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Speaker 1: Text you will heal then. Textual doctors can heal you physically,

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Speaker 1: therapists heal you mentally, but this group of radio rejects

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Speaker 1: promises to heal you textually. Oh yes, yes, we do

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Speaker 1: it in this segment called textual Healing. Oh no, not

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Speaker 1: the smartest group that we have in here. But one

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Speaker 1: of our listeners has asked for our help with a

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Speaker 1: text conversation that she's been having. Her name is Alyssa. So, Alyssa,

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Speaker 1: welcome to the show.

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Speaker 2: Hi, thank you, Oh.

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Speaker 3: Man, Alyssa. Desperate times. We're the desperate measure.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so you're on with the Texperts right now. Please

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Speaker 1: tell us how we can help heal you textually.

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Speaker 2: Oh please help heal me.

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Speaker 4: Heal me, heal me.

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Speaker 3: I like that.

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Speaker 2: I went to a dinner party at a girlfriend's house

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Speaker 2: the other night. I don't know, probably eight of us

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Speaker 2: like a decade, Like we went to college together, we

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Speaker 2: known each other forever, and it was a great night. Right,

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Speaker 2: nobody drank too much?

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Speaker 1: Wow, I cannot relate. Yeah, how is it a party?

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Speaker 3: She's not friends with me? Obviously, just kidding. This sounds lovely.

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Speaker 3: This sounds like a great night.

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Speaker 2: Oh it was great. I mean she made this like

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Speaker 2: incredible dinner with these goat cheese enchiladas and besides so

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Speaker 2: so so so so yummy.

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Speaker 1: Oh my.

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Speaker 5: Anytime I hear go cheese, I'm like, fancy it could

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Speaker 4: Milkshake and I'd be like, oh, so good to have

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Speaker 4: a good friend that cooks.

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Speaker 3: Well. Yeah, right, I love them, I know.

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Speaker 2: And that's why when I got a notification on my

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Speaker 2: phone from her on Venmo the next morning, and it

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Speaker 2: was acting for a payment of twenty five dollars a request, well,

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Speaker 2: I didn't know. I thought it was some sort of mistake.

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Speaker 2: But a half hour after that, another friend who was

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Speaker 2: at the party with me, she screenshoted her Venmo requests. Oh,

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Speaker 2: and she sent it to me saying like the btf

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Speaker 4: Oh wait, hold up, your girlfriend was charging people for

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Speaker 4: her dinner.

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Speaker 3: Party she hosted. And how is it twenty five a person?

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Speaker 1: It's kind of a lie.

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Speaker 5: Cheap Okay wait wait right though that's a lot?

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Speaker 3: Yeah is there?

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Speaker 4: It was there like a text thread you weren't in on,

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Speaker 4: like everybody was chipping in, like instead of pot luck,

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Speaker 2: I know, I mean it didn't sound like that. It

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Speaker 2: And honestly, I kind of I think it's offensive and

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Speaker 2: I think other people think it's a vent. Yeah, but

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Speaker 2: it makes sure it looks kind of bad. Right, Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Have you hosted dinner parties before where anybody charged money

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Speaker 2: I mean we've absolutely all had parties together before it

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Speaker 5: Weirder, Yeah, that is weirder because if you had before,

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Speaker 5: then it's like, oh I forgot, we've been doing this

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Speaker 3: I mean it's like.

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Speaker 2: Money's tight. Then don't offer to host I guess I

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Speaker 4: Or yeah, or you text everybody and say, hey, that

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Speaker 3: You guys mind chipping.

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Speaker 4: In, Like it's crazy that she just went straight to Venmo,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and now there's like this whole other text chain

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Speaker 1: You've been nominated as the spokesperson for the entire group.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, are you closest with her? Is that why?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? She was my roommate ka And what kind.

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Speaker 4: I mean, she doesn't sound like a super direct person.

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Speaker 1: So you want to text her, Hey, you're out of

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Speaker 3: They meet her, she cooks.

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Speaker 4: I think you need to come in acting dumb like

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Speaker 2: Because no, no, it says for dinner.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, Normally I don't advocate for something like this,

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Speaker 1: if you blame this on one of your other friends.

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Speaker 1: It's it's yeah, it is. It's just a little bit

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Speaker 1: of your friend group? They were saying, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: What if you just say this? What if you just

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Speaker 4: Say, hey, girl, just a heads up. Everybody's really confused

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Speaker 1: I think why because it makes it seem more real

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Speaker 2: Okay, I mean there's the newest friend maybe even okay, okay, okay.

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Speaker 2: So his name is Kevin. He's dating our other college

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Speaker 3: He's not going to be just be like be like.

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Speaker 1: Hey, you know, I'm always going to be honest with you. Right,

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Speaker 1: you're a friend? Yeah, like you're coming to her rescue.

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Speaker 1: And it's like, Kevin told me that he thought your

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Speaker 4: Kevin?

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Speaker 5: What should I.

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Speaker 3: Tell you this conversation?

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Speaker 1: I'm just saying don't ever try and charge me for something.

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Speaker 5: Then I feel like, did you give anybody a warning

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Speaker 1: Tell anyone this was happening? Yeah? Maybe, but not right now.

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Speaker 1: We just have to get Kevin under the bus and quickly.

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Speaker 2: Typing Okay, I just I'm going to say, hey, lady,

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Speaker 2: thanks so much for dinner last night. I'm always honest

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Speaker 1: Well, I think it should write way over the line,

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Speaker 1: really not over the top. Yeah, I think that's difference

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Speaker 5: And I kind of like leaving it as a question

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Speaker 4: Like what no, yeah, yeah, But you can't side with

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Speaker 1: I think you need to build solidarity with her before

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Speaker 3: Questions about just like I can't believe him.

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Speaker 1: And a finger snap emoji, No, any of those up

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Speaker 4: Can't imagine what your group texting your friends, and he

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Speaker 1: All right, Alyssa, have you sent that yet?

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Speaker 1: We'll come back. We'll see if your friend has responded

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Speaker 1: when we continue textual healing. Man, it is tough being

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Speaker 1: better than Brook in a girl's text conversation, but I

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Speaker 1: just am. And you know you gotta use God's gifts

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Speaker 1: Okay. I know it's hard for you to admit that

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Speaker 4: Well you decided, I don't know that. I want to

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Speaker 1: Group decision, but we decided to blame it all on

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Speaker 3: It's a date and one of the girls.

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Speaker 1: I'll read the text generally, what it said was, Hey, lady,

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Speaker 1: just being honest, Kevin messaged me this morning saying your

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Speaker 3: Why is Kevin talking to you? Did? She respond?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Lissa, have you gotten a response?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? I did, I totally got one.

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Speaker 1: What did your friends say?

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Speaker 2: She says, what if Kevin know he can't even cook?

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Speaker 2: And then she's got an egg emoji?

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Speaker 3: I mean it's a good pay.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. She also wrote, so he's lucky that mirror is

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Speaker 1: Oh all right, So okay, So we stirred up a

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Speaker 1: bunch of drama for Kevin. Now hopefully Kevin's not listening

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Speaker 3: But that wasn't productive at all, was it.

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Speaker 5: I think it was because now we can defend Kevin

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Speaker 1: A lot interesting thought, But I disagree. I think we're

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Speaker 4: Comment, but then how do you ever back out and

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Speaker 4: say I don't want to pay it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we need to really get onto her good side

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Speaker 1: before we deliver the bad news.

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Speaker 4: We're gonna sneak attacker that she shouldn't be charging her friends.

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Speaker 1: I think you say totally. I agree, he is so

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Speaker 1: lucky to be with so lucky to be with Mira.

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Speaker 1: say it's so hugging kids.

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Speaker 3: I like the mirror part that I said.

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Speaker 3: That's honest.

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Speaker 4: But then I think that you have to say, well,

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Speaker 1: Let's get to that later. Okay, right, let's just let's

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Speaker 5: I'm ugly too, Let's just do this.

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Speaker 1: I'm kidding. I'm kidding.

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Speaker 3: I don't know. You just think like being direct with

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Speaker 2: Well, yeah, but I kind of like when what Jeff saying, like,

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Speaker 2: do you think it's rude that he said that? Then

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Speaker 1: Ask it exactly. And I think, and I think if

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Speaker 3: Okay, I mean, let's try it.

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Speaker 1: Let's see what she has to say. Okay, go ahead

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Speaker 1: of list so you can send that.

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Speaker 2: Oh oh no, no, I already got it. It's already sent.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Okay, discussing for discussion, I mean, I hope Kevin

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Speaker 3: I mean, for your saying, because.

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Speaker 1: I'm just saying I wouldn't go that far.

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Speaker 3: Somebody's got to tell Kevin that you threw him under

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Speaker 1: A person that was like defending Kevin ten seconds ago,

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Speaker 1: like say, like, if kind of has a point, like

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Speaker 1: a nice call, isn't that what we want?

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Speaker 5: I got?

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, so we're gonna get a response here soon.

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Speaker 1: I call those drama deaths.

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Speaker 3: I got that is good that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe I should have charged him more money. The

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Speaker 2: to charge him double. I'm going to send another request

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Speaker 2: right now.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, what did you do to Kevin Jeffrey?

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Speaker 1: Jeffrey thought it's kind of funny, but you're just making money.

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Speaker 3: I think she's profited. Do you think it's going on

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Speaker 3: the right route right now?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 5: I think now is when you have to defend Kevin

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Speaker 5: and say, look, I think twenty five is already.

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Speaker 1: A lot to ask. Don't do that to the poor guy.

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Speaker 4: Lol. I mean, at this point, are you going to

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Speaker 1: Why would you want to be on Kevin's side, because

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Speaker 1: you he's lucky to be dating mirror. Stop standing up

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Speaker 1: for this guy. But he's nobody. I mean, at any point, Elizabeth,

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Speaker 1: Kevin actually complained during the meal.

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Speaker 2: No, No, he didn't complain at all.

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Speaker 3: He was like, complain maybe maybe this time.

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Speaker 2: Sorry what I say she's writing back already?

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Speaker 1: We didn't send anything.

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Speaker 2: I know.

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Speaker 4: That's how girlfriend text goo Like I have some girls

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Speaker 4: that like text me like one, especially if it's about drama.

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Speaker 2: What she's saying, Well, she said, you don't think it

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Speaker 2: was rude that I asked you for money? Right?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Because I was out a lot of money. People drank

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Speaker 2: a lot of wine.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, not considering the wine you guys doing be wild?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Like you bring your own wine to a dinner

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Speaker 3: Everyone off her wine.

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Speaker 4: No one shows up to a dinner party without a

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Speaker 1: It's just like that's just your thing. You carry wine

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Speaker 4: It's etiquette, Jeffrey, you don't show up to a dinner

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Speaker 5: But now we're in Yeah, this is our end now

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Speaker 5: because she's asking you directly.

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Speaker 1: Yes, So the passive aggressive strategy you worked you whether

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Speaker 1: you guys liked it or not. Now she's asking Alyssa

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Speaker 3: Here's the thing.

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Speaker 4: You can't use rude in your You need to say

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Speaker 4: that it was surprising.

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Speaker 1: That's a good word.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 1: You can even still continue to throw Kevin under the

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Speaker 1: bus if you want to be like, Look, I personally

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Speaker 1: didn't think it was rude, but unexpected, absolutely surprising. You're

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Speaker 2: A dinner party before.

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Speaker 3: And I think that's good.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I like it too. I mean, I think it

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Speaker 2: makes sense because then I'm writing again, writing that fine line.

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Speaker 2: The problem solved.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and then you could say, like I mean, you

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Speaker 4: could even add if you wanted to, it's surprising.

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Speaker 3: We didn't discuss it.

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Speaker 2: It's already sent. I even added a little bit at

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Speaker 2: the end, and I said, maybe if you gave us

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Speaker 5: That was sid You brought it back on to Kevin

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Speaker 4: So do you feel like, I mean, maybe this will

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Speaker 4: bring some closure to the whole thing. You're still going

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Speaker 4: to pay it though, like all your friends are going to.

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Speaker 3: Pay it, right, I have to?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I guess we have to. At this point.

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Speaker 1: You set the tone for.

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Speaker 5: The next inner party.

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Speaker 3: Well, and she's the only one charged at the next

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Speaker 3: inner party.

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Speaker 1: Maybe Kevin's gonna pay for the whole freaking thing.

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Speaker 3: Did she write that?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Yeah she did.

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Speaker 1: Actually, Okay, what'd you say?

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Speaker 2: Okay? Okay, okay, what does it say? Okay? So she

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Speaker 2: wrote back, she says, o, l You'll never believe it.

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Speaker 2: Kevin just paid me twice. I said, thanks for the

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Speaker 2: great dinner. What a kiss. And she's got that like

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Speaker 5: That I hate him.

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Speaker 1: I know, fifty dollars for You'll probably never go back

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Speaker 1: to a second one. Kevin just sounds so punishable.

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Speaker 5: Kevin, Kevin's got money or good for me?

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Speaker 2: That's all I care about all this, alright, all right,

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Speaker 2: I feel.

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Speaker 1: I feel like we've done our job. We've healed you.

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Speaker 1: I feel like I'm sorry, I have done our job. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: thank so, you are welcome.

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Speaker 2: Good luck with this, Alyssa, thank you, thank you, thank you.

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Speaker 1: Make sure to reach out if you ever need help again,

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Speaker 1: but maybe just to me directly and if you get.

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Speaker 5: A vendmor request from the show, pay it because we

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Speaker 5: need money.

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Speaker 1: Forward it Kevin Ken, It's sextual healing. It's Brook and

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Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning

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Speaker 2: Brooking Jeffrey in the morning.