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Speaker 1: King Jules second date date. On a scale of one

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Speaker 1: to ten, how awkward do you think it would be

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Speaker 1: if you went back to somebody's house that you were

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Speaker 1: like on a first date with and you didn't know

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Speaker 1: they were a parent and there was a kid there? Twelve?

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Speaker 1: That's kind of what happened to Mike. Mike emailed us Mike,

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Speaker 1: what's up? How are you? Hey? What's up? Guys? Mike's

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Speaker 1: email said that he met this girl's Scarlett on a

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Speaker 1: dating site, didn't mention that she had a kid, and

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Speaker 1: then you went back to her place and you found

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Speaker 1: that she was a mom. Right, it's kind of a

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Speaker 1: big thing to leave out of your dating profile, right,

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Speaker 1: Did you think you were going back to her house

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Speaker 1: to get lucky? I mean I met him at the

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Speaker 1: beginning of the date, but oh okay, it was like

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Speaker 1: when you went to go pick her up or whatever. Right, Okay,

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Speaker 1: So tell us a little bit about the date and

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Speaker 1: about Scarlett. I mean, she's awesome. It kind of just

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Speaker 1: and all of a sudden, it's just a four year old.

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Speaker 1: Here were you upset that she kept that information from you.

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Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, I guess so, but I could kind

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Speaker 1: of unders and you know, she probably you know, doesn't

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Speaker 1: get a whole lot of dates if she puts that

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Speaker 1: on there, you know, well not to mention that. I mean,

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Speaker 1: it's not her kid, that's dating. Right, What do you

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Speaker 1: do on your date? We just went out to dinner.

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Speaker 1: You know, I had to have her back by nine

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Speaker 1: for the babysitter, right, right, have you ever dated a

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Speaker 1: mom before? First? What did you like most about her?

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Speaker 1: You got an awesome set to humor. She's really beautiful.

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Speaker 1: I mean she's gorgeous, and I felt like I walked

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Speaker 1: I could look past this whole kid thing. I don't know,

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Speaker 1: if you want to put it that way. It may

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Speaker 1: not be the best way to put it to her,

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Speaker 1: but it's the truth. I mean, that's the way it

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Speaker 1: is when you're doing you show up and you're like, oh,

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Speaker 1: Did you? Guys? Just being honest, did she talk a

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Speaker 1: the date end? She and me a hug? Did everything

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Speaker 1: seem cool? Like it seemed like she wanted to go

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Speaker 1: a dad. Yeah exactly, I mean, yeah, yeah. Is there anything? Yeah? Basically,

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Speaker 1: is there anything that happened on the date that you

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Speaker 1: She was super cool about it. But you know, I

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Speaker 1: don't know. No, I think you think of as you

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Speaker 1: broke a glass, I felt like an idiot. I felt

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Speaker 1: like a clutz. How dare you enter a single mother's

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Speaker 1: all right, man, hang on frooking Jubil in the morning.

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Speaker 1: If you're just tuning in for the second part of

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Speaker 1: the second date update. Mike is trying to get ahold

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Speaker 1: of a girl named Scarlett. He met her on a

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Speaker 1: The only thing that Mike can think of that went

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Speaker 1: still the only thing you can think of, Michael, That's

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Speaker 1: You know, I didn't want to. I just don't want

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Speaker 1: Thanks guys, week the scarlet please is Hey Scarlett? How

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Speaker 1: are you? This is Jewil from brook and Jewil in

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Speaker 1: the morning. I'm moving ninety two point five. It's going on.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry for what moving ninety two point five to

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Speaker 1: the radio station. How are you doing? Well? Yeah, I'm

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Speaker 1: I'm calling you because I wanted to talk to you

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Speaker 1: about a mutual friend that we have. Oh is everything? Okay?

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Speaker 1: You recently went on on a date with a friend

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Speaker 1: of mine. He'd like to went out with you, but

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Speaker 1: told you about the date. Yeah. Yeah, he's my buddy. So, like,

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Speaker 1: can't he do that himself. He's been trying to get

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Speaker 1: He said that you were stunning and he was really

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Speaker 1: Do you remember going out with a gun name? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I don't go on a million days. So was there

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Speaker 1: he broke a glass. He said, oh loudly in front

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Speaker 1: saying oh, so, Scarlett, did you say anything to him

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Speaker 1: to try to correct him. Well, I was like in

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Speaker 1: And my son is like a sponge. He does everything

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Speaker 1: he sees and says everything he hears. So you think

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Speaker 1: he's a bad influence because of one word, because of

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Speaker 1: and just heard everything you said. Mike, what it was

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Speaker 1: such a stupid slip up. I can't believe that that's

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, but I'm not going to have my son

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Speaker 1: such a little slipup. Don't you think that they hear

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Speaker 1: like a little, little tiny mistake. No, I'm sorry. No,

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Speaker 1: Tarantino movie. Are you around kids very much? Mike? I

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Speaker 1: be an honest mistake. But at this point, if we're

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Speaker 1: you know, if someone rubs me the wrong writy, that's set. Hey, Mike,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna give you fifteen seconds to please with Scarlett.

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Speaker 1: Make your case, see if you can make this better.

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Speaker 1: I'm really like being honest right now. I almost never cussed.

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Speaker 1: I never say anything like that. In fact, like the

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Speaker 1: you know, I would love to try it again. Scarlett.

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Speaker 1: Did you hear what he said? I mean is that Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm so thrilled that he noticed how clean my mouth. Hey, Scarlett,

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Speaker 1: we will send you guys out on a second date.

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Speaker 1: We'll pay for it if you'd agree to goll with

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Speaker 1: Mike again, will you Well, you know what, if you're paying,

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Speaker 1: I'm not in a position to say, now, yeah, you

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Speaker 1: You know Mike wanted to celebrate by going yeah broken

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Speaker 1: jupil in the morning,