Speaker 1: This is your time to get it off your chest.
Speaker 1: Whether you're making from you on the breakfast club, but
Speaker 1: you got something on your mind. Don't know who's this. Oh,
Speaker 1: this is like you trying from Brooklyn. Hey, you should
Speaker 1: get off your chest. Actually was a gad I've never had,
Speaker 1: you know, my whole life. They sung that classic classic
Speaker 1: another bad creation. And I'm trying to say, but I'm
Speaker 1: staring of trying to me respond because he's a little crazy.
Speaker 1: But I'm a lot of any right right. So, Um,
Speaker 1: I've been married for four years. I'm thirty years old. Um,
Speaker 1: and my husband is inconcivrated in the bedroom right now.
Speaker 1: So a long story short, he'd be like tracking me
Speaker 1: on Facebook, on every type of social media. I don't
Speaker 1: know if he got people, screen recording whatever. But we
Speaker 1: don't go to ready go home that we just got
Speaker 1: caught with a cellphone and they gave him a ticket.
Speaker 1: And then so they took his business for a whole year,
Speaker 1: a whole freaking year. They took his business over the cellphone.
Speaker 1: He goes and get another cellphone, tracking me talking about
Speaker 1: some why I don't even know, on Instagram, just all
Speaker 1: this stupid stuff. And I'm just like, like, what more
Speaker 1: do you want? I'm there for you, your family, aint thing.
Speaker 1: I'm the only one doing everything. I work and go home.
Speaker 1: That's all I do. I don't even go out. This
Speaker 1: man is on my back. Twenty people A seven. I
Speaker 1: don't know what to do. Yeah, yeah, but you gotta
Speaker 1: understand that's just all called that's jail related stress. That's
Speaker 1: all that man is miserable little and I try to
Speaker 1: I know he's miserable, and I try to be there
Speaker 1: one hundred and thousand percent. I'm there for him more
Speaker 1: than than I'm here for myself. But I'm emotionally dreamed.
Speaker 1: I keep just be going too much, always accusing me
Speaker 1: and making stuff up and just going crazy. Like so
Speaker 1: I just don't go out. I just stay home. But
Speaker 1: I wouldn't do that. But you do have to know
Speaker 1: where all that is coming from. That's literally only him
Speaker 1: projecting all his insecurities and fears on you because he's
Speaker 1: in jail. That's it. It's not fair to you. It's
Speaker 1: definitely not. Yeah, So that's what I'm saying, Like, how
Speaker 1: do I go about it? Like? What do you do
Speaker 1: to get locked up? Somebody's messing on her? His old
Speaker 1: us okay, anyway he was doing something right to do it?
Speaker 1: Let me say, I don't know where you know, I
Speaker 1: wrote wrote the paperwork going him, and I thought he
Speaker 1: got brapped up. People that got wrapped up in your life?
Speaker 1: You rather die right here? I have a good one before, Charlomagne.
Speaker 1: What should I do well with your man? Yeah? I
Speaker 1: think that you should. I think that you should have fun,
Speaker 1: but not tell him about the fun that you're having.
Speaker 1: You can't. I think you should have some me time
Speaker 1: to yourself. You know what I'm saying. But but he
Speaker 1: don't need to know all that. Turn your fine? My
Speaker 1: eye phone off. You better get you a Samsung fun
Speaker 1: You better get you a drawing Thank you mama. Hello?
Speaker 1: Who's this? Good job? Called it? From Dave's part? John?
Speaker 1: What's up getting off your chests? Morning? Mary mash Lot
Speaker 1: going on putting real depressed? It's morning. I've been putting
Speaker 1: the You know depression is real? You know guess it is?
Speaker 1: You know I listen to your radio stations. I don't
Speaker 1: never really here touch bace on depression. You out your
Speaker 1: goddamn mind. I gotta look at my shirt, Steve, what
Speaker 1: my shirt said? Anybody even asked you to say you again,
Speaker 1: what did my shirt says Steve depression? Okay, and you
Speaker 1: know it says depression, but also it has pressed on highlighted.
Speaker 1: So even though you're depressed, you got to press on.
Speaker 1: My brother, we talk about depression all the time. Okay,
Speaker 1: I never really heard talking about we talk about it all.
Speaker 1: What do you think, man? What do you what do
Speaker 1: you think? The mental health conversations are about anxiety depression PTSD?
Speaker 1: Cope with it? Huh with it? I mean I go
Speaker 1: to therapy, I do meditation. Okay, thank you, man. That's
Speaker 1: what I want to know about. Like it's it's hard,
Speaker 1: you know, it's hard, and depression it's one of the
Speaker 1: pick things killing people. Yes see, I would tell you
Speaker 1: this thought. With therapy, though, I need to go see somebody. Brother, Yeah,
Speaker 1: A lot of times when you depression, you just need
Speaker 1: somebody to talk to. I would go see a therapist.
Speaker 1: My brother appreciate you. All right? Man? Hello, who's this?
Speaker 1: Sean um or for Connecticut? Man? What's up? Get it
Speaker 1: off your chest? Brother? Man. Yeah, I've got to work
Speaker 1: this morning. I'm working as brother every day. Man. I'm
Speaker 1: a metal man, so this is just another regular day.
Speaker 1: No rain, all that. How much? You know what? I
Speaker 1: always wanted to do. What is good enough to tip
Speaker 1: the mail man during Christmas? Man? I never en what
Speaker 1: do people usually tip you? Bro? Oh? I mean I've
Speaker 1: worked mostly in a hood, so you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: I get like weed more than just money. Sometimes I
Speaker 1: get like leaks weed. You get some weed, don't lie, man,
Speaker 1: that's a regular day man. Okay, okay, I don't know.
Speaker 1: You're aposed to tip your mail man, that's the thing. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he's supposed to tip the mail man. Man. They give
Speaker 1: mean they you usually get like dun get down the
Speaker 1: stars and all that. You're supposed to tip the mail man.
Speaker 1: You ain't get no dunk car in the hood. To
Speaker 1: stop lying to me, he sposed to. Now, let me
Speaker 1: ask you one other question. You have a deliver the
Speaker 1: package you know with some smoke? You said? What? You
Speaker 1: have a delivered the package you knew with some smoke
Speaker 1: or some work or some work to d deliver drug
Speaker 1: laing exactly mat some work some smoke deliver now all
Speaker 1: some real. Some people asked like to um deliver late
Speaker 1: like credit cards or debit cards or like gift cards
Speaker 1: that were like yeah, yeah. For scammers yeah, some scammers.
Speaker 1: I got off for that a lot people. Okay, how
Speaker 1: you with it? No, I don't know. Trying to get
Speaker 1: him a stitch on himself? Ye eat, all right, thank
Speaker 1: you brother. Be safe out there. Have you been down
Speaker 1: there with all them young boys when you're trying to
Speaker 1: talk hip? Now you have delivered from Smoke's talking about
Speaker 1: get it off your chest eight hundred and five eight
Speaker 1: five one oh five one. If you need to ven
Speaker 1: hit this up right now. It's the breakfast club. Go morning.
Speaker 1: Did your time to get it off your chests? Whether
Speaker 1: you're man or blast, so people to have the same instry.
Speaker 1: We want to hear from you on the breakfast club.
Speaker 1: Tell out who's this and what's up? Broken it off
Speaker 1: your chests? Man, don't just this morning man, you and
Speaker 1: me both brother? Yeah, man, you know, just thinking the
Speaker 1: Lord and shouting out my family, my wife and my
Speaker 1: kids to keep going on my way to work this
Speaker 1: morn y'all. Have a blessing. Yeah you going, brother? Hello,
Speaker 1: who's this? This is Jules Jim's one hundred. Hello, I
Speaker 1: Juled Jim's one hundred. Hit it off your chest, he said,
Speaker 1: like a cigarette. It's early, it's early. I didn't have
Speaker 1: t Yes, Well, what's up, I'm gonna get you off
Speaker 1: your chests. You're having a great day so far, so far,
Speaker 1: it's a great day, so many blessings. Um. I do
Speaker 1: have a jury business. It's called Jim Jim's one hundred.
Speaker 1: But every single day I think about my brother that
Speaker 1: is in jail or because of police brutality. Over for
Speaker 1: ten years and then in the morning he's in jail
Speaker 1: because of police brutality. How that happened? He was about
Speaker 1: fifteen years old, and um, he was jumped by police.
Speaker 1: They took him to jail. They had his sign papers
Speaker 1: and he didn't even have his paracter with the damn.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'm sorry to confess to something that
Speaker 1: he didn't do. God, I'm sorry about that, Mama. And
Speaker 1: we and see how that can happen. If we've seen
Speaker 1: it happen many times, that's awesome. I even want to
Speaker 1: go visit him and the police one let us visit him.
Speaker 1: Is that allegio? And you go with Jill continued and well,
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry, mama. Well, well you're my story going,
Speaker 1: my brother's story, So I'm very happy about this. Okay, Well,
Speaker 1: thank you for calling the event with us this morning.
Speaker 1: Thank you so much. That was good day you too. Hello,
Speaker 1: who's this which? Say? Hey April, get it off your chest.
Speaker 1: I want to spread some positivity this morning. I want
Speaker 1: to thank the Breakfast Club for getting me through my
Speaker 1: parents three years. Um, I'm working Arkansas, trump printres not
Speaker 1: a lot of people look like me, so, um, just
Speaker 1: want to thank you guys. We're getting me through the
Speaker 1: past three years. So basically you're saying, we the only
Speaker 1: black people you get to hear from every day. Basically
Speaker 1: that's the reason why we have Basically that is real. Yeah. So,
Speaker 1: like I decided that I needed to make a move
Speaker 1: to get up out of there, and I solely found
Speaker 1: a way out. It's a very topic work of love.
Speaker 1: So I'm still working on my business until I can
Speaker 1: afford to move on. Okay, Mama, We'll keep working all right,
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Speaker 1: I would love to send you some sinspools Um. I
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Speaker 1: sinpac or my website at www dot sinpac f e
Speaker 1: mpaq dot com. Thank you, mama. Hello, who's this can
Speaker 1: yak Jack calling from Detroit? What's up? Bro? What I'm due?
Speaker 1: I'm mad at and that's my day? My daughter came
Speaker 1: and going dotube. Oh they cut the internet off. The
Speaker 1: internet working a little bit. I was trying to you know,
Speaker 1: black man, no cheat? What's up? Traveling man? Black men
Speaker 1: don't cheat? Ay? Question? Do you love the D? Y'all
Speaker 1: love a D, but I don't know about we're talking about?
Speaker 1: What do you mean? Why you gotta ask something to it?
Speaker 1: Why I'm talking about Detroit? Yeah, I'm saying, Hey, I'll
Speaker 1: be trying to go on poor hub. You don't even
Speaker 1: work either, so you know I mean, I've got a
Speaker 1: horror for a brother. You know what I'm saying? You
Speaker 1: are You're more concerned about port Hub or your daughter
Speaker 1: using the YouTube to watch your cartoons? Bro? Like both
Speaker 1: like yeah both, y'all gotta be enter teamed. I understand.
Speaker 1: Goodbye man, all right, get it off your chest. Eight
Speaker 1: hundred five eight five one on five one if you
Speaker 1: need to vet hit this up right now. It's the
Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club, pointing everybody's d
Speaker 1: e j Envy, Angela yee, Charlemagne the guy. We are
Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. We got a special guest in the building.
Speaker 1: I thought she was up here before, but now this
Speaker 1: is her first time, this is my first time. Welcome
Speaker 1: all right now, how I want to go back though,
Speaker 1: because this is evident first time. Yes, I knew you
Speaker 1: before you did basketball wives and you were for real,
Speaker 1: for real friends with Jennifer. That's actually how I know you. Yes,
Speaker 1: so you were in her wedding. You guys knew each
Speaker 1: other from back in the day, from being in Toronto, right, No,
Speaker 1: for being in Boston or in Boston together boy right, Okay,
Speaker 1: so no, it's the last the relationship for strange. We
Speaker 1: we you know what we say. It's like a toxic marriage,
Speaker 1: you know, it really is. But why y'all have sex
Speaker 1: with the same man. We never had sex with the
Speaker 1: same man. The problem because she was talking about she Nise. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so that's the really you know, But can we get
Speaker 1: to that? I want to start she Nise is my daughter.
Speaker 1: So this is all crazy to me because I watched
Speaker 1: all of that unfold on the show, because you know,
Speaker 1: sometimes it's hard for me to watch it because I
Speaker 1: do know you guys were like best friends for quite
Speaker 1: some time and we were in you know, the Bahamas together,
Speaker 1: wedding together, and so to see your friendship deteriorate the
Speaker 1: way that it has after watching the show, do you
Speaker 1: think that perhaps the show contributes to this because people
Speaker 1: are trying to come up with storylines says things being said.
Speaker 1: You watched the show, You're like, when did that happen?
Speaker 1: This guy edited a certain way. Do you feel like
Speaker 1: your friendship suffered because of it? I feel so so.
Speaker 1: Last season, I genuinely wanted to work on my friendship
Speaker 1: with her because you know, there was so much that
Speaker 1: had happened which had whatever, you know, so I'm like,
Speaker 1: I'm past it. You know, I wanted to work on
Speaker 1: the relationship with her. We had our scene on the
Speaker 1: beach that was a real authentic thing. We cried and
Speaker 1: I was like, cool, whatever we said back in the day,
Speaker 1: it don't even matter. Like, you know, I love you
Speaker 1: and I care about you, so you know, let's just
Speaker 1: keep doing this so then that actually that was the
Speaker 1: season before the last season, it comes out that she
Speaker 1: was saying things about Chanie. So it was hard for
Speaker 1: me to process, you know, you know she said allegedly,
Speaker 1: she said that, you know, my daughter was a latch
Speaker 1: key kid. For anybody that knows me, I don't care
Speaker 1: who I've dated, what I've done, Like I'm a great mom,
Speaker 1: Like I take care of my kids. You know, from
Speaker 1: day one, I had my daughter pregnant, sixteen, had her seventeen,
Speaker 1: so she'd been rocking with me from day one. So
Speaker 1: that to me was it was her ful because you know,
Speaker 1: Jackie saying something about Chanie is it doesn't matter she
Speaker 1: never met Janie. But Jennifer, you just said you were
Speaker 1: swimming with the dolphins, You're seven years old, You've been
Speaker 1: to birthday party. So I'm kind of like, I know
Speaker 1: we've been through some stuff, but even Tammy and I
Speaker 1: we have never talked about each other's kids. So that
Speaker 1: just really hurt my heart. You still say alleged though, well,
Speaker 1: because I can't give too much away with this season,
Speaker 1: but the truth comes out, you know, and it comes
Speaker 1: out from her. So you know, when she was up here,
Speaker 1: I watched it, and I said to myself, Okay, I
Speaker 1: didn't know what the truth was still, but now in hindsight,
Speaker 1: I'm like you, you know, you went on the show
Speaker 1: and you played the victim, and you weren't truthful. You know.
Speaker 1: You know, she made she made comments about Malaysia while
Speaker 1: she was up here called or a linebacker and or
Speaker 1: whatever it was. But me while Mala Malaysia was speaking
Speaker 1: the truth. So it's like just say, like, look, you
Speaker 1: know why I was mad at you. I couldn't stand you,
Speaker 1: and I did say stuff about your daughter because I
Speaker 1: was I was upset. I'll take that. But instead you
Speaker 1: you tried to cover it up. But because you know,
Speaker 1: especially with this season, it comes up again, It comes
Speaker 1: up again because everybody knows like you're not being truthful.
Speaker 1: So and it's hard for me to move past that.
Speaker 1: Just how do how do you move when you got
Speaker 1: to kids? This is what I'm saying. So I'm kind
Speaker 1: of like me, not my kids, not my kids, And
Speaker 1: I feel like, you know, I love her to death.
Speaker 1: I don't wish her anything negative in life, better than me,
Speaker 1: but talk about whatever happens happen. Yeah, but you know,
Speaker 1: when it comes to my baby, somebody that you've spent
Speaker 1: time with. And Shanis is so in it and she's
Speaker 1: been the topic of conversation for two seasons, right, and
Speaker 1: it's like she never apologized, never said sorry. Never She
Speaker 1: ended up texting her when we started filming this season,
Speaker 1: which is another thing. I'm like, you know, you could
Speaker 1: have reached out to her pride to filming. Everything's not
Speaker 1: feel the show, everything's not feli show weak. You could
Speaker 1: have reached out to me during the after answerdam and
Speaker 1: been like, you know what, like I want to talk
Speaker 1: to you one to one Chanise. I'm sorry that her
Speaker 1: name is being thrown around like this, but that never happened.
Speaker 1: How hard is it for she needs to She's not
Speaker 1: even really on the show like that. And you know
Speaker 1: she's so like, I mean, she looks how she looks,
Speaker 1: but she's such a sweet soul. So she's just I
Speaker 1: feel bad, and as her mom might feel responsible because
Speaker 1: I'm I'm the one that's on the show, you know,
Speaker 1: so it's not it's not fair to her. You know,
Speaker 1: It's like, why is she always the topic of conversation
Speaker 1: just because you know, she's this beautiful girl that you know,
Speaker 1: women want to hate on because that's all I can
Speaker 1: think of, Like what else could it possibly because you
Speaker 1: want to take a dig at me and that's really
Speaker 1: the way they know to get to you. Yes, and
Speaker 1: you know, looked all the therapy and all the Yanla's
Speaker 1: in the world, like when it comes to my kids,
Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not her own. All right. We got
Speaker 1: more with Evelyn Lozatta when we come back, don't move.
Speaker 1: It's to Breakfast Club. Good Morning, the Breakfast Club. Everybody's
Speaker 1: DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlemagne the guy we are the
Speaker 1: Breakfast Club were still kicking it with Evelyn Lozada Ye.
Speaker 1: So with Carl, I saw you and Tammy had a
Speaker 1: back and forth over her commenting on his post. Yeah right,
Speaker 1: and you felt like she was being thirsty or whatever,
Speaker 1: but understanding that she was supporting Magda Stallion, do you
Speaker 1: feel like that's I just feel like she should have
Speaker 1: been on Magda Stallion's point page, you know what I'm saying. Okay,
Speaker 1: like Carl, it's not like Carl has one hundred thousand
Speaker 1: followers on you know, Instagram, like he's active now, and
Speaker 1: we could talk about the Magda Stallion thing because when
Speaker 1: he we had a conversation that he was going to
Speaker 1: start this record label. We were still together and I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna lie. I kind of was like, oh, here
Speaker 1: we go trying to do something, and then I did.
Speaker 1: I thought that he and he was like, you're a hater,
Speaker 1: and you know, so for me to see how good
Speaker 1: he's doing with it, Like, I'm like, okay, I have
Speaker 1: to give you credit when credit is due. I have
Speaker 1: to eat Crow. I'm gonna eat because I want him
Speaker 1: to do good, you know what I'm saying, Like, I
Speaker 1: don't hate on him. He does good. Kids are great,
Speaker 1: you know, like he is very passionate. People didn't even
Speaker 1: know their affiliation. You really don't. And I thought it
Speaker 1: was some bush I did is way from to get
Speaker 1: more girls. I just was like, really because we were
Speaker 1: still together at the time. I'm like, you, I haven't
Speaker 1: met Megan because we broke up at this By the
Speaker 1: time he started working with Megan, we were done. But
Speaker 1: prior to that, he's like, yeah, you know what, I'm
Speaker 1: thinking about starting a record label. This is he retired.
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, like, you throw that money away? All right? Off,
Speaker 1: here we go. Everybody's about to go bro right, you know.
Speaker 1: But he's doing really well and I'm really really proud
Speaker 1: of him. Would you get married again? I would? I
Speaker 1: feel like my first marriage, I was trying to get
Speaker 1: that an it didn't. I couldn't. I couldn't, you know,
Speaker 1: I couldn't, but I would. I would get married. I
Speaker 1: love love. I'm a relationship type. I was with one
Speaker 1: for ten years, married Chad. I'm married Chad and with
Speaker 1: Carl for you know, four and a half years. So
Speaker 1: I'm a relationship type. I've seen somebody new. No, you
Speaker 1: know about to go not rab dash it rab kardash
Speaker 1: because if I cauted it him to sound a little funny. Okay,
Speaker 1: here you quote it, Sep. You said, Rob Kardashian has
Speaker 1: a big sashi and say it like that. You say
Speaker 1: it again? How she do it? Rob Kardashian has a
Speaker 1: big sausage. Wow? And he said, and you're a squirtter.
Speaker 1: Oh wow, Sorry, Grandpa, I'm sorry, So explain that. So
Speaker 1: that really started. I've never I've never seen I've never
Speaker 1: seen his sausage. It just really started off as a bet,
Speaker 1: like I was. Dad was dared. I was dared, and
Speaker 1: I take dared seriously. I was like, don't dare me
Speaker 1: because I'll tweet something crazy. So I wished him I
Speaker 1: had We're cool, never went on a date with I
Speaker 1: feel like he's an amazing father, you know, um, and
Speaker 1: I wish them a happy Father's Day. And I said
Speaker 1: happy because you know, I'm a little crazy. It's a
Speaker 1: happy Father's Day, big Rob. And he was like, oh,
Speaker 1: thank you. I bet you won't say that to the world.
Speaker 1: I said, don't play with me because I would. He
Speaker 1: was like, no, you won't, and then that's why I
Speaker 1: ended up happening. So it was really just like a
Speaker 1: you know, I took a bat too serious? How did
Speaker 1: you know you're a squirrel? No, that was a joke.
Speaker 1: That was a joke, okay, but in real life, I'm not. No,
Speaker 1: I don't know, not even once. No, I don't know
Speaker 1: how to do it. This is awkward. I'm going to
Speaker 1: human reason, I don't know how you're going to human
Speaker 1: was about to go get a shot or something. Just
Speaker 1: tell you know, Envy's a squarter. I heard, yeah, I'm sure,
Speaker 1: I think so I'm definitely going to let's go get
Speaker 1: a drink. Now, you know you got robbed in the gym. Now,
Speaker 1: because after that post, you know Robert the pit. Oh
Speaker 1: did he? Yes? I am so happy in the gym.
Speaker 1: Get robber shot. I think Rob is a nice guy,
Speaker 1: I really really do. I think Rob is a nice guy.
Speaker 1: I feel like he has that's the way of turning
Speaker 1: somebody down. No, would you give a shot? What? Yeah,
Speaker 1: there's a lot. There's a lot. Then she's got to
Speaker 1: deal with the other whole family stuff. And you know,
Speaker 1: I like the family. I feel like the family's cool.
Speaker 1: So they have like haters today turn on you? Yeah, right,
Speaker 1: But I feel like I'm a good person, so that
Speaker 1: wouldn't happen. But you know, I think he's he's a
Speaker 1: nice guy. Um. I feel like he has potential for greatness. Okay,
Speaker 1: and I hope he really keeps kicking ass in the
Speaker 1: gym because I think he's a nice looking man. So
Speaker 1: if he if he gets in the gym and together
Speaker 1: he has an athlete's body, because you like athlete's body,
Speaker 1: athletics body. Would you have a little past that? Now,
Speaker 1: I'll take a little little ball belly. I'll take a
Speaker 1: little ball of belly. I'll take a little ball. Rob.
Speaker 1: Let's go on a day. You would give it a shot?
Speaker 1: I would go on a day. Okay, Rob, there you
Speaker 1: got send me something, Rob. And you know, look, you
Speaker 1: know his mom is dating younger. He could day older.
Speaker 1: You know what I mean? But it's you know, there
Speaker 1: you go. Not well, thank you for joining us. Thank you.
Speaker 1: It's Evelyn Lozada. It's the Breakfast Club. Keep the Breakfast
Speaker 1: Club humble with slants of the Breakfast Club. Hate me
Speaker 1: if you want to love me if you want, but
Speaker 1: just use your comments wanting everybody's DJ Envy Angela yee.
Speaker 1: Charlemagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. It's time
Speaker 1: for slander the Breakfast Club, right, We need the humbling,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. We like to do this
Speaker 1: every now and then, just to keep us humble, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean. All Right, Well, let's get to
Speaker 1: a KLA. Good morning guys. Hey, Kelly, who you want
Speaker 1: to slander Charlemagne? Why you want slander Charlemagne. I'm a
Speaker 1: fairly new listener. I've been listening for about two years,
Speaker 1: and um, Charlemagne has been open and honest about what
Speaker 1: he went through at the child in terms of him
Speaker 1: sexual molestation. And you know, I wonder if maybe you
Speaker 1: need to explore that a little deeper in your therapy,
Speaker 1: because out of the three of y'all, Charlotmagne, you are
Speaker 1: the only one that makes so many over the top
Speaker 1: sexual references about man's hearts, about doing things sexually that
Speaker 1: most people don't even talk about in the privacy of
Speaker 1: their own home. And I wonder it's because you have
Speaker 1: residual issues with what happened to you, because it's very
Speaker 1: cringe worthy to listen to you make so many over
Speaker 1: the top sexual reference you do talk about man, but
Speaker 1: a little plane. Yeah, that's a valid point. You do talk, right,
Speaker 1: But I'm not I'm not even just mutinous. I think
Speaker 1: she might be right, But thank you, Kelly. Did you
Speaker 1: hear anything this morning? Uh? Not this morning, so I
Speaker 1: don't kind of room for you this morning. But you know,
Speaker 1: y'all not off the air for another forty five minutes.
Speaker 1: You must have just got in the car when I
Speaker 1: told you didn't hit, when I when you didn't hit,
Speaker 1: when I told Envy that just because a man tells
Speaker 1: you to get on your knees like you used to,
Speaker 1: it might not be a reference. Hear that? Okay, that
Speaker 1: was kind of mile compared to how you Yeah, that
Speaker 1: is right. Did you hear how we tell he was
Speaker 1: gonna fill in his face. I didn't say no, he
Speaker 1: didn't say that. That didn't happen. But thank you, Kelly. Hey, Jason,
Speaker 1: come on to Jason. It was going on envy, Angela?
Speaker 1: What the hell you just saying to Charlotte Man? I
Speaker 1: think here closet everything y'all talk about it comes back
Speaker 1: to some closet homosexual stuff. What's up with that, Charlotte
Speaker 1: Night Like? What you mean an example? What's in my closet?
Speaker 1: I mean an example? Tim? Like this morning I was
Speaker 1: talking about the grouse. Westbrook, you're talking about what baby?
Speaker 1: She was gay? And he's to get on it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I had nothing to do with anything. What are you
Speaker 1: talking about this? Because I don't understand why people just
Speaker 1: jumped to the conclusion that that meant slavery just because
Speaker 1: a man tells another man get on your knees like
Speaker 1: you used to. But that's a conclusion, Russell Westbrook, jump too.
Speaker 1: But why did you go to the home side? Homo
Speaker 1: side is murder? Sir? Oh Roberts, Hey, Robert, how you doing? Oh?
Speaker 1: How you doing? I'm good? Who you want to slander?
Speaker 1: Why do you want to slander me? Brother, Man, I
Speaker 1: really started following you on Instagram, Man, all your posts.
Speaker 1: That is a different call with the same hoodie on.
Speaker 1: He got it on? Now? Who do he is it?
Speaker 1: What does it say? Is it? My guy? First enemies?
Speaker 1: I love that brand. I wonder why I love that brand.
Speaker 1: I love that brand. Yeah, you can go to the
Speaker 1: Body of God dot com to get your You know,
Speaker 1: my dad said that the same. Do you own any
Speaker 1: other clothes? You were that same hood the other time?
Speaker 1: Why don't you think it's the same hoodie? It's different
Speaker 1: colors exactly. It might be the same as smells the same.
Speaker 1: It's not one on going on? What was up? Me? Going?
Speaker 1: Who live? Hey? What's up? My Dominican brother? No, you're
Speaker 1: talking to me. I ain't American. I'm nine eat something
Speaker 1: to say West African, sir, No, I'm talking about see Poppy.
Speaker 1: You better tell you beldn embrace that man? Who you
Speaker 1: want to slay? The boy he's doing though? Man, I
Speaker 1: just want to say what a couple two guys on
Speaker 1: the two Guards every morning? Man, y'all funny Charlotte Man,
Speaker 1: the guy I gotta love for you. Man, you even
Speaker 1: funk all the time, and that's a good thing. Well,
Speaker 1: thank you, sir, But this is slaying of the breakfast clubs.
Speaker 1: So we can't talk about the slaying of y'all. Man,
Speaker 1: and I'm slaying to ask you because he's not embracing
Speaker 1: this waffle. Man, he's got to brake that waffle. He
Speaker 1: does embrace it. He eats him all the time. You know,
Speaker 1: he don't hold it down, though. Man, he'd be laying,
Speaker 1: he'd be laying um Charlotte Manus with that man. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm not Dominican, man, I'm black. He stopped his pancakes
Speaker 1: and you don't embrace your Dominican side, man, Hi Poppy
Speaker 1: cost he cho him every morning. I'm like, no worry.
Speaker 1: You know you got that though thing you It's almost
Speaker 1: spring time. He'll be out here with the white jeans.
Speaker 1: He'll be full blown. To me, any can buy someone
Speaker 1: Komo style instead, Peace, Poppy? What you calling him? I
Speaker 1: don't know, d Yo. He wanted to play in the dB. Poppy,
Speaker 1: how's it for you? He definitely called you Poppy. D
Speaker 1: This is a slander, man, because I think you're really gay, man,
Speaker 1: I really think you're gay. And be like, because you
Speaker 1: old y'are always so sensitive brows but damn bro, you
Speaker 1: Oh he's got to be so sensitive, so goddamn b Charlomagne. Bro,
Speaker 1: I love you, bro, but you look like a one
Speaker 1: on wallet. Bro. Yes I'm gay, but he's done everything
Speaker 1: about your face. Bro, That's all I'm gonna say. And
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go back to every Yo. You need to
Speaker 1: stop playing some real man, some real stuff. Man. You
Speaker 1: don't get paid to play real music. And then y'all
Speaker 1: can always complaining about home. Man. We tired of hearing
Speaker 1: the same stuff and played the same whack. Yes he
Speaker 1: dies for that. You ain't got none for ye. Love
Speaker 1: you laughed like a four year old little girl, and
Speaker 1: you need to fix your whole laugh and sound of fact.
Speaker 1: Let's go to Disneyland, something new for your life. Okay.
Speaker 1: I liked it. I liked it. I liked your slander
Speaker 1: this morning. It started off strong. I don't mind laughing
Speaker 1: like did a little week, but it was strong, all right,
Speaker 1: Bye man, Slander The Breakfast Club eight five one h
Speaker 1: five one keeping lock this to Breakfast Club. Good morning,
Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee Charlomagne,
Speaker 1: the guy, We all the Breakfast Club. We got a
Speaker 1: special guest. In the beat, we say special guests a lot,
Speaker 1: but sometimes you gotta put a little more sauce on
Speaker 1: it for certain people. Okay, there's a whole legend right
Speaker 1: here named miss Stephanie Mills. Yes, welcome, thank you. I'm
Speaker 1: so excited because I watched you guys all the time
Speaker 1: and listen and everything. I'm excited. You told me that
Speaker 1: I saw you at the Tyler Perry Grand opening. Wonderful.
Speaker 1: Oh that was amazing. It was wonderful. He celebrates that,
Speaker 1: and I was like, Stephanie Mills, listen to the Breakfast Club. Yeah,
Speaker 1: do you quite who? He just made his day? Let
Speaker 1: me just saying when I left, quite like you said
Speaker 1: she could sing that she might not be able to
Speaker 1: see me. Was just having a conversation week about to
Speaker 1: turn by ugly, because you know how women don't say
Speaker 1: to you by ugly. I've never heard anybody just say yeah.
Speaker 1: Nobody said that to me because yeah, it's Felicia and
Speaker 1: the morning Black. Yeah. I mean sometimes my friends saying
Speaker 1: the morning black. Yeah, come on and Blackie, how you doing?
Speaker 1: I never got that one. You never So how did
Speaker 1: you get into the music industry? Let's stalk from the start.
Speaker 1: Let's start from the beginning. I was like seven years
Speaker 1: old and singing, you know, listening to the radio and singing,
Speaker 1: and my sisters used to always, you know, like put
Speaker 1: me in little talent shows and things like that. And
Speaker 1: then I auditioned. I went to the Apollo and I
Speaker 1: won three weeks in a row. And then I auditioned
Speaker 1: for a play called Maggie Flynn that ran on Broadway
Speaker 1: about nine months and that's and from there then I
Speaker 1: had a record out call I knew it was love,
Speaker 1: and the producer Ken Harper heard that record and asked
Speaker 1: me to come down in audition for the Wiz And
Speaker 1: because I had audition for a lot of different things
Speaker 1: and so much rejection, I didn't want to do it.
Speaker 1: My mother made me go, and thank God, before we
Speaker 1: get to the how do you get the record deal? Singing? Okay,
Speaker 1: they heard me sing at the Apollo, and then I
Speaker 1: had to the Broadway show and then Paramount Records in
Speaker 1: a microphone, I got you. What kind of deal was it? Like?
Speaker 1: Did you have business savvy or your parents or I
Speaker 1: didn't have business savvy, but my parents and my family
Speaker 1: managed me well a very very long time. So I
Speaker 1: didn't have business savvy yet at that time. So magically
Speaker 1: you gotta take advantage of early on I got based
Speaker 1: oh yes, make no money no, yes, yes, no, yes,
Speaker 1: yes you will. You still get taken advantage of even
Speaker 1: when you when you were successful, because they employed their
Speaker 1: friends all around you. So you have to be careful.
Speaker 1: How old were you when you played Dorothy and seventeen
Speaker 1: years old? How was that like? Because that's what I mean,
Speaker 1: that's that was his debut if I'm not to say
Speaker 1: that was that was the big thing. Yes, it was wonderful.
Speaker 1: Of the cast. Felicia Rashad was in it. She was
Speaker 1: a munchkin and she played She was the understudy for Glinda.
Speaker 1: It was I've stayed in it five years now. Why
Speaker 1: didn't they use you for the movie though? Because Diana,
Speaker 1: you know, she was a biggest star than me. Ye.
Speaker 1: They hardly ever used the Broadway person for the movie.
Speaker 1: I don't know why, but I was signed to Motown
Speaker 1: briefly and uh, but Diana wanted it. She came to
Speaker 1: the show quite often. Yeah, we lookt out that single
Speaker 1: um something in the Way. Yes, that was written by
Speaker 1: a Jela win Bush. Really wow. Yes, and produce. Yes,
Speaker 1: all the DJs were you? Were you aware of all
Speaker 1: the dj doing their own mixes? No? No, But did
Speaker 1: you see the one with care? And he told me
Speaker 1: I was not aware of that, not at all, not
Speaker 1: at all. No, nobody. You never been in a party
Speaker 1: and heard nobody playing party the clubs or anything like that. Really,
Speaker 1: And now that I'm old, I'm like, I want to
Speaker 1: I want to party and get out there. But I didn't.
Speaker 1: I didn't hang out that much. I was always working.
Speaker 1: You feel like you missed your child in a way. No,
Speaker 1: I think I made it, made up for it in
Speaker 1: my forties. What you doing your forties is gracious. I
Speaker 1: came a little frisky, my boy, what do you call frisky?
Speaker 1: What is frisky? Had a little fun. I was a
Speaker 1: cougar and my party. Oh he's messing with younger man. Yes, okay,
Speaker 1: she said, yes, straight up? Yes, yes? Did they know?
Speaker 1: Did they even know you was forty something? Because I
Speaker 1: always was. I'm always honest. I don't like people that
Speaker 1: say they're not well. I couldn't say. I don't respect
Speaker 1: people that don't own up to their own age. You've
Speaker 1: earned those years, that's right. Well, those the guys that
Speaker 1: were attracted to you too, Like the younger guys were
Speaker 1: always trying to talk to younger guys were always attracted
Speaker 1: to me. They thought I was younger, right, And I
Speaker 1: was like, I'll be younger the baby you were. You
Speaker 1: were sugar mama too, because you had yes And that's
Speaker 1: what I got turned off. I don't want to be
Speaker 1: a sugar mom. You know I was a sugar mama.
Speaker 1: They didn't ask, did they, like, you know, but I'm
Speaker 1: giving like I'm flying first class. We gotta fly first class. Yes, Yes,
Speaker 1: gave a young man miss Mills car a BMW and Mercedes. Wow.
Speaker 1: One guy got too. No, one guy got a BMW.
Speaker 1: One guy gotta that hush money? Why did you do
Speaker 1: that for him? No? I gotta say this. My ex husband,
Speaker 1: Michael Saunders, was the program director for this station, and
Speaker 1: when I walked in here this morning, I was like,
Speaker 1: this is one O five, this is where they used
Speaker 1: to work. Yeah, he got them. All these rooms can
Speaker 1: tell some stories about you. We were divorced by then. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: well we were still cool. But was it at least
Speaker 1: you outright purchase the car purchase that's nice. I don't matter,
Speaker 1: Like maybe a lease and then you pay make the payments.
Speaker 1: Was the nicest thing anybody ever got you. Uh, I
Speaker 1: have people don't give me present. I've never had a
Speaker 1: man to shollow me. With presidents. I've always bought my
Speaker 1: own president, not even Michael Jacks. Used to date Michael Jacks.
Speaker 1: I used to date Michael Jackson, but we were young.
Speaker 1: I used to date. We dated while he was black.
Speaker 1: That's fine, that's the truth. Yeah, yeah, what was his
Speaker 1: mind set back? He was the most gentle, most kind
Speaker 1: for he never said a bad word about anybody. I've
Speaker 1: never seen him upset, never, and he's not a pedophile.
Speaker 1: When did he start changing, Like when you started seeing
Speaker 1: him lighting his skin and doing stuff for this? I
Speaker 1: think that. I think when he became bigger in entertainment world.
Speaker 1: They always tell you because I was always I was
Speaker 1: too black to this, to that, so they want you
Speaker 1: to cross over, so they tell you you have to
Speaker 1: you know, not sing so soulful not to so I
Speaker 1: think when he crossed over to pop that's when he
Speaker 1: began to change. When he began got all that success
Speaker 1: and he had I believe he had the wrong type
Speaker 1: of people around. When when did y'all break up? Why
Speaker 1: did y'all break up? Why did y'all stop? Because I
Speaker 1: wasn't I didn't want to go to certain people's houses
Speaker 1: for dinner or I didn't want to do that white
Speaker 1: people he started hanging around, Yes, yeah, I didn't want to.
Speaker 1: I didn't want to do that. So why do you
Speaker 1: think he got caught up in the whole pedophile scandy?
Speaker 1: Because Michael liked being around children because they were innocent.
Speaker 1: Even my brother Andre used to hang around Michael, and
Speaker 1: they weren't. They didn't want anything from him. They didn't
Speaker 1: have an agenda. And I think that's why he liked
Speaker 1: being around children. They just liked to play and have fun.
Speaker 1: They didn't have an agenda. But most people around him
Speaker 1: had an agenda. They wanted something. Do you think it
Speaker 1: was strange? And even behavior like staying over with the
Speaker 1: kids or anything like that. I didn't think it was strange. Yeah,
Speaker 1: the public and I think people that are around him
Speaker 1: made it strange and and and because he liked that,
Speaker 1: they made the story. But he's not that. Did you
Speaker 1: guys stay in touch even after all of that, like
Speaker 1: we did when he did the bad video? He called
Speaker 1: me and he wanted my best friend who was Greg
Speaker 1: birds to choreograph the bad video, and um, I got
Speaker 1: in touch and they got in touch with each other,
Speaker 1: and then I went to visit the set. That was
Speaker 1: the first time I ever saw him when he had
Speaker 1: totally changed. What did you think I whisp? I whispered something.
Speaker 1: I whispered something in his area? Get involved though. I
Speaker 1: used to call him all the time, and he used
Speaker 1: to laugh already used to use the word I heard
Speaker 1: Michael was, I heard Michael wasn't he was? He wasn't. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and he was not soft? What about him in competition
Speaker 1: with Prince? I never heard him say anything about Prince. Okay,
Speaker 1: Oh I love TP Yeah, I loved and I could
Speaker 1: say whatever I want. There was used to be a
Speaker 1: time with Teddy. You know, he had food, hot food,
Speaker 1: and nobody could eat until Teddy. And I'd be like, well, hey,
Speaker 1: you know, I'm hungry, I'm gonna eat, and I would eat.
Speaker 1: I could do almost anything Teddy, and it was Okay.
Speaker 1: I watched this documentary. I thought it was amazing because
Speaker 1: I didn't know all those things about him, and I
Speaker 1: thought it was great how he taped himself so they
Speaker 1: had all of these like audio autobiographies from him that
Speaker 1: they could include in it. Right? Where the things that
Speaker 1: you learned about him that you didn't know? Did you
Speaker 1: watch it? No? I knew a lot about Teddy and
Speaker 1: I was supposed to do that documentary, but I chose
Speaker 1: not to. Why did you not do because you know
Speaker 1: too much? No? I just I didn't like the way
Speaker 1: they were putting it together, and just for financial reasons.
Speaker 1: I didn't think that they were giving the people what
Speaker 1: they needed, and I thought other people were making money
Speaker 1: of somebody that they didn't even know. Ye y'all did
Speaker 1: two songs, Field the Fire and Too Hearts? Which one
Speaker 1: was your favorite? Both of them? I loved singing with Teddy.
Speaker 1: He was just a straight up dude. Do you remember
Speaker 1: those recording sessions? Yes? What was it like that party
Speaker 1: in the studio of all business? H Teddy was a lot.
Speaker 1: He was a lot. He was the biggest star at
Speaker 1: that time, and so I would have to say, come on,
Speaker 1: let's do this song and get it over with. As
Speaker 1: Lee Daniels reached out to you about the Teddy Pendergrass, No,
Speaker 1: Charlie Mack was just telling me about it. But I
Speaker 1: know that Tyrese is supposed to do it. Do you
Speaker 1: remember that you don't think tyres can pull it off.
Speaker 1: She's very uncensored, so let's go ahead. Why you know,
Speaker 1: But I was telling the name no that I don't give.
Speaker 1: But I think ted I think Tyrese will do a
Speaker 1: good job. You know. I don't like that he goes
Speaker 1: around saying he was Teddy's son, because I never saw
Speaker 1: him around Teddy at all. Maybe he means like in
Speaker 1: a spiritual sense, like maybe yeah, like that's like a father. Maybe.
Speaker 1: But I think he'll do a good job. I hope,
Speaker 1: And I told Charlie Mac I said, I hope y'all
Speaker 1: be good and stay true to who he was and
Speaker 1: not put a whole bunch of mess in it. Why
Speaker 1: do they do that? I was like, when it comes
Speaker 1: to like Teddy Pendergrass and Michael Jackson's any of the
Speaker 1: great black stars, they always gotta in their lives with
Speaker 1: some mess. But they don't talk about Elvis Presley marrying
Speaker 1: her at sixteen, or they tolerate us in this business.
Speaker 1: They don't celebrate us. But someone needs to make that
Speaker 1: documentary about Elvis. Everyone talks about it, and they don't
Speaker 1: talk about it. They don't talk about this, but someone
Speaker 1: needs to absolutely because so many other you know that
Speaker 1: white artists, that dude, have done the same thing, but
Speaker 1: they don't come after them. It's just like Kaepernick, you know,
Speaker 1: he took a knee for the brutality of policemen and
Speaker 1: no one remembers that, so they're making him this villain
Speaker 1: and he's not. He just stood up for justice because
Speaker 1: police brutality is real. Racism, it's real. I just experienced
Speaker 1: racism at the Guardia airport yesterday. Coming in. We had
Speaker 1: gotten the car you know how you get the cart
Speaker 1: from the lady that does my hair, Karina, and she
Speaker 1: had her hand on it, so she asked the guy,
Speaker 1: can you help us? And she was like pulling the
Speaker 1: cart and the guy just totally ignored us. And then
Speaker 1: this white woman came and put her bag on the
Speaker 1: cart and he helped her. And I told him, I said,
Speaker 1: you're ignoring us. He was something else. He was okay,
Speaker 1: Spanish or something else, because I call a black person
Speaker 1: out quick for that. Oh yeah, but we're the worst,
Speaker 1: you know, we are the worst against each other. I mean,
Speaker 1: we're so racist against each other. We don't support each
Speaker 1: other the way we should, and we shouldn't then we
Speaker 1: always want to cry. I hate that we you know,
Speaker 1: and all this botox. And well, let's talk about this
Speaker 1: book and your sons as a book. Yes, and your
Speaker 1: son has special needs? Yes, my son come here for
Speaker 1: hot Rod? Say hello, you gotta be careful with or
Speaker 1: with our stuff in here too? It is a week.
Speaker 1: Good morning. And first of all, how was it raising
Speaker 1: a sou special needcause you travel? I know it's a lot.
Speaker 1: I had him when I was forty five and I
Speaker 1: was I was really wanting to have a child. I
Speaker 1: didn't want that time to pass me by. So I
Speaker 1: was told that three months that my son was going
Speaker 1: to be a special lead. But I was like, I
Speaker 1: don't care if he has one eye or whatever. This
Speaker 1: is my baby. We're gonna rock this world together. And
Speaker 1: that's what I want to talk about this book that
Speaker 1: that he wrote. The talk about this book a little bit.
Speaker 1: What's the name of your book, baby Cranks? And what's
Speaker 1: the name of it? The Adventures and for Rod? Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: tell us about the book. What is the book, what
Speaker 1: is the book about? What is about cranks? Panks? He
Speaker 1: likes to do pranks, but he wanted to show that
Speaker 1: you could do pranks and be safe. Do you hear
Speaker 1: your mom? He's pretty Uh yeah? Who's your favorite artist? Tupa?
Speaker 1: What can he do a little bit of it? Come
Speaker 1: with me and Mary on what do it happen? Now?
Speaker 1: Whe Nah? Then love it? Did you like the Tupac movie?
Speaker 1: Did you like the All Eyes on Me movie? Yeah?
Speaker 1: How do you get into Tupac? Him listening? He's a mother.
Speaker 1: I could have been two girlfriend. Okay. He tried to
Speaker 1: hollog you before. No, his girlfriend. I like, I like
Speaker 1: that kind of guy, like, oh you like them? Thugs
Speaker 1: like that? Oh I do? I liked Yes, I like thugs. Yeah,
Speaker 1: educated ones former thus yeah, yes, thank you. How is
Speaker 1: raising that special needs on me? Is you stronger? It's
Speaker 1: given me patience and there's a love. You know with
Speaker 1: any child you loved them, but he just he's I
Speaker 1: feel like he's my gift. God gave me a gift.
Speaker 1: He gave me the perfect child for me because for
Speaker 1: ride when he was small, he didn't cry. I'd get
Speaker 1: up in the morning, have to do TV whatever. He's
Speaker 1: always traveled with me, and he's in a student he's
Speaker 1: on the computer now, academy. He's homeschooled. I mainstreamed him
Speaker 1: from kindergarten fifth grade, and then I didn't want him
Speaker 1: to go to middle school. Middle school? How was that
Speaker 1: with because I know kids could be so mean and
Speaker 1: so nasty together, well, I had I had a teacher
Speaker 1: go to school with him, and I go up to school. Everything.
Speaker 1: Somebody messed with my job. They're gonna have to deal
Speaker 1: with me. How did the book come about? Was he like,
Speaker 1: I want to His teacher when he would finish his work,
Speaker 1: would let him write. So one day she came to me,
Speaker 1: she said, your son, right, he writes stories and books.
Speaker 1: We should put it together. I said, really, So she
Speaker 1: gave me some papers that he had written, and I
Speaker 1: was like, this is really good. And that's how it
Speaker 1: came came about. You said you had him when he
Speaker 1: was forty five. It is because when you were younger,
Speaker 1: they would tell y'all focused on your career and focus
Speaker 1: on the business. No. I had been married a couple
Speaker 1: of times, and I had tried to have children, and
Speaker 1: I had problems getting pregnant. So at forty five, I
Speaker 1: was determined that I was going to get pregnant and
Speaker 1: have a child. I always wonder how come like when
Speaker 1: when you have a very Gordy who was so established
Speaker 1: and you know, put so many black artists on, why
Speaker 1: wasn't it more black executives at at helms, at these
Speaker 1: record labels instead of all of these coachiallycluis white people.
Speaker 1: That's my problem. I don't understand because they don't understand us.
Speaker 1: So how can you tell? Like I used to have
Speaker 1: a at MCA, you know, Gladys Night, myself, Mary J. Blige,
Speaker 1: she came in at the end, and all of us
Speaker 1: was on the label at that time, and we all
Speaker 1: would come out, you know, and we all got together,
Speaker 1: we would tour together and it was peaceful. But we
Speaker 1: I had one executive there and he wasn't white, he
Speaker 1: was black. That totally worked against me. Wow, yes, okay,
Speaker 1: But what I don't understand is they see you the
Speaker 1: way they are. White people see you the way they are,
Speaker 1: the way you are. There's nothing that you can do
Speaker 1: that's going to make them like you more. It's just
Speaker 1: like what Tyler Perry said, you know, Hollywood totally ignores
Speaker 1: him and he built this fabulous place and it was
Speaker 1: only us there a sprinkle of them, right, it was beautiful.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say this, Um, I think entertainers of today
Speaker 1: don't look at me as able to give them advice.
Speaker 1: Why do you think Why you say that? Because they
Speaker 1: would never take First of all, their handlers will keep
Speaker 1: you away from them, because I would honestly tell them
Speaker 1: the truth. I did the Whiz life with Mary. I
Speaker 1: did you know with Mary and Queen Latifa and Neo
Speaker 1: and all of them. I've been around that a couple
Speaker 1: of years ago. Yeah, a couple of years and you
Speaker 1: tried to talk to her, and now I didn't try
Speaker 1: to talk to her. I would never approach No, but
Speaker 1: they've never come up to me and ask me anything.
Speaker 1: Maybe they feel intimidated. I don't think so. Oh no,
Speaker 1: Why would you feel intimidated because people will look up
Speaker 1: to you. I don't think so. I just you. I
Speaker 1: don't think so. Charlomagne and I'm touching you, but I'm
Speaker 1: just the touchy I don't mind. I mean, you met
Speaker 1: my wife, but it is beautiful. Thank you. I'm so
Speaker 1: glad she's dark black yes right black, yes, yes, yes,
Speaker 1: I'm so glad when it comes to the music, right
Speaker 1: when you do music, do you think did you used
Speaker 1: to think about making songs that would be on the radio,
Speaker 1: that would be hit songs, or just songs that you
Speaker 1: were like, this is just a dope song. When I
Speaker 1: was younger, uh, they used to make those decisions for me.
Speaker 1: But then when as I got older, I didn't care.
Speaker 1: I didn't care about being politically correct. I didn't care
Speaker 1: about oh, you have to wear this, you have to
Speaker 1: be this. I didn't care about any of that. Are
Speaker 1: you still doing music now? No, it's different. I can't
Speaker 1: just come out with the song and play and then
Speaker 1: there's all us payola. I don't want to pay a
Speaker 1: one hundred thousand dollars to get my brecket play. Damn vy,
Speaker 1: that's something I don't want to play. Yeah, I don't
Speaker 1: want to pay. I don't want to pay. I don't
Speaker 1: want to pay. I don't want to play the games
Speaker 1: that they want you to play. Now, I just yeah,
Speaker 1: you know you don't know some radio now because you
Speaker 1: don't because you can. But I haven't felt like recording.
Speaker 1: I do things when I feel like it. Right What
Speaker 1: would be your dream tour? Right now? You and who like?
Speaker 1: Oh me, Well, I'm doing a show with SHACKA, but
Speaker 1: I would love talking shot up when I see shock,
Speaker 1: I say hey, bitch, and she says hey, that's how,
Speaker 1: that's why, that's why. That's how I greet out like
Speaker 1: hey bitch. She's like hey ho and then she said, oh,
Speaker 1: you're so cute. I say, oh, you look so good.
Speaker 1: So it's but I would love to do a tour
Speaker 1: with Shaka Anita and myself or Gladys and I would
Speaker 1: just love because the country people do it all the time.
Speaker 1: That would be an amazing tour. They do it all
Speaker 1: the time. Why can't we. I feel like a lot
Speaker 1: of these young women look up to you, but you
Speaker 1: don't realize that. And I think that they would love
Speaker 1: to connect with you. Well, I connect with Monica. I love.
Speaker 1: I mean, yes, I love Monica. I love because you're
Speaker 1: on the same type of energy. Yes we are why
Speaker 1: She's real and I am too. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I'm just saying that I would like if I come
Speaker 1: off and I'll say, yes, it's too late now, but
Speaker 1: Pop scaresway Pops. I'm sorry. But if I thought you
Speaker 1: just said if you you know, I was like no, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: I was like no, I was like, I'll you up,
Speaker 1: Like that's what I said. I don't feel like the
Speaker 1: real stories are y'all are being told, Like, no, they're not.
Speaker 1: They're not because the white people telling them. It's white
Speaker 1: people telling them, and you can't. It's just like Betty
Speaker 1: Boop was a black woman and she's colored as a
Speaker 1: white woman. It's you know, it's like they take out
Speaker 1: and run with it. So how do we get those
Speaker 1: real stories told? Like do you write books? Like what
Speaker 1: do you do? You have to work with the work
Speaker 1: with the people that are that are doing the stories,
Speaker 1: like Tyler would tell a real story. Would you ever
Speaker 1: write a book? Not a book about myself. I probably
Speaker 1: write a book on how to raise a baby. I'm
Speaker 1: part of us. Yeah, but I wouldn't write a book
Speaker 1: things that that I didn't experience going to with me
Speaker 1: to my grade. I need to hear these stories about
Speaker 1: like just even marriage and being in such a high
Speaker 1: profile business, being on the road. You know, I don't
Speaker 1: think I'm good at marriage. I don't think i'm good
Speaker 1: at man. I've been married three times. I've been married
Speaker 1: me though, you say you're not good at I'm craziest,
Speaker 1: you know, I mean, oh, do you think you're crazy? Well?
Speaker 1: You know, I suffer with depression. I got depression, and
Speaker 1: I just think people a man, I didn't know how
Speaker 1: to handle me, so that thing. Now, I probably would
Speaker 1: be a better partner because I'm really at peace with
Speaker 1: myself and I know myself. But back then I wasn't well.
Speaker 1: Back then people there was such a stigma around mental health.
Speaker 1: We didn't talk about mental health in the black community.
Speaker 1: I have suffered with it since I was thirty five,
Speaker 1: but didn't know what it was until I started going
Speaker 1: to see my psychiatrists and things like that. So how
Speaker 1: do you expect a man to know you just think
Speaker 1: you're tripping? I know you just don't like being married
Speaker 1: because you liked popping that. No, I don't. I don't.
Speaker 1: If you were ever gonna tell your story, where would
Speaker 1: your story start? In Brooklyn? Growing up? My heroes are
Speaker 1: my mother and my father. My mother was a new joke.
Speaker 1: She took no prisoners, and my father was just a
Speaker 1: gentle giant. But it would start there and growing up
Speaker 1: and my family, and because it wasn't always easy for me,
Speaker 1: you know, being in the business and being young and
Speaker 1: having sisters and jealousy and things like that. So I
Speaker 1: went through a lot. My life has not been easy.
Speaker 1: And you guys, why you gotta tell you the third
Speaker 1: because if you're doing a white person will and a
Speaker 1: white person better not tell my story, but what they're doing,
Speaker 1: what you saw leland Land. I don't like anything that
Speaker 1: they did on Michael. You know, I think I think
Speaker 1: they make fun of us, Like I never wanted to
Speaker 1: sit at their table. I wanted to do something with
Speaker 1: an artist. I'm not going to say their name, so
Speaker 1: don't ask me Charlemagne. And they were like, well, your
Speaker 1: audience is too black. I'm on television, so my audience
Speaker 1: is pop. So a black person, a black woman and
Speaker 1: she's a singer, and um, I was like, well we
Speaker 1: could go out and do know your audience is too black.
Speaker 1: But you know what, I'm good on my audience being
Speaker 1: too black. I don't care. They were my age, and
Speaker 1: I bet you right now they wanted the people that
Speaker 1: act so black, so pro black. They don't know this
Speaker 1: pop woman was on TV. You said she was a sitcom?
Speaker 1: What was it? She was on TV a white show
Speaker 1: when she fro New York sing on a white show.
Speaker 1: She's a Broadway star. She's done a lot, but I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna tell you so don't Broadway singing. Google, let
Speaker 1: me see Broadway. I'm gonna put Broadway star on black,
Speaker 1: Broadway star on white TV show that I'm gona hold on,
Speaker 1: hold on, let me see what comes up. You're not
Speaker 1: gonna figure it out. I like your necklace. What's the
Speaker 1: range we're on? My age? I think I'm younger. I
Speaker 1: think i'm older. Yeah, I have no idea who you're
Speaker 1: talking about. But it's okay. It's cool because you know, No,
Speaker 1: it was a while ago. I wanted she's still alive.
Speaker 1: You ever had to put hands on anybody? How many people?
Speaker 1: That's the question. I'll fight. I'll fight even today. I will. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she said, even today fighting over the last fight I
Speaker 1: got into. I don't know. I haven't fought in a
Speaker 1: long time. You used to fight other women, like when
Speaker 1: you were Oh no, I don't marry. I don't. I
Speaker 1: don't believe that women should fight other women about man,
Speaker 1: what if you caught her in your bed, in your
Speaker 1: house and I'm kicking that ass? Right? Yeah? Yeah? Have
Speaker 1: you ever cheated? She's talking to you? KISSI tells what
Speaker 1: artists you put hands I know you don't put hands
Speaker 1: on the artist before. I don't think I have. I
Speaker 1: would remember, I wouldn't put hands on the artist. But
Speaker 1: now a promota, you're gonna beat up some promoter. They
Speaker 1: don't pay your money. I've got my money. I can
Speaker 1: tell you a story, but i'm not. Come on, I'm not.
Speaker 1: I'm not because I can tell you a story, but
Speaker 1: i'm not. You don't money. We were in the studio
Speaker 1: and I was working with this one producer and his
Speaker 1: manager called me a spoiled bitch. Oh boy, and I
Speaker 1: hit him and then I picked up something hit him
Speaker 1: over the head with him. What was this something something
Speaker 1: in the studio that I could pick up. She's looking around, Yeah,
Speaker 1: did you hurt him? I don't know if I heard
Speaker 1: him or not, but he knew he was in a fight.
Speaker 1: His glasses all twisted. Well, if he gets tired of
Speaker 1: singing and want to do security, I'll hire you know.
Speaker 1: I just don't like to be don't disrespect you. Know.
Speaker 1: I love, I love, I love hard. I always tell
Speaker 1: my girls y'all in trouble, just call me. You know
Speaker 1: I'll be I'll be there. I'll be a backup for you.
Speaker 1: I love that. It's like if you called me and
Speaker 1: you said you said step you said somebody was messing
Speaker 1: with you, I'd be like, call me, yeah, Pops to
Speaker 1: get him. Or we appreciate you for joining us, thank
Speaker 1: you with us, thank you, thank you for having me.
Speaker 1: And the best part about this interview is all the
Speaker 1: conversations that's gonna happen after it, because I'm gonna be
Speaker 1: getting all of these texts and emails about all this
Speaker 1: stuff you probably used to do. I'm sure and and
Speaker 1: and I whisp your hey, Miss Mills, I heard yeah,
Speaker 1: and I'll tell you about it. Whoever wants to say
Speaker 1: and all that, just come on, give me a website
Speaker 1: for the book for Rod j m dot com, my
Speaker 1: son's book for rod jam dot com and instead Adventures
Speaker 1: of Rod Jay. Alright, there was a pleasure, Miss Mills. Absolutely,
Speaker 1: thank you. It's the breakfast Club. I was born to donkeys,
Speaker 1: the donkey of the Devil. Devil breakfast club. Yeah, donkey
Speaker 1: to day go to a California man named Nathaniel Gene Robertson.
Speaker 1: Nathaniel was arrested earlier this month on suspicion of killing
Speaker 1: his wife. That's it, that's the donkey. Nathaniel is getting
Speaker 1: donkey to day because he killed his wife for no
Speaker 1: reason at all. You can understand why he's getting donkey
Speaker 1: today for that, right. Yes, Nathaniel admitted in interviews with
Speaker 1: police investigators that he hit his wife with a concrete block.
Speaker 1: He said he was showing no mercy and claimed the
Speaker 1: alignments were not in place. The protector now, he killed
Speaker 1: his wife. So that's donkey of to day whevery, because
Speaker 1: donkey today is all about giving people to credit they
Speaker 1: deserve for being stupid, and killing your wife is indeed stupid.
Speaker 1: But it's not just the fact Nathaniel killed his wife.
Speaker 1: It's the reason why he killed his wife. What got
Speaker 1: into Nathaniel, what infected his spirit and made him commit
Speaker 1: such a hanness act. Well, let's quote a kget NBC
Speaker 1: seventeen for the report police a husband accused of murdering
Speaker 1: his wife with a concrete block. Here now with details
Speaker 1: of the man who's blaming mayonnaise as part of the problem. Well,
Speaker 1: according to police reports, Nathaniel Robertson admitted during an interview
Speaker 1: with Sheriff's detectives to beating Lydia Robertson with a concrete block.
Speaker 1: Robertson is quoted in the reports stating he did it
Speaker 1: to quote give her compassion and mercy as the alignments
Speaker 1: were not in place to protect her end quote. Court
Speaker 1: documents state Robertson said he had been infected by Mannaise
Speaker 1: quote they put him in. They in this case refers
Speaker 1: to a group of brutal, powerful people. Robertson said he
Speaker 1: couldn't identify, according to the report. Asked if he used drugs,
Speaker 1: Robertson said he used quote ice to help him breathe. Robertson,
Speaker 1: forty six, has pleaded not guilty to a charge of
Speaker 1: first degree murder in Lydia Robertson's death. He's being held
Speaker 1: on one million dollars bail. Nathaniel is quoted as saying
Speaker 1: he killed his wife because he was infected by Mannaise.
Speaker 1: Can we hate what this murderer says he was infected by? Again,
Speaker 1: Robertson said he had been infected by Mannaise quote they
Speaker 1: put him in. Oh, I can't believe this assassin since butcher,
Speaker 1: this slayer, this dog criminal, this homicidal manise maniac blamed
Speaker 1: Mannaise on killing his wife, homicidal man whatever, All right,
Speaker 1: let me hear what he says again. Let me hear
Speaker 1: what he says called him to kill his wife again. Please.
Speaker 1: Robertson said he had been inspected by mannaise quote they
Speaker 1: put him in. I know you wouldn't believe it if
Speaker 1: you didn't hear it for yourself. For all you people
Speaker 1: who call up it at I Heeart headquarters in New
Speaker 1: York City and complain about me, complain about me and
Speaker 1: call me racist and call me a bigot, all because
Speaker 1: I don't like mayonnaise? What did you have to say? Now? This,
Speaker 1: this right here is indeed the devil, the condiment of satan.
Speaker 1: Mayonnaise is disgusting. Too much of it ruins everything. You
Speaker 1: just need a little, just a little, to make something good,
Speaker 1: but too much of it makes everything bad. Too much
Speaker 1: mayonnaise and tuna yuka, too much mannaids and potato salad YUCKA.
Speaker 1: This is a story that literally has too much goddamn mayonaids.
Speaker 1: You can't argue with me anymore about the dangers of
Speaker 1: mayonnaise in our society because Nathan eel Gene Robertson shuts
Speaker 1: down all debates. Okay. Nathaniel is quoted as saying his
Speaker 1: wife had been his best friend. He didn't want to
Speaker 1: hit her a bunch of times. He said I wanted
Speaker 1: to end it. I didn't want her suffering, but he
Speaker 1: couldn't control himself because of maddays. Wow, there's nothing left
Speaker 1: to do here. There's nothing left to do here but
Speaker 1: play a game of guess what race it? Days? Now
Speaker 1: give me your clue with guys and girls. Man Nathaniel
Speaker 1: Gene Robinson, that's his name. He's from California. He beat
Speaker 1: his wife to death with a cinder block and says
Speaker 1: manonnais made him do it. Angela, Ye, guess what race
Speaker 1: it is? I'm gonna have dj envy three clues. Nathaniel
Speaker 1: Gene Robinson from California beat his wife to death with
Speaker 1: a cinder block and says, manais made him do it.
Speaker 1: Guess what racing is? White? You bow far car. He's
Speaker 1: indeed Caucasian. Can I call this guy your manage flavored
Speaker 1: mamo without y'all calling the front dousk here at the
Speaker 1: heart complaint? Can I call this man a human jar
Speaker 1: of helmets manaids without being called a racist? Bigger? Who
Speaker 1: age white people? I don't hate white people. I hate mayonnaise.
Speaker 1: And after seeing the effects mannais can have on a person,
Speaker 1: which is something I already knew you should hate Manonnaise too.
Speaker 1: Please let Chelsea Handler given Nathan you Gene Robinson the
Speaker 1: biggest he hare heehaw, heehaw. That is way too much,
Speaker 1: Jane mannis too much. Goddamn Manaise, damn. One day, y'all
Speaker 1: gonna listen to your good old uncle Charlot. All right,
Speaker 1: I know what I'm talking about, all right, Charlomagne, thank
Speaker 1: you for that donkey of the day. Yes, sir, all right.
Speaker 1: We got more coming up next with a breakfast club.
Speaker 1: The breakfast club, Hello, the relationship advice, need personal advice,
Speaker 1: just need real advice. Haul up mawn for asking morning.
Speaker 1: Everybody is dj Envy Angela, yee Charlemagne the guy we
Speaker 1: all the breakfast club is time to ask yee hello?
Speaker 1: Who's this? Um? I'm staying anonymous? All right, what's your
Speaker 1: question for you? Anonymous? Yes we can all right. So
Speaker 1: I have a dilemma. Um, when my boyfriend and I
Speaker 1: first started dating, we're gonna, you know, do it in
Speaker 1: the car, and he pulled his hands down or the
Speaker 1: foul older didn't he didn't fart, He just like had
Speaker 1: took a dump and like didn't wipe his butt? Hey,
Speaker 1: now we like looked together and whenever, um, we're are
Speaker 1: you gonna do it? I always, you know, hesitant because
Speaker 1: he doesn't wipe his butt, so how older? And you
Speaker 1: know he always has the days of his boxer, so
Speaker 1: skid marks, that's what they call him, Yes, skid marks.
Speaker 1: So how do you tell your man like, babe, can
Speaker 1: you please wipe you? Guys? Is he a grown man
Speaker 1: or a baby wearing a diaper? That is disgusting? First
Speaker 1: of all, judge that man, I'm gonna tell you, Oh
Speaker 1: is this envy? We're talking about you? All right? So
Speaker 1: first of all, do y'all have wet wipes in the
Speaker 1: bathrooms in the house? I think I need to keep
Speaker 1: him there, but that is what you don't use them.
Speaker 1: You gotta help him out, man, because there's first of all,
Speaker 1: there's no way he don't smell the doodoo coming out
Speaker 1: his butt when he pulls his pants down. Number one.
Speaker 1: Number two, you might have to tell him you gotta
Speaker 1: get up in there when you wipe yourself and wipe
Speaker 1: yourself good. And you might have to buy him some
Speaker 1: wet wipes to carry with him when he goes places
Speaker 1: and tell him to use those when he uses the bathroom,
Speaker 1: because this is not something that you can dance around.
Speaker 1: You have to be direct about this hygiene. She's right,
Speaker 1: but I'm not his mama though embarrassing. One time, you're
Speaker 1: gonna you have to time him because you know what,
Speaker 1: if you don't say something, you're gonna just end up
Speaker 1: having to smell dudu every time you have sex. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I can't do that, so just just tell him be like, babe,
Speaker 1: look at your underwear and see this. You're not wiping yourself. Well,
Speaker 1: are you getting up in the hole so you have
Speaker 1: doodoo stays on your sheets too? Huh? No, No, I
Speaker 1: would never do have to if it's in his underwears
Speaker 1: in the sheets, But you gotta, you gotta point it
Speaker 1: out because if you don't say anything, then I don't
Speaker 1: are you just having sex? And then during the smell,
Speaker 1: Oh girl, I will go down here, but I won't
Speaker 1: go down on him a lot because of that. Like
Speaker 1: I'm a even afraid, Like I don't want to. Why
Speaker 1: is it so hard to tell a man is asking?
Speaker 1: I don't know, but you could get can't you get
Speaker 1: you call out or something? I mean, if you eat
Speaker 1: an ass I can't wait till you ask. I don't
Speaker 1: want to. Oh, hell no, I don't want to hurt
Speaker 1: his ego. That's it. Well, girl, I don't want you
Speaker 1: to get some type of disease either, bacteria, infection. But
Speaker 1: this is this is for his own good. First of all,
Speaker 1: if you're doing laundry sometimes you don't want to have
Speaker 1: to touch that and clean that, right, right, And this
Speaker 1: is for his own benefit. This is to help him
Speaker 1: out in his life. You gotta show him. Look, baby,
Speaker 1: these are wet wipes. Now, me and you were having
Speaker 1: this conversation. Don't be embarrassed because we could talk about anything.
Speaker 1: And trust me, if you're having sex with this man,
Speaker 1: I'm protected. You should be able to tell in his
Speaker 1: ass things and he's not wiping himself. If you can
Speaker 1: do that, and you could lay up with him and
Speaker 1: do all of that, then you should be able to
Speaker 1: communicate with him and telling him, Babe, you need to
Speaker 1: clean your butt. It's gonna be so funny when you
Speaker 1: tell him. It's gonna be so funny when you tell
Speaker 1: him his butt stinks. And he was like, man, I
Speaker 1: was thinking the same thing about your poom poom, and
Speaker 1: guess what, and guess what she would do white pemp
Speaker 1: poom poom with a wet wife said, you ain't crap,
Speaker 1: ain't crap. You do want even crap? Don't you? Thank you?
Speaker 1: And just listen. This isn't time when when you got
Speaker 1: to be directed be like, look, you know, I don't
Speaker 1: know if you're just not wiping yourself right, but there's
Speaker 1: these stains in your underwear and sometimes I can smell it.
Speaker 1: So I just want to say, you gotta wipe yourself better.
Speaker 1: Here some wet wipes every time you go to the bathroom.
Speaker 1: And you shouldn't even have sex with him to after
Speaker 1: he showers, but if he's not cleaning his butt hole
Speaker 1: in the shower either, and then get an like that.
Speaker 1: I don't know what I'm say on the radio says,
Speaker 1: but it's cleaning his I will say. I'll be on
Speaker 1: my wife twenty one years and I do remember a
Speaker 1: time about fourteen fifteen years ago where she went down
Speaker 1: and she was like, hey, man, you need to go
Speaker 1: take a shower or something because you know and you
Speaker 1: appreciate it it. Yeah, I wouldn't. Maybe I didn't wipe properly.
Speaker 1: I don't know what it was, but she told me.
Speaker 1: It hurt my feelings. I just went and took a
Speaker 1: shower between nothing, like I don't understand. I don't think
Speaker 1: it was a comment to me before once or twice,
Speaker 1: three times, four times, five times happened to me before. Yeah, so,
Speaker 1: but like so, that's why you got to point it out.
Speaker 1: One day y'all will laugh about it, and hopefully that
Speaker 1: day that chella laughing, his butt will be clean. She
Speaker 1: got an embarrassed and pick up the underwear and be like,
Speaker 1: what's this and then let him see to do those
Speaker 1: stains and he'll get embarrassed and I'll never do it again.
Speaker 1: I like that, you know what I mean? And check
Speaker 1: your sheets, and I bet you gotta doose stains on
Speaker 1: your sheets. Yeah, and bet you knows trust me. Tappling
Speaker 1: to me once or twice put the skin marks in
Speaker 1: his face? You go too far? Thank you, mama. How
Speaker 1: do you like it? That's actually that's some young boys
Speaker 1: stuff though, because you know, like that's that's one of
Speaker 1: the reasons after I do a number two, I do
Speaker 1: go take a shower, except if you're at work. Yeah,
Speaker 1: if I'm at work, but then I'm still like I'm
Speaker 1: going home and like me and my wife go get
Speaker 1: right to it. I don't want to go home smelling
Speaker 1: like you never puh and then have sex right after
Speaker 1: hell and you can take a shower. How know. We
Speaker 1: don't want your money, butter pe you better white, better bro?
Speaker 1: All right? Ask ye eight hundred and five eight five
Speaker 1: one oh five one if you need relationship advice, he
Speaker 1: emails the breakfast club Go Morning. Did some real advice
Speaker 1: with Angela Yee's ask Ye Morning. Everybody is dj Envy
Speaker 1: Angela Yee, Charlemagne the guy we are the breakfast club
Speaker 1: in the middle of ask Yee, Hello, who's this? Hey man?
Speaker 1: What's something? What's your quest to feed? Bro? So this
Speaker 1: is my situation. Um, I was in a married right
Speaker 1: Me and my wife been married now about a year.
Speaker 1: So we got in a situation where, um, the relationship
Speaker 1: got physical. We had a physical arcase in our relationship
Speaker 1: and basically her family won't forgive me for that. Being
Speaker 1: her we had our issue, you know, we went through
Speaker 1: We know why the things happened and then happened. We
Speaker 1: still want to work it, but her family really do
Speaker 1: tool of it because of me flutting my hands on her. Well,
Speaker 1: of course her family, Yeah, I'm trying to figure out, like,
Speaker 1: how could we possibly work around the Well, her family's
Speaker 1: very protective of her, so of course they should feel
Speaker 1: that way, and so you shouldn't look at that as
Speaker 1: something detrimental. Of course they should feel like you put
Speaker 1: your hands on our family member and a woman, and
Speaker 1: they should definitely side at you for that. So first
Speaker 1: you have to understand they're very valid and their reason
Speaker 1: for looking at you and the way that they are,
Speaker 1: and that's a punishment that you have to take. And
Speaker 1: I totally, I totally understand that, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: It got physical, but I wanted you understand this for
Speaker 1: over the years, right being her both being back and forth,
Speaker 1: people that put our hands on each other, right, and
Speaker 1: it's kind of like it's kind of like, I k
Speaker 1: know what they ain't right for nobody to do it,
Speaker 1: But it's like if I wouldn't do something wrong, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. You go through my phone and
Speaker 1: she see something in my phone. She don't betrough my phone,
Speaker 1: and she attacked me because of things that she's seen
Speaker 1: in my phone. When she plutt hands on me plenty
Speaker 1: of times, right this time it was the other way around,
Speaker 1: I've seen something and her home, so I put my
Speaker 1: hands on her because of that, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So it really got out of hand because she had
Speaker 1: a bruisy guard and wow, that really really pushed it,
Speaker 1: you know. Yeah, And you bruised and scarred your woman
Speaker 1: up and that that should make you feel terrible. And
Speaker 1: I just want to say a couple of things. First
Speaker 1: of all, it's never right for a woman to put
Speaker 1: her hands on a man either. And I tell people
Speaker 1: that all the time. Women shouldn't be putting their hands
Speaker 1: Nobody should be putting their hands on each other. I
Speaker 1: think that, as you said, what happened was worse because
Speaker 1: you ended up really physically harming her, and you could
Speaker 1: have ended up in jail for that, and things could
Speaker 1: have gotten even worse. You could have permanently damaged her.
Speaker 1: You could have, you know. And one thing my boyfriend
Speaker 1: was tell me is that anytime, and his mom has
Speaker 1: always told him this, if you feel like you have
Speaker 1: to put your hands on a woman, that's you need
Speaker 1: to walk away. That's not the right woman for you.
Speaker 1: But you said, this is the one time that it happened.
Speaker 1: She wants to forgive you for it, and I can't
Speaker 1: tell a woman went to do. But I suggest that
Speaker 1: you guys have got to get real help, and that
Speaker 1: means that y'all have to go to therapy. You have
Speaker 1: to figure out why you reacted the way you reacted.
Speaker 1: She has to figure out how to keep her hands
Speaker 1: to herself as well. But there really is never an
Speaker 1: excuse for you to basically beat your woman up. And
Speaker 1: that's what you did. Yeah, it really ain't. I tell
Speaker 1: you what happened though, or why I did it. You
Speaker 1: went through her phone and saw something? Yeah, well, basically,
Speaker 1: well when I saw let me tell you what I
Speaker 1: saw though. I went through her phone, right, and I
Speaker 1: saw that she was actually heaving the affair with my
Speaker 1: son's football coach. Listen, I feel you, and there's but
Speaker 1: there's still no matter. It don't matter what you saw.
Speaker 1: There's no justification. I see, y'all. I'll understand what you
Speaker 1: say at a term like that. When you see that,
Speaker 1: you're still trying to justify it. I know we look, okay,
Speaker 1: can I saw every every you listen, Yeah, I'm listening.
Speaker 1: I don't agree with you, my brother. I'm gonna ask
Speaker 1: you your white fold right now. You say that the
Speaker 1: heaven out there with somebody that was close to y'all,
Speaker 1: and you had a little nick in your system. Your
Speaker 1: very first action to lead a damn house. You can't
Speaker 1: move off emotion in a situation like that. You got
Speaker 1: to move off strategy number one, number one because you
Speaker 1: shouldn't hit a woman in number two because you just
Speaker 1: got too much to lose. Brother. That's right. Now. I'm
Speaker 1: looking my system. I probably cry, and I'm in the
Speaker 1: fetal position. But what I am concerned about is that
Speaker 1: you are still trying to get people to back you
Speaker 1: up for your actions, and you cannot justify your actions.
Speaker 1: You cannot put your hands, You can't appeal to the
Speaker 1: men in the room and think that they're gonna be
Speaker 1: like yeat to get it too. I can understand why
Speaker 1: you did that. There's no explanation, there's no way that
Speaker 1: you are in the right in the situation. I feel
Speaker 1: you you were hurt, but that doesn't mean that you're
Speaker 1: supposed to physically harm your woman. I will say, I
Speaker 1: can understand why he did it. I don't agree though.
Speaker 1: I can understand the emotion in the alcohol, but I
Speaker 1: don't agree with you. Yeah, you can't justify it. You
Speaker 1: can't say, well, this is why I did it, so
Speaker 1: all good and so you cannot ever do something like
Speaker 1: that again. And you have to own the fact that
Speaker 1: you were wrong in your reaction. Now what she wrong?
Speaker 1: Dead wrong. You could have left her. You could have
Speaker 1: said I'm never gonna be with you again. You could
Speaker 1: have cut off whatever you know, support you give her
Speaker 1: or she gives you, whatever it is, but you physically
Speaker 1: put in your hands on her. It's never the solution.
Speaker 1: You're like, I knew all the wrong. I'll really be
Speaker 1: great it right now because like I feel, were separating.
Speaker 1: I don't move that and you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: I'm away from my kids and family. Family, had a
Speaker 1: whole lot of you spit from me before. But yeah,
Speaker 1: you bruise her up. You know how crazy that looks.
Speaker 1: What you need to do is get yourself into some
Speaker 1: therapy and show her that you're serious about rehabbing yourself
Speaker 1: and take that time apart to work on you. I'm
Speaker 1: doing it, and it don't feel like with me. I
Speaker 1: just had a bad situation at one time. Stop listening.
Speaker 1: There is something wrong. You shouldn't have reacted that way,
Speaker 1: and you gotta acknowledge that if you did it once,
Speaker 1: you'll do it again. So it's so wrong with me
Speaker 1: because of a womanstake. Everybody makes a mistake. I don't
Speaker 1: say I feel like I have to go get Yeah, everybody,
Speaker 1: everybody does make mistakes. But the problem is is, first
Speaker 1: of all, you're using liquor when you're upset, and that's
Speaker 1: that's the worst thing to do. You're upset, you mad,
Speaker 1: You're using liquor to to take away the pain, and
Speaker 1: you wind up being an abusive and yes, you have
Speaker 1: a problem and you need to deal with that problem.
Speaker 1: You don't want to make sure that happens again. And
Speaker 1: then the next time you're saying, yeah, I made two mistakes.
Speaker 1: You just want to make sure that older you, sir,
Speaker 1: he sounds older. Yeah, I made I made that mistake
Speaker 1: when I was seventeen years old, you know, putting my
Speaker 1: hands on a woman, you know, for the same situation.
Speaker 1: But you know I was I was had low emotional intelligence.
Speaker 1: Then I was immature, I was insecure, I had low
Speaker 1: self esteem, like my ego was bruised. But at thirty
Speaker 1: three years old, nah, I wouldn't make that mistake. If
Speaker 1: you're serious, go get some help for yourself and acknowledge
Speaker 1: that you're run because I don't think you really truly
Speaker 1: grasped it. Okay, I could feel good all right. I
Speaker 1: wish you the best. Ask you eight hundred and five
Speaker 1: eight five one oh five one. If you need relations
Speaker 1: ship advice, ye now is the Breakfast Club? Good morning
Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club? Hello the relationship advice? Need personal advice?
Speaker 1: Just need real advice? Call up down for ask ye morning.
Speaker 1: Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy we
Speaker 1: are the Breakfast Club. Were in the middle of ask yee, Hello,
Speaker 1: who's this? Yes, Sherry Brown ain't Sharon Brown. I don't
Speaker 1: from him to Virginia. I've been trying to get in
Speaker 1: touch a draw for like months and months and months
Speaker 1: Hu seven five seven eight h four. Okay, didn't sounds
Speaker 1: too great, Okay, Shy said, let's tell your question. Okay, okay. Um.
Speaker 1: I'm a very smart by the way, um, y'all inspirate
Speaker 1: me a lot. I listened to the radio because I
Speaker 1: suffered with PTSD and I love music and music. Hallan
Speaker 1: me down. I can do a lot of things in
Speaker 1: music and cookle music. I can dance the music. Got
Speaker 1: kid draw the music. I can read the music. I
Speaker 1: just love music. So um, I had a question because
Speaker 1: I love God right and I've been saying since I
Speaker 1: was three years old, and every every relationship I've ever
Speaker 1: been in, all the guys say that I'm crazy. Everybody
Speaker 1: in my whole city say I'm crazy. In Hampton, Virginia,
Speaker 1: I've been in seventy five seven since i was nine
Speaker 1: years old. My mom came here getting away from abusive
Speaker 1: our relationship that my father was doing. Her and my
Speaker 1: father couldn't get along, so she left my father when
Speaker 1: I was nine months old, and I was up with
Speaker 1: not having a father. So I failed to like having
Speaker 1: relationship with guys looking for father figures, and I was
Speaker 1: going with older guys. I never go with younger guys.
Speaker 1: So now without now that I'm forty three, I started
Speaker 1: attracting younger guys. Cooper stuff, Cooper stuff. So um Um,
Speaker 1: I went selivant for four and a half years. And
Speaker 1: because I was trying to fig out watch up getting
Speaker 1: these relationships that was abusive. And I mean they keep
Speaker 1: putting me down and their star of saying and like
Speaker 1: they love me like right away, like a munch too much.
Speaker 1: They loved me and then they, um, they say I'm
Speaker 1: creative and stuff I do? Mama, what's your question? What's
Speaker 1: your question? Like twenty six I have, like twenty you
Speaker 1: have like twenty sixty three. I counted them. I did
Speaker 1: a self anonymous analys, I draw, I do hair, I sing,
Speaker 1: I rap, I dido, I mentor, Mama, what's your what's
Speaker 1: your question? What's your question? Um, I don't like everything,
Speaker 1: but they keep telling me I'm not nobody. I'm a
Speaker 1: certified chef. Mama, what's your question? The question is the
Speaker 1: question is do a person or a good woman when
Speaker 1: they see as a woman, And the question is I'm
Speaker 1: trying to figure out why are you single? Do I
Speaker 1: keep dating these guys and say they don't believe in
Speaker 1: God because I believe in God, And every time I
Speaker 1: see from about God, they don't like it, and I
Speaker 1: don't understand why they don't like it. Maybe we should
Speaker 1: go back to the part where she said people think
Speaker 1: she's crazy. Okay, shy, just ask Jerry just has some
Speaker 1: things to get off her chest. This morning, Hey man,
Speaker 1: I got a crazy crazy and everybody keeps man, you're
Speaker 1: not Syry. Do you want angels? Advice? Shared, huh do
Speaker 1: you want advice? I'm trying to figure out. I'm trying
Speaker 1: to do on the ready. I'm like, y'all, so I
Speaker 1: can get into charming because I a lot of salt. Really,
Speaker 1: we know, I can't tell. I can't tell at all. Sold. Okay,
Speaker 1: So Sharry, you keep dating guys who don't believe in God.
Speaker 1: Don't ask that question. They stay to believe in them.
Speaker 1: But they got all these game stars on them my head. Okay,
Speaker 1: so they do believe in God. They heart on them
Speaker 1: blood and Sherry, remember Sherry. So it's not that they
Speaker 1: don't believe in God, as they don't praise and worship
Speaker 1: the way that you do. Oh well, I've been saying
Speaker 1: since I was three years old, and I've been in
Speaker 1: the choir. My mom made me go to church every
Speaker 1: fund and even though she said she stayed out all
Speaker 1: night and slept with people husbands and and mistress and
Speaker 1: all that, I've never had a husband. I've been the
Speaker 1: best woman that I've ever known, and the best mother.
Speaker 1: My mom just took my friend from me, and I'm like,
Speaker 1: really like fans the fun I'm in the best brother.
Speaker 1: I can never picked up. I've been mother to other
Speaker 1: people's kids that don't even mother that kids. All right, sharp.
Speaker 1: You know, the Bible says, Cherry. The Bible says kind
Speaker 1: of get in touch with drunk and like every Schry.
Speaker 1: You know, the Bible says a great deal about being quiet, right, yes, yeah,
Speaker 1: holding your tongue, shutting the hell up. Sometimes I leave
Speaker 1: that long he's still and listen. Got you you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. You can hear God? How you hearing God?
Speaker 1: And you talk so goddamn much, Sharry, I don't know
Speaker 1: I do why everybody just give me? I have ADHD
Speaker 1: I have yes, I Cherry, I got eshe MTV, I
Speaker 1: got all your hold on. But we just ran out
Speaker 1: of time. Very much, Cherry, Cherry, did you even ask
Speaker 1: a question? I don't know, Serry, Thank you very much, Cherry.
Speaker 1: Let me jumping the water. Send me a ticket. I
Speaker 1: take it the water, jumping in a jumping in the water.
Speaker 1: I need to go to something in the water. I
Speaker 1: can get a break. Somebody send me a ticket place.
Speaker 1: Oh you want to go on vacation now? Now our
Speaker 1: host this, I just want to be there. I just
Speaker 1: want to get away from all this show. What the
Speaker 1: hell is rong? We'll get your ticket to Virginia Beach.
Speaker 1: Thank you, Thank you. Virginia Beach just five minutes away
Speaker 1: from you, I know right from me. I used to
Speaker 1: live in NORFL, Virginia, Scherry. If you want to reach me,
Speaker 1: that email has helped me. Ye at gmail dot com.
Speaker 1: Do you help me yet? Gmail? You have enough space
Speaker 1: in your inbox for this email? Shay's about to send you. Well,
Speaker 1: the show's ever Thank you all for listening to the best.
Speaker 1: That call went on goodness, well we got rumors on
Speaker 1: the shair. Should have just started off. Hey, fam, if
Speaker 1: it is all right, we got more. Come up next
Speaker 1: with a breakfast club voting everybody's DJ Envy angela ye,
Speaker 1: Charlemagne the guy. We are the breakfast club. Now leave
Speaker 1: us on a positive note. Listen, man, I knew I'm
Speaker 1: a chure when I realized every situation doesn't need a reaction.
Speaker 1: Remember that the day every situation does not need a reaction.
Speaker 1: Sometimes you just got to leave people to do. The
Speaker 1: lame ship is that they do