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Speaker 1: is on How Money Show? How much? How much is

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Speaker 1: it worth? Would it be worth you for one day

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Speaker 1: of peace and quiet?

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Speaker 2: Paulina like money wise?

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 2: Currency?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah usd yeah, I appreciate it.

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Speaker 1: We could not work in Canadian dollars. I'd have to

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Speaker 1: figure out the exchange. You know. It's not great one

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Speaker 1: point it's better for us, No, yes it is.

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Speaker 2: I got less in Canada the other way.

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Speaker 1: It's the other way. I was just there the other

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Speaker 1: way around one point four.

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Speaker 3: You're over there, correct, But when you bring it here,

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Speaker 3: I think Canadian dollars.

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Speaker 1: Yes, why are you shopping in Canadian dollars and I

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Speaker 1: told you there are a lot tougher when you do

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Speaker 1: it that way, So yeah, I don't Yeah right, Why

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Speaker 1: don't worry about it? Why why are we moving money

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Speaker 1: to Canada? And Mack, I told you, don't move it

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Speaker 1: that way. Okay, that's not a good way to do it.

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Speaker 1: Our money is worth more than their money right now, girl, Okay.

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Speaker 1: And the way that they're retaliating is by sending smoke

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Speaker 1: right in our faces.

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Speaker 2: Girl, Kayla Christopher, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes I just know I love you. I love you deeply,

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Speaker 1: but you like stand on business and it's exactly the opposite.

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Speaker 1: What would you guys do in this situation? A twenty

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Speaker 1: six year old man his fiance found out that the

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Speaker 1: diamond he gave her was not real. It was moisonite,

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Speaker 1: a moistnite diamond. So he explained that he recently graduated

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Speaker 1: and couldn't afford a real diamond, so he chose, I

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Speaker 1: guess a lookalike jem that's way more affordable but shines bright.

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Speaker 1: So he didn't. I guess he was going to get

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Speaker 1: around to telling her that he essentially bought her a

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Speaker 1: fake diamond, but he just kind of never got around

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Speaker 1: to him. All the excitement about the ring and about

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Speaker 1: being engaged in whatever else, Well, here comes the drama.

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Speaker 1: While shopping for wedding bands, the jeweler revealed the ring's

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Speaker 1: true identity, and his fiance was not impressed, stormed out,

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Speaker 1: ditched the ring, locked herself in the bedroom, and he's

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Speaker 1: been sleeping on the couch ever since. He says he

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Speaker 1: didn't mean to deceive her. He wanted to make her

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Speaker 1: feel special, but now he's wondering if the truth delay

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Speaker 1: cost him more than a comfy bed. I'd be wondering

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Speaker 1: if I'm marrying the right person. Right, you're worried about

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Speaker 1: if she's mad at you. I'd be worried if I

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Speaker 1: marry the right person.

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Speaker 2: It's pretty dramatic.

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Speaker 1: Now. It would be one thing if he prepared those

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Speaker 1: to her, gave her this, this huge ring and then

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Speaker 1: said it, told her this is one hundred percent real,

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Speaker 1: like I spent thousands and millions of dollars on it.

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Speaker 1: I spent tens of thousands of dollars on this thing.

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Speaker 1: You used to be so grateful to me for this.

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Speaker 1: That would be one thing. But I don't think he

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Speaker 1: did that. I think he gave her the ring and

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Speaker 1: he didn't tell her that it wasn't real, and she

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Speaker 1: was so excited about it, Like why would you sort

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Speaker 1: of shoot yourself in the foot like that? Like immediately

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Speaker 1: like here here is this gesture we're getting engaged like

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Speaker 1: in this beautiful ring, by the way, fake. I don't

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Speaker 1: think anybody would do that. You were, I mean not

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Speaker 1: right then again, I mean, he didn't lie and say

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Speaker 1: it was real. He just didn't tell her that it wasn't.

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Speaker 1: And what difference does it make? He proposed to her

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Speaker 1: It's a symbol, right, So what would you guys do

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Speaker 1: in this situation, like if roles were reversed, because obviously

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Speaker 1: you guys, many of you were the ones receiving the

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Speaker 1: ranks hopefully well not Yukiki, but you're not wrong, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean would you okay? Would you truly be okay

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Speaker 1: with a fake ring from Big Tim over? No ring?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 4: At this point, absolutely, my ring must be real because

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Speaker 4: I've waited this.

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Speaker 1: Long and part of his reasoning is money, right, it

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Speaker 1: has to be real.

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Speaker 4: It has to be what I like at this point, now,

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Speaker 4: if we were just if we were being Hamy and

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Speaker 4: his girlfriend and you know, young whatever, sure, whatever you

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Speaker 4: give me, I'm happy. We'll we'll upgrade later. But now

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Speaker 4: it's too far in a game. But however, if I

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Speaker 4: was in this situation, I would be question if I

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Speaker 4: want to marry you after you reacted like that over

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Speaker 4: a moistnight ring, they're still there's still a.

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Speaker 1: Ring, yeah, Phill Diamond. Well, And the thing is like

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Speaker 1: in Big Tim's case, if in fact he's been telling

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Speaker 1: you all this time, for seven eight years ever long

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Speaker 1: it's been that he's waiting to save up to get you,

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Speaker 1: then he can't give you a fake ring after all that.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely not, he can't. He has to give you a

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Speaker 1: very nice ring. If he's been saving for all this

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Speaker 1: time and that's the only reason that he hasn't proposed

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Speaker 1: to you, then the ring better be legit. Absolutely. But

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Speaker 1: if you're young and you don't have a lot of

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Speaker 1: money and it's starting out in life, and you're really

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Speaker 1: in love and intent on getting married, and that's what

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Speaker 1: you could afford and that's what you give the person,

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Speaker 1: then so long as you don't lie about it, so authenticity,

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Speaker 1: I guess I don't see the.

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Speaker 3: Problem, right, No, No, I agree with that. I am

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Speaker 3: somebody who actually is married for two years. Now technically

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Speaker 3: I she's actually married, not not the fraudulent marriage. We thought,

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Speaker 3: like no one really believes it, but you're telling me

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Speaker 3: it's real, Okay.

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Speaker 2: I very much toificate around all the time.

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Speaker 5: I mean I was there right right, you got your

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Speaker 5: diploma and then your marriage certificate.

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Speaker 2: I carry about.

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Speaker 1: I was present for the fake wedding. I thought it

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Speaker 1: was weird that you had your college diploma in your

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Speaker 1: hand when you got married. You know, you're proud of

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Speaker 1: I got.

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Speaker 2: Things approve, you know all the time, so whip them

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Speaker 3: But I honestly feel that this could just be me

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Speaker 3: speaking now that I'm on the other side of this.

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Speaker 3: But like a lot of the stuff doesn't matter, and

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Speaker 3: I promise you it doesn't. Like I know, people do

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Speaker 3: the whole you know, big ring. You know, we're in

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Speaker 3: tons of debt thing, they do the big wedding. We're

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Speaker 3: in tons of debt, We're in tons of debt.

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Speaker 2: They do a whole thing.

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Speaker 3: And now that I'm on the other side of it,

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Speaker 3: and I look at it and I'm like, very happy

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Speaker 3: that I didn't do a Yahoo wedding because I wanted

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Speaker 3: a got who house. Like when I go yeah, who backyard,

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Speaker 3: So I knew like where my priorities stood.

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Speaker 2: And I think a lot of people forget that.

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Speaker 3: When it comes to marriage, like, yes, the ring and

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Speaker 3: the wedding and all that, it should.

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Speaker 2: Be special and beautiful. And I agree, and it should

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Speaker 2: be what you want.

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Speaker 3: I'm not shaming you for wanting what you want, but

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Speaker 3: when you look at the other side of things, like honey,

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Speaker 3: this economy and the way that things are with housing,

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Speaker 3: and just the bigger picture of marriage, because when you

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Speaker 3: get married, you're going to combine your life together, so

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Speaker 3: like are we going to upgrade our home, our cars?

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Speaker 2: Are we going to have children?

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Speaker 1: Like?

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Speaker 2: These things to me are more important and cost a

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Speaker 2: lot of money.

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Speaker 1: It's Pauline, it sounds like this. This woman would rather

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Speaker 1: this twenty six year old man go into debt, yes

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Speaker 1: on a ring he can't afford for something that looks

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Speaker 1: the same as what she wound up receiving. Now again,

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Speaker 1: if he said to her, oh, you should be so

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Speaker 1: grateful to me because this is so real and so expensive,

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Speaker 1: well that's a lie. That's awful, you know, that would

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Speaker 1: be if you're passing it off as something that it's not.

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Speaker 1: But it's the symbol, right, And I know it's easy

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Speaker 1: for me to say because I don't think I could

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Speaker 1: probably I probably couldn't get away with that, you know,

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Speaker 1: getting somebody a fake ring. But I also I've also said,

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Speaker 1: for as long as you've done this show that I

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Speaker 1: don't think anybody should be spending money on a ring

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Speaker 1: that they don't have, because to your point, it's like,

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Speaker 1: why am I spending I'm not going to go into

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Speaker 1: debt and pay interest on a ring that I can't afford,

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Speaker 1: so that to keep up with the Jones, that's what

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Speaker 1: it is, so that you can brag to your friends

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Speaker 1: about how basically how broke I am, you know what

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Speaker 1: I mean. And then and then and it's going to

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Speaker 1: hold us. If it's going to hold us back from

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Speaker 1: paying bills or upgrading our home or having a home

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Speaker 1: or whatever, well, then that it defeats the purpose, doesn't it.

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Speaker 2: I think.

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Speaker 3: So I feel like these things, like again, they don't

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Speaker 3: matter as much as we think they are.

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Speaker 2: I mean, you're entitled to.

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Speaker 1: Want what you want.

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Speaker 3: I'm not trying to take that away from anybody, but

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Speaker 3: I'm telling you, like, these things are expensive and it's

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Speaker 3: not worth it to post on Instagram so that my

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Speaker 3: little friend from high school that I don't even talk to

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Speaker 3: anymore can see my ring. I see this happen in

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Speaker 3: real life all the time, and I'm like, this is goofy,

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Speaker 3: my hot take.

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Speaker 1: Jayson Mike the Mechanic proposes with a Mois and Nite ring.

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Speaker 1: Would you accept it? Is?

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Speaker 4: What is the Yeah it's actually a diamond?

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, diamond. Yeah, it's like chemically a diamond, but

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Speaker 1: it's not like it's not a natural diamond. I don't care.

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Speaker 2: You can never tell.

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Speaker 3: Those two would take a onion ring a ring.

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Speaker 2: I don't care.

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Speaker 1: I would not care. And imagine how stupid you look,

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Speaker 1: because now that he's broke, you're gonna have to go

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Speaker 1: ask somebody for money to pay for your mortgage. But

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Speaker 1: you know you out here begging for money, but you

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Speaker 1: got this big.

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Speaker 3: A ring on your finger that happens every day every day.

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Speaker 1: Well that's crazy. Lorden asked the question is withholding lying?

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Speaker 2: I think so sometimes.

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Speaker 1: I mean he knew what he was doing. He definitely

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Speaker 1: knew what he was Easy. You give someone a ring

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Speaker 1: that looks like a traditional diamond ring, you're clearly passing

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Speaker 1: it off for tradition. You're passing it off for being real.

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Speaker 1: Because if you hand me an engagement ring that looks

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Speaker 1: like every other engagement ring that looks like a diamond,

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Speaker 1: I guess I'm assuming it's a diamond. But I guess

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Speaker 1: I also don't know why it matters. It doesn't matter.

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Speaker 4: I feel like it only matters to people who don't

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Speaker 4: have one, like people with the rings don't never think

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Speaker 4: about like, you know, I want to.

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Speaker 5: Over the weekend, Sabrina Carpenter served as both post and

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Speaker 1: I know we talked about this a while back, but

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Speaker 6: I did what I have to do, but it was

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Speaker 1: That is a strong mature human being. I am not.

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Speaker 3: But she's so much sure, she is so much better

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Speaker 1: aren't coming, you know, to the birth. It would be

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Speaker 1: she and her closest sort of you know, tribe, and

439
00:18:06,520 --> 00:18:09,360
Speaker 1: so I'm not. So I'm going to be entirely unwelcome anyway.

440
00:18:10,000 --> 00:18:12,359
Speaker 1: Everyone hates me, you know if I'm the cheater.

441
00:18:12,560 --> 00:18:16,080
Speaker 2: Oh now, you're not the woman giving birth. I'm sorry

442
00:18:16,200 --> 00:18:16,640
Speaker 2: both sides.

443
00:18:16,680 --> 00:18:20,080
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm a I'm a multi faceted actor. Okay, I

444
00:18:20,080 --> 00:18:23,560
Speaker 1: can this is more. This is more for one man's

445
00:18:23,560 --> 00:18:26,000
Speaker 1: show going on right now. I'm playing ball the roles

446
00:18:26,320 --> 00:18:30,040
Speaker 1: follow along, Kalen. Okay, what total, complete and total focus here.

447
00:18:30,040 --> 00:18:33,520
Speaker 1: This is coming to Broadway soon, slightly off Broadway, but

448
00:18:33,560 --> 00:18:36,120
Speaker 1: it's you know, it's fine. Okay, you haven't had much

449
00:18:36,160 --> 00:18:40,000
Speaker 1: to say. My thing here is also, I also understand

450
00:18:40,000 --> 00:18:41,640
Speaker 1: that it's a once at a lifetime deal, like that's

451
00:18:41,640 --> 00:18:45,679
Speaker 1: only going to happen once. And so do you, in

452
00:18:45,720 --> 00:18:49,000
Speaker 1: fact do what she did and bury whatever you're feeling

453
00:18:49,040 --> 00:18:51,880
Speaker 1: in the moment so that that experience isn't ruined, because

454
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Speaker 1: I don't know what's who is to say that she

455
00:18:54,200 --> 00:18:57,360
Speaker 1: doesn't forgive him down the road, I don't think that's happening.

456
00:18:57,359 --> 00:19:00,400
Speaker 4: But yeah, she took him back, she did, so yeah,

457
00:19:00,440 --> 00:19:03,760
Speaker 4: I mean yeah right, Yeah, that explains that. But I

458
00:19:03,800 --> 00:19:06,880
Speaker 4: would not allow you in the room while I'm giving birth.

459
00:19:06,960 --> 00:19:10,359
Speaker 4: You would be able to meet your daughter after after

460
00:19:10,400 --> 00:19:12,879
Speaker 4: I pop around and we're all prepped and ready, my

461
00:19:12,960 --> 00:19:15,439
Speaker 4: makeup's done. You can come stay hi to your baby,

462
00:19:15,440 --> 00:19:18,040
Speaker 4: but then you need to leave immediately after, or you

463
00:19:18,080 --> 00:19:20,919
Speaker 4: need to go in the guest room, you know, wherever

464
00:19:20,960 --> 00:19:22,399
Speaker 4: they whatever y'all got at the hospital.

465
00:19:22,440 --> 00:19:26,560
Speaker 1: But you will not be whatever you'all got at the hospitals.

466
00:19:32,960 --> 00:19:34,679
Speaker 1: And somebody comes out and tells me that I had

467
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Speaker 1: a boy or a girl, and I go, okay, I

468
00:19:36,119 --> 00:19:37,200
Speaker 1: guess I'll go back to work now.

469
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Speaker 4: You actually are going to be in the emergency room

470
00:19:40,040 --> 00:19:40,560
Speaker 4: dealing with me.

471
00:19:40,960 --> 00:19:41,360
Speaker 2: That's true.

472
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Speaker 4: You can go wait down there and we'll make sure

473
00:19:43,400 --> 00:19:46,080
Speaker 4: you see the baby. But yeah, you're not going to

474
00:19:46,160 --> 00:19:49,359
Speaker 4: get the privilege of sitting there watching me do a

475
00:19:49,359 --> 00:19:50,160
Speaker 4: miracle with God.

476
00:19:50,840 --> 00:19:54,360
Speaker 1: But you know, Mile, yeah, you know, she stares at

477
00:19:54,359 --> 00:19:57,520
Speaker 1: her another region to America.

478
00:19:57,840 --> 00:20:00,000
Speaker 4: That thing's gonna be working, and you're not gonna get

479
00:20:00,080 --> 00:20:01,920
Speaker 4: to sit there and see that process.

480
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Speaker 1: No, I thought you were just going to say enjoy

481
00:20:04,320 --> 00:20:07,320
Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't know if anyone's enjoying it. Well, actually, yeah, no,

482
00:20:07,760 --> 00:20:11,399
Speaker 1: he lose the privilege. Yeah, I know, I don't. I

483
00:20:11,440 --> 00:20:14,680
Speaker 1: don't have it. Somebody said, uh, let me see this.

484
00:20:14,880 --> 00:20:19,680
Speaker 1: What does this text here? Mmmmm? She also helps race

485
00:20:19,800 --> 00:20:20,560
Speaker 1: dream as well.

486
00:20:20,920 --> 00:20:25,560
Speaker 3: Yeah's you don't really don't deserve her, and y'all need

487
00:20:25,600 --> 00:20:26,679
Speaker 3: to leave her alone forever.

488
00:20:27,640 --> 00:20:29,040
Speaker 2: She's an angel amongst us.

489
00:20:29,119 --> 00:20:32,800
Speaker 1: Call it what it is, babe, it's effing traumatic. Somebody said, yeah, see,

490
00:20:32,840 --> 00:20:33,160
Speaker 1: there you.

491
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Speaker 3: Go, babe, it is traumatic. Yeah you want to call

492
00:20:35,960 --> 00:20:37,840
Speaker 3: it traumatic, I'll call it traumatic with you. Yeah, he

493
00:20:37,880 --> 00:20:39,720
Speaker 3: absolutely is. That's why he won't be there if my

494
00:20:39,760 --> 00:20:41,280
Speaker 3: man cheated on me, absolutely not.

495
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Speaker 1: How do I don't know we ever talked about this.

496
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Speaker 1: How did Hobby do? Because Hobby your husband, who is

497
00:20:46,240 --> 00:20:49,560
Speaker 1: a firefighter and paramedic. We were concerned about how he

498
00:20:49,600 --> 00:20:51,560
Speaker 1: was going to hold up with the sight of all

499
00:20:51,600 --> 00:20:54,480
Speaker 1: the all of the things that you see when this happens.

500
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Speaker 1: And I think you were concerned not only you know,

501
00:20:56,240 --> 00:20:57,760
Speaker 1: about how he was going to hold up, but whether

502
00:20:57,800 --> 00:20:59,119
Speaker 1: he was going to be of any value to you

503
00:20:59,440 --> 00:21:00,800
Speaker 1: during the prime says I don't know if we were

504
00:21:00,800 --> 00:21:02,080
Speaker 1: followed up on that. How'd the man do?

505
00:21:02,440 --> 00:21:05,399
Speaker 3: The man's a great he is a yeah, he's a

506
00:21:05,480 --> 00:21:07,280
Speaker 3: fireman paramedic for a living.

507
00:21:07,720 --> 00:21:09,000
Speaker 2: But he wanted to pass out.

508
00:21:09,000 --> 00:21:10,480
Speaker 3: I could tell, like, I think he at his face,

509
00:21:10,480 --> 00:21:12,200
Speaker 3: that man wanted to pass out, and he was trying

510
00:21:12,240 --> 00:21:13,880
Speaker 3: so hard not to look right.

511
00:21:13,960 --> 00:21:15,879
Speaker 2: He was trying his hardest. But like, what is it

512
00:21:15,920 --> 00:21:16,720
Speaker 2: called per field view?

513
00:21:16,840 --> 00:21:19,120
Speaker 3: Yep, yeah, I know that that was existing in that moment,

514
00:21:19,160 --> 00:21:21,399
Speaker 3: so I'm sure he saw some stuff. So he had

515
00:21:21,440 --> 00:21:23,040
Speaker 3: one leg, My mom had the other leg. My mother

516
00:21:23,040 --> 00:21:25,760
Speaker 3: in law was behind me fanning me.

517
00:21:26,040 --> 00:21:27,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, all the way back.

518
00:21:27,200 --> 00:21:28,439
Speaker 2: In the back, but put me in the back. The oh.

519
00:21:28,720 --> 00:21:31,040
Speaker 3: And my mom though, was very brave. She was like,

520
00:21:31,080 --> 00:21:33,080
Speaker 3: because doctor Mike said, oh, the head's coming out.

521
00:21:32,960 --> 00:21:34,959
Speaker 2: Here's the head. My Mom's like, can I see? And

522
00:21:35,000 --> 00:21:38,640
Speaker 2: she just left it. I was like, mom, there's.

523
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Speaker 5: No good view, by the way, now, even if you're

524
00:21:40,080 --> 00:21:42,240
Speaker 5: by the shoulders where I was when my mom gave

525
00:21:42,240 --> 00:21:43,840
Speaker 5: birth to my there's no good view.

526
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Speaker 1: How about like a video feed, you know, you know

527
00:21:47,520 --> 00:21:48,320
Speaker 1: something like that.

528
00:21:48,119 --> 00:21:48,959
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what you would need.

529
00:21:49,080 --> 00:21:50,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, well no, because I would have to be strong,

530
00:21:50,840 --> 00:21:52,560
Speaker 1: because I would have to be supportive, and I would

531
00:21:52,600 --> 00:21:54,639
Speaker 1: have to be and what I'm going through is nothing,

532
00:21:55,119 --> 00:21:58,040
Speaker 1: obviously nothing. And you're doing all this stuff. I just

533
00:21:58,200 --> 00:22:00,800
Speaker 1: I don't like looking at my own stuff. So I

534
00:22:00,840 --> 00:22:03,600
Speaker 1: don't like blood and take my blood and faint. That

535
00:22:03,640 --> 00:22:05,840
Speaker 1: sounds a little more traumatic to me. I think I'm

536
00:22:05,840 --> 00:22:08,240
Speaker 1: gonna be in trouble. I'll tell you what my ex

537
00:22:08,320 --> 00:22:09,919
Speaker 1: thing will be there. She cheats on me when I'm

538
00:22:09,920 --> 00:22:15,680
Speaker 1: popping that thing that right now? Okay, stories are next. Yeah,

539
00:22:15,880 --> 00:22:19,160
Speaker 1: they talk better than they say. Tell me. These are

540
00:22:19,200 --> 00:22:22,280
Speaker 1: the radio blogs on the Fred Show. Okay, it's like

541
00:22:22,280 --> 00:22:24,320
Speaker 1: we're writing in our diaries, except we said him alive.

542
00:22:24,400 --> 00:22:27,080
Speaker 1: We called them blogs so we have we have time

543
00:22:27,119 --> 00:22:29,160
Speaker 1: for to today, which we haven't in a long time.

544
00:22:29,240 --> 00:22:30,160
Speaker 1: Who wants to go first?

545
00:22:30,280 --> 00:22:34,080
Speaker 4: Caitlin or Keiki's gonna go first?

546
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Speaker 2: You go here, ladies first, want to hear about what

547
00:22:38,160 --> 00:22:38,480
Speaker 2: you got?

548
00:22:38,560 --> 00:22:40,200
Speaker 1: Okay, Caitlyn's going first.

549
00:22:41,800 --> 00:22:44,959
Speaker 2: Okay, thank you, my dear so dear blog.

550
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Speaker 5: I got a very funny call over the weekend from

551
00:22:49,840 --> 00:22:52,240
Speaker 5: one of my friends, my friend Ashley. If you've been

552
00:22:52,280 --> 00:22:54,639
Speaker 5: listening for a long time, you may have heard me

553
00:22:54,640 --> 00:22:55,240
Speaker 5: speak about her.

554
00:22:55,359 --> 00:22:57,480
Speaker 2: She has two daughters. She's an amazing mom.

555
00:22:57,600 --> 00:22:59,800
Speaker 5: Her daughter Nora, I spoke about it for sure on

556
00:22:59,840 --> 00:23:02,080
Speaker 5: that she was born during COVID. So that was a

557
00:23:02,119 --> 00:23:04,000
Speaker 5: whole time, like meeting her with the mask on whatever.

558
00:23:04,040 --> 00:23:06,719
Speaker 5: I've watched her grow up anyways, so she is very

559
00:23:06,800 --> 00:23:09,359
Speaker 5: much a mother. I am very much not a mother.

560
00:23:09,720 --> 00:23:13,840
Speaker 5: But I got a call for parenting advice, which I thought, Wow,

561
00:23:13,880 --> 00:23:16,800
Speaker 5: I'm very flattered. Ashley called me up and she said, hey,

562
00:23:17,720 --> 00:23:22,200
Speaker 5: how should I excuse me? How should I explain an

563
00:23:22,280 --> 00:23:25,640
Speaker 5: aura to Nora my five year old daughter?

564
00:23:25,920 --> 00:23:26,520
Speaker 1: Oh?

565
00:23:26,640 --> 00:23:30,040
Speaker 2: Okay? And you know she basically that.

566
00:23:30,560 --> 00:23:32,000
Speaker 1: Was on Miss Rachel or something like that.

567
00:23:33,119 --> 00:23:35,160
Speaker 2: So it's that one that was my first question. First

568
00:23:35,160 --> 00:23:36,800
Speaker 2: of all, very on brand that you would call me.

569
00:23:36,920 --> 00:23:39,520
Speaker 5: Second of all, I was like, why the hell are

570
00:23:39,520 --> 00:23:39,960
Speaker 5: you two.

571
00:23:39,880 --> 00:23:40,920
Speaker 2: Talking about auras?

572
00:23:41,080 --> 00:23:44,080
Speaker 5: Now she's very smart at five, but still and she said,

573
00:23:44,119 --> 00:23:46,280
Speaker 5: we were playing this game and that's how it always starts,

574
00:23:46,359 --> 00:23:49,280
Speaker 5: and we were doing words that rhyme with Nora. Okay,

575
00:23:49,800 --> 00:23:52,280
Speaker 5: and she was like, by the way, she's five, this

576
00:23:52,320 --> 00:23:53,600
Speaker 5: is my entire day, all day.

577
00:23:53,640 --> 00:23:56,240
Speaker 2: Every day it's her asking what's that? What's this?

578
00:23:56,480 --> 00:23:58,840
Speaker 5: And you have to try to like make it kid

579
00:23:58,880 --> 00:24:02,439
Speaker 5: friendly or explain it in a way that they get it. Anyway,

580
00:24:02,520 --> 00:24:04,280
Speaker 5: So this was my first shot. And you guys can

581
00:24:04,280 --> 00:24:07,399
Speaker 5: tell me how I did, I said, Nora, And aura

582
00:24:07,880 --> 00:24:10,760
Speaker 5: is something that you cannot see, but it's something that

583
00:24:10,800 --> 00:24:14,320
Speaker 5: you can feel, like your feelings. So I said, for example,

584
00:24:14,359 --> 00:24:17,359
Speaker 5: when your mommy walks into the room, how does that feel?

585
00:24:17,480 --> 00:24:20,520
Speaker 2: Does it feel light? Warm, exciting? Does it make the

586
00:24:20,600 --> 00:24:21,320
Speaker 2: room brighter?

587
00:24:21,640 --> 00:24:23,600
Speaker 5: And she's also obsessed with Spider Man, I said, And

588
00:24:23,600 --> 00:24:25,600
Speaker 5: she's obsessed with the fact that there's good guys who

589
00:24:25,600 --> 00:24:27,840
Speaker 5: will always save the day. She's like cause she gets scared.

590
00:24:28,280 --> 00:24:32,879
Speaker 5: So I said, Nora, in Spider Man, when no I

591
00:24:32,920 --> 00:24:33,560
Speaker 5: did you know I.

592
00:24:33,520 --> 00:24:35,000
Speaker 2: Don't have AI you.

593
00:24:36,640 --> 00:24:37,760
Speaker 1: Right off the top of your head, this.

594
00:24:37,720 --> 00:24:39,840
Speaker 5: Is the dome off the dome, And I said, in

595
00:24:39,920 --> 00:24:42,160
Speaker 5: Spider Man, when the bad guys come into the room,

596
00:24:42,600 --> 00:24:43,600
Speaker 5: how would that feel?

597
00:24:43,800 --> 00:24:44,919
Speaker 2: Dark? Bad, scary?

598
00:24:44,960 --> 00:24:46,960
Speaker 5: And so I said in aura is kind of a

599
00:24:47,000 --> 00:24:49,320
Speaker 5: feeling that you get from a person, and asked.

600
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Speaker 2: She was like, okay, that's better than what I would

601
00:24:51,200 --> 00:24:53,359
Speaker 2: have done. Thank you bye. But I was like, do

602
00:24:53,440 --> 00:24:54,600
Speaker 2: you do this to everything?

603
00:24:54,640 --> 00:24:56,440
Speaker 5: And she's like, literally everything I have to figure out

604
00:24:56,440 --> 00:24:57,800
Speaker 5: how to make kid friendly?

605
00:24:58,680 --> 00:25:00,800
Speaker 1: Is that different? Would you give a an explanation for a

606
00:25:00,920 --> 00:25:02,639
Speaker 1: vibe if she was at if she asked you to

607
00:25:02,680 --> 00:25:03,960
Speaker 1: explain what a vibe was.

608
00:25:06,560 --> 00:25:09,679
Speaker 2: Let me think about that vibe? Yeah, I would.

609
00:25:09,840 --> 00:25:12,720
Speaker 5: I would say vibe is more like if you think

610
00:25:12,720 --> 00:25:16,240
Speaker 5: someone's like cool, like if they dress well, you know

611
00:25:16,359 --> 00:25:20,040
Speaker 5: you're a vibe. Somebody's a fun time. Yeah, I probably would.

612
00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:21,840
Speaker 5: I asked her first, I said, well, does she know

613
00:25:21,880 --> 00:25:23,400
Speaker 5: what a soul is? Because I gotta know what I'm

614
00:25:23,440 --> 00:25:27,040
Speaker 5: working with here in DA Give give me a baseline

615
00:25:27,119 --> 00:25:30,359
Speaker 5: of what this this chick understands. So I don't know

616
00:25:30,359 --> 00:25:32,040
Speaker 5: if I did well or not, but I was. I

617
00:25:32,080 --> 00:25:34,560
Speaker 5: was honestly very flattered. And also, like, how on brand?

618
00:25:34,640 --> 00:25:35,720
Speaker 5: What is an aura?

619
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Speaker 1: We may have to ask the question later what did

620
00:25:37,680 --> 00:25:39,120
Speaker 1: your kid ask you? And I'm sure it's a lot

621
00:25:39,160 --> 00:25:41,399
Speaker 1: of like adult type stuff like you know when a

622
00:25:41,440 --> 00:25:43,000
Speaker 1: man loves a woman type stuff, but like what did

623
00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:45,760
Speaker 1: your what did your kid ask you? That you had

624
00:25:45,760 --> 00:25:48,360
Speaker 1: to explain on the fly, because I don't know if

625
00:25:48,400 --> 00:25:51,399
Speaker 1: like Polly or may have asked me what an aura was?

626
00:25:51,800 --> 00:25:54,240
Speaker 1: It would it would take me a second to break

627
00:25:54,280 --> 00:25:56,080
Speaker 1: it down in terms that I think a five year

628
00:25:56,080 --> 00:25:58,720
Speaker 1: old wuld understand. Like that was pretty good, Thank you.

629
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Speaker 5: You have to be careful though, because I were remember

630
00:26:00,359 --> 00:26:02,800
Speaker 5: one time on my drive to school, I asked my mom, like,

631
00:26:03,040 --> 00:26:06,360
Speaker 5: how do kids you know come here, like the very

632
00:26:06,440 --> 00:26:09,399
Speaker 5: classic question, and she said, well, you know, you're with

633
00:26:09,480 --> 00:26:11,479
Speaker 5: someone you love and then you just decide to have

634
00:26:11,520 --> 00:26:14,280
Speaker 5: a baby and then you do so for like my whole.

635
00:26:14,000 --> 00:26:16,080
Speaker 2: Childhood, I thought, you just decide.

636
00:26:15,640 --> 00:26:18,240
Speaker 5: And then the baby pot like I didn't know anything else,

637
00:26:18,560 --> 00:26:20,840
Speaker 5: and so you have to be careful because you know

638
00:26:20,880 --> 00:26:22,680
Speaker 5: these kids be spreading misinformation.

639
00:26:24,200 --> 00:26:26,760
Speaker 1: You just decide, we've decided.

640
00:26:26,480 --> 00:26:28,439
Speaker 2: And then then it's like I just pictured, you know,

641
00:26:28,680 --> 00:26:29,720
Speaker 2: a stork comes, but.

642
00:26:30,320 --> 00:26:34,120
Speaker 1: Because a lot of people didn't decide and it came anyway, right,

643
00:26:34,240 --> 00:26:37,199
Speaker 1: You know a lot of people like they broke up

644
00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:39,119
Speaker 1: and then they got back together one time, and then

645
00:26:39,160 --> 00:26:41,359
Speaker 1: it decided to come down. Yeah, you know for that

646
00:26:41,440 --> 00:26:43,840
Speaker 1: one time. And yeah, there are a lot of times

647
00:26:43,880 --> 00:26:46,960
Speaker 1: where its yeah right, right, decisions a lot of time

648
00:26:47,960 --> 00:26:51,560
Speaker 1: decided for you. Yeah yeah, and not when you would

649
00:26:51,600 --> 00:26:54,040
Speaker 1: wanted to be decided for you. Yeah, that was good.

650
00:26:54,080 --> 00:26:57,280
Speaker 1: I'm proud of you. Good job. I'm very excellent work.

651
00:26:57,760 --> 00:26:59,639
Speaker 1: Kik Kik is getting married, guys, I don't know if

652
00:26:59,640 --> 00:27:00,120
Speaker 1: you knew.

653
00:26:59,920 --> 00:27:02,560
Speaker 4: That I am getting married, And please don't ask me

654
00:27:02,560 --> 00:27:05,199
Speaker 4: to explain anything to a child okay, because I'm just

655
00:27:05,280 --> 00:27:07,360
Speaker 4: like child, just wait till you get older, you.

656
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Speaker 1: Know, just wait. Hey just texted me and as White

657
00:27:10,359 --> 00:27:12,280
Speaker 1: took seven and a half years to get you tell

658
00:27:12,560 --> 00:27:13,640
Speaker 1: don't move in with a man.

659
00:27:13,760 --> 00:27:16,840
Speaker 4: Girl, have seventeen boyfriends until you like one of them.

660
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Speaker 1: But no, So here we are. Yes, I'm getting married.

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00:27:21,960 --> 00:27:24,479
Speaker 4: Yes, I'm going to keep talking to y'all about the

662
00:27:24,520 --> 00:27:27,919
Speaker 4: sticker prices that I'm running into and the shock value

663
00:27:27,960 --> 00:27:33,240
Speaker 4: that I'm having. These experiences are traumatizing. And Friday, I

664
00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:37,000
Speaker 4: went through another experience where I was so excited to

665
00:27:37,200 --> 00:27:40,840
Speaker 4: go and meet with a wedding decorator because I'm like, Okay,

666
00:27:41,200 --> 00:27:43,159
Speaker 4: to really figure out how much this wedding is going

667
00:27:43,200 --> 00:27:45,480
Speaker 4: to cost, I need to price out a venue and

668
00:27:45,480 --> 00:27:48,200
Speaker 4: I need to price out the decorator. So I'm like, Okay,

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00:27:48,359 --> 00:27:50,320
Speaker 4: I'm excited. I'm walking into this place.

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00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:54,159
Speaker 2: And the moment I walked in, there was this beautiful

671
00:27:54,240 --> 00:27:55,320
Speaker 2: like swing.

672
00:27:55,000 --> 00:27:57,280
Speaker 4: Set in the lobby, so I was like, I probably

673
00:27:57,280 --> 00:27:58,160
Speaker 4: shouldn't be here, right.

674
00:27:58,480 --> 00:28:03,359
Speaker 1: Sweets us, Wait a minute, what kind of venues that

675
00:28:03,400 --> 00:28:05,120
Speaker 1: we resorted to like play places?

676
00:28:05,200 --> 00:28:05,280
Speaker 5: Like?

677
00:28:05,320 --> 00:28:08,520
Speaker 1: What are we doing? Swing set? I understand these things

678
00:28:08,520 --> 00:28:10,880
Speaker 1: are expensive, kiky, but like, just ask for a loan.

679
00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:12,600
Speaker 1: I mean, we don't have we don't have to do

680
00:28:12,600 --> 00:28:13,480
Speaker 1: it at a playground.

681
00:28:13,560 --> 00:28:15,879
Speaker 2: No, no, no, this place is so beautiful.

682
00:28:17,280 --> 00:28:22,560
Speaker 1: Take swings traveling park yes, No, wait a minute, romantic swing?

683
00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:25,480
Speaker 1: Hold on that way? Are you getting married in a

684
00:28:25,560 --> 00:28:26,080
Speaker 1: sex club?

685
00:28:26,119 --> 00:28:26,280
Speaker 5: Now?

686
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Speaker 3: Like?

687
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Speaker 1: What's going on?

688
00:28:27,560 --> 00:28:28,080
Speaker 2: No?

689
00:28:28,080 --> 00:28:30,440
Speaker 4: No, I need you to I don't know you see,

690
00:28:30,560 --> 00:28:32,720
Speaker 4: have y'all ever been to a romantic spot in a

691
00:28:32,760 --> 00:28:35,119
Speaker 4: park where there's like a swing or rolls that's around

692
00:28:35,160 --> 00:28:36,200
Speaker 4: them around I can't say.

693
00:28:36,080 --> 00:28:36,240
Speaker 2: I have.

694
00:28:38,120 --> 00:28:42,520
Speaker 1: An adult swing, Like I've heard of some romantic swings before,

695
00:28:42,640 --> 00:28:44,920
Speaker 1: but that's you know, those are in those are in

696
00:28:44,960 --> 00:28:46,000
Speaker 1: members only clubs.

697
00:28:46,040 --> 00:28:47,800
Speaker 2: So y'all need to grow up.

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00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:48,280
Speaker 1: Okay.

699
00:28:48,280 --> 00:28:49,280
Speaker 2: Anyway, we.

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Speaker 4: Really nice set up in the lobby, So at that moment,

701
00:28:54,640 --> 00:28:57,080
Speaker 4: I kind of knew what I was walking into. And

702
00:28:57,120 --> 00:28:59,760
Speaker 4: then I went to the back and there was I mean,

703
00:29:00,160 --> 00:29:02,320
Speaker 4: I tell you, it was beautiful. It looked like the

704
00:29:02,400 --> 00:29:07,040
Speaker 4: set of every like Taylors With Music video, every Tyler

705
00:29:07,120 --> 00:29:08,000
Speaker 4: Perry movie.

706
00:29:08,080 --> 00:29:08,920
Speaker 1: It was all this.

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00:29:09,440 --> 00:29:12,280
Speaker 4: Stuff in the back, all these flowers and just there

708
00:29:12,360 --> 00:29:15,560
Speaker 4: was flowers hanging from the ceiling. So anyway, I want

709
00:29:15,640 --> 00:29:19,000
Speaker 4: you and I talked to this nice lady. She's so sweet,

710
00:29:19,400 --> 00:29:21,880
Speaker 4: and I'm just like, I want that, I want this,

711
00:29:21,960 --> 00:29:24,320
Speaker 4: I want all of this, I want everything, and so

712
00:29:24,480 --> 00:29:26,160
Speaker 4: I mean she's just like, oh, we're gonna make it

713
00:29:26,240 --> 00:29:26,760
Speaker 4: your dream.

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00:29:26,840 --> 00:29:31,480
Speaker 2: We're gonna she said.

715
00:29:32,160 --> 00:29:33,880
Speaker 1: Man, welcome to Secrets Resort.

716
00:29:34,560 --> 00:29:36,160
Speaker 2: I want five romantic swings.

717
00:29:38,440 --> 00:29:41,160
Speaker 1: She said, Man, welcome to Ciberus. If you're from Chicago,

718
00:29:41,280 --> 00:29:41,800
Speaker 1: then you know.

719
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Speaker 4: Like one of those rooms like had everything that you

720
00:29:46,120 --> 00:29:47,040
Speaker 4: can imagine.

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Speaker 1: I'm still trying to figure out where you're trying to

722
00:29:50,640 --> 00:29:53,040
Speaker 1: get married. Where are you gonna make us go Kiki

723
00:29:53,080 --> 00:29:56,400
Speaker 1: where there are romantic swings and everything you could ever imagine.

724
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Speaker 4: Man, I'm just saying it is.

725
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Speaker 1: It was so beautiful y'all.

726
00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:04,240
Speaker 4: It was flowers galore, Like everything had flowers of hard

727
00:30:04,280 --> 00:30:05,200
Speaker 4: shaped flowers.

728
00:30:05,520 --> 00:30:09,240
Speaker 2: It was like big canopies. It was gorgeous.

729
00:30:09,520 --> 00:30:11,560
Speaker 4: So I'm just like telling her, like my dream of

730
00:30:11,640 --> 00:30:13,800
Speaker 4: all the stuff that I want, and she's like, okay.

731
00:30:13,880 --> 00:30:15,000
Speaker 2: She's so patient with me.

732
00:30:15,080 --> 00:30:17,959
Speaker 4: She's describing it all, she's writing it out, she's drawing stuff,

733
00:30:18,280 --> 00:30:20,560
Speaker 4: and then she's like, Okay, this is the worst part

734
00:30:20,560 --> 00:30:21,080
Speaker 4: of my job.

735
00:30:21,200 --> 00:30:23,320
Speaker 2: I gotta go and calculate the numbers.

736
00:30:23,360 --> 00:30:25,200
Speaker 4: And I was like, girl, do you have to like,

737
00:30:26,600 --> 00:30:30,960
Speaker 4: let's just vibe and so.

738
00:30:29,080 --> 00:30:33,040
Speaker 2: Go sit it back to calculate the numbers.

739
00:30:33,320 --> 00:30:36,440
Speaker 4: And then she while she's back there, her assistant comes

740
00:30:36,440 --> 00:30:38,880
Speaker 4: out and brings me a tray of drink options.

741
00:30:39,120 --> 00:30:41,080
Speaker 2: So she's like, you know, would you like some water,

742
00:30:41,360 --> 00:30:42,320
Speaker 2: some soda?

743
00:30:42,400 --> 00:30:42,959
Speaker 1: What would you like?

744
00:30:43,080 --> 00:30:47,320
Speaker 4: And I'm like, oh, no, that I already know. Yeah,

745
00:30:48,080 --> 00:30:54,480
Speaker 4: she comes back, y'all, she sits down the number. Fourteen thousand. Yeah,

746
00:30:54,520 --> 00:30:56,840
Speaker 4: fourteen thousand of romantic swings. I can get you a

747
00:30:56,880 --> 00:30:57,600
Speaker 4: much better deal.

748
00:30:58,400 --> 00:31:00,280
Speaker 1: I mean they might be a little bit pre but

749
00:31:00,320 --> 00:31:03,160
Speaker 1: I can get you a much better romantic swigs.

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Speaker 5: So what goes into the decoration because I've only ever

751
00:31:05,760 --> 00:31:09,080
Speaker 5: heard of weddings where you like use the venues people,

752
00:31:09,240 --> 00:31:11,280
Speaker 5: So what what is she covering or what does she

753
00:31:11,360 --> 00:31:12,200
Speaker 5: need to come in and do?

754
00:31:12,400 --> 00:31:13,280
Speaker 2: She does everything.

755
00:31:13,640 --> 00:31:16,120
Speaker 4: Flowers, the flowers you know you want them as you

756
00:31:16,160 --> 00:31:18,960
Speaker 4: walk down the eye or so, flowers and cays for

757
00:31:19,040 --> 00:31:19,760
Speaker 4: the girl's space.

758
00:31:19,880 --> 00:31:22,600
Speaker 1: So this is for just flowers. Fourteen grand for just flowers.

759
00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:26,360
Speaker 4: Yes, it was first for the car. There's flowers, there's fireworks,

760
00:31:26,360 --> 00:31:27,200
Speaker 4: there's a stage.

761
00:31:27,320 --> 00:31:28,800
Speaker 1: I'm going to ask for it all I need.

762
00:31:29,240 --> 00:31:31,760
Speaker 5: Okay, So there's like a one stop shop that does

763
00:31:32,080 --> 00:31:33,920
Speaker 5: like a dooris and then.

764
00:31:34,040 --> 00:31:36,400
Speaker 4: Okay, god, she gives you the you know the little

765
00:31:36,480 --> 00:31:38,320
Speaker 4: runway that you walk down.

766
00:31:38,440 --> 00:31:42,440
Speaker 5: Runway, create a space with some chairs.

767
00:31:43,200 --> 00:31:46,480
Speaker 4: No, I I need every chair to have a flower

768
00:31:46,520 --> 00:31:49,240
Speaker 4: on the chair for y'all centerpieces.

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00:31:49,360 --> 00:31:51,680
Speaker 2: I mean, she told me she can make candles hanging

770
00:31:51,720 --> 00:31:52,520
Speaker 2: from the ceiling.

771
00:31:52,880 --> 00:31:55,600
Speaker 1: I wanted it all. And so now, I mean, I'm

772
00:31:55,640 --> 00:31:57,880
Speaker 1: still trying to figure out after ten minutes, what kind

773
00:31:57,880 --> 00:32:00,440
Speaker 1: of party is this? Actually? Is an eye is white

774
00:32:00,440 --> 00:32:03,920
Speaker 1: shut party? You got romantic swings, you got candles hanging

775
00:32:03,920 --> 00:32:08,720
Speaker 1: from the ceiling, you got runways. I mean you got yeah, yeah,

776
00:32:08,920 --> 00:32:09,920
Speaker 1: this is yeah.

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00:32:10,080 --> 00:32:12,480
Speaker 4: So now I think I don't know if we're going

778
00:32:12,560 --> 00:32:14,959
Speaker 4: to be able to come we as us as I'm

779
00:32:15,000 --> 00:32:18,920
Speaker 4: going to be able to afford fourteenth. So I need

780
00:32:18,920 --> 00:32:20,920
Speaker 4: to know who got a glue gun because I feel

781
00:32:20,920 --> 00:32:21,920
Speaker 4: like we can put.

782
00:32:22,800 --> 00:32:25,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, let me tell you something. Let's go to Michael's.

783
00:32:25,440 --> 00:32:29,040
Speaker 1: We'll go to Joe Anne's. You know that right hot

784
00:32:29,080 --> 00:32:31,240
Speaker 1: little hobby lobby. Let me say this it Before long,

785
00:32:31,480 --> 00:32:33,680
Speaker 1: we're gonna have candles hanging from the ceiling and romantic

786
00:32:33,680 --> 00:32:35,600
Speaker 1: swings all over the place. It'll be great.

787
00:32:35,760 --> 00:32:38,320
Speaker 4: Amazon and TikTok told me that I can make all

788
00:32:38,360 --> 00:32:38,840
Speaker 4: this stuff.

789
00:32:39,520 --> 00:32:44,120
Speaker 1: So wow, and that's just for the runway with the flowers. Man.

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00:32:44,560 --> 00:32:44,760
Speaker 4: Yeah.

791
00:32:44,840 --> 00:32:47,120
Speaker 1: The other problem with going to these appointments, I would imagine,

792
00:32:47,120 --> 00:32:48,400
Speaker 1: is that they show you a bunch of stuff you

793
00:32:48,440 --> 00:32:50,719
Speaker 1: didn't know that you wanted. Yes, like you didn't know

794
00:32:50,760 --> 00:32:53,080
Speaker 1: you needed that, and now now it's going to feel

795
00:32:53,160 --> 00:32:55,360
Speaker 1: like you know without if you don't have it, But

796
00:32:55,440 --> 00:32:57,440
Speaker 1: you didn't know you needed that. You didn't know it

797
00:32:57,480 --> 00:33:00,160
Speaker 1: was your dream after you saw it. Right now to

798
00:33:00,160 --> 00:33:02,400
Speaker 1: your dream. But let me tell you something, when I

799
00:33:02,440 --> 00:33:05,120
Speaker 1: walk into your wedding, if there are romantic swings abound,

800
00:33:05,280 --> 00:33:07,640
Speaker 1: and then I'm going to be so disappointed. I'm gonna

801
00:33:08,080 --> 00:33:13,000
Speaker 1: so hard. Right right waiting by the phone, is he

802
00:33:13,040 --> 00:33:15,200
Speaker 1: had more friendshells? Next