurt his feet over 334 00:24:01,280 --> 00:24:05,240 Speaker 1: the property. Last Well, now you look at the wrong map. No, No, 335 00:24:05,480 --> 00:24:08,240 Speaker 1: the fifth that separates my back yard from your backyard. 336 00:24:08,400 --> 00:24:12,800 Speaker 1: You have thirty feet over that. That's impossible. You know, listen, 337 00:24:12,800 --> 00:24:14,640 Speaker 1: and I noticed. Let me let me know. I'm gonna 338 00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:17,320 Speaker 1: tell you, uh, look at you got a jacouzi in 339 00:24:17,320 --> 00:24:20,800 Speaker 1: your backyard, right, So you've been even spine on me. No, 340 00:24:20,840 --> 00:24:24,520 Speaker 1: I'm inspired on you, sir. I'm just telling you closer 341 00:24:24,560 --> 00:24:26,760 Speaker 1: that not far from that fis line. Don't don't you 342 00:24:26,840 --> 00:24:29,120 Speaker 1: have a Jakouzi there? Well, as a matter of fact, 343 00:24:29,160 --> 00:24:32,120 Speaker 1: I do. Yes, Okay, so the pool is the pool 344 00:24:32,240 --> 00:24:35,080 Speaker 1: is okay. But but if I if I pushed that 345 00:24:35,160 --> 00:24:37,800 Speaker 1: fifth line back thirty and actually get the property that 346 00:24:37,840 --> 00:24:40,600 Speaker 1: I'm supposed to have, but I'm pretty much own you. 347 00:24:40,840 --> 00:24:45,000 Speaker 1: You you'll jacouz, You'll have to gncy. Okay, let me 348 00:24:45,040 --> 00:24:47,520 Speaker 1: tell you something. I've been in that house for ten years. 349 00:24:47,640 --> 00:24:50,520 Speaker 1: We put that fence up when we moved in, and 350 00:24:50,560 --> 00:24:53,240 Speaker 1: it was based on the property line that was that 351 00:24:53,320 --> 00:24:56,560 Speaker 1: was set when ten years ago. I don't know what 352 00:24:56,680 --> 00:24:59,760 Speaker 1: you're looking at, but my fence is not moving. My 353 00:25:00,040 --> 00:25:04,760 Speaker 1: Jacuzi's not moving, and there's there's no changing that. Okay, Well, 354 00:25:04,800 --> 00:25:06,399 Speaker 1: let me let me let me I'm glad you hear 355 00:25:06,480 --> 00:25:09,760 Speaker 1: your voice what you wanted the voice. No, no, no, no, no, 356 00:25:09,920 --> 00:25:11,920 Speaker 1: you hear you hear Old coup for dot. Let me 357 00:25:11,960 --> 00:25:15,040 Speaker 1: tell you so. Uh, Either we're gonna take the fifth 358 00:25:15,080 --> 00:25:18,480 Speaker 1: line and movie where supposed to be. Oh, We're gonna 359 00:25:18,480 --> 00:25:22,000 Speaker 1: put a gate between uh two yards, and I'm gonna 360 00:25:22,000 --> 00:25:24,000 Speaker 1: be able to come and get in this jacuzi and 361 00:25:24,080 --> 00:25:26,520 Speaker 1: pool whenever I want to. All right, let's let's let's 362 00:25:26,560 --> 00:25:28,560 Speaker 1: let's talk about this. First of all, there's gonna not 363 00:25:28,600 --> 00:25:31,760 Speaker 1: gonna be an gate, okay. And as far as you 364 00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:35,399 Speaker 1: just coming over and getting into jacuzi at will, I 365 00:25:35,440 --> 00:25:37,960 Speaker 1: got a real problem with that. Uh you've called me 366 00:25:38,000 --> 00:25:40,399 Speaker 1: at work. I'm on the job and I'm having to 367 00:25:40,480 --> 00:25:45,359 Speaker 1: listen to this on a future neighbor who's making weird 368 00:25:46,160 --> 00:25:49,920 Speaker 1: claims about how he owns part of my lam. Get back, 369 00:25:50,320 --> 00:25:53,720 Speaker 1: I hold the Jacuzi sull No, you did not pay 370 00:25:53,720 --> 00:25:57,040 Speaker 1: for that Jacuzi. You did not pay for that ten 371 00:25:57,080 --> 00:25:59,159 Speaker 1: so you just shot up making u He called me 372 00:25:59,200 --> 00:26:02,480 Speaker 1: at work, and and and and and then you hand 373 00:26:02,480 --> 00:26:05,840 Speaker 1: me some story with no evidence. I don't go down 374 00:26:05,840 --> 00:26:09,520 Speaker 1: to the city hall and look at those papers myself, 375 00:26:09,600 --> 00:26:12,480 Speaker 1: because I don't trust words you're saying. I've been there 376 00:26:12,520 --> 00:26:16,879 Speaker 1: for ten years. I've had ten other neighbors in that backyard. 377 00:26:17,119 --> 00:26:20,080 Speaker 1: You're gonna cycle through once a year, I swear, And 378 00:26:20,200 --> 00:26:23,000 Speaker 1: I've never had any problems with him until you come along. 379 00:26:23,320 --> 00:26:26,280 Speaker 1: This is some okay, Well, I tell you what. Here's 380 00:26:26,280 --> 00:26:28,400 Speaker 1: here's something you need to understand. You got a new 381 00:26:28,440 --> 00:26:30,760 Speaker 1: black neighbor, and you got a new black neighbor that 382 00:26:30,800 --> 00:26:34,520 Speaker 1: owns part owns your jakouzi. Because you're over the fence line, 383 00:26:34,680 --> 00:26:36,800 Speaker 1: all right. And as soon as I move in, I'm 384 00:26:36,800 --> 00:26:40,320 Speaker 1: coming and I'm getting in my jakouzi. He went, oh, man, 385 00:26:40,560 --> 00:26:43,399 Speaker 1: you know what I mean this, No move into that. 386 00:26:44,160 --> 00:26:47,480 Speaker 1: I'm gonna use the jacouzy on Monday, win damn Friday. 387 00:26:47,640 --> 00:26:49,639 Speaker 1: You don't get it. On two of the Thursday and 388 00:26:49,760 --> 00:26:53,240 Speaker 1: the weekend. That's it, because blade is damn Jakouzy belong 389 00:26:53,359 --> 00:26:56,120 Speaker 1: to me. The Jakouzi and the home my black man 390 00:26:56,240 --> 00:26:58,880 Speaker 1: and a white man, and we're gonna get along black 391 00:26:58,960 --> 00:27:01,960 Speaker 1: a love. Look here, listen here, you who you to 392 00:27:02,040 --> 00:27:05,760 Speaker 1: dictate what days I get to use my jacuzi because 393 00:27:05,800 --> 00:27:07,560 Speaker 1: it's not I'm going over to mind this and I 394 00:27:07,640 --> 00:27:10,480 Speaker 1: just you know, you were crying. It's I was Jacouzi 395 00:27:10,720 --> 00:27:13,359 Speaker 1: because you you built it. That's the only thing that 396 00:27:13,440 --> 00:27:16,320 Speaker 1: makes it yours. And being on my part of the property, 397 00:27:16,520 --> 00:27:19,720 Speaker 1: I was making mine. So therefore we're gonna share his 398 00:27:19,840 --> 00:27:23,760 Speaker 1: damn jacouzi and we're gonna try to go you Jacouzie. 399 00:27:23,760 --> 00:27:26,720 Speaker 1: I'm passing your across the fence. I will be there 400 00:27:26,720 --> 00:27:29,359 Speaker 1: on Monday's Wednesdays and you ain't gonna be I'll be 401 00:27:29,400 --> 00:27:32,680 Speaker 1: standing out my jacuzie with a shotgun. You take one 402 00:27:32,960 --> 00:27:36,920 Speaker 1: step over to my property, my property, lie. I swear 403 00:27:36,960 --> 00:27:39,200 Speaker 1: if I can jump through this phone, I'd wring your neck. 404 00:27:39,400 --> 00:27:41,080 Speaker 1: You know who's gonna be in there with me? Who 405 00:27:41,160 --> 00:27:43,399 Speaker 1: who the gonna be in there? I'm gonna have cutting 406 00:27:43,440 --> 00:27:48,840 Speaker 1: halls in the damn jacouz who cutting hell my co worker? 407 00:27:50,680 --> 00:27:53,879 Speaker 1: What hey, man, this is nephew telling me. Man, you 408 00:27:54,440 --> 00:27:57,520 Speaker 1: your boy cutting hal got me the plank ball call 409 00:27:57,600 --> 00:28:07,639 Speaker 1: you this? Oh that go back, we got you. I 410 00:28:07,680 --> 00:28:09,560 Speaker 1: got one more thing to ask you, man, what is 411 00:28:09,560 --> 00:28:12,960 Speaker 1: the baddest and I mean the baddest radio show in 412 00:28:13,080 --> 00:28:21,240 Speaker 1: the last the Steve Harvey's radio And then you have it? No, there, 413 00:28:21,359 --> 00:28:27,040 Speaker 1: you almost got it about this Jacuzzi hotel. Yeah, it's 414 00:28:27,080 --> 00:28:29,680 Speaker 1: on my side. It's not on your side. It's on 415 00:28:29,720 --> 00:28:35,000 Speaker 1: my side. What you did whenever I want? Yeah, well 416 00:28:35,119 --> 00:28:38,080 Speaker 1: yes it was when you come home. Don't be surprised 417 00:28:38,120 --> 00:28:40,640 Speaker 1: if I'm in the hot two because that's our hotel. 418 00:28:41,720 --> 00:28:44,000 Speaker 1: Black man, you're a white man. We're gonna get along. 419 00:28:44,280 --> 00:28:48,240 Speaker 1: Black folks and white folks got to get along. It's ours. 420 00:28:50,200 --> 00:28:54,240 Speaker 1: How do you come up with this? That's that left side, Charlotte, 421 00:28:54,240 --> 00:28:58,680 Speaker 1: that left side of the sup of my brain. Okay, 422 00:28:58,680 --> 00:29:02,200 Speaker 1: I think from the lefts. You know, Timmy's only live. 423 00:29:02,760 --> 00:29:05,320 Speaker 1: Thomas Miles is on the right. I can stand him. 424 00:29:05,640 --> 00:29:11,840 Speaker 1: What Tommy coop? Thomas Miles difficult? He stand his damn SI. 425 00:29:12,880 --> 00:29:16,960 Speaker 1: That's basically what I said. All right, thank you, nephew. 426 00:29:17,080 --> 00:29:18,640 Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, we'll have 427 00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:23,680 Speaker 1: some entertainment news and today's national voter Registration Day. We'll 428 00:29:23,720 --> 00:29:26,640 Speaker 1: talk about all of that right after this. You're listening 429 00:29:26,880 --> 00:29:34,480 Speaker 1: to morning show and entertainment news. Yesterday, Ellen Degenerous addressed 430 00:29:34,520 --> 00:29:38,840 Speaker 1: her controversy in toxic work environment during her season eighteen premiere. 431 00:29:39,280 --> 00:29:43,280 Speaker 1: Take a listen. How was everybody's summer good? Yeah? Mine 432 00:29:43,440 --> 00:29:48,760 Speaker 1: was great, super terrific. I'm so happy to be back 433 00:29:48,800 --> 00:29:50,360 Speaker 1: in the studio. There are a lot of things I 434 00:29:50,400 --> 00:29:52,560 Speaker 1: want to talk about. I've been looking forward to addressing 435 00:29:52,600 --> 00:29:56,080 Speaker 1: it all directly, and unfortunately, talking directly to people has 436 00:29:56,120 --> 00:29:58,560 Speaker 1: been illegal for six months, so I have a virtual 437 00:29:58,600 --> 00:30:05,000 Speaker 1: audience here instead. Here you all are. You look beautiful 438 00:30:05,040 --> 00:30:07,640 Speaker 1: and I'm sure you smell great. That's what I'm imagining anyway. 439 00:30:08,000 --> 00:30:11,800 Speaker 1: All right, let's get to it. As you may have heard, 440 00:30:12,000 --> 00:30:14,840 Speaker 1: this summer, there were allegations of a toxic work environment 441 00:30:14,920 --> 00:30:17,280 Speaker 1: at our show, and then there was an investigation. I 442 00:30:17,440 --> 00:30:19,880 Speaker 1: learned that things happened here that never should have happened. 443 00:30:20,040 --> 00:30:22,000 Speaker 1: I take that very seriously, and I want to say 444 00:30:22,040 --> 00:30:24,360 Speaker 1: I am so sorry to the people who were affected. 445 00:30:24,720 --> 00:30:27,120 Speaker 1: I know that I'm in a position of privilege and power, 446 00:30:27,200 --> 00:30:29,920 Speaker 1: and I realize that with that comes responsibility, and I 447 00:30:30,000 --> 00:30:33,160 Speaker 1: take responsibility for what happens at my show. This is 448 00:30:33,240 --> 00:30:35,719 Speaker 1: the Ellen de Generous Show. I am Ellen de Generous. 449 00:30:35,880 --> 00:30:38,960 Speaker 1: My name is there, my name is there, my name 450 00:30:39,120 --> 00:30:45,200 Speaker 1: is on underwear. We have had a lot of conversations 451 00:30:45,240 --> 00:30:47,600 Speaker 1: over the last few weeks about the show, our workplace, 452 00:30:47,680 --> 00:30:49,960 Speaker 1: and what we want for the future. We have made 453 00:30:50,000 --> 00:30:57,280 Speaker 1: the necessary changes and today we are starting a new chapter. Wow. 454 00:30:57,680 --> 00:31:00,920 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, she adjusted head on and I like that, Ellen, 455 00:31:01,520 --> 00:31:05,160 Speaker 1: that works out. Yeah. You see. Several current and former 456 00:31:05,240 --> 00:31:09,440 Speaker 1: staff members alleged they faced harrassment, intimidation, and racism. According 457 00:31:09,480 --> 00:31:12,400 Speaker 1: to People magazine. In late July, Warner Brothers launched an 458 00:31:12,440 --> 00:31:15,200 Speaker 1: internal investigation and spoke to two hundred and seventy of 459 00:31:15,280 --> 00:31:19,640 Speaker 1: Ellen's employees, and she publicly apologized and three top producers 460 00:31:19,960 --> 00:31:23,360 Speaker 1: were fired from the Ellen Show. Well, you know, she 461 00:31:23,520 --> 00:31:26,480 Speaker 1: took responsibility for it, as her name is on this show. 462 00:31:27,160 --> 00:31:31,080 Speaker 1: But you know, a person, you can't know what all 463 00:31:31,120 --> 00:31:34,360 Speaker 1: of your employees are doing. And the sad thing about 464 00:31:35,440 --> 00:31:39,240 Speaker 1: some producers and stuff is they take on the power 465 00:31:40,240 --> 00:31:42,760 Speaker 1: because they feel like because they're a producer, they take 466 00:31:42,840 --> 00:31:45,520 Speaker 1: on a certain power and they wield it in a 467 00:31:45,640 --> 00:31:49,800 Speaker 1: way that maybe not even the star would do. You 468 00:31:49,880 --> 00:31:54,480 Speaker 1: know about it? You know, you know, you know, you've 469 00:31:54,640 --> 00:32:00,320 Speaker 1: all seen people have been in power and have just 470 00:32:00,560 --> 00:32:04,640 Speaker 1: been abusive with their power, you know. And that's not 471 00:32:05,120 --> 00:32:07,800 Speaker 1: what that may not that's not what Ellen has been 472 00:32:07,840 --> 00:32:11,480 Speaker 1: about since I've known her. Well, I like it back 473 00:32:11,520 --> 00:32:14,240 Speaker 1: when she addressed it, I do and came clean and 474 00:32:14,520 --> 00:32:19,240 Speaker 1: publicly apologized. I liked all that. Okay, switching gears a 475 00:32:19,360 --> 00:32:23,720 Speaker 1: programming note tomorrow morning, check this out people, tomorrow morning. 476 00:32:23,800 --> 00:32:28,120 Speaker 1: Democratic presidential hopeful Joe Biden will be our special guest, 477 00:32:29,160 --> 00:32:33,040 Speaker 1: special guest. Okay, don't forget Joe Biden. We'll be our 478 00:32:33,080 --> 00:32:37,360 Speaker 1: special guest in the morning. And finally, today is National 479 00:32:37,520 --> 00:32:41,760 Speaker 1: Voter Registration Day. How about that right? If your right 480 00:32:41,840 --> 00:32:44,560 Speaker 1: to vote means anything to you, and we certainly hope 481 00:32:44,600 --> 00:32:47,680 Speaker 1: it does. On the Steve Harvey Morning Show, please please 482 00:32:47,760 --> 00:32:50,400 Speaker 1: please make sure you're registered. You can learn about your 483 00:32:50,480 --> 00:32:54,120 Speaker 1: voter rights and requirements, be informed by checking where your 484 00:32:54,160 --> 00:32:58,400 Speaker 1: polling place is. This is a day of action. We 485 00:32:58,640 --> 00:33:07,000 Speaker 1: need all registered, eligible voters to participate in our democracy, right, Steve, Yeah, 486 00:33:07,160 --> 00:33:09,600 Speaker 1: I mean, you know, look, this is not this is 487 00:33:10,200 --> 00:33:13,400 Speaker 1: this is go time. Yeah, this is the time for 488 00:33:13,600 --> 00:33:21,360 Speaker 1: everybody who wants a change to to to participate in 489 00:33:21,600 --> 00:33:25,160 Speaker 1: making the change. The only way we can change something 490 00:33:25,560 --> 00:33:28,680 Speaker 1: is we got to vote. That's all. It's just as 491 00:33:28,720 --> 00:33:31,520 Speaker 1: simple as that. If we vote, we can change saying 492 00:33:32,080 --> 00:33:36,560 Speaker 1: prove to me your vote. If you vote, you will 493 00:33:36,880 --> 00:33:40,160 Speaker 1: prove to yourself one thing or another it counts or 494 00:33:40,200 --> 00:33:42,400 Speaker 1: it don't count. And there's no way you can vote 495 00:33:42,400 --> 00:33:48,720 Speaker 1: and think it don't county. It's just no. Please please, 496 00:33:49,040 --> 00:33:55,880 Speaker 1: I'm asking everybody to vote. You will make a huge difference. Yes, yes, 497 00:33:56,360 --> 00:33:59,360 Speaker 1: and see we have only forty two days left. Forty 498 00:33:59,400 --> 00:34:01,960 Speaker 1: two days left until the November third election. You can 499 00:34:02,040 --> 00:34:05,080 Speaker 1: go right now to vote dot org and get your 500 00:34:05,240 --> 00:34:08,879 Speaker 1: dates and all of that. Today is National Voter Registration Day. 501 00:34:09,000 --> 00:34:12,360 Speaker 1: Make today count, make it count early, vote, do what 502 00:34:12,480 --> 00:34:15,200 Speaker 1: you have to do, find out when all that is today. 503 00:34:15,600 --> 00:34:18,080 Speaker 1: All right, we're coming up with y'all. I just want 504 00:34:18,200 --> 00:34:24,040 Speaker 1: not right. This is serious lives. Vote as if your 505 00:34:24,080 --> 00:34:26,680 Speaker 1: life depended on it. Now. Coming up in twenty minutes 506 00:34:26,719 --> 00:34:28,560 Speaker 1: after the hour, Steve is going to tell us what 507 00:34:28,680 --> 00:34:35,800 Speaker 1: he's watching on TV. Right after this. These are things 508 00:34:35,920 --> 00:34:39,160 Speaker 1: you want to say to your mate that you really can't. 509 00:34:39,200 --> 00:34:42,799 Speaker 1: But you really can't. Every man in a relationship at 510 00:34:42,880 --> 00:34:46,160 Speaker 1: one point has wanted to say these things. Watch yourself, 511 00:34:46,280 --> 00:34:49,520 Speaker 1: watch yourself. If you got a hang nail on your foot, 512 00:34:50,280 --> 00:34:52,560 Speaker 1: don't rub that up against man. You know what. I'm 513 00:34:53,840 --> 00:34:57,360 Speaker 1: come on, man, how you don't know that scratching everything? 514 00:34:58,160 --> 00:35:01,000 Speaker 1: I know it's sexy to throw your leg across man, 515 00:35:01,120 --> 00:35:05,000 Speaker 1: but let me just tell you something. When we first met, 516 00:35:06,239 --> 00:35:09,840 Speaker 1: when we first like hooked up, that leg was a 517 00:35:10,080 --> 00:35:14,560 Speaker 1: lot lighter, you know what, right there, right there, that's 518 00:35:14,600 --> 00:35:17,160 Speaker 1: all I'm saying. Getting in trouble, that's I'm just saying. 519 00:35:17,239 --> 00:35:21,600 Speaker 1: It's not gonna say that long. That's I love you. 520 00:35:22,280 --> 00:35:32,960 Speaker 1: But that leg is looking everything, yeah, fibrous. You know what. 521 00:35:33,960 --> 00:35:36,640 Speaker 1: That leg is not his light and it was when 522 00:35:36,760 --> 00:35:42,560 Speaker 1: we met. That leg is. That's not less about help me. 523 00:35:44,320 --> 00:35:48,439 Speaker 1: I'm like about to lose, but I'm already die better. 524 00:35:50,680 --> 00:35:56,480 Speaker 1: You're listening to show. So yesterday, of course we were 525 00:35:56,520 --> 00:35:58,680 Speaker 1: all on zoom. We were talking about where we're watching 526 00:35:58,920 --> 00:36:04,879 Speaker 1: on TV. However, before quarantine days, Steve wouldn't normally participate 527 00:36:04,960 --> 00:36:09,680 Speaker 1: in our TV show conversations, right, but now Steve is 528 00:36:09,800 --> 00:36:12,960 Speaker 1: like leading the charge. Okay, he's been feeling left out 529 00:36:13,480 --> 00:36:15,840 Speaker 1: and he wants to engage in our TV show or 530 00:36:15,880 --> 00:36:19,880 Speaker 1: bene watching conversations. So Steve, tell us and tell everyone 531 00:36:20,040 --> 00:36:22,960 Speaker 1: what you've been watching and what's so good about it? 532 00:36:23,120 --> 00:36:27,479 Speaker 1: You gotta tell us. Ain't nothing on the al better 533 00:36:27,560 --> 00:36:34,680 Speaker 1: than court cam. Court cam is they show the inside 534 00:36:34,719 --> 00:36:38,799 Speaker 1: of court houses around the nation from a camera view. Boy, 535 00:36:38,960 --> 00:36:42,680 Speaker 1: let me tell you something. There's some people who have 536 00:36:43,000 --> 00:36:47,120 Speaker 1: made the decision to make crime a lifestyle, and I 537 00:36:47,280 --> 00:36:53,200 Speaker 1: see nothing else they could do. I truly do understand 538 00:36:54,080 --> 00:36:57,919 Speaker 1: at the mental capacity of some of these people why 539 00:36:58,080 --> 00:37:03,880 Speaker 1: crime was chosen a school and must not have worked really, 540 00:37:04,080 --> 00:37:07,000 Speaker 1: you know, going to this, going down to the seminary 541 00:37:07,280 --> 00:37:14,200 Speaker 1: that without you know, divide military, none of that, None 542 00:37:14,280 --> 00:37:21,960 Speaker 1: of that cam got people on that making. Not only 543 00:37:22,239 --> 00:37:25,120 Speaker 1: did there was a decision to commit the crime that 544 00:37:25,360 --> 00:37:30,120 Speaker 1: got them in court. Wrong once they in court, the 545 00:37:30,440 --> 00:37:36,120 Speaker 1: time that I've watched accumulate after they got to court. Listen, man, 546 00:37:36,360 --> 00:37:39,759 Speaker 1: we've gone from simple misdemeanors where we are here to 547 00:37:39,920 --> 00:37:44,239 Speaker 1: just set you bail, You make bail, you go home, right. 548 00:37:45,200 --> 00:37:47,799 Speaker 1: I've seen cases where you come in and you pay 549 00:37:47,880 --> 00:37:52,120 Speaker 1: the fine and you go home. All races white people 550 00:37:52,120 --> 00:38:04,239 Speaker 1: are my favorite happens hort Cam. It's the fools that 551 00:38:04,600 --> 00:38:09,879 Speaker 1: go before the judge and make decisions and through through 552 00:38:09,960 --> 00:38:14,920 Speaker 1: the com boy boy anything I'm talking about just adding 553 00:38:15,040 --> 00:38:23,000 Speaker 1: time I'm here. This dude in Detroit, he go before 554 00:38:23,080 --> 00:38:26,880 Speaker 1: the black judge. She a woman, nice looking, sisted too, 555 00:38:27,000 --> 00:38:29,920 Speaker 1: and what's his ethnicity? I took that he black? Okay? 556 00:38:30,680 --> 00:38:37,520 Speaker 1: He talking to the lady blank that be you're blank 557 00:38:37,600 --> 00:38:41,200 Speaker 1: you blankety blank to black Blake. That sister said who 558 00:38:41,280 --> 00:38:44,359 Speaker 1: you're talking to? Get out of my court, Get out 559 00:38:44,400 --> 00:38:48,359 Speaker 1: of my court. Rushed him out of the court, sentence him, 560 00:38:48,440 --> 00:38:50,719 Speaker 1: brought him back in gate his dude about thirty eight years. 561 00:38:50,760 --> 00:38:52,399 Speaker 1: When he came back in, he was a new man. 562 00:38:52,680 --> 00:39:01,600 Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. In Jesus worthy of you'll kind listen 563 00:39:02,040 --> 00:39:07,440 Speaker 1: forgive me. We'll be watching coming up in thirty four 564 00:39:07,520 --> 00:39:11,200 Speaker 1: minutes after the hour. Tell me something good news, Dion 565 00:39:11,480 --> 00:39:16,640 Speaker 1: Sanders Primetime is headed to Jackson State University. We're gonna 566 00:39:16,719 --> 00:39:19,920 Speaker 1: talk about it right after this Coach Prime in the building. 567 00:39:20,440 --> 00:39:25,200 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steven Show. All right, guys, we're 568 00:39:25,280 --> 00:39:30,279 Speaker 1: celebrating HBCUs all this week, and it is time now 569 00:39:31,480 --> 00:39:34,480 Speaker 1: to tell me something good tell you something good. This 570 00:39:34,680 --> 00:39:38,839 Speaker 1: good news is from our home station in Jackson, Mississippi, 571 00:39:39,520 --> 00:39:44,480 Speaker 1: KIXIE one oh seven five. Okay, uh huh. We have 572 00:39:44,680 --> 00:39:47,160 Speaker 1: to say we need a drum roll for this because 573 00:39:47,200 --> 00:39:51,480 Speaker 1: we're excited about this. We have to say congratulation. Come 574 00:39:51,520 --> 00:39:56,480 Speaker 1: on to our friend, our family member, Dion Sanders, Primetime 575 00:39:56,640 --> 00:40:05,000 Speaker 1: Baby mometime now the head football coach at Jackson State University. 576 00:40:05,239 --> 00:40:11,560 Speaker 1: All right, yeah, all time coach Crime. Yeah, of course 577 00:40:11,719 --> 00:40:15,040 Speaker 1: we know Dion Sanders is an NFL Hall of Famer, 578 00:40:15,280 --> 00:40:18,000 Speaker 1: and we all know he played Major League Baseball as well. 579 00:40:18,400 --> 00:40:21,200 Speaker 1: Prime said he is ready to bring national recognition to 580 00:40:21,400 --> 00:40:25,239 Speaker 1: JSU and HBCUs and he is proud to be part 581 00:40:25,680 --> 00:40:28,520 Speaker 1: of the JSU family, he said. Now he will be 582 00:40:28,560 --> 00:40:33,040 Speaker 1: addressed as coach Crime. Thank you very much. Right now, 583 00:40:33,320 --> 00:40:36,440 Speaker 1: I'm going to a game, Junior. Let's go to a game, baby, 584 00:40:36,760 --> 00:40:39,880 Speaker 1: Let's go to a prime time awesome. Man. That is 585 00:40:40,000 --> 00:40:53,560 Speaker 1: so awesome that Jason State. Yeah, yeah, a figure, a 586 00:40:53,680 --> 00:40:58,319 Speaker 1: Hall of Fame, hall of Fame. Where's Monica Burns. That's 587 00:40:58,440 --> 00:41:03,960 Speaker 1: you know, our producer, that's the He'll be coaching in 588 00:41:04,040 --> 00:41:08,279 Speaker 1: the pros within five years, you think so? He thinks 589 00:41:08,320 --> 00:41:12,959 Speaker 1: this love it hey man, Okay, he works so well 590 00:41:13,080 --> 00:41:16,040 Speaker 1: with young people. He really does, because he can relate 591 00:41:16,120 --> 00:41:18,960 Speaker 1: to them again and yeah, and and and and what 592 00:41:19,120 --> 00:41:21,040 Speaker 1: are you going to say? I mean, this is a 593 00:41:21,160 --> 00:41:24,000 Speaker 1: dude who did it at a level like nobody else. Yeah, 594 00:41:24,600 --> 00:41:29,040 Speaker 1: I mean he's going to have the undivided attention. Oh 595 00:41:31,200 --> 00:41:34,600 Speaker 1: cool Prime a beast man. Prime. Prime say he ran 596 00:41:34,719 --> 00:41:38,040 Speaker 1: through the cemetery coming home from school every day and 597 00:41:38,160 --> 00:41:43,680 Speaker 1: that's how he got fast boy. Yeah, yeah, yeah, he 598 00:41:43,840 --> 00:41:50,360 Speaker 1: ran through your ass in the backyard in Dallas. I 599 00:41:50,440 --> 00:41:52,600 Speaker 1: didn't want to talk about that. Yeah, yeah, you did 600 00:41:52,760 --> 00:41:55,040 Speaker 1: bring that. Well, since we're bringing up foot racing, you 601 00:41:55,120 --> 00:41:59,000 Speaker 1: ain't wanting a race. You're a quick racing i't Junior. 602 00:42:00,000 --> 00:42:01,960 Speaker 1: You kind of put you out the race game. And 603 00:42:02,040 --> 00:42:05,279 Speaker 1: if we could roll that footage back of Carl, roll 604 00:42:05,400 --> 00:42:24,200 Speaker 1: that disappointment rolling Tommy, Tommy, Hommy Tommy. We didn't know Tommy. 605 00:42:24,280 --> 00:42:26,680 Speaker 1: You you you were telling us you was this track sign. 606 00:42:26,760 --> 00:42:28,880 Speaker 1: I knew you couldn't be Prime Time. I knew you 607 00:42:28,920 --> 00:42:32,680 Speaker 1: had lost your mind when he said, yeah, so you 608 00:42:32,760 --> 00:42:37,320 Speaker 1: went to Dallas and then Prime just smoked Dusty Duty. 609 00:42:38,640 --> 00:42:40,719 Speaker 1: You were steal in the block. He had two or 610 00:42:40,800 --> 00:42:49,200 Speaker 1: three turf toe and a prime. Yes, wanted to race 611 00:42:49,400 --> 00:42:52,279 Speaker 1: Junior then he wanted to and we beat Carlin. I 612 00:42:52,440 --> 00:42:56,120 Speaker 1: back Tommy because we didn't know Junior had ran anything. 613 00:42:56,200 --> 00:43:00,080 Speaker 1: He talked about a running. But what's next year? Me 614 00:43:00,160 --> 00:43:05,840 Speaker 1: and you racing? I got all my money on calling 615 00:43:05,880 --> 00:43:11,960 Speaker 1: because your truck record is shot. You say so you 616 00:43:12,440 --> 00:43:15,680 Speaker 1: you you right now? You you you owe for everything 617 00:43:18,120 --> 00:43:26,600 Speaker 1: you need? Girl smoke kids as Flack on Cigar was 618 00:43:26,719 --> 00:43:29,320 Speaker 1: so mad at you. I think I got that on 619 00:43:29,440 --> 00:43:32,840 Speaker 1: my phone, that actual race on my phone. Boy, I 620 00:43:33,960 --> 00:43:37,640 Speaker 1: gotta find the Prime Time one. God, oh that's on 621 00:43:37,760 --> 00:43:42,600 Speaker 1: YouTube every one now, that's that's me and Prime. That's 622 00:43:42,680 --> 00:43:46,640 Speaker 1: on That's that's Prime. Now would be a good time 623 00:43:46,719 --> 00:43:49,719 Speaker 1: to watch it. Congratulations once again the Prime Times the 624 00:43:49,800 --> 00:43:54,879 Speaker 1: new head Football State University. Yeah, and let me shout 625 00:43:54,920 --> 00:43:59,400 Speaker 1: out Mississippi Monica and my cousin Tony Shelvin. He's alumna. 626 00:43:59,719 --> 00:44:02,400 Speaker 1: He went to Jessa State. They are so let me 627 00:44:02,440 --> 00:44:06,239 Speaker 1: tell you something, j SU Tigers sonic boom, All right, 628 00:44:06,360 --> 00:44:14,200 Speaker 1: coming up next the nephew with Today's Frank Phone. Right 629 00:44:14,280 --> 00:44:22,400 Speaker 1: after that, you're listening to show coming up at the 630 00:44:22,480 --> 00:44:24,839 Speaker 1: top of the hour. Right about four minutes after it's 631 00:44:24,920 --> 00:44:28,920 Speaker 1: my strawberry letter for today's subject. When I say crazy, 632 00:44:30,040 --> 00:44:35,000 Speaker 1: I mean crazy. Okay, I mean crazy right now. The 633 00:44:35,080 --> 00:44:46,520 Speaker 1: next crazy, you say half fuck crazy crazy crazy. I 634 00:44:46,560 --> 00:44:49,640 Speaker 1: don't even know If it's a dude. What do we 635 00:44:49,760 --> 00:44:52,880 Speaker 1: call him? We're gonna do the same. When I say crazy, 636 00:44:53,160 --> 00:44:59,560 Speaker 1: you say half fuck crazy, same dude. Yeah, say okay, 637 00:45:00,719 --> 00:45:03,080 Speaker 1: right now. The nephew is here with today's prying phone call. 638 00:45:03,120 --> 00:45:07,320 Speaker 1: What you got for us today? Math bumping, gran bump, 639 00:45:07,840 --> 00:45:16,880 Speaker 1: and Hello, Hello, I'm trying Marcus, Marcus. Yeah, this is Hey. 640 00:45:16,920 --> 00:45:19,040 Speaker 1: Can you hear me? Can you hear me? Pretty good? Yeah? 641 00:45:19,080 --> 00:45:22,880 Speaker 1: I can man. Hey, Hey listen, uh let me turn 642 00:45:22,960 --> 00:45:26,120 Speaker 1: the radio now for Second Bay. Hey listen, I live 643 00:45:26,160 --> 00:45:28,279 Speaker 1: in and uh. I live in an apartment building that 644 00:45:28,320 --> 00:45:31,120 Speaker 1: you just moved into. Uh. I live in twenty one 645 00:45:31,200 --> 00:45:33,840 Speaker 1: A and you live above me in twenty two A. 646 00:45:34,640 --> 00:45:37,520 Speaker 1: Uh huh. I actually got your number from the leasing office. 647 00:45:37,520 --> 00:45:38,960 Speaker 1: I told him I wanted to welcome you to the 648 00:45:39,000 --> 00:45:41,759 Speaker 1: apartment building, man, But I don't want to really raise 649 00:45:41,880 --> 00:45:45,000 Speaker 1: no op prowse. But I was really calling about you know. 650 00:45:45,239 --> 00:45:46,560 Speaker 1: You know, first of all, let me go ahead and 651 00:45:46,640 --> 00:45:48,920 Speaker 1: say welcome to the building, man. I hope that you 652 00:45:49,000 --> 00:45:51,120 Speaker 1: and your your uh is that your wife that lives 653 00:45:51,160 --> 00:45:54,279 Speaker 1: with you. First of all, thank you, brother, I appreciate it. 654 00:45:54,719 --> 00:45:56,920 Speaker 1: But why would you need to have my number to 655 00:45:56,960 --> 00:46:00,359 Speaker 1: do that? You just came knocked on my door, man, boy. Yeah, yeah, 656 00:46:00,480 --> 00:46:02,399 Speaker 1: we'll see whatever. The reason why, I mean I really 657 00:46:02,440 --> 00:46:05,000 Speaker 1: called it got the number, was kind of reach out 658 00:46:05,040 --> 00:46:06,360 Speaker 1: to you. Man. I don't be wanting to start no 659 00:46:06,440 --> 00:46:08,400 Speaker 1: trouble with nobody and nothing like that. I'd want to 660 00:46:08,840 --> 00:46:10,360 Speaker 1: you know, I want I want my neighbors to be 661 00:46:10,440 --> 00:46:11,719 Speaker 1: cool with me, and I want to be cool with 662 00:46:11,800 --> 00:46:15,320 Speaker 1: my neighbors. You know what I'm saying. Yeah, so I 663 00:46:15,440 --> 00:46:18,239 Speaker 1: was reaching out man, because you know the noise, man, 664 00:46:18,360 --> 00:46:22,400 Speaker 1: I was. I'm I work at night and I sleep 665 00:46:22,480 --> 00:46:25,000 Speaker 1: during the day, man, But it seemed like since you 666 00:46:25,160 --> 00:46:27,200 Speaker 1: guys moved in man in the middle of the day, 667 00:46:27,280 --> 00:46:29,560 Speaker 1: it's just you know, I mean, I know what it's 668 00:46:29,600 --> 00:46:31,399 Speaker 1: like to have a later hold on, hold on, hold 669 00:46:31,440 --> 00:46:35,200 Speaker 1: on hold you're hearing or just coming from my place 670 00:46:35,320 --> 00:46:38,319 Speaker 1: in the middle of the day, right, I mean, I'm here, 671 00:46:39,440 --> 00:46:41,680 Speaker 1: I'm getting I'm here, and you're making love to you lady. Man. 672 00:46:41,840 --> 00:46:45,200 Speaker 1: I mean yah yah Manna. You know what he did. 673 00:46:45,680 --> 00:46:48,759 Speaker 1: You might be hearing something from a mother another unit. Man, 674 00:46:48,800 --> 00:46:50,600 Speaker 1: if definitely not coming from a month because I'm at 675 00:46:50,640 --> 00:46:53,160 Speaker 1: work and my you know, my girls there. But she 676 00:46:53,400 --> 00:46:55,359 Speaker 1: on the computer. You know, she's looking for a gig, 677 00:46:55,520 --> 00:47:00,560 Speaker 1: like why he look okay, okay, okay, wait a minute now. 678 00:47:01,120 --> 00:47:06,080 Speaker 1: So you live in apartment twenty two A, right, yeah, okay, 679 00:47:07,560 --> 00:47:10,680 Speaker 1: see I live in twenty one A. Your your bedroom 680 00:47:11,320 --> 00:47:16,239 Speaker 1: is above my bedroom. Wait, hold on, hold on. You're 681 00:47:16,280 --> 00:47:20,600 Speaker 1: trying to me that you're hearing noises that sounds like 682 00:47:20,719 --> 00:47:25,160 Speaker 1: somebody's making love coming from my crib at this time 683 00:47:25,200 --> 00:47:28,440 Speaker 1: of day and I'm not there and only my women 684 00:47:28,560 --> 00:47:31,719 Speaker 1: is there. Dude, man, you know, I get it. I'm 685 00:47:31,800 --> 00:47:34,080 Speaker 1: not trying to be rude or anything. I appreciate you 686 00:47:34,200 --> 00:47:37,320 Speaker 1: calling and you know, neighbor and all that, and you 687 00:47:37,400 --> 00:47:41,600 Speaker 1: shake you in right. Uh yeah, yeah, you know I'm 688 00:47:41,600 --> 00:47:45,120 Speaker 1: not I mean, you called me, all right, So let's 689 00:47:45,160 --> 00:47:47,720 Speaker 1: get to the bottom of it. One time you're seeing 690 00:47:47,800 --> 00:47:52,040 Speaker 1: you hearing this, What kind of is are you hearing? Exactly? Coming? Hey? Hey, hey, 691 00:47:52,440 --> 00:47:54,280 Speaker 1: you know what, man, there's probably just a big mistake. 692 00:47:54,280 --> 00:47:56,040 Speaker 1: I mean, maybe she just hanging some pictures or something. 693 00:47:56,040 --> 00:48:02,279 Speaker 1: Broy No, right, I love you. Pictures. Man, we ain't 694 00:48:02,280 --> 00:48:05,439 Speaker 1: even put your mean. You're calling me like you're gonna 695 00:48:05,680 --> 00:48:09,680 Speaker 1: black handing bone after my kid. You're talking about man, Hey, 696 00:48:09,760 --> 00:48:15,719 Speaker 1: hey man, listen um Marcus hypogize. I'm you know, I'm 697 00:48:15,760 --> 00:48:18,640 Speaker 1: gon No, my man, you're telling me I'm a man. 698 00:48:18,880 --> 00:48:20,880 Speaker 1: Let me say, I'm saying I don't know what you 699 00:48:21,040 --> 00:48:24,240 Speaker 1: want and I'm a man. No, I'm hearing that new understanding. 700 00:48:24,880 --> 00:48:27,520 Speaker 1: You calling me, telling me you're hearing lids coming from 701 00:48:27,640 --> 00:48:31,600 Speaker 1: our kid and showing like somebody and now you're telling 702 00:48:31,640 --> 00:48:34,080 Speaker 1: me where we thought it. You know, Hey man, all 703 00:48:34,160 --> 00:48:36,520 Speaker 1: I'm saying is maybe it's just a legitimate mistake. I 704 00:48:36,560 --> 00:48:38,320 Speaker 1: don't think maybe she hanging the pictures of moves of 705 00:48:38,360 --> 00:48:41,440 Speaker 1: burnings or something like that. Man. I keep telling you 706 00:48:41,560 --> 00:48:45,680 Speaker 1: that you know pictures and anybody hearing this, it shouldn't 707 00:48:45,719 --> 00:48:49,440 Speaker 1: do little moods coming from my kid. Hey man, I 708 00:48:49,520 --> 00:48:52,160 Speaker 1: ain't trying to I ain't trying to start no trouble man, 709 00:48:52,320 --> 00:48:54,960 Speaker 1: And you don't started you what you're telling that. All 710 00:48:55,000 --> 00:48:57,240 Speaker 1: I was calling about was trying to get a decent, 711 00:48:57,600 --> 00:49:00,160 Speaker 1: decent rest. Man. I work at night brought us all 712 00:49:00,200 --> 00:49:02,360 Speaker 1: I'm talking about. Man, I'm not trying to do it. 713 00:49:02,600 --> 00:49:04,759 Speaker 1: If you was the great yards Ship, I don't care it. 714 00:49:05,040 --> 00:49:08,760 Speaker 1: You couldn't be telling me about woman. I just moved 715 00:49:08,800 --> 00:49:12,680 Speaker 1: to you. Alazy. Anyone doing on like that, ain't bel 716 00:49:13,480 --> 00:49:15,520 Speaker 1: you got the right a dress. When you love a man, 717 00:49:15,880 --> 00:49:20,439 Speaker 1: he live like yess Man, an apartment twenty one egg 718 00:49:20,520 --> 00:49:23,200 Speaker 1: in your place is a mine? Man, hold on, man, 719 00:49:23,239 --> 00:49:25,840 Speaker 1: hold on? He put it truck over? Man? Old on? 720 00:49:25,960 --> 00:49:29,520 Speaker 1: What second? Man? Because you took us all due? Hey man, 721 00:49:29,680 --> 00:49:32,279 Speaker 1: look I'm not I'm not trying to have no trouble. Man. 722 00:49:32,400 --> 00:49:35,920 Speaker 1: I'm not trying to hand no promom. Felt I was 723 00:49:35,960 --> 00:49:38,440 Speaker 1: working there again. I just pick the hours a week 724 00:49:38,520 --> 00:49:41,600 Speaker 1: while he didn't like this? Okay, okay, though I'm not. 725 00:49:41,760 --> 00:49:44,520 Speaker 1: All I'm saying is man, I thought I thought you 726 00:49:44,680 --> 00:49:46,840 Speaker 1: was making love to you your woman. Man, That's what 727 00:49:46,920 --> 00:49:48,480 Speaker 1: I thought. That's why I called you to ask her 728 00:49:48,520 --> 00:49:52,120 Speaker 1: to keep the noise down. Looking up the wife. I 729 00:49:52,160 --> 00:49:58,440 Speaker 1: ain't no here. You trust that he can hit it? 730 00:49:58,840 --> 00:50:03,479 Speaker 1: Why na not coming to wrecking your CD from your crid. 731 00:50:03,800 --> 00:50:07,160 Speaker 1: I'm not the Hello, dude, you're not coming to my apartment? 732 00:50:07,200 --> 00:50:08,640 Speaker 1: That hit nothing? Man, I ain't got nothing to do 733 00:50:08,760 --> 00:50:14,759 Speaker 1: with this. I' you me. I ain't letting you in 734 00:50:14,880 --> 00:50:16,960 Speaker 1: my house. Man. If I know, man that you got 735 00:50:17,040 --> 00:50:19,839 Speaker 1: going on up stairs, you gotta control your woman. Man, 736 00:50:19,920 --> 00:50:22,600 Speaker 1: it ain't got nothing to do with me. I tell me, 737 00:50:22,680 --> 00:50:26,759 Speaker 1: woman don't even know I know she when I know 738 00:50:27,480 --> 00:50:29,800 Speaker 1: head of you. I know there winning it out for 739 00:50:29,880 --> 00:50:32,600 Speaker 1: the last two weeks between twelve and two. I know 740 00:50:32,800 --> 00:50:38,080 Speaker 1: that you got you're talking again. Man, I'm coming to 741 00:50:38,160 --> 00:50:40,759 Speaker 1: your hell. You ain't coming to my apartment. Man, I'm 742 00:50:40,760 --> 00:50:43,879 Speaker 1: not ain't man, Listen, I know I ain't got nothing 743 00:50:43,920 --> 00:50:48,279 Speaker 1: to do with it. I'm telling you trouble cris man. Hey, 744 00:50:48,320 --> 00:50:50,319 Speaker 1: I got one more thing I need to say you, man, 745 00:50:50,360 --> 00:50:52,759 Speaker 1: did you listen from my crip? I ain't the all. 746 00:50:53,080 --> 00:50:55,040 Speaker 1: I got one more thing I need to say. All Right, 747 00:50:55,360 --> 00:50:57,319 Speaker 1: all right, you better do let's sing. Better be telling 748 00:50:57,360 --> 00:51:00,680 Speaker 1: me opening and don't are you lest it? Yeah? Listen, 749 00:51:01,520 --> 00:51:04,799 Speaker 1: this is nephew Timmy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 750 00:51:05,040 --> 00:51:10,040 Speaker 1: You just got branks by your own boy. Wait a minute, 751 00:51:10,080 --> 00:51:16,000 Speaker 1: hold what the twenty one? Ain't man? Step away from 752 00:51:16,080 --> 00:51:19,160 Speaker 1: twenty one to eight? Please, this is next you timming 753 00:51:19,239 --> 00:51:21,719 Speaker 1: from the Steve Harvey morn until your boy got me 754 00:51:21,840 --> 00:51:30,600 Speaker 1: to brank you man. Oh oh, I sham are you 755 00:51:30,800 --> 00:51:34,960 Speaker 1: at twenty one eight? Dude, I'm right outside my apartment, Man, 756 00:51:35,760 --> 00:51:41,880 Speaker 1: I'm right flowing. Hang up man, time this tim me? Man? 757 00:51:41,920 --> 00:51:45,960 Speaker 1: How you doing? Brother? Oh Man? Man, Timmy, you had 758 00:51:46,040 --> 00:51:50,080 Speaker 1: me going now, I was coming to up. Man, I'm serious, Man, 759 00:51:51,719 --> 00:51:53,560 Speaker 1: I got one more thing I gotta ask farn Let 760 00:51:53,600 --> 00:51:56,280 Speaker 1: you go, man, what is what is the baddest radio 761 00:51:56,400 --> 00:51:59,640 Speaker 1: show in the land? Man? Man, It's the Steve Harvey 762 00:51:59,719 --> 00:52:03,120 Speaker 1: Morning Show, without a doubt. A man step away from 763 00:52:03,239 --> 00:52:12,879 Speaker 1: twenty one eight step away? That was what you talking about? Huh? 764 00:52:13,719 --> 00:52:16,400 Speaker 1: It was a little bumping ground? What what little bump ground? 765 00:52:20,640 --> 00:52:23,399 Speaker 1: Between twenty and two quiet? This placed anger on your 766 00:52:23,440 --> 00:52:27,160 Speaker 1: neighbor's party. Well, I was so mad at you, Yeah, 767 00:52:28,960 --> 00:52:31,120 Speaker 1: between twelve and two nine. It ain't you. It ain't you. 768 00:52:31,280 --> 00:52:33,480 Speaker 1: But I'm just saying, I'm telling you what I here. Okay, 769 00:52:34,360 --> 00:52:39,759 Speaker 1: between twelve and two popping he had to do. He 770 00:52:40,600 --> 00:52:44,320 Speaker 1: he's mad at you though, not just wife at me. 771 00:52:44,920 --> 00:52:47,359 Speaker 1: I'm just I'm just trying to get some sleep. That's 772 00:52:47,400 --> 00:52:52,040 Speaker 1: all I want. Shoot the messenger. I just want to 773 00:52:52,080 --> 00:52:57,320 Speaker 1: get a little rests. Tommy, a lot of messages and 774 00:52:57,480 --> 00:53:01,080 Speaker 1: got shot. That's where the that's where the phrase come from? 775 00:53:06,840 --> 00:53:09,320 Speaker 1: Am amen. If you look at movies like back in 776 00:53:09,400 --> 00:53:12,640 Speaker 1: the medieval days, where the dude would bring a message 777 00:53:12,640 --> 00:53:15,560 Speaker 1: to the other king, they are sending the dude's head 778 00:53:15,680 --> 00:53:19,799 Speaker 1: back in the basket. Yeah, yeah, that's where that came from. 779 00:53:19,960 --> 00:53:25,080 Speaker 1: Don't key on the message. King asked me to ride 780 00:53:25,120 --> 00:53:31,000 Speaker 1: to note over that the noter never makes me They said, no, King, 781 00:53:31,600 --> 00:53:34,720 Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew. Coming up next my Strawberry Letter. This subject. 782 00:53:34,760 --> 00:53:38,080 Speaker 1: When I say crazy, I mean crazy. We'll get into 783 00:53:38,160 --> 00:53:42,239 Speaker 1: it right after this. You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. 784 00:53:43,400 --> 00:53:47,160 Speaker 1: Today's National voter Registration Day. If you're right to vote 785 00:53:47,960 --> 00:53:51,320 Speaker 1: means anything to you. Please make sure you're registered. Okay, 786 00:53:51,440 --> 00:53:55,200 Speaker 1: there are forty two days until the November third election. 787 00:53:55,600 --> 00:53:57,680 Speaker 1: Go right now to get registered. It only takes a 788 00:53:57,760 --> 00:54:01,080 Speaker 1: couple of minutes. Go to vote dot org and you 789 00:54:01,160 --> 00:54:03,640 Speaker 1: can also get your dates when you can early vote 790 00:54:03,719 --> 00:54:06,239 Speaker 1: in your state. All right, please do that today. This 791 00:54:06,440 --> 00:54:11,040 Speaker 1: is National Voter Registration Day. Vote dot org. Oh go yeah, yeah, 792 00:54:11,480 --> 00:54:13,640 Speaker 1: all right. We're gonna switch gears here because it's time 793 00:54:13,719 --> 00:54:16,720 Speaker 1: now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice 794 00:54:16,840 --> 00:54:20,760 Speaker 1: on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more. Please submit 795 00:54:20,800 --> 00:54:24,320 Speaker 1: your Strawberry letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com and click 796 00:54:24,680 --> 00:54:28,040 Speaker 1: submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter live 797 00:54:28,200 --> 00:54:30,080 Speaker 1: on the air, just like we're gonna read this one 798 00:54:30,200 --> 00:54:33,520 Speaker 1: right here, right now. Buckle up and hold on tight. 799 00:54:33,600 --> 00:54:36,080 Speaker 1: We got it for you. Here. It is the Strawberry 800 00:54:36,200 --> 00:54:41,160 Speaker 1: Letter subject. When I say crazy, I mean crazy. What'd 801 00:54:41,200 --> 00:54:45,520 Speaker 1: you say, Steve? No, now it's just say oh, all right, 802 00:54:45,560 --> 00:54:47,680 Speaker 1: here we go. Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm a thirty eight 803 00:54:47,760 --> 00:54:50,920 Speaker 1: year old wife and mother of four beautiful daughters. My 804 00:54:51,080 --> 00:54:53,640 Speaker 1: husband and I have been together for eighteen years and 805 00:54:53,840 --> 00:54:56,800 Speaker 1: married for ten. We have been living separately for the 806 00:54:56,880 --> 00:54:59,920 Speaker 1: last three years because my husband accused me of cheating 807 00:55:00,120 --> 00:55:03,399 Speaker 1: in the craziest way. Less than a year after our 808 00:55:03,640 --> 00:55:06,560 Speaker 1: last daughter was born. He set up a tape recorder 809 00:55:06,760 --> 00:55:09,840 Speaker 1: in our home to catch me cheating. He told me 810 00:55:09,920 --> 00:55:12,400 Speaker 1: about the recording and then played the tape from me. 811 00:55:13,000 --> 00:55:15,560 Speaker 1: All I heard was the baby's cooing and the little 812 00:55:15,840 --> 00:55:19,680 Speaker 1: mermaid playing in the background, But my husband swore he 813 00:55:19,880 --> 00:55:23,960 Speaker 1: heard sex sounds on the tape. He made copies of 814 00:55:24,040 --> 00:55:26,560 Speaker 1: the tape and sent them to his family and a 815 00:55:26,719 --> 00:55:30,239 Speaker 1: few of our friends. They were puzzled and advised me 816 00:55:30,440 --> 00:55:34,320 Speaker 1: to watch him because he appeared to becoming unhinged. After that, 817 00:55:34,719 --> 00:55:38,760 Speaker 1: he stopped sleeping and he started drinking heavily. He told 818 00:55:38,840 --> 00:55:41,360 Speaker 1: me that our last child is not his, and he 819 00:55:41,520 --> 00:55:45,399 Speaker 1: started arguments daily about this imaginary boyfriend that I had. 820 00:55:46,760 --> 00:55:48,640 Speaker 1: I was to stay at home mom at the time, 821 00:55:48,760 --> 00:55:50,480 Speaker 1: so he never wanted me to leave the house, and 822 00:55:50,600 --> 00:55:54,520 Speaker 1: if I did leave, he would sniff my clothes for 823 00:55:54,640 --> 00:55:58,240 Speaker 1: traces of cologne when I got home. I eventually called 824 00:55:58,320 --> 00:56:00,319 Speaker 1: his mom and told her to come and get him 825 00:56:00,320 --> 00:56:03,360 Speaker 1: because my older daughters were afraid of his erratic behavior. 826 00:56:03,960 --> 00:56:07,040 Speaker 1: Since he's been living with his mom. He lost his job, 827 00:56:07,280 --> 00:56:10,120 Speaker 1: got arrested, and was in legal trouble for a while. 828 00:56:10,880 --> 00:56:13,279 Speaker 1: That was two years ago, and now he's back on 829 00:56:13,400 --> 00:56:16,120 Speaker 1: his feet and has been in counseling for three months. 830 00:56:16,440 --> 00:56:19,160 Speaker 1: He wants to come back home, but my daughters don't 831 00:56:19,200 --> 00:56:22,520 Speaker 1: necessarily want him to. They are enjoying the peace and 832 00:56:22,640 --> 00:56:26,680 Speaker 1: stability without him. Am I crazy to even consider taking 833 00:56:26,800 --> 00:56:31,680 Speaker 1: his paranoid behind back. Please advise girl, not without some 834 00:56:31,840 --> 00:56:37,560 Speaker 1: serious medical help, okay from a board certified psychologist or psychiatrist. 835 00:56:38,000 --> 00:56:41,800 Speaker 1: Because I just say this because of his daughters and 836 00:56:41,920 --> 00:56:44,719 Speaker 1: how they feel. If his own daughters don't want him 837 00:56:44,760 --> 00:56:47,280 Speaker 1: back in the house, I think this is a major problem. 838 00:56:47,360 --> 00:56:50,280 Speaker 1: I mean, they are afraid of him. That's not good. 839 00:56:50,640 --> 00:56:54,239 Speaker 1: He's their dad. The good news in this letter, I 840 00:56:54,320 --> 00:56:57,480 Speaker 1: will say, is that that was two years ago, and 841 00:56:57,600 --> 00:57:00,759 Speaker 1: after living with his mom, losing his job, like he's 842 00:57:00,760 --> 00:57:03,600 Speaker 1: say in the letter, getting arrested, being in legal trouble, 843 00:57:04,040 --> 00:57:07,320 Speaker 1: he's back on his feet and has been in counseling 844 00:57:07,560 --> 00:57:12,040 Speaker 1: for three months. So I would say this, there's hope, 845 00:57:12,120 --> 00:57:14,719 Speaker 1: There might be a glimmer of hope, a light at 846 00:57:14,760 --> 00:57:17,360 Speaker 1: the end of the tunnel or something. But I wouldn't 847 00:57:17,400 --> 00:57:20,160 Speaker 1: let him back in the house with just three months 848 00:57:20,200 --> 00:57:22,360 Speaker 1: of counseling. I mean, remember, come on, this man was 849 00:57:22,440 --> 00:57:26,360 Speaker 1: sniffing your clothes. He sent out tapes to your family 850 00:57:26,440 --> 00:57:31,120 Speaker 1: and friends. Even you know, they advised you to watch 851 00:57:31,240 --> 00:57:33,720 Speaker 1: him because he appeared to becoming unhinged. You got to 852 00:57:33,760 --> 00:57:37,080 Speaker 1: take all that into consideration. You know, three months of 853 00:57:37,200 --> 00:57:41,720 Speaker 1: counseling does a whole lot. I just wouldn't let him 854 00:57:41,800 --> 00:57:44,040 Speaker 1: in with three months of counseling. I don't think you 855 00:57:44,160 --> 00:57:48,480 Speaker 1: should disrupt your peaceful and stable home right now without 856 00:57:48,560 --> 00:57:54,120 Speaker 1: some serious intervention from professionals. And let me remind you 857 00:57:54,280 --> 00:57:56,280 Speaker 1: that he wants to come back, and this is not 858 00:57:56,480 --> 00:57:59,560 Speaker 1: about what he wants. This is about you and the 859 00:57:59,640 --> 00:58:02,640 Speaker 1: safe of your home, okay, and your kids. That's what 860 00:58:02,800 --> 00:58:08,480 Speaker 1: I say, Steve, Well, this is gonna be an interesting 861 00:58:08,600 --> 00:58:11,400 Speaker 1: take on him. Just thirty eight year old wife, mother 862 00:58:11,600 --> 00:58:16,360 Speaker 1: four beautiful daughters. I've been together for eighteen years with 863 00:58:16,480 --> 00:58:21,840 Speaker 1: your husband married ten. They've been living separated for the 864 00:58:22,040 --> 00:58:24,600 Speaker 1: last three years. The three years they ain't been together 865 00:58:25,360 --> 00:58:29,880 Speaker 1: three years. That's a long time. Because your husband accused 866 00:58:29,880 --> 00:58:33,400 Speaker 1: you of cheating in the craziest way. After the last 867 00:58:33,520 --> 00:58:36,040 Speaker 1: daughter was born. He set up a tape recorder in 868 00:58:36,160 --> 00:58:39,880 Speaker 1: our home to catch me cheating. He told me about 869 00:58:39,920 --> 00:58:42,840 Speaker 1: the recording, then he played the tape for me. All 870 00:58:42,920 --> 00:58:46,680 Speaker 1: I heard was babies cooling and the Little Mermaid playing 871 00:58:46,960 --> 00:58:50,600 Speaker 1: in the background. All you heard in the tape was 872 00:58:50,840 --> 00:58:56,800 Speaker 1: baby cooling. My question to you is, normally, when y'all 873 00:58:56,960 --> 00:59:01,920 Speaker 1: do make love, do you cool? My question to her is, 874 00:59:02,040 --> 00:59:06,640 Speaker 1: when they do make love, do she cool? I don't know, 875 00:59:06,840 --> 00:59:19,680 Speaker 1: baby cool? Come if you've been doing baby talk in 876 00:59:19,840 --> 00:59:25,960 Speaker 1: his ear, he has a case. If your specialty ain't 877 00:59:26,080 --> 00:59:30,280 Speaker 1: been baby talk, then we have a damn problem. Now. 878 00:59:30,360 --> 00:59:35,920 Speaker 1: The other thing is when y'all do make love, do 879 00:59:36,240 --> 00:59:40,480 Speaker 1: y'all play cartoon music? Because the Little Mermaid is playing 880 00:59:40,520 --> 00:59:45,800 Speaker 1: in the background. Most grown ups like Luther pee Bow, 881 00:59:47,000 --> 00:59:50,680 Speaker 1: you know, age time, knocking the boots, you know, and 882 00:59:50,800 --> 00:59:53,360 Speaker 1: say several things you could play. You know, they thirty 883 00:59:53,400 --> 00:59:55,720 Speaker 1: eight so you know what you know, ain't listening to Joe. 884 00:59:55,800 --> 01:00:02,600 Speaker 1: They said, take my mind. All this help, but y'all 885 01:00:02,840 --> 01:00:09,200 Speaker 1: didn't listening to the Little Mermaid. Now your man is crazy, yeah, 886 01:00:09,360 --> 01:00:11,960 Speaker 1: because he swore he heard sex sounds on the tape. 887 01:00:12,640 --> 01:00:14,840 Speaker 1: Then he made compient take send it to his family 888 01:00:14,880 --> 01:00:18,040 Speaker 1: and friends. They have called you and say careful he's 889 01:00:18,120 --> 01:00:24,320 Speaker 1: coming unheeded. Okay, we'll have part two of Steve's response 890 01:00:24,440 --> 01:00:30,040 Speaker 1: coming up at twenty three minutes. Subjects When I say crazy, 891 01:00:30,320 --> 01:00:33,800 Speaker 1: I mean crazy. We'll get back into it right after this. 892 01:00:34,640 --> 01:00:39,680 Speaker 1: You're listening show, all right, Come on, Steve, Let's recap 893 01:00:39,760 --> 01:00:44,000 Speaker 1: today's Strawberry Letters. Subject when I say crazy, I mean crazy. Okay, 894 01:00:44,440 --> 01:00:46,840 Speaker 1: just dude to lost his rabbit, ass man to put 895 01:00:46,920 --> 01:00:49,919 Speaker 1: a recorder in the house. They've been married all these years, 896 01:00:50,040 --> 01:00:53,760 Speaker 1: eighteen years man for ten four beautiful daughters, he didn't 897 01:00:53,800 --> 01:00:57,480 Speaker 1: decided to record her and played the tape back. All 898 01:00:57,520 --> 01:01:00,080 Speaker 1: you hear is baby cooling. There some little mermaids in 899 01:01:00,160 --> 01:01:04,600 Speaker 1: the background. But your husband swottered he heard sex sounds 900 01:01:04,640 --> 01:01:07,120 Speaker 1: on the tape, so he made copies of the tape 901 01:01:07,120 --> 01:01:09,840 Speaker 1: send them to his family and a few of our friends. 902 01:01:10,720 --> 01:01:14,880 Speaker 1: They was puzzled. They advised you to watch him. Be careful, girl, 903 01:01:16,000 --> 01:01:20,360 Speaker 1: he's gonna be in the trash mand something wrong with him. 904 01:01:20,960 --> 01:01:27,120 Speaker 1: He's coming unhinged. So after that he started sleeping. Then 905 01:01:27,280 --> 01:01:31,880 Speaker 1: he started drinking heavily. Then he told me that your 906 01:01:32,040 --> 01:01:36,120 Speaker 1: last child ain't his, and he started arguments about his 907 01:01:36,280 --> 01:01:40,360 Speaker 1: imagine about this imaginative boyfriend that I had. You was 908 01:01:40,400 --> 01:01:42,520 Speaker 1: a stay at home mom, so he never wanted you 909 01:01:42,560 --> 01:01:44,640 Speaker 1: to leave a house, and if he did, he would 910 01:01:44,680 --> 01:01:48,080 Speaker 1: sniff my clothes for traces of cologne when I got home. Now, 911 01:01:48,200 --> 01:01:53,320 Speaker 1: let me tell you somethout close sniffing. Close sniffing is 912 01:01:53,440 --> 01:01:59,160 Speaker 1: not a trait of somebody who drinks. This man then 913 01:01:59,320 --> 01:02:04,000 Speaker 1: got on some drugs. This ain't drinking. This is no 914 01:02:04,160 --> 01:02:07,160 Speaker 1: longer alcohol. And I'm gonna show you how I noticed. 915 01:02:07,880 --> 01:02:14,440 Speaker 1: He started sniffing clones, clothes, sniffing ain't drinking. That's a 916 01:02:14,560 --> 01:02:20,919 Speaker 1: heavier drug. Now. He eventually called his mom and told 917 01:02:20,960 --> 01:02:23,560 Speaker 1: her to come get him because the older daughters were 918 01:02:23,600 --> 01:02:28,240 Speaker 1: afraid of his erratic behavior. He lost his job, he 919 01:02:28,440 --> 01:02:32,600 Speaker 1: got arrested, was in legal trouble for a while. Them 920 01:02:32,680 --> 01:02:37,280 Speaker 1: as drugs. That's not alcohol. Alcohol is different, okay. And 921 01:02:37,400 --> 01:02:43,040 Speaker 1: you know this house, sir, because I know alcoholics. Oh okay, 922 01:02:43,680 --> 01:02:46,080 Speaker 1: a lot of alcoholic And then I know a lot 923 01:02:46,160 --> 01:02:54,400 Speaker 1: of junkies. This is junkie behind here, joking. See that 924 01:02:54,560 --> 01:02:56,600 Speaker 1: was two years ago. Now he back on his feet. 925 01:02:56,640 --> 01:03:03,760 Speaker 1: He'd been in counseling for three months. Counseling junkie alcohol, 926 01:03:04,240 --> 01:03:09,400 Speaker 1: counseling junkie. Oh, this is how you're figuring this stuff out. O. See, 927 01:03:09,480 --> 01:03:11,840 Speaker 1: that's how you're doing. He wants to come back home, 928 01:03:11,960 --> 01:03:14,840 Speaker 1: but my daughters don't necessarily want him to. They're enjoy 929 01:03:14,960 --> 01:03:17,919 Speaker 1: the piece and stability without him. And I say to you, ma'am, 930 01:03:18,200 --> 01:03:22,919 Speaker 1: it's been three years. Yeah, it's been three years. You've 931 01:03:22,960 --> 01:03:26,360 Speaker 1: done three years without this man, and he wants to 932 01:03:26,400 --> 01:03:32,880 Speaker 1: come back home. Why what now? What's different? Counsel You 933 01:03:33,000 --> 01:03:35,440 Speaker 1: need to find out about what the counselance for. You 934 01:03:35,560 --> 01:03:39,080 Speaker 1: need to get real serious about this, because you're your 935 01:03:39,160 --> 01:03:41,480 Speaker 1: kids don't even want it back. When the children got 936 01:03:41,560 --> 01:03:45,400 Speaker 1: better sense than adults. If the kids don't want to 937 01:03:45,440 --> 01:03:48,040 Speaker 1: do back in the house, you have to consider that. 938 01:03:50,000 --> 01:03:53,240 Speaker 1: You know, am I crazy to even consider taking his 939 01:03:53,440 --> 01:04:01,200 Speaker 1: paranoia behind back? Paranoia alcohol does not produce paranoia. He's 940 01:04:01,240 --> 01:04:03,840 Speaker 1: been on some type of drugs, lost his job, got 941 01:04:03,960 --> 01:04:07,680 Speaker 1: into legal trouble. The man was on something else. Now 942 01:04:07,680 --> 01:04:09,360 Speaker 1: I don't know what he didn't put on the weed. 943 01:04:09,960 --> 01:04:12,240 Speaker 1: You know, it's a little substance. You can sprinkle on 944 01:04:12,360 --> 01:04:17,440 Speaker 1: the weed. You know, ain't nobody dropping nothing in drinks. 945 01:04:17,560 --> 01:04:21,200 Speaker 1: That's a whole nother high. If you're sprinkling stuff in 946 01:04:21,280 --> 01:04:24,520 Speaker 1: a drink, you're on another high. If you're putting it 947 01:04:24,600 --> 01:04:27,920 Speaker 1: on the weed, that's a different high. If you're taking 948 01:04:28,160 --> 01:04:35,720 Speaker 1: pills for someone you know a lot all my friends 949 01:04:35,840 --> 01:04:42,160 Speaker 1: have been involved on a regular basis. I have recovering 950 01:04:42,560 --> 01:04:49,440 Speaker 1: everything in my life. Everything, Okay, I got partners. I 951 01:04:49,640 --> 01:04:52,360 Speaker 1: can't have a glass of Kanyac ground with my cigar 952 01:04:52,680 --> 01:04:57,440 Speaker 1: because they'll lose the rabbit ass man oh dahn. So 953 01:04:57,560 --> 01:05:00,400 Speaker 1: you're just gonna drink, you know, I'm I mean a okay, 954 01:05:00,480 --> 01:05:04,560 Speaker 1: gray dog. I forgot my bad. So I'm just saying 955 01:05:04,640 --> 01:05:07,120 Speaker 1: I don't know that i'd be so readily taken back. 956 01:05:07,440 --> 01:05:11,439 Speaker 1: You've been separated three years. Three months versus three years 957 01:05:11,600 --> 01:05:14,200 Speaker 1: is not long enough. I would let him come over 958 01:05:14,240 --> 01:05:17,480 Speaker 1: and visit the kids, of course, see how that go 959 01:05:17,680 --> 01:05:21,240 Speaker 1: for about a year before you even consider and see 960 01:05:21,240 --> 01:05:23,920 Speaker 1: if you can get the man back. But he has 961 01:05:24,000 --> 01:05:26,920 Speaker 1: to get rid of these thoughts that that ain't his child. 962 01:05:27,360 --> 01:05:29,360 Speaker 1: He got to get rid of all these thoughts about 963 01:05:29,440 --> 01:05:32,280 Speaker 1: who you sleeping with. Because cooling don't sound a lot 964 01:05:32,400 --> 01:05:36,360 Speaker 1: like sex. If if it's just cooling, you're not having, 965 01:05:36,520 --> 01:05:43,880 Speaker 1: that's not an adequate sex. Okay, that begs the question 966 01:05:44,000 --> 01:06:02,840 Speaker 1: what is adequate sex? Wants? Not adequate six adequate sexy? 967 01:06:03,760 --> 01:06:11,360 Speaker 1: Oh no you didn't you black? You really black, brandy? 968 01:06:12,160 --> 01:06:18,720 Speaker 1: Break shock, hold on, whoa wait a minute, don't stop, 969 01:06:19,240 --> 01:06:22,920 Speaker 1: get it, get it, Come on, big bath and get it. 970 01:06:23,280 --> 01:06:31,840 Speaker 1: Wait you get caught up. Okay, trick me, really really 971 01:06:31,960 --> 01:06:39,160 Speaker 1: back in, break me like a pancake. That's that's adequates. 972 01:06:39,240 --> 01:06:42,120 Speaker 1: That's when you say it's not cooing, that's for sure. 973 01:06:44,600 --> 01:06:48,320 Speaker 1: We're beyond cooing now all right, Uh, thank you Steve. 974 01:06:48,440 --> 01:06:51,040 Speaker 1: Post your comments on today's Strawberry Letter. It Steve Harvey 975 01:06:51,240 --> 01:06:54,360 Speaker 1: FM on Instagram and Facebook, and please check out the 976 01:06:54,400 --> 01:06:57,400 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter podcast on demand. They're coming up with forty 977 01:06:57,480 --> 01:07:00,800 Speaker 1: six minutes after the hour, Junior and sports Stock right 978 01:07:00,840 --> 01:07:06,520 Speaker 1: after this, you're listening Morning show. All right, guys, get ready, 979 01:07:06,640 --> 01:07:11,160 Speaker 1: Junior is here with sport Stock. All right, here we go, 980 01:07:11,960 --> 01:07:15,800 Speaker 1: still trending the Western Conference Finals Lebron after the Davis 981 01:07:15,920 --> 01:07:20,439 Speaker 1: leading La Lakers with two nothing lead over the did 982 01:07:20,520 --> 01:07:23,560 Speaker 1: Tommy here? I said? I was saying again for him 983 01:07:23,640 --> 01:07:26,800 Speaker 1: that the Lebron Jason and the David and the Lakers 984 01:07:26,960 --> 01:07:30,560 Speaker 1: with two nothing lead? Nagas did he say twenty five? 985 01:07:35,240 --> 01:07:38,280 Speaker 1: I said a number? And you didn't agree to it? Okay, 986 01:07:38,360 --> 01:07:40,720 Speaker 1: So you gonna what you ain't gonna do is act 987 01:07:40,800 --> 01:07:49,960 Speaker 1: like we agreed on something. Stop that you want. This 988 01:07:50,200 --> 01:07:56,120 Speaker 1: is y'all charity. Bet No, not ain't. I didn't do it. 989 01:07:56,160 --> 01:07:58,320 Speaker 1: I didn't do enough money for him. You know, he 990 01:07:58,400 --> 01:07:59,920 Speaker 1: didn't want to go up and I didn't want to 991 01:08:00,080 --> 01:08:04,920 Speaker 1: go I wasn't going up. So no, oh, so it's no, 992 01:08:05,040 --> 01:08:10,280 Speaker 1: bet no, No, it's okay. Kareem Magic Bird, Michael Jordan 993 01:08:10,360 --> 01:08:13,040 Speaker 1: and let me tell you something, Isaiah Thomas said. He 994 01:08:13,120 --> 01:08:17,840 Speaker 1: said that Kareem Magic Bird, Uh, Jordan and himself had 995 01:08:17,960 --> 01:08:20,840 Speaker 1: great college coaches. He said, look at our coaching treat 996 01:08:21,040 --> 01:08:24,160 Speaker 1: look at our coaches in college. But Lebron James came 997 01:08:24,240 --> 01:08:26,120 Speaker 1: right out of high school. So I refer to him 998 01:08:26,160 --> 01:08:32,200 Speaker 1: as Einstein of basketball. That's a nice compliment. So are 999 01:08:32,280 --> 01:08:42,559 Speaker 1: we saying Lebron the Goats? It's going to be an 1000 01:08:42,760 --> 01:08:47,880 Speaker 1: argument if this man was I know and and and 1001 01:08:48,080 --> 01:08:55,920 Speaker 1: and and rightfully saw rightfully so six NBA championships with 1002 01:08:56,160 --> 01:08:59,760 Speaker 1: the same team a great dynasty. But let me say this, 1003 01:09:00,240 --> 01:09:06,000 Speaker 1: if this man gets an NBA final with every team, 1004 01:09:06,280 --> 01:09:14,519 Speaker 1: he goes to Jesus, yeah, greatness that year. And I'm 1005 01:09:14,520 --> 01:09:19,559 Speaker 1: gonna tell you something else. Jordan played fifteen years. Lebron 1006 01:09:19,800 --> 01:09:24,400 Speaker 1: is in his seventeenth year and playing at this level. 1007 01:09:26,120 --> 01:09:30,400 Speaker 1: No one in professional sports has ever played their sport 1008 01:09:30,479 --> 01:09:34,080 Speaker 1: for seventeen years at this level. Right here, you still 1009 01:09:34,200 --> 01:09:37,040 Speaker 1: can't stop Lebron James and no one can say he's 1010 01:09:37,080 --> 01:09:41,840 Speaker 1: slowed down. Did you think Lebron should have got the 1011 01:09:41,920 --> 01:09:47,920 Speaker 1: MVP this season? Up? Uh? I don't know. Oh yeah, 1012 01:09:48,240 --> 01:09:54,960 Speaker 1: freak got it? Oh he cold now at yeah? Thank you? Junior? 1013 01:09:55,080 --> 01:09:56,800 Speaker 1: Coming up? At the time of the hour. We'll have 1014 01:09:56,960 --> 01:09:59,439 Speaker 1: more of the Sea Harvey Morning Show right after this. 1015 01:10:00,200 --> 01:10:06,400 Speaker 1: You're listening to show, all right, Steve, some sad news 1016 01:10:06,479 --> 01:10:10,160 Speaker 1: to report from a music world. Pamela Hutchinson, one of 1017 01:10:10,240 --> 01:10:13,960 Speaker 1: the singers of the iconic group The Emotions, passed away 1018 01:10:14,160 --> 01:10:17,400 Speaker 1: from health challenges she had been battling for years. The 1019 01:10:17,560 --> 01:10:21,360 Speaker 1: Emotions were one of the most influential female groups of 1020 01:10:21,520 --> 01:10:25,320 Speaker 1: all time. The Hutchinson sisters posted a statement on their 1021 01:10:25,320 --> 01:10:29,720 Speaker 1: Facebook page. Now our beautiful sister will sing amongst the 1022 01:10:29,880 --> 01:10:33,519 Speaker 1: angels in perfect peace. The Emotions may be best known 1023 01:10:33,600 --> 01:10:35,839 Speaker 1: for their song best of My Love and their collabo 1024 01:10:35,920 --> 01:10:39,959 Speaker 1: with Earthwind and Fire Boogie Wonderland. Of course, Steve, we're 1025 01:10:40,000 --> 01:10:43,960 Speaker 1: all music lovers on this show. Talk a little bit 1026 01:10:44,000 --> 01:10:47,000 Speaker 1: about The Emotions legacy if you will. I mean, you know, 1027 01:10:47,120 --> 01:10:50,240 Speaker 1: you're talking about one of the great female vocal groups 1028 01:10:50,760 --> 01:10:56,639 Speaker 1: of all time, who was introduced by Earthwind in five Yeah, 1029 01:10:57,200 --> 01:11:01,280 Speaker 1: earth Wind and Fire introduced them all Boogie wonder Land 1030 01:11:02,880 --> 01:11:09,559 Speaker 1: and they were met from Earth Winding Fire back when 1031 01:11:09,680 --> 01:11:12,720 Speaker 1: earth Wind and Fire used to have one female in 1032 01:11:12,800 --> 01:11:17,680 Speaker 1: the group, and then Maurice took the female out the 1033 01:11:17,760 --> 01:11:21,320 Speaker 1: group because it was a distraction, you know, because she 1034 01:11:21,560 --> 01:11:25,840 Speaker 1: was fine. So Earth Winning Fire always had an affinity 1035 01:11:26,560 --> 01:11:31,160 Speaker 1: for female vocalists, and when they ran into the emotions, 1036 01:11:31,760 --> 01:11:36,240 Speaker 1: they introduced them on Boogie Wonderland and then they spun 1037 01:11:36,320 --> 01:11:39,000 Speaker 1: them off after that. You can hear the emotions on 1038 01:11:39,080 --> 01:11:41,960 Speaker 1: a couple of Earth Winding Fire songs before they broke 1039 01:11:42,840 --> 01:11:47,639 Speaker 1: and they harmony. They harmony. Man was just stup girls 1040 01:11:47,800 --> 01:11:52,160 Speaker 1: right there. They tim girls could blow. Man, don't ask 1041 01:11:52,240 --> 01:11:59,880 Speaker 1: my neighbors. Don't ask my neighbor? Is music? Right boy? 1042 01:12:02,200 --> 01:12:07,560 Speaker 1: That stim right there? Yes, m that's harmon. Have you 1043 01:12:07,640 --> 01:12:13,479 Speaker 1: ever heard this before? Doing you? Um? Nah? If you can, 1044 01:12:14,000 --> 01:12:20,840 Speaker 1: you can hear me. I heard the timing, but I 1045 01:12:21,000 --> 01:12:39,519 Speaker 1: was ro get to wait same girl, Yeah, you dance 1046 01:12:39,680 --> 01:12:55,639 Speaker 1: and shake the terror. Hey, we're understood's working. Oh he's 1047 01:12:55,640 --> 01:12:59,840 Speaker 1: spanking sank tworking down. I like it's ter tworking. But 1048 01:13:00,439 --> 01:13:10,559 Speaker 1: the working work. They would want to see Steve Harvey twork. 1049 01:13:10,840 --> 01:13:14,200 Speaker 1: You don't even understand. Oh it'll be up on Steve Harvey. 1050 01:13:14,320 --> 01:13:26,120 Speaker 1: Yeah we got you. I swear to God, no be 1051 01:13:26,320 --> 01:13:31,680 Speaker 1: no more damn shell everybody. You put that up and 1052 01:13:31,720 --> 01:13:45,680 Speaker 1: see what happened tail dawn right now? Man. Emotions, yes, 1053 01:13:46,000 --> 01:13:49,920 Speaker 1: musical so so much beautiful music from them, and our 1054 01:13:50,000 --> 01:13:53,040 Speaker 1: condelence is, of course, go out to the Hutchinson family. 1055 01:13:53,640 --> 01:13:59,800 Speaker 1: M you ever seen him in concert? Boy boy ask 1056 01:14:00,040 --> 01:14:06,639 Speaker 1: me nothing like that question? Saw nissa? Wait how much concert? 1057 01:14:08,080 --> 01:14:11,040 Speaker 1: Turned off? He said, turned off? He gotta things cut them? 1058 01:14:11,600 --> 01:14:17,519 Speaker 1: Do you? Or you talk about setback money? Now? How 1059 01:14:17,600 --> 01:14:21,559 Speaker 1: much it calls back? Then? Okay? Richfield called see him? 1060 01:14:21,600 --> 01:14:36,760 Speaker 1: Donk open the back base. That's second third, Yeah, flow 1061 01:14:36,920 --> 01:14:42,000 Speaker 1: seats God to be continued, and we'll talk about the 1062 01:14:42,120 --> 01:14:44,120 Speaker 1: themes when we come back. More of the Steve Harvey 1063 01:14:44,200 --> 01:14:47,360 Speaker 1: Morning Show twenty minutes after. Right after this, you're listening 1064 01:14:47,640 --> 01:14:52,400 Speaker 1: to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, So Steve, when 1065 01:14:52,439 --> 01:14:56,160 Speaker 1: we left off, we were talking about um, of course 1066 01:14:56,479 --> 01:14:59,800 Speaker 1: um Pamela Hutchinson of the emotions passed away, and then 1067 01:14:59,840 --> 01:15:03,800 Speaker 1: we got into some concert talk. Junior asked you had 1068 01:15:03,840 --> 01:15:06,599 Speaker 1: you seen them in concert? And Tommy asked you how 1069 01:15:06,680 --> 01:15:10,280 Speaker 1: much did concert tickets cost back then? So let's take 1070 01:15:10,320 --> 01:15:13,200 Speaker 1: it from there, because I asked you some dollars, Yeah, 1071 01:15:13,360 --> 01:15:19,040 Speaker 1: twenty three dollars, dog, and I said that was all yeah, 1072 01:15:19,120 --> 01:15:21,679 Speaker 1: And then I said you had to take a date, 1073 01:15:23,680 --> 01:15:29,320 Speaker 1: a date, Yeah, but dollars date you went by yourself 1074 01:15:29,479 --> 01:15:32,240 Speaker 1: to concert. I see, I had to go because the 1075 01:15:32,360 --> 01:15:34,759 Speaker 1: girls I was dating didn't want to do the things. 1076 01:15:35,160 --> 01:15:38,120 Speaker 1: See what he means. I went to the concert and 1077 01:15:38,280 --> 01:15:42,360 Speaker 1: theme like when I wouldn't see LTD. That's when all 1078 01:15:42,400 --> 01:15:46,880 Speaker 1: of them wore capes. You resilou have to sing it 1079 01:15:47,560 --> 01:15:56,280 Speaker 1: so though it helps me through these hours I spent 1080 01:15:56,360 --> 01:16:02,120 Speaker 1: away from you people. How I do it? Whoa? But 1081 01:16:02,200 --> 01:16:06,759 Speaker 1: there ain't nothing too. I got to wear the cape 1082 01:16:07,200 --> 01:16:10,360 Speaker 1: that they had on the album cover. Now the girl 1083 01:16:11,160 --> 01:16:13,840 Speaker 1: Tricia Turner, she didn't want to wear no cape. Okay 1084 01:16:13,840 --> 01:16:18,519 Speaker 1: with your ass, can't go to you. I'm not a 1085 01:16:18,680 --> 01:16:24,040 Speaker 1: board with the theme because see I'm up top while 1086 01:16:24,120 --> 01:16:26,600 Speaker 1: the while I come back and tell you all this. 1087 01:16:26,800 --> 01:16:29,880 Speaker 1: All right, all right, all right, more yeah this when 1088 01:16:29,920 --> 01:16:32,400 Speaker 1: we come back on the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right 1089 01:16:32,439 --> 01:16:37,479 Speaker 1: after this, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. So Steve, 1090 01:16:37,560 --> 01:16:39,559 Speaker 1: you were at the you were saying you were going 1091 01:16:39,640 --> 01:16:41,960 Speaker 1: to the concert, and you're you didn't take a date 1092 01:16:41,960 --> 01:16:44,160 Speaker 1: because they didn't want to do things. Tris Turner didn't 1093 01:16:44,160 --> 01:16:47,479 Speaker 1: want to wear the cap. Didn't well, I'm wearing the things, 1094 01:16:47,840 --> 01:16:52,479 Speaker 1: so I got perfect cape one platforms what the album 1095 01:16:52,640 --> 01:16:56,080 Speaker 1: cover was why you just couldn't wear some clothes? Why 1096 01:16:56,120 --> 01:17:02,760 Speaker 1: did you? Why would I not wear some gens to this? 1097 01:17:03,320 --> 01:17:05,360 Speaker 1: But wait, let me ask you this were you're the 1098 01:17:05,520 --> 01:17:09,240 Speaker 1: only one in the audience with the hell no oh, 1099 01:17:09,320 --> 01:17:13,080 Speaker 1: hell no, hellno oh hell knock. But it ain't nobody 1100 01:17:13,160 --> 01:17:21,439 Speaker 1: out themed me though, sister, that consult. So I bought 1101 01:17:21,479 --> 01:17:23,639 Speaker 1: an eighteen twenty dollars ticket. I'm up at the top. 1102 01:17:24,200 --> 01:17:27,000 Speaker 1: I'm jamming to the to the first act go off 1103 01:17:27,160 --> 01:17:29,719 Speaker 1: because black people got that by the by the act 1104 01:17:29,760 --> 01:17:32,320 Speaker 1: because it was hot, concerts hot. So when the first 1105 01:17:32,400 --> 01:17:36,000 Speaker 1: act go off and the headlineer come on, that's when 1106 01:17:36,040 --> 01:17:40,000 Speaker 1: I go down stairs and i'd watch the floor until 1107 01:17:40,040 --> 01:17:43,360 Speaker 1: I see, you know, a flow seat open, so I 1108 01:17:43,479 --> 01:17:46,519 Speaker 1: get out here down now. Then I'm doing like this 1109 01:17:47,040 --> 01:17:50,280 Speaker 1: in the aisle until I see all happen. Then I 1110 01:17:50,439 --> 01:17:52,880 Speaker 1: just slide on through and I was cool. So everybody 1111 01:17:52,920 --> 01:17:54,680 Speaker 1: gonna come on a little bro, and I get right 1112 01:17:54,720 --> 01:17:56,559 Speaker 1: in a little man. I see your boys got your 1113 01:17:56,640 --> 01:17:58,560 Speaker 1: cape on. Yeah, and now I'm not. Now I'm on 1114 01:17:58,640 --> 01:18:01,000 Speaker 1: the floor and then see, no girl wanted to do 1115 01:18:01,160 --> 01:18:07,719 Speaker 1: all that, okay, yeah, and I don't want me looking 1116 01:18:07,760 --> 01:18:11,040 Speaker 1: at her eyes this earth when the Fire LTD. I 1117 01:18:11,080 --> 01:18:14,560 Speaker 1: saw the commodores like that, Oh don what does you 1118 01:18:14,800 --> 01:18:17,200 Speaker 1: camp look like? Though? That's what I'm trying, just like 1119 01:18:17,400 --> 01:18:24,000 Speaker 1: the one on the album. Listen, Tommy, are you talking 1120 01:18:24,040 --> 01:18:27,679 Speaker 1: about how to phoenix on it? So okay? So Steve, 1121 01:18:28,040 --> 01:18:30,320 Speaker 1: you told us a story one time about you went 1122 01:18:30,479 --> 01:18:32,280 Speaker 1: to a concent you had a feather in your head. 1123 01:18:32,320 --> 01:18:37,280 Speaker 1: Who that was? That was five when they came out 1124 01:18:37,320 --> 01:18:39,839 Speaker 1: in the tps Earth when and Fire had a concert 1125 01:18:40,120 --> 01:18:43,160 Speaker 1: where these tps came out, and then when the tps 1126 01:18:43,600 --> 01:18:46,080 Speaker 1: disappeared Earth when the fire was standing right there, and 1127 01:18:46,200 --> 01:18:49,479 Speaker 1: I'll be damned, they had on vest with moccasins and 1128 01:18:49,680 --> 01:18:53,479 Speaker 1: and and suede pants with shingoes on them. I had 1129 01:18:53,560 --> 01:18:58,120 Speaker 1: the vessel on the suede vast mind wasn't real Squaye 1130 01:18:58,200 --> 01:19:01,719 Speaker 1: though it was ultra Swede. I got it have fabric 1131 01:19:01,800 --> 01:19:04,719 Speaker 1: stove and I had the big throat with the band 1132 01:19:04,760 --> 01:19:07,160 Speaker 1: down to tie around my head like Jimmy Hendrick, and 1133 01:19:07,240 --> 01:19:12,240 Speaker 1: I had a feather in the side of it with it. 1134 01:19:12,720 --> 01:19:16,840 Speaker 1: Look just Mike Mo take pictures of this dog dog 1135 01:19:16,920 --> 01:19:18,840 Speaker 1: You dog dog. Back then you had to have a 1136 01:19:18,920 --> 01:19:22,360 Speaker 1: big ass camera. You have big ass camera back then. 1137 01:19:22,400 --> 01:19:30,240 Speaker 1: You can't camemel damn polaroid to the show. I ain't 1138 01:19:30,280 --> 01:19:37,639 Speaker 1: got no pockets on my vest for that man. Cameras 1139 01:19:37,720 --> 01:19:44,080 Speaker 1: was biggest hell back then. I got it all right, Steve, 1140 01:19:44,240 --> 01:19:48,919 Speaker 1: coming up, it's our last break of the day, last's 1141 01:19:49,160 --> 01:19:52,799 Speaker 1: break up the day, and you'll have some closing remarks 1142 01:19:52,840 --> 01:19:54,880 Speaker 1: for us, and forty nine minutes after the hour, right 1143 01:19:54,920 --> 01:20:04,200 Speaker 1: after the you're listening to show. Here we are, guys, 1144 01:20:04,320 --> 01:20:06,680 Speaker 1: our last break of the day, and we have to 1145 01:20:06,800 --> 01:20:11,280 Speaker 1: remind everyone don't forget make sure you tune in tomorrow 1146 01:20:11,439 --> 01:20:16,519 Speaker 1: morning because Democratic presidential candidate Joe Biden will be a 1147 01:20:16,880 --> 01:20:20,800 Speaker 1: very special guest. We're so happy to have him. That'll 1148 01:20:20,840 --> 01:20:25,680 Speaker 1: be at seven o'clock eastern, six Central. Don't miss it. 1149 01:20:26,280 --> 01:20:30,080 Speaker 1: Joe Biden right here, right here. So exciting, indeed, Yeah, 1150 01:20:30,160 --> 01:20:32,800 Speaker 1: this is exciting. Yeah, we're good. I'm going to ask 1151 01:20:32,920 --> 01:20:39,640 Speaker 1: Hill what him and Senator Kamala Harris's plan is for 1152 01:20:39,800 --> 01:20:45,479 Speaker 1: black America. People keep asking that question, and you know, 1153 01:20:45,600 --> 01:20:49,200 Speaker 1: it's so hard for people to single out a group 1154 01:20:49,280 --> 01:20:53,000 Speaker 1: of people, but we're in a culture now that's asking 1155 01:20:53,760 --> 01:20:56,720 Speaker 1: to be singled out to become aware of some very 1156 01:20:56,800 --> 01:21:00,439 Speaker 1: very unique problems that we have as a people of 1157 01:21:00,520 --> 01:21:05,040 Speaker 1: color in this country. I was watching a show on 1158 01:21:06,200 --> 01:21:10,679 Speaker 1: the NBA and Carrie Champion was hosting it on ESPN 1159 01:21:10,760 --> 01:21:13,040 Speaker 1: and it was about race. And I don't know the 1160 01:21:13,120 --> 01:21:15,880 Speaker 1: white guy's name, but he's a reporter. He did a 1161 01:21:15,960 --> 01:21:19,200 Speaker 1: full report on how he feels as a white person 1162 01:21:19,800 --> 01:21:23,000 Speaker 1: in this country and what he's learned from black people 1163 01:21:23,080 --> 01:21:29,840 Speaker 1: doing this movement. It was so extremely compelling because he said, 1164 01:21:30,479 --> 01:21:34,000 Speaker 1: even though I'm not black, how would I feel if 1165 01:21:34,040 --> 01:21:37,799 Speaker 1: this were happening to me? Over and over and over again? 1166 01:21:38,720 --> 01:21:42,360 Speaker 1: And it really made sense. And then they had the 1167 01:21:42,560 --> 01:21:45,280 Speaker 1: woman on who I don't know her name, but an 1168 01:21:45,360 --> 01:21:48,400 Speaker 1: older lady who was a teacher who did to study. 1169 01:21:48,560 --> 01:21:51,599 Speaker 1: There's a video out of her asking room full of whites, 1170 01:21:52,000 --> 01:21:56,320 Speaker 1: raise your hand, if you would trade places and accept 1171 01:21:56,400 --> 01:22:00,160 Speaker 1: the behavior that's happening, accept the treatment that's happening to 1172 01:22:00,280 --> 01:22:04,360 Speaker 1: black people, stand up, and none of the white stood up. 1173 01:22:04,439 --> 01:22:08,240 Speaker 1: Say her name again, Jane Elliott, that's hurt. And then 1174 01:22:08,320 --> 01:22:11,519 Speaker 1: she said, no, wait, I'm sorry, maybe you misunderstood the question. 1175 01:22:11,880 --> 01:22:14,800 Speaker 1: I said, all of you that are white, stand up 1176 01:22:15,240 --> 01:22:17,920 Speaker 1: if you would trade places with black people and receive 1177 01:22:18,000 --> 01:22:20,400 Speaker 1: the treatment of black people. And they didn't stand up, 1178 01:22:20,439 --> 01:22:22,280 Speaker 1: he said. She said, well, none of you stood up, 1179 01:22:22,560 --> 01:22:26,200 Speaker 1: so obviously you must know how they're being treated you, 1180 01:22:26,360 --> 01:22:28,840 Speaker 1: and you wouldn't want it to happen to you. There's 1181 01:22:28,920 --> 01:22:33,800 Speaker 1: some compelling conversations that's happening now, but nothing is more 1182 01:22:34,000 --> 01:22:38,400 Speaker 1: compelling than the message that's being sent from the White 1183 01:22:38,439 --> 01:22:44,960 Speaker 1: House administration that currently holds a rank over there in 1184 01:22:45,080 --> 01:22:50,080 Speaker 1: the White House. The Trump administration is clearly sending the 1185 01:22:50,240 --> 01:22:53,760 Speaker 1: message loud and clear to black people that we don't 1186 01:22:53,840 --> 01:22:58,040 Speaker 1: care about you at all. We don't give a damn 1187 01:22:58,479 --> 01:23:03,840 Speaker 1: why you're protesting, We don't care what black lives matter 1188 01:23:03,960 --> 01:23:08,439 Speaker 1: to you. We will not mention black lives matter because 1189 01:23:08,560 --> 01:23:12,800 Speaker 1: to us, it doesn't matter. And as President Trump said, 1190 01:23:13,200 --> 01:23:17,240 Speaker 1: you all must be drinking the racism kool aid, because 1191 01:23:17,320 --> 01:23:21,600 Speaker 1: he thinks it's a drink that's concocted by liberals and 1192 01:23:21,800 --> 01:23:25,720 Speaker 1: and and and and and socialists. Racism is not from 1193 01:23:25,800 --> 01:23:29,880 Speaker 1: liberals and socialists. Racism is very, very real. But we 1194 01:23:30,040 --> 01:23:34,720 Speaker 1: have a president who will not address racism because he 1195 01:23:35,280 --> 01:23:40,679 Speaker 1: won't admit that it exists. You can't call, you can't 1196 01:23:41,240 --> 01:23:44,760 Speaker 1: you can't fix a problem that you won't identify as 1197 01:23:44,800 --> 01:23:48,120 Speaker 1: a problem. So if this man thinks there is no racism. 1198 01:23:48,680 --> 01:23:52,960 Speaker 1: What's there to fix? He just simply wants to get back, 1199 01:23:54,120 --> 01:23:56,080 Speaker 1: get America back to where it was when it was 1200 01:23:56,160 --> 01:24:00,920 Speaker 1: great again. When was that for us? Where was it 1201 01:24:01,120 --> 01:24:05,599 Speaker 1: better for us than it is today? And today ain't 1202 01:24:05,680 --> 01:24:09,000 Speaker 1: really good. Look at what happens to us all year 1203 01:24:09,120 --> 01:24:12,360 Speaker 1: long during the pandemic, which is what spurred the Black 1204 01:24:12,400 --> 01:24:15,200 Speaker 1: Lives Matter movement. I'm saying all of this because I'm 1205 01:24:15,200 --> 01:24:16,920 Speaker 1: trying to find a new way to get to you. 1206 01:24:17,200 --> 01:24:19,920 Speaker 1: We have to vote, We have to vote. You have 1207 01:24:20,000 --> 01:24:22,360 Speaker 1: to be sick and tired of this. I don't understand 1208 01:24:22,439 --> 01:24:24,720 Speaker 1: as a black person, how you can sit here and 1209 01:24:24,800 --> 01:24:27,640 Speaker 1: try to sit this one out when clearly you have 1210 01:24:27,800 --> 01:24:32,360 Speaker 1: the power to change this election. Black people can decide it. 1211 01:24:32,680 --> 01:24:38,360 Speaker 1: I heard of a Latino guys saying that Latinos can 1212 01:24:38,479 --> 01:24:43,760 Speaker 1: determine this election. Do you know he's right? Do you 1213 01:24:43,840 --> 01:24:47,000 Speaker 1: know he's absolutely correct, because if either one of us 1214 01:24:47,120 --> 01:24:50,920 Speaker 1: went out and voted in masses, we could change the election. 1215 01:24:51,800 --> 01:24:54,960 Speaker 1: Now suppose black and brown people felt the exact same way, 1216 01:24:55,600 --> 01:25:00,360 Speaker 1: which I don't see how we don't they kill us 1217 01:25:00,439 --> 01:25:02,599 Speaker 1: when they pull us over by the police. A lot 1218 01:25:02,640 --> 01:25:06,000 Speaker 1: of us are dying at the hands of the police unjustifiably. 1219 01:25:07,000 --> 01:25:11,120 Speaker 1: They've taken your docker programs. They're building walls. I don't 1220 01:25:11,240 --> 01:25:15,600 Speaker 1: know what else he can say to brown people that 1221 01:25:15,800 --> 01:25:18,760 Speaker 1: he ain't clearly saying to black people. I just don't 1222 01:25:18,800 --> 01:25:21,720 Speaker 1: know what else can be said, Folks, How else do 1223 01:25:21,840 --> 01:25:27,160 Speaker 1: you have to hear it? What? What do you need 1224 01:25:28,520 --> 01:25:33,320 Speaker 1: to get talked into voting? Stop saying your vote don't count. 1225 01:25:33,360 --> 01:25:36,000 Speaker 1: Your vote don't count when you don't cast it. That's 1226 01:25:36,040 --> 01:25:38,320 Speaker 1: the vote that don't count, the vote that doesn't count. 1227 01:25:38,439 --> 01:25:43,160 Speaker 1: It's the vote that don't get cast. We've got to vote. 1228 01:25:43,479 --> 01:25:46,439 Speaker 1: NBA players are begging you to vote. Major League Baseball 1229 01:25:46,479 --> 01:25:49,759 Speaker 1: players are begging you to vote. Race car drivers, Lewis 1230 01:25:49,800 --> 01:25:52,360 Speaker 1: Hamilton is begging you to vote. He don't even stay here. 1231 01:25:52,960 --> 01:25:56,400 Speaker 1: The dog gone. Soccer leagues are begging you to vote. 1232 01:25:56,920 --> 01:26:02,800 Speaker 1: Everybody's begging you to vote. I'm begging you to vote. 1233 01:26:03,080 --> 01:26:05,760 Speaker 1: If you want to show them that black lives matter, 1234 01:26:06,240 --> 01:26:10,120 Speaker 1: prove it by voting. I'm telling you nothing will send 1235 01:26:10,160 --> 01:26:14,760 Speaker 1: a more clear message from politics from now on. Then 1236 01:26:14,800 --> 01:26:18,280 Speaker 1: if we come out in serious numbers and vote and 1237 01:26:18,400 --> 01:26:21,360 Speaker 1: affect this election. They know where the votes are coming from. 1238 01:26:21,960 --> 01:26:25,320 Speaker 1: They know how to pre they counter precinct. Y'all, we 1239 01:26:25,479 --> 01:26:29,680 Speaker 1: can send a message to Washington, DC that will resonate 1240 01:26:29,880 --> 01:26:34,880 Speaker 1: for years if we just get out and vote. Damn it, 1241 01:26:35,960 --> 01:26:42,960 Speaker 1: vote period we have. This is serious, y'all. Haven't said 1242 01:26:43,000 --> 01:26:59,080 Speaker 1: that in the long Ye for all, Steve. Every contest 1243 01:26:59,160 --> 01:27:02,160 Speaker 1: no purchase necess erry void where prohibited. Participants must be 1244 01:27:02,280 --> 01:27:06,200 Speaker 1: legal US residents at least eighteen years old, unless otherwise stated. 1245 01:27:06,280 --> 01:27:10,360 Speaker 1: For complete contest rules, visit Steve HARVEYFM dot com. You're 1246 01:27:10,439 --> 01:27:12,840 Speaker 1: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.