WEBVTT - Stephanie Mills Interview & More

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<v Speaker 1>This is your time to get it off your chest.

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<v Speaker 1>Whether you're making from you on the breakfast club, but

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<v Speaker 1>you got something on your mind. Don't know who's this. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>this is like you trying from Brooklyn. Hey, you should

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<v Speaker 1>get off your chest. Actually was a gad I've never had,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, my whole life. They sung that classic classic

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<v Speaker 1>another bad creation. And I'm trying to say, but I'm

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<v Speaker 1>staring of trying to me respond because he's a little crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm a lot of any right right. So, Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been married for four years. I'm thirty years old. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>and my husband is inconcivrated in the bedroom right now.

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<v Speaker 1>So a long story short, he'd be like tracking me

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<v Speaker 1>on Facebook, on every type of social media. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if he got people, screen recording whatever. But we

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<v Speaker 1>don't go to ready go home that we just got

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<v Speaker 1>caught with a cellphone and they gave him a ticket.

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<v Speaker 1>And then so they took his business for a whole year,

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<v Speaker 1>a whole freaking year. They took his business over the cellphone.

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<v Speaker 1>He goes and get another cellphone, tracking me talking about

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<v Speaker 1>some why I don't even know, on Instagram, just all

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<v Speaker 1>this stupid stuff. And I'm just like, like, what more

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<v Speaker 1>do you want? I'm there for you, your family, aint thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm the only one doing everything. I work and go home.

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<v Speaker 1>That's all I do. I don't even go out. This

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<v Speaker 1>man is on my back. Twenty people A seven. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what to do. Yeah, yeah, but you gotta

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<v Speaker 1>understand that's just all called that's jail related stress. That's

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<v Speaker 1>all that man is miserable little and I try to

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<v Speaker 1>I know he's miserable, and I try to be there

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<v Speaker 1>one hundred and thousand percent. I'm there for him more

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<v Speaker 1>than than I'm here for myself. But I'm emotionally dreamed.

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<v Speaker 1>I keep just be going too much, always accusing me

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<v Speaker 1>and making stuff up and just going crazy. Like so

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<v Speaker 1>I just don't go out. I just stay home. But

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't do that. But you do have to know

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<v Speaker 1>where all that is coming from. That's literally only him

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<v Speaker 1>projecting all his insecurities and fears on you because he's

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<v Speaker 1>in jail. That's it. It's not fair to you. It's

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<v Speaker 1>definitely not. Yeah, So that's what I'm saying, Like, how

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<v Speaker 1>do I go about it? Like? What do you do

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<v Speaker 1>to get locked up? Somebody's messing on her? His old

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<v Speaker 1>us okay, anyway he was doing something right to do it?

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<v Speaker 1>Let me say, I don't know where you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>wrote wrote the paperwork going him, and I thought he

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<v Speaker 1>got brapped up. People that got wrapped up in your life?

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<v Speaker 1>You rather die right here? I have a good one before, Charlomagne.

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<v Speaker 1>What should I do well with your man? Yeah? I

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<v Speaker 1>think that you should. I think that you should have fun,

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<v Speaker 1>but not tell him about the fun that you're having.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't. I think you should have some me time

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<v Speaker 1>to yourself. You know what I'm saying. But but he

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<v Speaker 1>don't need to know all that. Turn your fine? My

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<v Speaker 1>eye phone off. You better get you a Samsung fun

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<v Speaker 1>You better get you a drawing Thank you mama. Hello?

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<v Speaker 1>Who's this? Good job? Called it? From Dave's part? John?

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<v Speaker 1>What's up getting off your chests? Morning? Mary mash Lot

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<v Speaker 1>going on putting real depressed? It's morning. I've been putting

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<v Speaker 1>the You know depression is real? You know guess it is?

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<v Speaker 1>You know I listen to your radio stations. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>never really here touch bace on depression. You out your

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<v Speaker 1>goddamn mind. I gotta look at my shirt, Steve, what

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<v Speaker 1>my shirt said? Anybody even asked you to say you again,

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<v Speaker 1>what did my shirt says Steve depression? Okay, and you

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<v Speaker 1>know it says depression, but also it has pressed on highlighted.

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<v Speaker 1>So even though you're depressed, you got to press on.

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<v Speaker 1>My brother, we talk about depression all the time. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I never really heard talking about we talk about it all.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you think, man? What do you what do

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<v Speaker 1>you think? The mental health conversations are about anxiety depression PTSD?

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<v Speaker 1>Cope with it? Huh with it? I mean I go

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<v Speaker 1>to therapy, I do meditation. Okay, thank you, man. That's

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<v Speaker 1>what I want to know about. Like it's it's hard,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it's hard, and depression it's one of the

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<v Speaker 1>pick things killing people. Yes see, I would tell you

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<v Speaker 1>this thought. With therapy, though, I need to go see somebody. Brother, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of times when you depression, you just need

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<v Speaker 1>somebody to talk to. I would go see a therapist.

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<v Speaker 1>My brother appreciate you. All right? Man? Hello, who's this?

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<v Speaker 1>Sean um or for Connecticut? Man? What's up? Get it

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<v Speaker 1>off your chest? Brother? Man. Yeah, I've got to work

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<v Speaker 1>this morning. I'm working as brother every day. Man. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a metal man, so this is just another regular day.

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<v Speaker 1>No rain, all that. How much? You know what? I

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<v Speaker 1>always wanted to do. What is good enough to tip

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<v Speaker 1>the mail man during Christmas? Man? I never en what

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<v Speaker 1>do people usually tip you? Bro? Oh? I mean I've

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<v Speaker 1>worked mostly in a hood, so you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>I get like weed more than just money. Sometimes I

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<v Speaker 1>get like leaks weed. You get some weed, don't lie, man,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a regular day man. Okay, okay, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>You're aposed to tip your mail man, that's the thing. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he's supposed to tip the mail man. Man. They give

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<v Speaker 1>mean they you usually get like dun get down the

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<v Speaker 1>stars and all that. You're supposed to tip the mail man.

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<v Speaker 1>You ain't get no dunk car in the hood. To

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<v Speaker 1>stop lying to me, he sposed to. Now, let me

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<v Speaker 1>ask you one other question. You have a deliver the

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<v Speaker 1>package you know with some smoke? You said? What? You

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<v Speaker 1>have a delivered the package you knew with some smoke

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<v Speaker 1>or some work or some work to d deliver drug

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<v Speaker 1>laing exactly mat some work some smoke deliver now all

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<v Speaker 1>some real. Some people asked like to um deliver late

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<v Speaker 1>like credit cards or debit cards or like gift cards

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<v Speaker 1>that were like yeah, yeah. For scammers yeah, some scammers.

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<v Speaker 1>I got off for that a lot people. Okay, how

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<v Speaker 1>you with it? No, I don't know. Trying to get

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<v Speaker 1>him a stitch on himself? Ye eat, all right, thank

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<v Speaker 1>you brother. Be safe out there. Have you been down

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<v Speaker 1>there with all them young boys when you're trying to

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<v Speaker 1>talk hip? Now you have delivered from Smoke's talking about

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<v Speaker 1>get it off your chest eight hundred and five eight

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<v Speaker 1>five one oh five one. If you need to ven

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<v Speaker 1>hit this up right now. It's the breakfast club. Go morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Did your time to get it off your chests? Whether

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<v Speaker 1>you're man or blast, so people to have the same instry.

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<v Speaker 1>We want to hear from you on the breakfast club.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell out who's this and what's up? Broken it off

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<v Speaker 1>your chests? Man, don't just this morning man, you and

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<v Speaker 1>me both brother? Yeah, man, you know, just thinking the

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<v Speaker 1>Lord and shouting out my family, my wife and my

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<v Speaker 1>kids to keep going on my way to work this

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<v Speaker 1>morn y'all. Have a blessing. Yeah you going, brother? Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>who's this? This is Jules Jim's one hundred. Hello, I

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<v Speaker 1>Juled Jim's one hundred. Hit it off your chest, he said,

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<v Speaker 1>like a cigarette. It's early, it's early. I didn't have

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<v Speaker 1>t Yes, Well, what's up, I'm gonna get you off

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<v Speaker 1>your chests. You're having a great day so far, so far,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a great day, so many blessings. Um. I do

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<v Speaker 1>have a jury business. It's called Jim Jim's one hundred.

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<v Speaker 1>But every single day I think about my brother that

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<v Speaker 1>is in jail or because of police brutality. Over for

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<v Speaker 1>ten years and then in the morning he's in jail

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<v Speaker 1>because of police brutality. How that happened? He was about

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<v Speaker 1>fifteen years old, and um, he was jumped by police.

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<v Speaker 1>They took him to jail. They had his sign papers

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<v Speaker 1>and he didn't even have his paracter with the damn.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, I'm sorry to confess to something that

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<v Speaker 1>he didn't do. God, I'm sorry about that, Mama. And

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<v Speaker 1>we and see how that can happen. If we've seen

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<v Speaker 1>it happen many times, that's awesome. I even want to

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<v Speaker 1>go visit him and the police one let us visit him.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that allegio? And you go with Jill continued and well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so sorry, mama. Well, well you're my story going,

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<v Speaker 1>my brother's story, So I'm very happy about this. Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you for calling the event with us this morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you so much. That was good day you too. Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>who's this which? Say? Hey April, get it off your chest.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to spread some positivity this morning. I want

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<v Speaker 1>to thank the Breakfast Club for getting me through my

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<v Speaker 1>parents three years. Um, I'm working Arkansas, trump printres not

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of people look like me, so, um, just

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<v Speaker 1>want to thank you guys. We're getting me through the

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<v Speaker 1>past three years. So basically you're saying, we the only

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<v Speaker 1>black people you get to hear from every day. Basically

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<v Speaker 1>that's the reason why we have Basically that is real. Yeah. So,

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<v Speaker 1>like I decided that I needed to make a move

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<v Speaker 1>to get up out of there, and I solely found

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<v Speaker 1>a way out. It's a very topic work of love.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm still working on my business until I can

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<v Speaker 1>afford to move on. Okay, Mama, We'll keep working all right,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, So you guys visiting my Instagram and at

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<v Speaker 1>s E and paxpaq dot com. Um, and to Louie,

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<v Speaker 1>I would love to send you some sinspools Um. I

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<v Speaker 1>created a feminine emergency kit for manisturing people. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes it happened, Yes, girl, I've had plenty of emergencies.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was in love, love love love love to

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<v Speaker 1>send you some sandpool um check on my Instagram at

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<v Speaker 1>sinpac or my website at www dot sinpac f e

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<v Speaker 1>mpaq dot com. Thank you, mama. Hello, who's this can

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<v Speaker 1>yak Jack calling from Detroit? What's up? Bro? What I'm due?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm mad at and that's my day? My daughter came

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<v Speaker 1>and going dotube. Oh they cut the internet off. The

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<v Speaker 1>internet working a little bit. I was trying to you know,

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<v Speaker 1>black man, no cheat? What's up? Traveling man? Black men

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<v Speaker 1>don't cheat? Ay? Question? Do you love the D? Y'all

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<v Speaker 1>love a D, but I don't know about we're talking about?

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<v Speaker 1>What do you mean? Why you gotta ask something to it?

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<v Speaker 1>Why I'm talking about Detroit? Yeah, I'm saying, Hey, I'll

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<v Speaker 1>be trying to go on poor hub. You don't even

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<v Speaker 1>work either, so you know I mean, I've got a

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<v Speaker 1>horror for a brother. You know what I'm saying? You

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<v Speaker 1>are You're more concerned about port Hub or your daughter

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<v Speaker 1>using the YouTube to watch your cartoons? Bro? Like both

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<v Speaker 1>like yeah both, y'all gotta be enter teamed. I understand.

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<v Speaker 1>Goodbye man, all right, get it off your chest. Eight

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<v Speaker 1>hundred five eight five one on five one if you

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<v Speaker 1>need to vet hit this up right now. It's the

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<v Speaker 1>Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club, pointing everybody's d

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<v Speaker 1>e j Envy, Angela yee, Charlemagne the guy. We are

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<v Speaker 1>the Breakfast Club. We got a special guest in the building.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought she was up here before, but now this

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<v Speaker 1>is her first time, this is my first time. Welcome

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<v Speaker 1>all right now, how I want to go back though,

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<v Speaker 1>because this is evident first time. Yes, I knew you

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<v Speaker 1>before you did basketball wives and you were for real,

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<v Speaker 1>for real friends with Jennifer. That's actually how I know you. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>so you were in her wedding. You guys knew each

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<v Speaker 1>other from back in the day, from being in Toronto, right, No,

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<v Speaker 1>for being in Boston or in Boston together boy right, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so no, it's the last the relationship for strange. We

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<v Speaker 1>we you know what we say. It's like a toxic marriage,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it really is. But why y'all have sex

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<v Speaker 1>with the same man. We never had sex with the

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<v Speaker 1>same man. The problem because she was talking about she Nise. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so that's the really you know, But can we get

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<v Speaker 1>to that? I want to start she Nise is my daughter.

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<v Speaker 1>So this is all crazy to me because I watched

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<v Speaker 1>all of that unfold on the show, because you know,

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes it's hard for me to watch it because I

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<v Speaker 1>do know you guys were like best friends for quite

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<v Speaker 1>some time and we were in you know, the Bahamas together,

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<v Speaker 1>wedding together, and so to see your friendship deteriorate the

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<v Speaker 1>way that it has after watching the show, do you

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<v Speaker 1>think that perhaps the show contributes to this because people

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<v Speaker 1>are trying to come up with storylines says things being said.

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<v Speaker 1>You watched the show, You're like, when did that happen?

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<v Speaker 1>This guy edited a certain way. Do you feel like

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<v Speaker 1>your friendship suffered because of it? I feel so so.

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<v Speaker 1>Last season, I genuinely wanted to work on my friendship

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<v Speaker 1>with her because you know, there was so much that

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<v Speaker 1>had happened which had whatever, you know, so I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm past it. You know, I wanted to work on

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<v Speaker 1>the relationship with her. We had our scene on the

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<v Speaker 1>beach that was a real authentic thing. We cried and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, cool, whatever we said back in the day,

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<v Speaker 1>it don't even matter. Like, you know, I love you

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<v Speaker 1>and I care about you, so you know, let's just

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<v Speaker 1>keep doing this so then that actually that was the

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<v Speaker 1>season before the last season, it comes out that she

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<v Speaker 1>was saying things about Chanie. So it was hard for

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<v Speaker 1>me to process, you know, you know she said allegedly,

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<v Speaker 1>she said that, you know, my daughter was a latch

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<v Speaker 1>key kid. For anybody that knows me, I don't care

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<v Speaker 1>who I've dated, what I've done, Like I'm a great mom,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I take care of my kids. You know, from

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<v Speaker 1>day one, I had my daughter pregnant, sixteen, had her seventeen,

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<v Speaker 1>so she'd been rocking with me from day one. So

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<v Speaker 1>that to me was it was her ful because you know,

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<v Speaker 1>Jackie saying something about Chanie is it doesn't matter she

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<v Speaker 1>never met Janie. But Jennifer, you just said you were

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<v Speaker 1>swimming with the dolphins, You're seven years old, You've been

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<v Speaker 1>to birthday party. So I'm kind of like, I know

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<v Speaker 1>we've been through some stuff, but even Tammy and I

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<v Speaker 1>we have never talked about each other's kids. So that

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<v Speaker 1>just really hurt my heart. You still say alleged though, well,

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<v Speaker 1>because I can't give too much away with this season,

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<v Speaker 1>but the truth comes out, you know, and it comes

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<v Speaker 1>out from her. So you know, when she was up here,

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<v Speaker 1>I watched it, and I said to myself, Okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know what the truth was still, but now in hindsight,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like you, you know, you went on the show

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<v Speaker 1>and you played the victim, and you weren't truthful. You know.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, she made she made comments about Malaysia while

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<v Speaker 1>she was up here called or a linebacker and or

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<v Speaker 1>whatever it was. But me while Mala Malaysia was speaking

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<v Speaker 1>the truth. So it's like just say, like, look, you

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<v Speaker 1>know why I was mad at you. I couldn't stand you,

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<v Speaker 1>and I did say stuff about your daughter because I

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<v Speaker 1>was I was upset. I'll take that. But instead you

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<v Speaker 1>you tried to cover it up. But because you know,

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<v Speaker 1>especially with this season, it comes up again, It comes

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<v Speaker 1>up again because everybody knows like you're not being truthful.

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<v Speaker 1>So and it's hard for me to move past that.

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<v Speaker 1>Just how do how do you move when you got

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<v Speaker 1>to kids? This is what I'm saying. So I'm kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like me, not my kids, not my kids, And

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like, you know, I love her to death.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't wish her anything negative in life, better than me,

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<v Speaker 1>but talk about whatever happens happen. Yeah, but you know,

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<v Speaker 1>when it comes to my baby, somebody that you've spent

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<v Speaker 1>time with. And Shanis is so in it and she's

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<v Speaker 1>been the topic of conversation for two seasons, right, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's like she never apologized, never said sorry. Never She

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<v Speaker 1>ended up texting her when we started filming this season,

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<v Speaker 1>which is another thing. I'm like, you know, you could

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<v Speaker 1>have reached out to her pride to filming. Everything's not

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<v Speaker 1>feel the show, everything's not feli show weak. You could

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<v Speaker 1>have reached out to me during the after answerdam and

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<v Speaker 1>been like, you know what, like I want to talk

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<v Speaker 1>to you one to one Chanise. I'm sorry that her

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<v Speaker 1>name is being thrown around like this, but that never happened.

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<v Speaker 1>How hard is it for she needs to She's not

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<v Speaker 1>even really on the show like that. And you know

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<v Speaker 1>she's so like, I mean, she looks how she looks,

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<v Speaker 1>but she's such a sweet soul. So she's just I

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<v Speaker 1>feel bad, and as her mom might feel responsible because

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<v Speaker 1>I'm I'm the one that's on the show, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>so it's not it's not fair to her. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>It's like, why is she always the topic of conversation

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<v Speaker 1>just because you know, she's this beautiful girl that you know,

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<v Speaker 1>women want to hate on because that's all I can

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<v Speaker 1>think of, Like what else could it possibly because you

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<v Speaker 1>want to take a dig at me and that's really

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<v Speaker 1>the way they know to get to you. Yes, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, looked all the therapy and all the Yanla's

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<v Speaker 1>in the world, like when it comes to my kids,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not I'm not her own. All right. We got

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<v Speaker 1>more with Evelyn Lozatta when we come back, don't move.

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<v Speaker 1>It's to Breakfast Club. Good Morning, the Breakfast Club. Everybody's

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<v Speaker 1>DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlemagne the guy we are the

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<v Speaker 1>Breakfast Club were still kicking it with Evelyn Lozada Ye.

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<v Speaker 1>So with Carl, I saw you and Tammy had a

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<v Speaker 1>back and forth over her commenting on his post. Yeah right,

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<v Speaker 1>and you felt like she was being thirsty or whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>but understanding that she was supporting Magda Stallion, do you

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<v Speaker 1>feel like that's I just feel like she should have

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<v Speaker 1>been on Magda Stallion's point page, you know what I'm saying. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>like Carl, it's not like Carl has one hundred thousand

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<v Speaker 1>followers on you know, Instagram, like he's active now, and

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<v Speaker 1>we could talk about the Magda Stallion thing because when

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<v Speaker 1>he we had a conversation that he was going to

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<v Speaker 1>start this record label. We were still together and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna lie. I kind of was like, oh, here

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<v Speaker 1>we go trying to do something, and then I did.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought that he and he was like, you're a hater,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, so for me to see how good

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<v Speaker 1>he's doing with it, Like, I'm like, okay, I have

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<v Speaker 1>to give you credit when credit is due. I have

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<v Speaker 1>to eat Crow. I'm gonna eat because I want him

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<v Speaker 1>to do good, you know what I'm saying, Like, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't hate on him. He does good. Kids are great,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like he is very passionate. People didn't even

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<v Speaker 1>know their affiliation. You really don't. And I thought it

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<v Speaker 1>was some bush I did is way from to get

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<v Speaker 1>more girls. I just was like, really because we were

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<v Speaker 1>still together at the time. I'm like, you, I haven't

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<v Speaker 1>met Megan because we broke up at this By the

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<v Speaker 1>time he started working with Megan, we were done. But

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<v Speaker 1>prior to that, he's like, yeah, you know what, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>thinking about starting a record label. This is he retired.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, oh, like, you throw that money away? All right? Off,

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<v Speaker 1>here we go. Everybody's about to go bro right, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>But he's doing really well and I'm really really proud

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<v Speaker 1>of him. Would you get married again? I would? I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like my first marriage, I was trying to get

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<v Speaker 1>that an it didn't. I couldn't. I couldn't, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I couldn't, but I would. I would get married. I

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<v Speaker 1>love love. I'm a relationship type. I was with one

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<v Speaker 1>for ten years, married Chad. I'm married Chad and with

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<v Speaker 1>Carl for you know, four and a half years. So

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a relationship type. I've seen somebody new. No, you

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<v Speaker 1>know about to go not rab dash it rab kardash

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<v Speaker 1>because if I cauted it him to sound a little funny. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>here you quote it, Sep. You said, Rob Kardashian has

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<v Speaker 1>a big sashi and say it like that. You say

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<v Speaker 1>it again? How she do it? Rob Kardashian has a

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<v Speaker 1>big sausage. Wow? And he said, and you're a squirtter.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wow, Sorry, Grandpa, I'm sorry, So explain that. So

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<v Speaker 1>that really started. I've never I've never seen I've never

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<v Speaker 1>seen his sausage. It just really started off as a bet,

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<v Speaker 1>like I was. Dad was dared. I was dared, and

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<v Speaker 1>I take dared seriously. I was like, don't dare me

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<v Speaker 1>because I'll tweet something crazy. So I wished him I

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<v Speaker 1>had We're cool, never went on a date with I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like he's an amazing father, you know, um, and

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<v Speaker 1>I wish them a happy Father's Day. And I said

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<v Speaker 1>happy because you know, I'm a little crazy. It's a

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<v Speaker 1>happy Father's Day, big Rob. And he was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you. I bet you won't say that to the world.

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<v Speaker 1>I said, don't play with me because I would. He

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<v Speaker 1>was like, no, you won't, and then that's why I

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<v Speaker 1>ended up happening. So it was really just like a

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I took a bat too serious? How did

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<v Speaker 1>you know you're a squirrel? No, that was a joke.

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<v Speaker 1>That was a joke, okay, but in real life, I'm not. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, not even once. No, I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>how to do it. This is awkward. I'm going to

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<v Speaker 1>human reason, I don't know how you're going to human

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<v Speaker 1>was about to go get a shot or something. Just

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<v Speaker 1>tell you know, Envy's a squarter. I heard, yeah, I'm sure,

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<v Speaker 1>I think so I'm definitely going to let's go get

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<v Speaker 1>a drink. Now, you know you got robbed in the gym. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>because after that post, you know Robert the pit. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>did he? Yes? I am so happy in the gym.

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<v Speaker 1>Get robber shot. I think Rob is a nice guy,

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<v Speaker 1>I really really do. I think Rob is a nice guy.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like he has that's the way of turning

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<v Speaker 1>somebody down. No, would you give a shot? What? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>there's a lot. There's a lot. Then she's got to

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<v Speaker 1>deal with the other whole family stuff. And you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I like the family. I feel like the family's cool.

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<v Speaker 1>So they have like haters today turn on you? Yeah, right,

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<v Speaker 1>But I feel like I'm a good person, so that

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't happen. But you know, I think he's he's a

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<v Speaker 1>nice guy. Um. I feel like he has potential for greatness. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and I hope he really keeps kicking ass in the

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<v Speaker 1>gym because I think he's a nice looking man. So

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<v Speaker 1>if he if he gets in the gym and together

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<v Speaker 1>he has an athlete's body, because you like athlete's body,

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<v Speaker 1>athletics body. Would you have a little past that? Now,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll take a little little ball belly. I'll take a

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<v Speaker 1>little ball of belly. I'll take a little ball. Rob.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's go on a day. You would give it a shot?

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<v Speaker 1>I would go on a day. Okay, Rob, there you

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<v Speaker 1>got send me something, Rob. And you know, look, you

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<v Speaker 1>know his mom is dating younger. He could day older.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I mean? But it's you know, there

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<v Speaker 1>you go. Not well, thank you for joining us. Thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>It's Evelyn Lozada. It's the Breakfast Club. Keep the Breakfast

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<v Speaker 1>Club humble with slants of the Breakfast Club. Hate me

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<v Speaker 1>if you want to love me if you want, but

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<v Speaker 1>just use your comments wanting everybody's DJ Envy Angela yee.

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<v Speaker 1>Charlemagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. It's time

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<v Speaker 1>for slander the Breakfast Club, right, We need the humbling,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying. We like to do this

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<v Speaker 1>every now and then, just to keep us humble, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I mean. All Right, Well, let's get to

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<v Speaker 1>a KLA. Good morning guys. Hey, Kelly, who you want

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<v Speaker 1>to slander Charlemagne? Why you want slander Charlemagne. I'm a

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<v Speaker 1>fairly new listener. I've been listening for about two years,

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<v Speaker 1>and um, Charlemagne has been open and honest about what

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<v Speaker 1>he went through at the child in terms of him

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<v Speaker 1>sexual molestation. And you know, I wonder if maybe you

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<v Speaker 1>need to explore that a little deeper in your therapy,

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<v Speaker 1>because out of the three of y'all, Charlotmagne, you are

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<v Speaker 1>the only one that makes so many over the top

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<v Speaker 1>sexual references about man's hearts, about doing things sexually that

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<v Speaker 1>most people don't even talk about in the privacy of

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<v Speaker 1>their own home. And I wonder it's because you have

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<v Speaker 1>residual issues with what happened to you, because it's very

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<v Speaker 1>cringe worthy to listen to you make so many over

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<v Speaker 1>the top sexual reference you do talk about man, but

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<v Speaker 1>a little plane. Yeah, that's a valid point. You do talk, right,

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm not I'm not even just mutinous. I think

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<v Speaker 1>she might be right, But thank you, Kelly. Did you

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<v Speaker 1>hear anything this morning? Uh? Not this morning, so I

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<v Speaker 1>don't kind of room for you this morning. But you know,

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<v Speaker 1>y'all not off the air for another forty five minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>You must have just got in the car when I

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<v Speaker 1>told you didn't hit, when I when you didn't hit,

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<v Speaker 1>when I told Envy that just because a man tells

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<v Speaker 1>you to get on your knees like you used to,

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<v Speaker 1>it might not be a reference. Hear that? Okay, that

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<v Speaker 1>was kind of mile compared to how you Yeah, that

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<v Speaker 1>is right. Did you hear how we tell he was

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<v Speaker 1>gonna fill in his face. I didn't say no, he

0:22:09.280 --> 0:22:13.359
<v Speaker 1>didn't say that. That didn't happen. But thank you, Kelly. Hey, Jason,

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<v Speaker 1>come on to Jason. It was going on envy, Angela?

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<v Speaker 1>What the hell you just saying to Charlotte Man? I

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<v Speaker 1>think here closet everything y'all talk about it comes back

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<v Speaker 1>to some closet homosexual stuff. What's up with that, Charlotte

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<v Speaker 1>Night Like? What you mean an example? What's in my closet?

0:22:34.720 --> 0:22:37.919
<v Speaker 1>I mean an example? Tim? Like this morning I was

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<v Speaker 1>talking about the grouse. Westbrook, you're talking about what baby?

0:22:41.080 --> 0:22:43.360
<v Speaker 1>She was gay? And he's to get on it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I had nothing to do with anything. What are you

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<v Speaker 1>talking about this? Because I don't understand why people just

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<v Speaker 1>jumped to the conclusion that that meant slavery just because

0:22:51.520 --> 0:22:53.359
<v Speaker 1>a man tells another man get on your knees like

0:22:53.400 --> 0:22:55.840
<v Speaker 1>you used to. But that's a conclusion, Russell Westbrook, jump too.

0:22:56.040 --> 0:22:59.480
<v Speaker 1>But why did you go to the home side? Homo

0:22:59.560 --> 0:23:11.879
<v Speaker 1>side is murder? Sir? Oh Roberts, Hey, Robert, how you doing? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>How you doing? I'm good? Who you want to slander?

0:23:16.920 --> 0:23:19.879
<v Speaker 1>Why do you want to slander me? Brother, Man, I

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<v Speaker 1>really started following you on Instagram, Man, all your posts.

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<v Speaker 1>That is a different call with the same hoodie on.

0:23:27.600 --> 0:23:29.119
<v Speaker 1>He got it on? Now? Who do he is it?

0:23:29.200 --> 0:23:32.919
<v Speaker 1>What does it say? Is it? My guy? First enemies?

0:23:33.920 --> 0:23:38.400
<v Speaker 1>I love that brand. I wonder why I love that brand.

0:23:42.200 --> 0:23:45.119
<v Speaker 1>I love that brand. Yeah, you can go to the

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<v Speaker 1>Body of God dot com to get your You know,

0:23:47.640 --> 0:23:49.160
<v Speaker 1>my dad said that the same. Do you own any

0:23:49.200 --> 0:23:50.720
<v Speaker 1>other clothes? You were that same hood the other time?

0:23:51.520 --> 0:23:53.280
<v Speaker 1>Why don't you think it's the same hoodie? It's different

0:23:53.280 --> 0:23:55.520
<v Speaker 1>colors exactly. It might be the same as smells the same.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not one on going on? What was up? Me? Going?

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<v Speaker 1>Who live? Hey? What's up? My Dominican brother? No, you're

0:24:04.680 --> 0:24:06.360
<v Speaker 1>talking to me. I ain't American. I'm nine eat something

0:24:06.400 --> 0:24:11.119
<v Speaker 1>to say West African, sir, No, I'm talking about see Poppy.

0:24:11.600 --> 0:24:14.119
<v Speaker 1>You better tell you beldn embrace that man? Who you

0:24:14.160 --> 0:24:16.520
<v Speaker 1>want to slay? The boy he's doing though? Man, I

0:24:16.600 --> 0:24:17.800
<v Speaker 1>just want to say what a couple two guys on

0:24:17.920 --> 0:24:20.119
<v Speaker 1>the two Guards every morning? Man, y'all funny Charlotte Man,

0:24:20.200 --> 0:24:22.320
<v Speaker 1>the guy I gotta love for you. Man, you even

0:24:22.359 --> 0:24:24.120
<v Speaker 1>funk all the time, and that's a good thing. Well,

0:24:24.160 --> 0:24:26.040
<v Speaker 1>thank you, sir, But this is slaying of the breakfast clubs.

0:24:26.040 --> 0:24:27.800
<v Speaker 1>So we can't talk about the slaying of y'all. Man,

0:24:28.200 --> 0:24:30.640
<v Speaker 1>and I'm slaying to ask you because he's not embracing

0:24:30.720 --> 0:24:33.040
<v Speaker 1>this waffle. Man, he's got to brake that waffle. He

0:24:33.200 --> 0:24:35.200
<v Speaker 1>does embrace it. He eats him all the time. You know,

0:24:35.960 --> 0:24:37.800
<v Speaker 1>he don't hold it down, though. Man, he'd be laying,

0:24:37.800 --> 0:24:40.880
<v Speaker 1>he'd be laying um Charlotte Manus with that man. Yeah,

0:24:40.920 --> 0:24:43.879
<v Speaker 1>I'm not Dominican, man, I'm black. He stopped his pancakes

0:24:43.920 --> 0:24:47.920
<v Speaker 1>and you don't embrace your Dominican side, man, Hi Poppy

0:24:47.960 --> 0:24:54.120
<v Speaker 1>cost he cho him every morning. I'm like, no worry.

0:24:54.400 --> 0:24:56.760
<v Speaker 1>You know you got that though thing you It's almost

0:24:56.760 --> 0:24:58.560
<v Speaker 1>spring time. He'll be out here with the white jeans.

0:24:58.920 --> 0:25:00.880
<v Speaker 1>He'll be full blown. To me, any can buy someone

0:25:00.960 --> 0:25:05.600
<v Speaker 1>Komo style instead, Peace, Poppy? What you calling him? I

0:25:05.600 --> 0:25:09.240
<v Speaker 1>don't know, d Yo. He wanted to play in the dB. Poppy,

0:25:10.560 --> 0:25:12.560
<v Speaker 1>how's it for you? He definitely called you Poppy. D

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<v Speaker 1>This is a slander, man, because I think you're really gay, man,

0:25:15.720 --> 0:25:17.440
<v Speaker 1>I really think you're gay. And be like, because you

0:25:17.840 --> 0:25:30.760
<v Speaker 1>old y'are always so sensitive brows but damn bro, you

0:25:30.920 --> 0:25:35.639
<v Speaker 1>Oh he's got to be so sensitive, so goddamn b Charlomagne. Bro,

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<v Speaker 1>I love you, bro, but you look like a one

0:25:37.600 --> 0:25:48.200
<v Speaker 1>on wallet. Bro. Yes I'm gay, but he's done everything

0:25:48.320 --> 0:25:50.720
<v Speaker 1>about your face. Bro, That's all I'm gonna say. And

0:25:50.800 --> 0:25:55.119
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna go back to every Yo. You need to

0:25:55.160 --> 0:25:58.760
<v Speaker 1>stop playing some real man, some real stuff. Man. You

0:25:58.840 --> 0:26:02.680
<v Speaker 1>don't get paid to play real music. And then y'all

0:26:02.680 --> 0:26:05.560
<v Speaker 1>can always complaining about home. Man. We tired of hearing

0:26:05.600 --> 0:26:09.399
<v Speaker 1>the same stuff and played the same whack. Yes he

0:26:09.480 --> 0:26:13.680
<v Speaker 1>dies for that. You ain't got none for ye. Love

0:26:13.720 --> 0:26:16.960
<v Speaker 1>you laughed like a four year old little girl, and

0:26:17.119 --> 0:26:19.560
<v Speaker 1>you need to fix your whole laugh and sound of fact.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's go to Disneyland, something new for your life. Okay.

0:26:25.960 --> 0:26:27.760
<v Speaker 1>I liked it. I liked it. I liked your slander

0:26:27.840 --> 0:26:30.280
<v Speaker 1>this morning. It started off strong. I don't mind laughing

0:26:30.320 --> 0:26:32.520
<v Speaker 1>like did a little week, but it was strong, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>Bye man, Slander The Breakfast Club eight five one h

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<v Speaker 1>five one keeping lock this to Breakfast Club. Good morning,

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<v Speaker 1>the Breakfast Club. Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee Charlomagne,

0:26:46.320 --> 0:26:48.320
<v Speaker 1>the guy, We all the Breakfast Club. We got a

0:26:48.359 --> 0:26:50.920
<v Speaker 1>special guest. In the beat, we say special guests a lot,

0:26:51.000 --> 0:26:52.800
<v Speaker 1>but sometimes you gotta put a little more sauce on

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<v Speaker 1>it for certain people. Okay, there's a whole legend right

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<v Speaker 1>here named miss Stephanie Mills. Yes, welcome, thank you. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>so excited because I watched you guys all the time

0:27:03.040 --> 0:27:05.639
<v Speaker 1>and listen and everything. I'm excited. You told me that

0:27:05.680 --> 0:27:08.400
<v Speaker 1>I saw you at the Tyler Perry Grand opening. Wonderful.

0:27:08.480 --> 0:27:11.119
<v Speaker 1>Oh that was amazing. It was wonderful. He celebrates that,

0:27:11.320 --> 0:27:14.920
<v Speaker 1>and I was like, Stephanie Mills, listen to the Breakfast Club. Yeah,

0:27:15.680 --> 0:27:20.080
<v Speaker 1>do you quite who? He just made his day? Let

0:27:20.119 --> 0:27:26.080
<v Speaker 1>me just saying when I left, quite like you said

0:27:26.119 --> 0:27:27.480
<v Speaker 1>she could sing that she might not be able to

0:27:27.520 --> 0:27:32.320
<v Speaker 1>see me. Was just having a conversation week about to

0:27:32.359 --> 0:27:34.760
<v Speaker 1>turn by ugly, because you know how women don't say

0:27:34.760 --> 0:27:37.120
<v Speaker 1>to you by ugly. I've never heard anybody just say yeah.

0:27:37.240 --> 0:27:42.080
<v Speaker 1>Nobody said that to me because yeah, it's Felicia and

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<v Speaker 1>the morning Black. Yeah. I mean sometimes my friends saying

0:27:46.640 --> 0:27:48.880
<v Speaker 1>the morning black. Yeah, come on and Blackie, how you doing?

0:27:49.400 --> 0:27:53.320
<v Speaker 1>I never got that one. You never So how did

0:27:53.359 --> 0:27:55.640
<v Speaker 1>you get into the music industry? Let's stalk from the start.

0:27:55.720 --> 0:27:59.520
<v Speaker 1>Let's start from the beginning. I was like seven years

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<v Speaker 1>old and singing, you know, listening to the radio and singing,

0:28:02.320 --> 0:28:06.120
<v Speaker 1>and my sisters used to always, you know, like put

0:28:06.160 --> 0:28:08.040
<v Speaker 1>me in little talent shows and things like that. And

0:28:08.119 --> 0:28:10.960
<v Speaker 1>then I auditioned. I went to the Apollo and I

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<v Speaker 1>won three weeks in a row. And then I auditioned

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<v Speaker 1>for a play called Maggie Flynn that ran on Broadway

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<v Speaker 1>about nine months and that's and from there then I

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<v Speaker 1>had a record out call I knew it was love,

0:28:23.000 --> 0:28:25.680
<v Speaker 1>and the producer Ken Harper heard that record and asked

0:28:25.720 --> 0:28:27.639
<v Speaker 1>me to come down in audition for the Wiz And

0:28:27.760 --> 0:28:29.960
<v Speaker 1>because I had audition for a lot of different things

0:28:30.080 --> 0:28:32.720
<v Speaker 1>and so much rejection, I didn't want to do it.

0:28:32.880 --> 0:28:35.359
<v Speaker 1>My mother made me go, and thank God, before we

0:28:35.400 --> 0:28:38.280
<v Speaker 1>get to the how do you get the record deal? Singing? Okay,

0:28:38.360 --> 0:28:41.720
<v Speaker 1>they heard me sing at the Apollo, and then I

0:28:42.000 --> 0:28:45.800
<v Speaker 1>had to the Broadway show and then Paramount Records in

0:28:45.920 --> 0:28:48.040
<v Speaker 1>a microphone, I got you. What kind of deal was it? Like?

0:28:48.120 --> 0:28:50.240
<v Speaker 1>Did you have business savvy or your parents or I

0:28:50.280 --> 0:28:53.440
<v Speaker 1>didn't have business savvy, but my parents and my family

0:28:53.600 --> 0:28:56.560
<v Speaker 1>managed me well a very very long time. So I

0:28:56.600 --> 0:28:59.560
<v Speaker 1>didn't have business savvy yet at that time. So magically

0:28:59.560 --> 0:29:01.800
<v Speaker 1>you gotta take advantage of early on I got based

0:29:01.880 --> 0:29:06.520
<v Speaker 1>oh yes, make no money no, yes, yes, no, yes,

0:29:06.920 --> 0:29:09.960
<v Speaker 1>yes you will. You still get taken advantage of even

0:29:10.040 --> 0:29:13.920
<v Speaker 1>when you when you were successful, because they employed their

0:29:14.000 --> 0:29:16.440
<v Speaker 1>friends all around you. So you have to be careful.

0:29:16.680 --> 0:29:20.440
<v Speaker 1>How old were you when you played Dorothy and seventeen

0:29:21.560 --> 0:29:23.040
<v Speaker 1>years old? How was that like? Because that's what I mean,

0:29:23.080 --> 0:29:24.760
<v Speaker 1>that's that was his debut if I'm not to say

0:29:24.840 --> 0:29:27.720
<v Speaker 1>that was that was the big thing. Yes, it was wonderful.

0:29:27.800 --> 0:29:30.320
<v Speaker 1>Of the cast. Felicia Rashad was in it. She was

0:29:30.360 --> 0:29:33.800
<v Speaker 1>a munchkin and she played She was the understudy for Glinda.

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<v Speaker 1>It was I've stayed in it five years now. Why

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<v Speaker 1>didn't they use you for the movie though? Because Diana,

0:29:39.480 --> 0:29:41.280
<v Speaker 1>you know, she was a biggest star than me. Ye.

0:29:41.640 --> 0:29:44.520
<v Speaker 1>They hardly ever used the Broadway person for the movie.

0:29:44.560 --> 0:29:47.200
<v Speaker 1>I don't know why, but I was signed to Motown

0:29:47.280 --> 0:29:50.920
<v Speaker 1>briefly and uh, but Diana wanted it. She came to

0:29:50.960 --> 0:29:54.520
<v Speaker 1>the show quite often. Yeah, we lookt out that single

0:29:54.720 --> 0:29:57.640
<v Speaker 1>um something in the Way. Yes, that was written by

0:29:57.680 --> 0:30:01.120
<v Speaker 1>a Jela win Bush. Really wow. Yes, and produce. Yes,

0:30:01.960 --> 0:30:04.960
<v Speaker 1>all the DJs were you? Were you aware of all

0:30:05.000 --> 0:30:08.160
<v Speaker 1>the dj doing their own mixes? No? No, But did

0:30:08.240 --> 0:30:10.880
<v Speaker 1>you see the one with care? And he told me

0:30:10.960 --> 0:30:13.400
<v Speaker 1>I was not aware of that, not at all, not

0:30:13.560 --> 0:30:16.120
<v Speaker 1>at all. No, nobody. You never been in a party

0:30:16.160 --> 0:30:20.400
<v Speaker 1>and heard nobody playing party the clubs or anything like that. Really,

0:30:20.480 --> 0:30:23.120
<v Speaker 1>And now that I'm old, I'm like, I want to

0:30:23.400 --> 0:30:25.760
<v Speaker 1>I want to party and get out there. But I didn't.

0:30:26.720 --> 0:30:28.960
<v Speaker 1>I didn't hang out that much. I was always working.

0:30:29.160 --> 0:30:31.160
<v Speaker 1>You feel like you missed your child in a way. No,

0:30:31.280 --> 0:30:33.080
<v Speaker 1>I think I made it, made up for it in

0:30:33.120 --> 0:30:37.320
<v Speaker 1>my forties. What you doing your forties is gracious. I

0:30:37.520 --> 0:30:42.720
<v Speaker 1>came a little frisky, my boy, what do you call frisky?

0:30:43.760 --> 0:30:46.720
<v Speaker 1>What is frisky? Had a little fun. I was a

0:30:46.800 --> 0:30:50.920
<v Speaker 1>cougar and my party. Oh he's messing with younger man. Yes, okay,

0:30:51.040 --> 0:30:53.880
<v Speaker 1>she said, yes, straight up? Yes, yes? Did they know?

0:30:54.000 --> 0:30:56.720
<v Speaker 1>Did they even know you was forty something? Because I

0:30:56.800 --> 0:31:00.120
<v Speaker 1>always was. I'm always honest. I don't like people that

0:31:00.360 --> 0:31:03.160
<v Speaker 1>say they're not well. I couldn't say. I don't respect

0:31:03.240 --> 0:31:05.400
<v Speaker 1>people that don't own up to their own age. You've

0:31:05.440 --> 0:31:07.440
<v Speaker 1>earned those years, that's right. Well, those the guys that

0:31:07.520 --> 0:31:09.440
<v Speaker 1>were attracted to you too, Like the younger guys were

0:31:09.440 --> 0:31:11.840
<v Speaker 1>always trying to talk to younger guys were always attracted

0:31:11.840 --> 0:31:14.200
<v Speaker 1>to me. They thought I was younger, right, And I

0:31:14.360 --> 0:31:17.720
<v Speaker 1>was like, I'll be younger the baby you were. You

0:31:17.760 --> 0:31:20.960
<v Speaker 1>were sugar mama too, because you had yes And that's

0:31:21.000 --> 0:31:22.600
<v Speaker 1>what I got turned off. I don't want to be

0:31:22.640 --> 0:31:24.680
<v Speaker 1>a sugar mom. You know I was a sugar mama.

0:31:25.440 --> 0:31:27.280
<v Speaker 1>They didn't ask, did they, like, you know, but I'm

0:31:27.520 --> 0:31:32.560
<v Speaker 1>giving like I'm flying first class. We gotta fly first class. Yes, Yes,

0:31:33.480 --> 0:31:42.040
<v Speaker 1>gave a young man miss Mills car a BMW and Mercedes. Wow.

0:31:42.760 --> 0:31:45.240
<v Speaker 1>One guy got too. No, one guy got a BMW.

0:31:45.480 --> 0:31:47.720
<v Speaker 1>One guy gotta that hush money? Why did you do

0:31:47.800 --> 0:31:52.120
<v Speaker 1>that for him? No? I gotta say this. My ex husband,

0:31:52.280 --> 0:31:55.120
<v Speaker 1>Michael Saunders, was the program director for this station, and

0:31:55.400 --> 0:31:57.120
<v Speaker 1>when I walked in here this morning, I was like,

0:31:57.720 --> 0:31:59.640
<v Speaker 1>this is one O five, this is where they used

0:31:59.640 --> 0:32:02.600
<v Speaker 1>to work. Yeah, he got them. All these rooms can

0:32:02.680 --> 0:32:06.480
<v Speaker 1>tell some stories about you. We were divorced by then. Okay, okay,

0:32:06.880 --> 0:32:08.840
<v Speaker 1>well we were still cool. But was it at least

0:32:09.000 --> 0:32:12.160
<v Speaker 1>you outright purchase the car purchase that's nice. I don't matter,

0:32:12.360 --> 0:32:14.240
<v Speaker 1>Like maybe a lease and then you pay make the payments.

0:32:17.120 --> 0:32:20.760
<v Speaker 1>Was the nicest thing anybody ever got you. Uh, I

0:32:21.000 --> 0:32:24.360
<v Speaker 1>have people don't give me present. I've never had a

0:32:24.440 --> 0:32:27.960
<v Speaker 1>man to shollow me. With presidents. I've always bought my

0:32:28.040 --> 0:32:30.600
<v Speaker 1>own president, not even Michael Jacks. Used to date Michael Jacks.

0:32:30.600 --> 0:32:32.360
<v Speaker 1>I used to date Michael Jackson, but we were young.

0:32:32.760 --> 0:32:36.800
<v Speaker 1>I used to date. We dated while he was black.

0:32:38.240 --> 0:32:41.880
<v Speaker 1>That's fine, that's the truth. Yeah, yeah, what was his

0:32:42.040 --> 0:32:45.640
<v Speaker 1>mind set back? He was the most gentle, most kind

0:32:45.800 --> 0:32:48.400
<v Speaker 1>for he never said a bad word about anybody. I've

0:32:48.440 --> 0:32:51.560
<v Speaker 1>never seen him upset, never, and he's not a pedophile.

0:32:51.760 --> 0:32:53.520
<v Speaker 1>When did he start changing, Like when you started seeing

0:32:53.600 --> 0:32:55.480
<v Speaker 1>him lighting his skin and doing stuff for this? I

0:32:55.560 --> 0:32:59.920
<v Speaker 1>think that. I think when he became bigger in entertainment world.

0:33:00.000 --> 0:33:02.000
<v Speaker 1>They always tell you because I was always I was

0:33:02.120 --> 0:33:05.240
<v Speaker 1>too black to this, to that, so they want you

0:33:05.320 --> 0:33:07.760
<v Speaker 1>to cross over, so they tell you you have to

0:33:08.440 --> 0:33:10.760
<v Speaker 1>you know, not sing so soulful not to so I

0:33:10.800 --> 0:33:13.520
<v Speaker 1>think when he crossed over to pop that's when he

0:33:13.600 --> 0:33:16.080
<v Speaker 1>began to change. When he began got all that success

0:33:16.280 --> 0:33:18.360
<v Speaker 1>and he had I believe he had the wrong type

0:33:18.360 --> 0:33:20.200
<v Speaker 1>of people around. When when did y'all break up? Why

0:33:20.200 --> 0:33:21.920
<v Speaker 1>did y'all break up? Why did y'all stop? Because I

0:33:22.040 --> 0:33:25.200
<v Speaker 1>wasn't I didn't want to go to certain people's houses

0:33:25.280 --> 0:33:28.400
<v Speaker 1>for dinner or I didn't want to do that white

0:33:28.400 --> 0:33:31.400
<v Speaker 1>people he started hanging around, Yes, yeah, I didn't want to.

0:33:31.560 --> 0:33:33.760
<v Speaker 1>I didn't want to do that. So why do you

0:33:33.840 --> 0:33:36.800
<v Speaker 1>think he got caught up in the whole pedophile scandy?

0:33:37.440 --> 0:33:40.440
<v Speaker 1>Because Michael liked being around children because they were innocent.

0:33:40.520 --> 0:33:44.000
<v Speaker 1>Even my brother Andre used to hang around Michael, and

0:33:44.560 --> 0:33:47.720
<v Speaker 1>they weren't. They didn't want anything from him. They didn't

0:33:47.760 --> 0:33:50.280
<v Speaker 1>have an agenda. And I think that's why he liked

0:33:50.280 --> 0:33:52.440
<v Speaker 1>being around children. They just liked to play and have fun.

0:33:52.840 --> 0:33:55.120
<v Speaker 1>They didn't have an agenda. But most people around him

0:33:55.400 --> 0:33:57.800
<v Speaker 1>had an agenda. They wanted something. Do you think it

0:33:57.880 --> 0:34:00.200
<v Speaker 1>was strange? And even behavior like staying over with the

0:34:00.280 --> 0:34:02.640
<v Speaker 1>kids or anything like that. I didn't think it was strange. Yeah,

0:34:03.040 --> 0:34:05.200
<v Speaker 1>the public and I think people that are around him

0:34:05.280 --> 0:34:08.360
<v Speaker 1>made it strange and and and because he liked that,

0:34:08.480 --> 0:34:11.480
<v Speaker 1>they made the story. But he's not that. Did you

0:34:11.560 --> 0:34:13.360
<v Speaker 1>guys stay in touch even after all of that, like

0:34:13.560 --> 0:34:15.799
<v Speaker 1>we did when he did the bad video? He called

0:34:15.880 --> 0:34:17.480
<v Speaker 1>me and he wanted my best friend who was Greg

0:34:17.600 --> 0:34:21.759
<v Speaker 1>birds to choreograph the bad video, and um, I got

0:34:21.840 --> 0:34:23.400
<v Speaker 1>in touch and they got in touch with each other,

0:34:23.600 --> 0:34:25.480
<v Speaker 1>and then I went to visit the set. That was

0:34:25.560 --> 0:34:27.520
<v Speaker 1>the first time I ever saw him when he had

0:34:27.600 --> 0:34:31.240
<v Speaker 1>totally changed. What did you think I whisp? I whispered something.

0:34:31.360 --> 0:34:39.320
<v Speaker 1>I whispered something in his area? Get involved though. I

0:34:39.440 --> 0:34:41.560
<v Speaker 1>used to call him all the time, and he used

0:34:41.600 --> 0:34:43.960
<v Speaker 1>to laugh already used to use the word I heard

0:34:44.000 --> 0:34:47.600
<v Speaker 1>Michael was, I heard Michael wasn't he was? He wasn't. Yeah,

0:34:47.680 --> 0:34:51.719
<v Speaker 1>and he was not soft? What about him in competition

0:34:51.800 --> 0:34:55.520
<v Speaker 1>with Prince? I never heard him say anything about Prince. Okay,

0:34:57.920 --> 0:35:01.000
<v Speaker 1>Oh I love TP Yeah, I loved and I could

0:35:01.080 --> 0:35:02.719
<v Speaker 1>say whatever I want. There was used to be a

0:35:02.800 --> 0:35:05.439
<v Speaker 1>time with Teddy. You know, he had food, hot food,

0:35:05.760 --> 0:35:09.120
<v Speaker 1>and nobody could eat until Teddy. And I'd be like, well, hey,

0:35:09.360 --> 0:35:11.839
<v Speaker 1>you know, I'm hungry, I'm gonna eat, and I would eat.

0:35:11.880 --> 0:35:14.720
<v Speaker 1>I could do almost anything Teddy, and it was Okay.

0:35:14.920 --> 0:35:17.080
<v Speaker 1>I watched this documentary. I thought it was amazing because

0:35:17.080 --> 0:35:18.360
<v Speaker 1>I didn't know all those things about him, and I

0:35:18.440 --> 0:35:20.960
<v Speaker 1>thought it was great how he taped himself so they

0:35:21.040 --> 0:35:24.440
<v Speaker 1>had all of these like audio autobiographies from him that

0:35:24.480 --> 0:35:26.520
<v Speaker 1>they could include in it. Right? Where the things that

0:35:26.600 --> 0:35:28.160
<v Speaker 1>you learned about him that you didn't know? Did you

0:35:28.200 --> 0:35:30.440
<v Speaker 1>watch it? No? I knew a lot about Teddy and

0:35:31.320 --> 0:35:34.319
<v Speaker 1>I was supposed to do that documentary, but I chose

0:35:34.400 --> 0:35:35.960
<v Speaker 1>not to. Why did you not do because you know

0:35:36.040 --> 0:35:41.960
<v Speaker 1>too much? No? I just I didn't like the way

0:35:42.000 --> 0:35:46.120
<v Speaker 1>they were putting it together, and just for financial reasons.

0:35:46.360 --> 0:35:48.719
<v Speaker 1>I didn't think that they were giving the people what

0:35:48.880 --> 0:35:50.919
<v Speaker 1>they needed, and I thought other people were making money

0:35:50.960 --> 0:35:53.640
<v Speaker 1>of somebody that they didn't even know. Ye y'all did

0:35:53.680 --> 0:35:56.480
<v Speaker 1>two songs, Field the Fire and Too Hearts? Which one

0:35:56.600 --> 0:35:59.400
<v Speaker 1>was your favorite? Both of them? I loved singing with Teddy.

0:35:59.480 --> 0:36:01.920
<v Speaker 1>He was just a straight up dude. Do you remember

0:36:01.960 --> 0:36:06.000
<v Speaker 1>those recording sessions? Yes? What was it like that party

0:36:06.040 --> 0:36:09.239
<v Speaker 1>in the studio of all business? H Teddy was a lot.

0:36:09.360 --> 0:36:11.359
<v Speaker 1>He was a lot. He was the biggest star at

0:36:11.400 --> 0:36:13.680
<v Speaker 1>that time, and so I would have to say, come on,

0:36:14.160 --> 0:36:16.279
<v Speaker 1>let's do this song and get it over with. As

0:36:16.320 --> 0:36:18.719
<v Speaker 1>Lee Daniels reached out to you about the Teddy Pendergrass, No,

0:36:19.840 --> 0:36:22.040
<v Speaker 1>Charlie Mack was just telling me about it. But I

0:36:22.120 --> 0:36:25.040
<v Speaker 1>know that Tyrese is supposed to do it. Do you

0:36:25.080 --> 0:36:28.839
<v Speaker 1>remember that you don't think tyres can pull it off.

0:36:28.880 --> 0:36:37.680
<v Speaker 1>She's very uncensored, so let's go ahead. Why you know,

0:36:38.040 --> 0:36:41.960
<v Speaker 1>But I was telling the name no that I don't give.

0:36:43.120 --> 0:36:46.680
<v Speaker 1>But I think ted I think Tyrese will do a

0:36:46.719 --> 0:36:50.040
<v Speaker 1>good job. You know. I don't like that he goes

0:36:50.080 --> 0:36:52.439
<v Speaker 1>around saying he was Teddy's son, because I never saw

0:36:52.520 --> 0:36:54.719
<v Speaker 1>him around Teddy at all. Maybe he means like in

0:36:54.760 --> 0:36:58.279
<v Speaker 1>a spiritual sense, like maybe yeah, like that's like a father. Maybe.

0:36:58.320 --> 0:36:59.920
<v Speaker 1>But I think he'll do a good job. I hope,

0:37:00.120 --> 0:37:02.279
<v Speaker 1>And I told Charlie Mac I said, I hope y'all

0:37:02.640 --> 0:37:05.200
<v Speaker 1>be good and stay true to who he was and

0:37:05.320 --> 0:37:07.120
<v Speaker 1>not put a whole bunch of mess in it. Why

0:37:07.160 --> 0:37:08.560
<v Speaker 1>do they do that? I was like, when it comes

0:37:08.600 --> 0:37:10.520
<v Speaker 1>to like Teddy Pendergrass and Michael Jackson's any of the

0:37:10.960 --> 0:37:14.360
<v Speaker 1>great black stars, they always gotta in their lives with

0:37:14.760 --> 0:37:17.320
<v Speaker 1>some mess. But they don't talk about Elvis Presley marrying

0:37:18.200 --> 0:37:21.920
<v Speaker 1>her at sixteen, or they tolerate us in this business.

0:37:22.000 --> 0:37:24.480
<v Speaker 1>They don't celebrate us. But someone needs to make that

0:37:24.560 --> 0:37:26.719
<v Speaker 1>documentary about Elvis. Everyone talks about it, and they don't

0:37:26.719 --> 0:37:28.239
<v Speaker 1>talk about it. They don't talk about this, but someone

0:37:28.320 --> 0:37:31.480
<v Speaker 1>needs to absolutely because so many other you know that

0:37:31.600 --> 0:37:33.960
<v Speaker 1>white artists, that dude, have done the same thing, but

0:37:34.080 --> 0:37:36.320
<v Speaker 1>they don't come after them. It's just like Kaepernick, you know,

0:37:36.680 --> 0:37:40.279
<v Speaker 1>he took a knee for the brutality of policemen and

0:37:40.480 --> 0:37:43.799
<v Speaker 1>no one remembers that, so they're making him this villain

0:37:43.840 --> 0:37:46.520
<v Speaker 1>and he's not. He just stood up for justice because

0:37:46.640 --> 0:37:50.480
<v Speaker 1>police brutality is real. Racism, it's real. I just experienced

0:37:50.560 --> 0:37:54.040
<v Speaker 1>racism at the Guardia airport yesterday. Coming in. We had

0:37:54.120 --> 0:37:55.919
<v Speaker 1>gotten the car you know how you get the cart

0:37:56.120 --> 0:37:58.480
<v Speaker 1>from the lady that does my hair, Karina, and she

0:37:58.600 --> 0:37:59.920
<v Speaker 1>had her hand on it, so she asked the guy,

0:38:00.160 --> 0:38:02.400
<v Speaker 1>can you help us? And she was like pulling the

0:38:02.480 --> 0:38:05.759
<v Speaker 1>cart and the guy just totally ignored us. And then

0:38:05.800 --> 0:38:07.520
<v Speaker 1>this white woman came and put her bag on the

0:38:07.600 --> 0:38:09.600
<v Speaker 1>cart and he helped her. And I told him, I said,

0:38:09.600 --> 0:38:13.000
<v Speaker 1>you're ignoring us. He was something else. He was okay,

0:38:13.200 --> 0:38:16.080
<v Speaker 1>Spanish or something else, because I call a black person

0:38:16.120 --> 0:38:18.440
<v Speaker 1>out quick for that. Oh yeah, but we're the worst,

0:38:18.800 --> 0:38:20.880
<v Speaker 1>you know, we are the worst against each other. I mean,

0:38:20.960 --> 0:38:23.799
<v Speaker 1>we're so racist against each other. We don't support each

0:38:23.840 --> 0:38:25.680
<v Speaker 1>other the way we should, and we shouldn't then we

0:38:25.760 --> 0:38:28.440
<v Speaker 1>always want to cry. I hate that we you know,

0:38:28.719 --> 0:38:32.600
<v Speaker 1>and all this botox. And well, let's talk about this

0:38:32.680 --> 0:38:37.239
<v Speaker 1>book and your sons as a book. Yes, and your

0:38:37.280 --> 0:38:39.360
<v Speaker 1>son has special needs? Yes, my son come here for

0:38:39.480 --> 0:38:42.600
<v Speaker 1>hot Rod? Say hello, you gotta be careful with or

0:38:42.640 --> 0:38:43.759
<v Speaker 1>with our stuff in here too? It is a week.

0:38:43.920 --> 0:38:47.640
<v Speaker 1>Good morning. And first of all, how was it raising

0:38:47.680 --> 0:38:50.239
<v Speaker 1>a sou special needcause you travel? I know it's a lot.

0:38:50.680 --> 0:38:53.360
<v Speaker 1>I had him when I was forty five and I

0:38:53.560 --> 0:38:56.920
<v Speaker 1>was I was really wanting to have a child. I

0:38:56.960 --> 0:38:59.640
<v Speaker 1>didn't want that time to pass me by. So I

0:38:59.800 --> 0:39:02.000
<v Speaker 1>was told that three months that my son was going

0:39:02.040 --> 0:39:03.320
<v Speaker 1>to be a special lead. But I was like, I

0:39:03.360 --> 0:39:05.400
<v Speaker 1>don't care if he has one eye or whatever. This

0:39:05.560 --> 0:39:08.200
<v Speaker 1>is my baby. We're gonna rock this world together. And

0:39:08.280 --> 0:39:12.160
<v Speaker 1>that's what I want to talk about this book that

0:39:12.320 --> 0:39:14.719
<v Speaker 1>that he wrote. The talk about this book a little bit.

0:39:14.800 --> 0:39:18.040
<v Speaker 1>What's the name of your book, baby Cranks? And what's

0:39:18.080 --> 0:39:22.160
<v Speaker 1>the name of it? The Adventures and for Rod? Yeah, okay,

0:39:23.360 --> 0:39:24.719
<v Speaker 1>tell us about the book. What is the book, what

0:39:24.880 --> 0:39:27.560
<v Speaker 1>is the book about? What is about cranks? Panks? He

0:39:27.719 --> 0:39:29.960
<v Speaker 1>likes to do pranks, but he wanted to show that

0:39:30.120 --> 0:39:32.520
<v Speaker 1>you could do pranks and be safe. Do you hear

0:39:32.600 --> 0:39:39.200
<v Speaker 1>your mom? He's pretty Uh yeah? Who's your favorite artist? Tupa?

0:39:40.800 --> 0:39:44.279
<v Speaker 1>What can he do a little bit of it? Come

0:39:44.400 --> 0:39:50.520
<v Speaker 1>with me and Mary on what do it happen? Now?

0:39:51.360 --> 0:39:57.279
<v Speaker 1>Whe Nah? Then love it? Did you like the Tupac movie?

0:39:57.520 --> 0:39:59.759
<v Speaker 1>Did you like the All Eyes on Me movie? Yeah?

0:40:00.000 --> 0:40:02.960
<v Speaker 1>How do you get into Tupac? Him listening? He's a mother.

0:40:06.719 --> 0:40:10.239
<v Speaker 1>I could have been two girlfriend. Okay. He tried to

0:40:10.280 --> 0:40:16.759
<v Speaker 1>hollog you before. No, his girlfriend. I like, I like

0:40:17.280 --> 0:40:20.160
<v Speaker 1>that kind of guy, like, oh you like them? Thugs

0:40:21.640 --> 0:40:26.160
<v Speaker 1>like that? Oh I do? I liked Yes, I like thugs. Yeah,

0:40:26.600 --> 0:40:31.800
<v Speaker 1>educated ones former thus yeah, yes, thank you. How is

0:40:31.880 --> 0:40:34.480
<v Speaker 1>raising that special needs on me? Is you stronger? It's

0:40:34.560 --> 0:40:39.640
<v Speaker 1>given me patience and there's a love. You know with

0:40:39.800 --> 0:40:43.400
<v Speaker 1>any child you loved them, but he just he's I

0:40:43.520 --> 0:40:45.520
<v Speaker 1>feel like he's my gift. God gave me a gift.

0:40:45.680 --> 0:40:47.719
<v Speaker 1>He gave me the perfect child for me because for

0:40:47.840 --> 0:40:50.200
<v Speaker 1>ride when he was small, he didn't cry. I'd get

0:40:50.280 --> 0:40:52.520
<v Speaker 1>up in the morning, have to do TV whatever. He's

0:40:52.560 --> 0:40:55.600
<v Speaker 1>always traveled with me, and he's in a student he's

0:40:55.640 --> 0:40:59.759
<v Speaker 1>on the computer now, academy. He's homeschooled. I mainstreamed him

0:40:59.800 --> 0:41:02.480
<v Speaker 1>from kindergarten fifth grade, and then I didn't want him

0:41:02.520 --> 0:41:04.920
<v Speaker 1>to go to middle school. Middle school? How was that

0:41:05.000 --> 0:41:06.880
<v Speaker 1>with because I know kids could be so mean and

0:41:06.960 --> 0:41:09.320
<v Speaker 1>so nasty together, well, I had I had a teacher

0:41:09.760 --> 0:41:12.880
<v Speaker 1>go to school with him, and I go up to school. Everything.

0:41:13.120 --> 0:41:15.359
<v Speaker 1>Somebody messed with my job. They're gonna have to deal

0:41:15.400 --> 0:41:17.640
<v Speaker 1>with me. How did the book come about? Was he like,

0:41:17.680 --> 0:41:20.920
<v Speaker 1>I want to His teacher when he would finish his work,

0:41:21.000 --> 0:41:23.360
<v Speaker 1>would let him write. So one day she came to me,

0:41:23.440 --> 0:41:27.320
<v Speaker 1>she said, your son, right, he writes stories and books.

0:41:27.440 --> 0:41:30.160
<v Speaker 1>We should put it together. I said, really, So she

0:41:30.280 --> 0:41:32.520
<v Speaker 1>gave me some papers that he had written, and I

0:41:32.640 --> 0:41:34.400
<v Speaker 1>was like, this is really good. And that's how it

0:41:34.480 --> 0:41:36.880
<v Speaker 1>came came about. You said you had him when he

0:41:36.960 --> 0:41:38.839
<v Speaker 1>was forty five. It is because when you were younger,

0:41:38.880 --> 0:41:40.759
<v Speaker 1>they would tell y'all focused on your career and focus

0:41:40.840 --> 0:41:43.279
<v Speaker 1>on the business. No. I had been married a couple

0:41:43.320 --> 0:41:45.120
<v Speaker 1>of times, and I had tried to have children, and

0:41:45.160 --> 0:41:47.880
<v Speaker 1>I had problems getting pregnant. So at forty five, I

0:41:48.040 --> 0:41:50.200
<v Speaker 1>was determined that I was going to get pregnant and

0:41:50.320 --> 0:41:51.880
<v Speaker 1>have a child. I always wonder how come like when

0:41:52.080 --> 0:41:54.400
<v Speaker 1>when you have a very Gordy who was so established

0:41:54.440 --> 0:41:56.680
<v Speaker 1>and you know, put so many black artists on, why

0:41:56.800 --> 0:42:00.799
<v Speaker 1>wasn't it more black executives at at helms, at these

0:42:00.840 --> 0:42:03.279
<v Speaker 1>record labels instead of all of these coachiallycluis white people.

0:42:03.960 --> 0:42:07.840
<v Speaker 1>That's my problem. I don't understand because they don't understand us.

0:42:08.120 --> 0:42:10.640
<v Speaker 1>So how can you tell? Like I used to have

0:42:10.800 --> 0:42:16.560
<v Speaker 1>a at MCA, you know, Gladys Night, myself, Mary J. Blige,

0:42:16.640 --> 0:42:18.600
<v Speaker 1>she came in at the end, and all of us

0:42:18.719 --> 0:42:21.480
<v Speaker 1>was on the label at that time, and we all

0:42:21.560 --> 0:42:23.920
<v Speaker 1>would come out, you know, and we all got together,

0:42:24.040 --> 0:42:26.800
<v Speaker 1>we would tour together and it was peaceful. But we

0:42:27.120 --> 0:42:29.800
<v Speaker 1>I had one executive there and he wasn't white, he

0:42:29.920 --> 0:42:35.600
<v Speaker 1>was black. That totally worked against me. Wow, yes, okay,

0:42:35.719 --> 0:42:38.640
<v Speaker 1>But what I don't understand is they see you the

0:42:38.760 --> 0:42:40.839
<v Speaker 1>way they are. White people see you the way they are,

0:42:41.160 --> 0:42:43.560
<v Speaker 1>the way you are. There's nothing that you can do

0:42:43.719 --> 0:42:46.800
<v Speaker 1>that's going to make them like you more. It's just

0:42:46.920 --> 0:42:49.960
<v Speaker 1>like what Tyler Perry said, you know, Hollywood totally ignores

0:42:50.080 --> 0:42:53.360
<v Speaker 1>him and he built this fabulous place and it was

0:42:53.440 --> 0:42:57.480
<v Speaker 1>only us there a sprinkle of them, right, it was beautiful.

0:42:57.800 --> 0:43:04.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna say this, Um, I think entertainers of today

0:43:05.000 --> 0:43:07.880
<v Speaker 1>don't look at me as able to give them advice.

0:43:08.000 --> 0:43:09.719
<v Speaker 1>Why do you think Why you say that? Because they

0:43:10.000 --> 0:43:12.279
<v Speaker 1>would never take First of all, their handlers will keep

0:43:12.320 --> 0:43:14.319
<v Speaker 1>you away from them, because I would honestly tell them

0:43:14.400 --> 0:43:17.400
<v Speaker 1>the truth. I did the Whiz life with Mary. I

0:43:17.520 --> 0:43:20.080
<v Speaker 1>did you know with Mary and Queen Latifa and Neo

0:43:20.160 --> 0:43:22.319
<v Speaker 1>and all of them. I've been around that a couple

0:43:22.320 --> 0:43:23.960
<v Speaker 1>of years ago. Yeah, a couple of years and you

0:43:24.080 --> 0:43:26.080
<v Speaker 1>tried to talk to her, and now I didn't try

0:43:26.120 --> 0:43:28.320
<v Speaker 1>to talk to her. I would never approach No, but

0:43:28.360 --> 0:43:30.080
<v Speaker 1>they've never come up to me and ask me anything.

0:43:30.200 --> 0:43:34.040
<v Speaker 1>Maybe they feel intimidated. I don't think so. Oh no,

0:43:34.200 --> 0:43:36.839
<v Speaker 1>Why would you feel intimidated because people will look up

0:43:36.880 --> 0:43:40.000
<v Speaker 1>to you. I don't think so. I just you. I

0:43:40.080 --> 0:43:42.799
<v Speaker 1>don't think so. Charlomagne and I'm touching you, but I'm

0:43:42.840 --> 0:43:45.560
<v Speaker 1>just the touchy I don't mind. I mean, you met

0:43:45.600 --> 0:43:48.480
<v Speaker 1>my wife, but it is beautiful. Thank you. I'm so

0:43:48.640 --> 0:43:53.520
<v Speaker 1>glad she's dark black yes right black, yes, yes, yes,

0:43:53.880 --> 0:43:56.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm so glad when it comes to the music, right

0:43:56.080 --> 0:43:58.600
<v Speaker 1>when you do music, do you think did you used

0:43:58.600 --> 0:44:00.640
<v Speaker 1>to think about making songs that would be on the radio,

0:44:01.080 --> 0:44:02.880
<v Speaker 1>that would be hit songs, or just songs that you

0:44:02.920 --> 0:44:05.000
<v Speaker 1>were like, this is just a dope song. When I

0:44:05.160 --> 0:44:08.560
<v Speaker 1>was younger, uh, they used to make those decisions for me.

0:44:08.680 --> 0:44:10.600
<v Speaker 1>But then when as I got older, I didn't care.

0:44:10.680 --> 0:44:14.359
<v Speaker 1>I didn't care about being politically correct. I didn't care

0:44:14.440 --> 0:44:16.920
<v Speaker 1>about oh, you have to wear this, you have to

0:44:17.000 --> 0:44:19.239
<v Speaker 1>be this. I didn't care about any of that. Are

0:44:19.280 --> 0:44:23.120
<v Speaker 1>you still doing music now? No, it's different. I can't

0:44:23.160 --> 0:44:25.200
<v Speaker 1>just come out with the song and play and then

0:44:25.239 --> 0:44:26.880
<v Speaker 1>there's all us payola. I don't want to pay a

0:44:26.880 --> 0:44:29.400
<v Speaker 1>one hundred thousand dollars to get my brecket play. Damn vy,

0:44:29.440 --> 0:44:33.319
<v Speaker 1>that's something I don't want to play. Yeah, I don't

0:44:33.360 --> 0:44:36.440
<v Speaker 1>want to pay. I don't want to pay. I don't

0:44:36.480 --> 0:44:38.120
<v Speaker 1>want to pay. I don't want to play the games

0:44:38.239 --> 0:44:41.520
<v Speaker 1>that they want you to play. Now, I just yeah,

0:44:41.640 --> 0:44:44.080
<v Speaker 1>you know you don't know some radio now because you

0:44:44.160 --> 0:44:47.680
<v Speaker 1>don't because you can. But I haven't felt like recording.

0:44:47.760 --> 0:44:49.680
<v Speaker 1>I do things when I feel like it. Right What

0:44:49.760 --> 0:44:52.120
<v Speaker 1>would be your dream tour? Right now? You and who like?

0:44:52.520 --> 0:44:55.719
<v Speaker 1>Oh me, Well, I'm doing a show with SHACKA, but

0:44:55.760 --> 0:45:01.040
<v Speaker 1>I would love talking shot up when I see shock,

0:45:01.080 --> 0:45:03.160
<v Speaker 1>I say hey, bitch, and she says hey, that's how,

0:45:04.440 --> 0:45:07.320
<v Speaker 1>that's why, that's why. That's how I greet out like

0:45:07.360 --> 0:45:10.880
<v Speaker 1>hey bitch. She's like hey ho and then she said, oh,

0:45:10.960 --> 0:45:13.040
<v Speaker 1>you're so cute. I say, oh, you look so good.

0:45:13.640 --> 0:45:15.799
<v Speaker 1>So it's but I would love to do a tour

0:45:15.880 --> 0:45:20.520
<v Speaker 1>with Shaka Anita and myself or Gladys and I would

0:45:20.640 --> 0:45:23.080
<v Speaker 1>just love because the country people do it all the time.

0:45:23.760 --> 0:45:26.040
<v Speaker 1>That would be an amazing tour. They do it all

0:45:26.120 --> 0:45:28.839
<v Speaker 1>the time. Why can't we. I feel like a lot

0:45:28.920 --> 0:45:30.520
<v Speaker 1>of these young women look up to you, but you

0:45:30.560 --> 0:45:33.080
<v Speaker 1>don't realize that. And I think that they would love

0:45:33.520 --> 0:45:36.480
<v Speaker 1>to connect with you. Well, I connect with Monica. I love.

0:45:38.960 --> 0:45:42.880
<v Speaker 1>I mean, yes, I love Monica. I love because you're

0:45:42.880 --> 0:45:46.279
<v Speaker 1>on the same type of energy. Yes we are why

0:45:46.400 --> 0:45:49.319
<v Speaker 1>She's real and I am too. You know what I'm saying.

0:45:52.080 --> 0:45:54.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm just saying that I would like if I come

0:45:54.160 --> 0:45:57.960
<v Speaker 1>off and I'll say, yes, it's too late now, but

0:45:58.160 --> 0:46:01.640
<v Speaker 1>Pop scaresway Pops. I'm sorry. But if I thought you

0:46:01.760 --> 0:46:08.840
<v Speaker 1>just said if you you know, I was like no, no, no, no,

0:46:09.120 --> 0:46:11.759
<v Speaker 1>I was like no, I was like, I'll you up,

0:46:11.880 --> 0:46:13.440
<v Speaker 1>Like that's what I said. I don't feel like the

0:46:13.520 --> 0:46:18.320
<v Speaker 1>real stories are y'all are being told, Like, no, they're not.

0:46:18.760 --> 0:46:20.759
<v Speaker 1>They're not because the white people telling them. It's white

0:46:20.800 --> 0:46:23.080
<v Speaker 1>people telling them, and you can't. It's just like Betty

0:46:23.160 --> 0:46:26.160
<v Speaker 1>Boop was a black woman and she's colored as a

0:46:26.200 --> 0:46:28.600
<v Speaker 1>white woman. It's you know, it's like they take out

0:46:29.239 --> 0:46:31.279
<v Speaker 1>and run with it. So how do we get those

0:46:31.320 --> 0:46:33.600
<v Speaker 1>real stories told? Like do you write books? Like what

0:46:33.680 --> 0:46:35.759
<v Speaker 1>do you do? You have to work with the work

0:46:35.800 --> 0:46:37.920
<v Speaker 1>with the people that are that are doing the stories,

0:46:37.960 --> 0:46:40.080
<v Speaker 1>like Tyler would tell a real story. Would you ever

0:46:40.160 --> 0:46:43.000
<v Speaker 1>write a book? Not a book about myself. I probably

0:46:43.040 --> 0:46:45.600
<v Speaker 1>write a book on how to raise a baby. I'm

0:46:45.640 --> 0:46:47.479
<v Speaker 1>part of us. Yeah, but I wouldn't write a book

0:46:47.680 --> 0:46:50.680
<v Speaker 1>things that that I didn't experience going to with me

0:46:50.800 --> 0:46:52.720
<v Speaker 1>to my grade. I need to hear these stories about

0:46:52.760 --> 0:46:55.640
<v Speaker 1>like just even marriage and being in such a high

0:46:55.719 --> 0:46:58.239
<v Speaker 1>profile business, being on the road. You know, I don't

0:46:58.280 --> 0:47:00.680
<v Speaker 1>think I'm good at marriage. I don't think i'm good

0:47:00.719 --> 0:47:02.600
<v Speaker 1>at man. I've been married three times. I've been married

0:47:02.640 --> 0:47:04.680
<v Speaker 1>me though, you say you're not good at I'm craziest,

0:47:05.200 --> 0:47:11.200
<v Speaker 1>you know, I mean, oh, do you think you're crazy? Well?

0:47:11.239 --> 0:47:16.680
<v Speaker 1>You know, I suffer with depression. I got depression, and

0:47:17.040 --> 0:47:19.960
<v Speaker 1>I just think people a man, I didn't know how

0:47:19.960 --> 0:47:22.520
<v Speaker 1>to handle me, so that thing. Now, I probably would

0:47:22.520 --> 0:47:24.560
<v Speaker 1>be a better partner because I'm really at peace with

0:47:24.680 --> 0:47:27.560
<v Speaker 1>myself and I know myself. But back then I wasn't well.

0:47:27.600 --> 0:47:30.040
<v Speaker 1>Back then people there was such a stigma around mental health.

0:47:30.080 --> 0:47:31.920
<v Speaker 1>We didn't talk about mental health in the black community.

0:47:32.080 --> 0:47:34.600
<v Speaker 1>I have suffered with it since I was thirty five,

0:47:34.880 --> 0:47:37.319
<v Speaker 1>but didn't know what it was until I started going

0:47:37.400 --> 0:47:39.560
<v Speaker 1>to see my psychiatrists and things like that. So how

0:47:39.560 --> 0:47:40.879
<v Speaker 1>do you expect a man to know you just think

0:47:40.880 --> 0:47:43.000
<v Speaker 1>you're tripping? I know you just don't like being married

0:47:43.000 --> 0:47:47.320
<v Speaker 1>because you liked popping that. No, I don't. I don't.

0:47:47.880 --> 0:47:51.000
<v Speaker 1>If you were ever gonna tell your story, where would

0:47:51.040 --> 0:47:55.440
<v Speaker 1>your story start? In Brooklyn? Growing up? My heroes are

0:47:55.520 --> 0:47:58.000
<v Speaker 1>my mother and my father. My mother was a new joke.

0:47:58.120 --> 0:48:00.480
<v Speaker 1>She took no prisoners, and my father was just a

0:48:00.600 --> 0:48:04.239
<v Speaker 1>gentle giant. But it would start there and growing up

0:48:04.280 --> 0:48:08.040
<v Speaker 1>and my family, and because it wasn't always easy for me,

0:48:08.239 --> 0:48:10.080
<v Speaker 1>you know, being in the business and being young and

0:48:10.640 --> 0:48:13.680
<v Speaker 1>having sisters and jealousy and things like that. So I

0:48:14.120 --> 0:48:16.200
<v Speaker 1>went through a lot. My life has not been easy.

0:48:16.520 --> 0:48:17.719
<v Speaker 1>And you guys, why you gotta tell you the third

0:48:17.719 --> 0:48:19.640
<v Speaker 1>because if you're doing a white person will and a

0:48:19.760 --> 0:48:22.359
<v Speaker 1>white person better not tell my story, but what they're doing,

0:48:23.200 --> 0:48:26.880
<v Speaker 1>what you saw leland Land. I don't like anything that

0:48:26.920 --> 0:48:28.719
<v Speaker 1>they did on Michael. You know, I think I think

0:48:28.760 --> 0:48:30.920
<v Speaker 1>they make fun of us, Like I never wanted to

0:48:31.000 --> 0:48:33.320
<v Speaker 1>sit at their table. I wanted to do something with

0:48:33.400 --> 0:48:34.840
<v Speaker 1>an artist. I'm not going to say their name, so

0:48:34.920 --> 0:48:38.640
<v Speaker 1>don't ask me Charlemagne. And they were like, well, your

0:48:38.719 --> 0:48:41.840
<v Speaker 1>audience is too black. I'm on television, so my audience

0:48:41.960 --> 0:48:46.040
<v Speaker 1>is pop. So a black person, a black woman and

0:48:46.880 --> 0:48:49.920
<v Speaker 1>she's a singer, and um, I was like, well we

0:48:50.000 --> 0:48:52.399
<v Speaker 1>could go out and do know your audience is too black.

0:48:52.480 --> 0:48:54.920
<v Speaker 1>But you know what, I'm good on my audience being

0:48:54.960 --> 0:48:57.840
<v Speaker 1>too black. I don't care. They were my age, and

0:48:57.920 --> 0:48:59.640
<v Speaker 1>I bet you right now they wanted the people that

0:48:59.760 --> 0:49:03.160
<v Speaker 1>act so black, so pro black. They don't know this

0:49:03.320 --> 0:49:06.360
<v Speaker 1>pop woman was on TV. You said she was a sitcom?

0:49:06.520 --> 0:49:08.600
<v Speaker 1>What was it? She was on TV a white show

0:49:08.960 --> 0:49:13.640
<v Speaker 1>when she fro New York sing on a white show.

0:49:14.200 --> 0:49:16.319
<v Speaker 1>She's a Broadway star. She's done a lot, but I'm

0:49:16.360 --> 0:49:20.560
<v Speaker 1>not gonna tell you so don't Broadway singing. Google, let

0:49:20.600 --> 0:49:23.919
<v Speaker 1>me see Broadway. I'm gonna put Broadway star on black,

0:49:23.960 --> 0:49:28.440
<v Speaker 1>Broadway star on white TV show that I'm gona hold on,

0:49:28.520 --> 0:49:31.000
<v Speaker 1>hold on, let me see what comes up. You're not

0:49:31.120 --> 0:49:33.120
<v Speaker 1>gonna figure it out. I like your necklace. What's the

0:49:33.280 --> 0:49:38.360
<v Speaker 1>range we're on? My age? I think I'm younger. I

0:49:38.400 --> 0:49:41.520
<v Speaker 1>think i'm older. Yeah, I have no idea who you're

0:49:41.560 --> 0:49:44.520
<v Speaker 1>talking about. But it's okay. It's cool because you know, No,

0:49:44.640 --> 0:49:48.640
<v Speaker 1>it was a while ago. I wanted she's still alive.

0:49:48.800 --> 0:49:51.080
<v Speaker 1>You ever had to put hands on anybody? How many people?

0:49:51.160 --> 0:49:58.879
<v Speaker 1>That's the question. I'll fight. I'll fight even today. I will. Yeah,

0:49:59.040 --> 0:50:03.279
<v Speaker 1>she said, even today fighting over the last fight I

0:50:03.360 --> 0:50:05.680
<v Speaker 1>got into. I don't know. I haven't fought in a

0:50:05.719 --> 0:50:07.640
<v Speaker 1>long time. You used to fight other women, like when

0:50:07.680 --> 0:50:09.960
<v Speaker 1>you were Oh no, I don't marry. I don't. I

0:50:10.000 --> 0:50:12.279
<v Speaker 1>don't believe that women should fight other women about man,

0:50:12.719 --> 0:50:14.520
<v Speaker 1>what if you caught her in your bed, in your

0:50:14.600 --> 0:50:18.279
<v Speaker 1>house and I'm kicking that ass? Right? Yeah? Yeah? Have

0:50:18.400 --> 0:50:34.840
<v Speaker 1>you ever cheated? She's talking to you? KISSI tells what

0:50:35.000 --> 0:50:36.640
<v Speaker 1>artists you put hands I know you don't put hands

0:50:36.680 --> 0:50:39.560
<v Speaker 1>on the artist before. I don't think I have. I

0:50:39.600 --> 0:50:41.520
<v Speaker 1>would remember, I wouldn't put hands on the artist. But

0:50:41.600 --> 0:50:44.080
<v Speaker 1>now a promota, you're gonna beat up some promoter. They

0:50:44.080 --> 0:50:46.839
<v Speaker 1>don't pay your money. I've got my money. I can

0:50:46.880 --> 0:50:48.600
<v Speaker 1>tell you a story, but i'm not. Come on, I'm not.

0:50:48.800 --> 0:50:51.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm not because I can tell you a story, but

0:50:51.120 --> 0:50:55.120
<v Speaker 1>i'm not. You don't money. We were in the studio

0:50:55.760 --> 0:50:58.520
<v Speaker 1>and I was working with this one producer and his

0:50:58.760 --> 0:51:03.480
<v Speaker 1>manager called me a spoiled bitch. Oh boy, and I

0:51:03.560 --> 0:51:05.680
<v Speaker 1>hit him and then I picked up something hit him

0:51:05.719 --> 0:51:08.400
<v Speaker 1>over the head with him. What was this something something

0:51:08.480 --> 0:51:12.319
<v Speaker 1>in the studio that I could pick up. She's looking around, Yeah,

0:51:12.520 --> 0:51:14.480
<v Speaker 1>did you hurt him? I don't know if I heard

0:51:14.560 --> 0:51:16.000
<v Speaker 1>him or not, but he knew he was in a fight.

0:51:16.880 --> 0:51:20.840
<v Speaker 1>His glasses all twisted. Well, if he gets tired of

0:51:20.880 --> 0:51:25.560
<v Speaker 1>singing and want to do security, I'll hire you know.

0:51:25.680 --> 0:51:28.880
<v Speaker 1>I just don't like to be don't disrespect you. Know.

0:51:29.000 --> 0:51:32.120
<v Speaker 1>I love, I love, I love hard. I always tell

0:51:32.200 --> 0:51:34.239
<v Speaker 1>my girls y'all in trouble, just call me. You know

0:51:34.440 --> 0:51:36.480
<v Speaker 1>I'll be I'll be there. I'll be a backup for you.

0:51:36.600 --> 0:51:38.120
<v Speaker 1>I love that. It's like if you called me and

0:51:38.200 --> 0:51:40.600
<v Speaker 1>you said you said step you said somebody was messing

0:51:40.640 --> 0:51:46.640
<v Speaker 1>with you, I'd be like, call me, yeah, Pops to

0:51:46.680 --> 0:51:48.960
<v Speaker 1>get him. Or we appreciate you for joining us, thank

0:51:49.000 --> 0:51:51.680
<v Speaker 1>you with us, thank you, thank you for having me.

0:51:52.200 --> 0:51:53.960
<v Speaker 1>And the best part about this interview is all the

0:51:54.400 --> 0:51:56.600
<v Speaker 1>conversations that's gonna happen after it, because I'm gonna be

0:51:56.600 --> 0:51:59.279
<v Speaker 1>getting all of these texts and emails about all this

0:51:59.280 --> 0:52:02.600
<v Speaker 1>stuff you probably used to do. I'm sure and and

0:52:02.920 --> 0:52:07.040
<v Speaker 1>and I whisp your hey, Miss Mills, I heard yeah,

0:52:07.560 --> 0:52:09.719
<v Speaker 1>and I'll tell you about it. Whoever wants to say

0:52:09.760 --> 0:52:11.440
<v Speaker 1>and all that, just come on, give me a website

0:52:11.480 --> 0:52:15.400
<v Speaker 1>for the book for Rod j m dot com, my

0:52:15.520 --> 0:52:18.360
<v Speaker 1>son's book for rod jam dot com and instead Adventures

0:52:18.400 --> 0:52:23.080
<v Speaker 1>of Rod Jay. Alright, there was a pleasure, Miss Mills. Absolutely,

0:52:23.280 --> 0:52:28.480
<v Speaker 1>thank you. It's the breakfast Club. I was born to donkeys,

0:52:28.560 --> 0:52:45.560
<v Speaker 1>the donkey of the Devil. Devil breakfast club. Yeah, donkey

0:52:45.680 --> 0:52:48.920
<v Speaker 1>to day go to a California man named Nathaniel Gene Robertson.

0:52:49.239 --> 0:52:52.439
<v Speaker 1>Nathaniel was arrested earlier this month on suspicion of killing

0:52:52.520 --> 0:52:56.280
<v Speaker 1>his wife. That's it, that's the donkey. Nathaniel is getting

0:52:56.320 --> 0:52:58.320
<v Speaker 1>donkey to day because he killed his wife for no

0:52:58.440 --> 0:53:00.600
<v Speaker 1>reason at all. You can understand why he's getting donkey

0:53:00.719 --> 0:53:04.160
<v Speaker 1>today for that, right. Yes, Nathaniel admitted in interviews with

0:53:04.280 --> 0:53:07.960
<v Speaker 1>police investigators that he hit his wife with a concrete block.

0:53:08.560 --> 0:53:11.040
<v Speaker 1>He said he was showing no mercy and claimed the

0:53:11.200 --> 0:53:14.640
<v Speaker 1>alignments were not in place. The protector now, he killed

0:53:14.680 --> 0:53:17.200
<v Speaker 1>his wife. So that's donkey of to day whevery, because

0:53:17.360 --> 0:53:19.440
<v Speaker 1>donkey today is all about giving people to credit they

0:53:19.440 --> 0:53:22.760
<v Speaker 1>deserve for being stupid, and killing your wife is indeed stupid.

0:53:23.120 --> 0:53:25.319
<v Speaker 1>But it's not just the fact Nathaniel killed his wife.

0:53:25.560 --> 0:53:28.560
<v Speaker 1>It's the reason why he killed his wife. What got

0:53:28.640 --> 0:53:32.040
<v Speaker 1>into Nathaniel, what infected his spirit and made him commit

0:53:32.120 --> 0:53:35.160
<v Speaker 1>such a hanness act. Well, let's quote a kget NBC

0:53:35.320 --> 0:53:38.400
<v Speaker 1>seventeen for the report police a husband accused of murdering

0:53:38.480 --> 0:53:41.600
<v Speaker 1>his wife with a concrete block. Here now with details

0:53:41.640 --> 0:53:45.440
<v Speaker 1>of the man who's blaming mayonnaise as part of the problem. Well,

0:53:45.440 --> 0:53:49.720
<v Speaker 1>according to police reports, Nathaniel Robertson admitted during an interview

0:53:49.760 --> 0:53:53.880
<v Speaker 1>with Sheriff's detectives to beating Lydia Robertson with a concrete block.

0:53:54.200 --> 0:53:57.080
<v Speaker 1>Robertson is quoted in the reports stating he did it

0:53:57.200 --> 0:54:01.000
<v Speaker 1>to quote give her compassion and mercy as the alignments

0:54:01.120 --> 0:54:04.359
<v Speaker 1>were not in place to protect her end quote. Court

0:54:04.440 --> 0:54:09.040
<v Speaker 1>documents state Robertson said he had been infected by Mannaise

0:54:09.480 --> 0:54:13.280
<v Speaker 1>quote they put him in. They in this case refers

0:54:13.320 --> 0:54:17.279
<v Speaker 1>to a group of brutal, powerful people. Robertson said he

0:54:17.360 --> 0:54:21.000
<v Speaker 1>couldn't identify, according to the report. Asked if he used drugs,

0:54:21.280 --> 0:54:26.040
<v Speaker 1>Robertson said he used quote ice to help him breathe. Robertson,

0:54:26.239 --> 0:54:29.360
<v Speaker 1>forty six, has pleaded not guilty to a charge of

0:54:29.560 --> 0:54:32.879
<v Speaker 1>first degree murder in Lydia Robertson's death. He's being held

0:54:32.960 --> 0:54:36.880
<v Speaker 1>on one million dollars bail. Nathaniel is quoted as saying

0:54:37.520 --> 0:54:40.280
<v Speaker 1>he killed his wife because he was infected by Mannaise.

0:54:42.400 --> 0:54:44.840
<v Speaker 1>Can we hate what this murderer says he was infected by? Again,

0:54:45.280 --> 0:54:50.239
<v Speaker 1>Robertson said he had been infected by Mannaise quote they

0:54:50.560 --> 0:54:54.840
<v Speaker 1>put him in. Oh, I can't believe this assassin since butcher,

0:54:55.000 --> 0:55:00.320
<v Speaker 1>this slayer, this dog criminal, this homicidal manise maniac blamed

0:55:00.400 --> 0:55:04.719
<v Speaker 1>Mannaise on killing his wife, homicidal man whatever, All right,

0:55:05.600 --> 0:55:07.120
<v Speaker 1>let me hear what he says again. Let me hear

0:55:07.160 --> 0:55:08.759
<v Speaker 1>what he says called him to kill his wife again. Please.

0:55:09.520 --> 0:55:14.480
<v Speaker 1>Robertson said he had been inspected by mannaise quote they

0:55:14.800 --> 0:55:17.120
<v Speaker 1>put him in. I know you wouldn't believe it if

0:55:17.120 --> 0:55:19.160
<v Speaker 1>you didn't hear it for yourself. For all you people

0:55:19.200 --> 0:55:20.920
<v Speaker 1>who call up it at I Heeart headquarters in New

0:55:21.000 --> 0:55:23.239
<v Speaker 1>York City and complain about me, complain about me and

0:55:23.360 --> 0:55:25.439
<v Speaker 1>call me racist and call me a bigot, all because

0:55:25.480 --> 0:55:28.520
<v Speaker 1>I don't like mayonnaise? What did you have to say? Now? This,

0:55:29.400 --> 0:55:36.000
<v Speaker 1>this right here is indeed the devil, the condiment of satan.

0:55:36.239 --> 0:55:39.520
<v Speaker 1>Mayonnaise is disgusting. Too much of it ruins everything. You

0:55:39.640 --> 0:55:42.399
<v Speaker 1>just need a little, just a little, to make something good,

0:55:42.520 --> 0:55:45.120
<v Speaker 1>but too much of it makes everything bad. Too much

0:55:45.160 --> 0:55:48.960
<v Speaker 1>mayonnaise and tuna yuka, too much mannaids and potato salad YUCKA.

0:55:49.200 --> 0:55:52.640
<v Speaker 1>This is a story that literally has too much goddamn mayonaids.

0:55:52.680 --> 0:55:54.960
<v Speaker 1>You can't argue with me anymore about the dangers of

0:55:55.000 --> 0:55:58.320
<v Speaker 1>mayonnaise in our society because Nathan eel Gene Robertson shuts

0:55:58.360 --> 0:56:01.800
<v Speaker 1>down all debates. Okay. Nathaniel is quoted as saying his

0:56:02.040 --> 0:56:05.360
<v Speaker 1>wife had been his best friend. He didn't want to

0:56:05.440 --> 0:56:07.040
<v Speaker 1>hit her a bunch of times. He said I wanted

0:56:07.080 --> 0:56:09.200
<v Speaker 1>to end it. I didn't want her suffering, but he

0:56:09.280 --> 0:56:17.160
<v Speaker 1>couldn't control himself because of maddays. Wow, there's nothing left

0:56:17.200 --> 0:56:18.880
<v Speaker 1>to do here. There's nothing left to do here but

0:56:19.040 --> 0:56:26.000
<v Speaker 1>play a game of guess what race it? Days? Now

0:56:26.640 --> 0:56:30.240
<v Speaker 1>give me your clue with guys and girls. Man Nathaniel

0:56:30.320 --> 0:56:33.520
<v Speaker 1>Gene Robinson, that's his name. He's from California. He beat

0:56:33.560 --> 0:56:35.600
<v Speaker 1>his wife to death with a cinder block and says

0:56:35.680 --> 0:56:39.399
<v Speaker 1>manonnais made him do it. Angela, Ye, guess what race

0:56:39.520 --> 0:56:47.320
<v Speaker 1>it is? I'm gonna have dj envy three clues. Nathaniel

0:56:47.360 --> 0:56:50.239
<v Speaker 1>Gene Robinson from California beat his wife to death with

0:56:50.320 --> 0:56:52.239
<v Speaker 1>a cinder block and says, manais made him do it.

0:56:52.600 --> 0:57:06.479
<v Speaker 1>Guess what racing is? White? You bow far car. He's

0:57:06.520 --> 0:57:10.360
<v Speaker 1>indeed Caucasian. Can I call this guy your manage flavored

0:57:10.400 --> 0:57:12.120
<v Speaker 1>mamo without y'all calling the front dousk here at the

0:57:12.200 --> 0:57:14.799
<v Speaker 1>heart complaint? Can I call this man a human jar

0:57:14.800 --> 0:57:17.160
<v Speaker 1>of helmets manaids without being called a racist? Bigger? Who

0:57:17.160 --> 0:57:19.880
<v Speaker 1>age white people? I don't hate white people. I hate mayonnaise.

0:57:20.120 --> 0:57:22.600
<v Speaker 1>And after seeing the effects mannais can have on a person,

0:57:22.760 --> 0:57:25.960
<v Speaker 1>which is something I already knew you should hate Manonnaise too.

0:57:26.960 --> 0:57:29.600
<v Speaker 1>Please let Chelsea Handler given Nathan you Gene Robinson the

0:57:29.720 --> 0:57:33.320
<v Speaker 1>biggest he hare heehaw, heehaw. That is way too much,

0:57:33.440 --> 0:57:38.080
<v Speaker 1>Jane mannis too much. Goddamn Manaise, damn. One day, y'all

0:57:38.120 --> 0:57:41.240
<v Speaker 1>gonna listen to your good old uncle Charlot. All right,

0:57:41.360 --> 0:57:43.280
<v Speaker 1>I know what I'm talking about, all right, Charlomagne, thank

0:57:43.280 --> 0:57:45.680
<v Speaker 1>you for that donkey of the day. Yes, sir, all right.

0:57:45.720 --> 0:57:47.960
<v Speaker 1>We got more coming up next with a breakfast club.

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<v Speaker 1>The breakfast club, Hello, the relationship advice, need personal advice,

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<v Speaker 1>just need real advice. Haul up mawn for asking morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody is dj Envy Angela, yee Charlemagne the guy we

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<v Speaker 1>all the breakfast club is time to ask yee hello?

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<v Speaker 1>Who's this? Um? I'm staying anonymous? All right, what's your

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<v Speaker 1>question for you? Anonymous? Yes we can all right. So

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<v Speaker 1>I have a dilemma. Um, when my boyfriend and I

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<v Speaker 1>first started dating, we're gonna, you know, do it in

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<v Speaker 1>the car, and he pulled his hands down or the

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<v Speaker 1>foul older didn't he didn't fart, He just like had

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<v Speaker 1>took a dump and like didn't wipe his butt? Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>now we like looked together and whenever, um, we're are

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<v Speaker 1>you gonna do it? I always, you know, hesitant because

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<v Speaker 1>he doesn't wipe his butt, so how older? And you

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<v Speaker 1>know he always has the days of his boxer, so

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<v Speaker 1>skid marks, that's what they call him, Yes, skid marks.

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<v Speaker 1>So how do you tell your man like, babe, can

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<v Speaker 1>you please wipe you? Guys? Is he a grown man

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<v Speaker 1>or a baby wearing a diaper? That is disgusting? First

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<v Speaker 1>of all, judge that man, I'm gonna tell you, Oh

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<v Speaker 1>is this envy? We're talking about you? All right? So

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<v Speaker 1>first of all, do y'all have wet wipes in the

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<v Speaker 1>bathrooms in the house? I think I need to keep

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<v Speaker 1>him there, but that is what you don't use them.

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<v Speaker 1>You gotta help him out, man, because there's first of all,

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<v Speaker 1>there's no way he don't smell the doodoo coming out

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<v Speaker 1>his butt when he pulls his pants down. Number one.

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<v Speaker 1>Number two, you might have to tell him you gotta

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<v Speaker 1>get up in there when you wipe yourself and wipe

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<v Speaker 1>yourself good. And you might have to buy him some

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<v Speaker 1>wet wipes to carry with him when he goes places

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<v Speaker 1>and tell him to use those when he uses the bathroom,

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<v Speaker 1>because this is not something that you can dance around.

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<v Speaker 1>You have to be direct about this hygiene. She's right,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm not his mama though embarrassing. One time, you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna you have to time him because you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>if you don't say something, you're gonna just end up

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<v Speaker 1>having to smell dudu every time you have sex. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't do that, so just just tell him be like, babe,

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<v Speaker 1>look at your underwear and see this. You're not wiping yourself. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>are you getting up in the hole so you have

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<v Speaker 1>doodoo stays on your sheets too? Huh? No, No, I

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<v Speaker 1>would never do have to if it's in his underwears

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<v Speaker 1>in the sheets, But you gotta, you gotta point it

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<v Speaker 1>out because if you don't say anything, then I don't

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<v Speaker 1>are you just having sex? And then during the smell,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh girl, I will go down here, but I won't

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<v Speaker 1>go down on him a lot because of that. Like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a even afraid, Like I don't want to. Why

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<v Speaker 1>is it so hard to tell a man is asking?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, but you could get can't you get

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<v Speaker 1>you call out or something? I mean, if you eat

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<v Speaker 1>an ass I can't wait till you ask. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to. Oh, hell no, I don't want to hurt

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<v Speaker 1>his ego. That's it. Well, girl, I don't want you

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<v Speaker 1>to get some type of disease either, bacteria, infection. But

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<v Speaker 1>this is this is for his own good. First of all,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're doing laundry sometimes you don't want to have

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<v Speaker 1>to touch that and clean that, right, right, And this

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<v Speaker 1>is for his own benefit. This is to help him

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<v Speaker 1>out in his life. You gotta show him. Look, baby,

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<v Speaker 1>these are wet wipes. Now, me and you were having

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<v Speaker 1>this conversation. Don't be embarrassed because we could talk about anything.

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<v Speaker 1>And trust me, if you're having sex with this man,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm protected. You should be able to tell in his

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<v Speaker 1>ass things and he's not wiping himself. If you can

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<v Speaker 1>do that, and you could lay up with him and

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<v Speaker 1>do all of that, then you should be able to

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<v Speaker 1>communicate with him and telling him, Babe, you need to

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<v Speaker 1>clean your butt. It's gonna be so funny when you

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<v Speaker 1>tell him. It's gonna be so funny when you tell

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<v Speaker 1>him his butt stinks. And he was like, man, I

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<v Speaker 1>was thinking the same thing about your poom poom, and

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<v Speaker 1>guess what, and guess what she would do white pemp

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<v Speaker 1>poom poom with a wet wife said, you ain't crap,

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<v Speaker 1>ain't crap. You do want even crap? Don't you? Thank you?

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<v Speaker 1>And just listen. This isn't time when when you got

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<v Speaker 1>to be directed be like, look, you know, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if you're just not wiping yourself right, but there's

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<v Speaker 1>these stains in your underwear and sometimes I can smell it.

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<v Speaker 1>So I just want to say, you gotta wipe yourself better.

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<v Speaker 1>Here some wet wipes every time you go to the bathroom.

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<v Speaker 1>And you shouldn't even have sex with him to after

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<v Speaker 1>he showers, but if he's not cleaning his butt hole

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<v Speaker 1>in the shower either, and then get an like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what I'm say on the radio says,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's cleaning his I will say. I'll be on

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<v Speaker 1>my wife twenty one years and I do remember a

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<v Speaker 1>time about fourteen fifteen years ago where she went down

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<v Speaker 1>and she was like, hey, man, you need to go

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<v Speaker 1>take a shower or something because you know and you

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<v Speaker 1>appreciate it it. Yeah, I wouldn't. Maybe I didn't wipe properly.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what it was, but she told me.

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<v Speaker 1>It hurt my feelings. I just went and took a

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<v Speaker 1>shower between nothing, like I don't understand. I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>it was a comment to me before once or twice,

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<v Speaker 1>three times, four times, five times happened to me before. Yeah, so,

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<v Speaker 1>but like so, that's why you got to point it out.

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<v Speaker 1>One day y'all will laugh about it, and hopefully that

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<v Speaker 1>day that chella laughing, his butt will be clean. She

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<v Speaker 1>got an embarrassed and pick up the underwear and be like,

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<v Speaker 1>what's this and then let him see to do those

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<v Speaker 1>stains and he'll get embarrassed and I'll never do it again.

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<v Speaker 1>I like that, you know what I mean? And check

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<v Speaker 1>your sheets, and I bet you gotta doose stains on

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<v Speaker 1>your sheets. Yeah, and bet you knows trust me. Tappling

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<v Speaker 1>to me once or twice put the skin marks in

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<v Speaker 1>his face? You go too far? Thank you, mama. How

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<v Speaker 1>do you like it? That's actually that's some young boys

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<v Speaker 1>stuff though, because you know, like that's that's one of

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<v Speaker 1>the reasons after I do a number two, I do

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<v Speaker 1>go take a shower, except if you're at work. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>if I'm at work, but then I'm still like I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going home and like me and my wife go get

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<v Speaker 1>right to it. I don't want to go home smelling

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<v Speaker 1>like you never puh and then have sex right after

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<v Speaker 1>hell and you can take a shower. How know. We

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<v Speaker 1>don't want your money, butter pe you better white, better bro?

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<v Speaker 1>All right? Ask ye eight hundred and five eight five

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<v Speaker 1>one oh five one if you need relationship advice, he

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<v Speaker 1>emails the breakfast club Go Morning. Did some real advice

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<v Speaker 1>with Angela Yee's ask Ye Morning. Everybody is dj Envy

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<v Speaker 1>Angela Yee, Charlemagne the guy we are the breakfast club

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<v Speaker 1>in the middle of ask Yee, Hello, who's this? Hey man?

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<v Speaker 1>What's something? What's your quest to feed? Bro? So this

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<v Speaker 1>is my situation. Um, I was in a married right

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<v Speaker 1>Me and my wife been married now about a year.

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<v Speaker 1>So we got in a situation where, um, the relationship

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<v Speaker 1>got physical. We had a physical arcase in our relationship

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<v Speaker 1>and basically her family won't forgive me for that. Being

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<v Speaker 1>her we had our issue, you know, we went through

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<v Speaker 1>We know why the things happened and then happened. We

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<v Speaker 1>still want to work it, but her family really do

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<v Speaker 1>tool of it because of me flutting my hands on her. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>of course her family, Yeah, I'm trying to figure out, like,

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<v Speaker 1>how could we possibly work around the Well, her family's

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<v Speaker 1>very protective of her, so of course they should feel

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<v Speaker 1>that way, and so you shouldn't look at that as

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<v Speaker 1>something detrimental. Of course they should feel like you put

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<v Speaker 1>your hands on our family member and a woman, and

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<v Speaker 1>they should definitely side at you for that. So first

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<v Speaker 1>you have to understand they're very valid and their reason

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<v Speaker 1>for looking at you and the way that they are,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's a punishment that you have to take. And

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<v Speaker 1>I totally, I totally understand that, you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>It got physical, but I wanted you understand this for

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<v Speaker 1>over the years, right being her both being back and forth,

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<v Speaker 1>people that put our hands on each other, right, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's kind of like it's kind of like, I k

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<v Speaker 1>know what they ain't right for nobody to do it,

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<v Speaker 1>But it's like if I wouldn't do something wrong, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying. You go through my phone and

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<v Speaker 1>she see something in my phone. She don't betrough my phone,

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<v Speaker 1>and she attacked me because of things that she's seen

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<v Speaker 1>in my phone. When she plutt hands on me plenty

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<v Speaker 1>of times, right this time it was the other way around,

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<v Speaker 1>I've seen something and her home, so I put my

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<v Speaker 1>hands on her because of that, you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>So it really got out of hand because she had

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<v Speaker 1>a bruisy guard and wow, that really really pushed it,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. Yeah, And you bruised and scarred your woman

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<v Speaker 1>up and that that should make you feel terrible. And

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to say a couple of things. First

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<v Speaker 1>of all, it's never right for a woman to put

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<v Speaker 1>her hands on a man either. And I tell people

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<v Speaker 1>that all the time. Women shouldn't be putting their hands

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<v Speaker 1>Nobody should be putting their hands on each other. I

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<v Speaker 1>think that, as you said, what happened was worse because

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<v Speaker 1>you ended up really physically harming her, and you could

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<v Speaker 1>have ended up in jail for that, and things could

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<v Speaker 1>have gotten even worse. You could have permanently damaged her.

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<v Speaker 1>You could have, you know. And one thing my boyfriend

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<v Speaker 1>was tell me is that anytime, and his mom has

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<v Speaker 1>always told him this, if you feel like you have

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<v Speaker 1>to put your hands on a woman, that's you need

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<v Speaker 1>to walk away. That's not the right woman for you.

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<v Speaker 1>But you said, this is the one time that it happened.

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<v Speaker 1>She wants to forgive you for it, and I can't

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<v Speaker 1>tell a woman went to do. But I suggest that

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<v Speaker 1>you guys have got to get real help, and that

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<v Speaker 1>means that y'all have to go to therapy. You have

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<v Speaker 1>to figure out why you reacted the way you reacted.

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<v Speaker 1>She has to figure out how to keep her hands

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<v Speaker 1>to herself as well. But there really is never an

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<v Speaker 1>excuse for you to basically beat your woman up. And

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<v Speaker 1>that's what you did. Yeah, it really ain't. I tell

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<v Speaker 1>you what happened though, or why I did it. You

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<v Speaker 1>went through her phone and saw something? Yeah, well, basically,

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<v Speaker 1>well when I saw let me tell you what I

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<v Speaker 1>saw though. I went through her phone, right, and I

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<v Speaker 1>saw that she was actually heaving the affair with my

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<v Speaker 1>son's football coach. Listen, I feel you, and there's but

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<v Speaker 1>there's still no matter. It don't matter what you saw.

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<v Speaker 1>There's no justification. I see, y'all. I'll understand what you

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<v Speaker 1>say at a term like that. When you see that,

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<v Speaker 1>you're still trying to justify it. I know we look, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>can I saw every every you listen, Yeah, I'm listening.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't agree with you, my brother. I'm gonna ask

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<v Speaker 1>you your white fold right now. You say that the

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<v Speaker 1>heaven out there with somebody that was close to y'all,

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<v Speaker 1>and you had a little nick in your system. Your

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<v Speaker 1>very first action to lead a damn house. You can't

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<v Speaker 1>move off emotion in a situation like that. You got

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<v Speaker 1>to move off strategy number one, number one because you

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<v Speaker 1>shouldn't hit a woman in number two because you just

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<v Speaker 1>got too much to lose. Brother. That's right. Now. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>looking my system. I probably cry, and I'm in the

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<v Speaker 1>fetal position. But what I am concerned about is that

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<v Speaker 1>you are still trying to get people to back you

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<v Speaker 1>up for your actions, and you cannot justify your actions.

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<v Speaker 1>You cannot put your hands, You can't appeal to the

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<v Speaker 1>men in the room and think that they're gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>like yeat to get it too. I can understand why

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<v Speaker 1>you did that. There's no explanation, there's no way that

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<v Speaker 1>you are in the right in the situation. I feel

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<v Speaker 1>you you were hurt, but that doesn't mean that you're

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to physically harm your woman. I will say, I

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<v Speaker 1>can understand why he did it. I don't agree though.

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<v Speaker 1>I can understand the emotion in the alcohol, but I

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<v Speaker 1>don't agree with you. Yeah, you can't justify it. You

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<v Speaker 1>can't say, well, this is why I did it, so

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<v Speaker 1>all good and so you cannot ever do something like

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<v Speaker 1>that again. And you have to own the fact that

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<v Speaker 1>you were wrong in your reaction. Now what she wrong?

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<v Speaker 1>Dead wrong. You could have left her. You could have

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<v Speaker 1>said I'm never gonna be with you again. You could

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<v Speaker 1>have cut off whatever you know, support you give her

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<v Speaker 1>or she gives you, whatever it is, but you physically

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<v Speaker 1>put in your hands on her. It's never the solution.

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<v Speaker 1>You're like, I knew all the wrong. I'll really be

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<v Speaker 1>great it right now because like I feel, were separating.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't move that and you know what I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm away from my kids and family. Family, had a

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<v Speaker 1>whole lot of you spit from me before. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you bruise her up. You know how crazy that looks.

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<v Speaker 1>What you need to do is get yourself into some

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<v Speaker 1>therapy and show her that you're serious about rehabbing yourself

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<v Speaker 1>and take that time apart to work on you. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>doing it, and it don't feel like with me. I

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<v Speaker 1>just had a bad situation at one time. Stop listening.

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<v Speaker 1>There is something wrong. You shouldn't have reacted that way,

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<v Speaker 1>and you gotta acknowledge that if you did it once,

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<v Speaker 1>you'll do it again. So it's so wrong with me

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<v Speaker 1>because of a womanstake. Everybody makes a mistake. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>say I feel like I have to go get Yeah, everybody,

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<v Speaker 1>everybody does make mistakes. But the problem is is, first

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<v Speaker 1>of all, you're using liquor when you're upset, and that's

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<v Speaker 1>that's the worst thing to do. You're upset, you mad,

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<v Speaker 1>You're using liquor to to take away the pain, and

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<v Speaker 1>you wind up being an abusive and yes, you have

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<v Speaker 1>a problem and you need to deal with that problem.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't want to make sure that happens again. And

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<v Speaker 1>then the next time you're saying, yeah, I made two mistakes.

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<v Speaker 1>You just want to make sure that older you, sir,

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<v Speaker 1>he sounds older. Yeah, I made I made that mistake

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<v Speaker 1>when I was seventeen years old, you know, putting my

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<v Speaker 1>hands on a woman, you know, for the same situation.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know I was I was had low emotional intelligence.

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<v Speaker 1>Then I was immature, I was insecure, I had low

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<v Speaker 1>self esteem, like my ego was bruised. But at thirty

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<v Speaker 1>three years old, nah, I wouldn't make that mistake. If

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<v Speaker 1>you're serious, go get some help for yourself and acknowledge

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<v Speaker 1>that you're run because I don't think you really truly

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<v Speaker 1>grasped it. Okay, I could feel good all right. I

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<v Speaker 1>wish you the best. Ask you eight hundred and five

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<v Speaker 1>eight five one oh five one. If you need relations

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<v Speaker 1>ship advice, ye now is the Breakfast Club? Good morning

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<v Speaker 1>the Breakfast Club? Hello the relationship advice? Need personal advice?

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<v Speaker 1>Just need real advice? Call up down for ask ye morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy we

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<v Speaker 1>are the Breakfast Club. Were in the middle of ask yee, Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>who's this? Yes, Sherry Brown ain't Sharon Brown. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>from him to Virginia. I've been trying to get in

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<v Speaker 1>touch a draw for like months and months and months

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<v Speaker 1>Hu seven five seven eight h four. Okay, didn't sounds

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<v Speaker 1>too great, Okay, Shy said, let's tell your question. Okay, okay. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a very smart by the way, um, y'all inspirate

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<v Speaker 1>me a lot. I listened to the radio because I

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<v Speaker 1>suffered with PTSD and I love music and music. Hallan

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<v Speaker 1>me down. I can do a lot of things in

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<v Speaker 1>music and cookle music. I can dance the music. Got

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<v Speaker 1>kid draw the music. I can read the music. I

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<v Speaker 1>just love music. So um, I had a question because

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<v Speaker 1>I love God right and I've been saying since I

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<v Speaker 1>was three years old, and every every relationship I've ever

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<v Speaker 1>been in, all the guys say that I'm crazy. Everybody

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<v Speaker 1>in my whole city say I'm crazy. In Hampton, Virginia,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been in seventy five seven since i was nine

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<v Speaker 1>years old. My mom came here getting away from abusive

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<v Speaker 1>our relationship that my father was doing. Her and my

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<v Speaker 1>father couldn't get along, so she left my father when

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<v Speaker 1>I was nine months old, and I was up with

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<v Speaker 1>not having a father. So I failed to like having

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<v Speaker 1>relationship with guys looking for father figures, and I was

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<v Speaker 1>going with older guys. I never go with younger guys.

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<v Speaker 1>So now without now that I'm forty three, I started

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<v Speaker 1>attracting younger guys. Cooper stuff, Cooper stuff. So um Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I went selivant for four and a half years. And

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<v Speaker 1>because I was trying to fig out watch up getting

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<v Speaker 1>these relationships that was abusive. And I mean they keep

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<v Speaker 1>putting me down and their star of saying and like

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<v Speaker 1>they love me like right away, like a munch too much.

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<v Speaker 1>They loved me and then they, um, they say I'm

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<v Speaker 1>creative and stuff I do? Mama, what's your question? What's

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<v Speaker 1>your question? Like twenty six I have, like twenty you

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<v Speaker 1>have like twenty sixty three. I counted them. I did

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<v Speaker 1>a self anonymous analys, I draw, I do hair, I sing,

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<v Speaker 1>I rap, I dido, I mentor, Mama, what's your what's

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<v Speaker 1>your question? What's your question? Um, I don't like everything,

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<v Speaker 1>but they keep telling me I'm not nobody. I'm a

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<v Speaker 1>certified chef. Mama, what's your question? The question is the

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<v Speaker 1>question is do a person or a good woman when

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<v Speaker 1>they see as a woman, And the question is I'm

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<v Speaker 1>trying to figure out why are you single? Do I

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<v Speaker 1>keep dating these guys and say they don't believe in

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<v Speaker 1>God because I believe in God, And every time I

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<v Speaker 1>see from about God, they don't like it, and I

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<v Speaker 1>don't understand why they don't like it. Maybe we should

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<v Speaker 1>go back to the part where she said people think

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<v Speaker 1>she's crazy. Okay, shy, just ask Jerry just has some

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<v Speaker 1>things to get off her chest. This morning, Hey man,

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<v Speaker 1>I got a crazy crazy and everybody keeps man, you're

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<v Speaker 1>not Syry. Do you want angels? Advice? Shared, huh do

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<v Speaker 1>you want advice? I'm trying to figure out. I'm trying

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<v Speaker 1>to do on the ready. I'm like, y'all, so I

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<v Speaker 1>can get into charming because I a lot of salt. Really,

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<v Speaker 1>we know, I can't tell. I can't tell at all. Sold. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So Sharry, you keep dating guys who don't believe in God.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't ask that question. They stay to believe in them.

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<v Speaker 1>But they got all these game stars on them my head. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so they do believe in God. They heart on them

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<v Speaker 1>blood and Sherry, remember Sherry. So it's not that they

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<v Speaker 1>don't believe in God, as they don't praise and worship

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<v Speaker 1>the way that you do. Oh well, I've been saying

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<v Speaker 1>since I was three years old, and I've been in

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<v Speaker 1>the choir. My mom made me go to church every

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<v Speaker 1>fund and even though she said she stayed out all

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<v Speaker 1>night and slept with people husbands and and mistress and

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<v Speaker 1>all that, I've never had a husband. I've been the

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<v Speaker 1>best woman that I've ever known, and the best mother.

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<v Speaker 1>My mom just took my friend from me, and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>really like fans the fun I'm in the best brother.

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<v Speaker 1>I can never picked up. I've been mother to other

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<v Speaker 1>people's kids that don't even mother that kids. All right, sharp.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, the Bible says, Cherry. The Bible says kind

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<v Speaker 1>of get in touch with drunk and like every Schry.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, the Bible says a great deal about being quiet, right, yes, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>holding your tongue, shutting the hell up. Sometimes I leave

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<v Speaker 1>that long he's still and listen. Got you you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying. You can hear God? How you hearing God?

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<v Speaker 1>And you talk so goddamn much, Sharry, I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>I do why everybody just give me? I have ADHD

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<v Speaker 1>I have yes, I Cherry, I got eshe MTV, I

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<v Speaker 1>got all your hold on. But we just ran out

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<v Speaker 1>of time. Very much, Cherry, Cherry, did you even ask

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<v Speaker 1>a question? I don't know, Serry, Thank you very much, Cherry.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me jumping the water. Send me a ticket. I

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<v Speaker 1>take it the water, jumping in a jumping in the water.

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<v Speaker 1>I need to go to something in the water. I

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<v Speaker 1>can get a break. Somebody send me a ticket place.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh you want to go on vacation now? Now our

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<v Speaker 1>host this, I just want to be there. I just

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<v Speaker 1>want to get away from all this show. What the

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<v Speaker 1>hell is rong? We'll get your ticket to Virginia Beach.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you, Thank you. Virginia Beach just five minutes away

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<v Speaker 1>from you, I know right from me. I used to

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<v Speaker 1>live in NORFL, Virginia, Scherry. If you want to reach me,

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<v Speaker 1>that email has helped me. Ye at gmail dot com.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you help me yet? Gmail? You have enough space

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<v Speaker 1>in your inbox for this email? Shay's about to send you. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>the show's ever Thank you all for listening to the best.

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<v Speaker 1>That call went on goodness, well we got rumors on

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<v Speaker 1>the shair. Should have just started off. Hey, fam, if

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<v Speaker 1>it is all right, we got more. Come up next

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<v Speaker 1>with a breakfast club voting everybody's DJ Envy angela ye,

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<v Speaker 1>Charlemagne the guy. We are the breakfast club. Now leave

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<v Speaker 1>us on a positive note. Listen, man, I knew I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a chure when I realized every situation doesn't need a reaction.

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<v Speaker 1>Remember that the day every situation does not need a reaction.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes you just got to leave people to do. The

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<v Speaker 1>lame ship is that they do