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Speaker 1: Who's this? Good job? Called it? From Dave's part? John?

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Speaker 1: I thought she was up here before, but now this

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Speaker 1: all right now, how I want to go back though,

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Speaker 1: because this is evident first time. Yes, I knew you

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Speaker 1: DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlemagne the guy we are the

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Speaker 1: It's Evelyn Lozada. It's the Breakfast Club. Keep the Breakfast

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Speaker 1: Club humble with slants of the Breakfast Club. Hate me

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Speaker 1: just use your comments wanting everybody's DJ Envy Angela yee.

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Speaker 1: Charlemagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. It's time

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Speaker 1: for slander the Breakfast Club, right, We need the humbling,

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Speaker 1: a KLA. Good morning guys. Hey, Kelly, who you want

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Speaker 1: to slander Charlemagne? Why you want slander Charlemagne. I'm a

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Speaker 1: sexual references about man's hearts, about doing things sexually that

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Speaker 1: most people don't even talk about in the privacy of

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Speaker 1: their own home. And I wonder it's because you have

420
00:21:25,960 --> 00:21:29,520
Speaker 1: residual issues with what happened to you, because it's very

421
00:21:29,600 --> 00:21:32,800
Speaker 1: cringe worthy to listen to you make so many over

422
00:21:32,840 --> 00:21:35,240
Speaker 1: the top sexual reference you do talk about man, but

423
00:21:35,320 --> 00:21:38,199
Speaker 1: a little plane. Yeah, that's a valid point. You do talk, right,

424
00:21:38,240 --> 00:21:40,000
Speaker 1: But I'm not I'm not even just mutinous. I think

425
00:21:40,040 --> 00:21:42,720
Speaker 1: she might be right, But thank you, Kelly. Did you

426
00:21:42,720 --> 00:21:45,920
Speaker 1: hear anything this morning? Uh? Not this morning, so I

427
00:21:45,920 --> 00:21:48,119
Speaker 1: don't kind of room for you this morning. But you know,

428
00:21:48,240 --> 00:21:50,680
Speaker 1: y'all not off the air for another forty five minutes.

429
00:21:50,720 --> 00:21:52,600
Speaker 1: You must have just got in the car when I

430
00:21:52,600 --> 00:21:54,520
Speaker 1: told you didn't hit, when I when you didn't hit,

431
00:21:54,520 --> 00:21:56,760
Speaker 1: when I told Envy that just because a man tells

432
00:21:56,800 --> 00:21:58,520
Speaker 1: you to get on your knees like you used to,

433
00:21:58,560 --> 00:22:01,399
Speaker 1: it might not be a reference. Hear that? Okay, that

434
00:22:01,680 --> 00:22:04,560
Speaker 1: was kind of mile compared to how you Yeah, that

435
00:22:04,640 --> 00:22:06,240
Speaker 1: is right. Did you hear how we tell he was

436
00:22:06,240 --> 00:22:09,240
Speaker 1: gonna fill in his face. I didn't say no, he

437
00:22:09,280 --> 00:22:13,359
Speaker 1: didn't say that. That didn't happen. But thank you, Kelly. Hey, Jason,

438
00:22:13,440 --> 00:22:16,360
Speaker 1: come on to Jason. It was going on envy, Angela?

439
00:22:18,560 --> 00:22:22,639
Speaker 1: What the hell you just saying to Charlotte Man? I

440
00:22:22,680 --> 00:22:28,280
Speaker 1: think here closet everything y'all talk about it comes back

441
00:22:28,320 --> 00:22:31,359
Speaker 1: to some closet homosexual stuff. What's up with that, Charlotte

442
00:22:31,400 --> 00:22:34,080
Speaker 1: Night Like? What you mean an example? What's in my closet?

443
00:22:34,720 --> 00:22:37,919
Speaker 1: I mean an example? Tim? Like this morning I was

444
00:22:37,960 --> 00:22:40,760
Speaker 1: talking about the grouse. Westbrook, you're talking about what baby?

445
00:22:41,080 --> 00:22:43,360
Speaker 1: She was gay? And he's to get on it. Yeah,

446
00:22:43,359 --> 00:22:45,240
Speaker 1: I had nothing to do with anything. What are you

447
00:22:45,480 --> 00:22:48,760
Speaker 1: talking about this? Because I don't understand why people just

448
00:22:48,920 --> 00:22:51,520
Speaker 1: jumped to the conclusion that that meant slavery just because

449
00:22:51,520 --> 00:22:53,359
Speaker 1: a man tells another man get on your knees like

450
00:22:53,400 --> 00:22:55,840
Speaker 1: you used to. But that's a conclusion, Russell Westbrook, jump too.

451
00:22:56,040 --> 00:22:59,480
Speaker 1: But why did you go to the home side? Homo

452
00:22:59,560 --> 00:23:11,879
Speaker 1: side is murder? Sir? Oh Roberts, Hey, Robert, how you doing? Oh?

453
00:23:12,160 --> 00:23:13,960
Speaker 1: How you doing? I'm good? Who you want to slander?

454
00:23:16,920 --> 00:23:19,879
Speaker 1: Why do you want to slander me? Brother, Man, I

455
00:23:20,000 --> 00:23:23,240
Speaker 1: really started following you on Instagram, Man, all your posts.

456
00:23:23,560 --> 00:23:25,960
Speaker 1: That is a different call with the same hoodie on.

457
00:23:27,600 --> 00:23:29,119
Speaker 1: He got it on? Now? Who do he is it?

458
00:23:29,200 --> 00:23:32,919
Speaker 1: What does it say? Is it? My guy? First enemies?

459
00:23:33,920 --> 00:23:38,400
Speaker 1: I love that brand. I wonder why I love that brand.

460
00:23:42,200 --> 00:23:45,119
Speaker 1: I love that brand. Yeah, you can go to the

461
00:23:45,359 --> 00:23:47,560
Speaker 1: Body of God dot com to get your You know,

462
00:23:47,640 --> 00:23:49,160
Speaker 1: my dad said that the same. Do you own any

463
00:23:49,200 --> 00:23:50,720
Speaker 1: other clothes? You were that same hood the other time?

464
00:23:51,520 --> 00:23:53,280
Speaker 1: Why don't you think it's the same hoodie? It's different

465
00:23:53,280 --> 00:23:55,520
Speaker 1: colors exactly. It might be the same as smells the same.

466
00:23:55,680 --> 00:23:59,920
Speaker 1: It's not one on going on? What was up? Me? Going?

467
00:24:00,000 --> 00:24:04,639
Speaker 1: Who live? Hey? What's up? My Dominican brother? No, you're

468
00:24:04,680 --> 00:24:06,360
Speaker 1: talking to me. I ain't American. I'm nine eat something

469
00:24:06,400 --> 00:24:11,119
Speaker 1: to say West African, sir, No, I'm talking about see Poppy.

470
00:24:11,600 --> 00:24:14,119
Speaker 1: You better tell you beldn embrace that man? Who you

471
00:24:14,160 --> 00:24:16,520
Speaker 1: want to slay? The boy he's doing though? Man, I

472
00:24:16,600 --> 00:24:17,800
Speaker 1: just want to say what a couple two guys on

473
00:24:17,920 --> 00:24:20,119
Speaker 1: the two Guards every morning? Man, y'all funny Charlotte Man,

474
00:24:20,200 --> 00:24:22,320
Speaker 1: the guy I gotta love for you. Man, you even

475
00:24:22,359 --> 00:24:24,120
Speaker 1: funk all the time, and that's a good thing. Well,

476
00:24:24,160 --> 00:24:26,040
Speaker 1: thank you, sir, But this is slaying of the breakfast clubs.

477
00:24:26,040 --> 00:24:27,800
Speaker 1: So we can't talk about the slaying of y'all. Man,

478
00:24:28,200 --> 00:24:30,640
Speaker 1: and I'm slaying to ask you because he's not embracing

479
00:24:30,720 --> 00:24:33,040
Speaker 1: this waffle. Man, he's got to brake that waffle. He

480
00:24:33,200 --> 00:24:35,200
Speaker 1: does embrace it. He eats him all the time. You know,

481
00:24:35,960 --> 00:24:37,800
Speaker 1: he don't hold it down, though. Man, he'd be laying,

482
00:24:37,800 --> 00:24:40,880
Speaker 1: he'd be laying um Charlotte Manus with that man. Yeah,

483
00:24:40,920 --> 00:24:43,879
Speaker 1: I'm not Dominican, man, I'm black. He stopped his pancakes

484
00:24:43,920 --> 00:24:47,920
Speaker 1: and you don't embrace your Dominican side, man, Hi Poppy

485
00:24:47,960 --> 00:24:54,120
Speaker 1: cost he cho him every morning. I'm like, no worry.

486
00:24:54,400 --> 00:24:56,760
Speaker 1: You know you got that though thing you It's almost

487
00:24:56,760 --> 00:24:58,560
Speaker 1: spring time. He'll be out here with the white jeans.

488
00:24:58,920 --> 00:25:00,880
Speaker 1: He'll be full blown. To me, any can buy someone

489
00:25:00,960 --> 00:25:05,600
Speaker 1: Komo style instead, Peace, Poppy? What you calling him? I

490
00:25:05,600 --> 00:25:09,240
Speaker 1: don't know, d Yo. He wanted to play in the dB. Poppy,

491
00:25:10,560 --> 00:25:12,560
Speaker 1: how's it for you? He definitely called you Poppy. D

492
00:25:12,840 --> 00:25:15,639
Speaker 1: This is a slander, man, because I think you're really gay, man,

493
00:25:15,720 --> 00:25:17,440
Speaker 1: I really think you're gay. And be like, because you

494
00:25:17,840 --> 00:25:30,760
Speaker 1: old y'are always so sensitive brows but damn bro, you

495
00:25:30,920 --> 00:25:35,639
Speaker 1: Oh he's got to be so sensitive, so goddamn b Charlomagne. Bro,

496
00:25:35,760 --> 00:25:37,520
Speaker 1: I love you, bro, but you look like a one

497
00:25:37,600 --> 00:25:48,200
Speaker 1: on wallet. Bro. Yes I'm gay, but he's done everything

498
00:25:48,320 --> 00:25:50,720
Speaker 1: about your face. Bro, That's all I'm gonna say. And

499
00:25:50,800 --> 00:25:55,119
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go back to every Yo. You need to

500
00:25:55,160 --> 00:25:58,760
Speaker 1: stop playing some real man, some real stuff. Man. You

501
00:25:58,840 --> 00:26:02,680
Speaker 1: don't get paid to play real music. And then y'all

502
00:26:02,680 --> 00:26:05,560
Speaker 1: can always complaining about home. Man. We tired of hearing

503
00:26:05,600 --> 00:26:09,399
Speaker 1: the same stuff and played the same whack. Yes he

504
00:26:09,480 --> 00:26:13,680
Speaker 1: dies for that. You ain't got none for ye. Love

505
00:26:13,720 --> 00:26:16,960
Speaker 1: you laughed like a four year old little girl, and

506
00:26:17,119 --> 00:26:19,560
Speaker 1: you need to fix your whole laugh and sound of fact.

507
00:26:19,600 --> 00:26:24,720
Speaker 1: Let's go to Disneyland, something new for your life. Okay.

508
00:26:25,960 --> 00:26:27,760
Speaker 1: I liked it. I liked it. I liked your slander

509
00:26:27,840 --> 00:26:30,280
Speaker 1: this morning. It started off strong. I don't mind laughing

510
00:26:30,320 --> 00:26:32,520
Speaker 1: like did a little week, but it was strong, all right,

511
00:26:32,600 --> 00:26:36,200
Speaker 1: Bye man, Slander The Breakfast Club eight five one h

512
00:26:36,280 --> 00:26:38,320
Speaker 1: five one keeping lock this to Breakfast Club. Good morning,

513
00:26:38,880 --> 00:26:46,280
Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee Charlomagne,

514
00:26:46,320 --> 00:26:48,320
Speaker 1: the guy, We all the Breakfast Club. We got a

515
00:26:48,359 --> 00:26:50,920
Speaker 1: special guest. In the beat, we say special guests a lot,

516
00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:52,800
Speaker 1: but sometimes you gotta put a little more sauce on

517
00:26:52,880 --> 00:26:55,879
Speaker 1: it for certain people. Okay, there's a whole legend right

518
00:26:55,960 --> 00:27:00,280
Speaker 1: here named miss Stephanie Mills. Yes, welcome, thank you. I'm

519
00:27:00,320 --> 00:27:02,960
Speaker 1: so excited because I watched you guys all the time

520
00:27:03,040 --> 00:27:05,639
Speaker 1: and listen and everything. I'm excited. You told me that

521
00:27:05,680 --> 00:27:08,400
Speaker 1: I saw you at the Tyler Perry Grand opening. Wonderful.

522
00:27:08,480 --> 00:27:11,119
Speaker 1: Oh that was amazing. It was wonderful. He celebrates that,

523
00:27:11,320 --> 00:27:14,920
Speaker 1: and I was like, Stephanie Mills, listen to the Breakfast Club. Yeah,

524
00:27:15,680 --> 00:27:20,080
Speaker 1: do you quite who? He just made his day? Let

525
00:27:20,119 --> 00:27:26,080
Speaker 1: me just saying when I left, quite like you said

526
00:27:26,119 --> 00:27:27,480
Speaker 1: she could sing that she might not be able to

527
00:27:27,520 --> 00:27:32,320
Speaker 1: see me. Was just having a conversation week about to

528
00:27:32,359 --> 00:27:34,760
Speaker 1: turn by ugly, because you know how women don't say

529
00:27:34,760 --> 00:27:37,120
Speaker 1: to you by ugly. I've never heard anybody just say yeah.

530
00:27:37,240 --> 00:27:42,080
Speaker 1: Nobody said that to me because yeah, it's Felicia and

531
00:27:43,760 --> 00:27:46,600
Speaker 1: the morning Black. Yeah. I mean sometimes my friends saying

532
00:27:46,640 --> 00:27:48,880
Speaker 1: the morning black. Yeah, come on and Blackie, how you doing?

533
00:27:49,400 --> 00:27:53,320
Speaker 1: I never got that one. You never So how did

534
00:27:53,359 --> 00:27:55,640
Speaker 1: you get into the music industry? Let's stalk from the start.

535
00:27:55,720 --> 00:27:59,520
Speaker 1: Let's start from the beginning. I was like seven years

536
00:27:59,560 --> 00:28:02,280
Speaker 1: old and singing, you know, listening to the radio and singing,

537
00:28:02,320 --> 00:28:06,120
Speaker 1: and my sisters used to always, you know, like put

538
00:28:06,160 --> 00:28:08,040
Speaker 1: me in little talent shows and things like that. And

539
00:28:08,119 --> 00:28:10,960
Speaker 1: then I auditioned. I went to the Apollo and I

540
00:28:11,080 --> 00:28:13,720
Speaker 1: won three weeks in a row. And then I auditioned

541
00:28:13,800 --> 00:28:16,240
Speaker 1: for a play called Maggie Flynn that ran on Broadway

542
00:28:16,280 --> 00:28:20,600
Speaker 1: about nine months and that's and from there then I

543
00:28:20,720 --> 00:28:22,440
Speaker 1: had a record out call I knew it was love,

544
00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:25,680
Speaker 1: and the producer Ken Harper heard that record and asked

545
00:28:25,720 --> 00:28:27,639
Speaker 1: me to come down in audition for the Wiz And

546
00:28:27,760 --> 00:28:29,960
Speaker 1: because I had audition for a lot of different things

547
00:28:30,080 --> 00:28:32,720
Speaker 1: and so much rejection, I didn't want to do it.

548
00:28:32,880 --> 00:28:35,359
Speaker 1: My mother made me go, and thank God, before we

549
00:28:35,400 --> 00:28:38,280
Speaker 1: get to the how do you get the record deal? Singing? Okay,

550
00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:41,720
Speaker 1: they heard me sing at the Apollo, and then I

551
00:28:42,000 --> 00:28:45,800
Speaker 1: had to the Broadway show and then Paramount Records in

552
00:28:45,920 --> 00:28:48,040
Speaker 1: a microphone, I got you. What kind of deal was it? Like?

553
00:28:48,120 --> 00:28:50,240
Speaker 1: Did you have business savvy or your parents or I

554
00:28:50,280 --> 00:28:53,440
Speaker 1: didn't have business savvy, but my parents and my family

555
00:28:53,600 --> 00:28:56,560
Speaker 1: managed me well a very very long time. So I

556
00:28:56,600 --> 00:28:59,560
Speaker 1: didn't have business savvy yet at that time. So magically

557
00:28:59,560 --> 00:29:01,800
Speaker 1: you gotta take advantage of early on I got based

558
00:29:01,880 --> 00:29:06,520
Speaker 1: oh yes, make no money no, yes, yes, no, yes,

559
00:29:06,920 --> 00:29:09,960
Speaker 1: yes you will. You still get taken advantage of even

560
00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:13,920
Speaker 1: when you when you were successful, because they employed their

561
00:29:14,000 --> 00:29:16,440
Speaker 1: friends all around you. So you have to be careful.

562
00:29:16,680 --> 00:29:20,440
Speaker 1: How old were you when you played Dorothy and seventeen

563
00:29:21,560 --> 00:29:23,040
Speaker 1: years old? How was that like? Because that's what I mean,

564
00:29:23,080 --> 00:29:24,760
Speaker 1: that's that was his debut if I'm not to say

565
00:29:24,840 --> 00:29:27,720
Speaker 1: that was that was the big thing. Yes, it was wonderful.

566
00:29:27,800 --> 00:29:30,320
Speaker 1: Of the cast. Felicia Rashad was in it. She was

567
00:29:30,360 --> 00:29:33,800
Speaker 1: a munchkin and she played She was the understudy for Glinda.

568
00:29:34,160 --> 00:29:36,440
Speaker 1: It was I've stayed in it five years now. Why

569
00:29:36,480 --> 00:29:39,000
Speaker 1: didn't they use you for the movie though? Because Diana,

570
00:29:39,480 --> 00:29:41,280
Speaker 1: you know, she was a biggest star than me. Ye.

571
00:29:41,640 --> 00:29:44,520
Speaker 1: They hardly ever used the Broadway person for the movie.

572
00:29:44,560 --> 00:29:47,200
Speaker 1: I don't know why, but I was signed to Motown

573
00:29:47,280 --> 00:29:50,920
Speaker 1: briefly and uh, but Diana wanted it. She came to

574
00:29:50,960 --> 00:29:54,520
Speaker 1: the show quite often. Yeah, we lookt out that single

575
00:29:54,720 --> 00:29:57,640
Speaker 1: um something in the Way. Yes, that was written by

576
00:29:57,680 --> 00:30:01,120
Speaker 1: a Jela win Bush. Really wow. Yes, and produce. Yes,

577
00:30:01,960 --> 00:30:04,960
Speaker 1: all the DJs were you? Were you aware of all

578
00:30:05,000 --> 00:30:08,160
Speaker 1: the dj doing their own mixes? No? No, But did

579
00:30:08,240 --> 00:30:10,880
Speaker 1: you see the one with care? And he told me

580
00:30:10,960 --> 00:30:13,400
Speaker 1: I was not aware of that, not at all, not

581
00:30:13,560 --> 00:30:16,120
Speaker 1: at all. No, nobody. You never been in a party

582
00:30:16,160 --> 00:30:20,400
Speaker 1: and heard nobody playing party the clubs or anything like that. Really,

583
00:30:20,480 --> 00:30:23,120
Speaker 1: And now that I'm old, I'm like, I want to

584
00:30:23,400 --> 00:30:25,760
Speaker 1: I want to party and get out there. But I didn't.

585
00:30:26,720 --> 00:30:28,960
Speaker 1: I didn't hang out that much. I was always working.

586
00:30:29,160 --> 00:30:31,160
Speaker 1: You feel like you missed your child in a way. No,

587
00:30:31,280 --> 00:30:33,080
Speaker 1: I think I made it, made up for it in

588
00:30:33,120 --> 00:30:37,320
Speaker 1: my forties. What you doing your forties is gracious. I

589
00:30:37,520 --> 00:30:42,720
Speaker 1: came a little frisky, my boy, what do you call frisky?

590
00:30:43,760 --> 00:30:46,720
Speaker 1: What is frisky? Had a little fun. I was a

591
00:30:46,800 --> 00:30:50,920
Speaker 1: cougar and my party. Oh he's messing with younger man. Yes, okay,

592
00:30:51,040 --> 00:30:53,880
Speaker 1: she said, yes, straight up? Yes, yes? Did they know?

593
00:30:54,000 --> 00:30:56,720
Speaker 1: Did they even know you was forty something? Because I

594
00:30:56,800 --> 00:31:00,120
Speaker 1: always was. I'm always honest. I don't like people that

595
00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:03,160
Speaker 1: say they're not well. I couldn't say. I don't respect

596
00:31:03,240 --> 00:31:05,400
Speaker 1: people that don't own up to their own age. You've

597
00:31:05,440 --> 00:31:07,440
Speaker 1: earned those years, that's right. Well, those the guys that

598
00:31:07,520 --> 00:31:09,440
Speaker 1: were attracted to you too, Like the younger guys were

599
00:31:09,440 --> 00:31:11,840
Speaker 1: always trying to talk to younger guys were always attracted

600
00:31:11,840 --> 00:31:14,200
Speaker 1: to me. They thought I was younger, right, And I

601
00:31:14,360 --> 00:31:17,720
Speaker 1: was like, I'll be younger the baby you were. You

602
00:31:17,760 --> 00:31:20,960
Speaker 1: were sugar mama too, because you had yes And that's

603
00:31:21,000 --> 00:31:22,600
Speaker 1: what I got turned off. I don't want to be

604
00:31:22,640 --> 00:31:24,680
Speaker 1: a sugar mom. You know I was a sugar mama.

605
00:31:25,440 --> 00:31:27,280
Speaker 1: They didn't ask, did they, like, you know, but I'm

606
00:31:27,520 --> 00:31:32,560
Speaker 1: giving like I'm flying first class. We gotta fly first class. Yes, Yes,

607
00:31:33,480 --> 00:31:42,040
Speaker 1: gave a young man miss Mills car a BMW and Mercedes. Wow.

608
00:31:42,760 --> 00:31:45,240
Speaker 1: One guy got too. No, one guy got a BMW.

609
00:31:45,480 --> 00:31:47,720
Speaker 1: One guy gotta that hush money? Why did you do

610
00:31:47,800 --> 00:31:52,120
Speaker 1: that for him? No? I gotta say this. My ex husband,

611
00:31:52,280 --> 00:31:55,120
Speaker 1: Michael Saunders, was the program director for this station, and

612
00:31:55,400 --> 00:31:57,120
Speaker 1: when I walked in here this morning, I was like,

613
00:31:57,720 --> 00:31:59,640
Speaker 1: this is one O five, this is where they used

614
00:31:59,640 --> 00:32:02,600
Speaker 1: to work. Yeah, he got them. All these rooms can

615
00:32:02,680 --> 00:32:06,480
Speaker 1: tell some stories about you. We were divorced by then. Okay, okay,

616
00:32:06,880 --> 00:32:08,840
Speaker 1: well we were still cool. But was it at least

617
00:32:09,000 --> 00:32:12,160
Speaker 1: you outright purchase the car purchase that's nice. I don't matter,

618
00:32:12,360 --> 00:32:14,240
Speaker 1: Like maybe a lease and then you pay make the payments.

619
00:32:17,120 --> 00:32:20,760
Speaker 1: Was the nicest thing anybody ever got you. Uh, I

620
00:32:21,000 --> 00:32:24,360
Speaker 1: have people don't give me present. I've never had a

621
00:32:24,440 --> 00:32:27,960
Speaker 1: man to shollow me. With presidents. I've always bought my

622
00:32:28,040 --> 00:32:30,600
Speaker 1: own president, not even Michael Jacks. Used to date Michael Jacks.

623
00:32:30,600 --> 00:32:32,360
Speaker 1: I used to date Michael Jackson, but we were young.

624
00:32:32,760 --> 00:32:36,800
Speaker 1: I used to date. We dated while he was black.

625
00:32:38,240 --> 00:32:41,880
Speaker 1: That's fine, that's the truth. Yeah, yeah, what was his

626
00:32:42,040 --> 00:32:45,640
Speaker 1: mind set back? He was the most gentle, most kind

627
00:32:45,800 --> 00:32:48,400
Speaker 1: for he never said a bad word about anybody. I've

628
00:32:48,440 --> 00:32:51,560
Speaker 1: never seen him upset, never, and he's not a pedophile.

629
00:32:51,760 --> 00:32:53,520
Speaker 1: When did he start changing, Like when you started seeing

630
00:32:53,600 --> 00:32:55,480
Speaker 1: him lighting his skin and doing stuff for this? I

631
00:32:55,560 --> 00:32:59,920
Speaker 1: think that. I think when he became bigger in entertainment world.

632
00:33:00,000 --> 00:33:02,000
Speaker 1: They always tell you because I was always I was

633
00:33:02,120 --> 00:33:05,240
Speaker 1: too black to this, to that, so they want you

634
00:33:05,320 --> 00:33:07,760
Speaker 1: to cross over, so they tell you you have to

635
00:33:08,440 --> 00:33:10,760
Speaker 1: you know, not sing so soulful not to so I

636
00:33:10,800 --> 00:33:13,520
Speaker 1: think when he crossed over to pop that's when he

637
00:33:13,600 --> 00:33:16,080
Speaker 1: began to change. When he began got all that success

638
00:33:16,280 --> 00:33:18,360
Speaker 1: and he had I believe he had the wrong type

639
00:33:18,360 --> 00:33:20,200
Speaker 1: of people around. When when did y'all break up? Why

640
00:33:20,200 --> 00:33:21,920
Speaker 1: did y'all break up? Why did y'all stop? Because I

641
00:33:22,040 --> 00:33:25,200
Speaker 1: wasn't I didn't want to go to certain people's houses

642
00:33:25,280 --> 00:33:28,400
Speaker 1: for dinner or I didn't want to do that white

643
00:33:28,400 --> 00:33:31,400
Speaker 1: people he started hanging around, Yes, yeah, I didn't want to.

644
00:33:31,560 --> 00:33:33,760
Speaker 1: I didn't want to do that. So why do you

645
00:33:33,840 --> 00:33:36,800
Speaker 1: think he got caught up in the whole pedophile scandy?

646
00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:40,440
Speaker 1: Because Michael liked being around children because they were innocent.

647
00:33:40,520 --> 00:33:44,000
Speaker 1: Even my brother Andre used to hang around Michael, and

648
00:33:44,560 --> 00:33:47,720
Speaker 1: they weren't. They didn't want anything from him. They didn't

649
00:33:47,760 --> 00:33:50,280
Speaker 1: have an agenda. And I think that's why he liked

650
00:33:50,280 --> 00:33:52,440
Speaker 1: being around children. They just liked to play and have fun.

651
00:33:52,840 --> 00:33:55,120
Speaker 1: They didn't have an agenda. But most people around him

652
00:33:55,400 --> 00:33:57,800
Speaker 1: had an agenda. They wanted something. Do you think it

653
00:33:57,880 --> 00:34:00,200
Speaker 1: was strange? And even behavior like staying over with the

654
00:34:00,280 --> 00:34:02,640
Speaker 1: kids or anything like that. I didn't think it was strange. Yeah,

655
00:34:03,040 --> 00:34:05,200
Speaker 1: the public and I think people that are around him

656
00:34:05,280 --> 00:34:08,360
Speaker 1: made it strange and and and because he liked that,

657
00:34:08,480 --> 00:34:11,480
Speaker 1: they made the story. But he's not that. Did you

658
00:34:11,560 --> 00:34:13,360
Speaker 1: guys stay in touch even after all of that, like

659
00:34:13,560 --> 00:34:15,799
Speaker 1: we did when he did the bad video? He called

660
00:34:15,880 --> 00:34:17,480
Speaker 1: me and he wanted my best friend who was Greg

661
00:34:17,600 --> 00:34:21,759
Speaker 1: birds to choreograph the bad video, and um, I got

662
00:34:21,840 --> 00:34:23,400
Speaker 1: in touch and they got in touch with each other,

663
00:34:23,600 --> 00:34:25,480
Speaker 1: and then I went to visit the set. That was

664
00:34:25,560 --> 00:34:27,520
Speaker 1: the first time I ever saw him when he had

665
00:34:27,600 --> 00:34:31,240
Speaker 1: totally changed. What did you think I whisp? I whispered something.

666
00:34:31,360 --> 00:34:39,320
Speaker 1: I whispered something in his area? Get involved though. I

667
00:34:39,440 --> 00:34:41,560
Speaker 1: used to call him all the time, and he used

668
00:34:41,600 --> 00:34:43,960
Speaker 1: to laugh already used to use the word I heard

669
00:34:44,000 --> 00:34:47,600
Speaker 1: Michael was, I heard Michael wasn't he was? He wasn't. Yeah,

670
00:34:47,680 --> 00:34:51,719
Speaker 1: and he was not soft? What about him in competition

671
00:34:51,800 --> 00:34:55,520
Speaker 1: with Prince? I never heard him say anything about Prince. Okay,

672
00:34:57,920 --> 00:35:01,000
Speaker 1: Oh I love TP Yeah, I loved and I could

673
00:35:01,080 --> 00:35:02,719
Speaker 1: say whatever I want. There was used to be a

674
00:35:02,800 --> 00:35:05,439
Speaker 1: time with Teddy. You know, he had food, hot food,

675
00:35:05,760 --> 00:35:09,120
Speaker 1: and nobody could eat until Teddy. And I'd be like, well, hey,

676
00:35:09,360 --> 00:35:11,839
Speaker 1: you know, I'm hungry, I'm gonna eat, and I would eat.

677
00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:14,720
Speaker 1: I could do almost anything Teddy, and it was Okay.

678
00:35:14,920 --> 00:35:17,080
Speaker 1: I watched this documentary. I thought it was amazing because

679
00:35:17,080 --> 00:35:18,360
Speaker 1: I didn't know all those things about him, and I

680
00:35:18,440 --> 00:35:20,960
Speaker 1: thought it was great how he taped himself so they

681
00:35:21,040 --> 00:35:24,440
Speaker 1: had all of these like audio autobiographies from him that

682
00:35:24,480 --> 00:35:26,520
Speaker 1: they could include in it. Right? Where the things that

683
00:35:26,600 --> 00:35:28,160
Speaker 1: you learned about him that you didn't know? Did you

684
00:35:28,200 --> 00:35:30,440
Speaker 1: watch it? No? I knew a lot about Teddy and

685
00:35:31,320 --> 00:35:34,319
Speaker 1: I was supposed to do that documentary, but I chose

686
00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:35,960
Speaker 1: not to. Why did you not do because you know

687
00:35:36,040 --> 00:35:41,960
Speaker 1: too much? No? I just I didn't like the way

688
00:35:42,000 --> 00:35:46,120
Speaker 1: they were putting it together, and just for financial reasons.

689
00:35:46,360 --> 00:35:48,719
Speaker 1: I didn't think that they were giving the people what

690
00:35:48,880 --> 00:35:50,919
Speaker 1: they needed, and I thought other people were making money

691
00:35:50,960 --> 00:35:53,640
Speaker 1: of somebody that they didn't even know. Ye y'all did

692
00:35:53,680 --> 00:35:56,480
Speaker 1: two songs, Field the Fire and Too Hearts? Which one

693
00:35:56,600 --> 00:35:59,400
Speaker 1: was your favorite? Both of them? I loved singing with Teddy.

694
00:35:59,480 --> 00:36:01,920
Speaker 1: He was just a straight up dude. Do you remember

695
00:36:01,960 --> 00:36:06,000
Speaker 1: those recording sessions? Yes? What was it like that party

696
00:36:06,040 --> 00:36:09,239
Speaker 1: in the studio of all business? H Teddy was a lot.

697
00:36:09,360 --> 00:36:11,359
Speaker 1: He was a lot. He was the biggest star at

698
00:36:11,400 --> 00:36:13,680
Speaker 1: that time, and so I would have to say, come on,

699
00:36:14,160 --> 00:36:16,279
Speaker 1: let's do this song and get it over with. As

700
00:36:16,320 --> 00:36:18,719
Speaker 1: Lee Daniels reached out to you about the Teddy Pendergrass, No,

701
00:36:19,840 --> 00:36:22,040
Speaker 1: Charlie Mack was just telling me about it. But I

702
00:36:22,120 --> 00:36:25,040
Speaker 1: know that Tyrese is supposed to do it. Do you

703
00:36:25,080 --> 00:36:28,839
Speaker 1: remember that you don't think tyres can pull it off.

704
00:36:28,880 --> 00:36:37,680
Speaker 1: She's very uncensored, so let's go ahead. Why you know,

705
00:36:38,040 --> 00:36:41,960
Speaker 1: But I was telling the name no that I don't give.

706
00:36:43,120 --> 00:36:46,680
Speaker 1: But I think ted I think Tyrese will do a

707
00:36:46,719 --> 00:36:50,040
Speaker 1: good job. You know. I don't like that he goes

708
00:36:50,080 --> 00:36:52,439
Speaker 1: around saying he was Teddy's son, because I never saw

709
00:36:52,520 --> 00:36:54,719
Speaker 1: him around Teddy at all. Maybe he means like in

710
00:36:54,760 --> 00:36:58,279
Speaker 1: a spiritual sense, like maybe yeah, like that's like a father. Maybe.

711
00:36:58,320 --> 00:36:59,920
Speaker 1: But I think he'll do a good job. I hope,

712
00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:02,279
Speaker 1: And I told Charlie Mac I said, I hope y'all

713
00:37:02,640 --> 00:37:05,200
Speaker 1: be good and stay true to who he was and

714
00:37:05,320 --> 00:37:07,120
Speaker 1: not put a whole bunch of mess in it. Why

715
00:37:07,160 --> 00:37:08,560
Speaker 1: do they do that? I was like, when it comes

716
00:37:08,600 --> 00:37:10,520
Speaker 1: to like Teddy Pendergrass and Michael Jackson's any of the

717
00:37:10,960 --> 00:37:14,360
Speaker 1: great black stars, they always gotta in their lives with

718
00:37:14,760 --> 00:37:17,320
Speaker 1: some mess. But they don't talk about Elvis Presley marrying

719
00:37:18,200 --> 00:37:21,920
Speaker 1: her at sixteen, or they tolerate us in this business.

720
00:37:22,000 --> 00:37:24,480
Speaker 1: They don't celebrate us. But someone needs to make that

721
00:37:24,560 --> 00:37:26,719
Speaker 1: documentary about Elvis. Everyone talks about it, and they don't

722
00:37:26,719 --> 00:37:28,239
Speaker 1: talk about it. They don't talk about this, but someone

723
00:37:28,320 --> 00:37:31,480
Speaker 1: needs to absolutely because so many other you know that

724
00:37:31,600 --> 00:37:33,960
Speaker 1: white artists, that dude, have done the same thing, but

725
00:37:34,080 --> 00:37:36,320
Speaker 1: they don't come after them. It's just like Kaepernick, you know,

726
00:37:36,680 --> 00:37:40,279
Speaker 1: he took a knee for the brutality of policemen and

727
00:37:40,480 --> 00:37:43,799
Speaker 1: no one remembers that, so they're making him this villain

728
00:37:43,840 --> 00:37:46,520
Speaker 1: and he's not. He just stood up for justice because

729
00:37:46,640 --> 00:37:50,480
Speaker 1: police brutality is real. Racism, it's real. I just experienced

730
00:37:50,560 --> 00:37:54,040
Speaker 1: racism at the Guardia airport yesterday. Coming in. We had

731
00:37:54,120 --> 00:37:55,919
Speaker 1: gotten the car you know how you get the cart

732
00:37:56,120 --> 00:37:58,480
Speaker 1: from the lady that does my hair, Karina, and she

733
00:37:58,600 --> 00:37:59,920
Speaker 1: had her hand on it, so she asked the guy,

734
00:38:00,160 --> 00:38:02,400
Speaker 1: can you help us? And she was like pulling the

735
00:38:02,480 --> 00:38:05,759
Speaker 1: cart and the guy just totally ignored us. And then

736
00:38:05,800 --> 00:38:07,520
Speaker 1: this white woman came and put her bag on the

737
00:38:07,600 --> 00:38:09,600
Speaker 1: cart and he helped her. And I told him, I said,

738
00:38:09,600 --> 00:38:13,000
Speaker 1: you're ignoring us. He was something else. He was okay,

739
00:38:13,200 --> 00:38:16,080
Speaker 1: Spanish or something else, because I call a black person

740
00:38:16,120 --> 00:38:18,440
Speaker 1: out quick for that. Oh yeah, but we're the worst,

741
00:38:18,800 --> 00:38:20,880
Speaker 1: you know, we are the worst against each other. I mean,

742
00:38:20,960 --> 00:38:23,799
Speaker 1: we're so racist against each other. We don't support each

743
00:38:23,840 --> 00:38:25,680
Speaker 1: other the way we should, and we shouldn't then we

744
00:38:25,760 --> 00:38:28,440
Speaker 1: always want to cry. I hate that we you know,

745
00:38:28,719 --> 00:38:32,600
Speaker 1: and all this botox. And well, let's talk about this

746
00:38:32,680 --> 00:38:37,239
Speaker 1: book and your sons as a book. Yes, and your

747
00:38:37,280 --> 00:38:39,360
Speaker 1: son has special needs? Yes, my son come here for

748
00:38:39,480 --> 00:38:42,600
Speaker 1: hot Rod? Say hello, you gotta be careful with or

749
00:38:42,640 --> 00:38:43,759
Speaker 1: with our stuff in here too? It is a week.

750
00:38:43,920 --> 00:38:47,640
Speaker 1: Good morning. And first of all, how was it raising

751
00:38:47,680 --> 00:38:50,239
Speaker 1: a sou special needcause you travel? I know it's a lot.

752
00:38:50,680 --> 00:38:53,360
Speaker 1: I had him when I was forty five and I

753
00:38:53,560 --> 00:38:56,920
Speaker 1: was I was really wanting to have a child. I

754
00:38:56,960 --> 00:38:59,640
Speaker 1: didn't want that time to pass me by. So I

755
00:38:59,800 --> 00:39:02,000
Speaker 1: was told that three months that my son was going

756
00:39:02,040 --> 00:39:03,320
Speaker 1: to be a special lead. But I was like, I

757
00:39:03,360 --> 00:39:05,400
Speaker 1: don't care if he has one eye or whatever. This

758
00:39:05,560 --> 00:39:08,200
Speaker 1: is my baby. We're gonna rock this world together. And

759
00:39:08,280 --> 00:39:12,160
Speaker 1: that's what I want to talk about this book that

760
00:39:12,320 --> 00:39:14,719
Speaker 1: that he wrote. The talk about this book a little bit.

761
00:39:14,800 --> 00:39:18,040
Speaker 1: What's the name of your book, baby Cranks? And what's

762
00:39:18,080 --> 00:39:22,160
Speaker 1: the name of it? The Adventures and for Rod? Yeah, okay,

763
00:39:23,360 --> 00:39:24,719
Speaker 1: tell us about the book. What is the book, what

764
00:39:24,880 --> 00:39:27,560
Speaker 1: is the book about? What is about cranks? Panks? He

765
00:39:27,719 --> 00:39:29,960
Speaker 1: likes to do pranks, but he wanted to show that

766
00:39:30,120 --> 00:39:32,520
Speaker 1: you could do pranks and be safe. Do you hear

767
00:39:32,600 --> 00:39:39,200
Speaker 1: your mom? He's pretty Uh yeah? Who's your favorite artist? Tupa?

768
00:39:40,800 --> 00:39:44,279
Speaker 1: What can he do a little bit of it? Come

769
00:39:44,400 --> 00:39:50,520
Speaker 1: with me and Mary on what do it happen? Now?

770
00:39:51,360 --> 00:39:57,279
Speaker 1: Whe Nah? Then love it? Did you like the Tupac movie?

771
00:39:57,520 --> 00:39:59,759
Speaker 1: Did you like the All Eyes on Me movie? Yeah?

772
00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:02,960
Speaker 1: How do you get into Tupac? Him listening? He's a mother.

773
00:40:06,719 --> 00:40:10,239
Speaker 1: I could have been two girlfriend. Okay. He tried to

774
00:40:10,280 --> 00:40:16,759
Speaker 1: hollog you before. No, his girlfriend. I like, I like

775
00:40:17,280 --> 00:40:20,160
Speaker 1: that kind of guy, like, oh you like them? Thugs

776
00:40:21,640 --> 00:40:26,160
Speaker 1: like that? Oh I do? I liked Yes, I like thugs. Yeah,

777
00:40:26,600 --> 00:40:31,800
Speaker 1: educated ones former thus yeah, yes, thank you. How is

778
00:40:31,880 --> 00:40:34,480
Speaker 1: raising that special needs on me? Is you stronger? It's

779
00:40:34,560 --> 00:40:39,640
Speaker 1: given me patience and there's a love. You know with

780
00:40:39,800 --> 00:40:43,400
Speaker 1: any child you loved them, but he just he's I

781
00:40:43,520 --> 00:40:45,520
Speaker 1: feel like he's my gift. God gave me a gift.

782
00:40:45,680 --> 00:40:47,719
Speaker 1: He gave me the perfect child for me because for

783
00:40:47,840 --> 00:40:50,200
Speaker 1: ride when he was small, he didn't cry. I'd get

784
00:40:50,280 --> 00:40:52,520
Speaker 1: up in the morning, have to do TV whatever. He's

785
00:40:52,560 --> 00:40:55,600
Speaker 1: always traveled with me, and he's in a student he's

786
00:40:55,640 --> 00:40:59,759
Speaker 1: on the computer now, academy. He's homeschooled. I mainstreamed him

787
00:40:59,800 --> 00:41:02,480
Speaker 1: from kindergarten fifth grade, and then I didn't want him

788
00:41:02,520 --> 00:41:04,920
Speaker 1: to go to middle school. Middle school? How was that

789
00:41:05,000 --> 00:41:06,880
Speaker 1: with because I know kids could be so mean and

790
00:41:06,960 --> 00:41:09,320
Speaker 1: so nasty together, well, I had I had a teacher

791
00:41:09,760 --> 00:41:12,880
Speaker 1: go to school with him, and I go up to school. Everything.

792
00:41:13,120 --> 00:41:15,359
Speaker 1: Somebody messed with my job. They're gonna have to deal

793
00:41:15,400 --> 00:41:17,640
Speaker 1: with me. How did the book come about? Was he like,

794
00:41:17,680 --> 00:41:20,920
Speaker 1: I want to His teacher when he would finish his work,

795
00:41:21,000 --> 00:41:23,360
Speaker 1: would let him write. So one day she came to me,

796
00:41:23,440 --> 00:41:27,320
Speaker 1: she said, your son, right, he writes stories and books.

797
00:41:27,440 --> 00:41:30,160
Speaker 1: We should put it together. I said, really, So she

798
00:41:30,280 --> 00:41:32,520
Speaker 1: gave me some papers that he had written, and I

799
00:41:32,640 --> 00:41:34,400
Speaker 1: was like, this is really good. And that's how it

800
00:41:34,480 --> 00:41:36,880
Speaker 1: came came about. You said you had him when he

801
00:41:36,960 --> 00:41:38,839
Speaker 1: was forty five. It is because when you were younger,

802
00:41:38,880 --> 00:41:40,759
Speaker 1: they would tell y'all focused on your career and focus

803
00:41:40,840 --> 00:41:43,279
Speaker 1: on the business. No. I had been married a couple

804
00:41:43,320 --> 00:41:45,120
Speaker 1: of times, and I had tried to have children, and

805
00:41:45,160 --> 00:41:47,880
Speaker 1: I had problems getting pregnant. So at forty five, I

806
00:41:48,040 --> 00:41:50,200
Speaker 1: was determined that I was going to get pregnant and

807
00:41:50,320 --> 00:41:51,880
Speaker 1: have a child. I always wonder how come like when

808
00:41:52,080 --> 00:41:54,400
Speaker 1: when you have a very Gordy who was so established

809
00:41:54,440 --> 00:41:56,680
Speaker 1: and you know, put so many black artists on, why

810
00:41:56,800 --> 00:42:00,799
Speaker 1: wasn't it more black executives at at helms, at these

811
00:42:00,840 --> 00:42:03,279
Speaker 1: record labels instead of all of these coachiallycluis white people.

812
00:42:03,960 --> 00:42:07,840
Speaker 1: That's my problem. I don't understand because they don't understand us.

813
00:42:08,120 --> 00:42:10,640
Speaker 1: So how can you tell? Like I used to have

814
00:42:10,800 --> 00:42:16,560
Speaker 1: a at MCA, you know, Gladys Night, myself, Mary J. Blige,

815
00:42:16,640 --> 00:42:18,600
Speaker 1: she came in at the end, and all of us

816
00:42:18,719 --> 00:42:21,480
Speaker 1: was on the label at that time, and we all

817
00:42:21,560 --> 00:42:23,920
Speaker 1: would come out, you know, and we all got together,

818
00:42:24,040 --> 00:42:26,800
Speaker 1: we would tour together and it was peaceful. But we

819
00:42:27,120 --> 00:42:29,800
Speaker 1: I had one executive there and he wasn't white, he

820
00:42:29,920 --> 00:42:35,600
Speaker 1: was black. That totally worked against me. Wow, yes, okay,

821
00:42:35,719 --> 00:42:38,640
Speaker 1: But what I don't understand is they see you the

822
00:42:38,760 --> 00:42:40,839
Speaker 1: way they are. White people see you the way they are,

823
00:42:41,160 --> 00:42:43,560
Speaker 1: the way you are. There's nothing that you can do

824
00:42:43,719 --> 00:42:46,800
Speaker 1: that's going to make them like you more. It's just

825
00:42:46,920 --> 00:42:49,960
Speaker 1: like what Tyler Perry said, you know, Hollywood totally ignores

826
00:42:50,080 --> 00:42:53,360
Speaker 1: him and he built this fabulous place and it was

827
00:42:53,440 --> 00:42:57,480
Speaker 1: only us there a sprinkle of them, right, it was beautiful.

828
00:42:57,800 --> 00:43:04,920
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say this, Um, I think entertainers of today

829
00:43:05,000 --> 00:43:07,880
Speaker 1: don't look at me as able to give them advice.

830
00:43:08,000 --> 00:43:09,719
Speaker 1: Why do you think Why you say that? Because they

831
00:43:10,000 --> 00:43:12,279
Speaker 1: would never take First of all, their handlers will keep

832
00:43:12,320 --> 00:43:14,319
Speaker 1: you away from them, because I would honestly tell them

833
00:43:14,400 --> 00:43:17,400
Speaker 1: the truth. I did the Whiz life with Mary. I

834
00:43:17,520 --> 00:43:20,080
Speaker 1: did you know with Mary and Queen Latifa and Neo

835
00:43:20,160 --> 00:43:22,319
Speaker 1: and all of them. I've been around that a couple

836
00:43:22,320 --> 00:43:23,960
Speaker 1: of years ago. Yeah, a couple of years and you

837
00:43:24,080 --> 00:43:26,080
Speaker 1: tried to talk to her, and now I didn't try

838
00:43:26,120 --> 00:43:28,320
Speaker 1: to talk to her. I would never approach No, but

839
00:43:28,360 --> 00:43:30,080
Speaker 1: they've never come up to me and ask me anything.

840
00:43:30,200 --> 00:43:34,040
Speaker 1: Maybe they feel intimidated. I don't think so. Oh no,

841
00:43:34,200 --> 00:43:36,839
Speaker 1: Why would you feel intimidated because people will look up

842
00:43:36,880 --> 00:43:40,000
Speaker 1: to you. I don't think so. I just you. I

843
00:43:40,080 --> 00:43:42,799
Speaker 1: don't think so. Charlomagne and I'm touching you, but I'm

844
00:43:42,840 --> 00:43:45,560
Speaker 1: just the touchy I don't mind. I mean, you met

845
00:43:45,600 --> 00:43:48,480
Speaker 1: my wife, but it is beautiful. Thank you. I'm so

846
00:43:48,640 --> 00:43:53,520
Speaker 1: glad she's dark black yes right black, yes, yes, yes,

847
00:43:53,880 --> 00:43:56,000
Speaker 1: I'm so glad when it comes to the music, right

848
00:43:56,080 --> 00:43:58,600
Speaker 1: when you do music, do you think did you used

849
00:43:58,600 --> 00:44:00,640
Speaker 1: to think about making songs that would be on the radio,

850
00:44:01,080 --> 00:44:02,880
Speaker 1: that would be hit songs, or just songs that you

851
00:44:02,920 --> 00:44:05,000
Speaker 1: were like, this is just a dope song. When I

852
00:44:05,160 --> 00:44:08,560
Speaker 1: was younger, uh, they used to make those decisions for me.

853
00:44:08,680 --> 00:44:10,600
Speaker 1: But then when as I got older, I didn't care.

854
00:44:10,680 --> 00:44:14,359
Speaker 1: I didn't care about being politically correct. I didn't care

855
00:44:14,440 --> 00:44:16,920
Speaker 1: about oh, you have to wear this, you have to

856
00:44:17,000 --> 00:44:19,239
Speaker 1: be this. I didn't care about any of that. Are

857
00:44:19,280 --> 00:44:23,120
Speaker 1: you still doing music now? No, it's different. I can't

858
00:44:23,160 --> 00:44:25,200
Speaker 1: just come out with the song and play and then

859
00:44:25,239 --> 00:44:26,880
Speaker 1: there's all us payola. I don't want to pay a

860
00:44:26,880 --> 00:44:29,400
Speaker 1: one hundred thousand dollars to get my brecket play. Damn vy,

861
00:44:29,440 --> 00:44:33,319
Speaker 1: that's something I don't want to play. Yeah, I don't

862
00:44:33,360 --> 00:44:36,440
Speaker 1: want to pay. I don't want to pay. I don't

863
00:44:36,480 --> 00:44:38,120
Speaker 1: want to pay. I don't want to play the games

864
00:44:38,239 --> 00:44:41,520
Speaker 1: that they want you to play. Now, I just yeah,

865
00:44:41,640 --> 00:44:44,080
Speaker 1: you know you don't know some radio now because you

866
00:44:44,160 --> 00:44:47,680
Speaker 1: don't because you can. But I haven't felt like recording.

867
00:44:47,760 --> 00:44:49,680
Speaker 1: I do things when I feel like it. Right What

868
00:44:49,760 --> 00:44:52,120
Speaker 1: would be your dream tour? Right now? You and who like?

869
00:44:52,520 --> 00:44:55,719
Speaker 1: Oh me, Well, I'm doing a show with SHACKA, but

870
00:44:55,760 --> 00:45:01,040
Speaker 1: I would love talking shot up when I see shock,

871
00:45:01,080 --> 00:45:03,160
Speaker 1: I say hey, bitch, and she says hey, that's how,

872
00:45:04,440 --> 00:45:07,320
Speaker 1: that's why, that's why. That's how I greet out like

873
00:45:07,360 --> 00:45:10,880
Speaker 1: hey bitch. She's like hey ho and then she said, oh,

874
00:45:10,960 --> 00:45:13,040
Speaker 1: you're so cute. I say, oh, you look so good.

875
00:45:13,640 --> 00:45:15,799
Speaker 1: So it's but I would love to do a tour

876
00:45:15,880 --> 00:45:20,520
Speaker 1: with Shaka Anita and myself or Gladys and I would

877
00:45:20,640 --> 00:45:23,080
Speaker 1: just love because the country people do it all the time.

878
00:45:23,760 --> 00:45:26,040
Speaker 1: That would be an amazing tour. They do it all

879
00:45:26,120 --> 00:45:28,839
Speaker 1: the time. Why can't we. I feel like a lot

880
00:45:28,920 --> 00:45:30,520
Speaker 1: of these young women look up to you, but you

881
00:45:30,560 --> 00:45:33,080
Speaker 1: don't realize that. And I think that they would love

882
00:45:33,520 --> 00:45:36,480
Speaker 1: to connect with you. Well, I connect with Monica. I love.

883
00:45:38,960 --> 00:45:42,880
Speaker 1: I mean, yes, I love Monica. I love because you're

884
00:45:42,880 --> 00:45:46,279
Speaker 1: on the same type of energy. Yes we are why

885
00:45:46,400 --> 00:45:49,319
Speaker 1: She's real and I am too. You know what I'm saying.

886
00:45:52,080 --> 00:45:54,120
Speaker 1: I'm just saying that I would like if I come

887
00:45:54,160 --> 00:45:57,960
Speaker 1: off and I'll say, yes, it's too late now, but

888
00:45:58,160 --> 00:46:01,640
Speaker 1: Pop scaresway Pops. I'm sorry. But if I thought you

889
00:46:01,760 --> 00:46:08,840
Speaker 1: just said if you you know, I was like no, no, no, no,

890
00:46:09,120 --> 00:46:11,759
Speaker 1: I was like no, I was like, I'll you up,

891
00:46:11,880 --> 00:46:13,440
Speaker 1: Like that's what I said. I don't feel like the

892
00:46:13,520 --> 00:46:18,320
Speaker 1: real stories are y'all are being told, Like, no, they're not.

893
00:46:18,760 --> 00:46:20,759
Speaker 1: They're not because the white people telling them. It's white

894
00:46:20,800 --> 00:46:23,080
Speaker 1: people telling them, and you can't. It's just like Betty

895
00:46:23,160 --> 00:46:26,160
Speaker 1: Boop was a black woman and she's colored as a

896
00:46:26,200 --> 00:46:28,600
Speaker 1: white woman. It's you know, it's like they take out

897
00:46:29,239 --> 00:46:31,279
Speaker 1: and run with it. So how do we get those

898
00:46:31,320 --> 00:46:33,600
Speaker 1: real stories told? Like do you write books? Like what

899
00:46:33,680 --> 00:46:35,759
Speaker 1: do you do? You have to work with the work

900
00:46:35,800 --> 00:46:37,920
Speaker 1: with the people that are that are doing the stories,

901
00:46:37,960 --> 00:46:40,080
Speaker 1: like Tyler would tell a real story. Would you ever

902
00:46:40,160 --> 00:46:43,000
Speaker 1: write a book? Not a book about myself. I probably

903
00:46:43,040 --> 00:46:45,600
Speaker 1: write a book on how to raise a baby. I'm

904
00:46:45,640 --> 00:46:47,479
Speaker 1: part of us. Yeah, but I wouldn't write a book

905
00:46:47,680 --> 00:46:50,680
Speaker 1: things that that I didn't experience going to with me

906
00:46:50,800 --> 00:46:52,720
Speaker 1: to my grade. I need to hear these stories about

907
00:46:52,760 --> 00:46:55,640
Speaker 1: like just even marriage and being in such a high

908
00:46:55,719 --> 00:46:58,239
Speaker 1: profile business, being on the road. You know, I don't

909
00:46:58,280 --> 00:47:00,680
Speaker 1: think I'm good at marriage. I don't think i'm good

910
00:47:00,719 --> 00:47:02,600
Speaker 1: at man. I've been married three times. I've been married

911
00:47:02,640 --> 00:47:04,680
Speaker 1: me though, you say you're not good at I'm craziest,

912
00:47:05,200 --> 00:47:11,200
Speaker 1: you know, I mean, oh, do you think you're crazy? Well?

913
00:47:11,239 --> 00:47:16,680
Speaker 1: You know, I suffer with depression. I got depression, and

914
00:47:17,040 --> 00:47:19,960
Speaker 1: I just think people a man, I didn't know how

915
00:47:19,960 --> 00:47:22,520
Speaker 1: to handle me, so that thing. Now, I probably would

916
00:47:22,520 --> 00:47:24,560
Speaker 1: be a better partner because I'm really at peace with

917
00:47:24,680 --> 00:47:27,560
Speaker 1: myself and I know myself. But back then I wasn't well.

918
00:47:27,600 --> 00:47:30,040
Speaker 1: Back then people there was such a stigma around mental health.

919
00:47:30,080 --> 00:47:31,920
Speaker 1: We didn't talk about mental health in the black community.

920
00:47:32,080 --> 00:47:34,600
Speaker 1: I have suffered with it since I was thirty five,

921
00:47:34,880 --> 00:47:37,319
Speaker 1: but didn't know what it was until I started going

922
00:47:37,400 --> 00:47:39,560
Speaker 1: to see my psychiatrists and things like that. So how

923
00:47:39,560 --> 00:47:40,879
Speaker 1: do you expect a man to know you just think

924
00:47:40,880 --> 00:47:43,000
Speaker 1: you're tripping? I know you just don't like being married

925
00:47:43,000 --> 00:47:47,320
Speaker 1: because you liked popping that. No, I don't. I don't.

926
00:47:47,880 --> 00:47:51,000
Speaker 1: If you were ever gonna tell your story, where would

927
00:47:51,040 --> 00:47:55,440
Speaker 1: your story start? In Brooklyn? Growing up? My heroes are

928
00:47:55,520 --> 00:47:58,000
Speaker 1: my mother and my father. My mother was a new joke.

929
00:47:58,120 --> 00:48:00,480
Speaker 1: She took no prisoners, and my father was just a

930
00:48:00,600 --> 00:48:04,239
Speaker 1: gentle giant. But it would start there and growing up

931
00:48:04,280 --> 00:48:08,040
Speaker 1: and my family, and because it wasn't always easy for me,

932
00:48:08,239 --> 00:48:10,080
Speaker 1: you know, being in the business and being young and

933
00:48:10,640 --> 00:48:13,680
Speaker 1: having sisters and jealousy and things like that. So I

934
00:48:14,120 --> 00:48:16,200
Speaker 1: went through a lot. My life has not been easy.

935
00:48:16,520 --> 00:48:17,719
Speaker 1: And you guys, why you gotta tell you the third

936
00:48:17,719 --> 00:48:19,640
Speaker 1: because if you're doing a white person will and a

937
00:48:19,760 --> 00:48:22,359
Speaker 1: white person better not tell my story, but what they're doing,

938
00:48:23,200 --> 00:48:26,880
Speaker 1: what you saw leland Land. I don't like anything that

939
00:48:26,920 --> 00:48:28,719
Speaker 1: they did on Michael. You know, I think I think

940
00:48:28,760 --> 00:48:30,920
Speaker 1: they make fun of us, Like I never wanted to

941
00:48:31,000 --> 00:48:33,320
Speaker 1: sit at their table. I wanted to do something with

942
00:48:33,400 --> 00:48:34,840
Speaker 1: an artist. I'm not going to say their name, so

943
00:48:34,920 --> 00:48:38,640
Speaker 1: don't ask me Charlemagne. And they were like, well, your

944
00:48:38,719 --> 00:48:41,840
Speaker 1: audience is too black. I'm on television, so my audience

945
00:48:41,960 --> 00:48:46,040
Speaker 1: is pop. So a black person, a black woman and

946
00:48:46,880 --> 00:48:49,920
Speaker 1: she's a singer, and um, I was like, well we

947
00:48:50,000 --> 00:48:52,399
Speaker 1: could go out and do know your audience is too black.

948
00:48:52,480 --> 00:48:54,920
Speaker 1: But you know what, I'm good on my audience being

949
00:48:54,960 --> 00:48:57,840
Speaker 1: too black. I don't care. They were my age, and

950
00:48:57,920 --> 00:48:59,640
Speaker 1: I bet you right now they wanted the people that

951
00:48:59,760 --> 00:49:03,160
Speaker 1: act so black, so pro black. They don't know this

952
00:49:03,320 --> 00:49:06,360
Speaker 1: pop woman was on TV. You said she was a sitcom?

953
00:49:06,520 --> 00:49:08,600
Speaker 1: What was it? She was on TV a white show

954
00:49:08,960 --> 00:49:13,640
Speaker 1: when she fro New York sing on a white show.

955
00:49:14,200 --> 00:49:16,319
Speaker 1: She's a Broadway star. She's done a lot, but I'm

956
00:49:16,360 --> 00:49:20,560
Speaker 1: not gonna tell you so don't Broadway singing. Google, let

957
00:49:20,600 --> 00:49:23,919
Speaker 1: me see Broadway. I'm gonna put Broadway star on black,

958
00:49:23,960 --> 00:49:28,440
Speaker 1: Broadway star on white TV show that I'm gona hold on,

959
00:49:28,520 --> 00:49:31,000
Speaker 1: hold on, let me see what comes up. You're not

960
00:49:31,120 --> 00:49:33,120
Speaker 1: gonna figure it out. I like your necklace. What's the

961
00:49:33,280 --> 00:49:38,360
Speaker 1: range we're on? My age? I think I'm younger. I

962
00:49:38,400 --> 00:49:41,520
Speaker 1: think i'm older. Yeah, I have no idea who you're

963
00:49:41,560 --> 00:49:44,520
Speaker 1: talking about. But it's okay. It's cool because you know, No,

964
00:49:44,640 --> 00:49:48,640
Speaker 1: it was a while ago. I wanted she's still alive.

965
00:49:48,800 --> 00:49:51,080
Speaker 1: You ever had to put hands on anybody? How many people?

966
00:49:51,160 --> 00:49:58,879
Speaker 1: That's the question. I'll fight. I'll fight even today. I will. Yeah,

967
00:49:59,040 --> 00:50:03,279
Speaker 1: she said, even today fighting over the last fight I

968
00:50:03,360 --> 00:50:05,680
Speaker 1: got into. I don't know. I haven't fought in a

969
00:50:05,719 --> 00:50:07,640
Speaker 1: long time. You used to fight other women, like when

970
00:50:07,680 --> 00:50:09,960
Speaker 1: you were Oh no, I don't marry. I don't. I

971
00:50:10,000 --> 00:50:12,279
Speaker 1: don't believe that women should fight other women about man,

972
00:50:12,719 --> 00:50:14,520
Speaker 1: what if you caught her in your bed, in your

973
00:50:14,600 --> 00:50:18,279
Speaker 1: house and I'm kicking that ass? Right? Yeah? Yeah? Have

974
00:50:18,400 --> 00:50:34,840
Speaker 1: you ever cheated? She's talking to you? KISSI tells what

975
00:50:35,000 --> 00:50:36,640
Speaker 1: artists you put hands I know you don't put hands

976
00:50:36,680 --> 00:50:39,560
Speaker 1: on the artist before. I don't think I have. I

977
00:50:39,600 --> 00:50:41,520
Speaker 1: would remember, I wouldn't put hands on the artist. But

978
00:50:41,600 --> 00:50:44,080
Speaker 1: now a promota, you're gonna beat up some promoter. They

979
00:50:44,080 --> 00:50:46,839
Speaker 1: don't pay your money. I've got my money. I can

980
00:50:46,880 --> 00:50:48,600
Speaker 1: tell you a story, but i'm not. Come on, I'm not.

981
00:50:48,800 --> 00:50:51,080
Speaker 1: I'm not because I can tell you a story, but

982
00:50:51,120 --> 00:50:55,120
Speaker 1: i'm not. You don't money. We were in the studio

983
00:50:55,760 --> 00:50:58,520
Speaker 1: and I was working with this one producer and his

984
00:50:58,760 --> 00:51:03,480
Speaker 1: manager called me a spoiled bitch. Oh boy, and I

985
00:51:03,560 --> 00:51:05,680
Speaker 1: hit him and then I picked up something hit him

986
00:51:05,719 --> 00:51:08,400
Speaker 1: over the head with him. What was this something something

987
00:51:08,480 --> 00:51:12,319
Speaker 1: in the studio that I could pick up. She's looking around, Yeah,

988
00:51:12,520 --> 00:51:14,480
Speaker 1: did you hurt him? I don't know if I heard

989
00:51:14,560 --> 00:51:16,000
Speaker 1: him or not, but he knew he was in a fight.

990
00:51:16,880 --> 00:51:20,840
Speaker 1: His glasses all twisted. Well, if he gets tired of

991
00:51:20,880 --> 00:51:25,560
Speaker 1: singing and want to do security, I'll hire you know.

992
00:51:25,680 --> 00:51:28,880
Speaker 1: I just don't like to be don't disrespect you. Know.

993
00:51:29,000 --> 00:51:32,120
Speaker 1: I love, I love, I love hard. I always tell

994
00:51:32,200 --> 00:51:34,239
Speaker 1: my girls y'all in trouble, just call me. You know

995
00:51:34,440 --> 00:51:36,480
Speaker 1: I'll be I'll be there. I'll be a backup for you.

996
00:51:36,600 --> 00:51:38,120
Speaker 1: I love that. It's like if you called me and

997
00:51:38,200 --> 00:51:40,600
Speaker 1: you said you said step you said somebody was messing

998
00:51:40,640 --> 00:51:46,640
Speaker 1: with you, I'd be like, call me, yeah, Pops to

999
00:51:46,680 --> 00:51:48,960
Speaker 1: get him. Or we appreciate you for joining us, thank

1000
00:51:49,000 --> 00:51:51,680
Speaker 1: you with us, thank you, thank you for having me.

1001
00:51:52,200 --> 00:51:53,960
Speaker 1: And the best part about this interview is all the

1002
00:51:54,400 --> 00:51:56,600
Speaker 1: conversations that's gonna happen after it, because I'm gonna be

1003
00:51:56,600 --> 00:51:59,279
Speaker 1: getting all of these texts and emails about all this

1004
00:51:59,280 --> 00:52:02,600
Speaker 1: stuff you probably used to do. I'm sure and and

1005
00:52:02,920 --> 00:52:07,040
Speaker 1: and I whisp your hey, Miss Mills, I heard yeah,

1006
00:52:07,560 --> 00:52:09,719
Speaker 1: and I'll tell you about it. Whoever wants to say

1007
00:52:09,760 --> 00:52:11,440
Speaker 1: and all that, just come on, give me a website

1008
00:52:11,480 --> 00:52:15,400
Speaker 1: for the book for Rod j m dot com, my

1009
00:52:15,520 --> 00:52:18,360
Speaker 1: son's book for rod jam dot com and instead Adventures

1010
00:52:18,400 --> 00:52:23,080
Speaker 1: of Rod Jay. Alright, there was a pleasure, Miss Mills. Absolutely,

1011
00:52:23,280 --> 00:52:28,480
Speaker 1: thank you. It's the breakfast Club. I was born to donkeys,

1012
00:52:28,560 --> 00:52:45,560
Speaker 1: the donkey of the Devil. Devil breakfast club. Yeah, donkey

1013
00:52:45,680 --> 00:52:48,920
Speaker 1: to day go to a California man named Nathaniel Gene Robertson.

1014
00:52:49,239 --> 00:52:52,439
Speaker 1: Nathaniel was arrested earlier this month on suspicion of killing

1015
00:52:52,520 --> 00:52:56,280
Speaker 1: his wife. That's it, that's the donkey. Nathaniel is getting

1016
00:52:56,320 --> 00:52:58,320
Speaker 1: donkey to day because he killed his wife for no

1017
00:52:58,440 --> 00:53:00,600
Speaker 1: reason at all. You can understand why he's getting donkey

1018
00:53:00,719 --> 00:53:04,160
Speaker 1: today for that, right. Yes, Nathaniel admitted in interviews with

1019
00:53:04,280 --> 00:53:07,960
Speaker 1: police investigators that he hit his wife with a concrete block.

1020
00:53:08,560 --> 00:53:11,040
Speaker 1: He said he was showing no mercy and claimed the

1021
00:53:11,200 --> 00:53:14,640
Speaker 1: alignments were not in place. The protector now, he killed

1022
00:53:14,680 --> 00:53:17,200
Speaker 1: his wife. So that's donkey of to day whevery, because

1023
00:53:17,360 --> 00:53:19,440
Speaker 1: donkey today is all about giving people to credit they

1024
00:53:19,440 --> 00:53:22,760
Speaker 1: deserve for being stupid, and killing your wife is indeed stupid.

1025
00:53:23,120 --> 00:53:25,319
Speaker 1: But it's not just the fact Nathaniel killed his wife.

1026
00:53:25,560 --> 00:53:28,560
Speaker 1: It's the reason why he killed his wife. What got

1027
00:53:28,640 --> 00:53:32,040
Speaker 1: into Nathaniel, what infected his spirit and made him commit

1028
00:53:32,120 --> 00:53:35,160
Speaker 1: such a hanness act. Well, let's quote a kget NBC

1029
00:53:35,320 --> 00:53:38,400
Speaker 1: seventeen for the report police a husband accused of murdering

1030
00:53:38,480 --> 00:53:41,600
Speaker 1: his wife with a concrete block. Here now with details

1031
00:53:41,640 --> 00:53:45,440
Speaker 1: of the man who's blaming mayonnaise as part of the problem. Well,

1032
00:53:45,440 --> 00:53:49,720
Speaker 1: according to police reports, Nathaniel Robertson admitted during an interview

1033
00:53:49,760 --> 00:53:53,880
Speaker 1: with Sheriff's detectives to beating Lydia Robertson with a concrete block.

1034
00:53:54,200 --> 00:53:57,080
Speaker 1: Robertson is quoted in the reports stating he did it

1035
00:53:57,200 --> 00:54:01,000
Speaker 1: to quote give her compassion and mercy as the alignments

1036
00:54:01,120 --> 00:54:04,359
Speaker 1: were not in place to protect her end quote. Court

1037
00:54:04,440 --> 00:54:09,040
Speaker 1: documents state Robertson said he had been infected by Mannaise

1038
00:54:09,480 --> 00:54:13,280
Speaker 1: quote they put him in. They in this case refers

1039
00:54:13,320 --> 00:54:17,279
Speaker 1: to a group of brutal, powerful people. Robertson said he

1040
00:54:17,360 --> 00:54:21,000
Speaker 1: couldn't identify, according to the report. Asked if he used drugs,

1041
00:54:21,280 --> 00:54:26,040
Speaker 1: Robertson said he used quote ice to help him breathe. Robertson,

1042
00:54:26,239 --> 00:54:29,360
Speaker 1: forty six, has pleaded not guilty to a charge of

1043
00:54:29,560 --> 00:54:32,879
Speaker 1: first degree murder in Lydia Robertson's death. He's being held

1044
00:54:32,960 --> 00:54:36,880
Speaker 1: on one million dollars bail. Nathaniel is quoted as saying

1045
00:54:37,520 --> 00:54:40,280
Speaker 1: he killed his wife because he was infected by Mannaise.

1046
00:54:42,400 --> 00:54:44,840
Speaker 1: Can we hate what this murderer says he was infected by? Again,

1047
00:54:45,280 --> 00:54:50,239
Speaker 1: Robertson said he had been infected by Mannaise quote they

1048
00:54:50,560 --> 00:54:54,840
Speaker 1: put him in. Oh, I can't believe this assassin since butcher,

1049
00:54:55,000 --> 00:55:00,320
Speaker 1: this slayer, this dog criminal, this homicidal manise maniac blamed

1050
00:55:00,400 --> 00:55:04,719
Speaker 1: Mannaise on killing his wife, homicidal man whatever, All right,

1051
00:55:05,600 --> 00:55:07,120
Speaker 1: let me hear what he says again. Let me hear

1052
00:55:07,160 --> 00:55:08,759
Speaker 1: what he says called him to kill his wife again. Please.

1053
00:55:09,520 --> 00:55:14,480
Speaker 1: Robertson said he had been inspected by mannaise quote they

1054
00:55:14,800 --> 00:55:17,120
Speaker 1: put him in. I know you wouldn't believe it if

1055
00:55:17,120 --> 00:55:19,160
Speaker 1: you didn't hear it for yourself. For all you people

1056
00:55:19,200 --> 00:55:20,920
Speaker 1: who call up it at I Heeart headquarters in New

1057
00:55:21,000 --> 00:55:23,239
Speaker 1: York City and complain about me, complain about me and

1058
00:55:23,360 --> 00:55:25,439
Speaker 1: call me racist and call me a bigot, all because

1059
00:55:25,480 --> 00:55:28,520
Speaker 1: I don't like mayonnaise? What did you have to say? Now? This,

1060
00:55:29,400 --> 00:55:36,000
Speaker 1: this right here is indeed the devil, the condiment of satan.

1061
00:55:36,239 --> 00:55:39,520
Speaker 1: Mayonnaise is disgusting. Too much of it ruins everything. You

1062
00:55:39,640 --> 00:55:42,399
Speaker 1: just need a little, just a little, to make something good,

1063
00:55:42,520 --> 00:55:45,120
Speaker 1: but too much of it makes everything bad. Too much

1064
00:55:45,160 --> 00:55:48,960
Speaker 1: mayonnaise and tuna yuka, too much mannaids and potato salad YUCKA.

1065
00:55:49,200 --> 00:55:52,640
Speaker 1: This is a story that literally has too much goddamn mayonaids.

1066
00:55:52,680 --> 00:55:54,960
Speaker 1: You can't argue with me anymore about the dangers of

1067
00:55:55,000 --> 00:55:58,320
Speaker 1: mayonnaise in our society because Nathan eel Gene Robertson shuts

1068
00:55:58,360 --> 00:56:01,800
Speaker 1: down all debates. Okay. Nathaniel is quoted as saying his

1069
00:56:02,040 --> 00:56:05,360
Speaker 1: wife had been his best friend. He didn't want to

1070
00:56:05,440 --> 00:56:07,040
Speaker 1: hit her a bunch of times. He said I wanted

1071
00:56:07,080 --> 00:56:09,200
Speaker 1: to end it. I didn't want her suffering, but he

1072
00:56:09,280 --> 00:56:17,160
Speaker 1: couldn't control himself because of maddays. Wow, there's nothing left

1073
00:56:17,200 --> 00:56:18,880
Speaker 1: to do here. There's nothing left to do here but

1074
00:56:19,040 --> 00:56:26,000
Speaker 1: play a game of guess what race it? Days? Now

1075
00:56:26,640 --> 00:56:30,240
Speaker 1: give me your clue with guys and girls. Man Nathaniel

1076
00:56:30,320 --> 00:56:33,520
Speaker 1: Gene Robinson, that's his name. He's from California. He beat

1077
00:56:33,560 --> 00:56:35,600
Speaker 1: his wife to death with a cinder block and says

1078
00:56:35,680 --> 00:56:39,399
Speaker 1: manonnais made him do it. Angela, Ye, guess what race

1079
00:56:39,520 --> 00:56:47,320
Speaker 1: it is? I'm gonna have dj envy three clues. Nathaniel

1080
00:56:47,360 --> 00:56:50,239
Speaker 1: Gene Robinson from California beat his wife to death with

1081
00:56:50,320 --> 00:56:52,239
Speaker 1: a cinder block and says, manais made him do it.

1082
00:56:52,600 --> 00:57:06,479
Speaker 1: Guess what racing is? White? You bow far car. He's

1083
00:57:06,520 --> 00:57:10,360
Speaker 1: indeed Caucasian. Can I call this guy your manage flavored

1084
00:57:10,400 --> 00:57:12,120
Speaker 1: mamo without y'all calling the front dousk here at the

1085
00:57:12,200 --> 00:57:14,799
Speaker 1: heart complaint? Can I call this man a human jar

1086
00:57:14,800 --> 00:57:17,160
Speaker 1: of helmets manaids without being called a racist? Bigger? Who

1087
00:57:17,160 --> 00:57:19,880
Speaker 1: age white people? I don't hate white people. I hate mayonnaise.

1088
00:57:20,120 --> 00:57:22,600
Speaker 1: And after seeing the effects mannais can have on a person,

1089
00:57:22,760 --> 00:57:25,960
Speaker 1: which is something I already knew you should hate Manonnaise too.

1090
00:57:26,960 --> 00:57:29,600
Speaker 1: Please let Chelsea Handler given Nathan you Gene Robinson the

1091
00:57:29,720 --> 00:57:33,320
Speaker 1: biggest he hare heehaw, heehaw. That is way too much,

1092
00:57:33,440 --> 00:57:38,080
Speaker 1: Jane mannis too much. Goddamn Manaise, damn. One day, y'all

1093
00:57:38,120 --> 00:57:41,240
Speaker 1: gonna listen to your good old uncle Charlot. All right,

1094
00:57:41,360 --> 00:57:43,280
Speaker 1: I know what I'm talking about, all right, Charlomagne, thank

1095
00:57:43,280 --> 00:57:45,680
Speaker 1: you for that donkey of the day. Yes, sir, all right.

1096
00:57:45,720 --> 00:57:47,960
Speaker 1: We got more coming up next with a breakfast club.

1097
00:57:48,680 --> 00:57:56,880
Speaker 1: The breakfast club, Hello, the relationship advice, need personal advice,

1098
00:57:57,400 --> 00:58:02,200
Speaker 1: just need real advice. Haul up mawn for asking morning.

1099
00:58:02,240 --> 00:58:06,240
Speaker 1: Everybody is dj Envy Angela, yee Charlemagne the guy we

1100
00:58:06,360 --> 00:58:09,200
Speaker 1: all the breakfast club is time to ask yee hello?

1101
00:58:09,320 --> 00:58:12,560
Speaker 1: Who's this? Um? I'm staying anonymous? All right, what's your

1102
00:58:12,640 --> 00:58:15,680
Speaker 1: question for you? Anonymous? Yes we can all right. So

1103
00:58:15,920 --> 00:58:18,720
Speaker 1: I have a dilemma. Um, when my boyfriend and I

1104
00:58:18,880 --> 00:58:20,920
Speaker 1: first started dating, we're gonna, you know, do it in

1105
00:58:21,000 --> 00:58:23,160
Speaker 1: the car, and he pulled his hands down or the

1106
00:58:23,240 --> 00:58:28,760
Speaker 1: foul older didn't he didn't fart, He just like had

1107
00:58:28,840 --> 00:58:31,360
Speaker 1: took a dump and like didn't wipe his butt? Hey,

1108
00:58:32,560 --> 00:58:37,560
Speaker 1: now we like looked together and whenever, um, we're are

1109
00:58:37,600 --> 00:58:40,160
Speaker 1: you gonna do it? I always, you know, hesitant because

1110
00:58:40,240 --> 00:58:44,760
Speaker 1: he doesn't wipe his butt, so how older? And you

1111
00:58:44,840 --> 00:58:48,080
Speaker 1: know he always has the days of his boxer, so

1112
00:58:48,440 --> 00:58:51,520
Speaker 1: skid marks, that's what they call him, Yes, skid marks.

1113
00:58:51,560 --> 00:58:53,360
Speaker 1: So how do you tell your man like, babe, can

1114
00:58:53,440 --> 00:58:55,480
Speaker 1: you please wipe you? Guys? Is he a grown man

1115
00:58:55,720 --> 00:58:58,560
Speaker 1: or a baby wearing a diaper? That is disgusting? First

1116
00:58:58,600 --> 00:59:01,960
Speaker 1: of all, judge that man, I'm gonna tell you, Oh

1117
00:59:02,120 --> 00:59:07,160
Speaker 1: is this envy? We're talking about you? All right? So

1118
00:59:07,520 --> 00:59:09,240
Speaker 1: first of all, do y'all have wet wipes in the

1119
00:59:09,280 --> 00:59:11,440
Speaker 1: bathrooms in the house? I think I need to keep

1120
00:59:11,520 --> 00:59:13,000
Speaker 1: him there, but that is what you don't use them.

1121
00:59:13,360 --> 00:59:15,440
Speaker 1: You gotta help him out, man, because there's first of all,

1122
00:59:15,440 --> 00:59:17,240
Speaker 1: there's no way he don't smell the doodoo coming out

1123
00:59:17,280 --> 00:59:19,880
Speaker 1: his butt when he pulls his pants down. Number one.

1124
00:59:20,240 --> 00:59:23,240
Speaker 1: Number two, you might have to tell him you gotta

1125
00:59:23,280 --> 00:59:25,000
Speaker 1: get up in there when you wipe yourself and wipe

1126
00:59:25,040 --> 00:59:27,080
Speaker 1: yourself good. And you might have to buy him some

1127
00:59:27,200 --> 00:59:29,080
Speaker 1: wet wipes to carry with him when he goes places

1128
00:59:29,120 --> 00:59:31,360
Speaker 1: and tell him to use those when he uses the bathroom,

1129
00:59:31,360 --> 00:59:33,360
Speaker 1: because this is not something that you can dance around.

1130
00:59:33,640 --> 00:59:36,840
Speaker 1: You have to be direct about this hygiene. She's right,

1131
00:59:37,000 --> 00:59:40,120
Speaker 1: but I'm not his mama though embarrassing. One time, you're

1132
00:59:40,200 --> 00:59:42,720
Speaker 1: gonna you have to time him because you know what,

1133
00:59:42,800 --> 00:59:44,600
Speaker 1: if you don't say something, you're gonna just end up

1134
00:59:44,600 --> 00:59:47,080
Speaker 1: having to smell dudu every time you have sex. Yeah,

1135
00:59:47,120 --> 00:59:50,520
Speaker 1: I can't do that, so just just tell him be like, babe,

1136
00:59:50,680 --> 00:59:54,240
Speaker 1: look at your underwear and see this. You're not wiping yourself. Well,

1137
00:59:54,280 --> 00:59:56,720
Speaker 1: are you getting up in the hole so you have

1138
00:59:56,760 --> 00:59:59,640
Speaker 1: doodoo stays on your sheets too? Huh? No, No, I

1139
00:59:59,640 --> 01:00:02,360
Speaker 1: would never do have to if it's in his underwears

1140
01:00:02,400 --> 01:00:04,320
Speaker 1: in the sheets, But you gotta, you gotta point it

1141
01:00:04,360 --> 01:00:06,480
Speaker 1: out because if you don't say anything, then I don't

1142
01:00:06,520 --> 01:00:08,480
Speaker 1: are you just having sex? And then during the smell,

1143
01:00:09,040 --> 01:00:11,680
Speaker 1: Oh girl, I will go down here, but I won't

1144
01:00:11,720 --> 01:00:14,000
Speaker 1: go down on him a lot because of that. Like

1145
01:00:14,080 --> 01:00:17,320
Speaker 1: I'm a even afraid, Like I don't want to. Why

1146
01:00:17,400 --> 01:00:19,080
Speaker 1: is it so hard to tell a man is asking?

1147
01:00:19,320 --> 01:00:21,320
Speaker 1: I don't know, but you could get can't you get

1148
01:00:21,360 --> 01:00:23,040
Speaker 1: you call out or something? I mean, if you eat

1149
01:00:23,040 --> 01:00:26,680
Speaker 1: an ass I can't wait till you ask. I don't

1150
01:00:26,720 --> 01:00:28,480
Speaker 1: want to. Oh, hell no, I don't want to hurt

1151
01:00:28,520 --> 01:00:30,640
Speaker 1: his ego. That's it. Well, girl, I don't want you

1152
01:00:30,720 --> 01:00:34,840
Speaker 1: to get some type of disease either, bacteria, infection. But

1153
01:00:35,520 --> 01:00:37,400
Speaker 1: this is this is for his own good. First of all,

1154
01:00:37,600 --> 01:00:40,280
Speaker 1: if you're doing laundry sometimes you don't want to have

1155
01:00:40,320 --> 01:00:43,680
Speaker 1: to touch that and clean that, right, right, And this

1156
01:00:43,920 --> 01:00:45,800
Speaker 1: is for his own benefit. This is to help him

1157
01:00:45,840 --> 01:00:48,920
Speaker 1: out in his life. You gotta show him. Look, baby,

1158
01:00:49,080 --> 01:00:51,400
Speaker 1: these are wet wipes. Now, me and you were having

1159
01:00:51,440 --> 01:00:54,000
Speaker 1: this conversation. Don't be embarrassed because we could talk about anything.

1160
01:00:54,280 --> 01:00:56,000
Speaker 1: And trust me, if you're having sex with this man,

1161
01:00:56,360 --> 01:00:57,880
Speaker 1: I'm protected. You should be able to tell in his

1162
01:00:57,960 --> 01:01:00,720
Speaker 1: ass things and he's not wiping himself. If you can

1163
01:01:00,800 --> 01:01:02,880
Speaker 1: do that, and you could lay up with him and

1164
01:01:03,040 --> 01:01:04,680
Speaker 1: do all of that, then you should be able to

1165
01:01:04,760 --> 01:01:06,800
Speaker 1: communicate with him and telling him, Babe, you need to

1166
01:01:06,840 --> 01:01:08,800
Speaker 1: clean your butt. It's gonna be so funny when you

1167
01:01:08,840 --> 01:01:10,640
Speaker 1: tell him. It's gonna be so funny when you tell

1168
01:01:10,720 --> 01:01:11,920
Speaker 1: him his butt stinks. And he was like, man, I

1169
01:01:12,000 --> 01:01:14,800
Speaker 1: was thinking the same thing about your poom poom, and

1170
01:01:14,920 --> 01:01:17,200
Speaker 1: guess what, and guess what she would do white pemp

1171
01:01:17,200 --> 01:01:20,800
Speaker 1: poom poom with a wet wife said, you ain't crap,

1172
01:01:20,960 --> 01:01:24,200
Speaker 1: ain't crap. You do want even crap? Don't you? Thank you?

1173
01:01:24,520 --> 01:01:27,280
Speaker 1: And just listen. This isn't time when when you got

1174
01:01:27,400 --> 01:01:29,880
Speaker 1: to be directed be like, look, you know, I don't

1175
01:01:29,920 --> 01:01:32,120
Speaker 1: know if you're just not wiping yourself right, but there's

1176
01:01:32,160 --> 01:01:34,160
Speaker 1: these stains in your underwear and sometimes I can smell it.

1177
01:01:34,280 --> 01:01:36,760
Speaker 1: So I just want to say, you gotta wipe yourself better.

1178
01:01:37,120 --> 01:01:39,200
Speaker 1: Here some wet wipes every time you go to the bathroom.

1179
01:01:39,440 --> 01:01:41,080
Speaker 1: And you shouldn't even have sex with him to after

1180
01:01:41,160 --> 01:01:43,400
Speaker 1: he showers, but if he's not cleaning his butt hole

1181
01:01:43,440 --> 01:01:45,760
Speaker 1: in the shower either, and then get an like that.

1182
01:01:46,200 --> 01:01:48,160
Speaker 1: I don't know what I'm say on the radio says,

1183
01:01:48,200 --> 01:01:51,960
Speaker 1: but it's cleaning his I will say. I'll be on

1184
01:01:52,040 --> 01:01:54,920
Speaker 1: my wife twenty one years and I do remember a

1185
01:01:55,040 --> 01:02:00,200
Speaker 1: time about fourteen fifteen years ago where she went down

1186
01:02:00,440 --> 01:02:02,280
Speaker 1: and she was like, hey, man, you need to go

1187
01:02:02,400 --> 01:02:05,320
Speaker 1: take a shower or something because you know and you

1188
01:02:05,360 --> 01:02:08,800
Speaker 1: appreciate it it. Yeah, I wouldn't. Maybe I didn't wipe properly.

1189
01:02:08,800 --> 01:02:10,400
Speaker 1: I don't know what it was, but she told me.

1190
01:02:10,480 --> 01:02:12,240
Speaker 1: It hurt my feelings. I just went and took a

1191
01:02:12,280 --> 01:02:16,400
Speaker 1: shower between nothing, like I don't understand. I don't think

1192
01:02:16,400 --> 01:02:18,479
Speaker 1: it was a comment to me before once or twice,

1193
01:02:18,560 --> 01:02:21,400
Speaker 1: three times, four times, five times happened to me before. Yeah, so,

1194
01:02:21,600 --> 01:02:23,160
Speaker 1: but like so, that's why you got to point it out.

1195
01:02:23,280 --> 01:02:25,200
Speaker 1: One day y'all will laugh about it, and hopefully that

1196
01:02:25,320 --> 01:02:27,400
Speaker 1: day that chella laughing, his butt will be clean. She

1197
01:02:27,800 --> 01:02:29,600
Speaker 1: got an embarrassed and pick up the underwear and be like,

1198
01:02:29,720 --> 01:02:31,440
Speaker 1: what's this and then let him see to do those

1199
01:02:31,440 --> 01:02:33,560
Speaker 1: stains and he'll get embarrassed and I'll never do it again.

1200
01:02:34,280 --> 01:02:36,560
Speaker 1: I like that, you know what I mean? And check

1201
01:02:36,600 --> 01:02:38,280
Speaker 1: your sheets, and I bet you gotta doose stains on

1202
01:02:38,360 --> 01:02:42,280
Speaker 1: your sheets. Yeah, and bet you knows trust me. Tappling

1203
01:02:42,280 --> 01:02:44,040
Speaker 1: to me once or twice put the skin marks in

1204
01:02:44,120 --> 01:02:47,320
Speaker 1: his face? You go too far? Thank you, mama. How

1205
01:02:47,360 --> 01:02:50,720
Speaker 1: do you like it? That's actually that's some young boys

1206
01:02:50,760 --> 01:02:52,760
Speaker 1: stuff though, because you know, like that's that's one of

1207
01:02:52,800 --> 01:02:54,880
Speaker 1: the reasons after I do a number two, I do

1208
01:02:55,000 --> 01:02:57,200
Speaker 1: go take a shower, except if you're at work. Yeah,

1209
01:02:57,240 --> 01:02:58,600
Speaker 1: if I'm at work, but then I'm still like I'm

1210
01:02:58,600 --> 01:03:00,160
Speaker 1: going home and like me and my wife go get

1211
01:03:00,240 --> 01:03:01,480
Speaker 1: right to it. I don't want to go home smelling

1212
01:03:01,480 --> 01:03:03,800
Speaker 1: like you never puh and then have sex right after

1213
01:03:03,960 --> 01:03:05,680
Speaker 1: hell and you can take a shower. How know. We

1214
01:03:05,680 --> 01:03:07,640
Speaker 1: don't want your money, butter pe you better white, better bro?

1215
01:03:08,080 --> 01:03:10,360
Speaker 1: All right? Ask ye eight hundred and five eight five

1216
01:03:10,400 --> 01:03:12,160
Speaker 1: one oh five one if you need relationship advice, he

1217
01:03:12,240 --> 01:03:17,400
Speaker 1: emails the breakfast club Go Morning. Did some real advice

1218
01:03:17,480 --> 01:03:22,440
Speaker 1: with Angela Yee's ask Ye Morning. Everybody is dj Envy

1219
01:03:22,640 --> 01:03:25,720
Speaker 1: Angela Yee, Charlemagne the guy we are the breakfast club

1220
01:03:25,920 --> 01:03:30,680
Speaker 1: in the middle of ask Yee, Hello, who's this? Hey man?

1221
01:03:30,760 --> 01:03:32,760
Speaker 1: What's something? What's your quest to feed? Bro? So this

1222
01:03:32,840 --> 01:03:36,200
Speaker 1: is my situation. Um, I was in a married right

1223
01:03:36,680 --> 01:03:38,920
Speaker 1: Me and my wife been married now about a year.

1224
01:03:39,240 --> 01:03:43,320
Speaker 1: So we got in a situation where, um, the relationship

1225
01:03:43,400 --> 01:03:46,240
Speaker 1: got physical. We had a physical arcase in our relationship

1226
01:03:46,760 --> 01:03:51,800
Speaker 1: and basically her family won't forgive me for that. Being

1227
01:03:51,920 --> 01:03:54,160
Speaker 1: her we had our issue, you know, we went through

1228
01:03:54,680 --> 01:03:56,960
Speaker 1: We know why the things happened and then happened. We

1229
01:03:57,120 --> 01:03:59,840
Speaker 1: still want to work it, but her family really do

1230
01:04:00,280 --> 01:04:02,560
Speaker 1: tool of it because of me flutting my hands on her. Well,

1231
01:04:02,600 --> 01:04:06,400
Speaker 1: of course her family, Yeah, I'm trying to figure out, like,

1232
01:04:06,640 --> 01:04:09,680
Speaker 1: how could we possibly work around the Well, her family's

1233
01:04:09,760 --> 01:04:12,320
Speaker 1: very protective of her, so of course they should feel

1234
01:04:12,360 --> 01:04:14,480
Speaker 1: that way, and so you shouldn't look at that as

1235
01:04:14,520 --> 01:04:17,400
Speaker 1: something detrimental. Of course they should feel like you put

1236
01:04:17,440 --> 01:04:20,560
Speaker 1: your hands on our family member and a woman, and

1237
01:04:20,720 --> 01:04:23,560
Speaker 1: they should definitely side at you for that. So first

1238
01:04:23,600 --> 01:04:26,400
Speaker 1: you have to understand they're very valid and their reason

1239
01:04:26,480 --> 01:04:28,520
Speaker 1: for looking at you and the way that they are,

1240
01:04:28,600 --> 01:04:30,600
Speaker 1: and that's a punishment that you have to take. And

1241
01:04:30,760 --> 01:04:33,240
Speaker 1: I totally, I totally understand that, you know what I'm saying.

1242
01:04:33,680 --> 01:04:36,280
Speaker 1: It got physical, but I wanted you understand this for

1243
01:04:36,400 --> 01:04:38,800
Speaker 1: over the years, right being her both being back and forth,

1244
01:04:38,840 --> 01:04:40,920
Speaker 1: people that put our hands on each other, right, and

1245
01:04:41,160 --> 01:04:42,800
Speaker 1: it's kind of like it's kind of like, I k

1246
01:04:42,840 --> 01:04:44,600
Speaker 1: know what they ain't right for nobody to do it,

1247
01:04:44,920 --> 01:04:47,520
Speaker 1: But it's like if I wouldn't do something wrong, you

1248
01:04:47,600 --> 01:04:49,600
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. You go through my phone and

1249
01:04:49,720 --> 01:04:52,120
Speaker 1: she see something in my phone. She don't betrough my phone,

1250
01:04:52,160 --> 01:04:54,120
Speaker 1: and she attacked me because of things that she's seen

1251
01:04:54,160 --> 01:04:55,960
Speaker 1: in my phone. When she plutt hands on me plenty

1252
01:04:56,000 --> 01:04:58,400
Speaker 1: of times, right this time it was the other way around,

1253
01:04:58,640 --> 01:05:01,080
Speaker 1: I've seen something and her home, so I put my

1254
01:05:01,160 --> 01:05:03,400
Speaker 1: hands on her because of that, you know what I'm saying.

1255
01:05:03,440 --> 01:05:06,920
Speaker 1: So it really got out of hand because she had

1256
01:05:06,920 --> 01:05:12,280
Speaker 1: a bruisy guard and wow, that really really pushed it,

1257
01:05:12,520 --> 01:05:15,520
Speaker 1: you know. Yeah, And you bruised and scarred your woman

1258
01:05:15,600 --> 01:05:19,360
Speaker 1: up and that that should make you feel terrible. And

1259
01:05:19,480 --> 01:05:21,560
Speaker 1: I just want to say a couple of things. First

1260
01:05:21,560 --> 01:05:23,040
Speaker 1: of all, it's never right for a woman to put

1261
01:05:23,040 --> 01:05:24,720
Speaker 1: her hands on a man either. And I tell people

1262
01:05:24,800 --> 01:05:27,320
Speaker 1: that all the time. Women shouldn't be putting their hands

1263
01:05:27,360 --> 01:05:29,720
Speaker 1: Nobody should be putting their hands on each other. I

1264
01:05:29,880 --> 01:05:33,640
Speaker 1: think that, as you said, what happened was worse because

1265
01:05:33,880 --> 01:05:37,240
Speaker 1: you ended up really physically harming her, and you could

1266
01:05:37,280 --> 01:05:40,560
Speaker 1: have ended up in jail for that, and things could

1267
01:05:40,560 --> 01:05:43,240
Speaker 1: have gotten even worse. You could have permanently damaged her.

1268
01:05:43,360 --> 01:05:46,240
Speaker 1: You could have, you know. And one thing my boyfriend

1269
01:05:46,320 --> 01:05:49,240
Speaker 1: was tell me is that anytime, and his mom has

1270
01:05:49,240 --> 01:05:51,360
Speaker 1: always told him this, if you feel like you have

1271
01:05:51,440 --> 01:05:53,040
Speaker 1: to put your hands on a woman, that's you need

1272
01:05:53,080 --> 01:05:54,800
Speaker 1: to walk away. That's not the right woman for you.

1273
01:05:55,160 --> 01:05:57,360
Speaker 1: But you said, this is the one time that it happened.

1274
01:05:57,800 --> 01:05:59,600
Speaker 1: She wants to forgive you for it, and I can't

1275
01:05:59,640 --> 01:06:03,000
Speaker 1: tell a woman went to do. But I suggest that

1276
01:06:03,200 --> 01:06:07,840
Speaker 1: you guys have got to get real help, and that

1277
01:06:08,000 --> 01:06:09,600
Speaker 1: means that y'all have to go to therapy. You have

1278
01:06:09,640 --> 01:06:11,560
Speaker 1: to figure out why you reacted the way you reacted.

1279
01:06:11,600 --> 01:06:13,000
Speaker 1: She has to figure out how to keep her hands

1280
01:06:13,040 --> 01:06:15,960
Speaker 1: to herself as well. But there really is never an

1281
01:06:16,000 --> 01:06:19,080
Speaker 1: excuse for you to basically beat your woman up. And

1282
01:06:19,160 --> 01:06:22,120
Speaker 1: that's what you did. Yeah, it really ain't. I tell

1283
01:06:22,120 --> 01:06:24,520
Speaker 1: you what happened though, or why I did it. You

1284
01:06:24,600 --> 01:06:27,600
Speaker 1: went through her phone and saw something? Yeah, well, basically,

1285
01:06:27,640 --> 01:06:28,960
Speaker 1: well when I saw let me tell you what I

1286
01:06:29,040 --> 01:06:31,600
Speaker 1: saw though. I went through her phone, right, and I

1287
01:06:31,720 --> 01:06:34,240
Speaker 1: saw that she was actually heaving the affair with my

1288
01:06:34,360 --> 01:06:39,840
Speaker 1: son's football coach. Listen, I feel you, and there's but

1289
01:06:39,960 --> 01:06:42,400
Speaker 1: there's still no matter. It don't matter what you saw.

1290
01:06:42,480 --> 01:06:45,920
Speaker 1: There's no justification. I see, y'all. I'll understand what you

1291
01:06:46,000 --> 01:06:48,200
Speaker 1: say at a term like that. When you see that,

1292
01:06:48,480 --> 01:06:52,360
Speaker 1: you're still trying to justify it. I know we look, okay,

1293
01:06:52,400 --> 01:06:55,720
Speaker 1: can I saw every every you listen, Yeah, I'm listening.

1294
01:06:55,760 --> 01:06:59,360
Speaker 1: I don't agree with you, my brother. I'm gonna ask

1295
01:06:59,400 --> 01:07:04,080
Speaker 1: you your white fold right now. You say that the

1296
01:07:04,200 --> 01:07:06,680
Speaker 1: heaven out there with somebody that was close to y'all,

1297
01:07:07,040 --> 01:07:09,080
Speaker 1: and you had a little nick in your system. Your

1298
01:07:09,240 --> 01:07:14,200
Speaker 1: very first action to lead a damn house. You can't

1299
01:07:14,240 --> 01:07:16,360
Speaker 1: move off emotion in a situation like that. You got

1300
01:07:16,480 --> 01:07:19,040
Speaker 1: to move off strategy number one, number one because you

1301
01:07:19,040 --> 01:07:21,160
Speaker 1: shouldn't hit a woman in number two because you just

1302
01:07:21,240 --> 01:07:23,320
Speaker 1: got too much to lose. Brother. That's right. Now. I'm

1303
01:07:23,400 --> 01:07:28,160
Speaker 1: looking my system. I probably cry, and I'm in the

1304
01:07:28,280 --> 01:07:31,480
Speaker 1: fetal position. But what I am concerned about is that

1305
01:07:31,600 --> 01:07:33,200
Speaker 1: you are still trying to get people to back you

1306
01:07:33,320 --> 01:07:36,440
Speaker 1: up for your actions, and you cannot justify your actions.

1307
01:07:36,520 --> 01:07:38,760
Speaker 1: You cannot put your hands, You can't appeal to the

1308
01:07:38,800 --> 01:07:40,320
Speaker 1: men in the room and think that they're gonna be

1309
01:07:40,360 --> 01:07:42,360
Speaker 1: like yeat to get it too. I can understand why

1310
01:07:42,400 --> 01:07:45,040
Speaker 1: you did that. There's no explanation, there's no way that

1311
01:07:45,120 --> 01:07:47,520
Speaker 1: you are in the right in the situation. I feel

1312
01:07:47,560 --> 01:07:49,800
Speaker 1: you you were hurt, but that doesn't mean that you're

1313
01:07:49,800 --> 01:07:53,360
Speaker 1: supposed to physically harm your woman. I will say, I

1314
01:07:53,360 --> 01:07:55,240
Speaker 1: can understand why he did it. I don't agree though.

1315
01:07:55,240 --> 01:07:57,400
Speaker 1: I can understand the emotion in the alcohol, but I

1316
01:07:57,400 --> 01:07:59,520
Speaker 1: don't agree with you. Yeah, you can't justify it. You

1317
01:07:59,560 --> 01:08:01,400
Speaker 1: can't say, well, this is why I did it, so

1318
01:08:01,800 --> 01:08:04,240
Speaker 1: all good and so you cannot ever do something like

1319
01:08:04,320 --> 01:08:05,800
Speaker 1: that again. And you have to own the fact that

1320
01:08:05,920 --> 01:08:08,480
Speaker 1: you were wrong in your reaction. Now what she wrong?

1321
01:08:08,680 --> 01:08:10,800
Speaker 1: Dead wrong. You could have left her. You could have

1322
01:08:10,800 --> 01:08:12,360
Speaker 1: said I'm never gonna be with you again. You could

1323
01:08:12,400 --> 01:08:15,480
Speaker 1: have cut off whatever you know, support you give her

1324
01:08:15,560 --> 01:08:18,160
Speaker 1: or she gives you, whatever it is, but you physically

1325
01:08:18,360 --> 01:08:20,479
Speaker 1: put in your hands on her. It's never the solution.

1326
01:08:21,439 --> 01:08:23,600
Speaker 1: You're like, I knew all the wrong. I'll really be

1327
01:08:23,720 --> 01:08:26,000
Speaker 1: great it right now because like I feel, were separating.

1328
01:08:26,040 --> 01:08:28,400
Speaker 1: I don't move that and you know what I'm saying,

1329
01:08:28,400 --> 01:08:32,360
Speaker 1: I'm away from my kids and family. Family, had a

1330
01:08:32,400 --> 01:08:36,160
Speaker 1: whole lot of you spit from me before. But yeah,

1331
01:08:36,200 --> 01:08:38,240
Speaker 1: you bruise her up. You know how crazy that looks.

1332
01:08:38,560 --> 01:08:41,280
Speaker 1: What you need to do is get yourself into some

1333
01:08:41,439 --> 01:08:45,040
Speaker 1: therapy and show her that you're serious about rehabbing yourself

1334
01:08:45,160 --> 01:08:48,679
Speaker 1: and take that time apart to work on you. I'm

1335
01:08:48,720 --> 01:08:50,640
Speaker 1: doing it, and it don't feel like with me. I

1336
01:08:50,720 --> 01:08:54,080
Speaker 1: just had a bad situation at one time. Stop listening.

1337
01:08:54,439 --> 01:08:56,680
Speaker 1: There is something wrong. You shouldn't have reacted that way,

1338
01:08:57,080 --> 01:08:58,920
Speaker 1: and you gotta acknowledge that if you did it once,

1339
01:08:58,960 --> 01:09:01,160
Speaker 1: you'll do it again. So it's so wrong with me

1340
01:09:01,200 --> 01:09:03,800
Speaker 1: because of a womanstake. Everybody makes a mistake. I don't

1341
01:09:03,800 --> 01:09:05,719
Speaker 1: say I feel like I have to go get Yeah, everybody,

1342
01:09:05,800 --> 01:09:08,120
Speaker 1: everybody does make mistakes. But the problem is is, first

1343
01:09:08,120 --> 01:09:10,160
Speaker 1: of all, you're using liquor when you're upset, and that's

1344
01:09:10,200 --> 01:09:12,080
Speaker 1: that's the worst thing to do. You're upset, you mad,

1345
01:09:12,160 --> 01:09:14,320
Speaker 1: You're using liquor to to take away the pain, and

1346
01:09:14,360 --> 01:09:16,200
Speaker 1: you wind up being an abusive and yes, you have

1347
01:09:16,320 --> 01:09:17,800
Speaker 1: a problem and you need to deal with that problem.

1348
01:09:17,800 --> 01:09:19,519
Speaker 1: You don't want to make sure that happens again. And

1349
01:09:19,600 --> 01:09:21,679
Speaker 1: then the next time you're saying, yeah, I made two mistakes.

1350
01:09:21,720 --> 01:09:23,840
Speaker 1: You just want to make sure that older you, sir,

1351
01:09:24,240 --> 01:09:26,920
Speaker 1: he sounds older. Yeah, I made I made that mistake

1352
01:09:26,960 --> 01:09:28,880
Speaker 1: when I was seventeen years old, you know, putting my

1353
01:09:28,960 --> 01:09:31,240
Speaker 1: hands on a woman, you know, for the same situation.

1354
01:09:31,400 --> 01:09:34,680
Speaker 1: But you know I was I was had low emotional intelligence.

1355
01:09:34,760 --> 01:09:37,320
Speaker 1: Then I was immature, I was insecure, I had low

1356
01:09:37,400 --> 01:09:41,400
Speaker 1: self esteem, like my ego was bruised. But at thirty

1357
01:09:41,439 --> 01:09:44,919
Speaker 1: three years old, nah, I wouldn't make that mistake. If

1358
01:09:44,960 --> 01:09:47,759
Speaker 1: you're serious, go get some help for yourself and acknowledge

1359
01:09:47,800 --> 01:09:49,559
Speaker 1: that you're run because I don't think you really truly

1360
01:09:49,640 --> 01:09:54,160
Speaker 1: grasped it. Okay, I could feel good all right. I

1361
01:09:54,400 --> 01:09:58,320
Speaker 1: wish you the best. Ask you eight hundred and five

1362
01:09:58,400 --> 01:09:59,920
Speaker 1: eight five one oh five one. If you need relations

1363
01:10:00,000 --> 01:10:02,000
Speaker 1: ship advice, ye now is the Breakfast Club? Good morning

1364
01:10:02,640 --> 01:10:10,920
Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club? Hello the relationship advice? Need personal advice?

1365
01:10:11,479 --> 01:10:15,840
Speaker 1: Just need real advice? Call up down for ask ye morning.

1366
01:10:15,880 --> 01:10:19,880
Speaker 1: Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy we

1367
01:10:19,960 --> 01:10:23,040
Speaker 1: are the Breakfast Club. Were in the middle of ask yee, Hello,

1368
01:10:23,120 --> 01:10:29,240
Speaker 1: who's this? Yes, Sherry Brown ain't Sharon Brown. I don't

1369
01:10:29,320 --> 01:10:31,280
Speaker 1: from him to Virginia. I've been trying to get in

1370
01:10:31,360 --> 01:10:33,719
Speaker 1: touch a draw for like months and months and months

1371
01:10:33,960 --> 01:10:38,800
Speaker 1: Hu seven five seven eight h four. Okay, didn't sounds

1372
01:10:38,840 --> 01:10:43,400
Speaker 1: too great, Okay, Shy said, let's tell your question. Okay, okay. Um.

1373
01:10:43,520 --> 01:10:46,599
Speaker 1: I'm a very smart by the way, um, y'all inspirate

1374
01:10:46,680 --> 01:10:48,439
Speaker 1: me a lot. I listened to the radio because I

1375
01:10:48,520 --> 01:10:51,880
Speaker 1: suffered with PTSD and I love music and music. Hallan

1376
01:10:51,920 --> 01:10:53,400
Speaker 1: me down. I can do a lot of things in

1377
01:10:53,479 --> 01:10:56,960
Speaker 1: music and cookle music. I can dance the music. Got

1378
01:10:57,000 --> 01:10:59,519
Speaker 1: kid draw the music. I can read the music. I

1379
01:10:59,600 --> 01:11:03,080
Speaker 1: just love music. So um, I had a question because

1380
01:11:03,160 --> 01:11:05,160
Speaker 1: I love God right and I've been saying since I

1381
01:11:05,240 --> 01:11:09,880
Speaker 1: was three years old, and every every relationship I've ever

1382
01:11:10,040 --> 01:11:13,839
Speaker 1: been in, all the guys say that I'm crazy. Everybody

1383
01:11:13,880 --> 01:11:16,960
Speaker 1: in my whole city say I'm crazy. In Hampton, Virginia,

1384
01:11:17,320 --> 01:11:20,720
Speaker 1: I've been in seventy five seven since i was nine

1385
01:11:20,800 --> 01:11:23,639
Speaker 1: years old. My mom came here getting away from abusive

1386
01:11:23,720 --> 01:11:27,360
Speaker 1: our relationship that my father was doing. Her and my

1387
01:11:27,439 --> 01:11:29,639
Speaker 1: father couldn't get along, so she left my father when

1388
01:11:29,640 --> 01:11:31,560
Speaker 1: I was nine months old, and I was up with

1389
01:11:31,800 --> 01:11:34,479
Speaker 1: not having a father. So I failed to like having

1390
01:11:35,080 --> 01:11:37,920
Speaker 1: relationship with guys looking for father figures, and I was

1391
01:11:37,960 --> 01:11:40,040
Speaker 1: going with older guys. I never go with younger guys.

1392
01:11:40,560 --> 01:11:43,679
Speaker 1: So now without now that I'm forty three, I started

1393
01:11:43,720 --> 01:11:49,280
Speaker 1: attracting younger guys. Cooper stuff, Cooper stuff. So um Um,

1394
01:11:49,320 --> 01:11:51,600
Speaker 1: I went selivant for four and a half years. And

1395
01:11:52,040 --> 01:11:53,760
Speaker 1: because I was trying to fig out watch up getting

1396
01:11:53,800 --> 01:11:57,599
Speaker 1: these relationships that was abusive. And I mean they keep

1397
01:11:57,680 --> 01:12:00,280
Speaker 1: putting me down and their star of saying and like

1398
01:12:00,600 --> 01:12:03,040
Speaker 1: they love me like right away, like a munch too much.

1399
01:12:03,080 --> 01:12:06,240
Speaker 1: They loved me and then they, um, they say I'm

1400
01:12:06,320 --> 01:12:09,000
Speaker 1: creative and stuff I do? Mama, what's your question? What's

1401
01:12:09,040 --> 01:12:12,320
Speaker 1: your question? Like twenty six I have, like twenty you

1402
01:12:12,479 --> 01:12:15,840
Speaker 1: have like twenty sixty three. I counted them. I did

1403
01:12:15,880 --> 01:12:20,200
Speaker 1: a self anonymous analys, I draw, I do hair, I sing,

1404
01:12:20,400 --> 01:12:25,200
Speaker 1: I rap, I dido, I mentor, Mama, what's your what's

1405
01:12:25,200 --> 01:12:30,080
Speaker 1: your question? What's your question? Um, I don't like everything,

1406
01:12:30,280 --> 01:12:32,200
Speaker 1: but they keep telling me I'm not nobody. I'm a

1407
01:12:32,240 --> 01:12:36,600
Speaker 1: certified chef. Mama, what's your question? The question is the

1408
01:12:36,760 --> 01:12:39,519
Speaker 1: question is do a person or a good woman when

1409
01:12:39,560 --> 01:12:42,120
Speaker 1: they see as a woman, And the question is I'm

1410
01:12:42,120 --> 01:12:44,560
Speaker 1: trying to figure out why are you single? Do I

1411
01:12:44,920 --> 01:12:46,880
Speaker 1: keep dating these guys and say they don't believe in

1412
01:12:46,920 --> 01:12:48,920
Speaker 1: God because I believe in God, And every time I

1413
01:12:48,960 --> 01:12:50,680
Speaker 1: see from about God, they don't like it, and I

1414
01:12:50,720 --> 01:12:52,439
Speaker 1: don't understand why they don't like it. Maybe we should

1415
01:12:52,439 --> 01:12:53,840
Speaker 1: go back to the part where she said people think

1416
01:12:53,880 --> 01:13:06,080
Speaker 1: she's crazy. Okay, shy, just ask Jerry just has some

1417
01:13:06,160 --> 01:13:08,800
Speaker 1: things to get off her chest. This morning, Hey man,

1418
01:13:08,880 --> 01:13:20,000
Speaker 1: I got a crazy crazy and everybody keeps man, you're

1419
01:13:20,000 --> 01:13:26,280
Speaker 1: not Syry. Do you want angels? Advice? Shared, huh do

1420
01:13:26,400 --> 01:13:30,479
Speaker 1: you want advice? I'm trying to figure out. I'm trying

1421
01:13:30,479 --> 01:13:32,120
Speaker 1: to do on the ready. I'm like, y'all, so I

1422
01:13:32,160 --> 01:13:34,599
Speaker 1: can get into charming because I a lot of salt. Really,

1423
01:13:34,880 --> 01:13:38,559
Speaker 1: we know, I can't tell. I can't tell at all. Sold. Okay,

1424
01:13:38,640 --> 01:13:40,880
Speaker 1: So Sharry, you keep dating guys who don't believe in God.

1425
01:13:41,000 --> 01:13:44,280
Speaker 1: Don't ask that question. They stay to believe in them.

1426
01:13:44,320 --> 01:13:47,960
Speaker 1: But they got all these game stars on them my head. Okay,

1427
01:13:48,000 --> 01:13:50,800
Speaker 1: so they do believe in God. They heart on them

1428
01:13:50,920 --> 01:13:55,840
Speaker 1: blood and Sherry, remember Sherry. So it's not that they

1429
01:13:55,920 --> 01:13:58,240
Speaker 1: don't believe in God, as they don't praise and worship

1430
01:13:58,320 --> 01:14:00,439
Speaker 1: the way that you do. Oh well, I've been saying

1431
01:14:00,479 --> 01:14:01,920
Speaker 1: since I was three years old, and I've been in

1432
01:14:01,960 --> 01:14:03,800
Speaker 1: the choir. My mom made me go to church every

1433
01:14:03,840 --> 01:14:06,320
Speaker 1: fund and even though she said she stayed out all

1434
01:14:06,439 --> 01:14:10,160
Speaker 1: night and slept with people husbands and and mistress and

1435
01:14:10,200 --> 01:14:12,720
Speaker 1: all that, I've never had a husband. I've been the

1436
01:14:12,840 --> 01:14:15,920
Speaker 1: best woman that I've ever known, and the best mother.

1437
01:14:16,080 --> 01:14:18,760
Speaker 1: My mom just took my friend from me, and I'm like,

1438
01:14:19,520 --> 01:14:22,719
Speaker 1: really like fans the fun I'm in the best brother.

1439
01:14:22,880 --> 01:14:24,880
Speaker 1: I can never picked up. I've been mother to other

1440
01:14:24,920 --> 01:14:29,599
Speaker 1: people's kids that don't even mother that kids. All right, sharp.

1441
01:14:30,520 --> 01:14:33,320
Speaker 1: You know, the Bible says, Cherry. The Bible says kind

1442
01:14:33,320 --> 01:14:36,040
Speaker 1: of get in touch with drunk and like every Schry.

1443
01:14:36,040 --> 01:14:40,320
Speaker 1: You know, the Bible says a great deal about being quiet, right, yes, yeah,

1444
01:14:40,400 --> 01:14:43,479
Speaker 1: holding your tongue, shutting the hell up. Sometimes I leave

1445
01:14:43,520 --> 01:14:46,600
Speaker 1: that long he's still and listen. Got you you know

1446
01:14:46,640 --> 01:14:48,519
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. You can hear God? How you hearing God?

1447
01:14:48,560 --> 01:14:51,320
Speaker 1: And you talk so goddamn much, Sharry, I don't know

1448
01:14:51,560 --> 01:14:58,200
Speaker 1: I do why everybody just give me? I have ADHD

1449
01:14:58,320 --> 01:15:05,040
Speaker 1: I have yes, I Cherry, I got eshe MTV, I

1450
01:15:05,120 --> 01:15:08,240
Speaker 1: got all your hold on. But we just ran out

1451
01:15:08,280 --> 01:15:11,920
Speaker 1: of time. Very much, Cherry, Cherry, did you even ask

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01:15:12,000 --> 01:15:14,479
Speaker 1: a question? I don't know, Serry, Thank you very much, Cherry.

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01:15:14,640 --> 01:15:17,280
Speaker 1: Let me jumping the water. Send me a ticket. I

1454
01:15:17,400 --> 01:15:20,160
Speaker 1: take it the water, jumping in a jumping in the water.

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01:15:20,320 --> 01:15:21,720
Speaker 1: I need to go to something in the water. I

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01:15:21,760 --> 01:15:23,760
Speaker 1: can get a break. Somebody send me a ticket place.

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01:15:23,880 --> 01:15:26,679
Speaker 1: Oh you want to go on vacation now? Now our

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01:15:26,760 --> 01:15:28,360
Speaker 1: host this, I just want to be there. I just

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01:15:28,400 --> 01:15:30,000
Speaker 1: want to get away from all this show. What the

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01:15:30,040 --> 01:15:31,880
Speaker 1: hell is rong? We'll get your ticket to Virginia Beach.

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01:15:32,240 --> 01:15:35,479
Speaker 1: Thank you, Thank you. Virginia Beach just five minutes away

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01:15:35,680 --> 01:15:37,439
Speaker 1: from you, I know right from me. I used to

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01:15:37,560 --> 01:15:42,479
Speaker 1: live in NORFL, Virginia, Scherry. If you want to reach me,

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01:15:42,600 --> 01:15:45,160
Speaker 1: that email has helped me. Ye at gmail dot com.

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01:15:45,600 --> 01:15:47,400
Speaker 1: Do you help me yet? Gmail? You have enough space

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01:15:47,439 --> 01:15:50,120
Speaker 1: in your inbox for this email? Shay's about to send you. Well,

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01:15:50,160 --> 01:15:52,080
Speaker 1: the show's ever Thank you all for listening to the best.

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01:15:52,840 --> 01:15:55,000
Speaker 1: That call went on goodness, well we got rumors on

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01:15:55,040 --> 01:15:58,400
Speaker 1: the shair. Should have just started off. Hey, fam, if

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01:15:58,400 --> 01:16:00,439
Speaker 1: it is all right, we got more. Come up next

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01:16:00,479 --> 01:16:04,720
Speaker 1: with a breakfast club voting everybody's DJ Envy angela ye,

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01:16:04,960 --> 01:16:09,439
Speaker 1: Charlemagne the guy. We are the breakfast club. Now leave

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01:16:09,479 --> 01:16:11,800
Speaker 1: us on a positive note. Listen, man, I knew I'm

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01:16:11,800 --> 01:16:14,479
Speaker 1: a chure when I realized every situation doesn't need a reaction.

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01:16:14,600 --> 01:16:17,120
Speaker 1: Remember that the day every situation does not need a reaction.

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01:16:17,320 --> 01:16:19,479
Speaker 1: Sometimes you just got to leave people to do. The

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Speaker 1: lame ship is that they do